OM DENNE EPISODE
What if the things you're trying hardest to avoid are the very experiences that help you grow?
We spend a lot of time trying to get things right. We want to make good decisions, protect the lives we've built, and avoid disappointing the people around us. But sometimes, that desire for certainty keeps us from taking the risks that could lead us somewhere meaningful.
In this conversation, I sat down with John Azar, founder and CEO of Peak15 Capital, to explore a different way of thinking about balance, failure, and success.
John's journey has taken him from immigrating to the United States as a teenager to building businesses in finance and commercial real estate. Along the way, he's experienced setbacks, navigated uncertainty, and developed a philosophy he calls Purposeful Imbalance.
What I appreciated about our conversation was that we didn't treat failure as something we can simply think our way out of. We talked about the fear of judgment, the stories we tell ourselves, and the importance of recognizing when our commitment to success begins to cost us too much.
John also shared a personal lesson about the consequences of prolonged imbalance, reminding us that focused commitment needs boundaries and regular reassessment.
This conversation left me thinking about how we define success, how much power we give other people's opinions, and whether we're willing to learn when life doesn't go according to plan.
In This Episode You'll Discover
- Why work-life balance looks different in different seasons of life.
- How purposeful imbalance helps you master what matters.
- Why focused effort needs boundaries.
- How fear of failure and judgment can hold you back.
- Why we often worry too much about what others think.
- How to learn from failure and try again.
- What scientists can teach us about failure and growth.
- Why it's okay to be a work in progress.
- How to keep moving forward without taking yourself too seriously.
Perfect For
- Entrepreneurs and founders navigating uncertainty.
- High-achieving professionals questioning traditional ideas of success.
- Leaders who want to take meaningful risks without being controlled by fear.
- Anyone struggling with perfectionism or fear of judgment.
- People navigating career changes, new ventures, or unfamiliar challenges.
- Anyone who wants to build resilience and learn from life's setbacks.
We cannot control every outcome, and we will not get everything right.
But we can stay curious, learn from what happens, and keep choosing the next step that matters.
Living the width of your life means being willing to grow through the journey, not just measuring yourself by where you arrive.
Show notes: https://akuzmagroup.com/podcast/growthrequiresanimbalancedlife
Connect with John Azar:
- Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/jjazar/
- LinkedIn → http://linkedin.com/in/jalalazar
- Email → Azar@peakfifteencap.com
- Peak15 Capital → https://peakfifteencap.com
- FORJA Coaching Program → https://joinforja.com
Learn more about his 12-week cohort program for people interested in learning about commercial real estate, particularly multifamily investing and apartment operations.
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