This or That?

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Hey nerds, I'm Kim, your favorite millennial, fueled by memes, an existential dread, with a brain full of movie quotes and irrelevant trivia.
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And I'm Pam, Generation X.
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Fluent in sarcasm and intrusive thoughts, and old enough to remember when video killed the radio star.
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And together we're hysterical.
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Two sisters with zero chill, wildly different takes, and an alarming amount of useless knowledge.
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So if any of that tickles your fancy, welcome.
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You're our kind of people.
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Maybe I wanted to leave people in suspense.
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Maybe.
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Let me be.
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Oh gosh.
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Okay, okay.
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Three, two, one.
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Hey weirdos.
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Welcome back to Sisterical.
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This is Pam.
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And this is Kim.
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And we are on episode 12.
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Okay, sorry.
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Tell everybody what the episode is about.
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Um today's episode is um well, so we're gonna play a little game called This or That.
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At least that's what we've called it.
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And basically we're just gonna throw a couple options at each other and see what the preference is.
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It's such an original game.
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But it is fun to learn about each other.
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I used to do this all the time on Instagram.
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I used to do all those little posters that people would post up and say this or that, and you know, coffee or tea, mountains or beach, and all the other stuff.
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And it was like a real big thing.
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Do you remember when it was a real big thing?
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Um yeah, I remember when it was a real big thing.
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I remember when I was a real big thing in middle school and high school, I think mostly middle school.
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Um, once I got to high school, it was like too cool.
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We were too cool to do that.
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But in middle school, we had slam books.
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What?
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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I wish I still had my slam book.
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Oh my gosh.
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I sure I have.
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You owned a slam book?
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Yes.
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Honestly, I might have also, but I don't ever remember starting a slam book.
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It was, I remember, I god.
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It had Alf on the cover, and it was a spiral notebook, and it was crunchy.
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Like it was so passed around that it barely the pages wouldn't turn.
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It was just it was so overused.
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They were the best.
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Mine probably was a little different than yours.
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Mine was yeah, what was yours?
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Clean.
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Like, you know, I always said, like, you know, who's your favorite actor, who's your favorite singer, or who's your favorite band?
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Wait, wait, wait, wait.
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You need to like explain what a slam book is.
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Oh, yes.
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So, because maybe some of our listeners are little Gen Zers and they're like, What?
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They'll they'll they'll make a comeback for sure.
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Let's hope so.
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I I'm sure that they will completely turn it around, just like everything else has.
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They'll make it an app.
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Yeah.
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That's so true.
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Oh my gosh.
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Okay, so slam books were handmade uh books or like journal type booklets or whatever.
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And the first page you sign in.
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You have to sign in.
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That was the sign-in sheet.
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You had to do it.
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And the numbers on the left of the page went all the way down to however many lines there were, and you had to put your name and you could skip.
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You did not have to be in consecutive order.
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And then on the next page was a question.
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How old are you?
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And then you would have to sign next to that number, your designated number.
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And then the next pages they would say something like, Where were you born?
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And have you ever been to a concert?
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What is your big celebration crash?
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Yeah, yeah, but it didn't get there yet.
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Oh, sorry.
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Stay safe.
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They were like on the shore.
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Gotcha.
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Yeah.
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And then they started getting their feet wet with like, What do you think of me?
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Now I'm gonna say that mine did say that.
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Mine said, Yes.
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Mine said, What do you think of Pam?
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Oh my goodness.
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The funny thing is, like nobody was harsh.
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And everybody said such nice things.
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And I remember somebody said I was funny and I never forgot that.
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I don't know who it was, but and then when somebody said she's cute, somebody said she's pretty.
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You know, it was like, of course, all girls saying this stuff.
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Yeah, of course.
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It just did a lot for my ego.
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And then this is middle school, you needed it everywhere you could get it.
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Of course.
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So then after you got your feet wet, you went into the deep end a little bit, and you started to talk about who your crush was.
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And um beyond that, I don't really recall that I got beyond that on mine, but I don't think I would have.
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But um, I was very much a goody-goody and would never would just would never yeah, no, that tracks.
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And um, me being the youngest of three, I think I got a little more bold on mine, but I don't remember it being like too nefarious.
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Like I was still very, for lack of a better term, virginal.
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So I didn't like know a lot of things.
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So it was, it was, I don't know.
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But I do remember a lot of like what what do you want to be when you grow up?
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Because again, we were still in middle school.
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Um, and like um celebrity crushes and dream car and stuff like that.
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And but I also did a lot of this or that type questions.
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It was so much fun to see who wrote what and to see who was crushing on who, and to see who wanted to be um an astronaut.
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But it was it was really so like juicy to see like what everyone would say, but you would have to like flip to the first page to see who signed in because that was the only place where they put their name, and then you had to match the handwriting to the uh to all the answers.
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It was a lot of fun.
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What's funny about slam books is the name sounds so much more um dirty than it really could be.
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If you think about it, I mean, I think it would be so cool to pass around a slam book at a workplace so you learn more about each other.
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I mean, I I just think that would be so fun.
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So, like if you have a tight-knit work relationship, when it came time for their birthday, you knew what they liked.
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You could relate with other people.
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What if this person likes the same band as you?
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You could have something to talk about in the break room.
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I mean, I like that a lot.
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I think that's a fun idea if you can keep it, you know, super innocent and fun and playful.
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I mean, there's so many age ranges in lots lots of different workplaces.
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So it's like why are we limiting it to middle school?
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So I completely agree.
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I also read, and I should have done more research on this, but I read that slam books started a long time ago, like in the early 1900s.
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And uh, and they were meant to be uh hence the name, they were meant to be like a very negative thing.
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There's a whole Wikipedia page about slam books, so wow.
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All right, so we're gonna get into our this or that game.
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Um, and I am ready.
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Are you ready?
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I got some red ones here.
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Do people know?
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Do like the different generations probably translate it a different way.
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I don't know.
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Like do the youngins know?
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I know young'uns may not listen to us, but this or that is that.
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Yeah.
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Okay, go ahead if you wanna.
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Well, no, it's basically, I mean, like it sounds.
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Um, it's basically like to give an example, and I think that um this may be one that would be kind of very, very silly, but Superman or Batman, and then you would basically kind of give context as to what your answer would be and blah blah blah.
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And we're so we're just gonna go back and forth asking each other to pick from two options.
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Right.
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And I have some and you have some.
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The cool thing about it is you'll stump me probably on some and vice versa, whereas I've already got my answer for what I have.
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So that'll be interesting.
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That will be interesting.
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Also, I was going through a list of examples um because I couldn't think of many on my own, which is so annoying.
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But there were so many where I was like, I already know what she's gonna pick from.
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Like, I don't want to ask her that.
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That's boring.
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Like, I I know the audience might not know what you're gonna pick.
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That's but that's I think the core part of why we're doing this, I think, is to let them know.
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But I wanted it to be fun for me and them, not just them, because I'm a little selfish.
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That's fair.
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You were gonna say true.
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That's true.
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So true.
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Uh okay, fine.
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I mean, I admitted it first.
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So I'm so humble, you guys.
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Right?
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That's also fair.
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Yeah.
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Um, okay, so do you want to throw out the first one?
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And we're gonna start with like simpler ones, right?
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Yes, I was just gonna say that.
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We're gonna start simple, kind of kind of lame, um, a couple maybe.
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Um, but at the same time, I think yielding one of the answers over the other, it really does kind of create a lot of conversation, create a lot of controversy, maybe.
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Um, but that's the beauty of this game.
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So, but yes, the even the mild ones might, you know, spark something and um hopefully be inspiration for anybody who wants to play this with their friends.
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So for sure.
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Yeah, or sisters.
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But uh okay, so the very first one, I'll just tell you the very first one I wrote down.
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And side note, I also got help because you know, you can think of something here and there, but to sit there and have to focus on a list, it's you know, you get stomped easy, even the creatives.
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So I um I will give you the first one I have.
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Now, these are best or worst case scenario answers that you would have to give.
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Okay, so if you had to choose between pizza or burgers for the rest of your life.
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Oh, that is so tough.
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Um I'm so tough, apparently.
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So tough.
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So here's what I okay.
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You know what?
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No, I'm not even gonna go with my like issues that I have with beef.
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I love cheeseburgers.
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That's my all-time favorite food.
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So I will eat cheeseburgers for the rest of my life, even if my body doesn't agree with it.
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That's hey, that's that's pretty much how I would have looked at it, too.
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Yeah, you can't.
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I love pizza, but I'll be honest, I'm more I'm usually in the mood for a burger over pizza.
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And I do love a good pizza.
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But pizza's a meat.
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You can't, yeah, you can't extend your life and think about how often you would have pizza.
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But a burger can be made so many different ways.
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Yeah.
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No, I would just eat it the same way every time.
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But I get what you're saying.
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If I remember correctly, when you were a kid, you used to always order you would say cheeseburger with ketchup only.
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Yeah.
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Ketchup only lives rent-free in my head.
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When I think about you ordering McDonald's.
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Yeah, because that otherwise I'd have to say no mustard, no onions, no.
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Yeah.
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And I know our listeners right now are like, are you kidding me?
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I do not do things.
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Well, uh, first of all, I don't really order burgers much anymore.
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But uh yeah, for the most part, I pretty much only get cheese and ketchup.
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I do like lettuce, not a tomato fan.
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Um and then occasionally I'll get like if there's a special sauce or a burger sauce, I will absolutely always get that over ketchup.
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Yes.
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Um also on the side for me.
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If it if there is any kind of sauce, if I say so, if I don't say light sauce, they will drown my burger in sauce.
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But I like to say sauce on the side.
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Now, if we're talking like fast food, that's different because they usually have little packets anyway.
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But if you're talking like a restaurant, yes, absolutely on the side.
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I want to be in control of my burger.
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Okay.
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Our episodes could really have a lot of like topics that we never think are gonna be a topic, but pizza or burgers could absolutely be an entire episode.
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Yeah, it could.
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You started out with a banger, man.
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I know.
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Okay, so my I'm gonna do my first one of so now that both so both of us are from Florida, as most people should know by now, but now we both live in different states that have a winter and a summer.
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So my question is do you prefer winter or summer?
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I have lived in Florida all my life until five years ago, and I absolutely figured out that I am not a true Floridian.
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I hate the summers.
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We do indeed get four seasons.
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And um and for context, yeah, you're in Georgia, I'm in Oregon.
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Yes, yes, North Georgia too.
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So it's it's obviously a little colder, but not by much.
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I think I have the same answer.
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So, well, uh anyone that knows me, it's no secret.
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I hate being hot.
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I get so cranky, I cannot believe I lived in Florida as long as I did with that humidity.
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Now, the summers in Oregon are gorgeous.
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It's it's it gets up to like, well, sometimes it does get up to 100 degrees, but 100 degrees in Oregon is a million times better than 80 degrees in Florida.
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All right, moving on.
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Okay, a lot of these I wrote down.
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I did not know what you would say because sometimes you surprise me.
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Um, video games or board games.
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That's tough, dude.
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I know.
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Um, I will say it's probably more tough for you because your generation embraced both, honestly.
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Yes.
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I think that uh I love how we're answering, like our life depends on it.
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It's so intense.
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Um I think I'm gonna say board games.
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Um that's the answer.
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I figured.
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Yeah.
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I love video games, especially Nintendo games.
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Like that is where my heart is.
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It's Nintendo all the way.
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But same, um, nothing beats like a physical game.
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And it's just, I don't know, it hits different.
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So I kind of like it.
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And it's better for your eyes instead of staring at your eyes.
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Yes, it is, it is.
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And if you think of long term, yes, I think that if if we ask any of these questions and we say, okay, for the rest of your life, it's either A or B, I do honestly think that if we chose to play video games for the rest of our lives, um, it's gonna be a short life.
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We're putting way too much thought into these answers.
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And I love it.
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And I'm Yeah, yeah.
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It's great, it's great, it's great.
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Okay, what's your next one?
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Okay, so my next one is do you prefer sunrise or sunset?
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Oh my gosh.
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Oh.
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Okay, that's that's a really good one.
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I will be honest, I have experienced way more sunsets than sunrises because Oh, yeah, you're not a morning person.
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No.
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But okay, I am gonna say if I were to prefer one over the other, I would love to experience a sunrise simply based on the peace that comes with it.
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I feel like that would bring such just a calm to experience a sunrise when it is so quiet that early in the morning.
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Yes.
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But a sunset doesn't really do that, it's really just signing off for the day.
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Right, right.
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Yeah.
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I agree, I like that.
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Um, okay, that's a great answer.
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So I have experienced both on both coasts.
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The sunrise is in the east, so I have seen the sunrise on a Florida beach, and it is very peaceful.
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It's so like majestic and calm and quiet, just like you were saying, and it's beautiful.
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And it's colorful.
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Yes.
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However, I have seen a sunset in Washington, Oregon, and California.
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And actually, when I was traveling in my van, and I will never forget this.
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When I was traveling in my van, I was in San Diego, and they have this location called the Sunset Cliffs.
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And basically, it's just these really high cliffs that are right on the beach, and you get you have to climb up this huge mountain, and then you sit on the edge of this cliff, and you just watch the sun set behind the water, and it is so powerful.
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And um, I really, really, really loved it.
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It's what I like about a sunset is that it's much more orange and dark, it's darker and it creates more bold colors than a sunrise does.
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Okay.
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And it was amazing.
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I will never forget that.
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So, and then even here in Oregon, I will go to my roof and watch the sunset, and it's gorgeous.
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So, would you say if you were to answer on each coast, your east coast is sunrise and your west coast is sunset?
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Correct.
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Okay.
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But if you had to choose one.
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Overall, it's a sunset, 100%.
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Okay.
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So you're embracing the west the west coast then.
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Yeah, but I think that sunsets in general, regardless of what coast I'm on.
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I don't know.
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They're just prettier for me.
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Okay.
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Yeah.
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That's a good answer.
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Okay.
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This is actually an ongoing thing.
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I ask a lot of people this because I feel like I don't understand one of the answers, and I don't understand why.
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I don't I don't understand why I get a lot of the other answer that I don't get.
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Anyway, French toast or pancakes.
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I'll tell you what the okay, go ahead and answer, and then I'll tell you what I was gonna say.
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100% French toast.
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Me too.
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But that's weird because normally it's pancakes or waffles.
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I don't think that French toast should be included.
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I under I agree with you, but I see those choices together a lot.
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Now, I can't put French toast and waffles together because they are they I love them both.
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So I I chose the pancakes one because pancakes are a different texture than French toast, but I do see that choice a lot.
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Weird, you know what I'm saying?
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But I I love my audience, but if you're a pancake connoisseur, like please explain to me the hype.
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I don't understand the fascination with pancakes.
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Fluffy or not, I just it's just not enough balance of texture.
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French toast is exactly that, it's a balance of texture.
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Does that make sense?
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Pancakes, kind of, but I love the pancakes.
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I don't like waffles because they hold too much syrup.
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And I it's I don't like it.
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I don't like those little pockets for syrup.
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However, I do like pancakes, so I kind of get the hype, but I am a French toast girl all the way.
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See, when it comes to syrup, I'm very uh syrup.
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Syrup.
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I say syrup.
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Oh, I say syrup.
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I feel we're not born in the same stage.
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What do the elicitors say?
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We should post a story.
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I know I'm gonna totally do that.
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Is it syrup or syrup?
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Yeah.
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Um with syrup.
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Um syrup.
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I I don't use a lot.
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I think it is way Eat too sweet.
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Yeah.
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I'm very light with syrup.
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I do not drizzle or pour syrup.
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I have to dip so I can control the amount.
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Yeah.
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Well, see, I don't I don't dip, but I get that.
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Like I totally get that.
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Me, I'm very like, I whip it back and forth and I'm done.
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I put the bottle away.
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I don't like too much.
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Oh, and you have to have with any of these choices, whether it's fresh toast, pancakes, or waffles.
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If you do not have it with powdered sugar, you're crazy.
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You have to have it with powdered sugar.
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I actually, you know what?
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Younger Kim would be all over that powdered sugar.
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Now I I don't need it.
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I just need it as a free and I am good.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Um, this next one, I already know your answer and my answer, but I'm gonna ask it anyway.
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Um, would you prefer a phone call or a text?
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This is so controversial with me and Kim.
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Um okay.
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So bottom line, if I need something, gosh, this is crazy because it depends on who we're dealing with.
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Are you talking about with you?
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Yes, just like in general, not like if you have like a customer service inquiry.
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No, that's not.
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I'm absolutely gearing it to either you or if I were to deal with anybody else.
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Oh my god.
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So okay, okay.
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So you're saying that you text me because you know how I am, probably.
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But everyone else you'd rather call.
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Almost the other way around.
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Oh.
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So I would rather call you because texting, if I have to explain something, you really get me in like a phone call.
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Yeah.
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Like we go back and forth.
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Like, let's just say you're talking me through something.
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If I've I've got an iPhone question, technology.
00:24:00.480 --> 00:24:01.680
So many iPhone questions.
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Yes, I know.
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And so that right there would be like, can I just call you?
00:24:08.799 --> 00:24:15.039
And I think, side note, I think it's hilarious we're at a time where we have to text someone to ask permission to call.
00:24:15.440 --> 00:24:24.079
I think that that is probably one of the most mind-blowing transitions into the 2020s.
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And I just think that's hilarious, but it is so accurate.
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Cold calling is just so passe, you know?
00:24:33.680 --> 00:24:43.759
So, but in saying that, I know that you prefer text, but sometimes I can't explain what I what it is I want to say.
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And so I'm like, can I just call you real quick, you know?
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And it's done.
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Okay.
00:24:50.559 --> 00:24:58.000
Well, that leads me into my into our next segment, which is called this or that or this other thing.
00:24:59.599 --> 00:25:07.519
Because my new favorite bonus category.
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My new favorite thing is voice notes.
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So yes, in between texting and calling.
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So I I obviously love texting, it's my favorite thing in the world.
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Phone calls gives me anxiety.
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Not okay.
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Yes, it's not just anxiety that they give me, and that depends on the situation.
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If I'm calling you, it doesn't give me anxiety.
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What gives me anxiety is that sometimes, depending on what the other person's phone is or what their carrier is or whatever the case, there's a delay, and I hate it so much.
00:25:41.680 --> 00:25:45.519
Like, I don't know, uh maybe it doesn't exist as much as it used to.
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I barely talk to people on the phone.
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However, um uh it gives me enough frustration to where, like, no, I don't want to deal with this.
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Also, when I'm texting, I have the option to think about my response, respond the way I need to respond, and give a full response instead of like if I'm on the phone, I don't think of everything as I'm speaking.
00:26:10.480 --> 00:26:12.480
And then I think of it later when I'm in the shower.
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You know what I mean?
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Yeah, yeah.
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It's just one of those things.
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So my new favorite thing are voice notes.
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It's so efficient.
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Like I can get so much stuff out, and you can respond whenever you want to respond.
00:26:28.640 --> 00:26:34.480
And I realize that like for a like a back and forth conversation with you is not super ideal.
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But you know what I mean?
00:26:35.839 --> 00:26:42.000
Like, if I have if I need your opinion on something, I'll send you a voice note where it's like, hey, blah, blah, blah.
00:26:42.079 --> 00:26:44.000
Or if I'm giving you and Michelle an update on my list.
00:26:44.400 --> 00:26:45.440
Yeah, I was just gonna say that.
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Yeah.
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So I'll give you like a 10-minute voice note of what's going on with me, and then like you guys can respond at your leisure.
00:26:52.960 --> 00:26:58.319
And I don't have to get on a phone call with you guys, and it which takes however long.
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We can all save our time.
00:27:00.400 --> 00:27:00.720
Yeah.
00:27:00.960 --> 00:27:04.319
I like that pause, the gentle pause after you said that.
00:27:05.119 --> 00:27:07.119
Um, no, that's totally fair.
00:27:07.200 --> 00:27:12.799
And I I like I like that because I think actually more people maybe should do that.
00:27:12.960 --> 00:27:17.039
I do think it's funny because it kind of signifies that you like you don't like to be interrupted.
00:27:18.799 --> 00:27:19.119
Yeah.
00:27:19.839 --> 00:27:21.920
But but yeah, I I could see that.
00:27:22.079 --> 00:27:25.279
The thing with me is I don't really think of doing that often.
00:27:25.519 --> 00:27:31.599
Well, as previously mentioned, you have a lot of iPhone questions, which means that you're not super into your phone.
00:27:31.759 --> 00:27:32.160
Yeah.
00:27:32.319 --> 00:27:34.640
And but also you're a little bit older.
00:27:34.799 --> 00:27:34.960
Yeah.
00:27:35.200 --> 00:27:43.920
And you know, I think it's just more of like a general generational thing, but also it's just not something that's super common or something you are used to.
00:27:44.000 --> 00:27:50.319
So but I think that if you were to start doing it more, you'd be like, oh snap, this is like super easy and convenient.
00:27:50.640 --> 00:27:51.440
Yeah, that's true.
00:27:51.680 --> 00:28:09.359
Um, what I was gonna say is that I may not embrace it because I like the idea of engagement.
00:28:09.680 --> 00:28:17.519
And I I have a feeling that if I'm being recorded, then I'm just gonna feel like I'm leaving this long voicemail and I'm just gonna ramble.
00:28:17.680 --> 00:28:24.400
Whereas if I have you there to balance out the rambling, then it's gonna be a quicker kind of thing.
00:28:24.640 --> 00:28:33.119
No, see, I think it might be, I mean, maybe, but also I think it might be the opposite because you're aware that you're being recorded, so you won't ramble.
00:28:33.200 --> 00:28:36.559
You'll only say the the necessence necessary information.
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Maybe.
00:28:38.160 --> 00:28:46.240
All right, my next one is a little bit more of a bookend to your previous question, and it is do you prefer spring or fall?
00:28:47.119 --> 00:28:49.200
Now you can think of each coast.
00:28:50.400 --> 00:28:54.000
Okay, well, first of all, Florida only has summer.
00:28:54.240 --> 00:28:54.640
That's right.
00:28:54.880 --> 00:28:56.799
So there is no spring or fall.
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Um or winter.
00:28:59.440 --> 00:29:03.440
But okay, so here is what I will say.
00:29:04.400 --> 00:29:08.799
The spring in Portland, Oregon is gorgeous.
00:29:09.039 --> 00:29:16.640
Right now, I got all the cherry blossoms, um, all the flowers are starting to bloom, all the roses, blah, blah, blah.
00:29:16.799 --> 00:29:18.960
It's gorgeous here, and I do love it.
00:29:19.119 --> 00:29:23.920
Um, however, fall will always hold a special place in my heart.
00:29:24.000 --> 00:29:30.240
I don't know if it's because my birthday is in October, but um I love fall so much.
00:29:30.400 --> 00:29:33.039
I love the leaves changing.
00:29:33.359 --> 00:29:38.400
I love the cooler weather where it's like cool but not cold.
00:29:38.880 --> 00:29:48.079
Um, I love that it's like a little gloomier, and plus there's Halloween, which I love, and um and Thanksgiving.
00:29:48.400 --> 00:29:50.640
So I don't know, man.
00:29:50.880 --> 00:29:52.960
I yeah, I like fall.
00:29:54.160 --> 00:29:56.799
Well, I have to agree with you.
00:29:56.960 --> 00:30:03.839
Um, the only reason that I struggled with this is because of the aesthetics of spring.
00:30:04.160 --> 00:30:17.920
Spring is so colorful and the ambiance in the the whole like essence of being broken out of the winter gloom in that that's like a new fresh start.
00:30:18.079 --> 00:30:18.640
Yeah, yeah.
00:30:19.359 --> 00:30:22.559
Um, that's that's why I would pick spring.
00:30:22.799 --> 00:30:28.720
But if I had to choose one, the cozy vibes of fall, you can't replace that.
00:30:29.039 --> 00:30:32.160
Yeah, it is something to be so cozy, yes.
00:30:32.400 --> 00:30:33.279
Yeah, yeah.
00:30:33.759 --> 00:30:37.200
So, and I don't love the colors of fall.
00:30:37.359 --> 00:30:39.839
I I gotta be honest, I don't love it.
00:30:40.000 --> 00:30:41.759
Now they get high pitched.
00:30:42.000 --> 00:30:42.640
I know.
00:30:43.599 --> 00:30:48.319
I mean, driving around with all the fall leaves everywhere, it is gorgeous.
00:30:48.480 --> 00:30:57.359
I just mean from a palette standpoint, spring is so colorful and beautiful and totally vibe my vibe.
00:30:57.839 --> 00:31:02.559
But the fall colors from a nature standpoint, I love it.
00:31:02.960 --> 00:31:09.359
But from a palette standpoint, it's just a tad, just a tad depressing.
00:31:09.920 --> 00:31:11.680
But it's not, you know, no, you're right.
00:31:13.359 --> 00:31:14.720
You're right, yeah.
00:31:14.960 --> 00:31:17.200
Um, I also love the crunchy leaves.
00:31:17.279 --> 00:31:17.519
Yeah.
00:31:17.759 --> 00:31:20.640
Oh gosh, I love me a good crunchy leaf, man.
00:31:20.720 --> 00:31:21.359
Yeah.
00:31:22.319 --> 00:31:23.359
That's very true.
00:31:23.519 --> 00:31:26.079
And I never knew what that was until I moved here.
00:31:26.319 --> 00:31:32.160
So before it was palm fronds everywhere, right?
00:31:32.720 --> 00:31:33.200
Yeah.
00:31:33.440 --> 00:31:35.039
Oh okay.
00:31:35.279 --> 00:31:36.319
What you got next?
00:31:36.559 --> 00:31:38.480
Okay, I'm gonna step it up a little.
00:31:38.640 --> 00:31:39.200
Let's see.
00:31:41.119 --> 00:31:43.920
Okay, here's a fun one that I really liked.
00:31:44.720 --> 00:31:53.359
Okay, would you rather watch a comedian in a dramatic movie or watch a dramatic actor in a comedy?
00:31:53.599 --> 00:31:59.440
I would absolutely rather see the the the second one.
00:32:00.160 --> 00:32:02.240
The dramatic actor in a comedy.
00:32:02.559 --> 00:32:04.559
Yes, I would rather see that.
00:32:05.039 --> 00:32:12.240
I think it is so cringe to see someone who is primarily physically humorous.
00:32:12.880 --> 00:32:16.400
Um, they either do shticks, they're known for their humor.
00:32:16.640 --> 00:32:20.319
And two that come to mind is Jim Carrey and Will Farrell.
00:32:21.200 --> 00:32:25.119
When they have tried serious roles, I can't latch on to that.
00:32:25.200 --> 00:32:26.000
I can't do it.
00:32:26.319 --> 00:32:28.480
So you did not like Eternal Sunshine?
00:32:28.880 --> 00:32:31.279
I did not enjoy it as much as everybody else did.
00:32:31.599 --> 00:32:33.440
What about Stranger Than Fiction?
00:32:34.000 --> 00:32:34.640
Same.
00:32:37.440 --> 00:32:40.079
The Trend Show was kind of a serious movie.
00:32:40.240 --> 00:32:43.039
Yeah, there was enough comedy in it.
00:32:43.279 --> 00:32:47.680
It had a little bit more balance than Spotless Mind.
00:32:48.000 --> 00:32:48.319
Okay.
00:32:48.640 --> 00:32:56.799
I just I don't like that that movie that's called and I haven't seen it, but I I refuse number 23.
00:32:57.359 --> 00:32:59.039
Oh, that one was okay.
00:32:59.359 --> 00:33:00.880
But I just can't do it.
00:33:00.960 --> 00:33:02.000
I cannot do it.
00:33:02.240 --> 00:33:12.960
Now, Jim Carrey, and I hate to pigeonhole actors like that, but you you started on In Living Color or Will Farrell's sake, SNL.
00:33:13.279 --> 00:33:15.680
You know, I just feel like the foundation is laid.
00:33:15.759 --> 00:33:15.920
Okay.
00:33:16.160 --> 00:33:18.000
And then they want to go build somewhere else.
00:33:18.160 --> 00:33:19.119
I don't like it.
00:33:19.279 --> 00:33:19.759
I can't.
00:33:20.079 --> 00:33:22.960
What about Uncut Gems with Adam Sandler?
00:33:23.440 --> 00:33:25.839
Okay, that I will give a pass.
00:33:26.240 --> 00:33:30.559
I don't understand it, but I have given Adam Sandler a pass.
00:33:30.720 --> 00:33:35.920
I think he's an excellent actor that doesn't seem like he tries too hard in a serious role.
00:33:36.559 --> 00:33:37.119
Seriously, yeah.
00:33:37.359 --> 00:33:37.759
Exactly.
00:33:37.839 --> 00:33:39.200
Yeah, see, that's what it is.
00:33:39.359 --> 00:33:39.839
Thank you.
00:33:40.000 --> 00:33:50.160
It's I feel like I feel like Jim Carrey is very visually trying too hard.
00:33:50.480 --> 00:33:52.880
Adam Sandler, it's just natural.
00:33:53.279 --> 00:33:55.200
I don't get it, but it is what it is.
00:33:55.359 --> 00:33:55.599
Yeah.
00:33:55.680 --> 00:33:58.160
I mean, that's a good example as a contrast.
00:33:58.480 --> 00:33:58.640
Yeah.
00:33:58.799 --> 00:33:59.039
Yeah.
00:33:59.680 --> 00:34:00.000
Okay.
00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:02.000
I have another example.
00:34:03.440 --> 00:34:05.519
And this is not a movie, it's a TV show.
00:34:05.680 --> 00:34:07.119
What about Barry?
00:34:08.159 --> 00:34:09.679
Oh my gosh.
00:34:12.159 --> 00:34:13.440
With Bill Hader.
00:34:13.599 --> 00:34:14.239
That show.
00:34:14.480 --> 00:34:16.639
Bill, oh, that show is so good.
00:34:16.800 --> 00:34:17.599
It's so good.
00:34:17.920 --> 00:34:18.320
All right.
00:34:18.480 --> 00:34:23.039
We are not paid to say this, guys, but man, you must see that show.
00:34:23.360 --> 00:34:24.320
It's on HBO.
00:34:24.639 --> 00:34:27.039
It's on HBO, it's only four seasons.
00:34:27.199 --> 00:34:30.639
If you watch any new series next, make it Barry.
00:34:30.800 --> 00:34:31.199
Please.
00:34:31.280 --> 00:34:31.760
Yeah, Barry.
00:34:32.239 --> 00:34:36.719
You will be hooked in the first four episodes.
00:34:37.840 --> 00:34:38.480
Oh gosh.
00:34:38.639 --> 00:34:38.960
Okay.
00:34:39.280 --> 00:34:41.760
Back to our very difficult question.
00:34:42.159 --> 00:34:44.639
Um, Bill Hater gets a pass.
00:34:45.599 --> 00:34:46.880
Okay, so that's great.
00:34:46.960 --> 00:34:56.480
Okay, so there are examples of where the comedian does well in a dramatic movie, but if you had to choose, you would rather see a dramatic actor in a comedy.
00:34:56.800 --> 00:34:57.039
Yes.
00:34:57.519 --> 00:34:58.239
I agree with that.
00:34:58.480 --> 00:34:58.800
Yes.
00:34:58.880 --> 00:35:03.280
I think it's because of the delivery.
00:35:03.440 --> 00:35:10.159
We kind of, even if they're being serious, we kind of think it's funny because they're in a comedy.
00:35:10.400 --> 00:35:10.639
Yeah.
00:35:10.960 --> 00:35:16.960
It's like the whole idea You're so used to seeing this actor a certain way, and then all of a sudden they're being funny.
00:35:17.119 --> 00:35:18.000
Like it's great.
00:35:18.239 --> 00:35:20.960
It's so like it's so heartwarming.
00:35:21.519 --> 00:35:26.719
Um, a great example is Robert De Niro in um Meet the Parents.
00:35:26.960 --> 00:35:27.679
Oh, yeah.
00:35:27.760 --> 00:35:27.920
Yeah.
00:35:28.079 --> 00:35:28.320
Yeah.
00:35:28.400 --> 00:35:29.039
It's it's so great.
00:35:29.440 --> 00:35:30.239
Very, very much a culture.
00:35:30.559 --> 00:35:35.360
Most recently, um Liam Neeson in Naked Gun, the Naked Gun remake.
00:35:35.519 --> 00:35:39.039
Uh it wasn't I thought you had a lost me on that one.
00:35:39.280 --> 00:35:39.920
Did you see it?
00:35:40.159 --> 00:35:40.800
And you didn't like it.
00:35:41.039 --> 00:35:42.079
Yeah, I did see it.
00:35:42.159 --> 00:35:42.960
I didn't like it.
00:35:43.360 --> 00:35:45.519
I thought they did a really good job.
00:35:45.760 --> 00:35:52.320
Um also I'm a little biased because Akiva Shaffer wrote it, who's part of the Lonely Island.
00:35:52.719 --> 00:35:59.440
Um, but it it was nice to see such a dramatic actor in a such a silly role.
00:35:59.679 --> 00:36:00.800
And so yeah, okay.
00:36:01.360 --> 00:36:03.039
Maybe I'm just not, I don't know.
00:36:03.199 --> 00:36:12.480
I'm I think the that example probably is because I don't I'm not a big fan of Liam Neeson.
00:36:12.639 --> 00:36:20.559
I like him in Darkman, I just because of the campiness, and that's where he kind of like, you know, nobody really knew who he was.
00:36:20.800 --> 00:36:24.800
But once he started doing action, and you know, I don't know.
00:36:24.960 --> 00:36:26.880
I just am not a Liam Neeson fan.
00:36:26.960 --> 00:36:28.559
He's a little stale for me.
00:36:28.719 --> 00:36:29.599
I don't know.
00:36:29.840 --> 00:36:30.719
I can't.
00:36:31.599 --> 00:36:31.920
Okay.
00:36:33.039 --> 00:36:35.280
But but good examples nonetheless.
00:36:35.599 --> 00:36:38.239
But I just um I'd have to kind of think of more.
00:36:38.559 --> 00:36:40.480
But what about ooh, I got a good one.
00:36:40.719 --> 00:36:45.280
What about when Tom Cruise was in um gold member?
00:36:47.599 --> 00:36:50.719
Yes, that's that is a a a good example.
00:36:50.880 --> 00:36:53.039
Um I just would rather that.
00:36:53.199 --> 00:37:11.519
If I if I if I were to have to see a comedian actor, you put it this way, it is very, very much there's like a whole nuance to it because some can win me over, some can just be like, no, I can't watch your movies.
00:37:11.679 --> 00:37:13.199
So it's really, really hard to say.
00:37:13.519 --> 00:37:14.719
Yeah, yeah.
00:37:15.119 --> 00:37:18.719
But if I had to, it would be the serious actor in a comedy.
00:37:19.199 --> 00:37:19.599
Agreed.
00:37:19.840 --> 00:37:20.159
Yeah.
00:37:20.559 --> 00:37:21.280
What you got?
00:37:21.519 --> 00:37:22.559
Um, okay.
00:37:22.880 --> 00:37:27.760
So ox cord or shotgun.
00:37:29.679 --> 00:37:31.039
Which do you choose?
00:37:32.239 --> 00:37:33.840
Why wouldn't it be both?
00:37:34.320 --> 00:37:34.639
No.
00:37:35.280 --> 00:37:36.480
You have to choose one.
00:37:36.800 --> 00:37:40.639
I can either sit in the passenger seat or choose the music.
00:37:40.960 --> 00:37:41.440
Yes.
00:37:41.920 --> 00:37:42.480
Dumb.
00:37:42.719 --> 00:37:50.480
That should be being in the passenger seat should give you full control, but I realize not the that's not the point of this game.
00:37:50.639 --> 00:37:51.119
Right.
00:37:51.440 --> 00:37:51.760
Okay.
00:37:52.239 --> 00:37:55.039
Um there's no best case scenarios in this game.
00:37:55.440 --> 00:38:02.320
I'd rather choose the music because I you know I am very weird about music.
00:38:02.480 --> 00:38:09.440
I don't listen to a lot of music, and I don't so when I do listen to music, I want to listen to music that I know.
00:38:10.000 --> 00:38:12.639
So I don't give a crap about sitting in the passenger seat.
00:38:12.800 --> 00:38:13.519
I'll sit in the back.
00:38:13.599 --> 00:38:15.760
I'll sit in the trunk if I can call the music.
00:38:16.000 --> 00:38:16.719
That's right.
00:38:16.960 --> 00:38:18.880
That's basically what I would have said.
00:38:19.039 --> 00:38:20.000
Um yeah.
00:38:20.159 --> 00:38:24.159
I'm I'm you are a big you would choose that for a different reason.
00:38:24.239 --> 00:38:26.239
Yeah, I would just choose you have better taste.
00:38:26.400 --> 00:38:26.639
Yeah.
00:38:26.800 --> 00:38:27.039
Yeah.
00:38:27.199 --> 00:38:41.280
I just I love and I and I'm such a fan, and everybody that knows me knows that I'm always trying to show you songs that I just discovered and or even a whole genre.
00:38:41.519 --> 00:38:44.559
As a matter of fact, I have sent you songs and I got nothing.
00:38:44.719 --> 00:38:46.960
You left me on red on so many of them.
00:38:47.280 --> 00:38:48.639
That's probably true.
00:38:48.880 --> 00:38:49.039
Yeah.
00:38:49.519 --> 00:38:52.559
You're like, yeah, I don't, I'm not going into Spotify right now.
00:38:52.960 --> 00:38:59.360
But at the same time, if I share music with you, just know that that is that's a part of your soul.
00:38:59.599 --> 00:39:01.039
Yeah, that's a very good thing.
00:39:01.199 --> 00:39:05.920
So yeah, and I feel like that's accurate for majority of people.
00:39:06.000 --> 00:39:14.159
And so I feel like such a jerk when someone shares their music with me and I don't resonate with it the same way they do.
00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:19.840
I have I don't have the same connection feeling with it, yeah, and I hate that.
00:39:20.000 --> 00:39:22.159
And that's a different problem than anything.
00:39:22.480 --> 00:39:27.280
Yeah, but hey, that's humble in itself, but think of it this way.
00:39:28.079 --> 00:39:40.079
If someone shares a song with you, just know that your opinion on it, whether you like it or not, it matters to them because they thought of you when they heard it.
00:39:40.320 --> 00:39:43.280
Or you are one of the people they thought of when they heard it.
00:39:43.440 --> 00:39:47.039
I just feel like they're gonna be disappointed in my response.
00:39:47.280 --> 00:39:49.760
And I just want to listen to Cotton Eye Joe.
00:39:53.280 --> 00:39:54.559
Totally valid.
00:39:54.880 --> 00:39:57.440
But let's let's think of it this way.
00:39:58.239 --> 00:40:00.639
How do you feel when you talk about a movie?
00:40:00.800 --> 00:40:06.000
You're so like, yeah, it's great, but when it comes to a song, you're like, how do I tell them I don't like it?
00:40:06.239 --> 00:40:07.119
Yeah, you know?
00:40:07.440 --> 00:40:09.039
So it's very interesting.
00:40:09.280 --> 00:40:09.679
Yeah.
00:40:10.000 --> 00:40:12.400
But okay, so that's our answer.
00:40:12.480 --> 00:40:13.760
We have the same answer there.
00:40:14.000 --> 00:40:14.480
Yeah.
00:40:14.719 --> 00:40:17.280
Actually, I feel like a lot of these are pretty much the same.
00:40:17.519 --> 00:40:18.079
Yeah.
00:40:18.320 --> 00:40:20.480
Um, what do we got?
00:40:20.719 --> 00:40:26.159
Would you rather go skydiving or scuba diving?
00:40:26.400 --> 00:40:26.719
Okay.
00:40:26.960 --> 00:40:33.760
You know, I don't even know why I went into the depth, no pun intended, of this question.
00:40:34.079 --> 00:40:38.079
Because I would not want to go underwater like that.
00:40:38.320 --> 00:40:45.280
Like, I I don't care about what's going on under there as much as most people, maybe.
00:40:45.440 --> 00:40:47.199
I'm like, hey, that's their business.
00:40:47.360 --> 00:40:49.519
Whatever they got swaying under the water.
00:40:49.679 --> 00:40:50.000
Yeah.
00:40:50.239 --> 00:40:52.079
Um, so definitely skydiving.
00:40:52.320 --> 00:40:57.599
And I know you would probably choose that because you chose that once in your life.
00:40:58.320 --> 00:40:59.280
That is correct.
00:40:59.519 --> 00:41:07.840
I have gone skydiving, and being from Florida, there should have been uh more than one opportunity to go scuba diving.
00:41:08.159 --> 00:41:09.840
But it's it the same.
00:41:10.000 --> 00:41:11.360
I have the same outlook.
00:41:11.519 --> 00:41:16.639
Like it there are so many things happening underwater.
00:41:17.519 --> 00:41:20.239
Also, like we're not supposed to breathe under there.
00:41:20.320 --> 00:41:25.679
So the fact that I need an apparatus, a breathing apparatus to exist.
00:41:26.159 --> 00:41:29.599
Like, I think that they should just leave it be.
00:41:29.760 --> 00:41:40.559
There's a lot of like that angler fish, that fish, I don't not that I would go that deep, obviously, but like stuff like that, like I don't want to I think it would be cool.
00:41:40.800 --> 00:41:43.039
I think eventually I'd like to go scuba diving.
00:41:43.199 --> 00:41:46.000
However, yeah, I don't have much interest in it.
00:41:46.159 --> 00:41:49.280
Skydiving, I will say, was very exhilarating.
00:41:49.440 --> 00:41:50.079
It was really cool.
00:41:50.159 --> 00:41:53.840
I don't know if I'd do it again, um, but I'm really glad that I got to do it.
00:41:53.920 --> 00:41:55.119
It was really, really awesome.
00:41:55.360 --> 00:41:55.599
Okay.
00:41:55.760 --> 00:41:59.760
Other except after we pulled the parachute, not a fan.
00:41:59.920 --> 00:42:01.920
I got super nauseous.
00:42:02.239 --> 00:42:02.719
Really?
00:42:03.119 --> 00:42:05.679
Yeah, like the free falling was great.
00:42:05.840 --> 00:42:07.679
I was like, this is amazing.
00:42:07.920 --> 00:42:12.400
I'm literally falling in the sky, like it's so weird.
00:42:12.719 --> 00:42:18.320
And then he pulled the parachute and we're just floating there, and I got really sick.
00:42:18.480 --> 00:42:22.480
I didn't throw up or anything, but anyway, skydiving was cool.
00:42:22.800 --> 00:42:23.119
Okay.
00:42:24.159 --> 00:42:32.159
Um would you rather be the first to arrive or the last to leave?
00:42:33.119 --> 00:42:33.920
Ugh.
00:42:35.760 --> 00:42:36.880
First to arrive.
00:42:37.119 --> 00:42:39.039
So I can leave whenever I want.
00:42:39.360 --> 00:42:39.840
Yep.
00:42:40.079 --> 00:42:40.960
I said the same thing.
00:42:41.199 --> 00:42:43.280
I'm usually the first to arrive anyway.
00:42:43.519 --> 00:42:44.079
I know.
00:42:44.400 --> 00:42:48.960
And and I do know that about you because we we did talk about this on the phone one time.
00:42:49.119 --> 00:42:55.440
And I hate showing up after let's just say even a handful of people are there.
00:42:55.599 --> 00:42:55.760
Yeah.
00:42:56.000 --> 00:42:59.679
Because especially like if there's an event where you gotta find a table.
00:42:59.840 --> 00:43:00.000
Yeah.
00:43:00.320 --> 00:43:01.039
Oh my gosh.
00:43:01.119 --> 00:43:02.320
Yeah, that is the worst.
00:43:02.559 --> 00:43:08.719
It's like the whole world is looking at you choose who you think would not mind you sitting near them.
00:43:08.880 --> 00:43:09.760
You know, things like that.
00:43:10.000 --> 00:43:11.199
Or talk about overthinking.
00:43:11.519 --> 00:43:19.599
Going on dates, which obviously you don't do, but as a single person, if I'm gonna go on a date, I'm gonna show up an hour early.
00:43:19.760 --> 00:43:20.079
Yeah.
00:43:20.239 --> 00:43:22.559
Just to make sure that they are looking for me.
00:43:22.800 --> 00:43:26.079
And then they walk in, you'd be like, Oh, how you've been sitting here long?
00:43:26.320 --> 00:43:27.760
No, I just got here.
00:43:28.800 --> 00:43:29.440
Yeah.
00:43:29.920 --> 00:43:30.400
Exactly.
00:43:30.639 --> 00:43:32.239
Gotta be all nonchalant about it.
00:43:32.400 --> 00:43:33.119
But exactly.
00:43:33.280 --> 00:43:36.159
Um, yeah, no, I'd rather arrive early.
00:43:36.320 --> 00:43:36.559
Yes.
00:43:36.800 --> 00:43:37.280
Definitely.
00:43:37.679 --> 00:43:38.800
Same, same.
00:43:39.440 --> 00:43:44.320
Um, would you rather sing in the shower or the car?
00:43:44.800 --> 00:43:46.880
Or which do you prefer, I guess?
00:43:47.199 --> 00:43:47.519
Oh.
00:43:48.159 --> 00:43:50.239
Well, okay, we talked about this too.
00:43:50.480 --> 00:43:50.960
What?
00:43:51.280 --> 00:43:58.320
We talked about the shower singing, I think on episode one or when we did the icebreakers two.
00:43:58.559 --> 00:43:59.679
I can't remember which one.
00:44:00.320 --> 00:44:00.639
Yeah.
00:44:00.880 --> 00:44:04.320
But I was saying that I never do either.
00:44:04.559 --> 00:44:08.480
But I would say if I were to do one, I know what you're gonna say.
00:44:08.719 --> 00:44:09.360
The car.
00:44:09.760 --> 00:44:10.639
Oh what?
00:44:11.039 --> 00:44:23.280
Yeah, well, I sound better in the shower, but the car, I have a little bit more freedom in my encasing of my metal casing that I have around me.
00:44:23.440 --> 00:44:23.760
Okay.
00:44:23.920 --> 00:44:27.119
And I don't have to worry about anybody hearing me seeing bad.
00:44:27.440 --> 00:44:32.320
That's really surprising because I thought you were gonna say the shower so that nobody can see you.
00:44:32.480 --> 00:44:39.119
Because if you're belting out to Mireia, Carey, and your car, people can see like you jamming.
00:44:39.280 --> 00:44:42.239
So I'm surprised because you do not like when people can see you.
00:44:42.480 --> 00:44:42.960
Uh-uh.
00:44:43.119 --> 00:44:44.960
I'm very conscious when I'm in the car.
00:44:45.119 --> 00:44:48.320
Like if I'm eating in the car or whatever, I'm like, don't look at me.
00:44:49.519 --> 00:44:50.880
Don't do it.
00:44:51.119 --> 00:44:51.679
Exactly.
00:44:51.840 --> 00:44:53.920
That's why I can't believe you took the car.
00:44:54.239 --> 00:45:02.559
If I'm okay, no, if you want a little bit more context, if I'm driving and people are driving too and nobody's paying attention to me, yeah.
00:45:02.719 --> 00:45:06.000
But if I'm at a stoplight, you think I'm gonna continue that song?
00:45:06.239 --> 00:45:06.559
No.
00:45:06.800 --> 00:45:08.079
I'm just gonna let it play.
00:45:08.400 --> 00:45:08.800
Pam.
00:45:09.920 --> 00:45:11.679
You gotta live your life, man.
00:45:13.519 --> 00:45:15.360
Who cares about other people?
00:45:15.599 --> 00:45:16.719
Okay, Rihanna.
00:45:23.039 --> 00:45:24.480
Um, I agree with you.
00:45:24.639 --> 00:45:29.920
I'm not even I'm not even like denying XYZ.
00:45:30.079 --> 00:45:31.440
I just, I just know.
00:45:31.599 --> 00:45:32.719
But that's just me.
00:45:32.800 --> 00:45:33.519
That's my answer.
00:45:33.920 --> 00:45:34.159
Okay.
00:45:34.400 --> 00:45:39.039
Well, yeah, I I have a a typical Kim answer.
00:45:39.280 --> 00:45:40.400
It's a little bit of both.
00:45:40.639 --> 00:45:42.480
So I don't have a car.
00:45:42.719 --> 00:45:46.960
So at the time at this moment, I only have shower singing.
00:45:47.199 --> 00:45:49.199
Um, and I do it daily.
00:45:49.360 --> 00:45:52.320
Every morning, I well, that's not true.
00:45:52.559 --> 00:45:58.480
Uh my weekend showers, I definitely sing full volume in the shower.
00:45:58.800 --> 00:46:09.760
But um it does not beat the long drives that I would have to take in my van and then just belting out.
00:46:10.000 --> 00:46:13.840
Oh my gosh, my radio did not work, or the speakers in my van didn't work.
00:46:13.920 --> 00:46:15.599
So I had a big Bluetooth speaker.
00:46:15.920 --> 00:46:17.119
I was gonna ask about that.
00:46:17.360 --> 00:46:18.000
Okay, yeah.
00:46:18.239 --> 00:46:20.000
Yeah, I didn't, it was disappointing.
00:46:20.159 --> 00:46:29.599
But I had this great Bluetooth speaker that I would turn up all the way, and oh, me and Celine Dion, we had some good times.
00:46:32.079 --> 00:46:37.280
Like I would my eyes would start tearing when I would belt out to Celine Dion.
00:46:37.440 --> 00:46:38.639
Like it was powerful.
00:46:38.800 --> 00:46:39.440
Yeah.
00:46:39.920 --> 00:46:42.719
So I prefer car singing for sure.
00:46:42.960 --> 00:46:48.800
Okay, and I do not care who looks at me next to when they're next to me.
00:46:49.039 --> 00:46:51.760
Yeah, and I I pretty much would figure that.
00:46:51.920 --> 00:46:58.159
Um these are these are the type of questions that absolutely expose the difference in me and you.
00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:01.440
Yeah, and I think those things are yeah, yeah.
00:47:01.599 --> 00:47:13.360
And I think those things are interesting because you know, sometimes we wish that we could be the opposite way, you know, but it's not it's not in us sometimes, depending on what it is.
00:47:13.599 --> 00:47:16.800
And sometimes we're like, you know what, I'm gonna try that this week.
00:47:17.199 --> 00:47:18.079
So yeah.
00:47:18.639 --> 00:47:31.440
Um, and and let me also say the difference too between the shower thing and with me and you is I can't as as goofy as I am around my family, I can't sing in the shower if they're home.
00:47:31.599 --> 00:47:36.960
Because I feel like they're out there with their bucket of you know popcorn just laughing, you know, at me singing.
00:47:37.039 --> 00:47:40.000
So if I lived alone, maybe a different story.
00:47:40.320 --> 00:47:47.440
Michelle has, I think, mentioned to you on numerous occasions that whenever I'm staying at her house, she hears me singing in the shower.
00:47:47.599 --> 00:47:48.880
I think she likes it.
00:47:49.119 --> 00:47:49.840
I don't know.
00:47:50.000 --> 00:47:52.159
I hope she does because I'm not gonna stop.
00:47:52.320 --> 00:47:57.920
But um well, I do remember in Tampa when we when we all met together, you were doing that, and I thought it was funny.
00:47:58.400 --> 00:48:00.239
You even told us, just so you know.
00:48:00.480 --> 00:48:02.079
I might be singing, so you know.
00:48:02.400 --> 00:48:03.679
It just makes me feel better.
00:48:03.920 --> 00:48:04.960
Yeah, well, that's good.
00:48:05.119 --> 00:48:08.159
Yeah, it's harmless, depending on how bad you sing.
00:48:08.400 --> 00:48:09.199
Right, yeah.
00:48:09.519 --> 00:48:11.039
Um, okay.
00:48:11.519 --> 00:48:19.679
So, okay, well, that's a good segue into this question, which is would you prefer night showers or morning showers?
00:48:20.079 --> 00:48:22.079
Oh, oh gosh.
00:48:22.320 --> 00:48:28.079
This one's so controversial because based on what I see on the internet, night showers are where it's at.
00:48:28.320 --> 00:48:32.400
Like, like a lot of people are like, look, you're freaking dirty.
00:48:32.559 --> 00:48:34.880
Like you lived the entire day.
00:48:35.039 --> 00:48:36.719
Yeah, this and this and this.
00:48:36.880 --> 00:48:39.920
You need to shower at night before you get into your clean sheets.
00:48:40.159 --> 00:48:42.000
I am a morning shower person.
00:48:42.800 --> 00:48:44.639
I do not shower at night.
00:48:44.800 --> 00:48:46.000
First of all, I'm too lazy.
00:48:46.079 --> 00:48:46.639
I'm tired.
00:48:46.800 --> 00:48:48.159
I just want to do nothing.
00:48:48.320 --> 00:48:51.519
Yeah, second of all, I sweat a lot when I sleep.
00:48:51.679 --> 00:48:53.360
Um not a lot.
00:48:53.760 --> 00:48:56.079
It's not like my sheets are covered in sweat.
00:48:56.480 --> 00:48:58.159
It was almost like you offended yourself.
00:48:58.400 --> 00:48:59.039
I did.
00:48:59.519 --> 00:49:01.519
I was so mad at myself.
00:49:01.840 --> 00:49:10.719
It's not a lot, but my point is that I sweat a little bit when I sleep, but my scalp sweats.
00:49:11.119 --> 00:49:13.679
So I need to wash my hair every morning.
00:49:13.920 --> 00:49:15.280
My hair and my face.
00:49:15.679 --> 00:49:22.159
So if I was to take a shower at night, my hair and face would still feel gross in the morning.
00:49:22.320 --> 00:49:24.239
So I'm a morning shower person.
00:49:25.039 --> 00:49:29.280
So now that that makes sense for you because of the reasons you gave.
00:49:29.519 --> 00:49:33.360
Um with me, I would prefer night showers.
00:49:33.760 --> 00:49:39.760
However, the difference between me and you is I do not wash my hair every single day because my hair's thick.
00:49:40.079 --> 00:49:40.559
Correct.
00:49:40.960 --> 00:49:43.920
Well, also, you're not supposed to do it anyway, but I don't care.
00:49:44.079 --> 00:49:45.599
I have to wash my hair every day.
00:49:45.679 --> 00:49:46.000
I'm sorry.
00:49:46.079 --> 00:49:46.719
Yeah, to all that.
00:49:46.960 --> 00:49:48.480
Well, it's the hair people.
00:49:49.039 --> 00:49:52.480
The hair people, the stylists and the hair enthusiasts.
00:49:52.639 --> 00:49:52.880
Yeah.
00:49:53.039 --> 00:50:00.880
Well, I used to, the stylist that I used to have, she told me hairstylists and dermatologists are absolutely completely opposite.
00:50:01.039 --> 00:50:06.400
Dermatologists are like, no, you need to wash your hair this many times a week, blah, blah, blah.
00:50:06.559 --> 00:50:11.039
Hairstylists are like, whatever you can get away with, and it makes your hair look good.
00:50:11.519 --> 00:50:26.239
Because sometimes you train your hair, and if you can go, according to stylists, if you can go, let's just say hypothetically, three days without washing your hair, and it it looks good, rock it.
00:50:26.559 --> 00:50:30.000
But dermatologists are like, um, what?
00:50:30.719 --> 00:50:32.639
And then they battle it out.
00:50:32.800 --> 00:50:33.280
But no.
00:50:33.360 --> 00:50:38.400
Um if I go more than two days without washing my hair, I look like a greasy rat.
00:50:38.639 --> 00:50:38.880
Yeah.
00:50:39.039 --> 00:50:39.760
Like it's so cool.
00:50:40.000 --> 00:50:41.360
I mean, I'm not agreeing.
00:50:41.920 --> 00:50:45.039
Yeah, you do look like a greasy rat.
00:50:45.760 --> 00:50:47.039
I love you, but ew.
00:50:47.280 --> 00:50:48.239
Yeah, I know, I know.
00:50:48.480 --> 00:50:54.239
No, I don't remember, but I know that I'm agreeing because I know that you struggle with your hair.
00:50:54.480 --> 00:50:57.840
So I get it because I know that it's a struggle.
00:50:57.920 --> 00:51:00.480
You always have to keep it washed because it gets greasy fast.
00:51:00.719 --> 00:51:02.559
Where did you get thick hair from?
00:51:03.119 --> 00:51:05.360
I guess um, grandma.
00:51:05.840 --> 00:51:07.760
Oh, yeah, that makes sense.
00:51:08.000 --> 00:51:12.800
Because Michelle and I, you know, we don't like you because of that.
00:51:15.199 --> 00:51:20.239
Our hair is so thin, and your hair doesn't make any sense biologically.
00:51:20.800 --> 00:51:24.320
Um also, do you side note?
00:51:24.400 --> 00:51:34.159
Do you remember, and I know I bring this up like every five years, um when I was first learning how to wash my own hair.
00:51:34.639 --> 00:51:49.360
Oh I was like seven, and I had to use shampoo and conditioner, and then I was like, Pam, how do I know when when all the conditioner is out of my hair?
00:51:49.519 --> 00:51:52.400
And you're like, when it doesn't feel soft anymore.
00:51:52.559 --> 00:51:53.840
Or no, you didn't say soft.
00:51:53.920 --> 00:51:56.480
You said when it doesn't feel slick anymore.
00:51:56.800 --> 00:52:01.199
And I'm like, that doesn't make sense because conditioner is supposed to make your hair feel slick.
00:52:01.440 --> 00:52:06.400
Anyway, I remember it being an we had more than one argument about my hair.
00:52:06.559 --> 00:52:09.519
You used to get mad that I would air dry it instead of blow dry it.
00:52:10.639 --> 00:52:11.440
You hated it.
00:52:11.840 --> 00:52:12.320
I hated.
00:52:12.639 --> 00:52:18.400
Um because it it I felt like it made it limp if you compare between the two.
00:52:18.639 --> 00:52:18.880
Yeah.
00:52:19.199 --> 00:52:20.320
But I mean, I can't remember now.
00:52:20.719 --> 00:52:22.000
Possibly, yeah.
00:52:22.320 --> 00:52:23.119
I don't know, man.
00:52:23.199 --> 00:52:26.639
I just remember you being mad at me a lot for my decisions.
00:52:27.679 --> 00:52:29.199
Let's just take it out of hair.
00:52:29.360 --> 00:52:33.280
Let's go on to general, you know, subjects, general hatred.
00:52:33.440 --> 00:52:33.679
Yeah.
00:52:33.920 --> 00:52:34.239
Okay.
00:52:34.559 --> 00:52:44.000
Um, so But also, we we gotta also, since we're on the topic of hair, do you also remember, which you also bring up sometimes, and I think it's hilarious.
00:52:44.320 --> 00:52:48.559
Yes, go ahead.
00:52:49.039 --> 00:52:59.280
You you were speaking to a stylist, and she was you were saying how you would wash your hair, but your sister taught you to let to lather twice.
00:53:00.239 --> 00:53:02.559
But she was like, Oh my god, no.
00:53:02.960 --> 00:53:10.480
And then later you said, but I forgot to tell her it was only a dime size, and I feel like that would have changed everything.
00:53:10.880 --> 00:53:14.000
Not only was it a stylist, it was my friend Danielle.
00:53:14.239 --> 00:53:17.760
Oh yeah, yeah, is Daniela listening?
00:53:18.079 --> 00:53:19.440
No, Danielle does not listen.
00:53:19.519 --> 00:53:20.639
I'm just gonna shut her up.
00:53:22.000 --> 00:53:23.599
Hey Danielle Flowers.
00:53:24.079 --> 00:53:32.559
Um, but yeah, I was like, yeah, so I I I was told that you're supposed to wash your hair twice.
00:53:32.719 --> 00:53:41.119
The second time, well, well, I didn't specify that, but um, and then I I even pointed out like on the back of shampoo bottles, it says rinse and repeat.
00:53:41.199 --> 00:53:41.360
Yeah.
00:53:41.519 --> 00:53:43.280
And she's like, no, that's a scam.
00:53:43.440 --> 00:53:47.360
They just want you to go through the shampoo quicker than you're supposed to.
00:53:47.599 --> 00:53:47.920
Yeah.
00:53:48.079 --> 00:53:50.639
And then I was like, oh yeah, maybe you're right.
00:53:50.800 --> 00:54:00.000
And then I go home later and I'm like, oh crap, I meant to tell her that like the second time you wash your hair is just such a tiny amount that it wouldn't even make sense.
00:54:00.320 --> 00:54:02.400
Yeah, you don't need a yeah.
00:54:02.800 --> 00:54:05.360
I mean, it's literally smaller than a dime size.
00:54:05.519 --> 00:54:07.360
Yes, like a peanut size.
00:54:07.760 --> 00:54:13.440
And on top of that, the placement of that is right there at your um root.
00:54:13.679 --> 00:54:16.000
Is it the crown right there where your bangs are?
00:54:16.239 --> 00:54:16.400
Yeah.
00:54:16.559 --> 00:54:20.800
So that's really the focus because that's what gets your hand touches that a lot.
00:54:20.880 --> 00:54:22.960
So that's where you get greasier.
00:54:23.360 --> 00:54:26.079
And so that's kind of the focus of where you put the second one.
00:54:26.159 --> 00:54:31.440
And that we that really helps the first session wash out.
00:54:31.679 --> 00:54:33.440
So it's it's really just a thing.
00:54:33.760 --> 00:54:38.159
Um, my next question is would you rather shop online or in store?
00:54:38.320 --> 00:54:40.239
I thought this was a great question for you.
00:54:40.559 --> 00:54:50.400
It is because I okay, if I have to give a solid, simple answer, it would hey, let's try that for a concept.
00:54:50.960 --> 00:54:54.000
Um, I would say in person.
00:54:54.960 --> 00:54:57.360
I absolutely like the idea.
00:54:57.519 --> 00:55:00.960
Now let's not let's not get it twisted.
00:55:01.119 --> 00:55:02.639
I am not a shopper.
00:55:02.960 --> 00:55:05.519
If I am looking for something, I will go.
00:55:05.679 --> 00:55:08.639
If I want to go to a thrift store, I want to just go.
00:55:09.039 --> 00:55:13.199
I don't I'm not in my teens anymore.
00:55:13.360 --> 00:55:15.920
I don't just go to the mall and shop all day.
00:55:16.639 --> 00:55:23.679
And even a particular store, the only store I will spend a lot of time in is a thrift store.
00:55:23.920 --> 00:55:27.679
I just there's so much to to you know see there.
00:55:28.320 --> 00:55:38.400
Now if I just want to get something that I'll probably pay less for online, then I'll just do it like that.
00:55:39.119 --> 00:55:47.360
But if I had to choose, I would say in person so that I can see, feel, try on, um, experience just being out of the house, you know, that kind of thing.
00:55:47.920 --> 00:55:50.639
Well, I'm a I am an online shopper.
00:55:50.960 --> 00:55:53.119
First of all, I'm really bad at shopping.
00:55:53.280 --> 00:55:56.880
Like I am notoriously bad at shopping.
00:55:57.039 --> 00:55:58.800
I don't know how to explain what I mean.
00:55:58.960 --> 00:56:00.960
You're just gonna have to take my word for it.
00:56:01.280 --> 00:56:03.519
But that's one of the many reasons.
00:56:04.400 --> 00:56:04.719
Okay.
00:56:05.199 --> 00:56:07.119
So I prefer online shopping.
00:56:07.280 --> 00:56:12.639
And what's frustrating about that is that I do need to try clothes on.
00:56:12.719 --> 00:56:21.679
I not only am I super short, but I have there are like certain clothes that I need to try on in order to make sure that they work with my body.
00:56:22.000 --> 00:56:22.559
Right.
00:56:22.880 --> 00:56:37.519
And I would I would rather buy 10 pairs of jeans online in different sizes and shapes and then return what doesn't work than to go and try on clothes.
00:56:37.840 --> 00:56:39.760
Because that is such a Kim answer.
00:56:39.920 --> 00:56:41.440
It's so ridiculous, Pam.
00:56:41.760 --> 00:56:44.159
And I I agree, I am a disaster.
00:56:44.559 --> 00:56:47.039
But I it could be worse.
00:56:47.199 --> 00:56:48.079
It could be worse.
00:56:48.400 --> 00:57:01.280
When I go to department stores to try on clothes, um I get first of all, it's very time consuming to like pick out all of these clothes you want to try on and then try them on.
00:57:01.519 --> 00:57:07.280
But what's so frustrating about for me about trying clothes on is how hot I get.
00:57:07.760 --> 00:57:17.440
I get so hot in those changing rooms because the lights are so bright, it's an enclosed room, and I don't, it's just so unenjoyable for me.
00:57:17.599 --> 00:57:18.159
I hate it.
00:57:18.239 --> 00:57:26.559
And although it is way more efficient than what I mentioned previously, it's just it's I'm not a fan.
00:57:26.880 --> 00:57:34.960
And um what I will also say is that online shopping gives me a lot more options, which is not necessarily a good thing.
00:57:35.280 --> 00:57:43.519
I know, um, in terms of being overwhelmed, but I'm able to control the overwhelmingness, I guess, a little bit more when it's online.
00:57:44.559 --> 00:57:57.519
Um yeah, so and then you know, being able to sort things by fil with filters, um, like lowest to highest price, that sort of thing, that's definitely a huge that's the perks there of that, yeah.
00:57:57.679 --> 00:58:05.119
Yeah, and I think in your case, in your defense, because I have because I use public transportation, yes, yeah.
00:58:05.440 --> 00:58:15.840
If I didn't have a vehicle and didn't feel like you know, riding with 27 weird folks, I would definitely shop online.
00:58:16.239 --> 00:58:18.079
So I I get you there.
00:58:18.239 --> 00:58:23.679
Um in their defense, the folks on the public transportation are not always weird.
00:58:23.920 --> 00:58:24.480
I know.
00:58:24.719 --> 00:58:30.320
It's definitely it's inconvenient to carry things on a bus or a train.
00:58:30.639 --> 00:58:31.920
And that's what I don't like.
00:58:32.159 --> 00:58:40.000
It's very it's very awkward and uncomfortable to just carry like bags of clothes or bags of trinkets or groceries.
00:58:40.159 --> 00:58:43.119
I get my groceries delivered because it's just not.
00:58:44.320 --> 00:58:56.239
Not only am I not strong enough to carry the groceries that I need to need to carry, but I'm so short that when I hold the bags at my sides, they are on the ground.
00:58:57.760 --> 00:59:00.480
I don't know why that's so funny, but that's so true.
00:59:00.639 --> 00:59:02.159
It's a real struggle.
00:59:02.400 --> 00:59:02.880
It is.
00:59:03.119 --> 00:59:06.239
And people don't understand what it's like to be five feet tall.
00:59:06.559 --> 00:59:07.519
No, no.
00:59:08.159 --> 00:59:10.880
Gosh, preach it, girl.
00:59:14.159 --> 00:59:16.159
Okay, what is your next question, please?
00:59:16.480 --> 00:59:20.480
Okay, we're gonna start to get in weird territory.
00:59:20.880 --> 00:59:25.599
Maybe not, because I'm bouncing around here, but I have a few here that are weird.
00:59:25.840 --> 00:59:31.119
Okay, okay, wet socks or cold hands.
00:59:31.679 --> 00:59:32.880
Such a weird one.
00:59:33.119 --> 00:59:34.239
That is a weird one.
00:59:34.400 --> 00:59:34.719
Yeah.
00:59:34.880 --> 00:59:35.519
Thanks, internet.
00:59:37.199 --> 00:59:37.679
Yeah.
00:59:38.000 --> 00:59:41.039
So can I take off the wet socks?
00:59:41.280 --> 00:59:42.719
And can I put gloves on my hands?
00:59:43.039 --> 00:59:46.639
Wet socks or okay.
00:59:46.880 --> 00:59:52.880
So what you're saying meaning no, yes, wet socks, yes, or cold hands.
00:59:53.039 --> 00:59:59.119
Okay, I think to be honest, I think I'm gonna p pick wet socks.
01:00:00.320 --> 01:00:02.320
That is because it's hilarious.
01:00:02.880 --> 01:00:09.840
I don't like I don't like my feet being cold, but I'd rather my feet be wet than my hands be cold.
01:00:10.239 --> 01:00:11.119
Correct, yes.
01:00:11.519 --> 01:00:13.360
And that's exactly the way I thought of it.
01:00:13.519 --> 01:00:24.880
Now, when I'm driving around here in the winter time and I forget my gloves, pumping gas is the worst experience ever.
01:00:25.840 --> 01:00:44.320
It hurts, it hurts, yeah, and then in just that, let's just say two to three minutes, you're standing there, there is no pocket warm enough to accommodate your cold hands, and you get so angry at your hands being that cold.
01:00:44.559 --> 01:00:45.679
It is ridiculous.
01:00:46.000 --> 01:00:52.159
Yes, I would take I would take the wet socks because you can kind of almost overlook it and not think about it.
01:00:52.480 --> 01:00:56.239
But what if you're walking around with it with them in your shoes?
01:00:56.400 --> 01:00:57.119
That's bad.
01:00:57.360 --> 01:00:58.719
I'm still going with it.
01:00:58.960 --> 01:01:14.079
Well, yeah, because I have, I mean, just a couple days ago, I had wet socks all day at work because well, I know, but it rained on my way to work and um my I was wearing Converse.
01:01:14.239 --> 01:01:17.519
So obviously the rain got through and my feet were wet all day.
01:01:17.760 --> 01:01:20.159
So it was tolerable.
01:01:20.559 --> 01:01:23.360
What was not tolerable were my cold hands.
01:01:23.599 --> 01:01:25.039
So yeah.
01:01:25.360 --> 01:01:27.280
Okay, I think your question is next.
01:01:27.519 --> 01:01:29.119
I it is okay.
01:01:29.440 --> 01:01:36.480
So here's one that could be pretty easy because I don't think that you have an opinion either way.
01:01:36.719 --> 01:01:41.199
Um, do you prefer Marvel or DC characters or movies?
01:01:41.599 --> 01:01:42.559
I do have an opinion.
01:01:42.800 --> 01:01:45.199
I actually am more of a DC girl.
01:01:46.480 --> 01:01:48.239
Yeah, I know you're a Marvel Glory.
01:01:48.639 --> 01:01:49.119
You're a Marvel girl.
01:01:50.000 --> 01:01:57.599
I love Batman, but yeah, Marvel, oh my goodness, they yeah.
01:01:58.000 --> 01:01:58.639
So good.
01:01:58.880 --> 01:02:12.000
Yeah, I just feel like all of the comp the characters in DC, to me, except for except for like I don't know, like Captain America is different.
01:02:12.159 --> 01:02:20.559
I kind of like I like that one, Ant-Man, but I just feel like DC is more like I don't know.
01:02:20.719 --> 01:02:21.920
I don't know why I like it better.
01:02:22.079 --> 01:02:24.000
I like Batman, I like Superman.
01:02:24.639 --> 01:02:30.239
Do you think that Disney has changed your opinion a little bit?
01:02:30.559 --> 01:02:33.760
Disney I don't think about when I think about Marvel necessarily.
01:02:34.320 --> 01:02:37.360
I I think it's the production of it.
01:02:37.599 --> 01:02:38.559
That's what I mean.
01:02:38.960 --> 01:02:46.559
Like DC movies are a little bit darker, yeah, and Marvel's a little more uh way too flashy for me.
01:02:46.880 --> 01:02:51.119
Yeah, and like fun and cute and heartwarming sometimes.
01:02:51.440 --> 01:02:52.079
Yeah, maybe.
01:02:52.239 --> 01:02:54.000
And let's be fair, okay?
01:02:54.159 --> 01:03:09.599
I have seen more DC movies than Marvel because I'm not a I'm not truly interested in starting over, and I know that you did in your um in a certain time in your life, you were kind of like you did the whole binge thing.
01:03:10.000 --> 01:03:29.920
I just I'm just not I I'm I'm a I'm sure that my answer may be a little bit harder if I dove into Marvel films, but they're just so overwhelmingly epic that I'm just like, oh gosh, it is so much.
01:03:30.159 --> 01:03:33.760
Yeah, that's how I feel about Game of Thrones and why I've never started it.
01:03:33.920 --> 01:03:36.559
I I just can't I can't commit to something like that.
01:03:36.800 --> 01:03:41.760
I really got into it when the first Avengers came out, and then I kind of backtracked a little bit.
01:03:41.920 --> 01:03:55.360
But yes, so for those who don't know, about six years ago I did like a three-day marathon of watching all of the Marvel movies that were out at the time, which were about 21 or 24 movies.
01:03:55.599 --> 01:03:56.320
Oh my gosh.
01:03:56.639 --> 01:04:06.880
And it was a lot and it was amazing, and I watched them in chronological order of when they were set, not in when they came out.
01:04:07.119 --> 01:04:09.679
And um, it was it was very epic.
01:04:09.840 --> 01:04:12.639
And did you have a a key to go by?
01:04:13.199 --> 01:04:29.599
Yeah, I Googled, yeah, I Googled a list of of how I should watch all of these movies, and it was um, I saw differing opinions, and then eventually the votes were that I should watch them in chronological order of when they were set.
01:04:29.760 --> 01:04:32.880
If I were to do it again, I'd probably watch them and when they came out.
01:04:33.119 --> 01:04:38.159
So that would basically start with the first incredible Hulk.
01:04:38.400 --> 01:04:42.400
So anyway, it was really awesome and something I recommend.
01:04:42.480 --> 01:04:44.639
But I know it is a lot, it's a lot to commit to.
01:04:44.800 --> 01:04:45.280
Yeah.
01:04:45.599 --> 01:04:47.760
The perks of being single with no children.
01:04:48.000 --> 01:04:50.239
Yeah, yes, that's true.
01:04:50.400 --> 01:04:50.800
Yeah.
01:04:51.039 --> 01:05:00.960
Um, I will say on a side note and a very biased side note, I am team Sam Raimi, Spider-Man, all the way.
01:05:01.199 --> 01:05:01.599
Oh, okay.
01:05:01.920 --> 01:05:11.519
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with Tom Holland's version, but I feel like the direction and Toby Maguire and I love Kirsten Dunst.
01:05:11.679 --> 01:05:18.320
I just feel like that whole circle of production, especially Spider-Man 2.
01:05:18.480 --> 01:05:20.719
Can we please shout it out right now?
01:05:21.119 --> 01:05:23.920
That is the peak right there.
01:05:24.239 --> 01:05:26.000
But they ruined it with three.
01:05:26.159 --> 01:05:29.840
Now, to be fair, the production ruined it with three.
01:05:30.000 --> 01:05:32.559
The production, not Sam Raimi.
01:05:32.880 --> 01:05:33.440
Oh, okay, okay.
01:05:33.679 --> 01:05:34.880
He was gonna control.
01:05:35.280 --> 01:05:35.599
Yes.
01:05:35.760 --> 01:05:36.320
I see.
01:05:36.719 --> 01:05:38.159
A little dance and Toby.
01:05:38.320 --> 01:05:39.119
You gotta be kidding.
01:05:39.280 --> 01:05:40.239
So what happened?
01:05:40.559 --> 01:05:41.119
Well, I know.
01:05:41.360 --> 01:05:42.320
We don't have to get into that.
01:05:42.559 --> 01:05:43.119
Yeah, I know.
01:05:43.360 --> 01:05:48.880
But what I will say is that yes, I absolutely love the original Spider Man.
01:05:49.519 --> 01:05:55.440
But Tom Holland is the most perfect Peter Parker.
01:05:55.599 --> 01:06:03.920
Like he's so young and innocent, and like Sweet, like I just feel like he fits Peter Parker's vibe.
01:06:04.159 --> 01:06:04.400
Yeah.
01:06:04.559 --> 01:06:06.880
Even though I love Toby McGuire's take on it.
01:06:06.960 --> 01:06:08.239
But anyway, yeah.
01:06:08.480 --> 01:06:09.599
It's just I don't know.
01:06:09.679 --> 01:06:10.800
And then No, but I get it.
01:06:10.880 --> 01:06:11.760
I that's what I'm saying.
01:06:11.840 --> 01:06:14.320
I don't I don't hate on Tom Holland's version.
01:06:14.400 --> 01:06:15.599
I do hate on Andrew.
01:06:15.840 --> 01:06:19.360
But I don't but I well, no, we're not gonna get no, I know.
01:06:19.440 --> 01:06:21.679
I'm just saying, I just I don't know.
01:06:22.000 --> 01:06:25.280
Um but I just feel like Toby's is good.
01:06:25.440 --> 01:06:30.960
It's that Andrew Garfield and Tom Holland are both British and they have such good American accents.
01:06:31.280 --> 01:06:31.760
That's true.
01:06:31.920 --> 01:06:32.960
It's wild.
01:06:33.519 --> 01:06:36.159
Anyway, they said, I'm Spider-Man, isn't it?
01:06:40.559 --> 01:06:41.599
Oh, that was funny.
01:06:41.679 --> 01:06:43.679
It was a terrible accent, but that was funny.
01:06:43.840 --> 01:06:44.480
I know, I know.
01:06:44.880 --> 01:06:46.559
You gotta do it with a terrible accent.
01:06:46.719 --> 01:06:47.199
Yeah.
01:06:47.519 --> 01:06:48.320
Um, okay.
01:06:48.559 --> 01:06:52.639
So this a hummingbird just flew in front of my window.
01:06:52.960 --> 01:06:55.599
Now that is definitely worth interrupting with.
01:06:55.840 --> 01:06:56.079
Yeah.
01:06:56.719 --> 01:06:58.480
Shout out to the hummingbird.
01:07:00.000 --> 01:07:00.960
Okay, go ahead.
01:07:01.119 --> 01:07:01.440
Okay.
01:07:01.679 --> 01:07:07.199
Okay, this one is so deep and such a great Kim question.
01:07:07.440 --> 01:07:07.920
Ooh.
01:07:08.800 --> 01:07:10.239
This one I struggled with.
01:07:10.480 --> 01:07:10.800
Okay.
01:07:11.280 --> 01:07:16.880
Would you rather have, and you probably have had both, because I think everybody has had both.
01:07:17.280 --> 01:07:20.559
Loud neighbors or nosy neighbors?
01:07:21.920 --> 01:07:22.800
Nosy.
01:07:23.199 --> 01:07:24.719
That's what I was gonna say.
01:07:25.039 --> 01:07:25.840
100%.
01:07:26.480 --> 01:07:33.440
I would rather you ask me every second about my life than for you to be loud and interrupt my day.
01:07:33.760 --> 01:07:39.360
Okay, but what if they're nosy in a relentless kind of way?
01:07:39.599 --> 01:07:43.679
What if they're asking things that you're just like, this is making me uncomfortable?
01:07:44.559 --> 01:07:46.239
Then I'll tell them it's uncomfortable.
01:07:46.400 --> 01:07:48.079
Like, or I won't answer them.
01:07:49.199 --> 01:07:52.079
But I can control that because I have my own apartment.
01:07:52.239 --> 01:07:52.400
Yeah.
01:07:52.559 --> 01:07:53.280
That's what I was gonna say.
01:07:53.519 --> 01:07:59.039
I have control of you can control what comes out of your mouth, so you can almost mess with it.
01:07:59.119 --> 01:08:05.760
Like, I can control how much they're interfering with me, like just by closing the door in their face.
01:08:06.079 --> 01:08:08.559
I can't control how noisy they're being.
01:08:08.800 --> 01:08:13.039
Could you imagine them like like in the movies when they're poking their head in your window and everything?
01:08:13.440 --> 01:08:15.679
Like literally just minding your own business.
01:08:16.000 --> 01:08:17.119
Oh my gosh.
01:08:17.439 --> 01:08:17.840
Yeah.
01:08:18.319 --> 01:08:18.640
Thank you.
01:08:18.880 --> 01:08:20.399
But yeah, I had the same answer.
01:08:20.560 --> 01:08:23.920
But the crazy thing is, is I'm sure that we have all had both.
01:08:24.079 --> 01:08:30.399
And loud neighbors to me, and I know that all three of us have had this discussion.
01:08:30.560 --> 01:08:30.880
Yeah.
01:08:31.119 --> 01:08:35.199
But loud neighbors are the worst because of how we were raised.
01:08:35.439 --> 01:08:37.760
We are all super considerate.
01:08:38.079 --> 01:08:38.399
Yes.
01:08:38.960 --> 01:08:49.119
I used to mom used to yell at me for allowing the the kitchen cabinets to close on their own instead of me manually closing them.
01:08:49.279 --> 01:08:51.359
And that is burned into me.
01:08:51.680 --> 01:08:52.079
Yeah.
01:08:52.239 --> 01:08:52.399
Yeah.
01:08:52.720 --> 01:08:54.640
She needs to shop at IKEA.
01:08:55.600 --> 01:08:56.159
Right?
01:08:56.560 --> 01:08:58.479
Soft clothes is where it's at.
01:08:58.720 --> 01:08:59.279
That's right.
01:08:59.439 --> 01:09:00.079
Yeah.
01:09:00.399 --> 01:09:03.439
Yeah, I mean, yeah, she was on top of that for sure.
01:09:03.920 --> 01:09:05.520
Making sure we were considerate.
01:09:06.079 --> 01:09:11.359
The crazy thing is, I don't remember specific things like that, but I just know that she was like that.
01:09:11.520 --> 01:09:21.359
She was very, very much about how you were to not inconvenience the ones around you.
01:09:21.760 --> 01:09:25.520
And I now I live by that same mindset.
01:09:25.760 --> 01:09:28.640
And Michelle used to get mad at you for how hard you walked.
01:09:28.880 --> 01:09:29.359
I know.
01:09:29.439 --> 01:09:30.079
And you've got to do that.
01:09:30.239 --> 01:09:36.479
And the crazy thing is, now I walk toe heel, toe heel.
01:09:36.640 --> 01:09:37.520
Right, yes.
01:09:37.840 --> 01:09:41.760
Or I walk side of foot down, side of foot down.
01:09:43.520 --> 01:09:44.159
Yes.
01:09:44.399 --> 01:09:45.119
It depends.
01:09:45.279 --> 01:09:49.439
If it's if it's on the carpet, it's usually side of foot down.
01:09:49.680 --> 01:09:50.399
Right, yeah.
01:09:50.479 --> 01:09:50.720
Yeah.
01:09:51.119 --> 01:09:54.319
But when you get on the hard floor, it's toe heel, toe heel.
01:09:54.479 --> 01:09:54.880
Yeah.
01:09:55.119 --> 01:09:55.680
Yeah.
01:09:55.920 --> 01:09:57.279
Yeah, that was a good one.
01:09:58.720 --> 01:10:04.720
Um, would you rather have ice water or room temperature water?
01:10:06.399 --> 01:10:22.079
Okay, the old me would have said ice water, but for some reason, I when we buy bottles of water, we are just leaving them out and everybody just grabs them.
01:10:22.319 --> 01:10:26.239
And honestly, it is like it doesn't bother any of us.
01:10:26.399 --> 01:10:26.640
Yeah.
01:10:26.800 --> 01:10:29.359
Um, if it's a little warm, that's annoying.
01:10:29.760 --> 01:10:32.000
But we keep them in room temperature.
01:10:32.239 --> 01:10:32.479
Right.
01:10:32.560 --> 01:10:32.800
Yeah.
01:10:32.880 --> 01:10:37.600
We keep it in a um like a utility closet and it works.
01:10:37.760 --> 01:10:45.600
And it's just you grab it, you drink it, and it doesn't offend the teeth, or you know, it doesn't perfectly fine.
01:10:45.920 --> 01:10:47.920
Yeah, I'm a room temperature fan also.
01:10:48.159 --> 01:10:48.399
Yeah.
01:10:48.560 --> 01:10:49.680
I don't I don't need all that.
01:10:49.920 --> 01:10:50.319
It's so weird.
01:10:50.560 --> 01:10:52.000
We have keep having the same answer.
01:10:52.079 --> 01:10:57.039
It's almost like you, it's almost like you, I don't know, looked at my answers and you cheated.
01:10:58.159 --> 01:11:01.359
I looked at your answers of questions that you didn't know were coming yet.
01:11:01.520 --> 01:11:02.800
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
01:11:02.960 --> 01:11:03.279
Okay.
01:11:05.600 --> 01:11:05.920
Okay.
01:11:06.319 --> 01:11:07.199
That's your next one.
01:11:07.600 --> 01:11:07.920
Okay.
01:11:08.239 --> 01:11:13.760
Would you rather listen to a podcast or listen to an audiobook?
01:11:14.239 --> 01:11:20.319
Well, this leads to another question, which is would you rather read a book or listen to a book?
01:11:20.720 --> 01:11:21.680
I had that too.
01:11:22.159 --> 01:11:30.800
Yeah, so I think that I'm gonna choose podcasts because if I was to take a book in, I would rather read it.
01:11:31.119 --> 01:11:31.520
Right.
01:11:31.760 --> 01:11:35.119
Whereas with a podcast, you can only listen or watch it.
01:11:35.279 --> 01:11:39.439
And I'd rather listen to a podcast than to listen to an audiobook.
01:11:39.760 --> 01:11:42.560
And that is my detailed answer.
01:11:43.279 --> 01:11:47.359
And I have the same answer, but my reasoning is different.
01:11:47.600 --> 01:11:47.920
Okay.
01:11:48.560 --> 01:11:56.720
I have tried well, it's kind of like one of those this, but only if it's this kind of answers.
01:11:56.960 --> 01:12:01.279
But if it's a podcast, they're being themselves, right?
01:12:02.000 --> 01:12:06.159
If it's an audiobook, and let's just say it's a fiction book, no.
01:12:06.399 --> 01:12:07.199
I've tried it.
01:12:07.359 --> 01:12:09.680
I don't like the voices that these people put on.
01:12:11.119 --> 01:12:12.319
Yeah, I don't like it.
01:12:12.399 --> 01:12:16.720
It doesn't, it doesn't compel me to, you know, want to listen to the rest.
01:12:16.960 --> 01:12:17.199
Right.
01:12:17.439 --> 01:12:20.239
If it's a non-fiction, I have done that.
01:12:20.560 --> 01:12:24.000
But and I don't and I don't, I mean, I enjoy those.
01:12:24.319 --> 01:12:24.720
Yeah.
01:12:24.960 --> 01:12:32.479
I would like to point out that there are situations where I prefer the audiobook, and that is when it's a celebrity's memoir.
01:12:32.960 --> 01:12:48.479
So for instance, Mindy Kaling, Tina Faye, and Amy Polar all have books that they have put out about their life, and I would much prefer hearing the them reading their own book than for me to read it in their voice.
01:12:48.720 --> 01:12:49.039
Okay.
01:12:49.199 --> 01:12:50.560
I think it's a lot more entertaining.
01:12:50.640 --> 01:12:51.279
So it is.
01:12:51.439 --> 01:12:51.920
I agree with that.
01:12:52.239 --> 01:12:53.279
Yeah, it just depends.
01:12:53.439 --> 01:12:56.960
But yeah, overall, yes, I would prefer a podcast over an audiobook.
01:12:57.199 --> 01:13:03.359
I have listened to Amy Polar's Yes Please, and that was a very entertaining audience.
01:13:03.600 --> 01:13:04.239
It's super cute.
01:13:04.319 --> 01:13:04.479
Yeah.
01:13:04.560 --> 01:13:08.880
Her voice just makes me want to just, you know, listen to whatever else she's got.
01:13:09.119 --> 01:13:10.880
I think that you would like Tina FaZe.
01:13:11.760 --> 01:13:12.319
I probably would.
01:13:12.399 --> 01:13:14.880
I I eventually will, you know, listen to it.
01:13:15.039 --> 01:13:29.920
But um, but if we're on the subject of not the you know, nuanced answers, I would say a podcast because it's a lot more like matter-of-factly delivery, like we do here.
01:13:30.479 --> 01:13:36.319
Um audiobooks to me, the only reason I would choose it is if it was nonfiction.
01:13:36.560 --> 01:13:42.399
And so if I'm gonna kind of say, but only if this and maybe not that, then I can't choose that.
01:13:42.479 --> 01:13:44.079
So I would say podcast.
01:13:44.319 --> 01:13:44.640
Okay.
01:13:45.279 --> 01:13:45.920
Yeah.
01:13:46.319 --> 01:13:49.199
Would you rather live in the country or the city?
01:13:49.680 --> 01:13:51.039
Oh, country, 100%.
01:13:51.439 --> 01:13:52.239
Ugh.
01:13:55.279 --> 01:13:59.359
So see, now there, there's where we're very different.
01:13:59.760 --> 01:14:01.920
We have very different lives that way.
01:14:02.159 --> 01:14:02.479
Yeah.
01:14:02.640 --> 01:14:08.479
And well, see, okay, so yes, I would rather live in the city, but not for regular city reasons.
01:14:08.640 --> 01:14:14.079
Like it's not like I'm out and about all the time doing things and going to all these no.
01:14:14.479 --> 01:14:18.800
I'm not like going to all these restaurants and events and blah, blah, blah.
01:14:18.960 --> 01:14:21.680
Um, but I like that there's the option.
01:14:21.840 --> 01:14:24.000
I like that there are always things to do.
01:14:24.319 --> 01:14:29.760
I like that I can walk down the street and find a bunch of things to do.
01:14:30.079 --> 01:14:37.039
Portland has all of these like little tiny neighborhoods where their own, they're their own little city.
01:14:37.359 --> 01:14:40.319
And I love that about big cities.
01:14:40.640 --> 01:14:44.800
And so um, convenience of it is where I'm at.
01:14:44.960 --> 01:14:46.880
Like it's super convenient.
01:14:47.039 --> 01:14:50.960
Whereas living in the country, you can't walk to Food Lion.
01:14:51.439 --> 01:14:53.760
You have to go drive to Food Lion.
01:14:54.479 --> 01:14:55.760
And it sucks.
01:14:55.840 --> 01:14:57.840
So, and I have a safe way down the street.
01:14:58.000 --> 01:15:01.760
I'm not like a city person for the reason that I should be a city person.
01:15:01.840 --> 01:15:06.960
I'm a city person out of necessity, convenience, laziness, yada yada yada.
01:15:07.279 --> 01:15:09.359
But rate, let's raise the stakes here.
01:15:09.600 --> 01:15:09.920
Okay.
01:15:10.159 --> 01:15:13.520
You this is coming from a person that would rather online shop.
01:15:13.760 --> 01:15:14.399
Yes.
01:15:15.119 --> 01:15:17.600
So I don't know.
01:15:18.000 --> 01:15:24.079
It seems to me like you just might enjoy the country life if you have things delivered to you.
01:15:24.399 --> 01:15:32.720
No, because if I was to live in the country and have things delivered to me, it it might not even be an option.
01:15:32.960 --> 01:15:36.079
There might not be people available to deliver those things.
01:15:36.479 --> 01:15:38.800
What if it was absolutely an option?
01:15:39.279 --> 01:15:42.960
Would you would you live in the country if you could have anything delivered to you?
01:15:43.199 --> 01:15:44.239
I don't know.
01:15:44.720 --> 01:15:45.840
You know what it is with you?
01:15:46.319 --> 01:15:46.479
No.
01:15:46.800 --> 01:15:47.439
Okay, go ahead.
01:15:47.600 --> 01:15:49.279
Let me say what it is with you.
01:15:50.000 --> 01:15:50.640
Options.
01:15:51.039 --> 01:15:55.279
You hate being forced to not have options.
01:15:55.520 --> 01:16:07.199
Now, let's say you were living in the city and you had the well, you are, and but right now you don't have to leave, but you'll have things delivered.
01:16:07.359 --> 01:16:08.880
So I think it's that you can't.
01:16:09.039 --> 01:16:11.039
But I can like being ending this.
01:16:11.359 --> 01:16:11.520
Yeah.
01:16:11.680 --> 01:16:11.840
Yeah.
01:16:12.239 --> 01:16:16.079
So you don't like being forced to do the same thing.
01:16:16.239 --> 01:16:17.600
I like the options.
01:16:17.840 --> 01:16:18.239
Yes.
01:16:18.399 --> 01:16:25.359
And whereas if I live in the country, I would have to have things delivered because I don't want to go get them.
01:16:25.520 --> 01:16:29.119
I don't want to drive 45 minutes to get band-aids from Walgreens.
01:16:29.199 --> 01:16:33.760
Like so, yeah, I have options here.
01:16:33.920 --> 01:16:38.079
And sometimes I do like to go out, not super often, but yeah, I like to go out.
01:16:38.159 --> 01:16:39.279
I like to go to bars.
01:16:39.439 --> 01:16:45.520
I like to um attend like local events that that they have around here.
01:16:45.680 --> 01:16:50.960
And don't even get me started with New York City because that talk about a vibe.
01:16:51.279 --> 01:16:54.000
I love New York City so much.
01:16:54.319 --> 01:16:55.039
I do too.
01:16:55.359 --> 01:16:59.199
But I I I did it once and I probably will never get back.
01:16:59.359 --> 01:17:01.119
You know, it's just one of those, like, yeah, I did it.
01:17:01.279 --> 01:17:01.600
Yeah.
01:17:02.239 --> 01:17:02.800
Yeah.
01:17:03.119 --> 01:17:10.720
It's one of those do it once um and say you went right rather than just keep wanting to go back, keep wanting to go back.
01:17:10.880 --> 01:17:13.600
It's just not, it's not in me to want to do that.
01:17:14.000 --> 01:17:16.479
Now, I've never been to Portland, Oregon.
01:17:16.560 --> 01:17:22.800
So when I go over there, hopefully this summer, um, it's gonna be one of those things where I'm like, yeah, it's good.
01:17:22.960 --> 01:17:23.760
Will I go back?
01:17:24.159 --> 01:17:25.119
Maybe not.
01:17:26.880 --> 01:17:31.199
Probably not, but I think that you'll appreciate the artistic vibe here for sure.
01:17:31.439 --> 01:17:32.079
Oh, yeah, yeah.
01:17:32.239 --> 01:17:32.319
Yeah.
01:17:32.560 --> 01:17:33.359
And the weather.
01:17:33.680 --> 01:17:37.199
Yeah, from what I've seen um posted, I agree with that.
01:17:37.359 --> 01:17:38.000
Yeah.
01:17:39.039 --> 01:17:39.520
All right.
01:17:39.760 --> 01:17:50.640
So we're going back to the pizza bit real quick, because I want to ask if you were to choose pizza, do you do deep dish or do you do thin crust?
01:17:50.880 --> 01:17:51.520
Thin crust.
01:17:51.840 --> 01:17:52.560
Me too.
01:17:52.800 --> 01:17:53.439
Yeah.
01:17:53.920 --> 01:17:55.760
Deep dish has too much sauce.
01:17:56.000 --> 01:17:56.319
Yeah.
01:17:56.479 --> 01:17:56.640
Yeah.
01:17:57.359 --> 01:17:58.800
Too much sauce, too much dough.
01:17:59.199 --> 01:18:02.399
But if you were to do the, you know, have the choice.
01:18:02.560 --> 01:18:08.560
Um I used to order thin crust all the time, and my family was like, why?
01:18:08.720 --> 01:18:11.119
It's such a waste if you're ordering this.
01:18:11.279 --> 01:18:13.600
And I'm like, I know, but the crisp.
01:18:13.920 --> 01:18:19.840
So, but now I'm compromising and just get a regular old-fashioned style pizza.
01:18:20.000 --> 01:18:20.479
Yeah, yeah.
01:18:20.560 --> 01:18:24.640
I love New York style, just the regular, like yes, yes.
01:18:24.880 --> 01:18:27.600
Back in Florida when we had Big Apple Pizza.
01:18:28.319 --> 01:18:30.479
Uh, that was my that was my first job, Pam.
01:18:30.880 --> 01:18:31.760
Oh, that's right.
01:18:32.159 --> 01:18:32.479
Okay.
01:18:32.720 --> 01:18:37.199
I couldn't remember if it was, is that that place you were talking about in the first episode?
01:18:37.600 --> 01:18:37.920
No.
01:18:38.159 --> 01:18:38.399
Yeah.
01:18:38.479 --> 01:18:38.960
With David.
01:18:39.279 --> 01:18:40.159
That was Mario.
01:18:40.319 --> 01:18:40.880
Okay, okay.
01:18:41.039 --> 01:18:42.560
Yeah, that was my first job.
01:18:42.720 --> 01:18:42.960
Yeah.
01:18:43.279 --> 01:18:43.520
Okay.
01:18:43.760 --> 01:18:46.000
We've all come from uh full circle.
01:18:46.239 --> 01:18:46.880
Yeah.
01:18:47.439 --> 01:18:48.479
Definitely.
01:18:49.520 --> 01:18:51.920
So, okay, I didn't realize it was Big Apple.
01:18:52.079 --> 01:18:55.680
I knew we worked at a pizza place on, I think it was Bay Shore.
01:18:55.920 --> 01:18:56.399
Bishore.
01:18:56.960 --> 01:18:57.439
Okay, yeah.
01:18:57.600 --> 01:18:59.039
But I couldn't remember it being Big Apple.
01:18:59.279 --> 01:18:59.520
Yes.
01:18:59.680 --> 01:19:02.079
I remember I miss Big Apple.
01:19:02.319 --> 01:19:10.479
And here in um the town I live in, we do not have many non-franchise pizza places.
01:19:11.279 --> 01:19:15.439
And so everything we have here is like Domino's Pizza Hut.
01:19:15.600 --> 01:19:20.239
Um, we have a couple that are new, but I haven't really tried them yet.
01:19:20.560 --> 01:19:27.760
But there's no like New York style type pizza places out here that I know of.
01:19:28.000 --> 01:19:37.760
So if my listeners that are local with me and know me want to tell me, and I don't, I just don't know about it, please let me know.
01:19:38.720 --> 01:19:40.079
I would be happy to hear about it.
01:19:40.319 --> 01:19:44.479
On the food topic, yeah, this is my last food question.
01:19:44.880 --> 01:19:47.119
Do you prefer soft or hard tacos?
01:19:47.520 --> 01:19:59.840
Oh my gosh, I want to say both so bad because I can I just say shout out to Taco Bell when they had You're a big Taco Bell fan.
01:20:00.079 --> 01:20:02.399
I am when they had their double deckers.
01:20:02.640 --> 01:20:03.439
Oh yeah, yeah.
01:20:03.600 --> 01:20:09.760
Which is the the hard taco and then like a sauce, and then it's wrapped with a soft taco.
01:20:10.319 --> 01:20:10.800
Yes.
01:20:11.359 --> 01:20:11.680
Okay.
01:20:11.840 --> 01:20:29.039
So when I go to Taco Bell now, I get one um sh hard taco and then a soft taco, and I say no lettuce, and then I spread out whatever's on the soft taco and I wrap it around the hard taco, and it is cute.
01:20:29.279 --> 01:20:29.760
Delightful.
01:20:30.000 --> 01:20:31.039
Yeah, it is so good.
01:20:31.199 --> 01:20:36.000
And it's usually enough to fill me up, but sometimes I get two of two and two, so I can make two of them.
01:20:36.159 --> 01:20:38.319
I mean, have you tried the Crunch Wrap Supreme?
01:20:38.479 --> 01:20:39.520
Because it's very similar.
01:20:39.680 --> 01:20:42.800
Oh, that's what I always get is the Crunch Wrap Supreme.
01:20:42.960 --> 01:20:48.560
Yeah, but it's it's so much that it's almost too big, but I I do like it and I have gotten it before.
01:20:49.119 --> 01:20:53.199
But yeah, so I'm gonna say soft.
01:20:53.600 --> 01:20:53.920
Okay.
01:20:54.560 --> 01:20:56.000
That is also my preference.
01:20:56.159 --> 01:20:57.600
I don't like hard tacos.
01:20:58.079 --> 01:21:01.039
Um, I they fall apart, and then like what's the point?
01:21:01.199 --> 01:21:01.520
Yeah.
01:21:01.760 --> 01:21:03.520
So I prefer soft tacos for sure.
01:21:03.760 --> 01:21:05.439
Okay, okay, okay, easy one.
01:21:05.760 --> 01:21:07.840
No reason to follow, just that you like soft tacos.
01:21:08.079 --> 01:21:09.119
Yeah, the hard ones fall apart.
01:21:09.359 --> 01:21:10.079
Hey, let's try that.
01:21:11.119 --> 01:21:12.479
Try that avenue there.
01:21:13.520 --> 01:21:20.720
Um this one is so thought-provoking, but in a stupid way.
01:21:20.960 --> 01:21:22.319
Okay, my favorite.
01:21:22.560 --> 01:21:23.600
Yeah, I know.
01:21:24.079 --> 01:21:29.199
Hiccups for life or always about to sneeze, but never do it.
01:21:29.439 --> 01:21:31.439
Oh no! I know.
01:21:31.840 --> 01:21:35.039
Oh you thought you had an answer before you heard the second part.
01:21:35.439 --> 01:21:43.600
Yeah, but I I still think I'm gonna choose the second one because my hiccups hurt.
01:21:44.159 --> 01:21:45.119
Oh yeah.
01:21:45.439 --> 01:21:52.960
Yeah, so I'm gonna go with I'm about to sneeze, but can't do it for the rest of my life.
01:21:53.359 --> 01:21:53.680
Okay.
01:21:54.239 --> 01:22:03.520
So I I feel like I don't like the idea of not sneezing so much that I would have to pick the pick the hiccups.
01:22:03.840 --> 01:22:10.159
Um, I would rather try to get rid of hiccups for the rest of my life than to not be able to sneeze.
01:22:10.399 --> 01:22:12.640
Pam, you love to talk so much.
01:22:12.800 --> 01:22:17.520
Like, can you imagine talking and hiccuping through the entire thing?
01:22:18.000 --> 01:22:20.319
Like, I know you would hate it.
01:22:20.640 --> 01:22:24.800
Could you guys imagine listening to this podcast with a bunch of hiccups?
01:22:25.039 --> 01:22:29.199
I'd cancel the podcast altogether if you had to hiccup the whole time.
01:22:29.520 --> 01:22:34.720
But then me, I'd be like, Oh, it went away.
01:22:34.960 --> 01:22:35.840
Yeah, exactly.
01:22:36.159 --> 01:22:39.439
God, that would be so unsatisfying a bug podcast.
01:22:39.760 --> 01:22:40.079
Yeah.
01:22:40.640 --> 01:22:50.000
Um would you rather watch a foreign film where you have subtitles or it's dubbed over?
01:22:50.399 --> 01:22:53.680
Oh, that is a super, super easy answer.
01:22:53.920 --> 01:22:54.720
Oh, okay.
01:22:55.039 --> 01:22:58.880
I have to have the foreign uh dialogue with the subtitles.
01:22:59.199 --> 01:22:59.680
Subtitles.
01:22:59.760 --> 01:23:00.640
Okay, I agree with that.
01:23:00.800 --> 01:23:03.279
I don't like dubbed versions, it's so fake.
01:23:03.520 --> 01:23:04.000
Mm-hmm.
01:23:04.159 --> 01:23:04.640
It is.
01:23:04.880 --> 01:23:07.039
And it's almost it's almost laughable.
01:23:07.119 --> 01:23:07.359
Yeah.
01:23:07.600 --> 01:23:15.359
The entire time you're watching it, you just think it's so funny how when they pick these actors to use these voices, it's like, really?
01:23:15.920 --> 01:23:16.560
So dramatic.
01:23:17.840 --> 01:23:18.239
Yeah.
01:23:18.479 --> 01:23:18.720
Yeah.
01:23:18.880 --> 01:23:22.079
They're always making them sound so comical and cartoonic.
01:23:22.880 --> 01:23:23.760
Very much so.
01:23:24.239 --> 01:23:25.680
Okay, that was an easy one.
01:23:26.239 --> 01:23:26.560
Okay.
01:23:27.359 --> 01:23:35.039
Another one that is super deep and oh my gosh, what would I say?
01:23:35.760 --> 01:23:39.119
Would you always want to feel itchy or sticky?
01:23:39.920 --> 01:23:42.079
Oh, Pam! I know.
01:23:42.399 --> 01:23:43.520
So here's the deal.
01:23:44.000 --> 01:23:44.319
Okay.
01:23:44.640 --> 01:23:46.239
I'm always itchy as it is.
01:23:46.960 --> 01:23:53.520
There is never a second that goes by where something is not itching me at any given moment on my body.
01:23:54.000 --> 01:23:54.319
Okay.
01:23:55.600 --> 01:23:59.119
That being said, I hate stickiness.
01:23:59.520 --> 01:24:00.079
Me too.
01:24:00.479 --> 01:24:02.560
Oh my god, do I hate stickiness?
01:24:02.880 --> 01:24:06.880
Um I'm gonna have to go with itchy.
01:24:07.279 --> 01:24:08.960
I'd rather be itchy than sticky.
01:24:09.359 --> 01:24:14.319
This was very, and I I pretty much you pretty much said what I thought you were gonna say.
01:24:14.640 --> 01:24:19.760
But this was very difficult for me because I hate both of them.
01:24:20.000 --> 01:24:23.760
But if you're sticky, you're just sticky.
01:24:24.479 --> 01:24:26.319
And you you can exist.
01:24:26.560 --> 01:24:26.800
Yeah.
01:24:26.960 --> 01:24:31.600
And it not be super either painful or frustrating or what have you.
01:24:31.840 --> 01:24:32.239
Yeah.
01:24:32.560 --> 01:24:34.000
So I'd rather be sticky.
01:24:35.119 --> 01:24:38.079
So if I'm itchy, am I able to scratch it or no?
01:24:38.880 --> 01:24:39.600
Well, yeah.
01:24:40.000 --> 01:24:41.039
Oh, okay, okay, okay.
01:24:41.119 --> 01:24:41.279
Yeah.
01:24:41.520 --> 01:24:41.920
Itchy.
01:24:44.239 --> 01:24:45.119
Still itchy.
01:24:45.920 --> 01:24:49.840
I hate being sticky, but I would rather that than the worst.
01:24:50.479 --> 01:24:51.359
The the former.
01:24:51.680 --> 01:24:51.920
Yeah.
01:24:52.319 --> 01:24:52.640
All right.
01:24:53.119 --> 01:25:02.239
So my next question is would you rather be able to visit the past or the future?
01:25:03.199 --> 01:25:03.840
Hmm.
01:25:05.279 --> 01:25:07.920
I I have to say that's not a hard one for me.
01:25:08.399 --> 01:25:10.000
I would like to go in the past.
01:25:11.119 --> 01:25:13.520
Because I'm so nothing.
01:25:13.680 --> 01:25:20.640
Just I would pull a full-on, you know, Christmas carol and just visit and observe and learn from it.
01:25:21.279 --> 01:25:28.800
I am so into nostalgia that I I don't want to know what's to come.
01:25:29.119 --> 01:25:32.800
Like I I think it's like spoiling a movie.
01:25:33.119 --> 01:25:40.079
I am so anti-movie spoilers that I would not want anything to be ruined.
01:25:43.760 --> 01:25:48.399
I would like to visit the future, but like a future where I'm already dead.
01:25:49.199 --> 01:25:49.840
My goodness.
01:25:50.159 --> 01:25:50.960
Like what I mean.
01:25:51.279 --> 01:25:52.079
I got dark quick.
01:25:52.399 --> 01:25:53.920
Because I agree with you.
01:25:54.000 --> 01:25:55.359
I don't like spoilers either.
01:25:55.520 --> 01:26:01.760
I don't want to know who I marry, where I live, what my life is.
01:26:02.159 --> 01:26:13.840
I'd like to know what happens after I die, like where technology is, where the future is, what is what the world will become like 200 years from now.
01:26:14.239 --> 01:26:17.920
That would probably depress me as a dead person.
01:26:19.760 --> 01:26:21.039
But I want to see it.
01:26:21.119 --> 01:26:22.479
I don't want to go back in time.
01:26:22.640 --> 01:26:23.920
I am, I look, I agree.
01:26:24.000 --> 01:26:25.520
I like nostalgia.
01:26:25.680 --> 01:26:27.199
Uh you know this.
01:26:27.439 --> 01:26:29.119
My our listeners know this.
01:26:29.359 --> 01:26:29.680
Yeah.
01:26:30.000 --> 01:26:33.119
I definitely love the 80s and 90s, yada yada.
01:26:33.600 --> 01:26:36.159
But I don't want to relive it.
01:26:36.560 --> 01:26:38.000
Um I do.
01:26:38.239 --> 01:26:39.680
Well, when I do, but I don't.
01:26:40.399 --> 01:26:41.199
Well, you okay.
01:26:41.279 --> 01:26:44.079
So the question that was presented was visit.
01:26:44.319 --> 01:26:46.079
Yes, I I you're right.
01:26:46.159 --> 01:26:48.000
I don't mean relive it.
01:26:48.319 --> 01:26:57.199
Um, I guess I just I would as much as I would love to go back in time and and visit, I think that the future would be a lot more.
01:26:57.680 --> 01:27:00.960
I I'm too curious to see what the future is like.
01:27:01.920 --> 01:27:02.239
Okay.
01:27:02.640 --> 01:27:02.960
Yeah.
01:27:03.119 --> 01:27:15.680
I mean, that's it's very interesting because we we've had a lot of similar um perspectives and similar answers along the way, but I feel like that one is so vastly different for different reasons.
01:27:16.000 --> 01:27:25.279
Like I am so not interested to see, you know, of course, you know my stance on the whole AI, and I just I'm no, I'm so like not for it.
01:27:25.439 --> 01:27:33.039
And then to to move forward and see what hit I mean, it's gonna be like uh movie Wally, you know, like and ediocracy.
01:27:33.279 --> 01:27:34.239
Yeah, that too.
01:27:34.399 --> 01:27:34.720
Yeah.
01:27:34.880 --> 01:27:37.760
Um, I just don't want to find that out.
01:27:37.840 --> 01:27:43.600
Um, especially because I maybe it's because I'm a mom too, so I'm thinking about the life of my son, you know.
01:27:44.319 --> 01:27:49.039
But if you're talking long after everybody's gone, then that's a different story.
01:27:49.119 --> 01:27:56.960
But I still don't I still am not interested to see what's to come as much as I'm interested in visiting and learning from the past.
01:27:57.199 --> 01:27:59.520
Like I you would visit yourself, you think?
01:28:00.079 --> 01:28:00.239
Yeah.
01:28:00.319 --> 01:28:00.640
Oh, okay.
01:28:00.880 --> 01:28:02.880
I would visit I would visit the past.
01:28:03.039 --> 01:28:08.720
I would visit the uh the things around me that I never that I you know took for granted before.
01:28:08.880 --> 01:28:09.199
Yeah.
01:28:09.439 --> 01:28:19.359
I would visit the the loved ones that you know I would be able to pay attention to them more and sp and just kind of observe the world around me.
01:28:20.159 --> 01:28:22.239
Revisit things that I have forgotten.
01:28:22.640 --> 01:28:24.960
Even without being able to interact with anything.
01:28:25.680 --> 01:28:26.560
Yes, even without.
01:28:27.199 --> 01:28:28.800
I am all about the show.
01:28:29.039 --> 01:28:30.560
Please let me see it all.
01:28:30.640 --> 01:28:38.079
And then I will feel such a warm, fuzzy feeling for the rest of my life if I was able to do that.
01:28:39.039 --> 01:28:39.439
Yeah.
01:28:39.680 --> 01:28:39.920
Yeah.
01:28:40.079 --> 01:28:40.800
But all right.
01:28:40.880 --> 01:28:42.479
So you're past and I'm future.
01:28:42.800 --> 01:28:43.199
Yeah.
01:28:43.520 --> 01:28:45.039
So vastly different.
01:28:45.439 --> 01:28:45.920
Yeah.
01:28:46.159 --> 01:28:46.800
Yeah.
01:28:47.199 --> 01:28:47.680
All right.
01:28:47.840 --> 01:28:49.279
Um, okay.
01:28:49.520 --> 01:28:50.720
Here's a funny one.
01:28:50.960 --> 01:28:51.279
Okay.
01:28:52.319 --> 01:29:05.840
Would you rather have, and I guess I'm gonna say me because in this podcast it's just me and you, but would you rather have your sister as your boss or your parent as a coworker?
01:29:06.399 --> 01:29:10.399
Uh and let's just say mom.
01:29:10.880 --> 01:29:12.880
I was gonna say which parent.
01:29:13.119 --> 01:29:13.439
Okay.
01:29:13.760 --> 01:29:14.399
Yeah.
01:29:14.800 --> 01:29:22.800
So would I rather have you as my boss or mom as my coworker?
01:29:23.119 --> 01:29:23.680
Yes.
01:29:23.920 --> 01:29:28.159
I hate this question more than any question you've ever asked me in my entire life.
01:29:29.600 --> 01:29:31.199
That says a lot.
01:29:33.439 --> 01:29:37.119
Oh, mom was relentless, dude.
01:29:37.600 --> 01:29:40.479
She'd be like all up in my business.
01:29:41.600 --> 01:29:45.279
Um gosh.
01:29:45.600 --> 01:29:49.600
I think that having you as my boss would give me an advantage.
01:29:49.840 --> 01:29:54.880
I think that I have I'd be able to get away with a lot.
01:29:55.119 --> 01:29:55.760
Yeah.
01:29:56.159 --> 01:30:00.159
Um I don't think that you'd be a very good boss of mine.
01:30:01.439 --> 01:30:03.920
Like meaning you wouldn't be super strict.
01:30:04.159 --> 01:30:04.720
Yeah.
01:30:04.960 --> 01:30:10.560
So, and mom would be um embarrassing.
01:30:10.960 --> 01:30:12.159
Embarrassing co-worker.
01:30:12.319 --> 01:30:20.880
Yeah, she'd be embarrassing, she'd be nosy, she'd be um critiquing my work as a coworker.
01:30:21.039 --> 01:30:24.720
Like, like, why did you do it like this instead of like this?
01:30:25.199 --> 01:30:29.600
And I'd also have to show her how to copy and paste.
01:30:32.640 --> 01:30:36.399
To be fair, you'd probably also have to show your boss a lot of that.
01:30:37.439 --> 01:30:38.800
That's so true.
01:30:39.680 --> 01:30:44.800
Um, yeah, I think I'd rather have you as a boss than mom as a coworker.
01:30:45.199 --> 01:30:45.520
Okay.
01:30:46.319 --> 01:30:48.239
Now, when I answer the question, am I?
01:30:48.800 --> 01:30:51.199
I also will not be offended.
01:30:51.439 --> 01:30:51.600
Okay.
01:30:52.000 --> 01:30:57.439
Um only because I think that dad would have been like super chill.
01:30:57.760 --> 01:30:59.520
Like he'd built yeah.
01:30:59.760 --> 01:31:04.479
Yeah, he'd be a super quiet, mind his own business coworker.
01:31:04.640 --> 01:31:06.399
So yeah, we have to choose mom.
01:31:06.720 --> 01:31:10.000
She's the the annoying one of the two.
01:31:12.640 --> 01:31:34.159
Well, the funny thing is, as much as mom and I got along more than you and mom got along, I still and this is this is probably post us living together, you know, because you you've lived with mom and I've lived with mom post as adults marriage.
01:31:34.399 --> 01:31:34.720
Yes.
01:31:35.039 --> 01:31:38.319
Or post um, you know, as adults, yes.
01:31:38.479 --> 01:31:38.960
Yeah.
01:31:39.199 --> 01:31:44.800
Um I think I still would say that you would be my boss.
01:31:44.960 --> 01:31:51.279
And the main reason I say that, now, if you would have asked me this last year, I may have had a different answer.
01:31:51.439 --> 01:32:11.760
And I say may because I feel like the um the journey of having the podcast along the way, I think that there's, you know, that good chemistry that has helped me realize that you may be actually easy to work for, you know.
01:32:12.479 --> 01:32:12.720
Okay.
01:32:12.960 --> 01:32:19.520
There might be times when it's a rocky, you know, little rough area here and there.
01:32:19.760 --> 01:32:22.800
But but I do think that that would be the case as well.
01:32:22.960 --> 01:32:26.000
Um living with her is tough as an adult.
01:32:26.239 --> 01:32:27.199
It's so tough.
01:32:27.439 --> 01:32:39.920
Um, but I I did find my way around a little bit more, I would say, but it it's one of those things where it's easier for me to compromise than it was for you with her.
01:32:40.880 --> 01:32:51.520
So but I would like to point out also for our listeners, in case they in case it matters, that mom lived with us.
01:32:52.159 --> 01:32:56.880
Like we did not live with mom because we needed to as adults.
01:32:57.199 --> 01:33:00.720
She needed to live with us because of her situation.
01:33:01.119 --> 01:33:01.680
Yeah.
01:33:02.239 --> 01:33:17.600
So I think that's kind of also where the struggle is, and I think that that's why it might have been hard to live with her because she had she was so vulnerable and um and needed to live with her children.
01:33:17.920 --> 01:33:18.319
Yeah.
01:33:18.560 --> 01:33:38.159
So yeah, and um, I think she she didn't see the future of it as much as we did, but at the same time, our heart, you know opened that gate for her to be able to do it, and um, you know, and the rest is history, yeah.
01:33:38.399 --> 01:33:43.600
It's just one of those things where it was like it it was uh in our laps that we had to do with it.
01:33:44.079 --> 01:33:55.199
So I think that because of that dynamic uh and seeing that as a coworker situation, I I think that that's why I would not want her as a coworker.
01:33:55.840 --> 01:33:56.159
Okay.
01:33:56.960 --> 01:33:58.000
That's that's fair.
01:33:58.239 --> 01:33:59.199
Okay, all right.
01:33:59.439 --> 01:34:09.199
So my last question is would you rather sleep with sounds or sleep in silence?
01:34:09.439 --> 01:34:13.520
My answer probably embraces both in a way.
01:34:14.000 --> 01:34:25.279
Meaning, meaning I okay, I okay, when you talk about silence silence, yes, I I do not do silence at all.
01:34:25.520 --> 01:34:28.159
I sleep with a loud fan, a box fan.
01:34:28.239 --> 01:34:28.560
Uh-huh.
01:34:28.800 --> 01:34:33.840
Or when I used to do this, I would do white noise that I've done in the past.
01:34:34.560 --> 01:34:38.479
Um, I can't do silence at all.
01:34:38.720 --> 01:34:41.920
Or rain like rainstorms.
01:34:42.479 --> 01:34:44.560
Rainstorms I can do.
01:34:45.119 --> 01:34:48.000
It just has to be consistent.
01:34:48.239 --> 01:34:51.520
Wasn't that like part of your Spotify wrapped though?
01:34:51.680 --> 01:34:52.319
Yes.
01:34:53.279 --> 01:34:56.399
So I know that you did listen to it a lot.
01:34:56.640 --> 01:34:57.039
Yeah.
01:34:57.199 --> 01:34:57.439
Okay.
01:34:57.680 --> 01:34:59.039
Oh my gosh.
01:34:59.439 --> 01:35:02.560
And then you got mad because it got wrapped into your algorithm.
01:35:02.800 --> 01:35:04.079
Yes, I was so mad.
01:35:04.159 --> 01:35:06.319
And I'm still struggling with that.
01:35:06.560 --> 01:35:16.800
Meaning like purging it from my not my wrapped, but it it sometimes will show up in my um, you know, when you suggested that play.
01:35:16.960 --> 01:35:17.199
Yeah.
01:35:17.359 --> 01:35:20.000
And I'm like, um, I'm over that, please.
01:35:20.399 --> 01:35:22.079
That's a stage that's over.
01:35:22.399 --> 01:35:25.520
Um but yeah, so two different times this has happened.
01:35:25.600 --> 01:35:42.960
If you remember when we went to go visit dad in Florida, and we stayed in that hotel, all three of us in Western Florida, when he was having um a hospital visit or something like that, or having surgery when I went on this trip, you know, I couldn't bring a fan with me.
01:35:43.119 --> 01:35:45.439
And you said you can do white noise on Spotify.
01:35:45.520 --> 01:35:46.800
I was like, Oh yeah, that's right.
01:35:46.960 --> 01:35:56.800
So I got earbuds and I did that, and then the whole night, you know, was like what 10 to 12 hours of nothing but white noise.
01:35:57.039 --> 01:36:14.479
And then at the end of that year, when the rapped showed up, it's it had a picture of a box fan as one of my quote albums that I listened to or singles that I listened to, and I was like, you have gotta be kidding me.
01:36:14.720 --> 01:36:25.840
And to be fair, I I think at that stage I was not on Spotify a whole lot, but to not be on Spotify a whole lot and then have that show up, that should tell you something.
01:36:26.000 --> 01:36:27.760
Yeah, but I was so mad.
01:36:27.840 --> 01:36:29.359
I'm like, you've gotta be kidding me.
01:36:29.600 --> 01:36:42.319
So then fast forward, yes, I think my Spotify rap showed a lot of sleep music and melodic, calming melodies, all that stuff.
01:36:42.560 --> 01:36:45.279
That a melodic and melody is synonymous, I know.
01:36:45.359 --> 01:36:47.039
It didn't make any sense to say that.
01:36:47.920 --> 01:36:50.720
But just to give you an idea, yeah.
01:36:51.039 --> 01:36:54.079
But yeah, and it kept showing up, and I couldn't get rid of it.
01:36:54.479 --> 01:36:55.840
Definitely need noise.
01:36:56.079 --> 01:37:03.439
I need noise, but a lull, like a complete like a humming, static hum, yes.
01:37:03.680 --> 01:37:04.800
Okay, yeah.
01:37:05.119 --> 01:37:10.960
Okay, so full disclosure, I sleep with Seinfeld on.
01:37:12.000 --> 01:37:17.039
Um, I need Seinfeld, I need that that bass line of the that theme song.
01:37:17.279 --> 01:37:17.600
Dialogue.
01:37:17.840 --> 01:37:18.880
But yeah.
01:37:19.199 --> 01:37:36.560
Um, but I think that if I didn't, if I couldn't listen to Seinfeld, which I don't know an instance where I couldn't, because it's always on my phone, um, then I could probably take white noise or like a thunderstorm or something.
01:37:36.720 --> 01:37:39.680
Like I don't need rain, but thunder I like.
01:37:40.079 --> 01:37:45.680
That's weird because I would rather rain and no thunder if I were to choose.
01:37:46.239 --> 01:37:49.119
It's because it's so rain is consistent.
01:37:49.359 --> 01:37:52.239
Thunder would kind of like you know startle you.
01:37:52.479 --> 01:37:53.119
Yeah, yeah.
01:37:53.760 --> 01:37:54.399
I don't like it.
01:37:54.640 --> 01:38:00.720
Um what I will point out is that silence is so loud.
01:38:00.960 --> 01:38:04.720
Yes, in an uncomforting way.
01:38:05.199 --> 01:38:07.279
Yeah, I agree.
01:38:07.520 --> 01:38:08.159
Yeah, yeah.
01:38:08.560 --> 01:38:10.000
Silence can be intense.
01:38:10.239 --> 01:38:17.039
And I and what's also weird is that the location of the silence is different.
01:38:17.279 --> 01:38:27.119
So specifically, and I think I've mentioned this to her before, Michelle's house is very loud when there when there is no noise.
01:38:27.520 --> 01:38:31.840
Do you mean like um different things happening, like the AC kicking on?
01:38:32.079 --> 01:38:32.399
No.
01:38:33.119 --> 01:38:36.159
It's so loud when there is no noise.
01:38:36.560 --> 01:38:38.640
Well, okay, give me an example.
01:38:39.520 --> 01:38:40.479
I I can't.
01:38:40.560 --> 01:38:40.880
I can't.
01:38:41.119 --> 01:38:42.720
So you're saying it's super quiet.
01:38:42.960 --> 01:38:45.359
It's so no house settling.
01:38:46.000 --> 01:38:48.000
Okay, so no settling.
01:38:48.399 --> 01:38:50.800
It is intensely quiet.
01:38:52.000 --> 01:38:52.319
Okay.
01:38:52.560 --> 01:38:55.600
That I can hear it so loudly.
01:38:55.920 --> 01:38:56.239
Okay.
01:38:56.479 --> 01:38:56.800
Yeah.
01:38:57.039 --> 01:38:58.960
It's it's really weird.
01:38:59.119 --> 01:39:02.399
And I don't think I experience that anywhere else.
01:39:02.880 --> 01:39:04.960
That that level of quiet.
01:39:06.000 --> 01:39:06.479
Wow.
01:39:07.600 --> 01:39:10.479
So I wonder, I wonder why there.
01:39:10.720 --> 01:39:12.800
Yeah, it it is it's wild for sure.
01:39:13.279 --> 01:39:19.119
Houses tend to settle, they have, you know, their own little house sounds, you know.
01:39:19.359 --> 01:39:20.239
No, yeah, no.
01:39:20.319 --> 01:39:25.279
It is not, it's not like there's little sounds that happen.
01:39:25.760 --> 01:39:28.960
Um, because it's so quiet, you can hear these little sounds.
01:39:29.119 --> 01:39:30.000
That's not what I mean.
01:39:30.159 --> 01:39:39.119
What I mean is that the quiet is so loud that there is that you can literally feel it in your ears.
01:39:39.760 --> 01:39:40.399
Hmm.
01:39:41.359 --> 01:39:42.319
Very weird.
01:39:42.560 --> 01:39:47.600
It is weird, and I don't know how to also explain it, but hopefully somebody understands what I'm talking about.
01:39:47.760 --> 01:39:48.880
Yeah, that could be the case.
01:39:48.960 --> 01:40:01.439
I see this is why I like talking about stuff like this, is because you know, we're just going by our own um mental kind of recollection of how things are, but are we normal?
01:40:01.680 --> 01:40:02.960
Maybe, maybe not.
01:40:03.600 --> 01:40:05.520
So I like that.
01:40:05.680 --> 01:40:12.000
So somebody, hopefully, you know, somebody it could prompt somebody to comment on that.
01:40:12.159 --> 01:40:13.279
Yeah, that's very interesting.
01:40:13.520 --> 01:40:14.800
Maybe like a scientist.
01:40:15.039 --> 01:40:15.359
Yeah.
01:40:15.600 --> 01:40:17.600
Do you think scientists listen to us?
01:40:18.560 --> 01:40:19.600
Wouldn't that be crazy?
01:40:19.920 --> 01:40:20.239
Yeah.
01:40:20.960 --> 01:40:21.760
Please tell us.
01:40:21.920 --> 01:40:23.119
Are you a scientist?
01:40:23.760 --> 01:40:24.640
Call today.
01:40:24.800 --> 01:40:25.199
Yeah.
01:40:25.680 --> 01:40:26.000
All right.
01:40:26.159 --> 01:40:27.680
What's your last question?
01:40:28.000 --> 01:40:28.319
Okay.
01:40:28.800 --> 01:40:38.079
So my last question is probably the most important question of all the questions we have presented.
01:40:38.319 --> 01:40:39.199
Oh my God.
01:40:39.439 --> 01:40:41.600
And you must make a choice.
01:40:43.439 --> 01:40:44.560
You ready?
01:40:45.039 --> 01:40:46.079
I don't know, man.
01:40:46.319 --> 01:40:46.560
Okay.
01:40:46.720 --> 01:40:47.840
Let's hear it.
01:40:48.960 --> 01:40:50.239
Pam or Michelle.
01:40:50.479 --> 01:40:51.439
Okay, everybody.
01:40:51.600 --> 01:40:52.960
What's it gonna be?
01:40:55.199 --> 01:40:56.079
I'm just kidding.
01:40:56.319 --> 01:40:57.199
Michelle, you do not know.
01:40:58.479 --> 01:40:58.800
I know.
01:41:00.399 --> 01:41:01.279
Just kidding.
01:41:01.600 --> 01:41:07.359
No, I saw I thought of that and I said, okay, well, I'll save that for the last.
01:41:08.079 --> 01:41:10.000
But oh man.
01:41:10.720 --> 01:41:14.159
Could you imagine now being like the good son?
01:41:14.560 --> 01:41:16.399
That's that would be a good one.
01:41:16.560 --> 01:41:17.119
You know what I mean?
01:41:17.520 --> 01:41:18.159
Yeah.
01:41:18.479 --> 01:41:19.680
That movie.
01:41:20.159 --> 01:41:21.439
I it's on my list.
01:41:21.600 --> 01:41:23.119
It looks so dark.
01:41:23.359 --> 01:41:25.119
It's ridiculous.
01:41:26.159 --> 01:41:27.840
That would be a tough one for sure.
01:41:27.920 --> 01:41:31.840
Because I know I love you both in like completely different ways.
01:41:32.079 --> 01:41:33.039
Exactly.
01:41:37.840 --> 01:41:38.399
All right.
01:41:38.640 --> 01:41:41.199
So now we're on to our QA.
01:41:41.520 --> 01:41:41.920
Yes.
01:41:42.079 --> 01:41:50.479
Um, today's cue is brought to us by Kate in Vancouver, Washington, also known as the Coove.
01:41:50.800 --> 01:41:51.920
Hey, Kate.
01:41:52.560 --> 01:41:58.399
Um, some people call it the Couve.
01:41:58.880 --> 01:41:59.920
That's hilarious.
01:42:00.079 --> 01:42:00.560
I know.
01:42:00.880 --> 01:42:02.880
Everything has such a nickname nowadays.
01:42:03.119 --> 01:42:03.760
I know.
01:42:04.399 --> 01:42:09.840
Um, so her question is, which is a great question.
01:42:10.159 --> 01:42:11.199
It is, actually.
01:42:11.680 --> 01:42:15.920
What is your biggest pet peeve with the other sister?
01:42:17.439 --> 01:42:24.159
That is so it's such a great question, but it I'm like kind of mad at Kate.
01:42:25.680 --> 01:42:28.479
It's like it's a potster for sure.
01:42:28.720 --> 01:42:33.199
I have never been so angry with an individual I've never met.
01:42:34.399 --> 01:42:37.279
Um my god.
01:42:37.840 --> 01:42:43.600
By the way, I don't know if I told you this, but she's adopted herself as my surrogate sister.
01:42:43.760 --> 01:42:49.199
Oh, so there's even more of a reason right there.
01:42:49.359 --> 01:42:50.000
Yeah.
01:42:50.319 --> 01:42:50.640
Okay.
01:42:51.359 --> 01:42:54.000
We'll be at the flagpole at three o'clock.
01:42:54.479 --> 01:42:55.039
I know.
01:42:55.279 --> 01:42:55.600
God.
01:42:56.159 --> 01:42:57.840
I'd love to see you guys fight.
01:42:58.159 --> 01:42:58.479
Okay.
01:42:58.960 --> 01:43:01.119
So do you want to go first?
01:43:02.960 --> 01:43:09.920
I'll I'll let you know that I have a few in in Pure Kim fashion.
01:43:10.000 --> 01:43:11.359
I have more than one answer.
01:43:11.600 --> 01:43:13.920
And then I have a bonus answer.
01:43:14.239 --> 01:43:15.039
Oh, jeez.
01:43:15.359 --> 01:43:15.840
I know.
01:43:16.079 --> 01:43:16.399
Okay.
01:43:16.640 --> 01:43:16.960
Okay.
01:43:17.199 --> 01:43:18.239
So go ahead.
01:43:18.560 --> 01:43:33.680
You kind of you've already known this, but I'm this is like one of my biggest annoyances about you, but I've already expressed this and you don't care.
01:43:34.880 --> 01:43:38.960
So okay.
01:43:39.920 --> 01:43:41.680
So and please.
01:43:42.000 --> 01:43:44.399
Oh wait, I guess I know what this is gonna be.
01:43:44.800 --> 01:43:49.119
Let me know if this is anything, if this if she has done this to you.
01:43:52.960 --> 01:43:59.359
So Kim is notorious for this.
01:43:59.439 --> 01:44:01.359
Is a kind of a two-part thing.
01:44:01.840 --> 01:44:09.279
She doesn't leave me on red, but she doesn't okay, okay.
01:44:09.359 --> 01:44:10.880
Let me let me back up.
01:44:11.359 --> 01:44:19.600
So Instagram has rolled out this stupid feature where I have to see what people have liked, right?
01:44:20.640 --> 01:44:29.039
And then I'm coming across it and I'm like, Kim knows that I would appreciate this content.
01:44:29.199 --> 01:44:31.680
Why did she not send this to me?
01:44:32.640 --> 01:44:51.600
And then I have to think of all the people that probably got to see this before me, and she knows, like, okay, so what if it's a a really cool fact about, you know, maybe Animaniacs is coming back, or maybe it's a fact about um a gorilla.
01:44:52.159 --> 01:44:53.119
Okay coming out.
01:44:53.279 --> 01:44:54.399
Or okay, go.
01:44:55.039 --> 01:45:05.359
You know, what if it's some kind of creative Rube Goldberg machine that has never been done in the history of Rube Goldberg machines?
01:45:05.680 --> 01:45:08.239
Does Kim send it to me, guys?
01:45:08.560 --> 01:45:09.760
No, she doesn't.
01:45:10.000 --> 01:45:12.239
She saves it for herself.
01:45:14.239 --> 01:45:17.600
Do you know that is not at all what I thought you were gonna say?
01:45:17.680 --> 01:45:19.199
It's in the same realm.
01:45:20.479 --> 01:45:30.000
But and then, okay, but the the second part to that, I guess we'll say, since you have your little few questions or few few answers to this.
01:45:30.159 --> 01:45:30.800
Yeah.
01:45:31.279 --> 01:45:32.960
Is she okay?
01:45:33.039 --> 01:45:39.199
So we have a sister chat within the Instagram app, okay?
01:45:40.079 --> 01:45:52.960
And she will like, okay, so we have this thing where if she's seen it before, this is very controversial for people that share memes with each other.
01:45:53.199 --> 01:45:56.319
I know that some people are like, oh, I've seen that.
01:45:56.399 --> 01:45:59.359
And then some people think it's rude to say, oh, I've seen that.
01:45:59.600 --> 01:46:01.039
I completely get that.
01:46:01.359 --> 01:46:13.439
So if I send you a reel that you've already seen, but I didn't maybe see that you liked it, you'll heart it.
01:46:13.600 --> 01:46:13.920
Okay.
01:46:14.800 --> 01:46:22.159
But my frustration isn't necessarily that you're harding it because it is a compromise that we came up with.
01:46:22.800 --> 01:46:31.039
What frustrates me is that you don't, it's like, okay, but what is your opinion on it?
01:46:31.359 --> 01:46:32.800
You don't engage.
01:46:33.279 --> 01:46:42.640
I see your stupid little avatar sitting under what you what I said about it, or what you know, what what the post is.
01:46:42.720 --> 01:46:45.199
And I'm like, okay, but what are your thoughts on it?
01:46:45.439 --> 01:46:48.319
You're the only one really you can tell me.
01:46:48.720 --> 01:46:52.000
You're the only one of the three of us that does reply with thoughts.
01:46:52.159 --> 01:46:54.960
Me and Michelle, like Yeah, you guys do.
01:46:55.600 --> 01:46:57.920
No, yes.
01:46:58.560 --> 01:47:01.279
Don't let me go in and get some screenshots.
01:47:01.520 --> 01:47:03.119
Don't get interested.
01:47:04.159 --> 01:47:10.239
So some of you have commented on something and then it brings it to the bottom or whatever.
01:47:10.560 --> 01:47:19.119
But a lot of the times, if it's something you have seen, you won't give me your take on it.
01:47:19.760 --> 01:47:21.920
Now, let me just say this.
01:47:22.159 --> 01:47:27.039
Yes, if I'm presenting this as a pet peeve, this is super petty.
01:47:27.199 --> 01:47:28.640
It's a petty peeve.
01:47:28.880 --> 01:47:29.840
Petty peeve.
01:47:30.079 --> 01:47:30.800
I get that.
01:47:30.960 --> 01:47:32.319
I know it's a pet peeve.
01:47:32.560 --> 01:47:33.920
Is that why they call it that?
01:47:34.239 --> 01:47:35.199
I wonder.
01:47:36.239 --> 01:47:37.119
Oh, okay.
01:47:37.359 --> 01:47:38.479
I'm gonna Google it.
01:47:38.960 --> 01:47:39.359
Go on.
01:47:39.600 --> 01:47:39.920
Okay.
01:47:40.560 --> 01:47:49.680
So, but I don't want to see after this like a super fake change in you.
01:47:49.920 --> 01:47:52.079
Like, gimme Kim or don't.
01:47:52.239 --> 01:47:53.920
But I'm just saying that this is what I'm saying.
01:47:54.079 --> 01:48:00.640
Well, you know that like I'm not gonna start like I'll make an effort, but I'm not gonna be fake.
01:48:00.880 --> 01:48:04.560
I'm not gonna be like, oh my god, this is the most amazing thing I've ever seen.
01:48:04.640 --> 01:48:05.920
Thank you for sharing it with me.
01:48:06.079 --> 01:48:07.520
Like, I'm not gonna do that.
01:48:08.000 --> 01:48:25.439
Um, so I do make an effort, sometimes more than others, and I will make an effort after the time of this recording to give you my opinion of what I have already seen.
01:48:26.239 --> 01:48:28.960
Um without it being forced.
01:48:29.199 --> 01:48:31.199
And yeah, see, there we go.
01:48:31.520 --> 01:48:33.359
And I do apologize.
01:48:33.680 --> 01:48:36.319
Oh you're forgiven.
01:48:37.840 --> 01:48:38.560
Be forgiven.
01:48:38.720 --> 01:48:42.399
You'll be you'll be more forgiven when I when I see uh a change.
01:48:42.640 --> 01:48:44.000
I'll believe it when I see it.
01:48:44.159 --> 01:48:44.640
Yeah.
01:48:44.880 --> 01:49:01.119
Um so real quick, pet peeve, it says it combines pet, which means a cherished or meaning cherished or personal, as in a pet project, with peeve, which means annoyance, like it's derived from peevish.
01:49:01.600 --> 01:49:09.520
So, and it started in the early 1900s, um, to describe specific, often irrational irritations.
01:49:10.000 --> 01:49:16.960
I didn't know that pet meant something different, yeah, nurtured like a pet.
01:49:17.520 --> 01:49:22.800
And then it's because of a pet, yes.
01:49:23.039 --> 01:49:28.079
It's something that you care about and take care of, you know, blah, blah, blah.
01:49:28.399 --> 01:49:28.800
Wow.
01:49:28.960 --> 01:49:29.119
Okay.
01:49:29.359 --> 01:49:32.239
And then it's a peeve because you hate it.
01:49:32.560 --> 01:49:33.039
All right.
01:49:33.680 --> 01:49:37.760
So uh where to begin.
01:49:38.239 --> 01:49:38.880
Wow.
01:49:39.680 --> 01:49:41.840
I'm just kidding.
01:49:42.960 --> 01:49:46.399
Also, you I have told you about all of these.
01:49:46.560 --> 01:49:50.479
These all drive me crazy, and you know about them, but they were worth mentioning.
01:49:50.640 --> 01:49:53.840
So I think I know one and I have a defense for it.
01:49:54.079 --> 01:49:55.840
Okay, I'm sure you do.
01:49:56.159 --> 01:49:56.800
All right.
01:49:58.159 --> 01:49:59.760
So the first one I wrote down.
01:50:00.319 --> 01:50:04.800
Is asking me or Michelle something that is easily Googleable.
01:50:05.840 --> 01:50:12.159
Um like recipes or how to do something on your phone or blah blah blah.
01:50:12.720 --> 01:50:14.560
Wait, so you're including Michelle in this?
01:50:14.640 --> 01:50:19.359
So, Michelle, if you're listening, is this like some kind of alliance that was built?
01:50:19.600 --> 01:50:22.159
No, there's no there's no alliance.
01:50:22.479 --> 01:50:29.199
But I do know that you have reached out to her for recipes quite often.
01:50:29.520 --> 01:50:34.960
And it's like, dude, it's not like she created this recipe, just Google it.
01:50:36.640 --> 01:50:37.199
That's all.
01:50:37.439 --> 01:50:38.640
Okay, I'm gonna save this.
01:50:38.960 --> 01:50:39.520
Go ahead.
01:50:40.960 --> 01:50:42.239
So that's what I want to know.
01:50:42.399 --> 01:50:44.560
Do you want me to respond after each one?
01:50:44.960 --> 01:50:47.520
Or do you want me to state my case at the end?
01:50:47.920 --> 01:50:50.479
You can respond with two sentences.
01:50:50.800 --> 01:50:51.439
Wow.
01:50:52.159 --> 01:50:57.920
In leave on Kim number two when she makes you only use two sentences.
01:50:58.800 --> 01:51:01.760
Um okay.
01:51:02.319 --> 01:51:14.720
Now, if anybody that works with me that I have presented this question to is listening, just let the record show I was right, that I knew she was gonna bring this up.
01:51:15.039 --> 01:51:15.439
Uh-huh.
01:51:16.800 --> 01:51:20.079
And I'm gonna tell you the same thing I told them.
01:51:20.319 --> 01:51:20.640
Okay.
01:51:21.600 --> 01:51:35.680
That it may not be ideal to reach out to Kim or Michelle rather than Google, but I like when you guys give me your feedback.
01:51:35.920 --> 01:51:44.640
I like when you guys explain it to me because you know me and you know you know the kind of answer I want to hear.
01:51:45.039 --> 01:51:51.359
And to be honest, I like the engagement about said subject.
01:51:52.000 --> 01:52:01.600
So if I ask Michelle about a recipe, a lot of the times she knows that sometimes I might be like, Well, what if I don't have XYZ?
01:52:01.680 --> 01:52:06.159
And she'll say, Well, you can just substitute blah blah blah, and it goes from there.
01:52:06.479 --> 01:52:06.880
I see.
01:52:07.119 --> 01:52:14.800
So yeah, and I know that she doesn't make up all her recipes, I know that she gets them from somewhere, but sometimes if she doesn't send it, I want her to.
01:52:14.880 --> 01:52:15.600
Yeah, whatever.
01:52:15.920 --> 01:52:21.840
What I will say is that I have never denied you my help.
01:52:22.239 --> 01:52:30.560
So if ever you have asked me something that is easily Googleable, it's I have never said, Pam, please just Google it.
01:52:30.880 --> 01:52:31.840
Google it, Pam.
01:52:33.760 --> 01:52:35.279
I always will help you.
01:52:35.439 --> 01:52:37.359
I sometimes I'll Google it for you.
01:52:37.439 --> 01:52:40.720
I'll send you screenshots, I'll read to you what I'm reading off Google.
01:52:40.880 --> 01:52:42.800
Like, yeah, so it's fine.
01:52:42.960 --> 01:52:47.680
I like feeling useful, but it's still like, come on, Pam.
01:52:47.760 --> 01:52:52.880
Like sometimes, like just well, and I know I will give you credit for that.
01:52:52.960 --> 01:52:53.279
You have.
01:52:53.359 --> 01:52:53.840
Okay, thanks.
01:52:54.079 --> 01:52:55.840
It used to be really bad.
01:52:56.159 --> 01:52:57.680
But yes, you have gotten better.
01:52:57.840 --> 01:53:01.439
And but I, you know, I had to think of some pet peeves.
01:53:01.520 --> 01:53:02.239
So that's where we are.
01:53:02.880 --> 01:53:03.199
Okay.
01:53:03.439 --> 01:53:03.760
Okay.
01:53:04.000 --> 01:53:10.399
The next one is, which is something that was actually mentioned earlier, is how embarrassed you get in public.
01:53:10.640 --> 01:53:14.079
Oh I know what example you're gonna have.
01:53:14.319 --> 01:53:22.880
Uh, is it with the thing I wanted you to take a picture of, or that you wanted to take a picture of because you thought it was really cool and you made me take a picture of it.
01:53:23.199 --> 01:53:29.439
So Pam and I were walking down the sidewalk on this busy street.
01:53:29.600 --> 01:53:32.960
It was like a boulevard, and she saw something really cool.
01:53:33.119 --> 01:53:35.119
I think it was like one of those electrical boxes.
01:53:35.279 --> 01:53:36.239
What was it?
01:53:36.560 --> 01:53:37.039
Maybe.
01:53:37.119 --> 01:53:38.479
Yeah, or maybe it was a tree.
01:53:38.880 --> 01:53:44.800
Because you know, well, there is that tree, but I think I took a picture of it that day because I had the better camera.
01:53:45.039 --> 01:53:45.920
Oh, that's true, yes.
01:53:46.239 --> 01:53:52.880
But when we were walking on the sidewalk on a busy street, there was like a really cool painted electrical box or something.
01:53:53.279 --> 01:53:54.000
Oh, yeah.
01:53:54.479 --> 01:54:01.680
And because the because the street was so busy, you didn't want to be seen taking a picture of it.
01:54:01.920 --> 01:54:08.880
Which is like this society of where we are is everyone taking pictures of everything, especially themselves.
01:54:09.199 --> 01:54:13.760
But you just wanted to take a picture, you wanted a picture of this thing, and I had to do it.
01:54:13.840 --> 01:54:24.000
Even though you were standing right next to me, you didn't want to be the one seen by these drivers that see you for a nanosecond taking a picture of something in public.
01:54:24.560 --> 01:54:27.359
That is frustrating to myself.
01:54:27.600 --> 01:54:27.840
Yes.
01:54:27.920 --> 01:54:35.600
I know, I know, and yeah, and you do that often, and that's why I was really surprised that you wanted to go geocaching with me and Michelle that day.
01:54:35.920 --> 01:54:41.600
Because like you got you started digging, and I was like, okay, Pam, all right.
01:54:41.840 --> 01:54:43.359
I got really impressed.
01:54:43.600 --> 01:54:46.159
But which by the way, that has to be a future episode.
01:54:46.239 --> 01:54:47.760
We have gotta talk about geocaching.
01:54:47.920 --> 01:54:49.039
It's on our list, yeah.
01:54:49.279 --> 01:54:51.920
Yeah, okay, okay, so there's that.
01:54:52.399 --> 01:54:57.119
That is fair, and my my only defense with that is I just don't like to draw a touch to myself.
01:54:57.279 --> 01:54:57.600
Right.
01:54:57.920 --> 01:54:59.600
But I am getting better.
01:54:59.920 --> 01:55:02.720
But also you need to realize that nobody really cares about you.
01:55:02.880 --> 01:55:03.359
I know.
01:55:03.600 --> 01:55:16.800
So and I think that's what's hardest for you to get over is realizing that, and I think the hardest part about that is because if you were driving and you saw somebody taking a picture, you would be so interested in what they're taking a picture of.
01:55:17.199 --> 01:55:21.600
And so because of that, you think everyone else thinks the same way you do.
01:55:21.840 --> 01:55:22.239
Yep.
01:55:22.479 --> 01:55:22.800
Okay.
01:55:23.119 --> 01:55:24.560
That's so biblical too.
01:55:24.880 --> 01:55:27.279
Like judge not, let lest he be judged.
01:55:27.520 --> 01:55:27.920
Right.
01:55:28.079 --> 01:55:28.399
Yeah.
01:55:28.720 --> 01:55:32.640
Um, and then my last one.
01:55:35.520 --> 01:55:37.039
This is so annoying.
01:55:38.720 --> 01:55:45.760
My last pet peeve, which again, you do already know about this because I bring it up every single time we're on the phone together.
01:55:46.239 --> 01:55:49.279
Is when Oh, wait.
01:55:50.000 --> 01:55:52.000
No, I'm not gonna guess, but I think I know.
01:55:52.319 --> 01:55:57.119
It's when you tell me to hold on when I'm when I'm already holding.
01:55:57.359 --> 01:56:00.479
Pam, I don't know what it is, but that drives me crazy.
01:56:00.880 --> 01:56:02.640
I don't know why that drives you so crazy.
01:56:02.880 --> 01:56:17.439
I don't know, Pam, but for those listening, Pam will be on the phone with me and she'll tell me to hold on because either her son has a question or she's looking for something or she's doing something.
01:56:17.520 --> 01:56:20.079
She's always doing something, and she'll tell me to hold on.
01:56:20.239 --> 01:56:22.399
So I am sitting there holding.
01:56:22.560 --> 01:56:24.159
I'm not continuing talking.
01:56:24.399 --> 01:56:27.600
I'm not like bugging her, like, oh my God, are you done yet?
01:56:27.760 --> 01:56:28.720
Like, there's none of that.
01:56:28.800 --> 01:56:30.560
I'm literally just holding.
01:56:31.119 --> 01:56:36.079
While I am holding, Pam will say, Okay, hold on.
01:56:36.239 --> 01:56:40.319
And she will keep telling me to hold on, like while I'm holding.
01:56:40.399 --> 01:56:44.640
And I know that that's silly and it should not be, it's a petty peeve.
01:56:44.880 --> 01:56:49.199
And I I don't know, man, it drives me nuts.
01:56:50.079 --> 01:56:52.399
It's the equivalent of now.
01:56:52.479 --> 01:56:56.399
This is another annoyance that I'm sure I that you have about me.
01:56:56.720 --> 01:57:07.920
It's the equivalent of when I say, um, if I respond to a text with hold on, or what is it that I say?
01:57:08.079 --> 01:57:10.159
I say, hold on, let me check.
01:57:10.239 --> 01:57:12.399
And you're literally don't have to tell me.
01:57:12.880 --> 01:57:14.720
You don't have to check me that you're checking.
01:57:15.439 --> 01:57:15.600
Right.
01:57:15.840 --> 01:57:18.239
Just go check them answering my question.
01:57:18.800 --> 01:57:19.199
Yeah.
01:57:19.439 --> 01:57:26.960
And then my response last time you got on to me about that was I want to let you know that currently I'm taking care of it.
01:57:27.279 --> 01:57:27.760
Yeah.
01:57:29.760 --> 01:57:32.960
I'm like, I think I'm too overly considerate.
01:57:33.199 --> 01:57:34.800
You're too communicative.
01:57:35.439 --> 01:57:36.079
Yeah.
01:57:36.640 --> 01:57:38.960
Um would agree.
01:57:39.680 --> 01:57:40.319
Yeah.
01:57:40.800 --> 01:57:43.520
Um, those are all I got for pet peeves.
01:57:43.680 --> 01:57:46.960
There might be more, but those are the ones that like resonated.
01:57:47.199 --> 01:57:52.319
Um, but I do have a bonus pet peeve, which is a pet peeve from my childhood.
01:57:52.640 --> 01:57:52.960
Oh.
01:57:53.920 --> 01:57:56.079
Defenseless, I'm sure I'm I will be.
01:57:56.399 --> 01:57:56.720
Oh.
01:57:57.279 --> 01:58:00.640
Um, when you used to pull my toes.
01:58:01.199 --> 01:58:03.600
Oh my gosh, I forgot about that.
01:58:03.840 --> 01:58:09.520
Yeah, I did too, until like something happened a few days ago, in fact.
01:58:09.840 --> 01:58:12.159
And I like I was watching something.
01:58:12.239 --> 01:58:17.279
I can't remember what happened, but I was like, oh my god, yes, I hated that so much.
01:58:18.159 --> 01:58:25.600
So yeah, so Pam used to pull my toes to crack them.
01:58:25.920 --> 01:58:28.640
Like pull them to to like pop them.
01:58:28.960 --> 01:58:30.079
To pop them, yeah.
01:58:30.239 --> 01:58:30.479
Yeah.
01:58:30.640 --> 01:58:33.279
And like I do that now, but I don't pull them.
01:58:33.359 --> 01:58:37.439
Like I do crack my toes in the same way I crack my knuckles where I push them down.
01:58:37.920 --> 01:58:40.159
But I never pull my knuckles.
01:58:40.399 --> 01:58:44.399
And you thought it was hilarious because I hated it so much.
01:58:44.560 --> 01:58:46.079
You were such a bully.
01:58:46.640 --> 01:58:50.079
And yes, I don't remember you hating it.
01:58:50.159 --> 01:58:51.600
I mean, were you you weren't crying?
01:58:51.760 --> 01:58:53.600
You were probably just like, oh my god, no.
01:58:53.920 --> 01:59:03.439
Yes, I was not crying, but I I 100% made it obvious that I did not like what you were doing, and you thought it was funny that I didn't like it.
01:59:03.680 --> 01:59:05.920
And you would do it intentionally to pick on me.
01:59:06.479 --> 01:59:09.039
Well, if you would have cried, I would have taken it seriously.
01:59:09.359 --> 01:59:10.720
That's not true either.
01:59:10.960 --> 01:59:12.640
You would have thought I was annoying.
01:59:13.359 --> 01:59:13.840
I know.
01:59:14.159 --> 01:59:18.720
Anyway, um, it's definitely something that has traumatized me.
01:59:18.800 --> 01:59:19.920
I hate it to this day.
01:59:20.079 --> 01:59:24.000
I don't want any of my knuckles, finger or toe, pulled.
01:59:24.720 --> 01:59:29.760
And um, yeah, so that's my bonus pet peeve.
01:59:29.920 --> 01:59:31.119
My kid pet peeve.
01:59:31.359 --> 01:59:34.000
You're gonna have to put some shoes on when I come and visit.
01:59:37.039 --> 01:59:41.119
That's I think it, and this is where our outro music would start.
01:59:41.359 --> 01:59:42.000
Yeah.
01:59:42.319 --> 01:59:43.520
Yeah, that's it.
01:59:43.760 --> 01:59:45.199
So hold on.
01:59:53.520 --> 01:59:55.359
That was perfect.
01:59:56.159 --> 01:59:57.279
All right, weirdos.
01:59:57.439 --> 01:59:59.119
That's it for this episode of Sisterical.
01:59:59.359 --> 02:00:01.760
Don't forget to hydrate and text us when you get home.
02:00:02.000 --> 02:00:04.800
Catch you next time for more shenanigans.
02:00:04.960 --> 02:00:05.840
Love you, Pam.
02:00:06.319 --> 02:00:07.439
Love you, Kim.
02:00:07.840 --> 02:00:08.399
Bye.
02:00:18.560 --> 02:00:20.479
Oh, sure, of course you're entitled.
02:00:20.560 --> 02:00:22.319
Who doesn't want this, that, and the other?