# Bruce Abbott

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I Shouldn’t Have to Ask (Shame Podcast Series)

“I shouldn’t have to ask.” I shouldn’t have to ask my wife for affection. I shouldn’t have to ask her to initiate sex. I shouldn’t have to ask to feel wanted. Those feelings are understandable. We want affection and desire that feel natural and freely given. But sometimes “I shouldn’t have to ask” …

Bringing Shame Out of the Darkness (Shame Podcast Series)

Shame grows in secrecy. It tells you that if people really knew you, they might reject you, judge you, or stop loving you. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott talks about what happens when shame pushes you to hide parts of yourself. You may feel shame about addiction, anxiet…

Dude, I'm Not A Failure As A Husband (Shame Podcast Series)

I recently received a comment on my podcast about shame. "Dude, I'm not a failure as a Husband.  It's her avoidance." What if you know you are a good husband? What if you know you deserve affection, intimacy, and emotional connection? Can shame still be affecting your marriage? Yes, because shame d…

Disapproval Equals Danger (Shame Podcast Series)

Why does someone being upset with you feel so uncomfortable? For many people with anxious attachment, disapproval can feel like danger. Your wife gets irritated, your boss criticizes you, or someone disagrees with a boundary, and your nervous system immediately wants to fix the situation. You expla…

The Fearful Avoidant Husband (FA Podcast Series)

About 90% of the men I work with are fearful avoidant.  What does that mean? In this first episode of The Fearful Avoidant Husband Podcast Series, Bruce Abbott looks at why some husbands can appear highly anxious when they are married to a dismissive avoidant wife. You want affection, sex, emotiona…

The Fearful Avoidant Husband's Three Options (FA Podcast Series)

The fearful avoidant husband can feel trapped between two powerful thoughts: “I want to save my marriage” and “I cannot live like this forever.” In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott explains three broad options when you feel stuck in an unhappy marriage. Option one: Stay wher…

Bride of Re-Animator (1990) *FIRST TIME WATCHING* - Film Fanatic Commentary - Season 10

An Audio-Only Commentary on the 1990 film BRIDE OF RE-ANIMATOR by John Doe. Starring Jeffrey Combs, Bruce Abbott, Claude Earl Jones, Fabiana Udenio, David Gale, Kathleen Kinmont, Mel Stewart. Directed by Brian Yuzna. Doctors Herbert West and Dan Cain discover the secret to creating human life and p…

How Did You Become Fearful Avoidant? (FA Podcast Series)

How does a man develop fearful avoidant attachment, and why do childhood experiences affect his marriage decades later? In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott explains how childhood attachment wounds can shape the way a husband handles love, rejection, conflict, and emotional i…

Re-Animator (1985) Review: Mad Science Meets Dark Comedy!

In this episode of Mindset Movie Reviews, I take a closer look at Re-Animator (1985). Directed by Stuart Gordon, starring Jeffrey Combs, Bruce Abbott, Barbara Crampton, David Gale, and Robert Sampson. ⭐ Rating: 4.0/5 🏆 IMDb: 7.1/10 🎬 Genre: Horror, Sci-Fi, and Comedy ⏱ Runtime: 84 minutes 📅…

The Dismissive Avoidant and The Fearful Avoidant Cycle (FA Podcast Series)

Why does a fearful avoidant husband keep chasing connection while his dismissive avoidant wife keeps pulling away? And why can two people who love each other end up feeling so alone in their marriage? In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott explains the fearful avoidant and dism…