Listen Score
LS 46
Global Rank
TOP 1%

ABOUT THIS PODCAST 🔗

Update frequency:
weekly
Average audio length:
34 minutes
English
United States
353 episodes
since Jan. 14, 2020
episodic
explicit content

AUDIENCE OF THIS PODCAST 🔗

~73.28% of listeners are from United States.
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US
73.28%
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CA
8.73%
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GB
6.27%
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AU
4.24%
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SG
1.27%
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ZA
0.93%
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IN
0.59%
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BR
0.50%
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PT
0.50%
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SE
0.42%
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PK
0.33%
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TR
0.33%
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DE
0.25%
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ES
0.25%
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ID
0.25%
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TW
0.25%
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KR
0.25%
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BE
0.16%
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IL
0.16%
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NZ
0.16%
Others
0.88%
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LATEST EPISODE 🔗

(Episode 354)  What happens when someone who has been sober from pornography or sexual addiction for ten years suddenly begins exhibiting the same unhealthy behaviors that once accompanied their addiction? In this episode, we address a heartbreaking submission from a betrayed partner whose husband …

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(Episode 353)  A betrayed partner discovered after nearly eleven years of marriage that her husband had maintained a secret pornography addiction for more than twenty-five years. What makes the betrayal especially devastating is that he knew from the beginning that pornography violated her deeply h…
(Episode 352)  A betrayed partner wrote to us because, although her addict partner has recently become more proactive in recovery, she worries that her mother and friends now see her as weak, naive, or stupid for staying. Her mother previously left an addicted husband and later built a stable relat…
(Episode 351)  A betrayed partner wrote to us about her husband’s roughly 33-year history of hidden lust addiction and a specific sexual fixation involving women’s bodies that remained secret throughout their 15-year relationship. Since D-Day about five months ago, he has thrown himself into recove…
(Episode 350)  For a betrayed partner, few things are more painful than hearing, “I choose you,” while continuing to discover that her partner’s eyes, attention, sexuality, and actions are still being directed toward other women. In this episode, we address the experience of a partner who believed …
(Episode 349) Relapse in pornography or sex addiction absolutely matters, but it is often not the most fundamental threat to a relationship. The deeper crisis is what happens when relapse is followed by secrecy, lying, minimizing, withholding, or manipulation of the betrayed partner’s reality. Addi…
(Episode 348)  A betrayed partner who has a history of neglect, abuse, people-pleasing, or self-abandonment may find it especially difficult to identify and defend her own wants, needs, and boundaries after betrayal. She may feel compelled to logically justify every boundary, educate her addict par…
In Episode 347, a betrayed partner who recently ended a three-year relationship asks whether her former partner can genuinely recover after more than two decades of compulsive pornography use, high-risk sexual behaviors, drug-fueled acting out, and extensive secrecy and deception. Her central conce…
In Episode 346, a betrayed partner wonders whether her husband can genuinely recover from pornography addiction when he admits that lying, hiding, gaslighting, and hurting her are wrong but still insists that pornography itself is not “bad.” While we believe there are very substantial reasons to vi…
In episode 345, a couple is facing the enormous aftermath of pornography addiction, sexual betrayal, deception, failed disclosure, and trickle truth. The husband reports that he is now 18 months sober, has become rigorously honest and transparent, participates in therapy and 12-step recovery, and i…
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