What Narcissism Really Is with Melissa Guttman
In this episode, I'm joined by psychotherapist Melissa Guttman, LCAT, to separate the buzzwords from the clinical reality. We explore what narcissism actually is, how narcissistic abuse impacts your nervous system, why survivors often question their own reality, and how growing up in a narcissist...
Episode 12: Autism, Motherhood, & Fawning w/Dr. Ingrid Clayton
As much as I enjoyed Dr. Ingrid Clayton sharing a deeper dive into fawning, I was also grateful for her curiosity around my autism diagnosis. The overlaps of two stories: childhood trauma, scapegoating, fawning, autism, motherhood, and the stress and pressure of taking your life back.
The link t...
Summer Rewind: The Fawning Trauma Response: Ingrid Clayton on Healing People-Pleasing and Codependency
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Have you been told you’re a people pleaser or found yourself saying yes when you meant no, without even thinking about it? Have a friend who struggles to express their feelings or share their preferences? If so, you might have encountered the fawning trauma response. Join me and ...
Summer Rewind: When Agents Say No with Jessica Yen
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About this episode: In this summer rewind episode, I revisit my conversation with Jessica Yen, an alumni of my Camp Structure program and now a coach about the challenges she faced while dealing with discouraging feedback from a literary agent. Join us as we explore how agents th...
Do You Care Too Much What Other People Think of You? Avoid Conflict? Say Yes When You Shouldn't? | Dr. Ingrid Clayton, Fawning Expert
Practical tools to turn down the volume on fawning. Dr. Ingrid Clayton is a licensed clinical psychologist with a master's in transpersonal psychology and a Ph.D. in clinical psychology. Her book is FAWNING: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves—and How to Find our Way Back. In this...
Ep 36 | You were never just your job: a conversation about reclaiming identity beyond work
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What happens when you can no longer tell your identity and your work apart? In this episode of In Her Words, Roberta Dombrowski (Founder of Learn Mindfully) sits down with career strategist Amy Santee for an honest conversation about identity, burnout, and the systems that quietl...
How to Prepare for an Emergency with Amy Edelman and Chris Begley, PhD | 442
Somewhere along the way, emergency preparedness got hijacked by doomsday prepping, conspiracy theories, stockpiles of ammo, and a truly unnecessary amount of camouflage. But emergencies themselves? Not exactly far-fetched. Power outages, extreme weather, wildfires, floods, earthquakes, pandemics ...
Unfawning, Part 2 of 3
We share about listening to a podcast about fawning.
Mark Vicente’s Podcast WTF is on my Mind
The episode we listened to was “The Fourth F: Fawning” with Dr. Ingrid Clayton.
The Vow documentary about the Nexium cult was on HBO.
The book we reference at the beginning is Pete Walker's Complex PTSD:...
Unfawning, Part 1 of 3
We share about listening to a podcast about fawning.
Mark Vicente’s Podcast WTF is on my Mind
The episode we listened to was “The Fourth F: Fawning” with Dr. Ingrid Clayton.
The Vow documentary about the Nexium cult was on HBO.
Our website is HERE: System Speak Podcast and sponsoring nonprofit ...
My Jazz Hands Are Tired: How My Chronic People-Pleasing Led to Fawn Fatigue
Have you ever wondered if the world has met the real you? In this debut episode of From Fawn to Free, Certified Mindshift Life Coach Rebekkah Monitz drops the curtain on "chronic fawning" and the exhausting performance of people-pleasing. Sharing pieces of her own healing journey, Rebekkah dives ...
