"Damaged"

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Yes, she was back. You're
not listening to an apologetic the podcast with

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your Joel Straight Bridge, just us
and everything unfiltered, on filter filtered,

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like when I look at like somebody's
wing like pictures of videos and they got

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like a bunch of pictures of videos
with the Middle Finger. This is just,

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you know how it's enough for me. Yeah, I wasn't one of

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us to man every picture. I
used to stick on little fringer. Now

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I think I'm gonna know now if
I'm doing it like, HMM, I

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did. The last time I did
it was like a picture of my old

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high school, my old college buddy. Uh Huh, and just for the

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one time, right, like yeah, now we we old and wash now.

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So you think I'm Ann Finger,
you know joke. Yeah, yeah,

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that's a no for me, and
it's just something about that I just

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look at could be a big turn
off me. Yeah, I can't now

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nowadays, like well, I think
it's to the type of women that you

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looking for. You entertaining like that. That probably yeah, maybe a little

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old. I mean, don't don't
get me wrong. Now I might do

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with crowd. It okay, but
uh, yeah, no, I can't

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go to think about that. But, Bro, she all well do.

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So it come across that's some young
girls too, like know she she mature

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enough the hand of what I got
going on what I'm trying to give it

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back backs. So I think that's
that's it. Yeah, that's what you

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think about. You like good.
So let me not, let me die.

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What mass you got some shots?
Do whatever May. If this lady

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told me this past weekend, just
made a stikem that a real man doesn't

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let a woman pack anything, a
woman that he's interested in, what does

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that statement mean to you? What
does it say to you? Okay,

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be honest with your man, right, this is my philosophy, broke and

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just with this, my way of
thinking. I'M NOT gonna says my philosophy.

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But when it comes out that I
don't mind a pain, right,

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my pain. If you know I'm
out and about, we gon't go out

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and whatever the out my pain.
Right. Yeah, but you know the

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saying you got to pay to place, right, all right. So,

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basically, and they also say what
they we also say in America, in

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the world, you know, it's
always a price for some buds pay.

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Yeah, right, right, in
over the years you've been you've been told,

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or even if you say kin hand
for no, but right, ain't

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payment on honey bum. But you
think about it, one of the things

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that you're going to most men do
to a tract a woman is pull out

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a bill folk, you know,
in retrospect. Yeah, you paying for

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the bone now, so for it
some way super for yeah, it's I'm

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saying so now. So this woman
is saying that. Whoever said she said

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like, but on the back end
of day it's like, all right,

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so you okay with making me spend
some money to get ultimately get what it

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is that I may want, which
is so what is that call? I

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don't want to talk about. What
does that call? Right, and want

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to talk about. That's called.
That's called a little little process to that's

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what I text on this. Oh
yeah, mat me sound effects, you

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know, but don't nobody ever want
to have that conversation. But that's what

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it sounds like to me. That's
I mean, you know, that's just

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what it sounds like. It does. Yeah, I mean, yeah,

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all day here, ain't no way
and nowhere around it. So I'm tripping

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hand. So so I look at
it, I was like, you know,

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always going to processut no, but
so, so, I think.

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So, I don't mind. Like
you know, if you're interested of your

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intending woman, you know, of
course you're gonna want to do things for

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her. You want to spend money
here and there, but Um, for

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me until we get to whatever point
we getting that, you know, to

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where we are more committed in a
deeper relationship, we talking love and all

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the other stuff like. Don't make
me feel like I have to, you

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know, say I have to stand
on honey, yeah, you are.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, I
have to spend mone you or like that.

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That's just a prerequisite. You know, not any what you doing sound

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fuck it's gonna do it. I
just don't. Don't. I don't like

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that at all. I don't.
Like you said, I don't mind,

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but I guess it goes back which
shit, I don't maybe feel like I

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got it right. Oh, that's
what it takes to quck get you.

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Hmm Hm Huh. If I speling
o Brad and I can't get you,

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Oh yeah, I'm not worthy attentional
whatever. Like I can't do not.

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Yeah, we'll find spinning. No, great, I'm broke, broke,

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broke boy. If I ain't cashing
up, that's the bigness sucception. Yeah,

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it is. That's a big missy, because I know so to my

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pros. They perfectly you know I'm
saying. Well, so played around with

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that type of stuff and I know
they a big Bang Hay. That can't

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come across. It's needy too.
Yeah, are you Ni or you use

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scheming? You scamming. It also
plays into you know, how someone in

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the race, man's on the race, like hey, you should have a

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man to take care of you financially
and all this to reach his own that's

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what you want, but you won't
like eventually. I think you know as

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a man, if you really interested
in the movie, you don't do what

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you can or do what you want
to do. As far as what financially

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take care of it. I mean, yeah, it's part of it.

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We don't have this conversation deeper,
we can get this. Flu should have

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been a podcast. Tough. We
should talk about this. But UH,

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well, so there's a lot of
women could like my like a niche shout

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out to me. Shout she,
like her dad, is the handy man,

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mechanic type, like her mom,
never had took her card to any

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you know, place to get a
carverce dad was all like if something happened,

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he's under the hood, he's on
a creep slidding up on it.

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So she just so she's seen that
from a man and that's what you know

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and that's kind of how he made
her feel. I think she mentioned that.

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He said things like that, like
you know a man, you know

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she'LD always make sure his wife cars
is operational. Like in the hood.

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Do whatever you need to. Need
all change, go change, go out

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there and change the needs. This
then needs that. But Two thousand and

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twenty two you got more bugs.
Don't give a fuck about no being a

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mechanic. Get ahead dirty. I'm
not much of a mechanic, but you

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know, I think now. I
think now for that something that definitely do.

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Make sure car street, I mean, but before I didn't really give

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a damn Cuz I'm not interested in
fixing cars. So so when you say

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make sure you straight you mean you
doing it or you taking it somewhere to

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go. Be Taking. So that's
if yeah, me take so I ain't,

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but I ain't tim to to because
exactly, but there's a lot of

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women that feel that way, like
like like I'm damn of San Antonio Hm.

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She is that way, in adamant
like Niggas. Need to be like

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Niggas. Niggas today. What the
problem is with them? They handy man.

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They don't Dad. Men these day
scared to work with their hands just

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right. That's what yeah, but
the bad part of real right. So

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while, wow, I don't work, why I don't work on cars and

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stuff like that? I kind of
know the basis. HMM. But why

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don't? From what I can get
out here and new yard work, I

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can get out here and playing the
guard right, I can do those type

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of things. You feel like I
know how to build shit. Some motherfucking

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all I know. I do all
that Shit. I just don't fuck will

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call h Huh, but you got
me and that's that. Doctors, you

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can adopted Garabat, climb on the
car. I'm on fucking at it.

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Genius, you know I'm saying,
either Dennis, intelligent professionals. Yeah,

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everybody got they lane like like back
in those days, to where you know

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these ladies, their fathers growing up, to feel that you had a black

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doctor was far a few a dentist
intelligence right, it all these other so

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now that we have expanded into more
roles like a lot of shit, like

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an care about like like Um,
your dad or my dad, grandfather,

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great grandfather's, you know, all
of our with the men down our line

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would was was they might have been
plant workers and that might have been the

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big thing for black men. Do
like if you wasn't a plant worker,

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you wasn't like that was the job
to have. So for me, My

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Dad, my daddy. So the
job to have for my Daddy, Oh

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hopeful guy. For me and in
dam was working. They do. Okay,

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I'm saying he worked at Dude.
That considered a good job. Right.

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My Daddy were due and I'm saying
I deal with we had, do

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you know in the medical whole of
men or deal. You know, I'm

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saying I don't got over three him
got that, but whatever, Duke,

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you know, and Durham Duke,
it's paying people. Get Right. It's

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a chop stop hospital and cousin.
So he worked there and that was a

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good job. Ask You we did. I don't know what's good. Y'All,

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welcome back to another episode, UND
apology, of the podcast. You

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know what it is. Y'All know
what we do. Two favorite guys trade

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and no man res Prime Minister a
couple hours before my NIGGA's birthday. Out

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of Shit. That's her man,
another another circling around them. I want

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to see the universal, not the
World Universe, I feeling. That's it.

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That's I said something that somebody hate
the other day about it. That's

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like a dumb man's question, kind
of, sort of, you know,

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because she said, how does it
feel to be x Y Z, and

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don't like. Well, I feel
no different than I, you know,

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like like someone like we. You
threw twenty one. So, like,

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how does it feel to be twenty
one? The only difference turn when you

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can. You know, you proud
to show that car to track. Yeah,

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you can drink. Would you be
here? Suffer like major health costs?

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Right, anything in the past twelve
hours. So I'm good, like

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you knows. So, yeah,
how do you feel? How does it

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feel to being forty some shit like
that? Well, I'll be right right,

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I'll be thirty seven. Yeah,
I guess I get a Chan in

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the morning. We feel like Bro
but now. Yeah, well, God,

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will you feel, you know about
say God willing you wake up and

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you still got the same type of
health. Like this shit, like nobody

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will say they have thirty seven.
Yeah, I'm grateful. I'm grateful still

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so that I know it. Are
here right now, though, you know

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what I mean. So I'm thankful
that, man, thankful for to be

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able to be here and thus far, see my kids and see my cousins

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and h you know, see things
far in places, far my family goes.

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And French man. Yeah, Amaz
so I'm got we gotta take a

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shot to that. Taken one time
for one time started. Yeah, man,

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but yeah, yeah, we got
these tar heel shot glass. We

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won't celebrate our boys and any chance
we get. Hey, we celebrate these

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times. That, all the times, anytime you got your babies with you

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and celebrated right, Bro. Yeah, West Scott had to go back to

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school. Okay, she'll be back
soon, soon school come. Okay,

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at least this. But yeah,
I gonna see back in the states man.

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Nobody did for me. Yeah,
I meant to ask for I mean

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because you are at the age to
wear birthdays is just like it's a birthday,

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like you don't like playing nothing big, like you just want to,

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you know, like paint the city
red. You know, it ain't that

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time with you. So so,
Pete Jane, so so. Last night

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a birthday, surprise birthday that I
had thrown me. I had no idea.

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Okay, I had no I know. So it was love. It

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was so much love. I appreciate
it, okay, because everybody asked me,

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like what you doing? What you
do it this point? Well,

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I'm thinking about may thirteen, which
is my daughter's birthday. Mean about all

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the twenty? Third, my son's
birthday. You know, it's something about

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your last. Second, my Moma
birth you don't say that's what I'm thinking

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about them not. I don't care, man h, you know what you

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really am my dog. Yes,
Sir, absolutely, happy early. Thank

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you. Sponsored by that crown.
Last it's up that. That is the

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reserve. Manber smooths to me.
You know what, at first I wasn't

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a fan of the Black UH HUH
at. So I took a I took

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a little hiatus off the black m
about about two years and to show when

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the excellent might have been extell got
that like strong, like I know it

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might have been the ex so I
know, we whatever, whatever, but

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it was this or the ex so
we was on it. We had it

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the here one day. We both
was like, yeah, it might have

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been the ex so, but I
kind of this, but that might have

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been excell that black in the reserves
movie, because you know, we fuck

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everything. We fuck that reserve.
Smooth, the reserve, smooth. Yeah,

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it is, it is. was
what you going besides, of course,

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the birthday coming up them, all
right, last time we did.

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Last time we was on use with
the babies. You get ready to come

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on down? Yea, man,
you know what do'll just getting back in

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it. Miss the swing of things, man. I was out d MV

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area, just having a good time, have a fun actually, you know,

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preparing to move up there in the
fall. Will move back in the

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fall. You know I'm saying.
I'm I gotta heard it here first.

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You're not really but yeah, y'all
heard. Is Its vision. Yeah,

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I got the show for show.
You know I'm saying. I'll be up

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there this fall, back in that
area. So I'm so excited about what's

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to come and what what can come
of all the opportunities up. Okay,

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maybeing, you know this. That
will be chocolate city. Yeah, yeah,

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but that'll be my last ride by
the lasts, so to speak.

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You know what I mean. Yo, you know this one is for the

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money. You know what I mean
for real, for Real, and talk

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women, which was was it?
There's two weeks ago we talked about the

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yeah, and I said the top
city's O. Hey, listen, it's

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unfautiful and something. Um, DC
probably got the most. I know I

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might get killed for this stuff.
The most some of the most professional like

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like you won't no, no,
no, no, no, no,

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because it's going to be. We
have women in Atlanta that, if we

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have women in Texas, get one
than Miami. But so then they aren't

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looking at the numbers. I don't
know why if they get upset with you

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looking at the numbers. You know
what I mean. As far as we

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got to talk about, we talk
about black people as a whole, the

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most successful county in all the marry. WHO's Prince George? Yeah, Oh,

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I know, I know, and
it's even close. It's not even.

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It's not even a close second.
HMM, you know I'm saying.

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So miss me with that. Mean
taking that away from Atlanta, Houston.

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What is? He's am at a
baby? Is US not? Well,

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VAGAS, ain't even US town?
Really know, absolutely, but he's not.

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That's why. Don't even know why. That's one of the biggest bait

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like when but people ball. We
gotta go to Vegas like that. BIGGAS

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even on us. Like when I
go somewhere, I want to be around

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now as I want to part with
us. I want to be around like.

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That's one of the things that I
like about a lad. I'm like,

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I'm there, like we might.
Where you go, you see faces

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that look like you already, you
know, and the same thing in DC,

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DC and Dallas, Houston. Yeah, not even so much more in

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Mynamy. Depend on what when you
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So, yeah, so, no, yes, UM, some of the

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most professional, I mean career driven
black women are in DCC. Hundred percent.

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That's without a doubt hundred sent man, the friends that I got,

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two female friends that that I got
up there going right, he reckon,

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I think some of the hire some
of the hire earning brother yeah, this

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is May. They are the wreaking
shit. HMM. Don't give a damn

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about what a man can do form
because they got big bank hanks. Question

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before we go on. Yeah,
Profession Wise, if you was just say,

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like some of the women that you
look at like some of the most

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attractive when, where was you going
profession wise and we go throw a couple,

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don't come out. All right.
So we got military, medical field,

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right, give me another one.
Okay, medically, military, medical,

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medical, HR. Maybe. Okay, we'll go HR HR. Lawyers.

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Okay, lawyers. Yeah, let's
do one. If we can think

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of one more. Well, I
could think. Oh, education, education,

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education. So we got five.
We got military, say, medical

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lawyer. What was what was on
the lawyer? Military Education, lawyer,

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HR, HR, education. Okay, all right, Nah, yeah,

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throw government in there, Bro,
and then you know, okay, we're

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go government. I'm gonna government,
Bro, I'M gonna government. When you

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say government, you mean like elected
officials. No, I'm saying like so

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again, you know, you know
my background, like you know even I'm

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from North Carolina, but I lived
in DC. Right, all, they

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didn't deal. Yeah, so I
understand, like people work at department,

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homeless security, people work, you
know, all, okay, broken.

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I'm saying like so, with so
many day jobs, right, right,

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right. That's why I say government
was and those are more your contractors.

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And Yeah, right, right,
I'm going there. Broke a lot of

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them a prior but a lot are
yeah, because the ones I'm the ones

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I know of. A DMV,
none of them prior H and everybody's yeah,

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so I hope. So I believe
on saying they don't. They baddies.

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So I'M gonna go government, though, but they're up there DC.

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So, UM, my struggle will
be between probably medical, maybe in education,

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but that's worldwide, though I would
say I know some. So you

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know what, you ain't gonna say
that. So so hold on. So

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you ain't gonna say entertainment is a
or is that just a? Or is

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that just that? Is that just
to give it you? But you know

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what, so let me stop.
There's something me and my whole girl tip

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talk about this weekend, because she
she was telling me, Reggie, I

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know you're tight. Already know you're
type. Bla, blah, blah,

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Blah Blah, like you know my
tight years. But you don't think I

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know your type. I know you're
type, okay, and tip, like

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the body guards, like anywhere there's
a bodyguard, or like somebody that stopped

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you at the door, patch of
pockets and shit. Big Nigga, shouldn't

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beard need Ave dump you in your
face. Okay, he can get okay,

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but I mean some of these niggas
is solved his mother. You have

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yeah, but she but she's like
you, like barten's if she's a bad

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bartender, but so like bad barba. Yes, but everybody. When you

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go into the like strip clubs,
who's the baddest ones in there? The

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Barton, yes, it's so.
Will the adult entertainment? Yes, they

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have. It's always the bartend is
industry clubs. There's always like the better

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looking ones. To me, I
don't know. That's like like it being

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moveruging, like as be like next
to me in the bartend to walk by

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bring the bottles. It's I'm like, Shit, I was in a few

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weeks ago and, as far as
you know, I went to Gyman's club.

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HMM, but it's far as to
women and I knew I do it.

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Man's some pretty motherfuckers in that.
Oh it is. I told you

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when I was out there, when
I you already been up. Yeah,

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yeah, pretty motherfucker. Damaskay shout
out of Dallas. Man, yes,

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it d it is bed Um.
You know, someone said says to me.

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I was like we was talking,
I think it was Sharik. It

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was like months ago, okay,
and we was talking to shoot and I

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was like, yeah, that's a
good place to go, but they ain't

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like the place you like go with
your lady and she was like wine hot.

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But there are certain places that like
you might want to have. Not

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Saying you gonna fuck around it.
You can do something, but there are

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certain places that you that is just
like me and the guys will go here.

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But like, for instance, if
you say I'm going to go to

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Puerto Rico to make her dre,
there's a certain spot and I'm going to

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go with the guys. There's a
certain spot that me and the meet me,

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that I'm do this vacation with,
and it's probably going to be close

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to the beach, to white sayings
or whatever else. You know. I'm

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saying, like, you know,
just like Tyler. We I think we've

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talked about tyler. So I was
like, you know, if I go

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to like thaying Cock on Patty House, I'm going with the guys. That's

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guys shit, but if I go
to like pouquet or some shit, okay,

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I'm going to like that. That's
some shit. I want to be

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laid up. You know. Next
woman, of course we can go to

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these other places, but these other
places more a little less fast paced.

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You want to be he ain't gonna
have you have more fun, you ain't.

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You Know Me. Yes, don't
mean you're gonna fuck off right,

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have more fun right with the guy. See, I have to do make

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a republic. And it was,
it was I was with the guy.

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HMM, I had a splendid time. Right, right. But but they

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put a con Pun to content.
It's not a place for couples right in

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a certain places that that's not.
Yeah, that you like you wanted like

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specifically leave to you and, like
you said, no, it's not because

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I want to fuck around, but
I can't buy. Yeah, but,

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and, but, I would think
for women is certain places that women would

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say like a girl group Chat Liken. This, this a girl's trip right

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here. We gont grow or no, this location is for you know,

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I don't know if there's necessarilys couples. I don't know they necessarily got a

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specific like city or whatever, but
there certain spots or whatever that they probably

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are like yeah, now I'm going
on my homies. Yeah, a girl,

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okay, I think girls, women, excuse me, women, are

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probably more than one thing to reluctant
to go to Brunches with the homies.

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H with the homies. Yeah,
okay, me, I'm saying, Huh,

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there's brunches. You know, you
don't show out. You know they're

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going to show how they're going to
be. They being a little around had

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or whatever the case wrong and is
gonna shoot. They shot, might they?

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You know, they know how to
dunk whatever, if they're taking or

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whatever. I'm saying like that's that's
the spot for the for the homies.

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I'm saying, yeah, I think
so. Yeah, I do. Yeah,

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I do. Shot out the shark
and chip and Nisha brought all names.

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I'm shut out all your namest man. I ain't talked the Nishan.

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I gotta have a back on shee. She kind of busy. Daughter is

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about to graduate. That's a picture
of a daughter on instagram. Beautiful.

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Is Beautiful Young Lady. Beautiful Young
Lady. Run. They are fucking.

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Yes, we're twins and she's going
to we see you what she wants is

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it? I know, I know
she's mentioned Father State than me. I

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know she mentioned at I had to
get back to the FOM that, but

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she's going to a so, I
mean that's big, you know, and

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Trai Shit down. But yeah,
I mean applause nonetheless. I mean that's

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good stuff. But uh, let
let's get to this. I wanted to

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talk about this because this is a
big thing going on right now, this

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NASCAR fight right but is being compared
and people are saying, why aren't we

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outraged or why does this not bring, you know, versus the Will Smith,

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Chris Rocks Na me, I totally
feel different about it. I don't

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know. I think they're two different
instance. They are and not even relatable.

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Because what is NASCAR, which is
a predominantly white sport? It's a

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sport. We've seen fights in that
and people at like fights in Nascar are

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don't happen. That shit happens regularly. It's a normal cur yes, it's

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a normal currs Um, just like
fison. Hockey not as much, because

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FIS and hockey happen all the time. You can have three, four,

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five flights high. That's you know
I'm saying. But we've seen incidence in

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basketball, we've seen incidence in football, we've seen incidence in baseball. Baseball

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happens more. I think if you
was, if you was the rank,

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rank them, you would go,
uh, hockey, baseball, dam probably

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NASCAR, then probably basketball and in
football. Far As in not contact.

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Yeah, nine, yeah, fights, because you we see fights of hockey

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all the time. We see probably
five, six fights a game at hockey.

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Yeah, but they let them and
then scrap, right, they follow

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an right and then by the room. Yes, and then baseball, when

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somebody's hit or something like somebody,
there's going to be a mound rush,

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they're going to be something, something's
going to happen. Basketball, not so

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much, no more, but you
might see a little tough scuffle, tous

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of here and there. Football,
I can't remember really say when the last

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time we've seen a real fight.
Hey, maybe right, probably bring grind

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breck grimes. Yeah, Andre Johnson, that's the one I can remember.

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How was it with a more recent
than up? Josh Norman? And No,

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no, there was somebody else from
the Ram Rams. It was a

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rant. No, it was the
bears and somebody. Somebody took a cheap

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shot on on somebody. While I
see im saying is about a year or

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two. It's a cornerback took a
cheap shot on somebody. But, Um,

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what are your thoughts on? You
just said it like you can't confer

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the to you know it. Put
it the bottom lines, because that's all

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game talk about it game, talking, talking about how how outrage he was,

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and that's probably were started. Yeah, right, and just trying to

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make light of because that's a predominantly
white sport. The reality of it is

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that it's too different arenas man like, you can't compare that. It's right

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and oranges. Right, and they
talk about how old this, that he

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was talking about old this at the
third like John, not saying what you're

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saying when two white guys are fighting
on screen as opposed to, you know,

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two black guys having an issue.
And you know, will Smith doing

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what he doing, Bro. But
like it's two different two completely different scenarios,

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right, saying so, like let's
just give it a break now,

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you know, you know me.
You just ain't way. I'm all for

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equality, right, but that's a
stretch, period. It's straight to me.

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It's a stretch. It's a stretch
man, and that's all I got

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to say about that. But so
I think it's a big scratch. And

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so how we introed it and bought
an in. It's not a rare occurrence

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from NASCAR, right, these fuckers. This is a rare occurrence from the

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Oscars. And then when you look
at the dynamic between two you got two

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men, yeah, knuckling up right, fighting right, people trying to hold

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them back, people jumping in between
them, but they still going out each

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other. Versus one man walking up
to another man and physically harming him,

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or how do you want to phrase
it, and then walking off in another

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man and the other the man that
was attacked, because that's what happened,

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for lack of better words. You
had one man causing harm or inflict you

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know, inflicting pain or whatever else, another man not doing anything. You

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know I'm saying. So if we
was to just look at it and the

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terms of street fighting, someone them
be like Yo, look, X Y

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Z wanted to fight, but he
didn't. This dude just start punching on

407
00:32:44.960 --> 00:32:46.039
him, the other dude, and
now he was trying to get away from

408
00:32:46.079 --> 00:32:49.799
here. And on the part of
it, it's going to be looked at

409
00:32:49.839 --> 00:32:54.519
different versus two niggas squaring up in
the street and going at it right.

410
00:32:54.759 --> 00:32:58.400
So that's where I saw in the
NASCAR thing versus Oscar thing. And,

411
00:32:58.440 --> 00:33:00.839
like I said, like the Oscar
thing is never seen before, this NASCAR

412
00:33:01.000 --> 00:33:06.880
thing is like black people, y'all. Have we so we fake care about

413
00:33:06.920 --> 00:33:09.119
everything, and I hate to say
this shit, but we fake care about

414
00:33:09.200 --> 00:33:14.240
everything like these motherfuckers been, and
that's call been fighting for years and years

415
00:33:14.319 --> 00:33:16.279
and years and years and years.
This shit is not new. All of

416
00:33:16.319 --> 00:33:22.079
a sudden y'all got something to say
about it, right, it's just it's

417
00:33:22.160 --> 00:33:27.359
just trying today, I kid it, like they trying to brain and trying

418
00:33:27.400 --> 00:33:32.920
to put a light or microscroube on
you know, US, hmm, being

419
00:33:32.960 --> 00:33:37.079
putting the spotlight. Right, that's
that's just what it was out to but

420
00:33:37.359 --> 00:33:40.759
but then we gon have to keep
the same energy in the playoffs when somebody

421
00:33:40.880 --> 00:33:45.559
went when to two niggas square with
each other, whatever else. You know,

422
00:33:45.559 --> 00:33:50.079
I'm saying like so it's we never
seen this shit in the Oscars and

423
00:33:50.240 --> 00:33:52.559
the Oscars ain't the place for a
fight. You know, I'm saying like

424
00:33:53.039 --> 00:33:57.119
if, if, if there was
a fight last year the Oscars, in

425
00:33:57.200 --> 00:33:59.440
the year before and the year before
then we might be like, okay,

426
00:33:59.519 --> 00:34:01.880
you know, it's the same thing, kind of sort of same thing,

427
00:34:01.960 --> 00:34:06.160
but the Oscars ain't the place that
you just go slap them off, fucking

428
00:34:06.240 --> 00:34:08.719
punch them off, fuck it and
think, you know, okay, whatever

429
00:34:08.800 --> 00:34:13.719
else. It ain't only white people
that's outraged about what happened in Oscars.

430
00:34:14.840 --> 00:34:20.239
That's real. So I don't like
the comparison. I see we're on the

431
00:34:20.239 --> 00:34:23.199
same things with the comparison is dumb. Yes, shit, ritch is a

432
00:34:23.360 --> 00:34:29.880
bitch, scrits, because this is
it's a rare crept or rare currents and

433
00:34:30.000 --> 00:34:32.679
an Oscars. It's something that happens
in that scar all the time. Yeah,

434
00:34:34.639 --> 00:34:38.679
probably almost every race somebody's going to
get mad about being bumped. It

435
00:34:38.840 --> 00:34:42.840
probably, and it's the fact I
probably have worst every race, but I

436
00:34:42.960 --> 00:34:45.079
write. I don't know, it's
not a lot of fish. Well,

437
00:34:45.239 --> 00:34:46.599
yeah, the fist fighting is here
and there. Pus. A lot of

438
00:34:46.679 --> 00:34:51.199
words been thrown to help with might
be throwing a motherfucking like kick somebody car

439
00:34:51.800 --> 00:34:53.880
or some other shit. So I
mean, I mean, fuck, we

440
00:34:54.039 --> 00:34:57.960
saw Dan Cup, what's your name? That compassion. Yeah, we saw

441
00:34:58.079 --> 00:35:02.159
dedicapatrick go out to somebody. Yeah, nobody said nothing. Then you don't

442
00:35:02.159 --> 00:35:07.719
saying. So, I mean we
gotta stopped fake caring about especially NASCAR.

443
00:35:08.440 --> 00:35:13.360
Had it been something else, like
black people, like like last last call

444
00:35:13.480 --> 00:35:15.280
was as a last thing, we
should even have bought to the table,

445
00:35:16.280 --> 00:35:22.599
because half of us not even have
a good ninety eighty five. Nine percent

446
00:35:22.639 --> 00:35:24.599
of US don't even watch or CARE
ABOUT NASCAR. Who? I don't watch

447
00:35:24.639 --> 00:35:28.440
the she neither. What I go
to a race, I would just get

448
00:35:28.519 --> 00:35:31.079
do spirits in the races. But
but by default, you know, we

449
00:35:31.639 --> 00:35:36.320
come from the home. Is that? Come from the home racing. It's

450
00:35:37.679 --> 00:35:39.719
so by default, I know the
fuck is going on. Huh, I'm

451
00:35:39.800 --> 00:35:45.199
going to know who the chat raciar
is. Hop you draft or top driver

452
00:35:45.280 --> 00:35:50.159
bridge, by default, because right, you know, right where we're from.

453
00:35:50.320 --> 00:35:52.320
So ever, we all think about
it when we talk about like the

454
00:35:52.360 --> 00:35:55.519
bet, hiphop war zones, other
shit like it's been mothers been shot,

455
00:35:55.559 --> 00:36:00.760
ass me mother's and stabbed, all
kind of Shit that has flew under the

456
00:36:00.920 --> 00:36:06.679
radar, like no one cared about. Yeah, the Oscars is something bigger

457
00:36:06.800 --> 00:36:09.639
and a lot different like and it's
never happened at that instant. If somebody

458
00:36:09.760 --> 00:36:13.719
like to bet you wards this year, if quite break out, yeah,

459
00:36:14.480 --> 00:36:16.639
I don't think nobody. I ain't. Nobody get it. But you know

460
00:36:16.760 --> 00:36:21.960
what, these drivers are going to
be spent it too. That happens everything,

461
00:36:22.079 --> 00:36:24.159
like when these dribs get a fight
or some shit like that. Yeah,

462
00:36:24.519 --> 00:36:30.000
Shit happens. To them. Yeah, maybe not ten years, and

463
00:36:30.119 --> 00:36:35.800
so let's talk about that. Let's
talk about that ten years. Ten years,

464
00:36:36.840 --> 00:36:46.880
my man will scipt can attend Oscars
ten years. So you mean it

465
00:36:47.000 --> 00:36:55.679
chall me when the most talented actors
period, black excellence, black to happy

466
00:36:55.880 --> 00:37:01.039
is yet but period. Yeah,
you could UN them up against any actor,

467
00:37:01.159 --> 00:37:07.159
actress or whatever. I actress something
anymore. No, actress rights actress

468
00:37:07.199 --> 00:37:10.000
a thing that pro probably you gotta
write. I think you got to write,

469
00:37:10.039 --> 00:37:14.199
because I think you yeah, you
don't know who is who these day.

470
00:37:14.239 --> 00:37:15.079
I don't think actually, and I'm
not saying in the bad way.

471
00:37:15.360 --> 00:37:21.719
And Yeah, I think actre actress. I think that all actors. Right,

472
00:37:21.960 --> 00:37:30.679
okay, so he's just which might
be a problem because for a long

473
00:37:30.760 --> 00:37:37.280
time actor representing man. It's one
saying so, but but so I think

474
00:37:37.320 --> 00:37:42.119
they all actress. You have a
sector like the women's right group and everything.

475
00:37:42.519 --> 00:37:46.480
They want to be identified as actors. Really. Yeah, okay,

476
00:37:46.559 --> 00:37:49.599
so I'm saying that. So,
so I thought they want to be like

477
00:37:49.719 --> 00:37:53.079
identified severy like women's right actress.
They were actresses. It was like her

478
00:37:53.280 --> 00:37:58.280
actress. Now that they're and all
one time all want to be active.

479
00:37:58.480 --> 00:38:01.159
Okay, because it ended the day. They all do the same things.

480
00:38:01.400 --> 00:38:06.599
Okay, right, so that they
don't want to be they don't want to

481
00:38:06.599 --> 00:38:10.079
be separated from a STANDPI gouts,
a man versus women. They are all

482
00:38:10.159 --> 00:38:15.360
in the theater field. So if
I got you, I bust my ass

483
00:38:15.079 --> 00:38:20.960
and I'm a woman. HMM.
I shouldn't just be putting a pot with

484
00:38:21.159 --> 00:38:24.559
women. Know if I bust my
ass, if vould days bust our ass.

485
00:38:24.840 --> 00:38:30.719
HMM. She should be able to
be com to compete or be compared

486
00:38:30.840 --> 00:38:37.760
to Dizel or Johnny Dipp so great, great, great, great point.

487
00:38:38.159 --> 00:38:42.559
Very valid. I didn't watch the
GRAMMARS. I don't care for the grammy.

488
00:38:42.559 --> 00:38:45.599
That's why I understand why, like
a lot of black people, do

489
00:38:45.840 --> 00:38:49.079
not like didn't watch the grams.
I never watched the grammas without I don't

490
00:38:49.079 --> 00:38:51.880
care about because it don't validate anything
for us, because I don't really like

491
00:38:52.000 --> 00:38:54.559
half fucking movies. Exactly. Yeah, yeah, because a lot of these

492
00:38:54.559 --> 00:38:59.239
movies are nominated before the movie even
come out. It'd be like crammy nominated,

493
00:38:59.280 --> 00:39:00.679
blah, blah, blah, and
but the movie comes out in two

494
00:39:00.760 --> 00:39:04.559
months. You Lie. How the
fuck is the grammy nominated? First of

495
00:39:04.599 --> 00:39:07.280
all, I'm being must with you, I'm be honest with you. The

496
00:39:07.480 --> 00:39:13.039
fact that everything that will Smith is
put out and he wont. He won

497
00:39:13.599 --> 00:39:17.559
me for can Richard Williams right,
for King Richard Right. And then when

498
00:39:17.599 --> 00:39:21.320
you think about should be a slap
on the face. Do you think about

499
00:39:21.400 --> 00:39:24.599
Denzel Washington? Right, he got
a grammy and all this shit. Didn't

500
00:39:24.599 --> 00:39:28.360
eat a grammy for training day?
I don't think you did, but that

501
00:39:28.719 --> 00:39:31.920
trinity was. No, it's a
hell of a movie. Yeah, but

502
00:39:32.119 --> 00:39:35.800
I thought he did. I thought
he did get I he did. Maybe

503
00:39:35.880 --> 00:39:40.639
not. Okay, I don't know, but like, come on, many

504
00:39:40.800 --> 00:39:46.800
guys body of work as opposed to
somebody. Other guys gotta get these awards.

505
00:39:46.920 --> 00:39:50.960
Like you got it fuck right in
me because I am legend. To

506
00:39:51.000 --> 00:39:57.400
Me's been the king Richard by far
canything by far king, but king rich

507
00:39:57.519 --> 00:40:00.239
is a good. Yeah, but
I am leg this good. I Robe

508
00:40:00.280 --> 00:40:05.360
I it right and only mean that
state is a good. Yeah, I'm

509
00:40:05.400 --> 00:40:14.679
just looking at the acting aspect.
So before we trend, you know,

510
00:40:14.800 --> 00:40:16.599
get on into that, because you
just said something. That's great point.

511
00:40:16.880 --> 00:40:23.159
I didn't watch the grammy's, but
what you saying that? Does that mean

512
00:40:23.239 --> 00:40:28.599
they take the categories out of it, like, okay, we're not going

513
00:40:28.639 --> 00:40:31.880
to say best. We talk about
so best actress, Wi Shane, grammys

514
00:40:31.920 --> 00:40:35.360
is actually the Oscars. Well,
I'm sorry. Yes, you're right,

515
00:40:35.440 --> 00:40:37.719
the Oscars, because the grant the
grammys was something different. And yes,

516
00:40:37.880 --> 00:40:40.960
but it's the same. Right.
Grammy's is music. Yes, say,

517
00:40:42.039 --> 00:40:45.000
this is music. So, so
deel did get best acted, right for

518
00:40:45.480 --> 00:40:51.599
for right. He did get an
Oscar for training day. So that's what

519
00:40:51.679 --> 00:40:53.880
I'm saying. Like all the good
shit that in sale has been in,

520
00:40:54.039 --> 00:40:58.559
you've been to tell me that.
You give my Oscar, you give him

521
00:40:58.559 --> 00:41:02.880
an award for fucking training day,
which is a good movie and a great

522
00:41:02.960 --> 00:41:07.039
performance by him. But I think
Michael X was a better covers, but

523
00:41:07.440 --> 00:41:13.599
I didn't name and whatever, so
you can't. Yeah. But so to

524
00:41:13.639 --> 00:41:22.480
get into that, do we eliminate
the categories best actress, best supporting actress,

525
00:41:22.760 --> 00:41:25.159
Best Actor, best supporting actor,
on other Shit, now that now

526
00:41:25.199 --> 00:41:29.280
that we're talking about, okay,
you should, we need you should,

527
00:41:29.400 --> 00:41:32.360
but you should. I mean I
don't watch that shit to even though if

528
00:41:32.400 --> 00:41:37.840
they have have or have not,
they shit. So if if you're asking

529
00:41:37.920 --> 00:41:42.719
for quality, and fine, I'm
all for it, but everybody's ain't part

530
00:41:42.800 --> 00:41:46.519
there. Oh, I agree with
you. You know what you said.

531
00:41:46.559 --> 00:41:51.719
The Grammy. Why I said it. I've been snegrams and music we don't

532
00:41:51.760 --> 00:41:53.800
get into. I got a question
on that. Um, you talking,

533
00:41:53.840 --> 00:41:59.360
Oh, ten years, seniors,
seniors tears, teen years for Will Smith?

534
00:41:59.760 --> 00:42:02.360
Yeah, a teen years. It
doesn't make sense. I mean like

535
00:42:04.079 --> 00:42:06.679
the reprimand and all this shout.
I guess they felt they got to do

536
00:42:06.880 --> 00:42:09.760
something right. I don't know.
They feel like they gotta do something dog.

537
00:42:09.960 --> 00:42:16.079
I mean I feel this very extreme. It is, Um. And

538
00:42:16.199 --> 00:42:22.239
then when you look at all everyone
else that has done bullshit throughout the times,

539
00:42:22.320 --> 00:42:27.840
where it's being mel gifts and Harvey
Weinstein, appare Jim Carrey. I

540
00:42:27.960 --> 00:42:31.079
mean it's so many others that you
look at him like Whoa, what the

541
00:42:31.159 --> 00:42:38.440
fuck? Um, but I man, Jim carry saying sexually right, one

542
00:42:38.760 --> 00:42:45.679
should look hard wasting. He's worse
than Bill Cosby. I'm talking about yet

543
00:42:45.840 --> 00:42:49.199
right, but I'm talking my own
like the one of these, one of

544
00:42:49.280 --> 00:42:57.280
those fucking a war shows who carry
welcome to the woman and Damn that tongue,

545
00:42:57.320 --> 00:43:00.719
kiss to joint. You know I'm
saying, like you fell me.

546
00:43:00.840 --> 00:43:04.559
She she look at she got her
hands, you know, by our breast,

547
00:43:04.679 --> 00:43:07.400
like hold on mail, hold on
hold. Yeah. So, speaking

548
00:43:07.440 --> 00:43:19.599
about did you see the video with
the baby? Yes, yeah, out

549
00:43:19.639 --> 00:43:23.920
of Bout Hey. I mean she
was she was room for me and all

550
00:43:24.000 --> 00:43:27.519
this. Don't but it. Guess
what, Hey, man, yeah,

551
00:43:27.559 --> 00:43:30.320
you might be the baby bugg and
put him off, ha, ha,

552
00:43:32.239 --> 00:43:37.159
and Nigga. Fuck, you got
good right like this. Ain't that type

553
00:43:37.159 --> 00:43:38.400
of wanity? Yeah, like I
fought with you. Could. Yeah,

554
00:43:38.440 --> 00:43:43.480
you know, she probably thought could
well, finding all that put your dad

555
00:43:43.559 --> 00:43:46.159
down. There's some men out of
ten women. How many women do you

556
00:43:46.239 --> 00:43:52.079
think, except that kids from the
lab? Nine. I'm with you,

557
00:43:52.599 --> 00:43:57.800
nice, I'm with you. I'm
with you either way. Is a viral

558
00:43:57.920 --> 00:44:02.800
moment. But yeah, yeah,
yeah, you can't beat Um, but

559
00:44:04.199 --> 00:44:10.159
it's so so I think it's very
extreme and I think it takes a lot

560
00:44:10.280 --> 00:44:15.079
of money off his plate, off
the table. And we talked about this

561
00:44:15.079 --> 00:44:21.800
is the last two weeks, just
the whole dynamic of the repercussions from him,

562
00:44:22.199 --> 00:44:28.119
quote unquote, protecting or doing whatever
everyone was champion him into doing.

563
00:44:28.679 --> 00:44:31.320
And, like I said the week
before when we had dirty on it,

564
00:44:31.360 --> 00:44:36.480
then last week me, I need
that woman. That's going to stop me

565
00:44:36.960 --> 00:44:42.000
from doing the dumb shit. We'regardso
of whatever it is. You know,

566
00:44:42.639 --> 00:44:46.360
if we had a barb'm and somebody
called my Wont Call My lady a Bitch,

567
00:44:46.880 --> 00:44:51.440
okay, and I'm like Na,
Niggas, we got shoot the failing

568
00:44:51.719 --> 00:44:55.239
right. You know, I'm even
though I want to go, or even

569
00:44:55.280 --> 00:44:59.159
if I don't want to, I
need a woman. That's going to stop,

570
00:45:00.119 --> 00:45:02.880
because we got way more to lose
than we got the game. And

571
00:45:04.000 --> 00:45:07.639
when you look at this circumstances,
he lost a lot. That that him

572
00:45:07.719 --> 00:45:13.079
being suspended. Well then, whatever
you want to call it, Tim Years,

573
00:45:13.840 --> 00:45:15.480
is losing a lot, because with
that comes a lot of nomination,

574
00:45:15.599 --> 00:45:23.440
grant Oscar nominations, and then I'm
pretty sure the Oscars supports a lot of

575
00:45:23.559 --> 00:45:30.800
people getting certain roles and films,
and with that we've seen I am legend

576
00:45:30.840 --> 00:45:32.679
to was supposed to start filming.
It was going to be him and Michael

577
00:45:32.719 --> 00:45:37.079
B Jordan at and drop will Smith
out of I'm will Smith is I am

578
00:45:37.159 --> 00:45:42.480
legend. Yeah, you know I'm
saying so. He's not an eye,

579
00:45:42.519 --> 00:45:51.039
a legend to. They had a
lot of bad boys for I think there

580
00:45:51.159 --> 00:45:54.039
was a talking about it. No
longer that's off. That's off the table.

581
00:45:54.320 --> 00:45:58.519
That takes money. That takes money
away from will and money away from

582
00:45:58.559 --> 00:46:02.760
Martin. That Marty might not even
make it right now. Um, there's

583
00:46:02.800 --> 00:46:07.440
some other films. He had a
by autobiography. Well, I'm sorry,

584
00:46:08.039 --> 00:46:15.840
what do we call a movie terms
video firm? Hit? Yeah, by,

585
00:46:16.159 --> 00:46:20.320
well, well, well, maybe
a biopical or documentary. Yeah,

586
00:46:20.880 --> 00:46:22.599
Um, will Smith, his life, whatever supposed to come out. That's

587
00:46:22.639 --> 00:46:25.840
you this. That shit was a
I think that was Netflix Shell. So

588
00:46:27.199 --> 00:46:32.280
is this a lot of different opportunities
and money things that that is has been

589
00:46:32.360 --> 00:46:37.000
taken off the plate for him.
And then I sent you. I don't

590
00:46:37.000 --> 00:46:43.760
know, I did said you just
most recently, supposedly a letter that Willow

591
00:46:43.800 --> 00:46:55.840
Smith wrote to a deceased Tupac surfaced, and so I we let's get into

592
00:46:57.679 --> 00:47:04.599
the I guess I asked this question
my story to other day. Who protects

593
00:47:05.000 --> 00:47:08.599
the broken black man? And I
got a lot of responses the strong black

594
00:47:08.679 --> 00:47:12.719
woman, the black woman, Blah
Blah, and it all came down to

595
00:47:12.800 --> 00:47:15.320
that. But but then some of
the questions I asked him. I said,

596
00:47:15.360 --> 00:47:19.400
okay, so what what do you
consider a strong black woman or who

597
00:47:19.480 --> 00:47:22.599
do you consider as a black strong
woman, or is Jada? Pick it,

598
00:47:22.719 --> 00:47:25.679
Smith of strong black women, you
know, and I had a bunch

599
00:47:25.760 --> 00:47:32.840
of different answers, um but we're
talking about the woman that this man devoted

600
00:47:32.920 --> 00:47:37.880
his life to, said I love
you, holds her down in any and

601
00:47:38.079 --> 00:47:43.159
every way, and the most recent
way was, if you want to say,

602
00:47:43.440 --> 00:47:45.400
slapping his man on stage. That
a lot of these women champions.

603
00:47:45.760 --> 00:47:54.000
Okay, but now guess who ass
is on the PLAT very souls? Yeah,

604
00:47:54.119 --> 00:47:57.440
so, so, now, so, now, is on earth that

605
00:47:57.519 --> 00:48:06.800
your daughter wrote this letter? Should
Art Shu read? I mean, let's

606
00:48:07.440 --> 00:48:10.760
let's get do I have? I
think I send it to you, will

607
00:48:14.519 --> 00:48:16.199
maybe I did. Maybe, Oh, I did. Hear me, go

608
00:48:16.320 --> 00:48:21.519
hear you. All right. So
it says, Dear Tupac, I know

609
00:48:21.679 --> 00:48:25.519
you. I know you are alive
someplace. I think that my mommy really

610
00:48:25.599 --> 00:48:30.840
misses you. Can you please come
back? Can you come back so my

611
00:48:30.920 --> 00:48:34.760
mommy and me can be happy?
I wish you were here. I really

612
00:48:34.880 --> 00:48:43.559
do love willow. Now, at
the time, reportedly willow was eleven.

613
00:48:44.320 --> 00:48:52.840
Okay, Tu pocket been passed away. Okay, right, let's put ourselves

614
00:48:52.840 --> 00:48:57.440
in this sixteen, this situation pigament, which is crazy in itself. Um,

615
00:48:59.159 --> 00:49:04.639
your your Um, your wife,
she has a one of her exes,

616
00:49:05.199 --> 00:49:07.519
not even well, he's an ex
by way of death or whatever else,

617
00:49:08.000 --> 00:49:12.920
someone that she deeply was in love
with, her loved passed away.

618
00:49:13.599 --> 00:49:20.559
Your child with this woman is writing
a letter to this deceased x, or

619
00:49:20.719 --> 00:49:23.920
whatever you want to call him,
love her friend, we'll just say.

620
00:49:24.000 --> 00:49:27.679
Well, let's just say friend,
because they didn't have a, let's say,

621
00:49:27.679 --> 00:49:35.519
a sexual relationship, supposedly. And
she's saying that I wish you were

622
00:49:35.639 --> 00:49:42.679
here so my mommy could be happy. Okay, that's your daughter. That

623
00:49:42.840 --> 00:49:52.639
shows me apart, tears me apart, two apart, but also to I

624
00:49:52.760 --> 00:49:55.119
think about it, if that's what
it is. You know, you think

625
00:49:55.119 --> 00:50:00.639
about adolescents and you know how kids
think. Can you know? Maybe she's

626
00:50:00.679 --> 00:50:04.119
wants her mom to be happy,
or what night? I don't know,

627
00:50:04.679 --> 00:50:07.880
I don't know. They say two
people don't lie. Yeah, they do.

628
00:50:08.719 --> 00:50:27.039
Yeah, trunk person and maybe,
and yeah, HMM, what people?

629
00:50:27.119 --> 00:50:34.480
CODA'S ICE? Yeah, man,
her. It hurts for me just

630
00:50:34.599 --> 00:50:38.599
to think about it. Honestly,
you know I'm saying especially, I can

631
00:50:38.679 --> 00:50:43.480
never like imagine what you know,
what's going on right now far as and

632
00:50:43.840 --> 00:50:47.639
what has happened from, you know, the Oscars, and then everything else

633
00:50:47.800 --> 00:50:51.280
came out that. And even before
that you had all this. I seen

634
00:50:51.320 --> 00:50:57.760
this shit. You had the the
numerous tupot references and letters and all this

635
00:50:57.880 --> 00:51:00.920
other shit that comes apart, that
comes, you know, to like then

636
00:51:00.039 --> 00:51:04.280
the you know, we're not happy
sexually, all this other shit, the

637
00:51:04.400 --> 00:51:07.199
Red Table Talk and now your daughter, a letter from you know. You

638
00:51:07.280 --> 00:51:13.079
know I'm saying. So as a
black man, how much can you take?

639
00:51:14.760 --> 00:51:19.719
Where was your Um Sanity, mentality, your feelings, all this gear,

640
00:51:19.760 --> 00:51:22.679
emotions, all this shit, where
is that? Right now? I'm

641
00:51:22.719 --> 00:51:28.159
telling what will spilt? Oh,
getting got whoop, Bro any who cares?

642
00:51:28.239 --> 00:51:31.440
That's what Saim right now. Who
Cares? Like nobody cares. Nobody

643
00:51:31.480 --> 00:51:35.519
cares. I mean are you saying
who should care? You ask me,

644
00:51:35.599 --> 00:51:39.599
well, care bus, but but
who sold? The thing is, yeah,

645
00:51:39.880 --> 00:51:44.440
who cares and who should care?
I can't speak of WHO. WHO

646
00:51:44.639 --> 00:51:49.000
DOES CARE? I mean you would
hope that. I hope that his woman

647
00:51:49.119 --> 00:51:52.719
is behind him, but you know
the reports that's in the media. It

648
00:51:52.800 --> 00:51:57.519
don't seem like that. Who Does? A black man, the broken black

649
00:51:57.559 --> 00:52:07.760
man, sweet sweet sweet baby Jesus, that's buzzed about it, though.

650
00:52:09.119 --> 00:52:13.840
You know, the thing is,
man, and we re about to get

651
00:52:13.840 --> 00:52:15.599
a little deeper into this, because
I I really want to. But so

652
00:52:16.039 --> 00:52:20.599
I've been in you have to.
I know you, you know me.

653
00:52:20.880 --> 00:52:24.000
Yeah, we've been through like dog. I've been whooped. I've have my

654
00:52:24.119 --> 00:52:30.320
ass in like situations that I don't
know like how I made it out of.

655
00:52:30.639 --> 00:52:35.280
Yeah, Um, and I haven't
even like probably talk to anybody about

656
00:52:35.320 --> 00:52:37.000
this shit. I taught you about
some things, sir, just just yes,

657
00:52:37.079 --> 00:52:39.000
sir, day, just like you. You have to. So you

658
00:52:39.079 --> 00:52:45.280
know for me, but you know
I'm saying. And we, as Black

659
00:52:45.320 --> 00:52:50.360
Man, are supposed to be UN
no, Noono Mancho, we are supposed

660
00:52:50.440 --> 00:52:53.599
we are. We're supposed to be
hard, tough. Should we discuss last

661
00:52:53.639 --> 00:53:00.639
week? Yeah, and and you
know, the the emotional side, and

662
00:53:00.840 --> 00:53:07.039
I not even it's not even a
feminist side. It's more of a caring

663
00:53:07.599 --> 00:53:10.119
or feelings or whatever else, side
isn't really supposed to be on display.

664
00:53:10.599 --> 00:53:16.239
You're not supposed to show that side
of you that's hurt or is vulnerable.

665
00:53:16.440 --> 00:53:22.480
Okay, well, you need some
shit. So, Um, luckily for

666
00:53:22.599 --> 00:53:29.199
me and for you that whatever we
did, it worked out. You know,

667
00:53:29.400 --> 00:53:34.639
saying I've going through shit. I
ain't your my mom about. Yeah,

668
00:53:34.840 --> 00:53:37.960
no, I'm saying there's been times
I slept in my car because of

669
00:53:38.000 --> 00:53:40.719
want to fuck me over on some
shit. Yeah, okay, you know,

670
00:53:40.920 --> 00:53:45.840
but I never said nothing to anybody. I don't want nothing from nobody.

671
00:53:45.920 --> 00:53:49.440
I'm you know, this situation.
I got myself right. Um,

672
00:53:49.599 --> 00:53:52.760
I'm not trying to look bad because
x Yz or whatever else, my Ba,

673
00:53:52.559 --> 00:53:58.599
but and I really feel like nobody
would have gave gave a fuck anyway.

674
00:53:58.639 --> 00:54:02.440
Nobody would have care. Maybe closest
friends, you know. I'm saying,

675
00:54:02.760 --> 00:54:06.119
yeah, yeah, and maybe you
know, they would have pulled you

676
00:54:06.159 --> 00:54:10.559
out. But you know, added, like I said, for us it's

677
00:54:12.679 --> 00:54:17.679
black men. Is Different, because
we don't necessarily want to be viewed as

678
00:54:17.719 --> 00:54:27.320
that. But week week, vulnerable. Um, of course you you you

679
00:54:27.480 --> 00:54:30.519
in a situation to where you need
help, because you supposed to be the

680
00:54:30.679 --> 00:54:35.840
provider on the helper. NOWGIC has
conversation last night. So funny. Uh

681
00:54:35.920 --> 00:54:37.199
Huh. That's it was so funny. And I was told, you know,

682
00:54:37.239 --> 00:54:40.440
it's okay to ask for help.
It is. It's okay to ask

683
00:54:40.480 --> 00:54:45.119
for help, it's okay to to
seek out help. But but we get

684
00:54:45.280 --> 00:54:49.039
to that point, though. Yeah, at a certain time. No,

685
00:54:49.880 --> 00:54:53.639
that it wasn't. Yeah, yeah, you know, you're right. You

686
00:54:53.760 --> 00:55:00.280
worry about it. I think it's
I think it ties into mental health and

687
00:55:00.440 --> 00:55:05.320
understanding that everybody hurts. HMM,
everybody has issues, everybody has problems.

688
00:55:05.400 --> 00:55:09.280
You know what I mean? Right, so I think it ties into that,

689
00:55:10.320 --> 00:55:13.960
for sure, for sure. But
don't you know, I mean that

690
00:55:14.039 --> 00:55:20.199
Shit Matters. It's got another Makamo, but yeah, it no, you're

691
00:55:20.280 --> 00:55:28.480
right, it matters a hundred percent
and from a lot of what we see

692
00:55:28.679 --> 00:55:31.920
to what's going on on with we're
right. Now it don't matter because we've

693
00:55:32.000 --> 00:55:39.719
transitioned from what happened to now.
We talk about the slab, but what's

694
00:55:39.800 --> 00:55:45.719
lost in all of that? No
one has really talked about what he's going

695
00:55:45.840 --> 00:55:50.400
through or how how he's filling mentally
been mentioned, but not taking serious,

696
00:55:50.599 --> 00:55:57.079
right, not taking serious and even
and even maybe the cause of what he's

697
00:55:57.159 --> 00:56:00.599
going through. Right, and I'm
not going to blame jade on any of

698
00:56:00.679 --> 00:56:06.320
this, but if it was so, if it was a woman, that

699
00:56:06.880 --> 00:56:09.960
we would say, okay, is
a narcissist or is doing this or doing

700
00:56:10.039 --> 00:56:14.840
that. If it was Jada,
we would the world will be all over

701
00:56:14.920 --> 00:56:17.639
will smith ask, especially the black
community, would be like, look what

702
00:56:17.719 --> 00:56:23.400
this black man is doing to this
black woman. I'll leave it at that

703
00:56:23.480 --> 00:56:29.760
because we not going to we're not
going to open that and going to that,

704
00:56:29.880 --> 00:56:39.480
because I could see my mention now. But it's something. The thing

705
00:56:39.519 --> 00:56:45.480
about you all, it's other thing
about we love the black man, black

706
00:56:45.559 --> 00:56:52.840
woman and it we are Um on
a pedestal right now. Is a black

707
00:56:52.880 --> 00:57:01.159
woman and the LGBT Q plus X, Y Z L and Metho community is

708
00:57:01.320 --> 00:57:07.280
on the pedestal. It needs to
be all because we want to say all

709
00:57:07.320 --> 00:57:10.360
inclusive, but it's not all inclusive
because when it happens to you know,

710
00:57:10.559 --> 00:57:15.360
you know I'm saying so, when
it happens to a will smith, you

711
00:57:15.480 --> 00:57:20.840
know he was big up, he
was champion for walking on stage and slapping

712
00:57:20.920 --> 00:57:24.360
somebody for talking about his wife in
our community, in our community, but

713
00:57:27.519 --> 00:57:31.159
the he was neglect. He's neglected
when it comes to his mental state and

714
00:57:31.280 --> 00:57:36.440
what he's going through right now.
He's checked into a mental mental health Rehab

715
00:57:36.559 --> 00:57:39.280
Center. Yeah, you see him
saying it's not big news, but I

716
00:57:39.440 --> 00:57:43.639
read that on me and someone talk
about that earlier. He's checked into a

717
00:57:43.679 --> 00:57:53.639
mental health we have centered and I
feel his partner. That's who should be.

718
00:57:53.760 --> 00:57:58.000
That when when you think about your
party, that should be your ride

719
00:57:58.039 --> 00:58:00.519
to die, which is a bad
term because we use ride to die so

720
00:58:00.719 --> 00:58:06.639
loosely these days. But your partner. So I eat. This letter came

721
00:58:06.719 --> 00:58:13.079
out. Would you respect your partner
to put them, put the fire out

722
00:58:14.679 --> 00:58:20.440
if you can't. Yeah, no
statements, you know, saying there's other

723
00:58:20.519 --> 00:58:22.159
things that came out there from so
my I would respect my partner, my

724
00:58:22.360 --> 00:58:29.800
ride to die, to squash that
shit. Like, listen, but what

725
00:58:30.000 --> 00:58:31.960
even the child, I like this
Lett lay. Let's lie, like I'm

726
00:58:32.000 --> 00:58:36.960
over. We have enough money to
cover this shit up right. So,

727
00:58:37.280 --> 00:58:44.760
I mean it's risk bees problems,
but we are content creators and is here,

728
00:58:45.119 --> 00:58:49.440
so address it. We have to
dress. I mean this because I'm

729
00:58:49.480 --> 00:58:53.920
pretty sure a lot of our our
viewers and listeners want to hears. Only

730
00:58:54.000 --> 00:58:59.800
take so fresh, you know,
I hate when I had it was his

731
00:58:59.880 --> 00:59:01.559
Ladysho was songs. She's like,
I'm so tired as wills and they're changes,

732
00:59:01.920 --> 00:59:07.800
kind of. But you're content creator. Yeah, it's it's out there.

733
00:59:07.920 --> 00:59:15.760
I'm talking is out there. I
mean that's all about something can't talk

734
00:59:15.800 --> 00:59:19.519
about. I don't know what,
whatever. I love y'all, podcasts,

735
00:59:20.400 --> 00:59:23.800
for Real, I love you.
Different levels achieved, is there? Is

736
00:59:23.840 --> 00:59:32.239
there? Is there levels or cheating
the sheet? People, people view cheating.

737
00:59:37.599 --> 00:59:42.559
People have their own definition of cheating
and some, some women and like,

738
00:59:42.800 --> 00:59:45.599
look at cheating as going to the
Strip club and look at another woman

739
00:59:45.719 --> 00:59:52.119
movement and in a sexual like.
You know, I mean, people look

740
00:59:52.119 --> 00:59:55.360
at it that way. Some people
view cheating as, you know, texting.

741
00:59:55.559 --> 00:59:59.320
Some people, you know I mean, so like, no, it's

742
00:59:59.360 --> 01:00:06.599
no, want saying like most most
view cheating as sex, right. You

743
01:00:06.639 --> 01:00:14.280
know I'm saying most so. And
then you have the mentally right where yeah,

744
01:00:14.440 --> 01:00:17.000
like you shared this with this person
or you let this person in on

745
01:00:17.159 --> 01:00:22.960
this end. Third now they have
a piece of me, we have a

746
01:00:22.000 --> 01:00:25.800
piece of you. That was a
piece of that I had H for,

747
01:00:27.119 --> 01:00:30.320
and so that considered cheating. Okay, you know me. So, if

748
01:00:30.360 --> 01:00:39.960
you want my personal opinion, Bro, honestly, I think it's something the

749
01:00:40.000 --> 01:00:44.800
air man, you know, I
don't like. I don't Meek it me.

750
01:00:45.280 --> 01:00:49.480
It's not cheating. It's not cheating
unless is sexual. Okay, so

751
01:00:49.719 --> 01:00:55.039
you hold one height another. For
me, well, this is actually good,

752
01:00:55.079 --> 01:01:01.840
because I was Cuz okay, so
would you? Would you say you

753
01:01:01.960 --> 01:01:07.360
probably would. A kiss is different
than fucking. Yeah, okay, it

754
01:01:07.559 --> 01:01:14.039
is. It is. I can
you forgive wonderful the other or they it's

755
01:01:14.119 --> 01:01:19.639
still physical, but I think one's
going to hold more weight. But yet

756
01:01:20.559 --> 01:01:24.320
it's going to take me longer to
get over. You know, actually have

757
01:01:24.480 --> 01:01:28.880
an intercourse. Supposed to. You
don't kissing somebody. Okay, it's going

758
01:01:28.920 --> 01:01:36.840
to take me longer to get over
the fucking chick. So you Cham Muse

759
01:01:36.880 --> 01:01:38.639
a mistake as you kiss him off. fucking you say I was sure I

760
01:01:38.760 --> 01:01:44.199
kissed him. All right, sound
be bad. You know I'm saying right,

761
01:01:44.400 --> 01:01:59.199
I'm be mad. Probably, yeah, that's a whole difference. Like,

762
01:02:00.239 --> 01:02:02.320
you can't mistakenly been no, be
bent over, right, yeah,

763
01:02:02.400 --> 01:02:09.239
accidentally, I mean if, yeah, I accidentally got wet. But this

764
01:02:09.320 --> 01:02:15.119
is right. Let's get this shot. Man, happy birthday, might M

765
01:02:22.280 --> 01:02:27.559
Y'all will. I'll be taking the
shot. It's not y'all know. Like

766
01:02:27.760 --> 01:02:30.480
I got some joggas on hey man. He said he's a full flas.

767
01:02:30.559 --> 01:02:39.159
Believing the jog as, I got
bro Jeans one time since I've been the

768
01:02:39.360 --> 01:02:44.360
jogs are real rob yeah, yeah, yeah, I love you, shit

769
01:02:44.400 --> 01:02:45.800
I really want to go into.
I want to want to see if I

770
01:02:45.880 --> 01:02:51.320
can get some money off these motherfuckers, man, because I'm sure it's mania

771
01:02:51.360 --> 01:02:54.039
people that feel the same way I
feel about these shits. Probably it's money.

772
01:02:54.119 --> 01:02:57.760
It took me a while. I
was an unbelievable but listen, yeah,

773
01:02:58.440 --> 01:03:00.840
jogs in there, are you?
Yeah, we have physically a jogon

774
01:03:00.920 --> 01:03:16.440
nation. Yeah, UM, they
are levels for me, okay, but,

775
01:03:17.639 --> 01:03:28.519
um man, a kissing fucking what? Of course one is more extreme

776
01:03:28.559 --> 01:03:34.480
than other. Yeah, but you
holding the saying like I probably will.

777
01:03:34.559 --> 01:03:37.119
I don't know. Oh, man, so you're gonna be able to go

778
01:03:37.159 --> 01:03:44.079
to sleep at night saying, Yo, I had to lead this woman because

779
01:03:44.119 --> 01:03:46.800
she kissed this man, she kissed
that I can't be worth she kissed that

780
01:03:46.880 --> 01:03:57.960
man. You was motherfucking now.
Yeah, you could potentially see this is

781
01:03:58.079 --> 01:04:05.639
just maybe your potential for ever.
Um, are you go say scram it's

782
01:04:05.719 --> 01:04:12.840
gotta do. Yeah, yeah,
that's that's what it is. That's yeah,

783
01:04:13.159 --> 01:04:15.360
you think about that now. Yeah, no, I don't know.

784
01:04:15.599 --> 01:04:24.239
Like when it comes to the intimate
level for me or physical and, like

785
01:04:24.320 --> 01:04:28.320
I said, like like, cause
we've talked about this pot you know,

786
01:04:28.599 --> 01:04:33.559
whyle ago it's never happened to me. So I don't know, like how

787
01:04:33.679 --> 01:04:40.400
I feeling that circumstituent and that's situation. But just that physical barrier once that

788
01:04:40.559 --> 01:04:49.039
is cross. Damn. Yeah,
I don't know, man like I even

789
01:04:49.079 --> 01:04:57.559
struggle with the just the the DM's
and flirt, like if if a Nigga

790
01:04:57.679 --> 01:05:00.760
was to hop in the DM's and
I just so happen to see it,

791
01:05:00.079 --> 01:05:04.239
because I don't getting all that Shit. CHECK DM's, I'm checking the body

792
01:05:04.280 --> 01:05:09.360
Shit period, right. But Um, you know, if I just so

793
01:05:09.519 --> 01:05:12.400
happen to see something and it wasn't
no, like now I'm good, I

794
01:05:12.480 --> 01:05:15.679
got a Nigga or you know,
saying or if that was a response that

795
01:05:16.039 --> 01:05:23.880
wasn't. You know what you would
rather see from your woman, okay,

796
01:05:24.079 --> 01:05:26.599
like if she just like a Nigga
hopt the herd, them's like, Damn,

797
01:05:26.679 --> 01:05:29.320
I you look good as fuck.
I want to fucking and she's like

798
01:05:30.599 --> 01:05:35.199
send a heart back or some shit
like yeah, okay, I don't know,

799
01:05:35.440 --> 01:05:44.280
like, but but that physical shit
don't I don't know, different for

800
01:05:44.800 --> 01:05:54.239
different yeah, the kids versus the
fucking Damn. I'm standing the scheme of

801
01:05:54.320 --> 01:05:59.599
things like this. Let's be realistic. The scheme of things. If this

802
01:05:59.719 --> 01:06:05.039
is your off forever, HMM,
type situation, not just somebody you just

803
01:06:05.320 --> 01:06:09.679
casually dating or whatever whatever you know
say. That's different. Okay, so

804
01:06:10.440 --> 01:06:16.119
let me ask you this question.
Can you forget either forget? Yeah,

805
01:06:16.480 --> 01:06:20.800
you don't forget shit, right.
You know that you can forgive, but

806
01:06:20.920 --> 01:06:27.559
you ain't now for your shit.
It's not how it works. So what's

807
01:06:27.639 --> 01:06:30.360
the next level? So what?
Well, okay, we don't forget.

808
01:06:31.159 --> 01:06:41.119
You forgive. Yeah, but being
this, you don't forget. When that

809
01:06:41.280 --> 01:06:45.480
thought comes so you might expert right
now. You might expert. So when

810
01:06:45.519 --> 01:06:50.719
that? So, when that thought
comes up that it happened. How does

811
01:06:50.760 --> 01:07:00.440
it affect things? Shit, I
mean honestly, the expectation is to suppress

812
01:07:00.480 --> 01:07:05.559
it, if we be honest,
right. Yeah, suppressive, like everything,

813
01:07:05.960 --> 01:07:14.400
like like everything else, but in
that ties into talking about your feelings

814
01:07:14.480 --> 01:07:19.039
and emotions and stuff. Yeah,
but you know, wow, we know

815
01:07:19.199 --> 01:07:24.000
mental health is really talk about it
every podcast. Let me start be real

816
01:07:24.079 --> 01:07:31.719
quick. I got like three people
that said tray did and say mental he

817
01:07:31.760 --> 01:07:35.039
didn't give us the mental health is
real. Yeah, on the last episode.

818
01:07:39.639 --> 01:07:43.800
It's been a couple of the I
didn't said. I know the last

819
01:07:43.840 --> 01:07:45.599
one for sure. That's what they
say and I was like, but go

820
01:07:45.679 --> 01:07:47.800
ahead, yeah, no, no, you know what? But at the

821
01:07:47.880 --> 01:07:53.400
end of the day, I think
if I don't say it, it's because

822
01:07:53.599 --> 01:08:05.039
I got into this couple. I
got it, I got the den yeah,

823
01:08:05.679 --> 01:08:09.440
right, yeah, so I'm probably
trying to wrap shit up anyway.

824
01:08:09.800 --> 01:08:15.239
But you know, but as unapologized
unscripted, it's unscripted. We have topics,

825
01:08:15.640 --> 01:08:18.319
but we go off script a lot
of times when we talk about different

826
01:08:18.359 --> 01:08:23.399
shits. So right, listen.
Yeah, so, you absolutely right.

827
01:08:24.279 --> 01:08:28.560
So I think. I think again, while mental health, you know,

828
01:08:29.880 --> 01:08:33.960
we bring this the forefront on our
podcast, in the world is bringing it

829
01:08:34.159 --> 01:08:39.560
more to the front, Front,
to the forefront, also know that we

830
01:08:39.640 --> 01:08:43.359
still have a long way to go. So right, when it comes to

831
01:08:43.439 --> 01:08:48.720
something like that, a man or
woman, if you if you have been

832
01:08:48.840 --> 01:08:55.279
forgiving off of if you've been forgiving
for whatever you did, that was what

833
01:08:55.479 --> 01:09:00.159
was wrong, then it's not.
The expectation is not to bring it that,

834
01:09:01.720 --> 01:09:05.479
even if it's wing your ass intermly. So that triggers me so much,

835
01:09:05.800 --> 01:09:09.119
but it's Ben True. Yeah,
it is. You. You are

836
01:09:09.319 --> 01:09:13.199
right, because so for me,
on the other side of spectrum to where

837
01:09:13.279 --> 01:09:19.239
I have done some shit and I
was forgiven. But yeah, I really

838
01:09:19.520 --> 01:09:25.000
wasn't forgiven because every time something happened, it was always thrown back out of

839
01:09:25.079 --> 01:09:32.359
my face. Right, HMM,
right, right, yeah, I mean

840
01:09:33.199 --> 01:09:43.199
I while I would love to say
that, of course, the the the

841
01:09:43.920 --> 01:09:50.920
okay, we fucked is definitely more
than two. You know that. I

842
01:09:51.039 --> 01:09:59.920
had a kiss, or we kiss
more whatever else. HMM, it's gonna

843
01:10:00.119 --> 01:10:03.279
Happen, like yeah, and I'm
going to have to find that woman too.

844
01:10:03.439 --> 01:10:13.520
That just like I'm like, you
know what, I couldn't, I

845
01:10:13.960 --> 01:10:19.720
couldn't let go her. But you
know, because of this, what,

846
01:10:19.920 --> 01:10:24.479
whatever happened? We can work through
this. We can't work through this.

847
01:10:25.079 --> 01:10:30.279
The the sex part, because,
and this one we talked about too long.

848
01:10:30.399 --> 01:10:33.600
Once that once, once you feel
like your cookie was taken or nothing.

849
01:10:33.640 --> 01:10:36.119
I got a taste of it,
it took a biite from it.

850
01:10:36.920 --> 01:10:43.760
It might not be yours no more, or you feel like you might have

851
01:10:43.960 --> 01:10:51.239
to reclaim it. Yeah, you
know, you do. You know.

852
01:10:51.560 --> 01:10:56.880
That's that's the surpride thing. Yeah, it is. You pay you pay

853
01:10:56.960 --> 01:11:10.680
more attention to a red or green
flags rid and the reason why? It's

854
01:11:10.760 --> 01:11:19.159
because I don't really have I don't
really know if I don't really know,

855
01:11:19.319 --> 01:11:24.880
if I even I can't say that
I don't pay attention to the green because

856
01:11:24.880 --> 01:11:29.600
I keep you do, because that's
what gets you interested in was supposed to

857
01:11:29.680 --> 01:11:33.039
get you interested in stiff other things. Yeah, yeah, supposed to.

858
01:11:33.760 --> 01:11:42.119
But I think red flags I pay
attention to more because we base red flags

859
01:11:42.239 --> 01:11:46.880
off of past experiences. So we
don't want to go back to those experiences.

860
01:11:46.920 --> 01:11:51.039
We don't want to relive that type
of shit with someone else. You

861
01:11:51.159 --> 01:11:56.079
know I'm saying, sence me,
so I'm going so I want to say

862
01:11:56.119 --> 01:12:00.760
attentions to the shit that looks like
that you used to stay away from.

863
01:12:02.520 --> 01:12:08.880
I got the T shirt already.
Okay, so let's play devil's advocate.

864
01:12:08.920 --> 01:12:17.800
All right. Why couldn't be the
green flags out weigh the Red Flags?

865
01:12:18.600 --> 01:12:27.840
Because because because we it can,
because we tend to go with the you

866
01:12:27.960 --> 01:12:30.640
know, the bad over the good. But the good can outweigh the bad.

867
01:12:31.359 --> 01:12:35.239
You know I'm saying in most I
think in most cases it does.

868
01:12:35.520 --> 01:12:40.800
I was answering the questions for us
way. Know you answer the right question.

869
01:12:40.880 --> 01:12:43.520
Well, you answer it what you
answered your way, which is right

870
01:12:43.640 --> 01:12:47.159
for you here. But I think
in I feel the same weight, but

871
01:12:47.279 --> 01:12:51.359
I think in a lot of circumstances
it can be different. So why are

872
01:12:51.600 --> 01:12:56.159
we looking more at red flags and
green flags and saying, you know what,

873
01:12:56.880 --> 01:13:01.520
this motherfucker got more pros and cons, or these pros outweigh these cons?

874
01:13:02.720 --> 01:13:06.079
But we so a lot of us, are more prone to see,

875
01:13:06.439 --> 01:13:14.720
you know what we've seen to two
pros. Oh, this motherfucker did something

876
01:13:14.840 --> 01:13:18.840
I don't complete. So I'll use
me for example. Okay, I'm out

877
01:13:18.880 --> 01:13:25.159
with this woman. All right,
she has displayed a bunch of pros that

878
01:13:25.319 --> 01:13:30.399
I love and like. All right, until she pulls out a cigarette Ay

879
01:13:30.479 --> 01:13:34.359
and start smoking. Now I'm like, yeah, nils, sir, we

880
01:13:34.560 --> 01:13:42.439
out of here right. One con
and it's a wrap. That might be

881
01:13:42.560 --> 01:13:45.600
your no shit. You know,
they might be your no shit. Can't

882
01:13:45.640 --> 01:13:49.720
deal man, deal breakast. You
are absolutely right, but that could be

883
01:13:51.000 --> 01:13:59.359
the soul mate u out OFM also
mates. Okay, just that one flaw,

884
01:13:59.840 --> 01:14:06.840
and all of us have flaws.
Said, we also all have no

885
01:14:08.119 --> 01:14:12.359
shit deal breakers. You are absolutely
right, and our our knows well,

886
01:14:12.600 --> 01:14:20.399
shout Ou know, shit deal breakers
be negotia. You know, I know,

887
01:14:20.640 --> 01:14:26.159
I know you, I know I
will not just me, but you.

888
01:14:26.479 --> 01:14:31.000
And Yeah, but you too.
You know the example that you just

889
01:14:31.039 --> 01:14:33.319
gave. I knew what it was
going to be. Okay, because I

890
01:14:33.439 --> 01:14:38.840
at the end of the day,
I understand you. HMM, Yanna can

891
01:14:39.000 --> 01:14:42.359
walk through bad. Oh, we
wink at you, we don't do it

892
01:14:42.439 --> 01:14:44.159
to me. You know. I'm
saying, yeah, talk to you or

893
01:14:44.239 --> 01:14:54.000
two she store, patent a passage. Hey, are patting, you know,

894
01:14:54.199 --> 01:14:57.840
saying that cigarette. Fuck. You
know. Yeah, yeah, you

895
01:14:57.920 --> 01:14:59.800
know me. I know. Yeah, I know that. I know it

896
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:03.119
about you. So I get it. No Shit, I mean we all

897
01:15:03.199 --> 01:15:06.359
have deal breakers, man, I
don't. For me, I don't know

898
01:15:06.560 --> 01:15:10.920
my I had to think about it, or my know all my deal breaker

899
01:15:11.199 --> 01:15:18.560
is like I don't like I just
don't like. Wow, caught my fucking

900
01:15:18.640 --> 01:15:21.800
that call. See, I don't
like that. Attention Secau. See,

901
01:15:21.880 --> 01:15:27.680
yeah, because that's what that is. Yeah, okay, I don't like

902
01:15:27.840 --> 01:15:32.920
that Shit. I'm cool that.
So I so. Yeah, so your

903
01:15:32.960 --> 01:15:36.039
deal breakers? No, it's not
up for debate. It's not up for

904
01:15:36.319 --> 01:15:44.000
no negotiation, none of that.
Oh Hmm. No, no, well,

905
01:15:44.079 --> 01:15:47.239
I why. I want to agree
with that. I would like to

906
01:15:47.319 --> 01:15:55.760
argue, but I can't. Yeah, I can't. Bro Tell me you

907
01:15:55.840 --> 01:16:00.760
got a motherfucker that. Oh yeah, that's matter of fact. I've known

908
01:16:00.800 --> 01:16:03.640
you for how long? I don't
even know. Normally. Well, yeah,

909
01:16:04.079 --> 01:16:06.520
this is two thousand and twenty two
weeks on each other. For Damn

910
01:16:06.560 --> 01:16:10.479
the teen years. Yeah, if
not ten, right. Yeah, is

911
01:16:10.520 --> 01:16:13.800
that saying to say? Yeah,
yeah, loosely, yeah, if my

912
01:16:13.960 --> 01:16:15.520
more. Yeah, yeah, right, somewhere around that. I go back

913
01:16:15.520 --> 01:16:20.439
to witter. Look at the right
right, so beare. But I never

914
01:16:20.520 --> 01:16:27.560
seen you with no younger that smoment. You have not. I've never seen

915
01:16:27.600 --> 01:16:32.720
you with a younger and smokes that
her. So I wouldn't expect for that

916
01:16:32.840 --> 01:16:35.960
to be a thing. MMM,
I know that. Should deal I know

917
01:16:36.119 --> 01:16:46.079
that. Yeah, Oh, so
there are no negotiables? Yeah, there

918
01:16:47.840 --> 01:16:56.680
there are, or there are nonnegotiable. So, okay, nonnegotiable. Are

919
01:16:56.760 --> 01:17:01.479
you? Are you going to marry
women? It's mom. So that's not

920
01:17:02.760 --> 01:17:06.359
right. So that's why I go. Should there be? No, it

921
01:17:06.439 --> 01:17:15.760
shouldn't. It should not be.
We all have feel right. Yeah,

922
01:17:16.720 --> 01:17:20.000
yeah, we do. We all
have deal breakers and the end of the

923
01:17:20.119 --> 01:17:24.600
day, Hey, if that's what
you if you know this is something that

924
01:17:24.720 --> 01:17:29.520
irritates the dog shit out of you
right the even whether it is right or

925
01:17:29.600 --> 01:17:34.279
you can't fuck with it, right
or wrong, you just not fucking with

926
01:17:34.479 --> 01:17:38.439
its gudgeon. Or yeah, it's
going to make you look at someone a

927
01:17:38.520 --> 01:17:42.359
different way based on what they're doing, and show ferrogative. But I'll sorry

928
01:17:42.439 --> 01:17:48.439
too. Shit that about for the
ride. Right. Yeah, right,

929
01:17:50.439 --> 01:17:55.760
because because where we are, well, we are accurate, premise ample,

930
01:17:56.279 --> 01:18:00.840
where we are. It's not it's
not cool, just no cool. Right.

931
01:18:01.399 --> 01:18:06.760
It's not cool to pop pills.
Right, but guess what, somewhere

932
01:18:08.840 --> 01:18:14.920
in the city, somewhere out west, the very people that we watch on

933
01:18:15.159 --> 01:18:18.199
TV, and you know I'm saying, we fucking our phonege of mouth at

934
01:18:18.239 --> 01:18:25.319
these some of the motherfuckers, a
Snort Cup oot told me I haven't had

935
01:18:25.359 --> 01:18:28.880
a good time. This is recently. I've had a good time until I

936
01:18:29.479 --> 01:18:32.439
if I haven't popped the pill.
That's what this lady told me, though,

937
01:18:32.680 --> 01:18:35.960
I saw you have not had a
good time until you pop the pill,

938
01:18:36.279 --> 01:18:43.359
Bro that's I'm saying. I I
have personally, personally seen and I

939
01:18:43.439 --> 01:18:45.720
will not put his name out there. We'll talk about it offline. HMM.

940
01:18:45.880 --> 01:18:50.680
I personally seen and know for a
fact that are very, very,

941
01:18:51.119 --> 01:19:00.600
very popular singer. HMM, getting
array of drugs right, you're coming into

942
01:19:00.239 --> 01:19:04.319
the venue that he was in,
m he or she was in, and

943
01:19:08.119 --> 01:19:14.279
but people love this motherfucking dirty drugs. Hmm, right, HMM. So

944
01:19:14.920 --> 01:19:18.560
again, I don't a deal breaker. I'm not going to. I'm not

945
01:19:18.680 --> 01:19:26.319
just it with no woman that snort
coke. Know, sy no, I

946
01:19:26.439 --> 01:19:29.560
can't do you not doing that Shit. No, I'm cooling it. Yeah,

947
01:19:29.720 --> 01:19:34.000
no, no, cooling it.
No. Um, actually, I

948
01:19:34.119 --> 01:19:38.720
probably be cool. Of all these
drugs, the ones that are exotic,

949
01:19:39.279 --> 01:19:44.039
LSD, coke, because LSD is
the sex drug. Okay, coke.

950
01:19:45.560 --> 01:19:49.399
Molly is another exotic. Okay,
you can miss me along the I don't.

951
01:19:51.359 --> 01:19:54.800
It is age. You can different
miss me off the molly and egg

952
01:19:55.520 --> 01:20:00.000
ex so I'm cool. But I
have deal with Elli without the EXHOS,

953
01:20:00.359 --> 01:20:05.800
okay, of the EXOS and off
the off the mob, and that I

954
01:20:05.880 --> 01:20:12.079
have before. Yeah, and she
was wow. Yeah, Um, am

955
01:20:12.119 --> 01:20:15.640
I right, old age right now? Now? No, no, today.

956
01:20:15.960 --> 01:20:24.800
Yeah, U. A girl's relationship, or how she dealt with men

957
01:20:25.840 --> 01:20:30.319
is based off of her relationship with
her father. You know what? How

958
01:20:30.439 --> 01:20:34.199
much weight does that hold? Rich? I think it holes heavyweight. I

959
01:20:34.319 --> 01:20:40.119
think it wholes heavyweight. And you
know whether whether, no matter how you

960
01:20:40.239 --> 01:20:44.199
want to, you want to cover
it up, or you want to,

961
01:20:44.439 --> 01:20:47.159
you know, act like it doesn't
Prot it. It means a lot.

962
01:20:47.520 --> 01:20:59.800
Okay, it means a lot.
Okay, so suppose it's supposed to be.

963
01:21:00.319 --> 01:21:03.680
Or said that, you know,
I want this. First loved her

964
01:21:03.760 --> 01:21:09.920
dad. HMM, yes, right, yes, yeah, first love is

965
01:21:09.960 --> 01:21:13.760
her daddy. Love like that.
You got two girls and a Grand Margaret.

966
01:21:14.079 --> 01:21:16.199
That's who, and I think that
and Granddad couzin. Yeah, I'm

967
01:21:16.199 --> 01:21:18.479
saying you got, you got,
yeah, you got in say, you

968
01:21:18.560 --> 01:21:26.840
got two girls. Yeah, and
right. So, based off of the

969
01:21:27.000 --> 01:21:31.720
dynamic of your family, your two
daughters, hmm, they, I know.

970
01:21:32.079 --> 01:21:35.680
They loved a hill out of you. M Your Grand Baby loved the

971
01:21:35.840 --> 01:21:41.399
Dusch Hell, I know, I
know this, right, right, yeah,

972
01:21:41.840 --> 01:21:44.119
at the end of the day,
that's the way supposed to be.

973
01:21:44.399 --> 01:21:46.560
Hmm, I have a daughter.
Hm, you know, I watched my

974
01:21:46.680 --> 01:21:50.840
daughter cry the other day because,
you know, we were separated. Yeah,

975
01:21:51.079 --> 01:21:55.640
you know me right. I know
that she moves a search type of

976
01:21:55.680 --> 01:21:58.520
way when she's around me. Okay, because she loves me, because she

977
01:21:58.560 --> 01:22:00.920
don't want disappointm. That's the way
supposed to be. So answer you a

978
01:22:01.079 --> 01:22:06.000
question. For those who don't have
father figures or or whatever case. Maybe

979
01:22:06.439 --> 01:22:11.359
I don't give a fuck what is
said, what you say, which try

980
01:22:11.399 --> 01:22:15.760
to portray. I know that has
an effect on I know. I know

981
01:22:15.880 --> 01:22:17.399
it does, true and I know
it. I know it personally. I

982
01:22:17.880 --> 01:22:23.000
seen it. Yeah, yeah,
I see and I know what you want

983
01:22:23.039 --> 01:22:25.560
to act like it doesn't. Know
it does, motherfucker. I know.

984
01:22:26.680 --> 01:22:30.000
Yeah, you're right, I know. So the question about it, and

985
01:22:30.119 --> 01:22:32.159
that's all I got to say about
that. Well, let me answer this

986
01:22:32.279 --> 01:22:38.640
question. We don't take it off
of us. Let's take it to the

987
01:22:38.800 --> 01:22:47.359
women that we have dealt with.
So and it ain't. Listen, okay,

988
01:22:47.880 --> 01:22:55.119
for people that listen and watch that
know you and know me, there's

989
01:22:55.199 --> 01:23:00.520
not that that know the younger us
to up until now. It's no back

990
01:23:00.680 --> 01:23:05.199
some somewhere and in our time,
like we've been dog ass nixt right,

991
01:23:05.560 --> 01:23:10.680
did of course. Of course,
some of the women that let you get

992
01:23:10.720 --> 01:23:16.319
away with whatever the fuck you was
doing. Is that indicative on the relationship

993
01:23:16.399 --> 01:23:19.279
with that they share with their father? I think do you think so?

994
01:23:19.439 --> 01:23:26.359
I think so. I think so. We're I think so. I but

995
01:23:26.479 --> 01:23:30.279
I've dealt with I've dealt with women
who have noble ship with their father.

996
01:23:31.039 --> 01:23:36.399
Women to have no male figure in
their life, that is a fact to

997
01:23:36.479 --> 01:23:44.479
figure. I've dealt like that.
So I and I'll probably say that they

998
01:23:44.520 --> 01:23:48.159
probably did let me get away with
much more shit when I was in my

999
01:23:48.279 --> 01:23:58.520
dog years. Yeah, I believe
it. I believe it. I believe

1000
01:23:58.560 --> 01:24:06.760
it. My fucking they got thinking
about it. We always, you know,

1001
01:24:06.840 --> 01:24:13.439
always talk about it, right,
our daughters, we taught our daughters

1002
01:24:13.479 --> 01:24:15.640
will right, we try our girl. We teach our daughters. We have

1003
01:24:15.800 --> 01:24:20.079
taught our daughters, single, purer, right, present, tip, past,

1004
01:24:20.159 --> 01:24:26.159
has whatever. Hum. But we
also know that's going to be a

1005
01:24:26.199 --> 01:24:31.640
knucklehead that's going to squeeze through the
crack. Yeah, always, all all

1006
01:24:31.720 --> 01:24:34.840
that, I said. Always it's
going it might be the first mosfucker.

1007
01:24:35.479 --> 01:24:40.399
That's a smooth if I'm saying,
because we was. Yeah, that's what

1008
01:24:40.520 --> 01:24:47.439
I'm saying, right, yeah,
right, right, right, yeah,

1009
01:24:47.600 --> 01:24:57.520
right. So, so I say
all that to say that that even your

1010
01:24:57.600 --> 01:25:02.199
babies, if they haven't already h
obviously your daughters are much older than my

1011
01:25:02.359 --> 01:25:08.720
daughter and they must daughter. Right, so I would imagine and that that

1012
01:25:08.920 --> 01:25:13.600
passion has already had her first heartbreak. Right, yeah, right, I

1013
01:25:13.640 --> 01:25:15.600
don't know if I should I don't
know. I should. I don't know.

1014
01:25:15.600 --> 01:25:20.159
I hope not, but I do. But I'm just what I'm just

1015
01:25:20.239 --> 01:25:27.720
saying, like if it hasn't happened, Hey, it hasn't happened. Right,

1016
01:25:27.840 --> 01:25:30.640
it has to happen. I want
to slay. Would have happened?

1017
01:25:30.720 --> 01:25:33.439
Yeah, right, even for scarlar, like it has been. I was

1018
01:25:33.560 --> 01:25:39.199
discolars from the other day, Bro
and she's eight years old, and it

1019
01:25:39.319 --> 01:25:45.560
said she had a text to her
friend. Said, why am I?

1020
01:25:45.279 --> 01:25:51.640
She said all y'all have boyfriends.
I don't. Right, right, HMM.

1021
01:25:53.000 --> 01:25:57.079
And of course I want to turn
to the whole it or slammish Shit,

1022
01:25:58.199 --> 01:26:00.880
but when I talk to her about
it, yeah, she said to

1023
01:26:01.039 --> 01:26:04.079
me, well, I know that
it is you don't want me to have

1024
01:26:04.239 --> 01:26:09.359
a boyfriend. Yet I don't have
no boyfriend. Okay, let's talk about

1025
01:26:09.359 --> 01:26:15.880
that. Okay, there was a
certain age when we were growing up in

1026
01:26:16.000 --> 01:26:19.560
that we were doing certain things like
that, having sex. What you have

1027
01:26:19.680 --> 01:26:25.279
a generation after us, a generation
after us, and then maybe we can

1028
01:26:25.359 --> 01:26:33.159
go with to your daughter's generations.
Okay, so her age is very young

1029
01:26:33.399 --> 01:26:40.439
to when you think about your age
like no. So so here's the thing

1030
01:26:40.560 --> 01:26:43.359
that I'm not equatet into six.
No, no, it's not, but

1031
01:26:43.680 --> 01:26:48.479
it once. But once we start
thinking about like girlfriend and boyfriend and like

1032
01:26:48.720 --> 01:26:53.159
even so. So just her sending
that text, I was thinking that,

1033
01:26:53.319 --> 01:26:58.439
like, was probably not our my
frame or scope of mentality at our age.

1034
01:26:58.680 --> 01:27:01.640
Shit, it was for me,
but it was. It was it,

1035
01:27:01.800 --> 01:27:06.399
and it was a PEA. It's
puppy love that worried about. Right,

1036
01:27:06.399 --> 01:27:10.439
even if I'm talking about having a
girlfriend eight or nine or ten,

1037
01:27:10.479 --> 01:27:14.319
I'm I'm not thinking about right,
but she's way more I promise you.

1038
01:27:14.479 --> 01:27:18.039
She's way more advanced at eight unders
then you were. So it's scary to

1039
01:27:18.159 --> 01:27:21.720
even think like when you so,
if you was to think about, okay,

1040
01:27:23.119 --> 01:27:26.800
once your daughter gets to whatever age
she's at, to where she started

1041
01:27:26.840 --> 01:27:32.159
having kids, and you're looking at
like your grandchild at to what age they

1042
01:27:32.279 --> 01:27:40.239
start getting into thinking about boyfriend,
girlfriend, puppy love, all the other

1043
01:27:40.279 --> 01:27:48.920
stuff, like wow, you know
I'm saying like, it's like, it's

1044
01:27:49.000 --> 01:27:56.199
like, but yeah, so,
so I mean her feeling that way and

1045
01:27:56.399 --> 01:28:03.840
like it is. I think.
I think ultimately, man, don't get

1046
01:28:04.039 --> 01:28:11.640
because I got out, got sidetrack. HMM. I do believe that if

1047
01:28:11.960 --> 01:28:15.119
you can, you could twist it
both ways. If, if a man

1048
01:28:15.279 --> 01:28:20.279
doesn't have some sort of lace shit
with his mother, you know, I'm

1049
01:28:20.319 --> 01:28:28.079
saying, like motherfucking might running rampant. You Go. Most men have times

1050
01:28:28.119 --> 01:28:30.399
of peers when they're run rampant,
recrd else. Right, right, you're

1051
01:28:30.479 --> 01:28:33.119
right, you're absolutely right. But
a person, but a man that don't

1052
01:28:33.159 --> 01:28:41.800
have his mama at all, he
might not respect women at all at all.

1053
01:28:42.039 --> 01:28:45.119
Oh yeah, he's might be straight
up. Just you know, I'm

1054
01:28:45.159 --> 01:28:49.520
saying, lets fucking the dog of
all dogs. You So, I'm saying.

1055
01:28:50.159 --> 01:28:57.079
Or if he has his mom in
his life, but his dad is

1056
01:28:57.399 --> 01:29:00.840
a certain caliber to wear, his
dad is doing what the fuck he want

1057
01:29:01.000 --> 01:29:05.960
with who he want, whenever his
mom lets it happen, then plays a

1058
01:29:06.039 --> 01:29:10.039
party your life, man, that
she plays a yeah, that shit plays

1059
01:29:10.039 --> 01:29:13.079
a part in the make up of
who you are, that she plays a

1060
01:29:13.159 --> 01:29:15.640
partner, makeup of of how you
view women. Right. So, I

1061
01:29:15.760 --> 01:29:19.319
saw my dad and what he did
and what he didn't do, and that

1062
01:29:19.520 --> 01:29:24.399
that shit play a big factor in
how I treated women for, okay,

1063
01:29:24.520 --> 01:29:29.119
long time, okay, very long
time. Okay, yes, no question.

1064
01:29:29.359 --> 01:29:35.800
HMM, of question. I agree
with a whole hardedly. I listen.

1065
01:29:35.920 --> 01:29:44.239
I oh I tried to be everything
for my for my girls, like

1066
01:29:44.600 --> 01:29:47.399
I'm my girls probably haven't heard me. They probably heard me curse. They

1067
01:29:47.520 --> 01:29:50.119
probably kind on one hand I'm inside
of her. Be Curse, but I

1068
01:29:50.239 --> 01:29:53.399
just I don't know, the certain
things I try to do in front of

1069
01:29:53.439 --> 01:29:58.399
them, around them, whatever else. Um, the women, I try

1070
01:29:58.479 --> 01:30:00.479
to keep to a minimum of wh
I introduce them, to, show them

1071
01:30:00.520 --> 01:30:04.560
to whatever else. But it's as
a single man and dating is kind of

1072
01:30:04.640 --> 01:30:08.800
hard because you want to have your
own life and do what you want to

1073
01:30:08.840 --> 01:30:11.680
do, and that's like naturally is. It's going to be what it is,

1074
01:30:12.199 --> 01:30:15.039
Um, but you also got to
have that talk and let them know

1075
01:30:15.279 --> 01:30:20.680
like hey, you know whatever,
you know what daddy does is, you

1076
01:30:20.760 --> 01:30:25.640
know whatever. However, you decide
to have that talk. Yeah, Um,

1077
01:30:27.479 --> 01:30:32.319
so you know that. That's my
stand. So that but passion is

1078
01:30:32.399 --> 01:30:35.760
of that age now to where the
passions be twenty three and that she's like

1079
01:30:36.279 --> 01:30:40.960
yeah, well, a month after
like wow, twenty three, yeah,

1080
01:30:44.279 --> 01:30:49.039
you know. So and and and
we just talked about, you know,

1081
01:30:49.159 --> 01:30:53.479
the heartbreak, like isn't great.
It ain't going to just be one.

1082
01:30:53.600 --> 01:30:56.359
It's like it's going to be a
couple times. Like they got to get.

1083
01:30:56.520 --> 01:31:01.000
Like, imagine how many times you
got your ass what by love before

1084
01:31:01.079 --> 01:31:06.279
the age of thirty, maybe maybe
even twenty five, like imagine, and

1085
01:31:06.479 --> 01:31:12.359
you just never said nothing. You
suck that shit up like snupt the snot

1086
01:31:12.479 --> 01:31:16.079
and and the tears and like like
I'm just hard Nigga, like love fucked

1087
01:31:16.159 --> 01:31:19.399
you up. Love, you know, I'm beyond I might be at different

1088
01:31:19.479 --> 01:31:31.119
love told my ass so dirty,
going on thirty seven years. Little told

1089
01:31:31.159 --> 01:31:42.199
my ass off twice. Okay,
so what? Well, twice, I'm

1090
01:31:42.239 --> 01:31:45.119
telling I told my ass off.
Okay, yeah, so heating type.

1091
01:31:45.359 --> 01:31:47.199
All right. So, nope.
Well, even the Times where you may

1092
01:31:47.239 --> 01:31:50.000
have felt a little something, but
you know what you was like. You

1093
01:31:50.039 --> 01:31:58.800
know what, because like so like
I can count on my hand, probably,

1094
01:31:59.880 --> 01:32:02.399
HMM, I'm willing to almost a
one hand. I can count like

1095
01:32:02.520 --> 01:32:08.039
how many girlfriends I have had,
like serious girlfriends, and that's included girl,

1096
01:32:08.119 --> 01:32:11.520
that's included marriage, but I mean
like serious to where I would saying,

1097
01:32:11.520 --> 01:32:13.760
you know, I was in love, but it's mother. Oh Yeah,

1098
01:32:13.800 --> 01:32:15.760
in love is different. Now.
Now, my my college, like

1099
01:32:15.840 --> 01:32:19.960
I said, my college, the
young lady, they only who I did

1100
01:32:20.359 --> 01:32:25.560
in college. Yeah, friends,
they know the young lady. That I

1101
01:32:25.760 --> 01:32:30.359
deal with in college. Right,
she gave me a dose for a young

1102
01:32:30.479 --> 01:32:32.520
lady. Now, yeah, a
young lady who what they would college.

1103
01:32:33.239 --> 01:32:38.279
She gave me a dose of that. motherfucking okay boy, yeah, you

1104
01:32:38.359 --> 01:32:43.520
feel me. Yeah, yeah,
I probably lost bout twenty potent. She

1105
01:32:43.640 --> 01:32:49.479
gave me a dose. She gave
her dose. So that in another situation

1106
01:32:50.560 --> 01:32:54.760
now. So it now. I
had them. Now. It's been times

1107
01:32:54.840 --> 01:32:58.239
to where I have like, you
know what, like, Oh my God,

1108
01:32:58.319 --> 01:33:01.600
this motherfucker could have been the one
like this. Shit be motherfucking bad.

1109
01:33:01.920 --> 01:33:15.560
But but yeah, Um, before
we get into these unapologized troops.

1110
01:33:15.600 --> 01:33:18.399
All right, and we had mentioned
grammy's what we talking my dreames, I

1111
01:33:18.520 --> 01:33:27.640
missed it. Just so much risk
and that or neck and risk. Push

1112
01:33:27.640 --> 01:33:31.439
your tea. Jay Z, you
heard it. What do your thoughts on

1113
01:33:31.560 --> 01:33:36.880
that? The Jay Z verse?
I saw your post. I'm with you.

1114
01:33:38.359 --> 01:33:42.760
I don't Meit. But you know
it isn't because we hold Jay Z

1115
01:33:43.520 --> 01:33:47.920
to a higher standard. Yeah,
but the verse is. But how many

1116
01:33:48.000 --> 01:33:54.319
times have we heard Jay Z talk
about if big was this? If you

1117
01:33:54.560 --> 01:33:58.359
you know, we've heard Jay Z. Yeah, exactly, we've heard him.

1118
01:33:58.479 --> 01:34:01.239
We've heard that. We see a
lot of more fuckers go like big

1119
01:34:01.279 --> 01:34:05.960
industry be the go crazy over the
FS. Yeah, you, you are

1120
01:34:05.960 --> 01:34:10.119
absolutely right. You understand. Right. He's talked about what if they if

1121
01:34:10.159 --> 01:34:13.680
they were still here? Right,
he would be right. We've heard it

1122
01:34:13.800 --> 01:34:17.039
before. I mean it sounds good, like you don't get a fucking but

1123
01:34:17.359 --> 01:34:20.960
UM, right, it's not that
like. It's not like it's all the

1124
01:34:21.039 --> 01:34:28.880
something new. It's not um and
everything else. And it was. I

1125
01:34:29.000 --> 01:34:31.800
think we get in there murder when
we hear a JAZ verse and it's like,

1126
01:34:31.920 --> 01:34:35.800
Oh my God, Jay z blessed
us with we haven't heard a verse

1127
01:34:35.880 --> 01:34:39.239
from him and Blah Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

1128
01:34:40.199 --> 01:34:47.920
So, um mass, you about
Jay cold and this is some please

1129
01:34:47.960 --> 01:34:51.039
different. I just thought about it. Have you heard the song with beer?

1130
01:34:51.279 --> 01:34:57.199
I have. What are your thoughts
on that verse? I like him.

1131
01:34:59.520 --> 01:35:04.279
It's cool or like, Hey,
let's take the bias out of it,

1132
01:35:04.399 --> 01:35:10.560
because he is a fellow Carolien,
he likes a Tory heels. I

1133
01:35:10.680 --> 01:35:13.079
mean, it's a lot of things
like about it. Let's take the bias

1134
01:35:13.119 --> 01:35:17.239
out of I think it was cool. Okay, I think it was cool.

1135
01:35:17.439 --> 01:35:21.319
I think it was cool. I
mean, HMM, the Jaco sits

1136
01:35:21.520 --> 01:35:25.760
is. He's so mellow and shit. In the past he's been so medow.

1137
01:35:27.239 --> 01:35:30.560
I like it. I like the
shit talking, grabbing his nuts,

1138
01:35:30.640 --> 01:35:33.119
Jacole. He does it very well. He's in the space. Now the's

1139
01:35:33.159 --> 01:35:38.119
Niggas like Hey, I'm it,
you're not. You know I'm saying and

1140
01:35:38.199 --> 01:35:40.840
that's what it is. That's what
I like. I was humble, but

1141
01:35:41.640 --> 01:35:49.880
it's time for me to take me
place. Don't Um what you think you

1142
01:35:49.960 --> 01:36:03.399
said. It's cool. I I'm
with how man I like is different because

1143
01:36:03.520 --> 01:36:10.600
of the different pockets he was in, and then he used a British accent

1144
01:36:10.840 --> 01:36:19.159
in certain places. Um, he's
so comfortable with giving you something different than

1145
01:36:19.239 --> 01:36:25.039
he gave you here and there,
and he can excel in it. He's

1146
01:36:25.079 --> 01:36:28.159
a successful, successful and he sounds
good in it, which a lot of

1147
01:36:28.479 --> 01:36:36.399
a lot of rappers aren't like that. Right. fact, the week before

1148
01:36:36.640 --> 01:36:45.159
less, I had, I think
Benny Song was playing him and many yeah,

1149
01:36:45.279 --> 01:36:51.720
him and Benny, and he was
like hold on, I yeah,

1150
01:36:53.039 --> 01:36:57.359
right, so, yeah, but
I yeah, okay, all right.

1151
01:36:57.479 --> 01:37:00.560
So you finished. I don't know
if you went back in like really wanted

1152
01:37:00.600 --> 01:37:03.560
to, like, hold on,
let me figure on what the Fuck I

1153
01:37:03.760 --> 01:37:09.439
missed in here what he's saying at
that moment. I missed. Yeah,

1154
01:37:09.600 --> 01:37:13.159
right, so I did. I
didn't catch it until then because I listen

1155
01:37:13.239 --> 01:37:19.159
that shit a whole. That's also
is saying Isaac Nowon the relativity of the

1156
01:37:19.359 --> 01:37:23.359
theory of whatever. Never, I
didn't catch it. And then you can,

1157
01:37:24.199 --> 01:37:25.960
even when you leave it, you
can go back and listen. You,

1158
01:37:26.039 --> 01:37:31.600
but I hold on. So just
off that small sample size um and

1159
01:37:31.760 --> 01:37:35.159
I had already say listen until further
notice, until I hear something else.

1160
01:37:36.520 --> 01:37:42.840
This is it right here. This
is versus you. You did. What

1161
01:37:42.960 --> 01:37:45.560
are you what are your thoughts?
Do I still feeling? Well, you

1162
01:37:45.680 --> 01:37:50.720
might not feel that way because you
might hear something different from me, from

1163
01:37:50.800 --> 01:37:59.960
somebody else. I still feel like
it is sore. So far I do.

1164
01:38:00.159 --> 01:38:05.840
I still feel like it is because
we had, sorry, we've had

1165
01:38:06.039 --> 01:38:12.840
any we've had conway. You Know
Conway. Yeah, conways, Kanye.

1166
01:38:13.119 --> 01:38:19.560
Conway got a tough we've heard this
done the two I haven't even paid a

1167
01:38:19.680 --> 01:38:25.239
chance to full yeah, fully,
because I'm not a subscriber to that platform,

1168
01:38:25.359 --> 01:38:33.039
but there's other out projects that we've
heard. First of why? I'll

1169
01:38:33.119 --> 01:38:42.199
say I'll say it's still it's still
the best person of the year. It

1170
01:38:42.439 --> 01:38:46.000
is, it is, it is, and it's. How we big enough

1171
01:38:46.079 --> 01:38:50.159
for Sheldon? Yeah, you recorded
here. Yeah, very very much so

1172
01:38:51.159 --> 01:38:58.119
it let you know, like I
would tell people that Benny be need to

1173
01:38:58.199 --> 01:39:01.760
butcher or come with the machine.
Mean not to the team which your favor

1174
01:39:01.840 --> 01:39:08.279
rapper ass up right, ripp them
party, right. HMM, that Jacob,

1175
01:39:11.680 --> 01:39:15.159
Jacob. You know, we will
get into the apolosire, but I

1176
01:39:15.279 --> 01:39:19.399
think when I'm over, as you
go for a feature, like he said

1177
01:39:19.439 --> 01:39:25.279
on many soul, this Nigga asked
before a feature he's about to see the

1178
01:39:25.399 --> 01:39:31.840
raft of a reaper. Y'All,
just stop asking this thing for bill.

1179
01:39:32.239 --> 01:39:34.720
I don't even like. I'm not
even be a fan, I don't listen

1180
01:39:34.800 --> 01:39:44.039
to be a but fucking this soul
that bruse might might make a rotation for

1181
01:39:44.119 --> 01:39:47.680
me just to hit. Like,
if y'all haven't heard it in the course,

1182
01:39:47.760 --> 01:39:54.399
I'm going to pick up anybody from
Carolina's doing it. Y'ally, listen

1183
01:39:54.439 --> 01:39:59.239
to that verse. Take hold and
beer, but unapologized truth, man.

1184
01:39:59.279 --> 01:40:02.560
Let's let's let's do it. Let's
get to it. Um, what is

1185
01:40:02.680 --> 01:40:18.000
the weirdest advice that you have followed
and never regretted. The ship followed.

1186
01:40:25.520 --> 01:40:29.600
So I'll go why you think about
so the weirdest revite advice I've ever received

1187
01:40:29.840 --> 01:40:35.960
at the time that I ask you
follow and never regret it, and to

1188
01:40:36.119 --> 01:40:41.640
this day this is a prominence,
saying it's cheaper to keep her. Right

1189
01:40:43.840 --> 01:40:45.680
back in I want to say it
was old four hund five, oh five,

1190
01:40:46.920 --> 01:40:53.159
excuse me. I was married,
going through a lot of stuff.

1191
01:40:53.520 --> 01:40:56.600
I talked to I talked to somebody
about it, one of my old Geeves,

1192
01:40:58.239 --> 01:41:01.159
and he told me. He was
like, listen, everybody's going to

1193
01:41:01.399 --> 01:41:03.680
keep telling you steaper to keeper is
cheaper and Blah, blah, blah,

1194
01:41:03.760 --> 01:41:08.920
whatever else. Happy Spouse, happy
life, all that other dumb shit.

1195
01:41:11.640 --> 01:41:15.720
But he said this one thing I
want you to think about, like your

1196
01:41:15.800 --> 01:41:18.960
sanity, your mentality, like your
happiness. What are you going to attach

1197
01:41:19.039 --> 01:41:24.920
that to? And he was like
you, you can do all this other

1198
01:41:24.960 --> 01:41:28.960
stuff, but are you going to
be happy to maintain or remain in this

1199
01:41:29.079 --> 01:41:32.000
situation like the rest of your life? And I thought about I'm like Nah,

1200
01:41:33.640 --> 01:41:40.199
and you know, I really I
the divorce I had already initiated and

1201
01:41:40.319 --> 01:41:44.680
push for it, but I was
having some second thoughts on it because you

1202
01:41:44.760 --> 01:41:47.399
know, at the time, you
know, we got to argument. I'm

1203
01:41:47.479 --> 01:41:50.159
like, you know, this is
not going to work. I think we

1204
01:41:50.199 --> 01:41:57.039
should divorce. I want a divorce, and she was with it. And

1205
01:41:59.800 --> 01:42:05.680
I I saw all these like bill
boys advertisements a contested divorce for ninety nine

1206
01:42:05.760 --> 01:42:09.239
dollars, blah, blah, blah, Blah Blah. I went that route.

1207
01:42:11.279 --> 01:42:16.199
The papers were served. She said
no, but you know, at

1208
01:42:16.239 --> 01:42:18.399
the time, you know, that's
when I saw. I have my second

1209
01:42:18.439 --> 01:42:20.399
thoughts. I'm like, well,
this one want to be with me.

1210
01:42:20.560 --> 01:42:25.359
I fought because, Um, prior
to that, like I really like fought

1211
01:42:25.439 --> 01:42:32.800
for this marriage because she didn't like
the military life, me being sent here,

1212
01:42:32.960 --> 01:42:35.239
sent there, blah, Blah Blah, whatever else is hurt, being

1213
01:42:35.319 --> 01:42:42.199
by herself, and she left me, which, you know, I fought

1214
01:42:42.279 --> 01:42:45.880
for her, like hey, look, it's not meet this army. You

1215
01:42:46.000 --> 01:42:48.800
know how it goes. You can
be deployed here, you can be deployed

1216
01:42:48.840 --> 01:42:50.760
that, you can get orders the
career, you got to go on the

1217
01:42:50.800 --> 01:42:56.720
company, all this other shit,
and that's what happened. So, you

1218
01:42:56.840 --> 01:43:00.600
know, once you know, but
every time we was together it was like

1219
01:43:00.760 --> 01:43:02.960
we was relearning each other. Yeah, and then once we learn each other

1220
01:43:03.239 --> 01:43:06.880
like the armies pulling me here.
So now we got to re learn each

1221
01:43:06.920 --> 01:43:12.119
other all the time, you know. So the dude, the guy,

1222
01:43:12.239 --> 01:43:15.800
told me that. I thought about
it and at the end of the day,

1223
01:43:15.880 --> 01:43:24.199
long story short or less long,
I really benefited from that advice because

1224
01:43:29.279 --> 01:43:31.560
eighteen years, years later, I
mean, could I have been happy if

1225
01:43:31.640 --> 01:43:36.159
we had just decided to push through
and work through it? Probably maybe not.

1226
01:43:36.760 --> 01:43:45.439
But Um, I didn't go through
the Oh, I divorced her.

1227
01:43:45.680 --> 01:43:50.279
I went through the struggles of her
destroy my life or whatever else I'm I

1228
01:43:50.399 --> 01:43:55.479
obviously think my life ended up a
lot better and I end up a lot

1229
01:43:55.560 --> 01:44:00.680
happier than I would have had I
stayed in the relationship. Okay, so

1230
01:44:00.840 --> 01:44:03.760
you saying, so you didn't take
the advice. Well, no, no,

1231
01:44:03.840 --> 01:44:08.520
I took the advice of listen,
do was going to make you happy.

1232
01:44:08.920 --> 01:44:12.399
Don't believe this, don't, don't
buy into this happy life, happy

1233
01:44:12.520 --> 01:44:28.319
life, happy wife, happy life. Tyler right thing. That was weird,

1234
01:44:28.439 --> 01:44:30.000
like at the time he was like, Nigga, what the fuck is

1235
01:44:30.039 --> 01:44:34.920
he tall? What are they talking
about? You know, it's so funny,

1236
01:44:39.840 --> 01:44:43.359
and I say it to this day. Bet Don't black. Okay,

1237
01:44:44.239 --> 01:44:47.399
been on black because once a fun
time out I was in that my say

1238
01:44:47.560 --> 01:44:50.760
of you know, Hey, get
you a good job, Uhum, you

1239
01:44:50.840 --> 01:44:55.560
know, get on UN, get
on somebody salary. Just that there.

1240
01:44:55.840 --> 01:45:00.840
Whatever the case, maybe right,
just fall into that space. But the

1241
01:45:00.920 --> 01:45:02.800
reality of it is instead, if
I bet on myself, the Times that

1242
01:45:02.880 --> 01:45:06.560
I have been bet on myself,
and I got it from my high school,

1243
01:45:06.680 --> 01:45:10.479
I got it from one of my
high school teammates, Manshout of Mike

1244
01:45:10.600 --> 01:45:16.279
Jay, but he's always say that
they don't black, they don't black.

1245
01:45:16.439 --> 01:45:20.680
Okay, don't black. And once
I started bit with myself, that's when,

1246
01:45:20.760 --> 01:45:28.199
not just monetary but period point blank, I started winning more. So

1247
01:45:28.359 --> 01:45:31.039
that's why, and and that's something
that I would say and do for the

1248
01:45:31.119 --> 01:45:41.880
rest of my life. My Damn
Soel, for sure, I'm with it.

1249
01:45:42.359 --> 01:45:50.760
Um M I. That was a
weird question because I like I didn't

1250
01:45:50.800 --> 01:45:55.920
even think about it when I saw
it, but I'm like weird advice,

1251
01:45:56.039 --> 01:46:00.880
like can I really like pinpoint of
think about like weird advice that I have

1252
01:46:01.239 --> 01:46:09.680
been giving or whatever else I'm I
don't know. Do you celebrate yourself enough?

1253
01:46:11.760 --> 01:46:15.159
Probably not, probably not. It
all depends. I had I have

1254
01:46:15.399 --> 01:46:18.319
pockets where I do uh Huh.
When I when I think about where I

1255
01:46:18.520 --> 01:46:23.920
where I've come from as supposed to
where I am right now. Like you

1256
01:46:24.039 --> 01:46:26.199
know, I could sit back and
I say, Bro, you did that.

1257
01:46:26.800 --> 01:46:30.680
Uh Huh. But also to very
sub conscious I think you know where

1258
01:46:30.720 --> 01:46:35.720
I am today. It's nowhere near
where I want to be. This is

1259
01:46:35.760 --> 01:46:40.920
in the finished product. I'm nowhere
need to finish product. So it's kind

1260
01:46:40.920 --> 01:46:47.359
of hard to celebrate those vitories.
And my mind it's because you don't want

1261
01:46:47.359 --> 01:47:00.479
to get complacent. Yeah, I'm
I don't think I do. I think

1262
01:47:00.520 --> 01:47:04.840
I do a little more than you. Yeah, because I'm hard on myself.

1263
01:47:05.039 --> 01:47:09.760
Well, but but you don't pose
any any accomplishments of anything on social

1264
01:47:09.800 --> 01:47:14.760
media. Talk about a lot.
I do here and there, but it

1265
01:47:14.880 --> 01:47:20.439
has to be kind of drug out
of me. Yeah, but you know,

1266
01:47:20.520 --> 01:47:26.239
I look at a lot of friends
to where they'll post new homeowner,

1267
01:47:26.399 --> 01:47:30.560
knew this, knew that, but
a new car got this, gout that,

1268
01:47:30.680 --> 01:47:33.039
and I just don't I don't know. I don't know if it's just

1269
01:47:33.239 --> 01:47:38.319
not being the social media type person
or just, you know, not wanting

1270
01:47:38.359 --> 01:47:43.319
motherfuckers and know what I got going
on. But I don't. I don't

1271
01:47:43.359 --> 01:47:47.760
think I celebrate myself enough, even
if it's just, you know what,

1272
01:47:49.720 --> 01:47:53.279
I got a promotion, or I
did this, I did that, I

1273
01:47:53.359 --> 01:47:57.039
had a good year. Let me, let me hum, let me go,

1274
01:47:57.239 --> 01:48:01.359
let me go to mom fucking Miami
and enjoy myself. I'm not going

1275
01:48:01.439 --> 01:48:04.560
to tell people why I'm in Miami, but posting pictures me enjoy myself,

1276
01:48:04.640 --> 01:48:08.239
have a good time. You know
I'm saying. That's me celebrate myself.

1277
01:48:10.159 --> 01:48:14.159
You know, I where. I
want to celebrate myself. Celebrate like come

1278
01:48:14.279 --> 01:48:18.479
home and the fuck that. You
know I went. Where's that? Home?

1279
01:48:20.439 --> 01:48:25.640
Home when looking? Went Home Looking. You know I'm saying. All

1280
01:48:25.720 --> 01:48:30.880
right, so now I don't.
I don't celeb myself. You feel like

1281
01:48:30.920 --> 01:48:39.520
you should. Uh, I got
good a little more. I think I

1282
01:48:39.600 --> 01:48:45.680
need you too. I think I
need to celebrate myself, enjoy myself and

1283
01:48:45.800 --> 01:48:56.119
my accomplishments a little more, because
it should, I feel like it should

1284
01:48:56.159 --> 01:49:00.720
mean more, you know, what
you do or what you accomplish, because

1285
01:49:01.640 --> 01:49:04.600
it's something that, I mean,
even even if you didn't set out to

1286
01:49:04.640 --> 01:49:08.560
do it, it happens. Yeah, no, I'm saying we have to

1287
01:49:08.720 --> 01:49:15.640
mind, we have to kind of
appreciate the smaller things. You know I'm

1288
01:49:15.680 --> 01:49:21.199
saying, and even ourself, because
it's not a it's not a lot of

1289
01:49:21.239 --> 01:49:26.960
times that you're going to get to
appreciate yourself or what you did or accomplished.

1290
01:49:27.760 --> 01:49:32.399
And I all these things mean more
to you, know, your family,

1291
01:49:32.600 --> 01:49:36.439
all the people, than it do
to you like me. Retirement,

1292
01:49:38.079 --> 01:49:41.359
you know, I'm like okay,
yeah, all right, but at other

1293
01:49:41.399 --> 01:49:45.319
people like brought listen, Ni,
I did eight years. I don't fuck.

1294
01:49:45.439 --> 01:49:49.239
You did twenty years and you don't
say every talking about well, it's

1295
01:49:49.319 --> 01:49:57.199
just because of the company to keep
man every yeah, you know everything.

1296
01:49:57.239 --> 01:50:00.479
Everybody is that their goal is to
retire. We majority of people right goes

1297
01:50:00.560 --> 01:50:04.119
retire. So it's not a big
accomplishment in their eyes, because we all

1298
01:50:04.199 --> 01:50:06.479
trying to do that. But when
you look, well, I mean for

1299
01:50:06.560 --> 01:50:11.800
me, it wasn't like the biggest
buff for them is like yeah, like,

1300
01:50:12.800 --> 01:50:21.560
yeah, yeah, those are two
in the same I need to yeah,

1301
01:50:23.399 --> 01:50:26.359
we probably should. We should do
something. Don't worry. When he

1302
01:50:26.479 --> 01:50:34.119
was a Niggas up and we outside
up. All right, what are you

1303
01:50:34.279 --> 01:50:49.640
more afraid of? Failure, regret
or not trying enough? Not Trying HMM,

1304
01:50:51.600 --> 01:50:56.840
not trying enough, because if you
don't really try like you don't put

1305
01:50:56.880 --> 01:51:00.239
you all into some shit in the
shoot. Go Your Way and who you

1306
01:51:00.319 --> 01:51:04.840
had a blame. You're going to
buy the language. So true. True,

1307
01:51:05.520 --> 01:51:09.960
get a by the language. So
so. If. And then I

1308
01:51:10.119 --> 01:51:15.119
think about, like, say,
the third order effects. You can see

1309
01:51:15.159 --> 01:51:17.039
here. Say you want somewhere,
you are, you see, you say

1310
01:51:17.079 --> 01:51:20.239
you want something so bad you could
taste it whatever, you feel it.

1311
01:51:20.800 --> 01:51:24.680
But if you look back at it
and you like hey, I didn't.

1312
01:51:24.720 --> 01:51:28.760
Did you really fucking try? You
really fucking put the working, really fucking

1313
01:51:28.800 --> 01:51:35.640
put the efforty and the answers?
No, little with it right, and

1314
01:51:35.720 --> 01:51:41.119
I don't like that fucking feeling.
So yeah, not trying to hard enough.

1315
01:51:43.800 --> 01:51:57.800
I would say failure, because I
think the the the me not succeeding

1316
01:51:57.840 --> 01:52:04.920
in something, I think will bother
me more than the other two. And

1317
01:52:05.079 --> 01:52:11.239
I'll just keep keeping little smallst scale. Even, for instance, like Um,

1318
01:52:14.479 --> 01:52:17.960
you, you and I probably have
friends that are just the supreme.

1319
01:52:20.399 --> 01:52:23.960
They have the supreme confidence in this
stuff or whatever. I was like.

1320
01:52:25.239 --> 01:52:30.359
We probably have homeboys that would probably
walk up to Rihanna or beyonest like Yo,

1321
01:52:30.439 --> 01:52:33.680
what's up, what's happening, like
I'm that Nigga. Okay, okay,

1322
01:52:33.760 --> 01:52:39.079
would you ever do that shit?
I wouldn't. Never either, you

1323
01:52:39.159 --> 01:52:43.479
know, saying because of the lack
of failure, but you never know what.

1324
01:52:43.640 --> 01:52:46.199
Well, of course we know they're
there and that's a kind of bad,

1325
01:52:46.319 --> 01:52:49.079
I guess, reference, because they
are taken right. But let's say

1326
01:52:49.119 --> 01:52:54.399
a woman on that level, that's
not take it. I'll probably still wouldn't

1327
01:52:54.439 --> 01:52:57.560
do it because I may be like, you know what, she not trying

1328
01:52:57.600 --> 01:53:00.840
to hear that. I'm instant to
be shot. Now. Well, I

1329
01:53:00.880 --> 01:53:03.680
don't do it because I would do
because I really don't shoot it when me

1330
01:53:03.920 --> 01:53:09.560
too. But I'll do that if
you had that confidence. That and I'm

1331
01:53:09.640 --> 01:53:14.680
not like you saying all confidence is
lacking, but I'm just not looking at

1332
01:53:14.760 --> 01:53:24.680
like you know. I'm saying like
it's hard to put in words. I

1333
01:53:24.760 --> 01:53:30.560
would never walk up to a beyond
seeing you like baby girl, like listen,

1334
01:53:30.760 --> 01:53:36.319
I'm know what shy I am the
one no saying. Um, I

1335
01:53:36.439 --> 01:53:41.359
think that that's I guess that might
be and that's on a smaller scale.

1336
01:53:41.479 --> 01:53:45.119
Probably that the the failure part of
me, just not to see them,

1337
01:53:45.159 --> 01:53:51.039
because I mean they're there's there's women, women I see walking down fucking broad

1338
01:53:51.119 --> 01:53:56.640
street. I'll be like yeah,
yeah, I'm hand, I'm cool,

1339
01:53:56.760 --> 01:54:01.880
I'm cool, yeah, I'm cool, but I probably should says some and

1340
01:54:01.960 --> 01:54:09.840
maybe you know, but who knows? Oh, no, but uh,

1341
01:54:12.199 --> 01:54:15.079
yeah, let's get another shot in
before we get up out of here.

1342
01:54:16.920 --> 01:54:23.399
We're going to get shots out,
in shots and bring my Nigga birthday and

1343
01:54:23.720 --> 01:54:35.000
right another episode. You'll listen.
We appreciate Y'all for everything. Y'All do

1344
01:54:35.680 --> 01:54:42.319
listen to us, the input,
all that good stuff. We going on

1345
01:54:42.520 --> 01:54:47.079
two years probably, and like three
or four months. Yeah, it's crazy,

1346
01:54:47.239 --> 01:54:49.880
and we come up on episode one
hundred, so we still got a

1347
01:54:49.920 --> 01:54:58.640
free'all. Something to do on that. Let's yeah, it's a journey,

1348
01:54:59.640 --> 01:55:04.680
damn, Bro. It's nice.
Yeah, it's a journey and we didn't

1349
01:55:04.680 --> 01:55:09.000
celebrate it. Now we celebrate.
We've don celebrate to birthdays. Only just

1350
01:55:09.119 --> 01:55:18.399
about crazy. But anyway. WHO. So shout out to the great that

1351
01:55:18.479 --> 01:55:21.359
in North Carolina, man, shout
to my baby, shout to my family,

1352
01:55:23.479 --> 01:55:27.199
shout out to all the supporters,
man, and the people that give

1353
01:55:27.239 --> 01:55:30.760
us feed back, like rid said, a you know, shout out to

1354
01:55:32.600 --> 01:55:35.479
a good summer man. You know
I'm saying, Oh, we outside this.

1355
01:55:35.760 --> 01:55:40.920
Yeah, listen, I tell you
leave. We outside this motherfucket summer.

1356
01:55:45.079 --> 01:55:51.079
Be Outside, you know. Promise
you, but, as always,

1357
01:55:51.159 --> 01:55:56.239
since the people, good people,
said that, I did not, it's

1358
01:55:56.319 --> 01:55:59.600
always man. Mental health is real, man. You know myself and read

1359
01:55:59.680 --> 01:56:01.600
you know, man, have be
subject man experts, but I can assure

1360
01:56:01.640 --> 01:56:05.640
you he come up on a net
on our personal ig's or facebooks. Are

1361
01:56:05.800 --> 01:56:12.359
you come up on the unapologetic the
PODCAST IG or facebook? That we could,

1362
01:56:12.640 --> 01:56:15.239
we would definitely do our best to
put you in a position to win

1363
01:56:15.319 --> 01:56:18.560
and get you to help that you
need, man, other than that dog.

1364
01:56:18.600 --> 01:56:21.079
I know you get ready to traveling
next couple days, man, so

1365
01:56:21.760 --> 01:56:26.560
be safe. Man. Enjoy yourself, though, do what you got to

1366
01:56:26.640 --> 01:56:30.920
do. I appreciate this. Is
it. No me, man, and

1367
01:56:31.119 --> 01:56:36.279
happy early, early to you than
even though I'm going to be out.

1368
01:56:36.359 --> 01:56:40.800
We might do an unapologized Friday.
You know how your schedule look. We

1369
01:56:41.000 --> 01:56:45.399
might just five and fifteen mins.
Maybe get a shot at to win.

1370
01:56:45.640 --> 01:56:49.079
Show you what I what I'm looking
at, what I'm seeing, but uh,

1371
01:56:53.840 --> 01:56:57.039
but Um, thank you to everybody. Man. We appreciate Y'all for

1372
01:56:57.760 --> 01:57:00.920
definitely, I mean, as we
just said it then it's a long journey

1373
01:57:03.520 --> 01:57:08.319
to even be close to two years
or even a hundred episodes, man,

1374
01:57:08.359 --> 01:57:16.199
that means a lot and honestly,
we miss some weeks. Right, we

1375
01:57:16.319 --> 01:57:21.520
miss weeks when we were going through
the change over, but I think maybe

1376
01:57:21.600 --> 01:57:26.079
three. They have been something else
probably about to yeah, there have been

1377
01:57:26.159 --> 01:57:29.720
some like weeks. So I doubled
up on episode and had some Bonus Shit.

1378
01:57:29.840 --> 01:57:32.279
So we kind of probably on track
a little bit. But I mean

1379
01:57:32.399 --> 01:57:39.039
just to like have a weekly podcast
and put out weekly episodes means a lot,

1380
01:57:39.159 --> 01:57:42.600
man, just for people, you
know, excuse me, the fuck

1381
01:57:42.680 --> 01:57:46.600
with us and just listen to us, and we going to continue to,

1382
01:57:46.800 --> 01:57:50.319
you know, give you us the
real us and then how we feel and

1383
01:57:50.439 --> 01:57:55.079
even try to expand it and get
into a different direction. We got to

1384
01:57:55.119 --> 01:57:59.279
record a voice over. That be
don't do after this. Okay, so

1385
01:57:59.399 --> 01:58:04.600
we can kind of try to monetize
this, but I've been thinking about this.

1386
01:58:04.760 --> 01:58:08.319
It but the longest, but I'll
be gonna do that. But they

1387
01:58:08.479 --> 01:58:14.680
thank y'all, and I definitely want
to think my daughter's, my parents and

1388
01:58:15.479 --> 01:58:19.840
just my follower not followers, but
family, anybody that really fucks with me,

1389
01:58:20.319 --> 01:58:27.640
and just my support system that helps
me out. I'm really big on

1390
01:58:28.600 --> 01:58:31.600
as a right now. Being to
what's happening, if y'all haven't told my

1391
01:58:31.720 --> 01:58:36.800
my stories, just the the black
man and who do he turn to?

1392
01:58:38.279 --> 01:58:45.000
How does he decompress, help himself
out, his mental capacity and everything else,

1393
01:58:45.039 --> 01:58:50.600
because I think that's one of the
biggest things that's missing right now going

1394
01:58:50.680 --> 01:58:56.600
on with will Smith and everything is
going on. So I'm big on that

1395
01:58:56.760 --> 01:59:01.399
right now because that's something I think
about daily, you know, to who

1396
01:59:01.479 --> 01:59:05.279
I can talk to? Drey is
one of the like main people I can

1397
01:59:05.359 --> 01:59:10.560
talk to outside of that when I
ask that question on my story for those

1398
01:59:10.720 --> 01:59:13.319
for those y'all to follow me.
You know, who can the Black Man

1399
01:59:14.479 --> 01:59:18.720
count on? You know, well, the broken black man, and it

1400
01:59:18.840 --> 01:59:24.479
shouldn't always be other other black men
that might be broken. How to fuck

1401
01:59:24.560 --> 01:59:30.079
do it look like for a broken
black man to, you know, reach

1402
01:59:30.159 --> 01:59:32.399
out to another broken black man?
Like a broken black man can't fix another

1403
01:59:32.479 --> 01:59:41.239
broken black so that's a big,
big, big question that we need to

1404
01:59:41.319 --> 01:59:45.920
think about and figure out. How
do we fix in our culture and all

1405
01:59:45.960 --> 01:59:50.279
his other stuff, like people get
leave this Nascar Shit along, like it

1406
01:59:50.520 --> 01:59:55.399
don't the to don't relate, like
let's let's stop it. Let's stop it.

1407
01:59:55.479 --> 02:00:00.399
But Um as always well, unapologetic
with filtered thank y'all for rocking with

1408
02:00:00.600 --> 02:00:05.039
us in twenty into another episode.
We will see y'all next week. Appreciation,

1409
02:00:06.359 --> 02:00:13.319
same time, same channel. We
Love Y'all. We out of here.

1410
02:00:18.640 --> 02:02:12.640
We out of here. You know
what it is when thanks for listening

1411
02:02:12.720 --> 02:02:15.600
to another episode of an apologetic to
the podcast. Don't forget to share,

1412
02:02:15.920 --> 02:02:18.079
like and subscribe. The better.
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