ÜBER DIESE EPISODE
Why do you keep avoiding things you know you need to do?
You know what I mean. The unopened post sitting on the side. The form that would probably take five minutes. The donation bag you keep walking past. The email you still haven’t sent.
Task avoidance can be so frustrating, especially when you know the job itself is small. But avoidance is not always about how long something will take. Often, it is about the emotional weight attached to the task, the uncertainty around it, or simply not knowing how to begin.
In this episode, I’m talking about ADHD avoidance and why small tasks can start taking up so much mental space when we keep putting them off. If you have ADHD, avoiding tasks can also be connected to executive function and task initiation, which can make getting started feel much harder than it looks from the outside.
We’ll look at what is really happening when you keep putting something off, including the avoidance cycle that so many of us get stuck in, why telling yourself to “just do it” usually doesn’t help, and how to make taking action easier.
You’ll learn:
- Why a five-minute task can feel much harder than it actually is
- What can be happening underneath avoidance
- How uncertainty and hidden steps can make small tasks feel overwhelming
- Why avoidance gives you temporary relief but can create more stress later
- How ADHD can affect task initiation and getting started
- Why the emotional weight of a task can grow the longer you leave it
- How guilt and self-criticism can make task avoidance even harder
- Simple ways to make the first step feel smaller and more manageable
- How to identify the next physical action instead of thinking about the whole task
- Why you do not need to finish everything for your progress to count
If you’re looking for help to take action the things you’ve been avoiding, this episode is for you.
Here’s to fewer things competing for your attention,
Caroline
If this is something you struggle with, you may also want to listen to Episode 203, 3 Shifts to Finally Start the Tasks You Keep Putting Off, and Episode 211, Why Tiny Tasks Start Feeling Huge When You’re Overwhelmed.
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