OM DENNE EPISODE
How do you know when resistance means you need to push through, and when it is telling you that the work no longer belongs in your next chapter?
For accomplished professionals and entrepreneurs, capability can become a trap. When you are good at something, people keep asking. When the work pays well and earns praise, it can be surprisingly difficult to admit that you simply do not want to keep doing it anymore. Nancy makes an important distinction between resistance that comes from fear or discomfort and resistance that may be signaling misalignment.
She shares a turning point from her own business, when years of writing award-winning annual reports for community banks left her successful on paper but increasingly drained by the work itself. A simple question from her husband, “Do you even like writing annual reports for community banks?” helped her realize she did not need another project or award to prove she was capable. She could finish the work well and still choose not to carry it forward.
That same discernment applies to offers, clients, revenue streams, and business opportunities. Good money is not always the same as right work. Nancy challenges listeners to consider not only whether something sells, but whether they actually want to be the person responsible for delivering what they have sold. Energy, health, joy, integrity, and alignment belong in the success equation too.
The goal is not to quit every time something feels hard. It is to get better at telling the difference between meaningful resistance and an expired yes. Sometimes the next right move is to recommit. Sometimes it is to let go. Both can be wise choices when they are rooted in truth about who you are now and the life and business you actually want to build.
In This Episode Nancy Explores:- The difference between resistance that comes from fear and resistance that signals misalignment
- Why being talented at something does not automatically mean it still belongs in your business
- What Nancy learned from walking away from profitable, award-winning work
- How “good money” can still come with a cost to energy, health, joy, and integrity
- The question that can reveal whether you truly want to deliver what you are selling
- Why accomplished people can become trapped by the identities and work they are known for
- How to recognize the difference between a hard-but-aligned commitment and an expired obligation
- The questions that can help you decide what deserves your devotion now
Memorable Lines
“You gotta wanna is not just about discipline; it's about alignment.” - Nancy Juetten
“Sometimes resistance is not a character flaw. Sometimes it's a message.” - Nancy Juetten
“Just because you can doesn't mean you should.” - Nancy Juetten
“Sometimes resistance means this matters and I am scared. And sometimes resistance means this is done, and I am forcing it. Wisdom is learning the difference.” - Nancy Juetten
“I did not need to keep doing work simply because I could.” - Nancy Juetten
“Just because I could do the work did not mean doing more of it was in my best interest.” - Nancy Juetten
“The better question is: Is this still mine to do?” - Nancy Juetten
“Accomplished people are often capable of doing a lot of things well, and that is both a gift and a trap.” - Nancy Juetten
“Money is not the only metric.” - Nancy Juetten
“Do I want to be the person who has to deliver what I just sold?” - Nancy Juetten
“There comes a time when you do not need to prove that you can do something one more time, you need to decide whether it still deserves your devotion.” - Nancy Juetten
“Stop judging your energy and start listening to it.” - Nancy Juetten
“Your next magnificent chapter does not need every opportunity; it needs the right ones.” - Nancy Juetten
Step Closer
If this episode speaks to you, subscribe or follow the show and share it with someone who may be standing at a threshold of their own.
You can also visit Nancy online to download the Next Magnificent Chapter Journal or apply for one of her intimate mastermind communities.
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Apply for Nancy’s intimate mastermind communities: https://beyourownwizard.com/application/
Download the Next Magnificent Chapter Journal: https://beyourownwizard.com/next-magnificent-chapter-journal/
Step Closer
If this episode speaks to you, subscribe or follow the show and share it with someone who may be standing at a threshold of their own.
You can also visit Nancy online to download the Next Magnificent Chapter Journal or apply for one of her intimate mastermind communities.
Website: https://beyourownwizard.com
Apply for Nancy’s intimate mastermind communities: https://beyourownwizard.com/application/
Download the Next Magnificent Chapter Journal: https://beyourownwizard.com/next-magnificent-chapter-journal/
Check out the next Done Dialed and Designed Workshop to name and claim the conversation you want to lead in your own Next Magnificent Chapter.Learn more right here: https://donedialedanddesigned.com
Check out the next Done Dialed and Designed Workshop to name and claim the conversation you want to lead in your own Next Magnificent Chapter. Learn more right here: https://donedialedanddesigned.com
