The Surprising Truth About How Change Uncovers Our Hidden Faults

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Jendary Podcast, the TheeConstructing Topic Podcast, and welcome,
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welcome to a beautiful episode.
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People out there looking at
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the YouTube and all, you know, I got a little jock, oh, I did not go jock,
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but I think that I want to remind people that in this episode,
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a little interesting thing happened to me, that I'm pretty sure that a lot of
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people can relate into the terms of whatever happened in life.
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One of those things that chuck it up right chuck it up or chuck chuck it up or like you know.
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Uh notepad chalkboard,
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notepad right did i say that well i said notepad the actual physical and,
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pad in the computer that's out for those people that enjoy technology a little bit more
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than the regular stuff out there and today we're gonna do a life's reminder
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got a good so And in this episode, kind of life's reminders when change,
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exposes our faults.
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And again, I got this if you're on YouTube, if you're listening to my podcast,
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however you listen to your podcast, Spotify, Apple, Podbeam,
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obviously, that's my platform.
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I suggest that go to YouTube as well, because you will see me in a hat and a
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jogging. I'm going to be like, you know, how can I say, practicing for the New
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York City Marathon somewhere in November, that beautiful marathon.
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I'll pass. Anyways, it is an interesting story that I was about to tell you.
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Family, everybody, your friends, your enemies, colleagues, whatever it is,
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aunts and aunts and nevies, everybody.
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Because we do have a little kind of life's lesson, do-do-do-do-do,
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because that's what life is all about.
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If you're living life and you're aware of what's going on in this world,
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you already know that sometimes, I'm going to say sometimes,
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many times, many people, like myself, and those who are living out there,
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always show that love, like, buy, and subscribe, all that good,
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is that we will kind of be living life, and there's something that's always
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going to happen that's going to remind ourselves, like, what the hell?
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Amen to that. I mean, I'm going to tell you off the bat. I don't want this little
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episode to be a little heartwarming episode because, again, many of us do tend
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to ask ourselves, are we a better version of ourselves? How can we get a version of ourselves?
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Sometimes we ain't going to answer, but sometimes we will. And I find myself,
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it happened to me for years, and one that I enjoy going to the gym.
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I am limited due to my car accident, my left foot, for those people that know
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me personally and those people who have been listening to my podcast.
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I am a survivor of the car accident, one of those deals where I say to myself,
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I'm a little, it does not stop me from making things happen.
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I enjoy the gym, and I actually enjoy nature with asterisk. People are going
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to be like, what you mean? Well, I'm like, yeah, nature with a asterisk.
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Meaning that you rock climbing.
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You ain't going to see me hiking somewhere where, you know.
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For nature In regards to what it is It's going to parks Central Park and Pelham
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Bay Park New York City in the Bronx,
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I like to enjoy going to these parks That do have a little bit of everything,
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Especially run, do your thing Do that free spirit thing.
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Let's go, just throw punches Do a little dance That's me, that's what I mean
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by nature Because I do enjoy Getting a little especially I tend to,
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to myself, I tend to enjoy.
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And when I'm networking, you know, hey, listen, the beverage seems to be,
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you know, you need a little sweat on.
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This week, you know, in a swatting heat of a heat wave in New York City,
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there was this part that I always see that's around money.
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And I'm always passing the full, as it might be, but, you know,
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I'm a few train stops And I'm like saying to myself Okay,
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I'll say the name of the park Just yet But it's one of those things Where I'm
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like You know I gotta hit this place I gotta somewhere Do something And have
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you And have Who's listening to this podcast,
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I was like Kind of thought like Damn I had I want to do that To do that You're
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gonna do it You don't do it.
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To me so many times But I figured You know what Let me just do it Friday I'm
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off from work And I decided, let me grab my whatever it is, a little bit of
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equipment there so I could do,
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you know, some kind of free spirit exercise. I don't know who. I'm not.
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You know, they got the little, uh, heck, this way you can, you know, use the bathroom.
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Oh, they got the emergency. I mean, they, you know, it's a little bit of it
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all. And I, and I love it. You know, it took me this long.
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This long. Guess what? I've been there back a few times. Because I enjoy little Nate.
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You know, it makes you kind of a reminder. It gives you that reflection.
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So I'm doing my thing and I'm like, yo, let's go. Let's make it happen. Oh, it's on.
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Water I have to keep in mind it's like five, six more and I'm like.
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And I'm like damn it's hot but I'm feeling good, I'm taking my booty a little
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bit of it all and that's my thing that I always tell people, oh I should do this,
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whether it's something you want to do, whether whatever venture in,
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whatever it is that you can self, oh be more specific trick okay i'm gonna do
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it i'm gonna do it i'm gonna do it i'm gonna do it come on that,
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and when i went there again i enjoyed myself the heat i was there for they got
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these trails you know i did my thing i finally did it,
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and as i go home i'm like yeah let's go let me tell you something that's my,
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Before I left It's like Now you're okay David Okay You know It went from positive
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Now it's feeling a little bit Where are you going with this David?
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Hear me out And this has happened To many When I was leaving.
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Filling in my stuff. You got your money, you know, it's always good, you know, to carry cash.
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Yeah, yeah. That swipe, it's always good to carry cash because you never know.
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I'm just saying, I'm just saying, you got your, you know, your battery,
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you got all that, got a couple of quarters, even a couple of quarters,
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even chains, because sometimes you go to a store, $9.15, and they'd be like,
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you got $0.15, and I'm like, no.
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Now, sometimes they A person could be like, fine, I don't got $0.15.
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They charge you less. They charge you $0.15. Yeah, whatever.
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If you don't even know who, you know what I'm talking about.
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They could give you $0.85, and you're going to have $0.85 in dimes and penny.
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So I, you know, kept a couple of teens in my thing, and I'm,
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you know, but something made me, like, gut feeling, say, David, check your keys.
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And in my mind, it's like I hear something kind of, you know,
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doing a little thing going on there. So I'm assuming that's my key.
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Yeah, I think people by now are going to be like, going. Yes, it will.
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A food, a nice smoothie going. How is that beat that's going to be?
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My soul. My soul.
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Yes, my soul.
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And as I'm I hear it's jingle jingle jingle and it's all Chang and that's Donami.
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They forgot house keys. I tell you, it doesn't matter. Tell savvy,
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thinking outside of the box, whatever it is, it don't matter.
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Panic it or no panic. It does happen to every person.
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Sometimes, what lesson in life in that one is that we will happen to have faults.
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I'm doing it. You know, I went yesterday to a job. I'm making sure that my keys was in my finger.
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I might as well just attach that, you know, somewhere, you know, surgically.
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But the fact that I ignore my gut instinct, I issue myself.
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My daughter, the keys that's jingling in there. And the fact that I'm home,
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now, good thing I had my cell phone, you know, to the house with no issues.
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But I waited 30 minutes And I kind of text the landlord Mr. Landlord You know.
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But I waited for 30 And in just Those 30 minutes Mad,
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And I want to take this lesson Happy But to get discouraged Doing something
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different Again, it's a life's lesson here Reminder,
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Eventually we'll do different things And we will eventually do better ourselves
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We're going to do that thing.
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But by God, geez.
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With thoughts. And if you're when changing. Try to do something different.
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It's going to expose. And going to remind us that.
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You're still this being. You're still this person. With certain habits.
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Certain patterns. You know what I mean? It's a cycle that you can't kind of break.
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That's what happened here. Myself. Once I came. A little.
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Punch in the face. For those who are listening. Not hard. I think I'll knock
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myself down. But I'm just saying. Come on.
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Get your crap together. then this is what life is.
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Lessons that we will continue to live.
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So we said, if you're living life and you're not learning, then something is,
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what are you surrounded with?
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Who's your friends? Who's your colleagues? You know what I mean? You're not learning.
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And what are you doing that you're doing previous lessons?
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Was that the first time I leave my keys? No. Question, you know,
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might have happened before.
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That's why I was more upset but wow I've been again,
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now there was I woke up and I told a couple of people you know people that do
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this because I've been wanting to do this for years and,
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in a stab of a finger that would have been because of my fault and I waited,
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those 30 men waiting,
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I straightened my wife,
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and power and yes,
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contain different things and for those there, get discouraged because if you're
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going to go back home, there's something there.
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And you know, I'm losing my memory. I'm losing my mind. I left the water running and I'm swimming.
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Good thing I did not do that. I can't word.
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That's where you sit more because that's where let's make it happen.
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All right, everybody. Much love out there. You enjoyed this episode.
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All that good stuff because we got so much to talk about in this topic.
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I mean, in this podcast, we got different topics that we deconstruct on a weekly basis.
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I'm going to start ramming it up because, hey, listen, I'm finding myself that
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I do have a platform and I have beautiful people that need a little nudge in
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their head to remind themselves, hey, listen, and make a change,
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don't forget the other two.
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Everything needs to be prioritized. But let's make it happen.
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Out of here. Peace. I'm out.