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Speaker 1: We were texting about the operation, the flowers, general stuff, and he said, let me see them. So I sent him a picture post-op of me in a bra. He meant the flowers.
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Speaker 2: My now husband and I hired my friend's husband to be our wedding photographer. We received our photos back and could not be more disappointed. There isn't even a handful of good ones in the bunch. It might be dramatic to say they are so bad we are getting makeup photos with a different photographer just to have something lovely to look back on.
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Speaker 1: Super annoying. This is why I honestly, biggest lesson in life slash business is don't hire your friends.
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Speaker 3: The Related Podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig, a.k.a.
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Speaker 1: Daddy Dingle.
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Speaker 3: And my partner in crime, Mr. Odie Clark, a.k.a. Mummy Marketplace.
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Speaker 1: And I'll tell you what, Jake, you know what I've been doing over here in my spare time?
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Speaker 3: What?
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Speaker 1: Still scrolling Marketplace while I'm in Bali.
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Speaker 3: Actually? Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I feel like.
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Speaker 2: It's a healthy habit. That can't... No, that's not a healthy habit. That's just like an addiction. It's like an addiction to shopping.
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Speaker 3: What are you talking about?
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Speaker 1: I'm not buying anything, though. I just like to look at the deals.
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Speaker 2: Uh.
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Speaker 1: Where are you looking? Uh, where I live, like around my surrounding suburbs. Yeah. But like, are you looking at stuff?
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Speaker 3: Not in Bali.
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Speaker 1: I mean like the central coast where I live. I'll occasionally put it on the Goldie cause it come to you a fair bit and I'll see what's going on around there. Cause there's a bigger population, better deals.
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Speaker 2: Actually, I have found there's so, the thing I don't like about marketplace on, on the central coast is you'll put in your radius to just fit the central coast. But, um, it'll always end up showing you stuff in Sydney because.
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Speaker 1: It's just not enough time. It picks up the northern beaches. That's always wigged me out. So it takes from the Central Coast like an hour and a half to get to the northern beaches, hour 45. But by water, it's 20 minutes. Oh, yeah.
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Speaker 2: Because it's hard to explain to our people that I guess haven't been there, but where the edge of the Central Coast is, I guess, and then also like the edge of the northern beaches. Yes. turns into like this big bay called like, is it that, is that the Hawkesbury river?
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is. Yeah. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: It's like this big Hawkesbury river. So it's like this huge, massive, multiple river mouths, I guess, kind of like running into, into the ocean. And so then you, but you, if you get there by boat, it's quick as, but if you go by car, you've got to drive all the way around to where it's like, they've built bridges to cross the river and shit.
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Speaker 3: And it was like a fucking full two hour drive nearly. Mate, the boat though, I always get seasick on that shit.
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Speaker 1: Do you really? I didn't know you got seasick. Yeah, I don't like boats. I will say, I reckon the older I'm getting, the worse I am. Isn't it a real thing? It was on Modern Family where like rides and like boats or any sort of travel, you start to kind of like, what's it called? Is it not inertia? Like you lose that dog in you that you used to have.
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Speaker 3: As a kid. Well, it's funny.
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Speaker 1: I used to be worse as a kid. Oh, so you're getting, I'm the opposite because I never had any issues anytime ever. Like I used to look at a roller coaster and be like, I'm going to fucking attack that thing. Now I look at it and I'm like, ooh, I don't want to do that.
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Speaker 2: No, when I was a kid, bro, I was fucking shit scared of roller coasters because I didn't want to vomit. I thought people always say I'm going to vomit on that. And then when I got older, I was like, oh, yeah, I'll go roller coaster now. And I look at them and think, yeah, that looks fun. Really?
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Speaker 1: You know that exact scene in Modern Family where Phil goes to, it's like Six Flags, what do they have in America? And he's like the expert in all of them with Luke, his son. And then he goes and he walks out and he goes to Claire and he's just like, He's like dizzy and shit. He's like, this is so much fun. That's me.
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Speaker 2: Bro, I went to a couple of years ago. It's like, oh, I don't even know how old I was, but it was quite a few years ago now. But me and my family, we were up in Queensland. We weren't living here at the time, but we came up for a holiday.
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Speaker 4: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: And we went to Movie World, right?
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Speaker 1: And Queensland is where- I've never been to Movie World, eh? Oh, really, bro?
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Only SeaWorld.
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Speaker 2: 30 minutes from me. We should go there when you come up here. It's actually acting.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, shit, hey. So I've only been to SeaWorld in Queensland, right?
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: Don't have any memories of it other than that's where I chipped my front tooth and half of my front tooth is fake. Oh, shit.
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Speaker 3: You got veneers, mate.
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Speaker 1: I guess it's the equivalent of a veneer, but it's because I chipped. So I've told the story in the pod before. I chipped it at SeaWorld and I got called Sharkboy for like two months before I got into the dentist to fix it because they had to make a mold and then get the mold in and then attach it and everything.
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Speaker 3: So Sharkboy, obviously from Sharkboy and Lava Girl.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: Made. Fucking compliment.
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Speaker 2: I used to love Sharkboy, bro. I used to
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fuck with that movie, bro.
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Speaker 1: I remember when we first watched that, Lava Girl, I don't know what age I was, maybe 12. I thought she was fit.
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Speaker 3: Love of my life.
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Speaker 1: She was my mate. If I was Faye, she was my mate, bro. She was honestly up there with one of the first loves of my life. Her and Hannah Montana. Who else was there? iCarly.
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Speaker 3: Genuinely, the first love of my life was... One of the characters.
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Speaker 2: From high five, when I was a kid, apparently I'd run around the house, just like bouncing off the walls.
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Speaker 5: Right.
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Speaker 3: Little ADHD mess. My mom reckons.
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Speaker 2: And, um, she said that the only time I'd sit still was when this one particular, um, cause like, you know, how high five, it would just go cut to different scenes of the different, you know, the group of them had their own little room or whatever.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Apparently this one, this one woman had come on and I'd sit the fuck down and just crane my neck, looking up at the TV. And I'd get as close as I possibly can because I had the biggest crush on her. And then when she was off, I'd be back just running around doing shit.
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Speaker 1: It's funny because we've talked on the pod before about how animals have natural instincts to walk and look for food. And we don't really have any of that. And we've got to get nurtured. We have some kind of natural instinct to be attracted, like some people do, to the opposite gender. And you get all excited as a young kid. And you have no idea what's going on.
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Speaker 3: Like you were six or whatever.
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Speaker 2: Dude, I would have been so young. It's just like a natural... It's a natural thing to just be.
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Speaker 3: Attracted, I guess.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's probably the best way to put it.
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Speaker 3: Like attraction.
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Speaker 2: We just have like a natural thing to attraction, which is so... Because like you ever just... Even if I think about when... So the way I met Beth was she followed me on Instagram, right? And we, at the time, the podcast had started to like get a bit of traction. So our personal Instagrams were getting some followers as well. And that's when I figured out. So up until that point, obviously like didn't do anything on social media and didn't have any followers so i figured out that instagram will will if someone follows you that has like over 10 000 followers it'll say like a featured follower or something like that yeah they like reward the other person yeah like they reward the other person for having followers by saying like this person followed you like because they have a lot of followers do you want to follow them back which is like crazy but beth followed me and she had i think she had like 10k followers and it showed me And if Instagram didn't do that, I probably never would have known that Beth had followed me because if you had under a certain amount, it doesn't tell you. And we just were getting so many at a time, which sounds so vain, but it is what it is. But I just remember looking at Beth's profile and like instantly, like you get attracted to people, but I was like, there's something different.
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Speaker 3: There was like this attraction.
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Speaker 1: That's so interesting because like you could look at it too as in like, you owe instagram your whole relationship.
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Speaker 3: Now yeah fucking oath i do um and.
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Speaker 1: I remember beth telling us too she got really lucky in like covid or something and she posts like a random dump yeah and it got like hundreds of thousands of people for um seeing it and then followers from it imagine if that never happened you would have never seen her because anyone who's blown up on instagram you don't see the people once you have a couple thousand hundred thousand people following you interesting.
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Speaker 2: We like to talk shit about social media but i'll tell you what.
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Speaker 1: And Me and my girlfriend, we met online. We knew each other prior, but also like we reconnected through, I reckon it's like 80 to 90% of people meet online now. Not through like the dating apps necessarily, but online. It has to be, dude, it has to be.
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Speaker 2: No one, everyone talks about wanting to meet in person, going out and meeting in person, which I think would be fantastic. A great way to meet someone, but people get embarrassed about someone saying how did you and your boyfriend meet or how did you and your girlfriend meet and they're embarrassed to be like oh we met on a dating app or we met online or message me on instagram i'm just out here like yeah nah beth followed me i saw it and i just messaged her on instagram i just saw she posted a story i took my chance and was like fuck it let's go.
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Speaker 6: Oh yeah and it's kind of like normalize it like oh normal 100 i agree with that because it's normal it's it's also there's some type of like the way humanity is going to where like you're getting the front cover of a book rather than just going into a bookshop and blindly picking one. And you like the look of the front cover. So you're already like, your intentions are already like, this is going to be a good book. But if you meet someone in person, you don't really have any idea what they like.
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
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Speaker 3: Wait, that's actually a good point.
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Speaker 2: Especially if you see someone's Instagram who posts like just very raw content and it's just themselves. A lot of people are just very unapologetically themselves on Instagram or TikTok or whatever. And so if you were to, come across someone like that and you start messaging them and hit it up hit it off you know you kind of know what you're going.
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Speaker 1: To get oh 100% 100% you do and then you also have this like it's
good and bad because sometimes you build up this false pretense of what a person is but then most of the time it's like you can tell he's a bit like alternative and he's got good morals hopefully from my social media and he's hot as fuck like hopefully I feel like as a.
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Speaker 2: Guy you just have to have like a shirtless pic somewhere down in the feed so they know what you look like with your shirt on Oh, true.
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Girls probably don't even care anymore anyway. No, bro.
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Speaker 2: I saw you and Cassie did the trend where, and I actually, I think it's cool.
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Speaker 1: I want to do that.
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Speaker 2: Trend with beth one day but our days are so similar like we wake up at the same time and stuff but um you and cassie did the trend where it was like your day through each other's eyes yeah and you know cassie wakes up earlier you wake up later blah blah i saw when you woke up mate you went into the bathroom and I reckon you had a little scruff of the old cock down there to get it chubbed up with those boxes on you, cheeky devil.
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Speaker 1: I did not. I swear on my life.
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Speaker 2: You didn't have to have the full body in there.
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Speaker 1: You knew where everyone's eyes were going to go. Funnily enough, so I took more than one photo for like 18 in the morning. Oh, here we go. He takes a couple of photos and chooses the best one too. No, no, no, no, no. To the contrary, actually, to the contrary. What I did was when I woke up in bed, just my head, I took a photo and then I took one in the mirror and I sent both to Cassie and I said, pick whichever one you want.
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Speaker 5: So this is Cassie's doing.
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Speaker 1: She's probably gone. She's showing off the goods. I want everyone to know that I always pack in.
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Speaker 3: Fuck, that is so funny, bro.
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Speaker 1: Any guy knows there's a bit of blood flow in the morning anyway. If you're a healthy man, the morning.
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Speaker 2: If you're a healthy man, you would have just taken your piss and turned around and gone, mate, this is great timing.
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Speaker 1: Click.
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Speaker 3: Oh, yeah.
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Speaker 1: That's probably what I... It's probably had a wank or something on me. All righty, up next, I have a thread sent in by one of the baddies. I really need to start saving their names. I feel bad for not. Yeah, wait, send us like these threads, guys, and we'll shout you out. Yeah, we will, starting after this one.
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Speaker 3: Do our work for us.
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Speaker 1: So this one said, there'll be a pop-up if you're on YouTube or Patreon, plug $ 8. 99 a month because there's visuals as well, not just audio. Yeah. One time, I was secretly creeping on the Facebook page of a guy I really liked, watching all of his videos. And you know what I did? I reposted a video of his parents' dinner party. I only found out about two months later. I still think about it in a cold
sweat. Calm me down. Tell me the worst stories that ever happened to you.
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Speaker 2: Fuck, bro.
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Speaker 1: So, these are good, eh? Fuck. I had a breast reduction like 10 years ago. My boss at the time did a collection and got a big chunk of flowers sent to me at home while I recovered. We were texting about the operation, the flowers, general stuff, and he said, let me see them. So I sent him a picture post-op of me in a bra. He meant the flowers.
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Speaker 3: That's on him. In my opinion, that's on him. Next one.
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Speaker 1: As a full-grown woman, I was at a park with my dog with a nice lady shouted, does anyone want some ice cream? I walked over and she gave me a weird look and handed me one. As I walked away, I realized she was hosting a birthday party for her child. So, she was offering all the children at the party, not for the random strangers in the dog park. No, bro.
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Speaker 2: If that was me, I would have just walked, handed my dog to some random stranger and been like, treat him nicely and then walked in front of a car.
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Speaker 3: I would have been.
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Speaker 1: Done, bro. Do you ever have like when you're about to fall asleep or something, all the questionable things you did throughout the day? Like, did someone get my joke? Or like, I can't believe I said you too to the cashier instead of thank you. Like all that shit happened when you're about to fall asleep? Oh, yeah.
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Speaker 2: That's the worst time for it to start happening. It always happens to me if I wake up in the middle of the night and for some reason can't fall back asleep, I start to rethink my whole life.
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Speaker 1: It always happens. Why does it happen then? I don't know why.
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Speaker 2: I'm pretty good at just falling asleep at the start, but then like I'll.
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Speaker 3: Wake up for a piss and for some reason can't fall back asleep.
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Speaker 2: And that's when I just start rethinking every single like social transaction I've ever had.
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Speaker 1: It always happens to me. I wake up in the middle of the night sometimes, like 80% of the time I'm exhausted and I fall back to sleep. And then 20% of the time I wake up as soon as my eyes open. It's like I've been awake for 12 hours.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know it. You just know it.
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Speaker 1: Crazy.
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Speaker 3: All right.
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Speaker 1: So, I meant to comment adorable under my friend's beautiful children and autocorrect made it adoption. I didn't realize until later.
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Speaker 5: That's actually so funny.
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Speaker 2: As in like these babies are so ugly, they need to go for adoption.
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Speaker 1: Imagine that, seeing your friend. That's actually so funny. I think that's- To one of our friends.
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Speaker 3: I don't know why.
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Speaker 2: I think that's so fucking funny. That's such a good insult to say if someone has an ugly baby.
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Speaker 1: Bro, that
is a good insult. I get done by autocorrect all the time, mate. I just don't have the energy to read through everything I text.
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Speaker 2: No, no, no. Sometimes my fingers are just moving and I click send without even checking it.
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Speaker 3: And then it happened to me the other day. We've been doing the Baddies Bootcamp in Patreon, right?
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Speaker 1: We do our daily check-ins.
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Speaker 2: And because Odi and I post from the same account, at the bottom, I'll just enter and write Jake so they know it's me. And then Odi will do the same. I wrote it and it corrected to Jane. Or maybe I just clicked the N instead of the K.
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Speaker 1: I don't know.
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Speaker 2: And then everyone's just been calling me Jane now. I'll do one where I didn't fuck it up. Someone goes yesterday or the day before I did one. I didn't even have to fucking... sign it off they just said hey nice work jane nice work today jane.
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Speaker 4: I was like you feel like you're in a flow state and then you go back there's like 12 spelling mistakes and all the different auto corrects as well so annoying.
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Speaker 1: Also guess the only person that i've ever met to do the thing where you.
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Speaker 2: Know how you can type by dragging on the keyboard yeah no one does that surely beth does it bro okay i was like i don't even know how to do that i was like that's such an ick stop doing that.
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Speaker 1: Like your pointer finger i was like you.
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Speaker 2: May as well get an android while you're at it because that's just such an android thing to.
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Speaker 1: Do you might as well get her one of those like iphone pens they have for ipads literally so she can use that this one my hometown has an annual pie eating contest I participated in since I was a child. A few years ago, they were asking for judges who were veterans. I thought they meant people who had been in the contest many times. We did the whole thing, judged the contest, and at the end, they lined us all up and the other judges and started naming their infantry where they served or for how long, etc. Of course, I was the last. My face is red and sweaty and I say, um, a veteran of this competition. People booed. My heart flutters even thinking about it. Bro, that's crazy. That is fucking insane.
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Speaker 2: As soon as you said veteran, I was like, I know exactly where this is going.
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Speaker 1: I'm running off the stage as soon as I find out that these people actually served and I'm a fucking veteran of the pie eating contest.
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Speaker 3: No, legit, bro. Like, why did you stay there?
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Speaker 1: Why did you stay out there and you went last? Why did you stay there?
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Speaker 2: You went fucking last. And what'd you try to make a joke? Like, I'm a veteran of this contest. I've been doing it since I was a kid.
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Speaker 1: And everyone's like, boo, stolen valor up here.
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Speaker 2: Jesus fucking Christ. Boo, I'd be booing you as well. You should have just been like, oh, I need to take a shit. Too many bombs over in Iran or some shit and go on to fucking take a shit. Like just go on with the lie and keep stealing the valor.
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Speaker 1: For fuck's sakes, bro. She had guts. I'll give her that.
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Speaker 3: Clearly, bro.
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Speaker 1: She does a pie eating contest every year. I love how she hears the word veteran about the pie eating contest and she thinks, yeah, I'm a fucking veteran of this game.
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Speaker 3: I can't believe they didn't even invite me personally.
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Speaker 1: They all know me by first name around here.
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Speaker 3: Oh, okay.
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Speaker 1: I went to a movie theater on a really bright sunny day and when I walked in, it was so dark in the theater I couldn't see a thing. My eyes hadn't adjusted so I walked down about five or six rows and from the front and said excuse me to the guy sitting there. And he had to pick up his popcorn and his large soda and take his feet off the seat in front of him. Stand up and let me through. I moved over and left one seat from in between us. After my eyes had adjusted and I was comfortably sitting there, he kept kind of giving me the side eye. I couldn't figure out what his problem was until I looked around behind me and the rest of the theater, it was completely empty. I had made my way to the only person in there, asked him to move all of his stuff so that I could sit next to him. I couldn't even imagine what was going through his head. I am blushing and laughing hysterically as I tell you this story. Bro, if I was that guy, I would have fucking moved.
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Speaker 3: As if he didn't move.
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Speaker 1: I would be so off that, eh? I'm like, look at this movie here to make.
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Speaker 2: Bro, also like, I don't know.
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Speaker 1: People can't. I assume she just copped it and sat there the whole movie. Yeah, she had to have. People just, when you do something like the piety contest, they just, this is my life now. This is what I've done. Okay, I got two more. The last one's fucking funny. All right. In high school, the 90s, everyone had a major crush on the captain of the hockey team. We were all too nervous to talk to him, but went to all of his games. Once we were all talking about all the things we would do to him, in brackets, which was hilarious because we were all virgins at the time. After about half an hour of this, the woman in front of us turned around and said, do you mind stopping? That's my son you're talking about. Oh, fuck. Shut up. She let it go for 30 minutes? She was probably gassed at the start. She was probably gassed up at the start being like, yeah, my son gets fucking girls.
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Speaker 2: She's kind of like proud of him or something like that because they're all giggling about mentioning his name and stuff. And then slowly they start to get more derogatory and she's thinking like, okay,
okay.
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Speaker 1: Do I say something? And it probably went too late. Then she was like, fuck, I really have to say something.
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Speaker 2: One of them's like, I'd fucking tie him up and put a leash on him and make him bark like a dog for me.
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Speaker 1: And then she goes, well, okay, let's chill out here, ladies.
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Speaker 3: Let's fucking chill out.
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Speaker 1: That's my son. That is my son.
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Speaker 2: How far did it have to go for her to actually turn around? Because like maybe a woman goes, oh, I just love to sleep with him, right?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 2: And you're not going to turn around and be like, oh, that's my son you're talking about, by the way.
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Speaker 1: You know, it's like, this is what people do.
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Speaker 3: They make love.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 2: And then someone comes in and they go, yeah, I'd fucking put handcuffs on him and put him in the back of my trunk and then fucking crash the car and then go back and sit on his face.
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Speaker 1: Like, bro, I'd be like, well, let's settle down here. Let's settle down. that's so funny okay last one i wrote an email to my two bosses copying many people that reported to me so like heaps of people in the thread and finished it with retards instead of regards shut up.
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Speaker 5: No that's quit your job worthy that's fully quit your job worthy because you're also about to get fired bro that's crazy.
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Speaker 1: Calling everyone at your workplace retards that one actually affected the trajectory of her life like that's insane yeah that's.
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Speaker 3: To leave after that well well well well.
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Speaker 1: Up next guys we wanted to jump into dilemmas if you want to get a dilemma submitted uh the link will be in the description it is completely anonymous because we made the form how this form's got to be three and a half years old hasn't it yes very old we made it so you can't put your name in it so it's anonymous no matter what jake or do you have any dilemmas first we haven't asked that in a while in your life nah.
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Speaker 3: I've gone what i'd have to create one kind of out of thin.
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Speaker 1: Air oh well that's good then um do you want to go first yeah sure actually I got a pretty good one.
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Speaker 3: It's hard, actually. I got a really fucking hard one on it.
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Speaker 1: This is so difficult.
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Speaker 2: My now husband and I hired my friend's husband to be our wedding photographer. Prior to hiring, we reviewed his work as he is a professional and had conversations and shared inspo with him on what we wanted. Our wedding was destination and had multiple events that were to be captured. We paid him his professional fee. airfare, and four nights at the resort slash venue. We received our photos back and could not be more disappointed. There isn't even a handful of good ones in the bunch.
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Speaker 3: It might be.
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Speaker 2: Dramatic to say they are so bad we are getting makeup photos with a different photographer just to have something lovely to look back on. Close friends have said we need to say something to my friend or her husband about being disappointed, but we have no clue how to go about it. Do we approach the husband to keep it professional or do I approach my friend and ask what happened?
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Speaker 1: That is tough. How hard is that? Funnily enough too, weddings way worse than what we experienced. We experienced something similar with our friend. I know. We have experienced something like that. We can touch on our situation after, but a wedding.
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Speaker 3: Is way worse.
00:23:39
Speaker 2: Our situation is easy because it's like we basically just– We didn't lose $ 600, but we kind of wasted $ 600. Like we got something usable out of it, but it like wasn't worth how much it cost, right?
00:23:58
Speaker 1: Barely usable, but yeah.
00:23:59
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's actually funny.
00:24:03
Speaker 2: We have our new friend, Sam, who's in this call, just like taking notes and it's not him, by the way. Just wanted to let Sam know that because actually, because it's not Sam. I was thinking, actually, the bill we got from Sam a lot longer was pretty much that much he might be thinking I'm talking about.
00:24:24
Speaker 3: But no, no, no.
00:24:25
Speaker 2: So Sam's a weapon, as you guys probably know from the most recent vlog we've got. But yeah, so ours was $ 600, but I dare say this person's lost.
00:24:34
Speaker 3: Thousands of dollars.
00:24:37
Speaker 1: So to break it down, prior to hiring your friend's hubby, Did you look at his work? She said that. He's a professional. He's a professional.
00:24:46
Speaker 2: She said that they full looked at his work. They had meetings with him about inspo. Yeah, they looked at it all and liked it.
00:24:52
Speaker 1: The videography world is a funny one too because it's so subjective.
00:24:59
Speaker 3: That's a good point.
00:25:00
Speaker 2: You could argue parts of it are subjective because they could go to him.
00:25:04
Speaker 1: Well, there's the creative element in it.
00:25:07
Speaker 3: Okay. Here's what I think.
00:25:10
Speaker 2: You need to compare your wedding photos to previous work he's done. And if compared to the previous work, it is so obviously worse, then you have to go to him. But if compared to his previous work, it honestly looks about the same, then unfortunately, that's your loss.
00:25:27
Speaker 1: Good point.
00:25:28
Speaker 3: Yeah.
00:25:28
Speaker 1: Do that first. And then also, if it was my wedding, mine and Cassie's wedding, I'd be standing on business A. I would be like, mate, this is not on. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity. We hired you, we paid you fucking $ 20, 000 or something bullshit like that.
00:25:42
Speaker 3: Yeah.
00:25:43
Speaker 1: Look at this mate. I'm fucking
blurry. You can't even see me face. Like what, what's going on here? I don't care if you're my, my friend's husband. You know what?
00:25:51
Speaker 3: That's also fucking so valid.
00:25:53
Speaker 1: I think the best thing you can do is just say something to the husband and keep it in a professional manner. Cause worst case, you just get your money back and like take your loss, but also you don't care because it's a wedding. It's a one, once in a lifetime opportunity. Super annoying though. Also super annoying. This is why I honestly biggest lesson in life slash business is don't hire your friends. Yeah.
00:26:18
Speaker 2: That's, I was literally about to say before when I, when I interrupted you, but then I stopped to let you finish.
00:26:22
Speaker 3: I was going to say, don't hire friends. No. Bad idea.
00:26:27
Speaker 2: Because like, it's so awkward to, to just be like, Oh, I hate what you've done.
00:26:33
Speaker 1: If you hire someone that's not your friend, you can be like... Because you're managing a friendship, but then you're also managing... Because if this was just purely a business, you would go to him and be like, this is fucking terrible. But you feel like you have to be nice because it's your friend's husband. Like it's so... That line is so blurred. It's so icky. I guess with our friend too, we decided not to say anything to him. But it wasn't a big occasion like a wedding. And we just took an L of $ 600 and then wasted a day with him. Um, but compared to like what you're wasting in quotes is so much worse. Yeah. Look, I think like, I don't know. Don't you have a, don't you have a B cam at a wedding? But I always thought you, so you have the main photographer and then they have a B cam. Are they both just shit?
00:27:18
Speaker 3: Yeah.
00:27:19
Speaker 2: I almost want to do the thing where at my wedding, you'd do that thing where people, um, can scan a, like a QR code that takes them to kind of a photo app.
00:27:28
Speaker 1: I want to do something similar.
00:27:30
Speaker 2: Yeah ever and then just say to everyone take as many photos as you can please just take photos all night and they all get uploaded to like a drive from that qr code or whatever so you can go look through them all and i'd also have a professional but like just think it's like you just want backups on backups because let's just like we're not just going to have another wedding to get more photos yeah.
00:27:49
Speaker 1: With some people also though like so my brother he did only professional and no phones at is it called the.
00:27:57
Speaker 3: Altar just the wedding i guess the altar.
00:27:59
Speaker 1: Yeah so no phones or the ceremony do you mean the ceremony maybe the ceremony at all because then people were like in the moment with him i guess and everyone's just there being present which i kind of i saw that too i think that's also so such a good idea but if you're gonna i think that's a good idea but then at the party everyone can have their yeah yeah yeah even i would like buy 100 disposable cameras but hindsight's a bitch too because i'd say to this lady too like as if you didn't have like a b cam with someone else doing more shots or a friend who's got some type of videography or camera background.
00:28:31
Speaker 3: I'll tell you what mate she doesn't need to hear that because she found out the hard way.
00:28:34
Speaker 1: I know i know i know but the thing i i feel for this baddie too because in the content world as well sometimes you do something not comparing it to weddings at all there's like chalk and cheese or whatever yeah but like you do something you put so much effort into it and then like the camera's fucking blurry or you do something you record a brand deal and you're just like the camera's not on the audio is not there and you're like fuck my and there's nothing you can do about it could.
00:28:58
Speaker 2: You imagine i feel like i've had my heart sink or my stomach sink whatever the right saying is multiple times with that type of thing right or like maybe losing the audio from an episode just being like fuck or getting to hit record on one camera who knows that if i go to my wedding and and all the photos are really shit i wouldn't take it as bad as beth because like i'm used to this feeling maybe.
00:29:21
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah no we are You just got to get yourself used to the feeling. Videographers who are doing weddings should have like a not satisfied, get all your money back type shit for an event like that.
00:29:34
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it.
00:29:36
Speaker 1: People would just scam it though.
00:29:37
Speaker 3: Yeah, I reckon.
00:29:38
Speaker 1: What do you okay what do you reckon i reckon.
00:29:41
Speaker 2: You got to go look back at his work and if and if the work from your wedding looks very similar then that's just how that's his style and unfortunately you looked at his work and and you're gonna have to take the loss but if you go back you got to do what oddy says if it doesn't look as good as the other shit he's done you got to go back and stand on business hard.
00:29:58
Speaker 1: Hundred percent hey but it's But also, it's the same as us, though, because, like, in the end, the result is you can't go back to the moment and reshoot it, really.
00:30:08
Speaker 3: Nah, you can't reshoot something like that.
00:30:11
Speaker 1: Like, what's she winning here?
00:30:12
Speaker 3: Is it just financial?
00:30:13
Speaker 1: Because, like, you and I would both be like, oh, we're just going to take a loss. Let's just go get dressed up again and do another shoot like they did. Also, like, there's not even a handful of good ones.
00:30:21
Speaker 3: Like, are they that bad? I know.
00:30:25
Speaker 5: Anyway.
00:30:26
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there's some good stuff in there of what you can do.
00:30:29
Speaker 2: Yeah.
00:30:31
Speaker 1: Okay my dilemma title is should i sell my house at 31 to travel the world or am i risking my future
this one's quite a different dilemma but i feel like it's such a relatable feeling.
00:30:44
Speaker 3: You're 31 you're already in your future oh.
00:30:48
Speaker 1: Shit there might be your you're a dog i'm joking i'm joking i'm nearly there couple yeah you you you are you always we had dinner with one of cassie's friends the other day and i'd never met him and i asked how old they were and he said 25 and i said me too and i was like wait a minute no i'm.
00:31:06
Speaker 4: 26 nah meeting someone younger than you that sucks were they nice yeah heaps nice but he had a massive beard so he looked about 32 so maybe that's how.
00:31:16
Speaker 2: I felt about the fuck me me hairdresser my barber yeah i had like a beard Been surfing his whole life, a bit weathered from the sun. I was thinking, mate, he said 26 and I was like, you look good, but fuck, he could have been 40.
00:31:26
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I couldn't make the joke with him because I'd only just met him. I didn't know if he'd take offense to me calling him 35. All right, here we go. I'm a 31-year-old woman from the UK and I'm questioning whether the life I've worked so hard to build is actually the life I want. I've worked since I was 15. I'm a nurse and I bought my own house at 26. I've built a stable life with a career, savings and a home all on my own, which I'm incredibly proud of. But recently, I went on my first big solo adventure to Peru, trekking through the Andes and spending six days in the Amazon rainforest. I absolutely fell in love with traveling, meeting new people, experiencing different cultures and just enjoying life without worrying about work, bills or responsibilities. Since coming home, I've felt really flat. It's made me question whether I'm actually happy with my life or just comfortable with it. Now, I'm considering selling my house when my mortgage deal ends next year. Moving back in with my parents and spending four to five months traveling around South America. Financially, it's a huge decision. I've worked so hard to get where I am. and selling my house could set me back years when it comes to buying another property. I wouldn't spend all the money, I'd keep a substantial amount saved, but I'd still be giving up the security I've built. I'm also single and really want to find a partner, someone to build a future with and share adventures with. Part of me wonders whether I should focus on settling down, but another part thinks I shouldn't put my dreams on hold for a relationship that doesn't even exist yet. And while I love nursing, I work long shifts and I don't want to spend my entire life working just to pay off a house and save money. But I'm also scared I'm romanticizing traveling. Eventually, I'll have to come home, get back to work and face reality, potentially with less money and no house. So Jake and Oddie, what would you do? Do I sell my house and take the opportunity to travel while I'm young and have the freedom? Or do I protect everything I've worked so hard for and focus on my financial future? Am I going to regret losing years of financial progress or regret spending my younger years prioritizing money over actually living my life?
00:33:42
Speaker 3: Yeah, go travel one, eh?
00:33:44
Speaker 2: Fuck it.
00:33:45
Speaker 1: Simple as that, you reckon? Yeah, it just sounds like you really want to do it. You just really want to do it.
00:33:53
Speaker 2: The thing that you're questioning the most is like, you just would, yeah, I don't even just, I think go.
00:33:58
Speaker 3: Go one.
00:34:00
Speaker 1: If there's an itch that you want to scratch and like, I guess it's so relatable, the mental debate that she's actually having right now with.
00:34:08
Speaker 3: Like, do I save? Do I travel?
00:34:10
Speaker 1: Do I look for a relationship and get security in that? Your mind's never like happy and it's always looking for what's on the other side of the hill. I think you experienced like a little mound almost of the travel hill and now you want to go all the way up. And I say, listen to your heart, hey. Have a fucking dig, have a fucking crack. Who knows, you might come back and be like, yo, I don't want to do nursing.
00:34:34
Speaker 2: Yeah and that's fine i think like uh i don't know if there's a way to keep your house and rent it out turn it into investment property then like if that's possible do that but if that's not possible then sell that shit and go traveling and then also if you go traveling and you fucking hate.
00:34:52
Speaker 1: It just come home yeah like actually you just come.
00:34:56
Speaker 2: Home you know just own what you did and If you're like, you know what?
00:35:01
Speaker 1: I actually love nursing. Go back to nursing.
00:35:03
Speaker 3: Buy another house.
00:35:04
Speaker 2: Like you said, it may set you back a couple of years, but at least you tried something.
00:35:07
Speaker 1: What people do is they build those mental barriers though. So we've said it with like people moving states to go to university or for a job or for this example, going overseas, traveling for five months. And they get there and then they fucking hate it. And then they're miserable for the whole fucking time they're there. But rather than going back and just owning that I tried it, They'll stay there and be miserable, which to us doesn't make any sort of sense. But what you should do is go traveling. Option one, which is the best option ever, you fall in love with it and find yourself. Option two is you fucking hate it and you go back and be like, hey, I actually didn't like it. I love nursing in my old job. I want to go back and do this. And you just had a little hiatus.
00:35:46
Speaker 2: Like there's nothing more attractive than just fucking being who you are and owning the decisions you make, I guess. Because if you get home from going away and your trip was cut short because you hated it, And someone goes, oh, yeah, I knew that would happen.
00:35:59
Speaker 3: You fucking
flake or whatever.
00:36:01
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, that person just literally is reflecting.
00:36:05
Speaker 3: Is the right word reflecting?
00:36:06
Speaker 2: They're just like reflecting their own major insecurities onto you. Like, at least you had the balls to go try something. And actually, wait, people always say, like, you've got the balls to go try something. Kind of want to start switching it up. At least you've got the vagina to go try something.
00:36:18
Speaker 3: I like that.
00:36:21
Speaker 1: I feel like balls are so delicate.
00:36:23
Speaker 2: Why are we saying, oh yeah, you've got balls, you're tough.
00:36:28
Speaker 3: Balls are that, they're very delicate. I feel like we should be saying something different.
00:36:32
Speaker 1: You've got the vagina to go traveling, you do. You've got that big fat puss to go traveling.
00:36:35
Speaker 3: Good on you.
00:36:42
Speaker 1: You and your fucking fat vagina let's go I immediately because a lot of women don't like the word pussy like I immediately went to I was going to make a joke about yeah you got that pussy to go travel but for some reason girls don't like.
00:36:53
Speaker 2: It oh you never know this baddie might and if she does yeah true rock on you got the pussy to go fucking travel and do that shit also something to keep in mind if you're I assume you've spoken to your parents about this right.
00:37:04
Speaker 1: And moving back in. But hold your thought. Imagine your parents like, oh, I don't know if this is a good move. And you go, well, I've got the pussy to go travel.
00:37:12
Speaker 2: Well, me and my big fat pussy are going to go do this anyway. I assume you've said to your parents, like, this is an idea you've got. And they're like, yeah, you can move back in with us, right?
00:37:25
Speaker 3: And because you.
00:37:26
Speaker 1: Said that's an option.
00:37:27
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
00:37:28
Speaker 2: A lot of people have that option, right? So it's like something to take advantage of, like, Um, a lot of people wouldn't have that option.
00:37:35
Speaker 3: So it's like, they'd be selling.
00:37:36
Speaker 2: Their house and they'd be even more scared because it's like, if they hate it, they come home to nothing. They come home to being a genuinely at square zero, where it's like, maybe you get to go home and live rent free or very cheaply and, and still have some of the funds you have from selling the house and get back on your feet. Like I take advantage of that if you've got it. Cause, cause yeah, not a lot of people have it.
00:37:57
Speaker 1: I couldn't agree more. So there's two sides of that too. So some people don't have that, which is unfortunate. And then there's people who use it to their best advantage. But then there's also this weird, I'm going to call it like a Western kind of culture thing where for some reason we think living with your parents or landing on your parents means you're failing in life.
00:38:22
Speaker 2: Yeah.
00:38:22
Speaker 1: But they're your family and they should mean everything to you depending they're good people. But for some reason like, I don't know what it is with us in Australia or in any sort of Western culture. We hate to lean on our parents. I know.
00:38:35
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's weird. I used to be like that. And now I'm like, dad, help me, bro. Yeah.
00:38:40
Speaker 1: And like they've had so much life and then hopefully they're in a semi better position than you where you can lean on them and help your life get to where you want to be. That's the whole thing about having a family is working together as a team. And then on the opposite end of the spectrum is what your parents are probably experiencing is, they're not as able as they used to be. You do shit around the house for them or you lift shit and you move stuff, you clean stuff and they're financially stable and then you're physically able. It's so simple. You're actually physically stable when you stand up. Yeah, legit. And a lot of people run away from their family for no reason other than they think they're failing if they move back to where they grew up.
00:39:24
Speaker 3: Yeah, Your dad's a great example of this.
00:39:30
Speaker 2: When I have children, I better talk to Beth about it before I go and have any kids with her, I guess. But I saw this thing a little while ago and it made me really think like every person that's ever been born didn't ask to be here. Right?
00:39:47
Speaker 3: No.
00:39:47
Speaker 2: None of us were like, Tapping our parents on the shoulder from the fucking sperm in their nutsack or the egg in our mom's freaking ovaries being like, let me out, you fuckers.
00:39:56
Speaker 3: None of us were doing that.
00:39:58
Speaker 2: So it's like, if I choose to have a child with my wife, girlfriend, fiance, whatever, I want to like go into it being like, this kid, I want them to be, you know, successful and happy in life and be independent. But also like, I chose to bring them into this life. If they just want to live with me forever... Who am I to be.
00:40:19
Speaker 3: Like, nah, get the fuck out, you loser. Like, what?
00:40:24
Speaker 1: A lot of parents do do that. Yeah, because I remember telling you, so my dad, he used to go to like, I can't remember what they called it, like road beers or something with some of his mates who lived in King Cumber or whatever. And it was when we were finishing school. And then all of them were going like, oh, yeah, we've started charging money. so-and-so, 250 rent. Oh, yeah, we're telling him he's got a year before he has to move out and start to figure out his life. And it forces your kid's hand. And then like if I'm paying $ 250 to live with my parents who evidently hate me, I'm obviously going to leave. They don't hate you. They still love you. But my dad's mindset, I guess the only thing I could justify is my dad maybe was in a better financial position than them and he didn't need the money. But also if you're going
through 18 years of not paying rent, what's $ 250 a week going to do for you for the next year?
00:41:14
Speaker 3: I don't know.
00:41:16
Speaker 2: I think I don't mind the idea of like charging board like rent to your kid.
00:41:21
Speaker 3: I don't mind the idea.
00:41:21
Speaker 2: Like especially if you don't, if you like struggle financially, then it like makes sense to charge.
00:41:27
Speaker 1: Yeah, take financial situation. I mean like morally. True.
00:41:31
Speaker 2: But the other benefit of it is I paid 50 bucks a week. So like compared to what I probably was costing my parents at the time is nothing. But it just like the only thing I did like about it is that it teaches you that, you know, if you decide to move out of home, that money you make.
00:41:56
Speaker 3: Will just not be yours. You just have to pay for stuff. That's the only thing that I would say I like about it.
00:42:03
Speaker 2: And then if you also can't, like if you need the money, then obviously it's like you're going to have to charge your kids because if they go on a work full time and shit and they want to stay at home, then yeah, they need to contribute.
00:42:11
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you need the money, obviously you need the money. I'm not taking that into consideration. But also if I'm doing that too, say I want to be in a good financial position, you never know what happens. So I can't say that. But say I'm charging my kid 50 or 100 bucks a week rent when he turns 18 and then at 20 he decides to move out. I would like to be like, oh, I saved all that money and I put it in a high interest account. interest savings account or a term deposit here's fucking ten thousand dollars for when you move out this is a present from mom and dad yeah that'd be um that's what i would rather than just fucking soaking my 250 in from my kid until he moves out get the fuck out that's gonna be my home gym when you leave bitch.
00:42:43
Speaker 2: Like if you don't if you don't need the money and you're taking like you know a couple hundred bucks a week from your kid then what are you doing The only time, yeah, like literally the only time I can understand it is if.
00:42:54
Speaker 3: It's like you genuinely don't have any money.
00:42:57
Speaker 2: But if you have money and you're taking the money, it's like, yes, you're teaching them a lesson, but also it's like, fuck, come on, they didn't ask to be here.
00:43:04
Speaker 1: Legit, legit. I think it's the same debate as in parents forcing their kids to go to uni. They're not going for the right reasons. They're not leaving for the right reason. They're not leaving because they want to figure out themselves or they want to go to uni because they love a career. They're going because they feel like they have to. And that's the wrong reason for anyone to do anything.
00:43:25
Speaker 2: It's a very good point, man. I'll tell you what, I think trades has to be the way to go. If you can't decide what you want to do and you're like, I really want to do something, you just got to go trade because.
00:43:37
Speaker 3: AI ain't taking that shit over, brother.
00:43:38
Speaker 1: Trade or travel, which this girl should do because she's already done her work. Oh, yeah. We did a dilemma.
00:43:43
Speaker 2: What were we talking about before?
00:43:46
Speaker 1: This baddie came to two people who quit what they were doing to start a podcast. We're obviously going to say go travel. Yeah, true.
00:43:53
Speaker 2: It's so easy for us to be like sitting here in our cushy chairs doing one hour of work a day to be like, go travel, you fucking legend.
00:43:59
Speaker 1: Let's go. Who knows? The romantic side of things too. You might find your love of your life over there.
00:44:07
Speaker 2: Hey, you might find like a, I don't know, like a Cambodian daddy or something and you might like his big patch long and your big fat puss.
00:44:14
Speaker 1: Like, let's go. I was going to talk about big fat puss. One thing that wigs me out, right? You know how we talk about patriarchy and how badly a lot of men view and treat women?
00:44:28
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:44:29
Speaker 1: I was saying to Cassie the other day, I was like, this wigs me out, right? So men come out of said women's vagina and then through life they go so wrong that they have the audacity to treat said women that badly. You think they'd be treated like fucking royalty?
00:44:46
Speaker 3: It's really, really weird, bro. I saw this thing the other day.
00:44:50
Speaker 2: So men like to think that they're a huge part of the, I don't know, birthing cycle, I guess, because all we do is fertilize the egg. They're like, without us, they ain't having babies.
00:45:04
Speaker 1: We're a big part. I feel like we're the most minute part. Yeah, no, that's what I'm saying.
00:45:07
Speaker 2: But like, so if all the men in the world, like our current world, just poof, if we all just went, turned into dust, right?
00:45:18
Speaker 3: Yeah.
00:45:18
Speaker 2: Rhysand, Rhysand misted us with his magic. He said, get out of here, you fucking losers. Bro, women would be chillin'. There's enough sperm in donation banks to repopulate all the men that would have been just turned into dust. Really, is there?
00:45:38
Speaker 1: But there's not enough. We better start acting correct or else the.
00:45:42
Speaker 2: Women might fucking, bro, the women might come at us with guns and shit.
00:45:48
Speaker 1: And there's not enough, phrasing it in a good context, big fat puss going around if all the women died. What are you talking about, bro? If all the women died, we can't do anything. What are we going to do? I don't know. That's what I was asking. I'm just making sure.
00:46:06
Speaker 2: Literally, bro, if all the women died, there might be some eggs that we could inject.
00:46:11
Speaker 1: I don't know, because women freeze their eggs, I guess. We'd have access to.
00:46:15
Speaker 3: Them, maybe.
00:46:16
Speaker 1: Yeah, I
don't know how all that works, but honestly, it makes you reflect, doesn't it? Makes you think, man.
00:46:23
Speaker 3: Makes you think.
00:46:24
Speaker 1: Makes you think.
00:46:32
Speaker 2: That is instead of doing the sign off while we're in different countries, cause it was a bit hard last week. We're just going to read some of the affirmations that are part of the 75, the baddies bootcamp 75 day thing we're doing in Patreon. You can still join by the way, if you want to go to Patreon, we're on day 20, I believe 19 or 20 join, do the.
00:46:49
Speaker 3: Rest of it.
00:46:50
Speaker 1: Everybody's welcome.
00:46:51
Speaker 2: So every day we do an update. We talk about the goals we hit, the goals we didn't hit, and we end up with an affirmation. My favorite affirmation so far and one that I really needed because we had a week of rain in Queensland recently is from Emma. One of the baddies in it is, let the flowers be a reminder that rain is needed.
00:47:07
Speaker 1: Yes.
00:47:08
Speaker 3: Gave me perspective.
00:47:08
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, yes, the rain can stay for a minute. It's like when you have a cold and then you realize, fuck, I took for granted being healthy.
00:47:16
Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:47:17
Speaker 1: I like.
00:47:19
Speaker 2: It's yesterday... raining all day again for, like, the seventh day in a row. And I was thinking back to, like, how we had two months of just sun.
00:47:27
Speaker 3: And I just, like, didn't go outside enough. I was like, fuck, bro.
00:47:33
Speaker 1: Took it for granted. No, honestly. I took that shit for granted.
00:47:36
Speaker 3: And I have Ada.
00:47:37
Speaker 1: She said, her affirmation was, this was yesterday, day 19.
00:47:39
Speaker 3: Firstly, firstly, firstly, firstly, firstly, firstly.
00:47:42
Speaker 2: I'm about 99% sure it's Ada.
00:47:46
Speaker 5: Oh.
00:47:47
Speaker 1: Sorry, Ada.
00:47:47
Speaker 3: There's no way it's Ada.
00:47:50
Speaker 1: What's how it's... Ada. It's a cool name. It's Ada. Yeah, yeah. Cool name. Sorry if I butchered that. But also, she actually came up with an idea. I'll pitch it after I say her affirmation, right? Time is the most expensive currency. Spend it on things you love, not things you worry.
00:48:06
Speaker 3: I like that. That's nice.
00:48:07
Speaker 1: Very, very sweet from Ada.
00:48:09
Speaker 3: It's got to be Ada.
00:48:10
Speaker 1: But Ada made me came up with a great idea. You know how like when you're in a workplace, you have employees of the month? And right now, the guy who's listening, Sam, we mentioned him before, is our Employee of the Month. The only employee. He's technically not really an employee, but he is in Relatable Studios. But we should do Batty of the Month on Patreon. And I think Ada would win. She's been going ham on the boot camp and also commenting on everyone's stuff, being supportive and everything. So Batty of the Month goes to Ada.
00:48:39
Speaker 3: Yeah, should we do top three?
00:48:40
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. We'll do it on Patreon. While I'm away, we'll mention it on the main episodes.
00:48:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll start calling the baddie of the month for a cheeky little video that gets posted on Patreon.
00:48:50
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great idea.
00:48:52
Speaker 3: Put a bit of respect on their name. Yeah.
00:48:55
Speaker 1: Sorry if I butchered it before, but cool name nonetheless.
00:48:57
Speaker 2: True. Also, yeah, tell us how to say your name.
00:49:03
Speaker 1: All right, baddies, we love you.
00:49:05
Speaker 3: Stay bad.