ÜBER DIESE EPISODE
CONTENT WARNING: This episode discusses psychological and verbal abuse in a workplace and coaching setting, including a training exercise involving simulated strangulation, and references to historical assault allegations. If this is difficult territory for you, please take care as you listen, with support, in pieces, or another time. In the US, RAINN offers confidential support at rainn.org or 1-800-656-4673. For support around high-control group experiences, Rachel Bernstein's Healthy Healing group and Chris Shelton's "What Now: Reclaiming Your Life" class are linked below.
For eight years, Garry Norman worked behind the camera inside a major personal development organization, Landmark Worldwide, archiving decades of footage and sitting in private offices with the senior leaders who trained everyone else. He was rarely on stage and rarely named. But he saw almost everything.
Garry connected with Anne Peterson through her book, Is This a Cult?, and the two share years of staff experience inside the same organization. In this first half of their conversation, Garry describes the unusual role he was hired into, why staff like him accepted a fraction of market pay to do it, and two moments he says landed as abuse: a senior leader screaming at a young assistant in a private office, and a training exercise involving simulated strangulation, which Garry filmed before being quietly asked by the organization's president to erase it.
This episode is about what it costs to witness abuse and say nothing, even when silence is the safest choice in the moment. Anne and Garry talk about moral injury, the toll of being made complicit simply by being present and unable to act, and about something harder to understand: that the people asking for silence are very often not monsters, but ordinary people who got in too deep to see clearly. While the conversation draws on their shared history at Landmark Worldwide, the patterns they describe show up across high-control groups and coaching cultures of every kind.
About the guest:
Garry Norman is a performing artist, music and performance coach, and multimedia project manager — the originator and facilitator of Life Is A Stage — with 30+ years coaching guitar, bass and piano, and 15+ years producing streamed educational events for multinational training organizations. https://www.linkedin.com/in/garrynorman01/
Resources mentioned: Rachel Bernstein's Healthy Healing group — https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/
Chris Shelton's "What Now: Reclaiming Your Life" class — https://ilumn8.life/op/reclaiming-your-mind-and-life-chris-shelton/
Anne Peterson's book, Is This a Cult? — https://isthisacultbook.com/
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