Let's Chit Chat

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Welcome back to the Cognac Tequila and the Girls
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show. It's time to hang out with Rob, Mike, and
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Dunya. Whatever you don't want to say, they will
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with no chaser. Take a shot and let's have a
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drink. Is hashtag squad goals still a thing?
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Because they are. Let's go. Welcome back, everybody.
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Welcome back to Cognac Tequila and the Girls.
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What's going on? We're back. with another thrilling
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episode, episode number 293. I had to recheck
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this all. 293. And we will be doing a little
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chit chat episode, catch you guys up and catch
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each other up and all of the things. But before
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we get into that, what was your week? I had a
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fantastic week. Fantastic. You said it twice
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so I didn't go, so what does that mean? Glad
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you had a fantastic week. Sorry. How was your
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week coming out? My week was okay. Got out a
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little more this week. So, how was your week?
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Good for your spirits. How was your week? My
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week was busy. Busy, busy. Oh, indeed. Again,
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did some things. I'll chit chat about later.
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But overall, a good week. Got to see people I
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love. Briefly. But, yeah, nice. Okay, wait until
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that dog started barking We do a couple of things
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if you're new here on this here podcast Okay
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disclaimer guys, I'm super tired been up since
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four o 'clock in the morning Yes. What the fuck
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with the girl? My what the fuck goes to small
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piece men. And with that, it's not necessarily
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the size of your member, it's how you act. I
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am kind of awarded as best as I can. But for,
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you know, I'm really pro -woman if you've ever
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listened to this because I'm a woman. I've watched
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a particular company work their ass off and build
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a brand in my industry. And to watch some small
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dick man try to take that from them really pisses
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me off. And what the fuck? What do you do? What?
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Okay. Carbon is very, very real. And reputation
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is very, very real. And I hope that's worth a
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couple of dollars you're trying to get. Thank
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you. What the fuck? What the fuck with the girl?
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Why do they suggest that you don't use beef stew
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as a password? Why? Because it's not strong enough.
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Strong enough. Strong enough. Strong enough.
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Like a strong beef stew. That stuff like beef
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stew. If you create that one. I am spotlighting
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Catoctin Creek. They are actually a distillery
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out of Virginia. Super cool, has been her wife.
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We've been doing this for a very long time. The
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juice is delicious, but I'm spotlighting the
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Applejack. Because I think Applejack is perfect
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for holiday season. It's given apple pie and
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liquor. What more do you want? But it's very
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good Applejack. If you don't know, Google it
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is one of the oldest spirits, at least in this
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country. And it's known. And if you have a good
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one, it's basically like an apple brandy. And
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for somebody who doesn't really drink brandy,
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I love Applejack. So check it out, they have
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all kinds of different varietals of their brand.
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They've got rye, whisky, cast -proof one. They've
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got a pink gin, which hurry up and go grab it
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because it's breast cancer awareness month. They
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have some cute pink cocktails. But Applejack
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is my highlight this week. Oh, and there's a
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tasting next week at Total White. Thank you.
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Let us buy light of the week. Yeah, let's just
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try guys. I'll just go first. So why I'm so tired
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Which I should not be as tired shot out to tequila
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and and My best friend gangsta who you heard
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giggle on here a couple times maybe say a thing
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or two Well at the book crack of dawn and drove
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with me he drove I was moral support Except for
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maybe one hour each way To go surprise my cousin,
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who you guys, if you've been here, have seen
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on the episode, for her breast cancer awareness
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dance, get together for survivors and people
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still fighting it. And it was in Baton Rouge,
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so if you don't know that distance, it's like
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four hours, but it feels like 16 to me. But I
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really wanted to be there for her. Cognac wanted
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to go could not because we had this awful tree
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removed finally, but I hated it since we moved
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here So but it was really fun. It was just people
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all different diverse Dancing there was some
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Zuma. There was some twerking. There was some
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line dancing and I had a blast And I don't know
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I would have to get video from other people because
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my people didn't take no video of me dancing
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with my cousin I'm very disappointed in that
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part. But it was great. It was really cute. I
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came in and her son ran up to me. Good core memory.
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How was that drive? It was a good drive. Beautiful
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day. We had to get to Detroit. I don't know why.
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I don't know what happened. Like some quarantine
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and government shit was going on and stuff. Yeah,
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they took us on the back roads and then they
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detour us from the back road and we couldn't
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see nothing. Yeah. Maybe there was a political
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figure there. I don't know what that was. That
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was wild. Yeah, but I had some beautiful days
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like we had today. Good company. Because I do
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not. I was not volunteering. I volunteered my
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car. That's not... You know, we brought a bathroom.
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I used to do that two, three times a month. for
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six years. I've had regional guidelines in the
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Baton Rouge and the war in that area. Been a
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lot of time on our tent, getting over there.
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Yeah, so yeah, good times. For a good time. I
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like what Kangsta told me in the card how she
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said, I love seeing you like with your family.
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You seem so happy. Yeah. Like the essay and stuff.
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Yes, I looked happy. Yeah, love is contagious.
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Shout out to my aunt who kept the secret. I've
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been playing with my aunt there for about a month,
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I think. She kept the secret because my mom can't
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keep one. They're her best friends. I didn't
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tell her until like recently, like the day before,
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Friday. Thursday, Friday. Well, because she just
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got so excited. So how was the tree removal,
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Kanyan? Well, it was good. It took a whole day.
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8 .30 and about 4 .30 in the afternoon. But it's
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pretty much gone. Harper's going to be like,
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what? Yeah, he's going to say, she wanted it
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gone because the birds. You know what I'm saying?
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Cool. There's too many birds pooping on the car.
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But the shade also helps with your paint. Because
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the shade's on the side. And then the shade's
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in the house. I'm going to have to have my warranty.
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I just said whatever. I don't care. Everybody
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knows me, knows I love nature. I just don't need
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it shitting on the car all the time. and every
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time it storms or if it's windy there's something
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that's leaning and eventually that's going to
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fuck up the house and the cars it was a huge
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huge tree I was surprised honestly I was watching
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a couple of times on the camera I was like wow
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I just think it'll be better in the long run
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more space and less bugs too so I'd rather fix
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a the top paint on my brand new car that better
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not fade that quickly. And like my mom told Cognac,
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if you're out in the park in the garage, get
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rid of the tree. And you're not going to wash
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your car, go get a car wash, get rid of the tree.
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So tree's gone, yay! Bye bye! And now we can
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play in the front yard better. We've got four
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of our neighbors providing us with more than
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enough fucking options. I mean, honestly. They
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don't care about trees, they don't. One tree
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can be gone and we'll still be able to breathe
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okay. You know, like I said, you know, with our
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backyard, you know, we have a small batch, you
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know, basically for the dogs, so that's not easy
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to play in with Harper. Yeah. Because we have
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a gigantic pool, so there's only so much space,
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so now that tree's gone and I'm probably going
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to figure out how to get that stump up and then,
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you know, run around out there. sit out there,
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you know, less mosquitoes, less cicadas. I'm
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not doing that. I thought we were going to do
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the U driveway, and that's the ultimate goal.
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I didn't care if it was your yard. I was just
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talking about running around. I don't care if
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it's under her feet. She don't need to be touching
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that much grass. She can't even have yellow number
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five right now or whatever they're talking about.
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But next we can also, we've replanted the front
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of the house probably three times. Now we have
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more sun. So maybe those will last and then in
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the middle of that house that'll be pressure
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washed. Aunt Tequila has volunteered because
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he loves doing it. It's like a hobby of his.
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How do you feel? I was about to go hire somebody.
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He's like, let's just go half on a pressure washer
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or a wet one. It's a wet one from Home Depot.
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He's washed my car, man. This whole detailing
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kit, they strapped it like underneath with the
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soap and everything. Yeah. That was pretty cool.
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I want to connect those in my car. Yeah, that's
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what I'm talking about. Yeah. We can draw new
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water humps. Yeah. But the air is more pressure.
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I got a lot of pressure through in it. The windows
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are more upstairs. Yeah. Mr. Clean. The man with
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the wires and all. Alright, so get the car cleaned
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and then I'll... Are you talking about the lady?
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Tile the hose into it? Yeah, put the hose into
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it. Yeah. Yeah, that's the other way around.
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It came with, like, a gun. Yeah, it did. Wouldn't
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be enough for a raincoat to do that, because
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you have... Pressure. No, like, you have two
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stories. No, no, like for the windows. It seems
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like you have to be, like... The water's like
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the soap's going to start falling back on it.
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It's going to get sprayed back. Depends what's
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when I got my hair done once. I'm just saying.
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Just look at it. They play this. They play them
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like 8 .30 in the morning. The Cavaliers. Do
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they even like playing football? They're playing
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noon tomorrow. They're playing like an 81 at
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8 .30 in the morning. Day or Sunday. More than
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they are here. Here. About two Sunday mornings.
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They play it there. Sunday. You assume they'd
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have to play it live because of people are late.
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Yeah, yeah, I'm thinking. They're giants. That's
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my point, yeah. That's what I'm saying. The one
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game, the latest one I stayed up for was I was
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overseas and I watched the Super Bowl and won
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with Janet Jensen. That one I thought I wasn't
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in at all. I was so tired closing in. That Jay
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-Z is going to be the headliner. He made himself
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the headliner. Travis Barker? I would've done
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Miley. Justin Bieber, I think he's popular enough,
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but I'm just not it. Jay -Z, we all know how
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I feel. What is it this year? Yes, we'll see.
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You guys are asking me Google questions. I haven't
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been seeing this story. Do they even talk about
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this year? Yeah. So where's that? Years in advance.
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Hairstyles. Oh. Justin Bieber hairstyles. Like
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both of them together? No, they were just a rumor.
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Oh. I don't think Harry Styles has a portfolio
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enough for that. They were leading contenders
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before reports emerged that Jay -Z had selected
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himself. Oh. Yes, so it was Justin Bieber Harry
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Styles. It's a rap so strong word. And then,
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you know what I'm saying, over on Sunday, I was
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gonna drop Monday. Well, he said he's done a
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good business, man. It's not that Monday for
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fun, because everybody knows. Now, Jay -Z? Yep.
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I thought he was retired. 10 years ago. Your
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sister didn't stop doing stuff for a long time.
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I thought she was retired. Uh -uh. Me? Yep. See,
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I gotta do something. He ain't dead. She got
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a fan base. That's why he did that little roost
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thing. A lot of people react. The Super Bowl
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is just a hobby. That's time for it. And you
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know, we're in California. That's where... We're
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about to NBA. We got that going. Started up last
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week. My team, the people I support are looking
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good. That was the last time. Go then. I support
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all Houston teams. I'm just too busy. I'm worried
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about them right now. So, I'm about to go to
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Mexico. Anybody have any advice? So I'm partially
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for it in Spanish, and if anybody remembers our
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earlier episodes of his lingo, that's too good.
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I think I'll be okay with that part. I was told
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not to wear hot insurance. I heard that too.
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Went to the source to get people from there.
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But yeah, it's for work. Talk to you guys about
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it. Do you guys know where I'm at? Oh, that'd
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be in the audience. Mexico. It's a beautiful
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country. Yeah, you've been. No, we're right next
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door. I want to brush my teeth. That's the sad
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part though. It's like if you go still in the
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resort, man, you're not that hard in the land.
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So I was always an venture out person. So I'd
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go to the low -competence one and buy a bottle
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of alcohol outside of the resort. And paid 10
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times the loss. Okay, so he said toothpaste and
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you said alcohol. I never got confused while
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I was there. I've had some unique stuff, like
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made on the island. I did something fun last
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weekend, I just thought of it. So I got to meet
00:35:49.239 --> 00:35:54.659
one of my childhood crushes, Brian Austin Green.
00:35:54.880 --> 00:35:58.500
For you young cats, he was David Silver on 902
00:35:58.500 --> 00:36:01.920
and L. He was also the lead in Sarah Potter Chronicle.
00:36:03.360 --> 00:36:04.980
Unless you're a Terminator fan, you probably
00:36:06.510 --> 00:36:13.909
can't show. But my sister and my niece went the
00:36:14.289 --> 00:36:22.719
day before and she FaceTimed me, which I was
00:36:22.719 --> 00:36:25.289
freaking the fuck out. It was like I was... 12
00:36:25.289 --> 00:36:29.969
years old again, 13 or whatever. And he was like,
00:36:30.030 --> 00:36:32.030
so you're over there getting your nails done
00:36:32.030 --> 00:36:34.369
and I happen to be getting the massage for her.
00:36:34.889 --> 00:36:37.409
I'm like, she didn't tell me, she didn't tell
00:36:37.409 --> 00:36:39.349
me. He's like, but I'm over here. And I was like,
00:36:39.469 --> 00:36:42.389
okay. And so that night I decided to go back
00:36:43.030 --> 00:36:45.929
and Harper wanted to go back. So we all went
00:36:45.929 --> 00:36:48.789
back and I got to actually be in person. Super
00:36:48.789 --> 00:36:54.559
nice guy, super personable, chit chatted like
00:36:54.559 --> 00:36:59.559
we've known each other for forever. I knew him.
00:37:00.980 --> 00:37:02.760
Yeah, but like super personal. We were talking
00:37:02.760 --> 00:37:06.000
about his fiance, and his kids, and his ex -wife,
00:37:06.300 --> 00:37:08.099
and you know, all these things. It was really
00:37:08.099 --> 00:37:12.079
cool. So it was, I guess, you know they have
00:37:12.079 --> 00:37:14.340
it saying don't meet your heroes or whatever.
00:37:14.699 --> 00:37:17.610
Don't meet people that you think, you know, highly
00:37:17.610 --> 00:37:20.590
of what I think higher of him. What a decent
00:37:20.590 --> 00:37:25.559
dude. And then I also met We've been rewatching
00:37:25.559 --> 00:37:28.579
Sons of Anarchy, which is crazy, and a lot of
00:37:28.579 --> 00:37:32.039
the castles there, but specifically my sister,
00:37:32.360 --> 00:37:34.900
I like to eat juice. Am I hearing something?
00:37:35.099 --> 00:37:43.210
That's true. One of them ate juice, his name's
00:37:43.210 --> 00:37:48.590
Theo Rossi, in real life, but I just know him
00:37:48.590 --> 00:37:51.590
by juice. I can't forget him as juice. His juice
00:37:51.590 --> 00:37:55.019
really just upsets my spirit. on a whole new
00:37:55.019 --> 00:37:57.880
level and we're literally in that part of the
00:37:57.880 --> 00:38:00.980
show where he really just royally pissed me the
00:38:00.980 --> 00:38:05.059
fuck off. He just starts fucking everything up
00:38:05.059 --> 00:38:10.340
because he just doesn't want them to go ahead
00:38:10.340 --> 00:38:15.989
and find out that he's half black. Are you kidding
00:38:15.989 --> 00:38:19.050
me? All of the shit that y 'all be doing and
00:38:19.050 --> 00:38:21.230
that is what's scaring you that they find out
00:38:21.230 --> 00:38:24.420
you're half black is giving? you know, um, internal
00:38:24.420 --> 00:38:27.239
racism, and then he just went downhill from there.
00:38:27.659 --> 00:38:31.119
But also, shout out to Theo, very, very nice
00:38:31.119 --> 00:38:35.539
guy. Super personal. I didn't pay anything, like,
00:38:35.920 --> 00:38:38.739
to talk to him or anything. He just chit -chatted
00:38:38.739 --> 00:38:42.320
with me. Super cool dude. He lives in Texas,
00:38:42.559 --> 00:38:48.619
um, with his family. Um, yeah. It was a cool
00:38:48.619 --> 00:38:51.780
experience, um, Hartford was her own celebrity
00:38:51.780 --> 00:38:54.739
there. We walked in and they were like, are you
00:38:54.739 --> 00:38:56.840
the little girl that asked that question? Oh
00:38:56.840 --> 00:39:00.750
my god, that is so brave of you. And she literally
00:39:00.750 --> 00:39:03.369
introduced me to Brian also. And he goes, Brian,
00:39:03.389 --> 00:39:10.340
this is my auntie. That was her homie. And she
00:39:10.340 --> 00:39:14.579
got to meet one of her favorite people who placed
00:39:14.579 --> 00:39:17.260
one of her favorite shows from Stranger Things.
00:39:17.539 --> 00:39:21.690
Shout out to, I don't know if that says Jamie
00:39:21.690 --> 00:39:24.340
Bauer. I think he has, I think it goes by three
00:39:24.340 --> 00:39:27.199
names. Jamie Ballard who plays Vecna and Henry
00:39:27.199 --> 00:39:32.550
on Stranger Things. He was absolutely a darling
00:39:32.550 --> 00:39:35.730
to her and she feels so special that he called
00:39:35.730 --> 00:39:40.050
her an angel. And he told her, I don't call anybody
00:39:40.050 --> 00:39:42.130
an angel because you're an angel from heaven.
00:39:42.369 --> 00:39:47.090
And it was like, oh my god. Jamie Ballard. Yeah,
00:39:47.409 --> 00:39:50.369
and it just stuck with her. Even someone the
00:39:50.369 --> 00:39:53.110
next day asked him. Why did you call me an angel?
00:39:53.250 --> 00:40:00.050
He goes, because you are. His line was ridiculous.
00:40:01.650 --> 00:40:04.469
And he remembered her and it just meant a lot
00:40:04.469 --> 00:40:07.429
to her. I mean, that kind of teared me up. Yeah,
00:40:07.530 --> 00:40:10.190
it really was special. Because right the day
00:40:10.190 --> 00:40:12.869
before, we had a conversation with Harper about
00:40:13.159 --> 00:40:16.340
people who try to make her think otherwise. Mm
00:40:16.340 --> 00:40:19.449
-hmm. Well, I hope she doesn't miss the bar always.
00:40:19.449 --> 00:40:23.150
Yeah, I agree. Jamie Bauer. There's three names
00:40:23.150 --> 00:40:26.690
there, but I know it's Jamie Bauer. He's been
00:40:26.690 --> 00:40:29.320
in a lot of movies. You might have seen him.
00:40:29.420 --> 00:40:32.039
I hope she sees his face. But yeah, it was literally
00:40:32.039 --> 00:40:34.519
that Friday. She was talking about the bully,
00:40:35.059 --> 00:40:37.119
who turns out to be really somebody that has
00:40:37.119 --> 00:40:39.659
a crush on her. So he's still going to get beat
00:40:39.659 --> 00:40:46.329
up regardless. Yeah, and me and my sister both
00:40:46.329 --> 00:40:49.679
told her, you know, The question that she asked
00:40:49.679 --> 00:40:53.840
him was, why was your character evil on the show?
00:40:53.980 --> 00:40:56.280
And he kind of explained to her that he kind
00:40:56.280 --> 00:40:59.239
of just felt like an outsider. You know, you
00:40:59.239 --> 00:41:01.360
have to watch the show to understand. But even
00:41:01.360 --> 00:41:04.000
him explaining that kind of showed that he wasn't
00:41:04.000 --> 00:41:07.400
evil. He was kind of bullied and different. And
00:41:07.400 --> 00:41:10.320
that's how that came to pass. And for him to
00:41:10.320 --> 00:41:13.320
look at her and recognize that, like, I know
00:41:13.320 --> 00:41:15.880
it meant a lot. Now I'm getting teary. I know
00:41:15.880 --> 00:41:18.780
it meant a lot to her. And we told her that,
00:41:18.780 --> 00:41:24.760
and we said, so if that's Henry to you, you know,
00:41:25.219 --> 00:41:27.900
who sees good people and can tell who's good
00:41:27.900 --> 00:41:32.329
and evil? Better than Vekta. And look what he
00:41:32.329 --> 00:41:40.400
told you. So, yeah. Because just the timing of
00:41:40.400 --> 00:41:42.500
a lot of things, I think that was really special.
00:41:43.420 --> 00:41:47.699
Yeah, and that was awesome. When she got to go
00:41:47.699 --> 00:41:49.539
tell that motherfucker who has a crush on her,
00:41:49.559 --> 00:41:57.989
huh, guess who I met all weekend. kids motherfuckers
00:41:57.989 --> 00:42:00.110
if they're bullies. They're motherfuckers sometimes.
00:42:01.190 --> 00:42:03.530
Kids won't get it. Motherfuckers always want
00:42:03.530 --> 00:42:07.170
you to spend money. Okay, now you're talking
00:42:07.170 --> 00:42:09.150
about the kids. Now you're talking Japanese.
00:42:11.329 --> 00:42:13.329
Motherfuckers think they smarter than you. Oh
00:42:13.329 --> 00:42:15.949
my god. Because they like their ABCs. I had to
00:42:15.949 --> 00:42:20.050
check Harvard on Friday, actually, before you
00:42:20.050 --> 00:42:22.809
got here. I told her to take a shower and I don't
00:42:22.809 --> 00:42:24.909
know why this is a fight with her every Friday.
00:42:24.909 --> 00:42:27.730
She knows. On Fridays and Sundays, when you're
00:42:27.730 --> 00:42:30.489
here, you have got to wash your ass, you know?
00:42:31.469 --> 00:42:34.269
It's just that. And at the time, you tell her
00:42:34.269 --> 00:42:36.570
it's a fight, and then she's in there for an
00:42:36.570 --> 00:42:39.309
hour and a half having a full -on concert. But
00:42:39.309 --> 00:42:42.309
she always gets an attitude, usually because
00:42:42.309 --> 00:42:45.550
she's sleepy and hasn't napped. And she said
00:42:45.550 --> 00:42:47.869
something to me. I asked her, does she need help
00:42:47.869 --> 00:42:49.929
with her sweater? Because she typically does.
00:42:50.050 --> 00:42:53.090
And she's like, no, I've got it. I've done it
00:42:53.090 --> 00:42:55.659
before. And I go, what? I said, I know who you're
00:42:55.659 --> 00:43:02.110
talking to. She said, a ghost. I said, a what?
00:43:02.250 --> 00:43:08.099
She said, a ghost. With insulin teeth. And I
00:43:08.099 --> 00:43:11.059
grabbed her old face like this. And I said, Harper?
00:43:13.260 --> 00:43:16.159
Anybody who knows me from kids to adults to dead
00:43:16.159 --> 00:43:18.400
people, no, do not talk to me like that. I'm
00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:22.039
stupid. I said, I was just trying to be helpful.
00:43:22.739 --> 00:43:27.170
I said, don't do that. I said, or. We can just
00:43:27.170 --> 00:43:30.010
cut out Fridays and Sundays if you don't want
00:43:30.010 --> 00:43:32.449
to wash your ass. What does it matter with kids
00:43:32.449 --> 00:43:34.650
not wanting to wash, kids and adults not wanting
00:43:34.650 --> 00:43:37.429
to wash their ass? You feel so much better. And
00:43:37.429 --> 00:43:39.329
she felt better. She said it after. I feel so
00:43:39.329 --> 00:43:42.659
much better. I can show you, babe. I can show
00:43:42.659 --> 00:43:49.079
you. What? From what I seen yesterday. Yep. Same
00:43:49.079 --> 00:43:53.889
thing today. Yep. So, so much. Yeah, okay. So,
00:43:54.869 --> 00:43:58.110
it's right there. Yeah, I see. I see that. We
00:43:58.110 --> 00:44:03.320
also, her uncle, that's Cognac over here, had
00:44:03.320 --> 00:44:09.159
on hoarders on fray. I walked in, and hoarders
00:44:09.159 --> 00:44:11.920
in the water. Well, I have seen it, because my
00:44:11.920 --> 00:44:15.179
mom and my youngest sister used to wash all the
00:44:15.179 --> 00:44:16.860
time, and I'm like, how can you guys stomach
00:44:16.860 --> 00:44:19.500
this? I can't. And if I were a little adult,
00:44:19.619 --> 00:44:23.059
from the eye attacks, I would wear, ew, ew, ew.
00:44:23.559 --> 00:44:27.380
And she was like, what is that? Filthy. Then
00:44:27.380 --> 00:44:29.000
my mom happened to call and she's like, yeah,
00:44:29.000 --> 00:44:31.599
I can't watch anymore. I was getting, like, anxiety.
00:44:31.780 --> 00:44:35.079
I go, I have it. Like, Jess, and I said, Harper,
00:44:35.099 --> 00:44:36.420
do you want to eat in that kitchen? She goes,
00:44:36.860 --> 00:44:39.380
absolutely not. And I hope their kids are somewhere
00:44:39.380 --> 00:44:41.579
else. You know, all these things. And I go, now
00:44:41.579 --> 00:44:44.460
you see why we are the way we are about trash.
00:44:44.500 --> 00:44:47.360
Because that's, you don't, you leave it, then
00:44:47.360 --> 00:44:48.860
you leave it again, you leave it again, that's
00:44:48.860 --> 00:44:50.840
what your house is going to look like. She goes,
00:44:51.280 --> 00:44:56.289
no, no, no, I can't live like me. That's the
00:44:56.289 --> 00:44:58.530
message, but I'm not. Please don't put that on
00:44:58.530 --> 00:45:00.920
anymore. The things that they do. Have you ever
00:45:00.920 --> 00:45:03.519
watched an episode of that? Well, you know, my
00:45:03.679 --> 00:45:06.179
mom got the same app, that bro got the same shit
00:45:06.179 --> 00:45:09.119
some apps. We saw all that same shit in you.
00:45:10.579 --> 00:45:12.949
Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same
00:45:12.949 --> 00:45:13.469
shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit.
00:45:13.469 --> 00:45:13.469
Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same
00:45:13.469 --> 00:45:39.980
shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. The sanitary,
00:45:40.440 --> 00:45:42.880
like, I wanted the kids taken out of the home,
00:45:42.960 --> 00:45:44.860
like, I was pissed. I was like, they're being
00:45:44.860 --> 00:45:47.860
abused? That's abusive. They can't even, like,
00:45:47.860 --> 00:45:52.389
there's no toilet. They have to, like, pee outside.
00:45:52.929 --> 00:45:55.170
Because the bathroom is so full of stuff, and
00:45:55.170 --> 00:46:01.469
it's covered in feces. It's crazy. And if it's
00:46:01.530 --> 00:46:02.949
a disease, then you should be in the hospital.
00:46:34.289 --> 00:46:37.719
fix them up a year later. Well that's going to
00:46:37.719 --> 00:46:41.539
get broken into because it's car parts. What
00:46:41.539 --> 00:46:45.739
I mean is I don't like hoarding period like get
00:46:45.739 --> 00:46:48.730
rid of shit you know I'm looking over here and
00:46:48.730 --> 00:46:51.460
get to clear some of this out you know but for
00:46:51.460 --> 00:47:00.820
me it's the like for me it's the dirtiness like
00:47:00.820 --> 00:47:05.860
your kitchen is not usable like there's lady
00:47:05.860 --> 00:47:10.179
had meat in her freezer that was green it was
00:47:10.179 --> 00:47:13.750
in the freezer the whole time the fucking meat
00:47:13.750 --> 00:47:16.510
was and she was adamant about not throwing out
00:47:16.510 --> 00:47:37.530
the yogurts and shit she had and you know the
00:47:37.530 --> 00:47:41.780
one that rocks last fucking hour and she says
00:47:41.780 --> 00:47:46.820
well you know once it starts bubbling out she
00:47:46.820 --> 00:47:49.539
had you yeah like once it starts bubbling out
00:47:49.539 --> 00:47:52.239
that's when she used it that's when it goes it's
00:47:52.239 --> 00:47:54.980
about to go bad about to go bad so she had one
00:47:54.980 --> 00:47:56.980
for like three years so that's when she used
00:47:56.980 --> 00:48:01.599
it yeah that's why I told her it was for she
00:48:01.599 --> 00:48:06.389
may got to her toilet. They couldn't get her
00:48:06.389 --> 00:48:08.489
out the kitchen to even fix that. The one that
00:48:08.489 --> 00:48:11.670
had kids, they had like uh, they were about to
00:48:11.670 --> 00:48:13.289
take their kids supposedly, you know, it was
00:48:13.699 --> 00:48:17.519
on the shelf. They had uh, the husband had a
00:48:17.519 --> 00:48:20.159
bunch of fish tank. You thought she was bad because
00:48:20.159 --> 00:48:22.420
like, she wouldn't get rid of shit and she liked,
00:48:22.599 --> 00:48:25.019
like she was addicted to shopping, like buying
00:48:25.019 --> 00:48:27.019
random shit, just throwing it I guess anywhere.
00:48:27.659 --> 00:48:32.150
But um, like the husband was bad. They have those
00:48:32.150 --> 00:48:35.730
fish tanks. And he was a serial killer. I'm trying
00:48:35.730 --> 00:48:37.750
to look him up later. What were you saying? I'm
00:48:37.750 --> 00:48:39.809
sorry. So my grandfather had one stick of shit
00:48:39.809 --> 00:48:41.989
I always remember. Because he kept these shits
00:48:41.989 --> 00:48:47.940
under lock and key. One nothing in his head was
00:48:47.940 --> 00:48:56.159
new paint. Stacked on the floor, snakes, snakes'
00:48:56.159 --> 00:48:58.500
heads, and you know how snakes' heads they skin.
00:48:59.099 --> 00:49:02.869
And spiders and everything. I don't think he
00:49:02.869 --> 00:49:24.650
was wearing those. Those came for free. But to
00:49:24.650 --> 00:49:29.289
collect, because you're just too lazy and you
00:49:29.289 --> 00:49:31.000
just go buy clothes and throw them away. on top
00:49:31.000 --> 00:49:37.250
of that that's disgusting to me like i help you
00:49:37.250 --> 00:49:41.949
because i want to get rid of what i can't help
00:49:41.949 --> 00:49:44.929
you if i can't get to the artifacts because you
00:49:44.929 --> 00:49:47.949
have a pile of shit over here there's a dead
00:49:47.949 --> 00:49:53.239
animal under here inside the house you don't
00:49:53.239 --> 00:49:55.699
know where your cat's been well it's under five
00:49:55.699 --> 00:50:09.829
pounds of laundry and dirty diapers bought clothes,
00:50:10.309 --> 00:50:13.619
and then there was a wedding once or twice. And
00:50:13.619 --> 00:50:19.360
only washed her sheets, because she had to eat
00:50:19.360 --> 00:50:20.940
on the bed because there was no room in the kitchen.
00:50:21.099 --> 00:50:22.679
I thought that was the one with the kids. I don't
00:50:22.679 --> 00:50:24.380
remember, but they were all blended together.
00:50:24.539 --> 00:50:26.300
They should all be in the same house. So the
00:50:26.300 --> 00:50:29.800
one that would go to the thrift store, she'd
00:50:29.800 --> 00:50:31.639
try to get snappy with her daughter and shit.
00:50:32.099 --> 00:50:35.460
And she's like, well, I'm done with being the
00:50:36.130 --> 00:50:38.789
keeper of stuff or something, she said, smartass.
00:50:40.809 --> 00:50:43.250
Blaming our kids that they left all their shit
00:50:43.250 --> 00:50:46.230
there. Her husband left her because of the hoarding
00:50:46.230 --> 00:50:49.829
and then they divorced her because she still
00:50:49.829 --> 00:50:52.170
wouldn't get it together and they had to sell
00:50:52.170 --> 00:50:55.070
the house to finalize the divorce so she had
00:50:55.070 --> 00:50:56.630
to clear out shit but then she tried to blame
00:50:56.630 --> 00:50:58.949
the one daughter that didn't run the fuck away
00:50:58.949 --> 00:51:10.170
from her. Bitch. That was one of the ones I did
00:51:10.170 --> 00:51:13.340
see where. long time ago where that lady had
00:51:13.340 --> 00:51:18.289
a bunch of dead cats and shit. There's probably
00:51:18.289 --> 00:51:21.969
some in your family's storage facilities. Dead
00:51:21.969 --> 00:51:27.940
cats? Who knows? If your apartment is cooking
00:51:27.940 --> 00:51:31.559
it's terrible. Oh Jesus. You always got the questions
00:51:31.559 --> 00:51:37.409
ready. Then immediately. If they're cooking it's
00:51:37.409 --> 00:51:44.539
terrible. No, like, I would give it, you know,
00:51:44.639 --> 00:51:47.699
three times. Three times cooking different things
00:51:47.699 --> 00:51:50.389
and they're all terrible, just... Stop. Stop.
00:51:50.690 --> 00:51:54.530
Yeah. You know, I'm a picky eater in general.
00:51:54.789 --> 00:51:57.389
You know, sorry, that's a me thing. But I'm a
00:51:57.389 --> 00:52:00.429
picky eater, so why are you wasting time? Because
00:52:00.429 --> 00:52:04.010
I would just throw away, because I don't like
00:52:04.010 --> 00:52:09.059
it. I'm just not going to eat it. And a lot of
00:52:09.059 --> 00:52:11.260
times, people suck at cooking just because they
00:52:11.260 --> 00:52:13.400
don't like cooking. They're just trying to fulfill
00:52:13.400 --> 00:52:16.699
a role. So I'd rather just let us just talk about
00:52:16.699 --> 00:52:18.820
it. It's not a deal breaker if you can't cook.
00:52:19.019 --> 00:52:21.059
Yeah. You just need to know what you can't do.
00:52:24.139 --> 00:52:26.940
Here's what I like. If you could add some fucking
00:52:26.940 --> 00:52:30.519
salt, please. You know, like something. None
00:52:30.519 --> 00:52:35.250
of this tastes like that rum you make. Just stick
00:52:35.250 --> 00:52:41.969
to the rum. Well, he's saying it nicely. In a
00:52:41.969 --> 00:52:46.079
way, what would be worse? In a way that they
00:52:46.079 --> 00:52:48.639
can't cook anything but one thing that they really
00:52:48.639 --> 00:53:17.300
get wrong. One of my related friends, I just
00:53:17.300 --> 00:53:21.380
had lunch with her this week. Has the most beautiful
00:53:22.050 --> 00:53:26.030
with a chef's kitchen chef's pantry, but when
00:53:26.030 --> 00:53:28.710
she can't cook for shit She knows she can't cook
00:53:28.710 --> 00:53:31.409
for shit and her husband likes to eat and they
00:53:31.409 --> 00:53:34.750
go out to eat and he's he respects He told her
00:53:34.750 --> 00:53:37.369
no. No, that's just it's just not your thing.
00:53:37.369 --> 00:53:41.610
You make this one thing good But that's not what
00:53:41.610 --> 00:53:44.809
I'm gonna eat every day. So they that's a point
00:53:44.809 --> 00:53:48.909
for them that she made sure that he's fed But
00:53:48.909 --> 00:53:53.190
she don't be cooking it The kitchen is like a
00:53:53.190 --> 00:53:59.469
relic. Deep sun, zero freezers, and all of it.
00:53:59.530 --> 00:54:06.909
I think they have two stoves. Would you date
00:54:06.909 --> 00:54:11.619
someone who still lives with their ex? No. Because...
00:54:16.230 --> 00:54:23.610
I'm allergic to broke. Okay, no. Saving and broken.
00:54:24.480 --> 00:54:27.670
No, I don't. I like it's broke. It does to me.
00:54:27.710 --> 00:54:31.719
Why are you still with your ex? Okay, go save
00:54:31.719 --> 00:54:33.880
money with a friend. That's what I'm bringing.
00:54:34.469 --> 00:54:48.750
Okay. Does it have to be money? No. Maybe I need
00:54:48.750 --> 00:55:26.469
your money. I'm not intimidated. I just need
00:55:26.469 --> 00:55:29.469
to be able to come over and me and your ex are
00:55:29.469 --> 00:55:33.210
talking about the little things. That's just
00:55:33.210 --> 00:55:36.500
uncomfortable. You want to come to your house?
00:55:39.380 --> 00:55:44.340
Yeah, I guess so. No, I wouldn't, no. I was trying
00:55:44.340 --> 00:55:45.920
to think of a difference. I think that that thing's
00:55:45.920 --> 00:56:14.030
a waste of them. I said goodnight. He's like,
00:56:14.230 --> 00:56:17.079
yeah, my date was good. But the pussy wouldn't
00:56:17.079 --> 00:56:24.619
like it, or something. Like, what's your ex got
00:56:24.619 --> 00:56:40.719
going on? Why she can't find somebody? Because
00:56:40.719 --> 00:56:55.710
if y 'all are cool... That just sounds like too
00:56:55.710 --> 00:56:58.530
much work, and take her out, shit. I don't want
00:56:58.530 --> 00:57:00.489
to. But we don't have to go out, or whatever.
00:57:02.340 --> 00:57:12.329
Wherever we have to go, you can take her. At
00:57:12.329 --> 00:58:50.769
the Hotel 6. That's good. The honesty is good
00:58:49.900 --> 00:58:56.780
It works for some people. But for me, just don't
00:58:58.639 --> 00:59:01.840
understand certain things with other things like
00:59:01.840 --> 00:59:11.150
saying like names. It's weird to me. Like, yeah,
00:59:11.409 --> 00:59:15.090
Tina. Yeah, Tina, that's it, Tina. Like, I don't
00:59:15.090 --> 00:59:20.610
know, it's weird. Yeah, Scott. I don't think
00:59:20.610 --> 00:59:24.969
that was the dialogue. Or the same as like daddy.
00:59:26.139 --> 00:59:30.989
Give it to me, daddy. Ew. Sorry. That's just
00:59:30.989 --> 00:59:35.010
giving my preference. Don't say my name. I feel
00:59:35.010 --> 00:59:37.559
like I'm getting cold at school. Of my parents.
00:59:40.530 --> 00:59:42.909
Is love enough to keep a relationship together?
00:59:46.920 --> 00:59:49.539
A relationship together? Can love be a good thing?
00:59:55.469 --> 01:00:01.019
No. I don't think that in anything. It can be
01:00:01.019 --> 01:00:03.360
a family relationship, a friendship relationship,
01:00:03.539 --> 01:00:09.789
a partner relationship. No. No. I think love
01:00:09.789 --> 01:00:12.599
is good. I think it helps you. It's the bond
01:00:12.599 --> 01:00:15.139
that ties people together. Yeah. But I think
01:00:15.139 --> 01:00:19.840
love is an action word. And you have to make
01:00:19.840 --> 01:00:45.000
a decision that I'm a love this person. So. It
01:00:45.000 --> 01:00:47.460
helps keep it together, obviously. Why are you
01:00:47.460 --> 01:00:49.539
just making me all love them? That's stupid.
01:00:49.820 --> 01:00:54.239
Yeah. That's ridiculous. But no, that's not the
01:00:54.239 --> 01:00:57.159
only thing. Because love, like you said, love
01:00:57.159 --> 01:01:00.260
is an action word. But I also think actions come
01:01:00.260 --> 01:01:02.179
with showing people that you love them. Yeah.
01:01:02.300 --> 01:01:05.079
It's all shown. You can tell me any time and
01:01:05.079 --> 01:01:09.019
show me something else. Yeah. Young people are
01:01:09.019 --> 01:01:13.079
in shelters, abuse shelters, that were told,
01:01:13.400 --> 01:01:17.300
I love you. I love you. Yeah. I didn't mean that
01:01:17.300 --> 01:01:20.059
because I love you. So no, I don't think - Don't
01:01:20.059 --> 01:01:21.860
call me that because I love you. You can love
01:01:21.860 --> 01:01:25.639
someone from afar if it's fucking up your health
01:01:25.639 --> 01:01:30.469
mentally, physically. You know, but a lot of
01:01:30.599 --> 01:01:34.809
women and men and - shelters, you know, just
01:01:34.809 --> 01:01:37.289
escaping domestic violence. I'm just using that
01:01:37.289 --> 01:01:39.369
as an example because it's like the extreme,
01:01:39.449 --> 01:01:44.530
but they still love their abusers. Yeah. And...
01:01:44.530 --> 01:01:47.550
This is for your own good. Yeah, whatever, but
01:01:47.550 --> 01:01:49.789
they still love their abusers and that's why
01:01:49.789 --> 01:01:52.650
they go to these shelters to get help, to untrain
01:01:52.650 --> 01:01:55.550
their mind that it's okay that you love them,
01:01:56.920 --> 01:01:59.320
but they're not good for you. Yeah. And that
01:01:59.320 --> 01:02:02.739
goes in just life and that's friendships, family
01:02:02.739 --> 01:02:06.250
members, Sometimes you have to escape whatever
01:02:06.250 --> 01:02:09.730
abuse is to you. I'm not dimensioning actual
01:02:09.730 --> 01:02:13.809
physical violence, but sometimes abuse isn't
01:02:14.610 --> 01:02:53.980
physical. You said you love me. You said you
01:02:53.980 --> 01:02:56.639
love me too, but you're not acting like you love
01:02:56.639 --> 01:03:00.849
me. And that's, like I said, friendships too.
01:03:01.449 --> 01:03:04.210
There are so many people and friends that I've
01:03:04.210 --> 01:03:07.130
had in life that I still love to this day, and
01:03:07.130 --> 01:03:11.070
they cannot fucking have access to me, ever again.
01:03:11.429 --> 01:03:15.130
And I still love them, I love what we had, I
01:03:15.130 --> 01:03:18.389
love them, but they're better over there than
01:03:18.550 --> 01:03:42.320
here. In what I'm doing. And you do that? Action.
01:03:43.400 --> 01:03:45.440
What's your answer? You didn't say anything.
01:03:48.340 --> 01:03:50.460
Call the yellow, that's why I had to sign it,
01:03:50.460 --> 01:03:57.059
you know? Yeah, like, said it helps. Yeah, because
01:03:57.059 --> 01:03:58.619
then I don't want to be here, because then I
01:03:58.619 --> 01:04:00.039
don't want to be around you. I've always been.
01:04:00.039 --> 01:04:02.199
Especially when I'm right -holding. The type,
01:04:02.360 --> 01:04:05.760
it's like, you know, like, does the good outweigh
01:04:05.760 --> 01:04:09.780
the bad? Like, are they just horrible to you?
01:04:12.880 --> 01:04:15.820
But your good and bad can be different than somebody
01:04:15.820 --> 01:04:20.630
else's. I get that, yeah. Like, some people think,
01:04:20.769 --> 01:04:24.949
well, he's not whooping your ass. Yay! You know,
01:04:24.949 --> 01:04:28.869
or she's not cheating on you, yay! You know,
01:04:28.969 --> 01:04:33.110
it's like, what's the good versus the bad? No,
01:04:33.269 --> 01:04:36.309
I get it. You have to decide on your own, like,
01:04:36.429 --> 01:04:38.869
you yourself have to decide, does the good outweigh
01:04:38.869 --> 01:04:41.130
the bad for you, mentally. Yeah, definitely.
01:04:45.159 --> 01:04:49.699
My mom always told me, and this is what my grandmother
01:04:49.699 --> 01:04:55.960
told her, my grandmother who left just was like,
01:04:56.849 --> 01:04:58.909
but sometimes you have to take the shit with
01:04:58.909 --> 01:05:05.639
the sugar. and why give somebody else the sugar
01:05:06.340 --> 01:05:10.320
that, you know, that they do give you. But at
01:05:10.320 --> 01:05:15.179
some point, shit and sugar, you know, they're
01:05:15.179 --> 01:05:17.699
still there under the rug and it's going to just
01:05:17.699 --> 01:05:25.760
mix with shit and sugar there. And I'd rather
01:05:25.760 --> 01:05:34.570
love you from afar than hate you. Close. If I
01:05:34.570 --> 01:08:59.779
say I love you, that means I love you. And I
01:08:59.779 --> 01:08:59.779
don't ever want to tell you I regret saying I
01:08:59.779 --> 01:10:42.869
love you. not just partners but watch his piece
01:10:42.869 --> 01:11:00.699
be threatened over tapped into being like I've
01:11:00.699 --> 01:11:03.880
had enough you know you fucked up my piece yeah
01:11:08.449 --> 01:11:13.750
respectfully I'm talking about just friendships
01:11:14.609 --> 01:11:18.289
Family, you know, all kinds of things. Me, I'm
01:11:18.289 --> 01:11:24.050
maybe not peaceful to you, I don't know. I think
01:11:24.050 --> 01:11:26.949
that's a stage in life that you grow into where
01:11:26.949 --> 01:11:30.149
peace is important. I think it's certain, I know
01:11:30.310 --> 01:11:35.149
when I was younger, I had chaos, constant chaos,
01:11:35.289 --> 01:11:36.609
you know what I'm saying? So what was peace?
01:11:37.869 --> 01:11:41.890
So yeah, I just, I'm at an age now where peace
01:11:41.890 --> 01:11:46.760
is important. Peace and space is important. I
01:11:50.380 --> 01:11:54.779
feel like peace is also subjective. Everybody's
01:11:54.779 --> 01:11:57.960
different. Just like their love languages. Peace
01:11:57.960 --> 01:12:01.819
is different. Somebody else's peace may not be
01:12:01.819 --> 01:12:05.739
your peace. So I think it's important. I just
01:12:05.739 --> 01:12:07.659
want to remind everyone that I'm the youngest
01:12:07.659 --> 01:12:12.100
one at the table. Whatever. So I don't know what
01:12:12.100 --> 01:12:15.880
age you hit it, but I've hit it. I've hit it
01:12:15.880 --> 01:12:18.079
a while ago and I think I've said it on the show
01:12:18.079 --> 01:12:20.989
a million times. That's all I care about is peace.
01:12:21.369 --> 01:12:26.050
Peace, for me, is not chaos. Some people thrive
01:12:26.050 --> 01:12:28.289
in chaos, and that's cool, and we need those
01:12:28.289 --> 01:12:33.489
kind of people. I can handle chaos, but that's
01:12:33.489 --> 01:12:35.869
not my peace. I'll handle it, and then I want
01:12:35.869 --> 01:12:43.680
to go to peace. For me, peace is happiness. The
01:12:43.680 --> 01:12:48.539
shit's taken care of. We've worked hard to have
01:12:48.539 --> 01:12:55.500
it. And if, God forbid, you know, something chaotic
01:12:55.500 --> 01:12:58.199
happens, we can handle it and get back to peace.
01:12:59.939 --> 01:13:04.039
And peace for me is not chaos. It's not, you
01:13:04.039 --> 01:13:10.520
know, nickel and diming. It's not, you did this,
01:13:10.680 --> 01:13:12.680
you did that, you know, it's tit for tat, like
01:13:12.680 --> 01:13:19.750
shit, and all kinds of things. Yeah, peace is
01:13:19.750 --> 01:13:23.590
just, oh my God. When you look at someone and
01:13:23.590 --> 01:13:28.930
you're just like, whew, they're around you. Gwen
01:13:28.930 --> 01:13:31.789
Kingston, she's a piece for me. We both deal
01:13:31.789 --> 01:13:35.289
with a whole lot of shit. She's got a whole different
01:13:35.289 --> 01:13:37.489
life, I got a whole different life, but I see
01:13:37.489 --> 01:13:41.340
her and I feel at peace. There's a piece. Even
01:13:41.340 --> 01:13:43.300
though we got to talk about a whole bunch of
01:13:43.300 --> 01:13:57.420
crazy shit. There's a piece that surpasses all
01:13:57.420 --> 01:14:00.079
understanding. And once you find that piece,
01:14:00.899 --> 01:14:03.640
you want to do whatever you can. to keep that
01:14:03.640 --> 01:14:06.300
peace. And it don't make you an asshole or nothing.
01:14:06.439 --> 01:14:09.659
I mean, it still make you a level person or whatever.
01:14:09.819 --> 01:14:16.069
It's just, you're gonna protect that peace. Because
01:14:16.069 --> 01:14:17.890
that peace, that's a passive law. I understand
01:14:17.890 --> 01:14:19.289
that it goes through what you say. You can be
01:14:19.289 --> 01:14:23.100
going through a lot of chaotic stuff. It's like,
01:14:24.949 --> 01:14:34.630
you got all these storms, but you, you know what
01:14:34.630 --> 01:14:36.369
I'm saying? It's not, you're not thrilled. You're
01:14:36.369 --> 01:14:38.569
not moved by what's going on. You stay in that
01:14:38.569 --> 01:14:41.699
place of peace and help you deal with the chaos.
01:14:41.960 --> 01:14:47.880
You know what I'm saying? Peace comes with end.
01:14:48.739 --> 01:14:51.420
I'm not expecting anybody to give me my peace.
01:14:53.659 --> 01:15:00.130
That's fucking rude. And I feel like if someone's
01:15:00.130 --> 01:15:03.630
disrupting your peace, if you love and care about
01:15:03.630 --> 01:15:06.750
them, you tell them you're disrupting their peace.
01:15:09.989 --> 01:15:15.729
Please don't cook for me anymore. Three times
01:15:15.729 --> 01:15:18.449
I've told you this is disturbing my peace, and
01:15:18.449 --> 01:15:21.430
you just keep doing it. And you don't give a
01:15:21.430 --> 01:15:24.920
fuck about my peace. And that's the beautiful
01:15:24.920 --> 01:15:27.239
thing. Or my palette that I told you to stop
01:15:27.239 --> 01:15:30.119
cooking for. Stand on my side and let them in.
01:15:30.909 --> 01:15:35.000
When I see two people in that peace with each
01:15:35.000 --> 01:15:36.899
other, you know, that person got their peace,
01:15:37.000 --> 01:15:39.560
this person got their peace. They together and
01:15:40.109 --> 01:15:42.529
a sense of harmony. You know, they should not
01:15:42.529 --> 01:16:00.250
perfect each individual with each other. Let's
01:16:00.250 --> 01:16:06.079
respect between the two of them. Because his
01:16:06.079 --> 01:16:21.739
peace is so lucky. You see two people moving
01:16:21.739 --> 01:17:18.569
like that, you know, see how many people are
01:17:25.510 --> 01:18:34.850
coming to meet you. A peaceful person has never
01:18:34.850 --> 01:18:38.439
been part of a team. What does that make you
01:18:38.439 --> 01:18:47.609
feel? Part of several teams. I love teamwork,
01:18:48.069 --> 01:18:49.850
but I need everybody on the team to be on the
01:18:49.850 --> 01:18:54.729
same one. You don't have to be the strength of
01:18:54.729 --> 01:19:02.149
this. A team means, to me, everybody has their
01:19:02.149 --> 01:19:04.109
own strengths. And you put them all together,
01:19:04.250 --> 01:19:07.329
that makes a team. I fucking love teamwork. I
01:19:07.329 --> 01:19:09.909
know all people hate group projects and shit.
01:19:09.949 --> 01:19:11.989
I'm down for a group project as long as you're
01:19:11.989 --> 01:19:14.170
pulling your weight on what you're capable of
01:19:14.170 --> 01:19:19.760
doing. We have been on many teams. I love the
01:19:19.760 --> 01:19:23.989
team. I mean, I think it can't be done. I think
01:19:23.989 --> 01:19:26.590
you do it all by yourself, but take the team.
01:19:27.359 --> 01:20:13.250
Work the dream, work. Reach out for help. In
01:20:13.250 --> 01:20:18.069
different scenarios. Never minded it. Worked
01:20:18.069 --> 01:20:20.750
out pretty well. Never minded being on a team?
01:20:20.970 --> 01:20:28.649
No, I meant like, right as far as like, I usually
01:20:28.649 --> 01:20:38.960
play the games I've had for you. And then kitchen,
01:20:40.029 --> 01:20:45.529
restaurant -wise, if somebody wasn't, if somebody
01:20:45.529 --> 01:20:50.329
was sliding in and orders got crossed back, it
01:20:50.329 --> 01:20:56.720
was a nightmare. Yeah, we are a team. And we
01:20:56.720 --> 01:20:59.939
got strengths here. We do. And last week... One
01:20:59.939 --> 01:21:02.949
is not my blotter. Kanye tried to step on the
01:21:02.949 --> 01:21:05.350
girl's strength, and you know, it was almost
01:21:05.600 --> 01:21:09.460
a catastrophe in here. Oh my god. I knew it was
01:21:09.460 --> 01:21:12.270
a conversation. I love you guys, I really have
01:21:12.270 --> 01:21:13.829
to pee. Bye.