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And it was in Baton Rouge, 00:06:35.339 --> 00:06:37.519 so if you don't know that distance, it's like 00:06:37.519 --> 00:06:43.769 four hours, but it feels like 16 to me. But I 00:06:43.769 --> 00:06:47.790 really wanted to be there for her. Cognac wanted 00:06:47.790 --> 00:06:51.209 to go could not because we had this awful tree 00:06:51.209 --> 00:06:55.939 removed finally, but I hated it since we moved 00:06:55.939 --> 00:07:00.720 here So but it was really fun. It was just people 00:07:00.720 --> 00:07:04.300 all different diverse Dancing there was some 00:07:04.300 --> 00:07:06.339 Zuma. There was some twerking. There was some 00:07:06.339 --> 00:07:10.810 line dancing and I had a blast And I don't know 00:07:10.810 --> 00:07:13.069 I would have to get video from other people because 00:07:13.069 --> 00:07:15.670 my people didn't take no video of me dancing 00:07:15.670 --> 00:07:18.230 with my cousin I'm very disappointed in that 00:07:18.230 --> 00:07:22.129 part. But it was great. It was really cute. I 00:07:22.129 --> 00:07:28.060 came in and her son ran up to me. Good core memory. 00:07:29.519 --> 00:07:33.519 How was that drive? It was a good drive. Beautiful 00:07:33.519 --> 00:07:39.079 day. We had to get to Detroit. I don't know why. 00:07:39.519 --> 00:07:43.319 I don't know what happened. Like some quarantine 00:07:43.319 --> 00:07:49.819 and government shit was going on and stuff. Yeah, 00:07:49.819 --> 00:07:52.740 they took us on the back roads and then they 00:07:52.740 --> 00:07:54.500 detour us from the back road and we couldn't 00:07:54.500 --> 00:07:57.899 see nothing. Yeah. Maybe there was a political 00:07:57.899 --> 00:08:00.980 figure there. I don't know what that was. That 00:08:00.980 --> 00:08:06.709 was wild. Yeah, but I had some beautiful days 00:08:06.709 --> 00:08:16.649 like we had today. Good company. Because I do 00:08:16.649 --> 00:08:19.670 not. I was not volunteering. I volunteered my 00:08:19.670 --> 00:08:22.509 car. That's not... You know, we brought a bathroom. 00:08:23.800 --> 00:08:29.430 I used to do that two, three times a month. for 00:08:29.850 --> 00:08:38.129 six years. I've had regional guidelines in the 00:08:38.129 --> 00:08:42.250 Baton Rouge and the war in that area. Been a 00:08:42.250 --> 00:08:44.809 lot of time on our tent, getting over there. 00:08:46.139 --> 00:08:52.470 Yeah, so yeah, good times. For a good time. I 00:08:52.470 --> 00:08:54.529 like what Kangsta told me in the card how she 00:08:54.529 --> 00:08:56.490 said, I love seeing you like with your family. 00:08:56.830 --> 00:09:00.350 You seem so happy. Yeah. Like the essay and stuff. 00:09:04.049 --> 00:09:08.840 Yes, I looked happy. Yeah, love is contagious. 00:09:11.440 --> 00:09:15.220 Shout out to my aunt who kept the secret. I've 00:09:15.220 --> 00:09:18.200 been playing with my aunt there for about a month, 00:09:18.809 --> 00:09:22.659 I think. She kept the secret because my mom can't 00:09:22.659 --> 00:09:26.519 keep one. They're her best friends. I didn't 00:09:26.519 --> 00:09:30.860 tell her until like recently, like the day before, 00:09:30.879 --> 00:09:33.980 Friday. Thursday, Friday. Well, because she just 00:09:33.980 --> 00:09:37.899 got so excited. So how was the tree removal, 00:09:38.139 --> 00:09:42.639 Kanyan? Well, it was good. It took a whole day. 00:09:42.899 --> 00:09:48.299 8 .30 and about 4 .30 in the afternoon. But it's 00:09:48.299 --> 00:09:53.210 pretty much gone. Harper's going to be like, 00:09:53.350 --> 00:09:56.409 what? Yeah, he's going to say, she wanted it 00:09:56.409 --> 00:10:00.590 gone because the birds. You know what I'm saying? 00:10:01.029 --> 00:10:03.110 Cool. There's too many birds pooping on the car. 00:10:03.269 --> 00:10:06.990 But the shade also helps with your paint. Because 00:10:06.990 --> 00:10:09.669 the shade's on the side. And then the shade's 00:10:09.669 --> 00:10:11.929 in the house. I'm going to have to have my warranty. 00:10:12.389 --> 00:11:03.350 I just said whatever. I don't care. Everybody 00:11:03.350 --> 00:11:05.990 knows me, knows I love nature. I just don't need 00:11:05.990 --> 00:11:10.350 it shitting on the car all the time. and every 00:11:10.350 --> 00:11:12.889 time it storms or if it's windy there's something 00:11:12.889 --> 00:11:15.529 that's leaning and eventually that's going to 00:11:15.529 --> 00:11:20.210 fuck up the house and the cars it was a huge 00:11:20.210 --> 00:11:23.210 huge tree I was surprised honestly I was watching 00:11:23.210 --> 00:11:27.830 a couple of times on the camera I was like wow 00:11:27.830 --> 00:11:31.789 I just think it'll be better in the long run 00:11:32.820 --> 00:11:39.580 more space and less bugs too so I'd rather fix 00:11:39.580 --> 00:11:44.679 a the top paint on my brand new car that better 00:11:44.679 --> 00:11:50.200 not fade that quickly. And like my mom told Cognac, 00:11:50.320 --> 00:11:51.820 if you're out in the park in the garage, get 00:11:51.820 --> 00:11:53.580 rid of the tree. And you're not going to wash 00:11:53.580 --> 00:11:56.460 your car, go get a car wash, get rid of the tree. 00:11:56.759 --> 00:12:03.019 So tree's gone, yay! Bye bye! And now we can 00:12:03.080 --> 00:12:49.200 play in the front yard better. We've got four 00:12:49.200 --> 00:12:51.059 of our neighbors providing us with more than 00:12:51.059 --> 00:13:04.200 enough fucking options. I mean, honestly. They 00:13:04.200 --> 00:13:15.379 don't care about trees, they don't. One tree 00:13:15.379 --> 00:13:17.440 can be gone and we'll still be able to breathe 00:13:17.440 --> 00:13:21.100 okay. You know, like I said, you know, with our 00:13:21.100 --> 00:13:24.200 backyard, you know, we have a small batch, you 00:13:24.200 --> 00:13:26.940 know, basically for the dogs, so that's not easy 00:13:26.940 --> 00:13:31.029 to play in with Harper. Yeah. Because we have 00:13:31.029 --> 00:13:33.730 a gigantic pool, so there's only so much

space, 00:13:33.750 --> 00:13:37.669 so now that tree's gone and I'm probably going 00:13:37.669 --> 00:13:39.769 to figure out how to get that stump up and then, 00:13:39.769 --> 00:13:42.850 you know, run around out there. sit out there, 00:13:42.850 --> 00:13:47.870 you know, less mosquitoes, less cicadas. I'm 00:13:47.870 --> 00:13:52.529 not doing that. I thought we were going to do 00:13:52.529 --> 00:13:55.330 the U driveway, and that's the ultimate goal. 00:14:01.490 --> 00:14:04.909 I didn't care if it was your yard. I was just 00:14:04.909 --> 00:14:06.409 talking about running around. I don't care if 00:14:06.409 --> 00:14:12.210 it's under her feet. She don't need to be touching 00:14:12.210 --> 00:14:15.629 that much grass. She can't even have yellow number 00:14:15.629 --> 00:14:18.929 five right now or whatever they're talking about. 00:14:24.429 --> 00:14:28.539 But next we can also, we've replanted the front 00:14:28.539 --> 00:14:32.480 of the house probably three times. Now we have 00:14:32.480 --> 00:14:39.240 more sun. So maybe those will last and then in 00:14:39.240 --> 00:14:41.500 the middle of that house that'll be pressure 00:14:41.500 --> 00:14:47.110 washed. Aunt Tequila has volunteered because 00:14:47.110 --> 00:14:49.789 he loves doing it. It's like a hobby of his. 00:14:51.259 --> 00:14:54.440 How do you feel? I was about to go hire somebody. 00:14:54.559 --> 00:14:57.649 He's like, let's just go half on a pressure washer 00:14:57.649 --> 00:15:00.309 or a wet one. It's a wet one from Home Depot. 00:15:33.870 --> 00:15:37.029 He's washed my car, man. This whole detailing 00:15:37.029 --> 00:15:40.309 kit, they strapped it like underneath with the 00:15:40.309 --> 00:15:42.669 soap and everything. Yeah. That was pretty cool. 00:15:43.190 --> 00:15:45.129 I want to connect those in my car. Yeah, that's 00:15:45.129 --> 00:15:46.629 what I'm talking about. Yeah. We can draw new 00:15:46.629 --> 00:15:49.000 water humps. Yeah. But the air is more pressure. 00:15:49.200 --> 00:15:51.820 I got a lot of pressure through in it. The windows 00:15:51.820 --> 00:16:00.570 are more upstairs. Yeah. Mr. Clean. The man with 00:16:00.570 --> 00:16:05.940 the wires and all. Alright, so get the car cleaned 00:16:05.940 --> 00:16:07.279 and then I'll... Are you talking about the lady? 00:16:07.360 --> 00:16:09.480 Tile the hose into it? Yeah, put the hose into 00:16:09.480 --> 00:16:11.179 it. Yeah. Yeah, that's the other way around. 00:16:12.179 --> 00:16:21.529 It came with, like, a gun. Yeah, it did. Wouldn't 00:16:21.529 --> 00:16:32.870 be enough for a raincoat to do that, because 00:16:32.870 --> 00:16:35.509 you have... Pressure. No, like, you have two 00:16:35.509 --> 00:16:39.250 stories. No, no, like for the windows. It seems 00:16:39.250 --> 00:16:41.750 like you have to be, like... The water's like 00:16:41.750 --> 00:16:43.929 the soap's going to start falling back on it. 00:16:48.360 --> 00:16:50.940 It's going to get

sprayed back. Depends what's 00:16:50.940 --> 00:16:52.840 when I got my hair done once. I'm just saying. 00:18:12.259 --> 00:18:15.400 Just look at it. They play this. They play them 00:18:15.400 --> 00:18:27.240 like 8 .30 in the morning. The Cavaliers. Do 00:18:27.240 --> 00:18:31.920 they even like playing football? They're playing 00:18:31.920 --> 00:18:34.619 noon tomorrow. They're playing like an 81 at 00:18:34.619 --> 00:18:54.589 8 .30 in the morning. Day or Sunday. More than 00:18:54.589 --> 00:19:01.049 they are here. Here. About two Sunday mornings. 00:19:03.390 --> 00:19:22.390 They play it there. Sunday. You assume they'd 00:19:22.390 --> 00:19:24.490 have to play it live because of people are late. 00:19:33.059 --> 00:19:49.740 Yeah, yeah, I'm thinking. They're giants. That's 00:19:49.740 --> 00:19:54.490 my point, yeah. That's what I'm saying. The one 00:19:54.490 --> 00:19:57.539 game, the latest one I stayed up for was I was 00:19:57.539 --> 00:19:59.400 overseas and I watched the Super Bowl and won 00:19:59.400 --> 00:20:02.670 with Janet Jensen. That one I thought I wasn't 00:20:02.670 --> 00:20:17.920 in at all. I was so tired closing in. That Jay 00:20:17.920 --> 00:20:19.960 -Z is going to be the headliner. He made himself 00:20:19.960 --> 00:21:51.410 the headliner. Travis Barker? I would've done 00:21:51.410 --> 00:22:01.130 Miley. Justin Bieber, I think he's popular enough, 00:22:01.230 --> 00:22:04.450 but I'm just not it. Jay -Z, we all know how 00:22:04.450 --> 00:22:17.049 I feel. What is it this year? Yes, we'll see. 00:22:20.000 --> 00:22:25.579 You guys are asking me Google questions. I haven't 00:22:25.579 --> 00:22:28.269 been seeing this story. Do they even talk about 00:22:28.269 --> 00:22:32.710 this year? Yeah. So where's that? Years in advance. 00:22:34.670 --> 00:22:37.799 Hairstyles. Oh. Justin Bieber hairstyles. Like 00:22:37.799 --> 00:22:39.819 both of them together? No, they were just a rumor. 00:22:40.079 --> 00:22:42.480 Oh. I don't think Harry Styles has a portfolio 00:22:42.480 --> 00:22:44.359 enough for that. They were leading contenders 00:22:44.359 --> 00:22:46.700 before reports emerged that Jay -Z had selected 00:22:46.700 --> 00:22:50.700 himself. Oh. Yes, so it was Justin Bieber Harry 00:22:50.700 --> 00:23:13.109 Styles. It's a rap so strong word. And then, 00:23:13.109 --> 00:23:16.940 you know what I'm saying, over on Sunday, I was 00:23:16.940 --> 00:23:22.750 gonna drop Monday. Well, he said he's done a 00:23:22.750 --> 00:23:25.819 good business, man. It's not that Monday for 00:23:26.180 --> 00:23:33.059 fun, because everybody knows. Now, Jay -Z? Yep. 00:23:33.690 --> 00:23:37.910 I thought he was retired. 10 years ago. Your 00:23:37.910 --> 00:23:40.589 sister didn't stop doing stuff for a long time. 00:23:40.869 --> 00:23:46.569 I thought she was retired. Uh -uh. Me? Yep. See, 00:23:46.569 --> 00:23:51.259 I gotta do something. He ain't dead. She got 00:23:51.259 --> 00:23:54.670

a fan base. That's why he did that little roost 00:23:54.670 --> 00:24:10.549 thing. A lot of people react. The Super Bowl 00:24:10.549 --> 00:24:13.789 is just a hobby. That's time for it. And you 00:24:13.789 --> 00:25:35.049 know, we're in California. That's where... We're 00:25:35.369 --> 00:25:40.259 about to NBA. We got that going. Started up last 00:25:40.259 --> 00:25:45.170 week. My team, the people I support are looking 00:25:45.170 --> 00:26:36.500 good. That was the last time. Go then. I support 00:26:36.500 --> 00:26:40.299 all Houston teams. I'm just too busy. I'm worried 00:26:40.299 --> 00:26:47.059 about them right now. So, I'm about to go to 00:26:47.059 --> 00:26:59.900 Mexico. Anybody have any advice? So I'm partially 00:26:59.900 --> 00:27:03.539 for it in Spanish, and if anybody remembers our 00:27:03.539 --> 00:27:07.579 earlier episodes of his lingo, that's too good. 00:27:08.299 --> 00:27:11.460 I think I'll be okay with that part. I was told 00:27:11.460 --> 00:27:16.460 not to wear hot insurance. I heard that too. 00:27:16.859 --> 00:27:19.720 Went to the source to get people from there. 00:27:23.619 --> 00:27:30.130 But yeah, it's for work. Talk to you guys about 00:27:31.829 --> 00:27:37.039 it. Do you guys know where I'm at? Oh, that'd 00:27:37.039 --> 00:27:40.619 be in the audience. Mexico. It's a beautiful 00:27:40.619 --> 00:27:45.559 country. Yeah, you've been. No, we're right next 00:27:45.559 --> 00:28:15.039 door. I want to brush my teeth. That's the sad 00:28:15.039 --> 00:28:18.619 part though. It's like if you go still in the 00:28:18.619 --> 00:28:20.740 resort, man, you're not that hard in the land. 00:28:21.390 --> 00:28:23.970 So I was always an venture out person. So I'd 00:28:23.970 --> 00:28:27.019 go to the low -competence one and buy a bottle 00:28:27.019 --> 00:28:30.029 of alcohol outside of the resort. And paid 10 00:28:30.029 --> 00:28:34.029 times the loss. Okay, so he said toothpaste and 00:28:34.029 --> 00:28:56.990 you said alcohol. I never got confused while 00:28:56.990 --> 00:29:02.089 I was there. I've had some unique stuff, like 00:29:02.089 --> 00:35:45.500 made on the island. I did something fun last 00:35:45.500 --> 00:35:48.920 weekend, I just thought of it. So I got to meet 00:35:49.239 --> 00:35:54.659 one of my childhood crushes, Brian Austin Green. 00:35:54.880 --> 00:35:58.500 For you young cats, he was David Silver on 902 00:35:58.500 --> 00:36:01.920 and L. He was also the lead in Sarah Potter Chronicle. 00:36:03.360 --> 00:36:04.980 Unless you're a Terminator fan, you probably 00:36:06.510 --> 00:36:13.909 can't show. But my sister and my niece went the 00:36:14.289 --> 00:36:22.719 day before and she FaceTimed me, which I was 00:36:22.719 --> 00:36:25.289 freaking the fuck out. It was like I was... 12 00:36:25.289 --> 00:36:29.969 years old again, 13 or whatever. And he was like, 00:36:30.030 --> 00:36:32.030 so you're over there getting your nails done 00:36:32.030 --> 00:36:34.369 and I happen to be getting the massage for her. 00:36:34.889 --> 00:36:37.409 I'm like, she didn't tell me, she didn't tell 00:36:37.409 --> 00:36:39.349 me. He's like, but I'm over here. And I was like, 00:36:39.469 --> 00:36:42.389 okay. And so that night I decided to go back 00:36:43.030 --> 00:36:45.929 and Harper wanted to go back. So we all went 00:36:45.929 --> 00:36:48.789 back and I got to actually be in person. Super 00:36:48.789 --> 00:36:54.559 nice guy, super personable, chit chatted like 00:36:54.559 --> 00:36:59.559 we've known each other for forever. I knew him. 00:37:00.980 --> 00:37:02.760 Yeah, but like super personal. We were talking 00:37:02.760 --> 00:37:06.000 about his fiance, and his kids, and his ex -wife, 00:37:06.300 --> 00:37:08.099 and you know, all these things. It was really 00:37:08.099 --> 00:37:12.079 cool. So it was, I guess, you know they have 00:37:12.079 --> 00:37:14.340 it saying don't meet your heroes or whatever. 00:37:14.699 --> 00:37:17.610 Don't meet people that you think, you know, highly 00:37:17.610 --> 00:37:20.590 of what I think higher of him. What a decent 00:37:20.590 --> 00:37:25.559 dude. And then I also met We've been rewatching 00:37:25.559 --> 00:37:28.579 Sons of Anarchy, which is crazy, and a lot of 00:37:28.579 --> 00:37:32.039 the castles there, but specifically my sister, 00:37:32.360 --> 00:37:34.900 I like to eat juice. Am I hearing something? 00:37:35.099 --> 00:37:43.210 That's true. One of them ate juice, his name's 00:37:43.210 --> 00:37:48.590 Theo Rossi, in real life, but I just know him 00:37:48.590 --> 00:37:51.590 by juice. I can't forget him as juice. His juice 00:37:51.590 --> 00:37:55.019 really just upsets my spirit. on a whole new 00:37:55.019 --> 00:37:57.880 level and we're literally in that part of the 00:37:57.880 --> 00:38:00.980 show where he really just royally pissed me the 00:38:00.980 --> 00:38:05.059 fuck off. He just starts fucking everything up 00:38:05.059 --> 00:38:10.340 because he just doesn't want them to go ahead 00:38:10.340 --> 00:38:15.989 and find out that he's half black. Are you kidding 00:38:15.989 --> 00:38:19.050 me? All of the shit that y 'all be doing and 00:38:19.050 --> 00:38:21.230 that is what's scaring you that they find out 00:38:21.230 --> 00:38:24.420 you're half black is giving? you know, um, internal 00:38:24.420 --> 00:38:27.239 racism, and then he just went downhill from there. 00:38:27.659 --> 00:38:31.119 But also, shout out to Theo, very, very nice 00:38:31.119 --> 00:38:35.539 guy. Super personal. I didn't pay anything, like, 00:38:35.920 --> 00:38:38.739 to talk to him or anything. He just chit -chatted 00:38:38.739 --> 00:38:42.320 with me. Super cool dude. He lives in Texas, 00:38:42.559 --> 00:38:48.619 um, with his family. Um, yeah. It was a cool 00:38:48.619 --> 00:38:51.780 experience, um, Hartford was her own celebrity 00:38:51.780 --> 00:38:54.739 there. We walked in and they were like, are you

00:38:54.739 --> 00:38:56.840 the little girl that asked that question? Oh 00:38:56.840 --> 00:39:00.750 my god, that is so brave of you. And she literally 00:39:00.750 --> 00:39:03.369 introduced me to Brian also. And he goes, Brian, 00:39:03.389 --> 00:39:10.340 this is my auntie. That was her homie. And she 00:39:10.340 --> 00:39:14.579 got to meet one of her favorite people who placed 00:39:14.579 --> 00:39:17.260 one of her favorite shows from Stranger Things. 00:39:17.539 --> 00:39:21.690 Shout out to, I don't know if that says Jamie 00:39:21.690 --> 00:39:24.340 Bauer. I think he has, I think it goes by three 00:39:24.340 --> 00:39:27.199 names. Jamie Ballard who plays Vecna and Henry 00:39:27.199 --> 00:39:32.550 on Stranger Things. He was absolutely a darling 00:39:32.550 --> 00:39:35.730 to her and she feels so special that he called 00:39:35.730 --> 00:39:40.050 her an angel. And he told her, I don't call anybody 00:39:40.050 --> 00:39:42.130 an angel because you're an angel from heaven. 00:39:42.369 --> 00:39:47.090 And it was like, oh my god. Jamie Ballard. Yeah, 00:39:47.409 --> 00:39:50.369 and it just stuck with her. Even someone the 00:39:50.369 --> 00:39:53.110 next day asked him. Why did you call me an angel? 00:39:53.250 --> 00:40:00.050 He goes, because you are. His line was ridiculous. 00:40:01.650 --> 00:40:04.469 And he remembered her and it just meant a lot 00:40:04.469 --> 00:40:07.429 to her. I mean, that kind of teared me up. Yeah, 00:40:07.530 --> 00:40:10.190 it really was special. Because right the day 00:40:10.190 --> 00:40:12.869 before, we had a conversation with Harper about 00:40:13.159 --> 00:40:16.340 people who try to make her think otherwise. Mm 00:40:16.340 --> 00:40:19.449 -hmm. Well, I hope she doesn't miss the bar always. 00:40:19.449 --> 00:40:23.150 Yeah, I agree. Jamie Bauer. There's three names 00:40:23.150 --> 00:40:26.690 there, but I know it's Jamie Bauer. He's been 00:40:26.690 --> 00:40:29.320 in a lot of movies. You might have seen him. 00:40:29.420 --> 00:40:32.039 I hope she sees his face. But yeah, it was literally 00:40:32.039 --> 00:40:34.519 that Friday. She was talking about the bully, 00:40:35.059 --> 00:40:37.119 who turns out to be really somebody that has 00:40:37.119 --> 00:40:39.659 a crush on her. So he's still going to get beat 00:40:39.659 --> 00:40:46.329 up regardless. Yeah, and me and my sister both 00:40:46.329 --> 00:40:49.679 told her, you know, The question that she asked 00:40:49.679 --> 00:40:53.840 him was, why was your character evil on the show? 00:40:53.980 --> 00:40:56.280 And he kind of explained to her that he kind 00:40:56.280 --> 00:40:59.239 of just felt like an outsider. You know, you 00:40:59.239 --> 00:41:01.360 have to watch the show to understand. But even 00:41:01.360 --> 00:41:04.000 him explaining that kind of showed that he wasn't 00:41:04.000 --> 00:41:07.400 evil. He was kind of bullied and different. And 00:41:07.400 --> 00:41:10.320 that's how that came to pass. And for him to 00:41:10.320 --> 00:41:13.320 look at her and recognize that, like, I know 00:41:13.320 --> 00:41:15.880 it meant a lot. Now I'm getting teary. I know 00:41:15.880 --> 00:41:18.780 it meant a lot to her. And we told her that, 00:41:18.780 --> 00:41:24.760 and we said, so if that's Henry to you, you know, 00:41:25.219 --> 00:41:27.900 who sees good people and can tell who's good 00:41:27.900 --> 00:41:32.329 and evil? Better than Vekta. And look what he 00:41:32.329 --> 00:41:40.400 told you. So, yeah. Because just the timing of 00:41:40.400 --> 00:41:42.500 a lot of things, I think that was really special. 00:41:43.420 --> 00:41:47.699 Yeah, and that was awesome. When she got to go 00:41:47.699 --> 00:41:49.539 tell that motherfucker who has a crush on her, 00:41:49.559 --> 00:41:57.989 huh, guess who I met all weekend. kids motherfuckers 00:41:57.989 --> 00:42:00.110 if they're bullies. They're motherfuckers sometimes. 00:42:01.190 --> 00:42:03.530 Kids won't get it. Motherfuckers always want 00:42:03.530 --> 00:42:07.170 you to spend money. Okay, now you're talking 00:42:07.170 --> 00:42:09.150 about the kids. Now you're talking Japanese. 00:42:11.329 --> 00:42:13.329 Motherfuckers think they smarter than you. Oh 00:42:13.329 --> 00:42:15.949 my god. Because they like their ABCs. I had to 00:42:15.949 --> 00:42:20.050 check Harvard on Friday, actually, before you 00:42:20.050 --> 00:42:22.809 got here. I told her to take a shower and I don't 00:42:22.809 --> 00:42:24.909 know why this is a fight with her every Friday. 00:42:24.909 --> 00:42:27.730 She knows. On Fridays and Sundays, when you're 00:42:27.730 --> 00:42:30.489 here, you have got to wash your ass, you know? 00:42:31.469 --> 00:42:34.269 It's just that. And at the time, you tell her 00:42:34.269 --> 00:42:36.570 it's a fight, and then she's in there for an 00:42:36.570 --> 00:42:39.309 hour and a half having a full -on concert. But 00:42:39.309 --> 00:42:42.309 she always gets an attitude, usually because 00:42:42.309 --> 00:42:45.550 she's sleepy and hasn't napped. And she said 00:42:45.550 --> 00:42:47.869 something to me. I asked her, does she need help 00:42:47.869 --> 00:42:49.929 with her sweater? Because she typically does. 00:42:50.050 --> 00:42:53.090 And she's like, no, I've got it. I've done it 00:42:53.090 --> 00:42:55.659 before. And I go, what? I said, I know who you're 00:42:55.659 --> 00:43:02.110 talking to. She said, a ghost. I said, a what? 00:43:02.250 --> 00:43:08.099 She said, a ghost. With insulin teeth. And I 00:43:08.099 --> 00:43:11.059 grabbed her old face like this. And I said, Harper? 00:43:13.260 --> 00:43:16.159 Anybody who knows me from kids to adults to dead 00:43:16.159 --> 00:43:18.400 people, no, do not talk to me like that. I'm 00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:22.039 stupid. I said, I was just trying to be helpful. 00:43:22.739 --> 00:43:27.170 I said, don't do that. I said, or. We can just 00:43:27.170 --> 00:43:30.010 cut

out Fridays and Sundays if you don't want 00:43:30.010 --> 00:43:32.449 to wash your ass. What does it matter with kids 00:43:32.449 --> 00:43:34.650 not wanting to wash, kids and adults not wanting 00:43:34.650 --> 00:43:37.429 to wash their ass? You feel so much better. And 00:43:37.429 --> 00:43:39.329 she felt better. She said it after. I feel so 00:43:39.329 --> 00:43:42.659 much better. I can show you, babe. I can show 00:43:42.659 --> 00:43:49.079 you. What? From what I seen yesterday. Yep. Same 00:43:49.079 --> 00:43:53.889 thing today. Yep. So, so much. Yeah, okay. So, 00:43:54.869 --> 00:43:58.110 it's right there. Yeah, I see. I see that. We 00:43:58.110 --> 00:44:03.320 also, her uncle, that's Cognac over here, had 00:44:03.320 --> 00:44:09.159 on hoarders on fray. I walked in, and hoarders 00:44:09.159 --> 00:44:11.920 in the water. Well, I have seen it, because my 00:44:11.920 --> 00:44:15.179 mom and my youngest sister used to wash all the 00:44:15.179 --> 00:44:16.860 time, and I'm like, how can you guys stomach 00:44:16.860 --> 00:44:19.500 this? I can't. And if I were a little adult, 00:44:19.619 --> 00:44:23.059 from the eye attacks, I would wear, ew, ew, ew. 00:44:23.559 --> 00:44:27.380 And she was like, what is that? Filthy. Then 00:44:27.380 --> 00:44:29.000 my mom happened to call and she's like, yeah, 00:44:29.000 --> 00:44:31.599 I can't watch anymore. I was getting, like, anxiety. 00:44:31.780 --> 00:44:35.079 I go, I have it. Like, Jess, and I said, Harper, 00:44:35.099 --> 00:44:36.420 do you want to eat in that kitchen? She goes, 00:44:36.860 --> 00:44:39.380 absolutely not. And I hope their kids are somewhere 00:44:39.380 --> 00:44:41.579 else. You know, all these things. And I go, now 00:44:41.579 --> 00:44:44.460 you see why we are the way we are about trash. 00:44:44.500 --> 00:44:47.360 Because that's, you don't, you leave it, then 00:44:47.360 --> 00:44:48.860 you leave it again, you leave it again, that's 00:44:48.860 --> 00:44:50.840 what your house is going to look like. She goes, 00:44:51.280 --> 00:44:56.289 no, no, no, I can't live like me. That's the 00:44:56.289 --> 00:44:58.530 message, but I'm not. Please don't put that on 00:44:58.530 --> 00:45:00.920 anymore. The things that they do. Have you ever 00:45:00.920 --> 00:45:03.519 watched an episode of that? Well, you know, my 00:45:03.679 --> 00:45:06.179 mom got the same app, that bro got the same shit 00:45:06.179 --> 00:45:09.119 some apps. We saw all that same shit in you. 00:45:10.579 --> 00:45:12.949 Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same 00:45:12.949 --> 00:45:13.469 shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. 00:45:13.469 --> 00:45:13.469 Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same 00:45:13.469 --> 00:45:39.980 shit. Same shit. Same shit. Same shit. The sanitary, 00:45:40.440 --> 00:45:42.880 like, I wanted the kids taken out of the home, 00:45:42.960 --> 00:45:44.860 like, I was pissed. I was like, they're being 00:45:44.860 --> 00:45:47.860 abused? That's abusive. They can't even, like, 00:45:47.860 --> 00:45:52.389 there's no toilet. They have to, like, pee outside. 00:45:52.929 --> 00:45:55.170 Because the bathroom is so full of stuff, and 00:45:55.170 --> 00:46:01.469 it's covered in feces. It's crazy. And if it's 00:46:01.530 --> 00:46:02.949 a disease, then you should be in the hospital. 00:46:34.289 --> 00:46:37.719 fix them up a year later. Well that's going to 00:46:37.719 --> 00:46:41.539 get broken into because it's car parts. What 00:46:41.539 --> 00:46:45.739 I mean is I don't like hoarding period like get 00:46:45.739 --> 00:46:48.730 rid of shit you know I'm looking over here and 00:46:48.730 --> 00:46:51.460 get to clear some of this out you know but for 00:46:51.460 --> 00:47:00.820 me it's the like for me it's the dirtiness like 00:47:00.820 --> 00:47:05.860 your kitchen is not usable like there's lady 00:47:05.860 --> 00:47:10.179 had meat in her freezer that was green it was 00:47:10.179 --> 00:47:13.750 in the freezer the whole time the fucking meat 00:47:13.750 --> 00:47:16.510 was and she was adamant about not throwing out 00:47:16.510 --> 00:47:37.530 the yogurts and shit she had and you know the 00:47:37.530 --> 00:47:41.780 one that rocks last fucking hour and she says 00:47:41.780 --> 00:47:46.820 well you know once it starts bubbling out she 00:47:46.820 --> 00:47:49.539 had you yeah like once it starts bubbling out 00:47:49.539 --> 00:47:52.239 that's when she used it that's when it goes it's 00:47:52.239 --> 00:47:54.980 about to go bad about to go bad so she had one 00:47:54.980 --> 00:47:56.980 for like three years so that's when she used 00:47:56.980 --> 00:48:01.599 it yeah that's why I told her it was for she 00:48:01.599 --> 00:48:06.389 may got to her toilet. They couldn't get her 00:48:06.389 --> 00:48:08.489 out the kitchen to even fix that. The one that 00:48:08.489 --> 00:48:11.670 had kids, they had like uh, they were about to 00:48:11.670 --> 00:48:13.289 take their kids supposedly, you know, it was 00:48:13.699 --> 00:48:17.519 on the shelf. They had uh, the husband had a 00:48:17.519 --> 00:48:20.159 bunch of fish tank. You thought she was bad because 00:48:20.159 --> 00:48:22.420 like, she wouldn't get rid of shit and she liked, 00:48:22.599 --> 00:48:25.019 like she was addicted to shopping, like buying 00:48:25.019 --> 00:48:27.019 random shit, just throwing it I guess anywhere. 00:48:27.659 --> 00:48:32.150 But um, like the husband was bad. They have those 00:48:32.150 --> 00:48:35.730 fish tanks. And he was a serial killer. I'm trying 00:48:35.730 --> 00:48:37.750 to look him up later. What were you saying? I'm 00:48:37.750 --> 00:48:39.809 sorry. So my grandfather had one stick of shit 00:48:39.809 --> 00:48:41.989 I always remember. Because he kept these shits 00:48:41.989 --> 00:48:47.940 under lock and key. One nothing in his head was 00:48:47.940 --> 00:48:56.159 new paint. Stacked on the floor,

snakes, snakes' 00:48:56.159 --> 00:48:58.500 heads, and you know how snakes' heads they skin. 00:48:59.099 --> 00:49:02.869 And spiders and everything. I don't think he 00:49:02.869 --> 00:49:24.650 was wearing those. Those came for free. But to 00:49:24.650 --> 00:49:29.289 collect, because you're just too lazy and you 00:49:29.289 --> 00:49:31.000 just go buy clothes and throw them away. on top 00:49:31.000 --> 00:49:37.250 of that that's disgusting to me like i help you 00:49:37.250 --> 00:49:41.949 because i want to get rid of what i can't help 00:49:41.949 --> 00:49:44.929 you if i can't get to the artifacts because you 00:49:44.929 --> 00:49:47.949 have a pile of shit over here there's a dead 00:49:47.949 --> 00:49:53.239 animal under here inside the house you don't 00:49:53.239 --> 00:49:55.699 know where your cat's been well it's under five 00:49:55.699 --> 00:50:09.829 pounds of laundry and dirty diapers bought clothes, 00:50:10.309 --> 00:50:13.619 and then there was a wedding once or twice. And 00:50:13.619 --> 00:50:19.360 only washed her sheets, because she had to eat 00:50:19.360 --> 00:50:20.940 on the bed because there was no room in the kitchen. 00:50:21.099 --> 00:50:22.679 I thought that was the one with the kids. I don't 00:50:22.679 --> 00:50:24.380 remember, but they were all blended together. 00:50:24.539 --> 00:50:26.300 They should all be in the same house. So the 00:50:26.300 --> 00:50:29.800 one that would go to the thrift store, she'd 00:50:29.800 --> 00:50:31.639 try to get snappy with her daughter and shit. 00:50:32.099 --> 00:50:35.460 And she's like, well, I'm done with being the 00:50:36.130 --> 00:50:38.789 keeper of stuff or something, she said, smartass. 00:50:40.809 --> 00:50:43.250 Blaming our kids that they left all their shit 00:50:43.250 --> 00:50:46.230 there. Her husband left her because of the hoarding 00:50:46.230 --> 00:50:49.829 and then they divorced her because she still 00:50:49.829 --> 00:50:52.170 wouldn't get it together and they had to sell 00:50:52.170 --> 00:50:55.070 the house to finalize the divorce so she had 00:50:55.070 --> 00:50:56.630 to clear out shit but then she tried to blame 00:50:56.630 --> 00:50:58.949 the one daughter that didn't run the fuck away 00:50:58.949 --> 00:51:10.170 from her. Bitch. That was one of the ones I did 00:51:10.170 --> 00:51:13.340 see where. long time ago where that lady had 00:51:13.340 --> 00:51:18.289 a bunch of dead cats and shit. There's probably 00:51:18.289 --> 00:51:21.969 some in your family's storage facilities. Dead 00:51:21.969 --> 00:51:27.940 cats? Who knows? If your apartment is cooking 00:51:27.940 --> 00:51:31.559 it's terrible. Oh Jesus. You always got the questions 00:51:31.559 --> 00:51:37.409 ready. Then immediately. If they're cooking it's 00:51:37.409 --> 00:51:44.539 terrible. No, like, I would give it, you know, 00:51:44.639 --> 00:51:47.699 three times. Three times cooking different things 00:51:47.699 --> 00:51:50.389 and they're all terrible, just... Stop. Stop. 00:51:50.690 --> 00:51:54.530 Yeah. You know, I'm a picky eater in general. 00:51:54.789 --> 00:51:57.389 You know, sorry, that's a me thing. But I'm a 00:51:57.389 --> 00:52:00.429 picky eater, so why are you wasting time? Because 00:52:00.429 --> 00:52:04.010 I would just throw away, because I don't like 00:52:04.010 --> 00:52:09.059 it. I'm just not going to eat it. And a lot of 00:52:09.059 --> 00:52:11.260 times, people suck at cooking just because they 00:52:11.260 --> 00:52:13.400 don't like cooking. They're just trying to fulfill 00:52:13.400 --> 00:52:16.699 a role. So I'd rather just let us just talk about 00:52:16.699 --> 00:52:18.820 it. It's not a deal breaker if you can't cook. 00:52:19.019 --> 00:52:21.059 Yeah. You just need to know what you can't do. 00:52:24.139 --> 00:52:26.940 Here's what I like. If you could add some fucking 00:52:26.940 --> 00:52:30.519 salt, please. You know, like something. None 00:52:30.519 --> 00:52:35.250 of this tastes like that rum you make. Just stick 00:52:35.250 --> 00:52:41.969 to the rum. Well, he's saying it nicely. In a 00:52:41.969 --> 00:52:46.079 way, what would be worse? In a way that they 00:52:46.079 --> 00:52:48.639 can't cook anything but one thing that they really 00:52:48.639 --> 00:53:17.300 get wrong. One of my related friends, I just 00:53:17.300 --> 00:53:21.380 had lunch with her this week. Has the most beautiful 00:53:22.050 --> 00:53:26.030 with a chef's kitchen chef's pantry, but when 00:53:26.030 --> 00:53:28.710 she can't cook for shit She knows she can't cook 00:53:28.710 --> 00:53:31.409 for shit and her husband likes to eat and they 00:53:31.409 --> 00:53:34.750 go out to eat and he's he respects He told her 00:53:34.750 --> 00:53:37.369 no. No, that's just it's just not your thing. 00:53:37.369 --> 00:53:41.610 You make this one thing good But that's not what 00:53:41.610 --> 00:53:44.809 I'm gonna eat every day. So they that's a point 00:53:44.809 --> 00:53:48.909 for them that she made sure that he's fed But 00:53:48.909 --> 00:53:53.190 she don't be cooking it The kitchen is like a 00:53:53.190 --> 00:53:59.469 relic. Deep sun, zero freezers, and all of it. 00:53:59.530 --> 00:54:06.909 I think they have two stoves. Would you date 00:54:06.909 --> 00:54:11.619 someone who still lives with their ex? No. Because... 00:54:16.230 --> 00:54:23.610 I'm allergic to broke. Okay, no. Saving and broken. 00:54:24.480 --> 00:54:27.670 No, I don't. I like it's broke. It does to me. 00:54:27.710 --> 00:54:31.719 Why are you still with your ex? Okay, go save 00:54:31.719 --> 00:54:33.880 money with a friend. That's what I'm bringing. 00:54:34.469 --> 00:54:48.750 Okay. Does it have to be money? No. Maybe I need 00:54:48.750 --> 00:55:26.469 your money. I'm not intimidated. I just need 00:55:26.469 --> 00:55:29.469 to be able to come over and me and your ex are 00:55:29.469 --> 00:55:33.210 talking about the little things. That's just

00:55:33.210 --> 00:55:36.500 uncomfortable. You want to come to your house? 00:55:39.380 --> 00:55:44.340 Yeah, I guess so. No, I wouldn't, no. I was trying 00:55:44.340 --> 00:55:45.920 to think of a difference. I think that that thing's 00:55:45.920 --> 00:56:14.030 a waste of them. I said goodnight. He's like, 00:56:14.230 --> 00:56:17.079 yeah, my date was good. But the pussy wouldn't 00:56:17.079 --> 00:56:24.619 like it, or something. Like, what's your ex got 00:56:24.619 --> 00:56:40.719 going on? Why she can't find somebody? Because 00:56:40.719 --> 00:56:55.710 if y 'all are cool... That just sounds like too 00:56:55.710 --> 00:56:58.530 much work, and take her out, shit. I don't want 00:56:58.530 --> 00:57:00.489 to. But we don't have to go out, or whatever. 00:57:02.340 --> 00:57:12.329 Wherever we have to go, you can take her. At 00:57:12.329 --> 00:58:50.769 the Hotel 6. That's good. The honesty is good 00:58:49.900 --> 00:58:56.780 It works for some people. But for me, just don't 00:58:58.639 --> 00:59:01.840 understand certain things with other things like 00:59:01.840 --> 00:59:11.150 saying like names. It's weird to me. Like, yeah, 00:59:11.409 --> 00:59:15.090 Tina. Yeah, Tina, that's it, Tina. Like, I don't 00:59:15.090 --> 00:59:20.610 know, it's weird. Yeah, Scott. I don't think 00:59:20.610 --> 00:59:24.969 that was the dialogue. Or the same as like daddy. 00:59:26.139 --> 00:59:30.989 Give it to me, daddy. Ew. Sorry. That's just 00:59:30.989 --> 00:59:35.010 giving my preference. Don't say my name. I feel 00:59:35.010 --> 00:59:37.559 like I'm getting cold at school. Of my parents. 00:59:40.530 --> 00:59:42.909 Is love enough to keep a relationship together? 00:59:46.920 --> 00:59:49.539 A relationship together? Can love be a good thing? 00:59:55.469 --> 01:00:01.019 No. I don't think that in anything. It can be 01:00:01.019 --> 01:00:03.360 a family relationship, a friendship relationship, 01:00:03.539 --> 01:00:09.789 a partner relationship. No. No. I think love 01:00:09.789 --> 01:00:12.599 is good. I think it helps you. It's the bond 01:00:12.599 --> 01:00:15.139 that ties people together. Yeah. But I think 01:00:15.139 --> 01:00:19.840 love is an action word. And you have to make 01:00:19.840 --> 01:00:45.000 a decision that I'm a love this person. So. It 01:00:45.000 --> 01:00:47.460 helps keep it together, obviously. Why are you 01:00:47.460 --> 01:00:49.539 just making me all love them? That's stupid. 01:00:49.820 --> 01:00:54.239 Yeah. That's ridiculous. But no, that's not the 01:00:54.239 --> 01:00:57.159 only thing. Because love, like you said, love 01:00:57.159 --> 01:01:00.260 is an action word. But I also think actions come 01:01:00.260 --> 01:01:02.179 with showing people that you love them. Yeah. 01:01:02.300 --> 01:01:05.079 It's all shown. You can tell me any time and 01:01:05.079 --> 01:01:09.019 show me something else. Yeah. Young people are 01:01:09.019 --> 01:01:13.079 in shelters, abuse shelters, that were told, 01:01:13.400 --> 01:01:17.300 I love you. I love you. Yeah. I didn't mean that 01:01:17.300 --> 01:01:20.059 because I love you. So no, I don't think - Don't 01:01:20.059 --> 01:01:21.860 call me that because I love you. You can love 01:01:21.860 --> 01:01:25.639 someone from afar if it's fucking up your health 01:01:25.639 --> 01:01:30.469 mentally, physically. You know, but a lot of 01:01:30.599 --> 01:01:34.809 women and men and - shelters, you know, just 01:01:34.809 --> 01:01:37.289 escaping domestic violence. I'm just using that 01:01:37.289 --> 01:01:39.369 as an example because it's like the extreme, 01:01:39.449 --> 01:01:44.530 but they still love their abusers. Yeah. And... 01:01:44.530 --> 01:01:47.550 This is for your own good. Yeah, whatever, but 01:01:47.550 --> 01:01:49.789 they still love their abusers and that's why 01:01:49.789 --> 01:01:52.650 they go to these shelters to get help, to untrain 01:01:52.650 --> 01:01:55.550 their mind that it's okay that you love them, 01:01:56.920 --> 01:01:59.320 but they're not good for you. Yeah. And that 01:01:59.320 --> 01:02:02.739 goes in just life and that's friendships, family 01:02:02.739 --> 01:02:06.250 members, Sometimes you have to escape whatever 01:02:06.250 --> 01:02:09.730 abuse is to you. I'm not dimensioning actual 01:02:09.730 --> 01:02:13.809 physical violence, but sometimes abuse isn't 01:02:14.610 --> 01:02:53.980 physical. You said you love me. You said you 01:02:53.980 --> 01:02:56.639 love me too, but you're not acting like you love 01:02:56.639 --> 01:03:00.849 me. And that's, like I said, friendships too. 01:03:01.449 --> 01:03:04.210 There are so many people and friends that I've 01:03:04.210 --> 01:03:07.130 had in life that I still love to this day, and 01:03:07.130 --> 01:03:11.070 they cannot fucking have access to me, ever again. 01:03:11.429 --> 01:03:15.130 And I still love them, I love what we had, I 01:03:15.130 --> 01:03:18.389 love them, but they're better over there than 01:03:18.550 --> 01:03:42.320 here. In what I'm doing. And you do that? Action. 01:03:43.400 --> 01:03:45.440 What's your answer? You didn't say anything. 01:03:48.340 --> 01:03:50.460 Call the yellow, that's why I had to sign it, 01:03:50.460 --> 01:03:57.059 you know? Yeah, like, said it helps. Yeah, because 01:03:57.059 --> 01:03:58.619 then I don't want to be here, because then I 01:03:58.619 --> 01:04:00.039 don't want to be around you. I've always been. 01:04:00.039 --> 01:04:02.199 Especially when I'm right -holding. The type, 01:04:02.360 --> 01:04:05.760 it's like, you know, like, does the good outweigh 01:04:05.760 --> 01:04:09.780 the bad? Like, are they just horrible to you? 01:04:12.880 --> 01:04:15.820 But your good and bad can be different than somebody 01:04:15.820 --> 01:04:20.630 else's. I get that, yeah. Like, some people think, 01:04:20.769 --> 01:04:24.949 well, he's not whooping your ass. Yay! You know, 01:04:24.949 --> 01:04:28.869 or she's not

cheating on you, yay! You know, 01:04:28.969 --> 01:04:33.110 it's like, what's the good versus the bad? No, 01:04:33.269 --> 01:04:36.309 I get it. You have to decide on your own, like, 01:04:36.429 --> 01:04:38.869 you yourself have to decide, does the good outweigh 01:04:38.869 --> 01:04:41.130 the bad for you, mentally. Yeah, definitely. 01:04:45.159 --> 01:04:49.699 My mom always told me, and this is what my grandmother 01:04:49.699 --> 01:04:55.960 told her, my grandmother who left just was like, 01:04:56.849 --> 01:04:58.909 but sometimes you have to take the shit with 01:04:58.909 --> 01:05:05.639 the sugar. and why give somebody else the sugar 01:05:06.340 --> 01:05:10.320 that, you know, that they do give you. But at 01:05:10.320 --> 01:05:15.179 some point, shit and sugar, you know, they're 01:05:15.179 --> 01:05:17.699 still there under the rug and it's going to just 01:05:17.699 --> 01:05:25.760 mix with shit and sugar there. And I'd rather 01:05:25.760 --> 01:05:34.570 love you from afar than hate you. Close. If I 01:05:34.570 --> 01:08:59.779 say I love you, that means I love you. And I 01:08:59.779 --> 01:08:59.779 don't ever want to tell you I regret saying I 01:08:59.779 --> 01:10:42.869 love you. not just partners but watch his piece 01:10:42.869 --> 01:11:00.699 be threatened over tapped into being like I've 01:11:00.699 --> 01:11:03.880 had enough you know you fucked up my piece yeah 01:11:08.449 --> 01:11:13.750 respectfully I'm talking about just friendships 01:11:14.609 --> 01:11:18.289 Family, you know, all kinds of things. Me, I'm 01:11:18.289 --> 01:11:24.050 maybe not peaceful to you, I don't know. I think 01:11:24.050 --> 01:11:26.949 that's a stage in life that you grow into where 01:11:26.949 --> 01:11:30.149 peace is important. I think it's certain, I know 01:11:30.310 --> 01:11:35.149 when I was younger, I had chaos, constant chaos, 01:11:35.289 --> 01:11:36.609 you know what I'm saying? So what was peace? 01:11:37.869 --> 01:11:41.890 So yeah, I just, I'm at an age now where peace 01:11:41.890 --> 01:11:46.760 is important. Peace and space is important. I 01:11:50.380 --> 01:11:54.779 feel like peace is also subjective. Everybody's 01:11:54.779 --> 01:11:57.960 different. Just like their love languages. Peace 01:11:57.960 --> 01:12:01.819 is different. Somebody else's peace may not be 01:12:01.819 --> 01:12:05.739 your peace. So I think it's important. I just 01:12:05.739 --> 01:12:07.659 want to remind everyone that I'm the youngest 01:12:07.659 --> 01:12:12.100 one at the table. Whatever. So I don't know what 01:12:12.100 --> 01:12:15.880 age you hit it, but I've hit it. I've hit it 01:12:15.880 --> 01:12:18.079 a while ago and I think I've said it on the show 01:12:18.079 --> 01:12:20.989 a million times. That's all I care about is peace. 01:12:21.369 --> 01:12:26.050 Peace, for me, is not chaos. Some people thrive 01:12:26.050 --> 01:12:28.289 in chaos, and that's cool, and we need those 01:12:28.289 --> 01:12:33.489 kind of people. I can handle chaos, but that's 01:12:33.489 --> 01:12:35.869 not my peace. I'll handle it, and then I want 01:12:35.869 --> 01:12:43.680 to go to peace. For me, peace is happiness. The 01:12:43.680 --> 01:12:48.539 shit's taken care of. We've worked hard to have 01:12:48.539 --> 01:12:55.500 it. And if, God forbid, you know, something chaotic 01:12:55.500 --> 01:12:58.199 happens, we can handle it and get back to peace. 01:12:59.939 --> 01:13:04.039 And peace for me is not chaos. It's not, you 01:13:04.039 --> 01:13:10.520 know, nickel and diming. It's not, you did this, 01:13:10.680 --> 01:13:12.680 you did that, you know, it's tit for tat, like 01:13:12.680 --> 01:13:19.750 shit, and all kinds of things. Yeah, peace is 01:13:19.750 --> 01:13:23.590 just, oh my God. When you look at someone and 01:13:23.590 --> 01:13:28.930 you're just like, whew, they're around you. Gwen 01:13:28.930 --> 01:13:31.789 Kingston, she's a piece for me. We both deal 01:13:31.789 --> 01:13:35.289 with a whole lot of shit. She's got a whole different 01:13:35.289 --> 01:13:37.489 life, I got a whole different life, but I see 01:13:37.489 --> 01:13:41.340 her and I feel at peace. There's a piece. Even 01:13:41.340 --> 01:13:43.300 though we got to talk about a whole bunch of 01:13:43.300 --> 01:13:57.420 crazy shit. There's a piece that surpasses all 01:13:57.420 --> 01:14:00.079 understanding. And once you find that piece, 01:14:00.899 --> 01:14:03.640 you want to do whatever you can. to keep that 01:14:03.640 --> 01:14:06.300 peace. And it don't make you an asshole or nothing. 01:14:06.439 --> 01:14:09.659 I mean, it still make you a level person or whatever. 01:14:09.819 --> 01:14:16.069 It's just, you're gonna protect that peace. Because 01:14:16.069 --> 01:14:17.890 that peace, that's a passive law. I understand 01:14:17.890 --> 01:14:19.289 that it goes through what you say. You can be 01:14:19.289 --> 01:14:23.100 going through a lot of chaotic stuff. It's like, 01:14:24.949 --> 01:14:34.630 you got all these storms, but you, you know what 01:14:34.630 --> 01:14:36.369 I'm saying? It's not, you're not thrilled. You're 01:14:36.369 --> 01:14:38.569 not moved by what's going on. You stay in that 01:14:38.569 --> 01:14:41.699 place of peace and help you deal with the chaos. 01:14:41.960 --> 01:14:47.880 You know what I'm saying? Peace comes with end. 01:14:48.739 --> 01:14:51.420 I'm not expecting anybody to give me my peace. 01:14:53.659 --> 01:15:00.130 That's fucking rude. And I feel like if someone's 01:15:00.130 --> 01:15:03.630 disrupting your peace, if you love and care about 01:15:03.630 --> 01:15:06.750 them, you tell them you're disrupting their peace. 01:15:09.989 --> 01:15:15.729 Please don't cook for me anymore. Three times 01:15:15.729 --> 01:15:18.449 I've told you this is disturbing my peace, and 01:15:18.449 --> 01:15:21.430 you just keep doing it. And you don't give a 01:15:21.430 --> 01:15:24.920 fuck about my peace. And that's the beautiful 01:15:24.920 --> 01:15:27.239 thing. Or my palette that I told you to stop 01:15:27.239 --> 01:15:30.119 cooking for. Stand on my side and let them in. 01:15:30.909 --> 01:15:35.000 When I see two people in that peace with each 01:15:35.000 --> 01:15:36.899 other, you know, that person got their peace, 01:15:37.000 --> 01:15:39.560 this person got their peace. They together and 01:15:40.109 --> 01:15:42.529 a sense of harmony. You know, they should not 01:15:42.529 --> 01:16:00.250 perfect each individual with each other. Let's 01:16:00.250 --> 01:16:06.079 respect between the two of them. Because his 01:16:06.079 --> 01:16:21.739 peace is so lucky. You see two people moving 01:16:21.739 --> 01:17:18.569 like that, you know, see how many people are 01:17:25.510 --> 01:18:34.850 coming to meet you. A peaceful person has never 01:18:34.850 --> 01:18:38.439 been part of a team. What does that make you 01:18:38.439 --> 01:18:47.609 feel? Part of several teams. I love teamwork, 01:18:48.069 --> 01:18:49.850 but I need everybody on the team to be on the 01:18:49.850 --> 01:18:54.729 same one. You don't have to be the strength of 01:18:54.729 --> 01:19:02.149 this. A team means, to me, everybody has their 01:19:02.149 --> 01:19:04.109 own strengths. And you put them all together, 01:19:04.250 --> 01:19:07.329 that makes a team. I fucking love teamwork. I 01:19:07.329 --> 01:19:09.909 know all people hate group projects and shit. 01:19:09.949 --> 01:19:11.989 I'm down for a group project as long as you're 01:19:11.989 --> 01:19:14.170 pulling your weight on what you're capable of 01:19:14.170 --> 01:19:19.760 doing. We have been on many teams. I love the 01:19:19.760 --> 01:19:23.989 team. I mean, I think it can't be done. I think 01:19:23.989 --> 01:19:26.590 you do it all by yourself, but take the team. 01:19:27.359 --> 01:20:13.250 Work the dream, work. Reach out for help. In 01:20:13.250 --> 01:20:18.069 different scenarios. Never minded it. Worked 01:20:18.069 --> 01:20:20.750 out pretty well. Never minded being on a team? 01:20:20.970 --> 01:20:28.649 No, I meant like, right as far as like, I usually 01:20:28.649 --> 01:20:38.960 play the games I've had for you. And then kitchen, 01:20:40.029 --> 01:20:45.529 restaurant -wise, if somebody wasn't, if somebody 01:20:45.529 --> 01:20:50.329 was sliding in and orders got crossed back, it 01:20:50.329 --> 01:20:56.720 was a nightmare. Yeah, we are a team. And we 01:20:56.720 --> 01:20:59.939 got strengths here. We do. And last week... One 01:20:59.939 --> 01:21:02.949 is not my blotter. Kanye tried to step on the 01:21:02.949 --> 01:21:05.350 girl's strength, and you know, it was almost 01:21:05.600 --> 01:21:09.460 a catastrophe in here. Oh my god. I knew it was 01:21:09.460 --> 01:21:12.270 a conversation. I love you guys, I really have 01:21:12.270 --> 01:21:13.829 to pee. Bye.