TRANSCRIÇÃO 🔗
WEBVTT
00:00:04.959 --> 00:00:08.160
Hello and welcome back to the Chief Psychology Officer Podcast.
00:00:08.240 --> 00:00:09.759
Thank you so much for being here.
00:00:09.919 --> 00:00:21.920
This is our Best Bit series, and it's been a really valuable pause, a chance to slow things down, reflect, and take stock of how many brilliant guests and conversations we've had over the last four years.
00:00:22.239 --> 00:00:33.920
Across the Best Bit episodes, we've been bringing together some of the brilliant standout moments, ideas that are stuck, conversations that have really sparked something, and practical takeaways that you can carry along with you.
00:00:34.159 --> 00:00:40.399
Following our episode on psychological safety, this one is totally about strengths and cognitive diversity.
00:00:40.560 --> 00:00:52.560
It's a theme that runs quietly but powerfully through many of our conversations and how we understand ourselves and how we understand what we're energized by as a real driver in organisations.
00:00:52.719 --> 00:00:58.399
And how can we create the organization conditions for people to really operate at their best?
00:00:58.719 --> 00:01:02.000
As always, thank you so much for listening, for being part of this.
00:01:02.079 --> 00:01:09.359
And so, whether you've listened from the beginning or whether you're new to this pod, I hope that everything you listened to today has been helpful.
00:01:09.519 --> 00:01:12.239
I hope you enjoy this best bits episode.
00:01:12.400 --> 00:01:13.680
So let's get into it.
00:01:13.840 --> 00:01:15.200
Thank you for listening.
00:01:15.519 --> 00:01:21.200
We are back to talk all things CPO Best Bits, but this time we're honing in on strengths.
00:01:21.359 --> 00:01:26.079
I'm Caitlin, principal consultant and business psychologist at BTalent.
00:01:26.239 --> 00:01:30.640
And also today, I'm actually joined by Christian, who'll be co-hosting the podcast with me.
00:01:30.879 --> 00:01:33.760
So, Christian, don't know if you want to say a quick hello to the listeners.
00:01:34.239 --> 00:01:35.040
Hello, everybody.
00:01:35.200 --> 00:01:41.680
You might recognise the voice from uh some of our other podcasts, one of the uh co-hosts of CPO.
00:01:41.840 --> 00:01:48.000
And yes, Caitlin, it's yeah, fantastic, to be able to share some of our best bits episodes for strengths this time.
00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:58.400
So no new material or such, just the clips we keep coming back to with a bit of us talking about why we picked them and then really what stuck in our heads.
00:01:58.719 --> 00:02:07.120
Okay, so for anyone who didn't listen to the last CPO Best Bits, we talked about psychological safety and ultimately we went on a trip down memory lane.
00:02:07.280 --> 00:02:08.639
So we'll be doing that again.
00:02:08.879 --> 00:02:12.560
What kind of things can our listeners expect to hear in the episode?
00:02:12.719 --> 00:02:14.719
If you can give us some little Some teasers.
00:02:14.879 --> 00:02:15.599
Yeah, some teasers.
00:02:15.919 --> 00:02:18.479
Absolutely, yeah, some teasers so they know why we're going to listen.
00:02:18.719 --> 00:02:23.759
Well, we're going to go into first of all a bit around what strengths are.
00:02:23.840 --> 00:02:34.319
So a definition of strengths, uh quite an interesting aspect of strengths, which is what happens when we underuse, but even more crucially, overuse or do too much of a good thing.
00:02:34.479 --> 00:02:44.639
We'll talk about uh the difference between strengths and motivation, a little bit around the neuroscience and the neurotransmitters that are related to feeling at our best.
00:02:44.800 --> 00:02:48.639
And we'll also talk about the use of strengths in organizations.
00:02:48.719 --> 00:02:59.199
So around recruitment, we'll hear from Stuart Desson with regards to profile matching and the dangers of trying to fit certain types of strengths into certain teams.
00:02:59.360 --> 00:03:00.960
So we'll talk about that and assessment.
00:03:01.039 --> 00:03:13.280
And then finally, we'll hear from Joe Wicks, uh of all people, about what energizes him and then what that says about strengths and how we can use strengths to energize us at work and in life in general.
00:03:13.599 --> 00:03:13.840
Great.
00:03:13.919 --> 00:03:19.840
So we'll be covering a lot of ground there, I suppose, and we'll be hearing from a few different voices in those clips.
00:03:20.080 --> 00:03:22.479
Looking forward to diving into that.
00:03:22.719 --> 00:03:24.319
So why don't we start, Christian?
00:03:24.479 --> 00:03:27.199
What is the first clip you have for us today?
00:03:27.599 --> 00:03:30.479
The first clip is we start from the beginning.
00:03:30.639 --> 00:03:33.039
So, what even are strengths?
00:03:33.199 --> 00:03:38.639
This clip is from our episode on creating a strengths culture, episode 25.
00:03:38.800 --> 00:03:43.840
And before you can do anything useful with strengths, you need a working definition.
00:03:44.000 --> 00:03:46.800
And this is the clearest one we've had on the show.
00:03:47.360 --> 00:03:51.759
So, very much building on what I said earlier, strengths are energizers.
00:03:51.840 --> 00:03:54.960
They're the things that we do well, we find enjoyable.
00:03:55.120 --> 00:04:06.479
And potentially with that practice, because of that moving towards behavior, the fact that we find opportunities to practice the things that we enjoy, in theory, we are likely to get good at them.
00:04:06.800 --> 00:04:08.240
Can you give me an example?
00:04:08.479 --> 00:04:16.319
So a strength never gets on the to-do list, and that's because very often the task is done before the list is even created.
00:04:16.560 --> 00:04:22.240
It's the natural, energizing, and authentic aspect of the person or what they enjoy.
00:04:22.480 --> 00:04:35.680
On the other hand, if there's something that you have to write down and you move it from one list to another, constantly berating yourself for not
Load full transcript
actually completing that task, that's likely to be quite low on your strengths list.
00:04:35.759 --> 00:04:43.360
And we would refer to that as an underused strength because it's not something that's energizing to you, something that you don't enjoy.
00:04:43.519 --> 00:04:49.040
And it requires you to drive your motivation in order to complete that task.
00:04:49.199 --> 00:04:58.240
And it's underused because if you need that strength in order to perform and succeed, then it's a gap and therefore is a potential risk.
00:04:58.720 --> 00:05:02.000
So, Christian, out of interest, what are your top strengths?
00:05:02.399 --> 00:05:05.600
My top strengths, if I remember rightly.
00:05:05.680 --> 00:05:10.319
Um should be deeply ingrained into your look at this a while ago, didn't we?
00:05:10.399 --> 00:05:11.600
I should be no, shouldn't I?
00:05:11.839 --> 00:05:13.759
Um compassionate was one.
00:05:13.920 --> 00:05:18.000
Uh was a top strength of mine, a top seven, and enabling.
00:05:18.240 --> 00:05:18.560
Okay.
00:05:19.199 --> 00:05:20.639
Which makes sense.
00:05:20.800 --> 00:05:27.920
Obviously, there's sometimes where I can get a bit too over invested in how people are doing, but I suppose it plays into my strengths as a coach.
00:05:28.160 --> 00:05:31.839
Yes, I was gonna say I think it very much matches your role and what you do.
00:05:32.160 --> 00:05:33.439
What about yours?
00:05:33.759 --> 00:05:34.399
Mine.
00:05:34.560 --> 00:05:44.639
Um, so mine are influential, and that one's really about kind of asking questions and showing interest in others, basically being curious and creating connections with people.
00:05:44.959 --> 00:05:47.199
And the other is attentive.
00:05:47.439 --> 00:05:54.000
So similar vein, being observant of other people's needs and what they have to say, but also being aware of the impact that I might have on others.
00:05:54.240 --> 00:05:55.519
But yeah, they definitely ring true.
00:05:55.680 --> 00:06:03.040
I definitely again, I think it matches quite well in terms of the role that I'm in and the work that we do all the time.
00:06:03.199 --> 00:06:04.079
So yeah.
00:06:04.399 --> 00:06:05.680
I think it makes sense, yeah.
00:06:05.839 --> 00:06:09.279
Kind of um constructively nosy, Caitlin, which is good.
00:06:09.680 --> 00:06:10.399
Curious.
00:06:11.040 --> 00:06:12.399
Literally curious Caitlin.
00:06:12.800 --> 00:06:13.519
Curious Caitlin.
00:06:13.839 --> 00:06:15.360
Well, we're psychologists, aren't we?
00:06:15.439 --> 00:06:16.240
So yeah.
00:06:16.480 --> 00:06:18.639
If we weren't curious, there's something would be wrong.
00:06:18.879 --> 00:06:19.600
No, exactly.
00:06:19.680 --> 00:06:22.079
I think asking questions is so important.
00:06:22.399 --> 00:06:23.040
Right, okay.
00:06:23.120 --> 00:06:24.480
So we've got a definition there.
00:06:24.639 --> 00:06:26.480
What's the next clip you've got for us?
00:06:26.879 --> 00:06:36.639
The next clip from actually the same conversation, same episode, and it's about the topic of strengths versus motivation and are they the same thing?
00:06:36.800 --> 00:06:48.879
Which is quite interesting because we sometimes have people on our workshops who often get confused and then think that, you know, if they're motivated by something, then it must mean that it's a strength of theirs.
00:06:48.959 --> 00:06:49.199
Yeah.
00:06:49.439 --> 00:06:52.879
But it's a distinction that trips people up constantly.
00:06:53.199 --> 00:06:54.560
Is it the same as motivation?
00:06:54.720 --> 00:06:56.160
The answer is no.
00:06:56.560 --> 00:07:00.959
From a psychological term, we differentiate between strengths, motivation.
00:07:01.120 --> 00:07:03.120
They are quite different from one another.
00:07:03.279 --> 00:07:12.319
And I know I probably used the word motivation earlier when I was talking about dopamine because that is the reward and motivation transmitter.
00:07:12.560 --> 00:07:20.879
But actually, from a psychological perspective, we clearly differentiate between strengths and motivation and also strengths, motivation, and skill.
00:07:21.519 --> 00:07:22.240
Can you elaborate?
00:07:22.959 --> 00:07:28.160
Imagine we were to focus on your least preferred strength, Angela, which is meticulous.
00:07:28.560 --> 00:07:34.240
And Sarah and I asked you to spend a whole day peer reviewing and proofing reports.
00:07:34.720 --> 00:07:41.439
What will happen is you are likely to feel quite tired by the end of the day because it's not something you necessarily enjoy.
00:07:42.000 --> 00:07:47.279
But because you're a fabulous employee, thank you very much, you're motivated to do a good job.
00:07:47.519 --> 00:07:50.480
So you want to deliver high-quality work.
00:07:50.720 --> 00:07:57.040
So you're motivated to be meticulous, but you're not energized by it and therefore can get depleted.
00:07:57.439 --> 00:08:06.319
But as a result of that practice, because you're motivated, you're actually in truth very skilled at being meticulous, albeit you don't enjoy the experience.
00:08:06.959 --> 00:08:08.639
Yeah, I think that resonates with me.
00:08:08.720 --> 00:08:16.720
I can think of a few tasks that maybe aren't the most energizing because actually they can be quite stressful and lead up to it or things like that.
00:08:16.959 --> 00:08:21.439
But I'm motivated to do it because I know that it's going to be good for the company, it's going to be good for the person.
00:08:21.680 --> 00:08:25.839
Depending on what that piece of work is, I know that there's a good reason to do it.
00:08:26.079 --> 00:08:36.720
But what I find is that I'll then feel really tired afterwards and I'll feel quite wiped out, versus, you know, I don't know if I choose the example of one-to-one conversations I love.
00:08:36.799 --> 00:08:38.879
And so I always feel quite energized after those.
00:08:39.039 --> 00:08:40.879
I don't know, Kristen, do you have anything like that?
00:08:41.120 --> 00:08:42.639
Yeah, there's just a few examples.
00:08:42.720 --> 00:08:46.399
So networking, I can be quite competent at it.
00:08:46.480 --> 00:08:50.240
Um, I enjoy it sometimes, but it's not something I would jump out of bed to do.
00:08:50.639 --> 00:09:02.320
And if I'm networking for a good period of time and I've I've spoken to lots of people, I can feel quite drained afterwards, even if those conversations have been, you know, enjoyable, they've been interesting.
00:09:02.480 --> 00:09:07.360
And then I also really resonated with Angela's meticulous challenge.
00:09:07.440 --> 00:09:09.039
It's not one of my top strengths.
00:09:09.120 --> 00:09:15.360
It doesn't mean that I can't be meticulous and sometimes actually pretty good at spotting or doing things like copywriting and proofing.
00:09:15.440 --> 00:09:21.679
And if my focus is there, I can be really meticulous, but it's not something that I'm energized by over time.
00:09:21.919 --> 00:09:30.320
So if I'm at the desk doing spreadsheets all day, yeah, you're probably not gonna get the best out of me afterwards, and I might need a glass of wine.
00:09:31.120 --> 00:09:32.240
Yeah, I'd be the same.
00:09:32.399 --> 00:09:34.720
Maybe not a glass of wine, maybe some chocolate or something.
00:09:35.200 --> 00:09:36.399
Something like that, chocolate as well.
00:09:36.639 --> 00:09:37.279
Sugar hit.
00:09:37.759 --> 00:09:38.480
Right, okay.
00:09:38.639 --> 00:09:40.080
So, what's the next clip?
00:09:40.399 --> 00:09:42.960
The next clip is actually from the same episode.
00:09:43.279 --> 00:09:46.720
We discuss some of the neuroscience around stress.
00:09:47.360 --> 00:09:49.120
How do our strengths develop?
00:09:49.360 --> 00:09:58.080
So, from a neuroscientific perspective, strengths are created by our brain synapses being nurtured as we develop, learn, and grow.
00:09:58.240 --> 00:10:08.399
As our strengths are heavily dependent on environmental factors during development, and as I mentioned, strengths are moving towards more of a state, they can change over time.
00:10:08.639 --> 00:10:31.360
And so, as a result of our environment, and as a result of us changing and focusing on new things that we enjoy, we are likely to train ourselves to be more motivated, to be more excited by different activities, and therefore we will release greater levels of dopamine and get excited about the tasks that we enjoy most.
00:10:31.759 --> 00:10:49.440
It's funny because that one, Christian, we were just on a workshop earlier, weren't we, with a global kind of engineering firm that we're running a leadership development program for, and we're having a whole conversation around strengths and how the context can really mean that your strengths may change over time, which was making me think about my own experience.
00:10:49.519 --> 00:10:58.159
And I would say when I first kind of entered the corporate life, I would say that I was more energized by things like meticulous because you know I was quite used to doing that.
00:10:58.240 --> 00:11:01.679
When you come out of uni, you've you you know you're having to proof all your work and that sort of thing.
00:11:01.759 --> 00:11:07.440
And so you feel like, you know what, I know what I'm doing here, I'm confident in it, and also I'm energized by it.
00:11:07.679 --> 00:11:14.879
But as my career's gone on, you know, I'll still do it because again, I'm motivated to produce a good high quality of work for our clients.
00:11:15.679 --> 00:11:25.039
But yeah, now I would be much more energized actually by the networking piece and the strategic thinking and obviously the being influential rather than meticulous.
00:11:25.279 --> 00:11:26.639
It's fascinating, that isn't it?
00:11:26.799 --> 00:11:37.759
I think that what you said and that snippet that we've just listened to reframes strengths as something that are built and developed, not something you've just had and handed out and then born.
00:11:37.919 --> 00:11:47.440
I think can be really affirming to know that um you know if you can change them, because if you focus on certain strengths over time, as you've just said, then you can develop strengths, can't you?
00:11:47.519 --> 00:11:54.080
That builds new brain connections and neurotransmitters, and you get more dopamine from the things you used to find a bit scary.
00:11:54.240 --> 00:11:56.480
So yeah, I think it was really interesting.
00:11:56.639 --> 00:11:58.559
Clip supported with the science as well.
00:11:58.799 --> 00:12:01.360
Yeah, we've always got a bit of neuroscience in there, don't we?
00:12:01.600 --> 00:12:02.720
Always a little bit, yeah.
00:12:02.960 --> 00:12:08.639
So let's shift from strengths on their own to how they, I suppose, sit alongside personality.
00:12:08.879 --> 00:12:11.039
We've got on this clip two different guests.
00:12:11.120 --> 00:12:17.279
Uh we've got Amanda Potter speaking to one of our guests, Stuart Desson of Luminous Spark.
00:12:17.440 --> 00:12:24.960
And they talk about the same question, but I don't think either of them would actually say it's fully settled, but um it was interesting nonetheless.
00:12:26.080 --> 00:12:40.080
I see strengths as a really critical part of our personality, and if we are going to be purposeful in our lives and make sort of conscious choices, choosing to focus on our strengths is uh an incredibly sensible thing to do.
00:12:40.159 --> 00:12:41.360
So that's kind of my take.
00:12:41.440 --> 00:12:43.120
I don't know what you make of that, Amanda.
00:12:43.600 --> 00:12:56.480
I probably have because I've wanted to differentiate between strengths and personality to help our customers, I have always referred to a continuum and I always think about it in terms of state and trait.
00:12:56.879 --> 00:13:07.679
And what I would do is I would put resilience, emotional intelligence on the state end because it's rapidly changeable, and that triggering can happen in using your language in a moment.
00:13:07.840 -->
00:13:16.080
And so my emotions can change rapidly depending on what's happening around me, versus personality, which I would argue it's the other end, which is trait.
00:13:16.159 --> 00:13:30.080
And I put strengths in the middle because I would argue that strengths, whilst they are not as rapidly changing, they are more evolving and they are more responsive to other choices we make, the decisions we make in the environment we're in.
00:13:30.639 --> 00:13:34.080
So yeah, I think that kind of reinforces what Amanda was saying earlier.
00:13:34.159 --> 00:13:36.240
But I think it definitely does come in the middle.
00:13:36.399 --> 00:13:42.720
And I think, again, just reflecting on my own experience, there are definitely some strengths that I've had that have been pretty consistent over time.
00:13:42.960 --> 00:13:48.159
But as I said, there are others that, depending on the context and as my career's progressed, they have changed.
00:13:48.399 --> 00:13:50.480
Do you have any reflections on that one, Christian?
00:13:50.879 --> 00:13:54.399
When I think about my strengths, I think they've broadly stayed the same.
00:13:54.639 --> 00:14:14.000
But it's a question I think that we get with almost all delegates in our workshops at a point where when they look at their profile, if they've done it a second time, if they did it a few years ago, then um so many people who have noticed that while it broadly stays the same, there's a strength or two that has shifted.
00:14:14.159 --> 00:14:16.000
It's either gone up or it's gone down.
00:14:16.159 --> 00:14:26.480
And then when you ask them why that is, it's because they've changed role or because they chose to focus or to prioritize that strength because they knew it was really crucial to their role at the time.
00:14:26.559 --> 00:14:31.519
And then lo and behold, they find that their strengths profile shifts to reflect that need.
00:14:31.679 --> 00:14:33.360
So it's fascinating.
00:14:33.600 --> 00:14:41.120
What I see out in the field supports what Amanda says and Stuart discuss in the podcast that strengths can shift over time.
00:14:41.200 --> 00:14:46.320
So the less stable personality, you know, not as changeable as resilience.
00:14:47.200 --> 00:15:10.960
An interesting one that I've seen as well with people I've been working with is when people have gone from kind of more corporate being kind of employed in that environment, but then they go independent and they're self-employed, that can often shift their strengths in terms of what they need to kind of dial up in that new context versus when they were working in kind of a larger organization and a in in a team and all those sorts of things.
00:15:11.120 --> 00:15:13.759
So it's a very interesting conversation to have, isn't it?
00:15:13.919 --> 00:15:15.759
When people go through those life shifts.
00:15:16.080 --> 00:15:17.120
It really is, isn't it?
00:15:17.200 --> 00:15:17.360
Yeah.
00:15:17.519 --> 00:15:32.000
Some yeah, in-house, you know, HR directors who then decide to go freelance and then suddenly need to turn up the strengths that help them to sell and to promote themselves and to uh have the commercial conversations, which can feel a little bit uncomfortable for them initially.
00:15:32.320 --> 00:15:33.279
Fascinating.
00:15:33.519 --> 00:15:36.639
Let's get back now to episode 28.
00:15:36.720 --> 00:15:41.279
And this clip is on the increasing use of strength-based assessment.
00:15:42.000 --> 00:15:52.720
What's amazing is that 10 years ago, 73% of Fortune and FTSE 100 organizations were using strengths-based approaches for assessment.
00:15:52.960 --> 00:16:00.000
But now it's reported that 90% of those organizations use strengths-based assessments for assessment for recruitment.
00:16:00.080 --> 00:16:07.360
But so actually, strengths have overtaken personality, which is what I expected to see happen and actually is happening.
00:16:07.519 --> 00:16:16.639
So more organizations are now using strengths-based approach assessments for recruitment globally than they are using personality for assessment.
00:16:17.039 --> 00:16:37.039
But your point, Angelo, is that some organizations get very embedded with product because they get embedded with their test publisher, with their consulting partner, they get a lot of people trained on those tools and they're unable to shift away or feel like they're unable to shift away from their very well-established personality products.
00:16:37.200 --> 00:16:42.960
But actually, I think there's a real place for strengths and there's a place for personality in organizations.
00:16:43.519 --> 00:16:44.639
That is a big stat.
00:16:44.720 --> 00:16:45.919
We love a good stat, don't we?
00:16:46.159 --> 00:16:47.039
It's a stat, yeah.
00:16:47.120 --> 00:16:51.039
That's um it's a good one just before the pricing slide and the proposal.
00:16:51.200 --> 00:16:59.679
Just kind of it doesn't mean, does it, that uh that stat around sort of 90% of organizations using a strength-based approach.
00:16:59.919 --> 00:17:03.039
That said doesn't mean they're necessarily using strength tools, does it?
00:17:03.120 --> 00:17:17.200
But it's that approach that's generally gone away from the focus on development or development gaps and looking more at how to create environments, encourage people to do better at the things that they're already energized by.
00:17:17.359 --> 00:17:18.880
But I think there's nuance here, isn't there?
00:17:19.119 --> 00:17:22.000
We were actually at a development programme the other day together, weren't we?
00:17:22.240 --> 00:17:43.920
We were with a big client, and actually, interestingly, one of the HR leaders gave a talk on development and talent selection, talent development, and talked about the importance of balancing sort of a strength-based approach with still kind of particularly early in somebody's career, looking at what you're not so good at and actually really focusing on that as well.
00:17:44.000
--> 00:17:48.000
So it's not a simple just play to your strengths and then everything will be fine.
00:17:48.240 --> 00:17:49.359
I think is a balance there.
00:17:49.599 --> 00:17:53.759
Yeah, it's funny, that was literally going through my brain as well as we were listening to that clip.
00:17:53.920 --> 00:17:54.799
Does it surprise you?
00:17:54.880 --> 00:17:58.640
Because it Amanda said that strength is overtaking personality, obviously.
00:17:58.880 --> 00:18:00.079
Does that surprise you?
00:18:00.400 --> 00:18:01.599
It does surprise me.
00:18:01.759 --> 00:18:06.799
I think there's a lot of organizations that have uh they're still using personality profiles.
00:18:07.039 --> 00:18:10.880
You know, we have clients, don't we, that for example, use it in combination, don't they?
00:18:10.960 --> 00:18:14.240
Actually, combination, don't they, with for recruitment or for development.
00:18:14.400 --> 00:18:19.839
They still see the value very much so of strength-based approach to complement those methods.
00:18:20.000 --> 00:18:33.759
But I think importantly, when they start using strengths-based assessments or strengths tools for development, the advantage of doing that or using those compared to some personality um approaches is that the world's changing.
00:18:33.920 --> 00:18:35.200
People need to adapt, don't they?
00:18:35.279 --> 00:18:37.279
And people need to quickly develop.
00:18:37.519 --> 00:18:43.039
And knowing what your personality style is, I think is only one part of the equation.
00:18:43.279 --> 00:18:48.480
We can develop our strengths, can't we, over a short period of time sometimes if we focus on the right things.
00:18:48.720 --> 00:18:50.240
Yeah, it's an extra data point.
00:18:50.319 --> 00:18:59.920
And I think the thing is that I love about strengths is obviously it's used in that kind of individual setting for development and coaching, but also from a kind of teams lens as well.
00:19:00.319 --> 00:19:07.119
I'm sure there'll be a clip we'll play in a moment about cognitive diversity and how you can leverage the different strengths that exist in a team.
00:19:07.279 --> 00:19:13.279
But yeah, I do quite like how it's got both those two avenues that you can explore and go down when talking about the topic.
00:19:13.519 --> 00:19:14.640
Yeah, definitely.
00:19:14.960 --> 00:19:19.519
So the next clip is actually a third clip from episode 25.
00:19:19.680 --> 00:19:25.279
So either it was an unusually rich hour or we just didn't have the heart to cut any more of it.
00:19:25.440 --> 00:19:26.640
So let's see.
00:19:27.200 --> 00:19:36.880
So for organizations that are looking to implement a strengths-based approach, can we use strengths for recruitment to select the right candidates for an organization?
00:19:37.200 --> 00:19:41.839
Well, the word right is the one that worries me in your statement, Angela.
00:19:42.000 --> 00:19:44.400
So the right strengths is a problem.
00:19:44.640 --> 00:19:51.440
Because yes,
you can use strengths for recruitment, but no, you cannot select the right strengths.
00:19:51.599 --> 00:19:54.640
And the reason I say that is you should never profile match.
00:19:54.960 --> 00:20:04.960
Profile matching is when you identify the strengths in the team or the organization that you would like to recruit for, and then you actively recruit people with those strengths.
00:20:05.359 --> 00:20:12.319
If you do this, what you're going to do is contribute to a homogeneous or homophily culture where everyone is the same.
00:20:12.640 --> 00:20:15.920
So I fundamentally disagree with profile matching.
00:20:16.240 --> 00:20:27.759
I fundamentally agree with the unique individual, identifying what someone's core and unique or signature strengths are, and then deciding how well that person will fit into the team.
00:20:28.000 --> 00:20:35.759
Do they have strengths that will complement the team and add greater value because they are diverse to the team that you have already?
00:20:36.079 --> 00:20:36.799
Well, there we go.
00:20:36.880 --> 00:20:39.759
That was actually quite a nice segue into that diversity piece.
00:20:40.079 --> 00:20:40.880
It was, wasn't it?
00:20:40.960 --> 00:20:41.119
Yeah.
00:20:41.279 --> 00:20:46.079
And we talk about profile matching, which is a conversation, isn't it, that we've had over the years.
00:20:46.640 --> 00:20:49.039
Yeah, Amanda feels quite strongly about it, doesn't she?
00:20:49.279 --> 00:20:49.839
Yeah, she does.
00:20:49.920 --> 00:21:04.799
And it's um it could be quite tempting and understandable in many ways for an organization to want to use a tool like ours to support a hiring process and to support the efficiency and I suppose speed up the process and to simplify it.
00:21:04.960 --> 00:21:19.599
But uh yeah, as we heard in that clip, it's not so much about looking at your existing team and then profiling what strengths or top strengths that team has, and then trying to only recruit the people with those exact strengths or that score in that strengths profile.
00:21:19.759 --> 00:21:30.480
There's a risk there of over the years that team becomes, as Amanda says, just homogenous and lacks the diversity and they don't innovate anymore.
00:21:30.559 --> 00:21:51.359
And we've had countless situations, haven't we, or examples where it's felt nice and harmonious in the beginning for people to have the same strengths or to have the same personality types, but you lose the innovation, the challenge, those nuances over time, and that can have an impact on the success of the team and how they adapt in the future.
00:21:51.599 --> 00:21:57.680
As you say, it's it's always kind of a conversation that we have a lot with our clients in terms of what's best to do.
00:21:58.000 --> 00:21:58.559
It is.
00:21:58.880 --> 00:22:04.559
When I think about How my father recruits people for his um much smaller bathroom.
00:22:05.119 --> 00:22:06.079
Getting personal there.
00:22:06.480 --> 00:22:12.400
Well, can I say I hope he's not listening, but he probably will listen, but I don't think he'll have very thick skin.
00:22:12.640 --> 00:22:19.279
But I think in in the past, um, not only would he not use any personality or strength-based assessments at all.
00:22:19.440 --> 00:22:22.880
I mean, it's a small business, he would ask just a few questions.
00:22:22.960 --> 00:22:25.920
And one of those was, Do you like rock music?
00:22:26.160 --> 00:22:27.519
And so he's a drummer.
00:22:27.759 --> 00:22:32.880
So if they said yes to that, then it'd have a nice conversation and then they'd probably get the job.
00:22:33.599 --> 00:22:39.759
We've come a bit of a way from those kinds of couple of questions, and then yeah, you've got the job.
00:22:40.000 --> 00:22:41.680
We have come a long way from then.
00:22:41.920 --> 00:22:43.839
So, what have we got next, Christian?
00:22:44.319 --> 00:22:51.039
We have got Stuart Desson talking again in episode 76 on actually a very similar theme.
00:22:51.119 --> 00:22:58.240
So, again, to we talk about profile matching and the risk of profile matching, a little bit around why that can be an issue.
00:22:58.640 --> 00:23:05.759
One risk of profile matching is that you end up certainly in leadership roles, homing in on that sort of stereotype.
00:23:05.920 --> 00:23:19.759
And the risk of that, even if you can gather data that can show that in some circumstances that gets good outcomes, if we do that consistently over time, we will clone our culture and we will lose the diversity in our leadership style.
00:23:19.920 --> 00:23:22.160
So I'm 100% with you, Amanda.
00:23:22.400 --> 00:23:31.839
If you're using psychometrics in this area around talent development, a really important factor is to do the opposite of that and actually look at well, who's in the team now?
00:23:32.000 --> 00:23:35.920
If other people are joining the team, what does that do to our diversity?
00:23:36.160 --> 00:23:40.240
And one thing I always like to do when I work with a team is have a look.
00:23:40.400 --> 00:23:43.759
Has somebody been recruiting in the image of the boss?
00:23:44.240 --> 00:23:45.759
Have we got a clone team?
00:23:45.920 --> 00:23:48.000
And that's normally a huge challenge.
00:23:48.319 --> 00:23:58.400
It will unbalance the culture, it will result in in sort of mini me's occurring where people are trying to unconsciously replicate the boss or what they think's need in the culture.
00:23:58.559 --> 00:24:03.200
And again, I'd like to see what I do as kind of the antidote to that.
00:24:03.359 --> 00:24:08.960
I mean, I have had in the past clients bring me or Lumina in and say, something's gone a bit wrong here.
00:24:09.039 --> 00:24:16.400
We've been using the psychometrics, and we're 10 years down the line, and we seem to have a sort of mono one-dimensional culture.
00:24:16.640 --> 00:24:18.720
Can you help us understand what's going on?
00:24:19.279 --> 00:24:27.519
And I've seen, you know, I won't name the
organization, but one large organization I work with, they were using like a four-quadrant model for it.
00:24:27.680 --> 00:24:37.759
And they kind of got into everybody at the senior level was kind of driven, focused, didn't express feelings, and they kind of made a science out of saying that's what we want.
00:24:37.920 --> 00:24:41.200
And then a number of years down the line, they were saying something strange has happened.
00:24:41.279 --> 00:24:46.240
We've lost, we used to be so empowered, and we used to have lots of innovation, and it's all disappeared.
00:24:46.559 --> 00:25:04.720
And the really curious thing about that was it was staggeringly obvious to me what happened, and I got all their data and discussed it with them, and they're H people were on board, but it was really hard to persuade some of the other senior people to change because they'd say things like, but we like it like this, it's fast-paced, it's just you know, that's how we are.
00:25:04.880 --> 00:25:11.200
They kind of got attached to the culture that they were part of, and then it's pretty hard to change it.
00:25:11.359 --> 00:25:13.680
Yeah, you're almost into family therapy at this point.
00:25:13.759 --> 00:25:14.240
Yeah.
00:25:14.880 --> 00:25:15.599
Well, there you go.
00:25:15.680 --> 00:25:17.519
I think that's a pretty good example, isn't it?
00:25:17.920 --> 00:25:18.319
Right.
00:25:18.480 --> 00:25:20.640
Okay, so let's move on then.
00:25:20.799 --> 00:25:22.960
What's the next clip that we're gonna be listening to about?
00:25:23.279 --> 00:25:29.839
The next clip, um, yeah, we hear from Simon Rogerson, who's the CEO and founder of Octopus Group.
00:25:30.079 --> 00:25:34.319
I think many of us might even be customers of Octopus Energy.
00:25:34.480 --> 00:25:38.480
So uh Simon is really passionate about culture fit.
00:25:38.640 --> 00:25:46.400
He talks about the concept of radiators versus drains and uh cognitive diversity, which we've just been talking about.
00:25:46.559 --> 00:25:48.640
So let's have a listen to that.
00:25:49.279 --> 00:26:03.519
Thinking about the role that you've played within the organizations around culture, because the reason we've invited you to talk to us today is I'm very excited about the environment of an organization and the culture we create in an organization.
00:26:03.680 --> 00:26:09.440
And from our conversation, Simon, you're very clear about what works in terms of culture and what doesn't work.
00:26:09.839 --> 00:26:10.960
Would you mind elaborating?
00:26:11.359 --> 00:26:18.000
I think great business, building a great business, it's a difficult thing to do, but at the heart of it, great business is simply about how you make people feel.
00:26:18.240 --> 00:26:21.359
The only lesson anyone needs to take away is just about how you make people feel.
00:26:21.440 --> 00:26:25.200
And the people I'm talking about there are your employees and they're your customers.
00:26:25.359 --> 00:26:27.680
And behavior comes entirely from values.
00:26:27.839 --> 00:26:35.279
So it comes from the kind of people you hire, kind of the great big things you choose to do in an organization and the tiny little actions of every single person working there.
00:26:35.680 --> 00:26:38.720
The first 500 people we hired, I interviewed every single person.
00:26:38.799 --> 00:26:43.759
I probably spent half of my time for the first three, four, five years of the company interviewing people.
00:26:43.839 --> 00:26:47.200
So I got pretty good at working people out because it is about behavior.
00:26:47.279 --> 00:26:51.680
I say, you know, I'm I'm the group chief executive, but actually I think more than anything, I'm kind of group antibody.
00:26:51.839 --> 00:26:54.400
The culture of the organization was coolest when it was 30 people.
00:26:54.559 --> 00:26:57.839
Now across the group we have eight, nine thousand people working here.
00:26:57.920 --> 00:27:01.359
And my job is to make sure that decline in culture is as shallow as possible.
00:27:01.440 --> 00:27:05.200
And that comes down to the people you hire, the people you reward, the people you promote.
00:27:05.519 --> 00:27:07.279
You're either a radiator or you're a drain.
00:27:07.440 --> 00:27:10.400
And if you're a drain, you cannot and will not work at Octobus.
00:27:10.480 --> 00:27:14.400
And just recognizing when you, if you're really good at interviewing people, you probably get seven out of ten people right.
00:27:14.559 --> 00:27:20.160
So the three you're gonna get wrong, you need to do something about that because it's in their interest, it's in my interest, it's in the company's interests.
00:27:20.400 --> 00:27:23.519
But you know, culture comes down to people more than anything else.
00:27:23.680 --> 00:27:25.599
But again, this is what businesses get so wrong.
00:27:25.759 --> 00:27:33.279
You choose your friends in life, and people have, you know, I don't know what a circle of trust is, probably six, seven people in the way most people trust, and they have a wide network of friends.
00:27:33.519 --> 00:27:44.960
But you try and name the companies you would be friends with or with fit within that circle, it's almost non-existent, which is so weird because it's just a collection of humans coming together and suddenly you put a corporate wrap around them and no one trusts them anymore.
00:27:45.359 --> 00:27:46.480
It doesn't make any sense.
00:27:46.640 --> 00:27:48.559
I think business is fundamentally broken.
00:27:48.880 --> 00:28:06.079
And the point you've made there about radiators and drains, given our research and thinking around cognitive diversity, is a really important one because in some environments we know that I might be an energizer for somebody, and other situations with other groups, someone might find me irritating or I could be a drain for them.
00:28:06.319 --> 00:28:07.680
So it's about the right culture.
00:28:07.759 --> 00:28:09.839
It doesn't mean that anybody's good or bad.
00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:12.799
It just means about finding the right fit for you, isn't it?
00:28:13.039 --> 00:28:17.599
I have an issue with having too much fit because of the lack of homogeneity.
00:28:17.920 --> 00:28:32.880
So the importance of having really good values and real clarity about what's important with an organization, yet at the same time looking for a diverse workforce who think differently, who are going to challenge each other, who are going to ask you questions is important too.
00:28:33.200 --> 00:28:38.000
So, what's your view on cognitive diversity and the importance of bringing in a diverse workforce, Simon?
00:28:38.400 --> 00:28:43.839
So just a reaction to one thing you said actually first, because I agree, people will interpret radiation and drains differently.
00:28:43.920 --> 00:28:48.240
But one point I would make is there's a big difference between skepticism and cynicism.
00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:49.759
Fine with skeptics, right?
00:28:49.839 --> 00:28:54.640
When we're trying to build businesses all the time, and that means we make loads of mistakes and don't always get things right, and that's understandable.
00:28:54.799 --> 00:28:58.000
But the cynicism's not okay because it's wired differently in people.
00:28:58.079 --> 00:28:59.279
So I would make that point.
00:28:59.359 --> 00:29:00.400
I think there is a difference there.
00:29:00.559 --> 00:29:06.720
In terms of diversity generally, so diversity for businesses and business leaders is one of these mega buzzwords.
00:29:06.880 --> 00:29:12.240
So I look at some of the big quota companies, and there's diversity where I must tick certain boxes.
00:29:12.400 --> 00:29:17.359
So half my board must be women, and half my board must be men, and then I mean all kinds of levels of diversity.
00:29:17.519 --> 00:29:24.559
I think by a mile, the most important form of diversity is diversity of thought as to how people think about things.
00:29:24.720 --> 00:29:28.000
And that comes from different life experiences and different backgrounds.
00:29:28.480 --> 00:29:37.759
If I hired a man and a woman who both went to private school and they both read natural sciences at Cambridge, and they both have the same tutors, there's a very high likelihood they will think in a very similar way.
00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:47.519
So diversity of thought is about different life experiences and what you bring, and that I think is what makes our businesses and teams function in a kind of high performance way.
00:29:48.160 --> 00:29:48.559
Great.
00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:50.480
I mean, there's a lot to unpack in that one.
00:29:50.720 --> 00:29:51.839
Yeah, there is, isn't there?
00:29:52.079 --> 00:29:56.240
I actually recorded that one with um Amanda and Simon, and it was such a great conversation.
00:29:56.319 --> 00:29:58.960
And you can really see his passion for his business come through.
00:29:59.039 --> 00:29:59.759
It's quite inspiring.
00:29:59.839 --> 00:30:05.039
And I think the
beginning where he mentions that he interviewed, you know, all 500 people, says it all really.
00:30:05.359 --> 00:30:06.480
It was interesting, wasn't it?
00:30:06.640 --> 00:30:12.160
There was a bit of tension initially, I think, in terms of how you think about radiators and drains.
00:30:12.240 --> 00:30:25.839
So when Simon was talking about, you know, you're either a radiator or a drain, I think Amanda took it in another direction when she talked about effectively we can all be radiators and drains in different contexts.
00:30:26.480 --> 00:30:44.000
And so that again aligns to some of our work on strengths where we're energized in certain environments when we have a chance to do certain things, but we actually and also might be quite draining or uh challenging for other people who have a completely different approach, thinking style, and set of strengths than we do.
00:30:44.160 --> 00:30:49.039
So yeah, I think the whole thing you're either a drain or a radiator, not completely sure about that.
00:30:49.279 --> 00:30:57.519
I did find it interesting that then Simon later talked about there is a distinction between cynicism and being sceptical.
00:30:57.759 --> 00:31:03.279
So if you're cynic, then you're closing down the opportunities and not being open to difference.
00:31:03.440 --> 00:31:05.839
And I think I would a closed mindset, isn't it?
00:31:05.920 --> 00:31:06.160
Really?
00:31:06.400 --> 00:31:07.599
Yeah, absolutely.
00:31:07.839 --> 00:31:08.160
Yeah.
00:31:08.400 --> 00:31:11.200
The other thing they touched on was the cognitive diversity piece.
00:31:11.279 --> 00:31:22.640
So for anyone who is not necessarily aware of cognitive diversity, is that diversity of thought and how he was mentioning around not having clones of people that all came from kind of Russell group unis or private schools and things like that.
00:31:22.799 --> 00:31:42.079
And a number of our clients that we've worked with over the years, there's one in particular that come to mind, that kind of redefined their recruitment process to take out some of those existing biases that were in there, so then they could get people from kind of all different walks of life, but really to bring in that kind of diversity of thought.
00:31:42.240 --> 00:31:45.279
I don't know if you've had any similar experiences.
00:31:45.759 --> 00:31:54.559
I think when Simon was discussing diversity of thought coming from different life experiences and backgrounds, I agree with that.
00:31:54.720 --> 00:32:03.279
And also what we see that diversity or cognitive diversity can really be encouraged and come about through different sets of strengths.
00:32:03.440 --> 00:32:08.960
So when you've got a team with different strengths, it means it's very likely they'll be thinking differently.
00:32:09.039 --> 00:32:16.720
So their cognitive processes will be different, the way they solve problems will be different, the way they challenge, the way they come up with solutions.
00:32:16.880 --> 00:32:28.559
So that in itself, you've got a team with different strengths, you're likely to get cognitive diversity through strengths as well as individual differences and personal experiences, backgrounds.
00:32:28.640 --> 00:32:30.720
So yeah, I found that really fascinating.
00:32:30.960 --> 00:32:50.160
This next clip is also a conversation with Simon, Caitlin, and this bit's about understanding vulnerability, the idea that we can't be good at everything, and that's actually okay, which, if you think about it, sort of quietly undermines about half the competency frameworks currently sitting in share drives all over the world.
00:32:50.400 --> 00:32:53.359
Yeah, we'll let that one go for today, globally, literally.
00:32:53.440 --> 00:32:56.480
But uh, yeah, let's hear about what he says about vulnerability.
00:32:57.200 --> 00:33:00.559
I talk personally, I think men are a lot worse at this than women.
00:33:00.640 --> 00:33:09.920
But you know, up until I was probably mid-30s, I used to carry this little shield around with me, which would hide everything that was really broken about me or bust.
00:33:10.160 --> 00:33:14.160
And I'd use that shield to make sure no one could see what was going on because it made me feel vulnerable.
00:33:14.480 --> 00:33:17.680
Eventually I got to a stage when I was like, whatever, probably mid-30s, late 30s, right?
00:33:17.759 --> 00:33:18.480
I'll just screw this.
00:33:18.720 --> 00:33:19.359
I can't be bothered to.
00:33:19.440 --> 00:33:24.240
I'll just drop the shield and I'll just tell you this is who I am and waltz and all stuff I'm good at, stuff I'm not good at.
00:33:24.400 --> 00:33:25.039
And you know what?
00:33:25.119 --> 00:33:26.160
The right people want to help you.
00:33:26.319 --> 00:33:31.920
And anyone who chooses to use that against you is just a not really nice person, and you shouldn't do business with them, you shouldn't employ them, you shouldn't work with them.
00:33:32.079 --> 00:33:35.920
And it's creating that level of, again, trust and team environment.
00:33:36.079 --> 00:33:48.160
Normally, vulnerability is a massive sign of strength, especially from a leader, and the old school management and old school companies do not get that, and that is really bad, right?
00:33:48.240 --> 00:33:57.599
I cannot build a high performance team if you don't have vulnerability because I need to know what I'm dealing with across the whole team, and that needs to come from me as the example, and you need to be open with people.
00:33:57.680 --> 00:34:00.720
And also get over the fact that um all humans are flawed.
00:34:00.799 --> 00:34:08.079
I don't mention last time actually, the way the best question you can ask someone on a first date is can you tell me exactly in which way you are screwed up, please?
00:34:08.239 --> 00:34:08.400
Right?
00:34:08.559 --> 00:34:12.960
Because that's at the heart, that's at the heart of it, but you know, if everyone dances around the edges.
00:34:13.199
--> 00:34:13.920
How brilliant.
00:34:14.079 --> 00:34:18.960
I think that's one definitely for the notebook, then for those people who are just about to go on a first date.
00:34:19.119 --> 00:34:20.320
In what way are you flawed?
00:34:20.400 --> 00:34:25.440
I wonder if it's something we should be asking at work because the reality is we are bringing ourselves to work.
00:34:25.679 --> 00:34:27.840
You're right, we are all fundamentally flawed.
00:34:27.920 --> 00:34:29.199
I've got some brilliant gaps.
00:34:29.360 --> 00:34:34.400
We sent an email out inviting everybody to an event that the date had passed last week.
00:34:34.480 --> 00:34:38.239
So I did not spot on that email that the date was wrong.
00:34:38.400 --> 00:34:43.519
And so I got so many emails from people saying I really wanted to go, but apparently it's already happened.
00:34:43.679 --> 00:34:50.079
And so then I had to send out a message saying, by the way, I'm sure everybody knows that meticulous is my least preferred strength.
00:34:50.159 --> 00:34:51.280
And I'm very sorry.
00:34:51.440 --> 00:34:54.960
But I got lovely, lovely chats back from everyone saying, at least you're humble.
00:34:55.199 --> 00:34:56.880
So, you know, that's the truth.
00:34:56.960 --> 00:34:58.079
I'm not brilliant at everything.
00:34:58.159 --> 00:35:03.440
In the fact I'm pretty terrible at some things, but my team pick up the pieces, thank goodness.
00:35:03.920 --> 00:35:05.760
I love it, it's that ownership, isn't it?
00:35:06.000 --> 00:35:07.199
When you do make a mistake.
00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:16.000
But I mean, most importantly, from that clip, I think for all those single people out there, I hope you've taken notes about that key question that you should be asking on your next date.
00:35:16.239 --> 00:35:18.000
The very first question, right?
00:35:18.400 --> 00:35:25.920
And if they say something like, I work too hard or I'm just a perfectionist, then just groan and then leave them to it.
00:35:26.239 --> 00:35:27.599
Over you strengths.
00:35:27.840 --> 00:35:29.760
But vulnerability is talked about, isn't it?
00:35:29.920 --> 00:35:32.239
Um, you know, more and more now, even in the world of work.
00:35:32.320 --> 00:35:37.119
So Brene Brown talks about vulnerability and the power of vulnerability and bravery.
00:35:37.280 --> 00:35:46.400
But I think yeah, I found that really fascinating that Simon would mention that word in particular, but I think it changes the relationship people have with you as a leader.
00:35:46.559 --> 00:35:55.840
It helps you shift from being a leader who's someone who has to have all the answers to someone people actually trust to follow to create psychological safety, doesn't it?
00:35:56.000 --> 00:35:59.280
When they admit mistakes and they acknowledge that they don't know everything.
00:35:59.519 --> 00:36:00.159
Yeah.
00:36:00.480 --> 00:36:02.559
So what was our next clip, Caitlin?
00:36:02.719 --> 00:36:05.119
Did you want to uh introduce this next one?
00:36:05.440 --> 00:36:13.760
So the next one, yeah, is actually from Joe X, also known as the Body Coach, and it follows a similar theme, to be honest with you.
00:36:14.079 --> 00:36:16.880
He also talks about vulnerability from kind of his lens.
00:36:17.199 --> 00:36:17.840
Let's go for it.
00:36:18.000 --> 00:36:19.440
Ready to do some burpees.
00:36:21.519 --> 00:36:26.239
I'd love to take us back to something else that you said in one of your acceptance speeches, actually, Joe.
00:36:26.480 --> 00:36:33.599
One of the areas of research that I'm particularly passionate about is the concept of cognitive diversity, which is how people think.
00:36:33.840 --> 00:36:44.719
And so many of our clients have a fixed mindset about how certain experiences or qualifications would be suitable for their organizations when selecting and growing talent.
00:36:44.960 --> 00:36:58.960
So, what do you think organisations get from bringing people into their organizations that are not from a traditional background or don't necessarily come from an Ivy League or a Russell group top-tier university?
00:36:59.199 --> 00:37:11.039
Well, I think, you know, in my experience, some of the most amazing, caring, loving, like creative, ambitious people have had challenging upbrings, especially amongst my circle of friends, because I grew up in a cancellor state, you know, we were on benefit.
00:37:11.119 --> 00:37:12.719
You know, I wasn't an aspirational child.
00:37:12.800 --> 00:37:14.960
I I didn't think I was going to amount to much, really.
00:37:15.039 --> 00:37:27.679
And I had people around me saying, you know, things like, you know, you're from that family on the estate, or you're a wrong and he's a naughty kid, or you're gonna end up like a junk, you're gonna be a junkie like your old man, all these kind of things that I heard as a kid, and you know, your mum's an unfit mother, and she was an amazing mum.
00:37:27.760 --> 00:37:31.920
She had us so young, and she was I'm a product of her parenting, so I think she's been amazing.
00:37:32.000 --> 00:37:43.920
And um, I think you shouldn't judge people based just on their education and where they've kind of studied and what kind of courses they've been on because you're gonna end up with a group of people that are all the same with the same kind of mindset and maybe don't have the you know the resilience to overcome adversity.
00:37:44.000 --> 00:37:51.360
I think with for me personally, like I love looking around at my organization and a body coach and seeing a really diverse range of people who all bring something different to the table.
00:37:51.599 --> 00:37:55.920
One thing me and Nikki are we always talking about this, we're a very sensitive leadership team.
00:37:56.079 --> 00:37:58.079
We cry in front of our staff all the time.
00:37:58.239 --> 00:38:04.480
It's create a culture where actually, you know what, anyone can talk about anything, and I think that's a really beautiful asset for
of us.
00:38:04.559 --> 00:38:10.880
You know, we're not embarrassed to be vulnerable and show our weaknesses, like we're learning on the job, and everyone around us helps us achieve our goal.
00:38:11.039 --> 00:38:15.679
So I think it's only a positive thing, and I think, yeah, like people should be given an opportunity to prove themselves.
00:38:16.000 --> 00:38:18.239
Yeah, it's fascinating, isn't it, Joe?
00:38:18.559 --> 00:38:22.239
Which I think we know he's quite an emotional person by the sounds of it.
00:38:22.800 --> 00:38:27.599
And I think, but vulnerability is one of those things that I think is quite misunderstood, isn't it?
00:38:27.760 --> 00:38:35.440
So I think you can listen to that clip and then sort of presume that, okay, that means do I need to overshare or sort of be emotional all the time.
00:38:35.599 --> 00:38:36.880
It's not about that, is it?
00:38:36.960 --> 00:38:42.719
It's about being honest in ways that maybe can help make your team feel stronger and understand you better.
00:38:42.880 --> 00:38:46.719
I think it builds trust, I think, and it signals trust when you can be open.
00:38:47.039 --> 00:38:54.960
I think it's like with anything, you know, how can you take something and make it productive and a productive conversation or a productive inspirational thing?
00:38:55.280 --> 00:39:03.760
It's making me think of lots of conversations we have around authenticity, and there's that debate around it because actually you want to be able to show up and be your authentic self at work, of course.
00:39:03.920 --> 00:39:13.360
But at the same time, if someone's authenticity is turning up and shouting and screaming, that's not necessarily productive, so there has to be kind of boundaries to it.
00:39:13.679 --> 00:39:14.400
Absolutely.
00:39:14.639 --> 00:39:15.280
Okay, great.
00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:17.679
Well Yeah, we've got another clip, haven't we?
00:39:17.840 --> 00:39:19.199
Our last snippet, I believe.
00:39:19.760 --> 00:39:21.280
Our last one, yeah.
00:39:21.519 --> 00:39:23.760
So let's get that up for you.
00:39:24.639 --> 00:39:28.400
And I do think it goes back to that point about do what you love as well.
00:39:28.559 --> 00:39:31.440
If you really, really hate running, don't run.
00:39:31.599 --> 00:39:32.239
Do something.
00:39:32.320 --> 00:39:34.880
I mean, like you say, the hit sessions are fantastic.
00:39:35.039 --> 00:39:36.960
I love them, and I also love bells.
00:39:37.119 --> 00:39:43.119
So I wonder if it is something about don't try and flog yourself, do something that actually is going to bring you a little bit of joy.
00:39:43.360 --> 00:39:43.679
Definitely.
00:39:43.760 --> 00:39:44.559
Do you know what I've just done?
00:39:44.639 --> 00:39:46.159
So I'm 37 years old now.
00:39:46.400 --> 00:39:48.719
When I was 15, I was a really big roller skate.
00:39:48.880 --> 00:39:49.920
I love rollerblading, right?
00:39:50.079 --> 00:39:52.320
I'd you know, be grinding, doing the half pipes.
00:39:52.480 --> 00:39:56.639
So my friend, when he had he had a day off and he went to the skate park, and I was really inspired.
00:39:56.719 --> 00:40:02.400
So I've gone out and bought some rollerblades, and I was rollerbaiting around my kitchen last yesterday, and I was rollerbaiting in the in the garden.
00:40:02.559 --> 00:40:03.199
I was loving it.
00:40:03.280 --> 00:40:04.079
I felt young again.
00:40:04.159 --> 00:40:05.519
I felt and then I was really out of breath.
00:40:05.599 --> 00:40:08.079
I was sweating, I was like, this is exercise, this is fun.
00:40:08.159 --> 00:40:14.880
And I think it's always good to tap into those things that you might have done as a teenager or as a child that you didn't necessarily think was fun anymore, but it will, it'll make you smile.
00:40:14.960 --> 00:40:22.000
And it's I think sometimes the joy of movement isn't just about being on a treadmill in a static position or in a gym, like it can be so much more than that.
00:40:22.079 --> 00:40:28.480
And I think whatever movement you enjoy, it could be skating, it could be climbing, it could be joining a tennis club, whatever it may be.
00:40:28.639 --> 00:40:29.920
You've just got to keep trying different things.
00:40:30.079 --> 00:40:30.719
Go, you know what?
00:40:30.880 --> 00:40:33.679
I'm looking forward to next Monday night when I do tennis with the girls or whatever.
00:40:33.760 --> 00:40:36.559
And then you've got your sport, and then you've got your exercise.
00:40:36.880 --> 00:40:38.000
Great tip, isn't it?
00:40:38.079 --> 00:40:44.639
To uh sort of bring some joy into your life by going back to the things that brought you excitement and joy in the first place.
00:40:44.800 --> 00:40:46.000
What is it for you, Caitlin?
00:40:46.320 --> 00:40:48.400
So you want to do some uh some half pipes.
00:40:48.800 --> 00:40:50.480
Half pipes, what's that?
00:40:50.800 --> 00:40:53.840
Joe mentioned grinding and half pipes.
00:40:54.079 --> 00:40:56.320
Oh, that was part of the roller skating.
00:40:56.559 --> 00:40:57.360
Absolutely, yeah.
00:40:57.519 --> 00:40:59.440
Right skating, yeah.
00:40:59.599 --> 00:41:01.679
So I used to love skateboarding.
00:41:01.760 --> 00:41:04.960
Um I think skateboards have got a bit faster and smaller these days.
00:41:05.039 --> 00:41:09.360
So I think if I stood on one, I would literally break like about a couple of different bones in my body.
00:41:09.599 --> 00:41:10.079
You know what?
00:41:10.239 --> 00:41:13.039
Growing up, I was a bit of a tomboy because I had two older brothers.
00:41:13.119 --> 00:41:15.599
So I was a bit of a rollerblader, skateboarder.
00:41:15.760 --> 00:41:17.199
I just wanted to copy what they were doing.
00:41:17.280 --> 00:41:18.480
So yeah.
00:41:18.639 --> 00:41:19.920
Yeah, go back and do that.
00:41:20.239 --> 00:41:21.679
Get back to the half pipes.
00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:22.960
But you know what?
00:41:23.119 --> 00:41:37.199
Listening back to Joe there, what strikes me and we think about strengths is we know that the research consistently shows that people who use their strengths regularly tend to be more engaged, perform better, are more resilient, and as a result of that can experience higher well-being.
00:41:37.360 --> 00:41:46.239
So Joe's advice about doing what you love, and in our words, doing what gives you energy, isn't just an inspirational thing, but it actually has quite a strong evidence base behind it.
00:41:46.559 --> 00:41:48.719
So perhaps, you know, that was our last clip.
00:41:48.880 --> 00:42:02.320
But I think maybe we can leave on a reflective note and actually pose a question to our listeners and maybe ask yourself, what was the last thing you did where you completely lost track of time?
00:42:02.559 --> 00:42:11.280
Or alternatively, what conversations leave you feeling excited rather than feeling exhausted, or what work activities leave you feeling excited versus exhausted?
00:42:11.519 --> 00:42:17.280
And then that's kind of often clues to where your strengths might lie if that's something that you are curious about.
00:42:17.679 --> 00:42:19.119
I love those questions, Caitlin.
00:42:19.360 --> 00:42:21.679
I think we should all reflect on those.
00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:22.239
Fantastic.
00:42:22.400 --> 00:42:23.599
I've enjoyed the conversation.
00:42:23.760 --> 00:42:27.440
So um that's it for our best bits on strength.
00:42:27.679 --> 00:42:34.800
So if any of these particular snippets were interesting for you, we would recommend to go back and listen to the full episodes.
00:42:34.960 --> 00:42:45.679
There's links in our show notes, aren't there, along with probably quite a few hours of us contradicting each other at length and then saying, as all the best psychologists do, it depends.
00:42:46.000 --> 00:42:47.199
We don't do that.
00:42:47.920 --> 00:42:49.039
We do sometimes.
00:42:49.199 --> 00:42:50.880
Um maybe it's just me.
00:42:51.119 --> 00:42:51.760
No, no.
00:42:51.920 --> 00:42:55.039
Well, thank you so much, as always, for listening.
00:42:55.199 --> 00:43:01.599
We hope you enjoyed this episode, and we hope you come back for more and listen to some of our ones that are coming out in the future.
00:43:01.679 --> 00:43:05.519
So there will be some more best bits as we lead up to our hundredth episode.
00:43:05.679 --> 00:43:07.280
So we hope you enjoy.