# Sue Johnson

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Pursue-Withdraw Cycle: Why New Parents Fight at 3 AM

It's 3 AM, the baby's crying, and your shoulders are up by your ears before you've had a single thought. If you and your partner have been fighting more since becoming parents, this episode is about what's happening underneath those fights, starting in the body. In this episode of Love in Practice,…

Ep 32. What If Intimacy Is the Missing Piece in Porn Recovery?

Most men try to quit porn by trying harder: more willpower, more shame, more resolve. But unwanted pornography use isn’t a moral failing. It’s an attachment wound. In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Michael Anderson explains how porn becomes a substitute attachment figure. He c…

Ep. 131 - Attachment Wounds, Perfectionism & Identity in Christ: Who Are You Without the Role? | Jennifer Coulter, LCSW

Who are you when you are not achieving, fixing, performing, helping, or being the strong one? In Episode 131 of The Holistic Counselor Podcast, Diana S. Rice, LMHC, CIMHP, QS, sits down with Jennifer Coulter, LCSW, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, licensed minister, speaker, and founder of R…

149. Why We’re Stronger Together: Jim Coan on EFT, Attachment, The Brain, and Neurodivergence.

What does the brain tell us about connection, attachment, and the work of letting someone help? In this interview, Dr. Jim Coan joins EFT therapists Dr. James Hawk and Dr. Ryan Reyna to discuss the research behind Social Baseline Theory, hand-holding, and the ways relationships can help us share th…

ERP 553: Beyond Attachment Styles: How Relationships Can Help Us Heal and Grow — An Interview with Seth Allison

Are you tired of repeating the same arguments in your relationship, feeling stuck in patterns you just can't seem to break? Many couples struggle with unresolved conflicts and longing for deeper intimacy, often not realizing that old attachment patterns and inner self-protective instincts are quiet…

How to Have Hard Conversations Without Hurting Your Relationship (Episode #143)

How to Have Hard Conversations Without Hurting Your Relationship The Human Intimacy Podcast With Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis, LCSW Why do difficult conversations so often leave us feeling more disconnected? Most couples don't struggle because they aren't communicating. They struggle b…

Episode 617 It's Not the Conflict—It's What Happens Next

Just because an argument ends doesn't mean the relationship has been repaired. This week on Mental Health Monday Mini, we're exploring rupture and repair—why conflict can leave us feeling emotionally disconnected, how our nervous systems respond to unresolved tension, and three practical ways to re…

Why Your Marriage Went Cold: Sex Isn't the Problem, It's the Symptom

How did we go from not being able to keep our hands off each other to barely touching anymore?If you have asked that question in the quiet, hear this first: you are not strange, and you are not alone. A 2025 national marriage health survey by Ipsos for Focus on the Family found sexual issues ranked…

The Fight Is Older Than You: Family of Origin and Relationship Conflict

How many of us actually chose how we fight? Most of us inherited our conflict style before we had words for it. We absorbed from the people who raised us, shaped by the homes we grew up in, and carried into our partnerships without ever being named. When you can see the pattern, you can stop living…

Are You There for Me? Rebuilding Emotional Safety After Sexual Betrayal (Episode #144)

Are You There for Me? Rebuilding Emotional Safety After Sexual Betrayal After sexual betrayal, “Are you there for me?” can be one of the hardest questions to ask. The betrayed partner may wonder whether it’s safe to lean on the person who hurt them. The partner who broke trust may fear rejection a…