WOMENS WEDENESDAY: Avoiding Abductions & Assault w/ Sara Hathaway

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Welcome back to the Changing Earth Podcast with author Sarah F.
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Hathaway and co host Chen Gibson, blending survival fiction and
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fact to bring you entertaining education that will help you dream, survive,
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and thrive. And now here's your host Sarah F. Hathaway
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and Chen Gibson.
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Hello, and welcome back to the Changing Earth Podcast. I
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honestly have no idea what episode number we're on. Hey, Jim,
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what's up?
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It's up you all.
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So we've just been racing around like checking with our
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head cut off because of good to old Prepper Camp
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there and back and around the world again. And man,
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it was a fantastically blessed year this year. Amazing, amazing
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experience on all love.
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Yep, it was a very good, very good year.
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Yeah. Weather was you know, in and out goodness. We
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could have asked for like a little bit better.
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But nothing it wasn't Yeah was nothing.
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Uh sure, it's were a big hit. Jesus was ever
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so present and it was just a great time. You
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guys got to make it out there. If you haven't
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been out to Prepper Camp, you are missing out something
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years because we just have a blast out there every
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year like Friday, get your tickets, right, yeah, yeah, no,
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I gotta get on and get my campsite. So we're
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slowing it down today kind of we're breaking form from
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our traditional show because I really wanted to present my
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anti kidnapping, anti abduction, and sexual assault class to y'all.
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Uh getting ready to be the holiday season was reminding
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me of that, and it's great content, and I wanted
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you all to have access to this, and then I
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wanted everybody to be able to have free access to
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all the video in the future, so that when you
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need to come back and review what's going on. I
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had a lot of requests for it from Prepper Camp
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to be able to watch my presentation without sitting in
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the class, being able to go back and review things.
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So today we won't have any change in Earth news today.
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It has been wild out there North Carolinas getting hit
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right now. I looked at the earthquake numbers. Today we
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have forty three erupting and like forty two showing minor activity.
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We're up to one hundred and ten volcanoes on our planet.
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You know, just months ago, twenty nine was a big deal.
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I have twenty nine erupting was like wow, Okay, crazy,
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and it seems like every month we're just up and
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numbers now, which is really insane. H. So we'll see
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what what becomes of it, you know, a curl, cooler
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planet whatnot. We've also been in geomagnetic storm for a
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long time with no apparent reason for that activity, which
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is not a good sign as well, with pink auroras
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going crazy, which is very unusual. No CME production yet
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we're in geostorm situations, so that's also really really concerning.
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Its eyes wide open, you know. I always tease that
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it's a race the people versus the planet. What catastrophe
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is going to happen first? And yeah, the planet is
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definitely swinging hard right now. So everybody stay vigilant for
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your area, stay prepared like you are, do all the
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good stuff that you know how to do. Alrighty, So
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I'm going to be doing a lot of talking today.
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I welcome on any kind of questions on the live chat,
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but also chain feel free to you know, interrupt me
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and run any kind of questions by me. I'll just try.
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I didn't check the mail today. Was I supposed to
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go down and get like duct tape or zipiz?
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Ye?
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Know, we're not putting on TV.
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Okay, no bugs, no duct tape, no zip tizes.
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Good recorded, So as far as that goes, yeah, uh yeah.
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The reason why I don't do them live, and I
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tell everybody this, the reason why I don't do the
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escapes live every time is because they hurt really bad.
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That rips all the hair off your arms and usually
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leaves me pretty good and bruised for a while. So oh,
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especially when I'm at Harper Camp, I can't do it
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three days in a row. I mean I could, but
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you know, for the sake of my body, I don't
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do it three days in a row. So I have
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that recorded and we'll go over the once we get there.
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So I like to just kind of start it out
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with a video that I put together and it's just
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really a summary of me and my martial arts experience,
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so you know, kind of where it's been. I've been
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training martial arts for a long time. We'll get more
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into that, but we're gonna go ahead and start out
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with that video.
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Starting young this class side.
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Learning grace in the rest like.
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In segretary, inside buildings, Changay.
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In the Victor, a.
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Freak coming inside as artect, what right down hard on
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the massic food. But that's spark inside rules for more.
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Styles that twip to those that break every lesson, no
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room for fake contegrity holes to sled in pain. Victory
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come falls again in a case fase burnt so broad
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through every challenge into the left courtesy guide, spirit unbroken.
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The warriors pass forever. Spot can look at the claim
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vecor nothing wild back back to the fires higher as
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an able claim the victory not.
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So there we go just a little bit about me
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and my martial arts experience, all the all the different
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forms that I've trained and everything. I like to use
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it as like a tension breaker because this class is
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pretty difficult, not only to teach, but also the material
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to go through. And the devil, you know, always tests
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me every time that I go to teach this class
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in some way or another, and that's how I know
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I'm really doing the Lord's work. So I just put
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the video together to be a you know, a little
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tension breaker at the beginning, right, I'll get everybody smiling
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and having fun, all right, So let's go ahead and
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jump into it again. I'm dealing with technology, so be nice.
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Sarah's the one man's show wow with ten.
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But I gotta get you more to do more tech.
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Yeah yeah, alrighty. So avoiding abduction and sexual assaults this
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is huge topic in our world today. We have a
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lot of instances, a lot of really gross things going
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on these days. So when Rick asked me to teach
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this class, originally I was like, yeah, let's do it.
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Let's let's I already teach a lot of it myself
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defence class. Let's go ahead and do you know, break
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this material out and make it really its own class.
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So I grew up a country girl shooting rifles and bows.
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It was always an athlete. I began training martial arts
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in two thousand and two with koukol Wan, but I've
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trained taekwondo, both Moodi Kwan kuki wan style, close quarters commat,
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Brazilian and Japanese jiu jitsu sports, jiu jitsu MMA. What
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am I missing?
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Oh?
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And now I'm doing crav as well. So just kind
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of run the gamut on everything, And everybody asked me,
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you know, what style would you prefer somebody to train?
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Because I always encourage everybody to get out and train.
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There's schools everywhere, they get free trials and it's you
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can see from from the video that I played, you
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know how much of a family uniter it is for
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us to all do this together. So I really recommend
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that you get out to a school you learn to
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train and do that and make it a family affair.
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So if you ask me what style now after all
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these years of training, I would definitely say Crav m
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A g r A. I always screw up the last
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word Krav magra. See I told you I always the
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last word every time. But I would definitely say training
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crab one hundred percent hands down has been the best
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style because it goes up, it goes down, so it's
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stand up fighting, it's on the ground fighting, it's weapons systems,
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so much self defense involved that it's really brought all
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my martial arts training together into one place, which I like,
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I'm very happy. I mean, I wouldn't go back in
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time and change how I did anything, but I definitely
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would recommend crav if you're looking for a type of
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style to do so. Human trafficking is the number one
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growing enterprise in our country. A child can be traffic
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thirty to forty times every day for about seven to
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ten years after the child has been used up. They
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a lot of times just use them for parts and
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things like that, which is horrible to even have to say.
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Like I say, that's why this class is really challenging
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for me to keep or for me to teach, because
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it's a lot of difficult information. But this is what's
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happening in our world, and it's important for us to
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talk about it because if we leave it in the dark,
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it's going to forever be there. But if you shine
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light into the darkness, then we can get rid of it.
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We can begin to combat the human trafficking that's going on.
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So when I was in school, everybody told me, hey,
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you know, slavery's gone, like there's no more bravery, right,
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And that's what I believed for a long time. And
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then when I was writing my book series, the Changing
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Earth series, when I got to book about five, when
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I was writing Dark Days in Denver, I started researching
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Tim Ballard, who's behind the Sound of Freedom, and I
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found out that that's all a big, fat lie, And
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there's over three hundred thousand people the population of the
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United States in slavery and our world right now. I
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was so absolutely sickened when I found this out that
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I knew I had a platform, knew how I had
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a voice, and knew I had an opportunity to make
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a difference in the world. And with all my martial
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arts skills and everything, I really prayed on it, and
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God was like, you know, Sarah, I've sent you here
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to be a warrior, and you're gonna teach my daughters
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how to defend themselves.
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So I teach everybody, obviously, but I am.
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Really focused on women's self defense and also elderly folks
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because they think that they can't do anything anymore, and
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that's absolutely a lie. So if you get out in
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prepper camp, you could come out and take one of
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my self defense classes. I really recommend it, and then,
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like I say, get involved in a school in your
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area right now. So let me see if I can
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get get this to go full screen again. Okay, So
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every thirty seconds a child is traffic. That's from the
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Natural Center for Missing and Exploited Children. There's a lot
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of great information there. Also, the gentleman that runs the
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podcast Valued Tainment Valuetainment. Am I read about that?
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Do you know what I'm saying to mention that one?
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Oh yeah, he does they used to do long form.
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Yeah, yeah, and he does a really great show, and
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he did a really really good show on human trafficking
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and what's going on, talking about a lot of different
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cases of individuals you know that they've rescued out of
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the system. So this is one hundred and fifty billion
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dollar enterprise as of twenty twenty twenty one and twenty
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twenty one. These numbers are really difficult to get because
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they really don't want you to know what's happening out there,
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but the numbers are growing exponentially. Trump did a great
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job of shutting down our borders and bringing a lot
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of these children out into the light during his first
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presidency and then during the open borders and everything, it
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was basically, you know, send your children across and then
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you know, hundreds of thousands of kids missing, and you know,
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right where they ended up was back to fill the
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need for this the pornographic entertainment industry and also using
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them as sex slaves and things like that. So thirty
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percent increase in child trafficking since COVID nineteen happened.
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That's from the International Labor Organization.
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Forty million plus victims worldwide, and then child porn is
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also increasing exponentially. In the United States is the number
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one consumer of child pornography, which I found really really sickening.
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A lot of times it's mothers that are actually selling
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their own children for the trade, which you know, they're
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really hard up, they're heard up financially, and they see
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it as a meal ticket, which you know is absolutely
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disgusting against our biblical principles. You know, it'd hate to
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be in your shoes when you have to meet Jesus
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one day. But this is what's happening in our world.
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And if we don't stand up and say something, we
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don't bring this out into the light, then it stays
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forever in the darkness. So child abduction, luckily, a lot
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of the children that are abducted that we see the
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Amber alerts for and things like that are cases of parents,
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so parents that are taking a child from another parent,
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that kind of thing. You know, the numbers are way
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too high for well, for our modern society basically, which
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is why people are getting more and more panicked about
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the child trafficking situation. So it's good that a lot
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of children are actually well, I mean it's not good,
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but at least they're not being taken, you know, for
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the trade. Here in the United States, one in seven
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runaways end up being traffic. So the sooner we can
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get kids off the streets when they get on the streets,
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the better. There's big movements for being able to help
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these children out instead of letting them become the zombie
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streets that we have in the streets of San Francisco
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and Philadelphia.
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I mean, you could just take these people so easily.
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I wouldn't even you know, if you wanted them. A
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lot of them. That drug is disgusting that they're doing there.
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Ninety nine percent of victims are women and girls. Seventy
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five percent of trafficking victims are used for sex. Eighty
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percent of miners where ages twelve and above. So twelve
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years old is the age when we as parents start
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to go. You know, you're old enough to go do
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that on your old are your own, You're old enough
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to go to the store. You're old enough to do
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these things.
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On your own.
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I trust you. Well, that's really great if you trust
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your child. The problem is there are predators out there
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everywhere waiting for your child to be alone and waiting
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for the moment to snatch child. So that's why it's
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really important that we talk to our children about what's
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going on. We help them learn self defense and whatnot.
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We're going to get into that a lot, a lot
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more here in a minute. Eighty percent of victims are
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never rescued, okay, and when they are, they need help.
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They can't just go from being trafficked, you know, thirty
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to forty times a day and then just pop into
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a normal life again. So if you want to help out, well,
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that's really good organizations to help and give money to
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is the people who are actually funding trying to give
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these people back lives after they have been trafficked. The
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typical perpetrator in a stranger abduction is a male aged
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eighteen to thirty five, unemployed. They usually have alcohol or
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drug problems. So victims are targeted because of economic hardship.
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They're runaways, homeless, they have previous abuse in their history
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that makes them much more likely to be susceptible to
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being abused and lured in. They have an online presence,
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We're going to talk about that big time. And then
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the immigrants and refugees, so we're literally importing children for
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the sex trade in the United States, I can't even
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get that word out of my mouth. Hardly one hundred
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thousand children were missing from the border. That was you know,
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I put this together a couple of years ago. That
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numbers up a lot more. We've found out that there's
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a lot more missing than that. About eighteen tho to
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twenty thousand slaves are trafficked into the United States every year.
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And one of the reasons why I really wanted to
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do this video on the podcast and get this message
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out there was because the economic hardship is the biggest target.
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So if you're paying, you're making people pay to listen
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to my voice or learn self defense that kind of thing,
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then you're not really helping those people that need that
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help the most. So that's why I wanted to make
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this information available free for everybody to get it, get
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at it if they needed it. So traffic trafficking methods
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big time. They're offering like employment modeling, acting, singing contracts.
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So typically they'll be like, hey, we're gonna turn your
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kid into a rock star, you know, have them show
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up for this meeting and then they never see them again.
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There's also a lot of instances where mothers are actually uh,
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you know, signing their kids up for this that they're
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gonna be a singer one day, But we just need
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to use your child, you know, and this way and
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that way, and then one day they're going to be
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a famous superstar and you're gonna be all set and
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it's gonna be all good. So again, uh, we've got
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to just make sure that everybody's getting informed and that
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everybody's on the ball as far as that goes, you know,
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understanding what the and knowing if it's a real opportunity
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or not people saying things when you're in the right
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place to do the right thing at the right time,
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even if you're not that child's parent. Also, debt bondage
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is a big way that they get these people in.
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So we're going to bring you across the border, but
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you now you owe us fifteen thousand dollars. You need
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to work that off from selling heroin or selling drugs ventanyl,
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that kind of thing. And then when it comes time
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to pay the piper, you know that they're already addicted
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to the drug. They're already on the heroin, they're already
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trafficking fentanyl. They don't really know where to go from there,
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so they end up just stuck in the system and
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then it just gets worse and worse from there. So
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the debt bondage is really a big deal. Kind of
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like the indentured servitude we had back in the day,
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except now you know you're already under the radar, so
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better to just keep you there. Social media is a
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huge trafficking playground. Five hundred thousand predators target children daily.
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The FBI has a whole wing designated to just agents
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playing twelve year olds on video games to try and
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catch these perpetrators.
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It's not enough.
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It happens all the time, so it's really really important
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that aus's parents pay attention to what's going on. Thirty
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three percent of all internet sex crimes occur on social media.
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Forty eight percent of child kidnapping victims met their captors
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on social media, so that's why we have to be
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ever so vigilant. One in four children freely shares their
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personal information online. Forty percent of kids will actually change
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their privacy setting from private to public. They'll go ahead
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and do that on their own, figure out how to
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do it on their own, and just it doesn't matter
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what mom and dad say. Eighty nine percent of online
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child sexual exploitation and occurs in chat rooms like Facebook, Messenger,
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What's app, WhatsApp, and snapchat and Snapchat you can actually
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delete it like three minutes after it comes in, so
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that you know you as a parent, you can't even
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see what's going on in there on their phone. One
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in thirty three children will experience being lured into a
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sexual conversation or a face to face meeting via the Internet.
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So it's really really important that we are on top
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of it. We stay involved in what's going on and
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aware of what our child's doing. So my recommendation to
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you is that you have the computer in a public area.
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For example, my son's computer is in my office. That way,
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I have don't need an excuse to come into that room.
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I can walk into that room anytime and see what's
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going on on his computer.
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He's got to use it with me present.
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And as far as a phone goes, I didn't get
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my son a smartphone. I got my son a flip
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phone because he's got a PlayStation five, he's got a computer,
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he's got all this stuff. Why would he need a
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smartphone on top of all of that. So the flip phone,
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they still figure it out. Don't get me wrong, he's
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figured out how to how to listen to YouTube, how
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to you know, play video games, all these things on
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a flip phone. But at least it's kind of a
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deterrent there for like the social medias and things like that,
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and social media. You know, I'm a big advocate of
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positive cloud seating.
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Everybody gets on there, there's so mean.
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Uh they're keyboard warriors saying stuff to people that you
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would never say to them in person. But everybody thinks
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that's fine because you're on a computer. So I definitely
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I don't think that social media is a really great
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environment to begin with. If you're trying to get a
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hold of me on social media, I mean, good luck.
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I'm on there once in a while, and uh probably
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on x I'm most active if you're trying to get
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ahold me on social media. But yeah, just don't don't
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have the tolerance for it anymore, honestly, because I just
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it's really disappointing how people act there. So your children
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don't need to be there. They see their buddies all
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the time. There's pen pals, stuff like that. So I
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did a show back in the day on I did
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a lot of human trafficking shows on the Changeing Earth podcast,
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so you could go and check out. But one of
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the most influential people in my thought process, and I
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just love his website was Michael Loftis And you can
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grab that website off the screen there. But his website
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is a great resource. It's just full of really great
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information that you can use to keep your children safe.
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He was a boxer in Boston and he saw women
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just getting abused, taking advantage, raped, things like that. Was
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really worried about the children and whatnot, and so he
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made it his mission to start teaching them how to
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defend themselves.
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This was back in the day before you know, before
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everything started.
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Coming out like the eighties, you know, nineties, and so
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he he his website's great and I would highly recommend it.
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So don't panic. The web's great for entertainment. For education,
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you know, just keep that computer in a public room
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so you can always see what's going on. Ask your
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children's teacher what type of programs they're using and stuff
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like that, and then learn it yourself, because I can
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guarantee you that your child is gonna know more than
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you know about a computer.
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They have grown up with them.
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We've only had them for like twenty years, so they
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can figure out everything that we think we're so smart on.
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You know, there are the parental tools. I'm not really
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a big advocate of using parental tools because you know,
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prohibition didn't work right, They still made alcohol, they still
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did all these things. So it's not a big proponent
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of having all of these protectors. I'd rather talk to
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my child. I'd rather let them know, be so aware
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of what's going on and just keep, you know, having
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the conversations that make him an enlightened, educated individual who
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can monitor his safety in a responsible way. So monitor
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the cell phones too. You know, you're allowed to look
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through their cell phone. There shouldn't be an instance where
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they're like, nope, I'm not showing you that. Then you
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know something's wrong. If I walk into my son's room
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and he pauses the TV real quick, I'm like, are
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you watching something that you don't want me to see?
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Because if that's the case, you shouldn't be watching it
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at all, right, So.
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Watch out these are areas where kids are really really
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bullied on social media. Again, they become these keyboard warriors
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and then limit the amount of personal information you can
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make them a false ID on there, use an alias,
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and never never, never reveal too much to strangers. Facebook
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is especially bad with users information, you know, I guess
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you can't. You can be a trafficker on there, and
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they don't have any problems with that, but they have
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problems with everybody else. So I don't know what's going
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on there, right, Yeah, it's just incredible. I don't know
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what the deal is. But they're especially reckless with everybody's
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personal information. So that's one I would definitely warn people
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about and using aliases things like that. You can still
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do it, so you just need like fake emails, that
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kind of thing. It is a lot a lot more
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difficult now because they're trying to make sure they know
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who everybody is and whatnot. But I don't know. I
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think it's just a grooming grooming site, so watch for
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adult predators. Children can be groomed online. There are games
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that are literally grooming children online. The YouTube algorithms for
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children are not always the most wholesome content, even though
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they're labeled for children, So just be aware of what's
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going on. This is where a lot of adult perverts
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go to try and find your children and then again,
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be realistic. You know, prohibition didn't work. Children are gonna
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figure out computers. They're gonna figure out how this stuff works.
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They're gonna know better than you because they've been on
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it their whole life. So if you're not having the
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conversations at the dinner table, you're not talking to them
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about what's important and the threats that are out there,
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then you're really missing an opportunity to protect your child.
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So I am an ex generation child. And when I
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was young, my mom threw me out the door and
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she said, go pick mushrooms on the highway, and I
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don't want to see you until it's dark. And we
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played outside all day and she'd put a big thing
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kool aid out there, and you know, we would just
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be going crazy doing pretty much what ever we wanted
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to do. So we were at a free range parent
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right and then we kind of went backwards. We went
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to the extreme other end because we were all so
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scared about what's going on. We became helicopter parents. We
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raised a great, big generation of wooses who can't do
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anything for themselves because mom and dad have already been
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always been there. They're coming into job interviews with them
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these kind of things, and so that we found out
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was not really the best style of parenting either, because
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you know, your children don't know how to stand on
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their own two feet. So the safe rage kids is
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really where it's at. This is like being a lifeguard
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at the pool. You're not in the water swimming with
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them every step of the way, but you are there observing.
483
00:30:51.039 --> 00:30:55.519
You're on the outskirts listening, You're you know, available if
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they need you, but you're not sitting there hovering over
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them every second of every minute, you know. So we
486
00:31:02.799 --> 00:31:07.319
had six teenage boys in our house for my son's
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00:31:07.400 --> 00:31:10.559
birthday and it was a crazy time. So you know,
488
00:31:10.759 --> 00:31:13.319
I was here, but I want them sitting right there
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00:31:13.400 --> 00:31:18.759
with them. Man, they're nuts. So when my son wants
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00:31:18.839 --> 00:31:21.440
to go to a friend's house something like that, we
491
00:31:21.559 --> 00:31:23.960
do have people in the neighborhood by us. You know,
492
00:31:24.039 --> 00:31:26.079
I'll watch him. He doesn't know I'm watching him, but
493
00:31:26.160 --> 00:31:29.359
I'll still watch him. And then he understands why it's
494
00:31:29.440 --> 00:31:31.720
so important to check back in with me when he
495
00:31:31.799 --> 00:31:34.680
gets there and also before he's going to leave. So
496
00:31:34.839 --> 00:31:37.400
I know what the time frame looks like. And I'm
497
00:31:37.519 --> 00:31:39.640
right on that as a parent, you know, being aware
498
00:31:39.759 --> 00:31:42.440
of my kids out on the street by himself. This
499
00:31:42.720 --> 00:31:46.960
is when I need to be attent of. So definitely
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00:31:47.079 --> 00:31:51.240
the safe range kids and you know, not being the
501
00:31:51.279 --> 00:31:54.319
helicopter parent, but we go on are the days when
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00:31:54.359 --> 00:31:57.720
we can just send them out the door. So abduction
503
00:31:57.960 --> 00:32:02.160
and kidnapping trafficking methods. If you there's a myth out
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00:32:02.240 --> 00:32:05.200
there that says like, if you tell your kids about this,
505
00:32:05.519 --> 00:32:07.640
they're just gonna be scared of the whole world and
506
00:32:08.319 --> 00:32:10.599
they're never gonna want to go anywhere and they're gonna
507
00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:15.599
be completely panicked and freaked out. Well, that's absolutely wrong.
508
00:32:16.559 --> 00:32:20.400
Your children need to know what is out there. They
509
00:32:20.559 --> 00:32:24.279
need to know why you are setting the bounds and
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00:32:24.400 --> 00:32:27.319
whatnot that you are. If you just set up rules
511
00:32:27.400 --> 00:32:30.799
with no explanation, they're not gonna care. They're not gonna
512
00:32:30.799 --> 00:32:33.000
listen to you, and all you're gonna be is a monster.
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00:32:33.480 --> 00:32:36.279
That's what they're gonna think. So you need to talk
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00:32:36.359 --> 00:32:39.400
to that. There's been plenty of times when I'm practicing
515
00:32:40.000 --> 00:32:44.119
techniques and self defense with my son that you know,
516
00:32:44.200 --> 00:32:46.720
I make him really do it. I've had instructors pin
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00:32:46.839 --> 00:32:49.240
me to the ground by my neck so hard, and
518
00:32:49.839 --> 00:32:53.400
you know, that hurt for three days after, right, But
519
00:32:53.559 --> 00:32:56.160
if you're never in the experience of like, this is
520
00:32:56.240 --> 00:32:58.839
what it's really gonna be like, and this is how
521
00:32:58.960 --> 00:33:01.920
you're really gonna have the fight and move, then you
522
00:33:02.119 --> 00:33:05.799
never know what to expect when you're there. So being
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00:33:06.000 --> 00:33:06.799
soft and.
524
00:33:09.079 --> 00:33:11.519
Oh my god, they're crying, I need to you know, stop.
525
00:33:12.200 --> 00:33:16.720
No, they need to experience that cognitive dissonance in their
526
00:33:16.839 --> 00:33:19.440
head where they have to power through that, because when
527
00:33:19.440 --> 00:33:21.880
they're in the moment, it's going to be even worse.
528
00:33:22.599 --> 00:33:25.839
So all you're doing is setting them up for success
529
00:33:26.079 --> 00:33:29.359
in the long run by having them practice, by talking
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00:33:29.440 --> 00:33:31.880
to them about it, so that they have an understanding
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00:33:32.039 --> 00:33:33.799
of what is out there. And you're not just a
532
00:33:33.839 --> 00:33:36.319
freaked out mom. You are a freaked out mom, but
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00:33:36.440 --> 00:33:39.839
that's because your life would be devastated without them. So
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00:33:41.680 --> 00:33:44.519
kids won't panic if you tell them the realities of
535
00:33:44.640 --> 00:33:48.319
what's out there. And what's out there doesn't have to
536
00:33:48.440 --> 00:33:52.839
come from bad people with bad intentions. Okay, for me,
537
00:33:53.240 --> 00:33:57.160
I had a personal experience when I was younger with
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00:33:57.319 --> 00:34:07.079
a close family member and he had assaulted other people
539
00:34:07.359 --> 00:34:11.800
in my family as well, And because nobody wanted to
540
00:34:11.880 --> 00:34:14.960
talk about that and nobody wanted me to be scared
541
00:34:15.320 --> 00:34:17.920
or anything. Nobody talked to me about it, and it
542
00:34:18.079 --> 00:34:21.920
left me completely vulnerable to then for him to continue
543
00:34:22.039 --> 00:34:25.519
this chain of abuse and nothing happened.
544
00:34:25.559 --> 00:34:27.440
You know, my younger cousin.
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00:34:29.199 --> 00:34:32.159
Knew what was up and made sure she was present
546
00:34:32.760 --> 00:34:36.800
to come down and stop the situation from escalating any further.
547
00:34:38.039 --> 00:34:43.159
But the silence was the killer, because if I would
548
00:34:43.199 --> 00:34:45.639
have known, I would have never been in that situation.
549
00:34:45.840 --> 00:34:48.960
But because nobody talked to me, that left me vulnerable
550
00:34:49.199 --> 00:34:53.000
in that situation. And so don't do that. Also, kids
551
00:34:53.079 --> 00:34:56.760
do dumb things. They're just kids. They don't have experience,
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00:34:56.880 --> 00:35:00.320
they don't have a reference base to really call from.
553
00:35:01.119 --> 00:35:04.440
So more than twelve thousand children die each year from playing,
554
00:35:05.039 --> 00:35:09.320
another nine million or hospital just because they were playing
555
00:35:09.880 --> 00:35:13.360
in an un supervised environment or in a supervised environment.
556
00:35:13.440 --> 00:35:17.320
You know, stuff still happens when children grow up without guidance.
557
00:35:17.440 --> 00:35:20.639
Two point four million of them end up in prison
558
00:35:21.480 --> 00:35:24.400
and another one hundred and seventy thousand, and that number
559
00:35:24.480 --> 00:35:27.719
is on the rise because a fentanyl die of drug overdoses.
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00:35:28.360 --> 00:35:32.280
So you know, be aware, talk to them, talk to them,
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00:35:32.480 --> 00:35:35.800
if you give them your life experiences, it's going to
562
00:35:35.840 --> 00:35:39.559
be all the better, I guarantee it. So we tell
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00:35:39.599 --> 00:35:43.559
our kids never talk to strangers, and up here this
564
00:35:43.719 --> 00:35:47.119
slide is a whole bunch of different things that people
565
00:35:47.280 --> 00:35:51.239
might say to your child. The thing is, oh no,
566
00:35:51.400 --> 00:35:54.719
that's my ex side. Sorry, So is talk to never
567
00:35:54.840 --> 00:35:59.039
talk to strangers always applicable? No, Okay. What they need
568
00:35:59.159 --> 00:36:02.199
to know is to not be lured away from where
569
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they're supposed to be. If you're supposed to be at
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00:36:04.800 --> 00:36:09.480
the slide, don't let anybody lure you away from that space. Okay.
571
00:36:10.880 --> 00:36:14.280
There are all kinds of people out there, and some
572
00:36:14.440 --> 00:36:17.320
are nice and some aren't. And never talking to strangers
573
00:36:17.440 --> 00:36:20.559
is not something that you want your child to do. However,
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00:36:21.920 --> 00:36:25.400
do not be lured away. If for some idiotic reason,
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00:36:25.519 --> 00:36:29.039
you are not available for your children, then I usually
576
00:36:29.199 --> 00:36:33.960
recommend that your child goes to a woman who has children. However,
577
00:36:35.159 --> 00:36:37.519
the scammers are everywhere, and the scammers are getting smarter,
578
00:36:37.639 --> 00:36:41.199
and the scammers, you know, do everything. I've seen a
579
00:36:41.320 --> 00:36:44.360
video just the day other day of one guy who
580
00:36:44.480 --> 00:36:47.519
pulls up to a goal and a little kid and says, hey,
581
00:36:47.679 --> 00:36:49.599
you know your mom asked me to come pick you up.
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00:36:49.719 --> 00:36:51.760
Come get in the car and she's like, I don't
583
00:36:51.800 --> 00:36:54.599
think so, I don't think so. And then another car
584
00:36:54.800 --> 00:36:58.840
pulls up and she it's a female, and she's like, hey.
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00:36:58.840 --> 00:36:59.440
What are you doing?
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00:36:59.519 --> 00:36:59.840
What do you do?
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00:37:00.199 --> 00:37:00.360
Guy?
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00:37:00.480 --> 00:37:03.880
You can't take her away? Come with me, honey, come
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00:37:03.960 --> 00:37:07.000
with me. Right. Well, this other guy was a standby
590
00:37:07.079 --> 00:37:09.400
and he's like, I watched this kid walk home every
591
00:37:09.480 --> 00:37:12.360
day from school. Neither of you have anything to do
592
00:37:12.519 --> 00:37:14.960
with this child. And it turns out that they were
593
00:37:15.079 --> 00:37:19.400
both in cahoots to abduct this child. So they were
594
00:37:19.519 --> 00:37:22.360
literally playing this huge game of you know, we're gonna
595
00:37:22.400 --> 00:37:25.159
make her feel this way, get her into your car instead.
596
00:37:26.119 --> 00:37:30.639
So the women are figuring out that they can abduct children.
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00:37:30.679 --> 00:37:32.840
They'll have a couple of children with them, and then
598
00:37:32.880 --> 00:37:35.000
they just add one more into the group and that
599
00:37:35.119 --> 00:37:38.960
way it looks normal. So everything is in constant flux.
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This is why we have to talk to our kids.
601
00:37:41.639 --> 00:37:43.880
But then here on my side is some of the
602
00:37:44.039 --> 00:37:47.840
things that people could say to lure your child away.
603
00:37:48.000 --> 00:37:50.639
Of course, like the puppy thing and all that, and
604
00:37:50.719 --> 00:37:52.599
I was like, ah, my kids would never fall for that.
605
00:37:53.599 --> 00:37:58.519
But if you look, there's the one that says a
606
00:37:58.719 --> 00:38:01.639
man with him his arm in a sling and a
607
00:38:01.760 --> 00:38:05.159
load of books asking for help. This would be a
608
00:38:05.360 --> 00:38:06.920
killer for my kids.
609
00:38:07.199 --> 00:38:09.360
You know, he's got his arm slung up.
610
00:38:09.440 --> 00:38:11.480
Hey, come over here, I just need you to help
611
00:38:11.519 --> 00:38:13.880
me get this out of the trunk. My kids are
612
00:38:13.920 --> 00:38:16.559
so helpful, so nicely be like, yes, sir, or here
613
00:38:16.639 --> 00:38:18.719
we come to save the day and help you out.
614
00:38:18.880 --> 00:38:19.039
Right.
615
00:38:19.800 --> 00:38:22.599
Well, that's just what they need to get lured away.
616
00:38:23.199 --> 00:38:27.119
So unfortunately I had to have that conversation with my child.
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00:38:27.440 --> 00:38:29.840
As you know, make sure you have an adult there.
618
00:38:29.920 --> 00:38:31.840
Make sure you have your older brother or something like that,
619
00:38:32.519 --> 00:38:34.719
so that when you're helping that person out, you know
620
00:38:34.800 --> 00:38:37.400
you're not just gonna get stuffed in a trunk. Now,
621
00:38:37.480 --> 00:38:42.679
there's also the police impersonators that are scary, and I've
622
00:38:42.719 --> 00:38:46.559
also heard of police cars lately, so I don't know.
623
00:38:46.719 --> 00:38:48.519
They're like, if you're getting pulled over, you need a
624
00:38:48.639 --> 00:38:50.960
very you know, back road, you need to verify it's
625
00:38:51.000 --> 00:38:53.719
a real police car. This is happening in our world,
626
00:38:54.159 --> 00:38:57.679
and it's crazy, and I just need to give you
627
00:38:57.719 --> 00:38:59.880
the heads up that these type of things are happening,
628
00:39:00.360 --> 00:39:02.159
because a lot of people have never ever heard of
629
00:39:02.239 --> 00:39:05.000
stuff like this happening. And you want to believe the
630
00:39:05.119 --> 00:39:08.760
stories that I hear from individuals after I get done
631
00:39:08.840 --> 00:39:12.639
teaching this class, and personal experiences they've had which are really,
632
00:39:12.679 --> 00:39:16.920
really scary. So we're coming into the holiday season, a
633
00:39:17.000 --> 00:39:19.880
lot of people are gonna be out shopping. It's just
634
00:39:20.079 --> 00:39:24.440
you know, you're crazy focused on the holiday mayhem, and
635
00:39:24.719 --> 00:39:28.400
your situational awareness might be dipping this time of year
636
00:39:28.440 --> 00:39:30.599
a little bit because you're just focused on I got
637
00:39:30.719 --> 00:39:33.599
an answer, now, who's president? Am I getting? How much
638
00:39:33.639 --> 00:39:36.599
money I got left? That kind of thing. So parking
639
00:39:36.679 --> 00:39:43.079
lots are a huge, huge, huge risk area. Okay, children
640
00:39:43.159 --> 00:39:48.000
and women should never ever have headphones on and their
641
00:39:48.039 --> 00:39:51.199
cell phones in their hands when walking from a store
642
00:39:51.519 --> 00:39:55.800
to a vehicle. There's a story that my martial arts
643
00:39:55.880 --> 00:39:59.599
teacher just told me about this family. They're down at
644
00:39:59.599 --> 00:40:02.239
the Houston in Chick fil A. There's like six lines
645
00:40:02.280 --> 00:40:06.199
of traffic, you know, twelve workers out there trying to
646
00:40:06.199 --> 00:40:09.639
get everybody's order and everything, just mayhem going on. This
647
00:40:09.800 --> 00:40:13.000
couple gets out of their car, unloads their three kids,
648
00:40:13.320 --> 00:40:16.440
hands them all an iPad, and they go through all
649
00:40:16.519 --> 00:40:22.639
of that traffic staring in an iPad. I mean, you
650
00:40:22.719 --> 00:40:26.719
can't do that. You cannot do that. The other really,
651
00:40:26.880 --> 00:40:30.679
really sad example that we have of this is the
652
00:40:31.039 --> 00:40:35.199
gal from Ukraine that was on the bus. She came
653
00:40:35.280 --> 00:40:39.679
on the bus earbuds in, staring at her phone the
654
00:40:39.719 --> 00:40:40.280
whole time.
655
00:40:40.519 --> 00:40:43.079
She hardly even looked at the guy behind her.
656
00:40:44.000 --> 00:40:48.079
And you just cannot let your situational awareness slip that
657
00:40:48.400 --> 00:40:53.159
hard because it leaves you completely vulnerable for that gal.
658
00:40:53.639 --> 00:40:55.719
You know, I know it's weird and I know it's awkward,
659
00:40:55.840 --> 00:40:58.920
but like if you have to ride public transit and
660
00:40:59.039 --> 00:41:01.119
you have to sit in front of somebody, that's the
661
00:41:01.199 --> 00:41:03.800
only seat available, because typically you want to sit at
662
00:41:03.880 --> 00:41:07.000
the back where you can see everything that's happening in
663
00:41:07.039 --> 00:41:09.519
front of you. That goes for a restaurant, that goes
664
00:41:09.679 --> 00:41:14.320
for a bus, anything like that. But if you can't,
665
00:41:14.840 --> 00:41:17.400
then you'd want to sit so your back was against
666
00:41:17.480 --> 00:41:20.239
that bus wall and you could see to the back
667
00:41:20.599 --> 00:41:22.440
and the front, you know, kind of in a cock
668
00:41:22.519 --> 00:41:26.199
eyed state, like with your back that way, so you
669
00:41:26.280 --> 00:41:30.599
can see both directions. Right, That's the only way to
670
00:41:30.800 --> 00:41:34.000
ensure that you're aware of what's going on all the
671
00:41:34.039 --> 00:41:39.840
way around you. Okay, so dangers all around in these
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00:41:39.880 --> 00:41:42.360
parking lots, that's why you should never have your head
673
00:41:42.559 --> 00:41:45.519
in your cell phone. You need your head on a swivel.
674
00:41:46.320 --> 00:41:50.800
And you need to have some type of so attack pen.
675
00:41:51.119 --> 00:41:55.400
They're metal pens or great, you can use it like
676
00:41:55.559 --> 00:41:58.199
that's what you use for your grocery list. I use
677
00:41:58.280 --> 00:42:01.400
a window breaker on my keys. They are not legal
678
00:42:01.559 --> 00:42:03.599
in all states, so you need to check and make
679
00:42:03.679 --> 00:42:05.559
sure that it's legal in your state for you to
680
00:42:05.639 --> 00:42:08.920
carry one. But I use that a key work so
681
00:42:08.960 --> 00:42:11.360
you can keep that key in your hand. I'm not
682
00:42:11.480 --> 00:42:14.400
a big proponent of pepper spray, and why am I
683
00:42:14.480 --> 00:42:17.920
not a big proponent of pepper spray? So pepper stray spray.
684
00:42:19.360 --> 00:42:22.760
Most people buy it, They never ever practice with it.
685
00:42:23.599 --> 00:42:25.639
They probably don't even know that there's a clip on
686
00:42:25.760 --> 00:42:27.760
there that makes it so you can't spray it so
687
00:42:27.840 --> 00:42:30.039
that you don't accidentally spray it all over the bottom
688
00:42:30.119 --> 00:42:33.559
of your purse where it usually lives. So you need
689
00:42:33.639 --> 00:42:37.000
to have access to your weapon within three seconds. That's
690
00:42:37.039 --> 00:42:40.239
all you have. So I carry a beautiful knife that
691
00:42:40.440 --> 00:42:44.280
my co host Chin gave to me. I carry my
692
00:42:44.440 --> 00:42:49.719
Monrovia on my hip. It is three seconds available. I
693
00:42:49.960 --> 00:42:52.320
have the window breaker in my hand. It is three
694
00:42:52.400 --> 00:42:55.920
seconds available. I literally have my techpen in my bag as.
695
00:42:55.840 --> 00:43:00.039
Well, and then you know, if things escalated.
696
00:42:59.559 --> 00:43:02.559
I also have my firearm, but that once somebody's in
697
00:43:02.679 --> 00:43:05.920
that close, I'm not pulling a firearm once they're that close.
698
00:43:06.159 --> 00:43:08.840
If you take your firearm out, they can take it
699
00:43:08.880 --> 00:43:11.599
away from you and use it against you, and that's
700
00:43:11.719 --> 00:43:14.400
just not something I'm ever gonna let happen. So I
701
00:43:14.440 --> 00:43:19.519
would default to a knife or a stabbing tool in
702
00:43:19.639 --> 00:43:23.400
lieu of the pepper spray. Also, I live in Texas.
703
00:43:24.159 --> 00:43:27.880
I don't care if you spray spray or you spray yell.
704
00:43:28.119 --> 00:43:30.280
If you spray that the wrong way, it's coming right
705
00:43:30.360 --> 00:43:33.519
back at you, Okay. So I'm just not a big
706
00:43:33.599 --> 00:43:36.519
fan of it. You do you. You make your own decisions.
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00:43:36.559 --> 00:43:37.079
I am not you.
708
00:43:37.320 --> 00:43:38.559
You decide what's right for you.
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00:43:38.679 --> 00:43:41.239
If you are gonna do pepper spray, please make sure
710
00:43:41.320 --> 00:43:44.480
you buy two and practice with one. Okay, make sure
711
00:43:44.480 --> 00:43:47.480
it's readily available and not sitting at the bottom of
712
00:43:47.559 --> 00:43:50.440
your purse. I'm also not a big fan of tasers
713
00:43:50.559 --> 00:43:53.360
or anything like that, anything that has to be charged.
714
00:43:54.199 --> 00:43:56.920
I don't have the discipline to make sure that every
715
00:43:57.039 --> 00:43:59.159
night it's charged before I decide to go out.
716
00:43:59.199 --> 00:44:01.800
Somewhere, and I'm really doubting that anybody else does.
717
00:44:02.199 --> 00:44:05.239
Plus they're pretty fragile, and so to have them sitting
718
00:44:05.360 --> 00:44:07.880
at the bottom of your purse is usually not a
719
00:44:07.920 --> 00:44:10.440
good idea. And that's usually where the self defense tools
720
00:44:10.519 --> 00:44:14.360
go because you don't need them. Also, a car alarm
721
00:44:14.840 --> 00:44:18.440
is not sufficient. How many people when we hear a
722
00:44:18.519 --> 00:44:23.519
car alarm these days go hark, trouble is afoot. We
723
00:44:23.719 --> 00:44:25.159
need to run out there.
724
00:44:25.159 --> 00:44:27.440
And see what's going on with that vehicle.
725
00:44:28.320 --> 00:44:33.599
No nobody cares. They're like, whose car alarm is going off?
726
00:44:33.719 --> 00:44:36.639
Will somebody please shut that stupid thing off?
727
00:44:37.159 --> 00:44:37.320
Right?
728
00:44:38.320 --> 00:44:42.519
So the car alarm's not sufficient. They sell noise makers
729
00:44:42.800 --> 00:44:47.239
at Amazon that make a entirely different sound that can
730
00:44:47.320 --> 00:44:48.039
go on a backpack.
731
00:44:48.320 --> 00:44:51.199
They're like a whoa woo woo, right they are.
732
00:44:51.559 --> 00:44:56.480
They're really annoying. Also, they sell these little whistles that
733
00:44:56.559 --> 00:44:59.039
I have for free at prepper camp. Every time I'm there.
734
00:44:59.559 --> 00:45:01.559
There are just little survival whistles.
735
00:45:02.039 --> 00:45:03.679
Man, they make a ton of noise.
736
00:45:03.760 --> 00:45:06.400
I give them to all the kids there. Everybody loves me.
737
00:45:09.199 --> 00:45:13.239
But they're also great when you're hiking, right, you could
738
00:45:13.239 --> 00:45:16.239
get lost or whatever, And what a great tool to
739
00:45:16.280 --> 00:45:20.559
have on you to make a really loud whistle, So
740
00:45:22.199 --> 00:45:25.159
don't rely upon your car alarm and is not going
741
00:45:25.280 --> 00:45:30.400
to be sufficient. So if you are approached by somebody
742
00:45:30.559 --> 00:45:33.480
in a parking lot, and definitely teach your children this
743
00:45:33.719 --> 00:45:34.519
one hundred percent.
744
00:45:34.679 --> 00:45:37.800
You never ever ever go to a secondary location.
745
00:45:38.400 --> 00:45:41.880
So wherever the incident happens, wherever they're approaching you, that's
746
00:45:41.920 --> 00:45:44.840
the primary location. If they put you in a vehicle
747
00:45:45.719 --> 00:45:50.440
and take you someplace else, that is the secondary location. Okay,
748
00:45:50.559 --> 00:45:54.079
you cannot ever go to a secondary location. I've met
749
00:45:54.280 --> 00:45:57.360
one person that ended up at a secondary location and
750
00:45:57.440 --> 00:46:01.280
actually survived one out of a lot of people. So
751
00:46:02.719 --> 00:46:06.960
disrupt the kidnapper's ability to drive the vehicle. Once you're
752
00:46:07.000 --> 00:46:09.480
in it. You can just start kicking them. You can
753
00:46:09.599 --> 00:46:13.599
pull that steering wheel, you can shut it down, whatever
754
00:46:13.800 --> 00:46:15.400
you can do to crash that car.
755
00:46:15.559 --> 00:46:19.679
Before you get out of a parking lot. Great could run.
756
00:46:19.639 --> 00:46:23.920
Around the vehicle round and around in circles. I don't
757
00:46:24.440 --> 00:46:29.800
also don't recommend yelling help police because most people just
758
00:46:29.880 --> 00:46:33.440
get out their cell phones and start recording unfortunately these days.
759
00:46:34.199 --> 00:46:39.360
So I would yell fire, I would yell the B
760
00:46:39.559 --> 00:46:44.679
O M B word, you know, whatever, But those are
761
00:46:44.719 --> 00:46:48.239
going to be preferable over yelling like help police, help police,
762
00:46:48.920 --> 00:46:53.280
because people just are just don't these days, so they're
763
00:46:53.320 --> 00:46:59.000
going to start recording instead of helping you. Blaring the horn, yelling, screaming,
764
00:46:59.119 --> 00:47:01.880
whatever they can do to create as much attention as
765
00:47:02.039 --> 00:47:05.360
possible as what they need to do in that moment
766
00:47:05.519 --> 00:47:08.079
to get that guy spooked so that they get the
767
00:47:08.159 --> 00:47:09.000
heck out of there, or that.
768
00:47:09.079 --> 00:47:11.760
Girl grabbing the steering wheel. Put your back to it.
769
00:47:12.280 --> 00:47:16.199
Michael Loftus's website has a ton of great exercises you
770
00:47:16.239 --> 00:47:20.159
can practice with your children to get them more familiar
771
00:47:20.280 --> 00:47:22.920
with how to do this. Jump out the door. If
772
00:47:22.920 --> 00:47:24.840
you can jump out the door when it's not moving
773
00:47:24.960 --> 00:47:29.119
or moving very slowly, great, do that disrupt whatever they
774
00:47:29.199 --> 00:47:32.880
have going disrupt it. If you're a back seat passenger,
775
00:47:33.039 --> 00:47:35.159
you can kick the seat in front of you, and
776
00:47:35.280 --> 00:47:39.400
most vehicles these days, if you're putting the trunk, there's
777
00:47:39.440 --> 00:47:42.039
a way to get those seats down so you can
778
00:47:42.079 --> 00:47:44.760
get through there. Very challenging if your hands are tied
779
00:47:44.920 --> 00:47:48.679
or whatever, but man, whatever you gotta do to create that.
780
00:47:49.760 --> 00:47:54.159
You know that tension that the human beings always choose
781
00:47:54.280 --> 00:47:57.079
the path of least resistance. So if there is a
782
00:47:57.239 --> 00:48:00.639
big thing of blackberries and a trail, you're going to
783
00:48:00.719 --> 00:48:03.440
choose the trail. You're not going to go through the blackberries.
784
00:48:03.559 --> 00:48:07.079
So humans always choose the passive path of least resistance.
785
00:48:07.639 --> 00:48:10.199
So if you can be the most resistant thing that
786
00:48:10.320 --> 00:48:12.559
they have ever encountered, they are going to give it
787
00:48:12.639 --> 00:48:15.519
up and they're going to go find somebody else. The
788
00:48:15.639 --> 00:48:18.480
other thing that I've been told a lot about that's
789
00:48:18.519 --> 00:48:20.440
happening is vehicles are.
790
00:48:20.440 --> 00:48:25.000
Actually getting marked for future adduction.
791
00:48:25.639 --> 00:48:30.199
So they're marking the back passenger side window with a
792
00:48:30.239 --> 00:48:33.719
little sticker or a string, that kind of thing. So
793
00:48:33.920 --> 00:48:37.840
always check your vehicle out and make sure that there's
794
00:48:37.920 --> 00:48:41.159
nothing that you don't identify on there, like that you
795
00:48:41.280 --> 00:48:43.920
didn't put on there. Because I've heard this from multiple
796
00:48:44.039 --> 00:48:48.119
people and multiple cities now that vehicles are actually being
797
00:48:48.239 --> 00:48:50.599
marked as victims so that they can come back and
798
00:48:50.639 --> 00:48:52.760
get that person later or center in on them when
799
00:48:52.800 --> 00:48:54.000
the time is more appropriate.
800
00:48:54.960 --> 00:48:58.760
So definitely be aware of what is on your vehicle
801
00:48:59.079 --> 00:48:59.880
and that kind of thing.
802
00:49:01.599 --> 00:49:05.360
So the minute you put a backpack on and you
803
00:49:05.559 --> 00:49:08.599
put that bag on your back, you now have a
804
00:49:08.760 --> 00:49:11.880
handle on your back, right, so you put on a backpack,
805
00:49:12.400 --> 00:49:15.000
and now you have a handle behind you. That's a
806
00:49:15.159 --> 00:49:18.199
perfect handle to abduct a kid with. And a lot
807
00:49:18.239 --> 00:49:20.599
of times the kids like, oh my gosh, my mom
808
00:49:20.760 --> 00:49:23.880
or dad would kill me if I lost my backpack, right,
809
00:49:24.480 --> 00:49:28.880
And they're so concerned about their backpack that they won't
810
00:49:28.960 --> 00:49:32.000
let it go. Let sure your kid knows you do
811
00:49:32.159 --> 00:49:35.159
not care about that backpack at all. You care about
812
00:49:35.239 --> 00:49:38.320
them and their safety. And if somebody grabs you by it,
813
00:49:38.559 --> 00:49:42.039
you swoop your arms backwards and you let that thing rip.
814
00:49:42.119 --> 00:49:44.400
You just unbuckle and let it go. Same thing with
815
00:49:44.519 --> 00:49:47.719
a jacket. And also a hoodie is the same way.
816
00:49:48.119 --> 00:49:51.320
A hoodie is more difficult to get out of. But
817
00:49:51.519 --> 00:49:55.480
you better be yelling, you better be screaming, because that
818
00:49:55.719 --> 00:49:58.119
is your moment. If you go to the secondary location,
819
00:49:58.239 --> 00:50:03.079
you're in big trouble. I would never ever, ever, ever, ever,
820
00:50:03.639 --> 00:50:11.000
ever ever teach someone that you should always defend against
821
00:50:11.039 --> 00:50:15.599
a firearm, that you should be more concerned about a
822
00:50:15.679 --> 00:50:18.920
secondary location than you should about a firearm.
823
00:50:18.960 --> 00:50:20.639
But I'm telling you what, if.
824
00:50:20.519 --> 00:50:22.880
They're willing to shoot you there in a parking lot,
825
00:50:23.719 --> 00:50:29.280
then imagine what they're willing to do in a secondary location. Okay,
826
00:50:30.199 --> 00:50:33.360
so the choice is yours. You do what you think
827
00:50:33.519 --> 00:50:36.400
is right in the appropriate situation. I'm never going to
828
00:50:36.480 --> 00:50:39.039
tell you either way, but I'm telling you that if
829
00:50:39.079 --> 00:50:41.719
somebody holds a gun to me in a parking lot,
830
00:50:42.679 --> 00:50:46.039
I'm going to do whatever I can to make sure
831
00:50:46.079 --> 00:50:48.320
that I don't go to a secondary location. And if
832
00:50:48.360 --> 00:50:50.480
that means I get shot, then that means I get
833
00:50:50.519 --> 00:50:54.960
shot because I'm not going to that secondary location. So
834
00:50:55.119 --> 00:50:57.679
the kids can climb under cars, they can go out
835
00:50:57.679 --> 00:51:02.960
and around, pull fire alarms. Great idea, right, And then
836
00:51:03.000 --> 00:51:06.880
this is one of Rick's favorite. If you are in
837
00:51:07.000 --> 00:51:13.119
an out unwelcome sexual encounter, men's members are hold on
838
00:51:13.480 --> 00:51:16.559
by curtilage. It's the same as an ear, so you
839
00:51:16.639 --> 00:51:19.440
can literally grab a hold of that thing and rip
840
00:51:19.519 --> 00:51:24.880
it off. I mean, it's it's gross and it's horrible
841
00:51:24.960 --> 00:51:26.840
to say, but man, they're the ones who put you
842
00:51:26.960 --> 00:51:30.320
in that position, so you gotta do what you gotta
843
00:51:30.400 --> 00:51:31.639
do in those moments.
844
00:51:34.079 --> 00:51:37.800
So how are the trafficking methods?
845
00:51:38.000 --> 00:51:40.599
One in five girls, one in ten boys will be
846
00:51:40.719 --> 00:51:49.000
sexually victimized before adulthood. One in five girls. That that is,
847
00:51:51.280 --> 00:51:54.599
it's a horrible statistic. And then one in ten boys right,
848
00:51:54.760 --> 00:51:58.159
so they have to understand what's appropriate and what's not.
849
00:51:59.039 --> 00:52:02.639
Juvenile sexifie account for twenty five point eight percent of
850
00:52:02.960 --> 00:52:07.239
all juveniles or of all sex offenders, so twenty five
851
00:52:07.320 --> 00:52:10.679
almost twenty six percent of all sex offenders are juveniles
852
00:52:11.199 --> 00:52:14.599
doing it. So be aware of the threat of older children.
853
00:52:15.639 --> 00:52:17.519
Is your kid hanging out with somebody who has an
854
00:52:17.599 --> 00:52:21.000
older sibling, what's the older sibling like. You know, that
855
00:52:21.519 --> 00:52:23.599
kid that your kids hanging out with might be great,
856
00:52:23.880 --> 00:52:26.320
but the older sibling might be doing all kinds of
857
00:52:26.400 --> 00:52:31.320
bad stuff and have really not appropriate friends, so they
858
00:52:31.400 --> 00:52:36.079
might befriend other kids to lure them in. Ninety six
859
00:52:36.199 --> 00:52:40.199
percent of juvenile sex offenders are targeting other juveniles, and
860
00:52:40.480 --> 00:52:45.719
ninety percent of juvenile sex offenders commit forcible sex offenses.
861
00:52:46.119 --> 00:52:48.400
That means your child is not choosing to do the
862
00:52:48.480 --> 00:52:51.880
wrong thing, they are being forced to do the wrong thing.
863
00:52:53.920 --> 00:52:58.360
And then twelve point eight percent involve multiple incidents, So
864
00:52:58.480 --> 00:53:00.639
we're not taking care of the problem. They're going back
865
00:53:00.679 --> 00:53:05.000
on the street. Your child's going to meet them. As
866
00:53:05.079 --> 00:53:08.239
of February twenty twenty three, there's over seven hundred and
867
00:53:08.239 --> 00:53:12.199
eighty six thousand people on the US sex offenders Registry.
868
00:53:12.400 --> 00:53:17.119
Some states publicly display this information where they live and
869
00:53:17.320 --> 00:53:21.760
some don't, So you need to be aware they're out there. Uh,
870
00:53:22.039 --> 00:53:25.639
they can be anywhere. Three percent in year over year
871
00:53:25.840 --> 00:53:31.480
increase since twenty nineteen, three percent increase every single year,
872
00:53:31.639 --> 00:53:35.880
not just three percent since then three percent every single
873
00:53:36.280 --> 00:53:40.280
year two hundred and thirty seven sex offenders per one
874
00:53:40.360 --> 00:53:43.239
hundred thousand residents. So they are out there. There are
875
00:53:43.280 --> 00:53:48.599
your neighbors. And then twenty nine point six are distributing, manufacturing,
876
00:53:48.800 --> 00:53:52.760
or possessing child pornography. It is on the rise. Yeah,
877
00:53:53.039 --> 00:53:58.000
I know it's disgusting. It's on the rise, and unfortunately,
878
00:53:58.119 --> 00:54:01.519
the United States is the number one consumer of this material.
879
00:54:01.920 --> 00:54:04.400
So we have a problem with our value system that
880
00:54:04.559 --> 00:54:07.519
needs to be fixed, and we need to understand that
881
00:54:07.800 --> 00:54:09.760
children are off the table sexually.
882
00:54:11.000 --> 00:54:11.480
This is no.
883
00:54:12.079 --> 00:54:12.440
This is no.
884
00:54:12.599 --> 00:54:15.559
And I had the question about like, well, AI kind
885
00:54:15.599 --> 00:54:19.239
of curtail this, and I don't know either way, it's
886
00:54:19.480 --> 00:54:25.159
it's not appropriate. Often sexual abusers know the victim well.
887
00:54:25.360 --> 00:54:27.679
So that's why I bring up the story about my uncle,
888
00:54:27.840 --> 00:54:30.440
because often you do know the victim well or the
889
00:54:31.000 --> 00:54:34.679
assailant well. So it's important to talk to your children
890
00:54:34.760 --> 00:54:37.280
about you know, your gym teacher might walk through the
891
00:54:37.360 --> 00:54:40.440
locker room while you're changing. That's fine, but your gym
892
00:54:40.519 --> 00:54:43.840
teacher is not allowed to touch you inappropriately. Your martial
893
00:54:43.920 --> 00:54:46.800
arts instructor is not allowed to touch you inappropriately.
894
00:54:47.000 --> 00:54:49.159
Right, this should be all on the up and up.
895
00:54:51.320 --> 00:54:54.960
Thirty one or thirty four point one percent of victims
896
00:54:55.000 --> 00:55:02.719
are registered sex offenders under twelve years old of victims,
897
00:55:02.920 --> 00:55:07.800
so all right, let's go back. All right, So let's
898
00:55:07.840 --> 00:55:10.320
get into some dating tips for women, because we've got
899
00:55:10.360 --> 00:55:12.760
all kinds of women out there still trying to find
900
00:55:12.800 --> 00:55:16.679
a spouse in this marketplace, and man, it's just it's
901
00:55:16.719 --> 00:55:19.280
just a crazy world. So when you're going on a date,
902
00:55:19.440 --> 00:55:22.079
gone are the days of I'll come pick you up
903
00:55:22.159 --> 00:55:25.960
and take you to the restaurant. This is not happening anymore.
904
00:55:26.519 --> 00:55:29.440
You drive yourself to the date, you have an uber
905
00:55:29.639 --> 00:55:31.519
take you to the date, or you have a friend
906
00:55:31.840 --> 00:55:35.679
take you to the date, not the man. Okay, if
907
00:55:35.719 --> 00:55:37.880
you're going out hiking in Yosemite, you're not going to
908
00:55:37.960 --> 00:55:41.079
go out in the forest without telling somebody where you're going,
909
00:55:41.400 --> 00:55:43.719
what that looks like, what time you should have arrived home.
910
00:55:44.280 --> 00:55:46.400
So same with when you're going out a date you
911
00:55:46.760 --> 00:55:47.239
have a bit.
912
00:55:47.480 --> 00:55:49.639
I'm always a big proponent of a battle buddy, So
913
00:55:49.800 --> 00:55:52.320
have a battle buddy with you in double date if possible,
914
00:55:52.480 --> 00:55:56.440
and especially if it's your first date. Or let friends
915
00:55:56.480 --> 00:55:59.880
and family members know your plan what that looks like.
916
00:56:00.920 --> 00:56:04.119
And don't just let them know your plan when you're
917
00:56:04.239 --> 00:56:07.519
out on this date with this guy for the first time. Right,
918
00:56:08.239 --> 00:56:11.559
call them while you're on the date so they can
919
00:56:11.639 --> 00:56:15.599
hear your voice saying, hey, Sally, Jane, I am going
920
00:56:15.719 --> 00:56:18.239
to be home about eight o'clock and I will see
921
00:56:18.239 --> 00:56:21.719
you then, right, And that way the person knows you
922
00:56:21.880 --> 00:56:24.519
have somebody waiting on you to be someplace at a
923
00:56:24.559 --> 00:56:28.239
specific time. You can always change plans later, but this
924
00:56:28.800 --> 00:56:30.559
is a really good way to give them the heads
925
00:56:30.599 --> 00:56:32.440
up that you have somebody out there waiting for you.
926
00:56:34.039 --> 00:56:37.000
If you plan on drinking, always have a pre planned
927
00:56:37.039 --> 00:56:39.159
way to get home. We've got ubers, we got all
928
00:56:39.239 --> 00:56:41.000
these things. So of course you don't want to drink
929
00:56:41.039 --> 00:56:44.840
and drive. But drinking and drugs also leaves you very,
930
00:56:45.079 --> 00:56:50.840
very vulnerable from for sexual assault. So never ever drink
931
00:56:50.920 --> 00:56:55.000
from a communal jug. Okay, we're always drinking a drink
932
00:56:55.079 --> 00:56:58.239
that's been delivered to us. And we can open it ourself.
933
00:56:58.840 --> 00:57:01.920
Of course, you can rub drugs on the edge of
934
00:57:02.119 --> 00:57:04.119
the drink, so you have to be sure that you're
935
00:57:04.159 --> 00:57:08.800
cleaning the edge off those kind of things. Even balloons
936
00:57:09.079 --> 00:57:13.880
could be a source of a day break drug, so
937
00:57:14.679 --> 00:57:16.719
you always want to make sure you're opening your own drink.
938
00:57:16.920 --> 00:57:19.920
They have all kinds of cool coasters, nail polished cups,
939
00:57:20.119 --> 00:57:23.400
personal drink devices now that you can use to tell
940
00:57:23.559 --> 00:57:25.920
if that drink has been drugged or not. I really
941
00:57:26.039 --> 00:57:30.400
recommend you have something like that, the battle buddy, of course,
942
00:57:30.920 --> 00:57:35.159
you know, and then all the different methods of drugs
943
00:57:35.199 --> 00:57:38.880
that they're using these days. So one of the stories
944
00:57:38.920 --> 00:57:41.079
that I heard after a class that I taught, which
945
00:57:41.199 --> 00:57:44.159
was a horrific story, was a story about a gal
946
00:57:44.280 --> 00:57:47.440
who went to a pool party by herself, and she
947
00:57:47.519 --> 00:57:50.440
couldn't remember the pool party when she got home, and
948
00:57:50.559 --> 00:57:52.639
she started talking to her dad about how she couldn't
949
00:57:52.639 --> 00:57:55.400
remember the pool party once she got home, and so
950
00:57:55.639 --> 00:57:57.760
dad said, well, let's take you down to the hospital
951
00:57:57.760 --> 00:58:02.159
because you know, something's up here. They found out that
952
00:58:02.320 --> 00:58:06.800
she had been injected with the drug literally a needle
953
00:58:06.920 --> 00:58:09.119
in the back of her arm when she arrived at
954
00:58:09.119 --> 00:58:12.599
the pool party. So it's not just on the drinks anymore.
955
00:58:12.760 --> 00:58:14.880
They're getting more and more crafty. They just want to
956
00:58:14.920 --> 00:58:17.320
deliver the drug gets you in the position they want
957
00:58:17.400 --> 00:58:20.199
you to be in for that event, and so you
958
00:58:20.320 --> 00:58:23.360
have to be ever so vigilant. That's why I recommend
959
00:58:23.760 --> 00:58:28.559
the battle buddy. Always, always, always, always, always go home immediately.
960
00:58:28.719 --> 00:58:32.679
If you're feeling confused, intoxicated, if your intuition feels off,
961
00:58:33.199 --> 00:58:37.119
anything like that, You're always allowed to leave. You're always
962
00:58:37.159 --> 00:58:40.480
allowed to stop any sexual activity at any point. There's
963
00:58:40.519 --> 00:58:42.519
no rule that says just because you got to get
964
00:58:42.880 --> 00:58:45.079
just because you got naked, you got to go through
965
00:58:45.119 --> 00:58:48.000
the whole thing now, Okay, You're allowed to leave whenever
966
00:58:48.360 --> 00:58:52.079
you want. If you're still at the bar and you're
967
00:58:52.159 --> 00:58:55.199
not feeling good, you don't feel comfortable, you don't feel safe,
968
00:58:55.440 --> 00:58:56.639
order an angel shot.
969
00:58:57.280 --> 00:59:00.480
This is a code word for I need help.
970
00:59:01.000 --> 00:59:03.480
And if the bartender goes, I don't know how to
971
00:59:03.519 --> 00:59:06.280
make an angel shot? What's that? Tell that bartender to
972
00:59:06.360 --> 00:59:10.360
google it. Okay, yeah, because as soon as you google it,
973
00:59:10.840 --> 00:59:13.360
you're gonna find out what the angel shot is. And
974
00:59:13.519 --> 00:59:15.559
they will find out what the angel shot is and
975
00:59:15.719 --> 00:59:17.719
try to do it. When you're not you know, with
976
00:59:17.960 --> 00:59:19.679
that individual, let them know, Hey, you gotta go to
977
00:59:19.719 --> 00:59:21.880
the bathroom or something. You stop by and talk to
978
00:59:21.920 --> 00:59:24.679
the bartender on the way. It's a nice, down low
979
00:59:24.880 --> 00:59:26.840
like peaceable way to be able to get out of this.
980
00:59:27.639 --> 00:59:30.519
So now everybody asks me a class, is there a
981
00:59:30.639 --> 00:59:33.760
hand signal? Like I've seen hand signals from people that
982
00:59:33.880 --> 00:59:37.920
were in compromised situation that they use to alert people
983
00:59:38.519 --> 00:59:41.320
that they were in trouble and needed help. I haven't
984
00:59:41.400 --> 00:59:45.159
found a universal one like the angel shot is universal. Well,
985
00:59:45.199 --> 00:59:48.840
I haven't found a universal hand signal collect signal to
986
00:59:49.000 --> 00:59:53.000
somebody that you're not doing well. I have seen a
987
00:59:53.039 --> 00:59:57.000
lot of cases where a woman's out jogging or whatever
988
00:59:57.119 --> 01:00:02.239
by herself, she realizes she's being stalked, and she finds
989
01:00:02.639 --> 01:00:06.320
one of our beloved sheep dogs, you know, a gentleman who's.
990
01:00:06.079 --> 01:00:08.480
Standing around, and strike up a conversation.
991
01:00:08.639 --> 01:00:11.599
Hey, I'm so glad we met up here today. I
992
01:00:11.639 --> 01:00:14.679
haven't seen you in so long. A lot of times
993
01:00:14.760 --> 01:00:17.199
they will become aware of what's going on and help
994
01:00:17.280 --> 01:00:20.159
you out. Now again, they're starting to buddy up because
995
01:00:20.199 --> 01:00:22.800
they see these They they watch YouTube videos too, right,
996
01:00:22.920 --> 01:00:28.119
they see what's happening, So always be ever so vigilant,
997
01:00:28.840 --> 01:00:31.159
and I would recommend a battle buddy, especially if we're
998
01:00:31.159 --> 01:00:32.280
going running and stuff like that.
999
01:00:33.119 --> 01:00:36.320
But or go run in the gym where it's safer.
1000
01:00:37.320 --> 01:00:40.880
But uh, that is some of the examples I've seen
1001
01:00:41.079 --> 01:00:43.760
of good people helping out other good people when they're
1002
01:00:43.800 --> 01:00:47.880
in bad circumstances. So how do they control their victims?
1003
01:00:48.320 --> 01:00:52.079
They control their victims with threats and intimidation. You know,
1004
01:00:52.159 --> 01:00:54.920
we're gonna kill your family. We're gonna kill your children,
1005
01:00:55.000 --> 01:00:56.199
this kind of thing if you don't.
1006
01:00:56.039 --> 01:00:56.639
Do what we want.
1007
01:00:57.719 --> 01:01:03.320
Isolation, so they you away from your family members. They
1008
01:01:03.519 --> 01:01:05.679
don't want you to be with your friends that you
1009
01:01:06.079 --> 01:01:08.400
usually hang out with. That kind of deal, so that
1010
01:01:08.559 --> 01:01:11.760
they can emotionally manipulate you. Which is the next one
1011
01:01:11.800 --> 01:01:15.079
on the list. Drug addictions. You get addicted to the
1012
01:01:15.119 --> 01:01:17.159
wrong thing. Now they got you where they want you.
1013
01:01:17.400 --> 01:01:20.440
We can offer you this that as long as you
1014
01:01:20.559 --> 01:01:21.400
do what we want.
1015
01:01:21.320 --> 01:01:21.599
You to do.
1016
01:01:22.400 --> 01:01:26.199
And dehumanization and this is like nobody really loves you anyway,
1017
01:01:26.639 --> 01:01:28.440
nobody wants you around. What else are you going to
1018
01:01:28.480 --> 01:01:32.920
be good for? Right? You know, hear you're valued out there?
1019
01:01:33.440 --> 01:01:38.239
Who cares about you? If you're taken prisoner, you can
1020
01:01:38.519 --> 01:01:43.039
develop Stockholm effect lot faster than you think. There was
1021
01:01:43.119 --> 01:01:46.639
a famous bank robbery where the people that were held
1022
01:01:46.760 --> 01:01:49.599
hostage were like, oh, well, he was just trying to
1023
01:01:49.679 --> 01:01:51.599
feed his family and blah blah blah, and it was
1024
01:01:51.719 --> 01:01:54.199
like three hours into that and they were already feeling
1025
01:01:54.280 --> 01:01:59.239
guilty for this person. Because humans thrive on compassion. So
1026
01:01:59.719 --> 01:02:03.199
some people in this world are psychopaths and they literally
1027
01:02:03.400 --> 01:02:08.880
were not born with the ability to have the compassion
1028
01:02:09.480 --> 01:02:14.039
right and I always the amygdala, it doesn't regulate their
1029
01:02:14.079 --> 01:02:18.400
compassion properly, and it is a physical problem within this individual.
1030
01:02:19.280 --> 01:02:24.760
But we are breeding sociopaths in our cities. The brain
1031
01:02:24.920 --> 01:02:27.920
is only wired for about one hundred and ten a
1032
01:02:28.079 --> 01:02:30.920
tribe of about one hundred and ten people. Once you
1033
01:02:31.039 --> 01:02:34.400
go over that one hundred and ten people, you're now
1034
01:02:34.679 --> 01:02:38.039
into I don't care about you. You're just another face
1035
01:02:38.119 --> 01:02:41.360
in the crowd. You're just another person. You're just another face,
1036
01:02:41.519 --> 01:02:45.719
another body another And in our cities where there's millions
1037
01:02:45.760 --> 01:02:49.440
of people and you're just inundated with it all day long,
1038
01:02:50.480 --> 01:02:54.360
we are breeding sociopaths. They are being bred to not
1039
01:02:54.599 --> 01:02:59.400
be compassionate because their ancient brain is just overwhelmed with
1040
01:02:59.559 --> 01:03:02.559
the side of their tribe. And that is why nobody
1041
01:03:02.679 --> 01:03:06.280
helped that gal on the bus in Ukraine because or
1042
01:03:06.400 --> 01:03:09.400
uh and that bus. That gal from Ukraine that was
1043
01:03:09.480 --> 01:03:12.519
stabbed on the bus, that's why nobody helped her, because
1044
01:03:12.519 --> 01:03:13.800
she wasn't part of their tribe.
1045
01:03:14.360 --> 01:03:16.639
Everybody figures, you know, somebody else come along.
1046
01:03:17.360 --> 01:03:20.280
When you break down in a rural area, you're more
1047
01:03:20.519 --> 01:03:23.239
likely to receive help than if you break down in
1048
01:03:23.320 --> 01:03:26.239
the city, because everybody thinks somebody else will come along,
1049
01:03:26.480 --> 01:03:31.320
not my monkey, not my circus. Right, Well, our cities
1050
01:03:31.360 --> 01:03:35.320
are making these sociopaths and it's a really big problem.
1051
01:03:37.159 --> 01:03:40.679
So I don't know the solution there, but I do
1052
01:03:40.840 --> 01:03:44.199
know there's a problem that exists there. And I heard
1053
01:03:44.280 --> 01:03:46.639
somebody say, well, the solution is Jesus, and I pray
1054
01:03:46.760 --> 01:03:50.719
that that is the answer. But you know, that's that's
1055
01:03:51.079 --> 01:03:52.880
all I got for you there. We need to do
1056
01:03:53.000 --> 01:03:56.599
something about it, though. So if you're taking prisoner, hopelessness
1057
01:03:56.760 --> 01:04:00.440
is your greatest source of danger. You need to be
1058
01:04:00.599 --> 01:04:04.679
quietly planning to escape all the time. Try to befriend them,
1059
01:04:05.159 --> 01:04:09.599
cooperate enough that you can start pushing your bounds. Appeal
1060
01:04:09.639 --> 01:04:12.760
to their combation. How far will they let you stray?
1061
01:04:13.239 --> 01:04:16.440
And be stubbornly hopeful. So there was a guy in
1062
01:04:16.559 --> 01:04:18.840
World War two and I always forget his name, and
1063
01:04:18.920 --> 01:04:21.000
it begins with an F. And I even had somebody.
1064
01:04:20.880 --> 01:04:22.039
Nail it at prepper camp.
1065
01:04:23.920 --> 01:04:27.920
But he was Polish and they killed his family and
1066
01:04:27.960 --> 01:04:29.920
they burned out his home and he didn't have a
1067
01:04:30.000 --> 01:04:33.639
job anymore. They took him to the Russian prison camp
1068
01:04:34.239 --> 01:04:37.239
and they beat him and tortured him, and he came
1069
01:04:37.280 --> 01:04:40.159
out and he survived, and he was all right, and
1070
01:04:40.320 --> 01:04:42.679
he was actually really well rounded. And they were like,
1071
01:04:42.880 --> 01:04:45.760
how did you make it through all that? I mean
1072
01:04:45.840 --> 01:04:49.119
that you've had your whole life devastated. And he said,
1073
01:04:49.199 --> 01:04:51.079
you know, they can take my family, and they can
1074
01:04:51.159 --> 01:04:53.719
take my home, they can take my job, but they
1075
01:04:53.760 --> 01:04:55.000
can't take my spirit away.
1076
01:04:56.039 --> 01:04:57.679
And that's what we got to remember.
1077
01:04:57.719 --> 01:04:59.480
If you're ever in a situation like that, you just
1078
01:04:59.559 --> 01:05:02.599
have to be stubbornly hopeful that you're gonna make it
1079
01:05:02.719 --> 01:05:09.760
home right, all right. The bottom line is if you're
1080
01:05:09.800 --> 01:05:12.519
gonna go wow, you might as well go out fighting.
1081
01:05:12.960 --> 01:05:15.800
You need to fight for your life with a mad
1082
01:05:16.320 --> 01:05:20.880
dog mindset. It is ninety percent your mind and your
1083
01:05:21.039 --> 01:05:25.000
will and ten percent skill. It's all about your attitude.
1084
01:05:25.679 --> 01:05:29.559
So learn the basic self defense moves, practice them until
1085
01:05:29.599 --> 01:05:34.039
you exude confidence like nobody's business. And just know, if
1086
01:05:34.159 --> 01:05:36.880
anybody were come up to try to make you a victim,
1087
01:05:36.920 --> 01:05:41.039
you are going to blind, deafen, main kill because your
1088
01:05:41.239 --> 01:05:45.079
life depends on it and your life is absolutely valuable
1089
01:05:45.960 --> 01:05:49.079
one hundred percent every one of God's children, right, We're
1090
01:05:49.119 --> 01:05:52.199
all here for a reason. Hopefully it's to work together
1091
01:05:52.320 --> 01:05:55.519
for a better future. So how can you help with
1092
01:05:55.639 --> 01:05:58.760
this situation? Start at home if you want to make
1093
01:05:58.800 --> 01:06:01.519
a difference in the world, make your bed in the morning,
1094
01:06:02.000 --> 01:06:06.519
meaning make sure you start at home. Talk about human trafficking.
1095
01:06:07.199 --> 01:06:09.639
We can't keep pushing this under the rug like it
1096
01:06:09.719 --> 01:06:12.079
doesn't exist. We have to talk about it and we
1097
01:06:12.320 --> 01:06:14.760
have to put it out in the open, and we
1098
01:06:14.920 --> 01:06:17.880
have to teach people's skills on how to get around it.
1099
01:06:18.960 --> 01:06:22.840
Fathers need to be involved as a positive role model
1100
01:06:22.920 --> 01:06:25.639
in their daughter's life so they have a clear example
1101
01:06:25.760 --> 01:06:30.159
of how men should behave. We need our fathers, we
1102
01:06:30.320 --> 01:06:31.480
need good fathers.
1103
01:06:31.599 --> 01:06:32.880
We need sheep dogs.
1104
01:06:33.039 --> 01:06:35.320
These are the men that are willing to stand against
1105
01:06:35.360 --> 01:06:39.719
the evil, because without the sheep dogs, the wolves take over,
1106
01:06:40.960 --> 01:06:46.199
and little young men need to see how dad treats
1107
01:06:46.280 --> 01:06:49.039
a woman properly, and that man should be treating that
1108
01:06:49.159 --> 01:06:51.679
woman properly, and that woman should be showing the respect
1109
01:06:51.760 --> 01:06:54.920
to the man as well. It's a mutual respect. I've
1110
01:06:54.960 --> 01:07:00.000
been married for a lot of years now, twenty seven,
1111
01:07:01.119 --> 01:07:05.519
I'm at years married and I'm you know, I'm not
1112
01:07:06.159 --> 01:07:10.280
cooking cleaning kind of gal like. We don't have really
1113
01:07:10.360 --> 01:07:13.760
a traditional construct. What we do have is teamwork and
1114
01:07:13.880 --> 01:07:16.480
mutual respect one hundred percent of the time. And I
1115
01:07:16.639 --> 01:07:20.320
respect him for being that man who has been just
1116
01:07:20.400 --> 01:07:23.360
the most wonderful father that I can imagine, just such
1117
01:07:23.360 --> 01:07:26.840
a role model to his sons on how to treat
1118
01:07:26.920 --> 01:07:30.000
that woman with respect so that when they get older,
1119
01:07:30.199 --> 01:07:33.079
they know how to be treated with respect and what
1120
01:07:33.280 --> 01:07:36.559
respect and return looks like for them so they don't
1121
01:07:36.599 --> 01:07:39.760
get walked all over as well. We're really off kilter
1122
01:07:39.920 --> 01:07:43.400
as far as it goes everybody kind of bashing the
1123
01:07:43.559 --> 01:07:46.639
male role models and masculinity.
1124
01:07:46.719 --> 01:07:47.800
That is so not true.
1125
01:07:48.519 --> 01:07:51.880
There are protectors, there are providers, and we need them
1126
01:07:51.920 --> 01:07:54.960
one hundred percent present in our child's life. So that's
1127
01:07:55.039 --> 01:07:57.719
kind of my rant that I do on just how
1128
01:07:57.800 --> 01:08:02.599
important fathers are to our family structures. Mothers, you need
1129
01:08:02.679 --> 01:08:05.880
to be present. We usually are like the first line
1130
01:08:05.960 --> 01:08:08.280
of oh no, Mom, this happened, I got to talk
1131
01:08:08.320 --> 01:08:11.719
to dad about it or whatever. You know, be present,
1132
01:08:11.960 --> 01:08:15.880
be that loving person. Your your child is not your
1133
01:08:15.920 --> 01:08:20.199
meal ticket. So don't for one minute believe that your
1134
01:08:20.319 --> 01:08:23.760
child is your meal ticket and then talk about it
1135
01:08:23.840 --> 01:08:28.199
at the dinner table. Brainstorm with them, run possible scenarios,
1136
01:08:28.319 --> 01:08:30.800
and give them tools on how they should react. Right.
1137
01:08:30.920 --> 01:08:35.119
The key is love, education, and knowledge to be able
1138
01:08:35.199 --> 01:08:38.680
to get past this. So how can you tell if
1139
01:08:38.720 --> 01:08:43.960
somebody is being trafficked? Random strangers make all the difference
1140
01:08:44.079 --> 01:08:47.399
in the lives of these children that are literally living
1141
01:08:47.520 --> 01:08:51.000
in hell? Okay, So there was a bus driver who
1142
01:08:51.119 --> 01:08:54.039
saw mom dropping the kid off on her own to
1143
01:08:54.159 --> 01:08:58.039
go with this dude, right, and the bus driver said
1144
01:08:58.119 --> 01:09:02.760
something and the hell ended for that child. And that
1145
01:09:02.920 --> 01:09:06.279
was from her own mother. So yes, there's times when
1146
01:09:06.399 --> 01:09:09.199
you want to be socially appropriate and maybe not call
1147
01:09:09.319 --> 01:09:12.159
things out, but if you see something weird, you need
1148
01:09:12.239 --> 01:09:15.960
to say something about this one because if we don't,
1149
01:09:16.720 --> 01:09:20.880
then that child is going to be condemned to that life. Also,
1150
01:09:20.960 --> 01:09:24.279
there was a flight attendant. They have flight attendant training
1151
01:09:24.399 --> 01:09:29.319
now and flight attendant programs where they're just training flight
1152
01:09:29.359 --> 01:09:32.479
attendants to be able to recognize when a child's being trafficked.
1153
01:09:33.399 --> 01:09:36.960
This woman noticed that this child was very, very uneasy.
1154
01:09:37.560 --> 01:09:42.159
Things weren't good, and so she said something and saved
1155
01:09:42.239 --> 01:09:45.920
this child from this guy. So a couple of great examples.
1156
01:09:46.119 --> 01:09:49.079
You know how how people doing the right thing at
1157
01:09:49.079 --> 01:09:52.199
the right time really made a difference. So look for
1158
01:09:52.479 --> 01:09:56.359
somebody who has lack of control of their own documents, money,
1159
01:09:56.680 --> 01:10:00.800
or their schedule right, so there'd be kind of ladder
1160
01:10:00.800 --> 01:10:06.479
around by somebody else. Physical indicators include signs of physical abuse,
1161
01:10:06.960 --> 01:10:11.479
male nourishment, poor hygiene, those kind of things. They usually
1162
01:10:11.560 --> 01:10:14.159
walk around pretty afraid of what's going on, with a
1163
01:10:14.239 --> 01:10:18.039
lot of anxiety, depression, some missive behavior. They don't want
1164
01:10:18.039 --> 01:10:20.560
to look you in the eye, and they're unable to
1165
01:10:20.600 --> 01:10:23.039
speak for themselves. So you ask them a question and
1166
01:10:23.159 --> 01:10:26.399
somebody else is answered for them. If you do get
1167
01:10:26.439 --> 01:10:28.800
the opportunity to speak with them. A lot of times
1168
01:10:28.880 --> 01:10:31.920
they've been told what to say. They have a scripted
1169
01:10:33.600 --> 01:10:37.920
conversation that they're supposed to have, and so you ask them,
1170
01:10:38.000 --> 01:10:41.039
where are you from? What was your mom's name, just
1171
01:10:41.159 --> 01:10:44.119
a series of questions, and then revisit some of the
1172
01:10:44.399 --> 01:10:46.720
same questions where did you say you were from? Again?
1173
01:10:47.199 --> 01:10:49.720
And see if they're messing up when you revisit the
1174
01:10:49.800 --> 01:10:52.680
same questions. See if they're giving you different answers, See
1175
01:10:52.680 --> 01:10:55.000
if they're thinking a little too hard about where am
1176
01:10:55.039 --> 01:10:56.520
I from? What was you know?
1177
01:10:56.640 --> 01:10:57.880
What was I supposed to say?
1178
01:10:58.279 --> 01:11:01.359
Those are all really good indicators that somebody's being trafficked.
1179
01:11:02.720 --> 01:11:06.199
Working in living conditions, so sometimes they're living right where
1180
01:11:06.239 --> 01:11:09.000
they're working. It's a red flag. Although you know, we
1181
01:11:09.119 --> 01:11:11.680
do have instances where people live and work at the
1182
01:11:11.720 --> 01:11:16.520
same spot. So if you are a human trafficking victim,
1183
01:11:16.880 --> 01:11:19.199
or you know with somebody who could be a human
1184
01:11:19.279 --> 01:11:24.399
trafficking victim, we do have a national hotline for human trafficking.
1185
01:11:24.840 --> 01:11:28.159
I play the commercial during my audio drama every single
1186
01:11:28.239 --> 01:11:32.760
episode because I don't I do understand why we don't
1187
01:11:32.800 --> 01:11:35.600
have this commercial on TV because a lot of our
1188
01:11:35.640 --> 01:11:39.319
elites are wrapped up into the pedophilia and whatnot, But
1189
01:11:39.479 --> 01:11:43.239
we should have this commercial on our TVs all the time.
1190
01:11:43.479 --> 01:11:45.800
You know, we're watching all these pill commercials and all
1191
01:11:45.960 --> 01:11:48.920
this stuff, and we're not even seeing that you know,
1192
01:11:49.079 --> 01:11:52.800
there's there's real things you can do to prevent human trafficking.
1193
01:11:53.279 --> 01:11:55.840
We have the phone line, we have the text line.
1194
01:11:56.439 --> 01:11:59.159
You can call it anonymously. You know, you can just
1195
01:11:59.319 --> 01:12:02.199
text and then the law enforcement is going to be
1196
01:12:02.239 --> 01:12:04.560
alerted to what's going on and you could be saved
1197
01:12:04.560 --> 01:12:08.279
in that life. So if you see something in this case,
1198
01:12:08.920 --> 01:12:12.479
say something. Okay. So now I'm gonna show you some
1199
01:12:12.920 --> 01:12:17.000
of the escapes that you can use to get out
1200
01:12:17.279 --> 01:12:21.720
of situations. The first one that we're gonna do is
1201
01:12:21.840 --> 01:12:23.199
getting out of zip ties.
1202
01:12:23.680 --> 01:12:26.199
So hold on one second. When I get this cued up,
1203
01:12:26.359 --> 01:12:27.039
Like I say.
1204
01:12:27.000 --> 01:12:30.640
I am, I'm dealing with a lot of technology tonight,
1205
01:12:30.880 --> 01:12:34.119
So you all just gotta give me a give me
1206
01:12:34.199 --> 01:12:35.079
a pass on that one.
1207
01:12:35.119 --> 01:12:36.199
I'm usually on a stage.
1208
01:12:37.479 --> 01:12:42.600
Okay. So I did not edit this video. And there's
1209
01:12:42.640 --> 01:12:45.319
a reason I didn't edit this video. And it's long,
1210
01:12:45.439 --> 01:12:48.039
it's gonna take us a while to get through. And
1211
01:12:48.159 --> 01:12:51.199
I didn't edit this video for a reason. It's because
1212
01:12:51.319 --> 01:12:56.640
this is challenging, right, this is hard to do. So
1213
01:12:56.760 --> 01:12:59.479
I wanted you to understand that. I didn't want you
1214
01:12:59.560 --> 01:13:01.439
to think like, oh, well, Sarah got out of it
1215
01:13:01.640 --> 01:13:04.399
three seconds. So I should be able to get out
1216
01:13:04.439 --> 01:13:07.800
of this super easy, right. So what I'm doing right
1217
01:13:07.840 --> 01:13:12.600
now is I untied my shoelaces. You can replace your
1218
01:13:12.600 --> 01:13:18.680
shoelaces with Paracord's a great idea. If they're really stout shoelaces,
1219
01:13:18.840 --> 01:13:21.920
like ones for boots and whatnot, usually those will work.
1220
01:13:23.880 --> 01:13:25.600
I mean even if they're not. I would try it
1221
01:13:26.119 --> 01:13:28.920
even if I had to. But I have a pair
1222
01:13:28.920 --> 01:13:33.000
of sneakers that don't have shoelaces, so I would not
1223
01:13:33.239 --> 01:13:35.319
have something from my feet that I could use.
1224
01:13:35.359 --> 01:13:36.880
And I can still use this method.
1225
01:13:37.520 --> 01:13:40.720
So they make really pretty paracord you can put in
1226
01:13:40.840 --> 01:13:42.319
a head wraps on your daughter.
1227
01:13:42.720 --> 01:13:44.319
They could make a cool little necklace.
1228
01:13:44.840 --> 01:13:48.039
I do worn against the bracelets and the necklaces though,
1229
01:13:48.520 --> 01:13:52.960
because if you've ever had paracord like in a bracelet
1230
01:13:53.199 --> 01:13:56.680
for ten years and you try to take that thing apart,
1231
01:13:57.199 --> 01:14:00.439
it's really hard to do. It's really stiff and really
1232
01:14:00.520 --> 01:14:03.239
hard to get apart. Okay, So I am putting the
1233
01:14:03.319 --> 01:14:06.479
para cord through the bottom of my hands on the
1234
01:14:06.560 --> 01:14:08.840
bottom and I just got it through. I pulled it
1235
01:14:08.920 --> 01:14:11.880
through with my mouth so that I can tie my
1236
01:14:12.000 --> 01:14:17.119
shoelaces together in a knot again. My hands are really tight.
1237
01:14:17.399 --> 01:14:20.000
Whenever we do stuff like this, my husband just thinks
1238
01:14:20.039 --> 01:14:22.439
it needs to be the tightest we've ever done it before.
1239
01:14:23.119 --> 01:14:25.800
And yeah, he makes hard things so tight.
1240
01:14:25.960 --> 01:14:27.800
That's why I can't do this day after day, you know,
1241
01:14:28.439 --> 01:14:29.439
of doing an example.
1242
01:14:30.960 --> 01:14:36.560
So I'm tying the shoelaces together and teasing him, and
1243
01:14:36.680 --> 01:14:40.760
then I'm gonna work my legs like I'm doing the bicycles. See,
1244
01:14:40.880 --> 01:14:44.199
the para cord is connected underneath my hands, and I'm
1245
01:14:44.279 --> 01:14:47.399
creating friction on that zip tie as the same time
1246
01:14:47.479 --> 01:14:52.279
I'm pulling my hands apart. Friction will break any zip ties,
1247
01:14:52.479 --> 01:14:55.359
no matter how big they are. But they do have
1248
01:14:55.520 --> 01:15:01.920
the really big ones now, so they would be really challenging.
1249
01:15:02.039 --> 01:15:05.479
But guess what, your life is worth it one worth it,
1250
01:15:06.000 --> 01:15:09.319
So whatever you gotta do, you do it all right.
1251
01:15:09.399 --> 01:15:12.439
The next one I'm gonna show you is escaping duct tape.
1252
01:15:12.920 --> 01:15:16.279
So again, my husband likes to put it on really tight,
1253
01:15:18.760 --> 01:15:23.399
and uh, get me all taped up here now. The
1254
01:15:23.479 --> 01:15:25.880
one thing I will say is see how I extended
1255
01:15:25.960 --> 01:15:29.079
my arms out really straight, so my elbows are almost together.
1256
01:15:29.760 --> 01:15:32.319
When somebody's trying to put duct tape on, you don't
1257
01:15:32.600 --> 01:15:36.439
do that see on them. Boop, you're out. Okay, I'm
1258
01:15:36.439 --> 01:15:42.279
gonna show you that one again, but uh oh boy,
1259
01:15:42.319 --> 01:15:44.479
I gotta get off of that picture. That looks horrible.
1260
01:15:44.840 --> 01:15:49.880
I'll see it like, ah, that's ugly. I like got
1261
01:15:50.000 --> 01:15:53.640
cross eyed and everything. I think. Okay, So with the
1262
01:15:53.760 --> 01:15:56.800
duct tape, see how I put my arms out really
1263
01:15:56.880 --> 01:15:59.079
straight like this. Don't do that. Try to keep your
1264
01:15:59.159 --> 01:16:02.720
elbows open as much as they'll allow you to keep
1265
01:16:02.760 --> 01:16:05.039
your elbows open. That's just gonna help you out in
1266
01:16:05.079 --> 01:16:08.800
the long run. When I get taped up, I'm gonna
1267
01:16:09.039 --> 01:16:12.880
drive my elbows into my hips as hard as I can.
1268
01:16:13.039 --> 01:16:17.439
We've done thick tape. We've done lots of circles of tape.
1269
01:16:17.880 --> 01:16:19.199
We've done few tape.
1270
01:16:19.680 --> 01:16:21.000
I've gotten out of all of them.
1271
01:16:22.359 --> 01:16:24.159
Let me show you the video one more time so
1272
01:16:24.319 --> 01:16:26.720
you can see my elbows are pretty together. That would
1273
01:16:26.760 --> 01:16:28.720
be a bad move. Don't do that. Don't make it
1274
01:16:28.800 --> 01:16:32.800
easy on your perpetrator to do something like that. And
1275
01:16:33.000 --> 01:16:36.920
then uh we put the tape around and then watch
1276
01:16:37.000 --> 01:16:40.239
my elbows. You're gonna see how I just drive them
1277
01:16:40.359 --> 01:16:45.319
into my hips. Right. Watch the elbows open, hands bam
1278
01:16:45.560 --> 01:16:49.439
into the hips. Boop, it breaks right, open, okay, So
1279
01:16:49.600 --> 01:16:55.920
it's really easy until it's not. So as times, Yeah,
1280
01:16:56.800 --> 01:16:59.960
if the tape's like rolled right, it doesn't go on flat,
1281
01:17:00.159 --> 01:17:05.880
it's like rolled up or That's the biggest thing I've found, honestly,
1282
01:17:06.119 --> 01:17:08.520
is like when it's crinkly, it's harder to get through.
1283
01:17:09.000 --> 01:17:13.319
So it's really easy until it's not. But as you're
1284
01:17:13.680 --> 01:17:17.680
driving your elbows over it, over it over again, because
1285
01:17:17.720 --> 01:17:19.479
you are not going to be a victim and you're
1286
01:17:19.560 --> 01:17:24.840
not gonna get stuck in that situation, it creates sweat,
1287
01:17:26.039 --> 01:17:30.239
which is beautiful because no duct tape can stand up
1288
01:17:30.279 --> 01:17:33.560
to sweat. It also gives you that stretch stretch stretch
1289
01:17:33.720 --> 01:17:36.600
moment where the duct tape is stretching and then you
1290
01:17:36.720 --> 01:17:43.520
can literally undo it from your hands, so typically works. Again,
1291
01:17:43.760 --> 01:17:46.439
friction will break duct tape. So if you could rub
1292
01:17:46.520 --> 01:17:49.520
your arms on a belt something like that. Again, whatever
1293
01:17:49.600 --> 01:17:52.279
you gotta do, all right. The last one that I'm
1294
01:17:52.319 --> 01:17:55.239
gonna show you is how to get out of handcuffs.
1295
01:17:55.960 --> 01:17:59.880
So they do make handcuffs that are clear on one side,
1296
01:18:00.039 --> 01:18:02.319
so you can learn to pick them. You can pick
1297
01:18:02.399 --> 01:18:06.199
them with a paper clip. It works really well, but
1298
01:18:06.359 --> 01:18:08.960
I found an easier method and I'm gonna explain to
1299
01:18:08.960 --> 01:18:12.119
you why I'm not such a fan of the picking
1300
01:18:12.239 --> 01:18:14.760
and a moment. But let me just show you what's
1301
01:18:14.800 --> 01:18:17.600
going on here. So I have the handcuffs on. These
1302
01:18:17.640 --> 01:18:23.720
are called ASP handcuffs ASP right, they're very good handcuffs
1303
01:18:24.920 --> 01:18:28.199
and expensive ones. So I'm putting the brad in between
1304
01:18:28.319 --> 01:18:31.239
the teeth there. You can use any little piece of metal,
1305
01:18:31.800 --> 01:18:35.039
but you put it in between the teeth and then
1306
01:18:35.079 --> 01:18:39.279
you push a little bit tighter. Let me get it
1307
01:18:39.359 --> 01:18:41.760
in there. See, it's not always easy. Sometimes you gotta
1308
01:18:41.760 --> 01:18:44.159
play with it. You've only got you know, so many hands,
1309
01:18:44.640 --> 01:18:48.079
and sometimes you gotta fiddle with it. But once you
1310
01:18:48.199 --> 01:18:51.079
get it slid in between the teeth and that mechanism, bam,
1311
01:18:51.159 --> 01:18:54.079
you can open it right up and you can use
1312
01:18:54.279 --> 01:18:59.079
a piece of like a soda can bobby pin is
1313
01:18:59.239 --> 01:19:02.159
kind of big. I've tried, Like if you file it down,
1314
01:19:02.279 --> 01:19:05.680
you can do it. You really need like a flat metal,
1315
01:19:05.880 --> 01:19:08.239
so honestly, like the soda can would be better. Here,
1316
01:19:08.279 --> 01:19:12.239
I'll show it to you one more time. So picking
1317
01:19:12.439 --> 01:19:16.840
the handcuffs and getting out of the handcuffs is easy
1318
01:19:18.359 --> 01:19:23.479
until it's not. And why isn't it always so easy? Sarah,
1319
01:19:23.640 --> 01:19:27.039
you just showed us it was so easy. Well, with handcuffs,
1320
01:19:27.439 --> 01:19:30.479
and specifically with good handcuffs like these ones. They don't
1321
01:19:30.520 --> 01:19:33.800
always do it, but specifically with good handcuffs like these ones,
1322
01:19:35.680 --> 01:19:39.720
they do a double lock. So the police like the
1323
01:19:39.800 --> 01:19:42.600
double lock, because I'm not saying you should ever try
1324
01:19:42.640 --> 01:19:45.079
to pick locks if the police have you in handcuffs, Okay,
1325
01:19:46.720 --> 01:19:49.079
so don't do that. This is only for if it's
1326
01:19:49.119 --> 01:19:54.199
bad guys. So the police use the double locking mechanism
1327
01:19:54.399 --> 01:19:57.319
so that the handcuff can't tighten around your wrist and
1328
01:19:57.479 --> 01:20:01.920
get really really painful, the blood supply off to your rest,
1329
01:20:02.039 --> 01:20:05.960
that kind of thing. Some perpetrators are also going to
1330
01:20:06.159 --> 01:20:10.000
use those same types of cuffs, right, So once they're
1331
01:20:10.039 --> 01:20:13.119
double locked, you can't get them back, you can't push
1332
01:20:13.159 --> 01:20:16.720
them in anymore. They're done. And you can buy the
1333
01:20:16.800 --> 01:20:19.760
double lock ones that have the clear face, so you
1334
01:20:19.880 --> 01:20:22.800
can learn to pick that absolutely, And I keep a
1335
01:20:22.840 --> 01:20:23.560
paper clip on the.
1336
01:20:23.560 --> 01:20:25.760
Back of my hat just for that reason. You can
1337
01:20:25.880 --> 01:20:27.000
definitely learn to pick up.
1338
01:20:27.960 --> 01:20:36.119
However, at Amazon they sell universal handcuff keys and they
1339
01:20:36.319 --> 01:20:39.640
sell them for about five bucks for like ten of them.
1340
01:20:40.720 --> 01:20:44.560
So what I did was I have my universal handcuff
1341
01:20:44.680 --> 01:20:47.159
key clipped into my hat, So all I have to
1342
01:20:47.239 --> 01:20:49.479
do is knock my hat backwards and grab it in
1343
01:20:49.520 --> 01:20:52.479
my hands. And I have a handcuff key. It's much
1344
01:20:52.560 --> 01:20:54.960
easier to just use the key to undo them. I
1345
01:20:55.079 --> 01:20:58.520
have a key in my purse and lead jeans. You know,
1346
01:20:58.680 --> 01:21:00.800
the genes that have a leather pouch in the back
1347
01:21:00.960 --> 01:21:04.800
or the leather patch in the back, you can undo
1348
01:21:04.880 --> 01:21:07.640
a couple of stitches on that slide one of the
1349
01:21:07.720 --> 01:21:11.119
keys in there. You can sew them to the inside
1350
01:21:11.159 --> 01:21:15.279
of any kind of skirt, any kind of genes if
1351
01:21:15.319 --> 01:21:18.920
you are searched. Of course, that you know, you run
1352
01:21:19.039 --> 01:21:21.439
more of a risk of them seeing the key there,
1353
01:21:21.960 --> 01:21:24.680
unless you're kind of like hiding it within fabric that
1354
01:21:24.840 --> 01:21:25.279
kind of thing.
1355
01:21:26.239 --> 01:21:27.680
But I just hide them everywhere.
1356
01:21:27.880 --> 01:21:31.039
You know now that I figured out, like, oh, I've
1357
01:21:31.119 --> 01:21:33.560
tried it in the universal keys. I've tried them in
1358
01:21:33.760 --> 01:21:36.800
every single pair of handcuffs that I've gotten my hands on,
1359
01:21:37.439 --> 01:21:40.119
and they work in all of them. Every single pair
1360
01:21:40.199 --> 01:21:42.840
that I've ever picked up will be undone by the
1361
01:21:42.960 --> 01:21:47.399
universal handcuff key. Make sure it says that it will
1362
01:21:47.479 --> 01:21:50.399
open up the asp asp. Those are the best ones.
1363
01:21:50.760 --> 01:21:55.239
The best handcuffs. Those have the most specific key for them,
1364
01:21:56.199 --> 01:21:58.199
so make sure when you're looking at the universal key,
1365
01:21:58.359 --> 01:22:00.680
it says that will open up that one, because that
1366
01:22:01.039 --> 01:22:03.960
that's the winner. Like Smith and Wesson won't open the
1367
01:22:04.560 --> 01:22:09.560
ASP handcuffs, but the ASP handcuff key will open the
1368
01:22:09.600 --> 01:22:12.640
Smith and Wesson ones. So those are are the report
1369
01:22:12.680 --> 01:22:15.479
ones to get. And I mean, why recreate the wheel
1370
01:22:16.000 --> 01:22:18.680
if you can just hide keys everywhere and you're good
1371
01:22:18.720 --> 01:22:21.880
to go. However, most of the time I do see
1372
01:22:22.000 --> 01:22:28.840
that the they're using the zip ties, the duct tape
1373
01:22:29.079 --> 01:22:32.199
things like that much more readily than actual handcuffs.
1374
01:22:32.239 --> 01:22:33.079
I mean it's cheaper.
1375
01:22:33.640 --> 01:22:36.840
You know, they're just cheap, I guess, cheap criminals, and
1376
01:22:37.479 --> 01:22:41.079
it's cheaper for them to do the zip ties and
1377
01:22:41.399 --> 01:22:44.760
the duct tape. They have the new zip ties that
1378
01:22:44.920 --> 01:22:47.800
have like it's really thick and they have like a
1379
01:22:47.880 --> 01:22:50.439
center divider because they're used for handcuffs more.
1380
01:22:51.000 --> 01:22:53.720
And those ones would be just such a challenge to
1381
01:22:53.800 --> 01:22:54.239
get out of.
1382
01:22:54.880 --> 01:22:57.279
But you can do it. You can do it. Your
1383
01:22:57.359 --> 01:23:01.439
life's worth it. So are alrighty, Well, that is my
1384
01:23:03.479 --> 01:23:08.520
anti abduction, kidnapping and self defense class. I'm going to
1385
01:23:08.880 --> 01:23:12.079
encourage you guys to go out and find a martial
1386
01:23:12.159 --> 01:23:14.760
arts school in your area. Like I say, they're everywhere.
1387
01:23:15.560 --> 01:23:18.079
Usually you get a week free class. Make sure you
1388
01:23:18.279 --> 01:23:22.439
like the instructor, make sure you like the class that
1389
01:23:22.520 --> 01:23:25.560
you're there with the people that are there, because the
1390
01:23:25.600 --> 01:23:28.520
people you're training with are just as important. But it
1391
01:23:28.680 --> 01:23:32.720
is ninety percent your attitude and ten percent your skills.
1392
01:23:33.439 --> 01:23:35.640
You can win the day a lot of time just
1393
01:23:35.720 --> 01:23:40.039
with a superior mental attitude. So I'll I'll end on
1394
01:23:40.119 --> 01:23:44.640
a funny note. I went to a bachelorette party. And
1395
01:23:44.920 --> 01:23:49.760
at the bachelorette party, I don't want to sound racist
1396
01:23:50.079 --> 01:23:54.159
thing because I have many, many, whole variety of friends
1397
01:23:54.319 --> 01:23:59.319
of different colors, but we were about six white gals
1398
01:23:59.600 --> 01:24:03.439
in of we were the only white girls in the bar,
1399
01:24:03.680 --> 01:24:06.920
I'm going to put it that way. And the bachelorette
1400
01:24:07.039 --> 01:24:10.479
had she's got a booty like you wouldn't believe, right,
1401
01:24:11.479 --> 01:24:14.840
So all of the black gentlemen were very interested in her,
1402
01:24:15.680 --> 01:24:20.520
and all the black women were very upset about this
1403
01:24:20.680 --> 01:24:24.159
gal coming in and I'm me doing my thing, and
1404
01:24:24.720 --> 01:24:27.079
finally this guy comes up and asks me, Hey, are
1405
01:24:27.119 --> 01:24:30.479
you a lesbian? And I was like, yeah, I am.
1406
01:24:31.359 --> 01:24:34.359
And all these chicks are my chicks, and.
1407
01:24:34.439 --> 01:24:38.560
If anybody touches them, they're talking to me about it.
1408
01:24:39.439 --> 01:24:39.560
Right.
1409
01:24:40.079 --> 01:24:43.079
They were safe all night long, just because I put
1410
01:24:43.159 --> 01:24:48.960
up this huge front about what a badass lesbian. So
1411
01:24:49.880 --> 01:24:53.600
you know, it's mindset. It's mindset you can rule the day,
1412
01:24:54.119 --> 01:24:55.920
and then if you have the skills to back it
1413
01:24:56.039 --> 01:24:57.800
up on top of it, I mean all the better.
1414
01:24:58.039 --> 01:24:59.479
And I danced with my friend.
1415
01:24:59.680 --> 01:25:02.159
I I made sure I was kind of bodyguarding for
1416
01:25:02.279 --> 01:25:05.000
her on the dance floor and whatnot. I made sure
1417
01:25:05.039 --> 01:25:08.720
that everybody got at home safe and that you know,
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01:25:08.840 --> 01:25:11.920
everybody's great people. I'm not trying to say anything about
1419
01:25:12.319 --> 01:25:14.920
you know, anybody bad. I've got all kinds of friends
1420
01:25:14.960 --> 01:25:17.800
of every different colors. So I'm definitely not a racist.
1421
01:25:17.880 --> 01:25:20.880
But you know, when you're when you when you're in
1422
01:25:21.239 --> 01:25:25.720
an iffy area and things could go wrong, and you're
1423
01:25:25.760 --> 01:25:28.239
now you're in the city, like deep city, and you
1424
01:25:28.479 --> 01:25:31.760
usually live out in the country, and so uh yeah,
1425
01:25:31.800 --> 01:25:34.640
it's about mindset, and it's about just knowing that you're
1426
01:25:34.680 --> 01:25:36.640
going to dominate the day. You're not going to become
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a victim, and there's nothing that anybody can do to
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make you into that victim. So I hope you guys
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enjoyed the presentation. I'm going to go ahead and put
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one together that's geared towards the kids so that we
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have something that we can show the children to kind
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of ignite that conversation and get that going and more.
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Of a.
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Less you know, there's a lot of graphic material and
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everything that goes on with this class, so, you know,
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just a way that we can show the children. But
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I've had a ton of kids come to my class.
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I've had to come over and over again.
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They love it, and so I'm always a big proponent of,
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01:26:19.239 --> 01:26:21.079
you know, let them let them know what's going on.
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All right, I haven't even been looking at comments. I'm
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going to open it up for just one second if
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I can get it pulled up and.
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See if anybody has anything.
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Do you see anything on Element Chin?
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Anybody know?
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01:26:46.239 --> 01:26:50.199
Not least time I look. Let's look again. I saw
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01:26:50.479 --> 01:26:54.600
garter Girl was in there, but there wasn't really I
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think I found the YouTube. Uh the entertainment would about
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01:27:04.520 --> 01:27:06.039
human trafficking, so I threw.
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01:27:05.880 --> 01:27:06.439
Them in there.
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Okay, perfect, yeah, perfect, Yeah.
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If you guys have any questions, now is the time
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all the I'm gonna go ahead and it looks.
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01:27:16.199 --> 01:27:18.600
Like it sounds like ambers over it.
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She's upstairs.
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Yeah, we're in the house and I'm downstairs with the
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door closed. She's upstairs.
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She's like down part of the part of the podcast. Yes,
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she's gonna get abducted. I hope you enjoyed it. Please
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share this video with everyone you know. It's gonna be
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posted at PBN. It'll also be posted over on uh
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01:27:44.359 --> 01:27:46.880
my YouTube author Sarah after the Way. It's gonna be
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posted over there. It will also be posted at Earth
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01:27:50.079 --> 01:27:54.319
series dot com. Please feel free to share this video
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as far and wide as you can. I'm gonna break
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01:27:57.079 --> 01:27:59.880
it into some shorts as well, so we can just
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keep spreading the word and helping people be prepared and
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stay safe. Alrighty guys, Until next time, I'm dream thrive
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oh no technology See guys.
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