Beyond Mindset Limits - Tisha Marie Cain JD, CHt 05 06 2026- Guest Elizabeth Anne Walker bölümünün tam dökümü

teeth for a long time. 67 00:04:40.959 --> 00:04:42.879 If you'd switch hands, your brain doesn't know what to 68 00:04:42.920 --> 00:04:45.199 do with that because it's used to running the same pattern. 69 00:04:45.480 --> 00:04:47.920 And so the programming part is looking at those patterns 70 00:04:48.240 --> 00:04:51.240 and deconstructing the ones that are not helpful for you 71 00:04:51.279 --> 00:04:54.759 to get your goals and creating the ones that are 72 00:04:54.800 --> 00:04:56.439 going to be helpful for you to get your goals. 73 00:04:57.240 --> 00:05:00.000 My goodness, you know you want to be an entreprene 74 00:05:00.480 --> 00:05:02.480 If you've got a pattern of I'm not good enough, 75 00:05:03.079 --> 00:05:05.519 then it's highly likely that that pattern's going to show 76 00:05:05.600 --> 00:05:07.680 up in business. Right. You want to get rid of 77 00:05:07.680 --> 00:05:10.600 that pattern and get a pattern that says I am 78 00:05:10.879 --> 00:05:14.560 incredible at creating results, because that's going to be a 79 00:05:14.600 --> 00:05:17.040 program that's going to support you to become that next 80 00:05:17.079 --> 00:05:18.360 level entrepreneur. That you want to be. 81 00:05:19.160 --> 00:05:21.720 And what I know from you is you're an expert 82 00:05:22.079 --> 00:05:26.480 at this. Elizabeth, you are the leading top global trainer 83 00:05:26.560 --> 00:05:31.360 in NLP, and if anyone gets to learn NLP, it 84 00:05:31.439 --> 00:05:33.680 needs to be from Elizabeth N. Walker. And I mean 85 00:05:33.680 --> 00:05:37.680 I endorse you on all fronts because I'm a master 86 00:05:37.879 --> 00:05:42.079 NLP practitioner because of you. Yeah, you challenged me to 87 00:05:42.160 --> 00:05:45.480 the next best level of myself and so you're an 88 00:05:45.519 --> 00:05:48.160 expert of this. So I love that. I love that 89 00:05:49.319 --> 00:05:52.000 NLP And do you use LP and like a daily 90 00:05:52.040 --> 00:05:53.079 practice like at home? 91 00:05:53.839 --> 00:05:57.639 Yeah, So I totally believe that NLP is a lifestyle right. 92 00:05:57.759 --> 00:05:59.399 Like there's a lot of trainers out there that the 93 00:05:59.439 --> 00:06:02.040 teachers of techniques and it's like, oh, if you have this, 94 00:06:02.199 --> 00:06:05.720 use this, if you have that, use that. Actually, the 95 00:06:05.759 --> 00:06:08.839 techniques are so much deeper than that, you know. And 96 00:06:08.879 --> 00:06:11.439 that's why I call what I do integrated NLP because 97 00:06:11.480 --> 00:06:13.439 it works not just at the surface level. It's not 98 00:06:13.480 --> 00:06:16.040 just a series of techniques to fix a series of problems. 99 00:06:16.399 --> 00:06:19.079 It's actually a way of life where you show up 100 00:06:19.079 --> 00:06:22.000 in your life as the best version of you every 101 00:06:22.040 --> 00:06:26.240 single day and you have the techniques to support you 102 00:06:26.319 --> 00:06:26.680 to do that. 103 00:06:28.040 --> 00:06:34.000 Yes, and I remember when you taught me these words 104 00:06:34.040 --> 00:06:37.720 integrated and embodied, and I didn't have a freaking clue 105 00:06:37.839 --> 00:06:40.040 what that is, right, because I was so in my 106 00:06:40.199 --> 00:06:44.560 logical left brain, you know, being trained and indoctrinated in 107 00:06:44.639 --> 00:06:47.639 law school, that I was like, what does this mean? 108 00:06:47.759 --> 00:06:50.639 What is integrated embodied mean? What does this mean? And 109 00:06:51.000 --> 00:06:53.120 soil you broke it down and taught it to me, 110 00:06:53.160 --> 00:06:56.759 and I was like, Wow, this was a whole new 111 00:06:56.800 --> 00:06:57.600 world for me. 112 00:06:58.360 --> 00:07:00.639 Yeah, there's a whole lot of people out there that 113 00:07:00.680 --> 00:07:06.319 are thinking their feelings and not feeling their feelings. And 114 00:07:06.959 --> 00:07:08.959 what I mean by that is they say things like 115 00:07:10.079 --> 00:07:13.000 just give me a few moments to process that, or 116 00:07:13.360 --> 00:07:16.360 they go I'm just yeah, like I can totally see 117 00:07:16.360 --> 00:07:19.959 where the hurt came from, and so I'm just trying 118 00:07:19.959 --> 00:07:22.839 to manage, you know how I respond to that. That's 119 00:07:22.879 --> 00:07:28.600 all thinking feelings, actually letting that emotion course through your body. 120 00:07:28.600 --> 00:07:30.680 And when we talk about emotion, it's energy and motion, 121 00:07:30.920 --> 00:07:34.639 right Like, it needs to move. It needs to move 122 00:07:34.920 --> 00:07:37.240 to be resolved, it needs to move to be felt, 123 00:07:37.319 --> 00:07:39.639 it needs to move to be able to move through 124 00:07:39.680 --> 00:07:44.360 you and your life is as a vessel and a 125 00:07:44.439 --> 00:07:49.000 conduit for energy. Right, You can create and move energy. 126 00:07:49.720 --> 00:07:52.480 It's just always there. And so as you as a conduit, 127 00:07:52.720 --> 00:07:56.279 your job is to allow that energetic emotion to move 128 00:07:56.439 --> 00:07:59.040 through you. It's not yours to hold on to you, 129 00:07:59.160 --> 00:08:01.759 it's not yours to be part of you forever. It 130 00:08:01.839 --> 00:08:06.319 is simply an experience and a beautiful experience of being human. 131 00:08:06.920 --> 00:08:09.480 And when we can allow that emotion to move through 132 00:08:09.519 --> 00:08:13.199 our body, it keeps moving and it eventually moves out 133 00:08:13.240 --> 00:08:15.720 of our body. When we lock it down in our mind, 134 00:08:16.360 --> 00:08:18.519 we tend to ruminate on it. So we think over 135 00:08:18.639 --> 00:08:20.920 and over and over and over on the same thing. 136 00:08:21.279 --> 00:08:23.160 Why did he hurt me? What did I do wrong? 137 00:08:23.279 --> 00:08:25.519 How was that mean? In terms of you know, what 138 00:08:25.519 --> 00:08:29.319 did I do to create that? How? It goes

crazy 139 00:08:29.360 --> 00:08:32.320 in your mind? Right? But what about if you just 140 00:08:32.320 --> 00:08:34.720 sat with it and let it pass through you? What 141 00:08:34.759 --> 00:08:37.440 if you could live a life where you were so 142 00:08:38.320 --> 00:08:40.679 congruent with what you were creating that you didn't have 143 00:08:40.759 --> 00:08:44.519 to experience negative emotions very often? Right? I'm not going 144 00:08:44.600 --> 00:08:46.360 to say that you can have you know, I know 145 00:08:46.399 --> 00:08:48.360 there's toxic positivity, right, So I'm not going to say 146 00:08:48.399 --> 00:08:52.519 you can always be happy, amazing, joyful every single minute 147 00:08:52.519 --> 00:08:55.720 of your day. However, you can be pretty close. Yeah, 148 00:08:56.240 --> 00:08:58.200 you know, you can be pretty close. And the beauty 149 00:08:58.240 --> 00:09:02.360 of that is the people who think their emotions. Not 150 00:09:02.399 --> 00:09:04.759 only do they think the negative emotions, they think the 151 00:09:04.799 --> 00:09:08.720 good emotions too, And so you never get that true 152 00:09:08.919 --> 00:09:13.279 experience and expression of joy. Whereas when you feel it, 153 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:18.000 you can't stop it. Like you are jumping around you dancing, 154 00:09:18.279 --> 00:09:22.559 You're excited, and that excitement is felt on a cellular level, 155 00:09:22.840 --> 00:09:26.360 and that is what keeps us healthy. Right, we've got 156 00:09:26.440 --> 00:09:28.600 negative emotion going around in our brain. Then on a 157 00:09:28.639 --> 00:09:32.399 cellular level, we've got stagnant energy staying in ourselves. When 158 00:09:32.399 --> 00:09:35.759 we allow positive emotion and negative emotion to flow through us, 159 00:09:35.759 --> 00:09:38.960 there's movement around ourselves and on a cellular level, we 160 00:09:39.080 --> 00:09:39.840 stay healthier. 161 00:09:41.360 --> 00:09:45.039 And I know that from firsthand experience. You know, the 162 00:09:45.039 --> 00:09:48.840 more joy I'm in, the more healthy I feel in 163 00:09:48.960 --> 00:09:51.919 allowing that to move through me. And it's so great 164 00:09:52.000 --> 00:09:54.559 because you know, I kind of map it across to 165 00:09:54.720 --> 00:09:56.159 you know, when I have so much joy, I feel 166 00:09:56.200 --> 00:09:59.840 like dancing. Right when I'm angry, I just kind of 167 00:10:00.240 --> 00:10:02.919 But if I'm angry and I hit some pillows and 168 00:10:03.039 --> 00:10:06.720 let it move through me, Yes, like two minutes and I'm. 169 00:10:06.559 --> 00:10:09.840 Done, exactly, And then you don't have to be depressed 170 00:10:09.879 --> 00:10:12.000 for the whole day. You don't have to be angry 171 00:10:12.039 --> 00:10:13.480 for the whole day. You don't have to ruin your 172 00:10:13.480 --> 00:10:16.320 weekend with your partner just because you decided to get 173 00:10:16.360 --> 00:10:18.200 angry and not let it

move through you. Instead, you 174 00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:21.519 were overthinking and blaming like that's not necessary. 175 00:10:22.480 --> 00:10:22.759 Right. 176 00:10:23.000 --> 00:10:25.720 My husband is still learning this lesson. It's so great. 177 00:10:27.039 --> 00:10:28.799 I'm all, great, are you going to be mad for 178 00:10:28.840 --> 00:10:31.039 twenty nine hours? Are you gonna be mad for twenty 179 00:10:31.120 --> 00:10:33.519 nine minutes? You get to choose, and I'm going to 180 00:10:33.519 --> 00:10:37.840 support you and whatever that is, right, Yeah, and. 181 00:10:37.759 --> 00:10:39.320 How much time you want to spend with me, I'll 182 00:10:39.360 --> 00:10:41.320 walk away for the twenty nine hours if that's what 183 00:10:41.399 --> 00:10:44.080 it takes. However, you could do it quicker and we 184 00:10:44.080 --> 00:10:45.240 could actually have a great weekend. 185 00:10:45.519 --> 00:10:51.279 Wait were you there? Did you know? That's exactly. 186 00:10:52.360 --> 00:10:54.879 Definitely something I've been accused of as being in people's 187 00:10:54.879 --> 00:10:57.360 living room in their air conditioning events, because I seem 188 00:10:57.440 --> 00:11:00.600 to know exactly what they're going through. 189 00:11:02.919 --> 00:11:06.559 So how do you define mindset? And why do you 190 00:11:06.639 --> 00:11:10.360 believe it's crucial for personal and professional growth? 191 00:11:11.039 --> 00:11:14.879 Yeah? So this is really interesting because mindset, the word itself, 192 00:11:15.600 --> 00:11:20.399 actually implies stagnation, and I want to dig into that. So, 193 00:11:20.879 --> 00:11:24.159 you know, we all know about fixed mindset versus growth mindset. 194 00:11:24.200 --> 00:11:27.159 Fixed mindset where you know, failure is the limit of 195 00:11:27.200 --> 00:11:29.159 my abilities. In other words, the first time you fail, 196 00:11:29.200 --> 00:11:31.240 you're like, oh, well that's it, that's all I can do. 197 00:11:31.879 --> 00:11:35.120 And then we know about growth mindset, where it's like, okay, 198 00:11:35.200 --> 00:11:39.519 failure is an opportunity to grow. So okay, I'm going 199 00:11:39.559 --> 00:11:43.480 to push past that. Both of those things have limitations. 200 00:11:44.639 --> 00:11:48.559 What I believe in is creative imaginative mind flow. Right, 201 00:11:48.679 --> 00:11:52.559 creative imaginative mind flow. This is where failure is the 202 00:11:52.639 --> 00:11:55.879 desired outcome. And the reason I say this is this 203 00:11:55.960 --> 00:11:57.840 might come as a big surprise to people who have 204 00:11:57.879 --> 00:12:02.240 focused on success. Actually, you cannot know your success until 205 00:12:02.240 --> 00:12:05.480 you know the limits of your failure, right, And so 206 00:12:05.559 --> 00:12:08.600 how can you push so hard in the direction you 207 00:12:08.720 --> 00:12:11.480 choose that you can fail so that you can learn 208 00:12:11.600 --> 00:12:13.360 faster how to do it better? 209 00:12:14.159 --> 00:12:20.039 Wow, Elizabeth, you're dropping bars like this is so freaking mind. 210 00:12:20.080 --> 00:12:23.440 You know I'm sitting here taking nodes still because I'm 211 00:12:23.480 --> 00:12:25.960 a student of life. You know, I'm a student of you. 212 00:12:26.000 --> 00:12:30.720 I'm a student of mindset and creative and manager creative, 213 00:12:31.360 --> 00:12:36.720 imaginative mind flow. This is radical, keep going, keep going, okay. 214 00:12:36.799 --> 00:12:39.840 So like, if we look at fixed mindset, you're either 215 00:12:39.919 --> 00:12:43.960 I'm good or I'm not good at something. In growth mindset, 216 00:12:44.120 --> 00:12:46.840 we are I can learn to do anything I want 217 00:12:46.840 --> 00:12:50.759 to learn. In mindflow, we're moving into I know how 218 00:12:50.799 --> 00:12:56.360 to do more than I know. Say that again, I 219 00:12:56.480 --> 00:13:00.159 know how to do more than I know. Whoa oh, 220 00:13:00.879 --> 00:13:03.360 Because if we consider that we're only using, you know, 221 00:13:03.440 --> 00:13:06.399 ten percent of our brain at any one time, what 222 00:13:06.440 --> 00:13:09.480 we think we know is far less than what we 223 00:13:09.559 --> 00:13:13.759 actually know. And so if we feel as though we 224 00:13:13.840 --> 00:13:16.919 have to know whether we can achieve something, that's actually 225 00:13:16.960 --> 00:13:20.279 a limitation. We want to know that we know more 226 00:13:20.559 --> 00:13:24.600 than what we know. And that's mind flow, you know, 227 00:13:24.679 --> 00:13:29.120 if we go down to fixed mindset again. In fixed mindset, 228 00:13:29.399 --> 00:13:32.720 people don't like to be challenged because they're challenge they 229 00:13:32.720 --> 00:13:36.519 feel like a failure. In growth mindset, we recognize that 230 00:13:36.639 --> 00:13:41.360 challenges help you to grow. However, in mind flow, it's like, 231 00:13:41.759 --> 00:13:44.840 give me the challenge. I want the challenge and I 232 00:13:44.879 --> 00:13:48.840 want it fast. In mindset, we fixed mindset, we're jealous 233 00:13:48.840 --> 00:13:52.360 of the success of others. In growth mindset, we're inspired 234 00:13:52.440 --> 00:13:55.759 by the success of others. In mindflow, we believe that 235 00:13:55.960 --> 00:13:59.559 everyone is successful in their own way. 236 00:14:00.200 --> 00:14:02.639 And this is this is why people pay hundreds of 237 00:14:02.720 --> 00:14:05.600 thousands of dollars to work with you, Alis, Yeah, because 238 00:14:05.639 --> 00:14:08.960 this is this is mind blowing. And it's so simplistic, 239 00:14:09.200 --> 00:14:11.320 the way that you break it down, the way that 240 00:14:11.360 --> 00:14:14.360 you illustrate it in my brain and I too, am 241 00:14:14.399 --> 00:14:17.440 like you. I have a synesthesia, you know, I could 242 00:14:17.799 --> 00:14:20.559 use your audio. And so when you break it down 243

00:14:20.639 --> 00:14:24.159 for me, it breaks open my mind to say, yeah, yeah, 244 00:14:24.200 --> 00:14:26.360 I get it, and it's very digestible. 245 00:14:27.200 --> 00:14:32.559 Yeah. And so we the common phrase is mindset, right. Yeah. However, 246 00:14:32.600 --> 00:14:34.080 we have to be careful of how we use it. 247 00:14:34.159 --> 00:14:36.919 So we want the energetics of the words that we 248 00:14:37.080 --> 00:14:40.559 use to really inspire us to be the best version 249 00:14:40.600 --> 00:14:43.120 of ourselves. And so if I put my position in 250 00:14:43.159 --> 00:14:45.200 a place, if I put myself in a place where 251 00:14:45.240 --> 00:14:48.519 my position is mindset, then it implies that my mind 252 00:14:48.679 --> 00:14:51.840 is set like jello, right, like Jelo is set. And 253 00:14:51.960 --> 00:14:56.000 that however, if you think about jello, like everyone thinks 254 00:14:56.159 --> 00:14:58.919 the little you know, crystals of sugar, you put them 255 00:14:58.919 --> 00:15:01.200 with boiling water, you put it in the fridge. It 256 00:15:01.279 --> 00:15:04.879 then sets, and they're like, that is jelly, right, Like 257 00:15:05.039 --> 00:15:08.600 jelly is or jello is what we do once we've 258 00:15:08.600 --> 00:15:10.679 mixed the sugar with the water and it sets in 259 00:15:10.720 --> 00:15:13.200 the fridge. But actually, if you left the jello out 260 00:15:13.200 --> 00:15:15.600 for long enough, it would go back to liquid. And 261 00:15:15.720 --> 00:15:18.399 if you let the jello out long enough in the sun, 262 00:15:18.480 --> 00:15:21.360 it would eventually go back to sugar crystals. And so 263 00:15:21.879 --> 00:15:26.080 anything we think is static or set is never really 264 00:15:26.120 --> 00:15:29.679 static or set. You know, when we chop a tree 265 00:15:29.720 --> 00:15:32.759 down and make a piece of wooden furniture, we assume 266 00:15:32.799 --> 00:15:35.679 that that wood is all it can be. Yet actually, 267 00:15:35.720 --> 00:15:41.360 in every second that wood is decomposing, change is inevitable. 268 00:15:41.919 --> 00:15:45.639 Change is always happening. And the key to being the 269 00:15:45.679 --> 00:15:49.200 best version of you is your adaptability to change. In 270 00:15:49.240 --> 00:15:51.480 other words, a thing that we call the law of 271 00:15:51.559 --> 00:15:56.080 requisite variety. The person with the most flexibility will control 272 00:15:56.159 --> 00:15:59.039 their own system. And so the more flexible you can 273 00:15:59.080 --> 00:16:02.200 be as to how you gain success, how you actually 274 00:16:02.279 --> 00:16:05.200 create your life, the better it is. Because if you 275 00:16:05.200 --> 00:16:08.320 give yourself one option and go that success, then you 276 00:16:08.399 --> 00:16:10.799 better be damn good at getting that success. You better 277 00:16:10.840 --> 00:16:13.240 be damn good at that one option, Whereas if you 278 00:16:13.279 --> 00:16:17.559

give yourself multiple options for gaining success, then you're far 279 00:16:17.679 --> 00:16:20.200 more likely to get it because you're far more likely 280 00:16:20.279 --> 00:16:23.320 to go on a trajectory or timeline that is actually 281 00:16:23.399 --> 00:16:26.840 yours instead of someone else's. You know, I'm a multi 282 00:16:26.840 --> 00:16:29.840 millionaire and a lot of people look to me and say, well, 283 00:16:29.840 --> 00:16:33.240 what's your version of success? I have it. I have 284 00:16:33.320 --> 00:16:35.919 a garden, I live on the water, and my boat's 285 00:16:35.919 --> 00:16:38.879 out the back. You know. I have my grandchildren come 286 00:16:38.919 --> 00:16:41.600 around on Tuesday and I look after them. I have 287 00:16:41.720 --> 00:16:44.240 fridays to do fun things like that. This is my 288 00:16:44.440 --> 00:16:47.320 version of success. Do I get to buy nice things? Yeah? 289 00:16:47.360 --> 00:16:50.360 Occasionally I do, and I like being able to do that. However, 290 00:16:50.480 --> 00:16:52.799 is that my version of success? Not really, that's just 291 00:16:52.879 --> 00:16:56.440 kind of a perk, you know. And it's like, what 292 00:16:56.600 --> 00:16:59.159 is your version of success? And how can you use 293 00:16:59.799 --> 00:17:03.279 your or mindfulw to create it the way you want 294 00:17:03.320 --> 00:17:06.279 it rather than being dictated to by others that have it, 295 00:17:07.000 --> 00:17:09.119 Because you know, there are other people who their version 296 00:17:09.160 --> 00:17:12.039 of success is being able to go on holidays four 297 00:17:12.079 --> 00:17:14.319 months of the year. You know, I don't want to 298 00:17:14.319 --> 00:17:16.359 be around along. I don't want to be away from 299 00:17:16.359 --> 00:17:19.920 my grandbabies for that long. Yeah, you know, I like holiday. 300 00:17:20.640 --> 00:17:22.880 I holiday regularly. However, I don't want to be away 301 00:17:22.920 --> 00:17:24.160 from them for that long. So I don't want to 302 00:17:24.160 --> 00:17:25.960 go on a holiday for six months or four months 303 00:17:25.960 --> 00:17:30.599 of the year. Right. So, whoever is dictating your success, 304 00:17:31.400 --> 00:17:34.720 it's potentially creating your failure. In other words, unless you're 305 00:17:34.880 --> 00:17:38.559 allowing yourself to create your own version of success, you're 306 00:17:38.599 --> 00:17:42.480 possibly running someone else's timeline and that's possibly the reason 307 00:17:42.480 --> 00:17:46.880 you're not there. It has to be your own timeline. 308 00:17:47.160 --> 00:17:50.279 So the first step would be defined, What is your 309 00:17:52.160 --> 00:17:54.960 definition of success? Right? Would you say that? 310 00:17:55.599 --> 00:17:59.319 Yeah? Sure? So my definition of success is, like I said, 311 00:17:59.440 --> 00:18:02.759 it's days with my grandchildren. It's running a business where 312 00:18:02.799 --> 00:18:06.599 I get huge impact with people and their mind and 313 00:18:06.640 --> 00:18:09.640 their body and their soul. Like I impact people on 314 00:18:09.720 --> 00:18:12.680 all three levels, and I love that. My version of 315 00:18:12.720 --> 00:18:15.400 success is having a happy marriage. My version of success 316 00:18:15.480 --> 00:18:17.799 is having children that want to spend time with me 317 00:18:18.319 --> 00:18:21.279 and that I'm able to spend time with. And it's 318 00:18:21.279 --> 00:18:22.240 different for everyone. 319 00:18:22.839 --> 00:18:23.039 Yeah. 320 00:18:23.880 --> 00:18:27.559 So when you define success, success is what makes you 321 00:18:27.640 --> 00:18:29.160 feel the most joyful in life. 322 00:18:29.559 --> 00:18:35.359 Hmm. Yeah, And I mapped that across to when I 323 00:18:35.440 --> 00:18:38.160 opened this Las Vegas office, I was like, Okay, I 324 00:18:38.200 --> 00:18:42.240 want to be able to take my family to a 325 00:18:42.319 --> 00:18:46.279 Las Vegas show once a month, right, And so I 326 00:18:46.359 --> 00:18:49.119 set that out. I'm like, okay, great, I'm working in 327 00:18:49.200 --> 00:18:51.480 Las Vegas. I get to play in Las Vegas. I 328 00:18:51.519 --> 00:18:54.440 want to be able to see David Copperfield or someone right, 329 00:18:54.920 --> 00:18:57.240 And so I was praying. I was shooting up my 330 00:18:57.359 --> 00:19:00.160 rockets of desire up to God, and I'm like God, 331 00:19:00.279 --> 00:19:02.839 and I wasn't tied to the outcome. I was just like, 332 00:19:02.920 --> 00:19:05.559 you know what, however, I want this office to take off, 333 00:19:05.599 --> 00:19:08.359 and my definition of success is being able to take 334 00:19:08.400 --> 00:19:11.920 my family to these shows. And so yeah, soon as 335 00:19:11.960 --> 00:19:16.359 I shot my rockets of desire, our neighbors said, hey, 336 00:19:16.480 --> 00:19:19.400 did you know that if you're a veteran you get 337 00:19:19.440 --> 00:19:23.440 to sign up to these vettics and my husbands yeah, 338 00:19:23.480 --> 00:19:26.240 my husband has spent seventeen years in the military, and 339 00:19:26.279 --> 00:19:28.400 you get to sign up to these vettics and each 340 00:19:28.440 --> 00:19:32.079 of the Las Vegas shows set aside a certain amount 341 00:19:32.119 --> 00:19:34.960 of tickets for the veterans to go for free. 342 00:19:36.319 --> 00:19:41.240 Yeah. That's manifestation, right, Like, that's it absolutely working. I 343 00:19:41.279 --> 00:19:43.359 love that you live in Vegas and as soon as 344 00:19:43.359 --> 00:19:45.640 I can trouble over there. And what I mean by 345 00:19:45.720 --> 00:19:47.880 that is, you know, Australia is very far away from 346 00:19:47.880 --> 00:19:50.000 the rest of the world, like we are very very 347 00:19:50.000 --> 00:19:54.000 far away from any other country, and it feels really 348 00:19:54.039 --> 00:19:55.920 safe here, and when we hear about things that are 349 00:19:55.920 -->

00:19:58.480 going on overseas, it's like, Oh, I don't want to 350 00:19:58.519 --> 00:20:01.480 go over there. Let me just stay here in my 351 00:20:01.599 --> 00:20:03.920 nice little pocket of the world. And I remember when 352 00:20:03.920 --> 00:20:05.799 you and your husband were out here and we went 353 00:20:05.839 --> 00:20:08.279 to the markets that day. I had my handbag just 354 00:20:08.359 --> 00:20:12.119 hanging over my arm and your husband was like like, 355 00:20:12.160 --> 00:20:13.839 no one's going to just come run up and steal 356 00:20:13.880 --> 00:20:16.640 your handbag, like and I had it down on the grass, 357 00:20:16.680 --> 00:20:19.319 just sitting beside me, and he's like you, like, does 358 00:20:19.319 --> 00:20:21.599 this not happen I might we live in Australia, Like, no, 359 00:20:21.799 --> 00:20:24.599 that doesn't happen here. And so there's this level of 360 00:20:25.119 --> 00:20:30.279 I guess at the level of this discernment that you 361 00:20:30.319 --> 00:20:32.759 have to use energetically to know when the right time 362 00:20:32.839 --> 00:20:35.680 to go away from Australia is. And so when I 363 00:20:35.720 --> 00:20:38.359 get there, though, I am going there to see circ 364 00:20:38.400 --> 00:20:42.440 Di Siley, Oh oh yeah, Like that is my big 365 00:20:42.480 --> 00:20:44.839 thing I was. I really wanted to go to Vegas 366 00:20:44.880 --> 00:20:47.720 for my fortieth birthday. And this was before I had 367 00:20:47.720 --> 00:20:50.359 this business, right, So just on that you can create 368 00:20:50.400 --> 00:20:52.559 success in a very short period of time. I'm fifty 369 00:20:52.559 --> 00:20:55.240 two now, so when I was forty, I had no money, 370 00:20:55.960 --> 00:20:58.920 Like I had nothing. I was a single mom working 371 00:20:58.960 --> 00:21:01.359 my way, you know, to try and make things happen. 372 00:21:01.880 --> 00:21:04.599 And there was no way I could have afforded even 373 00:21:04.599 --> 00:21:08.359 a plane ticket to Vegas in those days, right, And however, 374 00:21:08.400 --> 00:21:10.359 what I wanted for my fortieth birthday was to be 375 00:21:10.400 --> 00:21:12.720 able to go and see so to slay. Oh, I 376 00:21:12.799 --> 00:21:15.880 am super blessed that it is still running twelve years later, 377 00:21:16.559 --> 00:21:18.559 and you know, and I know that it's going to 378 00:21:18.599 --> 00:21:19.440 happen in the next year. 379 00:21:19.799 --> 00:21:21.880 Oh absolutely, And when you come, we're going to do 380 00:21:21.920 --> 00:21:24.160 the VIP package because we're a bougie like that. 381 00:21:24.799 --> 00:21:28.599 Yes, yeah, yes, and I'm calling. 382 00:21:28.359 --> 00:21:32.440 In on that. I would love to spend time or 383 00:21:32.480 --> 00:21:35.079 invest a time with you and your husband to do. 384 00:21:35.200 --> 00:21:38.039 Oh it's a fantastic show, but it would be great. 385 00:21:38.359 --> 00:21:42.599 It just relating that back, not being tied to the outcome, 386 00:21:42.720 --> 00:21:45.720 defining your success and what that looks for you. There's 387 00:21:45.759 --> 00:21:48.440 no right or wrong in this game of life. And 388 00:21:48.480 --> 00:21:52.839 that's why I am so joyous because I really and 389 00:21:52.880 --> 00:21:55.799 you taught me this moving from you know, the effect 390 00:21:55.960 --> 00:21:58.480 of my life into the cause of my life. And 391 00:21:58.559 --> 00:22:02.240 I didn't understand and that when I was I was 392 00:22:02.279 --> 00:22:05.079 taking your NLP course from the States and I was 393 00:22:05.079 --> 00:22:08.160 on Australia time, and you and another coach kept saying, 394 00:22:08.519 --> 00:22:10.680 she's at she's at the effect of her life, and 395 00:22:10.720 --> 00:22:12.640 I was like, Okay, this is garbling goop, you know, 396 00:22:12.920 --> 00:22:15.720 just like when I was joining law school and they're like, okay, 397 00:22:15.759 --> 00:22:21.200 just keep referencing. You know, if you didn't know a word, 398 00:22:21.519 --> 00:22:24.960 a legal word like subpoena, you would pull open your 399 00:22:25.279 --> 00:22:28.519 legal law dictionary and you would map it across. When 400 00:22:28.559 --> 00:22:31.839 I was in your training room, I was like, okay, 401 00:22:32.039 --> 00:22:34.799 cause and effect. What is going on here? And you 402 00:22:34.920 --> 00:22:38.119 taught me that I could be at the cause of 403 00:22:38.200 --> 00:22:40.920 my life, that I get to I get to have 404 00:22:41.000 --> 00:22:43.960 everything that I want and even more like I'm the 405 00:22:43.960 --> 00:22:46.240 thermostat and not a thermometer. 406 00:22:47.000 --> 00:22:50.880 Yes, absolutely, you taught me that because you know what, 407 00:22:51.400 --> 00:22:56.000 whenever you put things outside yourself right, so like when 408 00:22:56.000 --> 00:22:58.480 you when you say it's there fault or it's because 409 00:22:58.519 --> 00:23:01.279 of this or this is why I do this. You 410 00:23:01.319 --> 00:23:04.680 give away all of your power to the event or 411 00:23:04.720 --> 00:23:07.799 the person or the thing that you have no control over, 412 00:23:08.279 --> 00:23:11.480 and therefore you have no control when you go Actually, 413 00:23:11.880 --> 00:23:14.720 I created this. I didn't mean to. I didn't want 414 00:23:14.759 --> 00:23:17.160 it to be that way, but I accept responsibility on 415 00:23:17.200 --> 00:23:19.359 some level for it. Then you get to be in 416 00:23:19.400 --> 00:23:21.440 control of your life and you actually have the power 417 00:23:21.519 --> 00:23:25.039 to do something about it. And so being a pause 418 00:23:25.160 --> 00:23:28.039 is a really important thing whenever you find yourself and 419 00:23:28.079 --> 00:23:30.599 for all the listeners out there, whenever you find yourself 420 00:23:31.440 --> 00:23:35.480 out there blaming others or even the weather, Like I 421 00:23:35.480 -->

00:23:37.200 didn't go for a walk today, so I've missed my 422 00:23:37.240 --> 00:23:41.400 fitness goals because it's raining. Well, like your waterproof, you 423 00:23:41.400 --> 00:23:45.240 know you have skin, Like if you're really dedicated to 424 00:23:45.599 --> 00:23:49.400 actually releasing weight, then you go for a walk even 425 00:23:49.440 --> 00:23:53.039 though it's raining. We'll get on a treadmill at the gym, 426 00:23:53.400 --> 00:23:57.079 like you know, people will go, oh, it was really rainy, 427 00:23:57.200 --> 00:23:58.839 so I didn't go for a walk, so I missed 428 00:23:58.880 --> 00:24:01.039 my goal. It's like that being at the effect of 429 00:24:01.079 --> 00:24:01.400 the weather. 430 00:24:02.200 --> 00:24:05.240 My family is kind of annoyed because I'm always at 431 00:24:05.279 --> 00:24:08.559 the cause. I when I when I travel, and I 432 00:24:08.799 --> 00:24:11.640 uh pick up a coffee mug from the coffee store. 433 00:24:11.680 --> 00:24:13.359 So when I was in Australia, of course I had 434 00:24:13.400 --> 00:24:15.720 to get an Australia coffee mug. 435 00:24:15.839 --> 00:24:15.960 Right. 436 00:24:16.119 --> 00:24:19.680 Well, the other day, Uh, my son, my little son, 437 00:24:20.200 --> 00:24:22.880 you know, was washing dishes and he broke it and 438 00:24:23.000 --> 00:24:25.480 uh and you should have seen the look on his face, like, 439 00:24:25.559 --> 00:24:28.160 oh my gosh, my mother had collected these coffee cups 440 00:24:28.200 --> 00:24:30.759 from all of our worldly travels and it broke. And 441 00:24:30.799 --> 00:24:33.279 I immediately I said, nope, it was my fault. You know, 442 00:24:33.279 --> 00:24:35.680 if that coffee mug was and it was the one 443 00:24:35.680 --> 00:24:38.759 from Prague, which which kind of sucks because now well 444 00:24:38.880 --> 00:24:40.240 not sucks because now I get to go back to 445 00:24:40.279 --> 00:24:44.480 Prog and get a cup. But right, so say, and 446 00:24:44.559 --> 00:24:47.160 you know, if that coffee mug was really important to me, 447 00:24:47.240 --> 00:24:50.359 I should have taken responsibility and wash those cups by 448 00:24:50.400 --> 00:24:53.440 hand and put them back into the the cabinet. You know, 449 00:24:53.640 --> 00:24:55.920 it's it's my fault, not yours. And they're like, oh god, 450 00:24:56.079 --> 00:24:58.680 yeah there, you know, they were grumbling and stuff. But 451 00:24:58.720 --> 00:25:01.480 that's how I lived my life. I take full responsibility 452 00:25:01.519 --> 00:25:05.400 for whatever is happening in my field, and It's radically 453 00:25:05.400 --> 00:25:06.200 transformed my. 454 00:25:06.200 --> 00:25:09.279 Life absolutely, because it gives you back all of your 455 00:25:09.279 --> 00:25:13.079 power and lets you decide what happens next instead of 456 00:25:13.160 --> 00:25:15.920 letting the whims of the world decide what happens next. 457 00:25:16.200 --> 00:25:20.119 Yeah great, perfect. So I want to know. I want 458 00:25:20.160 --> 00:25:24.279 to know more about embodied leadership because you help entrepreneurs, 459 00:25:24.319 --> 00:25:28.599 you help executives, you help high level C suite entrepreneurs 460 00:25:29.079 --> 00:25:32.759 move through this. What does embodied leadership mean to you? 461 00:25:33.200 --> 00:25:37.720 And how can individuals cultivate this quality for themselves? 462 00:25:38.319 --> 00:25:40.480 Yeah? Great. So this comes back to that same thing 463 00:25:40.480 --> 00:25:42.680 I was talking about earlier, where people are thinking their 464 00:25:42.680 --> 00:25:45.240 feelings rather than feeling their feelings. And I want to 465 00:25:45.279 --> 00:25:48.359 take you on an etymology Joenny. So, etymology is the 466 00:25:48.400 --> 00:25:52.319 study of where words started. Right, So, in the beginning, 467 00:25:52.400 --> 00:25:55.559 the dictionary was invented by people all over the world 468 00:25:55.640 --> 00:26:00.680 sending mail in as to what different words meant and 469 00:26:00.759 --> 00:26:03.160 how they were created, and then then they got a 470 00:26:03.200 --> 00:26:05.319 consensus on what a word meant and then they put 471 00:26:05.319 --> 00:26:08.440 it in the dictionary. Right. So, etomology is the historical 472 00:26:08.799 --> 00:26:10.599 part of the word. So when we look at the 473 00:26:10.599 --> 00:26:14.799 word leadership, we've got two main words in it, which 474 00:26:14.839 --> 00:26:20.039 one is lead laad, and one is ship. Now, in 475 00:26:20.079 --> 00:26:23.960 ancient times, lead was a very very precious material in 476 00:26:24.039 --> 00:26:28.079 terms of building. If we go back to Roman times particularly, 477 00:26:28.599 --> 00:26:34.119 and lead itself used to travel on ships. Now, the 478 00:26:34.200 --> 00:26:39.640 concept of leadership is to send something precious out and 479 00:26:39.839 --> 00:26:42.960 equally the ship would come back with something precious. It 480 00:26:43.000 --> 00:26:45.640 may not be lead, but it might be wheat or 481 00:26:45.640 --> 00:26:48.759 fruit or whatever the exchange was in those days. So 482 00:26:49.920 --> 00:26:53.640 if you're in true leadership, you are sending something out 483 00:26:53.720 --> 00:26:58.799 that is extremely precious and important and valuable, and you 484 00:26:58.960 --> 00:27:03.559 equally are allowed yourself to receive that same level of 485 00:27:04.480 --> 00:27:09.599 value back. Now, if we're an embodied leader, we know 486 00:27:09.759 --> 00:27:12.319 exactly what we're sending out and we know exactly what 487 00:27:12.359 --> 00:27:16.400 we're receiving back, and it's done very very intentionally. There's 488 00:27:16.440 --> 00:27:20.839 no such thing in that world as hierarchical leadership, right, 489 00:27:21.480 --> 00:27:24.279 If you're really embodied in your leadership, you don't need 490 00:27:24.279 --> 00:27:28.799 a hierarchy because people naturally

allow themselves to be influenced 491 00:27:28.839 --> 00:27:32.920 by you know, and so if you're in a position 492 00:27:32.960 --> 00:27:37.240 where you're allowing yourself to have discernment of what influences you, 493 00:27:37.799 --> 00:27:40.119 then the way that you're going to influence others is 494 00:27:40.200 --> 00:27:43.599 going to be with integrity and in alignment with your goals. 495 00:27:44.640 --> 00:27:49.559 If you're advertising that, then that alignment is visible to others. 496 00:27:50.200 --> 00:27:52.160 You know, if anyone was to go to my Instagram 497 00:27:52.200 --> 00:27:54.319 right now, if they scroll down a little bit, they'll 498 00:27:54.359 --> 00:27:57.319 see a dancing video of myself and my husband and 499 00:27:58.119 --> 00:28:01.079 it was pretty funny. However, So that's actually what was 500 00:28:01.119 --> 00:28:03.519 happening in the moment. You know. It wasn't like, oh, 501 00:28:03.559 --> 00:28:07.000 I need some content, let's film this. You know, what 502 00:28:07.039 --> 00:28:09.720 can we do to make it go off? Like it's 503 00:28:09.839 --> 00:28:12.480 just here we go? You know, if you scroll through 504 00:28:12.519 --> 00:28:14.599 my content, you'll see that I was, you know, a 505 00:28:14.640 --> 00:28:16.480 few months ago, I was at the opera house and 506 00:28:16.519 --> 00:28:20.000 I was actually bashed by a lady. That piece of 507 00:28:20.000 --> 00:28:23.880 content just telling that story, you know, it was went viral. 508 00:28:24.000 --> 00:28:26.160 It got i don't know, four million views or something 509 00:28:26.240 --> 00:28:29.759 like wow. And when you think about that, like, you know, 510 00:28:29.799 --> 00:28:31.279 I hear people all the time go, I really want 511 00:28:31.319 --> 00:28:33.519 a business. I really want a social media based business, 512 00:28:34.240 --> 00:28:35.839 but I don't know what to post. It's that you 513 00:28:35.880 --> 00:28:37.799 don't have to know what to post, just post who 514 00:28:37.880 --> 00:28:44.319 you are, literally be authentically you, because people who are 515 00:28:44.359 --> 00:28:47.240 looking for a leader. In other words, allowing you to 516 00:28:47.240 --> 00:28:51.680 step into leadership. Are looking for the resonance between them 517 00:28:51.720 --> 00:28:54.680 and you. And if you're not truly who you are 518 00:28:55.279 --> 00:28:59.359 and they buy the version of you that you're portraying 519 00:28:59.480 --> 00:29:02.200 instead of who you really are, you'll end up with 520 00:29:02.240 --> 00:29:05.160 dissatisfied customers, which will lead to bad reviews, which will 521 00:29:05.200 --> 00:29:08.599 lead to your inability to continue in leadership. Now this 522 00:29:09.119 --> 00:29:12.640 works in corporate as well. How are you influencing? Like 523 00:29:12.680 --> 00:29:16.759 that is a version of hierarchical leadership, and so that's okay, 524 00:29:16.839 --> 00:29:19.480 you didn't create it, you're just in it. How though, 525 00:29:19.519 --> 00:29:25.519 can you influence rather than delegate? Right, Because if you 526 00:29:25.519 --> 00:29:28.200 have full ownership of your leadership, if you have full 527 00:29:28.240 --> 00:29:31.039 ownership of knowing what it is that you're preciously sending 528 00:29:31.039 --> 00:29:34.559 out and receiving back, then you can inspire and influence 529 00:29:35.200 --> 00:29:40.640 your teams to actually do the same thing, to do 530 00:29:40.720 --> 00:29:43.240 it for the mission. And this is one of the 531 00:29:43.279 --> 00:29:46.319 things that I love about what I do. It's all 532 00:29:46.519 --> 00:29:51.720 for the mission, right, It's I get the perks from it, absolutely, 533 00:29:51.759 --> 00:29:55.720 I get the perks. Yeah, However, it's all for the mission. Like, 534 00:29:55.839 --> 00:29:58.039 I don't do this, you know, I don't get haters 535 00:29:58.039 --> 00:30:01.640 on social media abusing me because that's what I want. 536 00:30:02.160 --> 00:30:07.519 I get that because I challenge their standard. You know, 537 00:30:08.200 --> 00:30:11.720 I'm someone who I don't know anyone else who meets 538 00:30:11.759 --> 00:30:14.240 their standards the way that I do. I show up 539 00:30:14.279 --> 00:30:16.640 time and time and time again because I have a 540 00:30:16.680 --> 00:30:18.599 set of standards. Now that doesn't mean that all my 541 00:30:18.680 --> 00:30:23.559 standards are good. You know, like I definitely forgot to 542 00:30:23.599 --> 00:30:26.000 send you my bio when we were planning this meeting. 543 00:30:26.599 --> 00:30:29.400 You know, well, really what I forgot to do is 544 00:30:29.400 --> 00:30:32.000 tell the marketing team to get it done. So I 545 00:30:32.000 --> 00:30:33.559 didn't actually forget to do it, just forgot to tell 546 00:30:33.559 --> 00:30:34.920 the people who should have done it to do it. 547 00:30:35.319 --> 00:30:38.799 And so then this morning I was like, ah, I 548 00:30:38.839 --> 00:30:41.359 haven't said to that thing. So I'm like scrambling email 549 00:30:41.440 --> 00:30:44.200 half you know, half an hour before we're doing this call, 550 00:30:44.680 --> 00:30:49.880 and it gets done. Yeah. And so with other standards, though, 551 00:30:49.920 --> 00:30:52.039 like when it comes to someone's heart and their head, 552 00:30:52.720 --> 00:30:56.599 I will stay and stay and stay till four o'clock 553 00:30:56.640 --> 00:30:59.799 in the morning if required to get the result, because 554 00:30:59.799 --> 00:31:02.400 I'm absolutely committed to what I do because I know 555 00:31:02.480 --> 00:31:04.480 the wealth of what I offer and I know the 556 00:31:04.480 --> 00:31:05.839 wealth of what I received back. 557 00:31:06.519 --> 00:31:10.640 Oh that's so sexy. I know the wealth of what 558 00:31:10.720 --> 00:31:15.839 I offer. That's so sexy. I love it, you know, 559 00:31:16.000 --> 00:31:20.559 because I

remember speaking of wealth. I remember when we 560 00:31:20.559 --> 00:31:24.480 were running our values and you were very bold and 561 00:31:24.559 --> 00:31:27.160 loud and proud and said that one of your top 562 00:31:27.240 --> 00:31:32.279 values was wealth. And my whole body went like, how 563 00:31:32.359 --> 00:31:36.400 could she say that? Right? And so I've always been 564 00:31:36.440 --> 00:31:39.839 a disruptor. That's who I am from the fibers of 565 00:31:39.880 --> 00:31:42.759 my soul. So now I talk about wealth all the time. 566 00:31:42.799 --> 00:31:44.960 I'm like, I want to make a f ton of money. 567 00:31:45.160 --> 00:31:49.119 And I see, because I'm Claire sentient, Claire cognizant, I 568 00:31:49.319 --> 00:31:54.759 see and feel people's body immediately get restrictive because they 569 00:31:54.759 --> 00:31:56.759 can't handle that type of language, right. 570 00:31:57.240 --> 00:32:00.559 Yeah, And they retract from it because they don't believe 571 00:32:00.599 --> 00:32:01.720 it's available to them. 572 00:32:02.200 --> 00:32:07.720 That's right, and it's available to everyone. In relating back 573 00:32:07.720 --> 00:32:11.480 to authenticity, is I have nieche down probably last eighteen 574 00:32:11.480 --> 00:32:14.559 months working more with C suite executives. But they're hiring 575 00:32:14.640 --> 00:32:18.559 me because I'm such in my authentic power. Yes, I'm 576 00:32:18.640 --> 00:32:21.519 quirky and I'm weird, and I, you know, celebrate little 577 00:32:21.559 --> 00:32:24.160 small wins all the time, and they're like, how could 578 00:32:24.200 --> 00:32:26.079 you behave in such a manner. You need to put 579 00:32:26.119 --> 00:32:28.119 on your business suit and you need to be strict. 580 00:32:28.160 --> 00:32:30.839 And I'm like, no, is it okay that we could 581 00:32:30.839 --> 00:32:33.319 play and work at the same time, And They're like, oh, 582 00:32:33.400 --> 00:32:35.039 I've never really thought about it like. 583 00:32:35.000 --> 00:32:40.960 That exactly exactly. I was literally cleaning out our building 584 00:32:41.079 --> 00:32:43.480 the other day, Like we have a building where we 585 00:32:43.599 --> 00:32:46.440 have like a purpose built facility where we run our trainings, 586 00:32:46.880 --> 00:32:50.000 and there's been I haven't done a spring clean of 587 00:32:50.039 --> 00:32:51.519 it for about a year and a half, and I 588 00:32:51.559 --> 00:32:53.680 was like, I know that there's stuff in here that 589 00:32:53.759 --> 00:32:55.599 doesn't need to be here, and I want a clear, 590 00:32:55.720 --> 00:32:59.480 energetic container as we move into our next training. And 591 00:32:59.519 --> 00:33:01.799 as I was cleaning, I found a five cent piece, 592 00:33:01.839 --> 00:33:05.200 which is I guess, like a dime in America. I 593 00:33:05.240 --> 00:33:07.119 found a five cent piece of the floor, and I 594 00:33:07.279 --> 00:33:12.079 like squealed in delight like a childhood and my husband 595 00:33:12.279 --> 00:33:14.759 like it must have been quite a blood curdling squill 596 00:33:14.799 --> 00:33:17.319 because my husband bolted from the other end of the room, 597 00:33:17.720 --> 00:33:20.440 got there and went are you all right? And I'm like, yeah, 598 00:33:20.440 --> 00:33:26.279 I found five cents. It was like, oh my god. 599 00:33:26.400 --> 00:33:28.880 I like I ran for that, and I'm like, yeah, 600 00:33:28.920 --> 00:33:32.559 it's exciting, like that's a sign that there's more wealth coming. 601 00:33:33.440 --> 00:33:35.759 Whereas most people would see five cents and go. They 602 00:33:35.839 --> 00:33:37.799 might pick it up, but they don't really think about 603 00:33:38.160 --> 00:33:42.440 what it represents. And so our minds are meaning making machines. 604 00:33:43.480 --> 00:33:46.079 We make the meaning of everything. And so how can 605 00:33:46.119 --> 00:33:49.240 you choose in every moment, choose the most empowering meaning? 606 00:33:50.519 --> 00:33:53.799 You know, like finding five cents the most empowering meaning? 607 00:33:53.960 --> 00:33:57.920 Is that means that our business is going to succeed 608 00:33:58.000 --> 00:34:01.039 financially because look how easy it was to get money. 609 00:34:01.039 --> 00:34:05.599 I just found it, you know. So the meaning that 610 00:34:05.680 --> 00:34:08.920 you make from things, you're already a meaning making machine. 611 00:34:09.440 --> 00:34:13.119 How can you be a meaning making machine that actually 612 00:34:13.199 --> 00:34:18.119 chooses the most empowering meaning? M You know, you get 613 00:34:18.119 --> 00:34:20.559 stuck in traffic, instead of going, oh, I'm going to 614 00:34:20.639 --> 00:34:24.360 be late, be like, oh, I actually get time to 615 00:34:24.480 --> 00:34:27.840 rest and collect myself before I running into that meeting. 616 00:34:28.360 --> 00:34:30.559 You know, this is an opportunity for me to phone 617 00:34:30.559 --> 00:34:33.679 my mom. This is you know, whatever you have to do, 618 00:34:33.920 --> 00:34:35.440 you've just gained a whole lot of time. 619 00:34:36.760 --> 00:34:43.119 Absolutely, absolutely, our minds are meaning making machine. Elizabeth and 620 00:34:43.400 --> 00:34:49.800 Walker dropping the bars today. This is so good. That's 621 00:34:49.840 --> 00:34:52.280 why I love it. I love being in your energy. 622 00:34:52.400 --> 00:34:55.280 I love swimming in your energy because every time I'm 623 00:34:55.320 --> 00:34:58.440 with you, you know, I think that I'm an expert in 624 00:34:58.519 --> 00:35:00.920 some things, and then I'm like, oh god, I mean 625 00:35:01.039 --> 00:35:04.000 kindergarten again, Like let's go, Like I get more to learn, 626 00:35:04.039 --> 00:35:05.880 you know, I get to learn more, which your self 627 00:35:05.920 --> 00:35:07.480 fantabolic that that's. 628 00:35:07.360 --> 00:35:10.559 Mind flow in action, right, uh huh, Like I know 629

00:35:10.639 --> 00:35:14.440 I know more. Yeah, And it's just you know, surrounding 630 00:35:14.480 --> 00:35:16.760 yourself with the right people allow you, allows you to 631 00:35:16.800 --> 00:35:18.239 recognize what else you know. 632 00:35:18.920 --> 00:35:22.039 And how important is it to surround yourself with the 633 00:35:22.119 --> 00:35:22.800 right people. 634 00:35:23.400 --> 00:35:25.480 Well, you know, they say that you become the people 635 00:35:25.480 --> 00:35:28.039 of the five people you hang around. And I'm imagining 636 00:35:28.079 --> 00:35:29.920 that you have some moms that listen to this show. 637 00:35:29.960 --> 00:35:32.239 So if you're a mom thinking, my god, I must 638 00:35:32.239 --> 00:35:34.719 be like my children because I'm hanging around five children, 639 00:35:34.880 --> 00:35:37.360 that's okay, we're not talking about that. Because it's not 640 00:35:37.440 --> 00:35:40.239 just about who you physically hang around. It's who you 641 00:35:40.360 --> 00:35:43.239 energetically hang around, who you mentally hang around. So if 642 00:35:43.280 --> 00:35:46.119 you're listening to podcasts, listening to the radio like this, 643 00:35:46.639 --> 00:35:49.760 then you're hanging around us right now, and you're that 644 00:35:49.840 --> 00:35:53.000 means you'll like us because you're spending time with us, right, 645 00:35:53.519 --> 00:35:56.320 and so you become the five people you surround yourself with. 646 00:35:56.480 --> 00:35:58.960 Is what's the energetic globe that you're surrounding yourself with. 647 00:35:59.039 --> 00:36:01.440 Are you surrounding yourself with people who are flat load 648 00:36:01.519 --> 00:36:05.119 depressed or are you surrounding yourself with people who are energetic, 649 00:36:05.199 --> 00:36:08.000 upbeat and wanting more out of life, because that will 650 00:36:08.079 --> 00:36:10.159 determine what you get out of life. 651 00:36:10.440 --> 00:36:13.639 Hmmm. So true. And I can I feel that now 652 00:36:13.679 --> 00:36:16.920 that you taught me years ago how to be an 653 00:36:16.920 --> 00:36:20.599 embodied leader, I could feel who I'm in residence with. 654 00:36:20.719 --> 00:36:23.159 Even in a line, you know, in the line going 655 00:36:23.199 --> 00:36:25.559 into the show, I'm like, the guy behind me sucks. 656 00:36:25.599 --> 00:36:28.320 He just totally sucks, you know, And there's no really judgment. 657 00:36:28.400 --> 00:36:30.480 It was just like, I don't you know, he may 658 00:36:30.519 --> 00:36:33.199 be amazing, but I just don't resonate because I already 659 00:36:33.280 --> 00:36:35.599 heard him complaining because we were standing, and I'm not 660 00:36:35.639 --> 00:36:38.599 a complainer. I'm like, I'm a yes to life type girl. 661 00:36:38.920 --> 00:36:42.000 I'm so blessed to be here and be on my 662 00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:46.159 mission and help transform lives that this guy was no right, 663 00:36:46.280 --> 00:36:50.039 So thank you

for that journey through the etymology of 664 00:36:50.079 --> 00:36:54.079 the word and leadership, and that's that lands for me, 665 00:36:54.119 --> 00:36:56.320 and I'm hoping that it's going to land for our listeners. 666 00:36:56.559 --> 00:37:00.880 If it doesn't, you could replay the recorded here. KT 667 00:37:02.280 --> 00:37:06.039 so great. So let's go. Let's go into that unconscious influence. 668 00:37:06.320 --> 00:37:09.840 You speak about addressing the unconscious mind. How does this 669 00:37:10.079 --> 00:37:14.199 aspect of your work differ from traditional coaching methods? 670 00:37:14.800 --> 00:37:18.199 Yeah? Right, So normally, what we're doing in coaching, and 671 00:37:18.280 --> 00:37:20.599 what people are doing in coaching is looking at a 672 00:37:20.639 --> 00:37:24.960 problem and asking questions of the person in order to 673 00:37:25.000 --> 00:37:32.599 find the solution. However, if the unconscious program is of something, 674 00:37:32.920 --> 00:37:35.239 that means they can't have it. So, like, I'll give 675 00:37:35.239 --> 00:37:37.559 you an example of a person that I coached this morning. 676 00:37:37.599 --> 00:37:40.960 She's a successful Australian coach and she's currently living in 677 00:37:41.000 --> 00:37:44.679 Costa Rica and she's about to do a launch and 678 00:37:44.719 --> 00:37:47.400 she wants to do a three hundred K launch and 679 00:37:48.360 --> 00:37:51.119 she's quite capable. She has the audience to be able 680 00:37:51.159 --> 00:37:53.159 to do that, she has a skill set to be 681 00:37:53.199 --> 00:37:55.639 able to do that, and she's worried that she won't 682 00:37:55.639 --> 00:37:59.559 be able to do it. Now, her underlying belief about 683 00:37:59.599 --> 00:38:04.320 self is I'm not good enough, and her underlying reason 684 00:38:04.360 --> 00:38:06.760 for that is because at multiple times when she was 685 00:38:06.800 --> 00:38:10.440 a child, she was abandoned, like her parents weren't emotionally 686 00:38:10.440 --> 00:38:13.400 available for her. Her brother and sister were really good friends, 687 00:38:13.440 --> 00:38:15.360 and she was kind of left out. So she's abandoned. 688 00:38:15.480 --> 00:38:17.960 She's got this abandonment wound that shows up as I'm 689 00:38:17.960 --> 00:38:20.800 not good enough. And so what we have to do 690 00:38:20.960 --> 00:38:25.039 is disconnect that program at the root level. We're not 691 00:38:25.119 --> 00:38:27.800 disconnecting it now that she's an adult. We're disconnecting it 692 00:38:27.880 --> 00:38:30.599 at the time and through the language and through the 693 00:38:30.719 --> 00:38:34.239 feelings of the child. Now, as an adult, she can 694 00:38:34.320 --> 00:38:37.320 rationalize that her parents had challenges and that that's why 695 00:38:37.320 --> 00:38:40.639 her parents weren't available to her. However, as a child, 696 00:38:41.239 --> 00:38:44.840 she had no idea. As a child, she was just 697 00:38:45.000 --> 00:38:48.280 missing mom and dad. As a child, she just felt 698 00:38:48.280 --> 00:38:51.119 as though no one cared. And so we have to 699 00:38:51.159 --> 00:38:55.360 address the feelings of the child in order to allow 700 00:38:55.400 --> 00:38:58.920 the adult to step into the fullest expression of themselves. 701 00:38:59.320 --> 00:39:02.599 Absolutely, And how is she doing now? 702 00:39:03.360 --> 00:39:06.559 So she's great, She's about to start the launch and 703 00:39:06.599 --> 00:39:08.039 she's feeling great about it. 704 00:39:08.440 --> 00:39:11.119 Yeah, which is fantastic. Yeah yeah, yeah. And then I 705 00:39:11.480 --> 00:39:14.679 think that resonates with me too, because my deep core. 706 00:39:14.960 --> 00:39:16.639 Was that not good enough? That's why I always had 707 00:39:16.639 --> 00:39:19.159 to hustle for my work and do all the things. 708 00:39:19.239 --> 00:39:21.360 And so I finally said, you know what, I don't 709 00:39:21.360 --> 00:39:24.320 need any more certificates. I don't need any more letters 710 00:39:24.360 --> 00:39:27.039 at the end of my name. This is like, can 711 00:39:27.079 --> 00:39:30.440 you just stop already and just believe that you're worthy? 712 00:39:31.000 --> 00:39:32.480 Yeah, it's the same as me. You know, I had 713 00:39:32.519 --> 00:39:34.880 four degrees because I wasn't good enough, so I better 714 00:39:34.960 --> 00:39:38.119 learn some more. Yeah, And then when you realize that 715 00:39:38.239 --> 00:39:41.920 actually it's a mindset piece, not a brain capacity piece, 716 00:39:42.039 --> 00:39:44.719 not an intelligence piece. Right. This is one thing I 717 00:39:44.719 --> 00:39:48.119 love telling people is intelligence is simply the rate of learning. 718 00:39:49.519 --> 00:39:51.559 So a lot of people, a lot of people think 719 00:39:51.599 --> 00:39:56.840 they're dumb. They're not dumb, they just haven't actually worked 720 00:39:56.840 --> 00:40:00.599 out how to increase their rate of learning. And so 721 00:40:00.639 --> 00:40:03.159 if we look at something like AI, which is out 722 00:40:03.199 --> 00:40:05.760 there right now, you know, it has a high rate 723 00:40:05.800 --> 00:40:08.119 of learning and therefore appears intelligent. 724 00:40:08.719 --> 00:40:10.119 Ah, so good. 725 00:40:10.599 --> 00:40:13.760 However, if we look at AI right now, it currently 726 00:40:13.840 --> 00:40:19.480 does not have the ability to have compassion right right, 727 00:40:19.760 --> 00:40:22.960 because no one's taught a compassion. People have taught on emotions, 728 00:40:23.000 --> 00:40:25.880 but no one's taught at compassion, and so that's a 729 00:40:26.000 --> 00:40:29.639 human quality. We have the ability to have compassion. We 730 00:40:29.719 --> 00:40:33.280 have the ability to choose where we focus our energy, 731 00:40:34.880 --> 00:40:38.639 you know, and that's super important. It makes us incredible beings, 732 00:40:38.960 -->

00:40:41.440 which means that we can all have success as long 733 00:40:41.480 --> 00:40:42.960 as we focus on what we want. 734 00:40:43.599 --> 00:40:47.559 Yeah, and my energy is my currency, right, yes, yeah, 735 00:40:47.639 --> 00:40:51.119 Like I have to be really careful. When I started 736 00:40:51.159 --> 00:40:53.440 looking at my calendar, I'm like, why are there several 737 00:40:53.480 --> 00:40:57.079 coffee dates here? No? No, we're not having coffee dates. 738 00:40:57.119 --> 00:41:01.039 I'm very highly motivated, highly focused to grow my businesses, 739 00:41:01.480 --> 00:41:06.559 and I can't allow time to bro coffee, like really, 740 00:41:06.639 --> 00:41:09.920 like I love you and no, that's like me. 741 00:41:10.039 --> 00:41:13.480 People go, I really need individual coaching, and it's like, well, 742 00:41:13.639 --> 00:41:16.840 to work with me costs a bomb, and so just 743 00:41:16.880 --> 00:41:19.239 come to my training because you will get what you 744 00:41:19.320 --> 00:41:22.400 need in the training and then if you choose to 745 00:41:22.480 --> 00:41:25.920 create success, you'll be able to access me further, you know. 746 00:41:26.159 --> 00:41:28.119 And it's like people are like, oh, but I want 747 00:41:28.159 --> 00:41:31.840 one on one and it's like, sorry, it's not it's 748 00:41:32.599 --> 00:41:35.000 not in my desire to do that low level one 749 00:41:35.039 --> 00:41:37.719 on one. And when I say low level, you know 750 00:41:37.800 --> 00:41:40.280 someone who's just starting out on a mindset journey, come 751 00:41:40.280 --> 00:41:43.400 to my training where training is amazing. It's incredible, you know. 752 00:41:43.440 --> 00:41:46.559 And if you're in the States, stay up, Tisha did it? 753 00:41:47.119 --> 00:41:49.559 You know, like hundreds of people from the States have 754 00:41:49.599 --> 00:41:52.599 stayed up all night to do the training. Is it hard? Yes? 755 00:41:52.679 --> 00:41:55.079 And you know you can do hard things. Possibly your 756 00:41:55.079 --> 00:41:58.800 life's already hard, so you're doing something hard. Really doesn't 757 00:41:58.840 --> 00:42:01.719 make a difference. It just in the right position to 758 00:42:01.800 --> 00:42:02.480 make it easier. 759 00:42:03.119 --> 00:42:05.480 Yeah. And I had to ask myself, how bad do 760 00:42:05.559 --> 00:42:06.440 I want to feel better? 761 00:42:07.079 --> 00:42:07.440 Yeah? 762 00:42:07.559 --> 00:42:10.360 Right? And you told me in that training my flavor 763 00:42:10.400 --> 00:42:14.880 in the past was sadness. And it was in your 764 00:42:15.000 --> 00:42:20.280 modality ect emotional change technique that radically broke me open 765 00:42:20.320 --> 00:42:23.800 and I was able to get neutralized sadness at the root. 766 00:42:24.039 --> 00:42:26.280 And then I went on to do this exact work 767 00:42:26.280 --> 00:42:28.199 and I'm moving out. It's funny that you say one 768 00:42:28.199 --> 00:42:30.039 on one because I'm moving out of that one on one. 769 00:42:30.480 --> 00:42:35.320 You know. Yeah, it's a lot, and yes, people you know, 770 00:42:35.639 --> 00:42:38.880 to work with me is a lot because I transform lives. 771 00:42:38.880 --> 00:42:42.280 But I want the full Fyes. Like when I showed 772 00:42:42.360 --> 00:42:46.360 up for your training, I was like, Elizabeth, I ad gaping, 773 00:42:46.599 --> 00:42:49.440 My heart is gaping. Wounds. I need someone to teach 774 00:42:49.480 --> 00:42:52.440 me other than this indoctor nation. I need someone to 775 00:42:52.480 --> 00:42:54.519 break me wide open for me to be able to 776 00:42:54.559 --> 00:42:56.360 see that there is a better life for me. And 777 00:42:56.400 --> 00:43:00.280 that's exactly what you did. And so just going down 778 00:43:00.320 --> 00:43:04.679 through those processes really allowed it was a door to 779 00:43:04.719 --> 00:43:06.679 more so pu heart. 780 00:43:06.880 --> 00:43:09.320 I think that's the thing to SWI the work that 781 00:43:09.400 --> 00:43:13.360 you and I do, it's transformative, and it's not transformative 782 00:43:13.360 --> 00:43:15.639 in a motivational way. And what I mean by that 783 00:43:15.800 --> 00:43:18.000 is you can go to a one day motivational event 784 00:43:18.559 --> 00:43:21.320 and you're going to feel great on the day. Yes, 785 00:43:21.679 --> 00:43:25.079 you might even feel great for three weeks, right. However, 786 00:43:25.119 --> 00:43:27.480 it's not going to touch you at that unconscious level. 787 00:43:27.599 --> 00:43:30.400 And so eventually the old program, the old patterning, will 788 00:43:30.440 --> 00:43:32.280 just run its course and you end up doing the 789 00:43:32.280 --> 00:43:35.840 same thing over and over expecting a different result. Some 790 00:43:35.880 --> 00:43:38.400 people would call that insanity. You know, when you step 791 00:43:38.400 --> 00:43:40.840 into one of our room, like even into coaching with 792 00:43:40.880 --> 00:43:43.000 you or into one of my training rooms, you are 793 00:43:43.000 --> 00:43:45.840 actually going to experience transformation or at the unconscious level, 794 00:43:45.840 --> 00:43:48.400 and that pattern will be neutralized forever. You will not 795 00:43:48.440 --> 00:43:51.559 be able to run it. It's like rebuilding a train track. 796 00:43:51.599 --> 00:43:53.920 Your mind can't run down that track anymore. Your mind 797 00:43:53.960 --> 00:43:56.920 goes down the new track. And if you spend enough 798 00:43:56.920 --> 00:43:59.920 time in the old version of you doing the old things, 799 00:44:00.119 --> 00:44:02.559 then sure you may be able to reinstall the track 800 00:44:02.840 --> 00:44:06.360 in the old method. However, you will find that very 801 00:44:06.360 --> 00:44:09.360 difficult because your own voice will be in your head going, 802 00:44:09.960 --> 00:44:13.199 this is not what I want. M It's not okay anymore. 803 00:44:13.280 --> 00:44:15.559 I'm

not that person anymore m hm. 804 00:44:16.639 --> 00:44:19.360 So rewiring that at that root cause is what it's 805 00:44:19.719 --> 00:44:23.119 most important. Yeah, and it really works, and it's like 806 00:44:23.519 --> 00:44:26.519 it's the old paradigm of talk therapy. I realized talk 807 00:44:26.559 --> 00:44:29.480 therapy was keeping me stuck looking at all that other stuff, 808 00:44:29.519 --> 00:44:32.320 and I was like, what is going on? And I remember, 809 00:44:32.760 --> 00:44:34.920 I remember the day that said I am not going 810 00:44:35.039 --> 00:44:39.039 in no bagging on the Woman's Haven. But I remember saying, 811 00:44:39.039 --> 00:44:41.760 I can't go back to the Woman's Haven because they 812 00:44:41.840 --> 00:44:44.519 keep talking about what happened to me, and I certainly 813 00:44:44.559 --> 00:44:46.400 just don't want to talk about that anymore. 814 00:44:47.000 --> 00:44:49.639 Yeah, Because the thing is is your brain can't distinguish 815 00:44:49.679 --> 00:44:53.719 between reality and non reality. So if you keep talking 816 00:44:53.800 --> 00:44:58.000 about a problem, your brain is experiencing that problem as 817 00:44:58.039 --> 00:45:01.559 if it's happening all over again right now. That doesn't 818 00:45:01.559 --> 00:45:04.239 mean you should never talk about your problems. Obviously, talking 819 00:45:04.239 --> 00:45:08.639 about your problems initially to someone who is great at 820 00:45:08.679 --> 00:45:12.000 looking at the problem, finding the root cause, and disconnecting 821 00:45:12.440 --> 00:45:16.800 the version of you that made that problem possible, that's important. However, 822 00:45:16.840 --> 00:45:18.960 if you're going to a therapist where they're just talk 823 00:45:19.000 --> 00:45:21.000 talk talk, talk talk, and you say the same thing 824 00:45:21.119 --> 00:45:23.519 every single week, you know, you turn up there and 825 00:45:23.519 --> 00:45:25.159 they go, how are you going with that thing that 826 00:45:25.199 --> 00:45:27.159 happened to you? And you have to talk about it again, 827 00:45:27.480 --> 00:45:30.760 They're just reinstalling the problem deeper and deeper into your mind. 828 00:45:32.320 --> 00:45:37.800 And that's why LP integrated in LP is so so 829 00:45:38.079 --> 00:45:41.039 important if you're suffering, if you're going through it, if 830 00:45:41.079 --> 00:45:45.039 you're living in these low negative emotions, like you've got 831 00:45:45.039 --> 00:45:48.559 to get in Elizabeth's room because there's nothing like surrounding 832 00:45:48.599 --> 00:45:50.840 yourself with those people and the high vibe. And I 833 00:45:50.880 --> 00:45:53.039 know it's funny because people are like, oh, you guys, 834 00:45:53.079 --> 00:45:54.559 do is just dance over there? 835 00:45:54.800 --> 00:45:54.880 No? 836 00:45:55.599 --> 00:45:58.880 Yeah, like, are you guys just dance over there? 837 00:45:59.000 --> 00:45:59.199 Now? 838 00:45:59.639 --> 00:46:01.920 You know, there's a limit to what we can put 839 00:46:01.960 --> 00:46:04.519 on social media, so sometimes it does look like on 840 00:46:04.559 --> 00:46:07.000 my social media that if you look at the training room, 841 00:46:07.000 --> 00:46:10.239 it's just all these people happy in dancing, and that's 842 00:46:10.320 --> 00:46:12.280 just what we can put on there. Like the depth 843 00:46:12.320 --> 00:46:16.440 of what happens in that room is indescribable to people. Yeah, 844 00:46:16.639 --> 00:46:19.400 you know, we really get to the core wounds of 845 00:46:19.400 --> 00:46:23.079 what's happened to people. And there's big stuff that gets 846 00:46:23.079 --> 00:46:27.480 released in our rooms and that there's a sacredness around 847 00:46:27.480 --> 00:46:29.679 that that doesn't belong on social media. 848 00:46:30.079 --> 00:46:34.559 Ah, yes, it is so sacred. How I know you 849 00:46:34.719 --> 00:46:40.079 have tons of offerings. Yeah, I know you have tons 850 00:46:40.079 --> 00:46:42.639 of offerings. But if someone wanted to just start, if 851 00:46:42.679 --> 00:46:46.639 they're in that fetal stages of waking up and understanding 852 00:46:46.960 --> 00:46:50.440 and comprehending that there's more and I get to live 853 00:46:50.440 --> 00:46:53.360 a bigger life and I'm stuck and I need help. 854 00:46:53.719 --> 00:46:56.400 What's the first level to work with you? And what 855 00:46:56.440 --> 00:46:57.119 should they do? 856 00:46:57.840 --> 00:47:00.199 Yes, So first of all, they should actually contact me 857 00:47:00.360 --> 00:47:06.280 on social media. So jump onto my Instagram, Elizabeth N. Walker, Underscore, EAWTC, 858 00:47:06.920 --> 00:47:10.480 send me a message because I actually manage my own Instagram. 859 00:47:10.519 --> 00:47:13.199 So I'm the person writing back to you because I 860 00:47:13.280 --> 00:47:16.639 deeply believe in people, so I want to have that connection. Yes, 861 00:47:16.760 --> 00:47:19.840 the second thing is is we have two different entry points, right, 862 00:47:19.880 --> 00:47:23.280 So if you're ready to invest and you can, then 863 00:47:23.320 --> 00:47:25.679 I want you to invest at that level and jump 864 00:47:25.679 --> 00:47:30.599 into our integrated NLP training. If you're not ready for that, 865 00:47:31.159 --> 00:47:34.960 then jump onto our Bloom, which is our women's space, 866 00:47:35.000 --> 00:47:37.960 a really nice, gentle entry point. We have an online 867 00:47:38.000 --> 00:47:41.920 bloom that happens. It happens in the evening Australian time, 868 00:47:41.920 --> 00:47:44.840 which is early morning US time. Perfect if you're in 869 00:47:44.920 --> 00:47:49.320 Pacific standards time, and these kinds of things are totally 870 00:47:49.360 --> 00:47:52.840 available to you. But literally start consuming content. Jump on 871 00:47:52.920 --> 00:47:54.159 my YouTube channel. 872 00:47:55.360 --> 00:47:58.400 I binge watch you and Katie over there. You girls 873 00:47:58.440 --> 00:48:01.400 are like kill it it or life in it, whatever 874 00:48:01.480 --> 00:48:03.159 you want to call it. But you girls are just 875 00:48:03.199 --> 00:48:05.840 putting out I'm like, why are they even sharing this information? 876 00:48:05.960 --> 00:48:09.760 This information should be at a fee, you know, because 877 00:48:09.840 --> 00:48:12.280 you guys are like giving this information out for free. 878 00:48:12.280 --> 00:48:14.960 If they could just binge watch your YouTube and swim 879 00:48:14.960 --> 00:48:17.679 in your energy a little bit, you could see what 880 00:48:18.480 --> 00:48:20.559 you have to offer to help them get to the 881 00:48:20.599 --> 00:48:26.639 next level. If that's what they want. Yeah, absolutely, yeah, great, okay, good. 882 00:48:26.840 --> 00:48:30.440 So we are here with Elizabeth Ann Walker. She is 883 00:48:31.400 --> 00:48:35.400 a master coach, a visionary. She's a global NLP trainer, 884 00:48:35.960 --> 00:48:38.599 and we have a couple of minutes before we're show 885 00:48:39.760 --> 00:48:43.280 shores up here. What do you want to leave our 886 00:48:43.320 --> 00:48:46.280 listeners with? Elizabeth? I know your heart is as big 887 00:48:46.320 --> 00:48:51.239 as the globe and I just love you so much 888 00:48:51.280 --> 00:48:55.039 and you have dropped so much wisdom and bars into 889 00:48:55.119 --> 00:48:59.559 this Beyond Mindset radio show today. So I'm so freaking grateful. 890 00:49:00.079 --> 00:49:02.559 If there's one thing that you can leave our listeners with, 891 00:49:02.599 --> 00:49:03.199 what would that be? 892 00:49:04.480 --> 00:49:09.440 In life, there's love or there's fear. The world is 893 00:49:09.440 --> 00:49:13.760 what you make it. You get to. 894 00:49:13.800 --> 00:49:19.239 Choose great to let that land. Thank you again for 895 00:49:19.280 --> 00:49:20.559 your time today. I love you. 896 00:49:26.119 --> 00:49:30.719 Thank you for joining Tisha Marie Kain for Beyond Mindset Limits. 897 00:49:31.039 --> 00:49:34.440 Tune in every Wednesday at four pm as the conversation 898 00:49:34.599 --> 00:49:39.199 continues around mindset, legal insight, and publishing as a strategic 899 00:49:39.239 --> 00:49:43.840 tool for business positioning. Visit Tishamrie Caine dot com or 900 00:49:44.000 --> 00:49:47.320 Caine's Legal Support dot com for more information or to 901 00:49:47.440 --> 00:49:49.400 schedule your private appointment.