00:00:00Introduction: How I Got This Way
00:00:28The Obligation of Being Capable
00:02:00The Pleasure and Risk of Problem Solving
00:02:41Explaining vs. Feeling
00:03:40Learning to Keep Going Through Unresolved Pain
00:04:23Responsibility vs. Uncertainty
00:05:46Volunteering Yourself and Needing Control
00:07:04What Does Finished Feel Like?
00:07:58Figuring Out What You Actually Want
00:09:05Making Room for the Full Answer
00:09:56Noticing Without Rushing to Fix
00:10:35Honesty About Saying Yes
00:11:13Wanting More Choice, Not Less Capability
00:12:05A Challenge: How Are You Really Doing
00:12:47Closing Thoughts and What's Next