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Welcome to Beyond Mindset Limits with Tisha Marie Kane. Here,
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we explore how unlocking your mindset can pave the way
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for unlimited success. Discover how to create opportunities through legal
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challenges and transform your business and life with effective public
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relations strategies. Get ready to elevate your journey and maximize
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your potential. Now, let's welcome your host, Tisha Marie Kane.
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Oh my goodness, you guys, we are back for another
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week of Beyond Mindset Limits. I am so excited to
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be here. I'm so excited that I have this platform
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to be able to educate you and share my voice.
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And it's all beautiful and perfect. And let me tell
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you who I am. My name is Tisha Marie Kane.
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I'm your host tonight. I am an executive counsel. I
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am an expert mediator and communicator. I'm a breakthrough mindset coach.
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a clinical hypnotherapist, and I am a multiple number one
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best-selling international author and artist. I'm recognized for my work
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all around the world, helping Fortune 500 executives, visionary leaders,
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and high-performing entrepreneurs, and I guide them to unlock their influence,
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align with their purpose, and create lasting impact. I have
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a unique blend of legal expertise, leadership strategy, and transformational coaching.
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I help individuals and organizations alike rewire their subconscious mind,
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release emotional weight, and elevate their relationship with money, power
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and self-worth and to sum that all up I'm a
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unicorn there is nothing I don't do well and I
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used to bag on myself in the past like you
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know I'm a Jane of all trades and I'm a
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master of none but actually I've mastered a whole lot
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of things so I can't use that anymore but there
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isn't anything I don't do well and my mission my
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mission here on planet earth is to grow my impact
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to continue to have that ripple effect out into the universe,
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out into the planet, that I just transform and change
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people's lives. And that can start small, or it could
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be big, or it could be somewhere in between. But
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it's like, I believe those little microcosms every single day
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where you just say, hey, thank you for holding that
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door for me. Or, hey, thank you for paying it forward.
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Those little things that help make someone's day a little
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bit better. So That's my mission. I want to grow
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my impact. I want to teach. I'm a teacher. I'm
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a preacher. I'm all the things. I laugh at myself
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so much because I really came to Planet Life School
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to learn, right? Learn who I am, learn how I
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behave in this world, how I respond, how I act.
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And I saw a meme the other day that says,
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never underestimate a person who practices self-education in their free time.
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And that's me. I'm always learning something new. I am
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excited to be on Planet Life School. So it's really,
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really fun. And today we're going to be talking about
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the power of the spoken word. And I've talked about
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this ad nauseum because I really believe I'm an NLP practitioner.
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If you don't know what NLP is, it's neuro-linguistic programming.
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And If you've never heard about this, I would invite
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you to find the best NLP course and take one
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because it will transform your whole entire life. Once I
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started using words to my benefit, my whole life just
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opened up. Your words do not simply describe your experience.
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They help you direct your attention and they shape your
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internal state. They influence your behavior and affect what happens next.
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And I really believe that because I could do, that's
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why I love doing, when someone comes into my coaching sessions,
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I love doing like a free discovery call. Because in
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that 15 minutes, I could really gauge where a person
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is mentally, physically, financially, emotionally, all the things. I can
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gauge where they are by the language that they use.
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And I just had a client, what's today, Wednesday on Monday,
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sign up for a 90 minute coaching session with me,
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which is so fantastic because you get to swim in
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my energy for 90 minutes. We do hypnotherapy because that's
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one of my favorite modalities. And some people are scared
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about hypnotherapy. So if you're scared, please do your research.
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All it is, it's a self-induced, relaxed, trans-like state. If
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you're traveling on the roadway right now and you go
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from point A to point B and then you get
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to point B and you're like, how did I get here?
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And you don't really remember all the twists and turns.
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That's hypnotherapy, right? So she invested in me on Monday
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and I gave her some homework things to do before
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our session this weekend. And I said, OK, cool. You're
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going to get 90 minutes with me and then I'm
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going to give you two integration calls one week each
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back to back. And so before the coaching begins, we
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did a, a gauge on where she was. And do
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you know, she said, she said, I said, what's the
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biggest presenting problem that you're having when you come to me? Like,
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why do you want to hire me as your mentor,
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your coach? Why, why me? And she goes, well, you know,
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I've seen, I've seen the work that you've done and
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I know your energy can transform my life. And I
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am becoming the, what did she say? Something like this.
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I am becoming the person I used to hate. And
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I'm like, what does that mean really? And she goes, well,
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I just recently got this job. I'm the general manager.
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I'm making a ton of money. And I used to
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look at rich people as though they were filthy rich.
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And now I'm becoming that person. I used to hate
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rich people and now I'm making so much money. that
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it's not congruent, it's not lining up. And I'm like, ah, perfect.
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You know, the angels were singing and I could really
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gauge where she was and how she needs to fix
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her relationship with money. And so I gave her some go-tos, right?
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I'm not gonna give it all away today because that's
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why you need to come back and swim in my energy.
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But I just got on this call and I received
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this text message from her. And she said this, I'm
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gonna read it to you because this is real life stuff.
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And I said, have you been doing what I invited
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you to do before our coaching session? And she says, yes, daily.
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I said, great. And I said, tell me what you've noticed.
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And she said, it's weird how things have already changed
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just by thinking about all of this stuff and having
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all of this stuff come up. And I said, yeah, right.
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This is perfect. And I said, you know, I coach
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people at the highest levels and I'm giving you that
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highest level of me. And I want you to continue
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to notice. And so she continued to notice. And then
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she texted me again today and she said, I made $ 14, 000
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just today, right? And I opened up this segment about
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the power of words and NLP and using words and
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creating your reality. And just with the little homework items,
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I haven't even mentored this lady yet. I haven't even
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coached her. We haven't even done hypnotherapy yet. And just
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having her aware of the words that she uses and
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the behaviors that's happening, she has gotten a 320% return
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on her investment with me. Like, let that land. Her
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ROI is.
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Her investing in herself through me, she's already got 320%
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return just by being aware of the words. And I
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gave her some other things to do too. She's already
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seen the return. So she is really excited to have
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her coaching session and her hypnotherapy session today or this weekend.
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But talking to me today has really enlightened her. And
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so that's what I want to talk about today is
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the power of of the spoken word, you guys, how
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language shapes your mind, your behavior, and the reality that
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you experience, okay? So welcome to the show. This is
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Beyond Mindset Limits. I'm your host, Tish Marie Cain. And
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this is something that we've been using ever since we
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were children, right? It's words, the words you speak. The
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words you speak to other people, the words you speak
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to other people about other people, the words that you
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speak about money, right? Like what's your relationship with money?
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And just, I would invite you to like audio process.
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You get a journal and say, and write all of
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these things out about yourself and who you are and
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just write it all out. Don't think about it because
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that's your subconscious mind. That's your true belief system. coming
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out from your subconscious mind, getting it on paper, and
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then you can see like, what? Right? So words you
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speak are so important. They reveal how you feel about
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your marriage, your children, your health, your business, how you
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feel about your future, and maybe most importantly, the words
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you speak about yourself. And I always like to map
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things across to scripture. You know, and not to be
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all preachy, although I'm a preacher and I have 14
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holy books in my house from the Quran to the
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Bible to what's this other one? The Jewish literacy. I
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read them all, right? This is so fascinating. But scripture
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in Proverbs, it says, Death and life are the power
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of the tongue. Death and life are in the power
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of the tongue. Think about the magnitude of that statement.
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It doesn't say words are meaningless. It says words are important.
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And it says there is power in the tongue. And
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whether you approach that spiritually, psychology, or through the lens
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of communication or through the lens of NLP, There's something
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worth examining here, right? Because your language becomes part of
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your internal environment. Say something once and it becomes a comment.
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Say it repeatedly and then it becomes a pattern. Repeat
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that pattern long enough and it becomes a belief, a
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limiting belief at that. So that's what I am trained.
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Like I listen. That's why I am a expert mediator
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and an expert communicator because I am trained to listen
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to the words underneath the surface. And I'm like, woo, okay,
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I can see what's congruent and what's not congruent. And
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just by the words that you use tells me a
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lot about you, right? And I'm naturally a quick, fast,
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quick-witted person. And when I speak, it all comes out.
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So when I was learning NLP and the effects on
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how words influenced my life, I had to take a
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moment and pause and slow down and strategically use the
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right words in the sentence to mean what I say
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and say what I mean. Because there were a lot
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of times because I was speaking so fast that I
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would say things that I didn't mean. I'm like, wait
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a minute. And now I just do a quick audit.
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And I'm like, no, no, no, no. I didn't mean that.
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Let me fix that, right? And this is what I
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really mean. So I had to slow down. And so
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that's what I encourage you to do also is just
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to slow down and see the words that you use, right? Today,
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we're going beneath the surface of language. And we're going
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to start with one of the most famous magical words
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in history, Abra Kadabra. Do you guys even know what
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that means? I had to, I love words and I'm
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a word nerd. And I had to go back to
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the etymology of the word. What is Abra Kadabra and
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why do we use it? Right? We associated it with
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magicians pulling rabbits out of hats, but the word is
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much more than a modern stage of magic. It, Its
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precise origin, what I found, it's uncertain, but it appears
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in ancient writings associated with healing and protection. Did you
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guys know that? Like abracadabra is associated with healing and protection.
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And so what they did back in ancient writings is
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it was written down repeatedly. They would write the word
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abracadabra down. And when they would write it down, they
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would remove letters line by line until the word disappeared.
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So they would write A-B-R-A-C-A-D-A-B-R-A. And the next line, they
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would take off the last letter A. And the next line,
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the last letter R. And it would disappear as you
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went down line by line. And so that symbolism to
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me was fascinating and I wanted to know more. I
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wanted to dive deep and understand abracadabra, right? As the
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words diminished, the unwanted condition was supposed to diminish too.
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So if you had inflammation in your neck, you would
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write abracadabra and you would keep writing it. The next line,
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you would take off the last letter. The next line,
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you would take off the last letter. But knowing what
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I know in using NLP and hypnotherapy and bringing the
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whole mind, body, spirit, the Holy Trinity together, you have
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to bring everything online when you do this, right? You
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have to be all in, right? So when you're writing
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the word and you're like, okay, The inflammation in my
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neck is diminishing and saying that to yourself over and
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over and over and over again. Now, there is also
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a popular modern interpretation that I found of abracadabra. And
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that essentially means I create as I speak. And I
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love that too. So in my life, I'm going to
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be using abracadabra and people are going to think that
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I'm a weirdo, but it's okay. Because, you know, sometimes
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life is a playground and we get to play and
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I love abracadabra. So we're going to be using that
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in my everyday life. Abracadabra, I create as I speak.
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Because whether or not words magically rearrange matter, words absolutely
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influence what happens inside your body. How do I know?
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Because I've done this. I've put all of this to play.
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Everything that I teach, every radio show segment, every guest
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that I have on the show, I have invited them
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on because I have lived, breathed, walked, talked the lesson,
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and I'm very congruent. If it doesn't pan out, they're
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not coming on the show. If I haven't used it
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myself and made it tried and true, I'm not going
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to teach it to you. But this is tried and true.
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I create as I speak abracadabra, right? Think about this.
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Someone says, I love you. Nothing physically touched you, but
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your physiology changed. Think about this. Someone says, you're fired.
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Just two words. Then your heart changes. That heart rate changes.
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Then your breathing changes. Your attention changes. Your entire perception
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of tomorrow changes. changes in two words. You tell a
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child you're brilliant and that can become part of their identity.
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That tells a child they're worth it. They're more than it.
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They're more than they even believe that they are, right?
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And then what if someone tells a child you're stupid?
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Then that becomes their identity too. So don't tell me
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words aren't powerful. Words can create marriages. Words can end marriages.
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Words can declare war and negotiate peace and convict someone
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and acquit someone. This is all stuff I know. Words
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can dissolve companies. Words can inspire movements. Words can destroy reputations.
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Words can change human behavior. And when behavior changes, reality changes.
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And this is where the conversation about manifestation becomes very interesting.
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I wrote the book and the guide, Manifestation 101, right?
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Manifestation is more than wishing. I think manifestation gets watered
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down sometimes, right? People hear manifestation and imagine, I think
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I'll think about a Ferrari really hard and somehow it's
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going to appear in my driveway. No, that's not what
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I'm talking about. And let's bring manifestation down from the
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clouds and then into everyday life. Let's say two people
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want to start businesses. The first person says, Oh, nobody's
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going to buy this. And then the second person says,
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I don't know whether people will buy this yet, but
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I'm going to find out what they really need. Same market,
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same opportunity, completely different internal instructions. The first statement shuts
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down curiosity altogether. And the second statement creates a question.
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And the questions make the brain search. That's why when
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I have someone come into my coaching programs and I
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ask all the time, tell me more. Because their brain
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searches out where they made meaning of something, right? And
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I had a personal story in regards to brain searching
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this out. Recently, I had asked someone, they're like, I
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hate my forehead. And I'm like, well, when did you
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decide that? And they're like, last week. And I'm like, huh, okay,
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so you made a decision that you hate your forehead.
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I'm like, huh. tell me more. And once they told
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me more, I was able to reveal where they got
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their meaning and why they made meaning of that. So
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words are everything. Your mind responds to things differently. When
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you say I can't, then if you say something like,
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how can I, or how could I, It totally disrupts
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the way that you think because your brain goes out
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and searches for, I can't, how could I make this happen, right?
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So I'm a big believer of your thoughts creating your reality. Now,
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I'm not saying every circumstance in your life was created
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by your thoughts. Things happen that we don't choose. I
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get that, okay? I'm grounded enough to understand that. But
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other people have agency about their life and you have agency.
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about your life. And sometimes life contains randomness and sometimes
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life contains tragedy and circumstances, but your thoughts and language
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profoundly influence the reality you construct around those circumstances and
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what you do next. And I tell you, that's power.
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Like I teach people, don't just react. You need to respond.
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Take a moment and pause and slow down and see
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how you're going to respond to this. And it's all
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in how you make meaning of, how you make meaning
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of that circumstance. And when I talk about neuro-linguistic programming,
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one of the useful ideas within NLP is is paying
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close attention to the structure of language. Very close attention.
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And I see how things are strung together. All people
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strung together words to construct their sentences. So I listen
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beneath the surface. I listen to all of that. What
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did they say, right? Not simply what did they say,
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but I look at what did they say, but what
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assumptions is hidden underneath what you just said, right? Listen
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to someone's everyday statements. I always screw up. Always? Every
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single time? Or I'll never make enough money. Never? These
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are called universal quantifiers, right? When someone says always or
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never or nobody, right? You already travel into the future
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and you checked it out like nobody's going to respect
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you again. Nobody?
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Nobody?
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Looking at these universal quantifiers, always, never, nobody, I can't,
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I'm a failure, all of those, there's a difference between
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I failed and I am a failure. One describes an event,
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the other describes a person. That language creates identity. Once
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someone fails, understands their identity, people unconsciously start protecting it.
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So I would invite you to unravel that, right? I'm
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terrible with money. No. Okay. In the past, I haven't
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had the tools to be better with money, but I'm
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going to get better with money and I'm learning every day.
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We use the same language at our home. Like if
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we have a cold or we're not feeling well, we
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never say I'm sick. Those words never come out of
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our mouth, right? We say our cells are rejuvenating ourselves
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or I'm rapidly healing or I'm getting to, you know,
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my body is coming into complete health. We never say
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we're sick. Those never come out of our mouth. And
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most of the time I deny it anyway. They're like,
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are you sick? I'm like, oh no, it's just allergies, right?
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Because I know the words are creating my reality moment
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to moment to moment. I say, I can say, This
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is so hard. Or I can say, you know what?
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I'm learning and which each new tool in my toolbox,
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it's making it easier and easier as I go through this.
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Is it true? Or is it the language that I'm
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repeated so often that it feels true, right? If you say,
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I'm never good with money, is that true? Or is
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that a pattern that keeps playing out over in your
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life over and over again? That's not true, but you're
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saying that And then you make it true. So whatever
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you go out, and I've talked about this before, wherever
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you go out and you find evidence of your belief system, right?
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So changing that language from underneath, looking at how we
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construct language, how words create our reality is so, so important.
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language traps. This is going to get good.
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grow my impact. So before the break, I wanted to
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let you know that there were three language traps that
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we need to discuss. When you're looking at language, one
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is generalization, two is deletion, and three is distortion. Let
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me go into this a little bit. Be careful when
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you use these patterns when you talk, when you say
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everybody or nobody or always or never. Those are generalizations
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and they typically are not true. They take several experiences
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and turn them into one universal law. So challenge them.
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I never get opportunities. Really? Never? Right? Look for everybody, nobody, always, never.
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Those are tips. And buzzwords that make my ears go, okay,
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all right. They're just making some generalizations that don't have,
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you know, really strong backing on them. So I challenge
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them on that. The second language trap is deletion. This
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happens when important information disappears from the sentence. I don't
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feel good enough good enough for what I can't do
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it do what specifically they don't respect me who is
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they right being very specific vague language creates vague problems
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specific language creates something you can work with right So
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people delete stuff. I'm not good enough. And they, they
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make this huge thing. I'm not good enough for what,
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but you're not good enough at, you know, developing social
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media content. Well, you're not good enough at developing social
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media content. Okay, good. How can we get better? You know,
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can you take a YouTube school or something like that? Right.
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So they delete some of the information and then they
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think they're not good enough for everything. Right. And then
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there's distortion and NLP talks about that. That's why I
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would totally invite you guys, please take an NLP class.
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They should really bring this down in public school, right?
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teaching children the power of language. If these children knew
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how to use words correctly younger, I mean, my kids
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know because they're with me all the time, right? We
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don't say, don't forget, I love you because the subconscious
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mind makes that distortion and the don't forget makes your
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conscious mind forget. So you always say, remember, I love you.
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So using those correct words, and I got a better
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story than this, And I totally messed up. And I
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use NLP every day in my life and in my family,
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but I totally blew it. Yeah, last night. Was it
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last night or the night before? I can't remember. But anyway,
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my husband makes these chili beans that are out of
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this world. Like, Every stage, every layer of building these
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chili beans for us. He puts so much love and
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attention and he infuses it with love song and prayer
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and all this stuff. And then chili beans always come
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out amazing. But for me, they come out too spicy, right?
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So as we were going through the grocery market last night,
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I'm like, great, can you not make it too hot
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this time? And he starts laughing. I'm like, great, can
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you not make it too hot? this time? And he
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starts laughing again. And I thought what I was doing
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was the power of three, right? I was like, okay,
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can you not make it too hot this time? And
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he starts laughing. He goes, can you stop saying that?
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I'm like, okay, but can you not make it too
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hot this time? Well, after I was doing an audit
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on this, I totally messed up. Can you not make it?
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The knot gets distorted and deleted by the subconscious mind.
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And so his subconscious mind heard, make it hot. And
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guess what? He made those chili beans and they were hot.
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Because I didn't use the proper NLP language, like something like,
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I don't know, I know those chili beans are going
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to be the right spice, right? Or they're going to
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be just enough heat or something like that. But the
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word not, that negative word, the subconscious mind doesn't pick
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up on this. And when my son was little, he still,
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you know, we still use writing sentences as discipline in
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our house. So, but when he was little, I would
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have him write, I will not backtalk my parents. I
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will not backtalk my parents because it's disrespectful, right? So
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he wrote a hundred sentences of I will not backtalk
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and it got worse. Well, then after I got trained
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in NLP, what happened was I rearranged those sentences to
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have him write, I will respect my parents. And this
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was phenomenal because what happened was after he wrote those
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hundred sentences, he respected us more and he didn't talk back, right?
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I mean, think about this. When you see the kids
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out at the swimming hole for the summer, right? They
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go to the swimming pool. And the lifeguards are there
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and the lifeguard. So if you're a lifeguard and you're
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listening right now, this is a shout out to you.
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And you yell at the children, don't run. What happens?
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The children normally run or continue running, right? We need
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to tell children what we want them to do versus
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what we don't want them to do, right? So you
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should say, please use walking feet, right? And they're going
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to slow down and stop running. But when you say
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don't run, the don't does not get metabolized by the
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subconscious mind and their conscious mind only hears run. And
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that's why those children keep running and fall and slip
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their little head and hit their little heads, right? So
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in language, these language traps, these generalizations, these deletions, these
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distortions trap us and our subconscious mind. And so we
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can't construct our reality in the way that we want to.
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So I would invite you to do a little exercise, right?
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For the next seven days. So commit with me, because
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if you really do this and you really do the work,
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what you're going to see is like your whole life
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will start transforming just by the power of words, abracadabra, right?
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Do this for the next seven days. Listen to every
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sentence that begins with I am. Because whatever comes after
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those two words deserves love. examination. So if you say,
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I am exhausted, I am overwhelmed, I am broke, I'm
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always unlucky, always a universal quantifier, not always unlucky, right?
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It invites curiosity. I'm terrible at relationships. I'm bad at technology.
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I am too old. What's too old, right? The moment
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you start telling yourself, I am feeling young these days,
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and you tell yourself in the mirror over and over
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and over again, you're going to start feeling young. And
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I've put this into play. My family members, my clients
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have put this into play, and they're like, wow, there's
522
00:35:57.079 --> 00:35:59.659
something to that. Yeah, there is something to that, to
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00:35:59.699 --> 00:36:05.019
the power of the words are important. Language opens the mind.
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There are seven substitutes I want to experiment with you, right?
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Instead of I can't, say, How could I? Instead of
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I have to, say I get to, right? I hear
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a lot of people say I have to go to
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work in the morning. No, you get to go to work.
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There are so many people who want to work who
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can't find a job or are disabled and they can't
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work anymore and wish that they could. If you just
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change your language around and say I get to go
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to work today, that feels good in my body, right?
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It's a whole... visceral feeling when I say, oh, I
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get to help someone publish a book today instead of
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I have to, right? No, I get to. I have
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the skills. I know how to do it. I get
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to help someone get their voice out into the community, right?
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Instead of I failed, say, well, I received some information, right?
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That always happens to me. Ask, what pattern am I
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participating in? Instead of I don't know, say, I don't
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know yet. Right? One little word changes the entire sentence.
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I don't know yet. Instead of what if it goes wrong,
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ask what if it works? And one of my favorites,
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instead of why is this happening to me? Try what
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can I do with what is happening? What can I
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00:37:36.570 --> 00:37:39.690
do with what's happening? Or I even change it more
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00:37:39.769 --> 00:37:43.730
so to nothing is happening to me. This is happening
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00:37:43.969 --> 00:37:47.769
for me. What is this information trying to teach me?
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00:37:47.869 --> 00:37:52.679
And then everything becomes a coach, right? Everything. I say,
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thank you, coach. If I get angry, Thank you, coach,
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because it's coaching me on how to behave and what
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00:37:59.980 --> 00:38:03.329
triggers me. If you're triggered in any way, it's you, buddy.
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It's you, right? You're like, I'm triggered. That's something you
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got to work on. That's not the other person's fault.
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Everything comes back to you. Everything comes back to home,
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especially these words, right? The spoken words are huge. And
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I want to give you another exercise. I'm just going
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to invite you into these things because it's so important.
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Let's just make this simple for everybody. In the next
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24 hours, become an observer of your own language. Don't
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judge yourself. Just listen. You can listen to your internal thoughts.
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You can listen to your spoken word. Every time you
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hear yourself say, I can't, or I'm terrible at it,
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or I'll never, or nobody, everybody, always, I hate, I'm afraid,
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I'm overwhelmed, all those, Write it down. And at the
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end of the day, look at the list and ask,
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if somebody talked to me all day the way that
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I talk to myself, would I want that person around me? Right?
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One of the things I learned early on, I think
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I was about 18, and someone taught me this. They said, Tisha,
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you're the only person that you're going to spend the
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rest of your life with. And I thought, huh, you're right.
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So I became my own best friend, right? And I
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listened to that internal compass, that internal language going on
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in my head. How am I going to talk to him? today?
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Right?
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I hate myself, or I don't look as pretty as
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I think I should, or You know, my hair needs
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to be more blonde or whatever, right? No, no, no.
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I'm like, I am doing the best I can with
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what I have right now today. And I pat myself
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on the back. It's funny because I'm laughing right now
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because I do this. I do this because I'm the
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only one that I'm going to spend the rest of
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my life with. I want to be my own best friend, right?
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And there's times, yes, I enjoy my family. Yes, I
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enjoy hanging out. But there's times when I'm alone. I'm
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00:40:05.739 --> 00:40:09.110
partying with myself, right? I'm writing in my little journal.
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I got my hype song on, right? My power anthem.
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I'm going to town. I'm elevated. I'm like, how can
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I save the planet? How can I save the world?
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How can I elevate humanity? How can I start another business?
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What does the community need, right? We just opened up
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Cane Arcane in Las Vegas, right? So we're in California
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and now Nevada, right? And Cane Arcane is a paranormal
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intelligent agency. And just looking at the words people are
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saying when they're calling us, like, oh my gosh, I'm
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so scared. I'm always going to be scared in this house. No, okay,
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let's look at everything, right? And we get to dive
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in with them and do some investigation and give them peace.
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That's what I want to do. I just want to
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impact lives and give people peace because it's like their
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language is creating peace. They're reality. Look at your language
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and audit yourself, right? I will never figure this out.
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And then you're going to say, I haven't figured it
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out yet. Here's what I know. I'm really smart. And
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I know I study a lot and I just read
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a lot. And I know the more that I read
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and the more that I study, I'm going to figure
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this out. I don't know what it looks like on
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the end. You know, don't be tied to the outcome, right? No,
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I don't know how we're going to get there. I
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don't know. When I opened up the office in Las Vegas,
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I'm like, I don't know how that's going to look.
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Right.
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But I'm just like, OK, let's take a little itty
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bitty baby steps forward. I don't know what the heck
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is the next step, but I know I'm going to
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be in flow state. I'm going to go out. I'm
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going to look for offices. I'm going to see what's there.
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I'm going to maybe ask the pizza man what neighborhoods
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are good, you know, and then what was the next
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best step? Not like I'm not I'm not going to
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find the best office for me.
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No, no.
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I'm going to take the next best step that's right
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for me using the right language to consciously construct my reality.
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I get to impact lives. I get to go to work, right?
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And it's so great. If you ever say, I don't
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have the opportunity, change that around to what opportunity can
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I create for myself? Have you guys ever heard of
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Price Pritchett? He's like a well-known... consultant, and he wrote
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a book called Lucky You. And the book is like,
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I got through it in like 45 minutes. I am
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00:42:34.579 --> 00:42:37.760
a speed reader, but okay, so an hour and a half, right?
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You can read this little tiny book that's less than
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probably 50 pages. And what he says is engineer luck
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into your life. Well, you cannot engineer luck into your
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life if you're sitting at home and you're never getting
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out into the community and talking to people, right? I mean,
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I am so... strategic with my time and my effort
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and having my mission so clear. It's written on my
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bathroom mirror. I am here to raise the planet's vibration
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and impact lives in a positive way. How do I
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do that today? I don't do that by sitting in
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my house or at my office and no going out
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into the community. So I go out and do community
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service and The other morning, we were picking up trash
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around the local coffee shop, and I made friends there
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and gave them my business card. I was engineering luck
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into my life, right? Hey, there isn't anything I don't
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do well. And if you need someone for legal or
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publishing a book or change your mindset, I do it all.
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Check out my website. I'd love to connect with you.
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And I didn't know how my office was going to
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take off in Las Vegas. I didn't know if it
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was going to be profitable, but I just, you know, said,
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I give this to God and whatever God means to you, right?
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Our family prays to Gus, God, universe, and spirit, right?
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We just call them all three, the Holy Trinity. And God, Gus,
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I don't know how this is all going to work out,
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but I just know that if I put my best
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foot forward each and every day, I'm going to make
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positive change and I can affect change.
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Right.
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Someone said the other day on social media. How the
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heck can we get change when our leadership's not making
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the right change? And I'm like, huh? I was like,
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I didn't comment because I didn't want to engage. I
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do not engage.
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Right.
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Do not engage. So I was just like looking at that.
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But what I did was in my mind, I went
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down through the mind tree and I'm like, huh? My
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internal belief are the leaders haven't done the right thing
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for a long time. What makes me think they're going
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to do the right thing now, right? So how can
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I affect change at the lower level? Can I pick
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up garbage around my local coffee shop? You bet. Can
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I take my neighbor some pot of these chili beans
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that my husband made? He made of that of them, right?
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He can probably feed the whole neighborhood. And I know
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my neighbor could use a bowl of chili beans, right?
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Can I affect change? Can I engineer luck into my life?
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You bet I can. And it's that belief system that
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I keep telling myself over and over and over again.
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Can I, will I, what's, what's next? And life's a playground.
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I even saw someone today, her language was like this. Um,
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I've been following this creator on YouTube for a long,
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long time. And I just noticed, and I have to
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change my voice because this is so funny to tell
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you that both sides of the pendulum, right? So here's
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my change voice. This is the lady today on social media.
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She goes, uh, I've been following this YouTuber for a long,
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long time. And I just noticed today that he's using
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artificial intelligence to bring out his graphics. And because of that,
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I'm unfollowing him. And I was like, huh, do not engage,
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do not engage. I didn't. I was just like, huh,
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I just met that with curiosity. I'm like, wow. Because
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I know for me and what my truth is, and
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we all get to have our own truths. That's so beautiful, right?
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When I had a mentor, when I was doing art,
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I knew I wanted to be a published artist and
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I wanted to get my art out into the world.
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And so I hired this mentor up in Canada because
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I couldn't find anybody here in America that could help me.
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And maybe I didn't look good enough. I don't know.
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But I found this mentor up in Canada and I
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was telling her about where I was and where I
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wanted to go with my art. And she goes, oh,
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she goes, Tisha, I hope you know there's no rules
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in art. And I said, what? Because you know what
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she had us do? She had us use the graphite
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paper and sketch out a bird onto the canvas using
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the graphite paper so that I could have a traceable
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line to be able to color within the lines on
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the canvas. And I looked at my mentor and I said,
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I never thought about doing something like that. And she said, no.
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And I said, no. She goes, well, the The graphite
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paper is at the local art store for a reason.
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And I said, yes, you're right. And she said, there
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are no rules in art. So when I looked at
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this lady who was bashing on this YouTuber for using
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artificial intelligence, I did not engage because It don't matter.
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At the end of the day, nothing really matters, but
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what you make matter. Nothing, let me say that again.
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Nothing really matters except what you make matter, right? And
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it didn't really matter, but I just thought, huh, I
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met it with curiosity. And I thought she's unfollowing this
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YouTuber because this YouTuber was using AI. And I looked
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at the thumbnail picture of the guy's video or whatever. Wow,
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I thought, huh, that was one of the most beautiful
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pictures I had seen today. And it was so graphically perfect.
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And I thought, huh, wow, that's beautiful. And that's art.
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But she wanted to bag on him because he was
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using AI. And I thought, my mentor taught me that
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there's no rules in art. And AI is art, according
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to my belief. Now you may have a different belief
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and I meet you at there and maybe you can't
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meet me at that right now. I get it. But
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I'm just asking you to be open. Abracadabra. We get
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to create our reality.
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Right?
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That historical meaning is mysterious. But what I know is
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I create as I speak. And every day I ask myself, okay,
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am I physically fit?
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Yes.
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Am I mentally fit?
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Yes.
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Am I financially fit?
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Yes.
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Am I spiritually fit?
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Yes.
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And each one of those buckets, if I'm not, then
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that's where I need to go to work. I'm like, okay,
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I should be, you know, and Tony Robbins teaches this.
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He's got the wheel. of life, right? And you want
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to be on a big, well-oiled wheel. And if one
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part of the wheel, if you're not spiritually fit or
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mentally fit or physically fit, right? If you're not doing
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what you need to be doing, you need to be
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doing what you need to be doing. Because I tell
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you right now, I can look at someone or I
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can talk to someone and really gauge at where they
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are in their relation to life, in their relationship to
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other people, right? And I just want to help, right?
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I'm just here to help on a larger scale. And
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that's why I have this radio segment, Beyond Mindset Limits.
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I want to take you guys online. beyond the mind,
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beyond limits. Think outside of the box. The moment you
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put yourself in a box, in a box of religion,
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in a box of public school, in a box of government,
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in a box of medicine, all of these are boxes.
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And think with inside the box, you're really limiting yourself.
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And some people need that limitation to feel safe. So
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I can meet you at your truth, right? But Tisha
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Marie Kane style, I'm coming to Planet Life School to play, right?
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Now I've done the trenches. I was there in the anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame,
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not good enough for a long time. That's why I
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have the credibility to be able to speak today because
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I have the texture of life, right? If you've ever
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heard about the book, The Kabbalion, they say that if
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you hear about The Kabbalion, The book is, you're ready.
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So if you're listening to the segment today and you
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remember that word and you remember that book, then you're
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ready for the next step. You're ready. But if you
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don't remember it, you're not ready. And that's okay, right?
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I'll meet you at your truth. But in the book,
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the Kabbalion, they say they're the hermetic principles and that
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there's a pendulum. However far left the pendulum swings on anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame,
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I'm not good enough. the pendulum must swing the same
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exact way to the right. And it's got to be equal, equal.
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So when I went down into the trenches of anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame,
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not good enough. And I stayed there for you guys.
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It was like six years. It was disgusting that finally
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I pulled myself out and now I'm on the other side.
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happiness and bliss and peace and joy. And I'm creating
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that abracadabra with my words. So I invite you to
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listen to yourself this week. How are you talking to yourself?
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What words are you using? These are instructions to your
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body and to your brain. Listen. Listen to what you
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say about money. Listen to what you say about your business.
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Listen to what you say about your mind. I invite
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you to do these things that words create your reality.
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So choose your words accordingly. And if this conversation activated
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something inside of you, reach out to me. Go to
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my website, schedule an appointment, and we're going to come
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back here next week for another segment of Beyond Mindset
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Limits with Tisha Marie Cain. So I'm happy you guys
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are here today. And I want to leave you with this.
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Abra Kadabra. Bye, guys.
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Thank you for joining Tisha Marie Kane for Beyond Mindset Limits.
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Tune in every Wednesday at 4 p.m. as the conversation
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continues around mindset, legal insight, and publishing as a strategic
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tool for business positioning. Visit TishaMarieCain.com or CainsLegalSupport.com for more
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information or to schedule your private appointment.
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Welcome to Beyond Mindset Limits with Tisha Marie Kane. Here,
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we explore how unlocking your mindset can pave the way
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for unlimited success. Discover how to create opportunities through legal
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challenges and transform your business and life with effective public
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relations strategies. Get ready to elevate your journey and maximize
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your potential. Now, let's welcome your host, Tisha Marie Kane.
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Oh my goodness, you guys, we are back for another
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week of Beyond Mindset Limits. I am so excited to
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be here. I'm so excited that I have this platform
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to be able to educate you and share my voice.
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And it's all beautiful and perfect. And let me tell
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you who I am. My name is Tisha Marie Kane.
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I'm your host tonight. I am an executive counsel. I
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am an expert mediator and communicator. I'm a breakthrough mindset coach.
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a clinical hypnotherapist, and I am a multiple number one
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best-selling international author and artist. I'm recognized for my work
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all around the world, helping Fortune 500 executives, visionary leaders,
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and high-performing entrepreneurs, and I guide them to unlock their influence,
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align with their purpose, and create lasting impact. I have
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a unique blend of legal expertise, leadership strategy, and transformational coaching.
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I help individuals and organizations alike rewire their subconscious mind,
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release emotional weight, and elevate their relationship with money, power
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and self-worth and to sum that all up I'm a
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unicorn there is nothing I don't do well and I
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used to bag on myself in the past like you
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know I'm a Jane of all trades and I'm a
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master of none but actually I've mastered a whole lot
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of things so I can't use that anymore but there
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isn't anything I don't do well and my mission my
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mission here on planet earth is to grow my impact
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to continue to have that ripple effect out into the universe,
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out into the planet, that I just transform and change
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people's lives. And that can start small, or it could
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be big, or it could be somewhere in between. But
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it's like, I believe those little microcosms every single day
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where you just say, hey, thank you for holding that
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door for me. Or, hey, thank you for paying it forward.
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Those little things that help make someone's day a little
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bit better. So That's my mission. I want to grow
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my impact. I want to teach. I'm a teacher. I'm
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a preacher. I'm all the things. I laugh at myself
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so much because I really came to Planet Life School
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to learn, right? Learn who I am, learn how I
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behave in this world, how I respond, how I act.
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And I saw a meme the other day that says,
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never underestimate a person who practices self-education in their free time.
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And that's me. I'm always learning something new. I am
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excited to be on Planet Life School. So it's really,
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really fun. And today we're going to be talking about
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the power of the spoken word. And I've talked about
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this ad nauseum because I really believe I'm an NLP practitioner.
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If you don't know what NLP is, it's neuro-linguistic programming.
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And If you've never heard about this, I would invite
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you to find the best NLP course and take one
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because it will transform your whole entire life. Once I
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started using words to my benefit, my whole life just
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opened up. Your words do not simply describe your experience.
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They help you direct your attention and they shape your
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internal state. They influence your behavior and affect what happens next.
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And I really believe that because I could do, that's
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why I love doing, when someone comes into my coaching sessions,
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I love doing like a free discovery call. Because in
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that 15 minutes, I could really gauge where a person
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is mentally, physically, financially, emotionally, all the things. I can
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gauge where they are by the language that they use.
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And I just had a client, what's today, Wednesday on Monday,
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sign up for a 90 minute coaching session with me,
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which is so fantastic because you get to swim in
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my energy for 90 minutes. We do hypnotherapy because that's
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one of my favorite modalities. And some people are scared
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about hypnotherapy. So if you're scared, please do your research.
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All it is, it's a self-induced, relaxed, trans-like state. If
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you're traveling on the roadway right now and you go
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from point A to point B and then you get
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to point B and you're like, how did I get here?
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And you don't really remember all the twists and turns.
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That's hypnotherapy, right? So she invested in me on Monday
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and I gave her some homework things to do before
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our session this weekend. And I said, OK, cool. You're
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going to get 90 minutes with me and then I'm
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going to give you two integration calls one week each
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back to back. And so before the coaching begins, we
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did a, a gauge on where she was. And do
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you know, she said, she said, I said, what's the
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biggest presenting problem that you're having when you come to me? Like,
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why do you want to hire me as your mentor,
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your coach? Why, why me? And she goes, well, you know,
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I've seen, I've seen the work that you've done and
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I know your energy can transform my life. And I
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am becoming the, what did she say? Something like this.
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I am becoming the person I used to hate. And
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I'm like, what does that mean really? And she goes, well,
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I just recently got this job. I'm the general manager.
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I'm making a ton of money. And I used to
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look at rich people as though they were filthy rich.
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And now I'm becoming that person. I used to hate
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rich people and now I'm making so much money. that
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it's not congruent, it's not lining up. And I'm like, ah, perfect.
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You know, the angels were singing and I could really
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gauge where she was and how she needs to fix
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her relationship with money. And so I gave her some go-tos, right?
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I'm not gonna give it all away today because that's
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why you need to come back and swim in my energy.
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But I just got on this call and I received
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this text message from her. And she said this, I'm
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gonna read it to you because this is real life stuff.
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And I said, have you been doing what I invited
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you to do before our coaching session? And she says, yes, daily.
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I said, great. And I said, tell me what you've noticed.
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And she said, it's weird how things have already changed
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just by thinking about all of this stuff and having
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all of this stuff come up. And I said, yeah, right.
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This is perfect. And I said, you know, I coach
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people at the highest levels and I'm giving you that
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highest level of me. And I want you to continue
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to notice. And so she continued to notice. And then
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she texted me again today and she said, I made $ 14, 000
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just today, right? And I opened up this segment about
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the power of words and NLP and using words and
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creating your reality. And just with the little homework items,
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I haven't even mentored this lady yet. I haven't even
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coached her. We haven't even done hypnotherapy yet. And just
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having her aware of the words that she uses and
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the behaviors that's happening, she has gotten a 320% return
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on her investment with me. Like, let that land. Her
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ROI is.
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Her investing in herself through me, she's already got 320%
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return just by being aware of the words. And I
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gave her some other things to do too. She's already
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seen the return. So she is really excited to have
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her coaching session and her hypnotherapy session today or this weekend.
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But talking to me today has really enlightened her. And
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so that's what I want to talk about today is
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the power of of the spoken word, you guys, how
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language shapes your mind, your behavior, and the reality that
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you experience, okay? So welcome to the show. This is
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Beyond Mindset Limits. I'm your host, Tish Marie Cain. And
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this is something that we've been using ever since we
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were children, right? It's words, the words you speak. The
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words you speak to other people, the words you speak
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to other people about other people, the words that you
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speak about money, right? Like what's your relationship with money?
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And just, I would invite you to like audio process.
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You get a journal and say, and write all of
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these things out about yourself and who you are and
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just write it all out. Don't think about it because
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that's your subconscious mind. That's your true belief system. coming
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out from your subconscious mind, getting it on paper, and
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then you can see like, what? Right? So words you
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speak are so important. They reveal how you feel about
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your marriage, your children, your health, your business, how you
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feel about your future, and maybe most importantly, the words
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you speak about yourself. And I always like to map
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things across to scripture. You know, and not to be
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all preachy, although I'm a preacher and I have 14
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holy books in my house from the Quran to the
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Bible to what's this other one? The Jewish literacy. I
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read them all, right? This is so fascinating. But scripture
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in Proverbs, it says, Death and life are the power
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of the tongue. Death and life are in the power
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of the tongue. Think about the magnitude of that statement.
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It doesn't say words are meaningless. It says words are important.
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And it says there is power in the tongue. And
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whether you approach that spiritually, psychology, or through the lens
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of communication or through the lens of NLP, There's something
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worth examining here, right? Because your language becomes part of
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your internal environment. Say something once and it becomes a comment.
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Say it repeatedly and then it becomes a pattern. Repeat
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that pattern long enough and it becomes a belief, a
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limiting belief at that. So that's what I am trained.
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Like I listen. That's why I am a expert mediator
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and an expert communicator because I am trained to listen
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to the words underneath the surface. And I'm like, woo, okay,
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I can see what's congruent and what's not congruent. And
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just by the words that you use tells me a
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lot about you, right? And I'm naturally a quick, fast,
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quick-witted person. And when I speak, it all comes out.
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So when I was learning NLP and the effects on
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how words influenced my life, I had to take a
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moment and pause and slow down and strategically use the
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right words in the sentence to mean what I say
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and say what I mean. Because there were a lot
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of times because I was speaking so fast that I
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would say things that I didn't mean. I'm like, wait
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a minute. And now I just do a quick audit.
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And I'm like, no, no, no, no. I didn't mean that.
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Let me fix that, right? And this is what I
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really mean. So I had to slow down. And so
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that's what I encourage you to do also is just
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to slow down and see the words that you use, right? Today,
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we're going beneath the surface of language. And we're going
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to start with one of the most famous magical words
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in history, Abra Kadabra. Do you guys even know what
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that means? I had to, I love words and I'm
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a word nerd. And I had to go back to
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the etymology of the word. What is Abra Kadabra and
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why do we use it? Right? We associated it with
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magicians pulling rabbits out of hats, but the word is
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much more than a modern stage of magic. It, Its
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precise origin, what I found, it's uncertain, but it appears
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in ancient writings associated with healing and protection. Did you
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guys know that? Like abracadabra is associated with healing and protection.
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And so what they did back in ancient writings is
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it was written down repeatedly. They would write the word
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abracadabra down. And when they would write it down, they
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would remove letters line by line until the word disappeared.
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So they would write A-B-R-A-C-A-D-A-B-R-A. And the next line, they
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would take off the last letter A. And the next line,
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the last letter R. And it would disappear as you
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went down line by line. And so that symbolism to
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me was fascinating and I wanted to know more. I
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wanted to dive deep and understand abracadabra, right? As the
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words diminished, the unwanted condition was supposed to diminish too.
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So if you had inflammation in your neck, you would
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write abracadabra and you would keep writing it. The next line,
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you would take off the last letter. The next line,
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you would take off the last letter. But knowing what
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I know in using NLP and hypnotherapy and bringing the
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whole mind, body, spirit, the Holy Trinity together, you have
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to bring everything online when you do this, right? You
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have to be all in, right? So when you're writing
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the word and you're like, okay, The inflammation in my
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neck is diminishing and saying that to yourself over and
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over and over and over again. Now, there is also
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a popular modern interpretation that I found of abracadabra. And
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that essentially means I create as I speak. And I
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love that too. So in my life, I'm going to
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be using abracadabra and people are going to think that
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I'm a weirdo, but it's okay. Because, you know, sometimes
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life is a playground and we get to play and
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I love abracadabra. So we're going to be using that
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in my everyday life. Abracadabra, I create as I speak.
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Because whether or not words magically rearrange matter, words absolutely
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influence what happens inside your body. How do I know?
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Because I've done this. I've put all of this to play.
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Everything that I teach, every radio show segment, every guest
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that I have on the show, I have invited them
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on because I have lived, breathed, walked, talked the lesson,
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and I'm very congruent. If it doesn't pan out, they're
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not coming on the show. If I haven't used it
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myself and made it tried and true, I'm not going
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to teach it to you. But this is tried and true.
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I create as I speak abracadabra, right? Think about this.
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Someone says, I love you. Nothing physically touched you, but
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your physiology changed. Think about this. Someone says, you're fired.
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Just two words. Then your heart changes. That heart rate changes.
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Then your breathing changes. Your attention changes. Your entire perception
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of tomorrow changes. changes in two words. You tell a
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child you're brilliant and that can become part of their identity.
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That tells a child they're worth it. They're more than it.
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They're more than they even believe that they are, right?
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And then what if someone tells a child you're stupid?
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Then that becomes their identity too. So don't tell me
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words aren't powerful. Words can create marriages. Words can end marriages.
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Words can declare war and negotiate peace and convict someone
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and acquit someone. This is all stuff I know. Words
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can dissolve companies. Words can inspire movements. Words can destroy reputations.
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Words can change human behavior. And when behavior changes, reality changes.
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And this is where the conversation about manifestation becomes very interesting.
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I wrote the book and the guide, Manifestation 101, right?
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Manifestation is more than wishing. I think manifestation gets watered
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down sometimes, right? People hear manifestation and imagine, I think
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I'll think about a Ferrari really hard and somehow it's
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going to appear in my driveway. No, that's not what
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I'm talking about. And let's bring manifestation down from the
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clouds and then into everyday life. Let's say two people
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want to start businesses. The first person says, Oh, nobody's
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going to buy this. And then the second person says,
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I don't know whether people will buy this yet, but
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I'm going to find out what they really need. Same market,
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same opportunity, completely different internal instructions. The first statement shuts
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down curiosity altogether. And the second statement creates a question.
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And the questions make the brain search. That's why when
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I have someone come into my coaching programs and I
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ask all the time, tell me more. Because their brain
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searches out where they made meaning of something, right? And
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I had a personal story in regards to brain searching
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this out. Recently, I had asked someone, they're like, I
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hate my forehead. And I'm like, well, when did you
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decide that? And they're like, last week. And I'm like, huh, okay,
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so you made a decision that you hate your forehead.
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I'm like, huh. tell me more. And once they told
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me more, I was able to reveal where they got
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their meaning and why they made meaning of that. So
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words are everything. Your mind responds to things differently. When
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you say I can't, then if you say something like,
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how can I, or how could I, It totally disrupts
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the way that you think because your brain goes out
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and searches for, I can't, how could I make this happen, right?
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So I'm a big believer of your thoughts creating your reality. Now,
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I'm not saying every circumstance in your life was created
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by your thoughts. Things happen that we don't choose. I
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get that, okay? I'm grounded enough to understand that. But
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other people have agency about their life and you have agency.
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about your life. And sometimes life contains randomness and sometimes
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life contains tragedy and circumstances, but your thoughts and language
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profoundly influence the reality you construct around those circumstances and
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what you do next. And I tell you, that's power.
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Like I teach people, don't just react. You need to respond.
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Take a moment and pause and slow down and see
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how you're going to respond to this. And it's all
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in how you make meaning of, how you make meaning
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of that circumstance. And when I talk about neuro-linguistic programming,
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one of the useful ideas within NLP is is paying
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close attention to the structure of language. Very close attention.
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And I see how things are strung together. All people
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strung together words to construct their sentences. So I listen
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beneath the surface. I listen to all of that. What
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did they say, right? Not simply what did they say,
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but I look at what did they say, but what
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assumptions is hidden underneath what you just said, right? Listen
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to someone's everyday statements. I always screw up. Always? Every
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single time? Or I'll never make enough money. Never? These
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are called universal quantifiers, right? When someone says always or
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never or nobody, right? You already travel into the future
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and you checked it out like nobody's going to respect
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you again. Nobody?
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Nobody?
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Looking at these universal quantifiers, always, never, nobody, I can't,
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I'm a failure, all of those, there's a difference between
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I failed and I am a failure. One describes an event,
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the other describes a person. That language creates identity. Once
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someone fails, understands their identity, people unconsciously start protecting it.
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So I would invite you to unravel that, right? I'm
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terrible with money. No. Okay. In the past, I haven't
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had the tools to be better with money, but I'm
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going to get better with money and I'm learning every day.
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We use the same language at our home. Like if
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we have a cold or we're not feeling well, we
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never say I'm sick. Those words never come out of
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our mouth, right? We say our cells are rejuvenating ourselves
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or I'm rapidly healing or I'm getting to, you know,
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my body is coming into complete health. We never say
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we're sick. Those never come out of our mouth. And
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most of the time I deny it anyway. They're like,
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are you sick? I'm like, oh no, it's just allergies, right?
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Because I know the words are creating my reality moment
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to moment to moment. I say, I can say, This
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is so hard. Or I can say, you know what?
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I'm learning and which each new tool in my toolbox,
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it's making it easier and easier as I go through this.
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Is it true? Or is it the language that I'm
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repeated so often that it feels true, right? If you say,
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I'm never good with money, is that true? Or is
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that a pattern that keeps playing out over in your
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life over and over again? That's not true, but you're
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saying that And then you make it true. So whatever
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you go out, and I've talked about this before, wherever
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you go out and you find evidence of your belief system, right?
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construct language, how words create our reality is so, so important.
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We investigate. And we are back with Beyond Mindset Limits.
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I am your host, Tisha Marie Kane. You can find
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our help to get her story out. We are so
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excited about that. And I loved reading her manuscript because
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today's show is about abracadabra and putting words into play.
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And her manuscript was so cute and so refreshing. And
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these little children are just going to love her book
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when this gets published. And I'm just so excited to
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grow my impact. So before the break, I wanted to
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let you know that there were three language traps that
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we need to discuss. When you're looking at language, one
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is generalization, two is deletion, and three is distortion. Let
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me go into this a little bit. Be careful when
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you use these patterns when you talk, when you say
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everybody or nobody or always or never. Those are generalizations
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and they typically are not true. They take several experiences
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and turn them into one universal law. So challenge them.
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I never get opportunities. Really? Never? Right? Look for everybody, nobody, always, never.
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Those are tips. And buzzwords that make my ears go, okay,
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all right. They're just making some generalizations that don't have,
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you know, really strong backing on them. So I challenge
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them on that. The second language trap is deletion. This
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happens when important information disappears from the sentence. I don't
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feel good enough good enough for what I can't do
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it do what specifically they don't respect me who is
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they right being very specific vague language creates vague problems
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specific language creates something you can work with right So
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people delete stuff. I'm not good enough. And they, they
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make this huge thing. I'm not good enough for what,
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but you're not good enough at, you know, developing social
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media content. Well, you're not good enough at developing social
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media content. Okay, good. How can we get better? You know,
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can you take a YouTube school or something like that? Right.
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So they delete some of the information and then they
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think they're not good enough for everything. Right. And then
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there's distortion and NLP talks about that. That's why I
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would totally invite you guys, please take an NLP class.
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They should really bring this down in public school, right?
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teaching children the power of language. If these children knew
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how to use words correctly younger, I mean, my kids
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know because they're with me all the time, right? We
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don't say, don't forget, I love you because the subconscious
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mind makes that distortion and the don't forget makes your
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conscious mind forget. So you always say, remember, I love you.
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So using those correct words, and I got a better
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story than this, And I totally messed up. And I
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use NLP every day in my life and in my family,
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but I totally blew it. Yeah, last night. Was it
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last night or the night before? I can't remember. But anyway,
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my husband makes these chili beans that are out of
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this world. Like, Every stage, every layer of building these
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chili beans for us. He puts so much love and
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attention and he infuses it with love song and prayer
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and all this stuff. And then chili beans always come
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out amazing. But for me, they come out too spicy, right?
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So as we were going through the grocery market last night,
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I'm like, great, can you not make it too hot
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this time? And he starts laughing. I'm like, great, can
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you not make it too hot? this time? And he
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starts laughing again. And I thought what I was doing
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was the power of three, right? I was like, okay,
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can you not make it too hot this time? And
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he starts laughing. He goes, can you stop saying that?
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I'm like, okay, but can you not make it too
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hot this time? Well, after I was doing an audit
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on this, I totally messed up. Can you not make it?
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The knot gets distorted and deleted by the subconscious mind.
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And so his subconscious mind heard, make it hot. And
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guess what? He made those chili beans and they were hot.
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Because I didn't use the proper NLP language, like something like,
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I don't know, I know those chili beans are going
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to be the right spice, right? Or they're going to
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be just enough heat or something like that. But the
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word not, that negative word, the subconscious mind doesn't pick
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up on this. And when my son was little, he still,
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you know, we still use writing sentences as discipline in
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our house. So, but when he was little, I would
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have him write, I will not backtalk my parents. I
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will not backtalk my parents because it's disrespectful, right? So
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he wrote a hundred sentences of I will not backtalk
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and it got worse. Well, then after I got trained
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in NLP, what happened was I rearranged those sentences to
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have him write, I will respect my parents. And this
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was phenomenal because what happened was after he wrote those
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hundred sentences, he respected us more and he didn't talk back, right?
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I mean, think about this. When you see the kids
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out at the swimming hole for the summer, right? They
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go to the swimming pool. And the lifeguards are there
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and the lifeguard. So if you're a lifeguard and you're
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listening right now, this is a shout out to you.
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And you yell at the children, don't run. What happens?
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The children normally run or continue running, right? We need
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to tell children what we want them to do versus
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what we don't want them to do, right? So you
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should say, please use walking feet, right? And they're going
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to slow down and stop running. But when you say
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don't run, the don't does not get metabolized by the
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subconscious mind and their conscious mind only hears run. And
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that's why those children keep running and fall and slip
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their little head and hit their little heads, right? So
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in language, these language traps, these generalizations, these deletions, these
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distortions trap us and our subconscious mind. And so we
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can't construct our reality in the way that we want to.
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So I would invite you to do a little exercise, right?
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For the next seven days. So commit with me, because
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if you really do this and you really do the work,
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what you're going to see is like your whole life
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will start transforming just by the power of words, abracadabra, right?
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Do this for the next seven days. Listen to every
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sentence that begins with I am. Because whatever comes after
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those two words deserves love. examination. So if you say,
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I am exhausted, I am overwhelmed, I am broke, I'm
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always unlucky, always a universal quantifier, not always unlucky, right?
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It invites curiosity. I'm terrible at relationships. I'm bad at technology.
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I am too old. What's too old, right? The moment
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you start telling yourself, I am feeling young these days,
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and you tell yourself in the mirror over and over
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and over again, you're going to start feeling young. And
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I've put this into play. My family members, my clients
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have put this into play, and they're like, wow, there's
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something to that. Yeah, there is something to that, to
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the power of the words are important. Language opens the mind.
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There are seven substitutes I want to experiment with you, right?
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Instead of I can't, say, How could I? Instead of
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I have to, say I get to, right? I hear
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a lot of people say I have to go to
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work in the morning. No, you get to go to work.
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There are so many people who want to work who
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can't find a job or are disabled and they can't
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work anymore and wish that they could. If you just
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change your language around and say I get to go
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to work today, that feels good in my body, right?
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It's a whole... visceral feeling when I say, oh, I
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get to help someone publish a book today instead of
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I have to, right? No, I get to. I have
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the skills. I know how to do it. I get
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to help someone get their voice out into the community, right?
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Instead of I failed, say, well, I received some information, right?
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That always happens to me. Ask, what pattern am I
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participating in? Instead of I don't know, say, I don't
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know yet. Right? One little word changes the entire sentence.
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I don't know yet. Instead of what if it goes wrong,
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ask what if it works? And one of my favorites,
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instead of why is this happening to me? Try what
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can I do with what is happening? What can I
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do with what's happening? Or I even change it more
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so to nothing is happening to me. This is happening
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for me. What is this information trying to teach me?
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And then everything becomes a coach, right? Everything. I say,
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thank you, coach. If I get angry, Thank you, coach,
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because it's coaching me on how to behave and what
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triggers me. If you're triggered in any way, it's you, buddy.
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It's you, right? You're like, I'm triggered. That's something you
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got to work on. That's not the other person's fault.
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Everything comes back to you. Everything comes back to home,
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especially these words, right? The spoken words are huge. And
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I want to give you another exercise. I'm just going
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to invite you into these things because it's so important.
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Let's just make this simple for everybody. In the next
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24 hours, become an observer of your own language. Don't
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judge yourself. Just listen. You can listen to your internal thoughts.
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You can listen to your spoken word. Every time you
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hear yourself say, I can't, or I'm terrible at it,
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or I'll never, or nobody, everybody, always, I hate, I'm afraid,
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I'm overwhelmed, all those, Write it down. And at the
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end of the day, look at the list and ask,
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if somebody talked to me all day the way that
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I talk to myself, would I want that person around me? Right?
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One of the things I learned early on, I think
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I was about 18, and someone taught me this. They said, Tisha,
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you're the only person that you're going to spend the
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rest of your life with. And I thought, huh, you're right.
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So I became my own best friend, right? And I
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listened to that internal compass, that internal language going on
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in my head. How am I going to talk to him? today?
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Right?
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I hate myself, or I don't look as pretty as
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I think I should, or You know, my hair needs
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to be more blonde or whatever, right? No, no, no.
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I'm like, I am doing the best I can with
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what I have right now today. And I pat myself
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on the back. It's funny because I'm laughing right now
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because I do this. I do this because I'm the
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only one that I'm going to spend the rest of
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my life with. I want to be my own best friend, right?
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And there's times, yes, I enjoy my family. Yes, I
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enjoy hanging out. But there's times when I'm alone. I'm
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partying with myself, right? I'm writing in my little journal.
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I got my hype song on, right? My power anthem.
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I'm going to town. I'm elevated. I'm like, how can
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I save the planet? How can I save the world?
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How can I elevate humanity? How can I start another business?
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What does the community need, right? We just opened up
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Cane Arcane in Las Vegas, right? So we're in California
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and now Nevada, right? And Cane Arcane is a paranormal
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intelligent agency. And just looking at the words people are
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saying when they're calling us, like, oh my gosh, I'm
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so scared. I'm always going to be scared in this house. No, okay,
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let's look at everything, right? And we get to dive
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in with them and do some investigation and give them peace.
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That's what I want to do. I just want to
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impact lives and give people peace because it's like their
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language is creating peace. They're reality. Look at your language
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and audit yourself, right? I will never figure this out.
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And then you're going to say, I haven't figured it
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out yet. Here's what I know. I'm really smart. And
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I know I study a lot and I just read
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a lot. And I know the more that I read
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and the more that I study, I'm going to figure
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this out. I don't know what it looks like on
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the end. You know, don't be tied to the outcome, right? No,
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I don't know how we're going to get there. I
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don't know. When I opened up the office in Las Vegas,
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I'm like, I don't know how that's going to look.
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Right.
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But I'm just like, OK, let's take a little itty
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bitty baby steps forward. I don't know what the heck
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is the next step, but I know I'm going to
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be in flow state. I'm going to go out. I'm
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going to look for offices. I'm going to see what's there.
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I'm going to maybe ask the pizza man what neighborhoods
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are good, you know, and then what was the next
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best step? Not like I'm not I'm not going to
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find the best office for me.
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No, no.
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I'm going to take the next best step that's right
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for me using the right language to consciously construct my reality.
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I get to impact lives. I get to go to work, right?
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And it's so great. If you ever say, I don't
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have the opportunity, change that around to what opportunity can
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I create for myself? Have you guys ever heard of
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Price Pritchett? He's like a well-known... consultant, and he wrote
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a book called Lucky You. And the book is like,
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I got through it in like 45 minutes. I am
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a speed reader, but okay, so an hour and a half, right?
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You can read this little tiny book that's less than
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probably 50 pages. And what he says is engineer luck
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into your life. Well, you cannot engineer luck into your
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life if you're sitting at home and you're never getting
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out into the community and talking to people, right? I mean,
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I am so... strategic with my time and my effort
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and having my mission so clear. It's written on my
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bathroom mirror. I am here to raise the planet's vibration
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and impact lives in a positive way. How do I
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do that today? I don't do that by sitting in
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my house or at my office and no going out
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into the community. So I go out and do community
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service and The other morning, we were picking up trash
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around the local coffee shop, and I made friends there
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and gave them my business card. I was engineering luck
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into my life, right? Hey, there isn't anything I don't
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do well. And if you need someone for legal or
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publishing a book or change your mindset, I do it all.
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Check out my website. I'd love to connect with you.
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And I didn't know how my office was going to
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take off in Las Vegas. I didn't know if it
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was going to be profitable, but I just, you know, said,
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I give this to God and whatever God means to you, right?
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Our family prays to Gus, God, universe, and spirit, right?
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We just call them all three, the Holy Trinity. And God, Gus,
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I don't know how this is all going to work out,
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but I just know that if I put my best
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foot forward each and every day, I'm going to make
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positive change and I can affect change.
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Right.
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Someone said the other day on social media. How the
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heck can we get change when our leadership's not making
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the right change? And I'm like, huh? I was like,
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I didn't comment because I didn't want to engage. I
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do not engage.
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Right.
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Do not engage. So I was just like looking at that.
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But what I did was in my mind, I went
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down through the mind tree and I'm like, huh? My
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internal belief are the leaders haven't done the right thing
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for a long time. What makes me think they're going
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to do the right thing now, right? So how can
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I affect change at the lower level? Can I pick
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up garbage around my local coffee shop? You bet. Can
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I take my neighbor some pot of these chili beans
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that my husband made? He made of that of them, right?
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He can probably feed the whole neighborhood. And I know
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my neighbor could use a bowl of chili beans, right?
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Can I affect change? Can I engineer luck into my life?
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You bet I can. And it's that belief system that
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I keep telling myself over and over and over again.
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Can I, will I, what's, what's next? And life's a playground.
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I even saw someone today, her language was like this. Um,
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I've been following this creator on YouTube for a long,
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long time. And I just noticed, and I have to
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change my voice because this is so funny to tell
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you that both sides of the pendulum, right? So here's
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my change voice. This is the lady today on social media.
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She goes, uh, I've been following this YouTuber for a long,
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long time. And I just noticed today that he's using
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artificial intelligence to bring out his graphics. And because of that,
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I'm unfollowing him. And I was like, huh, do not engage,
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do not engage. I didn't. I was just like, huh,
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I just met that with curiosity. I'm like, wow. Because
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I know for me and what my truth is, and
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we all get to have our own truths. That's so beautiful, right?
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When I had a mentor, when I was doing art,
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I knew I wanted to be a published artist and
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I wanted to get my art out into the world.
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And so I hired this mentor up in Canada because
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I couldn't find anybody here in America that could help me.
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And maybe I didn't look good enough. I don't know.
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But I found this mentor up in Canada and I
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was telling her about where I was and where I
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wanted to go with my art. And she goes, oh,
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she goes, Tisha, I hope you know there's no rules
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in art. And I said, what? Because you know what
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she had us do? She had us use the graphite
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paper and sketch out a bird onto the canvas using
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the graphite paper so that I could have a traceable
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line to be able to color within the lines on
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the canvas. And I looked at my mentor and I said,
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I never thought about doing something like that. And she said, no.
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And I said, no. She goes, well, the The graphite
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paper is at the local art store for a reason.
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And I said, yes, you're right. And she said, there
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are no rules in art. So when I looked at
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this lady who was bashing on this YouTuber for using
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artificial intelligence, I did not engage because It don't matter.
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At the end of the day, nothing really matters, but
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what you make matter. Nothing, let me say that again.
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Nothing really matters except what you make matter, right? And
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it didn't really matter, but I just thought, huh, I
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met it with curiosity. And I thought she's unfollowing this
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YouTuber because this YouTuber was using AI. And I looked
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at the thumbnail picture of the guy's video or whatever. Wow,
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I thought, huh, that was one of the most beautiful
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pictures I had seen today. And it was so graphically perfect.
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And I thought, huh, wow, that's beautiful. And that's art.
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But she wanted to bag on him because he was
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using AI. And I thought, my mentor taught me that
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there's no rules in art. And AI is art, according
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to my belief. Now you may have a different belief
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and I meet you at there and maybe you can't
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meet me at that right now. I get it. But
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I'm just asking you to be open. Abracadabra. We get
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to create our reality.
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Right?
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That historical meaning is mysterious. But what I know is
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I create as I speak. And every day I ask myself, okay,
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am I physically fit?
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Yes.
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Am I mentally fit?
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Yes.
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Am I financially fit?
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Yes.
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Am I spiritually fit?
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Yes.
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And each one of those buckets, if I'm not, then
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that's where I need to go to work. I'm like, okay,
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I should be, you know, and Tony Robbins teaches this.
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He's got the wheel. of life, right? And you want
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to be on a big, well-oiled wheel. And if one
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part of the wheel, if you're not spiritually fit or
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mentally fit or physically fit, right? If you're not doing
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what you need to be doing, you need to be
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doing what you need to be doing. Because I tell
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you right now, I can look at someone or I
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can talk to someone and really gauge at where they
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are in their relation to life, in their relationship to
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other people, right? And I just want to help, right?
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I'm just here to help on a larger scale. And
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that's why I have this radio segment, Beyond Mindset Limits.
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I want to take you guys online. beyond the mind,
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beyond limits. Think outside of the box. The moment you
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put yourself in a box, in a box of religion,
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in a box of public school, in a box of government,
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in a box of medicine, all of these are boxes.
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And think with inside the box, you're really limiting yourself.
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And some people need that limitation to feel safe. So
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I can meet you at your truth, right? But Tisha
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Marie Kane style, I'm coming to Planet Life School to play, right?
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Now I've done the trenches. I was there in the anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame,
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not good enough for a long time. That's why I
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have the credibility to be able to speak today because
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I have the texture of life, right? If you've ever
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heard about the book, The Kabbalion, they say that if
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you hear about The Kabbalion, The book is, you're ready.
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So if you're listening to the segment today and you
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remember that word and you remember that book, then you're
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ready for the next step. You're ready. But if you
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don't remember it, you're not ready. And that's okay, right?
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I'll meet you at your truth. But in the book,
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the Kabbalion, they say they're the hermetic principles and that
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there's a pendulum. However far left the pendulum swings on anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame,
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I'm not good enough. the pendulum must swing the same
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exact way to the right. And it's got to be equal, equal.
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So when I went down into the trenches of anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame,
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not good enough. And I stayed there for you guys.
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It was like six years. It was disgusting that finally
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I pulled myself out and now I'm on the other side.
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happiness and bliss and peace and joy. And I'm creating
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that abracadabra with my words. So I invite you to
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listen to yourself this week. How are you talking to yourself?
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What words are you using? These are instructions to your
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body and to your brain. Listen. Listen to what you
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say about money. Listen to what you say about your business.
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Listen to what you say about your mind. I invite
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you to do these things that words create your reality.
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So choose your words accordingly. And if this conversation activated
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something inside of you, reach out to me. Go to
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my website, schedule an appointment, and we're going to come
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back here next week for another segment of Beyond Mindset
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Limits with Tisha Marie Cain. So I'm happy you guys
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are here today. And I want to leave you with this.
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Abra Kadabra. Bye, guys.
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Thank you for joining Tisha Marie Kane for Beyond Mindset Limits.
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Tune in every Wednesday at 4 p.m. as the conversation
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continues around mindset, legal insight, and publishing as a strategic
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tool for business positioning. Visit TishaMarieCain.com or CainsLegalSupport.com for more
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information or to schedule your private appointment.