OM DENNE EPISODE
Stepping into leadership often comes with pressure to adapt, perform and become the leader you think you’re expected to be. But what happens when that adaptation starts to pull you away from who you really are?
In this episode of Headflex, co-hosts Rebecca Walker and Diane Williams explore the tension between authenticity and expectation, and the hidden cost of constantly performing a version of leadership that doesn’t feel like you.
They discuss how overcompensating in a new role can erode confidence, credibility and impact, why emulating other leaders can leave you feeling disconnected from your own strengths, and the signs that you may be drifting away from your authentic leadership style.
Rebecca and Diane share personal experiences of masking, adapting and navigating the expectations that come with leadership, alongside practical insights into staying self-aware and grounded in your values.
Listen to learn more about why authentic leadership isn’t about refusing to change. It’s actually about adapting while staying connected to who you are and finding a way to lead with flexibility, confidence and integrity without losing yourself in the process.
Here are the highlights
00:00 Intro: How to become a great leader without losing yourself
00:22 What might you be losing when you shift into leadership mode
01:32 The subtle changes that happen when taking a leadership role
02:22 Exploring the tension between authenticity and expectation
03:07 The impact of adapting versus overcompromising
04:15 Constant performance erodes trust and leadership impact
06:14 Emulating others or suppressing your own style is exhausting and unsustainable
08:19 Introducing the authentic leadership model
09:20 Exploring the challenge of flexing your leadership style
11:41 Recognising signs that you’re losing yourself in leadership
14:08 Considering when an environment no longer fits your authentic leadership and deciding to move on
16:25 Advice on reclaiming your leadership identity and reflection questions for self-coaching
About Headflex:
If you're curious about coaching, Headflex offers a range of coaching programmes to suit different needs. 1:1 coaching, team coaching, group coaching and their Headflex in Residence programme. We also offer Headflex Lunch and Learn sessions. Visit www.headflex.co.uk to find out more.
Connect with us at Headflex:
Email: hello@headflex.co.uk.
Website: https://headflex.co.uk/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/head.flex/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@headflexcoaching
Connect with Rebecca Walker: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccawalker13/
Connect with Diane Williams: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianewilliams1
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