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You're listening to WGSN-DB, Going Solo Network, singles talk radio channel,
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where we take a lighthearted and candid approach to discussions
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on the journey of relationship loss, divorce, parenting, being single,
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relationships building, dating, and yes, sex. Join our listeners and
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begin living your best life.
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Well, welcome back, everybody. Welcome to Dare to Dream, my show.
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I'm the Reverend Graham Williamson. I'm third generation international intuitive,
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evidential medium and psychic. You're listening to NewStreamingNetwork.com and WGSN-DB
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Going Solo Network Radio. Welcome to my show. Today's show
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is Walking Your Path. Or Walking One's Path. It's quite funny, really,
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because I've just had three minutes of chaos. Because time
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flew by, electronic problems, all that. And it never worries me. Why?
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Because I know things are there for a reason. Things
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happen for a reason. And the whole point of life
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is to experience in your human form everything that is
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put in front of you. You all have a history
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from your past. And the whole purpose of your spirit
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having a human existence is to find out why you're here.
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So every single thing that happens to you, you've got
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a choice. It's bow down, say, yeah, okay, I succumb.
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I'll do everything you want. Yeah, yeah, okay.
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No.
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No. That's just not going to work that way with me.
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I've been in so many things in my life that
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scare me just remembering it. Holding a bomb, being shot at,
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three car accidents, my best friend taking my worship and
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all the rest of it. And yet there's scary moments.
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But I'm here today and I don't know how. I survived,
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but why? You see, every single one of us have
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a purpose. I believe, to a point, mine is to
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teach you about your own awareness within yourself and also
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to show people that when the body ceases working, living,
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your spirit continues. I don't know exactly where it goes to.
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Another realm of existence is the best way of describing it.
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But I do know that the spirit continues after the
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change called death. And because of what I've encountered and
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seen and heard, even felt, all the senses, there's 110%
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surety that I know that when I physically die, I
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continue on another plane of existence. My path, the one
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I'm walking on, the one you are walking on, you
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have to discern what it is for you, what it
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means to you. Why do you feel that you may
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be in a cul-de-sac, a dead end? There's no light
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at the end of the tunnel. Because you're looking at
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it the wrong way. You see, the light emanates from within.
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The energy that makes you what you are, your spirit.
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And it shines in various degrees. A little dim light,
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a massive blinger. But people think it's got to be
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in front of them. They're shining in their eyes. No.
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I feel it's from your heart, from your spirit, that
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shines out through you, out from your physical being. My wife, Sandy,
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she calls me the comedic medium. And it sounds, yeah,
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I make people laugh. And yet, a lot of people
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come to me for readings whenever to events or just
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doing a reading. People say, we feel drawn to you.
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To me and my wife. She's got the same sort
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of energy within her. She's got this calm knowing. I'm
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the exact opposite. I'm high all the time. I'm bouncing.
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I'm one of those optimistic sort of people. Because I've
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been pessimistic, I've been selfish, I've been arrogant, I'm recovered drunk,
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all the pains that I went through. But I've learned
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to look back at it and say, I learned my lesson.
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I'm learning lessons every day. My energy shines out. It
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affects people. You see, when you're walking your path, one's path,
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it's there for a reason. And nobody can tell you
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you've got to do A, B, C, D, or 1, 2, 3, 4,
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whatever it is. Nobody can make you. And yeah, I
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do know by my past I've had people that pushed
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and pushed and pushed that psychologically threatened, physically threatened me.
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You've got to do it this way. You've got to
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do it that way. I gave in a few times.
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As I say, I'm a recovered alcoholic. But because I've
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been there, When somebody comes to me and I just
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get this flashback in my memory by spirit working through me,
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I remember that I used to be a really bad drunk.
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And I know it's because spirits try to say, this
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person has an addiction problem. I never took drugs. Drink
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is a drug I smoked about. One packet of cigarettes
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in my entire life, I smoked more cigars about. 30 cigars,
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but all between 1972 to 1980. I left the Navy
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in 86. But people were drawn to me and they're saying,
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I shine. I don't know how. I don't see it
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because I'm shining it from me. It's like having a
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torch here and it's beep out there in front of me.
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I don't see it. I don't see the light. I
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just see What's in front of me? Not a lie.
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I just see things in the light. I don't see
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the light. People see me and they say, you're good
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or bad? Because everybody sees somebody differently. You see, our
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energy emanates in a certain wavelength. You feel comfortable with
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it or you don't. It doesn't mean that you've got
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bad energy. It's just that the energies don't blend stop
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and bounce off but when it blends it goes together
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somebody's energy somebody my energy and it combines it merges
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just like water you see your actions your words have
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to come from your heart without the ego pushing it
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yeah we've all got egos everybody has But does that
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control your heart or do you control your ego from
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your heart? That's why I make people laugh because there's
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too many things happening around this world, especially at the moment.
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Where people are saying, oh, it's so depressing, I'm so
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down and all that. Then do something about it. I
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worked at a grocery store for 17 and a half years,
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one of the big ones in Florida. And I used
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to make people laugh. I broke all the rules with
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the company. But people say, oh, we love working with you, Graham.
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You're always fun. But I'm serious while having fun. I
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want to make people see that I am seeing them.
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I can hear them. And I can feel them in
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my heart. I retired in 2019, about June 2019 it was.
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And I go back to the places I used to
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work every now and again. And what depresses me is
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when I meet the customers and the people I used
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to work with and they go, the store's not the
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same since you left Graham. It's not the same anymore.
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It's so depressing. I went, what? The whole point of
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me being there was to show one person can make
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a difference. One person can make somebody laugh. somebody feel seen,
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heard and felt. I mean, we all have a choice.
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Is it so difficult to smile and say, hey, how
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are you doing? Hey, I can see you. Or can
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you say again? Listen to them. Give them the time
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Give them a couple of minutes. When you're walking your
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path of life, you have to stop every now and
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again and take cognizance of what's happening within you and
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around you. When I was in these stores and talking
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to the people I've worked with and they say, yeah, Graham, yeah.
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I said, what did I teach you? Just by being there.
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Or you were crazy, you could get away with it.
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I said, why could I get away with it? Will
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you do it in such a way? And the piecemeal,
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everything that I did, they fully understood, but they haven't
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got the courage to shine their own light. I was
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called that grail by the CEO of the company I
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work for. That grail. How many grails are in this country?
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And yet I'm called that grail. In a way, I
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feel very sad about it. I think I didn't quite
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do what I should have done. So that's why I'm
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talking about it, about walking one's path. Because I'm just
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one person and I can make a difference if you listen,
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if you trust, if you know yourself and if you're
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strong enough within yourself to speak, to do, to give.
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As I said, when I started this program, I was
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a couple of minutes late because circumstances with the computer
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and that. And I knew it was because Spirit wanted
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me to say, not everything will go smoothly, Graham. I
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knew that I was doing a show and CC is
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always very professional with that. And she said to me,
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you're going to join in a second. And then everything
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went wrong with the computer. And I'm laughing. I think, okay.
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Because I could get really worried and I could go, oh,
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what's wrong? I make even more problems. But I accept
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what spirit put in front of me, the challenges they
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give me. Because I know it's a lesson that's being shown.
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And it's up to me to interpret it in a
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way that says, that's another one. You survived this one.
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I told a lady today at a shop, I went
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to get some equipment from a hardware store, and she says,
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every time you come into the shop, you're smiling. I said, yeah,
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because you've got the things I need to do the
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job that I'm going to do for somebody else. So yeah,
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I'm happy about it. She said, but you're always smiling.
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Even when we don't have the thing, you go out
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and smile at us. Well, obviously, I'm not meant to
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do it that day, then. I have to find another
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way around it. Because each step I take gives me
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a choice. Oh, Paddy, you haven't got the stuff I want.
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Why haven't you got the stuff? Get all irate. Ah,
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that's not me. And at the end of it, the store,
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the hardware store, had the things that I needed. And
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I was about to go out, One of the ladies
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I knew, just to say hi to, you know, going
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in the store. She says, have you got your business
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card with you? I said, what? She said, I remember
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you saying you were a medium a while ago, and
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I would like to... And her friends came around and said, really?
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As a medium? I said, hey, I'm not a solicitor.
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She says, yeah, but it's attitude. She said, what was
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it you told me about each morning? I said, oh yeah,
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I have Easter, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year every morning. Christmas, sorry, Easter,
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I arose. I got out of bed. I'm thankful that
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I can get out of bed. Living is my Christmas present.
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And a New Year, to do better today than I
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did yesterday. That's the path I know I am on.
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And the store associates all went, that's lovely. And you
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do that every morning? I said, yeah. And at night,
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I say, thank you. Because I know spirit connect with me.
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And I listen. I feel all my senses. that when
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I'm in a situation with people, they remind me of
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things that I've experienced, and I know it's because I'm
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connected with the energy of the people in front of me.
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And I've learned how to interpret it. You see, walking
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one's path is easy. The hard part is to recognise
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the path you're on. You get up every morning. You
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do whatever you have to do or feel you have
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to do. And at night, what do you do? Go
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back home or talk to your family or whatever. And
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then go to sleep. It's a routine we all can
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get into. But life is not as simple as you think.
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It's simpler when you don't think. When you have to
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think of what you've got to do, then it becomes
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a problem. I do my shows every two weeks because
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I choose to. CC's got this fantastic going silent TV network.
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And I've been coming on it a couple of years now.
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And each time my shows are different because I don't
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plan my shows. I was worried yesterday because I couldn't
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get the title correct in my head. I woke up
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in the middle of the night thinking, what was it
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the Spirit said to me? I won't write it down
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because if I write it down, that becomes then a reality.
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And I don't feel comfortable with it at that moment.
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So I don't write things down. When I write things down,
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it's because I feel comfortable. My energy says, Graham, this
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is the thing that you've got to remember. Write it down.
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And I've sent Cece, the show producer, Walking One's Path
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is the title of my show today. And it's like
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a facet of a diamond. That diamond is made up
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of energy. And we're all facets of the same energy.
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So I don't have to think what I'm going to say.
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It's already there within me. My light. By walking this
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path I'm on. And it's not a straightforward path that
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goes A to B, straight line.
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No.
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Is doing everything a road will do. Twist, turn, go
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round and round, up, down, stop, start, fast, slow, get off,
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go on to another path, go on to another road.
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Because life is like a roller coaster. Life's simple, people
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screw it up when you start thinking. I'm not saying
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to those people that have to consciously think of what
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they're doing to do their job safely. I'm on about
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the spiritual side within you. What makes you tick? What
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makes you happy? And if you're not happy, take a
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good long hard look in the mirror. Mirrors are there
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for a reason. So you can make sure your hair's right,
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your collar's right, you know, you look presentable. But it's
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also to show you what you see within yourself. I've
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got another past behind me because I've survived it. My
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path that all the twists and turns starts, the accidents
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and all the negative stuff I encountered have all changed
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to a positive because I'm here today. Don't be afraid
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of standing up and being that whatever your name is.
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You shine your light from here, from your heart From
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your solar plexus. when you feel that you can give
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somebody your time and experience just listening to whatever's needed
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give it because like today I took some stuff to
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a thrift store community center And the person, a reverend
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that looks after this is a lovely lady. And I've
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got a lot of stuff that we're getting rid of
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because we don't need it anymore. But this lady gives
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stuff to the community. She doesn't sell it to the community.
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And there was a lot of stuff I filled up
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the truck, pretty much. And I went, well, thank you,
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thank you, thank you. I said, well, if it's not
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useful to me anymore, why keep it? The same with
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your path. You come up to a junction in front
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of you on your pathway. You can go straight over, left, right,
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or stay where you are. If you need to get
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away from what you're doing, change direction. But say, how
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do I feel? What can I do to make my
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life better and yours? Because it's not just about you.
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I'm married, I've got two stepdaughters, and I've got my
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son and daughter in England and their families. And I
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wish to God I could be with every single one
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of them, but I can't. Money, time, distance, circumstance. But
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I can contact them by other means. There's other roads,
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other pathways to get to them. And I use them
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with my heart. They'll say, like, come in on the
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show today. The pathway, whoa, I thought it was going
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to go. Click, everything's working. No, I've got to go
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this way, that way, that way. Then I'm here. Life's
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about finding yourself, walking with your head, not oity-toity, but
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looking around, being careful, doing the best you can for
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yourself and then others. I was shot at in Northern
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Ireland in Belfast in 1979. And the guy with me
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lost his leg. He was on my right. The bullet
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went to him. Now people crack their knuckles. It takes
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me straight back to that moment when I heard the
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gunshot and my friend's leg shattered. But I saved the
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guy's life by being a complete cartoon character. I was
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throwing trash away from the ship. I was a cook
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in the Royal Navy. And there's dumpsters on the jetty
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where we were birthed on, in Belfast. And as we're
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walking down, I've got a helmet on and a combat jacket.
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Trash bag. I have a clothes as well. They're chef's
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wives or cook's wives. And then when I heard a bullet,
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instinct took over. The hat came off. Then the jacket
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was flying off. One sleeveless tie fell off. Then my
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boots were coming off. We called them steaming bats. Steaming boots.
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Non-slip safety boots with steel caps. We never tie them
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in the major. If something happens, you need to get
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our footwear off quick. And I was kicking his boots off,
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but I was ducking, diving, twisting, turning, stopping, going forward,
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doing everything like a cartoon. And at the end of
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the jetty, I dove over the ship I was on.
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It was a naval tug. And Belfast got one of
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the highest tides in Great Britain at the time. And
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seeing the tide was out, and I was running so
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quickly I cleared the width of the ship into the
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water went under the boat and came in up in
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the jetty and I did not move until the all
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clear went but when I went back on the ship
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my friends had been careful they got the sniper he
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was okay and they said it was weird the bullet
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took his leg But because he was so concentrated on
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what you were doing, it was so silly, so weird.
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So what the heck is he doing? He didn't know
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he'd lost his leg. He didn't feel anything. He just
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saw me. Oh, what was that? And he was watching me.
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But by the time the medics got to him and
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put a tourniquet on, his blood wasn't... He wasn't losing
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too much blood. The fact he was concentrating on me
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saving my life because I thought he was dead. Boom.
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And always told, when you hear a gunshot, make yourself disappear.
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If I had a screen or something, I'd probably come
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round and help him, but I didn't. Did I do
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something wrong? I don't know. He lived, I lived. After
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the fact. You see, Everything that happens in my past
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has brought me here today. I've walked my path. Hello, Julie, welcome.
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And I've walked my path for a reason. I'm not
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too sure the end result, but I pray that my
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journey is helping other people to the best of my ability.
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Because I want everybody that watches my show to share it,
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listen to it, send me comments back because I would
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love to get some feedback because I've been doing this
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for a couple of years now and it's wonderful how
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I do get feedback. But enjoy, like, share, comment and
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subscribe to the new streaming network because I tell you,
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if my show is okay for you, there's plenty of
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other shows that are as good my show, if not better.
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Because I know there's not many mediums on New Streaming Network.
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There's a lot of psychics, there's a lot of gifted
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show hosts in whatever field they're in. And that's what
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makes this so much more worthwhile. That's so true, Julie,
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so true. And Why wait for somebody else to show
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you the way? Why do you need somebody else to
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hold your hand and pull you forward? If somebody's reaching
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for me, I want them to be next to me.
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Come on, let's go up together. Let's do this together.
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They can walk their path, I walk my path. It
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can sometimes part or come back together. I've been married
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twice before, and I thought I'd failed miserably, doing everything wrong,
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first marriage and a second marriage. But I was given
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memories that made me what I am today. A son,
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a daughter, grandchildren. Then I met Sandy, my wife. She
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gave me me. She showed me who I am in
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her eyes. She doesn't want me to make her happy.
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She wants me to be happy, which makes her happy
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and vice versa. I do this because I enjoy who
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I am. I'm not proud of myself all the time.
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I make a pig's ear out of it sometimes. But
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my wife just looks at me and says, what are
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you going to do now? And anybody who's got somebody
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in their hearts, in their lives, there's a look our
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spouses can give us that makes us go, what have
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I done wrong? What am I doing right? How can
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I do it better? And every night we'd laugh. And
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it's not a silly laugh. I'm silly, I'm crazy, I'm spontaneous.
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As I say, my wife calls me the comedic medium.
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But she knows I love her so much, I will
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never hold her back. My path is for me to
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walk on with people who wish to be with me.
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I don't tell anybody you've got to walk with me.
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I haven't got to do anything that you tell me.
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I choose whether to say yes or no. I'm here
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for my life. to do the best I can to
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make my purpose in life become more apparent. And in
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doing so, I want to lift other people. I want
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to make you rise up. I want you to see
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the light in front of you as you shine it,
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to show you the way you're going. Like you put
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your torchlight, I've got a light on up here, which
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is why it gives a really bad light on the
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picture there. But I know what I give you is
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from my heart, from spirit. They work through me. They
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tell me what to do. And I choose to listen
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and give back out what they're giving me. There's no pre-thought.
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There's no ego. Or how would this sound? Or if
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I do it that way. No, I do it. It's crazy.
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You see, when you know that your inner light is
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the best you can be for the moment, because it
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will change, you've got to give it your 100%. And
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there's a positive and a negative. If one's higher than
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the other one, you're overshadowing something else and vice versa.
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It has to be balanced. Because if you know enough
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about body is made up of electrical impulses electricity works
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with on off positive negative positive negative with batteries and
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that energy when it's balanced and open and clear and
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clean frozen everybody's just way way straight but as soon
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as something goes wrong the ego steps forward the negativity
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Higher than the positive. What's wrong with him? Or her?
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Or it? Animals have the best way of looking at it.
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Dogs especially. They know when you're happy or sad. And
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a child, your children, when you show them without prejudice
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who you are, the child will pick it up I
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was in the shop, another shop today, out shopping, and
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this little girl come up to me. She says, Agnes stuff.
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And she says, can I give you a hug, mister?
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And I looked at the parents. The lady was close by.
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I said, is that OK, mum? She said, yes, it is.
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Thank you for asking. I said, well, your daughter wants
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to give me a hug. And that little girl put
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her arms around my neck, gave me a hug. Never
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met her before. Why did you do that? I'm an
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old man. She doesn't know me. I'm not speaking a
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different language. I'm British, not American. But, you see, children
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know things. And your journey, if you've got children, is
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to show them the best things. of you because they've
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got half of your energy and half of your partners
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energy so it's male female female male you see we
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are made up with positive and negative so you have
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to choose which one controls you equally You can't have
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one more in charge than the other. When you walk
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a path, if you've got more positive, you go off
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that way. If you've got more negative, you go off
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that way. But if it's balanced, you walk straight. Yeah,
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you can still twist and turn. If you've ever been
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on a ship, a sailor can walk straight down what
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we call the Burma Way, which is the main corridor
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within the ship, normally on the first deck. And the
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ship could be rocking like this and the sailors are
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going straight down the middle. Yes, it's twisted like this,
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but you're still walking forward. You have a choice. You
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can be in balance within yourself and let everything else
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be chaotic. Or you can let that control you and
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throw you left, right and centre within the ship. It's
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exactly the same as walking your path. You can let
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that control your walk. Other people controlling it. I also
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found out one of my good friends had a relative
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who passed. And I sent them a little note saying,
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do you remember when she did this to me? You
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would remember that, Graham. I said, yeah. But that's what
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she wants you to be remembered by. She wants you
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to remember her by this moment. Not the fact her
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body is no longer working, no longer living. You see,
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you've all got a choice in this life. It's not easy,
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I understand that. But the choice is for me to say, hey,
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did I do very well today? Could I have done
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better today? I want to do better than I did yesterday.
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The other thing I want to say, I don't know
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what the time is. I've got a couple of minutes left.
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But I ask any of you that see this show
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to please contact me. I've got two email addresses. You've
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got a choice here. A medium77 at gmail.com. or thebrit77
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at hotmail.com. Send me an email. Or you can phone
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me on Florida, USA, 352-409-1060. Leave a voice message. If
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you don't, I'm afraid I won't be able to answer
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because we all get these scam calls. Or you can
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contact me on Facebook. But also, The New Streaming Network
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is on many different modalities. And I'm sure that the
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CC will put up Ruku and all the rest of it.
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Look up Going Bold Media. Because we are here to
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help you. Yeah. The TV app on Ruku. All the
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shows are recorded. Look them up. and find which one
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makes you happy. My next show, see, she's brilliant. My
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next show is Wednesday, June the 4th, 6pm EST. I
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hope you'll join me, and I hope this show has
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been informative to you, that you're not alone, you walk
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your own path, and enjoy it to the best of
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your ability. And thanks for coming in, Julie. It's been
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a pleasure. Yes. That's the light that I'm on about,
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that we shine from within. It's up to you to
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make it a nice one. So I'll see you in
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a couple of weeks, June the 4th. Have a wonderful day.
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I'm your host of Dare to Dream, Graham Williamson, International
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Intuitive Medium. I hope you'll join me. Thanks, Julie. Thanks, Cece.
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And I wish you all a good night. Bye for now.
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Well, welcome back, everybody. Welcome to Dare to Dream, my show.
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I'm the Reverend Graham Williamson. I'm third generation international intuitive,
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evidential medium and psychic. You're listening to NewStreamingNetwork.com and WGSN-DB
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Going Solo Network Radio. Welcome to my show. Today's show
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is Walking Your Path. Or Walking One's Path. It's quite funny, really,
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because I've just had three minutes of chaos. Because time
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flew by, electronic problems, all that. And it never worries me. Why?
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Because I know things are there for a reason. Things
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happen for a reason. And the whole point of life
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is to experience in your human form everything that is
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put in front of you. You all have a history
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from your past. And the whole purpose of your spirit
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having a human existence is to find out why you're here.
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So every single thing that happens to you, you've got
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a choice. It's bow down, say, yeah, okay, I succumb.
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I'll do everything you want. Yeah, yeah, okay.
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No.
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No. That's just not going to work that way with me.
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I've been in so many things in my life that
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scare me just remembering it. Holding a bomb, being shot at,
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three car accidents, my best friend taking my worship and
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all the rest of it. And yet there's scary moments.
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But I'm here today and I don't know how. I survived,
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but why? You see, every single one of us have
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a purpose. I believe, to a point, mine is to
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teach you about your own awareness within yourself and also
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to show people that when the body ceases working, living,
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your spirit continues. I don't know exactly where it goes to.
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Another realm of existence is the best way of describing it.
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But I do know that the spirit continues after the
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change called death. And because of what I've encountered and
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seen and heard, even felt, all the senses, there's 110%
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surety that I know that when I physically die, I
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continue on another plane of existence. My path, the one
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I'm walking on, the one you are walking on, you
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have to discern what it is for you, what it
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means to you. Why do you feel that you may
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be in a cul-de-sac, a dead end? There's no light
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at the end of the tunnel. Because you're looking at
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it the wrong way. You see, the light emanates from within.
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The energy that makes you what you are, your spirit.
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And it shines in various degrees. A little dim light,
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a massive blinger. But people think it's got to be
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in front of them. They're shining in their eyes. No.
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I feel it's from your heart, from your spirit, that
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shines out through you, out from your physical being. My wife, Sandy,
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she calls me the comedic medium. And it sounds, yeah,
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I make people laugh. And yet, a lot of people
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come to me for readings whenever to events or just
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doing a reading. People say, we feel drawn to you.
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To me and my wife. She's got the same sort
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of energy within her. She's got this calm knowing. I'm
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the exact opposite. I'm high all the time. I'm bouncing.
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I'm one of those optimistic sort of people. Because I've
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been pessimistic, I've been selfish, I've been arrogant, I'm recovered drunk,
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all the pains that I went through. But I've learned
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to look back at it and say, I learned my lesson.
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I'm learning lessons every day. My energy shines out. It
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affects people. You see, when you're walking your path, one's path,
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it's there for a reason. And nobody can tell you
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you've got to do A, B, C, D, or 1, 2, 3, 4,
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whatever it is. Nobody can make you. And yeah, I
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do know by my past I've had people that pushed
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and pushed and pushed that psychologically threatened, physically threatened me.
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You've got to do it this way. You've got to
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do it that way. I gave in a few times.
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As I say, I'm a recovered alcoholic. But because I've
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been there, When somebody comes to me and I just
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get this flashback in my memory by spirit working through me,
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I remember that I used to be a really bad drunk.
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person has an addiction problem. I never took drugs. Drink
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is a drug I smoked about. One packet of cigarettes
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in my entire life, I smoked more cigars about. 30 cigars,
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but all between 1972 to 1980. I left the Navy
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in 86. But people were drawn to me and they're saying,
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I shine. I don't know how. I don't see it
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because I'm shining it from me. It's like having a
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torch here and it's beep out there in front of me.
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I don't see it. I don't see the light. I
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just see What's in front of me? Not a lie.
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I just see things in the light. I don't see
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the light. People see me and they say, you're good
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or bad? Because everybody sees somebody differently. You see, our
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energy emanates in a certain wavelength. You feel comfortable with
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it or you don't. It doesn't mean that you've got
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bad energy. It's just that the energies don't blend stop
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and bounce off but when it blends it goes together
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somebody's energy somebody my energy and it combines it merges
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just like water you see your actions your words have
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to come from your heart without the ego pushing it
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yeah we've all got egos everybody has But does that
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control your heart or do you control your ego from
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your heart? That's why I make people laugh because there's
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too many things happening around this world, especially at the moment.
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Where people are saying, oh, it's so depressing, I'm so
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down and all that. Then do something about it. I
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worked at a grocery store for 17 and a half years,
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one of the big ones in Florida. And I used
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to make people laugh. I broke all the rules with
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the company. But people say, oh, we love working with you, Graham.
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You're always fun. But I'm serious while having fun. I
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want to make people see that I am seeing them.
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I can hear them. And I can feel them in
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my heart. I retired in 2019, about June 2019 it was.
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work every now and again. And what depresses me is
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when I meet the customers and the people I used
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to work with and they go, the store's not the
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same since you left Graham. It's not the same anymore.
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It's so depressing. I went, what? The whole point of
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me being there was to show one person can make
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a difference. One person can make somebody laugh. somebody feel seen,
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heard and felt. I mean, we all have a choice.
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Is it so difficult to smile and say, hey, how
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are you doing? Hey, I can see you. Or can
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you say again? Listen to them. Give them the time
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Give them a couple of minutes. When you're walking your
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path of life, you have to stop every now and
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again and take cognizance of what's happening within you and
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around you. When I was in these stores and talking
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to the people I've worked with and they say, yeah, Graham, yeah.
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I said, what did I teach you? Just by being there.
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Or you were crazy, you could get away with it.
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I said, why could I get away with it? Will
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you do it in such a way? And the piecemeal,
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everything that I did, they fully understood, but they haven't
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got the courage to shine their own light. I was
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called that grail by the CEO of the company I
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work for. That grail. How many grails are in this country?
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And yet I'm called that grail. In a way, I
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feel very sad about it. I think I didn't quite
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do what I should have done. So that's why I'm
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talking about it, about walking one's path. Because I'm just
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one person and I can make a difference if you listen,
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if you trust, if you know yourself and if you're
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strong enough within yourself to speak, to do, to give.
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As I said, when I started this program, I was
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a couple of minutes late because circumstances with the computer
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and that. And I knew it was because Spirit wanted
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me to say, not everything will go smoothly, Graham. I
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knew that I was doing a show and CC is
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always very professional with that. And she said to me,
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you're going to join in a second. And then everything
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went wrong with the computer. And I'm laughing. I think, okay.
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what's wrong? I make even more problems. But I accept
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what spirit put in front of me, the challenges they
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give me. Because I know it's a lesson that's being shown.
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And it's up to me to interpret it in a
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way that says, that's another one. You survived this one.
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I told a lady today at a shop, I went
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to get some equipment from a hardware store, and she says,
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every time you come into the shop, you're smiling. I said, yeah,
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because you've got the things I need to do the
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job that I'm going to do for somebody else. So yeah,
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I'm happy about it. She said, but you're always smiling.
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Even when we don't have the thing, you go out
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and smile at us. Well, obviously, I'm not meant to
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do it that day, then. I have to find another
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way around it. Because each step I take gives me
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a choice. Oh, Paddy, you haven't got the stuff I want.
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Why haven't you got the stuff? Get all irate. Ah,
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that's not me. And at the end of it, the store,
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the hardware store, had the things that I needed. And
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I was about to go out, One of the ladies
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I knew, just to say hi to, you know, going
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in the store. She says, have you got your business
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card with you? I said, what? She said, I remember
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you saying you were a medium a while ago, and
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I would like to... And her friends came around and said, really?
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As a medium? I said, hey, I'm not a solicitor.
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She says, yeah, but it's attitude. She said, what was
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it you told me about each morning? I said, oh yeah,
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I have Easter, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year every morning. Christmas, sorry, Easter,
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I arose. I got out of bed. I'm thankful that
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I can get out of bed. Living is my Christmas present.
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And a New Year, to do better today than I
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did yesterday. That's the path I know I am on.
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And the store associates all went, that's lovely. And you
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do that every morning? I said, yeah. And at night,
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I say, thank you. Because I know spirit connect with me.
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And I listen. I feel all my senses. that when
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I'm in a situation with people, they remind me of
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things that I've experienced, and I know it's because I'm
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connected with the energy of the people in front of me.
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And I've learned how to interpret it. You see, walking
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one's path is easy. The hard part is to recognise
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the path you're on. You get up every morning. You
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do whatever you have to do or feel you have
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to do. And at night, what do you do? Go
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back home or talk to your family or whatever. And
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then go to sleep. It's a routine we all can
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get into. But life is not as simple as you think.
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It's simpler when you don't think. When you have to
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think of what you've got to do, then it becomes
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a problem. I do my shows every two weeks because
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I choose to. CC's got this fantastic going silent TV network.
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And each time my shows are different because I don't
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plan my shows. I was worried yesterday because I couldn't
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get the title correct in my head. I woke up
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in the middle of the night thinking, what was it
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the Spirit said to me? I won't write it down
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because if I write it down, that becomes then a reality.
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So I don't write things down. When I write things down,
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it's because I feel comfortable. My energy says, Graham, this
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is the thing that you've got to remember. Write it down.
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And I've sent Cece, the show producer, Walking One's Path
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is the title of my show today. And it's like
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a facet of a diamond. That diamond is made up
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of energy. And we're all facets of the same energy.
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So I don't have to think what I'm going to say.
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It's already there within me. My light. By walking this
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path I'm on. And it's not a straightforward path that
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goes A to B, straight line.
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No.
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Is doing everything a road will do. Twist, turn, go
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round and round, up, down, stop, start, fast, slow, get off,
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go on to another path, go on to another road.
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Because life is like a roller coaster. Life's simple, people
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screw it up when you start thinking. I'm not saying
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to those people that have to consciously think of what
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they're doing to do their job safely. I'm on about
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the spiritual side within you. What makes you tick? What
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makes you happy? And if you're not happy, take a
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good long hard look in the mirror. Mirrors are there
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for a reason. So you can make sure your hair's right,
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your collar's right, you know, you look presentable. But it's
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also to show you what you see within yourself. I've
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got another past behind me because I've survived it. My
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path that all the twists and turns starts, the accidents
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and all the negative stuff I encountered have all changed
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to a positive because I'm here today. Don't be afraid
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of standing up and being that whatever your name is.
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You shine your light from here, from your heart From
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your solar plexus. when you feel that you can give
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somebody your time and experience just listening to whatever's needed
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give it because like today I took some stuff to
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a thrift store community center And the person, a reverend
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that looks after this is a lovely lady. And I've
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got a lot of stuff that we're getting rid of
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because we don't need it anymore. But this lady gives
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stuff to the community. She doesn't sell it to the community.
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And there was a lot of stuff I filled up
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the truck, pretty much. And I went, well, thank you,
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thank you, thank you. I said, well, if it's not
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useful to me anymore, why keep it? The same with
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your path. You come up to a junction in front
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of you on your pathway. You can go straight over, left, right,
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or stay where you are. If you need to get
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away from what you're doing, change direction. But say, how
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do I feel? What can I do to make my
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life better and yours? Because it's not just about you.
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I'm married, I've got two stepdaughters, and I've got my
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son and daughter in England and their families. And I
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wish to God I could be with every single one
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of them, but I can't. Money, time, distance, circumstance. But
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I can contact them by other means. There's other roads,
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other pathways to get to them. And I use them
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with my heart. They'll say, like, come in on the
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show today. The pathway, whoa, I thought it was going
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to go. Click, everything's working. No, I've got to go
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this way, that way, that way. Then I'm here. Life's
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about finding yourself, walking with your head, not oity-toity, but
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looking around, being careful, doing the best you can for
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yourself and then others. I was shot at in Northern
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Ireland in Belfast in 1979. And the guy with me
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lost his leg. He was on my right. The bullet
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went to him. Now people crack their knuckles. It takes
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me straight back to that moment when I heard the
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gunshot and my friend's leg shattered. But I saved the
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guy's life by being a complete cartoon character. I was
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throwing trash away from the ship. I was a cook
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in the Royal Navy. And there's dumpsters on the jetty
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where we were birthed on, in Belfast. And as we're
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walking down, I've got a helmet on and a combat jacket.
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Trash bag. I have a clothes as well. They're chef's
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wives or cook's wives. And then when I heard a bullet,
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instinct took over. The hat came off. Then the jacket
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was flying off. One sleeveless tie fell off. Then my
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boots were coming off. We called them steaming bats. Steaming boots.
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Non-slip safety boots with steel caps. We never tie them
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in the major. If something happens, you need to get
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our footwear off quick. And I was kicking his boots off,
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but I was ducking, diving, twisting, turning, stopping, going forward,
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doing everything like a cartoon. And at the end of
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the jetty, I dove over the ship I was on.
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It was a naval tug. And Belfast got one of
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the highest tides in Great Britain at the time. And
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seeing the tide was out, and I was running so
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quickly I cleared the width of the ship into the
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water went under the boat and came in up in
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the jetty and I did not move until the all
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clear went but when I went back on the ship
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my friends had been careful they got the sniper he
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was okay and they said it was weird the bullet
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took his leg But because he was so concentrated on
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what you were doing, it was so silly, so weird.
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So what the heck is he doing? He didn't know
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he'd lost his leg. He didn't feel anything. He just
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saw me. Oh, what was that? And he was watching me.
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But by the time the medics got to him and
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put a tourniquet on, his blood wasn't... He wasn't losing
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too much blood. The fact he was concentrating on me
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saving my life because I thought he was dead. Boom.
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And always told, when you hear a gunshot, make yourself disappear.
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If I had a screen or something, I'd probably come
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round and help him, but I didn't. Did I do
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something wrong? I don't know. He lived, I lived. After
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the fact. You see, Everything that happens in my past
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has brought me here today. I've walked my path. Hello, Julie, welcome.
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And I've walked my path for a reason. I'm not
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too sure the end result, but I pray that my
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journey is helping other people to the best of my ability.
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Because I want everybody that watches my show to share it,
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listen to it, send me comments back because I would
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love to get some feedback because I've been doing this
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for a couple of years now and it's wonderful how
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I do get feedback. But enjoy, like, share, comment and
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subscribe to the new streaming network because I tell you,
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if my show is okay for you, there's plenty of
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other shows that are as good my show, if not better.
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Because I know there's not many mediums on New Streaming Network.
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There's a lot of psychics, there's a lot of gifted
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show hosts in whatever field they're in. And that's what
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makes this so much more worthwhile. That's so true, Julie,
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so true. And Why wait for somebody else to show
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you the way? Why do you need somebody else to
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hold your hand and pull you forward? If somebody's reaching
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for me, I want them to be next to me.
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Come on, let's go up together. Let's do this together.
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They can walk their path, I walk my path. It
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can sometimes part or come back together. I've been married
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twice before, and I thought I'd failed miserably, doing everything wrong,
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first marriage and a second marriage. But I was given
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memories that made me what I am today. A son,
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a daughter, grandchildren. Then I met Sandy, my wife. She
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gave me me. She showed me who I am in
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her eyes. She doesn't want me to make her happy.
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She wants me to be happy, which makes her happy
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and vice versa. I do this because I enjoy who
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I am. I'm not proud of myself all the time.
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I make a pig's ear out of it sometimes. But
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my wife just looks at me and says, what are
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you going to do now? And anybody who's got somebody
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in their hearts, in their lives, there's a look our
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spouses can give us that makes us go, what have
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I done wrong? What am I doing right? How can
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I do it better? And every night we'd laugh. And
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it's not a silly laugh. I'm silly, I'm crazy, I'm spontaneous.
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As I say, my wife calls me the comedic medium.
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But she knows I love her so much, I will
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never hold her back. My path is for me to
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walk on with people who wish to be with me.
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I don't tell anybody you've got to walk with me.
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I haven't got to do anything that you tell me.
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I choose whether to say yes or no. I'm here
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for my life. to do the best I can to
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make my purpose in life become more apparent. And in
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doing so, I want to lift other people. I want
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to make you rise up. I want you to see
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the light in front of you as you shine it,
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to show you the way you're going. Like you put
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your torchlight, I've got a light on up here, which
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is why it gives a really bad light on the
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picture there. But I know what I give you is
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from my heart, from spirit. They work through me. They
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tell me what to do. And I choose to listen
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and give back out what they're giving me. There's no pre-thought.
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There's no ego. Or how would this sound? Or if
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I do it that way. No, I do it. It's crazy.
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You see, when you know that your inner light is
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the best you can be for the moment, because it
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will change, you've got to give it your 100%. And
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there's a positive and a negative. If one's higher than
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the other one, you're overshadowing something else and vice versa.
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It has to be balanced. Because if you know enough
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about body is made up of electrical impulses electricity works
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with on off positive negative positive negative with batteries and
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that energy when it's balanced and open and clear and
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clean frozen everybody's just way way straight but as soon
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as something goes wrong the ego steps forward the negativity
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Higher than the positive. What's wrong with him? Or her?
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Or it? Animals have the best way of looking at it.
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Dogs especially. They know when you're happy or sad. And
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a child, your children, when you show them without prejudice
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who you are, the child will pick it up I
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was in the shop, another shop today, out shopping, and
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this little girl come up to me. She says, Agnes stuff.
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And she says, can I give you a hug, mister?
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And I looked at the parents. The lady was close by.
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I said, is that OK, mum? She said, yes, it is.
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Thank you for asking. I said, well, your daughter wants
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to give me a hug. And that little girl put
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her arms around my neck, gave me a hug. Never
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met her before. Why did you do that? I'm an
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old man. She doesn't know me. I'm not speaking a
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different language. I'm British, not American. But, you see, children
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know things. And your journey, if you've got children, is
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to show them the best things. of you because they've
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got half of your energy and half of your partners
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energy so it's male female female male you see we
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are made up with positive and negative so you have
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to choose which one controls you equally You can't have
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one more in charge than the other. When you walk
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a path, if you've got more positive, you go off
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that way. If you've got more negative, you go off
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that way. But if it's balanced, you walk straight. Yeah,
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you can still twist and turn. If you've ever been
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on a ship, a sailor can walk straight down what
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we call the Burma Way, which is the main corridor
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within the ship, normally on the first deck. And the
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ship could be rocking like this and the sailors are
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going straight down the middle. Yes, it's twisted like this,
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but you're still walking forward. You have a choice. You
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can be in balance within yourself and let everything else
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be chaotic. Or you can let that control you and
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throw you left, right and centre within the ship. It's
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exactly the same as walking your path. You can let
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that control your walk. Other people controlling it. I also
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found out one of my good friends had a relative
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who passed. And I sent them a little note saying,
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do you remember when she did this to me? You
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would remember that, Graham. I said, yeah. But that's what
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she wants you to be remembered by. She wants you
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to remember her by this moment. Not the fact her
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body is no longer working, no longer living. You see,
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you've all got a choice in this life. It's not easy,
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I understand that. But the choice is for me to say, hey,
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did I do very well today? Could I have done
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better today? I want to do better than I did yesterday.
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The other thing I want to say, I don't know
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what the time is. I've got a couple of minutes left.
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But I ask any of you that see this show
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to please contact me. I've got two email addresses. You've
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got a choice here. A medium77 at gmail.com. or thebrit77
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at hotmail.com. Send me an email. Or you can phone
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me on Florida, USA, 352-409-1060. Leave a voice message. If
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you don't, I'm afraid I won't be able to answer
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because we all get these scam calls. Or you can
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contact me on Facebook. But also, The New Streaming Network
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is on many different modalities. And I'm sure that the
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CC will put up Ruku and all the rest of it.
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Look up Going Bold Media. Because we are here to
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help you. Yeah. The TV app on Ruku. All the
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shows are recorded. Look them up. and find which one
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makes you happy. My next show, see, she's brilliant. My
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next show is Wednesday, June the 4th, 6pm EST. I
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hope you'll join me, and I hope this show has
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been informative to you, that you're not alone, you walk
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your own path, and enjoy it to the best of
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your ability. And thanks for coming in, Julie. It's been
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a pleasure. Yes. That's the light that I'm on about,
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that we shine from within. It's up to you to
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make it a nice one. So I'll see you in
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a couple of weeks, June the 4th. Have a wonderful day.
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I'm your host of Dare to Dream, Graham Williamson, International
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Intuitive Medium. I hope you'll join me. Thanks, Julie. Thanks, Cece.
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And I wish you all a good night. Bye for now.
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You're listening to WGSN-DB, Going Solo Network, Singles Talk Radio Channel,
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where we take a lighthearted and candid approach to discussions
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on the journey of relationship loss, divorce, parenting, being single,
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