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125 episodes
since April 20, 2020
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Send us Fan Mail Most messages aimed at young men today split into two dead ends: become a sensitive, apologetic non-threat, or go to war and reclaim dominance. Zan thinks both camps hold a fragment of truth and neither offers a boy anything to actually hope for — which is why, more and more, he fi…

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Send us Fan Mail Most men have been trained to see the “male gaze” as something to apologize for — a coarse, objectifying reflex to suppress or perform your way out of. Either you’re the bro who can’t see past a woman’s body, or you’re the guy in the loafers and matcha latte performing a “female ga…
Send us Fan Mail A Guild member sent in a message that stopped this episode cold. A friend of his — married, still in love with his wife — confided that she won’t have sex with him anymore. Not even a goodbye kiss. He found out she’s been using a vibrator. He can’t understand why she won’t let him …
Send us Fan Mail You go for a drink with a buddy, and he unloads what’s happened with his girl. A lot of push-pull, ignored texts, mood swings, drama. He wonders what’s going through her mind, and enlists your help in figuring her out too. What do you say? Do you engage your own anxious brainwave…
Send us Fan Mail We all know it’s not about what you say to her. It's the inner coherence, the calmness of vibration in your body, that shapes the interaction before your words do.One of our Guild members wrote about a moment at the gym. He saw a woman, was instantly spellbound, a little froze…
Send us Fan Mail There is far more attraction in the world than most of us are able to perceive. And far more women into you than you might ever notice. Today’s episode unpacks how the ego distorts our ability to perceive the signs of mutual attraction. This is a deep-dive about how we get in our …
Send us Fan Mail Most men leave an interaction having done everything right — approached, connected, built rapport for forty-five minutes — and then walked away without ever pulling the trigger. They got the number. They didn’t invite. And those are not the same thing.In this episode, Zan and Jorda…
Send us Fan Mail Most men arrive at a retreat, a workshop, or a pilgrimage to the mentor with the same silent demand underneath everything else: make it click. They’ve read the books, done the programs, sat through the silent retreats. They’re well-theorized. Now they want it to land — permanently,…
Send us Fan Mail Most men reading Zan’s work assume the Ars Amorata vision is a soft one — all light and ease, women as fluttering butterflies, every interaction kissed by poetry. But there’s a shadow side to the archetype that gets quietly ignored, and an answer to a question that almost nobody da…
Send us Fan Mail Most men preparing for an encounter with a woman are reaching for the wrong tool: a script, an opening line, a prescribed posture. They walk in armoured with a battle plan, hands at their sides, leaning back on their heels — and wonder why nothing sticks.In this episode, Zan and Jo…
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