OM DENNE EPISODE
My first coaching session almost made me quit.
I was sitting in my laundry room on a landline doing a practice session as part of my coaching certification. Forty-five minutes in, the woman just goes off on me. "Colin, you are pissing me off." I walked out and told my wife, "I don't know if this is for me."
Now, over 17 years later, I've done over 4,500 hours of paid coaching at $3,800/hour. I keynoted at the American Institute of Hypnotherapy and Neurolinguistic Programming. And this week, I've got 55+ people flying in from around the world to spend three days with me.
In this episode of The Expert Edge, I break down the exact three skills that transformed my coaching from "I'm pissing people off" to commanding premium rates and creating real breakthroughs with high-level clients.
This isn't about being nice. It's about being transformational.
What you'll learn:
→ Master powerful questions - Why asking the right questions creates breakthroughs (not giving advice first)
→ Use reframes to shift perspective - Stories, metaphors, and the feel-felt-found structure that changes how clients see their situation
→ Blend all three together - Questions + reframes + advice = transformational results
→ The difference between okay coaching and premium coaching
→ How to hold space for new possibility in your clients
→ Why awareness creates breakthroughs (not information)
→ Real questions that work with high-level clients
→ The metaphor approach (airplane in liftoff example)
→ How to give advice without being prescriptive
Real insights from the episode:
- My first coaching disaster in the laundry room (and what it taught me)
- Why that experience was actually the best thing that happened to my coaching
- The mentor who saved my coaching career with one question
- How I went from free coaching to $125/hour to $3,800/hour
- Why questions create awareness and awareness creates breakthroughs
- "For what purpose are you choosing to be angry?" - The question that reframes everything
- "When did you create that belief?" - Getting people to take responsibility for their own beliefs
- "Who taught you that?" - Tracing beliefs back to the source
- The airplane metaphor - Why liftoff is supposed to be hard
- The feel-felt-found structure - How to pace, lead, and reframe in one move
- Why the best coaching is a blend of asking, showing, and telling
- How versatility and behavioral flexibility separates transformational coaches from transactional ones
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https://www.expertedgepodcast.com/blog/episode339
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