OM DENNE EPISODE
Episode 94: Harvey Araton (Sports Journalist/Author, New York Times)
🎙 Harvey Araton, longtime The New York Times journalist and author, joins the podcast to reflect on decades of covering sports and how many of today’s youth sports issues were visible long before they exploded.
🔹 Araton shares that his most memorable assignment came during the 1998 NBA Finals, but what stuck with him most was a personal moment with his son after the game.
🔹 Even while writing about youth sports concerns 20 years ago, Araton admits he never imagined the system would evolve into what it is today.
🔹 He revisits the Little League World Series scandal involving Danny Almonte, using it as an early example of how exposure and pressure can push adults and systems to cross ethical lines.
🔹 The LLWS transformation from a single televised game to a full summer broadcast spectacle, raises a key question: are we celebrating kids, or exploiting them?
🔹 A sports psychologist told Araton the real danger isn’t being on TV…it’s what adults are willing to do to get kids there, from financial investment to bending the rules.
🔹 He discusses the growing role of private equity in youth sports, emphasizing that much of the money entering the space is driven by profit and not player well-being.
🔹 Araton shares stories of former youth stars who struggled later, unable to live up to the expectations created by early success on big stages.
🔹 The conversation tackles a common parent question: “What if my kid really loves it?” through the lens of pro soccer player Yael Averbuch’s upbringing and her parents’ decision to stay in a supportive, not controlling, role.
🔹 A powerful takeaway from that story: true passion is obvious. Averbuch was the one pushing to get to practice, not the other way around.
🔹 Araton draws a firm line between nurturing talent and trying to manufacture it: “You cannot spend your way to an elite athlete.”
🔹 His blunt reminder to parents: your child is not an investment or a stock…they are a developing human being.
🔹 He also warns about the subtle but telling use of “we” in youth sports parenting, and how it can blur the line between a child’s journey and a parent’s identity.
🔹 Araton discusses writing a book aimed directly at young athletes, cutting through the noise to remind them that the real benefits of sports often look very different from what adults promise.
🔹 The conversation ultimately centers on reclaiming youth sports for what they should be: a space for growth, enjoyment, and development…not just a pipeline to the next level.
