บทถอดความฉบับเต็มของ 2.24 Healing Relationship Patterns: Attract Your Ideal Partner w/Psychic Healer Christine Forde

00:03:55.439 what was I doing when they were working through their 70 00:03:55.520 --> 00:03:59.800 material world mastery if you will, like how to function, 71 00:04:00.159 --> 00:04:03.039 and I was doing all my spiritual stuff, Like I 72 00:04:03.039 --> 00:04:05.960 didn't even speak for a while when I was little, 73 00:04:06.879 --> 00:04:09.919 And when I tune into that, and I asked my 74 00:04:10.000 --> 00:04:12.280 soul why that was? Why did I have hard time 75 00:04:12.360 --> 00:04:14.759 learning to speak? Why was it so hard for me 76 00:04:15.159 --> 00:04:18.480 to figure out physical things. It's like, because seventy five 77 00:04:18.519 --> 00:04:21.720 percent of you was in the spiritual realm working on 78 00:04:22.240 --> 00:04:26.720 your spiritual evolution and working on your gifts, like connecting 79 00:04:26.759 --> 00:04:30.120 to your gifts and working with them. Most people aren't 80 00:04:30.160 --> 00:04:34.000 doing that. Their whole attention is on the physical world. 81 00:04:34.360 --> 00:04:34.600 Yeah. 82 00:04:35.480 --> 00:04:37.959 Like, it's like your energy was split at that time, 83 00:04:38.040 --> 00:04:40.160 which is why it seemed like it was slow, but 84 00:04:40.199 --> 00:04:43.519 you were actually accelerating in an area that isn't recognized 85 00:04:44.079 --> 00:04:45.800 by the average person. 86 00:04:46.240 --> 00:04:46.920 Yeah. 87 00:04:47.240 --> 00:04:50.240 So it just brought a level of compassion back to myself. 88 00:04:50.279 --> 00:04:53.519 It's like, no, you're not behind, You're exactly where you're 89 00:04:53.519 --> 00:04:55.959 supposed to be because your soul knew that it was 90 00:04:56.000 --> 00:04:59.199 going to come in with the gifts, have to develop them, 91 00:04:59.560 --> 00:05:02.839 and up looking like you're behind everyone else when you're not. 92 00:05:04.759 --> 00:05:06.600 And I think it's such a I love that you 93 00:05:06.600 --> 00:05:08.680 bring that up because I think that's something that everyone 94 00:05:08.759 --> 00:05:12.360 goes through, like whether you've made it or I mean, 95 00:05:12.399 --> 00:05:14.759 I think we've all made it on some degree, Like 96 00:05:14.800 --> 00:05:18.879 if you're working toward getting yourself out there, and like 97 00:05:18.920 --> 00:05:23.360 it just that comparing yourself, you know when you really 98 00:05:23.480 --> 00:05:29.120 see it objectively, like why is why are we comparing 99 00:05:29.120 --> 00:05:31.480 ourselves to a standard of success? Like yeah, that might 100 00:05:31.519 --> 00:05:33.920 be what we want, but what does it even mean 101 00:05:34.000 --> 00:05:36.920 that we're behind? Do you know what I mean? So 102 00:05:37.000 --> 00:05:40.879 I love that you. I love that you shared that 103 00:05:41.000 --> 00:05:43.839 because there are different things that different people are working on, 104 00:05:43.879 --> 00:05:46.279 And some people are working on the very physical things 105 00:05:46.279 --> 00:05:49.079 and other people are working on their spiritual gifts, and 106 00:05:50.079 --> 00:05:52.439 I think we get the opportunity to work on all 107 00:05:52.480 --> 00:05:56.000 of it throughout our lifetime, but everyone's journey looks so different. 108 00:05:57.759 --> 00:06:02.600 So yeah, that's beautiful, thank you. Okay, So when we 109 00:06:02.600 --> 00:06:05.279 were chatting on our connection call, you had such an 110 00:06:05.360 --> 00:06:10.360 interesting backstory and I would love to know how you 111 00:06:10.560 --> 00:06:15.439 made it here to psychic healer and relationship guide. I 112 00:06:15.480 --> 00:06:16.399 know that's a big question. 113 00:06:18.759 --> 00:06:21.240 There were a lot of bumps in the road. When 114 00:06:21.279 --> 00:06:24.240 I was little, I saw spirits. That was very normal 115 00:06:24.279 --> 00:06:28.399 for me. My family also did, and so it wasn't 116 00:06:28.680 --> 00:06:31.639 that weird, but it was weird enough that everyone who 117 00:06:31.879 --> 00:06:34.240 everyone in my family who did see spirits or had 118 00:06:34.519 --> 00:06:39.439 spiritual experiences would just pretend like it didn't happen. They 119 00:06:39.759 --> 00:06:42.759 told me would it happened, and they'd say, what happened, 120 00:06:43.160 --> 00:06:45.639 And then, you know, weeks later, months later, or a 121 00:06:45.680 --> 00:06:48.000 year later, I'd bring it up and they'd say, oh, 122 00:06:48.079 --> 00:06:51.000 that was just that didn't really, that wasn't really what. 123 00:06:51.040 --> 00:06:53.839 It almost like gaslighting me in a way, And I 124 00:06:53.920 --> 00:06:55.920 just thought it was strange because I'm like, but why 125 00:06:55.959 --> 00:06:58.879 wouldn't you want to recognize that, Why wouldn't you want 126 00:06:58.920 --> 00:07:00.839 to be present with that? Why wouldn't you want to 127 00:07:00.839 --> 00:07:04.480 develop that? But that was me imposing what I think 128 00:07:04.680 --> 00:07:07.839 somebody should do on other people. And it's like started 129 00:07:07.879 --> 00:07:10.040 to realize, well, we're hanging on a second. That's not 130 00:07:10.079 --> 00:07:14.639 everybody's path. So for some reason, I'm interested in this, 131 00:07:14.680 --> 00:07:17.680 For some reason, I'm developing this for some reason, I 132 00:07:17.720 --> 00:07:23.800 actually want to be very proficient at this. So as 133 00:07:23.839 --> 00:07:27.560 I got older, and you know, I had various life experiences. 134 00:07:27.920 --> 00:07:30.600 I got to a really low place around twenty fifteen 135 00:07:30.839 --> 00:07:35.240 and ended up in England after you know, having some 136 00:07:35.279 --> 00:07:39.639 prophetic dreams. I had my first Stakoshic Records reading and 137 00:07:40.120 --> 00:07:43.079 I'd been given this awareness of like that I was 138 00:07:43.120 --> 00:07:46.079 in fact a healer, and I couldn't understand that what 139 00:07:46.120 -->

00:07:50.720 that meant because I didn't feel at all like I 140 00:07:50.879 --> 00:07:52.800 was good enough to do that. I'm not in a 141 00:07:52.800 --> 00:07:55.759 good state, so why is that happening? Like why you know, 142 00:07:55.839 --> 00:07:57.879 like I need to be in a better I need 143 00:07:57.920 --> 00:08:00.439 to be fully healed in order to heal. Like that's 144 00:08:00.439 --> 00:08:03.279 also not true. You know, of course, you can continue 145 00:08:03.279 --> 00:08:06.240 to work on yourself, and I recommend that if somebody's 146 00:08:06.279 --> 00:08:09.319 a healer or you know, an intuitive that you do 147 00:08:10.000 --> 00:08:11.800 just so that you can kind of stay on top 148 00:08:11.839 --> 00:08:14.160 of your own stuff and not project it onto other people. 149 00:08:14.439 --> 00:08:18.480 It's just sort of a self responsibility and energetic hygiene. 150 00:08:18.600 --> 00:08:21.600 And so yeah, what I you know, when I went 151 00:08:21.639 --> 00:08:25.639 through all of these different experiences, it's you know, continuously 152 00:08:25.680 --> 00:08:28.360 getting the message you already know what to do? Why 153 00:08:28.360 --> 00:08:31.399 are you asking for help here? Why do you need more? 154 00:08:31.639 --> 00:08:33.559 Why do you need somebody to tell you that you 155 00:08:33.799 --> 00:08:36.279 that this? And every time somebody would tell me something, 156 00:08:36.320 --> 00:08:38.399 it would ring in me. Well I already knew that. 157 00:08:38.559 --> 00:08:41.120 Why you know this is a repeat of what I 158 00:08:41.159 --> 00:08:45.799 already knew. But my human self that felt very insecure 159 00:08:45.879 --> 00:08:48.799 and very unaware and very like, well, I'm not good 160 00:08:48.879 --> 00:08:52.840 enough to do this whatever needed the validation, and so 161 00:08:52.919 --> 00:08:54.679 that was like a huge trap for me for a 162 00:08:54.720 --> 00:08:59.080 long time. And now I'm able to do that for myself, thankfully, 163 00:08:59.440 --> 00:09:02.480 after all. And I still fall down once in a while, 164 00:09:02.559 --> 00:09:05.799 when you know, we all go back to sleep metaphorically, 165 00:09:06.480 --> 00:09:11.240 and so yeah, it just feels like this whole journey 166 00:09:11.240 --> 00:09:13.960 has taken me back to myself in a way, and 167 00:09:14.000 --> 00:09:16.679 the work that I've been able to do with myself 168 00:09:16.720 --> 00:09:20.320 and then work with others, because most of the time 169 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:22.720 i'll do something, I'll get it a download or get 170 00:09:22.759 --> 00:09:25.039 an idea or thought like ooh, I'm going to try 171 00:09:25.080 --> 00:09:27.919 this healing modality that just dropped in, and I try 172 00:09:27.960 --> 00:09:31.080 it on myself for a period of time just to 173 00:09:31.200 --> 00:09:33.679 experiment with it and see what it does. Then I 174 00:09:33.720 --> 00:09:36.559 try it on a close friend, and then I

bring 175 00:09:36.600 --> 00:09:39.039 it to my clients slowly but surely. And so this 176 00:09:39.080 --> 00:09:42.679 is my developmental process when I bring in new modalities 177 00:09:43.759 --> 00:09:47.240 and they're not most of those modalities don't come from 178 00:09:47.279 --> 00:09:51.120 external sources. They're all come from like that hot my 179 00:09:51.200 --> 00:09:54.519 higher self essentially. And then sometimes I'll find things in 180 00:09:54.559 --> 00:09:57.879 the external world that overlap that and it makes me 181 00:09:58.000 --> 00:10:00.759 laugh because it's like, oh, I already know, but that's 182 00:10:00.919 --> 00:10:04.879 just the physical world modality that exists, and that's fascinating 183 00:10:04.960 --> 00:10:07.480 to me. Like human design, for example, I have a 184 00:10:07.519 --> 00:10:11.120 friend of mine who's a human design reader and we'll 185 00:10:11.159 --> 00:10:14.159 read for the same person. I'll read their energy and 186 00:10:14.240 --> 00:10:16.559 she'll read their human design charts with all the birth 187 00:10:16.639 --> 00:10:19.120 charts and all of the planetary alignments and all of 188 00:10:19.159 --> 00:10:21.960 that stuff, and we'll get almost the same information. 189 00:10:22.919 --> 00:10:23.639 That's amazing. 190 00:10:24.679 --> 00:10:27.919 So it's like, okay, but I do it my way 191 00:10:27.960 --> 00:10:30.879 and she does it her way. But you know, there's 192 00:10:30.879 --> 00:10:32.600 a part of me that wants to like, oh, well, 193 00:10:32.600 --> 00:10:35.799 like I want the valid way that the world perceives 194 00:10:35.840 --> 00:10:39.919 as valid, and it's like, but why do I need that. 195 00:10:39.919 --> 00:10:43.960 That's kind of like when people accumulate certifications and degrees 196 00:10:44.000 --> 00:10:46.399 and stuff like that. But it's like, but you already 197 00:10:46.480 --> 00:10:49.440 know how to do the thing, and you have the experience, 198 00:10:49.720 --> 00:10:53.039 and you've seen results from it from yourself and from others, 199 00:10:53.519 --> 00:10:55.200 and why isn't that enough for you? 200 00:10:56.519 --> 00:10:58.840 That's literally what I was just thinking of as you 201 00:10:58.919 --> 00:11:04.039 were saying that, is it's we, I feel like, tend 202 00:11:04.080 --> 00:11:09.679 to have this tendency to run away from what we 203 00:11:09.799 --> 00:11:13.080 know to believe to be true for whatever reason. I 204 00:11:13.120 --> 00:11:16.080 think from childhood we kind of get taught that you 205 00:11:16.120 --> 00:11:19.120 can't really trust yourself and all of that. So I 206 00:11:19.120 --> 00:11:22.120 imagine for you there was like a lot of rebuilding 207 00:11:22.159 --> 00:11:25.919 of that self trust and that relationship with your intuition 208 00:11:26.240 --> 00:11:29.639 to be able to actually like confidently take a leap 209 00:11:29.720 --> 00:11:33.320 on it and step forward with the information that you 210 00:11:33.320 --> 00:11:34.759 already knew to be true. 211 00:11:36.000 --> 00:11:39.000 Yeah it's true. And another big thing for me was 212 00:11:39.120 --> 00:11:44.080 this notion of fitting in and so but what it 213 00:11:44.120 --> 00:11:48.159 really was was seeking connection. And so that's when I 214 00:11:48.240 --> 00:11:52.000 knew like that relationships were a big thing in my life, 215 00:11:52.080 --> 00:11:54.679 and so it was something that I would always be 216 00:11:54.720 --> 00:11:58.159 brought back to through anything I did. If I was 217 00:11:58.200 --> 00:12:00.440 doing something like say I was you know, for a 218 00:12:00.519 --> 00:12:04.519 few years, I did teach on money energetics and like 219 00:12:04.720 --> 00:12:07.639 business and stuff like that. And that was pretty easy 220 00:12:07.679 --> 00:12:11.519 because I felt very detached from it. But then it 221 00:12:11.600 --> 00:12:13.960 was funny because like my higher self would always bring 222 00:12:14.000 --> 00:12:17.919 me back to well, yeah, you can clear that money block, 223 00:12:18.000 --> 00:12:19.480 but it's just going to come back because you ain't 224 00:12:19.480 --> 00:12:21.279 get into the root cause. And guess what the root 225 00:12:21.360 --> 00:12:25.399 cause is. Well, in this person's case, random person A, right, 226 00:12:25.759 --> 00:12:29.120 random person A, the root cause is a falling out 227 00:12:29.159 --> 00:12:33.440 between her and her father and that never got resolved, 228 00:12:33.480 --> 00:12:35.879 Like that was between her and her inner child maybe 229 00:12:35.879 --> 00:12:38.559 six years old and the father figure. And that was 230 00:12:38.639 --> 00:12:42.399 the actual root cause of this person's financial issue. For example, 231 00:12:42.639 --> 00:12:45.840 right or person B, it's not being able to trust 232 00:12:45.960 --> 00:12:48.919 that money could come in because again and again for 233 00:12:49.000 --> 00:12:52.600 that person might have been a parent not being consistent 234 00:12:52.679 --> 00:12:55.799 with them, so you know. And then in other cases 235 00:12:55.840 --> 00:12:57.679 it went deeper and it was like, okay, so it 236 00:12:57.720 --> 00:13:01.360 was something from in the womb, more from a past life. 237 00:13:01.440 --> 00:13:04.000 And it's so like these past lives can sometimes come 238 00:13:04.039 --> 00:13:07.000 in to be cleared because especially for older souls, they 239 00:13:07.000 --> 00:13:09.679 tend to that tends to be like a big theme 240 00:13:10.039 --> 00:13:12.240 for really old souls, as if you have a lot 241 00:13:12.279 --> 00:13:14.399 of things that are coming up that don't make any 242 00:13:14.440 --> 00:13:17.679 sense to your childhood whatsoever. And you have to be 243 00:13:17.720 --> 00:13:19.759 honest with yourself because some people will say, oh, I 244 00:13:19.799 --> 00:13:22.759 have no trauma, and it's like, but like

your mom 245 00:13:23.039 --> 00:13:26.000 dropping you off at daycare could be interpreted at as 246 00:13:26.120 --> 00:13:31.799 trauma by your child's subconscious, yeah, child subconscious. So to 247 00:13:31.799 --> 00:13:35.679 say I don't have any trauma like is kind of 248 00:13:36.000 --> 00:13:38.240 crazy to me because it's like most people have some 249 00:13:38.480 --> 00:13:41.919 form of well, my need wasn't met in that exact 250 00:13:42.000 --> 00:13:46.000 instant and registered in my system that it wasn't met, 251 00:13:46.200 --> 00:13:48.480 and so I feel a certain way about it, and 252 00:13:48.519 --> 00:13:53.559 that never went away because it never got addressed or resolved. 253 00:13:53.879 --> 00:13:56.840 And so that's where resolution work comes in, where I'll 254 00:13:56.879 --> 00:14:00.679 do like timeline work for example. And then there's ancestral 255 00:14:00.720 --> 00:14:03.559 trauma too, like it's very similar to the past life 256 00:14:03.559 --> 00:14:08.039 thing actually, but that goes down your ancestral lines. So 257 00:14:08.519 --> 00:14:11.840 these things all come to play, and it's my thing 258 00:14:11.960 --> 00:14:15.279 is not a specific modality. My thing is what does 259 00:14:15.320 --> 00:14:17.879 the soul want me to do? What is it asking 260 00:14:18.000 --> 00:14:21.240 of me? And how does it want me to carry 261 00:14:21.240 --> 00:14:23.639 it out? How does it want me to deliver the message, 262 00:14:23.960 --> 00:14:30.000 How is it going to best benefit the person's mind, body, energy, emotions, 263 00:14:30.000 --> 00:14:32.399 et cetera. And how will they be able to integrate 264 00:14:32.440 --> 00:14:36.279 it in the most effective efficient way. And everyone's different 265 00:14:36.480 --> 00:14:38.679 with that. I love that. 266 00:14:39.000 --> 00:14:41.559 And just to go back for a second. So you're 267 00:14:41.600 --> 00:14:44.799 a manifestor in human design, right, and I think what's 268 00:14:44.840 --> 00:14:48.759 so cool about just hearing your journey and how you 269 00:14:48.879 --> 00:14:51.960 work with new modalities and stuff like you are actually 270 00:14:52.039 --> 00:14:59.960 designed to pull like ideas, concepts, tools out of thin air. 271 00:15:00.039 --> 00:15:06.000 A lot of entrepreneurs who are generators, even like projectors 272 00:15:06.240 --> 00:15:09.360 manifesting generators, can get frustrated because they're like, well, I'm 273 00:15:09.399 --> 00:15:11.480 trying to come up with this new idea and it's 274 00:15:11.519 --> 00:15:14.240 not working. And I think we can all tap into 275 00:15:14.279 --> 00:15:18.039 our higher selves and stuff like that and receive ideas 276 00:15:18.120 --> 00:15:21.200 and receive direction. But I just think it's so cool 277 00:15:21.240 --> 00:15:28.039 to hear how you are embodying your authentic energy, like 278 00:15:28.240 --> 00:15:31.120 within your practice and within you know how you choose 279

00:15:31.159 --> 00:15:34.200 to help and support people. It's really amazing. 280 00:15:35.000 --> 00:15:37.840 Thank you Human design. With such a newer concept. I 281 00:15:37.840 --> 00:15:40.039 think I only became aware of it in like twenty eighteen, 282 00:15:40.960 --> 00:15:44.360 so I've been dipping in and out of it because 283 00:15:44.600 --> 00:15:47.919 I have a thing about external modalities. I'm like, I 284 00:15:47.919 --> 00:15:50.039 don't want to trust them too much, but I also 285 00:15:50.399 --> 00:15:53.120 because I don't want to get codependent on them. Yeah, 286 00:15:53.559 --> 00:15:56.679 because that is a tendency that I have. And so 287 00:15:56.720 --> 00:15:58.559 it's like I just have to be very mindful to 288 00:15:58.960 --> 00:16:03.039 create a little bit of distance and not get overly 289 00:16:03.159 --> 00:16:04.320 pedestalized with it. 290 00:16:04.440 --> 00:16:05.080 Yeah. 291 00:16:05.120 --> 00:16:09.399 Absolutely for me, I love it because it actually supports 292 00:16:09.519 --> 00:16:12.279 what I already connect with. And that's actually how I 293 00:16:12.320 --> 00:16:14.639 do it is I look at the modality and I say, okay, 294 00:16:14.639 --> 00:16:17.120 well it's telling me this, and then let me have 295 00:16:17.159 --> 00:16:20.639 a conversation with my higher self, with my soul, with 296 00:16:20.679 --> 00:16:25.559 my subconscious what's going on? Does this make sense? What's resonant? 297 00:16:25.600 --> 00:16:29.600 What isn't resonant? And so, honestly, though a lot of 298 00:16:29.639 --> 00:16:33.639 it is very resonant, it's just that I have to 299 00:16:33.639 --> 00:16:36.240 go through the self discovery process. So I'm a three 300 00:16:36.279 --> 00:16:39.720 to five emotional manifestor so that three is like that 301 00:16:39.799 --> 00:16:43.279 experimental thing, and so it makes sense that I'm like 302 00:16:43.360 --> 00:16:46.960 that where I don't really trust a thing at face value. 303 00:16:47.080 --> 00:16:50.679 It's like, no, I just need to see how it works. Yeah, Like, 304 00:16:51.320 --> 00:16:53.159 give me a thousand ways to not build a light 305 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:54.399 bulb and I'll try all of. 306 00:16:54.360 --> 00:16:57.840 Them and until I come to the way, till I 307 00:16:57.919 --> 00:17:00.879 find the way. I think it's so interesting, though, right, 308 00:17:00.919 --> 00:17:04.000 because that's such a big part. We were talking at 309 00:17:04.000 --> 00:17:07.319 the beginning about how you've been experimenting with different things 310 00:17:07.319 --> 00:17:09.799 and you've seen that through different phases of your business, 311 00:17:10.480 --> 00:17:13.759 and those are elements that like, those are elements in 312 00:17:14.839 --> 00:17:18.039 that are so unique to each leader of each business 313 00:17:18.119 --> 00:17:22.279 that I think is not really addressed or looked at. 314 00:17:22.359 --> 00:17:24.480 And I think once

we've accept who we are as 315 00:17:24.519 --> 00:17:29.039 individuals and lead with that acceptance and see that stuff 316 00:17:29.039 --> 00:17:32.200 as strengths instead of weaknesses, then I think we can 317 00:17:33.039 --> 00:17:36.400 not just build something that's more successful, but also just 318 00:17:36.519 --> 00:17:39.119 be at peace with our progress and our journey. And 319 00:17:39.160 --> 00:17:42.240 I think that that's a really big thing for me, 320 00:17:42.279 --> 00:17:44.799 because if you just spend your life fighting yourself and 321 00:17:44.839 --> 00:17:49.279 fighting back against what you're doing, then I mean, you 322 00:17:49.319 --> 00:17:51.319 can't really find happiness. Right. 323 00:17:52.519 --> 00:17:56.640 So it's like saying, like the happiness is just over there. 324 00:17:56.880 --> 00:18:00.200 I just have to get over there. You get over there, 325 00:18:00.400 --> 00:18:04.599 You're always here, You're always exactly where you are. I've 326 00:18:04.599 --> 00:18:08.000 done the runaway to a different country, and hopefully my 327 00:18:08.079 --> 00:18:11.160 problems will disappear. But guess what I brought myself with me? 328 00:18:11.319 --> 00:18:18.839 So yeah, my problems came with Yeah, yeah, same thing. 329 00:18:18.880 --> 00:18:21.279 It's like, oh, well if I jump this person then 330 00:18:21.400 --> 00:18:24.160 and get a new figgured about this thing anymore and 331 00:18:24.319 --> 00:18:27.319 you get into the next relationship. Oh shoot, this person's 332 00:18:27.400 --> 00:18:30.319 also triggering me in this same issue, maybe just in 333 00:18:30.359 --> 00:18:32.039 a different way. What's going on. 334 00:18:34.119 --> 00:18:36.920 Exactly? So yeah, I love that you bring up the 335 00:18:36.960 --> 00:18:40.119 relationship piece. Can you tell us more about what you 336 00:18:40.200 --> 00:18:43.279 do as a psychicealer and relationship guide, like how do 337 00:18:43.400 --> 00:18:46.200 you work with clients? Who do you work with? How 338 00:18:46.200 --> 00:18:46.799 do you help them? 339 00:18:47.319 --> 00:18:49.359 I'm really you know, like I said, I'm in an 340 00:18:49.359 --> 00:18:52.759 experimental I've just come out of an experimental phase. So 341 00:18:53.119 --> 00:18:54.880 one of the things that I noticed is that I 342 00:18:54.920 --> 00:18:57.039 just get a lot of I go through with certain 343 00:18:57.079 --> 00:18:59.880 life experiences. So for a lot of times, I have 344 00:19:00.119 --> 00:19:04.480 life experience of needing to learn, enforce and master my boundaries. 345 00:19:04.920 --> 00:19:08.359 So that might be like articulating the boundaries that you know, 346 00:19:08.519 --> 00:19:12.119 and then there's energetically embodying the boundaries. Then there's okay, 347 00:19:12.119 --> 00:19:14.880 well where are the cracks in my boundaries? Like the exceptions? 348 00:19:15.279 --> 00:19:19.279 Where am I making exceptions that are not actually aligned, 349 00:19:19.440 --> 00:19:22.279 but they're something that my ego thinks I need to 350 00:19:22.359 --> 00:19:25.200 keep so that I can be liked or I can 351 00:19:25.240 --> 00:19:28.079 fit in, or I can have a certain thing that 352 00:19:28.160 --> 00:19:32.039 I think I need, which is very shady behavior really 353 00:19:32.720 --> 00:19:34.960 if you look at it from that perspective, it's like, okay, 354 00:19:35.000 --> 00:19:37.039 but that's the part I need to have compassion with 355 00:19:37.359 --> 00:19:39.480 and work through and say, Okay, I acknowledge that this 356 00:19:39.559 --> 00:19:41.599 is shady. I'm not going to do this anymore because 357 00:19:41.599 --> 00:19:44.440 this isn't right, doesn't feel good to my soul, and 358 00:19:44.519 --> 00:19:47.319 I don't get great results from it, like I want 359 00:19:47.400 --> 00:19:52.960 long lasting, healthy relationships, not this mess right. So for me, 360 00:19:53.079 --> 00:19:56.000 it's like having to go through a process, say something 361 00:19:56.119 --> 00:20:00.720 like that, and then embodying it and then coming into 362 00:20:00.759 --> 00:20:03.319 a place where Okay, now I don't even necessarily need 363 00:20:03.359 --> 00:20:08.119 to articulate a boundary. I can actually energetic be energetically 364 00:20:08.240 --> 00:20:11.920 owning the boundary. So my energy is the boundary. And 365 00:20:12.000 --> 00:20:14.960 so now that I'm at that point, for example, that's 366 00:20:14.960 --> 00:20:18.160 where I'm going to go and focus on helping people 367 00:20:18.200 --> 00:20:21.480 with boundaries and standards and things like that, like energetic 368 00:20:21.519 --> 00:20:25.160 standards and then healthy boundaries and what that actually means 369 00:20:25.759 --> 00:20:28.240 and I've already done some of that with past clients 370 00:20:28.279 --> 00:20:31.039 and things like that. You know, another thing was getting 371 00:20:31.039 --> 00:20:33.559 into the heart, like really being in your heart with 372 00:20:33.640 --> 00:20:39.000 another person. Like that's extremely vulnerable and extremely uncomfortable for 373 00:20:39.079 --> 00:20:42.240 people who have a lot of barriers in their heart 374 00:20:42.359 --> 00:20:45.720 or a lot of hurt in their heart. So they'll say, oh, 375 00:20:45.759 --> 00:20:48.160 I you know, I really want to have a relationship 376 00:20:48.160 --> 00:20:51.240 with this person, but your subconscious is saying, hell, no, 377 00:20:51.680 --> 00:20:54.640 I do not want that. And so part of my 378 00:20:54.759 --> 00:20:57.519 gift is to be able to see through people's words. 379 00:20:58.039 --> 00:21:01.319 So it's like your words are saying but your energy 380 00:21:01.359 --> 00:21:04.400 is saying that. And because there's such a disconnect, like 381 00:21:04.440 --> 00:21:08.920 there's complete opposition between the two, you're misaligned. And you're 382 00:21:09.119 --> 00:21:12.240 being

been authentic, not that you're trying to be. It's 383 00:21:12.240 --> 00:21:14.359 not like you're trying to do it. It's not conscious, 384 00:21:14.799 --> 00:21:17.799 but it's like I almost like I'm trying to override 385 00:21:17.839 --> 00:21:20.880 what I really feel. And it's like you can't override 386 00:21:20.920 --> 00:21:22.720 what you really feel. You have to face what you 387 00:21:22.799 --> 00:21:25.240 really feel. You have to own what you really feel 388 00:21:25.359 --> 00:21:29.559 or think. And even if those things aren't true to 389 00:21:29.680 --> 00:21:32.599 who the core of who you are, they're true to 390 00:21:32.720 --> 00:21:35.240 some part of you. They feel true to some part 391 00:21:35.279 --> 00:21:37.240 of you, maybe the part of you that was conditioned, 392 00:21:37.519 --> 00:21:39.799 maybe the part of you that was hurt, and so 393 00:21:40.119 --> 00:21:41.960 you actually have to deal with that. It doesn't just 394 00:21:42.039 --> 00:21:45.279 go away because you throw some affirmations at it. And 395 00:21:45.440 --> 00:21:48.480 affirmations are great. I'm pro affirmation, but clean up your 396 00:21:48.519 --> 00:21:51.359 stuff before you put the affirmations, and you don't want 397 00:21:51.359 --> 00:21:55.000 to put paint gold on poop like it's still poop. 398 00:21:56.000 --> 00:22:00.839 I love that I call affirmations band aid like when 399 00:22:00.880 --> 00:22:05.960 they're not coupled with that deeper introspection, because yeah, you 400 00:22:05.960 --> 00:22:09.240 bring up such a big part of I mean like 401 00:22:09.359 --> 00:22:12.799 life and manifestation and getting what you want. Because I 402 00:22:12.880 --> 00:22:16.680 also hear a lot of people saying this, but then 403 00:22:16.680 --> 00:22:20.519 when you watch their behaviors and how they even present 404 00:22:20.599 --> 00:22:24.079 themselves to the world, it says something completely different and 405 00:22:24.160 --> 00:22:29.119 you can't like it just doesn't. It doesn't work that way. 406 00:22:29.519 --> 00:22:32.200 There's so much in our work and so many layers 407 00:22:32.240 --> 00:22:37.920 to align both the subconscious and the conscious, the energy, 408 00:22:38.000 --> 00:22:42.880 the mindset, even the actions right and looking at what 409 00:22:43.160 --> 00:22:46.279 actions are going to align with what I'm saying I 410 00:22:46.359 --> 00:22:49.119 want or what I'm saying I need or whatever. What 411 00:22:49.160 --> 00:22:51.759 I'm saying that I'm not going to do anymore. So, yeah, 412 00:22:51.799 --> 00:22:53.119 it's big work. 413 00:22:53.559 --> 00:22:56.079 It's good work, but it doesn't have to take over 414 00:22:56.119 --> 00:22:57.000 your whole life. 415 00:22:57.160 --> 00:22:57.359 No. 416 00:22:57.599 --> 00:23:00.599 Yeah, I'm a proponent of don't put your life hold 417 00:23:00.599 --> 00:23:03.319 and then go do healing for five years or two 418 00:23:03.440 --> 00:23:06.680 years

or whatever. Don't do that. You're still gonna have 419 00:23:06.720 --> 00:23:10.519 to live a life. We're here to live lives. Every relationship, 420 00:23:10.640 --> 00:23:14.599 interaction you have, every issue or problem that you come 421 00:23:14.680 --> 00:23:18.559 up against, is part of you becoming aware of something 422 00:23:18.680 --> 00:23:22.519 that is maybe conditioning wounding not you, not self if 423 00:23:22.559 --> 00:23:27.359 you will, and then making an adjustment. Okay, I recognize this, 424 00:23:28.000 --> 00:23:30.920 and what do I need to do to release this? 425 00:23:31.000 --> 00:23:33.279 What do I need to do to accept this? What 426 00:23:33.319 --> 00:23:35.200 do I need to do to Maybe I just need 427 00:23:35.240 --> 00:23:37.279 to cry. Maybe I need to give myself an hour 428 00:23:37.400 --> 00:23:40.160 to cry about this particular thing that happened when I 429 00:23:40.240 --> 00:23:44.839 was five? Did I ever really cry or grieve it? No? Okay, 430 00:23:44.920 --> 00:23:47.319 well guess what that grief is still stuck inside of you, 431 00:23:47.440 --> 00:23:50.079 and so you're gonna have to give yourself some time 432 00:23:50.119 --> 00:23:52.599 to do it. You can build that into your day. 433 00:23:52.680 --> 00:23:54.400 If you don't have to spend a week on this, 434 00:23:54.759 --> 00:23:57.319 you could spend. You could tell yourself, Okay, me and 435 00:23:57.359 --> 00:24:01.119 inner child, we're gonna have a meeting at six o'clock 436 00:24:01.200 --> 00:24:03.680 and we're going to cry for half an hour about 437 00:24:03.720 --> 00:24:06.559 this particular thing because I'm still feeling a lot of 438 00:24:06.559 --> 00:24:10.079 feelings about it and I just need to emote. And 439 00:24:10.160 --> 00:24:13.039 so if I give myself time, if I schedule time 440 00:24:13.079 --> 00:24:17.359 with myself throughout my life, throughout my week, it's practical. 441 00:24:17.480 --> 00:24:20.440 You can break it down. It doesn't take over your 442 00:24:20.440 --> 00:24:22.920 whole life. In fact, the more you avoid it, the 443 00:24:22.920 --> 00:24:24.920 more it does take over your whole life, because it 444 00:24:25.000 --> 00:24:27.839 keeps coming back. It keeps circling your head like a 445 00:24:27.920 --> 00:24:30.279 hornet or something, and it's like, hey, guess what, I'm 446 00:24:30.319 --> 00:24:32.640 still here, your heay, because when I'm still and it 447 00:24:32.720 --> 00:24:35.039 takes up way more of your energy. That way to 448 00:24:35.160 --> 00:24:37.400 do it than to just make a decision that you're 449 00:24:37.400 --> 00:24:39.119 going to deal with this. You're going to work with 450 00:24:39.160 --> 00:24:42.240 it with whatever's coming up right now, and then I'm 451 00:24:42.240 --> 00:24:45.000 going to schedule time for myself to do it. Every morning, 452 00:24:45.039 --> 00:24:48.440 I wake up and I do reiki, I do a meditation, 453 00:24:49.119 --> 00:24:52.160

I do visualization. I do those things, and then I 454 00:24:52.240 --> 00:24:53.839 go and make a plan for what I'm going to 455 00:24:53.920 --> 00:24:57.119 do for my day to strategize. Okay, well, I'd love 456 00:24:57.160 --> 00:24:59.359 to do this. Am I in alignment with it? Yes? 457 00:24:59.440 --> 00:25:01.599 I am. Okay, Okay, let me move forward on that thing. 458 00:25:01.920 --> 00:25:04.440 What about this, Well, I'm not totally in alignment with it. 459 00:25:04.519 --> 00:25:06.519 I have a belief about it, Okay, So I know 460 00:25:07.119 --> 00:25:08.680 I need to work on that or I need to 461 00:25:08.759 --> 00:25:11.319 just let it go whatever I can do. If I 462 00:25:11.359 --> 00:25:13.400 can't just let it go, then I have to be 463 00:25:13.440 --> 00:25:16.559 real with myself about that, because there's a reason I 464 00:25:16.559 --> 00:25:18.720 can't let it go. There's a reason I'm holding on 465 00:25:18.799 --> 00:25:22.000 to it. Some part of me doesn't feel safe until 466 00:25:22.079 --> 00:25:25.880 I accept something or work through something. So it's being 467 00:25:25.920 --> 00:25:29.359 real with yourself. And I think that's the most challenging 468 00:25:29.440 --> 00:25:32.839 part is that it's not a linear process. It's not 469 00:25:32.880 --> 00:25:35.480 a one size fits all. Every person has a different 470 00:25:35.519 --> 00:25:39.160 process at any given time. It's going to change. So 471 00:25:39.160 --> 00:25:42.359 I don't try to make it all the same way 472 00:25:42.599 --> 00:25:46.319 all the time. Give yourself flexibility to move through things 473 00:25:46.359 --> 00:25:50.240 with more ease and grace and understanding and empathy, because 474 00:25:50.279 --> 00:25:52.119 it's like having empathy for yourself. 475 00:25:52.720 --> 00:25:56.160 Yeah. Absolutely, I love that. And I think one of 476 00:25:56.200 --> 00:25:59.640 the biggest obstacles that I've seen. I don't know. You 477 00:25:59.640 --> 00:26:03.480 can tell me if this is something you've seen as well. 478 00:26:03.519 --> 00:26:09.319 But one of the biggest obstacles is that people don't 479 00:26:10.880 --> 00:26:14.160 So maybe they'll schedule the time in to sit with themselves, 480 00:26:14.240 --> 00:26:19.119 but then they'll create every excuse to not or if 481 00:26:19.119 --> 00:26:22.599 they're not creating it, other things just conveniently pop up 482 00:26:22.640 --> 00:26:24.880 into their lives and oh, I can't do that thing 483 00:26:24.880 --> 00:26:28.480 that I scheduled. What are your thoughts on that, because 484 00:26:28.519 --> 00:26:31.920 I know a lot of people in my circle struggle 485 00:26:31.920 --> 00:26:32.960 with that. 486 00:26:32.960 --> 00:26:39.279 That is pure resistance and self sabotage because you're on 487 00:26:39.319 --> 00:26:42.359 the one hand, it's like, maybe I don't fully understand 488 00:26:42.359 --> 00:26:45.079 the value of doing this. I think it's just going 489 00:26:45.119 --> 00:26:47.920 to be another task for me to do and it's 490 00:26:47.920 --> 00:26:49.920 going to be ridiculous and a waste of my time. 491 00:26:52.119 --> 00:26:55.200 A lot of times, that excuse underneath it is I 492 00:26:55.240 --> 00:26:59.720 am scared beyond belief. I do not want to face this. 493 00:26:59.759 --> 00:27:01.559 I do not want to look at this. I am 494 00:27:01.559 --> 00:27:04.720 not ready. And if I were in that person's position, 495 00:27:05.160 --> 00:27:07.759 what I would do is I would face that fear 496 00:27:07.759 --> 00:27:11.559 and I'd say, Okay, I understand you. You're here, you're scared, 497 00:27:12.359 --> 00:27:16.599 and are you willing to just acknowledge that with me, 498 00:27:16.720 --> 00:27:19.640 I'm gonna just be with that fact that I'm scared 499 00:27:19.680 --> 00:27:21.640 of it. I don't really want to do it because 500 00:27:21.680 --> 00:27:23.559 I'm scared of what's gonna come up. I'm scared of 501 00:27:23.599 --> 00:27:25.880 what I'm gonna have to change. Maybe I'm gonna have 502 00:27:25.880 --> 00:27:28.799 to get out of this relationship, because I already feel 503 00:27:28.839 --> 00:27:30.839 like I'm gonna have to get out of this relationship. 504 00:27:30.839 --> 00:27:33.160 And I don't want to face that because it's going 505 00:27:33.200 --> 00:27:35.400 to turn my life upside down and I'm not gonna 506 00:27:35.400 --> 00:27:38.119 know what to do, and this person's gonna be mad 507 00:27:38.160 --> 00:27:40.440 at me, and that person's going to be disappointed in me, 508 00:27:40.519 --> 00:27:43.079 and then these people aren't gonna like me anymore. And 509 00:27:43.119 --> 00:27:45.480 we have all these things that just randomly come up, 510 00:27:45.480 --> 00:27:48.079 and that's the real reason why you don't want to 511 00:27:48.079 --> 00:27:51.319 do it. And so that's very rational for the mind 512 00:27:51.359 --> 00:27:54.240 to do. And so it's facing that, Okay, Like, I 513 00:27:54.279 --> 00:27:56.519 get it. You don't want to face this, you're scared 514 00:27:56.559 --> 00:27:59.000 of this, you're afraid of that. You could write down 515 00:27:59.000 --> 00:28:01.559 all your fears. You could. I'm afraid of these things 516 00:28:02.240 --> 00:28:06.640 and if they happened, would it be the end of 517 00:28:06.680 --> 00:28:09.079 my life? Would it be the end of everything, Would 518 00:28:09.119 --> 00:28:11.559 I die like I Sometimes I'll go to the extreme. 519 00:28:11.599 --> 00:28:14.039 It's like I would it cause me to die? Well, no, 520 00:28:14.240 --> 00:28:17.240 but it would be uncomfortable. But would I find a 521 00:28:17.279 --> 00:28:19.079 way to deal with it and work through it? 522 00:28:19.519 --> 00:28:19.720 Well? 523 00:28:19.839 --> 00:28:23.279 Yeah, And so you kind of have to have this 524 00:28:23.359 --> 00:28:26.599 little back and forth between you and yourself to just 525 00:28:26.759 --> 00:28:30.960 basically

get yourself to the point where Okay, okay, I'm 526 00:28:31.000 --> 00:28:33.039 gonna do it like I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna 527 00:28:33.079 --> 00:28:36.160 have that conversation that I'm afraid of. And maybe sometimes 528 00:28:36.160 --> 00:28:39.880 they don't even happen. Sometimes these fears are like catastrophicizing, 529 00:28:40.680 --> 00:28:43.680 and it's the worst case scenario because it's your mind 530 00:28:43.720 --> 00:28:47.440 trying to protect you, and so that doesn't necessarily mean 531 00:28:47.480 --> 00:28:50.079 it's going to happen. I'll give you an example. I 532 00:28:50.240 --> 00:28:52.720 was This isn't a relationship thing, but it was something 533 00:28:52.759 --> 00:28:55.240 I really wanted. I was going for my driver's test, 534 00:28:55.599 --> 00:29:00.640 my final highway test or whatever, and I really real 535 00:29:00.680 --> 00:29:02.599 with the fact that I might fail. I was doing 536 00:29:02.680 --> 00:29:04.839 a lot of different things. I was doing a hypnosis. 537 00:29:05.000 --> 00:29:08.400 I was practicing to get more confident. I was asking 538 00:29:08.400 --> 00:29:10.480 people to point out where what I was doing wrong 539 00:29:10.599 --> 00:29:12.839 so that I could improve it. I was doing all 540 00:29:12.880 --> 00:29:15.960 the things right to prepare and then I was like, 541 00:29:16.000 --> 00:29:19.920 but if I failed, what would it mean? Well, maybe 542 00:29:19.960 --> 00:29:22.160 I would have to restart and do all the tests 543 00:29:22.160 --> 00:29:25.480 all over again. But do I still want the thing 544 00:29:25.720 --> 00:29:27.839 that I want that badly that I would be willing 545 00:29:27.880 --> 00:29:31.599 to do that if it happened. Hell yeah, without a doubt. 546 00:29:32.160 --> 00:29:34.960 I am getting this thing. Whether I get it tomorrow 547 00:29:35.319 --> 00:29:37.359 or whether I get it six months from now or 548 00:29:37.359 --> 00:29:40.079 two years from now. I don't care when it happens. 549 00:29:40.160 --> 00:29:42.559 It's going to happen because I really want it. It's 550 00:29:42.559 --> 00:29:45.599 important to me. And so if you can have that 551 00:29:45.680 --> 00:29:49.200 attitude like, yeah, if the worst thing happens, will I 552 00:29:49.319 --> 00:29:52.559 still be okay? Will I still be able to dust 553 00:29:52.599 --> 00:29:56.759 myself off and try again. If I can do that, 554 00:29:56.920 --> 00:30:00.039 then it just it creates more confidence in it, It 555 00:30:00.119 --> 00:30:04.440 creates less attachment to something happening or not happening, and 556 00:30:04.480 --> 00:30:07.680 it lessens the fear too. And it just puts you 557 00:30:07.759 --> 00:30:10.559 back into your body too, And that's really important because 558 00:30:10.559 --> 00:30:12.519 you're just in your mind when you're in that state, 559 00:30:12.559 --> 00:30:15.160 when you're in the self sabotage. And that's the other 560 00:30:15.200 --> 00:30:18.920 thing you mentioned about, Oh, just stuff, just randomly happens 561 00:30:18.920 --> 00:30:23.480 and then prevents me. I've done that too. I broke 562 00:30:23.519 --> 00:30:28.640 both of my feet to sabotage myself in a span 563 00:30:28.720 --> 00:30:30.279 of five years. 564 00:30:31.480 --> 00:30:32.359 But that's wild. 565 00:30:33.039 --> 00:30:36.240 This is crazy. It's like, are you kidding me? And 566 00:30:36.319 --> 00:30:39.680 the way that it happened was so ridiculous too, And 567 00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:42.680 so it really forced me to confront like what am 568 00:30:42.680 --> 00:30:45.319 I running away from? What do my feet try to 569 00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:48.480 take me somewhere where my soul is saying, Nope, we 570 00:30:48.519 --> 00:30:51.200 ain't going there. Sorry, you're gonna sit your butt down. 571 00:30:51.519 --> 00:30:53.920 You're gonna focus on your healing. You're going to face 572 00:30:54.400 --> 00:30:57.839 the things you're afraid of in this home with these people, 573 00:30:58.319 --> 00:31:00.319 and that's gonna be what it is going to be. 574 00:31:00.480 --> 00:31:02.839 And you don't have a choice in this matter. Because 575 00:31:02.920 --> 00:31:05.720 I made an agreement with my soul that I wasn't 576 00:31:05.720 --> 00:31:09.519 going to run away anymore. At some my subconscious tried 577 00:31:09.559 --> 00:31:12.279 to make that happen. There was an intervention. Now, did 578 00:31:12.279 --> 00:31:15.440 it have to be that extreme? No, But like if 579 00:31:15.480 --> 00:31:18.519 I'd been a little bit more you know, maybe I 580 00:31:18.519 --> 00:31:21.119 don't know, but I think if I'd been a little 581 00:31:21.119 --> 00:31:24.400 bit more like honest with myself, like I'm scared of 582 00:31:24.440 --> 00:31:26.839 this and I don't really don't want to face this, 583 00:31:27.440 --> 00:31:30.079 but I'm going to anyways, and I know I'm going 584 00:31:30.160 --> 00:31:32.920 to be supported by my guides, by my higher self, 585 00:31:32.960 --> 00:31:36.200 by other people who care about me. I can bring 586 00:31:36.240 --> 00:31:40.240 support in. I'm worthy of that. Like that took practice 587 00:31:40.279 --> 00:31:42.359 to get me to the point of being able to 588 00:31:42.400 --> 00:31:45.920 accept that, allow that, and I'm still working through some 589 00:31:46.079 --> 00:31:49.000 of that, right, but it's part of the process. And 590 00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:51.720 so if it's like, Okay, I want to do this thing, 591 00:31:51.759 --> 00:31:53.799 but I'm not letting myself do the thing, just get 592 00:31:53.839 --> 00:31:55.880 honest with yourself. So you really don't want to do it, 593 00:31:55.880 --> 00:31:58.839 you're not in the right place for it, but at 594 00:31:58.880 --> 00:32:00.759 some point or another, you're going to have to do it, 595 00:32:01.400 --> 00:32:03.519 Like you're gonna have to. It's either gonna be the 596 00:32:03.519 --> 00:32:04.599 easy way of

their hard one. 597 00:32:04.960 --> 00:32:07.680 Say well, And I find it's funny that you mentioned 598 00:32:07.720 --> 00:32:10.039 breaking both your feet, because I find that the more 599 00:32:10.079 --> 00:32:14.279 we ignore what our internal voice is telling us, the 600 00:32:15.160 --> 00:32:18.559 like you get to a point where something physical does intervene. 601 00:32:18.799 --> 00:32:21.559 I had that happen a couple weeks ago, where I 602 00:32:21.640 --> 00:32:24.079 kept saying for the entire month of August, like I 603 00:32:24.160 --> 00:32:25.599 just need a break, I just need a break. I 604 00:32:25.680 --> 00:32:27.920 just need a break. But my ego is so focused 605 00:32:27.960 --> 00:32:30.279 on what's next, what's next, what's next. I got to 606 00:32:30.319 --> 00:32:32.359 launch my next thing. I got to launch my next thing, 607 00:32:33.079 --> 00:32:36.000 And so I didn't let myself like I was working 608 00:32:36.720 --> 00:32:39.000 as I could, because I always reached this point in 609 00:32:39.039 --> 00:32:41.680 the summer where my energy just drops and I can't 610 00:32:41.960 --> 00:32:44.839 accomplish as much. But yeah, I got to this point 611 00:32:44.880 --> 00:32:47.240 where I don't even know how it happened. I couldn't 612 00:32:47.240 --> 00:32:49.799 tell you because there was no moment that was like, 613 00:32:51.759 --> 00:32:54.720 this is what happened. But yeah, I totally sprained my 614 00:32:54.799 --> 00:32:58.200 ankle and I literally couldn't walk. I was hopping around 615 00:32:58.759 --> 00:33:03.720 and crawling for a solid couple of days. But I 616 00:33:04.799 --> 00:33:08.279 that happened, and I was like, Okay, it's a clear 617 00:33:08.359 --> 00:33:12.920 message like I need to chill out and stop and 618 00:33:13.160 --> 00:33:14.640 if I need to take a break, I need to 619 00:33:14.680 --> 00:33:16.759 take a break. If I need to put this launch 620 00:33:16.799 --> 00:33:18.599 on hold, I need to put the launch on hold. 621 00:33:19.359 --> 00:33:22.880 But you know what happens. I think that we're both 622 00:33:22.920 --> 00:33:25.039 talking about is that we really try to force our 623 00:33:25.079 --> 00:33:30.599 way and force our desires, our mental desires, like our 624 00:33:30.640 --> 00:33:35.400 desires that maybe we don't trust or believe that everything's 625 00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:38.039 going to unfold and divine timing and that everything is 626 00:33:38.039 --> 00:33:39.680 going to be okay, and that you can take a 627 00:33:39.720 --> 00:33:42.400 break and you can take time to heal in your 628 00:33:42.440 --> 00:33:44.200 day to day life, and you can take time to 629 00:33:44.279 --> 00:33:46.759 look at the thoughts that are scary for you. And 630 00:33:46.839 --> 00:33:49.160 if you don't, then you know it's not going to 631 00:33:49.200 --> 00:33:51.920 be a complete surprise when something physical happens. 632 00:33:53.599 --> 00:33:56.240 That's why I don't always like and this might be 633 00:33:56.240 --> 00:33:59.640 a contentcious topic, but I don't believe in accidents. Yeah, 634 00:34:00.119 --> 00:34:03.400 I don't believe anybody just randomly gets in an accident. 635 00:34:03.519 --> 00:34:07.519 I don't believe in randomness personally because when I look 636 00:34:07.559 --> 00:34:10.239 at the energy, because if I stand back and I'm like, okay, 637 00:34:10.280 --> 00:34:12.000 well let me just look at the energy. What am 638 00:34:12.039 --> 00:34:16.280 I seeing? I'm clairvoyant, I'm Claire Audien, Claire Alien, Claire, sentient. 639 00:34:16.480 --> 00:34:18.719 I have it all and I can see it all 640 00:34:18.760 --> 00:34:23.360 really clearly. Especially it's so easy in other people. Yeah, 641 00:34:23.559 --> 00:34:25.400 because we have our own blind spots, which is why 642 00:34:25.400 --> 00:34:28.199 I work with somebody. But when I look at the energy, 643 00:34:28.199 --> 00:34:31.840 I'm like, well, that energy actually started back you know, 644 00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:37.440 ten years ago. That's when that energy initiated. And so 645 00:34:37.599 --> 00:34:41.199 now you're at this sort of peak point where okay, 646 00:34:41.760 --> 00:34:44.840 like the soul saying, I'm we're done with this cycle. 647 00:34:45.000 --> 00:34:48.800 Let's complete it now. It's time. Of course, you have 648 00:34:48.920 --> 00:34:51.280 free will, and you're a human can say, hey, I'm 649 00:34:51.320 --> 00:34:52.920 going to override that. We're going to keep that cycle 650 00:34:52.960 --> 00:34:54.760 going on another three years because I ain't ready to 651 00:34:54.800 --> 00:34:57.760 face it. Fine, but then there's a point at which 652 00:34:58.119 --> 00:35:01.159 the soul says, okay, no, that's enough, Like you're literally 653 00:35:01.239 --> 00:35:04.719 going to sabotage all these other things that are very 654 00:35:04.760 --> 00:35:07.039 important for you to do in your life. And so 655 00:35:07.079 --> 00:35:10.400 that's why I say, get really on board with your soul. 656 00:35:10.599 --> 00:35:12.920 When your soul sayes it want something, or it wants 657 00:35:12.960 --> 00:35:15.559 to accomplish something or do something or go for something, 658 00:35:16.079 --> 00:35:19.320 it's really important that you allow that to move through you. 659 00:35:19.639 --> 00:35:22.800 And like you said, things do happen in divine timing, 660 00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:25.000 and all the things you're afraid of, it's never going 661 00:35:25.079 --> 00:35:27.079 to happen. I'm never going to be successful. I'm going 662 00:35:27.119 --> 00:35:29.719 to be broke forever, that I'm going to be single forever. 663 00:35:29.760 --> 00:35:32.639 I'm gonna be alone forever. Whatever your fear is is 664 00:35:32.800 --> 00:35:36.400 probably unfounded. And I always see them as these sort 665 00:35:36.440 --> 00:35:39.480 of little energies that kind of infiltrate that wound, and 666

00:35:39.519 --> 00:35:42.800 it's like, eh, let those go because they're actually not 667 00:35:43.000 --> 00:35:45.920 helping you, and they're almost always stuck in the mental body. 668 00:35:45.960 --> 00:35:46.079 There. 669 00:35:46.159 --> 00:35:49.679 Never miss the soul aspect of your body. So your 670 00:35:49.679 --> 00:35:51.920 soul's not going to take you off track. It might 671 00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:54.880 not do what your mind expects it to do, but 672 00:35:55.000 --> 00:35:57.760 it's going to get you to a place that feels 673 00:35:58.119 --> 00:35:58.800 really good. 674 00:35:59.239 --> 00:36:05.079 Yeah. Yeah. I always say that our soul has the 675 00:36:05.679 --> 00:36:09.079 it's like our GPS. Right, So when people talk about, oh, 676 00:36:09.119 --> 00:36:11.400 I want to achieve all these goals, but they don't 677 00:36:11.400 --> 00:36:14.599 actually have a clear idea of where they're headed, it's 678 00:36:14.639 --> 00:36:18.760 really difficult to allow our soul to take us there 679 00:36:18.760 --> 00:36:23.400 because we just try to mentally create like some sort 680 00:36:23.400 --> 00:36:26.400 of pathway. But I found in my work and in 681 00:36:26.440 --> 00:36:29.800 my life that I can make all of the mental 682 00:36:29.800 --> 00:36:32.960 gymnastics happen to reach a goal, but it's never going 683 00:36:33.039 --> 00:36:37.239 to unfold the way that I think. So surrender and 684 00:36:37.360 --> 00:36:40.039 letting go of control, letting go of the outcome has 685 00:36:40.079 --> 00:36:44.000 been a huge topic for me on my path, and 686 00:36:44.039 --> 00:36:46.760 I imagine that's probably something you work with a lot 687 00:36:46.760 --> 00:36:47.920 of your clients onto. 688 00:36:48.679 --> 00:36:56.119 Oh, surrender is so important because it's you staying okay, Soul, okay, Universe, Okay, God, okay, 689 00:36:56.199 --> 00:37:01.559 Higher Self. I trust you, Just take it out of 690 00:37:01.559 --> 00:37:07.639 my hands. I've done everything I can physically to facilitate 691 00:37:07.679 --> 00:37:10.920 and co create this experience or this particular desire or 692 00:37:10.920 --> 00:37:16.559 this manifestation, and it's now in your hands. Yeah, and 693 00:37:16.599 --> 00:37:18.679 you literally have to let it go. You literally, like 694 00:37:18.719 --> 00:37:20.960 I sometimes will write down the desire it's like it 695 00:37:21.039 --> 00:37:24.239 is done and then burn it or it into a 696 00:37:24.239 --> 00:37:27.239 bunch of pieces because it's like I really need it 697 00:37:27.320 --> 00:37:28.760 to go out of my energy. 698 00:37:29.079 --> 00:37:29.920 Yeah. 699 00:37:30.199 --> 00:37:32.480 It doesn't mean I've given up on it. It just 700 00:37:32.599 --> 00:37:36.239 means that I've decided that there's nothing more I'm going 701 00:37:36.280 --> 00:37:40.199 to do on this. And my intention is very powerful. 702 00:37:40.320 --> 00:37:44.840 I believe that our intentions are very powerful and manifest instantaneously, 703 00:37:45.440 --> 00:37:51.719 but not always in the physical instantaneously, so energetically they're manifested. 704 00:37:52.840 --> 00:37:56.000 You know, Universe works with all the other energies that 705 00:37:56.000 --> 00:37:59.639 are on the planet to co create and facilitate the experience. 706 00:38:00.119 --> 00:38:02.480 And then it's up to us to face our fears 707 00:38:02.960 --> 00:38:06.920 and have courage to actually take the steps that we 708 00:38:07.000 --> 00:38:09.360 need to take. Do the scary thing, make the call, 709 00:38:09.880 --> 00:38:14.519 have the confrontational conversation with this person or whatever. Well 710 00:38:14.559 --> 00:38:18.679 they won't like me after well they might not. Can 711 00:38:18.719 --> 00:38:21.159 you be okay with that? Can you like yourself enough 712 00:38:21.239 --> 00:38:25.199 that it's okay to have that conversation anyway? Can you 713 00:38:25.239 --> 00:38:28.239 be courageous and brave and bold enough to do it anyway? 714 00:38:28.639 --> 00:38:33.440 Yeah? Absolutely, I love that. I think the biggest thing though, 715 00:38:33.480 --> 00:38:37.400 that's yeah coming up for me is just that mental 716 00:38:37.440 --> 00:38:42.880 mind game that we play with ourselves and just like 717 00:38:42.960 --> 00:38:47.639 our intentions manifest instantaneously. And I was actually going to 718 00:38:47.679 --> 00:38:49.679 add on to what you were saying about, you know, 719 00:38:49.800 --> 00:38:51.840 burning what it is that you want, and you're right, 720 00:38:51.880 --> 00:38:56.000 it's not about not it's not about throwing that vision 721 00:38:56.079 --> 00:38:59.239 or that intention away, but rather just handing it over, right, 722 00:38:59.280 --> 00:39:01.039 like passing it up off, choosing that you're not going 723 00:39:01.119 --> 00:39:04.719 to obsess over how when if it happens, or try 724 00:39:04.760 --> 00:39:07.440 to figure out how it's going to happen. But you're saying, like, 725 00:39:07.840 --> 00:39:12.960 this is what I want. It's already happened, and show 726 00:39:13.000 --> 00:39:15.119 me the way, God, show me the way, Universe, Spirit, 727 00:39:15.199 --> 00:39:18.239 high yourself, whatever it is, and bring it to me. 728 00:39:18.360 --> 00:39:20.800 So yeah, I love that you mentioned that. One question 729 00:39:20.840 --> 00:39:25.280 that I always ask my podcast guess is what does 730 00:39:25.360 --> 00:39:26.679 alignment mean to you? 731 00:39:29.440 --> 00:39:38.360 Alignment means clarity and connection and embodiment of the mind, 732 00:39:38.960 --> 00:39:46.599 the body, the emotions, and the soul, and if one 733 00:39:46.599 --> 00:39:52.239 of them is off, there's misalignment. It's kind of like 734 00:39:52.320 --> 00:39:55.960 if you've imagine your physical body and your cells. They 735 00:39:55.960 --> 00:39:59.639 all work together to you know, repair your liver or 736

00:39:59.719 --> 00:40:04.199 to digest your food. If a bunch of them said, hey, 737 00:40:04.280 --> 00:40:06.039 you know what, I'm just not going to do that today, 738 00:40:07.519 --> 00:40:09.280 and then you had a bunch that were like, I'll 739 00:40:09.280 --> 00:40:11.239 do it, but I got to do over time, Well, 740 00:40:11.280 --> 00:40:14.400 you probably know some sort of issue or digestive problem 741 00:40:14.440 --> 00:40:19.639 for example. Right, So when you're everything is moving in 742 00:40:19.679 --> 00:40:24.199 towards the same direction with the same intention, that's alignment. 743 00:40:24.400 --> 00:40:28.440 That's to me, a true alignment because it's just you're 744 00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:30.280 all on the same page. You're all moving in the 745 00:40:30.280 --> 00:40:33.159 same direction, you're all working together. You're all like, Okay, 746 00:40:33.159 --> 00:40:35.000 this is my job, going to do it, This is 747 00:40:35.039 --> 00:40:37.280 my job, going to do it. Everyone has their jobs, 748 00:40:37.559 --> 00:40:42.400 and everyone doing their jobs gets the whole human body 749 00:40:42.559 --> 00:40:46.239 or the whole human vessel towards where it wants to go. 750 00:40:46.760 --> 00:40:50.559 Mm hm, I love that explanation. That's a really good 751 00:40:50.599 --> 00:40:54.360 image to put into perspective and just think about, because yeah, 752 00:40:54.360 --> 00:40:58.280 every piece of us does have a function or like 753 00:40:58.599 --> 00:41:01.239 a purpose, right, like a job to do, and if 754 00:41:01.360 --> 00:41:04.480 it's stuck doing other jobs or it's like you said 755 00:41:04.480 --> 00:41:08.920 the word earlier, if it's not what was the word 756 00:41:08.920 --> 00:41:12.039 that you used. When they're not, they're disconnected or they're 757 00:41:12.079 --> 00:41:12.679 just not. 758 00:41:12.760 --> 00:41:16.320 Dissociated, they're not on the same page. They're like pretty 759 00:41:16.360 --> 00:41:19.159 much directions like so one is I'm going to go 760 00:41:19.760 --> 00:41:23.440 I'm going to go process this fear because the breast 761 00:41:23.480 --> 00:41:25.480 of the human part of me is not willing to 762 00:41:25.519 --> 00:41:28.039 process this fear. So then there's a bunch of cells 763 00:41:28.039 --> 00:41:30.239 in your body that are trying to tackle this fear 764 00:41:30.280 --> 00:41:34.039 on its own. And then so it ends up creating 765 00:41:34.079 --> 00:41:35.679 what I would call split energy. 766 00:41:35.960 --> 00:41:38.960 Yes exactly what Yeah. 767 00:41:38.440 --> 00:41:41.199 So you have like okay, well here's the digestive cells, 768 00:41:41.199 --> 00:41:43.639 but here's the cells that actually that their job is 769 00:41:43.679 --> 00:41:47.760 not supposed to be processing this trauma. That's another parts 770 00:41:47.760 --> 00:41:49.760 of you job. But that part of you is being 771 00:41:49.800 --> 00:41:52.559 blocked by your ego or by a story or by 772 00:41:52.599 --> 00:41:54.920 a fear, and so you're not willing to do it. 773 00:41:55.159 --> 00:41:57.159 So now these cells or this part of you has 774 00:41:57.199 --> 00:42:01.440 to take over and then it creates thelo the split energy, 775 00:42:01.639 --> 00:42:02.199 the issue. 776 00:42:03.320 --> 00:42:09.239 I love that explanation in terms of relationships. Do you 777 00:42:10.320 --> 00:42:14.400 what would you say to someone who wants to have 778 00:42:14.760 --> 00:42:19.519 more fulfilling relationships but they're struggling with repeating the same 779 00:42:19.599 --> 00:42:21.039 patterns over and over again. 780 00:42:22.679 --> 00:42:25.719 Yeah, it's similar to what I was saying before. It's 781 00:42:25.760 --> 00:42:31.360 really about getting real when you go into that next relationship, 782 00:42:31.519 --> 00:42:35.360 are you doing it from a pure intentional place? And 783 00:42:35.559 --> 00:42:38.679 what is your intention? Why are you in that relationship? 784 00:42:39.679 --> 00:42:42.880 And if any of it is because I'm afraid of 785 00:42:43.400 --> 00:42:47.360 because I don't want to deal with, because I'm scared of, 786 00:42:47.840 --> 00:42:49.719 like I don't want to be alone, so I'm just 787 00:42:49.760 --> 00:42:53.079 going to go be with this person even though I 788 00:42:53.119 --> 00:42:55.960 haven't resolved whatever it was that I need to resolve. 789 00:42:55.960 --> 00:42:58.960 There's something I'm avoiding about myself. So that's where I 790 00:42:59.199 --> 00:43:02.880 often see pass terns of like relationships, like somebody like 791 00:43:02.920 --> 00:43:05.840 a I guess, a serial relationship person where they're just 792 00:43:05.920 --> 00:43:08.840 like in a relation, one after another after another after another. 793 00:43:09.400 --> 00:43:12.719 And what I see under like from the root cause 794 00:43:12.760 --> 00:43:15.599 of that is avoidance of self. Well, what's under the 795 00:43:15.639 --> 00:43:20.320 avoidance of self? I'm scared to deal with whatever it is. 796 00:43:20.679 --> 00:43:22.639 I'm scared to deal with this thing that happened with 797 00:43:22.800 --> 00:43:27.039 my first boyfriend or my first friend. Even doesn't even 798 00:43:27.079 --> 00:43:28.840 have to be a romantic part or it could be a 799 00:43:28.880 --> 00:43:31.119 friendship that fell apart when you were a kid or 800 00:43:31.119 --> 00:43:34.239 you were a teenager, and so since then, it's like 801 00:43:34.280 --> 00:43:36.880 you've always had this sort of barrier between you and 802 00:43:36.920 --> 00:43:40.599 other people, and so you end up manifesting similar types 803 00:43:40.639 --> 00:43:44.039 of behaviors as maybe the friend that created the breakdown, 804 00:43:44.599 --> 00:43:46.920 and the reason that that happens is because some part 805 00:43:46.920 --> 00:43:48.599 of you is trying to resolve it. It's the same 806 00:43:48.639 --> 00:43:52.199 with why a lot

of people will manifest issues that 807 00:43:52.400 --> 00:43:56.119 they had with their father. For example, especially women, they'll 808 00:43:56.119 --> 00:43:58.880 manifest similar issues that they had with their father in 809 00:43:59.000 --> 00:44:01.880 their current relationship. They might not look the same, it 810 00:44:01.920 --> 00:44:05.440 might not happen exactly the same way, but the energy 811 00:44:05.760 --> 00:44:09.400 signature is the same. And so what it is is 812 00:44:09.440 --> 00:44:12.119 that you haven't resolved this thing with your father. You 813 00:44:12.239 --> 00:44:15.760 haven't gone through whatever you need to do to resolve it. 814 00:44:15.800 --> 00:44:17.719 That doesn't mean you have to go and forgive him 815 00:44:17.719 --> 00:44:19.920 if he was being abusive to you, or that you 816 00:44:19.960 --> 00:44:22.880 should have contact with him if you've gotten no contact 817 00:44:22.880 --> 00:44:26.920 for very practical safety reasons, but it just means that 818 00:44:26.920 --> 00:44:30.199 there's an energy between you two that has not been resolved. 819 00:44:30.880 --> 00:44:33.360 And if you have anger, if you have resentment, if 820 00:44:33.440 --> 00:44:36.760 you have judgment, if you have hurt and pain and 821 00:44:37.159 --> 00:44:42.440 anything like that, that's not necessarily affecting him, that's affecting you. 822 00:44:42.639 --> 00:44:47.239 It's like you're carrying around a truckload of stuff and 823 00:44:47.280 --> 00:44:49.840 you're like, I need to hold onto this because I 824 00:44:49.880 --> 00:44:53.920 need to justify my feelings about this person and what 825 00:44:54.039 --> 00:44:57.360 they did. And again, it's not about excusing any bad 826 00:44:57.400 --> 00:45:02.079 behaviors that this is a very internal process. It's very 827 00:45:02.199 --> 00:45:05.119 much an energetic process. And so if you can confront 828 00:45:05.199 --> 00:45:09.480 these things that happened and start slow, you don't need 829 00:45:09.519 --> 00:45:11.480 to overwhelm yourself and try and do it all in 830 00:45:11.519 --> 00:45:14.559 one shot. Like, Hey, maybe I'm going to work on 831 00:45:15.679 --> 00:45:20.719 looking at my resentment today and I can recognize that 832 00:45:20.719 --> 00:45:22.880 that's not helping me to move forward in a way 833 00:45:22.880 --> 00:45:26.199 that I want to move forward in. And I feel 834 00:45:26.400 --> 00:45:31.119 justified in being resentful because of what happened, and at 835 00:45:31.119 --> 00:45:33.360 the same time, I recognize it's still not helping me. 836 00:45:34.480 --> 00:45:37.519 So it's kind of finding ways that work for you 837 00:45:38.239 --> 00:45:40.639 to work through these things. And I know that sounds 838 00:45:40.679 --> 00:45:42.960 really vague because there's so many different ways you could 839 00:45:43.440 --> 00:45:46.599 for practical reasons. You could start with EFT tapping, like 840 00:45:46.639 --> 00:45:49.079 emotional freedom technique. That's a really great one. I had 841 00:45:49.079 --> 00:45:52.679 a teacher for two years work with me on certain stuff. 842 00:45:52.719 --> 00:45:55.320 It was great, and so it was like became a 843 00:45:55.360 --> 00:45:57.760 modality that I turned to because it was very helpful 844 00:45:57.800 --> 00:46:01.440 to me. Might not resonate for everybody. Maybe journalings more 845 00:46:01.519 --> 00:46:04.519 your thing. Maybe you need to physically move the energy 846 00:46:04.559 --> 00:46:08.519 out through exercise or some sort of a movement. Maybe 847 00:46:08.519 --> 00:46:10.239 you need to ground more. Maybe you need to just 848 00:46:10.320 --> 00:46:12.199 sit your butt on the earth or walk on the 849 00:46:12.239 --> 00:46:14.519 sand on the beach. Whatever it is that helps you 850 00:46:14.639 --> 00:46:18.599 to move those old, dense energies, that's going to start 851 00:46:18.639 --> 00:46:23.519 to help. And that's the first step. It's about being 852 00:46:23.559 --> 00:46:26.440 honest about what happened, is being honest about how you 853 00:46:26.519 --> 00:46:29.440 really feel about it, and going to the part of 854 00:46:29.480 --> 00:46:32.039 you that feels like, well, I want them to suffer, 855 00:46:32.360 --> 00:46:34.199 so I'm going to continue to be mad at them, 856 00:46:34.199 --> 00:46:36.920 But they're not suffering while you'd be mad at them. 857 00:46:37.039 --> 00:46:39.920 You're suffering while you'd be mad at them. And so 858 00:46:40.039 --> 00:46:43.519 it's recognizing that that's not going to get you into 859 00:46:43.559 --> 00:46:46.280 where you want to go. And so if you're manifesting 860 00:46:46.280 --> 00:46:48.639 the same relationship over and over again, I would say 861 00:46:48.679 --> 00:46:53.519 pause and look at why you're avoid what you're avoiding, 862 00:46:54.159 --> 00:46:57.880 what you're afraid of, and why you can't let it go. 863 00:46:58.719 --> 00:47:01.119 What's your story about why you can't let it go? 864 00:47:01.199 --> 00:47:04.760 I can't let it go because and really inquire about it, 865 00:47:05.000 --> 00:47:07.760 ask it questions, because it's almost like you're asking a 866 00:47:07.800 --> 00:47:11.239 part of you questions that has information that you need. 867 00:47:11.760 --> 00:47:13.440 And this is why I love doing the work that 868 00:47:13.519 --> 00:47:15.920 I do because I can look at that, pull those 869 00:47:15.960 --> 00:47:18.800 and pull that information out and then we can clear 870 00:47:18.840 --> 00:47:21.280 it very quickly. You know, of course, if that person 871 00:47:21.440 --> 00:47:24.679 chooses to bring that story back, that's that's more work 872 00:47:24.719 --> 00:47:26.960 that they're going to end up having to do. But 873 00:47:27.480 --> 00:47:30.039 we can clear these things very quickly and bring you 874 00:47:30.079 --> 00:47:32.639 to a clean slate. But that's on you to decide.

875 00:47:33.519 --> 00:47:36.239 Are you really get real with yourself? Are you really 876 00:47:36.320 --> 00:47:39.039 ready to let it go? Or some part of you 877 00:47:39.159 --> 00:47:41.719 still getting something out of it? Is your ego still 878 00:47:41.760 --> 00:47:44.719 getting something out of it? It's okay if it is, 879 00:47:45.679 --> 00:47:48.199 like is this is not a judgment thing, This is 880 00:47:48.320 --> 00:47:49.679 just being honest. 881 00:47:50.039 --> 00:47:53.760 Yeah, it's almost like a coming to terms with what 882 00:47:54.000 --> 00:47:56.599 happened and with a way to move forward in a 883 00:47:56.639 --> 00:47:59.880 way that's going to be almost like freeing and feel 884 00:47:59.880 --> 00:48:04.719 like freedom for each individual person, whatever that looks like exactly. Yeah, 885 00:48:04.840 --> 00:48:06.840 I have one more question that I want to ask. 886 00:48:07.199 --> 00:48:09.719 So I went on a huge healing journey and I 887 00:48:09.800 --> 00:48:13.519 feel like I got to a place where I was 888 00:48:13.679 --> 00:48:17.239 super open with a lot of people, with strangers, with family, 889 00:48:17.320 --> 00:48:21.079 with and then something's happened in my life where it 890 00:48:21.320 --> 00:48:25.519 I felt like I closed off again, and so I 891 00:48:25.599 --> 00:48:28.079 and I've been healing and working through that. But I 892 00:48:28.119 --> 00:48:32.400 think a lot of people close their hearts or close 893 00:48:32.400 --> 00:48:35.199 off parts of who they are for fear of repeating 894 00:48:35.239 --> 00:48:38.360 the same patterns over and over again. And I wonder 895 00:48:38.559 --> 00:48:42.079 what your thoughts are on, like, how do you integrate 896 00:48:42.280 --> 00:48:46.960 those old experiences And there's obviously a purpose and a 897 00:48:47.000 --> 00:48:50.400 reason behind closing yourself off, but also come to a 898 00:48:50.440 --> 00:48:53.480 place where you can maybe have a little bit more 899 00:48:53.519 --> 00:49:00.280 discernment but also be free to be yourself around those 900 00:49:00.320 --> 00:49:02.199 that you love. Do you know what I'm saying. 901 00:49:03.159 --> 00:49:06.760 Yeah, that's a big question. And there are installments or 902 00:49:06.840 --> 00:49:09.639 like seasons that you've go through like kind of like 903 00:49:10.079 --> 00:49:13.719 you know, this idea of like you're experimenting and then 904 00:49:13.840 --> 00:49:16.920 you're in getting clear on something and then you're like, Okay, 905 00:49:16.920 --> 00:49:18.840 i'm gonna do this and I'm going to focus on it, 906 00:49:19.199 --> 00:49:20.679 and then I'm going to refine it, and then it's 907 00:49:20.719 --> 00:49:22.239 going to break down and then I'm going to have 908 00:49:22.760 --> 00:49:25.199 go through that cycle again. It's the same kind of 909 00:49:25.280 --> 00:49:28.599 idea of that in a sense, not exactly, but it's 910 00:49:28.639 --> 00:49:30.280 going through stages almost. 911 00:49:30.039 --> 00:49:33.559 Yeah, almost like the grief process of the grief cycle. 912 00:49:33.360 --> 00:49:37.519 Right exactly, And so I would even equate it to that, 913 00:49:37.559 --> 00:49:40.679 but each person is slightly different as to like why 914 00:49:40.760 --> 00:49:43.960 they're going through, like why that close hearted thing comes 915 00:49:44.039 --> 00:49:48.000 up again. And for me, it's more valuable to look 916 00:49:48.039 --> 00:49:51.760 at exactly what the root cause was, where it originally 917 00:49:51.800 --> 00:49:54.840 came from, because sometimes it doesn't even make sense, like 918 00:49:54.840 --> 00:49:57.840 I said, doesn't make sense to this lifetime. Sometimes there's 919 00:49:57.880 --> 00:50:01.760 a soul contract between you and that per where it's like, Okay, 920 00:50:01.800 --> 00:50:05.920 there's clearly an unresolved energy and so it keeps playing 921 00:50:06.000 --> 00:50:09.400 out in every relationship and I don't know why. And 922 00:50:09.480 --> 00:50:12.400 that's a blind spot. That's a real authentic blind spot. 923 00:50:12.440 --> 00:50:16.360 For somebody who may not see it that way, right, 924 00:50:17.159 --> 00:50:19.159 and so the way that I would do it, because 925 00:50:19.159 --> 00:50:21.599 this is like, it's not easy, and I'm not going 926 00:50:21.719 --> 00:50:24.079 to tell you that, oh yeah, just do this and 927 00:50:24.159 --> 00:50:28.519 it's easy, it's done. No, it's a complex situation. Yeah, 928 00:50:28.519 --> 00:50:31.920 it's a complicated situation because you have to go to 929 00:50:32.039 --> 00:50:36.159 the places where you originally felt like you were constantly 930 00:50:36.239 --> 00:50:39.559 let down or disappointed that when every time you were 931 00:50:39.639 --> 00:50:42.880 your true self you got knocked down a peg, you 932 00:50:43.000 --> 00:50:46.920 got you know, penalized for it, you got in trouble 933 00:50:47.000 --> 00:50:50.679 for it, or something bad happened, you lost people because 934 00:50:50.719 --> 00:50:53.760 of it. Now the other side of it is, well, 935 00:50:55.000 --> 00:50:57.960 maybe I lost people, but was it the reason that 936 00:50:58.039 --> 00:51:02.679 I thought it was me being authentic? Wasn't actually the 937 00:51:02.719 --> 00:51:05.840 reason why this? You know, So the original root cause 938 00:51:06.400 --> 00:51:09.000 might be something that had nothing to do with what 939 00:51:09.039 --> 00:51:11.280 your brain thought it was or what your inner child 940 00:51:11.400 --> 00:51:13.599 told you it was. Oh, here's the story, this is 941 00:51:13.599 --> 00:51:16.559 what really happened, and this is why. And then when 942 00:51:16.599 --> 00:51:19.280 you go from it from that bird's eye perspective, the 943 00:51:19.360 --> 00:51:23.280 soul's perspective, the higher minds perspective, the soul says, no, 944 00:51:23.360 --> 00:51:24.960 I had nothing to do with it.

That was just 945 00:51:25.000 --> 00:51:27.280 your story. You made that story up so that you 946 00:51:27.280 --> 00:51:30.280 could understand why that person was behaving that way with you. 947 00:51:31.119 --> 00:51:34.679 Oh okay, so it wasn't because I was being authentic. No, 948 00:51:35.119 --> 00:51:38.239 that person had some sort of an issue and maybe 949 00:51:38.400 --> 00:51:41.960 you being authentic emphasized to them that they were being 950 00:51:42.119 --> 00:51:45.280 very disingenuous about something and they got triggered by it. 951 00:51:45.320 --> 00:51:48.880 Does that mean you being authentic was bad? No, it 952 00:51:49.079 --> 00:51:52.400 just means that they had a very strong reaction to 953 00:51:52.679 --> 00:51:56.119 authenticity because they could feel in themselves that they were 954 00:51:56.239 --> 00:51:59.000 not doing it, that they were ashamed of it, maybe 955 00:51:59.039 --> 00:52:02.280 on some level felt bad about it, and you showing 956 00:52:02.320 --> 00:52:05.159 up authentically just highlighted it for them and made them 957 00:52:05.159 --> 00:52:09.559 feel uncomfortable with themselves. And so instead of, I don't know, 958 00:52:10.159 --> 00:52:14.559 working on themselves, they decided to project you know. And 959 00:52:14.639 --> 00:52:18.039 so it's really it's not always the case. Sometimes it's 960 00:52:18.079 --> 00:52:22.280 not projection. So I wouldn't automatically assume it's that, but 961 00:52:22.360 --> 00:52:25.880 I would just say explore could it be that? And 962 00:52:26.159 --> 00:52:29.119 was there some sort of projection that I internalized or 963 00:52:29.119 --> 00:52:33.199 that I interpreted as Like, because kids are very self focused, 964 00:52:34.159 --> 00:52:37.000 so they think that everything they do and everything that 965 00:52:37.079 --> 00:52:40.440 happens around them is because of them, and it gives 966 00:52:40.519 --> 00:52:43.440 them also a sense of control too, like, well, if 967 00:52:43.480 --> 00:52:45.400 it was because of me, I can fix that because 968 00:52:45.519 --> 00:52:48.519 I'm the problem. And that's not always the case. Yeah. 969 00:52:48.559 --> 00:52:50.719 Sometimes there's things that we do that we wish we 970 00:52:50.760 --> 00:52:53.360 hadn't done. And then there's other times where it's like, no, 971 00:52:53.519 --> 00:52:57.920 like this person being irrationally angry or miserable all the 972 00:52:57.960 --> 00:53:01.039 time really had nothing to do with me. They were 973 00:53:01.239 --> 00:53:03.559 being that way for whatever reason. They had their own 974 00:53:03.760 --> 00:53:07.599 stuff going on. I have to basically make peace with 975 00:53:07.639 --> 00:53:11.280 the fact that that person is miserable, that person is angry. 976 00:53:11.960 --> 00:53:14.280 I can't control them, and I can't make them feel 977 00:53:14.320 --> 00:53:18.320 better about themselves or their life. And that's where that 978 00:53:18.320 --> 00:53:21.679 can be very hard for somebody who wants to love 979 00:53:21.719 --> 00:53:24.199 and care about people around them or save them on 980 00:53:24.280 --> 00:53:26.760 some level. And that's where you have to face the 981 00:53:26.760 --> 00:53:29.880 fact that everyone's got their own things going on, and 982 00:53:29.960 --> 00:53:32.639 they also all have connection to the Divine, to their 983 00:53:32.719 --> 00:53:36.960 higher self, and they can turn to that at any time. Yeah, 984 00:53:37.000 --> 00:53:39.039 and it's their choice whether they do so or not, 985 00:53:39.119 --> 00:53:41.440 and you have no control over whether they do it. 986 00:53:41.719 --> 00:53:43.880 You can suggest it to them, you can say, hey, 987 00:53:43.960 --> 00:53:47.039 maybe look at this, and then they could just turn 988 00:53:47.079 --> 00:53:48.760 around and not do it, And you have to be 989 00:53:48.840 --> 00:53:51.760 detached from all of that. That can be very hard, 990 00:53:51.880 --> 00:53:56.559 especially if you're very like compassionate person. Yeah, so it's 991 00:53:56.599 --> 00:54:00.639 creating a little bit of detachment from that. If you're 992 00:54:00.679 --> 00:54:04.000 working through something like that and you're noticing that these 993 00:54:04.039 --> 00:54:08.840 sort of unfulfilling relationships continue to pop up, it's really, okay, 994 00:54:08.920 --> 00:54:14.599 what's the underlying story here, what happened originally, And it's 995 00:54:14.639 --> 00:54:16.719 always going to be one place, like there's going to 996 00:54:16.719 --> 00:54:20.000 be one origin point where all started, and you might 997 00:54:20.039 --> 00:54:22.239 not remember it, and that can be hard if you 998 00:54:22.320 --> 00:54:25.559 dissociated when you're a child, because your memories literally don't stick, 999 00:54:25.639 --> 00:54:28.760 but they stuck in your cells yourself remember. So you 1000 00:54:28.800 --> 00:54:31.760 could even talk to your body cells. I like to 1001 00:54:31.800 --> 00:54:34.400 do that sometimes like a scripting, like body cells, I 1002 00:54:34.440 --> 00:54:36.599 want you to talk to me about this body cells 1003 00:54:36.599 --> 00:54:38.239 on my liver. I want you to talk to me 1004 00:54:38.280 --> 00:54:42.400 about this and ask it questions. You know, and if 1005 00:54:42.400 --> 00:54:44.880 you have a strong connection to your intuition, you'll be 1006 00:54:44.880 --> 00:54:49.519 able to feel the difference between what's your conscious mind 1007 00:54:49.599 --> 00:54:53.960 or what's your higher self and these body cells. For example, 1008 00:54:54.480 --> 00:54:57.559 right it's going to feel very true when they speak. 1009 00:54:58.320 --> 00:55:01.360 When they say is going to feel true, and it's 1010 00:55:01.400 --> 00:55:04.679 not going to feel like completely are you sure? Yeah, 1011 00:55:05.199 --> 00:55:08.360 feel true. You're gonna have a connection to what

they're 1012 00:55:08.400 --> 00:55:10.559 saying because you're gonna be like, oh, I know that, 1013 00:55:11.920 --> 00:55:13.199 and this is just confirmation. 1014 00:55:13.760 --> 00:55:17.320 Yeah, that's amazing. Thank you for sharing that tool. I've 1015 00:55:17.360 --> 00:55:23.360 done some similar type of kind of visualization, but I 1016 00:55:23.400 --> 00:55:26.400 have never done it the way that you've shared, So 1017 00:55:26.559 --> 00:55:30.280 thank you so very valuable tool. Something that just came 1018 00:55:30.360 --> 00:55:32.480 up for me as you were talking is really just 1019 00:55:32.760 --> 00:55:39.400 I think our minds are so fixated on making meaning, 1020 00:55:39.639 --> 00:55:42.920 Like you mentioned right, and something that I used, I 1021 00:55:42.920 --> 00:55:44.800 think it was like one time with a client and 1022 00:55:44.840 --> 00:55:47.400 then she loved it so much that I'm like, I 1023 00:55:47.400 --> 00:55:49.760 need to use that more often with myself and with others. 1024 00:55:49.800 --> 00:55:52.639 But just really asking yourself, what if the thing that 1025 00:55:52.679 --> 00:55:57.639 you're making mean something so big actually means nothing. What 1026 00:55:57.679 --> 00:56:01.599 if it actually means absolutely nothing at all? Because people 1027 00:56:01.639 --> 00:56:03.280 will get stuck in their heads like oh, I can't 1028 00:56:03.320 --> 00:56:06.239 make money because I'm overweight, I can't make money because 1029 00:56:06.559 --> 00:56:08.679 I don't have any clients yet, I can't make money 1030 00:56:08.679 --> 00:56:11.119 because of this and that and the other thing, and 1031 00:56:11.159 --> 00:56:13.920 it's like, well, what if actually none of that is 1032 00:56:14.079 --> 00:56:17.079 real at all? And I think that that can sometimes 1033 00:56:17.199 --> 00:56:20.679 be a helpful place to just come back to neutrality 1034 00:56:20.800 --> 00:56:24.519 and just step into our power again and realize that actually, 1035 00:56:24.519 --> 00:56:27.440 at any moment, you can make whatever you want mean 1036 00:56:27.800 --> 00:56:28.599 whatever you want. 1037 00:56:30.079 --> 00:56:32.400 I have this I bought this notebook a while back, 1038 00:56:32.440 --> 00:56:35.440 and it's like conversation says on the title of it. 1039 00:56:35.440 --> 00:56:38.079 It's like just a journal and it says conversations with 1040 00:56:38.159 --> 00:56:42.159 the soul. And I just thought about, you know, like 1041 00:56:42.599 --> 00:56:45.960 if you just talk to your soul about what is 1042 00:56:46.000 --> 00:56:49.400 going on and you could actually tune in and listen 1043 00:56:49.440 --> 00:56:51.840 to it and know in fact that it is your soul, 1044 00:56:52.079 --> 00:56:54.679 Like that's important, have a level of discernment where it 1045 00:56:54.719 --> 00:56:58.159 can work on that. Okay, but if you're at that 1046 00:56:58.239 --> 00:57:00.880 point where you can do that, ask your soul, well, 1047 00:57:00.920 --> 00:57:06.000 objectively or what is the actual truth of the situation? Yeah, right, 1048 00:57:06.440 --> 00:57:08.960 And so it might say, well, there's a lesson here, 1049 00:57:09.480 --> 00:57:15.000 there's again the situation. There's there's something that's actually in 1050 00:57:15.079 --> 00:57:17.559 service to you. You know, this person came out of 1051 00:57:17.639 --> 00:57:20.840 your life because your souls were no longer walking the 1052 00:57:20.840 --> 00:57:24.400 same path. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong. It 1053 00:57:24.440 --> 00:57:26.880 doesn't mean that. You know, if you feel you did 1054 00:57:26.880 --> 00:57:29.840 something wrong, address that and actually work through that, take 1055 00:57:29.840 --> 00:57:33.960 accountability within yourself for that if that's actually true. But 1056 00:57:34.039 --> 00:57:36.519 if you do that and you still feel like, but 1057 00:57:37.480 --> 00:57:39.800 I still must have done something else and I can't 1058 00:57:39.800 --> 00:57:43.440 fathom what it might have been, ask your soul. Ask 1059 00:57:43.480 --> 00:57:46.079 your soul. You could even have Sometimes I do this 1060 00:57:46.119 --> 00:57:49.599 before bed. It's like, if I have a question, I'll 1061 00:57:50.000 --> 00:57:52.199 say to my higher self or I'll just talk to myself. 1062 00:57:52.480 --> 00:57:55.079 I want to have the answer to this particular thing 1063 00:57:55.119 --> 00:57:59.079 that I'm dealing with through my dream state. Make up 1064 00:57:59.119 --> 00:58:02.320 the next day and I might get an obvious answer 1065 00:58:02.400 --> 00:58:05.280 like drop into my into my crown chakra and I 1066 00:58:05.360 --> 00:58:08.039 just hear it right away. And other times it just 1067 00:58:08.159 --> 00:58:11.400 happens through my life experience and I just see things 1068 00:58:11.480 --> 00:58:13.880 or I notice things and it's like, oh my god, 1069 00:58:13.960 --> 00:58:17.639 that's the answer. I'll go on Facebook and I'll see 1070 00:58:17.679 --> 00:58:23.360 like a thing that pops up and I'm like, okay, 1071 00:58:23.480 --> 00:58:28.280 you know, cute Twilight Zone music, but yeah, it's it's 1072 00:58:28.320 --> 00:58:31.239 you know, there's so many ways that we can communicate 1073 00:58:31.280 --> 00:58:33.320 with ourselves. You can even do it through nature. You 1074 00:58:33.360 --> 00:58:35.320 could talk to me truth. Yeah. 1075 00:58:35.559 --> 00:58:38.679 I love bringing nature lessons into my life and just 1076 00:58:38.800 --> 00:58:46.360 leaning on the elements for support. Yeah, so you are 1077 00:58:46.480 --> 00:58:48.639 launching a mini mind. Do you want to tell us 1078 00:58:48.639 --> 00:58:49.079 about it? 1079 00:58:49.519 --> 00:58:52.880 Yes? So this mini mind it's called Day from a 1080 00:58:52.920 --> 00:58:57.159 Clean Slate, and it's about discovering how to become a 1081 00:58:57.199 --> 00:59:01.159 magnet to your

ideal partner. And it's really about the 1082 00:59:01.239 --> 00:59:04.440 dating process. It's about getting you into So if you're 1083 00:59:04.599 --> 00:59:08.559 somebody who is dating or wants to date like this 1084 00:59:08.760 --> 00:59:11.679 is and you're this typically for women. I mean, if 1085 00:59:11.719 --> 00:59:13.599 you're a dude and you want to come in, that's okay, 1086 00:59:13.639 --> 00:59:16.000 But just so you know, this is centered towards women. 1087 00:59:16.559 --> 00:59:19.800 But essentially, what we're going to do is that seven days, 1088 00:59:19.800 --> 00:59:23.679 we're going to go through different levels of connecting to 1089 00:59:24.280 --> 00:59:28.519 what's coming up and what's creating blockages within you that 1090 00:59:28.840 --> 00:59:33.840 keep facilitating similar experiences. Cause it's sort of like, oh, 1091 00:59:33.880 --> 00:59:35.360 you know, I'm going to show up for this date 1092 00:59:35.519 --> 00:59:38.280 and little does this person know I have all this baggage, 1093 00:59:38.280 --> 00:59:40.000 but I'm going to show up with a smile and 1094 00:59:40.039 --> 00:59:42.280 beautiful makeup on my face and I'm just going to 1095 00:59:42.360 --> 00:59:44.960 look like top tier and they're not going to know 1096 00:59:45.039 --> 00:59:47.360 about it until six months down the line or three 1097 00:59:47.360 --> 00:59:49.800 months down the line that I'm hiding a lot of 1098 00:59:49.800 --> 00:59:55.599 this old, unresolved stuff. I ex did this anytime that 1099 00:59:55.719 --> 00:59:58.159 you know, anything where it's like I was a victim 1100 00:59:58.159 --> 01:00:01.360 to the situation. These people always do this to meet 1101 01:00:01.400 --> 01:00:03.840 Like those kinds of things are things that we can 1102 01:00:03.920 --> 01:00:08.320 resolve through energy work, through emotional healing, through mental healings. 1103 01:00:08.320 --> 01:00:10.920 I'm going to be creating videos for this, and so 1104 01:00:11.119 --> 01:00:14.320 each day you're going to be able to receive and 1105 01:00:14.599 --> 01:00:17.519 a download basically that I'm going to bring through. We're 1106 01:00:17.559 --> 01:00:19.360 going to start with what do you want and get 1107 01:00:19.360 --> 01:00:22.920 clear on that and think about things that you know, 1108 01:00:23.800 --> 01:00:26.159 I don't think it's possible to have a really awesome 1109 01:00:26.239 --> 01:00:29.320 dating experience, if that's something you want, or really awesome 1110 01:00:29.400 --> 01:00:32.280 dating experience, or maybe you don't really want to date anymore. 1111 01:00:32.280 --> 01:00:34.199 You're like, I kind of want to meet somebody, but 1112 01:00:34.239 --> 01:00:36.840 I don't really want to do the traditional dating approach. 1113 01:00:37.480 --> 01:00:39.960 You know, I want something else. The reason your heart 1114 01:00:40.000 --> 01:00:41.920 is saying you want something else is because something

else 1115 01:00:42.039 --> 01:00:47.239 is available and so or you're avoiding something. So we'll 1116 01:00:47.519 --> 01:00:49.719 figure out one of the two. One of the two 1117 01:00:50.159 --> 01:00:52.199 and so I'm going to be doing Q and as 1118 01:00:52.280 --> 01:00:54.840 throughout the challenge as well to just sort of address 1119 01:00:54.880 --> 01:00:58.800 people's stuff because as using my gifts, I can pinpoint 1120 01:00:58.880 --> 01:01:01.079 specific things and what you would need to do to 1121 01:01:01.159 --> 01:01:03.719 address it, and then we're going to probably do some 1122 01:01:03.920 --> 01:01:06.360 energy healing through it as well, so you'd be able 1123 01:01:06.400 --> 01:01:10.079 to attend those and so yeah, that's what I'm really 1124 01:01:10.119 --> 01:01:13.159 excited about delivering this because I think a lot of 1125 01:01:13.199 --> 01:01:15.400 people are looking for something like this. I know I 1126 01:01:15.760 --> 01:01:18.119 kind of wanted something like this, and I thought, you know, 1127 01:01:18.320 --> 01:01:21.320 this idea of like I don't have to kind of 1128 01:01:21.360 --> 01:01:23.920 try and sift and sort through a bunch of like 1129 01:01:24.960 --> 01:01:30.039 you know, like bargain bin bargain basement time dates. You know, 1130 01:01:30.159 --> 01:01:34.280 I can actually get myself into an aligned relationship without 1131 01:01:34.360 --> 01:01:39.320 having to put myself through really crummy experiences. And that 1132 01:01:39.360 --> 01:01:42.599 doesn't mean things aren't going to test your courage or 1133 01:01:42.679 --> 01:01:45.280 things aren't going to test your ego. It just means 1134 01:01:45.519 --> 01:01:48.000 that you're going to be on a higher path towards 1135 01:01:48.039 --> 01:01:52.239 a more conscious relationship. And so typically spiritual and conscious 1136 01:01:52.280 --> 01:01:55.559 women are going to be drawn to my work in general, 1137 01:01:55.880 --> 01:01:59.360 but especially to this program if you're just kind of like, yeah, 1138 01:01:59.440 --> 01:02:02.719 I've done this sort of like conventional matrix style dating, 1139 01:02:03.360 --> 01:02:05.840 and I'm miserable. I'm not happy with it. It's not 1140 01:02:05.880 --> 01:02:08.559 giving me what I want. I want something that's going 1141 01:02:08.639 --> 01:02:11.280 to light my soul up. You know, you might end 1142 01:02:11.360 --> 01:02:14.679 up with somebody or find somebody who you completely couldn't 1143 01:02:14.679 --> 01:02:17.400 even imagine you would be with. But because your hearts 1144 01:02:17.400 --> 01:02:20.360 are so aligned and you feel so loved in that relationship, 1145 01:02:20.639 --> 01:02:23.559 you're like, WHOA. I never would have imagined that my 1146 01:02:23.679 --> 01:02:25.840 soul could take me to this because my mind, sure 1147 01:02:25.840 --> 01:02:28.199 as heck wasn't and my mind was the one that 1148 01:02:28.360 --> 01:02:31.039 was basically trying to create all the dates and set 1149 01:02:31.119 --> 01:02:34.519 up all the dates and choose the right person. It's like, 1150 01:02:34.559 --> 01:02:37.960 but my mind is pulled in a dozen different directions. 1151 01:02:37.960 --> 01:02:41.719 It's got trauma, it's got conditioning, it's got you know, 1152 01:02:42.199 --> 01:02:48.480 fanciful ideas that are mostly disguised for avoidance. So let 1153 01:02:48.480 --> 01:02:51.840 me get onto track where my soul actually wants to go, 1154 01:02:51.920 --> 01:02:54.880 so that I can have that conscious relationship where I 1155 01:02:54.960 --> 01:02:58.760 feel the way I want to feel in the relationship itself, 1156 01:02:59.400 --> 01:03:01.840 and feel the way I want to feel while I'm dating. 1157 01:03:01.960 --> 01:03:05.320 Maybe I want a more exciting experience, a more fun experience. 1158 01:03:06.039 --> 01:03:08.480 You know, I don't want to be ghosted. Okay, let's 1159 01:03:08.679 --> 01:03:11.199 let's find out why you're getting ghosted all the time. 1160 01:03:11.280 --> 01:03:15.280 Let's sort out the real cause of that, Fredom And 1161 01:03:15.320 --> 01:03:17.480 so this is going to be very much tapping into 1162 01:03:17.760 --> 01:03:19.599 what are the fears coming up and what do we 1163 01:03:19.599 --> 01:03:22.599 need to do to release them specifically for you as 1164 01:03:22.639 --> 01:03:24.360 you come into the Master of the Mini Mind. 1165 01:03:24.800 --> 01:03:27.840 Amazing, it sounds so good. Is pretty much doing all 1166 01:03:27.880 --> 01:03:29.760 of the work that we talked about today, like that 1167 01:03:29.920 --> 01:03:32.599 mental work, the emotional work, the healing work to be 1168 01:03:32.679 --> 01:03:37.760 able to manifest your ideal partners. So it's incredible. Thank you. 1169 01:03:37.880 --> 01:03:40.840 Is there anything else that you would like to leave 1170 01:03:40.840 --> 01:03:43.039 our audience with today, whether it's like a piece of 1171 01:03:43.079 --> 01:03:47.320 advice or just like anything last words that you would 1172 01:03:47.360 --> 01:03:48.000 like to share. 1173 01:03:49.519 --> 01:03:52.920 Yeah, you know, it's it's not easy to do this work, 1174 01:03:53.239 --> 01:03:57.400 and sometimes it requires confronting things that you're like, can 1175 01:03:57.519 --> 01:03:59.440 it just stay in the past. I just don't want 1176 01:03:59.480 --> 01:04:02.519 to think about it anymore. But even saying that you're 1177 01:04:02.559 --> 01:04:05.360 still thinking about it, it's still living in your head. 1178 01:04:05.440 --> 01:04:09.159 Rent free. So if you have a bunch of that, 1179 01:04:10.960 --> 01:04:14.239 you know, like reach out if you're looking for additional support. 1180 01:04:14.320 --> 01:04:16.400 And if you're like, Okay, I kind of want to 1181 01:04:16.440 --> 01:04:19.559 figure out how to do this, start confronting it, start 1182 01:04:19.559 --> 01:04:22.400 your own process,

you can work through that. Like you 1183 01:04:22.400 --> 01:04:26.320 know how I you know, I just basically started with 1184 01:04:26.719 --> 01:04:28.960 the inquiry. I want to figure out how to work 1185 01:04:29.000 --> 01:04:31.199 through this thing because I don't want it to be 1186 01:04:31.280 --> 01:04:33.760 a part of my daily life anymore. Like I'm over 1187 01:04:33.800 --> 01:04:38.559 this pattern. I'm tired of it. And so that actually 1188 01:04:38.639 --> 01:04:41.559 ended up manifesting me all the different tools and things 1189 01:04:41.559 --> 01:04:43.440 that I do. And that's how I get a lot 1190 01:04:43.440 --> 01:04:45.519 of my healing modalities. I'll just sit there and I'll think, 1191 01:04:45.559 --> 01:04:47.559 isn't there a faster way to do this? This and this? 1192 01:04:48.199 --> 01:04:51.280 And within usually a day or two, I get a 1193 01:04:51.320 --> 01:04:54.440 download of like here, try this, do this technique or 1194 01:04:54.480 --> 01:04:57.639 do this thing, and it's like whoa, that was way better. 1195 01:04:58.199 --> 01:05:00.840 And so those can be really easy like answers for me, 1196 01:05:02.119 --> 01:05:05.039 you know, because I have a belief that manifesting answers 1197 01:05:05.119 --> 01:05:07.880 is the easiest thing in the world for me, and 1198 01:05:08.840 --> 01:05:11.679 you know, I truly believe that, and I've experienced that. 1199 01:05:11.880 --> 01:05:16.039 And so if I can manifest an answer answer instantaneously, 1200 01:05:16.079 --> 01:05:19.840 I will. And so whatever your answer is you know, 1201 01:05:20.000 --> 01:05:24.159 those of you listening follow that trust that maybe it 1202 01:05:24.280 --> 01:05:26.719 is working with somebody. Maybe it is buying that book 1203 01:05:26.719 --> 01:05:29.159 you've been thinking about. Maybe it is doing this course 1204 01:05:29.239 --> 01:05:31.679 that you were you were you know, somebody your friend 1205 01:05:31.719 --> 01:05:34.920 recommended to you. Maybe it's working with that person that 1206 01:05:35.000 --> 01:05:38.079 your friend referred you to. Maybe it's listening to this podcast. 1207 01:05:38.719 --> 01:05:41.960 Maybe this podcast gave you the answer you were praying for, 1208 01:05:42.440 --> 01:05:45.159 And you don't have to actively be praying your mind, 1209 01:05:45.519 --> 01:05:48.840 your heart, your soul. We're all basically saying, I want this, 1210 01:05:48.920 --> 01:05:50.880 I want this. Help me to find this, help me 1211 01:05:50.960 --> 01:05:54.400 to guide me to this, connect me to this. You 1212 01:05:54.559 --> 01:05:56.960 just never know what you're gonna end up finding, and 1213 01:05:57.039 --> 01:05:58.920 don't be afraid to take the step. 1214 01:06:00.760 --> 01:06:03.880 Yeah. Those are really great pieces of advice because we 1215 01:06:03.920 --> 01:06:07.320 can get all of the intuitive downloads and nudges that 1216 01:06:07.360 --> 01:06:10.199 we ask for, but if we don't actually act on it, 1217 01:06:10.239 --> 01:06:12.920 if we don't create this space to sit with ourselves 1218 01:06:13.039 --> 01:06:15.880 or reach out to the people we're thinking of, then 1219 01:06:16.039 --> 01:06:19.679 it's kind of weightless. 1220 01:06:19.920 --> 01:06:22.480 Yeah. It's sort of like, well, you asked for the answer, 1221 01:06:22.519 --> 01:06:25.800 but you didn't do what. You didn't actually follow through 1222 01:06:25.840 --> 01:06:27.760 on it. Are you sure you really want it? 1223 01:06:28.039 --> 01:06:28.519 Yeah? 1224 01:06:28.559 --> 01:06:31.960 Absolutely so. Sometimes that opportunity might disappear and I might 1225 01:06:32.000 --> 01:06:34.239 come back again, but you might have to wait another 1226 01:06:34.320 --> 01:06:38.559 six months. So you can either say yes right now, 1227 01:06:38.639 --> 01:06:40.840 or you can say yes six months or year or 1228 01:06:40.880 --> 01:06:42.880 two years or five years, or however long you want 1229 01:06:42.920 --> 01:06:44.280 to wait. You can wait as long as you like, 1230 01:06:44.920 --> 01:06:48.400 but you're going to keep moving through a similar pattern 1231 01:06:49.639 --> 01:06:52.800 until you say yes, and it's okay. You know. I 1232 01:06:52.840 --> 01:06:56.320 feel like I've had to learn compassion for myself taking 1233 01:06:56.360 --> 01:06:59.000 for something taking longer than I think it should because 1234 01:06:59.000 --> 01:07:00.719 I had a lot of unred all of fear, and 1235 01:07:00.760 --> 01:07:04.199 I wasn't ready to face it. It's never impossible for 1236 01:07:04.239 --> 01:07:07.679 you to move forward. You can move forward at any time. 1237 01:07:08.519 --> 01:07:10.480 But you can move forward now or you can move 1238 01:07:10.639 --> 01:07:13.480 forward later, and that's okay too. Either one is good. 1239 01:07:13.519 --> 01:07:16.559 But if you're ready to move forward now, take your steps. 1240 01:07:16.880 --> 01:07:19.960 Yeah. I love that. That's really great advice. Thank you 1241 01:07:20.000 --> 01:07:22.360 so much for coming on and for sharing your journey 1242 01:07:22.360 --> 01:07:24.239 with us, and just for sharing all of the good 1243 01:07:24.320 --> 01:07:28.159 nuggets that you did. I really appreciate it, and I 1244 01:07:28.199 --> 01:07:31.800 will link all of your Instagram and your details below 1245 01:07:31.840 --> 01:07:33.280 Setter people can find you. 1246 01:07:33.920 --> 01:07:35.920 Thank you so much for having me. I so appreciate it. 1247 01:07:35.960 --> 01:07:37.039 Leach a break and review. 1248 01:07:38.119 --> 01:07:40.920 Thank you so much for tuning into the podcast today. 1249 01:07:41.079 --> 01:07:43.159 If you like what you heard, I would love it 1250 01:07:43.199 --> 01:07:45.920 if you left a review. If you like my vibe, 1251 01:07:46.000 --> 01:07:49.079 come and hang with me in my Facebook or Telegram group. 1252 01:07:49.199 --> 01:07:51.559 I'll drop the link to my email list below, or 1253 01:07:51.599 --> 01:07:54.360 you can get instant access. Make sure you check the 1254 01:07:54.360 --> 01:07:56.840 show notes for any other links that I mentioned today, 1255 01:07:57.480 --> 01:08:01.199 and until next time, I'm sending you waves of abundance.