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Today we have a very special treat.
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It is our first man on the podcast.
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And I wanted to be very intentional about having a person who was going to be on to talk about the experience of being a man, also being a black man and being an openly queer man and writing male, male gay romance.
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This is something that we see a lot in the romance space of women writing MM romance.
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This conversation with Frederick Smith was so much fun.
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I loved being able to hear his author journey, hearing what it's like to be working in academia, and being an author as well.
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Along with all of the ways that he is promoting and sharing about his book, getting his name out there.
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There is so much juiciness in this episode.
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You are not gonna want to miss it.
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Listener discretion is advised.
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This podcast contains mature content intended for adult audiences only.
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Hello, Frederick.
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I'm so excited and honored to have my first man on the podcast.
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And not only that, someone who writes queer romance.
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So before we get into like all the questions, because I have all the questions, tell us a bit about who you are and your author journey.
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So my name is Frederick Smith.
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I use he, him pronouns.
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And first I gotta say I'm so excited and I'm happy to be here with you today and with your listeners.
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I am a listener and fan myself.
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And I've written seven male-male romance novels centering and featuring black characters, primarily set in California, whether it's Los Angeles or Oakland, California, or San Francisco.
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My most recent novel, Love as a Contact Sport, came out in June 2026 on Bold Strokes Books.
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And that's the publisher I've been with for my past five novels.
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And I can tell you about that whole journey in just a little bit.
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I currently live in San Francisco, and by day, I'm a university administrator at San Francisco State University.
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I do student life work and diversity, equity, inclusion, belonging work.
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And then by night, I do my romance novels and on weekends and on summer breaks, I do romance novels.
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I grew up in Detroit, Michigan.
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I'm a product of Detroit public schools, but I was one of those rebellious kids who was like, I'm getting out of Detroit and getting out of Michigan as soon as I can.
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And so I went to college in Missouri and then just kept moving further west as more schooling opportunities or more professional opportunities came my way.
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I'm a big advocate of social justice and equity and inclusion issues.
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I'm a huge Beyonce fan.
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I call myself the president of the Beehive out here in San Francisco.
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And I'm a big advocate of people going for their dreams and goals, whether it's educational goals, whatever they want to pursue, or whether it's like a writing goal.
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I really love mentoring and talking with newer and younger and emerging writers and helping them in their journeys as well.
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So that's a little bit about me.
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Oh, that's so cool.
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When did you start writing?
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I know you said you write on the weekends and when you can on summer break and spring break, but you said you're five, six books in.
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That's quite a bit, especially with a very demanding, right?
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Like, yes, it might not be physically demanding of a job.
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Sometimes it might be, but it's very taxing to be in service to college students and to the politics that is college stuff.
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So I can imagine by the end of the day, you're like, I would like a glass of wine and I want to just sit down and be done.
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So And that is oftentimes what I do.
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Luckily, since I've moved to San Francisco in 2019, I've met quite a few friends in the gay neighborhood of San Francisco, which is called the Castro District.
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And so I've made quite a few friends there.
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And so there are some days after work where my first instinct is, you know what, I'm going a happy hour between 5 and 7 p.m.
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They have their nice little two-for-one drinks.
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I'll have a couple, talk with some friends around the bar and then head back home and figure out dinner.
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And then there's some days where I'm like, I really have to stay focused.
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I need to put my butt in a chair, hands on the keyboards, and do something book related, whether it's writing or whether it's doing all the social media stuff or posting or thinking about posts and marketing and all that kind of thing.
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I feel like I wear two hats, both in terms of being a full-time higher ed professional.
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But then also I consider my romance writing life full-time as well, because I'm equally passionate about both parts of my life.
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I don't hide them from each other.
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So when I go to romance book festivals, I talk about the fact that I work in higher ed.
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And it's so funny that there's quite a few romance writers who are higher education professionals or teachers in K through 12, or I don't hide it from my students and my coworkers either.
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And they love the fact that I go on these book tours and book events and I write these books and they're like, wow, you have time to do all this?
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Tell me about it.
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I don't know how I have time, but my writing time generally is like in the morning.
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Like I'm such a morning person.
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Nice.
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I usually get up at four o'clock in the morning, sometimes three thirty.
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And I'm like, let me get a couple hours of writing in before I go into the office, before I go on campus, or maybe before I go to the gym.
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And that's because, like, for me, morning, I'm very productive.
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To me, it's the most quiet time of the day.
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No one's texting me from the university with any kind of emergencies or student crises.
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My family might be texting me because I'm on West Coast, they're on East Coast, and our family group chats start at seven o'clock their time, and they're getting up for work, and it's four o'clock my time, but it doesn't bother me that much.
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I still like staying in touch with my family.
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So I tend to be a morning writer, and that's when I find myself to be most productive in terms of getting words out, working on outlines and things like that.
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Oh, that's so cool.
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For your first book, so you said that you've been with this specific publisher for five books, but you have one more that you had before that.
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Two more of them too.
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Okay.
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What was that transition like going from more indie style to having something of a brand deal and a publicist deal and having a deadline, right?
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Because indie you can do whatever you want.
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And actually, to be honest, like I've always been signed to a label.
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My first time out the gate.
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So, backstory, I moved to LA right after I finished grad school.
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That was in the early to mid 2000s.
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And for fun, I took some creative writing classes at the UCLA Extension Program.
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And I had a teacher named Carrie Madden who really was drawn to the work that I was doing.
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Every week we had to write five to seven to ten pages.
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And so I would always write about these black gay men going to nightclubs in Los Angeles.
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And they were four friends looking for love and all around places.
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There was no one I was black or openly queer that I knew of in the class.
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And so they were just fascinated with these stories.
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That actually began to shape what was my very, very first novel down for whatever.
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So after this class was over, my teacher, Carrie Madden, invited me to join her writers' group.
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And I was like, really?
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And in her group, there were all these published authors.
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And she herself was a published author of Children's Lit.
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And someone who was in the writer's group, we workshop everyone's work and everything.
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She had a book.
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She wrote and writes Mysteries Set in Los Angeles, Denise Hamilton.
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One of her books was going from hardcover to softcover.
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And she was doing her launch party in New York.
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And she was on a label called Kensington.
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So she's doing her party.
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And I don't know how she started talking about me during her event in New York City.
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Apparently, during this event, her editor, John Sconamilio, who was a senior editor at Kensington, went up to her, asked for my information, emailed me on like the Monday after her event, and I sent him my stuff as he requested.
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And two, three weeks later, he was like, We'd like to offer you a two-book deal.
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Wow.
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Just like that.
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And that was after a bunch of rejections from both agents and publishers.
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And so I do say I'm pretty blessed and lucky, but I also did work hard.
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But yeah, right out the gate, I was on Kensington for two books.
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After the second book, so my first book was down for whatever.
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That's the four black gay best friends looking for love and all around places in LA.
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And then I wrote a second book called Right Side of the Wrong Bed.
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After that, sales weren't what they wanted.
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It happens.
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And I had to go shopping for a new publisher and agent, as they say.
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And so that's how I ended
up finding Bold Strokes Books, which I'm on now.
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And Bold Strokes Books, for people who don't know, they're actually one of the largest publishers of Queer Lit in the United States.
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They're a good size publishers based in New York.
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And all their catalog is queer lit, whether it's sapphic romance, queer romance, they actually do more women and sapphic romance than men.
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As long as they keep publishing me, I'm gonna stick with them.
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They're very supportive, very nice.
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And they have a great catalog of all types of queer lit.
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So yeah, that's a little bit about my writer's journey story and the road to publication and everything.
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And here I am almost 20 years later, still writing.
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And number seven came out this summer, and I'm really happy about where I am right now and really happy with how Love's a Contact Sport has been received and how it's doing so far.
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That's so awesome.
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Oh my goodness.
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Okay, I have all the questions.
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What inspired you to write romance?
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Were you sneaking your mom's romance or like some street lit?
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Or were you just like, I love love, right?
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It could be any of those.
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It's so funny.
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Earlier this summer, I went to the Black Romance Book Fest and I was on a panel, and I tell the story about how I feel like every kid snuck in their mom's drawer, that drawer we know we shouldn't be going in, that's by the nightstand, by the bed.
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And that's where she kept a lot of her romance novels and books that I wasn't supposed to be reading.
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And that's where I discovered the world of Daniel Steele and Jackie Collins and this book called Scruples, I remember, and all the Hollywood Wives and everything.
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And so I would sneak and read them and fold back and bookmark the pages that had all the dirty parts.
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Because, you know, when you're a precocious kid, you want to know what adults are doing.
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And so that's how I first started sneaking and reading.
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But as I got older and had more agency and choice, I would read not necessarily romance, but like people like E.
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Lynn Harris, who I consider to be the godfather of MM romance.
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He was writing about black gay men in the South back in the 90s and 2000s.
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I would read people like Terry McMillan, who wrote Waiting to a Tale and How Stella Got Her Groove Back, or this writer named Eric Jerome Dickey, who at the time when he was alive, he was based in kind of LA and Oakland.
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And he wrote these really great kind of romance sister girl novels and everything.
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And those were the people that really inspired me.
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So that season from childhood up until like high school and adulthood, those were the kind of people I was reading and who inspired me to think about possibly a career as a writer, especially Elon Harris.
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I pay homage to Ellen Harris, and anytime I get a chance, he's no longer with us.
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He passed away in 2009.
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But when he was alive, he wrote over 10, maybe 12 novels.
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Most of them became New York Times bestsellers, writing about queer black men in the South and their relationships, whether they were open about their sexuality or whether they were closeted, or at the time they used that term down low.
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I don't use it now anymore.
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And so that's what he wrote about.
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And it paved the way and opened the door for many of us who are doing MM romance today.
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Unfortunately, a lot of people don't necessarily read Elon Harris, but a lot of the people I grew up with know Elon Harris.
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And I wish more people who were in the MM romance genre, whether they're readers or writers, would read his stuff because his stuff is just absolutely amazing.
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And it, like I said, it opened up the doors for all of us to the plethora of MM romance we have now.
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I tip my hat to Elon Harris all the time, every time I can.
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That's so cool.
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I actually had someone, I was like, I'm having the first man on the podcast.
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Any questions?
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And that was someone's question was Did Elan Harris inspire you?
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And was he part of your journey?
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And so I love that.
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I was like, I don't know this person.
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Let me Google because I'm newer to the MM romance.
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I am a bisexual woman.
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I tend to read sapphic or just MF or whatever polyamorous.
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And I also want to be very intentional about the kinds of MM romances that I consume.
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And I think that's like a very big conversation right now, especially with a lot of women getting MM deals when there are incredible men who are writing their lived experiences and their queer stories and the stories of people who look like
them and lots of feelings, lots of thoughts.
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I'm sure you have them as well.
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But that's something that I've just I've always wanted to be really intentional about.
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And so I'm newer to discovering the men who are writing these incredible stories.
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And then later I know I'm gonna have on Adib.
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Oh, Adib Qaram.
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Yes.
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From Kansas City, yeah.
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Yes, Adib Karam.
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I'm gonna have him on the podcast talking about his books.
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And he has a new one that's coming out later this year.
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And so I wanted to make sure that giving space for the men who are writing their experiences, who are writing their stories, yeah.
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I'm so excited to finally have some men who who can share these stories and introduce my audience to them in uh reading books that are, I don't want to say ethically made, but it kind of feels absolutely.
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And I thank you so much for making space for men writing MM Romance to come on.
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So while I do think that anyone can write whatever they want and should be able to, I think that that write also comes with a sense of responsibility.
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Right.
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I know, for example, if I ever plan to write anything that doesn't relate to any of my identities or lived experiences, I'm going to do all the interviews and immerse myself ethically within communities and have people read my materials and make sure I'm doing research.
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And I'm also understanding like kind of the politics that shape that identity and those people and everything.
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That's if I were ever going to write people who are not of any identities that I am.
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And I think that's a responsibility that all writers have is of course we have the agency and the right to write whatever we want, but I think it should be done with some sense of responsibility and an ethic of care and an ethic of, you know what, I'm going to write people in realistic ways and non-stereotypical ways and in nuanced ways, the same way that I, writer, I, this is big I, would want to be written about and everything.
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And like academically and professionally, I am a proponent of what they call own voices.
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I think that's so important because, you know, throughout history, so many communities have been written about, researched about.
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People immersed themselves in their communities and taken from them and made their whole academic or writing careers based on studying the other.
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And I think that it's important for people who are considered the other or even not the other to have that sense of agency to be able to write about themselves and their own stories through their own lenses.
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I think that's important.
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And this doesn't discount anything from anyone choosing to write MM romance or sapphic romance.
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I just know for myself as a cis, queer black man, that I wouldn't delve into writing sapphic romance.
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I don't think that's my ministry, my lane.
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And I respect the women who do write it because I am going to make the assumption that they know their stories better than I ever would.
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And so that's the kind of respect I would want to give to the industry and to writing is that I want to stay on my lane and write what I know and write responsibly the people who I know and the communities I've been a part of.
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And again, that doesn't take away from people who want to delve into writing about other communities.
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But I just think it comes with a sense of both having the right and a sense of responsibility as well.
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Yeah, that responsibility is so important.
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We interviewed Sade Renee.
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I want to say I might mispronounce her last name, but she's on the podcast a couple episodes ago.
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And she has a character who's an indigenous character in her most recent release, On Thin Ice, which is a dark hockey Y2's romance.
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And what I loved is that at the beginning she put here are all your potential triggers and content warnings, etc.
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And here are all the places where I did research.
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Here are the people that I had, you know, Alpha read this, who I consulted with to ensure that I'm reflecting this person.
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She's a black woman, reflecting indigen this indigenous character in an ethical way.
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And anything that is in here that is a misrepresentation is 100% my own fault.
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Absolutely.
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And I feel like I heard Kennedy Ryan share something like that either at a panel.
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It might have been Black Romance Book Fest or a podcast recently, where she talked about the fact that even though she there are times when she does research and writes about multiple communities and identities, that she takes full responsibility for doing the work and for anything that she may get wrong.
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She rarely gets it wrong.
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She doesn't get it wrong.
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There's some mothers who do get it wrong.
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I don't know who they are, but they know who they are when they get it wrong.
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So I just think it's just about just trying to do the right thing.
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And I know some people really want to delve into I want to write diversely.
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I want to write about all these characters and communities because I feel like they need it.
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And I'm like, they may need it, but how about let them write it?
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Right.
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And let them have their voice and agency.
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And again, it's just not taking away from people who want to have creative license and write creatively or anything like that.
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Not at all.
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Yeah.
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And most of the time, if we do a little bit of digging, right?
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And sometimes it can take it depending on how our algorithm is algorithming.
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If we do just a smidge more digging, we can find the authors that we can support, that we can share, that we can, there's no competition with the amount of books that people read in a year.
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There's no competition.
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Like we're all collaborators here that you could be saying, hey, I I would love for you guys to check this person's book out, right?
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That has this lived experience to just be more community-centered about it.
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Yeah.
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Own voices, I think, is so incredibly important, not just from racial or sexual perspectives, but also everything from childhood drama to grief, right?
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There's so many different dynamics that people like to just throw things into their story for the wow factor for whatever.
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I get it.
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Craft, maybe, but you still have, like you said, a responsibility to the reader and to the community for that.
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Because once you put it out into the universe, it no longer belongs to you.
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It no longer belongs to you.
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And however people review it or check you on it, you have to we all have to be responsible for how what we put into the world is received and also be open to the feedback as well.
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Or also say develop a thick skin, but also be open to the feedback as well, especially if we get something wrong.
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So I try not to be wrong on anything.
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Wait, what's that TLC song?
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I stick to the rivers and the lakes that I'm used to.
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Right.
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You won't, you're not gonna catch me slipping.
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No, don't go chasing waterfalls.
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I'm not part of.
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Oh, exactly.
00:20:55.680 --> 00:20:57.680
Okay, so I read One and Done.
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Oh my goodness, I love this book so much.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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There is something, and I feel like this is just this is my catnip is when someone meets someone at a bar or whatever, they have their little one night stand, or maybe a huge one night stand, a weekend long, whatever.
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They have their one night stand and then they kind of go their separate ways.
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Life is lifing, and then something smacks them together.
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Like it's messy.
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Like we're gonna be working on the same project at work.
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I didn't know you were a consultant for my university that I work at.
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And bam, here we are in the boardroom.
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Like Dustin and Taylor discovered in one and done.
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And they're like, Oh, you're the person reviewing our university, and I'm the university vice president who's being reviewed, and we like each other, yet you're in charge of my.
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Career and the direction of my career because whatever grade you give me is going to decide where my career goes in the future.
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And so that's one of the central conflicts in one and done, which I call my black, queer, higher ed, Bay Area romance novel.
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These two people who have this neat disaster out of a Beyonce themed drag show in the Castro and hit it off and don't hit it off.
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And then they're in this boardroom, and oh, we gotta work together for three months, and I don't like you, but I do like you, and things like that.
00:22:32.319 --> 00:22:35.279
So, yes, I had a lot of fun writing one and done.
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And that book actually came from a real life experience, like I shared earlier.
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I do work in a university, and our university did go through an accreditation process.
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So this is where reality pivots in the fiction.
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So I was sitting on this, they had so many committee meetings on campus during this review process.
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And so this one committee I was on, we had this reviewer in, and he was asking a whole bunch of irritating questions.
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You know, sometimes when people ask you questions and they know what the answer is, but they're trying to get you to either flub up or mess up with something.
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And so he was just so annoying.
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But
then in the back of my head, I was like, oh my God, this guy is so gorgeous.
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And what would happen if during the course of his consulting with our university, I ran at him on the street and I just happened to fall into his bed or something like that.
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What would that be like?
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And so this is going through my mind as he's asking us all these irritating higher ed assessment questions and everything.
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And I was like, let me write this down.
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This would be because I had never really done a true higher ed set romance novel.
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And so that one meeting was the basis.
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And of course, I never saw him again after that.
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And we didn't have any kind of meet cute or happily ever after, but I did think he was so fine.
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And that was the basis for creating that character, Dustin, who was the consultant reviewing the university, etc.
00:24:02.720 --> 00:24:03.519
So yeah.
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And for that book, you mentioned how that story kind of came to you.
00:24:21.839 --> 00:24:24.240
What about for Love as a Contact Sport?
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How did that story come to you?
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Was it like, all right, I gotta get my publisher another one, or was it like, I'm inspired, here we go?
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Okay, so a little bit of both.
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Owed another book to Boldstrokes books.
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And so Love as a Contact Sport, my pitch for that is it's a black, queer, second chance college reunion male-male contemporary romance novel.
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And it follows two people who knew each other 20 years ago when they were in college.
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One was a college basketball player, and one was kind of like the campus, I'll say the campus poster boy.
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He did student government, was an RA, um, was a tour guide, et cetera.
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And thanks to the miracle of having single rooms on a college campus, they were able to have a secret relationship for a while while they were in college and they had fun in that single room.
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But it didn't work out at the time.
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And 20 years later, the two characters encounter each other at a college reunion event where they're both getting awards, and they hear all these great things that each other has done over the past 20 years.
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And so they finally have to have a sit-down after this award and talk about what happened then.
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And then it kind of helps them kind of see that old feelings don't die fast.
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Now, I know you have some strong feelings about second chances.
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I listened to the podcast and I agree with you.
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I think second chance and age gap are two of the most controversial tropes out there because it does come with a lot of, I don't want to say stigma, but it does raise some the hairs on the back of people's necks.
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How are you gonna give someone a second chance where either something went wrong, a person did someone wrong, or something like that?
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I say yes, comma, and so I think the ethical way a second chance can really work is if one, everyone has done some sort of internal work, either therapy, a lot of reflection, a lot of growing up, etc.
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I think two, no coercion.
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No one should feel coerced or guilted or threatened with a second chance.
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Not at all.
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It has to be totally consensual.
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But then three, I think that there has to be some total, what do they call it, redemption and forgiveness and really showing someone I have changed, I have done the work, and I am willing to walk on water to show you how much I've changed.
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That's how I think a second chance can work well, despite all the romance drama that could have happened, years ago, things like that.
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And so that's what happens in love as a contact sport between Rennie Ross and Brent King is that they realize in their 40s after living life and doing their own thing that they still have the same spark that they did in college, or maybe not the same, but they have a spark that's more adult and more mature now.
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Because 20s and 40s, that gives a lot of room for growth and a lot of room for reflection and a lot of room for therapy.
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And both these characters have done some internal work with therapy.
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I think that's what makes this romance a beautiful story to me.
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Yeah.
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And people who I have run into over the months also share some similar sentiments as well that this is a second chance they can vibe with.
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And again, this is me knowing.
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So I was like, when I write this, I know it's gonna irk some people because some people are just totally, they're like, I'm not picking up a second chance romance novel.
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How can I get back together?
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But I think people who do it well do it really well.
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Like Kennedy Ryan, I think, is the queen of perfect second chance romance novels.
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And there's many others too.
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I think there's some merit and possibility, even though it's it can be very, I
know it can be a controversial trope.
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Yes, definitely.
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Everyone go check out that episode from the last season that I did with Lisa Baben Library when she came on, because I started having friends on, like, hey, let's talk about your favorite trope.
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And she was like second chance, and I was like, oof, oof, I don't know how I feel about it.
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I've got Rex, sure.
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But I don't know how I feel about it.
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I love what you said about your three things.
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These have to be non-negotiables for a second chance to work.
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And I think that having that gap in them being separated helps too, right?
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Even thinking about my husband and I met.
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I was 21, he was 25, and then now I'm I'm gonna be 35, he'll be 39.
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And the people we were then completely different than the people we are today.
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We've been married for 10 years, we have two kids, we're going through life together.
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We've been at the lowest of the lowest.
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I just said to him the other day, I was like, Remember when we first moved in together and all we had was a mattress and a TV on a box.
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That was it.
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And he was like, Oh yeah, good times.
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I think both in real life and in romances, like, I would like to see more of that like growing together in a romance happen.
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I know the object is they end up together happily ever after, but I think there's something about that both in real life and in a oh, we'll love to see that like in a romance where a couple looks back and look at our humble beginnings.
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Right.
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Look at us when we were struggling to make ends meet and to buy groceries, and we only had one car and we both had to share it, and then to see how couples evolve over the years.
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I think a lot about that.
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Like I'm currently not partnered.
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I have cousins and really good friends who've been in both short-term and long-term partnerships.
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And especially when I look at my cousins who I grew up with in Detroit, and I'm like, wow, y'all have been together in y'all's marriages for 25 years, almost 30 years.
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And I remember the little small houses and apartments y'all had, and now you've got these big houses, and you just grew into it.
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And I think that's so beautiful to see that journey, both in real life, and I wish it could fit and maybe it could fit with side characters in a romance and see how people have grown and built their kingdoms together and everything.
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I think that to me, that that's a beautiful trajectory to see in people that we know and love.
00:30:45.039 --> 00:30:51.920
And so yeah, you're giving me some ideas of revisiting some previous characters as side characters.
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Yes.
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I want to say, Monique Fisher, I interviewed her.
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She's I think she's after your episode.
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So everybody keep a lookout for that.
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Stay subscribed to the podcast, etc.
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She has an epic romance that spans I think she said 15 years.
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Oh wow.
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And so hers is like a what happens after the happily ever after.
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So she has an epic novel where she wanted to explore that idea of like the ups and the downs, and like what happens after the and they kiss and yay.
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What happens after that?
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Because life happens, right?
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And how do you keep that happily ever after going through the ups and downs?
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Exactly.
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So I'll have the link for that book in the show notes.
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I don't remember the title off the top of my head, but Monique Fisher was the one who has that one.
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So good.
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Okay.
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So what are you doing next?
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What are you working on?
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I know you go to quite a few events, you're on quite a few podcasts, but we're in fall of 2026.
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What do you have going on?
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So I have a novel due in fall, knock on wood, that I get it done.
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And that's slated to be out in June 2027.
00:32:03.920 --> 00:32:09.759
So I'm a sucker for and I'm a punisher for myself trying to tackle tropes that people don't like.
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So I'm actually looking at an age gap romance, but so it's a more age-appropriate age gap.
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Like one character is in like their upper 40s, maybe low 50s, and one's like in their upper 30s, low 40s, and they're mismatched.
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One is like this academia, and the other one is like a former child and teen actor heartthrob who now has to work at the post office.
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Go figure.
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Once the stardom goes away and the looks and you're replaced by a younger person in Hollywood, you gotta go get a regular job.
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And so it's I'm creating this world between this academic and this former teen adult heartthrob who
has to work a regular job.
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And they're mismatched in so many ways, including the age gap piece, including the different levels of kind of education and different levels of interest and things like that.
00:33:03.279 --> 00:33:09.680
So I'm working on that and trying to get that in by fall for June 2027 release.
00:33:09.759 --> 00:33:12.720
And then I have a few events in the fall and winter.
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In the fall, I'm at this event in Milwaukee called From Milwaukee with Love.
00:33:17.680 --> 00:33:19.839
I'm at the Burbank Book Fest.
00:33:20.000 --> 00:33:26.319
Oh, there's a cool Pride and Pros event in Atlanta happening in mid-October 2026.
00:33:26.559 --> 00:33:27.200
I think I saw that.
00:33:27.279 --> 00:33:28.000
Yeah, that's so cool.
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In November, and then there's a lot coming up in 2027.
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I don't know why I overbooked myself for all these events.
00:33:38.960 --> 00:33:39.519
I love it.
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And it's also, so I'm like, okay, I gotta write and go to events at the same time.
00:33:43.200 --> 00:33:51.759
But really, part of it is just one of my goals I set for myself with one and done and with love as a contact sport is I really want to grow my readership.
00:33:51.920 --> 00:33:59.119
And one of the ways of doing that to me is one, I think going on podcasts is so fun and so cool because they live forever.
00:33:59.279 --> 00:33:59.359
Right.
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So someone can always discover you.
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And one of the things, like with romance novels, is discoverability.
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Like it's hard to be discovered because there's so many options and so many writers, which I think is great.
00:34:11.199 --> 00:34:18.559
And then I think that going to events is important too, because it puts all of us in the face of other readers.
00:34:18.719 --> 00:34:22.960
I'm not shy at all, but I'm also not overzealous with readers either.
00:34:23.119 --> 00:34:30.719
I'm not shy to talk about my books, whether it's an audience that I think would read it or a demographic that I think would or would not read it.
00:34:30.880 --> 00:34:35.760
I was listening to Beverly Jenkins on a podcast, Beverly Jenkins, Black Historical Fiction.
00:34:35.840 --> 00:34:39.519
I consider her the godmother of black historical romance.
00:34:39.760 --> 00:34:53.119
She was talking about how it's important for those of us who identify as black, not only to do black romance kind of book fest and everything, but to be at other book fests as well, because they need to see us.
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Right.
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They need to be exposed to us because if they don't see our faces, then they will not even think about picking up our books necessarily.
00:35:03.119 --> 00:35:08.480
And that kind of hit me in the head, like, okay, yes, I love my queer book con events.
00:35:08.559 --> 00:35:20.639
I like my black queer events, and I need to also go to some that maybe aren't targeting those demographics because we have a responsibility to help those readers discover us and to discover our peers as well.
00:35:20.800 --> 00:35:24.639
So when I go to events, I don't just talk about me, but I'm always coming up with a list.
00:35:24.719 --> 00:35:26.400
I'm like, have you read Carmen Lee?
00:35:26.480 --> 00:35:27.760
Have you read Mika James?
00:35:27.920 --> 00:35:31.280
Have you read Julian Winters or Rashid Darden?
00:35:31.760 --> 00:35:38.320
So I'm always rattling off a list of people that people should be reading or that I would like for them to read and discover as well.
00:35:38.559 --> 00:35:39.920
I know we're all in this together.
00:35:40.079 --> 00:35:42.079
We all should be supporting each other.
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And I'm not just in it for me and my books, but I also want to lift and want all of us to uplift each other and everything.
00:35:49.440 --> 00:35:50.880
I think that's really important.
00:35:51.280 --> 00:36:00.880
And so to that end, I never feel like I'm in competition with anyone or that I never get jealous or anything when people have opportunities.
00:36:01.199 --> 00:36:06.079
I'm like, oh, what happens to them is gonna happen to all of us one day and there's room for all of us.
00:36:06.400 --> 00:36:08.320
Yes, I really think so.
00:36:08.559 --> 00:36:11.199
And it's hard to, right?
00:36:11.360 --> 00:36:17.519
Being the only black person in the room or being the only queer person in the room and almost feeling tokenized, right?
00:36:17.599 --> 00:36:19.920
There's a lot of feelings of that can happen.
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And so we don't want to discount that.
00:36:22.880 --> 00:36:28.880
And I know that there are so many people doing work also on the back end, right?
00:36:29.039 --> 00:36:36.000
To ensure that events are better sourced and have more variety of people.
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A lot of people that I know that are hosting events, especially in the next year or so.
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I live in North Carolina, so I try to go to ones that are local to me just because driving long distances is not fun and I don't like flying.
00:36:48.960 --> 00:36:56.320
So I try to do the ones that are close to me, and I'm right in between Raleigh and Charlotte, so it works perfectly.
00:36:56.559 --> 00:37:01.599
But a lot of the events that we have over here, I go and I'm like, where are the black people at?
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Let me find them, let me talk to them, let me make sure that we're I'm buying their books.
00:37:06.239 --> 00:37:23.119
And so I think that we as readers can do better by finding the people who are of our either race or sexuality or whatever, or people who, if you're a white reader and you're wanting to diversify your bookshelf and you want to buy more books, but you're not really sure where to
begin.
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Going to these book cons and bookfests are a great place to start.
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And I know there are people that are doing work to try to make sure that they're a lot more diverse.
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So kudos to those folks as well.
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It's so hard.
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So hard.
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And at the same time, it's so easy.
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Like these devices that we walk around with 20, 30 years ago, they were these monsters on top of the table.
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And they cost thousands of dollars.
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So we have a resource right here.
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We have so many great search engines where so work at a college, and I always talk to students about I'm like, I really want you to develop your skills around resourcefulness.
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Right.
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I want you to figure out how to find answers because if you know how to find an answer, you're never gonna be lost.
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And so there's times when I want to say, it's so easy to find Latin A writers and queer authors who write romance because in a search engine, all you gotta do is but I think it's about having the mindset to think, who am I missing and who am I not reading?
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But I think it's and maybe it's just me, but I'm like, and maybe because I'm in this bubble in academia too.
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So I do admit that.
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But I'm like, all it takes is just to I go down rabbit holes all the time.
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Like the weirdest thought will come in my head, and I'm like, let me see if there's books on Native Americans set in Wyoming, written by Native Americans, and I'll go down that rabbit hole or things like that.
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But I understand that everyone has a comfort zone and everyone has what they know.
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And I one of the questions I always like to ask myself is what is it that I don't know, or who am I not seeing that I need to see?
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I think a lot about that when I plan events, and I hope that event planners are kind of thinking like there's a couple events I'm coming up, I'm going to, and I see I'm the only either male or male presenting person or only black person.
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I'm like, I know these event planners have to know other writers.
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But then again, I'm like, I have to give grace and say maybe they don't or don't know where to look.
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And so but I'm not going to do free labor for people either.
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So here's my DEI consulting packages for these event hosts.
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I know every time someone asks you, can I pick your brain?
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We joke in our world.
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Means that's$300 an hour.
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Right.
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Exactly.
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Yes, you can for$300 an hour.
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Yeah.
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Oh my goodness.
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So I'm curious for people who are like, okay, so you're getting on lots of podcasts, you're going to events.
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What is that first step for putting yourself out there?
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I know a lot of writers and readers can be introverts.
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I myself an introvert.
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The idea of going to some of these really bigger events, like, as much as I would absolutely love to go to Black Romance Book Fest, I know myself.
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I heard they've got rooms separate and everything.
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But like my kids play game time at MMA, and I have to put my earplugs in because like I'm I get way too overstimulated and I'm literally sitting in a chair, not doing anything.
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So I know myself.
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I know that amount of people, probably not best for me.
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Cheering everybody on, buying everybody's books, etc.
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That's what I can do my part.
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And going to these smaller events, going to authors, book tours, right?
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That kind of stuff, those smaller ones.
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But for people who are like, all right, I want to maybe get on more podcasts.
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I want to find ways that I can talk about my books with other people.
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I want to pitch myself to be at these events to be maybe the only black person in the room because I know that my people are looking for me also.
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How do you tend to get started with that?
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Yeah, I think starting local is great.
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So local independent bookstores for any author or any event that comes there.
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Authors are always wanting people to come to their events because they don't want to talk to an empty audience.
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I offer to people to look at what their local store is offering and just go sit in the audience because it can be a great way to network with other readers.
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And most readers, I have a feeling, are have this desire to be a writer as well.
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So it's a great place to network.
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And then if going in person to smaller events isn't someone's ministry, online has so many.
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I go down YouTube rabbit hole all the time.
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I'm like, I want to hear Beverly Jenkins today, or I want to hear
Rebecca Weatherspoon, or I want to hear Kennedy Ryan today.
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And so I'll just go on YouTube and look up interviews by people and just listen to them talk and listen to their advice and everything.
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And then the other thing I'll share is I think that a lot of community colleges offer either low cost or free creative writing classes.
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And so that's a great place to build local networks and meet people who are in the area who could be great friends and allies and writing partners.
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And maybe eventually you'll meet a buddy who will want to go to a book fest together.
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Although I'm at I I've been meeting a lot of people who are like, you know what?
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Chuck it.
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I'm going by myself.
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And they found it to be the most exhilarating time.
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I know everyone has their own way of kind of getting out there and meeting people within the the book world and everything.
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But start local, I think, is a great place and start local with your local independent bookstore.
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Yes.
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Oh, that's such good advice.
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I'm even thinking like my library.
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The library is also great, right?
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They have tons of either author events or activities or workshops or things that they've got, like even for adults.
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We went to the library today and they had a sewing, an adult sewing class going on in the adult maker space.
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And there were like maybe six or anywhere from six to ten people in there.
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And I was like, I want to go.
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Go to a maker space and learn how to sew.
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Yes.
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My local library here in San Francisco did or earlier in the summer, they were doing a how to fix your bike workshop.
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And so they would have people bring their bikes.
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And I'm like, at the local library?
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When they had all the tools out and was had an instructor showing the basics.
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I'm like, wow, what a great way to kick off someone's summertime.
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And I know in the fall, there's all sorts of I'm like cooking demonstrations at the library.
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So cool.
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Yeah, local libraries, I think, are just such a great resource.
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And I want more people to use them because that's where our tax dollars go.
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And it's also where we can give voice to show governments and politicians we support our libraries and librarians.
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Yes, 100%.
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I know there are some authors too that are librarians.
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So shout out to all the library workers as well doing the work out here.
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And I have a friend, she's on the board of a library, and goodness, the things that she has to go through with her local stuff just to get funding or just to get things passed.
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What I just want to tell people as well that utilizing a library helps authors too.
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So when books are checked out, whether it's audio or electronic or the physical, it helps out authors as well.
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So it keeps the books in circulation and it counts toward authors' counts.
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So I know that books are such an investment.
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And during this economy, sometimes people have to choose$20 for a book or do I buy lunch for a couple days for my kids?
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And so that's why I'm a big proponent of libraries.
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Because I know not every it's such a privilege to be able to buy books.
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And so I don't take that for granted.
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And so I always share my thanks and gratitude with anyone who makes that choice to buy a book.
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Because I know that sometimes it can be the choice of do I buy this book for my own pleasure or do I buy gas for a couple days to get around?
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Yeah, so important.
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Everybody go support your library.
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And where can people connect with you?
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Social media, letting us know where you're gonna be and all that stuff.
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And then where can we buy your brand new book that just came out this summer?
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Love is a contacts board.
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So you can either Google Frederick Smith Love is a contacts board, and one of my socials will come up.
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I use the handle F Smith827.
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Those are the numbers, 827.
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That's my birth date, 827.
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That's where you can find me on whether it's Threads, Blue Sky, TikTok, et cetera.
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And then you can buy Love as a Contacts Board or One and Done from the Bold Strokes Books website or anywhere you buy books.
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I'm a big fan of also bookshop.org because it also supports independent bookstores.
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And you can choose the store in your area that the proceeds will support.
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And so those are places I often will gear people toward or just order it at your local bookstore wherever you're from.
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Yes, perfect.
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And we will have the bookshop.org affiliate link.
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So it supports the podcast as well.
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If you use our affiliate link, it'll be in the show notes for specifically one and done and love is a context sport.
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Frederick, this was so much fun.
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Thank you so much for being on.
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Thank you.