Full Transcript for 88: Q&A - Like Lil Caesars

--> 00:02:51.919 Yeah? 43 00:02:52.680 --> 00:02:54.240 I still have not made it to Cova. I'm gonna 44 00:02:54.240 --> 00:02:56.400 go where do you wanna go to? Co I'm gonna 45 00:02:56.400 --> 00:02:58.560 go to Cabo for maybe. 46 00:02:58.719 --> 00:03:01.560 Maybe next time we were call, I'll bring cop Before 47 00:03:01.599 --> 00:03:03.360 the team said the sense it to be my turn 48 00:03:03.400 --> 00:03:04.759 to get lunch for everybody. 49 00:03:05.599 --> 00:03:09.599 Lunch lunch. Okay, we like Lench, but no, they got 50 00:03:09.639 --> 00:03:12.879 in d C. They got a place that's I forgot 51 00:03:12.879 --> 00:03:18.240 what it's called. It it's called something jerk and that jerk. Okay, 52 00:03:18.319 --> 00:03:21.879 oh yeah, it's one my job. Then it's one. Yeah, 53 00:03:22.240 --> 00:03:24.199 it's one by my job in the location that will 54 00:03:24.240 --> 00:03:29.479 not be named, but it's one near my job. And 55 00:03:29.599 --> 00:03:33.039 they said it's like a Caribbean chipotle. Yeah, if we're 56 00:03:33.039 --> 00:03:38.960 talking about the same police. I said, what all right, 57 00:03:39.560 --> 00:03:40.159 I tried. 58 00:03:41.800 --> 00:03:46.159 She she looked skeptical. Ship. I give it a chance, Brandon, 59 00:03:47.520 --> 00:03:49.879 I say, I don't like it's a Mediterranean chipot last ship. 60 00:03:49.879 --> 00:03:51.240 I'll say that my kids all to day. 61 00:03:51.360 --> 00:03:55.159 Listen, they see they see this ship was like peace 62 00:03:56.039 --> 00:03:58.039 like like chicken, probably like some chicken. 63 00:03:57.879 --> 00:03:59.479 And some peas. And they're like, I don't like it. 64 00:03:59.680 --> 00:04:01.360 I like, at least try before you say you don't 65 00:04:01.360 --> 00:04:04.199 like it. You tried. I was like, listen, had. 66 00:04:04.000 --> 00:04:06.280 Peas and years I love I love it. It's not 67 00:04:06.360 --> 00:04:08.680 saying like a Popeye, but I haven't had like like 68 00:04:08.759 --> 00:04:10.840 my son's grandmother used to make peaces inside dish, but 69 00:04:10.879 --> 00:04:13.520 she would make them with like, uh, she makes scalloped 70 00:04:13.560 --> 00:04:16.199 potato and I missed some scaling. I'm basic. 71 00:04:16.360 --> 00:04:18.439 My mentor shed she hooked him up with the salt 72 00:04:18.480 --> 00:04:21.040 and pepper. But listen, mister, I told him, mister Aaron 73 00:04:21.120 --> 00:04:24.439 tries tried piece. This is the eighth time and tried piece. 74 00:04:24.680 --> 00:04:25.560 He still hates him. 75 00:04:25.920 --> 00:04:28.040 I like peas, but I put my just regular salt 76 00:04:28.040 --> 00:04:30.959 and pepper, and I would eat I can't. But now 77 00:04:30.959 --> 00:04:32.720 I don't put butter man. But I do love the 78 00:04:33.079 --> 00:04:34.879 playing salt pepper. But but I do. I buy a frozen 79 00:04:34.920 --> 00:04:37.480 peas in the bag from the store. The steam bags 80 00:04:37.839 --> 00:04:40.560 put that thing on. About six minutes. I will dumb 81 00:04:40.639 --> 00:04:43.439 that whole bag of peas into a bowl, eating salt, 82 00:04:43.560 --> 00:04:46.399 salt and pepper and eat them like that. I'm getting 83 00:04:46.399 --> 00:04:49.240 old because I'm starting to like more vegetables. I don't 84 00:04:49.240 --> 00:04:50.720 know what I seem. 85 00:04:50.519 --> 00:04:55.879 Like spargus before recently, and it actually wasn't half bad, 86 00:04:56.000 --> 00:04:58.120 but I'm not really. I wouldn't go somewhere in order. 87 00:04:58.680 --> 00:05:00.240 It was like mixed in with something. 88 00:05:00.040 --> 00:05:00.439 That I had. 89 00:05:00.839 --> 00:05:07.680 It makes good like roaster, like ross and bacon. Because 90 00:05:07.680 --> 00:05:11.120 that's how my my, my, my, my little sister. She 91 00:05:11.120 --> 00:05:12.079 she wrapped it in bacon. 92 00:05:14.120 --> 00:05:20.480 Yeah, more for you. Oh m m hm, any comments. 93 00:05:22.839 --> 00:05:27.040 Welcome to this week's episode. I think I said that already. 94 00:05:27.279 --> 00:05:31.079 I'm sorry, Like I said that already. My mind got 95 00:05:31.079 --> 00:05:42.360 a little distracted. Mm hmm mm hmm, girl, girl, Brandon 96 00:05:42.399 --> 00:05:47.560 will be talking about not that when you talk about 97 00:05:47.560 --> 00:05:48.600 that everything. 98 00:05:49.120 --> 00:05:49.360 Yeah. 99 00:05:50.920 --> 00:05:53.639 Lord, actually I had about a year. 100 00:05:59.319 --> 00:06:02.759 Sure about to do a little Disney sing along following the. 101 00:06:09.600 --> 00:06:12.879 Okay, okay, all right, you guys stop sexual assault on 102 00:06:12.879 --> 00:06:13.439 the microphones. 103 00:06:13.480 --> 00:06:15.519 Bro. They like it than complaining. 104 00:06:18.480 --> 00:06:19.120 Now. 105 00:06:24.240 --> 00:06:25.800 I forgot about to say. 106 00:06:28.720 --> 00:06:30.959 Thank you all for joining us this week. If you 107 00:06:31.040 --> 00:06:36.279 have any Hey, mama, Tabby, jump me up. That love 108 00:06:36.759 --> 00:06:38.399 your love, your little red wine blend. 109 00:06:39.000 --> 00:06:40.839 There's no thirteen point five alcohol. 110 00:06:41.000 --> 00:06:43.839 They still drinking Taba. The boys showing the sixty five 111 00:06:43.879 --> 00:06:48.800 bottles of Tabatha brown one. She is still drinking Tabatha Browns. 112 00:06:49.040 --> 00:06:53.720 I love her. It is very good, very good. That's 113 00:06:53.759 --> 00:06:59.680 my business. That's your business business. Oh gosh, So I 114 00:06:59.759 --> 00:07:00.560 love your season. 115 00:07:00.600 --> 00:07:03.720 And though I still haven't tried the sunshine season, and 116 00:07:03.759 --> 00:07:04.480 I don't think that's. 117 00:07:04.319 --> 00:07:07.800 Why I have the lemon garlic pepper wine. I used 118 00:07:07.800 --> 00:07:09.639 that on my vegetables. It's tasty. 119 00:07:09.959 --> 00:07:12.680 I need to find a season from a vegetables. You know, 120 00:07:12.759 --> 00:07:15.839

I have no salt, so yeah, I need so I'm 121 00:07:15.879 --> 00:07:18.600 back in the gym. You know I got You know, 122 00:07:18.680 --> 00:07:20.199 you get tired of looking at yourself, so you want 123 00:07:20.199 --> 00:07:23.600 to try something different. So I started back at the gym. 124 00:07:23.920 --> 00:07:26.519 I started getting mass in bed earlier and trying to 125 00:07:26.519 --> 00:07:29.040 get aiming for seven hours sleeping night because usually if 126 00:07:29.079 --> 00:07:30.680 I'll get about five and be up. 127 00:07:30.600 --> 00:07:34.680 Lane sending me damn Instagram videos two o'clock in the morning. 128 00:07:34.680 --> 00:07:36.560 But I noticed I was starting to have headaches, and 129 00:07:36.600 --> 00:07:41.199 I was like, not getting enough rest and probably not 130 00:07:42.879 --> 00:07:45.240 you drink drink a lot of water. Yeah, probably from 131 00:07:45.279 --> 00:07:48.240 not getting enough rest. So I noticed I was like, yeah, 132 00:07:48.279 --> 00:07:50.800 I need to get more sleep, and like I need 133 00:07:50.800 --> 00:07:52.399 to start going to be earlier, and started with like 134 00:07:52.600 --> 00:07:55.800 a workout regiment. So I'm back in the gym. I'm 135 00:07:55.839 --> 00:07:59.360 trying to early. I'm going to sleep early. Thing. It's hard. 136 00:07:59.480 --> 00:08:01.439 I can tell because I'll be scrolling on tick time. 137 00:08:02.079 --> 00:08:03.720 I'll be like, oh im a watch the last episode 138 00:08:03.720 --> 00:08:05.279 of this show. Okay, just a. 139 00:08:05.240 --> 00:08:07.519 Couple of days or nine o'clock. You know, I had 140 00:08:07.519 --> 00:08:08.680 to add to put aj down. 141 00:08:09.160 --> 00:08:13.160 You know, I'm I'm drowsy, like yeah, yeah. 142 00:08:13.720 --> 00:08:15.480 Y'all get them sleep when you fall asleep and no 143 00:08:15.519 --> 00:08:17.040 one realized you fell asleep and did you wake up? 144 00:08:17.079 --> 00:08:18.360 And'm like, when the fuck did I go to sleep. 145 00:08:18.720 --> 00:08:20.680 That happened to me the other day. I was I 146 00:08:20.720 --> 00:08:23.040 was watching TV and I was like, I'm not going 147 00:08:23.040 --> 00:08:25.480 to sleep. I'm playing there like this is good, this 148 00:08:25.600 --> 00:08:27.279 is no. 149 00:08:27.319 --> 00:08:29.519 I'm not I'm not like that. But I know in 150 00:08:29.560 --> 00:08:32.639 my case, which I started getting like getting worried about, 151 00:08:32.840 --> 00:08:35.080 was I would fall fall asleep. I guess it would 152 00:08:35.080 --> 00:08:37.200 be like a micro net. I would fall asleep and 153 00:08:37.200 --> 00:08:39.039 have like a really intense dream and then wake up. 154 00:08:39.360 --> 00:08:41.639 But I'd only be se for like twenty minutes. Yeah, 155 00:08:41.679 --> 00:08:44.519 And I was like, I don't think that's how like 156 00:08:44.679 --> 00:08:46.879 ram and like the sleep is supposed to work. So 157 00:08:47.200 --> 00:08:49.000 I know, you know how the bedroom set up right? 158 00:08:49.240 --> 00:08:51.679 So we got so so in front of the baby 159 00:08:51.720 --> 00:08:53.399 got aj friz and then I. 160 00:08:53.399 --> 00:08:55.480 Pulled so I pulled, I pulled kid a little. 161 00:08:55.279 --> 00:08:58.679 Chair from the from the front of the corner and 162 00:08:58.720 --> 00:09:00.320 I'm sitting there, I'm playing game. 163 00:09:01.200 --> 00:09:03.879 The next thing I do all the noise I came 164 00:09:03.960 --> 00:09:10.240 up like, yeah, at work one day that happened to me. 165 00:09:13.159 --> 00:09:15.279 It wasn't guess whatever, it was like, that's. 166 00:09:18.600 --> 00:09:21.159 What happened to me at work one day and you 167 00:09:21.679 --> 00:09:25.559 key off and I'm sitting at the day going computer. 168 00:09:36.399 --> 00:09:44.759 Yo, that should be crazy. I'm never I'm never that tired. 169 00:09:45.639 --> 00:09:46.840 Let me close this do and take me in that. 170 00:09:47.039 --> 00:09:50.279 You know, I'm never that tired. You know. You know 171 00:09:50.320 --> 00:09:52.559 I'm not a napper, which I probably probably would help 172 00:09:52.600 --> 00:09:53.679 me with my sleepers. 173 00:09:54.399 --> 00:09:58.759 He taken, wake up, gonna be eight THIRTYNNA be like right, Oh, 174 00:09:58.840 --> 00:09:59.960 I ain't clock out or nothing. 175 00:10:00.799 --> 00:10:03.759 I laid that at twelve thirty and I missed about 176 00:10:03.759 --> 00:10:06.120 six meetings, fourteen phone calls. 177 00:10:06.200 --> 00:10:08.240 I started taking naps during cold. 178 00:10:08.639 --> 00:10:09.320 I'm not a napper. 179 00:10:09.399 --> 00:10:11.679 When we started working from home during cold, I started 180 00:10:11.679 --> 00:10:15.360 taking naps. I'm like, all right, I'm gonna do you know, 181 00:10:15.480 --> 00:10:19.320 half my half my work before lunch break and twelve o'clock. 182 00:10:19.519 --> 00:10:21.080 And this is what you know. My desk is in 183 00:10:21.080 --> 00:10:24.240 my room. It was originally downstairs, but I moved it 184 00:10:24.320 --> 00:10:26.320 upstairs for the holidays to put my tree up, and 185 00:10:26.360 --> 00:10:30.000 I never moved it back down stairs. So I was like, 186 00:10:30.039 --> 00:10:31.679 all right, Sean, I started working from the bed. I 187 00:10:31.720 --> 00:10:35.279 had the little lat desk. Worst decision I ever made, 188 00:10:35.799 --> 00:10:37.519 because I'll be sitting there now next thing, you know, 189 00:10:37.600 --> 00:10:39.039 my head and went back on the head board and 190 00:10:39.039 --> 00:10:42.080 I'm like, oh lord. So I stopped working from the bed. 191 00:10:42.320 --> 00:10:45.840 So I was like, nope, get up, sit at your desk, 192 00:10:45.960 --> 00:10:47.879 work at your desk. I got to spin your damn 193 00:10:47.919 --> 00:10:49.440 chair around your bed right there. You get the bed, 194 00:10:49.440 --> 00:10:54.879 take a nap while she work like shine. And then 195

00:10:55.039 --> 00:10:56.679 they don't help that Chase as is laid in the 196 00:10:56.679 --> 00:11:00.399 bed stretched out like that, and I'm like, bitch, I'm working. 197 00:11:00.399 --> 00:11:04.080 You gonna work too. Fuck. So anyway, twelve o'clock, come 198 00:11:04.279 --> 00:11:06.600 lunch break. I lay my ass. Damn step my clock 199 00:11:06.559 --> 00:11:08.200 a right, get your ass up at one o'clock, get up, 200 00:11:08.279 --> 00:11:12.919 and that's what I would do. So then I was like, Seanna, no, 201 00:11:12.960 --> 00:11:14.639 you need to start working in your bed. Work because 202 00:11:14.639 --> 00:11:16.279 when you're working your bed, when you're so tempted to 203 00:11:16.320 --> 00:11:17.600 go back to the bed. So I brought myself a 204 00:11:17.600 --> 00:11:20.759 little rolling dusk from the tickety top. I ordered something 205 00:11:20.759 --> 00:11:22.879 from TikTok shop. Got a nice little rolling dust that 206 00:11:23.480 --> 00:11:26.000 it transfers into the stand up desk. You can raise it, 207 00:11:26.080 --> 00:11:28.639 yeah and stand up if you need to stretch and stuff. 208 00:11:28.799 --> 00:11:31.519 Your dead you're excited, not be damn. 209 00:11:31.600 --> 00:11:33.120 It was a reasoningly I took a pay for thirty 210 00:11:33.159 --> 00:11:35.720 or forty dollars for the dusk. But anyway, so I 211 00:11:35.799 --> 00:11:38.240 put that downstairs in the living room, so that makes 212 00:11:38.279 --> 00:11:42.120 me get my ass up and didn't do school work too. 213 00:11:42.120 --> 00:11:44.399 It helps with schoolwork as well, so they sit in 214 00:11:44.399 --> 00:11:46.399 my bed and do my school work too. So now 215 00:11:46.480 --> 00:11:50.000 I move my computer and everything down back downstairs. But 216 00:11:50.000 --> 00:11:53.200 I ain't want to keep moving that damn desk, So 217 00:11:53.279 --> 00:11:55.559 I bought this little rolling dusk and that helps I 218 00:11:55.600 --> 00:11:58.200 come sit down here on the couch. Cause at first 219 00:11:58.240 --> 00:12:00.360 I will come sit at table at the doe down 220 00:12:01.360 --> 00:12:03.080 and I'm like, I'm not comfortable here. So I'm like, 221 00:12:03.120 --> 00:12:04.279 if I get on the couch, I can at least 222 00:12:04.279 --> 00:12:06.919 be a little comfortable, kind of put my foot up 223 00:12:06.960 --> 00:12:09.200 and all that stuff like that. And now that's what 224 00:12:09.240 --> 00:12:12.279 I did. I work from downstairs and living. The thing 225 00:12:12.320 --> 00:12:16.759 that that helps and. 226 00:12:13.919 --> 00:12:17.639 The thing that fucked my sleep up, my sleep padd 227 00:12:17.679 --> 00:12:21.399 enough was when he when AJ came home from the 228 00:12:21.399 --> 00:12:24.399 then you like, yeah, I would go to work, but 229 00:12:25.000 --> 00:12:27.960 then it's like yo, but then it's like I'm at work, 230 00:12:28.240 --> 00:12:30.759 she home with him all day, and then when I 231 00:12:30.799 --> 00:12:33.120 come home, it's like, yo, I'm up, like you know, 232 00:12:33.200 --> 00:12:36.080 like I'm up, Like I'll be up all night with him, uh, 233 00:12:36.159 --> 00:12:37.639 up all night, and I probably won't go to sleep 234 00:12:37.720 --> 00:12:42.639 until like maybe three when because it's like I just 235 00:12:42.679 --> 00:12:44.360 wanted to be you know, I just want to make sure, 236 00:12:44.440 --> 00:12:46.720 Like I was up the like he started crying or whatever, 237 00:12:47.200 --> 00:12:50.320 I'm like, I'm uh, I'm helping, you know, like I 238 00:12:50.519 --> 00:12:52.600 like I'm changing him and feeding him and all that shit. 239 00:12:53.080 --> 00:12:54.399 But then it's like yo. 240 00:12:54.600 --> 00:12:56.879 But then once he started sleeping like a little longer, 241 00:12:57.600 --> 00:13:01.080 I was a you know, like now that we got 242 00:13:01.080 --> 00:13:05.320 a routine with him, like eight o'clock, will we'll we'll 243 00:13:05.360 --> 00:13:07.120 give my a bath. Then we'll give him like one 244 00:13:07.159 --> 00:13:09.120 bo like we'll give him like a five ounce bottle 245 00:13:09.919 --> 00:13:12.759 and then he'll then you know, we rub down with 246 00:13:12.799 --> 00:13:15.080 his little lab and the lotion. I spray the bed 247 00:13:15.120 --> 00:13:18.559 with melo, spread the bed with melowtony do his little 248 00:13:18.639 --> 00:13:20.840 Uh yeah. 249 00:13:22.720 --> 00:13:23.080 We did. 250 00:13:23.440 --> 00:13:26.399 Because we did, it came into like a little sleep set. 251 00:13:26.679 --> 00:13:29.600 It's like it came like a bubble bath, a bubble 252 00:13:29.600 --> 00:13:33.000 bath flotion bubble bad for lotion, and then then the spray. 253 00:13:33.720 --> 00:13:34.080 Uh. 254 00:13:34.279 --> 00:13:37.399 But now we got this Lava de lotion. It's like 255 00:13:37.480 --> 00:13:39.039 got like a little bit of camera mill in it. 256 00:13:39.519 --> 00:13:42.360 And that that also like sues him, like you know, 257 00:13:42.559 --> 00:13:46.759 he'll play he plays in the tub. Like now he 258 00:13:47.159 --> 00:13:49.679 it's like he acted soon as like soon as he 259 00:13:49.799 --> 00:13:52.120 even even if it's not water in the tub, he 260 00:13:52.159 --> 00:13:55.200 gets in there, he starts smiling and like bouncing like 261 00:13:55.559 --> 00:13:56.720 what are you what. 262 00:13:56.639 --> 00:13:57.159 Are you doing? 263 00:13:57.960 --> 00:13:59.480 Bathtime? Damn it question? 264 00:14:00.080 --> 00:14:03.240 No, no, no, I had to use the bathroom. Keeta 265 00:14:03.360 --> 00:14:05.240 was cooking. I took him in the bathroom with me, 266 00:14:05.279 --> 00:14:07.600 set him in the tub, and he just he just 267 00:14:07.600 --> 00:14:08.399 looking at me like. 268 00:14:10.279 --> 00:14:11.519 Because he thought it was bad time. 269 00:14:14.679 --> 00:14:17.320 But but now but now it's like yo, I'll let 270 00:14:17.360 --> 00:14:19.039 him play. Yeah, we'll let

him play in the play 271 00:14:19.080 --> 00:14:22.159 in the tub. And and we used like the little 272 00:14:22.240 --> 00:14:26.039 lavender little lavender bodywalk baby body wash and he'll it 273 00:14:26.159 --> 00:14:28.360 just like it calm him down. So he kind of 274 00:14:28.399 --> 00:14:30.879 like on the routine, like you know, like he'll know 275 00:14:31.039 --> 00:14:34.240 like but he started tripping when he when he when 276 00:14:34.240 --> 00:14:38.159 he hit when he hear her do this and like, 277 00:14:39.360 --> 00:14:41.679 I know what y'all bitch is doing, like no, I'm not, 278 00:14:42.159 --> 00:14:49.279 I'm not. Then you're saying later, I'm not. Man hmmmm. 279 00:14:50.120 --> 00:14:52.519 But then he now he wakes up, he'll probably wake 280 00:14:52.600 --> 00:14:52.960 up like. 281 00:14:54.799 --> 00:14:58.759 He'll wake up like four four in the morning, like 282 00:14:58.799 --> 00:15:03.039 four forty five, like like clockwork, and then I'm but 283 00:15:03.240 --> 00:15:05.120 I noticed that, I mean, I'm able to sleep a 284 00:15:05.159 --> 00:15:08.360 little longer. But then I'm glad that now he's like 285 00:15:08.480 --> 00:15:10.840 when he does wake up, it's closer to the time 286 00:15:10.879 --> 00:15:12.480 I got to get up, like I gotta get up 287 00:15:12.480 --> 00:15:14.080 from get up and get ready for work. 288 00:15:14.759 --> 00:15:16.720 But yeah, yeah, my. 289 00:15:17.039 --> 00:15:19.039 Like I tried, like I tried, like I tried that, 290 00:15:19.200 --> 00:15:21.000 you know, I tried to be like super Dad and 291 00:15:21.000 --> 00:15:21.519 ship when. 292 00:15:21.440 --> 00:15:24.840 He came home space miss on your pillow, no. 293 00:15:25.240 --> 00:15:27.879 Dude, when kid is pretty Yeah that ship, that ship 294 00:15:28.000 --> 00:15:29.399 knocked me the fuck out too. 295 00:15:30.120 --> 00:15:32.240 Because I got the candle and I'm like, who the 296 00:15:32.279 --> 00:15:34.039 fucking bit of the sleep candle? Ain't supposed to go 297 00:15:34.039 --> 00:15:35.159 to sleep with candles. 298 00:15:34.799 --> 00:15:38.320 Burning my thing? Like I can't do. I think. I 299 00:15:38.559 --> 00:15:41.039 took melatone for a little while, just to help me sleep, 300 00:15:41.039 --> 00:15:42.919 like every maybe like once a week or so, or 301 00:15:42.919 --> 00:15:45.679 once every couple weeks or so, for like three four months, 302 00:15:46.039 --> 00:15:48.200 and then I had like an actual nightmare that woke 303 00:15:48.279 --> 00:15:49.960 me up out my sleep. That's od, bitch, never again. 304 00:15:50.200 --> 00:15:52.159 And I'm I'm not a person who was like I 305 00:15:52.279 --> 00:15:55.039 rarely ever have nightmares, but that one night I took 306 00:15:55.080 --> 00:15:57.080 melatonin and got in the bed and went to sleep, 307 00:15:57.080 --> 00:15:57.559 and I was. 308 00:15:57.519 --> 00:16:00.720 Like I had some weird das. 309 00:16:01.919 --> 00:16:02.159 Yeah. 310 00:16:03.799 --> 00:16:09.000 Yeah, but I would say, like I say, try to 311 00:16:09.000 --> 00:16:11.240 take like I know you're not a napper, but it 312 00:16:11.279 --> 00:16:11.799 does help. 313 00:16:11.879 --> 00:16:13.759 I could I need I need to get more sleep. 314 00:16:13.919 --> 00:16:17.720 It does, I mean, but it does. It also has productivity. 315 00:16:18.679 --> 00:16:21.320 That's why I'm kind of like, I'm kind of like 316 00:16:21.360 --> 00:16:23.639 on the fence about them taking out nap time when the. 317 00:16:23.600 --> 00:16:25.840 Kids, when the kids go to when the kids go. 318 00:16:25.840 --> 00:16:32.080 To like elementary, you give them, you give them, you know, 319 00:16:32.960 --> 00:16:35.759 elementary school, you put them in charge of what they 320 00:16:35.840 --> 00:16:36.320 want to eat. 321 00:16:36.879 --> 00:16:38.279 So then you give them and you. 322 00:16:38.240 --> 00:16:40.279 Know you have that's when we have snacks and ship, 323 00:16:40.360 --> 00:16:42.240 like we got like the little butter like the little 324 00:16:42.240 --> 00:16:43.039 butter crunch. 325 00:16:42.759 --> 00:16:43.440 Cookies and ship. 326 00:16:43.720 --> 00:16:47.480 And then we now now you're getting them cookies, you 327 00:16:47.559 --> 00:16:50.559 give them, you're feeding them, and then you're giving them 328 00:16:50.600 --> 00:16:52.159 like like sugar and ship. 329 00:16:52.320 --> 00:16:55.240 So then you take them outside. But then it's like after. 330 00:16:55.000 --> 00:16:58.159 That they already drowsy, like they already drowsy from from recess. 331 00:16:58.240 --> 00:17:01.919 So it's like let them know, get them ah, you know, 332 00:17:01.960 --> 00:17:05.160 well at my school, we get them two hours, like 333 00:17:05.240 --> 00:17:07.920 they from one to three is off from one. 334 00:17:07.839 --> 00:17:08.759 To three is nap time. 335 00:17:09.000 --> 00:17:13.079 That's nice, yeah, but no, not when these little baskets 336 00:17:13.119 --> 00:17:18.400 don't go to sleep one Like, I'm like, yo, everybody's sleep, 337 00:17:18.440 --> 00:17:21.880 but you like, y'all, nap time is my planning time 338 00:17:22.119 --> 00:17:24.079 and my break from y'all. I don't take a break 339 00:17:24.079 --> 00:17:26.400 like like I worked. I worked ten hours straight, so 340 00:17:26.440 --> 00:17:29.640 it was like, but I'm off, I'm off like I'm 341 00:17:29.680 --> 00:17:31.359 off one day a week, so I only worked like 342 00:17:31.559 --> 00:17:38.440 technically yeah, so I'm like, y'all, naptime is my break. 343 00:17:38.680 --> 00:17:42.559 Excuse go to sleep and you know I can't, y'all. 344 00:17:42.720 --> 00:17:44.640 I'm like, but then it's like, yo, matter of fact, 345 00:17:44.640 --> 00:17:46.079 I don't even need you to go to sleep. You'll 346 00:17:46.119 --> 00:17:49.640 just sit down and be quiet. And it's like, no, 347 00:17:50.079 --> 00:17:56.519 like okay, I hate Like I was like, man, I 348

00:17:56.599 --> 00:17:58.200 missed when I was in when I was in pret 349 00:17:58.279 --> 00:18:01.519 K because they went to sleep, and I mean, order 350 00:18:01.519 --> 00:18:04.839 one little girl, she she like she was sitting. I 351 00:18:04.880 --> 00:18:06.880 mean she was sitting talk to me or like try 352 00:18:06.920 --> 00:18:08.319 to talk to me, and I'm like, I can't talk. 353 00:18:08.359 --> 00:18:09.960 I don't talk to people that's supposed to be sleep. 354 00:18:11.079 --> 00:18:18.599 She like, I'm gonna tell my mother, But. 355 00:18:18.640 --> 00:18:21.640 I started doing in addition to trying to get more sleep, 356 00:18:21.680 --> 00:18:25.319 I started instituting or not constituted, I'm not trying to 357 00:18:25.359 --> 00:18:33.640 say I started introducing, started doing meditation at night just 358 00:18:33.680 --> 00:18:36.920 to calm my brain down and try to just decompress. 359 00:18:37.160 --> 00:18:39.039 And I find it I'm going to sleep way faster 360 00:18:39.880 --> 00:18:41.839 than I was before because I do it when I'm 361 00:18:42.000 --> 00:18:43.640 put my lotion on and it got my blue lights 362 00:18:43.640 --> 00:18:51.400 on me and yet but but if you got YouTube 363 00:18:51.440 --> 00:18:53.640 on the TV, they have it. I don't need this 364 00:18:53.680 --> 00:18:56.359 blue light. I used Peloton on my phone. The phone 365 00:18:56.440 --> 00:18:57.920 is on the charger and then when it cuts off, 366 00:18:57.960 --> 00:19:01.680 I cut on my sleep low five no thirty minute time, 367 00:19:01.720 --> 00:19:05.240 I'll be in. Then you got you gotta improve your 368 00:19:05.240 --> 00:19:08.759 sleep high gene. Because I was following something like a 369 00:19:08.799 --> 00:19:11.599 doctor who I follow on on TikTok and he was 370 00:19:11.599 --> 00:19:14.720 talking about a study that potentially links lack of sleep 371 00:19:14.920 --> 00:19:17.960 with dementia as you get older, and I'm like, well, like, 372 00:19:18.000 --> 00:19:19.759 I need my mind to stay sharp. I'm not trying 373 00:19:19.759 --> 00:19:22.440 to take myself out early because I'm not getting enough sleep, 374 00:19:22.960 --> 00:19:27.319 or like to have strokes and heart attacks because your 375 00:19:27.319 --> 00:19:31.799 body isn't getting enough rest. So right now, thankfully, I'm 376 00:19:31.799 --> 00:19:33.960 not getting like two hours of sleep, and I'd average 377 00:19:34.079 --> 00:19:37.200 between five and six, but I'm pushing to get between 378 00:19:37.200 --> 00:19:40.640 seven or eight. And sometimes, like on weekends, I don't 379 00:19:40.680 --> 00:19:43.200 have to cut my lamal on. I don't if I 380 00:19:43.279 --> 00:19:45.480 wake up after six hours of sleep, okay, but I 381 00:19:45.640 --> 00:19:47.960 pushed for seven eight. I think one time I got 382 00:19:48.000 --> 00:19:49.359 like nine and a half hours. That's old, bitch. I 383 00:19:49.400 --> 00:19:51.759 must have been dead tied to sleep that yod damn. 384 00:19:52.200 --> 00:19:53.519 And I used to sleep like that, and I used 385 00:19:53.519 --> 00:19:57.640 to have to break the snowstorms too. Over time. I 386 00:19:57.720 --> 00:19:59.359 used to get slipped like that. I wake up like, 387 00:19:59.359 --> 00:20:01.319 what my damn your job. 388 00:20:01.240 --> 00:20:01.960 Doing snow time? 389 00:20:02.039 --> 00:20:02.160 Bro? 390 00:20:02.680 --> 00:20:08.880 The motherfuckers will come and pick your ass really thankfully. 391 00:20:09.319 --> 00:20:11.079 When I worked at the hospital, we didn't really have 392 00:20:11.160 --> 00:20:13.960 too too many snowstorms, but I remember there was one 393 00:20:13.960 --> 00:20:16.319 time when it started snowing and one of my coworkers 394 00:20:16.359 --> 00:20:18.000 dropped me off at home. I had to pay you, 395 00:20:18.480 --> 00:20:20.240 so I think I wasn't down to fucking run away 396 00:20:20.240 --> 00:20:22.279 for the bus and be strained on the bus buses 397 00:20:22.319 --> 00:20:26.359 weren't running. But what I also used to do, I 398 00:20:26.480 --> 00:20:28.240 used to I think the one time we did have 399 00:20:28.240 --> 00:20:30.200 a major snowstorm, I told him like, look, I'm stuck 400 00:20:30.240 --> 00:20:33.759 at home. I'm not coming in this weekend. So yo, son, 401 00:20:33.799 --> 00:20:36.240 I tried to. I never called out sick, never like 402 00:20:36.319 --> 00:20:38.680 you know, miswork, but I said, I'm in my house. 403 00:20:38.680 --> 00:20:39.799 It's a blizzard outside. 404 00:20:43.720 --> 00:20:45.279 I tried that ship when I was when I was 405 00:20:45.319 --> 00:20:49.359 doing valet down at the university. Wait, that's one. That's 406 00:20:49.400 --> 00:20:53.039 one on my packing straight right, Yeah, I was down there. 407 00:20:53.240 --> 00:20:56.039 My mind, I'll call I'll call my boss. My boss haid. 408 00:20:56.960 --> 00:20:59.759 He's like, Yo, it's just maybe I'm gonna come and 409 00:20:59.759 --> 00:21:03.279 get you. Like and because everybody else, like everybody else called, 410 00:21:03.359 --> 00:21:05.440 like because they said the buses wasn't running so they 411 00:21:05.519 --> 00:21:08.480 wasn't coming. Joel like he he came, like he picked 412 00:21:08.480 --> 00:21:09.960 me up minutes all. He was like, look, I got 413 00:21:10.000 --> 00:21:13.359 all wheel drive. We're gonna be there. And I mean 414 00:21:13.880 --> 00:21:16.160 and then you know, if we if needed be, they 415 00:21:16.160 --> 00:21:18.079 put us up in the hotel like they would put 416 00:21:18.119 --> 00:21:23.079 us up in the hotel on the front. But I mean, 417 00:21:23.119 --> 00:21:25.000 but you know me, like like I like to work. 418 00:21:26.279 --> 00:21:28.319 I was like, I'm in I'm in there. I was 419 00:21:28.359 --> 00:21:31.160 in there like Joe this something. And when I didn't 420 00:21:31.200 --> 00:21:32.400 have to park the carse like when you had to 421 00:21:32.400 -->

00:21:34.880 park the cause down on Lombard like we like we 422 00:21:35.319 --> 00:21:37.759 like we used like we usually do because most of 423 00:21:37.759 --> 00:21:38.599 the people they were coming. 424 00:21:38.880 --> 00:21:41.000 I did it for the cancelations. 425 00:21:40.839 --> 00:21:43.000 Because we were like right outside of like right outside 426 00:21:43.000 --> 00:21:44.720 of the on collegey department. So it's like for me, 427 00:21:44.759 --> 00:21:46.839 it's like my regular the regular people that I've seen. 428 00:21:46.880 --> 00:21:49.119 It's like, all right, I got you no words if 429 00:21:49.119 --> 00:21:52.200 you if you gonna make it out this motherfucker they 430 00:21:52.240 --> 00:21:55.960 get your chemo. I'm like, I'm i gotta do my 431 00:21:56.079 --> 00:21:58.599 you know, do my due diligence or you know, do 432 00:21:59.200 --> 00:22:01.440 like with God, you know, I gotta be all. I'm 433 00:22:01.440 --> 00:22:04.640 gonna be out here too, mm hmm. You're braving the storm, 434 00:22:04.759 --> 00:22:06.920 just you know, just get this. So I'm gonna, yeah, 435 00:22:06.920 --> 00:22:08.759 I'm gonna go pocket a little car. We're gonna I'm 436 00:22:08.759 --> 00:22:12.039 gonna pucket right there though, you know, I'm a little raggedy. 437 00:22:11.720 --> 00:22:15.440 Cars bitch hass car. 438 00:22:17.160 --> 00:22:19.480 One lady pulled up with with like a big ass 439 00:22:19.519 --> 00:22:20.799 trunk taking up like the side. 440 00:22:20.799 --> 00:22:24.440 I was like, you what happened? I was like, did 441 00:22:24.440 --> 00:22:28.799 you hear it this? She's like no, elk? Oh God, 442 00:22:29.880 --> 00:22:34.119 It's like, where's Elk? She's like Western Maryland. They got 443 00:22:34.119 --> 00:22:35.200 elk in western Maryland. 444 00:22:35.519 --> 00:22:38.079 No, not damn that, but you drove all the way 445 00:22:38.119 --> 00:22:46.880 down here where it sucked up that like that back that. Yeah, 446 00:22:47.079 --> 00:22:51.400 that ship was rough. I was like, damn. 447 00:22:51.920 --> 00:22:54.519 So yeah, if you haven't they do what you need 448 00:22:54.559 --> 00:22:57.079 to do to improve your sleep hygiene, you could, you know, 449 00:22:57.400 --> 00:23:00.119 try to start with a consistent routine for improving how 450 00:23:00.200 --> 00:23:02.200 much sleep you get. Try to sleep at the same 451 00:23:02.200 --> 00:23:03.640 time or wake up at the same time so your 452 00:23:03.640 --> 00:23:06.119 body can get used to that sort of rhythm. I'm 453 00:23:06.119 --> 00:23:07.000 getting I'm getting it. 454 00:23:07.680 --> 00:23:10.000 Yeah, you got to because you're talking like getting there, 455 00:23:10.000 --> 00:23:13.400 like waking up naturally at at the like at a 456 00:23:13.400 --> 00:23:17.079 certain time, like they woke up, woke up like seven thirties, like. 457 00:23:17.759 --> 00:23:21.960 I was ain't damn ain't da is no, no nothing. 458 00:23:23.039 --> 00:23:24.559

You got to because you don't. You don't want it 459 00:23:24.599 --> 00:23:27.559 to be a place or a thing where you know 460 00:23:27.720 --> 00:23:29.880 everything's all good and well now because we're young and 461 00:23:29.920 --> 00:23:32.240 we still fit and moving. But that ship. You won't 462 00:23:32.279 --> 00:23:34.359 take care of yourself. Now, that'll come back to bite 463 00:23:34.359 --> 00:23:37.319 your ass when you get older. Your house starts to 464 00:23:37.359 --> 00:23:40.000 decline in your fifties and sixties, or you get cognitive 465 00:23:40.039 --> 00:23:42.799 issues because you're not taking care of yourself. So yeah, 466 00:23:42.799 --> 00:23:45.799 that's that scared me hearing about that study or that 467 00:23:45.839 --> 00:23:48.160 potential link between lack of sleep and dementia. I said, 468 00:23:48.160 --> 00:23:51.160 oh no, we're gonna figure this out. You're gonna figure 469 00:23:51.200 --> 00:23:55.880 this out. So all right, well, before we get into 470 00:23:56.000 --> 00:24:01.880 our quan name topic, did you know that random? Totally random, 471 00:24:02.279 --> 00:24:04.559 it's totally unrelateable we were just talking about. But the 472 00:24:05.279 --> 00:24:08.759 close at the end of the harbor, that's the Yeah, 473 00:24:08.839 --> 00:24:11.400 they closed it. So there are only two owners left 474 00:24:11.400 --> 00:24:15.960 in the whole state of Maryland. Right, So it's only 475 00:24:15.960 --> 00:24:17.680 two us left in the whole state of Maryland. There's 476 00:24:17.680 --> 00:24:20.400 one in Elk City, and then there's one in Oakland. 477 00:24:20.440 --> 00:24:23.200 Out in Oakland, Maryland, which is like western Maryland, you're Cumberland. 478 00:24:24.400 --> 00:24:28.240 There are some it's some in Jersey, there's a couple, 479 00:24:28.319 --> 00:24:31.319 it's some in New York, some in Pennsylvania, and a 480 00:24:31.359 --> 00:24:36.920 few in Virginia. So mm, yeah, they closing it all the. 481 00:24:38.640 --> 00:24:40.240 Somebody give me the recipe for damn sup. 482 00:24:41.200 --> 00:24:42.880 I'm pretty sure you can find a dupe for that on. 483 00:24:43.279 --> 00:24:45.079 I'm looking up. That's tasty. 484 00:24:45.319 --> 00:24:48.480 Yeah, all right, you want to take let's let's take 485 00:24:48.480 --> 00:24:50.319 a commercial before we get into the Q and A segment. 486 00:24:50.519 --> 00:24:52.039 We will be right back. 487 00:24:55.359 --> 00:24:55.480 Here. 488 00:24:55.559 --> 00:24:58.920 We back kaa Shana shows all yours. 489 00:24:58.799 --> 00:25:02.440 Before we get started. If you have any questions, any topic, ideas, 490 00:25:02.480 --> 00:25:08.000 any rants, any review ideas, any feedback, any commentary. Oh, 491 00:25:08.240 --> 00:25:11.359 you can reach us via email. We are asked wandapart 492 00:25:11.440 --> 00:25:14.279 at gmail dot com. 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Oh yeah, So we is 508 00:26:13.400 --> 00:26:15.960 going to go ahead and just started out with fuckery 509 00:26:16.480 --> 00:26:24.519 because that's what I sometimes. I'm throw you sometimes, I said, 510 00:26:24.960 --> 00:26:27.359 And we going to six Brown Chicks, which is Brandon's 511 00:26:27.359 --> 00:26:30.880 favorite thread. Shoutout to six Brown Chicks for keeping us 512 00:26:31.720 --> 00:26:37.519 dressed in fuckery because yeah, okay, come on with the 513 00:26:37.519 --> 00:26:41.000 ship which I came home from my second job and 514 00:26:41.039 --> 00:26:43.920 my unemployed living boyfriend and his fifteen year old son 515 00:26:44.000 --> 00:26:47.519 had a talk with me. They told me I needed 516 00:26:47.559 --> 00:26:49.279 to find a better job so that we can live 517 00:26:49.319 --> 00:26:53.279 in a better neighborhood. My boyfriend, I feel like you're 518 00:26:53.319 --> 00:26:55.759 working all the time, but it don't add money to 519 00:26:55.799 --> 00:27:00.920 our situation. Me, you could work too, my boy work 520 00:27:01.000 --> 00:27:03.400 for what? You worked two jobs and don't earn enough 521 00:27:03.400 --> 00:27:06.079 for us to live. Instead of two jobs, find one 522 00:27:06.119 --> 00:27:07.119 better paying job. 523 00:27:08.240 --> 00:27:08.599 Pause. 524 00:27:09.039 --> 00:27:11.160 This is how people end up on episodes of Snapped 525 00:27:11.160 --> 00:27:11.599 and Fad. 526 00:27:12.200 --> 00:27:14.000 A minute, bitch. 527 00:27:14.079 --> 00:27:17.640 What the dating pool is trash? The job market is trash. 528 00:27:17.759 --> 00:27:20.279 I love this man. I'm a proud Christian woman, and 529 00:27:20.319 --> 00:27:22.720 I don't want to evict this man and his just 530 00:27:22.839 --> 00:27:25.680 in time for winter. But something has got to give. 531 00:27:25.839 -->

00:27:26.400 What to do? 532 00:27:26.720 --> 00:27:28.880 Put that nigga and his raggedy as set out. You're 533 00:27:28.920 --> 00:27:32.839 a dumb ass halke fuck up. See you let this 534 00:27:32.920 --> 00:27:35.119 bum ass nigga talk to you crazy in the house 535 00:27:35.119 --> 00:27:37.000 that you're paying all the fucking bills in. 536 00:27:37.079 --> 00:27:37.759 That's what she's saying. 537 00:27:37.960 --> 00:27:42.160 What the fuck is your problem? You working multiple jobs 538 00:27:42.160 --> 00:27:43.880 and you didn't learn nothing from the bit Ship we 539 00:27:43.920 --> 00:27:47.519 talked about last week. Nope, from from from another man's trash, treasure, 540 00:27:47.720 --> 00:27:51.200 one man's trash, whatever the fu Tuoby movie's name was 541 00:27:51.599 --> 00:27:55.359 vibbing direct for Tuby Studios, One Woman's Yeah at the 542 00:27:55.359 --> 00:27:57.880 court of fucking Lilanois and fankel In on the West 543 00:27:57.880 --> 00:28:01.279 side of Detroit. You ain't learned nothing from that. You 544 00:28:01.319 --> 00:28:02.119 ain't learned nothing. 545 00:28:02.200 --> 00:28:05.519 Nope, Yo, you. 546 00:28:05.680 --> 00:28:08.000 A motherfucker could tell me, Ship in the house, I 547 00:28:08.079 --> 00:28:12.079 paid for laying here scratching your nuts, and I'm working 548 00:28:12.079 --> 00:28:15.640 two jobs to support all three of us. It ain't mine, 549 00:28:16.400 --> 00:28:20.319 nigga pounds saying pound the pavement. Take little Tyron back 550 00:28:20.359 --> 00:28:23.119 to his mother and follow behind his ass because my 551 00:28:23.119 --> 00:28:24.839 house is getting locked when I leave, because. 552 00:28:24.640 --> 00:28:26.240 They probably at your house because she probably put that 553 00:28:26.599 --> 00:28:31.119 ass was sicking him in his goddamn son, this. 554 00:28:31.240 --> 00:28:33.440 Hot You ain't got no act, right, bitch. You ain't 555 00:28:34.160 --> 00:28:39.880 stand up, stand up, Ship, not fucking dumb. 556 00:28:41.519 --> 00:28:44.759 You have lost your rabit as mind blooded speak clear 557 00:28:45.519 --> 00:28:48.000 the way I will put avery and that nigga food? 558 00:28:48.039 --> 00:28:48.960 Are you crazy? 559 00:28:49.200 --> 00:28:49.839 You stupid? 560 00:28:50.400 --> 00:28:53.640 You have lost your man. You're a proud question woman, 561 00:28:53.680 --> 00:28:54.640 but you're shaking. 562 00:28:54.400 --> 00:28:57.839 Girl right pre married at that girl. You love that man, 563 00:28:57.880 --> 00:29:00.000 but you're letting the man take advantage of you. O cool. 564 00:29:00.440 --> 00:29:02.160 They probably come home and cook and clean and every 565 00:29:02.240 --> 00:29:04.519 damn thing was and they sit on the damn fucking 566 00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:07.119 couch playing two K not just. 567 00:29:07.000 --> 00:29:09.519 For your man, but for his teenage son as well. 568 00:29:09.559 --> 00:29:09.839 Girl. 569 00:29:10.640 --> 00:29:12.519 If you don't tell that motherfucker to go pound. 570 00:29:12.240 --> 00:29:14.880 Sign, he mad at him. I made at your stupid days, right, 571 00:29:14.920 --> 00:29:16.079 you lost your fucking mind. 572 00:29:16.119 --> 00:29:17.200 I wish the funk I was. 573 00:29:19.160 --> 00:29:22.279 I got a seventeen year old. 574 00:29:23.920 --> 00:29:24.880 Hmmm, I'm good. 575 00:29:25.559 --> 00:29:25.920 Mm hmm. 576 00:29:26.160 --> 00:29:28.119 You ain't got an answer to this in your fucking body. 577 00:29:28.160 --> 00:29:31.799 Not a pinch you can go bye? 578 00:29:32.759 --> 00:29:36.000 Oh simple hum? Just oh my god, that made me mad. 579 00:29:38.279 --> 00:29:43.079 I'm stupid, but just stupid. I'm sorry, Aaron. What was 580 00:29:43.119 --> 00:29:43.720 you gonna say? 581 00:29:43.960 --> 00:29:46.400 No, it's I think I think what question? I think 582 00:29:46.440 --> 00:29:48.400 one question is just like why? 583 00:29:49.480 --> 00:29:51.279 Why? Yeah? 584 00:29:51.359 --> 00:29:54.720 Like why like like what's the what's the problem? I 585 00:29:54.759 --> 00:29:58.079 mean what's the what's the issue here? Like like you 586 00:29:58.200 --> 00:30:00.079 saying that you need help, he's not trying to I 587 00:30:00.359 --> 00:30:02.400 said help because he's gonna ask you. He's gonna say 588 00:30:02.400 --> 00:30:04.799 that you know you can, you can get a better 589 00:30:04.839 --> 00:30:05.359 paying job. 590 00:30:05.400 --> 00:30:08.680 And it's like, bitch, the only people that can live 591 00:30:08.759 --> 00:30:11.839 for free is people that aren't old enough to work. 592 00:30:12.640 --> 00:30:15.880 You don't work, you don't eat, true ship, or you're 593 00:30:15.880 --> 00:30:17.960 a dumb ass to let God dumb bitch is taking 594 00:30:17.960 --> 00:30:18.359 care of you. 595 00:30:18.480 --> 00:30:20.680 That's what. Don't work. It don't eat. 596 00:30:23.359 --> 00:30:27.240 That ship made my blood hot. You being a dumb ass. 597 00:30:27.240 --> 00:30:32.839 It's in my house, nigga. The mission is they can take. 598 00:30:32.799 --> 00:30:36.440 Him a dollar and get his own goddamndles to ship, better, 599 00:30:36.599 --> 00:30:41.160 payhand better, go to a shelter funk out there. That 600 00:30:41.319 --> 00:30:45.559 made me, man, go stay with your mama. Mm hmmm. 601 00:30:46.440 --> 00:30:49.559 I oh, I mean that's made. 602 00:30:51.079 --> 00:30:56.319 Mm hmmm. It grinded your gears, did it? 603 00:30:58.279 --> 00:31:03.440 Simple bitch and take them? I mean, but and then 604 00:31:03.480 --> 00:31:04.720 on top like, ain't that much? 605 00:31:05.839 --> 00:31:08.680 I mean as a man, that's like, why would you like, 606 00:31:08.680 --> 00:31:11.119 why would you want to be taken care of that way? 607 00:31:11.400 --> 00:31:14.039 Some niggas don't kids. They want they want they want ease. 608 00:31:14.400 --> 00:31:16.039 They want to easy life. They want to be a 609 00:31:16.119 --> 00:31:18.160 kept bitch, a bad bitch.

610 00:31:19.960 --> 00:31:22.559 But washing the dishes and cleaning bitch. 611 00:31:22.440 --> 00:31:26.160 That's all right. That's that's another thing. If you're in 612 00:31:26.240 --> 00:31:28.559 the house, like you're in the house, show you you 613 00:31:28.599 --> 00:31:31.039 should at least be able to I mean you should 614 00:31:31.039 --> 00:31:34.400 be like common courtesy, bro. If she's doing all the 615 00:31:34.440 --> 00:31:37.440 heavy lifting, at least you can do and sweep the floor, 616 00:31:37.559 --> 00:31:38.640 wash on washing dishes. 617 00:31:38.720 --> 00:31:42.160 Now you know that's too much like right? Do you 618 00:31:42.279 --> 00:31:48.640 know that you know that nigga ain't doing this ship man? Yeah? No, yeah, bitch, yeah, 619 00:31:48.839 --> 00:31:49.400 put them out. 620 00:31:50.599 --> 00:31:53.920 Stop thinking about but stop and stop thinking about your like, 621 00:31:53.960 --> 00:31:55.039 stop thinking about the kid. 622 00:31:55.160 --> 00:31:58.079 This ain't got nothing, especially when the kid ain't sucking yours. Yeah, 623 00:31:58.160 --> 00:31:59.559 this ship ain't got nothing to do with the kid, 624 00:32:00.079 --> 00:32:02.160 won't you a bitch? He can go with his mother, right, 625 00:32:02.960 --> 00:32:05.839 he got a grandmother or auntie, He got somebody that 626 00:32:05.920 --> 00:32:09.559 don't something involved him staying his raggedy, funky, dirty ass 627 00:32:09.559 --> 00:32:10.119 in your house. 628 00:32:10.400 --> 00:32:10.759 Agreed? 629 00:32:11.279 --> 00:32:15.319 Stand up? Oh oh you stupid? 630 00:32:15.480 --> 00:32:18.519 Just simple, just simple mind. 631 00:32:18.839 --> 00:32:21.599 I'm sorry, y'all ain't got the good the good sense 632 00:32:21.640 --> 00:32:24.759 God gave a billy name Lick of it ain't got 633 00:32:24.759 --> 00:32:26.759 the good sense God gave a bully go. 634 00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:28.559 Not nampy. 635 00:32:28.720 --> 00:32:32.640 I mean they are pretty stupid, but still mm hmmm, 636 00:32:33.400 --> 00:32:36.440 just stupid. Just oh my god, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 637 00:32:36.559 --> 00:32:42.279 I feel it's just not worth it. Ain't like it's 638 00:32:42.319 --> 00:32:42.880 not worth it. 639 00:32:42.880 --> 00:32:44.559 It's not worth the streuss that you're going, that you 640 00:32:44.640 --> 00:32:45.839 already that you're giving yourself. 641 00:32:45.880 --> 00:32:49.599 Fucking that ship. Let it go, Let him go. If 642 00:32:49.680 --> 00:32:54.599 somebody isn't added anything to your life, why are they ain't? 643 00:32:54.680 --> 00:32:57.160 Why are m h mm. 644 00:32:57.000 --> 00:32:59.599 Hmmm about his businesses? Bye? 645 00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:02.440 Person is not adding anything to you in your life? 646 00:33:02.480 --> 00:33:05.319 Why do they have taken you? All they doing? They coming, 647 00:33:05.319 --> 00:33:07.799 They're coming at you with their hand out. What are 648 00:33:08.000 --> 00:33:09.920 what benefit

is this person adding to your life? 649 00:33:09.960 --> 00:33:11.160 And when they come over with the hand do you 650 00:33:11.200 --> 00:33:12.160 suppose to your finger up? 651 00:33:12.240 --> 00:33:14.680 I know having low self esteem is a thing, but 652 00:33:14.759 --> 00:33:17.160 you can't love somebody else that they expense it your 653 00:33:17.160 --> 00:33:18.119 own goddamn self. 654 00:33:18.720 --> 00:33:21.160 I'll give you Missus Howard because you need somebody to 655 00:33:21.200 --> 00:33:21.720 talk to you. 656 00:33:21.799 --> 00:33:23.440 I wouldn't want to send Missus Howard up or some 657 00:33:23.440 --> 00:33:24.000 ship like this. 658 00:33:26.880 --> 00:33:28.599 Shout out to missus girl. 659 00:33:28.680 --> 00:33:32.319 No, no, she don't. She taking the extensive break us. 660 00:33:32.599 --> 00:33:37.799 Girl, I need you going through some ship. Well, all right, 661 00:33:37.920 --> 00:33:39.920 moving on, we're going to rudd it to the m 662 00:33:39.920 --> 00:33:42.519 out of asshole thread that when it's a little lengthing. 663 00:33:42.640 --> 00:33:45.799 But uh am I then asshole for asking my wife's 664 00:33:45.839 --> 00:33:48.039 best friend to stop leaning on my wife after her 665 00:33:48.119 --> 00:33:52.119 dad died. Oh that's how just gonna get a little 666 00:33:52.160 --> 00:33:53.559 lovely little heavy guys. 667 00:33:53.720 --> 00:33:55.960 Okay, it's been a little heavy lately. 668 00:33:56.559 --> 00:33:57.839 Heavy heavy. 669 00:33:58.880 --> 00:34:01.319 You got so heavy on I gotta. 670 00:34:01.160 --> 00:34:07.599 Spend a little heavy. I'm oh finishing sugars that would 671 00:34:07.599 --> 00:34:11.440 be good, yes, or maybe on top of some coffee 672 00:34:11.559 --> 00:34:12.239 like hot chocolate. 673 00:34:12.519 --> 00:34:17.199 Oh fantastic, yes, okay, sorry me. Thirty two male and 674 00:34:17.239 --> 00:34:20.280 my wife thirty one female, were having a baby. My 675 00:34:20.320 --> 00:34:23.280 wife was around seven months pregnant. My wife's best friend, 676 00:34:25.159 --> 00:34:29.280 thirty female, father passed away unexpectedly and quite young. There 677 00:34:29.280 --> 00:34:31.480 were no warning signs. He seemed in perfect health for 678 00:34:31.519 --> 00:34:35.320 his age. Wife did not have an easy pregnancy and 679 00:34:35.360 --> 00:34:37.360 the third time mess that we were going for daily 680 00:34:37.400 --> 00:34:40.000 scams due to the baby not gaining weight and reduced movement. 681 00:34:40.800 --> 00:34:43.639 Wife was working with children and the kid. I'm sorry. 682 00:34:43.800 --> 00:34:47.440 Wife was advised to reduce stress. She is a social 683 00:34:47.480 --> 00:34:50.440 worker working with children in the care system, which is 684 00:34:50.480 --> 00:34:54.559 a very stressful and emotionally drained job. For her work 685 00:34:54.920 --> 00:34:57.440 put her on a lighter case load and gave her 686 00:34:57.480 --> 00:35:01.000 flexible hours.

This is also a the time that wife's 687 00:35:01.079 --> 00:35:04.599 best friend's dad died FYI. Wife and best friends had 688 00:35:04.599 --> 00:35:07.800 been best friends for about fifteen years. She was the 689 00:35:07.800 --> 00:35:09.719 maid up honor at our wedding and was a close 690 00:35:09.719 --> 00:35:14.320 friend of mine too. Best friend that died it was 691 00:35:14.320 --> 00:35:16.639 a shock to us all. We went round to her 692 00:35:16.679 --> 00:35:19.280 house the day after to comfort her as much as 693 00:35:19.280 --> 00:35:24.400 we could. At this point, everything seemed at sorry, y'all. 694 00:35:24.920 --> 00:35:27.840 At this point, everything seemed as you would expect. We 695 00:35:27.880 --> 00:35:30.280 took some snack foods around, We spent the little time 696 00:35:30.440 --> 00:35:33.199 a long time talking. There were tears all around in 697 00:35:33.239 --> 00:35:36.280 a lot of cuddles. After a few days of this, 698 00:35:36.519 --> 00:35:39.800 thanks to Katurn. While talking about the father's funeral, Wife 699 00:35:39.880 --> 00:35:43.239 asked best friend if she knew anything about how she 700 00:35:43.280 --> 00:35:46.159 wanted his funeral. The friend did not like this question 701 00:35:46.360 --> 00:35:49.239 at all and was immediately angry, saying why would I 702 00:35:49.320 --> 00:35:53.000 know that. From this point on, best friend was increasingly 703 00:35:53.079 --> 00:35:57.480 negative towards my wife. Wife felt helpless. She could barely sleep. 704 00:35:57.679 --> 00:35:59.920 I was coming to home, coming home to her crying, 705 00:36:00.159 --> 00:36:02.519 just looking at her phone because if the messages that 706 00:36:02.599 --> 00:36:06.440 they exchange, this is where I fucked up. I message 707 00:36:06.480 --> 00:36:10.280 best friend, this is the message. Hi, best friend. I'm 708 00:36:10.280 --> 00:36:12.239 not going to pretend to know anything about what you're 709 00:36:12.280 --> 00:36:14.039 going through, and I truly wish that I could help 710 00:36:14.039 --> 00:36:17.280 in any way. I am genuinely concerned about wife and 711 00:36:17.679 --> 00:36:20.519 bump on top of that, I'm not going to layer 712 00:36:21.280 --> 00:36:24.280 on all the things that she is struggling with right now. 713 00:36:24.559 --> 00:36:26.440 I just want to ask you to try to lean 714 00:36:26.480 --> 00:36:29.079 on her a little less. She wants what is best 715 00:36:29.079 --> 00:36:30.920 for you and wants to help. But the last day 716 00:36:31.000 --> 00:36:34.760 or two she hasn't eaten, and she's been pretty She's 717 00:36:34.800 --> 00:36:37.039 pretty much cried herself to sleep, and even there not 718 00:36:37.119 --> 00:36:39.880 sleeping well at all. Me and wife both love you 719 00:36:39.920 --> 00:36:41.480 and what to support you in any way we can. 720 00:36:41.639 --> 00:36:43.679 I'm just worried it might be a bit too much 721 00:36:43.800 --> 00:36:47.079 for a wife right now. Best friend said she was 722 00:36:47.159 --> 00:36:49.719 sorry that her dad dying was an inconvenience to us, 723 00:36:49.760 --> 00:36:52.280 and that she wouldn't burden us with her problem anymore. 724 00:36:53.039 --> 00:36:55.159 I spent the next few days trying to apologize and 725 00:36:55.159 --> 00:36:58.280 explain about the pregnancy, but to no avail. Best friend 726 00:36:58.320 --> 00:37:00.960 continue to be angry at me and wife. This point onward, 727 00:37:01.440 --> 00:37:03.679 I was asked not to attend the funeral, but wife 728 00:37:03.760 --> 00:37:06.599 did attend. Best friend was close to her for the 729 00:37:06.800 --> 00:37:12.079 entire funeral, barely said a word to her. Wife and 730 00:37:12.119 --> 00:37:14.760 best friend argued a few times after this, partially about 731 00:37:14.800 --> 00:37:17.079 what I had said, but other things I'm not certain of. 732 00:37:17.800 --> 00:37:20.639 Best friend has now stopped all communication with us. Our 733 00:37:20.679 --> 00:37:23.039 son has been born. Wife had an emergency c section 734 00:37:23.079 --> 00:37:27.400 because his heart rate was dropping. He is happy and healthy. Question, 735 00:37:27.760 --> 00:37:28.880 Am I the asshole? 736 00:37:29.280 --> 00:37:33.280 No? You are not to askhole at all. Now. Had 737 00:37:33.320 --> 00:37:37.199 you come at the best friend a bit greasy? Yes, 738 00:37:37.400 --> 00:37:39.199 but in this instance, based off of what you wrote, 739 00:37:39.239 --> 00:37:41.119 unless you wrote some shit and you're trying to chance 740 00:37:41.159 --> 00:37:43.639 switch it up based off of what you told us 741 00:37:43.639 --> 00:37:45.800 you wrote. No, you're not to askhole because your priority 742 00:37:45.880 --> 00:37:50.000 is your partner and your child while losing a parent 743 00:37:50.079 --> 00:37:53.960 is stressed, and I appreciate the fact that you led 744 00:37:54.039 --> 00:37:57.239 with sympathy first off and said, hey, sorry, you're going 745 00:37:57.280 --> 00:37:59.239 through this. If I could be there for you, you know 746 00:37:59.320 --> 00:38:02.400 in a different way, I definitely would be. But your 747 00:38:02.440 --> 00:38:06.800 priority is your family. And if your partner is losing sleep, 748 00:38:06.840 --> 00:38:09.280 she crying herself to sleep, she's not sleeping, well, she's pregnant. 749 00:38:09.719 --> 00:38:13.480 Your priority is your baby, and you need to try 750 00:38:13.480 --> 00:38:15.840 to fix the problem where you can. And if that 751 00:38:15.920 --> 00:38:18.599 means saying, hey, I know you're going through it right now, 752 00:38:18.639 --> 00:38:20.239 can you try to maybe lean on a little bit less? 753 00:38:20.280 --> 00:38:22.079 Like she's going through a rough time and her pregnancy 754 00:38:22.320 --> 00:38:24.840 and she's not gonna pull herself away because she cares, 755 00:38:25.119 --> 00:38:26.559 but can you maybe try to lean on her a 756 00:38:26.599 -->

00:38:28.280 little bit less. I feel like that was the right 757 00:38:28.320 --> 00:38:32.280 thing to do personally now in grief. It may not 758 00:38:32.360 --> 00:38:35.639 be received wrong, but it correct me if I am wrong. 759 00:38:35.960 --> 00:38:38.280 The best friend was being an asshole to her pregnant 760 00:38:38.280 --> 00:38:41.199 best friend and her boyfriend just off of her simply 761 00:38:41.239 --> 00:38:44.519 asking Hey, what do you want or foresee like for 762 00:38:44.559 --> 00:38:46.280 your father's funeral? I feel like it's a work our 763 00:38:46.360 --> 00:38:46.760 question to ask. 764 00:38:46.880 --> 00:38:48.559 It is because I probably could have helped you with 765 00:38:48.679 --> 00:38:49.760 something I'm asking you for. 766 00:38:50.119 --> 00:38:51.639 You panted you in the right direction to say, hey, 767 00:38:51.679 --> 00:38:53.119 I know somebody who does it, who will give you 768 00:38:53.199 --> 00:38:56.320 a discount. Funerals are expensive, and we all a lot 769 00:38:56.360 --> 00:38:58.880 of people unfortunately who people who don't you know, pre 770 00:38:59.039 --> 00:39:01.440 plan for their own shit, you planning all this stuff 771 00:39:01.440 --> 00:39:04.920 in the midst of dealing with grief, right, Like, yeah, 772 00:39:04.960 --> 00:39:08.159 I watched I watched I watched The Leader. 773 00:39:08.480 --> 00:39:10.599 I mean I watched kid, you know Kay the best 774 00:39:10.639 --> 00:39:15.679 friend door with her, we couldn't lean like she I mean, yeah, 775 00:39:15.760 --> 00:39:17.559 she could talk, like she came to talk to us. 776 00:39:17.599 --> 00:39:19.039 But at the same time, it was like it wasn't 777 00:39:19.079 --> 00:39:23.920 really much, you know, because Katy was Katy was. Katy 778 00:39:24.079 --> 00:39:26.199 was also you know, going through her own stuff, and 779 00:39:26.440 --> 00:39:28.119 it's like, yo, we you know what I mean, we 780 00:39:28.280 --> 00:39:31.119 get it, but we also, you know, we're also dealing 781 00:39:31.159 --> 00:39:34.119 with like dealing with life over here. So you know, 782 00:39:34.280 --> 00:39:36.679 she kind of she helped with she could, And I 783 00:39:36.800 --> 00:39:40.159 think I just think that it is a little selfish, Like, yo, 784 00:39:40.679 --> 00:39:44.119 you're being you're being selfish because because you're not worried 785 00:39:44.119 --> 00:39:48.599 about you're not concerned about my my lady and you 786 00:39:48.719 --> 00:39:51.480 know her being pregnant and you know, distress that you 787 00:39:51.679 --> 00:39:54.760 are that you excuse me that you were putting on 788 00:39:54.960 --> 00:39:58.840 like you're putting on her like it's stressful trying to 789 00:39:58.920 --> 00:40:01.920 be your best friend and and and then also be 790 00:40:02.079 --> 00:40:05.639 pregnant like you Streuss was trying to be a best 791 00:40:05.679 --> 00:40:07.960 friend to be pregnant. I mean, I ain't never been pregnant, 792 00:40:08.000 --> 00:40:10.719 so you know, I can only imagine, you know, the 793 00:40:10.760 --> 00:40:13.079 hormonal ship y'all be going you know y'all be going through. 794 00:40:13.599 --> 00:40:16.400 I said in the previous episode, the little mistakes to 795 00:40:16.440 --> 00:40:21.079 make you cry, can make you upset anything. Your hormones 796 00:40:21.119 --> 00:40:23.880 are sky freaking hot. We just watching it. We was 797 00:40:23.920 --> 00:40:26.679 watching the earlier. But my mama one day, yeah, we 798 00:40:26.800 --> 00:40:29.239 was watching the earlier about to bite me in my 799 00:40:29.320 --> 00:40:32.360 throat in the middle walmart. But I did. I was irritated, 800 00:40:32.480 --> 00:40:35.079 I was hot, I was hungry, and she asked me 801 00:40:35.159 --> 00:40:36.159 one question to you, damnity. 802 00:40:36.199 --> 00:40:36.599 I was like what. 803 00:40:38.199 --> 00:40:40.360 My mother stopped and pols and looked at me and said, oh. 804 00:40:40.320 --> 00:40:45.079 Ships that. Look, I know you're pressing. Let that. 805 00:40:45.639 --> 00:40:47.280 I know you're pregnant. So I let that slide. But 806 00:40:47.320 --> 00:40:51.840 don't you do it again. But yeah, you know, you're 807 00:40:51.880 --> 00:40:53.480 not the like, you're not the ass whole. You're just 808 00:40:53.519 --> 00:40:56.199 being concerned. You're concerned about your concerned about your wife. 809 00:40:56.880 --> 00:40:59.119 Like you're concerned, you're more so concerned about your wife 810 00:40:59.119 --> 00:41:02.119 and her mental and her mental health. And and because 811 00:41:02.159 --> 00:41:04.440 you know, she stressed out actually can't affect the baby 812 00:41:04.920 --> 00:41:09.000 like dramatically affect the baby. So it's like, yo, so 813 00:41:09.280 --> 00:41:11.360 she feels some kind of way fuck that. If she 814 00:41:11.400 --> 00:41:12.639 don't like, if she don't like, you had to this 815 00:41:12.760 --> 00:41:13.119 fuck her. 816 00:41:13.920 --> 00:41:14.559 You know what I'm saying? 817 00:41:15.079 --> 00:41:17.199 Like you did what you You did what you did, 818 00:41:17.320 --> 00:41:20.679 Like like Brandon said, you led with you led with sympathy. First, 819 00:41:21.400 --> 00:41:24.559 you live with sympathy. So your intentions, your intentions wasn't 820 00:41:24.599 --> 00:41:26.440 to be malicious. 821 00:41:26.159 --> 00:41:29.519 Or and you know, or hurt her. But again, as 822 00:41:29.599 --> 00:41:32.760 your as the husband, uh fellow from the one of 823 00:41:32.800 --> 00:41:35.320 the other questions from the past episode taking notes, as 824 00:41:35.360 --> 00:41:39.880 a husband, your job is to protect your family and 825 00:41:41.039 --> 00:41:44.480 that means protecting them from any and everybody. It does 826 00:41:44.559 --> 00:41:47.440 not matter who the fuck it is. Your wife's pregnancy 827 00:41:47.599 --> 00:41:50.519 was already high risk, she could have lost your

baby. 828 00:41:50.639 --> 00:41:52.639 Then what if she would have lost your baby from 829 00:41:52.639 --> 00:41:55.360 the stress? Then with with with with the best friend 830 00:41:55.440 --> 00:42:02.440 have said, then I'm sorry, I'm stressed. Who has lost 831 00:42:02.519 --> 00:42:07.000 a parent? Brandon has lost both parents. We know what 832 00:42:07.159 --> 00:42:09.840 that grief can be. Like, grief does make you do 833 00:42:09.920 --> 00:42:12.480 strange things. Brief grief you you go one minute, you're 834 00:42:13.079 --> 00:42:15.559 you're sad, then you're angry, then you're happy, then you 835 00:42:15.639 --> 00:42:17.840 remember in good times and you're angry again. I went 836 00:42:17.920 --> 00:42:19.760 through that. That's a big part of me going to 837 00:42:19.840 --> 00:42:22.239 therapy because I didn't know how to deal with my 838 00:42:22.320 --> 00:42:23.519 grief when my father died. 839 00:42:23.599 --> 00:42:27.320 Okay, so I thank you for turning into a hope. 840 00:42:28.159 --> 00:42:34.000 Yeah, nah, No, I should have. I would have been 841 00:42:34.039 --> 00:42:47.400 honoring my father anyway. It's just chokes people. But yeah, 842 00:42:47.559 --> 00:42:49.239 like I didn't know how to handle my grief, which 843 00:42:49.360 --> 00:42:51.800 and I I almost I messed up a few of 844 00:42:51.880 --> 00:42:54.880 my relationships snapping on people and mad at people and 845 00:42:54.960 --> 00:42:56.800 what was me? And what about me? And I understand 846 00:42:56.800 --> 00:42:58.440 you got this going on, but what about me? And 847 00:42:58.800 --> 00:43:01.679 I've been there. So while I understand where the best 848 00:43:01.719 --> 00:43:03.760 friend is coming from, I also understand with you as 849 00:43:03.800 --> 00:43:06.159 a husband, to protect her a leader is coming. 850 00:43:06.000 --> 00:43:08.679 From project your family. That's your priority. 851 00:43:09.320 --> 00:43:09.480 Now. 852 00:43:10.480 --> 00:43:12.079 Reading some of the comments on the story, I saw 853 00:43:12.119 --> 00:43:14.079 some people say that as the wife, they probably would 854 00:43:14.079 --> 00:43:16.119 have been a little upset because it wasn't really the 855 00:43:16.239 --> 00:43:19.360 husband's place. I disagree. I disagree. He was not nasty, 856 00:43:19.440 --> 00:43:21.719 he was not mean, he wasn't rude to her. He 857 00:43:22.440 --> 00:43:24.360 talked to her with love because as he said. She 858 00:43:24.440 --> 00:43:26.000 became a good friend of his too, so he had 859 00:43:26.039 --> 00:43:27.559 love for her too. He felt the loss that she 860 00:43:27.719 --> 00:43:30.280 lost too, But again, his priority at that time was 861 00:43:30.320 --> 00:43:32.119 making sure that his wife and his child was okay. 862 00:43:32.159 --> 00:43:34.679 Because being stressed out, his wife could have ended up. 863 00:43:34.719 --> 00:43:36.679 She could have had pre acclaimed to you, She could 864 00:43:36.719 --> 00:43:38.920 have miscarried. She could have lost her life by giving 865 00:43:38.960 --> 00:43:40.320 birth to the child. He could have lost his wife 866 00:43:40.360 --> 00:43:45.800 and his child. Things happened with understand how stressful pregnancy 867 00:43:46.159 --> 00:43:47.519 can be on your body. 868 00:43:47.599 --> 00:43:51.360 Ye let me anything happened. As a husband, it is 869 00:43:51.639 --> 00:43:52.320 it is our. 870 00:43:52.320 --> 00:43:54.639 Job to say the ship that y'all can't that y'all 871 00:43:54.760 --> 00:43:57.400 that y'all can't say, or you feel like you can't say. 872 00:43:57.679 --> 00:43:59.719 Like whenever, and there's a way to say it. You 873 00:43:59.800 --> 00:44:02.039 were a kid like whenever. 874 00:44:01.840 --> 00:44:03.960 Kidter don't want doing anything, or I mean, she doesn't 875 00:44:04.000 --> 00:44:06.320 necessarily want to know how to say anything. Like my 876 00:44:06.360 --> 00:44:08.760 first thing is, you'll blame me. I don't care, like 877 00:44:08.800 --> 00:44:11.159 you know what I'm saying. You can, Yeah, you can 878 00:44:11.199 --> 00:44:15.280 blame it like if if it's if it's real, like 879 00:44:15.360 --> 00:44:17.440 you know, if it's really like if it's really that serious, 880 00:44:17.480 --> 00:44:19.239 So you can blame it on me. I'll tell like, listen, 881 00:44:19.280 --> 00:44:22.639 I'll take the blame. I gotta take the because you know, 882 00:44:22.880 --> 00:44:26.239 as as everybody say and my mother will say, Aaron, don't. 883 00:44:26.039 --> 00:44:28.360 Give a fuck at all. So you know, if you 884 00:44:28.719 --> 00:44:31.400 like you're gonna be mad at me, I'm cool with that. 885 00:44:31.559 --> 00:44:32.440 Like you can be mad at me. 886 00:44:32.760 --> 00:44:35.320 I be the villain. I'm cool with that, you know 887 00:44:35.360 --> 00:44:37.039 what I'm saying, As long as she I know the truth, 888 00:44:37.320 --> 00:44:38.800 So I'll be the villain in your story. 889 00:44:39.000 --> 00:44:40.639 At the end of the day. My priority is that 890 00:44:40.719 --> 00:44:41.360 one right there and. 891 00:44:41.800 --> 00:44:44.320 When I took you know, the one you stood next 892 00:44:44.360 --> 00:44:46.400 to you, when I took a bow to her. Bitch, Yeah. 893 00:44:48.159 --> 00:44:48.519 My face. 894 00:44:49.920 --> 00:44:54.639 It's more than me personally. I feel like it may 895 00:44:54.679 --> 00:44:56.719 be more than the grief for her to still be 896 00:44:56.800 --> 00:45:00.400 angry and upset and you know after the funeral, or 897 00:45:00.599 --> 00:45:02.559 she could very well still be dealing with the grief 898 00:45:02.679 --> 00:45:05.239 because she has not gotten any help with it. 899 00:45:05.599 --> 00:45:08.559 Yeah, that's that's the that's the thing. It's the fact 900 00:45:08.559 --> 00:45:11.599 that she I'm believed, like I believe. It's the fact 901 00:45:11.639 --> 00:45:14.920 that she was looking for help

and and then here 902 00:45:15.119 --> 00:45:17.639 like here they come like we're not doing this. You 903 00:45:17.679 --> 00:45:20.039 know what I'm saying, Like we're not like I need 904 00:45:20.199 --> 00:45:22.679 you to not like understand where you're coming from and 905 00:45:22.840 --> 00:45:24.239 understand that you're upset, but don't. 906 00:45:25.159 --> 00:45:27.920 I would have said, you don't call me, you know, 907 00:45:31.119 --> 00:45:33.840 let me call me, let me know. I'll be your shoulder. 908 00:45:33.920 --> 00:45:36.039 Why my wife is going through you know you like 909 00:45:36.119 --> 00:45:38.360 you family to me too, Call me and I'll help you. 910 00:45:38.400 --> 00:45:41.440 I'll help you plan, I'll help you, you know, uh, 911 00:45:41.960 --> 00:45:45.119 get through this or something like that. I can put 912 00:45:45.159 --> 00:45:49.239 you in touch with somebody better help or something like that. 913 00:45:49.360 --> 00:45:51.519 That's what I feel like he should have should have said. 914 00:45:51.559 --> 00:45:54.599 But being an asshole, No, I don't think your adshold Sorry, 915 00:45:54.840 --> 00:45:55.840 I don't think you're the asshole. 916 00:45:57.119 --> 00:45:59.079 Because she she's still holding on to it. 917 00:45:59.519 --> 00:46:02.440 But then but and she's probably honestly, she probably gonna 918 00:46:02.440 --> 00:46:05.119 hold onto her for a while because this is happening 919 00:46:05.239 --> 00:46:07.920 at a really traumatic time, like a really traumatic time 920 00:46:07.960 --> 00:46:10.760 for her, and usually things are happened in traumatic men 921 00:46:10.800 --> 00:46:11.519 traumatic times. 922 00:46:11.519 --> 00:46:12.719 You niggas will hold that ship. 923 00:46:12.800 --> 00:46:12.920 Yo. 924 00:46:14.079 --> 00:46:17.599 Yeah, it might be its that bitch might be on 925 00:46:17.679 --> 00:46:21.840 her deathbed before she forgive you. You told me, because again, 926 00:46:22.159 --> 00:46:26.039 people people say stuff in in in you know, when 927 00:46:26.079 --> 00:46:28.039 they going through grief and they're not thinking straight because 928 00:46:28.039 --> 00:46:30.800 they're going through their stuff. But what would the response 929 00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:32.760 have been, and what could just this best friend have 930 00:46:32.840 --> 00:46:35.559 said if her trusting your wife, I would have caused 931 00:46:35.559 --> 00:46:37.639 her to lose that baby. And when she comes out 932 00:46:37.679 --> 00:46:39.880 of her grief and she's back in her right mind 933 00:46:39.920 --> 00:46:42.920 or she's back to a state of equilibrium, oh ship, 934 00:46:43.039 --> 00:46:44.760 I fucked up. I caused my best because I was 935 00:46:44.760 --> 00:46:48.880 trusting my best friend out they lost their baby. Fuck 936 00:46:48.920 --> 00:46:50.119 that bitch because I was. 937 00:46:50.119 --> 00:46:52.760 Dealing with the wife. I wouldn't I wouldn't forgive you. 938 00:46:53.320 --> 00:46:55.679 But you know what, And then I mean but then 939 00:46:55.760 --> 00:47:00.800 now now that there's the paradox, it's like, yo, lie, 940 00:47:01.559 --> 00:47:04.079 but it's like it's it's kind of a paradox because 941 00:47:04.119 --> 00:47:07.519 it's like, yo, like you she you know, she'd have 942 00:47:07.559 --> 00:47:09.559 lost the baby, like she lost the baby, she lost 943 00:47:09.599 --> 00:47:11.639 her father. And then it's like, yo, it's my is 944 00:47:11.960 --> 00:47:13.280 your loss isn't greater than mine? 945 00:47:13.559 --> 00:47:14.000 And it's like. 946 00:47:15.719 --> 00:47:19.760 Kind of is See, your father was already like almost 947 00:47:19.840 --> 00:47:20.159 out there. 948 00:47:20.960 --> 00:47:24.280 He was like he was already he did know, he's 949 00:47:24.360 --> 00:47:28.559 already lived his life. This one, this one, my kid 950 00:47:28.599 --> 00:47:29.559 didn't even get a chance. 951 00:47:29.880 --> 00:47:32.400 So it's like yo, so yeah, you you cal You 952 00:47:32.519 --> 00:47:34.199 could come with that, you know, you could come with 953 00:47:34.280 --> 00:47:36.719 that bullshit, and you know you could feel like you 954 00:47:36.800 --> 00:47:38.400 know she should have been there. But for you to 955 00:47:38.480 --> 00:47:40.480 feel like she she should have been there for you 956 00:47:40.599 --> 00:47:42.679 even though she was going through her own stuff, y'all, 957 00:47:42.719 --> 00:47:44.480 that's selfish as. 958 00:47:44.440 --> 00:47:48.199 Fuck either way, sir, you're not the asshole. Congratulations to 959 00:47:48.280 --> 00:47:51.639 you and your wife on your beautiful baby. I'm glad 960 00:47:51.760 --> 00:47:53.960 that he was born healthy and happy, and I hope 961 00:47:53.960 --> 00:47:59.000 that you're and your wife here baby is born strong. 962 00:47:59.239 --> 00:48:01.119 Pray for your friend and and pray that she gets 963 00:48:01.159 --> 00:48:02.760 through it what it is that she's going through, that 964 00:48:02.880 --> 00:48:04.039 she works through. 965 00:48:03.920 --> 00:48:07.440 This grief and if she don't fuck her, you know 966 00:48:07.480 --> 00:48:07.920 what I'm saying. 967 00:48:10.360 --> 00:48:13.760 Moving along, I'm gonna stay on reddick. I'm going to 968 00:48:14.000 --> 00:48:17.960 the ex the ex women thread. But it's a universal question. 969 00:48:18.760 --> 00:48:20.280 Also call that to ask wonder thread. 970 00:48:20.280 --> 00:48:22.440 And this is also labeled not safe for real folks, 971 00:48:22.480 --> 00:48:24.159 but it ain't that damn bad. But still put your 972 00:48:24.159 --> 00:48:27.880 here on time. How do you feel about your partner? 973 00:48:27.960 --> 00:48:29.039 Waken you up for sex? 974 00:48:29.880 --> 00:48:33.000 I love I love it, nigga, I still do that. 975 00:48:33.039 --> 00:48:38.079 I listen, I still do the ship now like ship listen. 976 00:48:38.199 --> 00:48:39.559 Let me tell you. Let

me tell you something. 977 00:48:39.800 --> 00:48:43.360 Uh uh, y'all listen when y'all get when y'all when 978 00:48:43.440 --> 00:48:46.480 y'all got a study person that y'all live with around 979 00:48:46.639 --> 00:48:50.519 like five six in the morning, it's already what bro 980 00:48:50.559 --> 00:48:52.280 because she been marry nick all night. 981 00:48:52.480 --> 00:48:56.920 So yo, you just not I mean, you can go ahead. 982 00:48:57.000 --> 00:48:59.239 Listen, you go ahead, you go ahead, stir that pot 983 00:48:59.280 --> 00:49:01.039 bro like, go ahead, but that's being that pot broke 984 00:49:01.039 --> 00:49:05.159 because she's been minding it's been marred no night. But 985 00:49:05.440 --> 00:49:08.679 at the same time, you know, first first, our first, 986 00:49:08.719 --> 00:49:11.280 I would say, talk to it and like talk about 987 00:49:11.360 --> 00:49:11.960 it first. 988 00:49:11.760 --> 00:49:14.039 And make sure comfortable. 989 00:49:15.400 --> 00:49:18.519 Up because some people because some people, you know some uh, 990 00:49:18.679 --> 00:49:21.880 some people might have like trauma and it's like that's 991 00:49:21.920 --> 00:49:25.239 why and they and you know, and you try to 992 00:49:25.280 --> 00:49:27.639 do something, anything can happen to you in that point, 993 00:49:27.760 --> 00:49:27.960 like you. 994 00:49:28.000 --> 00:49:30.440 Know, pickup PTSD or. 995 00:49:30.920 --> 00:49:34.239 Walk around your elbow to your face. So that's a 996 00:49:34.280 --> 00:49:35.480 conversation that should be heaved. 997 00:49:35.719 --> 00:49:39.880 Make now if y'all have not had the conversation, and 998 00:49:40.039 --> 00:49:48.519 you it's like every ball well too. Sometimes listen, sometimes 999 00:49:48.559 --> 00:49:50.840 you might get the Sometimes you might get the ones 1000 00:49:50.880 --> 00:49:52.360 that are you know, the ones that like you just 1001 00:49:52.400 --> 00:49:53.360 put it in their mouth while they. 1002 00:49:53.360 --> 00:49:58.199 Sleep, but you also gotta be careful because you you 1003 00:49:58.280 --> 00:49:59.679 might get it down on son. 1004 00:49:59.719 --> 00:50:02.079 That's my yeah, that's not even to tell you that's 1005 00:50:02.079 --> 00:50:04.239 that's that's that's my fear. Like we didn't, like, we 1006 00:50:04.320 --> 00:50:06.320 didn't have conversations about it, like you know, just daughter 1007 00:50:06.400 --> 00:50:09.599 say nah, because I'm scared you might bite me. And 1008 00:50:09.719 --> 00:50:11.360 it's like, I don't wonder what the fuck you might 1009 00:50:11.400 --> 00:50:12.119 be dreaming about. 1010 00:50:12.639 --> 00:50:14.519 Just my goddamn look, you about to bite into something 1011 00:50:14.559 --> 00:50:16.239 that your motherfucking dreaming and clamp down? 1012 00:50:17.400 --> 00:50:20.119 You know, not that ass? 1013 00:50:22.119 --> 00:50:22.639 What about you? 1014 00:50:22.719 --> 00:50:22.760 Be? 1015 00:50:23.599 --> 00:50:27.760 Yes, I don't mind being woken up. Well, here's the thing. 1016 00:50:28.840 --> 00:50:31.400 There's a difference between waking somebody who just went to 1017 00:50:31.440 --> 00:50:34.679 sleep like twenty thirty minutes ago, and waking somebody up 1018 00:50:34.719 --> 00:50:36.800 at three in the morning when you know they gotta 1019 00:50:36.840 --> 00:50:38.119 be up for work in two hours. 1020 00:50:38.360 --> 00:50:38.480 Now. 1021 00:50:38.719 --> 00:50:41.119 Sometimes it's good he wake me up three o'clock in 1022 00:50:41.159 --> 00:50:41.920 the morning, but. 1023 00:50:45.159 --> 00:50:46.480 Don't say the word milki. 1024 00:50:47.519 --> 00:50:54.400 But look, look, not that y'all need to notice about me. 1025 00:50:54.559 --> 00:50:58.639 But I'm always in the mood. So you right right now, 1026 00:50:59.639 --> 00:51:00.480 right right now. 1027 00:51:00.800 --> 00:51:05.599 This right moment, turn off, Like yo, I don't think 1028 00:51:06.199 --> 00:51:12.039 people understand that. People understand that, like yo, now you 1029 00:51:12.559 --> 00:51:15.000 you can you know you can like for for men 1030 00:51:15.519 --> 00:51:17.880 like yo. It don't take it does not take much. 1031 00:51:18.719 --> 00:51:21.000 Matter of fact, Yo, you come in like you come in. 1032 00:51:21.119 --> 00:51:22.840 You can come in. You can be here. You can 1033 00:51:22.880 --> 00:51:23.159 be in some. 1034 00:51:23.280 --> 00:51:26.000 Frumpy ass clothes you have, like some big ass some 1035 00:51:26.280 --> 00:51:27.920 big ass T shirts and sweatpants on. 1036 00:51:28.880 --> 00:51:33.039 Yeah, brush past, don't brush past me. 1037 00:51:33.960 --> 00:51:38.000 Don't don't you hope, don't bend over in front of me. 1038 00:51:38.199 --> 00:51:42.639 Don't do nothing like that. She grabbed me. I was like, look. 1039 00:51:42.639 --> 00:51:45.280 I was like, look, look, I'm liable to pop right now. 1040 00:51:46.159 --> 00:52:00.000 Sure says, I'm just saying, y'all gotta understand. 1041 00:52:00.199 --> 00:52:00.320 Bro. 1042 00:52:00.519 --> 00:52:04.400 S Look, I don't even have to be thinking about it. 1043 00:52:04.840 --> 00:52:10.840 You give me a look like right now, she ain't nigga, 1044 00:52:11.920 --> 00:52:15.360 look so what you want? That is one of the 1045 00:52:15.480 --> 00:52:17.920 things I missed about having a living partner is when 1046 00:52:17.960 --> 00:52:20.199 they when they hit the roll up. I was quick 1047 00:52:20.239 --> 00:52:22.320 to toot that butt, U hit that roll over and 1048 00:52:22.400 --> 00:52:25.679 I ain't gonna lie. This ain't one of my proud moments, 1049 00:52:26.440 --> 00:52:27.360 but not in fake sleep. 1050 00:52:27.400 --> 00:52:33.199 A couple of times, same sang, you know you know 1051 00:52:33.320 --> 00:52:36.119 you being on your side and you hear him talking 1052 00:52:36.159 --> 00:52:37.760 to you here, you can't moving. 1053 00:52:38.719 --> 00:52:41.519 The sleep, and I too that freak

sleep. And I 1054 00:52:41.639 --> 00:52:42.679 pushed my butt back like this. 1055 00:52:42.840 --> 00:52:50.440 And then the grab reach around having pulled like I'll be. 1056 00:52:50.519 --> 00:53:13.199 Like, I'm trying, right, I got a point, but look you, 1057 00:53:15.159 --> 00:53:15.679 I'm tired. 1058 00:53:15.800 --> 00:53:15.840 You. 1059 00:53:17.199 --> 00:53:19.599 I guess I hold on. I guess I could wake 1060 00:53:19.679 --> 00:53:23.280 up for it all that Nigga said, I guess I 1061 00:53:23.320 --> 00:53:24.760 could wake up for a couple of minutes. 1062 00:53:25.760 --> 00:53:29.960 I got time, hurry up, I'm sleep, I'm tired. 1063 00:53:30.480 --> 00:53:31.440 I just got the shower. 1064 00:53:31.519 --> 00:53:40.519 But yo, like yeah, wait, Yo, listen, yold do all 1065 00:53:40.559 --> 00:53:40.840 the work. 1066 00:53:40.920 --> 00:53:44.519 Though I like, I like putting them work. Then that's 1067 00:53:44.559 --> 00:53:46.360 a job I like doing. Yo. 1068 00:53:47.000 --> 00:53:49.840 It's like I will say, like it's been like the 1069 00:53:49.920 --> 00:53:52.159 times where like Joe, she tried to get shit started, 1070 00:53:52.199 --> 00:53:53.599 but then I was like dead tired. 1071 00:53:54.199 --> 00:53:56.039 And then I'll be sitting here and say some ship, 1072 00:53:56.159 --> 00:53:57.960 say the ship to me? She was like I did. 1073 00:53:58.079 --> 00:54:00.800 I was like, I found it. I'm sorry. It's like 1074 00:54:00.880 --> 00:54:02.320 you ain't want to wake up, like you ain't want 1075 00:54:02.320 --> 00:54:03.920 to wake up like I. 1076 00:54:04.119 --> 00:54:07.159 Was out, probably like the first like the first night, 1077 00:54:07.280 --> 00:54:09.400 the first couple of weeks he was home, and it's 1078 00:54:09.440 --> 00:54:11.920 like I've been up, like being up like non stop. 1079 00:54:12.119 --> 00:54:16.920 And then it's like, so I'm curious, as married folks, 1080 00:54:17.639 --> 00:54:20.000 how does that? How does the work? Now that you 1081 00:54:20.079 --> 00:54:22.360 have a pretty sleeping like right at the foot all 1082 00:54:22.400 --> 00:54:25.320 bed man, it still works? 1083 00:54:25.440 --> 00:54:28.159 Look down one damn standing up in the crib. 1084 00:54:28.079 --> 00:54:32.679 Like I'm gonna tell you know, I'm gonna tell you 1085 00:54:32.719 --> 00:54:34.719 the truth, like I try to move like I like 1086 00:54:34.880 --> 00:54:40.199 I tried to move the crib like I moved because 1087 00:54:41.239 --> 00:54:43.960 because because the one that the last thing I need 1088 00:54:44.119 --> 00:54:45.800 is for like the last thing I needed him to like, 1089 00:54:45.960 --> 00:54:48.440 you know, like be woken emotion. 1090 00:54:49.440 --> 00:54:50.280 No, it's not even that. 1091 00:54:50.400 --> 00:54:53.599 It's like he he'll do this thing where he turned 1092 00:54:53.679 --> 00:54:56.400 like he'll because it's kind of like off kilter a 1093 00:54:56.480 --> 00:54:59.239 little bit, he'll slide like he'll slide to the back 1094 00:54:59.360 --> 00:55:00.599 like he'll slide to the back of it. 1095 00:55:00.800 --> 00:55:03.159 And then it's like a ship because you hear him 1096 00:55:04.519 --> 00:55:05.440 and we're sitting there. 1097 00:55:05.360 --> 00:55:13.440 Like just waiting like like like he ain't gonna wake up, 1098 00:55:13.480 --> 00:55:13.679 you know. 1099 00:55:13.760 --> 00:55:15.920 No, I say exactly what it's gonna be. They gonna 1100 00:55:15.920 --> 00:55:18.760 be a teenager. He's gonna be good. He good and grown, 1101 00:55:19.719 --> 00:55:21.320 you know. I was. I was at the end of 1102 00:55:21.320 --> 00:55:23.719 the crib watching y'all have sex that one time, right, 1103 00:55:24.280 --> 00:55:24.960 I was wild. 1104 00:55:24.920 --> 00:55:27.400 With remember something from six months old that nigga. 1105 00:55:27.159 --> 00:55:31.239 Is the walk in there every kid, does you know? 1106 00:55:31.320 --> 00:55:33.840 I walked in on y'all and I stopped for two seconds. 1107 00:55:33.960 --> 00:55:36.000 Look y'all was in there wrestling, but traumatized. 1108 00:55:36.800 --> 00:55:38.639 As they get older, they want they want to have 1109 00:55:38.719 --> 00:55:43.360 this conversation. Oh listen, Mike business, you understand. 1110 00:55:43.480 --> 00:55:47.599 You get over the walking on the parent traumatizing. Take 1111 00:55:47.679 --> 00:55:49.360 the visual Jesus I was. 1112 00:55:49.760 --> 00:55:51.440 I walked into my sister and had to go drink 1113 00:55:51.480 --> 00:55:59.039 alcohol because somebody must fucking discussed. Somebody bring me some reef, please, 1114 00:55:59.800 --> 00:56:01.480 I win it. I took a bottle. I took that 1115 00:56:01.559 --> 00:56:03.920 bottle of shortening to the head that my mother had 1116 00:56:03.960 --> 00:56:06.840 in her house. I said, bitch, I did not need 1117 00:56:06.880 --> 00:56:09.320 to see that at all, because I said, one of 1118 00:56:09.360 --> 00:56:14.760 y'all was in my mother's bead too, like nasty bitches. 1119 00:56:17.800 --> 00:56:22.639 I said, all right, so mm hmm, I'm traumatized. 1120 00:56:24.239 --> 00:56:27.920 Like you, nasty b So I'm cool. I'm cool with it, 1121 00:56:29.800 --> 00:56:32.079 especially if it's you know, my long term partner and 1122 00:56:32.320 --> 00:56:35.320 somebody and we've had the conversation like I said, that 1123 00:56:35.519 --> 00:56:41.719 consent is content needed? Okay, consent is needed. There's a 1124 00:56:41.760 --> 00:56:44.239 conversation that needs to be had with the person that 1125 00:56:44.320 --> 00:56:46.719 you are being intimate with. I't understand why people think, 1126 00:56:46.840 --> 00:56:48.639 just because that you're in a relationship with somebody that 1127 00:56:48.679 --> 00:56:51.800 you own their body and and they're supposed to do 1128 00:56:51.840 --> 00:56:53.239 whatever the hell you want them to do and you 1129 00:56:53.280 --> 00:56:55.000 want

them to do it, and it don't work like that. 1130 00:56:55.159 --> 00:56:57.800 I hate to tell y'all that, sorry, great in the 1131 00:56:57.880 --> 00:56:59.119 relationship is such thing. 1132 00:56:59.360 --> 00:57:01.519 Yeah, and that's not yeah, and it's not okay, we'll 1133 00:57:01.559 --> 00:57:05.079 be saying no, uh no, Jama preserves over here. 1134 00:57:06.079 --> 00:57:09.079 It's a such thing as grieping a relationship. And it 1135 00:57:09.159 --> 00:57:11.559 goes both ways. Because if I say no once does it, 1136 00:57:12.119 --> 00:57:15.320 No means nomige. I don't give a damn. I don't 1137 00:57:15.440 --> 00:57:20.559 care if I'm not playing God damn it anyway. But yeah, 1138 00:57:20.760 --> 00:57:24.199 I'm cool with it if it's a conversation that we've had, 1139 00:57:24.360 --> 00:57:26.000 and I'll let you know. But if I'm dead ass 1140 00:57:26.079 --> 00:57:28.880 damn tired and I say no, you're just going to 1141 00:57:29.039 --> 00:57:32.800 suck at the fun up, I. 1142 00:57:32.760 --> 00:57:38.719 Ain't never so so wait, you did tie, But if 1143 00:57:38.760 --> 00:57:40.960 he wanted to do the wicky, would you be opposed 1144 00:57:40.960 --> 00:57:44.440 to that that you just lay that. 1145 00:57:45.320 --> 00:57:47.880 No, bro, she going she gonna do like hold a 1146 00:57:47.920 --> 00:57:50.119 hand like that, like just make it quick, not just. 1147 00:57:50.199 --> 00:57:51.760 Make it quick, make me quick. 1148 00:57:52.119 --> 00:57:55.559 I don't know. I don't know because like I'm gonna 1149 00:57:55.559 --> 00:57:56.920 be into it. I don't want you to think I 1150 00:57:56.920 --> 00:57:58.840 ain't enjoying it. I need to be. 1151 00:57:59.760 --> 00:58:02.400 I No, I will say this like, yeah, you're falling asleep, 1152 00:58:02.559 --> 00:58:06.519 like yeah, if you it's no, that's and it's no 1153 00:58:06.599 --> 00:58:08.280 emotion like you know, no, like no. 1154 00:58:08.360 --> 00:58:14.320 Emotion to the ego. You really your body you know 1155 00:58:14.719 --> 00:58:16.360 you might sleep with the body. 1156 00:58:16.119 --> 00:58:19.519 Is, but the challenge is really good to you. 1157 00:58:19.960 --> 00:58:22.719 Now the challenge is to wake you up. 1158 00:58:23.559 --> 00:58:23.960 Mm hmm. 1159 00:58:24.639 --> 00:58:27.639 Now if you already participant, you wasn't only participating, but 1160 00:58:27.760 --> 00:58:30.039 then you still kind of sleep or he's gonna like 1161 00:58:30.119 --> 00:58:32.920 he gonna he's gonna work. He's gonna try to put 1162 00:58:32.920 --> 00:58:35.280 that work in to wake you up, to make you get. 1163 00:58:35.199 --> 00:58:38.880 Into it because you like hurry up, you know, like 1164 00:58:39.079 --> 00:58:39.519 hurry up. 1165 00:58:41.039 --> 00:58:45.199 But yeah, yeah, you say, Look, you can say I'm tired, 1166 00:58:45.239 --> 00:58:48.119 you can say I'm sleeping then like I'm like four 1167 00:58:48.159 --> 00:58:48.760 strokes sitting. 1168 00:58:48.760 --> 00:58:54.639 It's like yeah, don't stop, we got you got me 1169 00:58:54.679 --> 00:58:56.440 where I need to go. We are we we are right. 1170 00:58:56.719 --> 00:58:58.960 That's like, let's go, let's go. 1171 00:59:00.760 --> 00:59:02.440 Nother than the mess up thing is just like when 1172 00:59:02.480 --> 00:59:05.079 you get to like when you you know, like by 1173 00:59:05.159 --> 00:59:07.360 the time she gets started, Joe, you are most finished. 1174 00:59:08.559 --> 00:59:12.320 And it's like he got slowed down and said, what 1175 00:59:12.400 --> 00:59:15.320 the fuck is slowed down for? Like I got sw. 1176 00:59:17.280 --> 00:59:20.079 I'm about to crash out, bro got slow. 1177 00:59:21.119 --> 00:59:22.679 I'm about to be in here crumpingly. 1178 00:59:24.960 --> 00:59:26.079 Not crumping. 1179 00:59:29.840 --> 00:59:44.719 Like mm hmm, I'm going to roll it. Then, what's next? 1180 00:59:44.760 --> 00:59:45.639 Showing the bless her. 1181 00:59:45.639 --> 00:59:52.159 Soul lower mercy? Going back to six Brown checks. 1182 00:59:52.320 --> 00:59:55.800 Ship, Okay, hold on talking about mm hmm you got 1183 00:59:55.880 --> 00:59:56.639 the water from here? 1184 00:59:57.480 --> 01:00:00.480 Mm hmmm. My mama left the head. She told me, 1185 01:00:00.920 --> 01:00:02.639 just boy, the little it's a pump that you can 1186 01:00:02.679 --> 01:00:02.960 get off. 1187 01:00:03.000 --> 01:00:06.239 Okay, about to say what the you gonna do? 1188 01:00:06.320 --> 01:00:09.079 You wanna put on the put on that table? 1189 01:00:11.079 --> 01:00:23.000 Like, oh god, okay, y'all six brown chicks. 1190 01:00:26.880 --> 01:00:31.719 I secretly married Stretch, a college basketball standout turned convicted 1191 01:00:31.800 --> 01:00:34.840 drug deal Oh Ship. I had the marriage because he 1192 01:00:34.960 --> 01:00:37.719 spent five years in prison and we met on Facebook. 1193 01:00:38.360 --> 01:00:41.320 Stretched at his time and immediately reconnected with the folks 1194 01:00:41.400 --> 01:00:43.760 and habits that got him locked up in the first 1195 01:00:44.000 --> 01:00:46.719 the first time. Of course, I'm trying to get him 1196 01:00:46.760 --> 01:00:49.400 to change. I took him to my family reunion and 1197 01:00:49.440 --> 01:00:53.480 one of my uncles recognized my husband from his prison days. Stretch, 1198 01:00:54.039 --> 01:00:56.400 why are you here with my knees? My husband did 1199 01:00:56.440 --> 01:00:59.519 about face and sprint it to my car. I followed. 1200 01:01:00.039 --> 01:01:01.760 He told me that my uncle hated him in prison 1201 01:01:01.840 --> 01:01:05.679 and he left because he didn't want beef. Uncle and 1202 01:01:05.800 --> 01:01:08.119 his brother told me that Stretch didn't get his nickname 1203 01:01:08.159 --> 01:01:11.760 because of his height and basketball ability. We used to 1204 01:01:11.800 --> 01:01:13.880 say he has stretch smokes on his neck because he 1205 01:01:14.039 -->

01:01:18.639 used to deep throat the goons for commissary. Stretch says, 1206 01:01:18.840 --> 01:01:21.480 that's a lie and what happened in prison doesn't reflect 1207 01:01:21.519 --> 01:01:22.000 who I am. 1208 01:01:22.119 --> 01:01:22.280 Now. 1209 01:01:23.199 --> 01:01:26.599 Uncle has exposed him to everyone in my family. We're married. 1210 01:01:26.800 --> 01:01:29.760 I can't walk away without exposing our secret wedding and 1211 01:01:29.920 --> 01:01:34.239 that could hurt my family too. Advice, Baby, not, you 1212 01:01:34.400 --> 01:01:44.079 got a throat baby as a husband. Bitch, Hey, it's 1213 01:01:44.320 --> 01:01:48.039 for the absolutely not. You're not. I don't with red face. 1214 01:01:49.039 --> 01:01:50.599 No, that's not a blue face. 1215 01:01:50.679 --> 01:01:54.000 That's not a red face on No, that's I thought 1216 01:01:54.039 --> 01:01:58.440 that was baby, it is. I don't keep up with 1217 01:01:58.519 --> 01:01:59.800 these youngins. I thought that was A. 1218 01:02:00.159 --> 01:02:01.440 That's not his song. 1219 01:02:01.559 --> 01:02:03.480 Is Dotianna you write my bag? I knew it was 1220 01:02:03.519 --> 01:02:07.920 something rest cash. Okay, I take that back, I'll use it. 1221 01:02:08.039 --> 01:02:09.639 I thought it was him and I don't do nothing 1222 01:02:09.719 --> 01:02:10.719 associated with that. 1223 01:02:12.000 --> 01:02:13.320 Q and A Hot and ready. 1224 01:02:15.639 --> 01:02:21.280 I like Little Caesars, Q and A like Little Caesars, 1225 01:02:29.519 --> 01:02:29.719 Y know. 1226 01:02:38.239 --> 01:02:38.639 What you do? 1227 01:02:39.800 --> 01:02:40.159 Okay? 1228 01:02:40.440 --> 01:02:44.079 So like Little Caesars. Do you know what the thing that. 1229 01:02:46.079 --> 01:02:48.039 The ship that popped off of my head when he 1230 01:02:48.119 --> 01:02:50.760 said when he said like ye don't reflect his life. 1231 01:02:51.480 --> 01:02:51.840 He did it. 1232 01:02:51.880 --> 01:02:55.599 Whatever they said in the words of Curtis check what 1233 01:02:56.360 --> 01:02:57.239 they said he did. 1234 01:02:57.760 --> 01:02:58.639 He did that ship. 1235 01:02:59.360 --> 01:03:02.039 Hell when my man said, my man said, Yo man, 1236 01:03:02.239 --> 01:03:04.760 y'all be sucking people, y'all be suck y'all be niggas 1237 01:03:04.760 --> 01:03:06.280 in jail, he's like nigga, that was jail. 1238 01:03:06.639 --> 01:03:14.119 Like you, I don't want to talk about stuff like that. 1239 01:03:14.559 --> 01:03:16.400 So you got grapefruit in and. 1240 01:03:19.119 --> 01:03:22.440 Centrius burn. Now that's as centric as that burn. 1241 01:03:22.920 --> 01:03:30.800 Listenniga, Cris don't burn, not just nigga. Been getting grape fruity, 1242 01:03:37.320 --> 01:03:41.800 not need no fruit, nothing around a hole in it. 1243 01:03:41.880 --> 01:03:47.000 I'm not eating time nothing, no don't nutch. No, sister, nigga, 1244 01:03:47.039 --> 01:03:49.239 you got you're listening, I'm not you. 1245 01:03:50.519 --> 01:03:56.119 No, I didn't get like apple, no no, no, no no, 1246 01:03:56.559 --> 01:03:58.960 it's just it's not it's just spelled like yo, like 1247 01:03:59.320 --> 01:04:03.000 like Juicus bill bro like it just don't burn down 1248 01:04:03.079 --> 01:04:03.960 there like. 1249 01:04:04.079 --> 01:04:07.719 They went up the whole. No, no, that's how that's 1250 01:04:07.880 --> 01:04:08.760 that's what makes it burn. 1251 01:04:10.400 --> 01:04:10.440 No. 1252 01:04:10.920 --> 01:04:14.199 Usually you know you spray now, you spray the bars 1253 01:04:14.239 --> 01:04:14.400 with that. 1254 01:04:14.639 --> 01:04:16.519 You know, you sprey the balls with little but the 1255 01:04:16.559 --> 01:04:18.000 little like you know, you hit your clown and like 1256 01:04:18.079 --> 01:04:20.400 that ship hit the balls like nigga, what not your 1257 01:04:20.440 --> 01:04:21.000 bowls the. 1258 01:04:21.079 --> 01:04:25.440 P hole, It goes into p hole, which makes it burn. 1259 01:04:25.800 --> 01:04:27.000 See girls trip my guy. 1260 01:04:27.239 --> 01:04:28.280 That's what we were talking about. 1261 01:04:28.599 --> 01:04:29.880 No, no, no, no, no. 1262 01:04:36.000 --> 01:04:39.039 No. But she wanted she wanted to try though, but 1263 01:04:39.639 --> 01:04:44.400 I was like, I was like, the business, right, I 1264 01:04:44.440 --> 01:04:49.119 don't think you're marriedal sex life, that's discussion. 1265 01:04:49.119 --> 01:04:51.119 She married, she got a hood, but she do you wondered? 1266 01:04:51.880 --> 01:04:53.760 Now? I shop y'all on, but I don't need to 1267 01:04:54.039 --> 01:04:54.920 sort the details. 1268 01:04:55.039 --> 01:04:56.840 I just don't need to give me a husband. 1269 01:04:57.800 --> 01:05:05.400 I'm I'm gonna be fucking I say this though, like 1270 01:05:05.880 --> 01:05:09.440 drained and be drained didn't get up and or to 1271 01:05:09.599 --> 01:05:13.760 be drained, just to hold him over while I'm cooking 1272 01:05:15.840 --> 01:05:18.039 those anti drug questions with the friends, smoked weed and 1273 01:05:18.079 --> 01:05:19.719 she was a puddle on the couch just looking around 1274 01:05:19.800 --> 01:05:25.199 like she was like she can't talk right now because 1275 01:05:25.239 --> 01:05:25.920 she smoked weed. 1276 01:05:26.800 --> 01:05:29.760 And it just left us me and Bag. And I 1277 01:05:29.960 --> 01:05:32.440 feel like because I was telling the couch like, this 1278 01:05:32.639 --> 01:05:34.599 is nice, me and me and Bag. 1279 01:05:34.760 --> 01:05:36.960 That's that's how locked. And I'm trying to be smoke. 1280 01:05:37.760 --> 01:05:41.800 That's how that's how locked. And I'm trying to puddles 1281 01:05:41.880 --> 01:05:45.480 on the couch. Don't worry. Once we you know, once 1282 01:05:45.559 --> 01:05:49.079 we get syndicated, you'll be able to you better indulge again. 1283 01:05:50.239 --> 01:05:51.920 Want you can quit your job because we took off. 1284 01:05:52.159 -->

01:06:02.559 Man, it's been like welcome to gym rock. What was it? 1285 01:06:06.440 --> 01:06:06.480 No? 1286 01:06:06.760 --> 01:06:07.360 But move? 1287 01:06:08.039 --> 01:06:08.840 What's the next question? 1288 01:06:09.320 --> 01:06:12.599 Move? I just say, I mean, I just said, like, yeah, 1289 01:06:12.639 --> 01:06:15.440 when you when you get married, you gotta be able 1290 01:06:15.480 --> 01:06:16.519 to you. 1291 01:06:16.559 --> 01:06:19.320 Know, motherfucker get on my nerves. But goddamn it, we're 1292 01:06:19.360 --> 01:06:25.440 gonna try some ship. I'm still don't know how I 1293 01:06:25.480 --> 01:06:30.880 felt about sucking public sex, but stuff in private. I'm 1294 01:06:30.920 --> 01:06:33.000 not trying to catch a charge now. Maybe on a 1295 01:06:33.039 --> 01:06:33.800 balcony like I do. 1296 01:06:33.920 --> 01:06:35.679 Want to do some balcony vacation. 1297 01:06:35.920 --> 01:06:39.280 I want to try that's on, that's on, that's on 1298 01:06:39.360 --> 01:06:40.079 the fun it. Listen. 1299 01:06:40.719 --> 01:06:42.599 I want to try that because I had a balcony 1300 01:06:42.840 --> 01:06:44.880 when I was on my cruise and youmb person that 1301 01:06:44.920 --> 01:06:45.480 was in damn room. 1302 01:06:45.519 --> 01:06:47.920 He was my kid that be kind of go to 1303 01:06:48.000 --> 01:06:48.400 the go to. 1304 01:06:48.440 --> 01:06:55.719 The maybe and we was out on that water, especially 1305 01:06:55.760 --> 01:06:58.079 when it was dunk. I told you, I told you 1306 01:06:58.119 --> 01:07:00.119 you look straight out there. It's just pitch black, bro. 1307 01:07:01.480 --> 01:07:03.119 He might he might see another cruise. 1308 01:07:02.920 --> 01:07:08.800 Ship like way down yonder. I could imagine going out 1309 01:07:08.840 --> 01:07:10.800 to that balcony that night to get some in all your. 1310 01:07:15.159 --> 01:07:17.199 I ain't gonna hold your ship there and listen, I 1311 01:07:17.559 --> 01:07:18.519 ain't even hold. 1312 01:07:18.400 --> 01:07:28.679 Him sucking shut up, thank you any one time for me? 1313 01:07:29.760 --> 01:07:37.199 Mm hmmm? Who what time? Let's start? 1314 01:07:40.320 --> 01:07:43.920 Charlie Brown, hands on your knees, hands on her knees. 1315 01:07:46.199 --> 01:07:48.559 I can't look, can you go? I can't can you 1316 01:07:48.639 --> 01:07:53.760 go down on loop rest the beast? No, that's not 1317 01:07:53.880 --> 01:08:01.280 even thinking about Yeahsta d J. I had two different songs, 1318 01:08:01.320 --> 01:08:02.920 but I had to tame the time. I had that 1319 01:08:03.199 --> 01:08:05.719 and a Cupid shuffle in my head at. 1320 01:08:05.679 --> 01:08:08.159 The same damn time, not to Cupid shuffle, sir. 1321 01:08:08.400 --> 01:08:11.199 Lord listen, I did a lot of damn line dances 1322 01:08:11.239 --> 01:08:13.719 on that damn cruise. They was doing line dances every day, 1323 01:08:13.719 --> 01:08:17.920 and with all right, staying on six brown chicks, were 1324 01:08:17.920 --> 01:08:22.079 gonna continue with the fuckery. Sonny, my neighbor, always talks 1325 01:08:22.159 --> 01:08:24.760 bad about my kids to others. They are three and six, 1326 01:08:25.119 --> 01:08:27.840 She says, My kids are always thirty. My kids play 1327 01:08:27.920 --> 01:08:32.000 outside hard, and they always beg other neighbors for food. 1328 01:08:32.319 --> 01:08:35.199 My kids are welfare, but they are greedy. Sonny and 1329 01:08:35.279 --> 01:08:36.920 her husband have the biggest house on the block, so 1330 01:08:37.000 --> 01:08:39.039 she has influence in this turn of the neighbors against 1331 01:08:39.119 --> 01:08:41.920 me and my kids. So I fucked her husband all 1332 01:08:41.960 --> 01:08:45.800 summer and finally I'm pregnant. He's flipping out and begging 1333 01:08:45.880 --> 01:08:48.279 me to abort. I slept with him out of spite. 1334 01:08:48.319 --> 01:08:50.359 But now I like him and I'm keeping our baby. 1335 01:08:50.880 --> 01:08:53.560 How do I make him and Sonny accept my new 1336 01:08:53.600 --> 01:08:56.960 addition to their lives. It's important for me that our 1337 01:08:57.079 --> 01:09:03.000 dirty children grow up together, ma'am. First of all, Miss Milmins, 1338 01:09:03.239 --> 01:09:04.880 you gonna be an episode of fatal attraction. 1339 01:09:07.039 --> 01:09:09.399 First of all, he gonna be like he'll be like, hey, 1340 01:09:09.520 --> 01:09:10.600 let me talk to you on let me talk to 1341 01:09:10.640 --> 01:09:14.319 you on the stairs, like. 1342 01:09:17.399 --> 01:09:20.199 But nah, but for real, she was a single mother 1343 01:09:21.800 --> 01:09:23.760 trying to navigate the whole way through life. 1344 01:09:26.359 --> 01:09:27.960 Until it's so weird. 1345 01:09:28.760 --> 01:09:33.720 Here's a story. But this whole ish lady not even sonny. 1346 01:09:33.800 --> 01:09:37.000 Sonny is the neighbor. But if I was just starting 1347 01:09:37.119 --> 01:09:41.079 the neighbor him, I beat you and my husband ask 1348 01:09:42.279 --> 01:09:44.079 and he can come over and look with you in 1349 01:09:44.119 --> 01:09:49.279 the dirty children. Yep, they ain't gonna play in my face. 1350 01:09:49.760 --> 01:09:54.520 Mm hmm, absolutely not, absolutely the fucking up mum. And 1351 01:09:54.640 --> 01:09:56.199 then he wants you to aboard, but he wasn't thinking 1352 01:09:56.199 --> 01:09:57.600 about you aboard me. He was running up and you 1353 01:09:57.720 --> 01:09:59.760 raw make that makes sense with a with a wife, 1354 01:10:00.039 --> 01:10:01.640 with the whole wife and then go home to sleeping 1355 01:10:01.640 --> 01:10:03.560 with his wife too. That's what pisses me off about you, sorry, 1356 01:10:03.680 --> 01:10:09.279 is thinking dirty, trifling, uncooth motherfucker's got a straight up 1357 01:10:09.319 --> 01:10:12.239 out head fucking around and then you're fucking around road. 1358 01:10:12.319 --> 01:10:14.720 So you're putting my risk, my life at risk because

1359 01:10:16.359 --> 01:10:18.199 you wanna be a dirty bastard. 1360 01:10:19.359 --> 01:10:21.520 Some things you just can't come back from and getting them. 1361 01:10:21.560 --> 01:10:22.680 Bitch pregnant is one of them. 1362 01:10:23.159 --> 01:10:24.199 But I'm not Rashida. 1363 01:10:25.600 --> 01:10:26.760 My name Rashia. 1364 01:10:27.600 --> 01:10:31.119 I don't wrap like shorty Love. There's no way how 1365 01:10:31.760 --> 01:10:34.439 that you're gonna be humiliating me on national TV every 1366 01:10:34.439 --> 01:10:40.840 week and all over Atlanta, Atlanta, playing in my loddamn base, 1367 01:10:42.640 --> 01:10:44.720 and I'm gonna stay with you, absolutely the fucking not. 1368 01:10:46.119 --> 01:10:48.439 I take you for everything you got, including a seventeen 1369 01:10:48.479 --> 01:10:51.319 of them ear rings in your fucking heads. Sorry, sham, 1370 01:10:53.119 --> 01:10:56.039 do not be like Rasheeda Sonny let dirt dirt and 1371 01:10:56.079 --> 01:10:58.159 her dirt dirt. Kids have him, not to have him 1372 01:10:58.960 --> 01:11:01.119 got I have them, but make sure you take every 1373 01:11:01.199 --> 01:11:03.239 damn thing he got before you a lot to have him, 1374 01:11:04.840 --> 01:11:06.760 and you keep that big house for yourself. And if 1375 01:11:06.800 --> 01:11:10.399 y'all got your own children, mm hmm and ms mama's 1376 01:11:10.760 --> 01:11:15.600 what goes around comes around. I'm a true believer in karma. 1377 01:11:16.279 --> 01:11:17.680 You won't coming to you, booky boo. 1378 01:11:18.680 --> 01:11:23.399 M m. What's next? Seen? 1379 01:11:25.800 --> 01:11:30.199 I don't know because off doll And gave her name, 1380 01:11:30.199 --> 01:11:33.079 I don't know if that's her damn name. I don't 1381 01:11:33.079 --> 01:11:35.199 know if that's her damn name. I will run my 1382 01:11:35.279 --> 01:11:41.159 ass back to Reddit right quick. Another label not Safe 1383 01:11:41.199 --> 01:11:43.680 for work, which is not that damn serious. This comes 1384 01:11:43.720 --> 01:11:46.199 from the ak creddit thread and the question is how 1385 01:11:46.319 --> 01:11:50.279 do you feel about music during sex? I'm gonna expand 1386 01:11:50.399 --> 01:11:53.880 on that. Okay, what kind of music? How do you 1387 01:11:53.920 --> 01:11:56.840 feel about music? And what kind of music do you 1388 01:11:57.119 --> 01:11:59.920 like to play? If you like music? 1389 01:12:00.239 --> 01:12:05.199 So I love music during sex. I also because I 1390 01:12:05.279 --> 01:12:08.600 have plugs for everything. I like R and B, slow 1391 01:12:08.680 --> 01:12:11.640 jams and ship. I can't listen to the future. I 1392 01:12:11.760 --> 01:12:13.680 know people who can fuck the future, and I. 1393 01:12:13.720 --> 01:12:15.319 Got to miss the nasty times and. 1394 01:12:16.039 --> 01:12:20.000 Uh fucking migos and audit. Now my place is called 1395 01:12:20.039 --> 01:12:26.239 choking stroke. It is yeah, yeah, I got one time. Yeah. 1396 01:12:26.920 --> 01:12:27.039 Now. 1397 01:12:27.279 --> 01:12:29.479 I think the probably the closest into a rap song 1398 01:12:29.600 --> 01:12:31.359 there is pull My Hair by the Ying Yang Twins 1399 01:12:31.640 --> 01:12:35.279 because it just hits, hits, hit the spot now that 1400 01:12:35.600 --> 01:12:42.119 but you get the groove going a little bitch way. 1401 01:12:42.159 --> 01:12:55.560 They can see pull my hell. Okay, So yeah, I 1402 01:12:55.800 --> 01:12:57.680 enjoy R and B and the I mean you can 1403 01:12:57.720 --> 01:13:01.039 say a little ratchet tune in there. That's switching stroke 1404 01:13:01.079 --> 01:13:03.319 every now and again. But yeah, choky strokes been doing 1405 01:13:03.359 --> 01:13:04.880 me right for years. And it's to the point where 1406 01:13:04.960 --> 01:13:06.800 people on Apple who don't even know if they found 1407 01:13:06.800 --> 01:13:08.079 the place, and they followed, I. 1408 01:13:08.119 --> 01:13:09.920 Need to write to song the slide and there I 1409 01:13:10.000 --> 01:13:11.840 recommend miss pussy by applies. 1410 01:13:13.119 --> 01:13:15.600 Yeah, you know what, now you know my favorite like 1411 01:13:15.800 --> 01:13:20.359 my top, like my tops on h four walls by 1412 01:13:20.800 --> 01:13:24.920 by pretty welly pretty welly my bad, my bad p 1413 01:13:25.119 --> 01:13:28.319 dub a k A pretty willy pretty well what they 1414 01:13:28.399 --> 01:13:30.039 called him dude like. 1415 01:13:31.359 --> 01:13:36.079 Because he said he sampled, Uh he sampled michel A. 1416 01:13:36.760 --> 01:13:38.600 Something in my heart. M hm hmm. 1417 01:13:39.279 --> 01:13:43.319 That's the rushing Well okay, so question, what are some 1418 01:13:43.439 --> 01:13:45.880 of your favorite adult happy fun time songs? 1419 01:13:46.399 --> 01:13:55.800 Four was So Anxious, Secret Garden, the justin Stimulate, Ends 1420 01:13:55.800 --> 01:13:56.119 of Time. 1421 01:13:56.399 --> 01:13:59.840 Okay, that's a good one. No, Beyonce, no offense. 1422 01:14:01.000 --> 01:14:05.039 I actually like the original version. Now I actually do 1423 01:14:05.239 --> 01:14:07.520 like the remix. It's a tie between the two for 1424 01:14:07.600 --> 01:14:09.600 me because I was already in love with the song 1425 01:14:09.680 --> 01:14:15.359 before they did the remix with Speechless. Their voices sound 1426 01:14:15.439 --> 01:14:15.880 good together. 1427 01:14:16.359 --> 01:14:21.479 Yeah, Beyonce Speechless, that's a good one. Of course, you 1428 01:14:21.560 --> 01:14:24.600 know the usual cater to you as it was, got 1429 01:14:24.600 --> 01:14:25.560 it was okay. 1430 01:14:27.319 --> 01:14:30.039 Let me expand on your list. You got to throw 1431 01:14:30.760 --> 01:14:33.520 Oh yeah, dirty thirty in there by. 1432 01:14:33.439 --> 01:14:36.600 Tank was a dirty chinagulatory. 1433 01:14:41.159 --> 01:14:47.600 When we by Tank Mirror by Neo Say It by Neo. 1434 01:14:48.880 --> 01:14:49.000 Uh. 1435

01:14:51.680 --> 01:14:53.319 Also like said by t Pain. 1436 01:14:57.479 --> 01:14:58.680 Take You Down by Chris Brown. 1437 01:14:59.039 --> 01:14:59.680 That's a good one. 1438 01:15:00.560 --> 01:15:05.680 Uh if you're going old school. Uh, Love Won't let 1439 01:15:05.760 --> 01:15:09.239 Me Wait by Luther Trying off the Lights about Teddy Pendergrad. 1440 01:15:13.159 --> 01:15:16.880 Oh god O Brothers Summer Breeze. 1441 01:15:18.840 --> 01:15:25.640 Between the Sheets. No, because well that's that's a romantic song. 1442 01:15:25.640 --> 01:15:29.079 So I do like Boys to Atlantis. Yes, that's one 1443 01:15:29.119 --> 01:15:30.319 of my favorite brother songs. 1444 01:15:30.399 --> 01:15:36.920 Actually, reasons after the Love is Gone, not as. 1445 01:15:42.760 --> 01:15:49.000 Ask yourself about right hand, ask yourself question. I had 1446 01:15:49.039 --> 01:15:51.439 to think for a second. Yeah, I love I like that. 1447 01:15:51.680 --> 01:15:52.600 I like ask yourself. 1448 01:15:52.800 --> 01:15:56.640 Actually you actually you can put you can put everything 1449 01:15:56.760 --> 01:15:58.680 after after uh. 1450 01:16:01.520 --> 01:16:05.319 The you know, after that little boom boom boom, but 1451 01:16:05.479 --> 01:16:06.239 you know, breathe. 1452 01:16:08.680 --> 01:16:10.199 I got some stuff from hold on. 1453 01:16:10.359 --> 01:16:12.279 Let me so sence y'all the name about sixty dev 1454 01:16:12.279 --> 01:16:15.439 me name a few minds. So Liquid Lava Love by 1455 01:16:15.560 --> 01:16:18.359 Kevin Michael featuring Claude or Tis from City High. 1456 01:16:19.239 --> 01:16:21.600 Yeah, I'm gonna pull it up. 1457 01:16:21.840 --> 01:16:26.199 I also have uh when We by Tank Try Effortless 1458 01:16:26.279 --> 01:16:30.760 by Division. The Consequences of Jealousy by the Robert Gleasper 1459 01:16:30.800 --> 01:16:34.039 experiment featuring Michellan and degio Cello. Belonged to You by 1460 01:16:34.079 --> 01:16:37.840 Sabrina Claudio, Dripped by Luke James, Backstroke by Taser Moses 1461 01:16:38.760 --> 01:16:41.079 and Drameda in the Milkway by Michelle and de gio 1462 01:16:41.159 --> 01:16:43.920 Cello Skin by Rihanna, Feel My Love All on the 1463 01:16:44.000 --> 01:16:47.000 Side by Marvin Gaye, how about five We Make by 1464 01:16:47.319 --> 01:16:50.560 He's the Maxwell. That's why we Like All in My 1465 01:16:50.680 --> 01:16:54.199 Head by Sir h Can Blena Barrett. 1466 01:16:54.399 --> 01:16:57.079 Stay on, Sir, That's why. That's why I love him. 1467 01:16:57.199 --> 01:16:58.520 That's why I love That's why I love you by 1468 01:16:58.600 --> 01:17:03.000 Him Audio You got Us? 1469 01:17:03.800 --> 01:17:06.560 Can I? I said? Can I? By Leaning Barrats, Focused 1470 01:17:06.600 --> 01:17:09.199 by Her What's Good by Party next Door, The Pressure 1471 01:17:09.239 --> 01:17:13.800 by Joanne i Eko play by gopol CPR by some 1472 01:17:14.079 --> 01:17:14.600 Walk I Have. 1473 01:17:15.439 --> 01:17:18.520 I love

both of them like Yeah, ab Fan Like 1474 01:17:18.640 --> 01:17:21.279 ib fan Boy Overland and Jasmine. 1475 01:17:20.960 --> 01:17:23.920 Sullivan Jamazing. 1476 01:17:24.520 --> 01:17:26.479 I thought I hated it, but love You. 1477 01:17:26.520 --> 01:17:28.199 Don is a cover vibe ready for the world that 1478 01:17:28.279 --> 01:17:30.479 she did Michelle did in the Super Slinky Slow Down 1479 01:17:31.039 --> 01:17:33.399 Soul Sister by Ba Laud, Knocking the Boost by h 1480 01:17:33.479 --> 01:17:36.960 Town of Course of course, Wicked Games by by the Weekends. 1481 01:17:39.039 --> 01:17:43.920 Wicked Games Trading Places by Lussier, Say Yes by flore 1482 01:17:44.560 --> 01:17:50.439 The Canvas by Sir, Red Melody by Sir's Cousin Tiffany Goshet, 1483 01:17:52.600 --> 01:17:55.680 Falling by Leisure, Do It Well by Division the Recipe 1484 01:17:55.720 --> 01:17:59.399 by Sir. Day Party by Destin Conrad, Oh Oh, I 1485 01:17:59.479 --> 01:18:02.359 love that song Men have met the Day Party. 1486 01:18:02.760 --> 01:18:03.039 I have. 1487 01:18:04.640 --> 01:18:06.000 To switch up the tempo. 1488 01:18:07.399 --> 01:18:08.239 By Boys Men. 1489 01:18:10.279 --> 01:18:10.960 That's a classic. 1490 01:18:12.439 --> 01:18:14.239 Don't say yes just I mean, don't say no, Just 1491 01:18:14.279 --> 01:18:17.000 say yes by Making Good Love and Read your Mind 1492 01:18:17.079 --> 01:18:20.359 by Back to Sleep the remix, the original and the Remix. 1493 01:18:22.199 --> 01:18:25.399 What Else I Got on Here? Rocket by Beyonce, Oh 1494 01:18:26.880 --> 01:18:28.640 I got bid on here? I don't think I don't 1495 01:18:28.640 --> 01:18:33.119 remember bad in bed, but okay because it annoys men sometimes? 1496 01:18:34.720 --> 01:18:37.439 Do you remember? By Genuine? All night and all day? 1497 01:18:37.479 --> 01:18:40.399 By Genuine and let's go down to us your baby? 1498 01:18:40.439 --> 01:18:42.800 I got Can you handle it? That's what it's made for. 1499 01:18:43.159 --> 01:18:46.199 Do it to me? And seduction? What else? 1500 01:18:47.159 --> 01:18:47.279 Uh? 1501 01:18:47.720 --> 01:18:49.720 Should I got? The whispers on this motherfucker in the 1502 01:18:49.840 --> 01:18:52.600 move say yes and do I turn you on? 1503 01:18:53.960 --> 01:18:54.079 Uh? 1504 01:18:56.159 --> 01:18:59.760 In the middle of Love Faces by Trey Song I 1505 01:19:00.039 --> 01:19:02.600 had Love Cause by Kim I don't, but I'm gonna 1506 01:19:02.600 --> 01:19:07.119 add that I got with you. But that's my ship. 1507 01:19:07.880 --> 01:19:11.199 I got I got by Campbe when he had a 1508 01:19:11.239 --> 01:19:15.479 business thinking about school like some own work, Yes, school 1509 01:19:15.520 --> 01:19:21.800 like after school, like some homework. Am I kidding you? 1510 01:19:23.119 --> 01:19:23.279 Oh? 1511 01:19:23.520 --> 01:19:25.960 I got Crown World by Jill Scott. I got So 1512 01:19:26.119 --> 01:19:30.079 Gone by Jill Scott. Uh would you mind? By Janet Jackson. Baby,

1513 01:19:30.119 --> 01:19:31.920 you cannot have a freak list without having some jan 1514 01:19:32.000 --> 01:19:34.479 that on them. I got Freaking You and Fiend and 1515 01:19:34.520 --> 01:19:37.119 by Joe the scene if Only for One Night by Luther. 1516 01:19:37.680 --> 01:19:42.439 Let's Ride by Montelu Jordan, that's my ship getting late 1517 01:19:42.560 --> 01:19:46.720 and say yes by flow A. Try giving him something 1518 01:19:46.760 --> 01:19:47.319 he can feel. 1519 01:19:48.479 --> 01:19:48.600 Uh. 1520 01:19:48.840 --> 01:19:51.079 In Vogue version, I don't have to read the version 1521 01:19:51.159 --> 01:19:52.760 on here, but I might have to download that. 1522 01:19:52.880 --> 01:19:55.199 I feel like would kind of throw you off all 1523 01:19:55.279 --> 01:19:59.800 that screaming. I love reading Queen Ring, but but invo version. 1524 01:20:00.159 --> 01:20:02.159 I've studied this, I think of stuff I just add 1525 01:20:02.520 --> 01:20:05.560 it is the wholest version is very sexual sensual. I 1526 01:20:05.640 --> 01:20:07.319 might just keep adding stuff as I think of it, 1527 01:20:07.399 --> 01:20:09.159 Like if something popping on on my randoms, I'm like, 1528 01:20:10.600 --> 01:20:13.399 even though you know again some of it. 1529 01:20:13.520 --> 01:20:15.079 So don't forget, you know, if you just want to 1530 01:20:15.079 --> 01:20:19.079 switch that tempover Booty Collins, I'd right to be with you. 1531 01:20:19.359 --> 01:20:21.960 I need to that. I love me some booty carry 1532 01:20:22.000 --> 01:20:26.560 Holston's energy mm hmm. And then that's a good Oh 1533 01:20:27.760 --> 01:20:32.359 carry Holsten slow dance. That's that's that's a good one. 1534 01:20:33.119 --> 01:20:34.760 That's what a god don't want to be on that stage. 1535 01:20:34.760 --> 01:20:38.520 When she performed that one, I was like, dance is 1536 01:20:38.520 --> 01:20:42.640 a good one. Mm hm, it's a good one. Yeah. 1537 01:20:42.800 --> 01:20:47.640 But listen, yeah, y'all, y'all, y'all young kids. I don't 1538 01:20:47.640 --> 01:20:49.920 know what y'all do. Y'all, y'all, be y'all be playing. 1539 01:20:54.199 --> 01:20:55.720 That's my ship. I love that damn song. 1540 01:20:56.840 --> 01:20:59.920 Oh wait, naming hit that bad? Well, if it's small, 1541 01:21:00.159 --> 01:21:03.960 hold on away, I'm going and I might have he 1542 01:21:04.079 --> 01:21:07.039 might have punched you something, but punch Somebody lied about 1543 01:21:07.079 --> 01:21:11.239 having body parts that they said they didn't have. But 1544 01:21:11.359 --> 01:21:12.520 mom ain't raised no bitch, so. 1545 01:21:15.960 --> 01:21:16.239 That bit. 1546 01:21:16.560 --> 01:21:20.319 It's been a while, but let's see what the shape. 1547 01:21:24.039 --> 01:21:29.520 I'm already send some down here. I'm adding stuff to 1548 01:21:29.560 --> 01:21:31.720 my choke and Struck playlist because I updated it in 1549 01:21:31.840 --> 01:21:34.600 about a year. One of my

favorite sexy songs the 1550 01:21:34.680 --> 01:21:35.680 Painties by Most Death. 1551 01:21:36.239 --> 01:21:36.720 Mm hmmm. 1552 01:21:37.720 --> 01:21:41.359 Have you heard that song? That's probably my favorite most 1553 01:21:41.399 --> 01:21:46.479 death song, favorite most dep song. All right, so what's next? 1554 01:21:46.479 --> 01:21:53.680 Shown the chad? I forgot what I was right, abble. 1555 01:21:55.000 --> 01:22:01.119 Mm hmm. Jesus Christ, I'm going back to sixth Brown Checks. 1556 01:22:01.159 --> 01:22:02.720 We need to park read to break this, Yes. 1557 01:22:02.560 --> 01:22:04.560 We do, because it's starting to get little sex, little 1558 01:22:04.560 --> 01:22:08.840 sexy sex, nasty, nasty. 1559 01:22:10.479 --> 01:22:13.880 I'm going back to six Brown Chicks. I cheated on 1560 01:22:13.960 --> 01:22:18.640 my husband during COVID lockdown. I apologized, I ended that relationship. 1561 01:22:18.920 --> 01:22:21.720 I've also done things suspice if our marriage, including bringing 1562 01:22:21.760 --> 01:22:23.439 a dominatrix home for his birthday. 1563 01:22:23.560 --> 01:22:24.600 WHOA Okay. 1564 01:22:24.960 --> 01:22:27.800 Our seventh anniversary is approaching, and I asked him what 1565 01:22:27.960 --> 01:22:31.439 we should do me, what do you fantasize about him? 1566 01:22:32.159 --> 01:22:36.359 Life without you? He served me divorce papers a month 1567 01:22:36.479 --> 01:22:41.079 before our anniversary. Our wedding vowels may mean may nothing, 1568 01:22:41.359 --> 01:22:44.239 but death divide us meant nothing to him. He's a 1569 01:22:44.359 --> 01:22:47.840 narcissistic monster, and he's divorcing me to embarrass me in 1570 01:22:47.920 --> 01:22:50.239 front of my friends and family. I don't know how 1571 01:22:50.279 --> 01:22:52.359 to heal our marriage. I'm willing to fight for him. 1572 01:22:52.680 --> 01:22:53.199 What to do. 1573 01:22:55.159 --> 01:22:56.560 You can do? Let him go? 1574 01:22:56.680 --> 01:22:58.760 Yeah, let him let him go. Baby. 1575 01:22:59.159 --> 01:23:01.520 One thing my mama always told me is you don't 1576 01:23:01.920 --> 01:23:04.079 work to keep nobody that don't want to be fucking kept, 1577 01:23:04.199 --> 01:23:06.399 and you don't mother wants to let your ass go. 1578 01:23:06.520 --> 01:23:08.399 And you don't let the motherfucker tell you more than 1579 01:23:08.439 --> 01:23:09.560 once they don't want you. 1580 01:23:10.479 --> 01:23:11.119 Let that man go. 1581 01:23:13.199 --> 01:23:15.600 Well, I feel like he only stayed with you because 1582 01:23:15.640 --> 01:23:20.600 he had no other options, and you bringing to dominate 1583 01:23:20.640 --> 01:23:23.840 your tone and all of the other stuff. He just 1584 01:23:24.079 --> 01:23:32.199 was riding it out and literally and now ms Mama's 1585 01:23:33.720 --> 01:23:35.600 you screwed. You worried about being in bursed in front 1586 01:23:35.600 --> 01:23:37.359 of your family and friends, with you emburrased when you 1587 01:23:37.520 --> 01:23:42.880 was out here cheating doing the panoramic some Yeah, I 1588 01:23:43.000 --> 01:23:48.119 mean like you you you was out here cheating during 1589 01:23:48.159 --> 01:23:49.800 the lockdown. You're supposed to be in the house, coudled 1590 01:23:49.840 --> 01:23:50.520 over with your husband. 1591 01:23:50.920 --> 01:23:52.479 Maybe she got tired of being coled up with that 1592 01:23:52.560 --> 01:23:53.600 niggas like nigga fuck you. 1593 01:23:54.279 --> 01:23:58.359 That's why I always say that people discovered during COVID 1594 01:23:58.439 --> 01:24:00.920 that they didn't like they spouse it. That's sure their 1595 01:24:01.119 --> 01:24:06.439 children the doll the road to be part of this ship. Yeah, 1596 01:24:06.920 --> 01:24:08.479 but now you want to work your maritonne. You don't 1597 01:24:08.479 --> 01:24:09.680 give a fuck. You want to think about working your 1598 01:24:09.680 --> 01:24:12.640 maritone when you was out here hunching. So get what 1599 01:24:12.760 --> 01:24:15.439 you got, baby, ain't no fun. When the rabbits got 1600 01:24:15.439 --> 01:24:19.760 the gun, who well, who well. 1601 01:24:21.439 --> 01:24:23.680 It is what it is, and what can you say? 1602 01:24:24.079 --> 01:24:27.640 Let that nigga go half fun? But my thing is 1603 01:24:27.720 --> 01:24:28.159 joe y'all. 1604 01:24:28.239 --> 01:24:32.079 Let them go and be and be okay with like 1605 01:24:32.239 --> 01:24:34.680 and be okay with the consequences, like you know whatever's 1606 01:24:34.720 --> 01:24:37.600 gonna happen after that, because what I heard was I 1607 01:24:37.640 --> 01:24:39.960 don't want to do it because you know he gonna 1608 01:24:40.079 --> 01:24:42.319 is gonna embarrass me and ship like that that you 1609 01:24:42.439 --> 01:24:45.119 get over that, Yeah, get over it, because if you keep, 1610 01:24:45.159 --> 01:24:47.439 if you keep letting that fear, you keep letting that 1611 01:24:47.520 --> 01:24:49.760 fear fuck with you, or like you don't keep letting 1612 01:24:49.760 --> 01:24:51.600 it fear get to you, you're not You're gonna stay 1613 01:24:51.640 --> 01:24:53.000 in some ship that you don't want to stay in, 1614 01:24:53.359 --> 01:24:54.960 that you don't want to I mean, that's not I'm sorry, 1615 01:24:55.039 --> 01:24:56.239 not that you don't want to stay in, but it's 1616 01:24:56.279 --> 01:25:00.279 not healthy for you because you just you just described. 1617 01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:02.960 Start on syndrome. Bitch. I really want to fight for him. No, no, no, 1618 01:25:03.079 --> 01:25:06.039 you don't, hey don't you just right? You just right? 1619 01:25:06.560 --> 01:25:08.960 Probably a good man, Savannah, but it's probably just a 1620 01:25:09.039 --> 01:25:13.119 fair of being alone. I get it, but I don't 1621 01:25:13.159 --> 01:25:15.479 get it that. 1622 01:25:16.239 --> 01:25:20.880 Mm hmmm, checond to last question. Okay, I'm check it 1623

01:25:20.920 --> 01:25:23.880 out with a bank. I've been the other woman in 1624 01:25:23.960 --> 01:25:27.760 every relationship I've ever had. I chose this. It's beneficial 1625 01:25:27.800 --> 01:25:31.159 to me. Honestly, I prefer receiving the excitement a cheating 1626 01:25:31.239 --> 01:25:34.880 man brings to my bed. But I'm also a woman's advocate. 1627 01:25:35.119 --> 01:25:39.279 How the work. I'm working hard to change the loss 1628 01:25:39.319 --> 01:25:42.159 so that side chicks can get financial benefits when they 1629 01:25:42.239 --> 01:25:46.560 have a baby or when their boyfriend benefactor dies. In March, 1630 01:25:46.840 --> 01:25:49.520 my boyfriend slash benefactor, and I were in a head 1631 01:25:49.720 --> 01:25:54.640 on collision with an uninsured drunk driver. I injured my back. 1632 01:25:54.760 --> 01:25:57.960 I was leaning over when the crash happened, leaning over house. 1633 01:25:58.039 --> 01:26:03.439 Since I wonder he sustained minor injuries, he never checked 1634 01:26:03.479 --> 01:26:05.600 on me. I was screaming in agony, and he literally 1635 01:26:05.680 --> 01:26:07.840 walked away from the crash site and phoned his wife 1636 01:26:07.880 --> 01:26:10.680 to tell her that he loves her and he's okay. 1637 01:26:11.039 --> 01:26:12.199 Just put it in your mind. 1638 01:26:12.319 --> 01:26:17.560 The drunk guy up now. She walked out looking like Shamal. 1639 01:26:18.840 --> 01:26:19.520 The drunk guy. 1640 01:26:25.359 --> 01:26:30.359 I was like, I can't ship. I take I take 1641 01:26:30.399 --> 01:26:31.159 this from that one. 1642 01:26:31.720 --> 01:26:32.119 I can't. 1643 01:26:32.399 --> 01:26:33.199 You should have said that. 1644 01:26:36.720 --> 01:26:41.399 Beat my ast. The drunk guy, the police and the 1645 01:26:41.479 --> 01:26:47.600 ambulance and my rehabilitation drove him away from me. I'm 1646 01:26:47.640 --> 01:26:50.439 in physical therapy and unable to date or secure funds 1647 01:26:50.479 --> 01:26:53.439 to leave. I know he loves me. I think he's 1648 01:26:53.479 --> 01:26:55.640 still in shock and I want him to step up 1649 01:26:55.680 --> 01:26:57.760 and care for me, but he won't do it. How 1650 01:26:57.840 --> 01:26:58.680 do I reach him? 1651 01:27:00.760 --> 01:27:02.720 You can't, you can't. 1652 01:27:02.800 --> 01:27:04.720 He knew he was already doing some ship he wasn't 1653 01:27:04.760 --> 01:27:07.640 supposed to be doing, and he got he got fucked up. 1654 01:27:07.880 --> 01:27:08.279 That was it. 1655 01:27:08.600 --> 01:27:10.680 He probably took that as a sign from God, like, bitch, 1656 01:27:10.680 --> 01:27:11.520 you need to stop. 1657 01:27:11.439 --> 01:27:13.359 A hit it on collision with a drunk driver. Do 1658 01:27:13.439 --> 01:27:15.000 you know how often people survived that? 1659 01:27:15.880 --> 01:27:19.319 Yeah you blessed nigga. He yeah, he done. 1660 01:27:19.680 --> 01:27:20.920 You should be lucky to be alive. 1661 01:27:21.039 -->

01:27:21.079 You. 1662 01:27:21.239 --> 01:27:22.680 If he taking it as a sign to do right 1663 01:27:22.720 --> 01:27:24.159 by his wife, you probably shoul take it as a 1664 01:27:24.199 --> 01:27:29.159 sign and to stop being a fucking fucking asparagus or 1665 01:27:29.239 --> 01:27:30.800 potato salad o cold. 1666 01:27:31.439 --> 01:27:33.039 Oh. I got it. I got it. I was like 1667 01:27:33.439 --> 01:27:39.560 what Yeah? I was like, I was like, what a 1668 01:27:39.640 --> 01:27:41.159 couple of seconds, A couple of seconds, A couple. 1669 01:27:41.039 --> 01:27:44.079 Of seconds, you almost lost your life. 1670 01:27:45.880 --> 01:27:48.880 I ain't gonna be able to do it. I'm sorry, No, 1671 01:27:49.079 --> 01:27:49.319 thank you. 1672 01:27:50.479 --> 01:27:52.239 Ms Mama's learn your lesson. 1673 01:27:52.399 --> 01:27:56.720 Yeah yeah, yeah, move on, it's over. It's over. He 1674 01:27:56.760 --> 01:27:58.159 went back, He went back home. 1675 01:27:58.319 --> 01:28:00.239 He went back home to where he really want to be. 1676 01:28:00.399 --> 01:28:03.720 Sugar, that's my as somebody in my circle. 1677 01:28:04.000 --> 01:28:06.640 You know, she don't listen to this anyway, but her boyfriend, 1678 01:28:06.680 --> 01:28:08.880 you know, he he passed and you know, once he 1679 01:28:09.000 --> 01:28:10.680 told her that he was, that he was on his 1680 01:28:10.800 --> 01:28:11.159 way out. 1681 01:28:11.479 --> 01:28:12.920 He stayed with his wife and he never. 1682 01:28:12.880 --> 01:28:16.840 Come back around, and she ain't. She found out after 1683 01:28:16.960 --> 01:28:18.960 He was like, you know, like months after he was gone. 1684 01:28:19.279 --> 01:28:25.239 But I'm dizzy, bitch. This is this is this, this 1685 01:28:25.319 --> 01:28:29.199 ship is uh, it's over between y'all, so just let 1686 01:28:29.279 --> 01:28:31.560 it go. Just let it go. He didn't already made 1687 01:28:31.800 --> 01:28:34.680 he made his He almost died. I mean, he could 1688 01:28:34.720 --> 01:28:38.760 have died with you, bitch, And he was like, that's 1689 01:28:38.840 --> 01:28:39.199 too much. 1690 01:28:39.720 --> 01:28:40.680 I'm gonna finish this on. 1691 01:28:41.000 --> 01:28:41.279 I know. 1692 01:28:41.800 --> 01:28:46.079 Miss Mama's sorry for you, bitch. Better go get a 1693 01:28:46.159 --> 01:28:47.439 job and the cost and where you can sit down 1694 01:28:47.520 --> 01:28:54.399 there Okay, final question. I'm gonna just stay where the 1695 01:28:54.439 --> 01:28:57.760 fuck I am going. Six brown chicks. We entered our 1696 01:28:57.840 --> 01:29:00.640 second year of dating, and whenever my birth they comes up, 1697 01:29:00.720 --> 01:29:03.880 he starts an argument to mess up my dad or 1698 01:29:03.960 --> 01:29:06.399 to avoid buying me a gift. I wanted to know 1699 01:29:06.479 --> 01:29:08.279 how to proceed with him, so I set him up. 1700 01:29:09.000 --> 01:29:10.840 I told him and posted that I was going out 1701 01:29:10.840 --> 01:29:14.399 of town for my birthday. An hour after I left, 1702 01:29:14.560 --> 01:29:17.439 I hid in an addict. He entered my house with 1703 01:29:17.520 --> 01:29:20.560 another woman. I heard everything. They had sex, and he 1704 01:29:20.640 --> 01:29:22.479 told her he was staying with me until he found 1705 01:29:22.520 --> 01:29:26.159 a better situation. He brought money from her and then 1706 01:29:26.239 --> 01:29:29.640 made her take it oober home. He didn't shower, and 1707 01:29:30.199 --> 01:29:33.039 then called another woman, telling her that his bitch is 1708 01:29:33.079 --> 01:29:36.000 out of town and to come through. This woman was 1709 01:29:36.520 --> 01:29:40.680 a neighbor. I was in shock. I felt hurt, stupid, angry, 1710 01:29:40.760 --> 01:29:43.720 and disgusted. I was packing his shit when he came 1711 01:29:43.800 --> 01:29:47.000 home with the female neighbor. They tried to fight me, 1712 01:29:47.199 --> 01:29:49.880 so I shot him in his arm and shoulder and 1713 01:29:50.000 --> 01:29:53.760 self defense. No charges. When he left the hospital, I 1714 01:29:53.880 --> 01:29:57.680 let him stay while he healed. He's timid now, even 1715 01:29:57.760 --> 01:29:58.560 jumpy around me. 1716 01:29:59.039 --> 01:30:00.199 It breaks my heart, the. 1717 01:30:03.000 --> 01:30:05.680 Manly version of him. But I know he's actively trying 1718 01:30:05.720 --> 01:30:07.840 to stay with my neighbor. I don't want to lose 1719 01:30:07.920 --> 01:30:09.840 him to her. How to convince him to stay with 1720 01:30:09.960 --> 01:30:12.520 me and that I won't shoot him again. I want 1721 01:30:12.640 --> 01:30:14.840 us to get past this because I believe God brought 1722 01:30:14.920 --> 01:30:18.359 us together for a reason. Advice, bitch, don't bring guarding 1723 01:30:18.399 --> 01:30:23.319 to that. Guard ain't nowhere near that, just like and. 1724 01:30:24.960 --> 01:30:25.600 Just like uh. 1725 01:30:27.399 --> 01:30:31.399 Denise said, or misspet show, gard ain't nowhere near that, 1726 01:30:31.600 --> 01:30:33.960 just like he ain't nowhere near Joe Hol's thing. Okay, 1727 01:30:35.479 --> 01:30:45.000 that's what she said. Let me say something not the 1728 01:30:45.039 --> 01:30:48.520 neighbor having bitch, I don't understand why Yucky fight for 1729 01:30:48.560 --> 01:30:52.239 motherfuckers who don't want y'all. He bought not one, but 1730 01:30:52.439 --> 01:30:54.720 two bitches in your house while you was gone, refer 1731 01:30:54.880 --> 01:30:57.840 to you as this bitch being out of town, told 1732 01:30:57.880 --> 01:31:00.079 the last bitch that he was only staying with you 1733 01:31:00.159 --> 01:31:02.119 until he get into a better situation. So they showed her. 1734 01:31:02.159 --> 01:31:04.840 He a fuck ass nigga right there, and you want 1735 01:31:04.880 --> 01:31:07.600 to fight for him, and you think Jesus brought him 1736 01:31:07.640 --> 01:31:11.159 to you, baby, He came from

the devil m kam. 1737 01:31:17.159 --> 01:31:22.800 The fuck. How many don't stand up, because I swear 1738 01:31:22.880 --> 01:31:24.199 we would have chefs to talk about with you. I 1739 01:31:24.199 --> 01:31:27.720 wouldn't keep these asked questions the primise always say yourself and. 1740 01:31:28.239 --> 01:31:30.520 Stay being the dumb ass bitch. We appreciate the entertainment 1741 01:31:30.800 --> 01:31:31.720 because the fuck. 1742 01:31:32.439 --> 01:31:33.560 Uh what. 1743 01:31:35.079 --> 01:31:36.000 It's on? Confusion? 1744 01:31:36.560 --> 01:31:37.520 You going to jail? 1745 01:31:38.800 --> 01:31:42.640 Mm hm South Defense and know it's a no she eventually, 1746 01:31:42.800 --> 01:31:44.439 or she's gonna go to jail, or that she's gonna 1747 01:31:44.439 --> 01:31:47.680 catch up because she obviously can't control her temper. But 1748 01:31:47.800 --> 01:31:50.560 then she also has abandoning issues, and then it's like, bro, 1749 01:31:51.479 --> 01:31:52.439 y'all make your mind. 1750 01:31:52.319 --> 01:31:54.800 Up, or you know, just take that L. Like to 1751 01:31:54.960 --> 01:31:57.479 take the l. You don't need them, you know. I mean, 1752 01:31:57.520 --> 01:32:00.079 I'm sorry you you don't. You don't want him. You 1753 01:32:00.239 --> 01:32:03.239 just like the idea of him, and you don't want 1754 01:32:03.319 --> 01:32:08.439 him to be with nobody else. Mm hmmm, open that open. 1755 01:32:08.279 --> 01:32:11.720 That cage, multiple bitches in your home. Your home is 1756 01:32:11.760 --> 01:32:15.960 supposed to be your sanctuary, and he has no respect 1757 01:32:16.000 --> 01:32:16.199 for you. 1758 01:32:16.640 --> 01:32:18.399 And I ain't trying to hear that dumb ship like 1759 01:32:18.640 --> 01:32:22.840 I invested. I invested so many years in them, Like 1760 01:32:23.039 --> 01:32:24.680 let that ship the fuck go, let him go. 1761 01:32:24.840 --> 01:32:26.800 He she is in a lot of ship. They don't 1762 01:32:26.840 --> 01:32:30.159 give it of no use. The motherfucker's investigators in a 1763 01:32:30.199 --> 01:32:34.880 degree they don't use. And you're ready about. 1764 01:32:34.680 --> 01:32:46.640 Him, Okay, Seana, on one today people got degrees and 1765 01:32:46.760 --> 01:32:49.399 even you shout out to chasing mellow. 1766 01:32:57.159 --> 01:32:58.239 No, miss Mama's take. 1767 01:32:58.319 --> 01:33:03.359 Cut your losses about fuck him like you shot him 1768 01:33:03.399 --> 01:33:03.880 in his arm. 1769 01:33:04.359 --> 01:33:05.000 And the shoulder. 1770 01:33:06.920 --> 01:33:09.159 You could have hit an article in that bitch, but 1771 01:33:09.800 --> 01:33:11.039 you know how. 1772 01:33:11.039 --> 01:33:13.560 You then what you can be crying over the casket. 1773 01:33:14.119 --> 01:33:15.880 Didn't want to let him come home with you while 1774 01:33:15.920 --> 01:33:19.079 he healed. Now send him to one of them bitches. Stuff. 1775 01:33:20.000 --> 01:33:21.319 At least one of them is as dumb as you 1776 01:33:21.399 --> 01:33:23.600 because he bought money from her and then sent her 1777 01:33:23.600 --> 01:33:26.359 home and over that she probably paid for. Funk out 1778 01:33:26.359 --> 01:33:31.359 of here. Earl girl, get some self esteem. Our haird 1779 01:33:31.399 --> 01:33:34.520 is on sale. G's some self esteem two for one. 1780 01:33:35.760 --> 01:33:37.840 It's at the same place that all dasty is. But 1781 01:33:37.960 --> 01:33:40.159 all Dasty is sold out right now because everybody keep 1782 01:33:40.199 --> 01:33:43.600 buying the ship, apparently because there's a lot of it 1783 01:33:43.720 --> 01:33:48.319 going around. Okay, true ship, Okay, that's all right. 1784 01:33:49.359 --> 01:33:50.159 That's the last question. 1785 01:33:50.399 --> 01:33:51.640 The last question. I am done. 1786 01:33:52.279 --> 01:33:55.479 That's the last question. That was the last one. He said, 1787 01:33:55.960 --> 01:34:00.560 she said she wanted to go out on north than me. 1788 01:34:01.000 --> 01:34:02.520 I mean, I mean I. 1789 01:34:02.720 --> 01:34:05.399 Thought it a number one in there for a little sure. 1790 01:34:05.520 --> 01:34:07.399 Since okay, y, let's make this next one the last one, 1791 01:34:07.439 --> 01:34:08.199 since you got one. 1792 01:34:08.199 --> 01:34:10.319 Queued up already, I got one queued up, and it's 1793 01:34:10.359 --> 01:34:12.439 on the right thread, not on the six brown halfless. 1794 01:34:12.560 --> 01:34:19.279 Okay, this may be slightly better. Possibly this is. 1795 01:34:19.279 --> 01:34:23.199 On the x men thread. But again, questions are universal. 1796 01:34:23.880 --> 01:34:25.960 What advice would you give to someone who found out 1797 01:34:26.000 --> 01:34:29.039 that their fiance used to make not safer work content 1798 01:34:30.079 --> 01:34:31.000 before they met them? 1799 01:34:34.159 --> 01:34:40.119 What you're sharing the link or kept all the time out? Look? 1800 01:34:40.319 --> 01:34:46.560 Say what, here's the thing right this nigga would be 1801 01:34:46.560 --> 01:34:51.560 coming down the steps right now? All right? Damn well, 1802 01:34:51.640 --> 01:34:53.199 since you come to that steption, I'm gonnay it anyway. 1803 01:34:54.479 --> 01:34:56.680 How long ago? How long ago was this? 1804 01:34:57.399 --> 01:34:58.079 That's a good question. 1805 01:34:58.359 --> 01:35:00.520 Now if this is something now, if we thirty six, 1806 01:35:00.640 --> 01:35:03.600 thirty seven years old, they were, and you did something 1807 01:35:03.600 --> 01:35:04.720 when you was eighteen, you was in. 1808 01:35:07.439 --> 01:35:08.359 Financial street. 1809 01:35:08.760 --> 01:35:10.560 No, I was gonna say the name of a company, 1810 01:35:11.439 --> 01:35:13.600 but you wouldn't want to see this, so don't don't 1811 01:35:13.640 --> 01:35:15.680 look it up. I'm telling you, really, you don't want 1812 01:35:15.680 --> 01:35:17.439 to see what I'm about to say. You was in 1813

01:35:17.520 --> 01:35:20.119 the coco doing laying and low and spreading and wide 1814 01:35:20.159 --> 01:35:20.880 on webcam. 1815 01:35:22.359 --> 01:35:30.319 Then get that, I mean took it back, take it back. 1816 01:35:30.479 --> 01:35:33.439 No, no neighbor number homos and they bumping and spit 1817 01:35:33.479 --> 01:35:36.199 inside each other. So you try to look for that 1818 01:35:39.680 --> 01:35:45.359 because you need some bread. Now, bang bus might be 1819 01:35:45.479 --> 01:35:58.199 more on your speed for you. I'm just I'm just saying, everybody, 1820 01:35:58.720 --> 01:36:03.239 your motherfucker. I'm sorry. We don't advocate foot there. 1821 01:36:04.359 --> 01:36:07.680 So my good cocoa butter. 1822 01:36:08.760 --> 01:36:19.680 Yeah, oh big assase. 1823 01:36:23.560 --> 01:36:25.000 The reality kings. 1824 01:36:27.119 --> 01:36:32.359 See later like Hunter. 1825 01:36:34.079 --> 01:36:35.159 That I never got. 1826 01:36:35.239 --> 01:36:38.399 I never got in the older older women, that's it's 1827 01:36:38.600 --> 01:36:39.279 really my thing. 1828 01:36:40.119 --> 01:36:43.520 I wanted to say, all look at my own they don't. 1829 01:36:44.359 --> 01:36:49.800 They don't bathroom upstairs, it's sairs. Oh man, I'm sorry, 1830 01:36:49.840 --> 01:36:50.399 I'm sorry. 1831 01:36:51.079 --> 01:36:52.119 I didn't to do that. 1832 01:36:53.920 --> 01:36:56.079 I really didn't. I was just talking and it just 1833 01:36:56.199 --> 01:36:56.840 really came out. 1834 01:36:57.359 --> 01:37:00.880 But like the brown wine from Brandon. 1835 01:37:01.399 --> 01:37:03.239 I had one glass of wine when we first started 1836 01:37:03.319 --> 01:37:09.079 recording son a couple hours ago, a couple seven you know, 1837 01:37:09.399 --> 01:37:14.159 whenever we started recording checked us out. I literally had 1838 01:37:14.199 --> 01:37:16.439 that ended in ginger. I had nothing sis but no 1839 01:37:16.760 --> 01:37:21.920 how long ago? Was it? What were you doing in 1840 01:37:22.000 --> 01:37:25.479 the content because you was fucking fucking cats dogs or 1841 01:37:25.479 --> 01:37:29.720 some ship didn't? No, no, no, but what how long ago? 1842 01:37:30.039 --> 01:37:30.600 What was it? 1843 01:37:31.119 --> 01:37:32.680 Is it still online so I could see it. 1844 01:37:34.640 --> 01:37:36.279 And research purposes? 1845 01:37:36.359 --> 01:37:38.039 Research purposes, you know, I want to see you know 1846 01:37:38.239 --> 01:37:39.520 what you was doing when you were younger, and if 1847 01:37:39.520 --> 01:37:41.520 you're still doing it with me, if we can incorporate 1848 01:37:41.600 --> 01:37:50.279 some stuff now, yeah, what else? And if do you 1849 01:37:50.399 --> 01:37:52.760 my partner, mean, we've already we already had the s 1850 01:37:52.840 --> 01:37:54.840 T I S T I H I V conversation, so 1851 01:37:55.920 --> 01:38:04.960 that's already been had. What else? What would you? I 1852 01:38:05.079 --> 01:38:07.520 also and hate I hate to be this person, but 1853 01:38:09.119 --> 01:38:17.159 I have to weigh me being in proximity to someone 1854 01:38:18.600 --> 01:38:21.880 unfortunately I hate. I have to say this with the 1855 01:38:22.039 --> 01:38:26.199 job I have, I have to weigh me being in 1856 01:38:26.319 --> 01:38:29.800 proximity to someone who did that at one point and 1857 01:38:29.960 --> 01:38:34.880 how that could affect me professionally, especially if you was 1858 01:38:34.960 --> 01:38:37.199 just doing it last year or you was blessing open 1859 01:38:37.279 --> 01:38:41.920 on only fans or just for friends last year. So yeah, 1860 01:38:42.399 --> 01:38:44.239 we can't have a questions. It might be okay. And 1861 01:38:44.319 --> 01:38:46.000 if it was like you know, some solo content you 1862 01:38:46.079 --> 01:38:47.840 did when you were eighteen or you thirty seven and 1863 01:38:47.960 --> 01:38:50.560 you you off making you know it was fully like 1864 01:38:50.640 --> 01:38:54.359 you had a like your face was never shown and whatever, 1865 01:38:54.479 --> 01:38:56.439 then coolest it was never linked to your name and 1866 01:38:56.840 --> 01:38:59.880 potentially fine, But there are some questions that may affect 1867 01:38:59.920 --> 01:39:01.880 me in my personal livelihood that I have to consider. 1868 01:39:02.359 --> 01:39:04.079 And it's not to say it's an automatic chop, but 1869 01:39:04.199 --> 01:39:05.920 it would be definitely be a conversation. 1870 01:39:06.479 --> 01:39:10.239 Conversation. I agree that conversation needs to be had. I 1871 01:39:10.359 --> 01:39:12.960 need to know what and who you were doing exactly 1872 01:39:13.079 --> 01:39:15.600 you were doing, who you were doing it with. Uh, 1873 01:39:15.760 --> 01:39:17.640 you ain't got name the names, but I need I 1874 01:39:17.760 --> 01:39:20.520 need to know. I need to know if animals were involved, 1875 01:39:20.520 --> 01:39:24.399 because ship, because baby, if you was, if you was 1876 01:39:25.399 --> 01:39:29.439 hunching on horses and dogs and choking chickens and ship, 1877 01:39:29.560 --> 01:39:34.359 I ain't doing it. I'm sorry. I ain't gonna judge you, 1878 01:39:34.399 --> 01:39:37.399 but I can't do it because the way my mind works, 1879 01:39:37.560 --> 01:39:38.920 it's gonna always be in the back of my mind, 1880 01:39:38.920 --> 01:39:40.760 and I don't like that, and I'm gonna be questioning 1881 01:39:40.800 --> 01:39:46.479 a lot of things. Somebody out there may be able 1882 01:39:46.560 --> 01:39:48.640 to handle you, and I wish you the best. I 1883 01:39:49.479 --> 01:39:54.039 don't know. That's just like women who dates strippers. I 1884 01:39:54.319 --> 01:39:58.960 couldn't see myself knowing it because every night women get 1885 01:39:59.000 --> 01:40:01.520 to see what I lay with every damn night, and 1886 01:40:01.560 --> 01:40:03.000 I don't want to hear that. Oh but I come 1887 01:40:03.039 --> 01:40:04.239 home and lay next to

you every night. 1888 01:40:05.359 --> 01:40:07.279 Know what if it was a difference between somebody who 1889 01:40:07.399 --> 01:40:09.640 was like a burlesque dancer where they stayed on the 1890 01:40:09.680 --> 01:40:11.680 stage and no one got no one interacted with them, 1891 01:40:11.840 --> 01:40:13.880 it was just like like like a go go dancer 1892 01:40:13.960 --> 01:40:15.279 for example, where he's in a cage. 1893 01:40:16.720 --> 01:40:18.079 Are they straight go go dancers? 1894 01:40:22.199 --> 01:40:23.760 I know it's women go go dances. I know this 1895 01:40:23.920 --> 01:40:25.560 is gate ones, but I guess it would be. 1896 01:40:26.479 --> 01:40:28.239 I don't know about any straight man. I don't know. 1897 01:40:28.920 --> 01:40:30.840 I'm not sure. But anyway, that was just a question. 1898 01:40:31.119 --> 01:40:34.840 I was just wondering. But yeah, I don't know, because 1899 01:40:34.880 --> 01:40:38.560 I being somebody who've been to some parties with strippers. 1900 01:40:38.640 --> 01:40:44.159 They they yeah, they you ain't gonna be coming home 1901 01:40:44.159 --> 01:40:46.119 with me if you had your face burdens bitch as 1902 01:40:46.239 --> 01:40:51.560 all night. I'm sorry, these strips nasty, nasty, whole face 1903 01:40:54.199 --> 01:41:00.520 his head okay mm hmm. So me for only the 1904 01:41:00.560 --> 01:41:02.680 advice I would give you is if this is something 1905 01:41:02.720 --> 01:41:06.079 you ask have the conversation. Ask the questions. Make sure 1906 01:41:06.119 --> 01:41:08.479 you ask all of the questions. Don't wait six months 1907 01:41:08.560 --> 01:41:10.079 later and be like you know why and by the way, 1908 01:41:10.880 --> 01:41:12.960 right don't know. If you say you want to accept 1909 01:41:13.000 --> 01:41:14.600 it and willing to move on in the relationship, do 1910 01:41:14.720 --> 01:41:16.239 not ever bring it up again. It does not need 1911 01:41:16.279 --> 01:41:17.000 to be discussed again. 1912 01:41:17.039 --> 01:41:19.680 You can bring it up the way of asking. You 1913 01:41:19.960 --> 01:41:23.000 can ask questions for clarification, not to come off like 1914 01:41:23.119 --> 01:41:25.399 your question in the person because you're insecure about the 1915 01:41:25.479 --> 01:41:28.680 decision you ultimately yeah, I can see that. 1916 01:41:30.840 --> 01:41:33.399 I just I don't know, you know, I just think 1917 01:41:33.520 --> 01:41:38.319 that I just think, like it really does, I mean, 1918 01:41:38.359 --> 01:41:39.720 it really does come down. 1919 01:41:39.600 --> 01:41:44.039 To what what are you? Like, what's your hard line 1920 01:41:44.680 --> 01:41:47.000 on everybody on this one? Like, yo, what is your 1921 01:41:47.039 --> 01:41:49.439 hard line? And like what like what you know? 1922 01:41:49.560 --> 01:41:52.079 Because like it goes up there with the same kind 1923 01:41:52.119 --> 01:41:55.119 of conversation with if if a person doesn't want to 1924 01:41:55.159 --> 01:41:57.600 have kids, like are you still like are you still 1925 01:41:57.640 --> 01:41:58.840 willing to be with this person? 1926 01:41:59.199 --> 01:41:59.439 Like yo? 1927 01:41:59.600 --> 01:42:01.560 Just because they then did some ship like Briandon said, look, 1928 01:42:01.600 --> 01:42:04.880 I just want to know what it was that you like, 1929 01:42:04.960 --> 01:42:07.199 what it was that you were doing, so you know, 1930 01:42:07.439 --> 01:42:10.920 like morally because I mean you know that, like because 1931 01:42:10.960 --> 01:42:13.760 you was doing some bcality type ship. It's like, all right, 1932 01:42:14.560 --> 01:42:18.079 see certain things that I'm just not into, like and 1933 01:42:18.600 --> 01:42:21.199 I think I think like you know, and Sean a 1934 01:42:21.279 --> 01:42:24.279 case of if he if he was doing you know, 1935 01:42:24.600 --> 01:42:27.920 if he was if he was he was gay pay. 1936 01:42:31.159 --> 01:42:33.760 Like people have things they are not what I'm saying. 1937 01:42:33.800 --> 01:42:36.000 It was like, what the like, what's the such a thing? 1938 01:42:37.119 --> 01:42:44.560 Sucking dick for money? Absolutely not sex. You're absolutely right. 1939 01:42:44.880 --> 01:42:50.479 You have fifteen years damn. 1940 01:42:50.359 --> 01:42:52.560 But you were still you were still eating snatches, just bro, 1941 01:42:52.720 --> 01:42:53.439 so I'm good. 1942 01:42:53.680 --> 01:43:01.600 Listen here I was if you you try, what if 1943 01:43:01.640 --> 01:43:04.000 you suck, if you suck one dick, that'll make you gay? 1944 01:43:04.479 --> 01:43:07.600 Ship sir. 1945 01:43:08.399 --> 01:43:09.840 You were like, I'll be. 1946 01:43:11.760 --> 01:43:13.199 No, thank you you mad. I could do it better 1947 01:43:13.239 --> 01:43:17.760 than you you might. That's what it is like. 1948 01:43:17.880 --> 01:43:20.960 Now you got all things you can be is my 1949 01:43:21.560 --> 01:43:23.399 is my gay b ff? And teach me some tips. 1950 01:43:23.439 --> 01:43:26.600 You already got one of them. Bitch you right, I 1951 01:43:26.680 --> 01:43:27.560 am irreplaceable. 1952 01:43:27.840 --> 01:43:30.039 You're right. I would never replace it. Good you guys, 1953 01:43:30.039 --> 01:43:30.800 I would never try. 1954 01:43:31.800 --> 01:43:38.359 Thank you and warmaning nothing but death nothing. Let's hope. 1955 01:43:38.359 --> 01:43:41.199 That's another forty fifty seven from there. 1956 01:43:41.279 --> 01:43:46.479 Yeah, because we got no a whole said seventy years. 1957 01:43:46.800 --> 01:43:50.920 Like yeah, I said thirty week. That's coming sixty. 1958 01:43:50.960 --> 01:43:54.560 From the time. Brandon gonna be in the front picking 1959 01:43:54.640 --> 01:43:56.800 us all up from the retirement. We'll come out the 1960 01:43:56.800 --> 01:44:00.319 door like what we're gonna do? God damn, that didn't 1961 01:44:00.359 --> 01:44:01.680 do my hip out again. 1962 01:44:02.800 --> 01:44:07.319

Hold on, prove my weik from ast dressing in my apartment. 1963 01:44:07.439 --> 01:44:08.560 Not that one, the good one. 1964 01:44:12.920 --> 01:44:18.760 It's just all funked up with the ponytail. Ain't this 1965 01:44:18.880 --> 01:44:20.520 how the kids wearing their head now? 1966 01:44:20.720 --> 01:44:23.359 They not this one? No, the good one to make 1967 01:44:23.439 --> 01:44:28.800 the stallion probably commercial. 1968 01:44:29.640 --> 01:44:34.960 Yeah, hot, it's me hot girl mag hmm. You know 1969 01:44:35.039 --> 01:44:36.640 I used to drop it real love when I was 1970 01:44:36.680 --> 01:44:38.960 back in my younger days, child, but now now my 1971 01:44:39.119 --> 01:44:39.520 joints is. 1972 01:44:39.560 --> 01:44:40.960 Aching, so I take that. 1973 01:44:43.000 --> 01:44:44.680 You know, I need to stay regular so I can. 1974 01:44:45.319 --> 01:44:47.760 She's the hot girl codes roke. 1975 01:44:47.720 --> 01:45:00.560 Down body, YadA, YadA, YadA YadA, And I'm writing the 1976 01:45:00.600 --> 01:45:12.319 living room like come on, man, yeah, big titties, little waist, Lord, 1977 01:45:14.479 --> 01:45:15.000 you got anything? 1978 01:45:16.520 --> 01:45:18.000 We done good? I'll be good. 1979 01:45:18.159 --> 01:45:18.800 God damn, y. 1980 01:45:20.279 --> 01:45:23.760 A graph go to that's way about the fans. Now, 1981 01:45:25.800 --> 01:45:27.640 five years in the future, we all a hundred years 1982 01:45:27.680 --> 01:45:34.000 old looking at each other like you, I'm your Niggas 1983 01:45:34.000 --> 01:45:34.920 ain't dead yet. 1984 01:45:35.960 --> 01:45:40.520 Ship ship, niggas, don't don't let me go for as 1985 01:45:40.560 --> 01:45:44.159 show because niggasnna better bike listen, and we had we 1986 01:45:44.279 --> 01:45:48.000 had a conversation, but somebody wanted to be a drama 1987 01:45:48.119 --> 01:45:49.199 queen and died. 1988 01:45:50.880 --> 01:45:52.039 Stinking bitch. 1989 01:45:53.319 --> 01:45:56.920 Gonna leave me here this ghetto ass planet, by my god, 1990 01:45:57.000 --> 01:45:57.720 damn soelf. 1991 01:45:59.279 --> 01:46:06.279 Like wa, yuh yeah your grab mom? Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, 1992 01:46:06.319 --> 01:46:09.640 grab them miss Yeah you know I grabbed them. 1993 01:46:13.880 --> 01:46:15.159 Damn it. I know what I knew you, but I 1994 01:46:15.239 --> 01:46:15.479 knew you. 1995 01:46:16.119 --> 01:46:17.560 Saking with your stupid ass. 1996 01:46:18.760 --> 01:46:19.640 Hey, j Lena, get your. 1997 01:46:19.560 --> 01:46:19.880 Father with. 1998 01:46:21.479 --> 01:46:31.960 Bring kids over. Ship that's funny. Yeah, y'all, she gonna 1999 01:46:31.960 --> 01:46:32.399 come to your. 2000 01:46:34.159 --> 01:46:36.159 He asked me to sing this song. Man, I'm ana 2001 01:46:36.159 --> 01:46:41.119 sing this little a and b selection uh. If I 2002 01:46:41.159 --> 01:46:44.439 don't do you nothing, I'm a ball. I'm talking all 2003 01:46:44.600 --> 01:46:46.680 day like clock on the wall. 2004 01:46:47.279 --> 01:46:54.520 Go get your money, no boy, thank you, Go and 2005 01:46:54.640 --> 01:47:05.239 get your funny rain from a nigga like run. 2006 01:47:07.399 --> 01:47:08.119 Do you realize? 2007 01:47:08.199 --> 01:47:08.960 Do you realize? 2008 01:47:09.039 --> 01:47:14.600 Like yo, our songs like oldie station, our songs that's 2009 01:47:15.720 --> 01:47:20.520 that's considered old. It's going to be ratchet as fuck 2010 01:47:21.399 --> 01:47:22.800 because it's a party. 2011 01:47:22.880 --> 01:47:27.800 It's a party. It's a party. They're playing the oldest 2012 01:47:28.840 --> 01:47:29.439 I used. 2013 01:47:29.239 --> 01:47:31.479 To play for times like this, the rhyme like this, 2014 01:47:31.680 --> 01:47:33.359 so I had to grid like that. 2015 01:47:33.520 --> 01:47:34.319 The shot like this. 2016 01:47:37.279 --> 01:47:44.119 Hold what I wrote that, y'all thought it was real? 2017 01:47:48.720 --> 01:47:50.560 Oh bitch, get out. 2018 01:47:52.640 --> 01:47:54.920 With that being said, we thank y'all so much for 2019 01:47:55.000 --> 01:47:58.960 listen to this this week's episode of foolishness. 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