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Excited to visit with not one, but two amazing guests today,
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Matt and Dina. And we have a really cool marriage
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event coming up. I'm saying it all wrong. It's called
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Encourage Couple. Is that right, Dina?
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That's correct.
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And let's talk a little bit about the event. It's
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coming up on Friday the 13th, so it'll be here
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before you know it. Tell me a little bit about
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what is going to happen, then we'll talk about where
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and when and all of that. But what is the
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event all about next Friday?
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This is going to be a storytelling event where Dean
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and I will share what we have gone through, a
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little bit about our 35-year marriage, and mainly about what
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has happened since last year, our last speaking event, and
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where we... felt we were connected at that time. And
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the following year really emphatically showed us how much more
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growth that we had to get. And the main part
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of the story will be about how we acquired this
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authentic connection that we have now and to maybe inspire
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and give people some hope in their relationships or if
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they're single, what they will look for when they find
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a partner in life.
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I love that.
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And, you know, my wife and I have been married
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27 years and I'm sure you guys can probably relate
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to this too. There are days where I feel like
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everything clicks and everything's just perfect. And there's days where
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you're like, how are we even married? Like we don't
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agree on anything today. So I think most people can
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probably relate to that. You know, there's good days and
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there's bad days, but you know, if they come to
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this event next Friday, ideally what they'll do is they'll
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walk away understanding how to make more good days, right?
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Absolutely. And how to notice that the bad days, quote unquote,
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are maybe just opportunities for growth.
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Absolutely. And if people are interested in coming to this event,
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we're going to tell them how to do that here
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in a moment. But right now I'm on the Facebook
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page for Encourage Couple and it's I-N-C-O-U-R-A-G-E. So it sounds
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like encouraging somebody, but it's Encourage Couple on Facebook. And
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if you go on there, there's a lot of information.
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When did you start? Because I know we've spoken in
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the past about another event that was coming up in
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the past. But how long have the two of you
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been working on this project together?
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On this specific event? About two months. Very nice.
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But the overall project, because you've been working together on
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kind of helping couples. You've been doing that for a
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bit now.
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We have. We've been doing that for a few years now.
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I've had a personal coaching business. And last year when
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Matt and I kind of decided to either blow up
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our marriage or... actually blow up the marriage that we
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had and either choose to have a different one or
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not one at all. And when we did that, then
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we decided that we were going to start working together
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because we both figured out how to do it together.
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I love that.
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And mattanddina.com is the website you can go to with
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more information. And there's stories on there and there's information
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about coaching and speaking, but also some information about this event.
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And it says on here, I like this, the most
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love you'll ever be. The most in love you'll ever
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be is waiting on the other side of the hardest
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conversation you've been avoiding. And so many times, that's.
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What it is.
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Like you're afraid to talk about something because you're
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like, well,
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I don't know what the answer is going to be. Well,
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find out. That's the best way to get the answer
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is ask the question, right?
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And that's scary sometimes, really scary.
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We were married 35 years. Most of those years, we
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went through the marriage journey as either roommates or lawyers.
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And basically roommates, we just kind of avoided each other.
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But when something did come up, we each became a
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lawyer arguing our case. And we wanted a winner and
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a loser. And we both realized there are no winners
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when you do that. You're both kind of stuck in
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that place. And we've discovered an authentic connection between the
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two of us. And it's still a work in progress,
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but it is very free and liberating to feel that
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in a long-term marriage or long-term relationship.
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Absolutely. Well, I am excited for this event. The 13th
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of November, it's Friday the 13th. And we talked ahead
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of time. There's some people that are like superstitious. I'm
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not a superstitious guy, but my wife, her favorite, like
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her lucky number is the 13th. So I think that's
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kind of fun. And I just think it's funny that
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like most people unlucky 13, my wife, of course, would
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be her lucky. But for me, the thing that's nice,
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there are people who need some assistance with this. There's
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a lot of people who need assistance with this. So
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thank you for stepping up and saying, Hey, We might
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not have all the answers, but we have some answers,
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and we want to share those and help and do
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what we can to help others. So thank you both
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for doing that.
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Well, thanks for having us, Sean. Thanks for giving us
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the opportunity, and we look forward to seeing everybody there
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on Friday the 13th.
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And let's talk about how I sign up. If I
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would like to know more, do I go to the website?
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Do I call a phone number? Do I meet somebody
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in a dark alley and slip them $ 10? I'm sure
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that's probably not it, but what is the right way?
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to get my ticket to be a part of this
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on a Friday the 13th.
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Yeah. If you're on Facebook, go to the Facebook event
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or go to mattanddina.com backslash events and Authentic Connection will
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be there. It is at the History Club.
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It's $ 25.
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And that would be the best way to get your
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tickets is to go on to the website and get it.
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Very nice. And I will share a link to that
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on our Facebook page to make it easy. Matt, Dina,
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thank you so much for your time. Thank you for
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doing what you're doing to help others.
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Thank you. Thanks, Sean.
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Have a good day.
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Absolutely. Again, I've got a link to that to make
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it really easy to find at Facebook.com slash Sunny Radio
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and Facebook.com slash Sioux Falls News.