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Hello everyone, this is Lawrence Elrod with Thirsty Topics.
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And I am Meryl Clemo, also with Thirsty Topics.
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Meryl, how are you doing today?
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Oh my gosh, I am good, my friend.
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I just got back yesterday from Las Vegas where I won a total of $6.
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I don't mean to brag on here, but hey, anything other than zero is a win, right?
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Exactly.
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I think we actually probably lost about $ 500 in food and just taxi cabs, but overall it was very fun.
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I stayed at Mandalay Bay and we had a really good time.
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Nice, nice.
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Mine was just the regular day-to-day stuff here, but it's actually pretty warm now.
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It was in the 50s and actually we have 70s coming, I think, this Friday.
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Ooh nice, so finally getting warm weather, and I'm enjoying that, to be honest.
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Oh, I love that.
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It's so nice when it starts to feel like that, when you get a little spring in your step.
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Oh, absolutely, absolutely.
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We had another tiny earthquake here yesterday, but it was so mild and once again I was just sitting on the couch and it's like you just feel what's happening and you're like, oh interesting, okay I don't know, does it seem like there's been a lot more earthquakes now?
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Yeah, it always seems like that happens, where there'll be like a few close and then nothing will happen for a month but, or a couple months but.
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Must have been so small that they didn't even report on it.
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I know, yep, it was teeny tiny.
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Well, that's a good thing.
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It is a good thing.
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Well, we're going to start off on a great note.
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This wonderful woman, her name is Ashley Lauren Elrod.
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She was actually interviewed on Thirsty Conversations, which is on LRodTVNetworkcom, and she is going to be on a CBS show called FBI.
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Cool.
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Okay, now I have to ask the last name is the same?
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Is this a cousin?
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Yes, Full disclosure.
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She's my cousin.
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Yay, oh my gosh, that's amazing.
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So, yeah, I'm looking forward to that.
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Obviously, depending on where you're at, the times may vary, but she's going to be on Tuesday, march 18th.
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Okay, okay.
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Well, now tell us a little bit about her.
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Is she like an actress, full-time, or is she?
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she's an actress, she's also a producer director, um, and she has a company called um visionary woman, uh, which is a production company.
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So, um, you know, she actually has a few projects that she's working on for her company, and what's really really nice about her is she's very down to earth.
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She's been in the industry a long time, both in front and behind the camera, so she has a lot of experience.
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Oh my gosh Good.
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And do you know anything about her storyline?
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Yet we can't tell anyone.
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You know what she didn't.
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Let us know what the storyline is, yeah, which I can understand because there's probably a lot of legality about you know, we'll sue your family and everything if you say yeah, it's like, just so you know.
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This happens during the episode and it ends up this way yeah, I can imagine.
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But yeah, I definitely wanted to start everything off on a very, very positive note.
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That is so cool.
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Well, congrats to her, and we'll have to watch.
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I have not seen that show.
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Yes, that definitely gives me a reason to watch it too, so I know it sounds pretty good.
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I feel like, especially now, all of those like Secret Service, fbi, white House, like all those shows are extra cool, like I'm extra invested during this time.
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Absolutely so.
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Yeah, when it gets closer to it, I'll mention it again, but I at least wanted to start off sharing the good news.
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Yeah, when it's out, I will definitely watch it and we'll recap it.
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That's so cool.
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Yeah it's actually kind of nice to have someone you know on a major network that was on the show.
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I know, now we also have to hear from her.
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See, you guys are already close, but it's going to be funny hearing from her who in her life like randomly, reaches out, like hey girl, I just saw you on this, or you know, because I that definitely happens a lot, even like on a small scale.
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If I post a comedy flyer or something people will be like immediately I'll get a dm from someone like hello, I'm like go away.
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So I could just imagine when you're on like a big show, people are probably up your booty.
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Well, that's so cool.
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Well
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sounds like, uh, we'll definitely be watching a new show and I look forward to that.
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I'm getting ready for my.
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My next topic.
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I'm going to start out.
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I'm not agree.
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We're going to mine will be the most bummer one first and then it will just get happier and happier.
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But, um, I don't know if you've heard of there's a college student that's currently missing At this time.
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When I last checked, she's still missing.
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She's a college student from Pittsburgh, university of Pittsburgh student, and she disappeared last week on spring break in the Dominican Republic, sudiksha Sunaki, a 20-year-old United States resident.
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She was last seen on surveillance camera with seven other people entering the beach at her hotel at 4.15 am and then the story gets a little bit hazy where, like, some of her friends may have left her and then there was one guy that I think she was out with, and then the guy said that they were kind of in the waves like getting tossing and turning, and then he went out to the beach because he wasn't feeling well and then he slept on the sand and then when he woke up she was gone and then at 4 pm that day they called the police and they've been looking for her ever since, on like the air and the sea.
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They've been looking everywhere.
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Um, I mean, don't you?
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You feel like this happens every couple of years, where there's like a very shady story about and we don't know whether it's like foul play or the locals or something that's just an accident.
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You know there's alcohol involved with the ocean and so it's very scary.
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I can just imagine her parents are not feeling very good.
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Oh yeah, I mean, actually there's a few things that played here not feeling very good.
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Oh yeah, I mean, actually there's a few things that played here.
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One to me, you really have to be careful who you call friends that you have.
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Just someone calls you a friend doesn't mean they're your friend.
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And then, plus too, you know it's a shame, but you know, every so often you hear about these stories and you kind of hope that there's no foul play involved, there's no human trafficking involved.
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Yes, because they're in a different country.
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Yeah.
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And you know, sometimes you know youngsters when they go out, especially like spring break or whatever, they'll go to these places for the very first time and they might not be well aware of you
know, looking around, paying attention to your surroundings, pay attention to people you call yourself hanging with.
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So you just hope it gets better.
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But, man, these stories keep coming up.
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It's like every year, every two years, you know.
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I know, remember the natalie holloway thing which was like it got like so uh, twisted, and then if you're this guy, that was if you're innocent, and you're this guy, that was like, seen last alone with her at 4 am, that doesn't look great for you.
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If you're in the ocean and then all of a sudden you wake up and she's gone, like if it really was, that she unfortunately may have drowned or something, but if not, like I would think that a couple eyes would be on him, you know.
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So I guess oh yeah, or you know, so I guess yeah.
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Or it's just like a young woman.
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She was only 20 by herself.
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Um, it said she was with five other women and two men and they were last seen drinking in the hotel lobby around 3 am and then they went to the ocean at 4 am and it's just one of those things that I feel like we've all done it, like I've definitely did stupid things in my own college spring break, but it's like as a parent, you just this is your worst nightmare and you just hope that people know better, or just you know, I don't know.
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Just really a nightmare, oh yeah, and then also too you know, if you're gonna be with a bunch of people and you're drinking, someone has to be the person who's, you know, equivalent to an uh to a designated driver.
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In other words, they drink very little to nothing because they're watching everyone else in the group.
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The whole group can't be drunk because something can happen and no one honestly would know.
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Someone has to be responsible.
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I think the guys that they met, they met them at the resort, which also is like these aren't her friends from college that she traveled with.
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Those are random resort guys.
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It's like you don't her friends from college that she traveled with.
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You know those are random resort guys.
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So it's like you don't know if they have ulterior motives or if they are just kind of stupid drunk boys.
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That just happened.
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They really have nothing going on with this other than just kind of being there.
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But they said the young man with her have told police multiple versions of what happened so far.
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That's not a good sign.
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I know, so we'll keep an eye out, but that's definitely something that's developing yeah, we'll definitely pray for her.
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And then, um, hopefully the news is positive.
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Yeah, quality is that every day that goes by that you don't hear from her, um, outcome is not going to be good I know the good thing, not in this case, but like I feel like if any generation has hope for being with their friends and staying with them, I feel like Gen Z is actually really responsible for the most part in that way.
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You know, I know we've talked a few times about people drinking less and less and like they still party, but I feel like a lot of the young people are very reachable in terms of saying like hey, this happens, so you have to keep an eye out for your friends.
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And it just seems like nowadays, because we hear these stories, people are a little bit more hyper, vigilant and like can actually, you know, know how how responsible they have to be, even when they're having fun.
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that's true that's true, so let's just hope that.
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You know someone finds it within the next couple of days, you know.
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Yeah, I think back to like I went to Jamaica for my spring break and I just think back to like I was walking by my oh, my mom's not listening to this, but it's like I think back to just walking by myself and it's like my friends didn't really even leave me.
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But it's kind of like everyone goes on their own journey and you know, some friend was probably hooking up with some person and then the next thing you know, you're like walking in Jamaica alone.
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It's just you're.
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You're lucky that you land safe when you're doing it.
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I don't think people recognize how dangerous it can be like really anywhere, but especially when you're by yourself in a different country.
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Oh yeah, I mean, when you get older you think back to some of the things you did.
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I was like why am I in Jamaica covered in foam, like walking down a road by myself?
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I feel like people probably drove past me and were like, oh God, whatever's happening, just drive faster.
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Well, talking about ridiculous, and I don't know if this is a sign of that time, but there was a high school running meet, you know where they had teams.
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So you know, you run and then you pass a baton, you know, and there were several teams and, for whatever reason, this high school this is high school now, so they're kids, they're girls she took her baton as she was running and hit the other girl in the head with it, and you know, of course, the girl dropped her baton and
she fell down and the crazy thing about it was they kept going with the race, they didn't stop.
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No, so everyone else kept going.
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Oh yeah.
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And you know the mom, you know she's watching in the stands, so she's running out there to the field.
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She's horrified, and the amazing thing is that one they should have stopped that race right then and there because I'm quite sure there was officials that saw that, yeah, or the coaches saw that.
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That's the one issue the girl was out for a week because she suffered a concussion.
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Of course, because you know those batons are metal.
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Yeah, I'm not sure, but they're metal.
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So she had a concussion for about a week.
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So hopefully I think she may be going back to school tomorrow, because they interviewed her and the coach called, and the coach of the opposite team where the girl was on, and then also the girl's father called and apologized to her mom and to the girl for what her daughter did.
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But the one thing that surprises me is that the girl who did it didn't apologize.
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Really.
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Because they said that.
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You know, they acknowledged that her father called to apologize and there was a statement from the school.
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The coach called, talked to him, apologized, but they didn't get an apology from the girl.
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And does this sound like it was purposeful?
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Oh no, it was definitely purposeful.
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It was purposeful, Okay, so there's no saying, she hit her like two or three times.
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I mean no, that was no accident.
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It's one of those stupid like three-second things that people do sometimes where you don't know that that can like alter someone's life and alter your own life and alter their life.
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You know, like when you see like a friend pushing someone off a cliff into the ocean and they're not ready yet or something, and then that friend gets paralyzed and it's like you didn't really you didn't think for those three seconds.
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Like this is one of those things where, whether she was just being like a terrible person or they had some beef or something, it's like I don't even think she thought of the outcome that could happen not only to this other girl but to herself, like she's probably, you know, going to get in really big trouble and that's that's crazy.
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It's crazy and you know, being that she's a high school student, I could be wrong, but for some reason she saw this anger somewhere yeah, that's
true you know where that anger she saw.
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I don't know and I don't want to make any accusations, but obviously she either saw this someplace or she has some serious issues that she needs to talk to someone about yes that's not normal for a high school kid to do no, not at all, especially with, like, someone that should be your teammate.
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I don't know if they have any outstanding on the opposite team, oh, on the opposite team.
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Okay, but it's like even that, even if you're a poor sport and you're like super competitive, that's not any reason to hurt someone.
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And don't you think like in some sports sometimes they'll take cheap shots at the other players?
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You know, like football or baseball or something like they'll do, or especially basketball?
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They'll just do like a little extra thing.
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But it's like you can't really do that when you're running with a huge metal wand I mean you know, in some places you know you'll be charged with assault, because that's the assault with a deadly weapon.
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If you think I think she should, you know I think she should.
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I mean it was amazing to see and you know, after the girl fell down, I think get hit in the head.
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The girl hit her, just kept running and I'm like wow no way I feel like she needs to be like suspended.
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I don't know someone like that.
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That's such like scary but bratty behavior and like before she goes out into the workforce or anything.
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I think she needs to learn some lessons, and whether that's like juvie or something, I don't know yeah I mean and there are going to be some people that says, well, she's a little girl, you know, give her a little bit of slack or whatever.
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But here's the only problem, and I get it.
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I truly do understand that that argument but there's something to be said is suffer pain now instead of later yeah yeah, understand the seriousness of what she did.
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The next time she does something, hopefully it doesn't happen, but if she takes it to the next level, guess what?
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her parents can't protect her right, yep, and, and she needs to learn.
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Like right now.
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That's not okay, because she's lucky that, like the other teammates, didn't turn and start beating her.
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You know, like that I mean, it could have been a brawl, if you think about it yeah, it could have been.
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All of a sudden, all you have these teenagers like with wands and everything, and yeah, that's really nuts I have.
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I didn't.
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I saw that article but I didn't watch it because otherwise I'll get too mad and then I'll start to get like I don't know.
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I feel like I err sometimes on punishment even more than like I don't know.
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Not that I don't have empathy for this person, but it's like if you hit someone on the head with a metal wand, you, you know what's going to happen, and if not, then you should find out.
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Yeah, I mean one time.
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You can argue back and forth, but not two or three times.
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That was 100% intentional.
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Yeah, yeah, and even like opposing teams, because I know lots of people have rivalries or it's like this girl talks a lot of smack to me when I'm you know whatever.
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I know that people are known for that, but then show her by beating her.
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You know, not physically beating her, but like by race beating her.
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Oh, exactly, exactly.
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So we'll definitely be watching that story, cause I'm kind of curious to see what happens to the other girl.
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Yeah, that's reason number 800 that I don't do organized sports.
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I have no trouble hurting myself without someone doing that with me.
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That's so crazy.
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Well, that sounds like she needs to go.
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That girl needs to go on a flight with the woman from my next story which I want them to be stuck on a very small plane together.
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And I also just want to say that this story was not me.
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I did just fly Southwest to Las Vegas on a short to say that this story was not me.
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I did just fly southwest to Las Vegas on a short flight, but the story was not me.
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So thank you so much.
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A naked woman on a southwest flight forces plane to return to gate in Houston.
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Passengers on a southwest flight just witnessed a very disturbing incident when a naked woman caused a delay to their flight this week.
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So the flight was scheduled to take off at 2.55 pm but then had to go back to the gate, which is annoying.
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So a woman stood naked and went towards the front of the cabin, caused a scene for about 25 minutes and then turned around and stripped all of her clothes off.
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She obviously had to like she had some mental issues.
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You know this is.
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It's sad because it's like this person.
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There's a lot of funny things
about it and, of course, a lot of jokes about like where is she keeping her storage?
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or her, you know her.
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IDs or anything like that.
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But then, when you watch the video, this seems like someone who was not all there, how she got on the flight and like made it to be sitting on the actual flight.
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I don't know, because that's clearly someone that's under duress and under a lot of stress, but then I guess they took her off the plane, they made the plane go back to the original city and then they took her to a mental hospital, which is like you know.
00:20:52.513 --> 00:20:58.651
Of course, as humans, it's ridiculous to see someone strip themselves naked and there's like silly aspects of it.
00:20:58.651 --> 00:21:05.880
But it's just yet another mental illness thing that just either seems to be on the rise or we're just seeing more of it, but I don't know.
00:21:05.880 --> 00:21:11.031
It seems like back in the day people weren't just like going literally buck naked on flights.
00:21:12.001 --> 00:21:13.948
Well, the good thing was, the plane was still on the ground.
00:21:16.960 --> 00:21:17.783
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly, and it was like.
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I think it was like circling for 25 minutes.
00:21:19.489 --> 00:21:22.129
Now I would be.
00:21:22.129 --> 00:21:30.520
I don't know how I'd feel about this, because I already have flight anxiety and I'm always worried about Big other things happening.
00:21:30.520 --> 00:21:33.983
So I haven't yet put this on my card About naked people.
00:21:33.983 --> 00:21:36.484
So now I'm adding another list Of things to be terrified about.
00:21:37.648 --> 00:21:39.362
Yeah, my thing is okay.
00:21:39.362 --> 00:21:42.851
Who's going to grab her and put a coat on her, or something?
00:21:43.312 --> 00:21:44.021
I know Well that's.
00:21:44.021 --> 00:21:56.443
The other thing is that in the videos and I understand this, I understand this when most of the people you see everyone filming from their phone and it takes a really long time for someone to get her, and it's also you don't know.
00:21:56.443 --> 00:22:01.404
You don't know if she has a knife somewhere or you don't know if, like, what's going to happen or if this is part of like a play.
00:22:01.404 --> 00:22:08.196
You know, like, I think in this day and age, we, we know what I I don't blame people for not stepping up, but that also has to be crazy.
00:22:08.196 --> 00:22:16.332
If you're a flight attendant and that's just what you're trying to get, people like hot tea service, and then, all of a sudden, now you have to like, wrangle a naked woman.
00:22:17.434 --> 00:22:19.663
Yeah, I mean, you know it's like.
00:22:19.663 --> 00:22:25.093
It's like flight attendants now have to deal with so much.
00:22:25.394 --> 00:22:36.214
Yeah, it's like their safety, airline safety but they're also like babysitters, psychologists, accountants, like waitresses, like now youresses, now police, basically.
00:22:36.875 --> 00:22:41.485
Oh yeah, and I can just imagine the shock of everybody, Like what the hell?
00:22:41.666 --> 00:22:45.824
Right and I also feel like flying is such a right now.
00:22:45.824 --> 00:22:57.957
I mean, when I just flew it didn't feel serious or as scary as it did when I flew the day after the DC thing, but it felt a little bit back to normal.
00:22:57.957 --> 00:23:03.047
But already most people are a little bit anxious, tensions are higher than usual.
00:23:03.047 --> 00:23:08.067
So it's like when something like this happens, everyone is just like, oh god, not another thing.
00:23:09.030 --> 00:23:22.469
Yeah, and it probably kind of freaked people out when she was banging on the cockpit door, though, yeah, and I was thinking about this too, like I guess there's no way to really tell if anyone is mentally like healthy enough to get on it.
00:23:22.469 --> 00:23:26.664
Like clearly, if someone's having a mental emergency, they're not going to let them on the flight.
00:23:26.704 --> 00:23:44.904
But I wonder I wonder, leading up to this, if there was like visible signs at the airport terminal checking in yeah, you kind of wonder, but I do believe that there's protocols in place, which is probably why they reacted so fast once she did start yeah pull off her clothes and banging on the door.
00:23:44.904 --> 00:23:49.293
So you know there's protocols in place for the what ifs.
00:23:49.293 --> 00:23:57.352
Because it seems like after um, after the pandemic, uh, most people kind of went crazy so they had to put that's true.
00:23:59.355 --> 00:23:59.675
That's true.
00:23:59.675 --> 00:24:05.288
Remember there was like I forget what it even was, but one person got drug out by his legs.
00:24:05.288 --> 00:24:06.211
Remember the people?
00:24:06.211 --> 00:24:08.469
They were dragging people on plates.
00:24:09.200 --> 00:24:21.043
Oh, remember the one person they literally duct taped to his seat, that's right and it's like come on the whole time I'm on a plane.
00:24:21.063 --> 00:24:21.946
I'm so anxious that I would.
00:24:21.946 --> 00:24:25.345
I would dare not like even take like my jacket off or I don't know.
00:24:25.365 --> 00:24:32.652
I'm just sitting there like, please, nothing happened yeah, so uh, like I said, I don't know.
00:24:32.652 --> 00:24:39.123
I think these flights and should get more, more pay cuz they do a lot more than just being a flight attendant so much.
00:24:39.906 --> 00:24:51.947
Also, my hot flying tip is that, especially if people are going to go to Vegas, I flew on Thursday night and I came back Saturday night and both flights were half empty and we got the rows to ourselves.
00:24:51.947 --> 00:24:55.964
If you're not a big party, we still had Thursday night and Friday night in Vegas.
00:24:55.964 --> 00:25:01.745
So if you're not, if you're okay with like not being there on a Saturday night, the
Vegas airport was completely.
00:25:01.745 --> 00:25:03.591
It took us like five minutes to get through.
00:25:03.591 --> 00:25:08.050
You know usually everyone's at the Vegas airport and you're hot and sweaty and hungover.
00:25:08.050 --> 00:25:10.924
This one we got through in like four minutes and we had row.
00:25:10.924 --> 00:25:12.287
We each had a row to ourselves.
00:25:12.287 --> 00:25:14.551
So's just a go home on saturday night.
00:25:14.571 --> 00:25:16.294
Yeah now you know.
00:25:16.294 --> 00:25:20.247
What's good, too is if you take real early flights.
00:25:20.247 --> 00:25:26.385
Um, yeah, because it's never packed on the early flight no and they they're.
00:25:26.385 --> 00:25:31.757
At that time, you're less likely to have delays that's true.
00:25:32.479 --> 00:25:39.788
the only thing with that for me is I don't know if you have this, but like I, the night before I have those panic dreams where I've like missed my flight.
00:25:39.788 --> 00:25:47.597
You know, I wake up and I'm always like and it's 1am and then I'm like, okay, like I keep waking up every 40 minutes, so I'm always tired, but yes.
00:25:56.740 --> 00:25:58.233
I don't really sleep that well just because I want to make sure I'm not late getting to the airport and stuff like that.
00:25:58.233 --> 00:26:02.020
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll dream about missing my flight and then I'll wake up and it's 1230.
00:26:02.020 --> 00:26:09.700
And then the last thing on this story, really quick, is that people were, I guess, annoyed that she wasn't charged for criminal offenses.
00:26:09.700 --> 00:26:15.135
But for me, like this seems like a mental health situation and like I don't.
00:26:15.135 --> 00:26:21.270
I don't think someone's just randomly getting up and getting naked for the fun of it or like to mess with people.
00:26:21.270 --> 00:26:25.248
I think this seems like a if they, if they check it out, and it is a mental health situation.
00:26:25.248 --> 00:26:28.064
Like I don't think this person should be charged criminally.
00:26:28.064 --> 00:26:30.989
Do you think that too?
00:26:32.172 --> 00:26:41.161
yeah, I think that's a good point and I do, like I said, it's hard to say because there's different ways of looking at everything you know.
00:26:41.543 --> 00:26:53.523
Yeah, totally, yep, and it's also just yeah, yeah, it's another thing about like kind of our mental health crisis that's happening and just it's everything at once.
00:26:53.523 --> 00:26:55.123
Mental health flying, it's all.
00:26:55.143 --> 00:26:56.592
Yeah, that's mental health flying, it's all, it's a.
00:26:56.592 --> 00:26:57.378
Yeah, that's true.
00:26:57.378 --> 00:27:05.984
I mean, there is no magic way, like you said before, of knowing if a person is going to have an episode or not until it actually happens.
00:27:05.984 --> 00:27:09.841
Yeah, you know, you just have to pray to god that they don't do anything.
00:27:09.841 --> 00:27:14.069
Crazy like, exactly like the one person who, uh, decided to open the door.
00:27:14.129 --> 00:27:14.590
Remember that.
00:27:14.590 --> 00:27:16.274
Oh my gosh yeah.
00:27:17.041 --> 00:27:18.065
While the plane was in the air.
00:27:18.647 --> 00:27:20.025
Yeah, who are these people?
00:27:20.025 --> 00:27:22.240
It's like it really is baffling.
00:27:22.240 --> 00:27:29.050
And then you, you do have to like there has to be something where you can't just go back into society in like four days, you have to.
00:27:29.050 --> 00:27:29.471
I don't know.
00:27:29.471 --> 00:27:30.373
That's a really a big deal.
00:27:30.373 --> 00:27:53.153
I also just think too, if that was my loved one, like the, the woman that was like naked, and that is sad, if that person does have like schizophrenia or something, and now you're watching like your loved one go mental on a flight, like be naked, like that has to be not fun for people, but um, but still, I understand we're humans and there's a funny element to it so we could see all sides that is true.
00:27:53.393 --> 00:27:53.981
That is true.
00:27:53.981 --> 00:27:59.632
Hopefully I don't have any naked people on my plane next time.
00:27:59.672 --> 00:28:00.674
We're also in America we're.
00:28:00.674 --> 00:28:15.364
So I just saw, too that like there's a lot of like French women protest stuff and they just have like their shirts completely off and their boobies are there, and it's like I think in America, naked is like so funny because we're like we have to like cover up, I think more than a lot of other countries.
00:28:15.364 --> 00:28:18.648
So anytime this happens, it's like even more, you know, shocking.
00:28:19.489 --> 00:28:24.015
That is so true Because if it happened in another country, they probably won't look at it.
00:28:30.985 --> 00:28:36.760
Obviously they still gonna, you know, deal with the woman, because she's having an episode, but you're right, it probably won't be as like oh my god, as it would here.
00:28:36.760 --> 00:28:39.873
Right, because they're like, oh, we could go to the ocean and see naked bodies, like 24-7 or you know, it's not as much like a shocking thing.
00:28:39.873 --> 00:28:48.588
We're here, we're like little robots, and then when we see that it's like, ah, Well, talk about interesting stories.
00:28:51.881 --> 00:28:55.360
Do you remember who Casey Anderson is, casey?
00:28:55.400 --> 00:28:56.381
Anthony Anthony.
00:28:56.381 --> 00:28:57.582
I'm sorry, casey Anthony Anthony, I'm sorry.
00:28:57.582 --> 00:28:58.163
Yep, I do, I do.
00:28:58.163 --> 00:28:59.704
How could I forget?
00:29:00.385 --> 00:29:02.627
Yeah, well, she has a new career now.
00:29:03.108 --> 00:29:04.429
No way, uh-oh.
00:29:05.029 --> 00:29:11.435
Well, I guess now she's a social media legal expert now.
00:29:12.456 --> 00:29:19.466
Huh, okay, I thought you were going to say influencer, but legal expert is a little more serious, I guess.
00:29:19.907 --> 00:29:24.162
She's trying to be an influencer, but a lot of people are
really up in arms because of what she did.
00:29:24.582 --> 00:29:25.023
Yeah.
00:29:26.206 --> 00:29:29.734
People are like how in the heck could she even think about doing this?
00:29:29.734 --> 00:29:33.506
Some people were like, hey, you know, let her move on with her life.
00:29:33.506 --> 00:29:47.825
I want to find out from you, Merle, what do you think about when a person tries to rewrite who they are, rediscover their personality, because obviously they're trying to shed who they were in the past?
00:29:48.589 --> 00:30:12.213
Yeah, well, I think sometimes people that have been in the system, I feel like may have a good perspective of it so that in a in one way, like someone may be able you know how they hire like former hackers for fbi agents and like they'll they'll have criminals that end up wanting to do good and then they'll be able to kind of do what they do but help the good forces.
00:30:12.213 --> 00:30:23.785
I I do believe in that, where I'm like okay, I do believe in second chances, but I feel I feel like Casey Anthony's thing was so weird and so like not great that I don't think anyone needs her as their legal advocate.
00:30:23.785 --> 00:30:36.074
I feel like if you're looking for a legal advocate, it seems like there's probably dozens, if not hundreds, of like other choices from people that might be a little bit more authentic and like even just better at at that.
00:30:36.074 --> 00:30:48.670
So I guess that's my answer is usually I'm open to people like revamping their, you know, having a rebrand moment or trying to find a second life or take some more chances, but in this case, not not so much.
00:30:49.332 --> 00:30:56.453
Um, I know she's it said she's been in the legal field since 2011, since when she was tried for murder.
00:30:56.453 --> 00:31:03.084
So it's like, on one hand, I feel like she knows the justice system really well, but on the other hand, I wouldn't want herself to.
00:31:03.084 --> 00:31:07.233
I wouldn't want her to be advocating for me.
00:31:07.233 --> 00:31:07.614
I don't think.
00:31:08.841 --> 00:31:29.914
Yeah, it's almost like a professional burglar who just got out of jail and he wants to start a business as um, a security expert for your home, yeah now, on the one hand, yeah, he knows a lot about that, but is that somebody I really want around my house, you know?
00:31:30.015 --> 00:31:35.595
right and I could see if it was someone too like casey anthony did not give great public image.
00:31:35.595 --> 00:31:44.913
You know we all she was not very liked, she's still not very liked and like I could also see if it was someone that had like a little bit better of a reputation, that made a mistake.
00:31:44.913 --> 00:31:46.440
But you could clearly see they were sorry.
00:31:46.440 --> 00:31:53.842
But it's like every time we've seen her she's been defensive or like aloof and so I don't know you hit a great point, though, meryl.
00:31:53.862 --> 00:32:04.374
A lot, a lot of people have a big
problem with it, because in a lot of people's mind, she showed no remorse, and that's what people are really angry about.
00:32:04.374 --> 00:32:04.998
You know what I mean?
00:32:05.039 --> 00:32:10.770
Yeah, yeah, we would almost have to see that she's a completely different person and that wasn't leaving her person.
00:32:10.770 --> 00:32:18.022
You know her toddler alone and doing all these things, and so I don't know Would you take legal advice from her.
00:32:18.022 --> 00:32:19.909
No, definitely not.
00:32:19.909 --> 00:32:23.769
I would hear what she did and do the opposite.
00:32:23.769 --> 00:32:27.706
I wouldn't.
00:32:27.706 --> 00:32:36.847
I'm sure there might be some people, but I worry that I'm not sure that she would be doing it for the right reasons.
00:32:36.847 --> 00:32:38.203
Like what if she tried to help?
00:32:38.203 --> 00:32:40.970
So like what if she was helping the next casey anthony?
00:32:41.010 --> 00:32:51.449
you know, like get get freed from something really bad that they did you know, that's actually a good point, that's actually a really good point, yeah, so what do you think?
00:32:51.489 --> 00:32:58.613
you think this is going to last, or think this is pretty much um I think it might be a money grab or just a way for her to kind of try.
00:32:58.613 --> 00:33:10.948
I think maybe she'll have a few people on her payroll and then after that, I think it's going to just kind of float away and then maybe we'll see her selling toothpaste or she'll be an influencer maybe.
00:33:12.932 --> 00:33:15.006
That's true, that is very, very true.
00:33:17.720 --> 00:33:18.762
What if her and Gypsy Rose?
00:33:19.984 --> 00:33:23.832
team up for, like their very own law firm or something that would be one hell of a law firm.
00:33:23.852 --> 00:33:25.320
Yeah, I guess we'd have to see, but it would.
00:33:25.320 --> 00:33:37.431
I'd have to see a whole different version of casey anthony, because she definitely just sticks out in my mind I think for a lot of people too that she just the lack of remorse and just the excuses and defensiveness.
00:33:37.431 --> 00:33:49.060
Um, and I know she said she's a proponent for the lgbtq community, so I don't know, it'll be interesting, but I do believe that people could reinvent themselves.
00:33:49.060 --> 00:33:54.228
But time will tell, I think that's 100% true.
00:33:54.308 --> 00:33:55.350
Time will definitely tell.
00:34:00.240 --> 00:34:00.522
What about you?
00:34:00.522 --> 00:34:01.446
Would you take any advice from her?
00:34:03.002 --> 00:34:05.926
I may do like you and listen to the advice and probably do the opposite.
00:34:07.742 --> 00:34:10.347
I think I honestly would probably hire Gypsy Rose more.
00:34:11.842 --> 00:34:12.465
I could see that.
00:34:12.465 --> 00:34:13.804
I could definitely see that.
00:34:15.320 --> 00:34:24.590
You know this is off topic, but I think if my boyfriend ever got in trouble, this is very sad and doesn't bode well for me, but I feel
like OJ Simpson would be the first person he'd call.
00:34:24.590 --> 00:34:31.050
I had to tell him at a point to like not have a million OJ Simpson paraphernalia in the house.
00:34:31.050 --> 00:34:34.163
I'm like we can't have a picture of, like, the Bronco driving down the highway.
00:34:34.163 --> 00:34:42.637
But anyway, um, okay, my next one, oh, okay.
00:34:42.657 --> 00:34:47.967
So daylight savings time is here and many people have many different thoughts on it.
00:34:47.967 --> 00:35:01.171
Um, the last I heard it was so funny because it was like trump may do away with daylight savings, he may not and all this kind of stuff, and someone commented like why is he giving daylight savings more thought than every other thing on his agenda?
00:35:01.171 --> 00:35:12.217
So Daylight Savings you know there's a lot of studies that say that during this time people probably noticed too I'm a little off today, a little tired.
00:35:12.217 --> 00:35:12.746
Like you know.
00:35:12.746 --> 00:35:14.309
It reduces productivity.
00:35:14.309 --> 00:35:19.552
We have higher healthcare costs altogether because of just the fatigue.
00:35:19.815 --> 00:35:33.309
There's a lot of accidents today that happened today, a lot of workplace accidents, just because people are running on too little sleep and this shakes up our circadian rhythm and just makes a lot of people feel tired and just kind of out of sorts for today.
00:35:33.309 --> 00:35:43.552
Now, for me, like I like this one because I like getting an extra morning daylight and I love when it starts to get lighter or I love when it stays lighter for longer.
00:35:43.552 --> 00:35:50.191
Just the fact that it's like 7 pm right now when we're recording and it's not sunset yet, like it just makes me feel like a little kid.
00:35:50.191 --> 00:35:55.713
So for this Daylight Savings Time, I feel like it's worth it because we're kind of just gaining that hour.
00:35:55.713 --> 00:35:57.472
But I think a lot of people don't feel that way.
00:36:00.644 --> 00:36:01.688
So I wanted to get your thoughts on it.
00:36:01.688 --> 00:36:07.432
You know what I like this time better, because you know it was 7 o'clock and it was still light outside.
00:36:07.432 --> 00:36:08.471
I'm like, oh, I love it.
00:36:09.085 --> 00:36:11.833
Yeah, because you still feel like you could go out and like frolic outside.
00:36:12.335 --> 00:36:16.568
Exactly, and I know a lot of people were saying well, you know there's a problem.
00:36:16.568 --> 00:36:23.533
I think the real problem because I did read the article is that it's the change that throws people off.
00:36:23.673 --> 00:36:30.057
Yeah, yeah, and we should just keep it the same, like if we keep it now, if we're locked in now, it will be perfect, I think.
00:36:30.557 --> 00:36:43.251
Yes, I think it should be locked in, but I prefer to have the longer daylight Me too, Worst thing is because I think it's the shortest daylight I want.
00:36:43.251 --> 00:36:51.372
I want to
say I don't know how it is in california, but I know in the midwest it's like around december middle where you go to work in the morning it's dark.
00:36:51.972 --> 00:36:55.660
Yeah, it's dark yes, and it's the same thing.
00:36:55.660 --> 00:37:04.231
It's like it's I like to wake up really early, and it's so weird to wake up when it's 6am and it's not even close to getting light out and I'm like, come on, give me something.
00:37:04.231 --> 00:37:05.925
I at least need to know that something is happening.
00:37:05.925 --> 00:37:11.393
Same thing when it's cold and dark at like 5pm, no way, or 4.
00:37:11.927 --> 00:37:32.708
There's been times this winter that I've sincerely been like I think I'm going to go to bed and I look and it's like 5.15pm yep, but you know, the thing that really surprised me, um, actually it shocked me was the amount of suicides that go up, um, you know, during the, you know the, the time shifts.
00:37:32.708 --> 00:37:46.257
That's surprising really, because I guess, from what they say, uh, in the articles, is that, um, a lot people suffer from depression and the changing of the time actually affects it in a negative way.
00:37:46.458 --> 00:37:48.801
Wow See, that's weird.
00:37:48.801 --> 00:38:00.899
I definitely get what they mean around depression around the holidays or in the middle of the winter, but to me this almost seems like, okay, we know summer's coming or spring, but I don't know.
00:38:00.899 --> 00:38:05.417
Maybe there's something to it about just our clocks being like I don't like this next season coming.
00:38:06.445 --> 00:38:10.894
I mean, unless it's probably when it gets ready to fall back and you're losing an hour.
00:38:10.894 --> 00:38:12.336
Yeah, that may be.
00:38:12.376 --> 00:38:12.838
Me too.
00:38:12.838 --> 00:38:14.591
Me too, because you know it's starting.
00:38:14.591 --> 00:38:21.788
It's like we go into hibernation mode almost, but this seems like I don't know, but I mode almost, but this seems like I don't know.
00:38:21.788 --> 00:38:23.733
But I also think there should be more awareness of just people taking care of themselves.
00:38:23.733 --> 00:38:34.131
Like I am lucky in the way that it doesn't really affect me that badly because I work remotely and from home, and so, like I have right now, it feels like we're caught up on the time, like I don't do you feel it physically?
00:38:35.835 --> 00:38:42.137
It really doesn't affect me much, except that, you know, I noticed the longer daylights and I do feel much better.
00:38:42.137 --> 00:38:55.115
Now, the one thing and again this is just my take on this is that it could be when we have the time fall back, Because when the time goes back now, you're still getting into the holiday season.
00:38:55.777 --> 00:38:56.278
Yeah.
00:38:56.745 --> 00:39:00.893
And you know, if you're a person that's going through depression, you feel lonely or whatever.
00:39:00.893 --> 00:39:04.619
The major holidays could be really, really tough.
00:39:05.164 --> 00:39:06.108
You know absolutely.
00:39:06.409 --> 00:39:06.931
Absolutely.
00:39:06.931 --> 00:39:18.548
I can see that there Because, again, if you're already going through depression, times changing, you think, oh my God, no, you know, thanksgiving is around the corner, christmas is around the corner.
00:39:18.548 --> 00:39:24.234
I don't have any family, I don't have any friends, I don't have this, and that I can see that being very, very tough for someone.
00:39:24.765 --> 00:39:27.548
Yep, absolutely, me too, and yeah, I guess.
00:39:27.548 --> 00:39:34.700
And also if you're working a job where, like these, time changes and you're just so tired and it's like how's my body going to adjust to it?
00:39:34.700 --> 00:39:45.342
And I think, if you're someone that, like, depends on a lot of caffeine or a lot of things to just keep you, stimulated all day, then I think a time change can really mess you up.
00:39:45.362 --> 00:39:46.044
You know, that's true, that's true.
00:39:46.044 --> 00:39:51.907
I mean, I hope they go through with it because they do need to keep it solid, keep it one instead of shifting back.
00:39:51.967 --> 00:40:14.077
I think it's kind of stupid personally, but you know yeah, I think I wonder it'd be interesting to see a study of like men versus women handling daylight savings time, because there'd be something that I would feel like women might handle it a little bit better, because we're used to like having time throughout the month where we're tired, we're crabby, but we're used to this happening every 20-something days.
00:40:14.077 --> 00:40:26.797
So it'd be interesting to see how the different genders handle it.
00:40:27.565 --> 00:40:28.389
That's actually true.
00:40:28.389 --> 00:40:29.573
It'd be kind of nice to know.
00:40:30.325 --> 00:40:35.198
Exactly Because I feel like during this time, I wish our society also had daylight savings.
00:40:35.198 --> 00:40:39.086
You could go nap somewhere, or you could go see a movie for free, I don't know.
00:40:39.086 --> 00:40:40.871
They should do more restful things.
00:40:41.653 --> 00:40:46.050
Absolutely, absolutely, talk about interesting.
00:40:46.050 --> 00:40:49.893
I don't know, you may love this one, but I'd love to get your take on it.
00:40:49.893 --> 00:41:09.159
There was this video that went around and basically it was this woman who happened to go to the store and ran into her boyfriend and he took her best friend to the store.
00:41:09.159 --> 00:41:15.777
And you know picking her up, you know, to take her back home.
00:41:15.777 --> 00:41:25.715
She kind of, you know, was very pissed off, to pull it very mildly, and I'm just kind of curious, because it was interesting to see what people were saying online.
00:41:26.699 --> 00:41:33.778
Is it okay for a boyfriend to take his girlfriend's best friend to the store without asking his girlfriend first?
00:41:34.306 --> 00:41:34.626
I'd let.
00:41:34.626 --> 00:41:39.655
The only way ever
is, if it the store is a jewelry store, they're picking out a diamond ring for me.
00:41:39.655 --> 00:41:43.922
No, now I feel like the baton girl.
00:41:43.922 --> 00:41:46.125
I'm getting at my wand, I'm about to hit someone on the head with this.
00:41:46.125 --> 00:41:50.035
No, this seems weird and like there's definitely something going on.
00:41:50.035 --> 00:41:52.267
No, I like in college, I would.
00:41:52.267 --> 00:42:03.012
If your friends, if they're just naturally like a big friend group, I could see the friend just being like, hey, I'm gonna go to the store and the girl's like, oh, I need this from Target or I need this, I'll cruise with you and cruise back.
00:42:03.012 --> 00:42:09.018
But if the girlfriend's available first and you're not asking her first, I think that's weird.
00:42:11.367 --> 00:42:21.884
See, that's what I thought too, because you know, obviously, you know, if you're married, it's like two times worse, yeah, yeah, if you're married, it's like 10 times worse, yeah, yeah.
00:42:21.884 --> 00:42:26.446
It's like it was interesting because some people were like, well, but this is her best friend, you know.
00:42:26.446 --> 00:42:28.507
And some people were like, yeah, that's the problem.
00:42:28.507 --> 00:42:39.126
I mean they were going at it online too, because sometimes I'll read them, because it's kind of simple at each other and I was like, wow, because you would think about it.
00:42:39.126 --> 00:42:50.434
And it's like, hmm, why wouldn't a girlfriend, why wouldn't she just ask her best friend to take her Exactly, or ask her like, hey, is it okay if Johnny, whatever or whatever, take me to the store?
00:42:50.515 --> 00:42:55.920
You know what I mean Did the girlfriend run into them at the store or someone else did.
00:42:56.480 --> 00:42:57.501
The girlfriend ran into them.
00:42:57.601 --> 00:43:02.807
No, no, okay, that's really weird.
00:43:02.807 --> 00:43:12.269
That's officially weird, because I can see if they're all in college and like their girlfriend is in class all day and they're all hanging out like on a porch together and the boyfriend just says I'm gonna go to target and the girl just like, oh, I'll go with you.
00:43:12.269 --> 00:43:14.094
Then that's, that's like I could.
00:43:14.094 --> 00:43:15.787
It's kind of weird, but I can see that being okay.
00:43:15.787 --> 00:43:19.013
But if your girlfriend is actively around, no, that would be.
00:43:19.013 --> 00:43:26.638
If I was in Target buying deodorant, I saw my boyfriend, my best friend, but it's so funny because I would only be mad at him for some reason.
00:43:27.986 --> 00:43:33.722
And you know what's so interesting with when he confronted them, when she confronted them, he was like but this is so.
00:43:33.722 --> 00:43:37.954
So your best friend and you know she's like so why don't you ask me first, you know?
00:43:37.954 --> 00:43:39.517
And it's like, yeah, that's weird.
00:43:39.517 --> 00:43:42.188
Why didn't you ask me first, you know?
00:43:42.188 --> 00:43:42.950
And it's like, yeah, that's weird.
00:43:42.950 --> 00:43:44.073
And there were some people, and it was interesting.
00:43:44.073 --> 00:43:58.989
I saw some remarks where they were like, you know, the guy probably wasn't really up on what was going on, but the girl, but the best friend, knew what she was doing yeah, I was like wow, okay, I mean, that was an interesting response, you know exactly in like in a wonderful way.
00:43:59.510 --> 00:44:11.191
It's like you almost want to have your best friends indifferent towards your boyfriend, like I saw someone describe it once, which I think is so funny where they're like we all view our friends, boyfriends, as just like extras on a play.
00:44:11.191 --> 00:44:12.295
Where I'm like, oh you're here too.
00:44:12.295 --> 00:44:19.355
Like like I, my best friend, I heard what her husband is awesome, but like him and I would never go to the store together.
00:44:19.355 --> 00:44:20.698
I'm there for her.
00:44:20.698 --> 00:44:24.609
He's just kind of a side character and I feel like he feels that way about me too.
00:44:24.609 --> 00:44:27.115
That's weird.
00:44:28.146 --> 00:44:32.168
Some women look at it as even if nothing happened, by you not telling me.
00:44:32.168 --> 00:44:33.111
That's kind of like cheating.
00:44:33.633 --> 00:44:35.788
Yeah, yeah, that's definitely weird.
00:44:35.788 --> 00:44:44.830
This seems like something that when you're in your 20s and you're kind of all a blended group, a friend group, I think that's a little more understanding.
00:44:44.830 --> 00:44:52.267
But as you start to get into your 30s and 40s you have more of a deeper, more serious relationship, I think.
00:44:52.267 --> 00:44:54.114
Then it starts to get weirder.
00:44:55.946 --> 00:44:57.312
So mess with something out there.
00:44:57.312 --> 00:44:58.387
Don't fall for this trap.
00:44:58.908 --> 00:44:59.389
Exactly.
00:44:59.389 --> 00:45:01.394
Don't do it, just go to the store by yourself.
00:45:01.394 --> 00:45:09.778
Actually, don't even go to the store, just order everything on Instacart and watch your mans.
00:45:09.778 --> 00:45:12.990
There you go.
00:45:12.990 --> 00:45:13.793
Well, that annoys me.
00:45:19.445 --> 00:45:32.182
Okay, well, I'm going to keep with the trend of daylight savings time and just being sleepy, and we're going to talk about the latest trend of sleep maxing, which is so funny because nowadays it's like I feel like a lot of gen z just calls everything like bio maxing or like diet maxing.
00:45:32.182 --> 00:45:34.148
It's like no, you're just eating healthy, you're really.
00:45:34.148 --> 00:45:42.075
Sleep maxing is like the best ways to hack your sleep and really it's just called like getting a good night rest, and so they, they.
00:45:42.075 --> 00:45:46.527
They even saw a thing that it was like makeup maxing and it's just people putting on a makeup.
00:45:46.527 --> 00:45:55.036
So this trend of maxing out
everything is hilarious, but sleep maxing is pretty much doing everything you can to get a really restful night's sleep.
00:45:56.100 --> 00:46:04.259
Now they said that more and more people are getting like a full eight to nine hours of sleep, whereas before, in older generations, we only got like six to seven.
00:46:04.259 --> 00:46:08.436
You know we always, we always went for eight hours, but that wasn't always the case.
00:46:08.436 --> 00:46:12.976
I saw one person comment it's too expensive to be awake now.
00:46:12.976 --> 00:46:22.660
That's really funny, and so I just wanted to read a list really quick of some things that are sleep maxing to see which ones we're doing.
00:46:22.660 --> 00:46:27.055
Okay, so I'm going to read out and just tell me really quick if you're doing these or not.
00:46:27.055 --> 00:46:30.371
No liquids two hours before bed.
00:46:31.073 --> 00:46:31.614
I don't do that.
00:46:31.614 --> 00:46:32.937
I'm not doing that, yeah.
00:46:32.977 --> 00:46:35.171
Me too Cold room temperature.
00:46:36.046 --> 00:46:37.171
I do like a little cool.
00:46:37.733 --> 00:46:39.970
Okay, pitch black room.
00:46:41.086 --> 00:46:41.609
I don't like pitch black.
00:46:41.609 --> 00:46:42.093
I like a little cool.
00:46:42.093 --> 00:46:42.596
Okay, pitch black room.
00:46:42.596 --> 00:46:43.321
I don't like pitch black.
00:46:43.341 --> 00:46:45.209
I like a TV one, me too White noise machine.
00:46:46.673 --> 00:46:46.833
No.
00:46:47.355 --> 00:46:47.576
Me too.
00:46:47.576 --> 00:46:51.893
I fall asleep like with TikTok still in my hand.
00:46:51.893 --> 00:46:54.959
Let's see Magnesium.
00:46:54.959 --> 00:46:57.371
I'm taking a magnesium supplement.
00:46:57.371 --> 00:47:01.371
I do that one Shower one hour before bed.
00:47:01.391 --> 00:47:02.795
I don't do that.
00:47:02.795 --> 00:47:03.859
One Shower one hour before bed.
00:47:03.879 --> 00:47:04.740
I don't do that one.
00:47:04.760 --> 00:47:05.022
Okay.
00:47:05.646 --> 00:47:07.152
No caffeine after 3 pm.
00:47:07.152 --> 00:47:09.630
Definitely don't do that.
00:47:09.630 --> 00:47:14.916
I could have an espresso and like sleep immediately, Like it's not good.
00:47:14.916 --> 00:47:37.389
And then the last one let's see as soon as you wake up sunlight, Like go for a walk outside and get sunlight within the first like 20 minutes I would love to say, yes, I do that, but no, I don't okay, I do that one um and then eating two kiwis before bed I don't, but that's actually not a bad idea though right, kiwis are awesome.
00:47:37.809 --> 00:47:40.938
So yeah, kiwis are supposed to be like a really great sleep aid.
00:47:40.938 --> 00:47:57.528
So those are some of the sleep maxi things there's also I don't know if you've ever heard on tiktok there's this thing called like the sleepy girl mocktail that girls make with um tart, cherry juice, a little bit of magnesium and then some other like little things, and I've actually made them for myself and it does.
00:47:57.528 --> 00:48:00.442
It does taste really good does it work?
00:48:00.442 --> 00:48:02.972
Yeah, it works, but you have to like.
00:48:03.054 --> 00:48:18.350
I end up mixing my tart cherry juice with other stuff because it doesn't taste that good, so that I'm like now I have a stomach ache well, you know, I saw, I saw some of the videos online and you know, most of it was like stuff that okay, yeah, that makes sense, that makes sense.
00:48:18.350 --> 00:48:24.634
But every so often I ran into videos where they're like doing 20, 30 things before they go to bed.
00:48:24.634 --> 00:48:26.346
It's like, okay, that's a little excessive.
00:48:26.367 --> 00:48:34.977
I'm not yeah, I have to really like be disciplined about even every night, like washing the dishes, doing all my dental.
00:48:34.977 --> 00:48:36.302
You know like I just something.
00:48:36.302 --> 00:48:41.517
There are some nights I just brush my teeth and then I don't do anything else, but it's like flossing all this kind of stuff.
00:48:41.517 --> 00:48:48.135
You know like there's a lot to do, but you feel so much better in the morning when you wake up and the dishes are done and things are neat.
00:48:48.717 --> 00:48:49.178
That's true.
00:48:49.178 --> 00:48:49.838
That's true.
00:48:49.838 --> 00:48:56.577
We've gotten a little lazy over time because we're now empty nesters since the sun moved out.
00:48:56.577 --> 00:49:02.289
Oh yeah, so we don't straighten up as quickly as we used to.
00:49:02.851 --> 00:49:15.885
Yeah, all these people that, like I, have some friends that lay out their outfits, like every night At nighttime they'll get everything for the next day assembled, whether it's like making their lunch and getting that all ready, and then they'll have their outfit picked out the next morning.
00:49:15.885 --> 00:49:20.918
I'm like I can't imagine what it's like to be that of a human where you wake up and everything is done for you.
00:49:21.345 --> 00:49:23.788
Now you know what I do do that you do.
00:49:23.788 --> 00:49:24.913
That's amazing.
00:49:25.305 --> 00:49:27.553
So you pick out your socks too.
00:49:29.646 --> 00:49:31.092
I pick out everything, even underwear.
00:49:31.092 --> 00:49:32.008
Everything's hung up.
00:49:32.008 --> 00:49:32.550
You do.
00:49:32.550 --> 00:49:34.891
That's so cool, I don't have to think about anything.
00:49:36.365 --> 00:49:42.359
Do you look at the weather, or you just kind of know like, okay, I'm just going to wear, I'll just be prepared for, like, whatever's going to happen.
00:49:43.506 --> 00:49:48.930
I'll glance at the weather to see Most of the time if it's like during the winter or the summer.
00:49:48.930 --> 00:49:54.300
I may not look right away because you know the summertime is going to be pretty much warm every day.
00:49:54.300 --> 00:49:55.851
Wintertime is pretty cold every day.
00:49:55.851 --> 00:50:05.155
So unless I have something specific to do, I really kind of don't glance at the weather.
00:50:05.155 --> 00:50:06.359
I may glance at it the next day or whatever.
00:50:06.359 --> 00:50:09.289
But yeah, I love getting my stuff together, just so I one less thing for me to think about the next day.
00:50:09.510 --> 00:50:10.293
That's so good.
00:50:10.293 --> 00:50:14.468
Now are you ever, when you wake up, in your, are you ever like I don't want to wear this, I don't want to wear a blue shirt?
00:50:14.468 --> 00:50:15.610
Like, do you ever feel that way?
00:50:15.610 --> 00:50:17.432
Or you're just like, well, I picked it out, I'm going with it.
00:50:18.373 --> 00:50:18.854
You know what?
00:50:18.854 --> 00:50:20.455
Pretty much I stick with it.
00:50:20.455 --> 00:50:25.121
Every so often I do change, but for the most part I stick with what I set aside.
00:50:28.216 --> 00:50:30.166
Okay, wow, that made me.
00:50:30.166 --> 00:50:32.499
I already respected you, but now my level of respect just went up 10 more points.
00:50:32.499 --> 00:50:35.207
I'm going to try to do that, yeah.
00:50:35.227 --> 00:50:36.869
It's fun, though it's fun Because, yeah, it's fun.
00:50:36.869 --> 00:50:44.858
Though it's fun because I like picking out my stuff and like, yeah, Now I have to admit I don't iron my stuff until the next day.
00:50:44.858 --> 00:50:48.081
I should do that the night before, but I don't do that.
00:50:48.081 --> 00:50:56.626
The fact that you're even ironing at all.
00:50:56.626 --> 00:50:57.347
I don't, so that's so good.
00:50:57.347 --> 00:50:58.288
That's like very adult and impressive.
00:50:58.288 --> 00:50:58.749
Yeah, I'm old school.
00:50:58.749 --> 00:50:59.830
I like the creases in my pants.
00:50:59.850 --> 00:51:04.614
That's so nice, see, that's like very adult and you just really do feel better about yourself, you know like.
00:51:04.614 --> 00:51:09.858
I try to remember that too when I'm working from home, even if I'm not really going to see anyone socially that day.
00:51:09.858 --> 00:51:14.122
Like you just mentally feel so much better when you actually put on like an outfit.
00:51:16.684 --> 00:51:17.787
I don't know if I couldn't work from sweatpants all day.
00:51:17.787 --> 00:51:22.457
My wife thinks I'm weird because even if I'm working from home and I'm not seeing anyone, I still put clothes on.
00:51:22.778 --> 00:51:23.926
That's wonderful, See.
00:51:23.926 --> 00:51:25.812
I think that's like mentally such a good thing.
00:51:26.655 --> 00:51:28.711
Yeah, she thinks I'm nuts for that.
00:51:31.093 --> 00:51:31.775
No, I couldn't.
00:51:31.775 --> 00:51:34.795
If anything, I'll just stay in like workout clothes all the time, but I won't.
00:51:34.795 --> 00:51:37.033
I couldn't do like pajamas all day.
00:51:37.033 --> 00:51:38.667
I would just feel like I have the flu or something.
00:51:43.215 --> 00:51:46.440
I think we're going to end this on a beautiful subject here.
00:51:46.440 --> 00:51:55.506
Yay, there is this viral challenge going on right now.
00:51:55.526 --> 00:51:56.066
It's called the.
00:51:56.066 --> 00:51:56.846
We Listen and we Don't Judge videos.
00:51:56.865 --> 00:52:02.510
Love it Love them In case someone hasn't seen or heard of these videos basically, what you have, you have a couple.
00:52:02.510 --> 00:52:11.335
It could be boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife, doesn't matter and it starts off saying, okay, we listen and we don't judge.
00:52:11.335 --> 00:52:14.376
I don what.
00:52:14.376 --> 00:52:25.847
I kind of fake like I was having fun at the movies, but I really don't.
00:52:25.847 --> 00:52:27.251
You know, it's kind of like fun.
00:52:27.251 --> 00:52:30.681
Yeah, yeah, confessions now.
00:52:30.681 --> 00:52:33.389
Do you think this is something that you and your boyfriend would do?
00:52:33.809 --> 00:52:34.492
well, it's so funny.
00:52:34.492 --> 00:52:38.248
All we do is we talk and we judge, so have.
00:52:38.248 --> 00:52:42.898
Most of our conversation is more like us both yipping and yapping about each other.
00:52:42.898 --> 00:52:52.019
So it'd be funny because I feel like if there were new ones it would be news to us, because I feel like constantly, in a good way, him and I are like always talking about what we do and we don't like.
00:52:52.019 --> 00:52:53.932
But yeah, I think it could be real.
00:52:53.932 --> 00:52:55.847
I think that could be really funny and cute.
00:52:55.847 --> 00:53:01.695
But I almost feel like I don't want to know what the other one's going to say, because I feel like we already know so much.
00:53:02.796 --> 00:53:03.277
Oh my God.
00:53:03.277 --> 00:53:21.635
In fact they had this one couple who did it on the Tamron Hall show and what was funny about it I don't know, maybe not so funny was they had did a video and the woman said we listen and we don't judge.
00:53:21.635 --> 00:53:27.870
All those times that I said I had a headache when you wanted to oh no.
00:53:27.870 --> 00:53:31.817
I was faking all of them oh no, that's kind of.
00:53:31.978 --> 00:53:37.994
Then I feel like it's gonna be a weird car ride home because see me personally, I'll smile it off, but I'm thinking.
00:53:38.736 --> 00:53:40.759
Yeah that's like a harsh one.
00:53:40.759 --> 00:53:42.370
Going to bust me out like that?
00:53:42.370 --> 00:53:42.571
Huh.
00:53:43.005 --> 00:53:49.475
Yeah, that's a pretty big one, Like, I think, something you know totally benign would be better.
00:53:50.117 --> 00:53:56.218
Right, it's like you know they had things like, and then Tamron is like well, how do you guys handle something like?
00:53:56.278 --> 00:53:56.478
that.
00:53:57.146 --> 00:54:00.576
Well, you know, we know it's all in fun and you know, hey, no big deal.
00:54:00.576 --> 00:54:02.490
I'm thinking they're lying.
00:54:02.490 --> 00:54:09.410
They're lying because when those cameras are off there's probably a different conversation it's so funny.
00:54:09.591 --> 00:54:11.695
I I had one of these, but with my parents.
00:54:11.695 --> 00:54:19.408
There was my mom used
to make this dinner growing up where it was like a white fish and then white potatoes and these white like string beans.
00:54:19.408 --> 00:54:23.905
And then my dad and I would always, secretly, behind her back, say like, oh God, we're having the white dinner tonight.
00:54:23.905 --> 00:54:25.370
Like the white dinner is so gross.
00:54:25.370 --> 00:54:32.755
And then and then it took then like decades later, when I was finally an adult, my dad and I both said like we hated the white dinner.
00:54:32.755 --> 00:54:42.166
Yeah, and she was like her feelings were hurt, but she was like what, what?
00:54:42.166 --> 00:54:43.350
What do you just tell me?
00:54:43.350 --> 00:54:44.093
I would never cook it for you.
00:54:44.093 --> 00:54:52.193
All these times that we ate it, we would always secretly laugh at the white dinner because everything was a weird yellow color.
00:54:54.629 --> 00:54:57.068
If you got a great relationship, this would be a great challenge.
00:54:57.068 --> 00:55:08.155
But if you're the wrong kind of couple, this could really go left, because I was thinking like so what would happen if one of them goes?
00:55:08.155 --> 00:55:10.068
Hey, we listen and we don't judge.
00:55:10.068 --> 00:55:14.984
Um, just want to let you know I had a couple of affairs, but that was oh, yeah, yeah.
00:55:16.387 --> 00:55:19.652
You have to really make it like the easiest, cutest thing.
00:55:19.652 --> 00:55:28.134
Once I use your sock to clean up my spilled whatever, you almost have to make it a Disney-level PG-rated.
00:55:30.225 --> 00:55:31.632
Oh, exactly, exactly.
00:55:32.085 --> 00:55:33.771
Not like hey, I took your best friend shopping.
00:55:34.513 --> 00:55:35.015
Oh yeah.
00:55:35.015 --> 00:55:38.505
But yeah, it was kind of interesting.
00:55:38.505 --> 00:55:40.854
I'm like, wow, you're taking a big risk.
00:55:40.854 --> 00:55:44.736
You guys know each other because whoo, I don't want to know.
00:55:45.486 --> 00:55:49.115
What I already know is too much, so I'd rather not know as much.
00:55:50.365 --> 00:55:52.693
Yeah, but that was actually a pretty fun one, though, to see.
00:55:53.006 --> 00:55:54.051
I love those kind of ones.
00:55:56.365 --> 00:55:58.091
Wow, I can't believe it's been an hour.
00:55:58.673 --> 00:55:59.055
I know.
00:55:59.055 --> 00:56:01.067
And on Daylight Savings Time, look at us.
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Wow, I can't believe it's been an hour, I know, and on daylight savings time.
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look at us, there you go.
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Where Mel?
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Do you have anything coming up?
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I do.
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I have a fun show, um, not this Friday, but next Friday, march 21st, at the comedy store and I'll be hosting a show, and you know that one.
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There's like a big comedian, bobby Lee, who's on it, and stuff, another great comedian named Jimmy Shin.
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I will be hosting and having a very fun time.
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Nice.
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I'll be listening and judging.
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Actually, I'll be talking and others will be judging.
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There you go.
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I'll definitely keep an eye out for your cousin on the FBI show.
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Yes, I am definitely looking forward to seeing that myself.
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And what about you?
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Any cool things.
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Let's see Actually putting together stuff.
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I've already started my taping for my cooking show.
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Yeah.
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That's been pushed back too long, so I'm waiting for that Over the weekend and my other show that I have Thirsty Conversations.
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We had some great people on that show, so I'm looking forward to that coming out.
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One of them you may know his name is John Bolger.
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Okay.
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John Bolger is a comedian.
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He's also on AM7 in chicago cool, he does a lot of stuff behind the scenes.
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As far as um you know, he started off at second city and other famous you know clubs in the city and he does a lot more work behind the scenes now with producing and writing.
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But he has a lot of shows that's coming out that he's working on.
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Um is it b-o-s?
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uh, b-o-l-g-e-r bulger, okay, cool, yeah, so he's gonna be um, he's gonna have a lot of different things coming on.
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It was so fun having him on the show.
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I have to check it out, yeah so, but yeah, it was definitely a fun time and I'm I can't wait to have people watch it.
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So well, you're rocking it, everyone's rocking it.
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Oh, yes, absolutely and for everyone.
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Thank you so much for watching.
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We have so much fun.
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Always keep supporting us and please tell people about us so we can get in front of more people, either on podcasts or on TV.
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So I am Lawrence El.
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Yes, I am Lawrence Elrod.
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And I am Meryl.
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Clemo, have a great day.
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All Bye-bye.