OM DENNE EPISODE
Why do we keep repeating the same unhealthy patterns in our relationships, even when we genuinely want to change? How do childhood experiences, fear, and unresolved emotional pain affect our faith, marriage, parenting, and relationship with God?
On this episode of Restoration Conversations, Pastor Josh Brown sits down with Paul Highfill, a licensed marriage and family therapist and Christian who has spent more than two decades working in foster care, human services, and faith-integrated care.
Together, they explore the connection between Christian faith and mental health, why our past can shape our present in ways we don't recognize, and how survival habits developed in childhood can affect the people we love years later.
Paul shares why understanding our experiences can help us recognize where we need healing, why fear can lead us to build walls instead of healthy boundaries, and how emotional, mental, and spiritual growth work together.
In the second part of the episode, Pastor Josh continues the conversation with practical teaching on managing stress, taking thoughts captive, understanding differences in how people process emotions, and taking responsibility for how we respond to conflict. He also discusses how unresolved frustration can affect marriage and parenting, and why learning to communicate honestly matters.
In this episode, we discuss:
Christian counseling and the role of faith in emotional healing
How childhood trauma and family experiences shape adult behavior
Why we repeat unhealthy patterns in marriage and relationships
The difference between healthy boundaries and emotional walls
How fear influences our decisions and relationships
Why mental, emotional, and spiritual health are connected
How unresolved pain can affect parenting and the next generation
Taking responsibility for our emotions and reactions
Managing stress, conflict, bitterness, and resentment
How prayer, Scripture, self-awareness, and professional counseling can work together
Practical ways to pursue healing and become who God created you to be
Your past does not have to determine your future. God wants more for you than simply surviving. Through honest reflection, spiritual growth, healthy relationships, and appropriate support, we can begin breaking destructive cycles and learning to thrive.
If you recognize these patterns in your own life, you don't have to navigate them alone.
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