บทถอดความฉบับเต็มของ 140. Her Aunt Accidentally Photobombed Their Proposal w/ Brida Brando & Guy Bricio

which is, you know, there's a whole other layer to it that we're like, okay, like, we should do this, but let's not talk about it until we find it 04:20.790 --> 04:42.033 [SPEAKER_00]: And I also think like we both were like you know also trying to get to a clear space with previous relationships and like waiting for the right time for us to kind of you know invest in something else because we knew there were something like special so we didn't want just like you know to go out one to two times and not be 04:43.174 --> 04:50.221 [SPEAKER_00]: not be it like no let's like if we are going to meet and we're going to spend the energy and like get truly get to know each other. 04:50.261 --> 05:00.591 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's do it in the right way when we're both like in the right map my space yeah yeah that makes so much sense so how long ago was that ish that you guys met 05:01.702 --> 05:02.422 [SPEAKER_02]: two years ago. 05:02.983 --> 05:08.585 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, so you guys have been like known each other and have been dating for quite a while. 05:09.105 --> 05:13.687 [SPEAKER_01]: At what point in your relationship do you feel like you were ready to take the next step? 05:13.727 --> 05:17.288 [SPEAKER_01]: And you're like, okay, I think it's about time that we get engaged. 05:17.728 --> 05:19.769 [SPEAKER_00]: Like this, this, this step, right? 05:21.710 --> 05:29.372 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I think we had a really special trip, January this year, right, like earlier this year. 05:29.613 --> 05:37.155 [SPEAKER_00]: We went to buy you, which has been, you know, northeast side of Brazil and like paradise, basically. 05:37.915 --> 05:48.910 [SPEAKER_00]: And I think this was like one moment that would realize damn, like we are really like dreaming with our eyes Open, you know, like they dreaming and having this amazing time together. 05:48.930 --> 05:54.858 [SPEAKER_00]: There's we share so many like values there at the same our families on the way 05:55.318 --> 06:20.189 [SPEAKER_00]: her family like opening up for me and and vice versa felt felt so incredibly amazing and then it just it was just natural from there but like that trip I think was a moment of true connection and and after that I think at least in my head it was important that we would actually live together for a little bit because of course there is so much that you know you only you 06:24.048 --> 06:26.493 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, realize when you're living together with somebody, right? 06:26.533 --> 06:31.102 [SPEAKER_00]: How is going to be the dynamic of like the routines, the ups and downs and... 06:32.300 --> 06:50.187 [SPEAKER_00]: really spent, like, what was the beginning, like, maybe two, three months that you were here, and then now she fully moved, of course, but that was the moment that was like, like, this really flows so well, and, you know, really, really love each other, like, it makes everything make sense. 06:50.327 --> 06:56.069 [SPEAKER_00]: And then, yeah, it was just a

matter of time until it happened, like, you feel like we get, like, this trip. 06:56.389 --> 06:56.889 [SPEAKER_02]: You're sometimes 07:01.912 --> 07:03.973 [SPEAKER_02]: you're living this dream, right? 07:04.253 --> 07:13.475 [SPEAKER_02]: And you're like, it's almost, you're living in an illusion of what it could be, or you're imagining what it will be like with this person. 07:13.715 --> 07:15.556 [SPEAKER_02]: But in reality, it's something else. 07:16.276 --> 07:17.176 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 07:17.516 --> 07:26.179 [SPEAKER_02]: And I think we talked about this a lot, especially when this trip he's mentioned that was like a big awakening of like, wait, we actually want to do this for our Olympics. 07:27.174 --> 07:31.935 [SPEAKER_02]: is that everything felt like a dream, but our feet were on the ground. 07:32.275 --> 07:34.255 [SPEAKER_02]: We could feel it was real. 07:34.455 --> 07:40.296 [SPEAKER_02]: Every step of the way we looked in the future and we looked together in the same direction. 07:41.036 --> 07:49.798 [SPEAKER_02]: It was in like, on one something together, and what, you know what, let's make this work because we're living in this illusion, everything goes so, you know, dreaming. 07:50.158 --> 07:51.578 [SPEAKER_02]: It just never felt like that for us. 07:51.638 --> 07:55.819 [SPEAKER_02]: It almost felt like, oh my God, we're so happy, but it also feels so real. 07:56.615 --> 07:58.936 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so that's really good. 07:58.956 --> 08:01.678 [SPEAKER_02]: That was a big, like, wow, we've never had this before. 08:01.698 --> 08:13.005 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, because we, we came from very, I think, very similar places in terms of relation, previous relationships and even how we tend to be a little bit, 08:13.378 --> 08:18.441 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, romantic and how these relationships are going to be in the future. 08:18.501 --> 08:22.364 [SPEAKER_00]: And of course, when you're in love, you always project, right? 08:22.424 --> 08:27.728 [SPEAKER_00]: You always project a very vast version of what that life and what that person can be. 08:28.168 --> 08:35.013 [SPEAKER_00]: I think we've both got hurt by that in the past by creating a version of somebody that wasn't, you know, wasn't real. 08:35.873 --> 08:49.070 [SPEAKER_00]: We realized that we were so real for each other, that we're no masks, that we're no projections like, and it's been like since that, like everything through so real, we both through so grounded and everything that we've been living in. 08:50.692 --> 09:01.698 [SPEAKER_00]: And like we both also aim for this forever, you know, long everlasting relationship with family and all of that, so that's also a priority for us. 09:01.718 --> 09:08.262 [SPEAKER_00]: It has to be a healthy relationship and stable but also, you know, full of love for sure. 09:09.013 --> 09:27.259 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that's really great way to just like face the foundation of your relationship on that and realize that you're not looking through rose color glasses like this actually works with the other person and we're both on the same page and we can actually see forever in this and I think that's so important to. 09:27.820 --> 09:30.501 [SPEAKER_01]: unpack all of that before you make a big decision like that. 09:30.761 --> 09:35.002 [SPEAKER_01]: So super cool that you guys ended up at that point. 09:35.022 --> 09:49.765 [SPEAKER_01]: And since you have, was there any talk of like, okay, let's get engaged like, let's go ring shopping anything like that before the proposal actually happened. 09:50.906 --> 09:51.326 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 09:51.506 --> 09:55.727 [SPEAKER_02]: So our proposal has this hope, the hope. 09:56.527 --> 09:58.728 [SPEAKER_02]: proposal has been not very traditional. 09:58.908 --> 09:59.648 [SPEAKER_02]: What traditional? 10:00.248 --> 10:00.649 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 10:00.749 --> 10:01.049 [SPEAKER_01]: Right. 10:01.069 --> 10:07.491 [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, when we talked about it, you're like, you know, I'm thinking, what, let's do this. 10:07.531 --> 10:19.136 [SPEAKER_02]: And I was like, okay, I only have one ask, is that you ask my permission to my grandfather, my father, and my mother, before you're actually proposed to me. 10:19.716 --> 10:21.957 [SPEAKER_02]: That's something that I just wanted 10:25.718 --> 10:30.281 [SPEAKER_02]: Not a lot of people are like, why are you carrying a pen and woman like you don't need permission from any way? 10:31.022 --> 10:31.482 [SPEAKER_02]: It's true. 10:31.682 --> 10:32.943 [SPEAKER_02]: It's true, but I don't know. 10:32.963 --> 10:34.064 [SPEAKER_02]: It's just stuck in with me. 10:34.124 --> 10:39.148 [SPEAKER_02]: It's family values that like, I want my family to have their blessing to our marriage. 10:39.828 --> 10:42.930 [SPEAKER_02]: So I asked her for that and he's like, of course. 10:43.071 --> 10:45.512 [SPEAKER_02]: It's that's what you want before I go to you. 10:45.592 --> 10:46.433 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't do that. 10:46.473 --> 10:49.175 [SPEAKER_02]: He's like, but my question is, do you want to be 10:49.691 --> 11:09.430 [SPEAKER_02]: We want to be present during these conversations or do you want me to just talk to them on my own and I said, actually I want to be present I like that Very like not a lot of people go through that, but it's been so incredible to do it this way It's felt like every time I've been a little preferable Yeah 11:13.370 --> 11:14.794 [SPEAKER_01]: That's so cruel. 11:20.928 --> 11:22.750 [SPEAKER_00]: He moved it immediately. 11:22.770 --> 11:46.870 [SPEAKER_02]: Like how serious that was like he was really good for an emotional and my dad was the same thing Yeah, and with that like I when he went to the last month on which is where that's where they started Okay, we he was like okay now it was good relay 11:47.490 --> 11:54.752 [SPEAKER_02]: I've got, you know, the same with your mom and I said, perfect, so we booked this, so the trip, it was everything's

when, and am I, I think it was like, right and go to LA, and this is where he's going to ask my mom, I hope you're seeing. 11:54.772 --> 11:55.173 [SPEAKER_02]: You know, be there. 11:55.193 --> 12:00.114 [SPEAKER_02]: And if you don't mind, just quit interjection like for me, it was because we were talking about it for so, for so long, you know, of course, she was present in those moments. 12:00.154 --> 12:09.117 [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I 12:09.297 --> 12:11.359 [SPEAKER_00]: How do I still make this a surprise, right? 12:11.379 --> 12:13.621 [SPEAKER_00]: Because if, right, yeah, okay. 12:13.661 --> 12:18.505 [SPEAKER_00]: Let's go if we're trip here or there, like you would be given that that moment was coming. 12:18.565 --> 12:24.890 [SPEAKER_00]: So I was like, I still wanna somehow find a way of like doing this in a way that she would not expect. 12:25.570 --> 12:30.995 [SPEAKER_00]: And every time she would act and then we would talk like, guy, you're waiting for us to go to Rio to do it there, right? 12:31.035 --> 12:32.436 [SPEAKER_00]: And we're like, out of a second. 12:32.616 --> 12:34.678 [SPEAKER_02]: I was very, very, a word. 12:35.198 --> 12:42.695 [SPEAKER_02]: than the whole wedding world that's called, and I think it's called engagement purgatory. 12:43.290 --> 12:44.011 [SPEAKER_02]: We're now. 12:44.031 --> 12:57.741 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't even engage in this in a calm, but you don't know when, or where, at the moment, and you're supposed to like, anxiety, giving things, but it was, but so we went to my mom's and I didn't know if he was going to put us there. 12:57.781 --> 13:00.243 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, I had no idea that that was going to happen then. 13:00.363 --> 13:08.250 [SPEAKER_02]: I knew that he's going to ask for the message, but it didn't come as a surprise to me that you, you did it right then, and there, and he was very special. 13:09.210 --> 13:09.491 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 13:09.551 --> 13:10.091 [SPEAKER_02]: Okay. 13:12.139 --> 13:13.024 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so 13:14.572 --> 13:20.356 [SPEAKER_01]: You, so guy, you asked her mom and then proposed right after that, is that correct? 13:20.376 --> 13:20.996 [SPEAKER_01]: Exactly. 13:21.477 --> 13:22.097 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. 13:22.377 --> 13:22.738 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 13:22.938 --> 13:29.362 [SPEAKER_00]: But her mom, so I started talking to her mom because I was also, you know, doing the ring thing. 13:29.522 --> 13:31.663 [SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, actually, don't know this. 13:32.304 --> 13:33.885 [SPEAKER_00]: But I, I reach out to your mom. 13:34.045 --> 13:41.010 [SPEAKER_00]: I actually spoke to, who is one of her best friends too, because I had this because Rita is so well connected with her family. 13:41.170 --> 13:42.431 [SPEAKER_00]: It's the world for her. 13:42.991 --> 13:46.292 [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, I would be so cool if I could do something. 13:47.354 --> 13:55.300 [SPEAKER_00]: repurposing a ring for her grandmother, you know, that maybe it was given, but yeah, you don't know this actually. 13:55.700 --> 14:01.345 [SPEAKER_00]: So I reached out to her mom, so like, do you know if her grandmother still has her ring? 14:01.565 --> 14:14.775 [SPEAKER_00]: Because when we were like ring shopping, she said, like, I wouldn't mind like, you know, if it was like a second hand or like an antique, because I like the fact that he has some back story and I'm going to put my story on there too. 14:14.795 --> 14:15.556 [SPEAKER_00]: So it was 14:17.397 --> 14:22.302 [SPEAKER_00]: I spoke to her mom about that idea and she spoke to uh, Isabelle. 14:22.322 --> 14:23.463 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, you're right. 14:23.743 --> 14:26.066 [SPEAKER_00]: But she doesn't, she doesn't have her anymore. 14:26.146 --> 14:28.308 [SPEAKER_00]: She's actually melted. 14:29.509 --> 14:31.631 [SPEAKER_01]: No, she didn't have the rain. 14:31.651 --> 14:33.533 [SPEAKER_01]: She didn't have that you wanted to use. 14:33.653 --> 14:34.194 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 14:34.214 --> 14:35.255 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna need to pivot. 14:35.675 --> 14:37.297 [SPEAKER_00]: And at the time, I was still kind of 14:38.145 --> 15:00.943 [SPEAKER_00]: am I going to be I'm going to have to ring in time for a lay so LA was still up in the air as a as a potential place and then I started shopping for like you know antique bands and try to find the stone that of course she was who was aligned with what she had in mind and I started to figure out like actually my might be just in time so 15:01.708 --> 15:14.031 [SPEAKER_00]: and then her mother was saying, like, guys, it's gonna be really special here, just saying, because her grandmother's coming and she's gonna do this very special paella that she does every two years. 15:14.131 --> 15:17.431 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, it's very, it's from her grand-grandmother. 15:17.551 --> 15:20.072 [SPEAKER_02]: Her grandmother had her heart was going to be there. 15:20.112 --> 15:25.533 [SPEAKER_00]: Her aunt, I mean, who's so glad that she was there because of the white woman being here and talking to her. 15:26.593 --> 15:52.150 [SPEAKER_01]: but but it was that so it was very kind of that we were like pieces coming together to resolve in that in that okay that's so cool okay so it was like you ordered the vintage drawing it was ready in time you were like I'm actually like her mom knew that it was coming because it asked about the other ring and so but you still wanted to have that conversation together like you've had with the other family members 15:52.910 --> 15:58.993 [SPEAKER_01]: And so, we were like, that's the last thing on our checklist that we need to do before this proposal can happen. 16:00.013 --> 16:12.139

[SPEAKER_01]: So this conversation happens and then was it immediately after I mean it's to me it looks like all of your family was together like probably for this paella that you were saying as a get together. 16:12.419 --> 16:21.503 [SPEAKER_01]: So tell me like, did you plan for it to be in front of the sofa like did you have any plans for like 16:21.943 --> 16:27.508 [SPEAKER_01]: how this was going to go or you were just like, okay, got the blessing like need to propose right now. 16:27.588 --> 16:38.257 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's so funny because coming, entering up that to that day and I was like talking to her stepdad as well as another person who is like really important for her. 16:38.797 --> 16:42.159 [SPEAKER_00]: and I was kind of planning that moment like how are we going to make it? 16:42.179 --> 16:48.984 [SPEAKER_00]: I also wanted to her sister, she has like a small sister to play a part in that moment. 16:49.064 --> 16:57.990 [SPEAKER_00]: You can't see in the video that she actually comes in with a little pouch and gives it a little bit of to me like very shortly before I actually propose. 16:58.431 --> 17:01.473 [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah, with the ring in it, with the ring in it. 17:01.493 --> 17:02.934 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my gosh, that's adorable. 17:03.434 --> 17:07.375 [SPEAKER_00]: But the, the, so lining up to that moment, I was like, it's going to be fine. 17:07.395 --> 17:09.676 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm being practicing this for quite some time now. 17:09.736 --> 17:11.136 [SPEAKER_00]: I did with her granddad. 17:11.196 --> 17:14.177 [SPEAKER_00]: I did with like, your heart, your dad and hers, you know. 17:14.877 --> 17:16.398 [SPEAKER_00]: So I was like, it's going to be chill. 17:16.638 --> 17:29.742 [SPEAKER_00]: And like, when I was set in that sofa and I, like, we didn't, like, exactly meal the moment that you would happen because I asked Sabrina, of course, her mother, like, you start the conversation like, like, 17:29.842 --> 17:49.086 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know where so happy to everyone is here together and I will build on it and then I'll make I'll ask for your blessing and of course the entire family blessing and then when everyone is like yeah, of course, you know Then immediately after I'm gonna like well, that's perfect them because like that's you know Yeah, yeah, I think that's it. 17:49.106 --> 17:49.806 [SPEAKER_00]: Let's do it here. 17:50.166 --> 17:55.447 [SPEAKER_00]: So like I was I was I I remember kind of like being shaking like 17:59.948 --> 18:00.869 [SPEAKER_02]: It's shaking. 18:01.369 --> 18:07.193 [SPEAKER_02]: Also, one of the things like when he went to give me the box, the boxes turned to him. 18:07.213 --> 18:20.663 [SPEAKER_00]: So he was like, yeah, you can actually say, but now like the whole thing about if he was going to be precisely, you know, and on that sofa or on the was going to be there, like I just wanted that moment to be 18:22.001 --> 18:39.607 [SPEAKER_00]: her moment and I knew that the most important thing is that she was surrounded by the people she loves and you know by new and in front of her mother and I sat that and you heard a little sister and her aunt and her grandmother like that wouldn't be in the world but like 18:41.050 --> 18:46.852 [SPEAKER_00]: I wasn't even, my head wasn't even like, you know, does it, like, is there gonna be a beautiful painting in the background? 18:47.012 --> 18:47.672 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 18:47.692 --> 18:58.535 [SPEAKER_00]: We don't even know it, like, I don't remember if, like, we knew for sure that someone was recording, like, yeah, wow, yeah, it was, yeah, but it was so special. 18:58.595 --> 19:09.098 [SPEAKER_02]: Like, I think just being there with my family, we all started crying together, we all hugged each other afterwards, and my aunt was there and there was a big part of the whole, 19:10.311 --> 19:15.095 [SPEAKER_02]: A viral video is someone who's so, so special to me. 19:15.255 --> 19:18.017 [SPEAKER_02]: She was, she actually was there on the day I was born. 19:18.037 --> 19:21.500 [SPEAKER_02]: She was next to her mom, holding my mom's hand, but courted the whole time. 19:21.520 --> 19:22.281 [SPEAKER_01]: She's sweet. 19:22.861 --> 19:25.183 [SPEAKER_02]: She's like, she like, help raise me. 19:25.263 --> 19:27.065 [SPEAKER_02]: She's really important to me. 19:27.325 --> 19:33.390 [SPEAKER_02]: And so, I mean, everyone's like, oh, but, you know, we have so many comments that we've shared. 19:33.490 --> 19:36.152 [SPEAKER_02]: I'm sure you do something funny that we laugh about. 19:36.412 --> 19:37.173 [SPEAKER_02]: Yes, you are. 19:37.533 --> 19:37.834 [SPEAKER_02]: Come on. 19:38.773 --> 19:40.274 [SPEAKER_02]: But why is it very short? 19:42.175 --> 19:43.976 [SPEAKER_02]: It must be because he's Brazilian. 19:44.016 --> 19:45.557 [SPEAKER_02]: I don't know what to do. 19:46.018 --> 19:47.579 [SPEAKER_01]: Breathing way into it. 19:47.599 --> 19:48.639 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 19:48.840 --> 19:51.842 [SPEAKER_00]: And then the discussions within the conference. 19:52.082 --> 19:52.762 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 19:53.042 --> 19:53.963 [SPEAKER_01]: Leave it alone. 19:54.203 --> 19:56.304 [SPEAKER_02]: Hey, where's my mom? 19:56.384 --> 20:01.687 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, there are so many people with so many opinions on how to get down and how to weigh. 20:01.847 --> 20:07.550 [SPEAKER_02]: It could have been down, but ultimately it's the way that I loved how it was down. 20:07.570 --> 20:08.931 [SPEAKER_02]: I wouldn't have wanted it either way. 20:09.331 --> 20:16.455 [SPEAKER_02]: And everyone is on this, you know, Instagram-able, everything needs to be Instagram- Right. 20:16.695 --> 20:17.295 [SPEAKER_02]: Now, a day. 20:17.495 --> 20:18.396 [SPEAKER_02]: So we have a lot of... 20:19.153 --> 20:21.254 [SPEAKER_02]: hate comments actually. 20:21.334 --> 20:22.095 [SPEAKER_02]: Really? 20:22.155 --> 20:22.815 [SPEAKER_02]: We do that. 20:22.875 --> 20:26.237

[SPEAKER_02]: How could you be proposed to her at that setting? 20:27.478 --> 20:36.583 [SPEAKER_02]: And to me, it's just like, I mean, everyone has their way in which they want to done this was catered to me, not to anybody else. 20:38.182 --> 20:42.787 [SPEAKER_02]: I wouldn't have, I mean, listen, it would have been beautiful in the Maltese and the Maltese. 20:42.807 --> 20:46.290 [SPEAKER_02]: But I wouldn't have wanted my family to be there with you. 20:46.390 --> 20:47.411 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, totally. 20:47.471 --> 20:47.992 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, totally. 20:48.092 --> 20:56.159 [SPEAKER_02]: And there are a lot of my family can travel, like if they can't, you know, so yeah, it was it was beautiful, it was, it was, it was just, it was, it was, it was, it was just. 20:57.260 --> 20:57.400 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 20:57.740 --> 21:08.345 [SPEAKER_00]: And I also think that's one of the reasons why you got picked up and and like so share because it's so real like got whole set to set up. 21:08.425 --> 21:13.888 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like you know you never like you couldn't ever prompt that in the eye, you know. 21:14.408 --> 21:15.888 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. 21:16.129 --> 21:23.832 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I think there is that whole part that comes immediately after where like breeders like 21:24.168 --> 21:42.887 [SPEAKER_00]: hugging her mother I'm hugging even like her mother afterwards and just that you know moment of love that's just happening to me after it is like it's so special to watch every time we watch the video we kind of linger on that because yeah yeah it's just so real it was so so so totally 21:44.188 --> 21:51.012 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so you're literally surrounded by family, which is how you would have wanted it, Brida. 21:51.172 --> 22:04.699 [SPEAKER_01]: And then maybe if someone's listening or watching to this and maybe they haven't seen the video, maybe walk us through what happens with your ants in the background and what happens after that. 22:06.438 --> 22:07.019 [SPEAKER_01]: It's great. 22:07.179 --> 22:16.287 [SPEAKER_02]: It's, well, like you mentioned, you can grow old somewhere with my family and at the time I was, my art was sitting in a middle of us. 22:16.507 --> 22:26.276 [SPEAKER_02]: When we were on the couch and we were all chatting and it just happened that like, he got up and I was like, oh my God, this is happening now. 22:26.356 --> 22:27.377 [SPEAKER_02]: So I got up as well. 22:29.448 --> 22:43.691 [SPEAKER_02]: My aunt is in the middle and she's like, oh my god, this is how everyone is like, oh wow, this is all happening right now When she realized she was right in the middle The frame of someone was recording her old back there. 22:44.051 --> 22:46.972 [SPEAKER_02]: She's like, oh my god I better I better get out of here. 22:47.032 --> 22:48.352 [SPEAKER_02]: She's holding a glass wine. 22:48.372 --> 22:49.012 [SPEAKER_02]: This is the best part. 22:49.072 --> 22:56.173 [SPEAKER_02]: I do it Hold me a glass wine the whole time and she she tries to hide within the couch 22:59.494 --> 23:10.057 [SPEAKER_02]: Why was it dropped in the whole video and she crawls over to be as small as possible We couched she's out of the frame, which is like so good. 23:10.457 --> 23:12.838 [SPEAKER_02]: It's funny Like I posted a photo first. 23:13.578 --> 23:21.681 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I was a video too Like there was a short video of it And I don't know if it was featuring that No, I wasn't like that woman. 23:21.741 --> 23:25.442 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I posted a photo of that of like the shot of him going like this 23:26.222 --> 23:34.735 [SPEAKER_02]: And she's very, you can, if you, if you like zoom in, you can see her face like hitting in that photo and that photo, nobody noticed her. 23:34.795 --> 23:40.002 [SPEAKER_02]: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 23:41.084 --> 23:42.945 [SPEAKER_02]: So yeah, do you laugh so hard? 23:42.965 --> 23:49.526 [SPEAKER_02]: Like I want to say this like we after we after I'll propose a week We saw the video and we were all laughing so hard. 23:49.566 --> 23:53.247 [SPEAKER_02]: Even her like we were all Yeah, you're not okay. 23:54.087 --> 23:56.648 [SPEAKER_02]: And I was like Post this is so funny. 23:56.668 --> 24:07.131 [SPEAKER_02]: He's like, yeah, we know it and it never knew we would get like now It's part of the over 10 million views like it's not well Yeah, I'll cross all platforms and they might have you know 24:07.770 --> 24:27.035 [SPEAKER_02]: after people magazine interview and today show and I don't know all the memes that's that post like puberty and all these other accounts it's been it's crazy how how far it went and I remember we were saying right immediately when we saw the video I think I set it out to allow to 24:28.415 --> 24:33.698 [SPEAKER_00]: to her, I was like, well, now you definitely part of this story, you're going to be, you know, we mortalize it. 24:33.738 --> 24:34.719 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I know. 24:35.239 --> 24:38.201 [SPEAKER_00]: But like, we didn't know it would be that way. 24:38.401 --> 24:39.062 [SPEAKER_00]: Right. 24:39.162 --> 24:39.642 [SPEAKER_00]: What cost? 24:40.502 --> 24:41.663 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, definitely. 24:41.683 --> 24:47.667 [SPEAKER_01]: I love you guys outlook on it and how you're laughing about it, you're having fun with it. 24:47.907 --> 24:52.230 [SPEAKER_01]: And you're not like, oh, this ruined our proposal or anything. 24:52.410 --> 24:54.691 [SPEAKER_01]: And so I just love that. 24:56.312 --> 25:15.332 [SPEAKER_01]: So organic and homegrown and like so meaningful for you guys that your aunt is in it too because family is so important and special to you too and so it's just like what a way for that to like go down in history for you guys like I think it's super cool. 25:15.352 --> 25:16.393 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you Mike. 25:16.514 --> 25:16.734

[SPEAKER_00]: Good. 25:16.994 --> 25:20.496 [SPEAKER_00]: A little bit of a sad part, you might not be able to be in our actual wedding. 25:20.556 --> 25:38.348 [SPEAKER_02]: To that point, like, is even more special that she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she's, she 25:43.512 --> 25:48.215 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, that would be so sweet. 25:48.276 --> 25:50.177 [SPEAKER_01]: I really hope she makes it to your wedding. 25:50.217 --> 25:51.958 [SPEAKER_01]: That could be super cool. 25:52.038 --> 26:02.927 [SPEAKER_01]: But if not, it's really cool to just memorialize that like in that moment that she like was able to be a part of it, you know, in this way as well. 26:03.247 --> 26:06.748 [SPEAKER_01]: How does your aunt feel about all of this attention to? 26:06.868 --> 26:13.511 [SPEAKER_01]: Does she seem like embarrassed by it or is she loving it or what's her taking it? 26:13.651 --> 26:14.211 [SPEAKER_02]: She's loving it. 26:14.491 --> 26:15.451 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh good. 26:15.711 --> 26:24.735 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, we've like exchanged messages every day on what it's like, we've been like when something comes out and we're going to get it to me. 26:27.715 --> 26:31.038 [SPEAKER_01]: Seriously, it's gonna be an influencer now. 26:31.058 --> 26:32.419 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 26:32.499 --> 26:39.985 [SPEAKER_00]: We were saying, like, we should probably do an edit of like her poking, you know, in various pop culture moments, you know, and all of that. 26:40.105 --> 26:40.646 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 26:41.426 --> 26:41.847 [SPEAKER_01]: Totally. 26:41.967 --> 26:44.329 [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, it's got to be a meme now. 26:44.369 --> 26:45.049 [SPEAKER_01]: Exactly. 26:45.109 --> 26:45.430 [SPEAKER_00]: No. 26:45.510 --> 26:46.130 [SPEAKER_01]: Where's she? 26:46.991 --> 26:47.311 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 26:47.331 --> 26:49.413 [SPEAKER_01]: People are gonna edit that and use her. 26:49.533 --> 26:49.793 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 26:51.780 --> 26:53.241 [SPEAKER_00]: that is so good. 26:53.581 --> 26:55.161 [SPEAKER_01]: I love it so much. 26:55.181 --> 26:58.242 [SPEAKER_01]: So what's all the attention really been like for you? 26:58.322 --> 27:01.283 [SPEAKER_01]: You mentioned that you were on all these outlets. 27:01.343 --> 27:03.644 [SPEAKER_01]: They're talking about you on the today's show. 27:03.664 --> 27:09.326 [SPEAKER_01]: You're being interviewed by people magazine like, did you ever thought that it would have gone this far? 27:15.245 --> 27:24.394 [SPEAKER_02]: casual video of a proposal and my mom's house, you know, like we have never thought it would have gone this far It was the next day, right? 27:24.414 --> 27:25.836 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like guy something. 27:25.856 --> 27:27.057 [SPEAKER_00]: He's going on. 27:27.077 --> 27:32.743 [SPEAKER_02]: It's not like it keeps going like the amount of bikes and shares and people commenting in 27:33.591 --> 27:35.233 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, it just didn't stop. 27:35.893 --> 27:47.465 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, and we were like, at the same time, we actually been, we were so busy like these last couple of days with not only the, you know, arrangement of like the wedding that we were already kind of looking at all of the. 27:48.286 --> 27:55.031 [SPEAKER_00]: the party and how we're going to make it, we already have the venue and all this stuff, but even like, we were also really busy with work, like those days. 27:55.311 --> 27:59.034 [SPEAKER_00]: So every now and then, like, Rito has said, like, guy, you got to check this out. 27:59.114 --> 28:01.396 [SPEAKER_00]: It's now on committee, or it's like, right now, it's like, yeah. 28:02.056 --> 28:06.860 [SPEAKER_00]: And it was like those little pockets off, like drowning myself in that special moment. 28:06.880 --> 28:08.681 [SPEAKER_00]: It was like, what is going on? 28:09.888 --> 28:10.588 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 28:11.269 --> 28:12.689 [SPEAKER_01]: That's so wild. 28:12.889 --> 28:29.515 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I love stories like this when they hit the news because it's like a breath of fresh air from like what we're normally used to seeing on these news outlets and things like that a lot of times things can get so heavy where it's like I love that we're now able to sprinkle in some. 28:29.775 --> 28:37.758 [SPEAKER_01]: good stories that are feel good, that make you laugh, that make you smile, that are just organic. 28:38.058 --> 28:39.199 [SPEAKER_01]: And you guys are doing that. 28:39.319 --> 28:51.204 [SPEAKER_01]: And your story is making so many people smile and bringing like a breath of fresh air to people, who normally a lot of stuff out there, isn't so high back. 28:51.224 --> 28:52.845 [SPEAKER_00]: Totally my accent, but if you say so. 28:54.746 --> 28:55.606 [SPEAKER_01]: So good. 28:56.147 --> 28:59.048 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's dive into a little bit about your wedding. 28:59.068 --> 29:01.129 [SPEAKER_01]: Now you said it's going to be in Brazil. 29:01.289 --> 29:13.495 [SPEAKER_01]: It's mostly planned like you have your venue like what like give us the vibes of what your wedding's going to be like and how many people and everyone will invite it to if you sing this video. 29:13.976 --> 29:19.919 [SPEAKER_01]: I seriously had a couple on here that was from Love Island and they were like yeah any of our fans can come. 29:19.939 --> 29:22.800 [SPEAKER_01]: We're probably going to have over a thousand people and I was like for serious. 29:25.061 --> 29:27.202 [SPEAKER_01]: But anyways, okay, none of that. 29:27.462 --> 29:28.742 [SPEAKER_02]: He's grabbed up for you guys. 29:28.822 --> 29:30.423 [SPEAKER_02]: All

right, hold it. 29:31.083 --> 29:32.244 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's take this back now. 29:32.344 --> 29:33.224 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I know. 29:33.584 --> 29:42.188 [SPEAKER_00]: No, we have, so like we're saying, like we both from Rio, there are a lot of our special people live in Rio. 29:42.588 --> 29:47.790 [SPEAKER_00]: So we wanted to do it in a way and in a place that was like, 29:48.310 --> 30:00.435 [SPEAKER_00]: The view of Rio and you felt like, you know, we were not only, it was not only us, but it's like us in our place, you know, and we could see that from a very special view. 30:00.535 --> 30:03.296 [SPEAKER_00]: So we have the venue booked. 30:03.896 --> 30:13.020 [SPEAKER_00]: It was almost like immediately after because we were already kind of browsing and it's insane how these dates go by and why everything gets booked. 30:14.157 --> 30:14.758 [SPEAKER_00]: blows my mind. 30:14.798 --> 30:17.801 [SPEAKER_00]: But anyway, this was one that we had in mind, right? 30:17.841 --> 30:24.287 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, it's going to be very, it's going to be a lot of people there, but there's a lot of people coming forward for out results. 30:24.307 --> 30:27.590 [SPEAKER_02]: So it's going to look a bit of a destination that I think is all for many people. 30:28.227 --> 30:42.874 [SPEAKER_02]: And so we want to make it very Brazilian and like have traditional personal colors and make it food and obviously music we're having it looking at bands to play, you know, like both and all that. 30:42.954 --> 30:47.636 [SPEAKER_02]: So it's going to be, yeah, it's not the fun parts starts where we're 30:48.218 --> 30:55.761 [SPEAKER_02]: talking to all the vendors and figuring out who's going to do a photo, who's going to do the catering, all the good stuff. 30:56.041 --> 31:07.746 [SPEAKER_00]: But that the house is also like you have this amazing view of Rio with the show your looks, but the house itself is also very pretty, like it's like this colonial, is that what you're talking about? 31:07.766 --> 31:09.107 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, colonial art is actually cool. 31:09.147 --> 31:09.507 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, so 31:10.447 --> 31:37.772 [SPEAKER_00]: we want to use that in our favor and actually we're thinking about making the theme a little bit like Rio nostalgic Rio like golden era of Rio like the 60s and set you know 17s so we we actually want to you know the dress coat we actually want to ask people to kind of follow that vibe a little bit cool yeah glasses and like you know the color dresses yeah well like that you can wear your colorful 31:40.032 --> 31:41.773 [SPEAKER_00]: I can stand that all along. 31:42.433 --> 31:42.893 [SPEAKER_00]: I know. 31:42.913 --> 31:43.573 [SPEAKER_00]: It's been a long time. 31:43.673 --> 31:44.234 [SPEAKER_00]: It's been a long time. 31:44.374 --> 31:45.194 [SPEAKER_00]: So good. 31:45.214 --> 31:46.555 [SPEAKER_01]: That sounds so gorgeous. 31:46.635 --> 31:48.415 [SPEAKER_01]: So will that be in 2027? 31:48.535 --> 31:48.815 [SPEAKER_01]: 2027. 31:48.835 --> 31:50.336 [SPEAKER_02]: November. 31:50.476 --> 31:50.916 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 31:51.456 --> 31:52.257 [SPEAKER_01]: Nice. 31:52.377 --> 31:53.297 [SPEAKER_01]: Super exciting. 31:53.417 --> 31:54.598 [SPEAKER_01]: Is it going to be smaller? 31:55.118 --> 31:58.019 [SPEAKER_01]: Like is everyone who's attending staying at the house? 31:58.359 --> 31:59.639 [SPEAKER_01]: Or... No. 31:59.820 --> 32:00.240 [SPEAKER_01]: I mean... 32:00.560 --> 32:00.960 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. 32:01.020 --> 32:03.981 [SPEAKER_02]: Like 120 to 150 people. 32:04.261 --> 32:04.481 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 32:04.521 --> 32:04.781 [SPEAKER_01]: Nice. 32:04.801 --> 32:05.562 [SPEAKER_01]: That's a good size. 32:06.342 --> 32:22.704 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, because it also the other thing that we want to make sure, I mean, we attended weddings and different, you know, sizes and amount of people, but like, we think it's important that you actually able to spend a little bit of time connecting with everyone that is there, right, and I feel like. 32:23.445 --> 32:33.951 [SPEAKER_00]: Once you start going 200, 300, like, you're not going to even see as a lot of these people, like, you know, if you're trying to have a good time, you know, with each other, but also with the people around you. 32:34.051 --> 32:43.477 [SPEAKER_00]: So we, we wanted to find that needle ground that we could have, you know, the people they are most important for us, but at the same time, be able to connect with them. 32:43.657 --> 32:47.759 [SPEAKER_00]: And we extended the hours by quite a lot to be able to do that, too. 32:47.839 --> 32:52.362 [SPEAKER_00]: So it starts with the sunset, like, before sunset, actually like around 4.30. 32:53.322 --> 32:56.084 [SPEAKER_00]: And he goes all the way to 4.30 a.m. in the morning. 32:56.705 --> 32:57.866 [SPEAKER_01]: Wow. 32:57.886 --> 33:00.288 [SPEAKER_01]: 12 hours into like open night. 33:00.408 --> 33:02.129 [SPEAKER_01]: How fun is that? 33:02.490 --> 33:05.232 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, in real like we we we call it. 33:05.412 --> 33:07.694 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if that's an expression in which that works. 33:07.714 --> 33:09.355 [SPEAKER_00]: But like we are enemies off the end. 33:09.575 --> 33:13.398 [SPEAKER_00]: Like me me me which you think it would be in which it is. 33:13.458 --> 33:16.241 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's like yeah, that's try to keep us going. 33:16.261 --> 33:17.482 [SPEAKER_00]: That's that's what it is. 33:17.542 --> 33:19.583 [SPEAKER_00]: She was like, let's prepare breakfast. 33:19.643 --> 33:21.745 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's all that was like, oh, I was like, oh, I was like, 33:23.325 --> 33:26.866 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's so fun. 33:26.886 --> 33:28.447 [SPEAKER_01]: I love that so much. 33:28.527 --> 33:34.548 [SPEAKER_01]: Are there any other traditions like Brazilian traditions that you're planning to incorporate into the wedding? 33:35.649 --> 33:45.692 [SPEAKER_00]: I think the one thing that

happens a lot in Brazil is that you normally have the people that like family and friends, normally they take 33:50.938 --> 34:11.807 [SPEAKER_00]: They do go to the altar and they speak like, you know, about, about us in that case, that might be something that ends up happening, but also like in real, I would say, I don't know if it's a real thing, but we don't normally do this sit down dinner and Brazil, so it's more casual, so we also thinking, well, you know, 34:12.347 --> 34:35.030 [SPEAKER_00]: people are, you know, any and like the band is playing, we might have a little moment where we might do some of these speeches there too, right, with our family and friends, like three don't want to, you know, remember that to say if you words, of course I do want to that from my end as well, but other than that, no they're like, then 34:35.524 --> 34:39.749 [SPEAKER_00]: I can think other than like trying to extend as long as it possibly can do it. 34:39.769 --> 34:41.331 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I love that. 34:41.391 --> 34:43.073 [SPEAKER_01]: That's so fun. 34:43.093 --> 34:45.476 [SPEAKER_01]: Really cool. 34:45.876 --> 34:49.020 [SPEAKER_01]: So what have you guys enjoyed most about being engaged? 34:49.260 --> 34:50.561 [SPEAKER_02]: I love being engaged. 34:50.581 --> 34:51.703 [SPEAKER_02]: It's so fun. 34:52.063 --> 34:53.985 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, the fact that you can tell, it's all fine. 34:54.065 --> 34:56.448 [SPEAKER_02]: I can tell everybody, yeah. 34:56.468 --> 34:57.229 [SPEAKER_01]: Show your ring up. 34:57.269 --> 34:58.510 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, can I see your ring? 34:58.550 --> 34:59.911 [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't, I didn't get to see it. 35:00.112 --> 35:01.974 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my gosh, I love it. 35:02.674 --> 35:02.774 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh. 35:03.175 --> 35:03.916 [SPEAKER_00]: And it's like... 35:04.556 --> 35:05.477 [SPEAKER_00]: So steady. 35:05.497 --> 35:08.941 [SPEAKER_00]: You wanted something very classic that you saw the tear. 35:09.161 --> 35:12.485 [SPEAKER_00]: And you know, and it was looking at the different types of bands I found. 35:13.886 --> 35:20.609 [SPEAKER_00]: I was at, like, Rita was like, guy, mate, mate, make sure you, like, check with, you know, Louisa, my friend. 35:20.629 --> 35:22.630 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I think she was your friend. 35:22.850 --> 35:24.811 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah, I hear you. 35:24.831 --> 35:26.092 [SPEAKER_01]: They're gonna know what she likes. 35:26.332 --> 35:35.116 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, but immediately when I, like, I, that was that man was the one I shared with everyone including your mom and they're like, oh, she's gonna love that one. 35:35.276 --> 35:41.279 [SPEAKER_00]: And the stone is the whole different story because I knew she wanted to know stone, but in terms of, like, 35:41.779 --> 36:03.453 [SPEAKER_00]: the diamond itself, she wasn't as precious as being completely on the on the clear side, you know, because ended with funny actually when I was doing that research, people they were selling like the diamonds nowadays, they're saying how more common it is for people to ask for slightly warmer shades of diamonds because it did. 36:03.933 --> 36:08.736 [SPEAKER_00]: They are more convincing that they are real and that not a lack of a lot of grumps. 36:09.236 --> 36:10.357 [SPEAKER_01]: Wow, that makes sense. 36:10.397 --> 36:10.737 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 36:11.677 --> 36:12.278 [SPEAKER_01]: So pretty. 36:12.378 --> 36:13.258 [SPEAKER_01]: I love an oval. 36:13.438 --> 36:13.999 [SPEAKER_01]: So good. 36:14.019 --> 36:14.679 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 36:14.879 --> 36:15.699 [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my gosh. 36:15.940 --> 36:20.022 [SPEAKER_01]: So do you guys have any other advice for couples who are planning their weddings right now? 36:21.690 --> 36:37.275 [SPEAKER_02]: Make a spreadsheet, start like organize yourself in the whole, don't just fly on a lighting planner to do it all I would say, like maybe have your plans like, you know, look at it yourself as well, do your own research. 36:38.120 --> 36:40.341 [SPEAKER_02]: I think that's also an interesting piece. 36:40.521 --> 36:55.866 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, we are a little bit picky, but in that way, but maybe because we go for an artistic background, she works with like, you know, directors and photographers, I, you know, I did come from a direction background too. 36:57.547 --> 37:00.329 [SPEAKER_00]: we are like decoration, like how do we want it to look? 37:00.389 --> 37:05.131 [SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, some of the vendors that the person that's helping us organize it. 37:05.331 --> 37:11.035 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, if you send us a few, but we are doing our own research too, and we end up like fine ones that we like better. 37:11.055 --> 37:15.257 [SPEAKER_00]: But, yeah, we are in the weeds of it, like, you know. 37:15.297 --> 37:17.298 [SPEAKER_02]: It's also like how fun with that, you know? 37:17.318 --> 37:18.339 [SPEAKER_02]: I think totally. 37:18.619 --> 37:24.002 [SPEAKER_02]: It's once in a lifetime, you'll see you get to be engaged for such a small, like no, at least. 37:24.202 --> 37:25.683 [SPEAKER_02]: me, something like that. 37:25.723 --> 37:27.764 [SPEAKER_02]: We usually sing each other a little longer than I'm. 37:27.864 --> 37:39.489 [SPEAKER_02]: We actually thought like this would probably get married in 2020 because then it was about fast, but it's short period of time, so I mean make the best of it and enjoy the process of it all. 37:39.509 --> 37:42.310 [SPEAKER_02]: It's going to be done. 37:42.370 --> 37:49.293 [SPEAKER_02]: It's one event that's your whole life and you're trying to do it all for that one day because you're 37:49.758 --> 37:55.721 [SPEAKER_02]: What do you get to be with after all your family and friends in one space, unless it's your favorite girl? 37:56.302 --> 37:57.782 [SPEAKER_02]: You know, like, think about it. 37:58.063 --> 37:58.323 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 37:58.523 --> 37:59.123 [SPEAKER_01]: I know. 38:00.064 --> 38:01.184

[SPEAKER_02]: Make the effort. 38:01.564 --> 38:08.088 [SPEAKER_02]: So, it should be, I also want to say, like, I think going to, we have a budget. 38:08.128 --> 38:10.629 [SPEAKER_02]: Everyone has their budget when they're looking at wedding. 38:10.769 --> 38:15.332 [SPEAKER_02]: I think like, you can go infinite with a budget for wedding. 38:15.791 --> 38:16.372 [SPEAKER_02]: Oh yeah. 38:16.412 --> 38:16.712 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 38:16.732 --> 38:17.113 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 38:17.293 --> 38:17.673 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. 38:18.013 --> 38:19.955 [SPEAKER_02]: We really start adding that. 38:19.975 --> 38:20.856 [SPEAKER_02]: We do this really bad. 38:20.896 --> 38:21.317 [SPEAKER_02]: We do that. 38:21.517 --> 38:33.268 [SPEAKER_02]: And it's like, I think the day my dad said this to me and I thought this is such a good advice that the wedding's that he's been to that are the most simple but are the most. 38:34.790 --> 38:37.693 [SPEAKER_02]: Just doesn't need all that like, you know. 38:39.322 --> 38:49.785 [SPEAKER_02]: scandalous and glamorous thing like all the ones that are actually the most last long last thing like the ones that have not gone divorce. 38:51.885 --> 39:04.088 [SPEAKER_02]: It's like you know like that's a nice you know because like they focus on what's important I think that's ultimately yeah and that sums up also like our whole proposal so it's like we wanted to be beautifully asked but like 39:04.822 --> 39:32.048 [SPEAKER_00]: I think the day it's ours and my foot it's going to be with the heart for first you know and yeah when we talk about the days just like we just oh my god this is this is probably going to be the best they over a lot it's just because of the people that I have family and your many you know and Rita has family here of course but also we share family and Brazil and Rio so this would be the 39:32.982 --> 39:44.130 [SPEAKER_00]: only situation where everyone, and she has a lot of friends in Europe as well, so and I do too, so everyone is going to be there and a lot of them are going to be leaving each other for the first time from my family level too. 39:44.150 --> 39:48.834 [SPEAKER_00]: So I just like, we just can't wait for that moment and how special it would be. 39:49.394 --> 39:57.220 [SPEAKER_00]: But in terms of, like, just quickly going back to the budget story, it's like, also, what are your priorities, right? 39:57.380 --> 39:59.242 [SPEAKER_00]: And I think someone also told us, like, 40:00.188 --> 40:03.749 [SPEAKER_00]: maybe try to focus on the things that people will remember. 40:03.929 --> 40:15.392 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, while the things, the aspects that people are gonna, you know, sure, we do want the chocolates or the sweet, mere, they go to be amazing. 40:15.432 --> 40:19.313 [SPEAKER_00]: Sure, but like, that's not necessarily what is gonna create memories in people. 40:19.373 --> 40:21.674 [SPEAKER_00]: Like, it's maybe gonna be more the band. 40:21.914 --> 40:25.495 [SPEAKER_00]: Or, of course, how, you know, some of the decoration is gonna be. 40:25.555 --> 40:27.035 [SPEAKER_02]: Flowers is a big thing, right? 40:27.075 --> 40:28.896 [SPEAKER_02]: Where are these flowers a sign of? 40:29.436 --> 40:30.637 [SPEAKER_02]: flower. 40:30.877 --> 40:35.481 [SPEAKER_02]: We recently went to a wedding in Italy and it was so beautiful, so stunning. 40:35.641 --> 40:38.243 [SPEAKER_02]: And my friends talked to me with some teachers. 40:38.363 --> 40:41.185 [SPEAKER_02]: Notice that I hadn't had one single flower in my wedding. 40:42.288 --> 40:56.140 [SPEAKER_02]: And that really spoke to me, because I was like, wow, no moment, I realized, because everything else was so breathtaking, the place in Italy, the people, the energy, like, so beautiful. 40:56.841 --> 40:58.442 [SPEAKER_02]: I didn't realize there were no followers. 40:58.562 --> 40:59.964 [SPEAKER_01]: And honestly, that's incredible. 40:59.984 --> 41:01.385 [SPEAKER_02]: Really, forward to people. 41:01.445 --> 41:06.129 [SPEAKER_02]: I want to follow them, I want to say this, but like, right, it's always in your head, and that's okay too. 41:06.469 --> 41:07.690 [SPEAKER_02]: Totally. 41:07.770 --> 41:09.492 [SPEAKER_02]: Stop following what followers you had you wedding. 41:10.186 --> 41:10.426 [SPEAKER_02]: Right. 41:10.466 --> 41:15.814 [SPEAKER_02]: I remember what it's going to provide in terms of energy. 41:15.914 --> 41:20.520 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, the people that we've been talking about, you know, the decorations and etc. 41:20.680 --> 41:25.707 [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, sure, we want flowers, but like we want to do with intention as well because 41:26.507 --> 41:29.149 [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of times they all look the same when you go to wedding, right? 41:29.189 --> 41:40.355 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like you have the same arrangement and they're like, okay, we're going to do flowers, but like how can we do in a way that it feels, you know, our way and feels like has some different meaning. 41:40.375 --> 41:43.057 [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe we like we could be talking a lot about fruit. 41:43.157 --> 41:50.001 [SPEAKER_00]: For example, I can do anything that incorporates like a Brazilian fruit that brings a color to 41:51.322 --> 42:00.005 [SPEAKER_00]: So, and maybe a little, you know, more manipulates to, first is like, you know, always like the same type of arrangement and, yeah. 42:00.305 --> 42:01.085 [SPEAKER_00]: So, yeah. 42:01.505 --> 42:05.207 [SPEAKER_00]: Flowers at the end of the day, after the wedding, they all kind of, you know, they all get dumped. 42:05.407 --> 42:07.647 [SPEAKER_00]: And you're like, it's kind of sad, you know? 42:07.667 --> 42:09.148 [SPEAKER_01]: It is, yeah. 42:09.668 --> 42:11.129 [SPEAKER_00]: We want to make sure that we do that. 42:11.729 --> 42:13.609 [SPEAKER_00]: It's strategically and special. 42:13.809 --> 42:15.470 [SPEAKER_00]: And that the old member. 42:16.093 --> 42:16.253 [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm. 42:16.613 --> 42:17.534

[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, for sure. 42:17.594 --> 42:18.234 [SPEAKER_01]: I got that. 42:18.274 --> 42:18.635 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 42:18.715 --> 42:22.977 [SPEAKER_01]: And you know, I guess you'll have the photos and videos to remember it by, but yeah. 42:23.037 --> 42:40.527 [SPEAKER_01]: And I can see like, you guys are both creative, like, those creative juices coming out into your wedding design and wanting to make it memorable and, you know, florals can be a piece of art too, you know, and make people feel something like, so it's cool that 42:45.590 --> 43:01.009 [SPEAKER_01]: Like that's another way to show your guess like who you are as a couple at your wedding is through that so I think that's super cool that you guys are thinking about it that way but also in a way where it's like well what do we need versus what don't we need 43:01.790 --> 43:06.772 [SPEAKER_01]: versus the cost and everything and really like having a good outlook on that. 43:06.832 --> 43:09.393 [SPEAKER_01]: So really cool, really great advice, you guys. 43:10.293 --> 43:22.958 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, this has been so fun to chat with you and to just hear all the behind the scenes because I love doing episodes like this because it's like, we see this video, you know, all of our TikTok, all of our Instagram. 43:23.818 --> 43:27.862 [SPEAKER_01]: but it's like what really happened behind the scenes of this. 43:27.882 --> 43:32.806 [SPEAKER_01]: So it's so cool that you guys were able to come on in like a long form and just share that with us. 43:32.866 --> 43:34.267 [SPEAKER_01]: So it's been super cool. 43:34.488 --> 43:39.632 [SPEAKER_01]: Tell us more like do you have any like fun work projects coming up in the future? 43:39.672 --> 43:45.537 [SPEAKER_01]: Like where can we find you and follow you for more fun content and maybe some with your aunt? 43:47.265 --> 43:56.851 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I think my cast which right now we're in a period of a bit dormant because of just time that we've got my moment I have had. 43:57.632 --> 43:58.853 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, you can't watch me. 43:58.973 --> 44:04.857 [SPEAKER_02]: But if you watch it, yeah, the first season it's on YouTube and that was cool. 44:05.417 --> 44:06.658 [SPEAKER_02]: Instagram and 44:09.348 --> 44:11.289 [SPEAKER_02]: And it's all about motherhood really. 44:11.349 --> 44:20.214 [SPEAKER_02]: It's about people and their stories of their mom and their mother mother figure in their lives has made an impact in their life. 44:20.294 --> 44:22.515 [SPEAKER_02]: So it's really beautiful and touching. 44:22.715 --> 44:23.856 [SPEAKER_02]: It's important to use those. 44:23.876 --> 44:25.196 [SPEAKER_01]: So cool. 44:25.276 --> 44:26.417 [SPEAKER_01]: Are there resines feet? 44:27.458 --> 44:27.998 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 44:28.018 --> 44:29.699 [SPEAKER_00]: Nowadays you can just press the 44:37.422 --> 44:40.985 [SPEAKER_02]: And you can find us on me on Instagram, my hand is free to wear a handle. 44:41.386 --> 44:44.429 [SPEAKER_00]: And his is... God, I'm gonna underline, right? 44:44.469 --> 44:45.169 [SPEAKER_00]: So, yeah. 44:46.411 --> 45:01.305 [SPEAKER_00]: Right now, we've, we've discussed, like, oh, should we, like, maybe start posting things about, like, you know, the two people from real, you know, making it, making life in, in New York and like, we've, 45:01.654 --> 45:08.218 [SPEAKER_00]: kind of discussed stuff, but we haven't really kind of, he kind of put a lot of time and energy in that so to make it, you know, good. 45:08.358 --> 45:26.468 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm a perfectionist, you know, I'm glad Rita isn't as much because otherwise, to win our post of the video she did, but like, we've been, we've been toying with that idea, we haven't put in practice, but yeah, from my end, I think I'm just just normal people Instagram when I try to, you know, do anything beyond that right now. 45:26.488 --> 45:26.768 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 45:27.529 --> 45:32.351 [SPEAKER_02]: I definitely will be sharing more of my journey in what I really miss. 45:33.361 --> 45:34.982 [SPEAKER_01]: Ooh, that's exciting. 45:35.002 --> 45:36.603 [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, it's been so fun. 45:37.283 --> 45:37.643 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. 45:38.223 --> 45:39.944 [SPEAKER_02]: People prepare to be sick of me. 45:40.705 --> 45:41.285 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 45:41.905 --> 45:42.185 [SPEAKER_01]: I know. 45:42.265 --> 45:44.106 [SPEAKER_01]: Take advantage of your wedding era. 45:45.247 --> 45:45.887 [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. 45:45.927 --> 45:48.168 [SPEAKER_01]: We want to see all the fun wedding content. 45:48.248 --> 45:49.449 [SPEAKER_01]: So super fun. 45:49.469 --> 45:51.450 [SPEAKER_01]: Well, thank you guys so much for coming on the show. 45:51.470 --> 45:53.491 [SPEAKER_01]: It's been a joy to chat with you. 45:53.571 --> 45:56.833 [SPEAKER_01]: I so appreciate you just sharing everything with us. 45:56.853 --> 45:58.133 [SPEAKER_01]: And congratulations. 45:58.253 --> 46:00.755 [SPEAKER_01]: And I can't wait to see photos of videos of your wedding. 46:01.535 --> 46:03.075 [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you for having me. 46:03.115 --> 46:05.536 [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you for having me. 46:05.616 --> 46:05.776 [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. 46:05.796 --> 46:06.116 [SPEAKER_01]: Bye guys. 46:06.156 --> 46:06.616 [SPEAKER_00]: Have a great one. 46:07.016 --> 46:07.736 [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you. 46:08.596 --> 46:09.337 [SPEAKER_01]: There you have it. 46:09.597 --> 46:11.957 [SPEAKER_01]: Another episode of The Wedding Reporter podcast. 46:12.197 --> 46:18.878 [SPEAKER_01]: To see those gorgeous wedding and engagement photos, head over to NashvilleBrideGuide.com for more behind the scenes content. 46:19.399 --> 46:24.039 [SPEAKER_01]: And if you like this episode, I would so appreciate it if you would rate and subscribe the show. 46:24.520 --> 46:26.420 [SPEAKER_01]: See you next time for another great episode.