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My name is Iram Garcia.
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I'm here at the Huddle Talks at the Texas Democratic State Convention.
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Welcome.
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We got Dr.
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O.J.
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or Dr.
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Oyin Consola Gina Doo.
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Excuse me.
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Did I pronounce that right?
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You did good.
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That was amazing.
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Yeah.
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It's a really unique name.
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I love it.
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Where are you from?
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Tell us about you, Dr.
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O.J.
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Yeah.
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I'm originally from Nigeria, born and raised and moved here over 20 years ago as an immigrant.
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And just built a life in the United States.
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Actually, since I've been here, I've lived in Texas, Dallas, Texas.
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So I can say I'm a Texas native now.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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You're almost almost at the Hunter.
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I think I believe so because I do love, you know, Mexican food and all of that.
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It's similar to our cuisine, the rice, the beans.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, it's similar.
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So I absolutely love it.
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You know what?
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You say it's similar, but I I I've had some Nigerian food.
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I don't know if I can handle the spiciness in time.
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Oh, so yeah, spiceometer.
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I can no, I agree.
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Our spiceometer is way up there.
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And but when it comes to flavor, though, that's where we draw similarities because other cultures, the flavor, uh, yeah, but yeah.
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Yeah.
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Dr.
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OJ, you're running for Ellis County Commissioner Precinct 4, correct?
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Yes, sir.
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Why?
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Ellis County Commissioner Precinct 4.
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It's time, it's now, and I'm grateful.
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I don't take the responsibility for granted.
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But let me tell you a little bit about my background and how I came up to get into this place today.
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Yeah.
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Of course, starting out educated in Nigeria, I have a bachelor's in microbiology.
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The goal to come to the United States was to increase my education, which was getting a master's in psychology.
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Eventually, as I began to immerse myself in the culture here, I started just organically doing community mobilization, serving within the advocacy space because I identified a need with domestic abuse being an epidemic within my particular community.
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And that advocacy took me to setting up the nonprofit organization, the Honey Drops Foundation.
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And we've been working in that space for over 10 years.
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And in the course of our work, we were identified by United College Seminary to offer us an honorary doctorate degree based on our work and the framework we created within the domestic violence space, educating teenagers on teen dating awareness and also providing programs and initiatives around men against abuse because there was a huge gap.
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And there is still a huge gap.
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Men against abuse.
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Yes, there is still a huge gap in advocacy for men.
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So we decided to jump in and fill those gaps for our teens, our youth within the domestic violence space and our men.
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So I got my doctoral degree, honorary doctoral degree in philosophy and humanities so that that way the work we do can truly be recognized globally, which it did become recognized.
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And we now have the Honey Drops Foundation here in the United States.
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And we established a couple of years ago in Africa as well to extend the same framework into the African space to help teenagers and men.
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So you're international now with Honey Drop.
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That's true.
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By the grace of God.
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So my experience in that space, like, oh, you're a woman.
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Why are you advocating for men?
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Yeah.
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And I'm like, I'm a woman, I'm not just advocating for men, I'm advocating for people, period.
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It just happens to be that these men don't have representation in this advocacy space.
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Yeah.
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So I I will advocate for them.
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Now, becoming the next Ellis County commissioner is like, okay, that's another challenge to advocate for residents within Ellis County.
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Yeah.
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To break the mold of the white boys club that has existed.
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My upper my opponent, Carl Butler, has been in that office for over 15 years.
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Just like an auto repeat.
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The last time he was challenged to leave the office, for some weird reason, his opponent, who was a Democrat at the time, got redrawn off the map and redist redistricted, took him out of a precinct four.
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So he went back to being unopposed.
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And I'm like, okay.
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So it's time for someone to challenge the status quo to bring not new ideas, but evolving progressive ideas into Ellis County.
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And that's why I'm running.
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I'm a mom.
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I live in Ellis County.
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I have three children that go to school in Ellis County.
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Every decision that is made in the commissioner's court affects everyone in Ellis County from the bottom up.
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The crooked insurance companies have only one goal: to pay you nothing or as little as possible.
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Domingo Garcia, recovering millions for the hard-working people of Texas, including a$32 million verdict.
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Demand a legend.
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Demand Domingo Tehano Tough.
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Can you tell us how?
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Like, I feel like there's a lot of people out there.
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You tell them, hey, you know, you got your county commissioner or there's commissioner's court, and they'll look at you like, What?
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What?
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That is a fair question because most of us like, County Commissioner, do we have one of those?
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Yes, we do.
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And that's because our commissioner's court has done an awful job in bringing in the community to be a part of the process of governing our county.
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So the county commissioner is responsible for the county's infrastructure, roads, bridges, school crossings, um, drainage, sewers, things that make the county run on the residential and business side.
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Yeah.
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The county commissioner is also responsible for allocating your tax dollars, your budgeting, your money.
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We are responsible for millions, hundreds of millions of dollars that runs through the county, that ensures that all cities have what they need to run, to pay for things.
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We are responsible for allocating contracts, road contracts, building bridges.
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Who does these jobs?
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Do we hold them accountable?
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Are we ensuring quality control?
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Are we ensuring that the growing needs of the county is met with the right amount of infrastructure that is needed to, you know, accommodate the people that are moving into our community?
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Ellis County is growing in leaps and bounds.
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So we do need to have more infrastructure.
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We are also responsible for ensuring that we balance the books at the end of the year.
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We give account of how that money was spent.
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What is the justification of the money that was spent?
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And how is Ellis County doing?
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Are we in the red or are we in the black?
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Is your are your tax dollars going towards the things that really matter?
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Or are four, well, five people on the commissioner's court just deciding what happens just because it benefits a few people that they are in favor of.
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We don't want that.
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So the county commissioner's court does all those things.
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But I am running on integrity, accountability, transparency.
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And we're gonna change the culture to ensure that Ellis County is a local government that has the contribution and the impute and awareness of the locals.
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We the people.
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That's amazing.
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And you know, it's important that you mention what a county commissioner does because a lot of the Hanos, a lot of young people, again, they're not involved in their local elections.
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They don't know what their local leaders do.
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And you manage millions of dollars.
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I mean, at the end, if you were a county commissioner, if you get elected, like you will be managing a lot of what happens in the city.
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You said that one of your uh priorities was infrastructure.
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What do you what do you feel like Ellis County really needs right now?
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What do Ellis County commissioners need to do different?
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And what would you do as soon as you get into this position?
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We need to address the issue of our roads.
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A lot of our roads in Ellis County, because Ellis County has been a rural, it grew up from a rural community.
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Yeah.
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And now it's uh it's more urban than rural because we've had so many a lot of influx of families, businesses, and several other things that have now made Ellis County uh a destination county for so many reasons.
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In politics, in business, data centers moving in because Ellis County is now on the map.
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They know that there is a county that has great resources, but look.
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Not the AA data centers.
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We're still gonna talk about that.
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But look, bringing these people in to sap out all these resources is going to, in a few years, hurt us in the end.
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Because we need to address the issue of roads.
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Yeah, we need to ensure that all of those unincorporated roads become incorporated so that we can have alternate routes to schools so that schools, because there is a major highway that runs through Ellis County.
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And in the morning, it's it's it's a headache.
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Everyone's trying to get to work, kids are trying to get a school.
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If there is an accident, God forbid, by any chance, there is always a delay.
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Like I remember the last school year, we got many messages.
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Oh, the bus is gonna be delayed today.
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That should not be the case.
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So we need to address the issue of roads, provide more incorporated roads, make them accessible to different points within the county so people can move around with ease and speed.
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And of course, we, you know, with the roads that are not incorporated, bad roads, a lot of motorists are now paying more for insurance because their cars, the wear and tear on the cars, the effect.
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So now when you look at that and how it affects your dollars, because someone might be saying, Well, what's my business with that?
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Here's how it concerns you you are a resident driving through those roads.
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Your car will have more wear and tear.
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You will spend more on insurance for your car, you will spend more on gas, you will spend more on fixing your vehicle.
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That is how it gets to your pocket, and that's why it's important to have leaders who truly care to ensure that amenities infrastructures are updated as quickly as we are growing, because we do have the money, but how are we allocating these funds?
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And who are we allocating the funds to?
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Because again, I don't want to believe that the commission is there now just sitting down doing nothing.
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But I also think they're probably giving this contract to folks who they might not be able to hold to such a high level of accountability.
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So if the job is not getting done quickly enough or at the standard that it needs to be done, you might not be able to hold your friend accountable if your friend is the one who got the contract.
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I'm just saying, no accusations be made.
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Would you so like would you do like uh contracts?
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Would you allow bids on contracts?
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How would how would you try to change how the city contracts, who fixes the roads?
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It's a due process.
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Um the government does business with the the the population.
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So it's a due process.
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It's just being able to be there to know that, okay, are we verifying the businesses that are actually qualifying for these beats?
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Or is it just an autopilot, like, oh, certain people have always done it, and those are the people that should always do it.
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You know, and and that reminds me, you know, because city money, like, there's a lot of money that the city spends to maintain the city.
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And who gets those contracts and who gets that money is usually like the friends of the politicians, you know, like and one really good example was Trump and that reflective pool.
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You know, a lot of people were wondering why that was a they call them no-bid contracts, where other people can't they just assign it?
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Yeah, they just assign it to whoever they want, to their buddies.
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Like Trump founded his construction buddies and was like, hey, I'll pay you millions of dollars to fix the pool, and now it's a big mess, right?
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And and and that happens at the city level too.
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A lot of people are worried about it at the federal level, but at the city level, our city funds go to contractors that are friends of the people that are in government, and you know, ultimately that leads to a lack of accountability, you know, there's less transparency, and obviously there are probably really good business owners out there that deserve the job that didn't get it, you know, just because so-and-so commissioner was friends with, you know, the contractors.
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So that makes a lot of sense.
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And um in the domestic violence space, you know, I I know you've made a lot of progress with Honey Drop.
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What are some of the cultural barriers or or the cultural like why why have you seen an Ellis County like domestic violence?
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Or what do you think drives it?
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And what is the solution?
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Like why what do you think would drive us to reduce domestic violence rates?
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Domestic violence is not just a cultural thing, it's a human problem.
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One of the things that I believe drives it and makes and has made it such an epidemic in our lives over decades, and now it's moving into the next generation is the culture of silence.
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Yeah.
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So, of course, within black communities, brown and black communities, we we can always testify to the fact that what happens in the family gotta stay in the family.
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You want to disgrace the family.
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Do you want us to, you know, people to look down on us?
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And I want to tell you that it's not just in the black and brown families, it's everywhere.
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It's a human thing.
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You know, these things are happening.
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You look at high-level individuals who are, you know, well positioned professionally, and you assume, oh, their life is good.
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That they might be going through the issue of domestic violence, but they can't talk about it because it's like if I say something, who's gonna believe me?
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How are people going to perceive me?
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I think where the solution has to start, and has always started for us at the Honey Drops Foundation, is when you see something, you say something.
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Speaking up is the first step so that you can get the help that you need.
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Because one of the things is a person who has been abused psychologically, there is this cycle of repeated abuse that would happen where even when you try to help the person, they have been psychologically programmed that we have to get them out up to seven times before they finally decide to permanently remove themselves from that situation.
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That is, if they don't end up losing their lives in the process.
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I appreciate that you mentioned, you know, the seven different times.
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And it's a nuance that I think a lot of people miss, you know, like a lot of our folks will think like, well, she stays, so she probably wants to be abused or something, but that's not true.
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Like, there's a lot of nuance to it.
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You know, there's, for example, we live in a patriarchy, you know, a world ran by men, and so usually men are the breadwinners.
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And if you have a family and you have kids and your husband's abusive, but he's the one bringing home the money, you can't just leave.
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You know, you can't just up and leave.
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Your children are gonna suffer the consequences.
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It's complicated, you know, and it takes a lot.
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It takes a lot of things.
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It is complicated, and the people have to understand that domestic abuse is not just a thing that happens suddenly, it's a psychological process.
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There is eight levels of um getting to the physical abuse.
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So there's the grooming stage, there's the stage where the abuser is doing all of these things to reprogram their victim.
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And once they get through all of the eight levels, now they're getting to the physical part.
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There's the verbal abuse, there's emotional abuse, there's financial abuse, where you know, there's isolation that happens in that process that gets that person cut off from people and things that could easily help them get out of those situations.
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So when you look at a person who feels who you feel is a victim but doesn't supposedly want to help themselves, it's not because they don't want to help themselves.
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It's just because they have been put in a situation where they have become helpless.
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And that's why advocates like myself, comedian advocates like Honey Drops Foundation, had to become the voice to for those people.
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There are men who are being abused who would tell me, Oh, this is happening to me, but I can only talk to you about it.
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I don't want anyone else to know about it because society has said, men don't cry, men don't talk about stuff, suck it up, take it, deal with it.
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You're a man.
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No, everyone who is undergoing some type of abuse has a right to get help.
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However, everyone gets or receives the help in their own time.
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The best thing we can do as a community, as a family, as a society, is always stay ready to be there for them.
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Don't ever get to the point where you say, Well, I try to help you once, I try to help you twice, I'm done.
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Don't ever be done.
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Because when that person is ready, be ready to offer that help to them.
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That's the only way.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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And and and the other thing you said is it takes a village, right?
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This is really a community effort.
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Like people don't get themselves out of abusive situations on their own.
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If you see something, say something.
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Say something.
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And it doesn't mean it doesn't just mean if you're the one being abused, say something.
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It's like if you see somebody being abused, you should intervene.
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You know, that that's how you said speaking up is is how we solve, you know, or we start to solve the issue of domestic violence.
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Uh Dr.
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O.J., I I really wanted and I was fascinated by your story, you know, your personal immigration story, coming here to the United States.
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Like, tell me how that was.
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Like, how was it?
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You went to the University of Lagos, which is in Nigeria, I'm guessing.
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So your microbiology, then you needed to get your master's and your PhD.
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So you came to the United States to further education.
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Yes.
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Tell us about like the hardships of that journey.
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Like, what did you go through having to come from one country to another?
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So, yes, I ha ha being an immigrant is uh see, every immigrant story has a different face.
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Yeah.
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But every immigrant story has the same underlining things.
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We all come from a place where we're familiar to a new place, and we all want to just have a better way, a better opportunity.
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We want to access things that we probably don't have where we came from.
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That is the underlying thing.
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And everyone has to go through the immigration process.
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Yeah.
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I had to go through that.
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You know, transitioning from being an immigrant to being a naturalized citizen, that was a process I had to go through.
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And every immigrant has to go through that.
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You know, starting fresh.
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Because no matter how well established you are, where you came from, if you come to a new place, you're starting from ground zero.
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And that's what I had to do as a student, then eventually having my family and building up literally from the ground up here in the United States.
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And over 20 years later, we're running for county commissioner.
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Who would have thought?
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You know?
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Yeah, and and you have a PhD.
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Yeah, we have a PhD.
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And that was due to the work that was being done.
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Because I was raised by parents who have always taught me to serve.
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You always serve wherever you go.
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You know, I'm I went to another city and I was, you know, doing some work over there, and I was like, I need to have find the church to go when I'm here.
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And I I got in there, I was like, oh, can I serve?
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They're like, you're new.
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I'm like, yeah, but it's church.
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Let's serve.
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I love it.
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I tell you, the pastor was so shocked, he was like, nobody ever does that.
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I'm like, I come from a culture, a legacy of you serve.
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You always serve first.
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And permit me to say this: this is what we need to do as politicians.
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Get into that space to serve.
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As the Democratic Party, we're talking about, we're doing this top-down election and campaigning and cooperation.
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The reality of the matter is it really doesn't matter how much we talk about it.
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If we're not about serving each other, if the top candidates are not looking to serve the middle and the bottom candidates to ensure that we all win together, this whole top-down approach, it's not gonna work.
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I'm sorry.
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We have to be very realistic in talking about these things.
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When we're doing all these political things, what makes the far right better than the far left?
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It's the approach in serving each other.
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How are we doing things better as Democrats?
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Why do we deserve to be elected into those offices?
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Is it just because we are the alternative?
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Because I'm not just gonna say Carl Butler is uh a Republican, so kick him out of office, put me in there because I'm a Democrat.
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No.
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I will say I am coming into that office because I have a heart to serve my people.
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I have been serving, I have the track record of service.
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And that is what is going to qualify me above Carl Butler to take in that commissioner's court to the next level.
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So Democrats need to do the same thing.
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If we're gonna do this top-down approach for this campaign to get to November, we need to get it right.
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The top candidates help the middle, help the grassroots level candidates.
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Make sure we are all trickling down all of the resources to make sure we all wing together.
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Let's get out of the celebrity candidacy where, oh, there's some down the they're they're out there, and then the rest of us just need to figure things out on our own.
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To me, that is no top-down cooperation, coordination, what we're calling it.
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Right now, it just seems like a lot of talk.
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I'm sorry.
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I had to I had to get that because we're the black and brown grassroots level candidates.
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We're the ones like we're coming in here, we're putting ourselves out there.
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I know you'll say, Well, nobody asks you to do it, but we're doing it because we truly want to serve and we want to represent our people.
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There needs to be more representation.
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But in order to really flip this seats blue, the top candidates are going to have to do more and do better.
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Do more than just giving speeches and talking.
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I yeah, I mean, look.
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I love what you said about leadership, and that's that it's servitude.
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You know, everybody wants to be a leader.
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Everybody wants to be a top dog because they feel like they're going to be first in line.
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But no, being a leader means you're last in line.
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Because you're there to make sure everybody gets in first before you do.
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Yeah.
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And, you know, I hate that perception.
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You know, there's a lot of ego involved in, you know, our politics, and unfortunately, a lot of greed as well.
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But I'm I'm happy that, you know, you're calling it out, Dr.
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OJ, that you're running to, you know, try to end that.
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Because personally, I feel like that's what most people are upset about with the system.
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It's not red, it's not blue, it's a bunch of selfish people that pick up the city.
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Because even with our blue system, we have all our ticketed campaign and all the people on the on the on the billboards who are celebrities to us.
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And I'm sorry, you should not be a celebrity.
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You should be a servant leader.
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You should not be the one with the bodyguards and the and the protocols.
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You should be the one going to say, hey, county commissioners, hey, judges, hey, councilmen, councilwomen, what do you need?
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How can I help us flip the sit blue?
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While I'm up there trying to get that Capitol seat, let me help you get this grassroots seat so that we can all get in there together and do what needs to be done.
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I'm sorry.
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That should really be the priority.
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Not you trying to make a celebrity entrance everywhere you go, not you trying to be the first name to be heard, not you trying to be the only voice to be heard.
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It's really being the voice that says, How can I help?
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What do you need?
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Don't go into places making an ask and saying, I need you.
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Oh, you need us, you're already there.
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So if you're telling us you need us now, when you get there, what is the what is the responsibility that we're gonna hold you to to say you're actually gonna go there to work for us?
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If we put you in that office, if you're not serving right now, why do you deserve to serve after elections?
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That's a question I need all our democratic leaders to answer.
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Because I'm like, okay, why are we here?
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We're over here at the bottom just scraping for stuff, all of my brown and black sisters and brothers trying to raise money for their campaigns, and we have all these top-ticket leaders who are raising millions and millions and millions, not thinking of the fact that these candidates need help.
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How can we serve them?
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Let us lay the example, let us show them the example so that that way we can prove to our country that we are here to serve the common people.
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Yes, ma'am.
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I'm sorry.
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No, you don't have to apologize.
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Look at actually I'll point this out.
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I'll point this out, and and it's something that I don't like about our society, is that like women, advocates, especially black women, feel like they need to apologize when they speak their truth.
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I'm apologizing because it seems like I just took the conversation.
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But I'm like, these are the matters.
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These are the matters that really matter.
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These are the conversations that matter right now.
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If we're a convention and we're not talking about these issues, and we're just here taking pictures, we're just here chasing politicians, we're just here doing all of these things, then why are we at convention?
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Yeah.
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No, exactly, which is why you shouldn't apologize for speaking, because this is the right time to take the mic, and you're the right person to do that.
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I mean, the rector's like, bring it down, but she knows when I get passionate, I'm like, I'm gonna wall it.
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Bring it up, bring it up, bring it up, get bring the energy higher.
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That's what's that's literally what the Huddle Talks is about.
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Look, look, the Huddle Talks came because we believe in the little person.
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You know what I mean?
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We believe in the person that came from nothing, built, you know, because all these people that have things already built for them and for them, like they don't appreciate or understand the struggle.
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And and I think that, you know, the struggle and and under like the immigrant struggle, having to build your business from the beginning, like teaches you a lot about leadership.
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It teaches you leadership and servitude.
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That's where if you don't work for what you have, that's where you get confused and you think that you should go first as a leader, right?
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That's where you get the ego.
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Dr.
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OJ, if we want to learn more about you, if people want to support your campaign, how could they find you?
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All right, guys.
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So my name is Dr.
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OJ, and I'm running for Ellis County Commissioner.
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My campaign slogan is we shine the light for a reason.
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Because I'm running on integrity, accountability, and transparency.
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You need to help me flip this seat blue by voting for me.
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Register to vote.
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Make sure you tell everyone around you to register to vote.
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But I also need you to donate to my campaign.
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At Dr.
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OJSpeaks, the number four, Texas.com.
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Make a donation to my campaign so that we can get to doing the work in November.
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The reality is local government directly impacts state and federal government.
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The effectiveness of our government starts from the local level.
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So I want to call everyone out there to support local government candidates.
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But most importantly, in this election cycle, I want to tell you this it's important for you to vote blue all the way.
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That means when you get to the polls, vote Democrat from the top to the bottom.
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Don't stop at the top because those are the people you've seen on the news, on the billboards.
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Make sure you vote Democrat in your counties from the top.
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Make sure you check it all the way to the bottom.
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That is how we flip Texas blue.
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That is how we change the narrative.
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That is how we get to shine the light.
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My name is Dr.
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OJ running for Ellis County Commissioner, and I look forward to seeing you at the polls.
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Thank you so much, Dr.
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OJ.
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What a pleasure to have you here on the AutoTalks.
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I'm glad you brought the energy.
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I'm glad that we have you running for commissioner.
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You know, and she's right.
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Look, if you care about your community, you're not gonna stop at the presidential elections, you're not gonna stop at the cool, fancy congressional elections, you're gonna go all the way to your local elections, you're gonna look at the railroad commissioner at the precinct, you know, you're gonna look at every single election and you know, vote Democrat or vote your values.
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It could be an independent, I don't know, but you know, it's important that you get involved and you get informed about these elections because Dr.
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OJ, once she's a commissioner, she'll be in charge of roads, flood mitigation, you know, there's there's so many things that are commissioners of millions of dollars, right?
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And so hundreds of millions.
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Hundreds of millions of dollars.
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So, Dr.
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OJ here with us on Tejano Talks, thank you so much for being here.
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I really appreciate all your energy.
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Thank you, Tejanos.
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We are together.
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We are one family, black and brown and white and yellow.
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We are one family in Tejano Talks.
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Thank you so much.
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I appreciate it.
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