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In this episode of Relatable Wisdom, I sit down with Brandon Barnum, CEO of HOA.com, to talk about a simple but powerful life lesson: ask to get. Brandon shares how this idea was shaped by his mentor, Mark Victor Hansen, and how being challenged to write down 101 goals led him to get deeply clear about what he wanted in life, his purpose, and the kind of impact he hoped to make.
Our conversation explores why asking is not just about requesting something from others. It begins with asking yourself what you truly want, what you are willing to sacrifice for it, and how clear you are when you communicate it. Brandon shares how this applies in business, relationships, faith, referrals, community, and everyday life. We also talk about the courage it takes to ask for help, the importance of trust, and why serving people well changes the way we ask.
This episode is a thoughtful reminder that asking is not weakness. Sometimes it is an act of clarity, faith, humility, and connection. Whether you are asking God for direction, asking a client for feedback, asking a partner how you can love them better, or asking your community for support, Brandon reminds us that if we do not ask, the answer is already no.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction And Welcome
00:24 Meet Brandon Barnum
00:36 Ask To Get
00:53 The Mentor Who Taught Brandon To Ask
01:33 Writing 338 Goals In Hawaii
02:17 Getting Clear On What You Want
03:07 Purpose, Faith, And Asking God
03:32 Why Clarity Matters When You Ask
04:51 AI, Asking, And The Aladdin’s Lamp Example
06:59 Understanding The Cost Of What You Ask For
07:16 The Art Of The Ask
08:05 Setting The Stage For Referrals
08:38 Listening For Referral Triggers
09:24 Why Asking Takes Courage
10:30 Relatable Wisdom Newsletter Break
11:07 Asking In Relationships And Family
12:57 Asking For Reviews And Referrals
14:09 The Ask To Get Framework
15:08 Knowing When And How To Ask
16:18 Why Cold Pitches Often Fail
16:44 Trust, Referrals, And Business Relationships
18:08 Recommendation Versus Endorsement
19:43 The Power Of Honest Reviews
21:43 Trust In The Age Of AI
22:06 What HOA Means And Why Community Matters
22:40 Unity Through Community
23:34 Asking For Help Even When It Feels Vulnerable
24:40 Asking As A Gift To Others
25:17 If You Don’t Ask, The Answer Is Always No
25:56 Where To Connect With Brandon
26:33 Be Interested Instead Of Interesting
27:20 Closing Reflection
