Exercise Personal Commitment

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Today on Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram.
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Rarely in my life have I experienced such pain
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as when I make a commitment I know God wants
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me to make and then I blow it. I don't follow
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through. Today, three keys to keeping your commitments
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that matter most. Stay with us. Welcome to the
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weekend edition of Living on the Edge. Today,
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Chip Ingram continues a series called You Were
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Made for More. He's laying out three principles
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drawn straight from Nehemiah chapter 3 that answer
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the one question all of us quietly wrestle with,
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how do you make the kind of commitment that actually
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holds? Whether it's a commitment to God, to your
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marriage, to your kids, or to the purpose He's
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placed in your heart, today's message has real
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practical answers. Now here's Chip Ingram with
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his message titled, Exercise Personal Commitment.
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How do you make and sustain? personal commitments.
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That's what we want to talk about. And the answer
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is going to be in Nehemiah chapter 3. We're going
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to see that he modeled it convincingly. So, open
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your notes, if you will. Let me walk through
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with you a couple observations. You know, when
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I look at this, and just hold the notes open,
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couldn't we all agree the gates are the central
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focus of this chapter? I mean, the paragraphs
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break and just, there's a line under them. They're
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real bold. Whatever this chapter is about, the
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central focus is the gates. Second, there's a
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variety of people involved in this work. I mean,
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there's personal names. Sometimes it's their
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father, their grandfather, or where they come
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from. But I just listed some. There's merchants,
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there's priests, perfumers, goldsmiths, rulers,
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servants, temple servants, daughters, nobles,
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and officials. Next observation is, notice that
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the approach was very systematic and organized.
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They began on the sheep gate, and go ahead and
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let your mind scan all the way to the end, and
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they went counterclockwise. They end on the sheep
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gate. Each group had a specific responsibility.
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As you scan and read this a bit on your own,
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you know this group built according to this wall.
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This group built in front of their house. This
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group did this over here. So each group had a
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very specific role and responsibility. Next observation
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is each group worked near their homes, or at
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least was whenever possible. In verse 10, verse
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22, verse 26, 28, 29, and 30. And so they didn't
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have to travel. And the other is there was sort
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of a godly vested interest. Can you imagine saying,
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okay, we're going to rebuild this part of the
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wall right here. And the walls were, I mean,
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don't think of a little wall. These were huge
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walls. You could drive a chariot on top of these
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walls. And then inside the walls, the housing
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would be built. So my living room might be here,
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and then the external wall be here. I'm thinking
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I'm going to do a pretty good job on this part
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of the wall. If, you know, the catapults and
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the stones start coming and the arrows and the
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spears, I think I'm going to make it pretty thick
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and pretty good. I'm not going to do one of those,
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well, this is good enough for government work,
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right? And so he motivates them not only by the
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great intrinsic we're doing this for God, but
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he puts them in a place that highly motivates
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them to work in a way that has their best interest
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in mind. We're going to learn in just a second
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that some people are going to repair and other
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people are going to build because our giftedness
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are different. Some people are really great at
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fixing stuff and other people think I can't fix
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anything, but they're great with a clean sheet
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of paper and they can build stuff. But then in
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the context, chapters four, five, and six will
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be about opposition. I mean, anytime you take
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a step, whether you decide to start really reading
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your Bible or really praying or working on your
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marriage or saying as a family, we're going to
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do something radical. We're going to try and
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eat together like two or three times a week.
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I'm going to actually tuck my kids in and read
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them a story. I'm going to get with a group of
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single people and we're going to make a covenant
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about making a difference in our workplaces and
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we're going to be sexually pure. Every time you
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take any kind of step of faith like that, it'll
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usually get worse before it gets better. So chapter
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four, you get external opposition. In chapter
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five, there's internal opposition. And then chapter
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six, he gets personal attack. People who make
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these kind of commitments, they change, they
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change people around them, and they change the
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world. But it usually starts with some very significant
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time of motivation, and it gets clear, this is
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what we've got to do. And then they start this
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process, and usually it's followed by things
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that are very difficult. Notice who started the
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work. It's the high priest. Different people
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have responsibility. The high priest was the
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highest representative of God. And notice the
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very first line, he models that. The ragtag group
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finished it in 52 days. And I have a friend who's
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an engineer who said, this is an absolute engineering
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miracle. It's an impossibility. And then notice
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they worked in affinity groups. If you could
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study a little bit longer, the priests worked
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together, the merchants, the goldsmiths worked
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together. They worked in families, servants,
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and then they worked in geographical areas. So
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they knew each other. I mean, when you work,
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you're more motivated to work with people that
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you kind of have some kinship with. I mean, it's
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true today. Like, some of you are like real techie,
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and you can talk in languages that I don't understand,
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and some of you are more artistic, and some of
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you come from different parts of the country,
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and there's just an affinity of culture and background
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that as we work together with people that we
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can understand, it helps us sustain motivation.
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Helps us keep our commitments. We understand
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one another. And then the final thing here is
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that notice there were two special commendations.
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In verse five, if you skip down there, you can
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see that he talks about the nobles. They didn't
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put their shoulder to the work. So now imagine,
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first imagine all these individual names. God
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doesn't accomplish his will by some big blanket
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thing. Think of all the individual names and
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imagine maybe the very next generation, these
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people are like your father or your grandfathers.
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God accomplishes things not by groups and movements
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and programs. He does it one person, one life
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at a time. And so that's how important individuals
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are. All these specific names. And he knows.
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He knows who's slacking off. And then if you
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skip down to verse 20, notice the style of Baruch.
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It says he worked zealously. God sees people's
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motives. He sees people's hearts. He knows where
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you're at. He knows where I'm at. And in all
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this long list, he says, you know, this fella
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really didn't carry his weight. And this person
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over here. And so all those are our observations,
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right? Is that fair? I mean, it's in there, right?
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We'll turn to the back page and let's turn those
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observations into some very specific principles
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about how you can help make and sustain your
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personal commitments. And as we do, could I ask
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you to lean back? I mean, when I study the Bible,
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that's just what I do, okay? When I studied this
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for the first time, I read it over a bunch of
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times, and then I started looking, and I put
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a line under all the gates, and then I started
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thinking, there's a lot of people, so I circled
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the different people. But then I began to ask,
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why? Why is chapter three here? Why did this
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particular group at this particular time with
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this particular leader actually accomplish the
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task when others had failed? What is it that
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I can learn about these groups and the affinities
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and building and repairing and after him and
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next to him that would help me personally make
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commitments and sustain them? I mean, because
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at the end of the day, God didn't put this in
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his word just so that we could understand Nehemiah
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3. He knew that we'd be sitting in this room
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in this day with the issues that you face and
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I face. Now, before I go on, here's what I'd
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like you to think about. Where are you at in
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your personal commitment to Jesus Christ? I mean,
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is it an emotional one, intellectual one? Is
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it, yeah, I'd like to be more committed, but
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I'm kind of afraid to because... Three steps
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forward, nine steps backwards. Where are you
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at? I mean, privately, no hands or anything.
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But for those of you that are married, down deep
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in your heart, where are you at in your commitment
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to your mate? Or like I shared, I mean, there
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were times that I just felt like, God, this isn't
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working. I'm really frustrated. I mean, I went
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through that. I'm not very fulfilled right now.
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I'm not very happy. In fact, I'm not happy at
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all. And then the enemy comes in and tries to
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tempt you, right? So where are you there? Or
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how about, how committed are you, some of you
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that are parents, to really saying, I will own
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the moral responsibility of raising my kids that
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regardless of their SAT scores, how well they
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do in athletics, they're gonna be godly kids.
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See, that changes stuff. And I don't know where
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it is. I've got my journey. When I'm thinking
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about, God, what do you want me to really refresh
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and renew my commitments? But I want you to think
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about that right now. I mean, for some of you,
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maybe as a single person, you're saying, you
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know, I'm sort of committed to sexual purity.
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You know where that lands you, don't you? I'm
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sort of committed to only dating someone who
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really walks with God. Unless he's very good
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looking. Or unless she's really hot. And I think
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there's real spiritual potential and I could
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help her. Right? Been there and done that. So
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with that, what I want to do now is I want to
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walk through these three principles, and I want
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you to pray. I want you to pray and say, God,
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would you help clarify in my mind and my heart
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where you want me to make or where you want me
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to further sustain personal commitments in my
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life? How to make and sustain personal commitments,
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number one, is the principle of cooperation.
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We never get beyond how we're getting along.
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Everything that ever gets accomplished in life
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is done in the context of relationships. And
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so here's the key. Recognize people are different.
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Nehemiah did that. Recognize people are different.
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Second, recognize the immense value of every
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person. Realize that whether it's at work or
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whether it's your family, I mean, you're human.
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Some of your kids frustrate you in some seasons
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and some make you very happy. Some are very easy
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and some are very hard. Some people in your small
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group you connect with. Some make you nuts. But
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just recognize that it's not bad or good, it's
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they're different. And third, recognize that
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our common goal or common vision is greater than
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our individual differences. You're listening
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Now let's continue with today's message from
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Chip Ingram. It's the principle of cooperation.
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You will never get beyond how you're getting
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along. And if you find yourself in your heart
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critical of people, even if it's only in your
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mind, if you find yourself always pointing out
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what's wrong with your mate or what's wrong with
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some of your kids or what's wrong with some people
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in this church or what's wrong with this or what's
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wrong with that, or if you find yourself in little
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coffee shops talking about other people that
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sort of have this little negative slant, I will
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tell you what, you won't make progress. Personal
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commitments are fostered when we feel like we
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belong. I believe when those people started on
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that wall together, they felt like I belong.
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I'm a part of the team. Nehemiah, God's got his
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hand on Nehemiah. God brought him here. We know
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it's God's will to rebuild these walls. We know
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what God promised to do in the city. We know
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we're God's people. And I belong. I'm going to
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be a part and I'm going to do my little section
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on the wall. And when you feel like you belong,
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It fosters commitment. When you feel like you're
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visiting, when you feel like it's them working
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on the wall, when you feel like it's that church,
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when you find yourself in conversations talking
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about what they're doing, and it's not negative.
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I mean, it's a journey. It's a process. But there's
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not that sense that you belong. It's sort of
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an evaluative, well, this is what they're doing.
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Here's what they're trying to do. That's a lot
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different than this is what we're doing. This
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is where we're going. This is where we have challenges.
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So let me ask you, do you feel like you belong?
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And maybe the second question is, what do you
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need to do to take that next step? Because otherwise,
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we've created this culture, especially in America,
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but many places around the world, where we actually
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think, quote, church is a building. And that
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church is an event that happens sometime, usually
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on Sunday morning, and you go and sit and listen
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to someone talk and sing some songs, hopefully
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feel a little bit better about yourself because
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you've done it, and then live the other six days
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almost totally apart from that experience, but
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feel like I went to church. Therefore, what do
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you think, God? It's that subtle consumer mindset
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versus church is us. people together, connected
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together to accomplish his purposes. And his
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purpose here in this church is to help us love
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one another and love people outside this room
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and help Christians live like Christians. That's
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God's call. And that's a 24 -7, 365 event. The
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second principle is the principle of coordination.
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The multiple efforts of a group are far greater
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than the sum of its parts. It's synergy. In other
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words, this group couldn't get anything going.
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They had a catalytic leader in Nehemiah. He cast
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a clear vision. People understood, I want you
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to do this part, this part, this part, this part.
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You come from different places. You can work
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with people that you know, but from this section
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to this section, you do this, they do that, and
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the sum of the parts in 52 days did a miracle.
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That's how God has always worked. It's true in
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Acts chapter two. It's true in the early church.
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It was true in the Reformation. It was true with
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Wesley and Whitefield. It was true in the early
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days of America. And it's true in different parts
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of the world now. It's the principle cooperation.
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Well, how do you do that? Well, first we recognize
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we need each other. There are no Lone Rangers.
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You can't make it on your own. I can't make it
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on my own. I mean, even the 12 -step people know
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that. You can't make it on your own. Recognize
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there's a job that only you can do. Personal
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commitments grow when we know that we are needed.
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Do you understand there's this amazing connection
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between commitment and love? Jesus said, he that
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has my commands and keeps them, he it is that
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loves me. And he that loves me will be loved
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of my father. And then here's the promise. And
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we will disclose ourselves to you. You get close
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and meet and touch and feel and experience and
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get transformed by God, not by just soaking in
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information. It's by receiving truth and then
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I respond to the truth and I connect with other
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people and I discover my gifts and then together
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we do this thing and he creates something out
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of it. Here's what I want you to hear. You're
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needed. You're needed. What happens in the church
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and the life is just the byproduct. What happens
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is the most fulfilled people, the people that
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had their names written in this chapter, were
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people who saw God could use an ordinary person
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like me. And what they did is they moved off
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of looking at the rubble and assuming that this
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is the way it's going to be, and they aligned
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around a vision. And the sum total of the parts
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did something beyond what they could ever dream.
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Third principle is the principle of motivation.
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The value of the project to the worker will determine
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the value of the worker to the project. You might
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have to think that one over very carefully, but
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I mean, think about the value of the project
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to the worker. How important is it? Will determine
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how important that person is. Some people walked,
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when's the last time you walked 17 miles? Anyone?
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I've gone up that quick silver trail. I've done
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four or five miles and uphill and downhill. It's
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like, man, you've got to be kidding me. These
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people, in this text, they walked 26 miles. They
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didn't take the bus. They didn't take their bicycle.
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They didn't say, hey, let's take a little scooter.
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I mean, if they were rich, maybe they had a donkey.
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But they walked 26 miles to get to work. to get
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to help, and they left the harvest behind. You
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understand that you are sitting in a room that's
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been paved by the sacrifice and the commitment
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of people that have given their time, their energy,
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their money, and many places all around the world
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their life so the gospel could reach you and
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reach me. And our responsibility is to take that
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baton and move forward and do it for the next
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generation. The motivation must begin with leaders
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and influencers. I mean, it's just life the way
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it is. And if you're the head of your home, dad,
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you're an influencer. If you're the glue of the
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home, mom, you're an influencer. If you're a
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student and people kind of look to you because
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of academics or athletics, you're an influencer.
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If you're a single person and you realize that
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when you move, everyone says, what are we going
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to do tonight? And you say, let's do this, and
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people do that, you're an influencer. It always
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begins with leaders. There's a stewardship there.
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You're not better than anybody else. If you're
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a business owner, if you're an entrepreneur,
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if you're a CEO, if you're a manager, you need
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to understand that where you move, networks move
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with you. So you need to really examine the stewardship
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and say, what vision am I going to align my life,
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my time, and my energy around? Because that's
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how that thing happened on the wall then, and
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that's how it's going to happen on the wall here.
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Motivation is sustained by godly vested interest.
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We want to help people serve and volunteer. We
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want to help them serve and volunteer in a way
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where they get refreshed. We want to help them
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serve and volunteer so they become better parents.
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We want to help them serve and volunteer where
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they get loved and encouraged. We want to help
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them serve and volunteer where they discover
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their gifts, where they learn about how to align
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their finances so that five years from now, instead
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of being debt up to here and feeling under pressure,
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they'll say, you know what? I paid all that stuff
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off. I just applied biblical principles. There's
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people that really helped me. We want people
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to volunteer and serve in such a way where they
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say, you know what, I didn't tell anyone about
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that kind of little private porn addiction or
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that drug addiction or that little alcohol addiction
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or that people addiction or that workaholic addiction,
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but when I got involved and it got safe and I
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got that out there and the word of God and the
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grace of God and the people of God, I'm free.
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That's how it works. Notice what happens. The
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completed wall would mean protection from their
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enemies. The completed wall would mean provision
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for a better life and the completed wall would
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mean productivity and impact in their world.
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Personal commitments are sustained when the vision
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becomes our vision. So where are you at in your
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personal commitment with God? Are you a little
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fair weather like when there's a kid in ICU or
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you need a job? I am very committed to God. Help
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me, help me, help me. Or have you signed up and
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said, you know what? I get one little trip through
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this thing called time and then I'm going to
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live forever. And I'm really glad my sins are
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forgiven and I'm really glad I'm heaven bound.
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But I don't want to waste this. I want to do
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exactly what you want me to do and I want to
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pay whatever price because the rewards are astounding
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now and eternal later. At the end of the day,
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whether it's in your marriage or your parenting,
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whether it's in your singleness, whether it's
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at work, It really boils down to having the heart
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of a servant that said, Lord, use me. This is
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Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram and a message
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titled Exercise Personal Commitment. We're in
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a series called You Were Made for More. which
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you can always revisit online at livingontheedge
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Plus, you can find full -length sermons through
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the Chip Ingram Sermon Podcast, wherever you
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get your podcasts. Chip closed today with a powerful
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truth. The value of the project to the worker
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determines the value of the worker to the project.
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Those men in Nehemiah 3 walked 26 miles, left
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the harvest behind, and built with everything
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they had, because they knew what was at stake
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and who they were building with. When you know
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what you were made for, and you're doing it alongside
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people who share that vision, commitment stops
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feeling like a discipline and starts feeling
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like a privilege. And if you haven't yet taken
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-333 -6003. Now here's Chip. There are few things
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that can overwhelm us with guilt. like knowing
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that we've made a commitment to God, to a mate,
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to a friend, and then just dropping the ball
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and knowing we've blown it. And so I want to
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pray for you right now. You may not be able to
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close your eyes. You may be on the highway or
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you might be listening to this as you're doing
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something in the office. But could you pause
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mentally with me and let me pray for you? Holy
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Father, we want to thank you that you are a good
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God. and that you're a merciful God, that you
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are slow to anger, and you're abounding in loving
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kindness. And you are mindful that we are people
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of dust and people of flesh, and that we make
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the best of intentions, and we tell you we want
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to do what's right, and then we find ourselves
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blowing it. We do exactly the thing we said we
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didn't want to do, or we don't follow through
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on the very thing that we promised we would do.
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And we want to own that. We want to come to you
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and say that we're sorry. We ask you for your
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forgiveness. We would plead the blood of the
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Lord Jesus in our behalf as the forgiveness and
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the cleansing of our sin. And we want to be restored.
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And Lord, we also want to draw near to you now.
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We want the grace and the strength to renew our
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commitment, to find people that we can team up
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with and get support and help. so that we can
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be the men, be the women that you want us to
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be. Lord, I pray for those that have given up
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on their marriage and that is not your will,
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that you would give them the grace at this moment
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to be committed and do what's ever necessary
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to make it work. I pray for those that have made
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a commitment to you and have wandered and know
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that today's the day they need to return and
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know that you will forgive and restore. Lord,
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will you give them the grace to do that right
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now? I pray for those kids that have wandered
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away from their parents and their family and
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their faith, and they need to do a 180, do a
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U -turn, even as they're hearing my voice. Will
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you give them the grace right now at this moment
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to decide, I'm going back. I'm going to make
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it right with my folks. I'm going to do what
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I know is right. Almighty God, we pray for your
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grace to keep the commitments that we know are
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your will. In Jesus' name, amen. I'm Dave Drewy,
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inviting you back next time as we continue exploring
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the life -changing truths of God's Word with
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Chip Ingram here on the weekend edition of Living
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on the Edge. Today's program is produced and
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sponsored by Living on the Edge.