Full Transcript for #4 Magic Money Experiment Day 3: Tend Your Garden Daily

Now, before we jump into what the heck a money date is, I want to tell you guys, I have had some really rough relationships with money, so much so that I would avoid looking at my bank account. 00:02:39.120 --> 00:02:41.439 I would avoid looking at the credit card statement. 00:02:42.479 --> 00:02:58.800 There was one point, if I haven't mentioned it beforehand on this Saturday journey, that I had a credit card because I was growing my business and trying to build websites back in the day when AI didn't exist and create funnels and learn all these new things I was never taught in school. 00:03:00.560 --> 00:03:03.360 That I had this credit card statement and it wasn't paying it off. 00:03:03.439 --> 00:03:06.560 And I'm typically pretty paint credit off my credit cards. 00:03:06.719 --> 00:03:15.199 And my husband found out via trying to raise my dance on a house, and I'd say, Yeah, don't do that, okay. 00:03:15.599 --> 00:03:19.199 This is why we have to change our relationship with money because it affects everybody. 00:03:21.520 --> 00:03:22.479 Alright. 00:03:24.319 --> 00:03:25.919 Um, okay. 00:03:26.319 --> 00:03:28.879 So what the heck is a muddy paint? 00:03:29.120 --> 00:03:39.360 A muddy date is where you make looking at your bank account, looking at the number on the screen, control, no matter what the number on the screen it is. 00:03:39.759 --> 00:03:44.400 So whatever that looks like for you, maybe you're gonna go sit out on your front porch as the sun goes up. 00:03:44.639 --> 00:03:48.560 Maybe you're gonna look at the Africans go to sleep and your pile of hot chocolate. 00:03:48.719 --> 00:03:52.319 It's uh my favorite place, my house, anyways. 00:03:52.560 --> 00:04:02.719 Or um, maybe we're gonna do this when you have a clean head and you can just celebrate that you've made it one step up. 00:04:03.039 --> 00:04:06.960 You've made it for today, and you're going to trap toward the future. 00:04:08.319 --> 00:04:09.919 Whatever that looks like to you. 00:04:11.439 --> 00:04:14.719 Yes, you have to look at your thing to count on purpose. 00:04:15.280 --> 00:04:18.800 Because what you avoid, we can't grow. 00:04:19.519 --> 00:04:22.720 You want to plant a garden and never look at it again, right? 00:04:22.879 --> 00:04:28.079 You walk out of there, see what's blooming, see what gets watered all weed or two, and return again and evolve again. 00:04:28.160 --> 00:04:29.439 That's what a money deals. 00:04:30.000 --> 00:04:33.839 But there's no judgment, no shame, just simply awareness. 00:04:34.160 --> 00:04:41.360 You look at what came in, celebrate it, what went out, celebrate it, be of gratitude. 00:04:41.839 --> 00:04:44.399 And you simply say thinking for all of it. 00:04:45.120 --> 00:04:50.720 The more you look at the money with love instead of the clear, the less scary it gets. 00:04:50.879 --> 00:04:53.839 And over time you'll actually start looking forward to it. 00:04:54.319 --> 00:04:59.279 Okay, that said, my money habits now are I still don't look at my bank. 00:04:59.439 --> 00:05:00.720 I do it one time a month. 00:05:00.879 --> 00:05:16.399 So this is our area that I've still been doing through what having more gratitude and have calmness of what the bank account is like, especially after I'm having to shop my business on the last two years and going through the repercussions of that. 00:05:16.959 --> 00:05:21.759 Um so this is an onbelling journey, and that's okay. 00:05:22.160 --> 00:05:23.279 Hack number two. 00:05:23.680 --> 00:05:25.839 This one is stupid easy. 00:05:26.079 --> 00:05:28.959 Clean out your wallet or your purse. 00:05:29.360 --> 00:05:30.399 That's it. 00:05:30.639 --> 00:05:32.319 Go grab it right now if you can. 00:05:32.399 --> 00:05:32.879 What's in there? 00:05:33.040 --> 00:05:37.680 Old receipts, crackled bills, expired coupons, I'm gun wrapper from 2023. 00:05:38.480 --> 00:05:40.959 I'm getting on an airplane later today. 00:05:41.439 --> 00:05:50.240 And uh that's one of my favorite things to do because when you get on an airplane, you have to go through the first and down with your backpack to be starting to security. 00:05:50.480 --> 00:05:55.759 So I will be naturally cleaning out my wallet, my purse, and my travel backpack. 00:05:56.800 --> 00:06:00.720 This is why money is like an honored guest. 00:06:00.959 --> 00:06:05.600 If you are inviting someone special to your home, you want to make them sit on a pile of water. 00:06:06.000 --> 00:06:07.600 You clear a space for them. 00:06:07.839 --> 00:06:10.240 So clear a space for your money. 00:06:10.480 --> 00:06:15.439 Toss the old receipts, smooth out your bills, and face them in all the same direction. 00:06:15.600 --> 00:06:18.319 Make your wallet a place money wants to. 00:06:19.279 --> 00:06:24.720 It sounds small, but how you treat money in the little things shows you how you treat it. 00:06:27.120 --> 00:06:34.959 Right now, I have a um, it's like neatly wound up in a circle with a hair titled around it. 00:06:35.279 --> 00:06:42.480 My little boy, my nine-year-old, Houston, is he's been saving up as an income all year long. 00:06:43.680 --> 00:06:50.000 And finally, Black Friday hit, and I told him when Black Friday sales come, I can get you a 2D printer. 00:06:50.319 --> 00:06:54.639 So he's been saving, saving, saving, as a camp time divide between printers. 00:06:54.720 --> 00:07:04.240 So he's gonna do this like$350 in cash, and the husband owed him another$200 because it doesn't remain the last two months. 00:07:04.480 --> 00:07:10.959 And we try to do$40 a week like shores, and he's helping out around the house. 00:07:11.199 --> 00:07:21.120 Um, because in my arms, you have if you're gonna teach kids how to handle money, you have to give them enough money to handle it. 00:07:21.920 --> 00:07:25.759 And my dollar nowadays isn't enough to handle it. 00:07:26.000 --> 00:07:33.279 In fact, when he lost his tooth the other day, uh the very tooth standing quite

toni dollars on the hell. 00:07:33.600 --> 00:07:33.839 Why? 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:37.360 Because he means to have enough money inside and learn what you do with. 00:07:37.600 --> 00:07:40.879 If you don't ever have enough, you can't slide it with the three feet. 00:07:40.959 --> 00:07:44.319 It's the span sum, save some, and give some. 00:07:44.480 --> 00:07:45.920 But there are three roots. 00:07:47.759 --> 00:07:53.680 That's a whole other story, which we'll get into probably in 90 books, but not very much I do think you're just gonna throw a letter. 00:07:54.240 --> 00:08:07.759 Inside of my purse is this wall of this pretty wall of money, and I love it because when I open up my purse and I see it, it's like, oh yeah, money's right there. 00:08:08.000 --> 00:08:10.000 I'm safe, it's always there. 00:08:10.399 --> 00:08:25.439 So if you don't think money is always there, if that's one of the things you're working on, and wanting to put money inside actual green money, green dollar bills, not credit cards, like I want to see the green stuff in your purse. 00:08:25.600 --> 00:08:30.079 I don't care if it's a hundred dollars, I don't care if it's a thousand dollars, I don't care if it's ten. 00:08:30.879 --> 00:08:34.559 Just make it so that that money is there and you don't touch it. 00:08:34.799 --> 00:08:37.360 That is there to remind you money is always there. 00:08:37.679 --> 00:08:39.279 Always don't do that, code. 00:08:40.960 --> 00:08:44.399 So clean out your purse, stick some cash in there. 00:08:47.200 --> 00:08:50.799 It's a simple money shift, but it's a big one. 00:08:51.200 --> 00:08:53.679 Most of us only trap money don't account. 00:08:53.840 --> 00:08:58.399 We watch our spending, we watch who kind of dollar leaving, kind of like budgeting. 00:09:00.480 --> 00:09:03.519 And our brain learns to focus on the loss. 00:09:03.840 --> 00:09:05.120 So I wanted to flip that. 00:09:05.279 --> 00:09:06.879 Start tracking what comes at. 00:09:08.639 --> 00:09:23.360 Now I get paid through different companies, and like I'll know on a few occasions I strapped amongst my substaff or something like that for commanding, but it's also a lot of companies as an affiliative salesperson. 00:09:25.279 --> 00:09:27.039 And so I just have emails. 00:09:27.600 --> 00:09:32.320 I hit my email, they got paid today, they got paid today, they got paid today, my mom's speak. 00:09:33.120 --> 00:09:39.120 And one point I had a mentor saying that you needed to have a game of your phone. 00:09:39.360 --> 00:09:45.200 So every time I came into you, you'll deem your phone like the text us and what would be like, oh, the money taken. 00:09:46.000 --> 00:09:47.120 Like that's fun. 00:09:47.360 --> 00:09:52.080 So whatever it looks like for you, start tracking what money is coming in. 00:09:52.639 --> 00:09:54.960 Every time it comes in, write it down. 00:09:55.360 --> 00:09:58.799 Here's where the magic money piece comes into play. 00:09:58.960 --> 00:10:00.399 Because money can come from anywhere. 00:10:00.559 --> 00:10:02.240 It can come from your paycheck, of course. 00:10:02.399 --> 00:10:06.240 It can come from a refund, maybe a coupon, like you say, five dollars. 00:10:06.320 --> 00:10:07.840 Hello, it's Black Friday. 00:10:08.720 --> 00:10:20.720 This is why I'm launching this five-way experiment right now with Black Friday sales, is because that sale, whatever you just save money on, so the three the 3D printer, you save$80 on it. 00:10:20.879 --> 00:10:23.679 And then I bought 10 kilometers and they say 35%. 00:10:24.399 --> 00:10:26.159 That's all where they're coming in. 00:10:26.559 --> 00:10:29.039 We don't see it on until now. 00:10:30.080 --> 00:10:32.320 Let's not think about it like it is. 00:10:32.720 --> 00:10:34.559 Let's imagine money. 00:10:35.840 --> 00:10:37.279 Here's how this works. 00:10:37.519 --> 00:10:42.639 Your brain, you train it to whatever sorry, we're gonna turn it up again. 00:10:42.879 --> 00:10:45.840 Your brain finds whatever you train it to look for. 00:10:46.000 --> 00:10:50.559 If you're always tracking what's leaving, you'll always feel like there's not enough. 00:10:50.799 --> 00:11:00.000 When you start tracking what's coming in, including the settings, your brain starts noticing all the money that is already flowing to you and it starts moving for more. 00:11:01.200 --> 00:11:02.720 Simple, simple thing. 00:11:02.879 --> 00:11:05.679 And very easily doable. 00:11:06.399 --> 00:11:09.759 Hack number four, give a little. 00:11:10.320 --> 00:11:13.360 Might feel backwards, give a little money away. 00:11:13.679 --> 00:11:23.120 Take a little bit extra, buy the coffee for the person behind you in mind, drop a few dollars in a donation jar, send a five, send a friend a$15 gift card just to test. 00:11:24.240 --> 00:11:30.240 When you come from a place of joy, not obligation, you're telling your friend something powerful. 00:11:30.480 --> 00:11:32.639 I have enough to share. 00:11:32.799 --> 00:11:35.039 That's what giving is all about. 00:11:35.600 --> 00:11:37.759 And my husband is very proud of this. 00:11:37.840 --> 00:11:48.399 And when the way we would talk about it with each other is when we have an abundance, yes, we're going to save some, invest it, yes, we're going to spend some, and yes, we're gonna give some. 00:11:48.799 --> 00:11:55.214 And when we have like when we were buying our camping trailer, they said we said, send. 00:11:55.854 --> 00:12:00.653 So it's only in the month, you know, keeping them over 14 years. 00:12:01.039 --> 00:12:06.159 And I said, Well, we're buying this temperature, I mean I want it to be blessed or some level. 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:10.480 Yeah, and we have a held in my mouth straight. 00:12:10.639 --> 00:12:14.159 Do you want to do something for the weird or so? 00:12:14.320 --> 00:12:15.279 I don't even know, guys. 00:12:15.440 --> 00:12:20.080 They just he texted me this, he texts me the day before and says, Hey, this

person's coming over. 00:12:20.240 --> 00:12:26.960 And I was like, okay, I don't think it we didn't get done right now, but it's fine, whatever, you're a contrast contract guy. 00:12:27.360 --> 00:12:33.039 But the way I flip it is, you know, maybe that person needed that feeling. 00:12:33.440 --> 00:12:36.399 You needed to be able to get paid for their services. 00:12:36.559 --> 00:12:37.200 You know what I mean? 00:12:37.279 --> 00:12:37.519 Do it. 00:12:37.600 --> 00:12:39.679 Yeah, we can I can't. 00:12:39.840 --> 00:12:42.960 I don't even know the huge truth of the now. 00:12:43.360 --> 00:12:47.120 You never use templates. 00:12:50.159 --> 00:12:52.559 Anyways, that's how much I know about construction in the mind. 00:12:55.759 --> 00:13:01.279 So we have a our goal is to benefit this help other people. 00:13:03.600 --> 00:13:07.279 Okay, and that's really where the abundance minds that it comes in. 00:13:07.519 --> 00:13:13.519 Because a scarcity mindset is, oh, I need to keep everything for myself because I don't know how we need it. 00:13:14.799 --> 00:13:20.320 If that's the way you are, if you're trying to afford it all, the money's not going to flow to you in abundance either. 00:13:20.480 --> 00:13:25.519 Because your mind was telling you that it's scarce, then you don't know when the next money is coming in. 00:13:26.159 --> 00:13:37.279 When you give, and you give extra, like you tick it extra at your next meal at Texas Roadhouse or wherever it is, um, you're saying to your brain, there's enough. 00:13:37.360 --> 00:13:38.559 There's enough fun of this. 00:13:39.120 --> 00:13:40.879 And that's how we got a little foot. 00:13:41.679 --> 00:13:45.360 So that's probably the most important today out of all. 00:13:46.399 --> 00:13:47.679 Talk number five. 00:13:47.919 --> 00:13:51.279 Celebrate and break the weed out loud. 00:13:51.679 --> 00:13:52.799 This is when it gets fun. 00:13:52.879 --> 00:13:55.360 It's you know, get a refund, celebrate it. 00:13:55.519 --> 00:13:59.200 Do a happy dance in the kitchen, pay off a credit card, celebrate it. 00:13:59.440 --> 00:14:01.279 Made your first sale, celebrate it. 00:14:01.440 --> 00:14:02.879 Gotta raise it, celebrate it. 00:14:03.120 --> 00:14:06.960 Found$20 in your jeans, find the dime out of the street, celebrate it. 00:14:08.000 --> 00:14:12.399 The other day we found a dime out as we were doing our mile walk or in our neighborhood. 00:14:12.480 --> 00:14:14.240 And I said, Hallelujah, look, money. 00:14:14.399 --> 00:14:15.759 We love money. 00:14:16.879 --> 00:14:19.120 Celebrating, tell us money we want more. 00:14:19.279 --> 00:14:20.559 It's a great place. 00:14:20.799 --> 00:14:21.600 Come to us. 00:14:21.759 --> 00:14:22.399 We love you. 00:14:22.559 --> 00:14:25.519 You're gonna be safe here, you're gonna be happy here. 00:14:27.039 --> 00:14:32.399 Tell your spouse, text your best friend, share it with the sisterhood, like just celebrate. 00:14:33.200 --> 00:14:37.840 We're so quick to dwell on money problems and so slow to celebrate money wins. 00:14:38.080 --> 00:14:43.440 Here in the sisterhood, we're gonna change that because what we celebrate, we create more of. 00:14:43.759 --> 00:14:46.720 The last but not least, cap number six. 00:14:47.039 --> 00:14:48.559 Carry caps that you don't spend. 00:14:48.639 --> 00:14:52.879 We kind of already draw this for the whole put cash in the purse. 00:14:53.600 --> 00:14:57.840 Carry some cash that you'll never spend in the 20 bucks,$50,$100,$1,000. 00:14:58.159 --> 00:15:02.000 I don't care what it is, tuck it into your special spot, your wallet, and then you get that. 00:15:02.480 --> 00:15:06.799 Because then every time you open up your wallet and you'll see it, you'll feel the money. 00:15:06.960 --> 00:15:08.639 Yeah, I am safe. 00:15:08.879 --> 00:15:11.200 There's enough, there's more than enough. 00:15:11.360 --> 00:15:14.639 It's a tiny daily reminder that money's already with you. 00:15:14.960 --> 00:15:15.840 So there you have it. 00:15:16.000 --> 00:15:27.600 Six has a weekly money date, seeding out your wallet, track what's coming in, give a little extra, celebrate every win, carrying cash, you don't spend. 00:15:27.919 --> 00:15:29.440 You don't have to do them all today. 00:15:29.519 --> 00:15:34.480 Just remember we're attending a garden, not bulldozing a food. 00:15:35.840 --> 00:15:38.559 Last but not least, today's experiment. 00:15:40.000 --> 00:15:41.679 There are three steps. 00:15:42.159 --> 00:15:45.840 Step number one, I want you to pick two of those caps and do them today. 00:15:46.000 --> 00:15:49.840 So we just talked about six that you can implement into your life over time. 00:15:50.080 --> 00:15:52.240 Today I want you to pick exactly two. 00:15:52.480 --> 00:15:54.399 Maybe that's cleaning out your wallet. 00:15:54.559 --> 00:15:58.080 Maybe that's giving something a little bit extra on your date this weekend. 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:01.519 Maybe whatever it is, pick two. 00:16:01.919 --> 00:16:05.200 Easy wins and continue to build it for momentum. 00:16:05.600 --> 00:16:09.679 Step number three, schedule your first money date. 00:16:12.799 --> 00:16:14.720 Put it on your calendar right now. 00:16:14.960 --> 00:16:16.559 15 minutes this week. 00:16:16.720 --> 00:16:18.399 Maybe it just ain't stalled. 00:16:18.639 --> 00:16:20.240 Give it a fun name if you want. 00:16:22.720 --> 00:16:23.600 Ooh, I like that one. 00:16:23.759 --> 00:16:25.200 Make it something you look forward to. 00:16:25.360 --> 00:16:27.360 Maybe I'll follow an abundance hour. 00:16:27.519 --> 00:16:29.600 And let's have clean. 00:16:29.759 --> 00:16:34.639 And I always do it on like the 21st, my 22nd abundance because my current people is doing a channel. 00:16:35.120 --> 00:16:37.120 So that's how I keep track money. 00:16:38.480 --> 00:16:42.559 Step number three, start your money coming in list. 00:16:43.679 --> 00:16:45.200 It could even be on your phone.

00:16:45.440 --> 00:16:54.240 Get it in your phone, your note section in your phone, and just have a money coming in and continue to add to it day in and day out, week in and week out. 00:16:55.600 --> 00:17:00.559 Last but not least, keep reading your new beliefs out loud every morning from day one. 00:17:00.879 --> 00:17:04.160 Make sure you're viewing them every morning too, every day on and out. 00:17:04.559 --> 00:17:06.559 Keep swapping out your words. 00:17:06.799 --> 00:17:08.240 Keep saying things. 00:17:09.839 --> 00:17:11.039 That's kind of a lot. 00:17:11.279 --> 00:17:16.720 Actually, but it's so doable, especially because you're in for limitless all the time. 00:17:16.880 --> 00:17:18.640 This podcast is always gonna be here. 00:17:18.880 --> 00:17:20.319 These episodes are always gonna be here. 00:17:20.559 --> 00:17:24.960 You can always refresh it and come back and listen to all this again. 00:17:25.200 --> 00:17:31.680 So speak speak before we get into tomorrow, we're talking about worthiness and receiving. 00:17:32.480 --> 00:17:35.839 Well, only album has been honest. 00:17:37.680 --> 00:17:40.160 Or two players to measures. 00:17:44.079 --> 00:17:52.880 Again, two simple ways to have abundance and know worthiness and receiving girl. 00:17:54.559 --> 00:18:02.079 We typically have a whole time micro, especially if you have september on day four. 00:18:02.240 --> 00:18:05.519 After we got a little bit of a more to publish on day three today. 00:18:05.680 --> 00:18:09.920 And remember, keep your money is statement from day one. 00:18:10.079 --> 00:18:18.319 We're gonna create our money is statement on day five, and then you can message me on Facebook or email me your answers before November 18th. 00:18:18.559 --> 00:18:20.720 Four of you are gonna win some magic money. 00:18:20.799 --> 00:18:28.640 That'll be a$50 gift card from Amazon that will hit your inbox if you submit what your money gift statements. 00:18:30.400 --> 00:18:34.079 Last but not least, be proud of yourself. 00:18:34.319 --> 00:18:35.680 I'm proud of you. 00:18:36.079 --> 00:18:38.240 You showed up for three days in a row now. 00:18:38.400 --> 00:18:40.559 We'll see you tomorrow on day four. 00:18:40.799 --> 00:18:47.200 If you're ready to go deeper, I'd love to welcome you into the Why Not Me Sisterhood Inner Circle. 00:18:47.680 --> 00:18:54.319 To learn how to get into dinner, we're gonna host a live workshop on November 17th. 00:18:54.400 --> 00:18:56.480 There will be more of this coming in the future. 00:18:56.640 --> 00:19:05.680 So this is you're listening to this later on, just simply go to drpilevertent.com slash why not me and get registered. 00:19:06.319 --> 00:19:09.680 And then we're soon on the Manner Sharp button. 00:19:10.160 --> 00:19:12.640 You can also send me a message on Facebook. 00:19:13.359 --> 00:19:17.359 Send me the word sister law and I'll personally send me the details. 00:19:17.519 --> 00:19:24.720 And find me on my other podcast called Pep Talk, Pep Tad's Unpacked, where we talk about the tools to feel our best no matter our age. 00:19:24.960 --> 00:19:26.240 Yes, this is my setting. 00:19:26.799 --> 00:19:28.000 Yes, and I'm fantastic. 00:19:28.640 --> 00:19:33.519 Until next time, remember like a good woman, they have good money, they can do more than it. 00:19:33.680 --> 00:19:36.240 So the only question left is why not be