บทถอดความฉบับเต็มของ Being "Capable" Matters More Than Being Wealthy in Partnerships

him. 00:05:14.180 --> 00:05:15.607 No, I wasn't pressed to watch it before. 00:05:15.607 --> 00:05:20.031 Like I said, we turned it on when it came out and it didn't catch my attention. 00:05:20.031 --> 00:05:24.209 But like I said, I think we were just a lot of the time, so, yes, all right. 00:05:24.209 --> 00:05:38.805 But, like I said, I think we were just a lot at the time, so, um, yes alright, so I'm getting a video, what you call him right now he be so unprepared, so unorganized, like it's a man thing apparently okay, alright, here we go. 00:05:38.961 --> 00:05:40.158 We going to the video. 00:05:40.158 --> 00:05:43.882 Alright, ready, listen to this the fuck wow. 00:05:43.901 --> 00:05:44.021 Video. 00:05:46.855 --> 00:05:47.156 Alright, ready. 00:05:47.156 --> 00:05:47.738 Alright, listen to this. 00:05:47.738 --> 00:05:48.040 Okay, the fuck. 00:05:49.182 --> 00:05:54.701 Wow, wow, what the fuck is it at what? 00:05:54.701 --> 00:05:58.011 We're not starting over. 00:05:58.011 --> 00:06:01.204 You gonna put this shit together. 00:06:01.204 --> 00:06:02.528 This is crazy. 00:06:02.528 --> 00:06:05.723 Y'all Stop talking. 00:06:05.723 --> 00:06:07.267 So uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh. 00:06:07.267 --> 00:06:07.769 Y'all Stop talking. 00:06:07.769 --> 00:06:13.142 So uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh uh uh, uh, oh, I can't do it. 00:06:13.704 --> 00:06:15.488 How would you expect her to be able to? 00:06:15.488 --> 00:06:17.151 You know, take care of things. 00:06:17.151 --> 00:06:20.725 You're always supposed to look for a capable woman. 00:06:20.725 --> 00:06:26.439 If she's capable of handling things, that's the woman you want to take care of, because she was handling business with or without you, regardless. 00:06:26.439 --> 00:06:39.632 So I saw that video and the comments were off the chain. 00:06:39.632 --> 00:06:45.656 They were like he soft, he's scared of his woman making her own money. 00:06:45.656 --> 00:06:55.689 And then somebody said I asked you about this a couple weeks ago and it was like a name of what they call men. 00:06:55.689 --> 00:06:58.108 Now it was like I don't remember it. 00:06:58.339 --> 00:06:59.324 Is that the simps? 00:06:59.699 --> 00:07:11.687 No, not simps, it was Mel, it was like a male. 00:07:11.687 --> 00:07:13.533 They were calling him like male females. 00:07:13.533 --> 00:07:27.899 It was. 00:07:27.899 --> 00:07:31.831 It was something that they were saying that the new generation doesn't understand about relationship and actually taking care of business, because they would truly want a, a woman. 00:07:31.831 --> 00:07:32.535 That's gonna be well 50, 50. 00:07:32.535 --> 00:07:38.127 Or she pay her part, or I'm gonna pay her part, or she pay her part and I'm gonna pay my part, or um okay, so what's the question? 00:07:38.749 --> 00:07:44.028 the question is because you are a stay-at-home mom. 00:07:44.028 --> 00:07:46.053 What is your thoughts about that? 00:07:46.053 --> 00:07:48.279 And, and yeah, what's your thoughts about that? 00:07:48.540 --> 00:07:51.625 well, I'm only as okay. 00:07:51.625 --> 00:07:56.492 Uh, let me first start with what he said. 00:07:56.492 --> 00:08:09.060 I don't think the key to being with someone or being married for an extended period of time is because you're paying for everything. 00:08:09.060 --> 00:08:15.310 I think that's where he messed up in the conversation. 00:08:15.310 --> 00:08:18.154 Okay, I don't think. 00:08:18.279 --> 00:08:20.709 You mean the guy that answered or the guy that asked the question? 00:08:21.781 --> 00:08:22.543 What did I just say? 00:08:22.543 --> 00:08:24.529 You weren't listening, I was listening. 00:08:24.920 --> 00:08:29.511 You said he messed up in the conversation because he said that he paid for everything. 00:08:29.690 --> 00:08:30.673 Okay, so who said that? 00:08:30.673 --> 00:08:32.707 The guy that asked the question or the guy that answered? 00:08:33.220 --> 00:08:35.565 No, I'm just saying because you could have been like. 00:08:36.285 --> 00:08:37.870 You just said who said that. 00:08:38.551 --> 00:08:40.033 They could have Okay, go ahead. 00:08:41.519 --> 00:08:47.466 I'm going to cut that out. 00:08:47.466 --> 00:08:58.903 I came with you why what I do because, bro, like you don't listen, anyway it's me responding back to what you just said. 00:08:58.903 --> 00:09:01.671 You shouldn't have responded to that, babe, because I already said what? 00:09:01.770 --> 00:09:06.582 I'm just gonna cut that out, because that means that my brain didn't catch up to my thoughts. 00:09:06.582 --> 00:09:07.306 It's dyslexia. 00:09:07.306 --> 00:09:11.004 I knew exactly what he said and who said it. 00:09:11.900 --> 00:09:14.602 I just didn't understand why you had to ask me that. 00:09:14.602 --> 00:09:15.807 Never mind Anyway. 00:09:15.807 --> 00:09:26.989 So I think that that was where he messed up in the conversation, because paying for everything does not keep someone that does not want to be kept. 00:09:26.989 --> 00:09:29.605 Um, so there's that. 00:09:29.921 --> 00:09:39.686 And that goes both ways, um, and then, secondly, I think it needs to be, because I don't. 00:09:39.686 --> 00:10:24.028 I don't know if we've ever spoken about and I'm sure we have, because I mean, we talk so much on here but if I haven't said it or if we haven't said it already, the only reason why I am a stay-at-home mom is because when we had our oldest, it was a conversation about like both of us working, and then he was like, but it doesn't make sense for you to work, because your check is going to go to daycare or or toward a babysitter, whatever, you know, whatever means of childcare you know we would have taken. 00:10:24.028 --> 00:10:28.403 He was like I make enough money. 00:10:28.403 --> 00:10:32.597 Like if you had to check the money I make, covers yours, minds and some more. 00:10:32.597 --> 00:10:33.179 You know what I'm saying. 00:10:33.240 --> 00:10:38.902 So it was like it just doesn't make

sense for you to go to work when we can raise our own kid, like you can be at home with our. 00:10:38.902 --> 00:10:46.274 So I was like, okay, cool, I'll go with it, right, right, even though you know that goes against everything in me, but I went with it. 00:10:46.274 --> 00:10:52.567 So how I feel about what he said? 00:10:52.567 --> 00:10:59.562 Like I said, I think he messed up in the sense of saying paying for everything is what keeps the situation, because it's not. 00:10:59.562 --> 00:11:15.917 And then also, I do feel as though the newer generation of young men wanting relationships don't want relationships because they want families. 00:11:16.821 --> 00:12:16.807 I feel like the new generation of young men want relationships to say they have a relationship and then two for sex, um oh, and I only say that because there is a sense of manhood at least a woman, and what it means to be a man, and how not necessarily like how a woman should act, but how a woman should act, like how they would prefer their woman to be, how the overall picture of what it looks like to take a, to take care of a woman is, which would, in turn, mean that you, she, would be somewhere you know she's protected, which isn't the workplace. 00:12:16.807 --> 00:12:19.986 Did we talk about what the boys have said on here? 00:12:19.986 --> 00:12:26.186 No, no, I think we did about that, I'm just going to refresh it just very quickly. 00:12:27.211 --> 00:12:31.405 I asked them a very simple question of like what would y'all think if I got a job? 00:12:31.405 --> 00:12:37.530 I asked colin before I asked anybody else, and colin was like absolutely not, like I don't want you coming in late at night. 00:12:37.530 --> 00:12:43.202 And then when I asked the two older boys, they were like no, absolutely not, mom, like you won't end up on one of those true crimes. 00:12:43.202 --> 00:12:45.028 Like, like not going to happen. 00:12:45.028 --> 00:12:49.433 And I extended the question like OK, but what if I wanted to start making my own money? 00:12:49.433 --> 00:12:52.136 And they were like yeah, no, dad's money is your money, so you're good. 00:12:52.136 --> 00:12:55.330 And I was just like, oh, ok, that's wild. 00:12:55.539 --> 00:13:02.333 But my sons even equated me being a woman and going out to work as dangerous. 00:13:02.333 --> 00:13:12.802 Out to work as dangerous and do you? 00:13:12.802 --> 00:13:13.081 Okay, go ahead. 00:13:13.081 --> 00:13:46.751 And so I think that there's a certain mentality that, um, a lot of older men, I guess you would say, kind of have in in this, or let me say more traditional ish type men that have that same mentality, like it's just not and not necessarily that it's not safe like, um, violence, just the aspect of, like he said, like she's out here in the streets working and it just depends on the job. 00:13:46.751 --> 00:13:48.763 She could be working from very early to very late. 00:13:48.763 --> 00:13:50.687 She could just be working midday to very late. 00:13:50.687 --> 00:13:53.745 I don't want my woman out in the streets like that. 00:13:53.745 --> 00:13:54.610 You know what I'm saying? 00:13:54.610 --> 00:13:56.519 That you got all these men that she be working with. 00:13:56.519 --> 00:14:01.172 It's not necessarily like oh, I'm scared she gonna cheat or somebody else gonna wife her up. 00:14:01.351 --> 00:14:18.985 It it's very simply like the world is a very dangerous place for a woman it's dangerous for men too, don't get me wrong, but it's very dangerous for women, and certain women are very targeted, right, um, and and so I think it's. 00:14:18.985 --> 00:14:33.506 It's like I would just prefer, if I can, if I can, provide and keep her at home for her safety and her mental health, but also for the sake of me. 00:14:33.506 --> 00:14:37.634 Great, because you do benefit from that also as a man. 00:14:37.634 --> 00:14:38.441 You know what I'm saying. 00:14:38.461 --> 00:15:31.451 Like, especially if y'all have kids, you benefit from the fact that you have a woman at home that's willing to be home to take care and help raise right, you know, y'all's children because y'all have a working dynamic, hopefully, right and you guys have come to some type of agreement into as to how you want to raise your kids, and if, if one of y'all hopefully her is there to constantly put those things, those things into practice for your children, they kind of start off life a little bit better, because a lot of times, unfortunately, and daycares are raising people's kids and they're not taking your morals home, they're taking the morals of other people's kids home with them. 00:15:32.902 --> 00:15:35.025 You've always said that there's daycare kids and then there's. 00:15:35.341 --> 00:15:42.606 You can tell the difference between a kid that's been raised in daycare because of whatever their family's circumstances, and a kid that was not. 00:15:42.606 --> 00:15:47.301 A lot of people say homeschooled kids or kids that don't go to teacher. 00:15:47.301 --> 00:15:47.902 They're weird. 00:15:47.902 --> 00:15:59.402 Actually, that's what a normal kid behaves, like y'all's kids that run up and down aisles screaming and knocking shit over in in target aisles and and and throwing temper tantrums. 00:15:59.422 --> 00:16:02.431 That's not normal that's not, that's, that's not reality. 00:16:02.431 --> 00:16:03.715 That's weird as fuck. 00:16:03.715 --> 00:16:11.129 But you know, no offense, I'm just saying but um, so I agree with what he's saying. 00:16:11.129 --> 00:16:14.299 I just think the paying for everything is the problem. 00:16:14.320 --> 00:16:20.126 That's not he, he misspoken on providing yeah, because it's not. 00:16:21.168 --> 00:16:26.294 It's not all financial right, you know what I mean it's. 00:16:26.294 --> 00:16:29.945 It's just, it's not all, it's not solely based off of. 00:16:29.945 --> 00:16:32.972 Oh yeah, well, because I don't have to go to work. 00:16:32.972 --> 00:16:47.875 Um,

our relationship's beautiful that has nothing to do with it it actually has probably the least to do with a successful relationship, a successful marriage but he. 00:16:48.260 --> 00:17:05.324 But what's crazy is him speaking about seeing the old heads or the older men taking care of business and morally making sure that they are providing for the household. 00:17:05.344 --> 00:17:06.307 I gotta turn this shit off. 00:17:06.307 --> 00:17:09.787 He making my stomach hurt the way he shit anyway. 00:17:10.788 --> 00:17:23.826 Um, why do you think that, if we're still thinking that same way, of us seeing that and the men have changed, why do you think that is changed in the last 10 years? 00:17:27.713 --> 00:17:30.861 why do I think that men have changed in the last 10 years? 00:17:30.881 --> 00:17:32.424 yeah, like there's men that be like. 00:17:32.424 --> 00:17:45.630 I want her to take care of me or I don't I'm not taking care of nobody or if their parents are the parents, that was the ones that was doing the taking care I think what it is is that it's a. 00:17:45.710 --> 00:17:48.259 It's a new generation raising kids, right. 00:17:48.259 --> 00:17:53.263 So it's our generation, um, that's a. 00:17:53.263 --> 00:18:22.328 It's a big, I think and I know that's, like you know, a odd scale, but like I don't, I think y'all know what I'm talking about. 00:18:22.328 --> 00:18:23.150 Like generation wise. 00:18:23.150 --> 00:18:59.859 Um, we have been a generation that has been breaking generational curses, right, and I feel like we have been the parents that are like, although we do discipline our children, some of us not all of us we are very much spoiling our children, and I'll even go as far as saying it's like the tail end of our parents. 00:18:59.859 --> 00:19:24.269 Kids that are being that are the young men now too, because, like my brother, right, he's 21 my mom was 31 when she had him, 29 when she had the youngest girl, so that's why I'm like and my mom is, she'll be 54 this year, uh, 55, whatever, anyway. 00:19:24.269 --> 00:19:45.334 So, like the tail end of our parents, youngest kids are the young men and young women of today yes and even my mom had got soft and was like way more gentler with him, even even jen. 00:19:45.374 --> 00:19:49.643 She was way more gentle even with her than they were with us. 00:19:49.643 --> 00:20:15.213 And so I think it's become a a level of like spoiledness, like my parents give me everything not that there's no consequence behind it, but I do get everything that I want and I feel like they're taking that and making it their life, their life's mission. 00:20:15.213 --> 00:20:22.713 I want what I want and I get what I want and I deserve this because this has been my life. 00:20:22.713 --> 00:20:29.940 I'm going to give my child everything that they want, everything that they desire, and not that they, when they do things wrong, that they don't have consequences. 00:20:30.079 --> 00:20:47.412 But I don't think

that these young men and women deserve think about the consequences of the things that they're doing because they're so focused on what they feel like they need, or what they feel like they deserve, or what they feel like they want that they're. 00:20:47.412 --> 00:20:48.454 That's all that they're. 00:20:48.454 --> 00:20:50.922 They're only pushing the things that they want. 00:20:50.922 --> 00:20:53.032 They're not thinking about the consequences behind it. 00:20:53.032 --> 00:21:03.132 So they get into these relationships and for them it's like okay, well, I still want to buy this, this, I still want the things that I want. 00:21:03.132 --> 00:21:19.275 I can't have the stuff that I want if I'm paying things, paying for shit for you, so I'm gonna need you to pay for your shit and I'm gonna pay for my shit and we're gonna go half on these bills so that everybody get their way. 00:21:19.275 --> 00:21:20.617 You still can do the shit you want to do. 00:21:20.617 --> 00:21:22.863 You still could do shit, or whatever you do. 00:21:22.903 --> 00:21:47.660 Whatever you want to do, I'm gonna do what I want to do so, we punks now I think they're so focused on themselves, they're selfish and they don't understand that, in order to become like really one and I'm not saying that you can't have your own, that's not what I'm saying at all, by any means I'm not even saying like everything you do got to be about each other. 00:21:47.660 --> 00:21:52.101 All I'm saying is that when you really become one, there is no more. 00:21:52.101 --> 00:22:03.304 I, my brother, literally said to him how are you so comfortable saying our money when you're the one that goes to work? 00:22:03.304 --> 00:22:11.557 And he was like I couldn't go to work if she didn't decide or she didn't she didn't want to stay home with the kids, right, you know? 00:22:11.577 --> 00:22:14.832 or if, when I asked her to stay home with the kids, she was like no, absolutely not. 00:22:14.832 --> 00:22:23.265 Like I couldn't go and do the hours and stuff that I do, the days that I do, I couldn't do that without her bending to what she had. 00:22:23.265 --> 00:22:30.019 There was a compromise you know what I'm saying and there was conversation that had to be had. 00:22:30.019 --> 00:22:31.516 It's a team thing. 00:22:31.516 --> 00:22:33.858 It's never an I or me. 00:22:33.858 --> 00:22:37.009 It was like we did this together, we talked about this together. 00:22:37.009 --> 00:22:51.263 So everything that I'm able to earn, I'm earning because she's over here also doing this, and everything that she wants to do, whether it be for her, for the uh, for the family, or for the house or for herself, I'm able to help her do that. 00:22:51.263 --> 00:22:52.873 So it's a team situation. 00:22:53.153 --> 00:23:12.113 I don't think a lot of people understand that concept yeah, because it's kind of like, while you're saying that, I'm literally over here thinking like you think about a company, right, a fortune

500 company you have, you literally have the boss. 00:23:12.113 --> 00:23:15.928 Well, not the boss, you have multiple people that's doing different jobs. 00:23:15.928 --> 00:23:18.196 That's creating the actual company. 00:23:18.196 --> 00:23:32.823 You don't just have one person going, oh, I'm gonna do this over here, and then I'm, after I do this over here, I'm gonna run over here and do this over here, and that you'll never have enough time to do that what is the analogy? 00:23:32.942 --> 00:23:33.063 the? 00:23:33.143 --> 00:23:47.381 analogy is if we didn't work together to make sure that we are doing things as a team, we would never be able to finish what we're trying to do, because we're all. 00:23:47.381 --> 00:23:49.336 We're just doing individual things. 00:23:50.078 --> 00:23:58.239 Right, but that's why I said they don't get into relationships looking to be a family, looking for unity, they look to just have somebody. 00:23:58.239 --> 00:24:09.009 I think a lot of this generation honestly, I think a lot of this generation honestly, I think a lot of this generation is extremely lonely hmm, I think that's, that's I think they are extremely lonely. 00:24:09.009 --> 00:24:12.518 I think they are completely unsure of themselves. 00:24:12.518 --> 00:24:19.077 I think they are completely misguided, and they're misguided by each other what's crazy is I knew you was going to say that. 00:24:19.378 --> 00:24:30.167 I knew you was going to say that Fuck, and me, knowing you, going to say that right, sorry, I'm trying to fix my mic. 00:24:30.891 --> 00:24:31.972 Why does this do this? 00:24:32.032 --> 00:24:35.461 Because you don't do push-ups, shut the fuck up. 00:24:35.662 --> 00:24:39.875 Fuck, I did it earlier. 00:24:39.875 --> 00:24:43.731 Fuck off. 00:24:43.731 --> 00:24:44.213 How about that? 00:24:44.213 --> 00:24:49.807 You don't see how you treat me, cause you don't do pushups. 00:24:49.807 --> 00:24:50.690 I have no upper body. 00:24:51.657 --> 00:24:52.162 We can show. 00:24:52.162 --> 00:24:55.904 I wish we could show the video Of you holding your arm up, fuck off, trying to. 00:24:56.105 --> 00:24:58.789 Fuck off, cause I should've used my fucking toes. 00:24:58.789 --> 00:24:59.795 My toes are strong. 00:25:01.253 --> 00:25:02.637 That's cause you be using them all day. 00:25:02.637 --> 00:25:05.935 You'd be like this you'd be stretching and shit. 00:25:05.935 --> 00:25:12.941 You'd be lifting weights and shit with your toes man, you got some of the strongest toes I've ever I got strong lower body. 00:25:12.941 --> 00:25:16.454 That's what I've got what's crazy that you said that is. 00:25:16.454 --> 00:25:21.723 This is what somebody said uh-oh what go ahead. 00:25:25.214 --> 00:26:05.132 Half of the world is lonely because 80 of women are competing for the same 20 of men I think if everybody got off, if here's's what I here's here's what I believe I believe that if, if social media was shut down completely Instagram, facebook, twitter, whatever other shit is out there that I don't know about Snapchats If, if all of that shit was completely wiped out, everybody wouldn't be competing for the same man. 00:26:05.152 --> 00:26:05.492 What do you mean? 00:26:05.512 --> 00:26:12.365 let's hear this what I mean is everybody's algorithms are basically the same. 00:26:12.365 --> 00:26:15.173 Everybody is pushing sex. 00:26:15.173 --> 00:26:25.130 Everybody is pushing uh uh cosmetic surgery, everybody is pushing uh uh certain uh features. 00:26:25.130 --> 00:26:28.556 So everybody is pushing food. 00:26:28.556 --> 00:26:30.539 Everybody's pushing weight. 00:26:30.539 --> 00:26:41.125 Everybody's not weight like that, but everybody I'm like, whoa okay, rick ross everybody is pushing, pushing certain narratives. 00:26:43.070 --> 00:26:55.763 Nobody is talking about get you a man that like anime, get you a man that decided he is into software manufacturers. 00:26:55.763 --> 00:26:56.605 You know what I mean. 00:26:56.605 --> 00:26:58.712 Like I don't know what that is, but you know I'm just making shit up. 00:26:58.712 --> 00:27:14.278 But nobody is pushing things like oh, he went to school for uh uh, software development or he went to school for game development. 00:27:14.278 --> 00:27:16.301 Nobody's pushing these type of men. 00:27:16.301 --> 00:27:20.176 They're only pushing the type of men that have their. 00:27:20.176 --> 00:27:22.512 They're the close to one percenters, right? 00:27:22.733 --> 00:27:23.256 fuck is that? 00:27:23.256 --> 00:27:24.199 Oh just they. 00:27:24.840 --> 00:27:26.586 They're the every, every woman's dream. 00:27:26.586 --> 00:27:33.708 They're tall, they have a full beard, he makes six figures, he drive a nice car, he got a nice penthouse. 00:27:33.708 --> 00:27:41.471 They're pushing the same narrative as if that's the only type of man that exists, and half the time those are the fucked up men. 00:27:41.471 --> 00:27:45.258 People are are competing. 00:27:45.258 --> 00:27:50.598 Women are competing for this men because that's the only man they see so you don't think that the geeks are no? 00:27:50.598 --> 00:27:56.053 Nobody is pushing a geek, and that's so unfortunate, because those are the best ones really you don't think? 00:27:56.093 --> 00:27:56.834 nobody pushed geeks. 00:27:56.854 --> 00:27:59.497 Nobody's pushing when you see a geek at, I never see one. 00:27:59.497 --> 00:28:04.201 You don't see them. 00:28:04.382 --> 00:28:05.182 You don't see the geeks. 00:28:05.403 --> 00:28:06.223 You don't see them. 00:28:06.223 --> 00:28:13.710 You don't even see the nerdy females, and if you do, it's because you're on Twitch and you just come by them right? 00:28:13.710 --> 00:28:21.939 Even on Twitch, the gamers that are streaming and I've seen this too many times to be wrong. 00:28:23.530 --> 00:28:29.570 they always have bras on they always have a certain skimpy outfit on. 00:28:29.570 --> 00:28:31.592 It's again sex sells. 00:28:31.592 -->

00:28:40.795 You're exploiting yourself for men to desire you, for them to watch you, by all means. 00:28:40.795 --> 00:28:41.858 I'm not saying that to be judgy. 00:28:41.858 --> 00:28:44.358 All I'm saying is this is what's being pushed? 00:28:44.358 --> 00:28:47.154 Y'all think all women look this way. 00:28:47.154 --> 00:28:49.141 That's not true. 00:28:49.141 --> 00:28:55.175 Y'all think all men look this way, act this way, feel this way, have this kind of money, work this kind of job. 00:28:55.175 --> 00:28:56.420 Maybe that's not true. 00:28:56.420 --> 00:29:02.549 And even if it were true, it's still not enough of them for all of y'all. 00:29:02.549 --> 00:29:04.315 So what happens? 00:29:04.315 --> 00:29:07.144 Is you chasing something you know you can't have? 00:29:08.227 --> 00:29:12.657 everybody's chasing them everybody's chasing something they know that they can't have. 00:29:12.657 --> 00:29:19.036 So if we wiped out social media, now y'all have to go out into the world and experience people. 00:29:19.036 --> 00:29:22.480 You have to experience people. 00:29:22.480 --> 00:29:24.483 You'd never know. 00:29:24.483 --> 00:29:36.450 It could be a man, 5'8", he could have a scrawny beard, but he could be making six figures. 00:29:36.450 --> 00:29:39.579 You will never see this man in a Benz. 00:29:39.579 --> 00:29:44.574 You'll never see him in in a bentley. 00:29:44.574 --> 00:29:47.739 You'll never see him in nothing fancy. 00:29:47.739 --> 00:29:53.773 He might just drive a regular old nissan ultima. 00:29:53.773 --> 00:30:00.566 He might drive him a chevy silverado, little toyota some. 00:30:00.625 --> 00:30:18.840 You know what I'm saying like toyota, so you're not gonna see how you get real country when you start seeing them I'm just saying y'all look at regular, regular guys and I'm doing air quotes because I know y'all can't see me but you look at regular guys and you just assume that this regular guy don't have what you're looking for. 00:30:18.840 --> 00:30:22.031 But that regular guy is gonna treat you like the queen that you think you are. 00:30:22.031 --> 00:30:32.939 And then you get with the six foot six three, got the full beard, he dressed down from head to toe and you like, oh my god, I want him. 00:30:32.939 --> 00:30:34.821 That's my kind of guy bitch. 00:30:34.821 --> 00:30:36.854 This nigga whoops your ass. 00:30:36.854 --> 00:30:37.676 Every night. 00:30:37.676 --> 00:30:40.266 He sleep with everything that got legs. 00:30:40.266 --> 00:30:42.815 This motherfucker don't do shit for you. 00:30:42.815 --> 00:30:46.650 He don't acknowledge your fucking presents, your birthday holidays no, nothing. 00:30:46.650 --> 00:30:49.537 This motherfucker do what the fuck he want to do because he's about him. 00:30:49.537 --> 00:30:56.413 And then, on top of that, when he do decide to do something for you, y'all go out and then he tell you you gotta pay for your part of the bill. 00:30:57.998 --> 00:31:00.005 Huh, that's what y'all looking for. 00:31:00.005 --> 00:31:09.865 But you only looking for that because social media puts these people in this spotlight like this is what you want now? 00:31:09.865 --> 00:31:11.294 Everybody's fucking confused. 00:31:11.294 --> 00:31:13.420 They don't know what they want. 00:31:13.420 --> 00:31:21.221 So, yes, everybody's running around trying to figure out who's what, what's going on on, because when they're lonely, they want somebody. 00:31:21.221 --> 00:31:26.675 You just don't know who you want because social media is telling you who you want and that's not who you want. 00:31:26.675 --> 00:31:29.856 And every time you get into a situation you realize I don't really want that. 00:31:29.856 --> 00:31:34.179 But you're so stuck into society that you can't get away from what you already know you don't want. 00:31:34.509 --> 00:31:37.192 So is loneliness a problem, or is it not a problem? 00:31:37.452 --> 00:31:38.994 Loneliness is definitely a problem. 00:31:38.994 --> 00:31:44.799 Really, people are absolutely positively lonely, but they're lonely because they don't know what they want. 00:31:44.799 --> 00:31:51.047 They don't know what they want because they're sucked into what society is telling them that they want and they don't know how to let it go. 00:31:51.047 --> 00:31:54.050 They're addicted to social media. 00:31:54.050 --> 00:31:58.817 They're addicted to it, especially the newer generation like this young, young man, young woman generation. 00:31:58.817 --> 00:32:07.952 They're so addicted to what their friends think about them that they don't sit with self long enough to discover who they are for them. 00:32:07.952 --> 00:32:20.082 Therefore, they just go about their day, living how the world is telling them to live, while on the inside fighting their own demons, trying to figure out why I feel this way. 00:32:20.423 --> 00:32:22.834 Well, you feel that way because you won't even be real with you. 00:32:22.834 --> 00:32:29.938 You don't like her, you don't like your life, you don't like where you're at, but you can't seem to get it together. 00:32:29.938 --> 00:32:33.313 Because you're mad or you don't want to work at mcdonald's. 00:32:33.313 --> 00:32:42.740 Mcdonald's may be your start, but because you so worried about how your friends gonna feel about it or how your girlfriend may feel about it, you don't do it. 00:32:42.961 --> 00:32:43.222 Right. 00:32:43.930 --> 00:32:53.182 You think you deserve better than McDonald's, but you don't think you deserve better than a female that thinks it's uncool for you to have a job that could provide a life for you. 00:32:53.182 --> 00:32:57.951 Okay, that's weird, you speaking it, but you also said. 00:33:00.215 --> 00:33:02.980 You said that they get into relationships. 00:33:02.980 --> 00:33:05.564 This age limit for sex. 00:33:05.904 --> 00:33:06.105 Yes. 00:33:07.150 --> 00:33:08.213 I knew you was going to say that. 00:33:08.515 --> 00:33:09.357 Another one, yes.

00:33:09.357 --> 00:33:12.777 I knew you was going to say that you didn't know. 00:33:12.777 --> 00:33:30.636 I did, says one in every four adults will still stay single and not have sex for more than 75 of the actual year. 00:33:30.636 --> 00:33:31.679 Okay, that's one in four. 00:33:31.719 --> 00:33:38.435 That's not a lot one and but if they're doing four really I'm sorry. 00:33:38.455 --> 00:33:40.118 Okay, twitch go ahead. 00:33:40.579 --> 00:33:41.361 So you're not saying. 00:33:41.361 --> 00:33:46.195 But you said that they get into these relationships because of this and also sex. 00:33:46.195 --> 00:33:49.442 But if nobody's having sex, what's the purpose? 00:33:49.462 --> 00:33:50.590 everybody's having sex. 00:33:50.771 --> 00:33:59.355 One in four is not a lot one in four, says one new study, says one in four adults will stay single for life what is an adult? 00:34:01.380 --> 00:34:02.782 what age range is an adult? 00:34:02.990 --> 00:34:03.813 what are we talking? 00:34:03.813 --> 00:34:05.436 I would say 21 we don't know that. 00:34:05.497 --> 00:34:06.760 That's a very broad statement. 00:34:06.760 --> 00:34:07.490 What is an adult? 00:34:07.490 --> 00:34:09.215 People consider 18 an adult. 00:34:09.215 --> 00:34:18.056 We know damn well 18 year olds are not being celibate oh, 18 is an adult. 00:34:18.577 --> 00:34:20.900 Yes, so 18, 19, they said I know. 00:34:21.001 --> 00:34:23.693 So that's what I'm saying, like how. 00:34:23.693 --> 00:34:31.190 This is why I don't listen to statistics, because give me an actual range where. 00:34:31.190 --> 00:34:32.632 What are we talking about here? 00:34:32.632 --> 00:34:35.496 What age ranges are we talking about? 00:34:35.717 --> 00:34:43.206 but it's crazy because you you talking to people at the workforce because that's all. 00:34:43.206 --> 00:34:45.855 I'm around um outside of you. 00:34:46.597 --> 00:34:56.809 Uh, they just complain about not having you know like they're complaining about not having sex with their wives, not complaining about not having sex with strangers. 00:34:56.809 --> 00:34:58.655 They're in a relationship. 00:34:58.655 --> 00:35:01.802 I'm talking about these young men and women. 00:35:01.802 --> 00:35:08.338 They out here fucking on everything we just got through looking at statistics that talking about people in they jobs. 00:35:08.338 --> 00:35:16.054 If you at a warehouse, a call center, a fucking USPS they fucking on everything. 00:35:16.054 --> 00:35:18.240 Everything. 00:35:18.240 --> 00:35:22.103 Stds are not high for no reason did you see the hiv thing? 00:35:22.284 --> 00:35:23.449 no, oh my god. 00:35:23.449 --> 00:35:37.257 They said the, uh, the hiv percent and certain cities have gone up because people are not aware of them having hiv I was like okay, again, damn so, like I said so. 00:35:37.257 --> 00:35:39.621 But like I said, but it had from age. 00:35:39.621 --> 00:35:43.465 It was like age 19 to like 28. 00:35:43.650 --> 00:35:47.601 But that's why I said that, whatever statistic, that was adults. 00:35:47.601 --> 00:35:50.760 What is the age range of adult we're talking about? 00:35:50.760 --> 00:35:52.556 Because we consider 18 an adult. 00:35:52.556 --> 00:35:55.418 We got to be talking at least 30 and up, 30 and up, yeah. 00:35:55.418 --> 00:35:56.181 You know what I'm saying. 00:35:56.181 --> 00:36:00.041 Where you a little more wise as to these things, we ain't talking. 00:36:00.041 --> 00:36:10.692 18 to 29 yeah, because they just fucking on anything yeah which is why the hiv stds is at st is the shit's up and it's been up. 00:36:10.692 --> 00:36:14.835 So that's what I'm saying, like that, extremely lonely, and so they're. 00:36:14.856 --> 00:36:29.657 I don't want to put my brother on blast, but I mean it's not even. 00:36:30.500 --> 00:36:32.784 I would hope he don't take it the wrong way. 00:36:32.784 --> 00:36:45.277 Um, but I know he said once before he doesn't need a girlfriend, he just prefers to have one right right and I never got a chance to ask him, because to me, that does that. 00:36:45.277 --> 00:36:46.880 It don't make sense to me. 00:36:46.880 --> 00:36:48.911 What is I feel like it's? 00:36:48.911 --> 00:36:50.275 It contradicts itself. 00:36:50.275 --> 00:36:52.559 I don't need one, I just prefer one. 00:36:52.559 --> 00:36:54.210 What does that actually mean, though? 00:36:55.432 --> 00:37:01.023 he enjoys to be in a relationship that gets you in trouble. 00:37:02.012 --> 00:37:03.097 What does that mean? 00:37:03.097 --> 00:37:06.739 You prefer one, but you don't need one, but you prefer. 00:37:06.739 --> 00:37:09.195 Isn't that the same thing? 00:37:09.195 --> 00:37:12.820 Isn't a preference something you need? 00:37:13.949 --> 00:37:15.335 No, not always. 00:37:15.637 --> 00:37:16.137 You don't think so? 00:37:16.431 --> 00:37:18.936 No, because I prefer to you prefer salt on your baked potato. 00:37:18.956 --> 00:37:19.400 You don't need salt on. 00:37:19.400 --> 00:37:19.864 No, because I prefer to. 00:37:19.864 --> 00:37:20.710 You prefer salt on your baked potato. 00:37:20.710 --> 00:37:23.434 You don't need salt on your baked potato. 00:37:23.974 --> 00:37:24.155 No. 00:37:24.856 --> 00:37:25.617 Absolutely, you do. 00:37:26.699 --> 00:37:27.541 Well, that's a taste thing. 00:37:28.041 --> 00:37:29.224 You do yes or no. 00:37:29.451 --> 00:37:30.635 I don't prefer salt. 00:37:30.635 --> 00:37:32.076 I need salt and pepper. 00:37:32.170 --> 00:37:33.556 But you prefer to have salt. 00:37:35.630 --> 00:37:38.701 No, I need to have salt and pepper Because you prefer it. 00:37:38.701 --> 00:37:40.711 No. 00:37:40.871 --> 00:37:42.757 I don't prefer it as an option. 00:37:42.757 --> 00:37:43.699 No, it's not. 00:37:44.300 --> 00:37:44.842 I prefer. 00:37:45.170 --> 00:37:46.594 Preferring something means you want it. 00:37:46.594 --> 00:37:47.398 That means you need it. 00:37:47.398 --> 00:37:48.875 As a person, you prefer that. 00:37:48.875 -->

00:37:50.592 That means you need it as you. 00:37:50.592 --> 00:37:51.335 You need that. 00:37:52.074 --> 00:37:54.673 Why are you pointing at me like that People prefer to have? 00:37:54.795 --> 00:37:57.001 lights in their house because they need them. 00:37:57.001 --> 00:38:03.775 It's really not an option. 00:38:03.775 --> 00:38:06.443 Nobody's gonna be like, oh yeah, I could just use candles not in this day and age. 00:38:06.443 --> 00:38:07.753 I prefer to have lights. 00:38:07.753 --> 00:38:17.974 I need them we got other options, though, yes or no so that's a preference is a need, I don't give a fuck what the definition is. 00:38:17.974 --> 00:38:21.315 A preference is a need, look there you go. 00:38:21.356 --> 00:38:21.757 Preference is a need. 00:38:21.777 --> 00:38:23.063 I don't give a fuck what the definition is. 00:38:23.063 --> 00:38:23.626 A preference is a need. 00:38:23.626 --> 00:38:24.168 Look there you go. 00:38:24.168 --> 00:38:24.349 What. 00:38:25.954 --> 00:38:27.103 You and your political correctness? 00:38:27.103 --> 00:38:27.728 No, because you said you prefer. 00:38:27.728 --> 00:38:30.057 I'm just saying I prefer cherry and cherry over. 00:38:30.057 --> 00:38:32.717 I don't eat cherry. 00:38:32.717 --> 00:38:34.695 No, I want that cherry. 00:38:35.050 --> 00:38:36.875 But if somebody gave you the option, you're going to pick it. 00:38:36.875 --> 00:38:38.378 That means you want it, that means you need it. 00:38:38.398 --> 00:38:39.943 So If somebody gave you the option, you're going to pick it. 00:38:39.983 --> 00:38:40.905 That means you want it, that means you need it. 00:38:40.905 --> 00:38:41.588 So it's not a prefer, it is. 00:38:41.608 --> 00:38:42.891 How is it a prefer A? 00:38:43.032 --> 00:38:44.197 preference is a need. 00:38:44.197 --> 00:38:47.278 That's why we got preferences, because we need those things. 00:38:48.590 --> 00:38:50.016 No, I feel like there's needs. 00:38:50.150 --> 00:38:51.637 I don't care what you're saying. 00:38:51.637 --> 00:38:52.730 Listen to what I'm saying. 00:38:52.730 --> 00:38:57.961 I don't care about how you grew up and what your definition is None of that shit is real. 00:38:57.981 --> 00:38:58.521 What do you mean? 00:38:58.541 --> 00:39:00.063 because you was about to pull up definitions. 00:39:00.182 --> 00:39:04.105 None of that no, no, I'm about to say somebody made up that word so you. 00:39:04.105 --> 00:39:10.612 So let me ask you a question do you need to have allergy medicine before you leave the house, or you prefer to have allergy both? 00:39:11.815 --> 00:39:23.246 fuck out of here, yo it's a preference, because I need that shit it's a preference because I know you're yeah okay now, if you said which kind of allergy medicine, that's a preference, because I know you're Okay. 00:39:23.246 --> 00:39:24.188 Now if you said which kind of allergy? 00:39:24.208 --> 00:39:24.630 medicine, that's it. 00:39:26.333 --> 00:39:26.813 I like. 00:39:26.914 --> 00:39:29.380 Benadryl, but I heard it ain't good for you. 00:39:29.380 --> 00:39:31.376 Oh, it ain't good for you. 00:39:31.376 --> 00:39:32.981 I'm not going to miss a whole day. 00:39:32.981 --> 00:39:34.896 You miss a whole day. 00:39:36.452 --> 00:39:37.838 I feel like a preference is a need. 00:39:37.838 --> 00:39:40.416 That's why we have preferences because we desire those things, we want those things. 00:39:40.416 --> 00:39:40.534 Preference is a need. 00:39:40.534 --> 00:39:42.391 That's why we have preferences because we desire those things, we want those things. 00:39:42.489 --> 00:39:43.434 So is a preference. 00:39:43.434 --> 00:39:50.181 It's something that you hold higher than others, so if somebody is like, I prefer a light skin one more than a dark skin girl. 00:39:50.449 --> 00:39:51.596 You need you a light skin. 00:39:51.596 --> 00:39:56.500 You would never lean toward dark if you had the option. 00:39:56.500 --> 00:39:59.478 So that's a need, that's something you want for sure. 00:40:00.289 --> 00:40:01.677 So I need to have me a light skin. 00:40:01.769 --> 00:40:04.199 Preference and need go hand in hand. 00:40:04.199 --> 00:40:07.074 They're like what's the word? 00:40:07.074 --> 00:40:12.322 Synonyms, antonyms, I don't remember which one it is Very synonyms. 00:40:12.342 --> 00:40:12.822 They the same. 00:40:13.063 --> 00:40:13.684 It doesn't matter. 00:40:13.684 --> 00:40:16.077 All I'm saying is they kind of go hand in hand. 00:40:16.077 --> 00:40:34.434 So what I'm saying is when, when he when I heard that this is what he has said, so he needs a relationship, I prefer to have one I'm like it. 00:40:34.434 --> 00:40:34.835 Uh, that don't to me. 00:40:34.835 --> 00:40:35.677 It doesn't sound like like I don't know. 00:40:35.677 --> 00:40:49.583 Maybe in that context it's like you don't actually want it, but you do want it, you need it, like it's something that you I think it's an ego thing also having relationships yeah, because it's been so. 00:40:50.891 --> 00:40:55.079 I would say growing up and what you gonna say? 00:40:55.079 --> 00:40:56.362 The stone age for my kids? 00:40:56.362 --> 00:40:57.764 What my kids say, I wasn't going to say anything. 00:40:57.764 --> 00:40:58.606 What are you talking about? 00:40:58.606 --> 00:41:00.010 You knew dinosaurs. 00:41:00.010 --> 00:41:01.711 Hurry up. 00:41:01.711 --> 00:41:07.184 Actually I said that I said, daddy was around with dinosaurs, you a fucking asshole. 00:41:07.184 --> 00:41:10.974 There's people like. 00:41:10.974 --> 00:41:19.101 There's times where I was like I'm not going to date anything in the neighborhood and they'd be like, oh, they make fun of you because you, because you don't need it. 00:41:19.190 --> 00:41:20.619 You don't need it, you don't need it, you prefer. 00:41:20.619 --> 00:41:26.264 What the fuck is that you prefer nothing over this? 00:41:26.628 --> 00:41:26.829 Right. 00:41:27.010 --> 00:41:28.235 That's something you don't need that.

00:41:28.235 --> 00:41:30.144 That's why you prefer that because you don't need it. 00:41:30.588 --> 00:41:31.990 Yeah, that's why I say they go hand in hand. 00:41:31.990 --> 00:41:37.117 But what I'm saying is people not clown me, but they used to be like oh nigga, you ain't got nothing. 00:41:37.217 --> 00:41:38.179 And then look at them now. 00:41:38.179 --> 00:41:43.005 Yeah, you're right, because they prefer to keep having situationships with these things. 00:41:43.005 --> 00:41:44.005 That was walking around. 00:41:46.943 --> 00:41:47.789 Because they think they need it. 00:41:47.789 --> 00:41:48.699 You know so, and your brother? 00:41:48.719 --> 00:41:51.056 No, they didn't think they needed it, they just preferred to have it. 00:41:51.056 --> 00:41:53.579 They didn't understand that those two things go hand in hand. 00:41:53.730 --> 00:41:55.713 So that's why I say your brother needs to have. 00:41:56.054 --> 00:42:08.797 I believe that he needs a relationship because I feel like I feel like he's very um, my brother is such a lover and I don't think that there's anything wrong with it. 00:42:08.797 --> 00:42:17.199 I think he is like a hopeless romantic, but I also think he's very what I also shut up. 00:42:17.199 --> 00:42:27.777 I also think he's very confused as to what that is like, what it truly is how do you say that? 00:42:27.777 --> 00:42:28.858 How do I say what? 00:42:28.998 --> 00:42:30.382 he's a hopeless romantic. 00:42:30.402 --> 00:42:41.266 He don't understand what it means because it's the way that he wants to love and how he speaks about it, but then the way he goes about it. 00:42:42.648 --> 00:42:46.376 It's very confusing well, maybe that's the way he wants to go about it. 00:42:46.376 --> 00:42:46.858 How is that? 00:42:46.898 --> 00:42:47.380 confusing. 00:42:47.380 --> 00:42:49.452 You're not listening to what I just said. 00:42:49.452 --> 00:42:52.657 I am listening to what you're saying. 00:42:52.697 --> 00:42:55.471 It's the dyslexia no, I'm listening to what you're saying. 00:42:55.471 --> 00:42:57.976 He goes about it the wrong way, but how you know that's not. 00:42:57.976 --> 00:43:02.016 That's not the white right way in his, his mind there's no such thing, what do? 00:43:02.016 --> 00:43:10.831 You mean, there's no such thing there's no such thing so there's a, there's always a 100, right way to always you tell me you don't want like to look up definitions. 00:43:11.753 --> 00:43:12.094 What do you? 00:43:12.135 --> 00:43:12.655 mean what do? 00:43:12.655 --> 00:43:16.003 You mean you just said, you just I know what I said? 00:43:16.023 --> 00:43:16.791 what did you say? 00:43:16.791 --> 00:43:19.559 That's an oxymoron I know what I said. 00:43:19.559 --> 00:43:20.601 What did you say? 00:43:22.056 --> 00:43:26.856 that there's not a right, there's you, just why you always look up definitions, because there's a definition. 00:43:26.876 --> 00:43:28.222 Why you always look up statistics? 00:43:28.905 -->

00:43:30.913 because there's a definition of statistics for it. 00:43:30.972 --> 00:43:35.646 But how do you just said there's always a hundred percent right and wrong. 00:43:35.646 --> 00:43:39.985 Right, that's what you just said, that's what you asked me when did I say that? 00:43:39.985 --> 00:43:44.556 That's funny as fuck. 00:43:45.197 --> 00:43:46.257 When did I say that? 00:43:46.257 --> 00:43:53.217 Well, I was asking you like how do you, how do you tell somebody that they're loving something wrong, or they're loving it? 00:43:53.217 --> 00:43:56.329 Say he loved anything wrong you said he's loving. 00:43:56.329 --> 00:43:58.355 I said it's very confusing. 00:43:58.534 --> 00:43:59.556 That's all I said. 00:43:59.556 --> 00:44:16.135 I said the way that he goes about it is very confusing, because how do you love somebody so deeply but you have a hard time saying ours, this is ours together, I prefer a relationship. 00:44:16.135 --> 00:44:19.621 But how do you say ours, I don't get that. 00:44:19.621 --> 00:44:25.010 Huh, that's the oxymoron, that's the confusion. 00:44:25.010 --> 00:44:30.989 You want to build a life with somebody, but you struggle saying this is ours together. 00:44:30.989 --> 00:44:36.335 Doesn't that sound confused? 00:44:36.655 --> 00:44:39.659 it does okay, but that's all I'm saying. 00:44:39.659 --> 00:44:54.134 He loves love right and I think there's some confusion behind it, that's all it might be, it might this, this, this day and age of kids might think of stingy love. 00:44:54.835 --> 00:44:58.170 You know they, I don't know what that means because I don't operate from that place. 00:44:58.170 --> 00:45:21.304 All I'm saying is it does sound a little confused and I think a lot of them are just lonely and don't know how to express being lonely and maybe just finding friendships, as opposed to being in a relationship where you're supposed to actually care for the other person that you're with Now, unless it's some toxic shit and you like this was just a fucking round, made a mistake, type shit. 00:45:21.623 --> 00:45:24.054 That's a whole nother other situation, no comment. 00:45:24.054 --> 00:45:37.800 When you decide I want to love this person and be with this person, but you struggle with the concept of what love is supposed to look like, and again, our loves could look very different. 00:45:37.800 --> 00:45:46.099 All I'm saying is when you say you want to build a life with somebody and then say but I don't get how you say ours or us or we. 00:45:46.099 --> 00:45:48.190 I'm confused. 00:45:48.530 --> 00:45:56.679 You don't think that their love language or just how they react to certain things is different than what we were brought up on. 00:45:56.679 --> 00:46:00.255 Hear me out. 00:46:00.255 --> 00:46:02.016 Right, we just looked. 00:46:02.016 --> 00:46:02.918 We just looked at a. 00:46:02.918 --> 00:46:21.440 We just looked up and saw a kid walk with um a sweatshirt, hoodie, whatever you want to call it jeans, and it's a thousand degrees outside, right, we don't know what these kids is going like. 00:46:21.440 --> 00:46:27.260 You said you looked up and you they they had like with it representative, or what's going on with these kids. 00:46:27.260 --> 00:46:28.954 That's been in the last 10 years. 00:46:28.954 --> 00:46:33.208 But us, looking on the outside in, we're just like it's hot. 00:46:33.228 --> 00:46:48.335 I don't care what you're going through, how you're doing I didn't say all that I never said no, I'm not saying you, I'm saying I'm, I'm gonna say me okay, and the other person that saw it too, like what the fuck like yeah, you question it like it's hot, like you're not hot, right? 00:46:48.335 --> 00:46:48.835 Right. 00:46:48.835 --> 00:46:58.103 So how do we know that, just even in every aspect of life, they're looking at things differently and experiencing things differently. 00:46:58.103 --> 00:47:00.972 That's totally different than how we nobody said they wasn't. 00:47:01.072 --> 00:47:01.652 They are. 00:47:01.652 --> 00:47:03.418 We know that for a fact. 00:47:03.418 --> 00:47:05.161 The fuck they are. 00:47:05.161 --> 00:47:08.693 Everything about life is completely different. 00:47:08.693 --> 00:47:12.369 They are definitely looking at shit different, like we just got through saying. 00:47:12.369 --> 00:47:20.740 These motherfuckers literally said out of their own mouth I don't want to work at mcdonald's because bitch what my friends gonna sayga you got a job. 00:47:20.740 --> 00:47:24.900 That motherfucker is broke as fuck. 00:47:24.900 --> 00:47:29.762 He can't even get a cheeseburger nigga, and you got the money to do more. 00:47:29.762 --> 00:47:31.958 What are we talking about right now? 00:47:31.958 --> 00:47:34.577 Like, what is the conversation? 00:47:34.577 --> 00:47:36.737 That's how these motherfuckers is out here looking at life. 00:47:36.737 --> 00:47:40.817 I don't want to work at fast food because I have an image to uphold. 00:47:40.817 --> 00:47:43.342 Motherfucker, if the image is broke, you're doing well. 00:47:43.342 --> 00:47:45.465 I'm confused. 00:47:46.467 --> 00:47:51.382 I'm confused I don't know who this woman is, because she turned into somebody else. 00:47:51.382 --> 00:47:52.925 Yes, they. 00:47:53.067 --> 00:47:57.277 They are definitely looking at life in a whole nother perspective. 00:47:57.297 --> 00:47:57.998 That's what I'm saying. 00:47:57.998 --> 00:48:00.262 Is it bad that they're looking at it like that? 00:48:00.811 --> 00:48:04.617 Shit if you out here broke as fuck and can't provide for yourself, you fucking right. 00:48:04.670 --> 00:48:09.501 So you saying I'm broke as fuck with a hoodie on and sweatpants on, I'm fucked up. 00:48:09.730 --> 00:48:13.976 No, all I'm saying is motherfucker, you could be anemic, so that ain't got shit to do with me. 00:48:14.150 --> 00:48:22.432 All I'm saying is you out here and you say shit like something we need to look up because we've been

bamboozled on what shit means. 00:48:22.432 --> 00:48:31.947 Just like dyslexia, we fuck around, look up anemic and that shit means something totally different well, no, I know for a fact that that, being anemic, you could be very cold. 00:48:32.568 --> 00:48:36.456 I know for a fact that that is a symptom of being anemic. 00:48:36.456 --> 00:48:56.550 All I'm saying is that a lot of the stuff that they do, clearly they look at very differently than we do, and it is very confusing, especially for us, because when we were coming up, things like having a job didn't matter what the fuck job it was like I got money in my pocket, I can go work. 00:48:56.550 --> 00:48:59.538 I sent a bun I'm, I'm out, I'm out here trying to get me a car. 00:48:59.617 --> 00:49:24.427 Okay, like it don't matter I'm making money, that's, that's even a thing now, because it's like people ain't going to buy toyota cor other people have been able to accomplish. 00:49:25.030 --> 00:49:29.001 They'd be more focused on the things that they want to accomplish. 00:49:29.001 --> 00:49:36.943 They're so busy looking at what the next person has and chasing that dream with that person. 00:49:36.943 --> 00:49:51.018 That dream with that person as opposed to okay, I would like to live in a six-bedroom home one day, whatever you know like, whatever that dream may look like. 00:49:51.018 --> 00:49:51.860 How do I start? 00:49:51.860 --> 00:49:56.452 What do I need to do as me? 00:49:56.452 --> 00:49:58.257 What fits me? 00:49:58.257 --> 00:50:01.103 What am I willing to sacrifice for me? 00:50:02.367 --> 00:50:14.597 How can I get myself together for me so that later on in life, I'm set so that when I meet the right person, or I meet somebody that I'm able to feel like I would love to spend life with you. 00:50:14.597 --> 00:50:18.693 I could do that, and I can do it in a way where it's not selfish. 00:50:18.693 --> 00:50:19.958 I can do it in a way where love is expressed properly. 00:50:19.958 --> 00:50:21.684 I could do that and I can do it in a way where it's not selfish. 00:50:21.684 --> 00:50:23.250 I can do it in a way where love is expressed properly. 00:50:23.250 --> 00:50:32.664 I could do it in a way where we both feel like we're growing and developing and evolving into more than what I expected. 00:50:32.664 --> 00:50:37.262 Instead, we out here looking at motherfuckers that they did that. 00:50:37.262 --> 00:50:40.277 You just don't see that. 00:50:40.277 --> 00:50:43.755 And because you don't see that, you think this should happen for them overnight. 00:50:43.936 --> 00:50:48.869 Right, I was going to say they don't believe in the overnights, they think that it's overnight success. 00:50:48.969 --> 00:50:58.222 Well, because the problem is again, this is what I say if social media was wiped out, shit would be different because they see a person goes viral overnight. 00:50:58.222 --> 00:51:05.996 Yeah, they went, went viral, but what you forgot to look at was their instagram page seven years they've been doing that for the last 10 years. 00:51:06.898 --> 00:51:08.581 They didn't go viral overnight. 00:51:08.581 --> 00:51:10.653 They've been doing this for 10 years. 00:51:10.653 --> 00:51:11.936 They've been putting in the work. 00:51:11.936 --> 00:51:17.014 They've done the having a job and doing this as a side hustle. 00:51:17.014 --> 00:51:18.317 They've been doing work. 00:51:18.317 --> 00:51:20.842 You haven't done any of the work. 00:51:20.842 --> 00:51:30.114 Why do you think you're supposed to be where they're at, or making that money, or driving that car, or having that woman, or having that man? 00:51:30.114 --> 00:51:34.916 Why do you think you're supposed to be there just because somebody else your age is there? 00:51:34.916 --> 00:51:35.940 That's weird. 00:51:35.940 --> 00:51:37.913 That's weird. 00:51:37.913 --> 00:51:42.581 Who put a time like how do you know they wasn't praying every night for this? 00:51:42.581 --> 00:51:47.719 How you know that they didn't sell their soul to get this? 00:51:47.719 --> 00:52:02.862 You don't, and you following instead of setting your own path, and I think that that's what a lot of the younger generation is facing, unfortunately. 00:52:03.184 --> 00:52:03.724 And lacking. 00:52:03.724 --> 00:52:06.498 They just want the end goal. 00:52:07.423 --> 00:52:09.969 Yeah, they don't want to put the work in, like I seen that video. 00:52:09.969 --> 00:52:30.701 I don't think I seen that when we was on here last, when a girl we was talking about it today with Nathan this girl, on her first day working for USPS quit, straight up, quit she said and and she, and it's crazy because she, she recorded herself like the shit was funny, like, and then put it on the internet. 00:52:31.503 --> 00:52:33.791 I quit because it was too much manual labor. 00:52:33.791 --> 00:52:37.777 The fuck did you think you what like I? 00:52:37.777 --> 00:52:41.405 Just I think about that almost every single day and it's weird because it's like why? 00:52:41.405 --> 00:52:48.764 But it's like there are people who would kill To be in your place. 00:52:48.949 --> 00:52:52.599 To be in your position, and I know that that's not necessarily fair. 00:52:52.599 --> 00:52:58.313 I don't like to put that type of stuff on people Because that's their path and this was my path. 00:52:58.313 --> 00:52:58.956 You know what I'm saying. 00:52:58.956 --> 00:53:03.284 Everybody's path is different and I don't like to put those type of things on people. 00:53:03.284 --> 00:53:13.409 But when you really think about it and you really put it into perspective, like damn, it's people out here that want this and I'm taking this shit for granted. 00:53:13.409 --> 00:53:19.083 I'd rather be broke than to use my hands. 00:53:19.083 --> 00:53:22.570 You should be glad you have hands to use. 00:53:22.690 --> 00:53:25.295 Because there's people that don't have hands and they wish they had hands. 00:53:25.476 --> 00:53:30.039

Right, or they had hands and no longer have those same hands to use. 00:53:30.039 --> 00:53:32.797 And you mad because you got to do manual labor. 00:53:34.773 --> 00:53:35.797 You get to get paid. 00:53:35.797 --> 00:53:46.585 I got to sit at home and collect disability because maybe there was an accident, maybe while on my other job I injured myself and I can no longer work physically by myself. 00:53:46.585 --> 00:53:48.313 That's weird. 00:53:48.313 --> 00:53:49.615 It's weird. 00:53:49.615 --> 00:53:50.858 It's weird as fuck. 00:53:50.858 --> 00:54:05.115 Like I can't fathom why you would choose to be lazy because Because to me that's lazy, that's not like a oh, I see what she's saying, I get it now. 00:54:05.115 --> 00:54:07.277 No, like you, you're lazy. 00:54:07.277 --> 00:54:09.737 Don't say it was too much manual labor. 00:54:09.737 --> 00:54:11.476 Say I was lazy as fuck. 00:54:11.797 --> 00:54:12.159 Right. 00:54:13.070 --> 00:54:17.161 I'm lazy as fuck, that's all. 00:54:17.161 --> 00:54:25.974 And then let me comment on this last part that the guy said in the video um, I know we went into something else, but I need the. 00:54:26.253 --> 00:54:30.041 He said the guy asked him what would you do? 00:54:30.041 --> 00:54:34.076 Or what, what, what would happen if you lose everything? 00:54:34.076 --> 00:54:37.163 Right, like if you lost everything and she doesn't work? 00:54:37.163 --> 00:54:41.592 And he, he made a very I think I've said this before also, I think. 00:54:41.592 --> 00:54:42.614 Well, I know for a fact. 00:54:42.695 --> 00:55:00.643 I said this to my brothers and nephews when we were having that conversation earlier in the year about if something happened to you while you were working and you can no longer work, there's a difference in having a woman that is capable and a woman that is incapable. 00:55:00.643 --> 00:55:13.275 I am not a sit on your ass, lazy, don't want to do whatever, whatever type of woman Like it, just that don't even work. 00:55:13.275 --> 00:55:52.251 And, like he said, you choose a woman that is capable because you know, if shit hit the fan, if shit, shit got real, both of y'all are there, both y'all in it, both of y'all gonna y'all y'all, both y'all with it like everything gonna be cool, because both of y'all are willing to do what's necessary to be done right and I think that that's very important to to the conversation, so people don't think like, oh okay, well, as that whole concept, oh, people that stay at home don't do anything. 00:55:52.311 --> 00:55:53.672 First of all, we all know that's not true. 00:55:54.094 --> 00:56:24.639 Secondly, they are the backup plan right, they're a backup quarterback, yeah they, they're, they are the backup plan, because having somebody that is capable also means that if it ever became a time where, okay, you maybe, you know, maybe it is time you go get a job, but I'm there, like I'm in there, like there's people that are like, oh my god, I'm not doing that, yeah there's, there's people that would be absolutely I gotta do. 00:56:24.639 --> 00:56:25.581 What right? 00:56:25.581 --> 00:56:30.416 No, I'm not gonna happen that is crazy, because and everybody suffers. 00:56:30.476 --> 00:56:40.242 At that point I I I never think about like if something was to happen to me is it's my kids taking care of me. 00:56:40.242 --> 00:56:43.096 I know that from a fact. 00:56:43.096 --> 00:57:08.320 If I lose an arm, lose a leg, whatever, and I can't do nothing, we still good, because I know who you are, I know what type of woman you are like, I know what type of woman you are and we it's not going to be like anything has changed. 00:57:08.320 --> 00:57:19.032 You know as far as how much money being brought in the house because you're a hustler and you're gonna make it work and you're gonna make sure that this house is still maintaining just call me little foot. 00:57:19.795 --> 00:57:24.045 This house is still maintaining Just call me Littlefoot, fucking. 00:57:24.085 --> 00:57:27.514 Littlefoot, just call me Littlefoot. 00:57:27.534 --> 00:57:28.014 What up big dog? 00:57:28.014 --> 00:57:31.943 What up Littlefoot Littlefoot? 00:57:31.963 --> 00:57:39.284 Really, I ain't say I wanted a Bentley, I'm just saying you would be a fucking silly ass stripper in a Bentley. 00:57:39.284 --> 00:57:50.538 I'm just saying Shoot, you would be a fucking silly ass stripper, you'd be, up there like this hey gotta hit that robot one time though. 00:57:52.931 --> 00:57:54.094 Running man on you bitches. 00:57:54.135 --> 00:58:00.661 No, they're gonna be like yo put her on Tuesday and Wednesdays. 00:58:03.050 --> 00:58:04.434 Hey, I bet y'all make the most money. 00:58:05.880 --> 00:58:14.903 She made her booty clap while laughing I'm fucking weak, oh my gosh. 00:58:14.903 --> 00:58:15.786 So yeah, I wanted to. 00:58:15.786 --> 00:58:16.748 That was like I said. 00:58:16.748 --> 00:58:21.882 I've had a couple and that was one of them, but I had the one that I wanted to talk to before. 00:58:21.882 --> 00:58:30.960 But, like I said, I think when I updated my phone and I was deleting all those pictures and stuff, I think I deleted that picture also because what an idiot. 00:58:30.960 --> 00:58:38.494 I think I did because it was right after my no, it was right after it was showing up on. 00:58:40.610 --> 00:58:42.175 Even more of a reason for you to keep it. 00:58:42.336 --> 00:58:43.099 On the screensaver. 00:58:43.670 --> 00:58:46.318 You know you have the most issues with your phone. 00:58:46.739 --> 00:58:47.121 What you mean. 00:58:47.550 --> 00:58:49.152 When my phone update, I don't have them. 00:58:49.152 --> 00:58:49.833 Type of issues. 00:58:49.914 --> 00:58:50.815 I don't think you're on beta. 00:58:51.436 --> 00:58:51.856 I am. 00:58:52.097 --> 00:58:52.538 You're on beta. 00:58:52.617 --> 00:58:52.898 Yes. 00:58:54.701 --> 00:58:55.762 We'll see this. 00:58:56.003 --> 00:58:56.443 I am. 00:58:56.724 --> 00:58:57.425 How

you know you're on beta. 00:58:57.570 --> 00:59:01.472 Because I put it on we'll see this. 00:59:01.472 --> 00:59:02.617 I am how you know you're on beta because I put it on. 00:59:02.617 --> 00:59:03.800 You put beta on, yes, okay, what is you talking about? 00:59:03.800 --> 00:59:05.507 Yeah, I know what I'm talking about, shoot what you want right now. 00:59:05.869 --> 00:59:08.119 I don't remember the last time I looked at it. 00:59:08.119 --> 00:59:08.942 Look working out your feet. 00:59:12.317 --> 00:59:16.311 You could be a foot model you be having the most issues with your I don't know what the fuck be going on. 00:59:16.311 --> 00:59:18.501 It's you it's not the phone, it's not the software it be going on. 00:59:18.501 --> 00:59:18.722 It's you. 00:59:18.722 --> 00:59:20.429 It's not the phone, it's not the software, it's not the updates, it's you. 00:59:20.789 --> 00:59:21.775 Let me see you do that. 00:59:21.775 --> 00:59:26.101 Let me see you make a new screensaver, send it to your phone and see if it happens to you? 00:59:26.170 --> 00:59:26.577 What do you mean? 00:59:26.577 --> 00:59:27.449 Send it to my phone? 00:59:27.510 --> 00:59:30.981 No, I mean like make a screensaver, because I added pictures to mine. 00:59:31.110 --> 00:59:32.114 I do all the time. 00:59:32.335 --> 00:59:32.896 When's the last time you? 00:59:32.896 --> 00:59:36.480 I feel like it's been a while. 00:59:36.679 --> 00:59:39.222 No, I actually just did it more recently. 00:59:40.364 --> 00:59:44.777 I want you to do that and then delete it and then see if it does it again. 00:59:44.838 --> 00:59:45.400 Delete what. 00:59:45.670 --> 00:59:51.038 Delete pictures off your thing, put pictures on and then take pictures off. 00:59:51.137 --> 00:59:52.001 See, here's the problem. 00:59:52.001 --> 00:59:55.498 I don't have shit in my phone that I can just delete. 00:59:56.380 --> 00:59:56.842 What do you mean? 00:59:56.842 --> 01:00:09.141 No, not delete the actual pictures from the phone, I mean take them out of that screensaver, because that was the only problem that I had is the fact that those pictures were staying in my screensaver when I took them out of my screen. 01:00:09.161 --> 01:00:09.764 Are they gone now? 01:00:10.467 --> 01:00:19.911 yeah, I deleted them off my phone, but anytime I took them out, like if I create a new one and didn't do it, it's gonna probably do the same thing. 01:00:19.911 --> 01:00:21.172 We're going to test that theory. 01:00:21.432 --> 01:00:24.175 You test that theory on your phone. 01:00:24.195 --> 01:00:26.117 Yeah, but you said, I always have. 01:00:26.278 --> 01:00:30.643 I don't have retarded shit in my phone to where I would be like, oh my God, how did this? 01:00:30.643 --> 01:00:34.992 And if it's a random picture, it's going to be oh okay, this is cute here. 01:00:35.012 --> 01:00:46.849 I don't random shit in my phone like how you do, like you have random shit, like you had you had pools, because I I don't have that type of shit in my phone, like when I screenshot something. 01:00:46.849 --> 01:00:52.952 Or it's like like I have things where I've screenshot, like restaurants, like oh, we should try here, I delete it. 01:00:52.952 --> 01:00:55.440 I don't save that shit in my phone after I send it to you. 01:00:55.440 --> 01:00:57.452 I don't, I don't keep it, I delete it. 01:00:57.452 --> 01:01:03.956 So if I put pictures on my phone and something random popped up, it's going to be a picture that I've kept. 01:01:03.956 --> 01:01:06.239 It'll be a picture of, like, my family or something. 01:01:06.239 --> 01:01:07.797 It's not going to be something stupid. 01:01:07.797 --> 01:01:11.338 So it wouldn't be any cause for me to like delete. 01:01:11.338 --> 01:01:12.762 You know what I mean. 01:01:12.762 --> 01:01:15.918 I wouldn't see it as like an issue as a screensaver. 01:01:16.179 --> 01:01:22.135 Okay, like you had had, like the guy in the trust, it was like weird, right. 01:01:22.135 --> 01:01:25.108 But when he was like, yeah, take a picture of me, please, let's talk to my kid, right, and so I had to save it. 01:01:25.108 --> 01:01:25.891 But that's what I'm saying. 01:01:25.952 --> 01:01:28.385 I wouldn't have anything like that in my phone for me to be like. 01:01:28.385 --> 01:01:34.561 Well, this looks weird as a screensaver, because I was like this is weird. 01:01:34.922 --> 01:01:38.353 But but when it popped at the first time I was like what the fuck? 01:01:38.353 --> 01:01:39.277 What the fuck is this? 01:01:39.757 --> 01:01:47.996 yeah, so for me it wouldn't be like oh, this is weird as a screensaver even if it was a food picture, I'd be like that shit was good keeping it. 01:01:48.639 --> 01:01:52.969 You know what I'm saying you should definitely figure that out. 01:01:52.969 --> 01:02:02.052 I'm gonna try it again tonight, but yeah, it's gonna be an interesting week of us talking are we doing another one right now? 01:02:02.353 --> 01:02:02.795 yeah, why not? 01:02:04.065 --> 01:02:04.429 yeah, let me. 01:02:04.429 --> 01:02:06.637 Might as well. 01:02:06.637 --> 01:02:09.697 Let's end this one and then start a new one. 01:02:09.697 --> 01:02:20.918 I want you nothing y'all just listen to talk that shit, we out this thing, peace out.