Full Transcript for Is Putting Yourself First SELFISH? 50 Cent, Verzuz & Dave Chappelle|This Might Be Love Ep. 43

episode. 00:03:25:03 - 00:03:27:19 Speaker 4 Oh, my. Are we 43? 00:03:27:21 - 00:03:35:10 Speaker 1 This the wrong? Goddamn it up. There we go. 00:03:35:12 - 00:03:42:03 Speaker 1 Right. Let's get that together. Take number two. 00:03:42:05 - 00:03:45:05 Speaker 1 Well, we offer you guys real. Oh. You ready? 00:03:45:06 - 00:03:47:00 Speaker 4 Yeah. Go ahead. Sorry. 00:03:47:02 - 00:04:06:01 Speaker 1 Oh, you offer you guys real life conversation with y'all for y'all unfiltered, sometimes even unsolicited advice. And we try to help redefine what this love thing truly is. We always say we don't have all the answers, but we do have each other. So my lovely wife, thank you for joining. Thank you everybody else there for joining us today. 00:04:06:01 - 00:04:25:11 Speaker 1 We're going to have a good conversation today. Today we're going to be touching on a little bit about, have you ever been made to feel like the bad guy for finally putting yourself first? We want to know what happened. We want to know if y'all felt guilty for choosing your own piece, or did you realize that some people only like you when you were doing everything for them? 00:04:25:15 - 00:04:48:15 Speaker 1 So we're going to get into all of that. But first, we need y'all to go out there and please subscribe to the podcast. I don't know where the button is, but if you see the button, subscribe and press it because it helps us tremendously grow this channel and help helps us continue to keep on bringing more and more positive content. 00:04:48:16 - 00:05:15:18 Speaker 1 I don't know if it's good, I don't know if it's good or bad, but we actually trying to do something positive. So I think we probably the only people in the community that's out there doing that. So help us by hitting that subscribe button. And we going to help y'all by keep going better and and learning from experience and getting to talk with y'all and trying to, redefine what these relationship things truly mean. 00:05:15:20 - 00:05:32:15 Speaker 1 You feel me? So it's been a lot going on. Yeah, I hope y'all can see by now it's a you know what I'm saying? We don't. We done stepped it up a little bit. We're done. We've been in there putting in a little work to bring y'all a better set, a better atmosphere. It's a little cozy. It feels like home. 00:05:32:15 - 00:05:33:06 Speaker 1 You know what I'm saying? 00:05:33:07 - 00:05:34:10 Speaker 4 Shout out to my husband. 00:05:34:11 - 00:05:35:11 Speaker 1 Shout out to your husband. 00:05:35:12 - 00:05:37:14 Speaker 4 Shout out. I'm trying to. My hope y'all. 00:05:37:14 - 00:06:01:08 Speaker 1 So I'm trying to learn and grow us because I feel like it's important to show up the way you want to be treated. Yeah, this is not this is not something that we're going to have as and and we really put a lot of time and effort and thought into the conversations we had and experiences that we've been through and the people that's talking to us. 00:06:01:08 - 00:06:27:12 Speaker 1 So I think that starts with the quality. So not only upgrading video, audio quality, you want to present the best, best possible quality out there to the people so we can reach the most amount the more most amount of people. So they can actually take away all the BS and actually hopefully get some jewels from us. So that's the reason why we focus on getting better every day and and as much as we can. 00:06:27:13 - 00:06:50:16 Speaker 1 We not the we're not entertainers like like we're not we're not entertainers. We're not actors. We we are two real human beings that's really going through this love thing together and this thing called life together. And we, we just hopefully we improving in our relationship every day. The our conversations every day and bringing this show to y'all. Yeah. 00:06:50:17 - 00:07:10:16 Speaker 1 Every day. So if we're not growing, we we are growing stagnant. So we got so many things to talk about because we was off last week, we missed last week I was I was in here building set up, going on a shopping spree, trying to find little trinkets to add to the show to make it feel more like home. 00:07:10:16 - 00:07:32:03 Speaker 1 But we got hella topics to go through today. It's going to be one of our like, newsy shows, and we always, you know, we're going to touch in the relationship stuff at the end. But where would you like to begin? Because I'm not. I'm just because we missed last week don't mean anything to talk about it. Yeah, I know I want to I want to talk about the verses. 00:07:32:03 - 00:07:41:12 Speaker 1 I want to talk about Rick Ross getting up. I want to talk about we can talk about it all. Yeah. Where would where would you like to start that baby? 00:07:41:14 - 00:07:43:02 Speaker 4 Let's start off the verses, baby. 00:07:43:03 - 00:07:43:17 Speaker 1 The verses. 00:07:43:18 - 00:07:48:06 Speaker 4 Because, well, wait, do you remember? Because you kind of fell asleep on me a little bit. 00:07:48:06 - 00:07:50:21 Speaker 5 Do I remember? Yeah. I'm going to begin. 00:07:50:23 - 00:07:51:05 Speaker 4 In. 00:07:51:05 - 00:07:53:11 Speaker 5 That, then I ain't no sleep. Then you did. 00:07:53:12 - 00:07:54:04 Speaker 1 I see you then. 00:07:54:10 - 00:07:55:13 Speaker 5 You did. Yeah. 00:07:55:15 - 00:08:01:02 Speaker 4 When I looked over there, we was probably almost two songs away from the end. And you were snoring. 00:08:01:03 - 00:08:03:02 Speaker 1 No, I heard what exactly what I needed to hear from case. 00:08:03:03 - 00:08:04:21 Speaker 4 Okay, I heard that. 00:08:04:21 - 00:08:08:09 Speaker 1 Was after I heard of my song from case. I was there. Was it? That's all I wanted. 00:08:08:09 - 00:08:08:22 Speaker 4 To see. You needed. 00:08:08:22 - 00:08:13:08 Speaker 1 To hear. Yeah, that's all I. That's all I wanted to hear. I got what I was looking for, okay? I got exactly what I was. 00:08:13:08 - 00:08:14:04 Speaker 4 Looking for. 00:08:14:06 - 00:08:23:08 Speaker 1

So we're going to talk about the verses, recap of the verses, because we wasn't here to talk about it last week. So. 00:08:23:09 - 00:08:26:21 Speaker 1 How did you enjoy the verses? 00:08:26:23 - 00:08:32:01 Speaker 4 I don't really know. I guess I expected more, something different. 00:08:32:06 - 00:08:33:09 Speaker 1 What did you expect? 00:08:33:10 - 00:08:42:13 Speaker 4 The vibe of it? First of all, let's let's dissect this real quick, okay? I expected something a little bit more, you know, grown and. 00:08:42:15 - 00:08:44:05 Speaker 1 R&B and. Yeah. 00:08:44:07 - 00:08:46:00 Speaker 4 And B. 00:08:46:02 - 00:08:46:11 Speaker 1 Did that. 00:08:46:12 - 00:08:55:20 Speaker 4 He did an amazing job. He came in with his little, little tuxedo on. He had a little nice haircut. He came in exactly what I expected them to look like. 00:08:55:20 - 00:08:59:06 Speaker 1 Right. So you so you implying that somebody didn't come in there? 00:08:59:07 - 00:09:01:18 Speaker 4 Absolutely. Absolutely. 00:09:02:00 - 00:09:02:22 Speaker 1 He might. He might. 00:09:02:22 - 00:09:10:12 Speaker 4 Have been there, Bay. And he reminded me of my auntie's boyfriend. 00:09:10:14 - 00:09:26:15 Speaker 1 That that he came and he came into the verses looking like he just drunk a 40 ounce of mouth malt liquor. Yes. I don't even know. I don't know nobody that still drink malt liquor. Yeah, but I know case he found somebody. He drinking the old English malt liquor. 00:09:26:15 - 00:09:27:17 Speaker 4 Yeah. Drinking that o e. 00:09:27:21 - 00:09:32:09 Speaker 1 ODK came in there looking. 00:09:32:11 - 00:09:33:07 Speaker 4 Like somebody. 00:09:33:08 - 00:09:36:14 Speaker 1 He boyfriend. He damn near had the same outfit you got on right now. 00:09:36:16 - 00:09:42:11 Speaker 4 Literally. He had on a regular shirt. He had on some cargo pants and some. 00:09:42:16 - 00:09:56:19 Speaker 1 He got on the damn some for on a yarmulke. What the hell is that called? A coffee on a cookie or orange shirt? I knew case was on bullshit when he showed up with black Air Force ones on with orange laces. 00:09:56:20 - 00:09:57:22 Speaker 4 Yeah, because he had one shirt. 00:09:57:22 - 00:10:06:12 Speaker 1 On when he. When he. But when you do that, I ain't did that shit since middle school. Yeah. I ain't changed the color of my shoe strings to match my shirt since middle. 00:10:06:13 - 00:10:14:00 Speaker 4 That's what I said. Like, it gives, like, you know, the boyfriend. I want to be young like you kind of want to. That's what it reminded me of. 00:10:14:02 - 00:10:15:17 Speaker 1 Don't know. I don't even know if you. 00:10:15:17 - 00:10:15:22 Speaker 4 Always. 00:10:15:23 - 00:10:22:10 Speaker 1 Got that one. I think that put them on. He got laid them orange shoe strings next to them. Black force. Like I'm gonna kill. 00:10:22:11 - 00:10:25:03 Speaker 4 Him, though. Entertaining. 00:10:25:03 - 00:10:26:00 Speaker 1 Must have been sweet by then. 00:10:26:01 - 00:10:29:19 Speaker 4 Yeah, you were sleep. He ended up changing, and, 00:10:29:21 - 00:10:32:01 Speaker 1 I thought he just took off the. Took off the shirt. 00:10:32:02 - 00:10:35:10 Speaker 4 I think he did. Yeah, right. Carl Thomas is the one who changed. 00:10:35:10 - 00:10:47:08 Speaker 1 Yeah. Carl Thomas did wardrobe changes. He did. He was talking to the crowd. He was. He was out there with the stage presence and. Yeah, and all of these things. And he looked like a real R&B nigger. 00:10:47:08 - 00:10:59:19 Speaker 4 Yeah. He was interacting with the crowd. He was having a good time. Like. I mean, his energy was amazing. It wasn't like no competition. It was just like a real good vibe with Carl Chase. 00:10:59:21 - 00:11:04:20 Speaker 1 Real good vibes. Carl. Now. 00:11:04:22 - 00:11:28:01 Speaker 1 Before we go any further because I want to talk about the, the vibes that were said and I want to talk about the the allegations, I want to talk about the fidgety behavior up there. I want to talk about all of that. But all of the news topics I've seen out there never talked about the actual music. 00:11:28:02 - 00:11:39:12 Speaker 1 Now, you know, talk about the, the songs that was played. Yeah. And the music that was played. So who do you have winning. 00:11:39:14 - 00:11:47:15 Speaker 4 Carl Thomas. Okay. I ain't going to lie I really didn't know who Carl Thomas was right. I heard his. 00:11:47:15 - 00:11:58:23 Speaker 1 Music are cool. I understand that all the time. I know I know a little bit of Carl Thomas music because I, I, I deep dive right. Yeah. Understand that. But after hearing Carl Thomas. 00:11:58:23 - 00:11:59:17 Speaker 4 Said, yeah. 00:11:59:18 - 00:12:06:18 Speaker 1 After hearing Carl Thomas and said it was it was good. But did you know anything that he played on that. 00:12:06:19 - 00:12:13:15 Speaker 4 Like 2 or 3 songs? Only because I've heard him come on. Pandora. Yeah, but I didn't know those was his songs. I didn't even know who he was. 00:12:13:15 - 00:12:33:05 Speaker 1 So you can't be a a proper judge of the music, I understand that, but you can just tell us how which ones you like, which ones you didn't like, because I've seen everybody talk about this show. And although case looked like he was off that sugar, he was off that booger sugar. I still think Kate's won the verses. 00:12:33:06 - 00:12:33:21 Speaker 4 Oh, yeah. 00:12:33:23 - 00:12:58:20 Speaker 1 I still think he won the verses. And that's strictly because all Carl Thomas's songs sounded the same. Case had more range. Carl Thomas won the verses with stage presence and performance and interacting with the crowd and being smooth and putting on a great show. Yeah, but if we were to go song for song. 00:12:58:21 - 00:12:59:18 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:12:59:20 - 00:13:20:03 Speaker 1 We would if we were just to put it on Apple Music and play song for songs and we forget this is standing up there looking like a jack o lantern. Yeah. If we did that,

I got case winning. And I feel like both of them niggas play shit I ain't never heard before. They played some shit that I, I, I thought they made yesterday. 00:13:20:04 - 00:13:27:05 Speaker 4 Because I'm like, wait, I ain't never heard that song before. And then like I said, I heard songs where I was like, oh, I didn't okay song that I didn't know Carl sung that. 00:13:27:05 - 00:13:38:07 Speaker 1 So that's a, that's another thing. Yeah. You didn't know K song. Some of them song like Beauty is Heard. You didn't know he sung that because he didn't. He did not sing it. He didn't sing that. 00:13:38:08 - 00:13:39:00 Speaker 4 He actually. 00:13:39:01 - 00:13:39:15 Speaker 1 Like. 00:13:39:17 - 00:13:40:10 Speaker 4 That on there. 00:13:40:11 - 00:13:59:00 Speaker 1 That nigga is on there playing other songs that he was like, yeah, that was supposed to be bad, but I ain't gonna do it, but I'm gonna do it tonight because it was. This is my homie. My home eroded. He voted for me. But yeah, he is on there cheating and destroying. Classic. Yeah, but that's what he looked like. 00:13:59:01 - 00:14:06:16 Speaker 1 He looked like a nigga that would do some shit like that. Still a nigga song in the middle of a verse that was like, you got to take my song and say, oh, this was supposed to be mad. 00:14:06:17 - 00:14:09:20 Speaker 4 Once he played my song Happily Ever After. That was. 00:14:09:21 - 00:14:29:07 Speaker 1 That was me. That's that's that's after that I started riding on down. Yeah, that's what I. That's what I came here for. That's where I came in to see, What's my song of the Rain by Carl Thomas. You don't know them songs, but I know them songs. Those are. Those are classic songs. Yeah. All. Thomas did his thing. 00:14:29:09 - 00:14:43:10 Speaker 1 Do this thing. But I lean towards case because I was more familiar with some of those case songs. Carl Thomas didn't really show me too much reins. It didn't, range with his music, right? 00:14:43:14 - 00:14:43:21 Speaker 3 Yeah. 00:14:43:23 - 00:14:57:04 Speaker 1 It was the same song over and over again. He looked amazing. He put on an amazing show. But when it came down to the music, I like Kate style. Yeah. Better now. 00:14:57:06 - 00:15:02:15 Speaker 1 It ain't even. No, it ain't no goddamn allegations. The facts. It ain't no. Allegations at all. 00:15:02:16 - 00:15:03:21 Speaker 4 Allegedly. 00:15:03:23 - 00:15:05:21 Speaker 1 I know that, I know that walk. 00:15:06:01 - 00:15:06:15 Speaker 4 You know that. 00:15:06:20 - 00:15:21:00 Speaker 1 I know, I know that we were just talking about that bop. If y'all ain't seen our previous episodes. We talked about a certain bop that X users can never quite get rid of. 00:15:21:02 - 00:15:21:22 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:15:21:23 - 00:15:25:09 Speaker 1 I don't want to accuse nobody or nothing, but. 00:15:25:10 - 00:15:27:11 Speaker 4 I, I, I'm with you. 00:15:27:12 - 00:15:33:21 Speaker 1 If I was to start accusing people, stop it. I would start with case. 00:15:33:21 - 00:15:35:09 Speaker 4 Yeah. For sure. 00:15:35:13 - 00:15:42:14 Speaker 1 That man walked. He walked out there like we was interrupted in his session. 00:15:42:16 - 00:15:44:01 Speaker 4 Like, let me go get this song. 00:15:44:02 - 00:15:47:08 Speaker 1 Let me go here and go and see these songs real quick. Right on that. 00:15:47:13 - 00:15:53:04 Speaker 4 Like, I mean, he didn't play that. He came out there, he did exactly what he was supposed to and got. 00:15:53:05 - 00:15:58:06 Speaker 1 Off the court. That got the. Whoa! All right, y'all get the. 00:15:58:08 - 00:16:02:09 Speaker 4 Back and forth ball two times on each side. And then he. 00:16:02:11 - 00:16:06:23 Speaker 1 Goes on up there trying to talk to him. And she they walked in the back. He didn't walk off the set. 00:16:07:00 - 00:16:18:05 Speaker 4 Yeah Carl actually sat on the side. He listened. He was vibing to his music like he was actually, like engaging. And you never seen case? He's just case. 00:16:18:07 - 00:16:39:03 Speaker 1 Case was, case was, definitely in the back. Yes. He was. He was sweating joint, enjoying himself. He was, he was doing this year with his with his mouth a lot. Yep. He was twitching a lot. He was he was doing a lot of the of the signs. He was, he, he, he showed a lot of the signs of somebody that's on that shit. 00:16:39:04 - 00:16:49:19 Speaker 4 I think maybe because it seemed like he just kind of has a lot going on. Maybe because he said he just came back from South Africa and he's been doing a tour with, 00:16:49:21 - 00:16:51:07 Speaker 1 Did anybody verify that? 00:16:51:11 - 00:16:51:19 Speaker 4 That I. 00:16:51:19 - 00:16:56:20 Speaker 1 Don't know. Did anybody ever. Has anybody seen case cases show who. 00:16:56:22 - 00:17:00:03 Speaker 4 Somebody had just was it Joe that was. 00:17:00:05 - 00:17:00:10 Speaker 1 Yeah. 00:17:00:11 - 00:17:04:09 Speaker 4 Joe did it because Joe was like case was supposed to be there. 00:17:04:10 - 00:17:11:16 Speaker 1 No case said Joe was supposed to be there or no Joe K said that he was supposed to be at Joe's, versus. 00:17:11:19 - 00:17:14:08 Speaker 4 South Africa. And now Joe was in South Africa. 00:17:14:11 - 00:17:15:07 Speaker 1 Once again. 00:17:15:09 - 00:17:15:23 Speaker 4 But I. 00:17:15:23 - 00:17:17:07 Speaker 1 Just didn't Joe for that. 00:17:17:10 - 00:17:17:20 Speaker 4 And I. 00:17:17:20 - 00:17:18:16 Speaker 1 Was still say. 00:17:18:17 - 00:17:26:16 Speaker 4 Because Joe, I think that's a lie because Joe's supposed to be here next week or in like two weeks somewhere around there, he's supposed to be coming to Indiana, y'all. 00:17:26:18 - 00:17:37:14 Speaker 1 So I think that case is just making up shit, just like you said. Yeah, this this song was supposed to be my song, but I was. They they was kind enough to put me on remix, so I'm gonna sing it for y'all. Nothing. Anyway, so. 00:17:37:17 - 00:17:38:14 Speaker 4 My God.

00:17:38:16 - 00:18:00:19 Speaker 1 I think, case is everybody's uncle. Yes. That, you know, he was he he he dabbled. He doubled in. Dabbled. He he may have got clean. I ain't saying cases on anything. I'm just saying I recognize the box when I see it. The box. I reckon that I recognize that, Bob. The swing, the hands when they walk like that. 00:18:00:22 - 00:18:09:22 Speaker 1 Yeah, I recognize that. Bob. He in a hurry? He ain't got time for y'all verses shenanigan. I'm gonna come up here, I'm gonna sing my songs, and I'm gonna go back to two. Nothing. 00:18:10:00 - 00:18:11:03 Speaker 4 Right? 00:18:11:05 - 00:18:14:18 Speaker 1 That's exactly what he came to do. He came. He seen it coming. 00:18:14:20 - 00:18:18:11 Speaker 4 I think that was the shortest verse I have seen yet. 00:18:18:15 - 00:18:19:12 Speaker 1 The shortest verses. 00:18:19:12 - 00:18:20:04 Speaker 4 Yes. 00:18:20:06 - 00:18:21:14 Speaker 1 They they ain't come to play. 00:18:21:17 - 00:18:27:13 Speaker 4 They did not come. That's what I said, baby. They came. Case came to do his show, get his money and he left. 00:18:27:14 - 00:18:49:07 Speaker 1 They was talking about, they was talking about the people he brought out. So I don't I'm not familiar with no kid. Yeah. I'm, I'm assuming that he's one of the writers for some of the, the biggest hits for Cisco and Drew Hill and Joe and I'm assuming that's who Nokia is. I, I know I've seen them before, but I'm not familiar with his work. 00:18:49:10 - 00:18:50:02 Speaker 1 But the. 00:18:50:02 - 00:18:55:20 Speaker 4 Dude that came out with that two piece outfit with the ripped Senate or something, was that him? 00:18:55:22 - 00:19:14:03 Speaker 1 Yes. Got it. Yes. So I, I believe that tank verses he came out and he was on crutches. I don't, I don't know, I don't know. Yeah. But no kid in case like they hang out a lot. They do. They look like, they look like they hang out a lot and they hang out in dark alleys. Oh, that's what I wanted to say. 00:19:14:04 - 00:19:35:14 Speaker 1 Yeah. And then he brought out case. Brought out. His name is R.L.. I'm not familiar with who R.L. is, but he came out there to sing, and when I. I'm just looking at the show. Yeah. And R.L. looks like he just sold whatever case is on, I just want to say that R.L. looked like he was doing that just sold case. 00:19:35:16 - 00:19:46:05 Speaker 1 Whatever the fuck he wanted. He looked like, He looked like the dude from the temptations that sold the shit. That's exactly who R.L. was, like. Oh my God. Beautiful voice, though, a beautiful voice. 00:19:46:06 - 00:19:47:04 Speaker 4 He did a good job. 00:19:47:08 - 00:19:57:21 Speaker 1 But all in all, I. I enjoy the verses. I got case winning. I got case winning for songs. I got call Thomas winning the show. 00:19:57:23 - 00:20:03:09 Speaker 4 Yeah. My favorite part my, my other favorite part was seeing two short, two short, two short. 00:20:03:11 - 00:20:10:06 Speaker 1 That's what I'm saying.

Two short came out their clean look like you know what I'm saying. Like he been chilling. He been at home by a pool somewhere. 00:20:10:07 - 00:20:11:00 Speaker 4 Literally. 00:20:11:02 - 00:20:15:22 Speaker 1 Is out there. And Nokia came out there looking like they just got done shooting dice. 00:20:16:01 - 00:20:16:19 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:20:16:21 - 00:20:17:21 Speaker 1 That's what I'm saying. 00:20:17:22 - 00:20:18:23 Speaker 4 They was back in the back. 00:20:19:01 - 00:20:21:10 Speaker 1 He was in the back two drinking 40. 00:20:21:15 - 00:20:22:03 Speaker 4 Yep. 00:20:22:09 - 00:20:31:08 Speaker 1 And shooting dice. That's what that was the difference in perception. But that don't make that don't mean you lost the, lost the verses just because you up there looking at. 00:20:31:08 - 00:20:36:01 Speaker 4 Damn right. Yeah. Can't say this thing, but I really did enjoy seeing too short up. 00:20:36:01 - 00:20:41:04 Speaker 1 There was my favorite word. Be it. Why you gotta see it, like, short. 00:20:41:05 - 00:20:42:15 Speaker 4 Hey. Yeah. 00:20:42:21 - 00:20:50:13 Speaker 1 All right. You got on here that Rick Ross, his son, gets pistol up in 50 sentence trolling Bay and. 00:20:50:15 - 00:20:50:22 Speaker 4 Tell. 00:20:51:00 - 00:20:52:02 Speaker 1 You lawyer. 00:20:52:04 - 00:21:05:21 Speaker 4 50 cent may be the biggest troller that I've ever seen. I love 50. I love it. He is I just he's the most pettiest person I've ever came across. 00:21:05:23 - 00:21:22:04 Speaker 1 I don't know if I don't know if you've seen. He said that Rick Ross is his favorite. The beef with or he said is his favorite of beef with because he know like Rick Ross is law enforcement. He's like, he was like, I know you were. You were. You were a CEO. Like, this shit is pure comic. This ain't no real beef. 00:21:22:04 - 00:21:24:08 Speaker 1 This is just 50. Being a bully. 00:21:24:09 - 00:21:29:21 Speaker 4 50 has too much time on his hands. It seems like to just be trolling people. 00:21:29:21 - 00:21:31:16 Speaker 1 Like, I think it's strategic. 00:21:31:18 - 00:21:32:17 Speaker 4 I think it's funny. 00:21:32:20 - 00:21:35:00 Speaker 1 I think it's I think it's both. 00:21:35:03 - 00:21:48:23 Speaker 4 I think that, 50 finds this very, comical for him. It's definitely funny because when I read it, I'm like, why is this 50 got to do with this? Like. 00:21:49:01 - 00:21:50:22 Speaker 1 So what did he say? What? What happened? 00:21:51:01 - 00:22:00:21 Speaker 4 So Rick Ross, his son, got pistol hoops on campus. Rick Ross son goes to college, he plays football. That's fucked up somewhere down in Florida, I think. 00:22:00:22 - 00:22:04:15 Speaker 1 Everybody check if Tony Yayo did it that I. 00:22:04:17 - 00:22:20:20 Speaker 4 They said that there was a video of it, but I didn't see the video. So it was some like teenage boy supposedly they was beefing about some girl. The boy came up to campus and pistol whipped Rick Ross, his son. 00:22:20:22

- 00:22:21:11 Speaker 1 Okay. 00:22:21:12 - 00:22:55:10 Speaker 4 So when viral, the boy ended up getting arrested and 50 cent posted on either Twitter Instagram asking basically, does the boy have a bond? He's going to go bond him out and he's getting the best lawyer out there, is what he said. And he did bond him out 50 bond at the boy out. And so it's been a lot of argument going on between 50 cent and to Kemp, which is Rick Ross. 00:22:55:10 - 00:22:56:13 Speaker 1 Baby, my baby mother. 00:22:56:18 - 00:22:58:12 Speaker 4 They've been going back and forth. 00:22:58:14 - 00:23:04:22 Speaker 1 How she man now I thought he paid for her. He done but took her out to the mall and bought her too. So she's mad at him now. 00:23:04:23 - 00:23:07:09 Speaker 4 Because it's her son now. 00:23:07:10 - 00:23:14:15 Speaker 1 Now it ain't now. Ain't it? Affecting Rick Ross is affecting your son now. You actually got more care? Yeah. And these people, this. 00:23:14:17 - 00:23:24:03 Speaker 4 She's been trolling 50 and then I guess 50, 14 year old son, she's also been on the internet. Talk about him calling him on call the name. 00:23:24:03 - 00:23:26:06 Speaker 1 So is that the 150 like or don't like? 00:23:26:06 - 00:23:27:09 Speaker 4 I think that's the one he likes. 00:23:27:15 - 00:23:27:20 Speaker 1 Okay. 00:23:27:21 - 00:23:47:03 Speaker 4 Yep. The one he likes it. Yeah. He, Yeah, I think this is the one he likes. And I from what I read. 50 cent had put a restraining order on to camp for talking about his son, and he's done served her papers for whatever. 00:23:47:07 - 00:23:53:18 Speaker 1 That some shit? Yeah, that's some whole shit. You. How are you going to talk about him being police? And then you turn right around and do police shit? 00:23:53:18 - 00:24:08:04 Speaker 4 I mean, how are you going? Yeah, but you get up there and you talk about Rick Ross son, and you, you troll all these people. But when people flip it and it goes back on you, when the people you love now you get defensive. Now you want to take me to court, you want to get a restraining order? 00:24:08:04 - 00:24:09:14 Speaker 4 I don't that's yeah. 00:24:09:15 - 00:24:17:16 Speaker 1 That's so my thing is, do you think that 50 goes too far or do you take it as all jokes or. 00:24:17:18 - 00:24:28:16 Speaker 4 I think it's to I think it I take it as jokes in the beginning, but it always goes a step too far. It's always like, oh, I got to get the best because it's getting too close to home. 00:24:28:18 - 00:25:05:14 Speaker 1 And I, I think that we look at it as fun and fun and games and jokes because it's not us exactly. It's not us. And I think that if I had somebody shoot me nine times, if I had somebody shoot me nine times, I don't think I'd take any of this shit serious. My my view on life and is is different than everybody else is the way I play with people, the way I like words would be the least amount of things that I can do to you if if I, if I really had a

problem with you. 00:25:05:14 - 00:25:13:03 Speaker 4 I look at it like you care too much. If you got enough time to go bond this boy out that you ain't never in your life new. 00:25:13:05 - 00:25:13:18 Speaker 1 I don't think. 00:25:13:18 - 00:25:22:17 Speaker 4 It's coming for a lawyer or investing in what my son got going on like that. It's too messy for me. 00:25:22:18 - 00:25:49:04 Speaker 1 So I read this book and he. He did a spinoff book of the 48 Laws of Power called the 50th law. One of the 48 Laws of power is crush your enemies completely. Right? So as long as people are still seeing your name on your ass, anytime I get a chance to make fun of Rick Ross or his family, or his situation about his plane falling, about Drake beating him in a verse, or of dissing him in a verse. 00:25:49:05 - 00:26:10:23 Speaker 1 Any time I get a chance to make my enemies look bad, I want to do that one because you're my enemy or so-called enemy. And two when 50 does this, this is how 50 cent promotes. Rather, people know it or not. People look at it like it's funny. Off 50 back on the internet, he back trolling. He backed me in funny or whatever. 00:26:11:00 - 00:26:15:12 Speaker 1 This is how he inserts his name into the conversation without having to drop a song. 00:26:15:13 - 00:26:27:06 Speaker 4 Yeah. Which I mean, like I said, it's not bad, but it's at the same time. It's like, they ain't like you. Trust me. Don't try my son. Like my son get pissed. Like, does it bring to many other people into that situation? 00:26:27:07 - 00:26:35:13 Speaker 1 Unfortunately, you chose the wrong baby daddy. Yeah, you did wrong. You fucking wrong. You fuck my up. I'm sorry. 00:26:35:18 - 00:26:42:17 Speaker 4 I gotta go, your son. And then now we gotta take this to the next step. So it's just a it's a situation that's just going to keep going until just. 00:26:42:19 - 00:27:02:04 Speaker 1 That's the thing. You never you never really argue with women because they ain't they not playing on the we're not playing on the same playing field. What am I what am I supposed to do? I can't beat up no woman. Like I look crazy arguing with a woman, and he does that a lot. Yeah. And we're going to we're going to see how it turns out. 00:27:02:04 - 00:27:08:00 Speaker 1 Because every woman around 50 has always left. And they said negative things about him anyway. 00:27:08:03 - 00:27:09:17 Speaker 4 But yeah. 00:27:09:19 - 00:27:32:19 Speaker 1 So you have to go, but I don't I think I think 50 is 50 and we use that as an excuse for some of his terrible behavior. And it's only funny because it we don't realize how like, weird it is. Yeah. Like it's what your obsession with it. But yeah, a lot of these men do that. They say Jay-Z do that behind the scenes. 00:27:32:19 - 00:27:48:16 Speaker 1 They say Drake is famous for this. A lot of these men, powerful men, are extremely petty and ain't got shit else to do. So of course I'm gonna go buy a lawyer. It ain't nothing but

a phone call. You said. You said you're doing a lot. It ain't. It. Just literally, a phone call. Hey. Yeah. See what? 00:27:48:17 - 00:28:05:19 Speaker 1 See what it costs. And I bought him out. Yeah. Bottom out. It's going to make me look better. It's going to make. It's going to make a Rick Ross look funny or bad. You know what I'm saying? It's it's a win win. And I can do that while I'm on my way up a elevator. Yeah. So it ain't it. 00:28:05:20 - 00:28:21:08 Speaker 1 Don't take. No it don't take no, skin off his back. Don't take his skin off his back. Speaking of New York rappers, but not really a New York rapper. And people that need they ass. 00:28:21:10 - 00:28:39:01 Speaker 1 So, like I said, we wasn't here. But we seen it all. We seen it all. Did you see? Do you know who Funk Master Flex is? You do. I thought you were a young buck. I ain't even know. I ain't even, you know what I'm saying. I'm my fault. I don't even want to test your hip. 00:28:39:01 - 00:28:39:06 Speaker 4 Hop. 00:28:39:06 - 00:28:44:21 Speaker 1 For you. You don't know as much R&B as me but that's maybe you know, a little, maybe you know, a little something. 00:28:44:22 - 00:28:45:20 Speaker 4 Oh, absolutely. 00:28:45:20 - 00:29:19:01 Speaker 1 Well, Funkmaster Flex is. I think he's about 58. He got caught on the camera at the Knicks game. And in this next game footage you seen Funkmaster Flex doing what we call the agility ladder. You see Funk Master Flex scurrying around with his hands up trying to either fight or look like he was attempting to fight or run for dear life. 00:29:19:02 - 00:29:19:19 Speaker 4 Oh my gosh. 00:29:19:20 - 00:29:41:08 Speaker 1 So this 58 years man year old man is on camera arguing with a guy. I think they call him shadow. They it was conflicting. It was conflicting news on who shadow was, views, Jay Z peoples or whatever. But apparently Shadow and Funk Master Flex got beef. They both 58 years old. They see each other at the game. 00:29:41:09 - 00:29:54:01 Speaker 1 They have. I don't know if one of them went up to the other one and tried to have a conversation. Conversation didn't go how everybody wanted. Now shadow want to put hands on flex, and flex gets the moving and shuffling and doing all it was. It was crazy. 00:29:54:02 - 00:29:55:03 Speaker 4 You get to do no flexing. 00:29:55:03 - 00:30:19:01 Speaker 1 It was crazy. I only brought it up to say how old? Like, at what point do you be like, you know what? I ain't fighting no idea about it. Like. Like because they was on their clown and funk. Massive flex. Another 58 year old man like you should have wearing and got security. 00:30:19:03 - 00:30:20:07 Speaker 4 It's a show. 00:30:20:09 - 00:30:20:20 Speaker 1 It's a show. 00:30:20:21 - 00:30:25:08 Speaker 4 You're in the middle of the game. You got this people out here. It's all about being. 00:30:25:12 - 00:30:26:19 Speaker 1 No, that was real fear. 00:30:26:20 - 00:30:27:08 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:30:27:11 - 00:30:46:06 Speaker 1 That was Funkmaster Flex. Can I get a drop off? Yeah, that was real fear. That he had. And he was getting all out there. Oh, yeah. We can. He was doing all that. He went on the on online and said, I'll square up with anybody. That's not what's squaring up. He is. You ran for about 32 seconds. 00:30:46:08 - 00:30:49:21 Speaker 1 Do you. 00:30:49:23 - 00:30:56:13 Speaker 1 Like the shadow? The shadow? The 58 years old. He probably was tired racing like. 00:30:56:14 - 00:30:57:14 Speaker 4 Running after you. 00:30:57:16 - 00:31:14:05 Speaker 1 That at that age, dog niggas know his cardio. Niggas ain't swings. He wasn't ready when nobody ready to throw no hands in there and y'all in their acting ass. But I'm like, how old like that 58 years old. My nigga, what can you possibly be fighting for? 00:31:14:10 - 00:31:15:01 Speaker 4 Right? 00:31:15:06 - 00:31:21:01 Speaker 1 Unless you. How old is 50 as it grows? Ain't they about 40 something? They ain't about 51. 00:31:21:01 - 00:31:21:15 Speaker 4 Off it. 00:31:21:17 - 00:31:25:07 Speaker 1 Going on 50. Yeah, yeah I those who need the bump. 00:31:25:07 - 00:31:26:11 Speaker 4 But yeah. Go ahead and get out of. 00:31:26:11 - 00:31:30:10 Speaker 1 The way. Yeah. If I'm 58 years old I'm not I'm not squaring up. 00:31:30:15 - 00:31:32:18 Speaker 4 Only thing I can do is just give you a look. 00:31:32:22 - 00:31:35:03 Speaker 1 You're a look. I'm throwing shit. 00:31:35:04 - 00:31:35:15 Speaker 4 You throw on. 00:31:35:15 - 00:31:38:21 Speaker 1 Something, I'm throwing chairs. Whatever the fuck is near me. 00:31:38:22 - 00:31:39:15 Speaker 4 Oh, Lord. 00:31:39:17 - 00:31:44:20 Speaker 1 And I'm. And I'm kind of a speed walker, you know, that's what OB would do. They walk like a mother. 00:31:44:21 - 00:31:45:22 Speaker 4 So you just gotta throw them and see. 00:31:45:22 - 00:31:48:15 Speaker 1 What I'm going to throw. Shit! Get away from me. 00:31:48:17 - 00:31:52:08 Speaker 4 That's what I find me thinking. Like, please, please let security be on their way. 00:31:52:10 - 00:31:58:16 Speaker 1 That's what the. That's what it looked like. That's what the whole look, look like to me is looking like. Where the security. 00:31:58:18 - 00:32:00:11 Speaker 4 Give me a ticket. Yeah. 00:32:00:12 - 00:32:04:23 Speaker 1 Why is this so taking so long for security to get here? That's what exactly. 00:32:05:01 - 00:32:07:04 Speaker 4 Allowed to be a fight. 00:32:07:06 - 00:32:08:19 Speaker 1 For looking like these niggas. 00:32:08:20 - 00:32:09:10 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:32:09:14 - 00:32:20:18 Speaker 1 That's a private suite. They had private suite out there. Y'all want to fight? Oh, you niggas. You niggas won't be back here. You will not be back. 00:32:20:20 - 00:32:36:01 Speaker 1 Oh, man. And other news we got. Boosie recently said that he can beat Lil Wayne in the verses really quick. I just want you. I just want you to answer really quick. Who do you think wins.

00:32:36:02 - 00:32:38:13 Speaker 4 BOO? 00:32:38:15 - 00:32:40:05 Speaker 1 I knew you would say some stupid shit. 00:32:40:05 - 00:32:41:08 Speaker 4 Like what. 00:32:41:10 - 00:32:41:22 Speaker 1 You were saying. 00:32:41:22 - 00:32:43:21 Speaker 4 You like I mess with little Wayne. 00:32:43:21 - 00:32:51:16 Speaker 1 But give me, give me your. Give me your five Boosie songs. Like off the top of your head. 00:32:51:18 - 00:32:52:17 Speaker 4 Set it off. 00:32:52:21 - 00:32:59:03 Speaker 1 Set it off. I'm doing hustler music. 00:32:59:05 - 00:33:00:10 Speaker 4 They say that I'm ready. 00:33:00:16 - 00:33:01:18 Speaker 1 They said that I'm crazy. 00:33:01:19 - 00:33:03:00 Speaker 4 Or I'm saying yeah, say that. 00:33:03:00 - 00:33:04:01 Speaker 1 I'm doing fire, man. 00:33:04:07 - 00:33:07:01 Speaker 4 Oh. 00:33:07:03 - 00:33:21:05 Speaker 1 I'm not even going to do. No, I'm not going to do soldier. Not. I'm not going to do I'm not going to do that. We just going to. We gon. Whoop his ass extremely quick. It ain't going to take as easy I can as I can name these songs off. Are you what I'm saying? Set it off as my shit. 00:33:21:07 - 00:33:38:12 Speaker 1 You know that's my shit. You know that's mine. But if we do, we taking over. If we do us any and we can, we can just play. No ceilings. We can play Doctor Carter with Jay Z. We can play, we, we can play, we can play. We we we, whatever that song. 00:33:38:12 - 00:33:43:16 Speaker 4 Is, I don't know, I just get a different, like, vibe when I listen to whatever. 00:33:43:18 - 00:34:05:13 Speaker 1 I guess whatever vibe you get from Boosie, because I know the vibe. It's gangsta. It's turn. Whatever vibe you get from Boosie. Wayne has that vibe and probably 20 more vibes for you. You want to get on some skateboard, skateboard, rock star? We can do that. You want to get on some emo singing to the ladies? You, had a love. 00:34:05:14 - 00:34:23:07 Speaker 1 You want to do that? We can do that. You you want to get on some street shit? You want to get on the street? Street shit. We can get on the, What's the cash money taking over for the 2000? So that wiped me down. It's out of here. That's waiting. We can't anything. Lil Boosie wants to do. 00:34:23:09 - 00:34:43:17 Speaker 1 Anything. Little boost he wants to do, I promise you can do and probably do it a little bit better. I love Boosie Lobos talks to the streets after la. La is in my heart, but I, I, I would leave, What? What? His name. Mr. Carter. 00:34:43:18 - 00:34:44:01 Speaker 4 Mr.. 00:34:44:01 - 00:34:49:11 Speaker 1 Carter, I will leave Mr. Carter the fuck alone. I will leave Mr. Carter the fuck alone. 00:34:49:12 - 00:34:50:20 Speaker 4 They say anyone? No smoke? 00:34:50:22 - 00:35:19:06 Speaker 1 They said it. He crazy? Yes you are. You are crazy. Don't do that. Do not call out. Don't call out. Dewayne Carter junior, whatever his name. Don't call out Dewayne Carter Junior anymore. That's. That's not who you want to.

And I and I love Boosie. I love Boosie I love I love Boosie album cuts. Yeah. It's just little Wayne is not not the guy. 00:35:19:08 - 00:35:25:17 Speaker 1 And I don't think Lil Wayne is unbeatable in the verse. I think a lot of people can beat Wayne. It's just not Boosie. 00:35:25:19 - 00:35:26:07 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:35:26:12 - 00:35:27:01 Speaker 1 It won't be. 00:35:27:02 - 00:35:28:21 Speaker 4 I don't know, that would be a good one to see though. 00:35:28:22 - 00:35:29:06 Speaker 1 No it. 00:35:29:06 - 00:35:29:21 Speaker 4 Won't, it. 00:35:29:21 - 00:35:42:17 Speaker 1 Would know. It would be a it would be a massacre. It would be a massacre, I promise you. Okay. I promise you going to be standing up there, Boosie. Going to be standing up there like he going to be checking. 00:35:42:17 - 00:35:44:21 Speaker 4 The devils. Get up. 00:35:44:23 - 00:35:49:11 Speaker 1 Get up off me, Wayne. Get up off me, devil. 00:35:49:13 - 00:35:53:22 Speaker 4 Niggas freaky. I got the devils on me. 00:35:54:00 - 00:36:02:10 Speaker 1 I ain't going to go up there and freestyle. New ain't going to go up there and. And do Boosie beat better than you did it. That's the way. 00:36:02:10 - 00:36:05:07 Speaker 4 Then he got to have his back up. Little wavy come up there. 00:36:05:08 - 00:36:25:23 Speaker 1 That's who we need. You don't want to you don't want to do that. Lil Wayne started that the the feature run shit that people do Lil Wayne is that guy. Don't Boosie don't have enough features for Louis. Yeah. Hopefully Lil Wayne don't get in there. But the only thing I can say is Lil Wayne don't pick the best. 00:36:26:00 - 00:36:47:06 Speaker 1 He don't know his catalog the best. So if Mack Main was to pick Wayne's catalog or for the verses, I think we got it. If Wayne was picking Wayne is he don't know what we like from him, right? So that would be the only way Boosie can sneak past. Who would you. 00:36:47:07 - 00:36:55:23 Speaker 1 You say you say Boosie versus Wayne. I want Boosie verse. 00:36:56:01 - 00:37:02:22 Speaker 1 Low key of Jeezy. I want Boosie verse a. 00:37:02:23 - 00:37:14:11 Speaker 1 Yeah, probably a Jeezy. Yeah, I would love to. I would just love to be at that show. That's why, that's what I would love to see. 00:37:14:12 - 00:37:15:06 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:37:15:08 - 00:37:22:01 Speaker 1 Who you got winning at. All right. We're going. We got some more topics. 00:37:22:03 - 00:37:23:01 Speaker 4 Don't do that thing. 00:37:23:03 - 00:37:23:21 Speaker 1 We got some more topics. 00:37:23:21 - 00:37:25:11 Speaker 4 Don't do that. Listen I'm just saying. 00:37:25:13 - 00:37:25:22 Speaker 1 I'm just. 00:37:25:22 - 00:37:32:18 Speaker 4 Asking. You when I be driving. Like that's all I play is boosted. So, Like, you don't hear me coming down the street. 00:37:32:19 - 00:37:55:00 Speaker 1 Yeah. When I tell you that everybody from our, let's say, what, 2003 about 2008 to my president is black, my limbo is blue. Everybody from like, I think it might be 2000 for everybody from, from that era. All they play it's Jeezy. So you you play your you play your Boosie you turn up. 00:37:55:02 - 00:38:00:13 Speaker 4 Absolutely. And I learned from the streets. 00:38:00:15 - 00:38:07:05 Speaker 1 Booth I mean Jeezy is the streets. He is the trap. Yeah. 00:38:07:07 - 00:38:10:08 Speaker 4 How my gosh. 00:38:10:10 - 00:38:14:19 Speaker 1 Oh man. Jay-Z is doing the Super Bowl. 00:38:14:21 - 00:38:18:10 Speaker 4 Oh I did see that. I don't I seen that he picked a cell. 00:38:18:12 - 00:38:39:12 Speaker 1 I don't know if I don't know if that's a surprise to anybody out there. Yeah Jay-Z is doing the Super Bowl. Everybody is saying that Jay-Z never ran. Well, not everybody 50 cent, 50 cent and saying Jay-Z never ran an era in his life. And people said Drake, dissing them, talking about ain't nobody at the shows and everybody's questioning Jay-Z's. 00:38:39:15 - 00:38:42:06 Speaker 4 I'm very surprised that he's doing it, though. 00:38:42:10 - 00:38:43:08 Speaker 1 Why? 00:38:43:09 - 00:38:48:10 Speaker 4 I don't know, I just kind of feel like that probably wouldn't have been one of Jay-Z's types of things to do. 00:38:48:11 - 00:38:50:15 Speaker 1 Like Jay-Z. 00:38:50:15 - 00:38:56:21 Speaker 4 Don't really do many shows. Like he don't really. I mean, I know he just did that tour that he did, but. 00:38:56:23 - 00:38:58:10 Speaker 1 He wasn't a tour on the tour, it was. 00:38:58:10 - 00:39:00:07 Speaker 4 A warmup, like a pop out type thing. 00:39:00:08 - 00:39:01:01 Speaker 1 It was practice. 00:39:01:01 - 00:39:07:11 Speaker 4 But I kind of felt like Jay-Z ain't never really been into that type of thing. Like, you don't see that very often from him. 00:39:07:12 - 00:40:01:04 Speaker 1 We are we are too young. We are too young to understand Jay-Z's greatness. So I argue with a lot of my friends, and Jay-Z is the greatest rapper, period. Not the best, but the greatest rapper period is because there is nobody that remained in the top conversation longer than Jay-Z. Closest person they say is Drake. I, I don't consider Drake in that category because not only is Jay-Z one of the greatest artists, he's also considered one of the best rappers to ever do it. 00:40:01:04 - 00:40:20:15 Speaker 1 Drake is not considered that right. Businessman Drake is not considered that. I don't I don't what what is it conglomerate or team with Rockefeller roc nation. He got that Drake doesn't Drake doesn't have that well over y'all. 00:40:20:16 - 00:40:21:11 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:40:21:13 - 00:40:50:17 Speaker 1 So the reason why Jay-Z is the greatest to ever do it is because people keep saying that. What year did Jay-Z actually run. Shit. And I can't argue that I don't know what year. I'm pretty sure it's been, it's been years. But if, if it was a scale of 1 to 10. Jay-Z has been at an 8 or 9 for his entire career. 00:40:50:19 - 00:40:59:18 Speaker 1 It has been it's been one rise. It's been

one rise and has been an absence, but it has not been a decline. 00:40:59:19 - 00:41:00:12 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:41:00:14 - 00:41:31:05 Speaker 1 If he pop out tomorrow, it's the same shit. If he drops a verse tomorrow. The verses, it's just this good, right? Jay-Z has been the most consistent at being good, if not great longer than anybody. So that's why he is considered the greatest rapper to ever do it. Yeah I think can get some more artist. But when I have these conversations with people that's that's why I give it to Jay-Z. 00:41:31:06 - 00:42:01:22 Speaker 1 Even though like like I, I think some of my some of my favorites is POC and some of my, some of my favorites is not Jay-Z, but I have to recognize and respect what that man has been doing for all of these years. And I think that the Super Bowl, it's just going to be a reminder. Yeah, I think the I think people forget that he's been in that conversation forever since we've known him. 00:42:01:23 - 00:42:17:14 Speaker 1 Yeah. And I think the Super Bowl just reminds him. He, he he going to do some ODIs with Kanye. He going to do some run this town where Rihanna he got New York and Empire State of Mind with Alicia Keys. All of the greats. 00:42:17:16 - 00:42:18:23 Speaker 4 Brings his wife out. 00:42:19:00 - 00:42:55:09 Speaker 1 Beyonce. Yep. He got he. All of the greats are somehow connected to Jay-Z. And they all done great things together. The greatest of the greatest in the music entertainment business because they they often say is like who has the best posse. Yeah, right. Who who has to get best? Click. So you got Eminem. You got, I guess, the lineage, the umbrella from Doctor Dre in a in a Doctor Dre, Eminem, Snoop Dogg, 50 cent. 00:42:55:11 - 00:43:16:08 Speaker 1 That's a monster squad. You got Lil Wayne, Drake, Nicki that's a monster squad. And when you get to talking about Jay-Z, King, Rihanna, Beyonce. Like when you get. When you just name those people. Yeah. The level of greatness just exceeds. There is no better. 00:43:16:10 - 00:43:17:20 Speaker 4 Duos and. 00:43:17:22 - 00:43:29:02 Speaker 1 There is no better. I ain't even get to Benny Segal and I never get to. I ain't even get to all of them. But there is no better conglomerate than than that is the pinnacle of you. 00:43:29:07 - 00:43:34:10 Speaker 4 I seen a clip where somebody asked Dame Dash, was he come? And he goes. 00:43:34:12 - 00:43:36:01 Speaker 1 Fucking thing. 00:43:36:02 - 00:43:38:00 Speaker 4 Don't call me. 00:43:38:01 - 00:43:58:13 Speaker 1 Ain't nobody. I wasn't certain Dame Dad's wrote that question. Say, hey, ask me this so I can say, don't ask. Don't call me. Yeah don't call me. That's what that's what happened there. Nobody was ever going to ask you name. I'm sorry. That's like me coming on here like, hey, Jay-Z, I know you doing a Super Bowl. I don't want to go, bro. 00:43:58:15 - 00:44:06:04 Speaker 1 I don't want to. I don't even want to perform. Yeah, I ain't never heard of me in his life. I wasn't thinking about me at all. Like. Yeah, thank you. 00:44:06:05 - 00:44:07:04 Speaker 4 Wasn't going on there. 00:44:07:07 - 00:44:18:01 Speaker 1 Dame Dash, has he just lost his life? Life? Right. He got some other shit going on that he need to worry about. And I'm pretty sure Jay-Z didn't want to bother you, man. Yeah. That's it. He just. 00:44:18:01 - 00:44:18:17 Speaker 4 Had so much going. 00:44:18:18 - 00:44:31:20 Speaker 1 He just. Yeah. He just ain't want to bother you. He know you going through a rough patch, so he's not going to call you bro. You ain't got a word. That's one thing you don't have to worry about. Is Jay-Z calling Dame Dash for the fucking Super Bowl. 00:44:31:22 - 00:44:34:04 Speaker 4 Exactly. Like what? 00:44:34:06 - 00:44:38:23 Speaker 1 What is wrong with me? What is wrong with me? I guess I guess people just. 00:44:39:01 - 00:44:39:21 Speaker 4 Just want to throw that out. 00:44:39:21 - 00:44:47:02 Speaker 1 There in a intercept. They self in the conversation, they just interject they self in these conversations to keep. You know what I'm saying? Keep it going. 00:44:47:07 - 00:44:48:03 Speaker 4 He did self relevant. 00:44:48:04 - 00:44:55:07 Speaker 1 Keep your self relevant. That's what that's what everybody is trying to do. Stay ahead of the news cycle. Yep. 00:44:55:09 - 00:44:56:00 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:44:56:02 - 00:45:05:20 Speaker 1 One of our favorite couples. Favorite couples Kevin Gates and Gates. Is she still a gates. 00:45:05:22 - 00:45:07:06 Speaker 4 Well I mean legally. 00:45:07:11 - 00:45:35:11 Speaker 1 I think so. Well not legally because that's that's the topic. The the topic is Kevin Gates dream gates getting a divorce. They're they're battling for assets and stuff like that. Right. They went to court and I keep on seeing conflicting news stories. But one of the news stories is because their, their marriage was never legally, legally done. 00:45:35:11 - 00:45:41:00 Speaker 1 It was just a religious ceremony that they were never technically married. 00:45:41:01 - 00:45:41:14 Speaker 4 Right. 00:45:41:19 - 00:45:56:04 Speaker 1 I I've seen that, I've seen that. And I also seen that she was awarded $70,000 a month, and she was she was ordered. I seen that she was ordered to pay him. I seen he was ordered to pay her. 00:45:56:06 - 00:45:58:19 Speaker 4 Some type of spousal support. I seen that too. 00:45:58:20 - 00:46:04:08 Speaker 1 I seen all of these things and all of it kind of sucks. 00:46:04:09 - 00:46:05:07 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:46:05:08 - 00:46:32:09 Speaker 1 All of it kind of sucks because they were one of my favorite couples. There one of my they were one of my favorite stories. She was his manager for the longest and stood by him and he kept on fucking. Yep. And he kept on. She kept on taking her back. She is beautiful. She on the on a farm somewhere right now with a weed farm, raising goats and raising kids and shit right there now. 00:46:32:13 - 00:46:45:20

Speaker 1 And she ain't saying nothing. Kevin Gates has never really spoke on her until the break up, and he's trying to tell us what happened. It it just a sad thing to see. 00:46:46:00 - 00:46:47:00 Speaker 4 Yes. 00:46:47:02 - 00:46:54:01 Speaker 1 When you known somebody to be with this person that they claim to love forever. 00:46:54:03 - 00:46:57:12 Speaker 1 And to see this go messy inside the public. 00:46:57:13 - 00:46:58:00 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:46:58:04 - 00:47:24:15 Speaker 1 It's it's one of the, one of the ones that I actually gave a fuck like I actually cared about. I don't care about what's the name Dalton and Socko or I don't, I don't care. I don't care about these people. But Kevin Gates and Gates, I'm a fan of both. Yeah. Fan of both. And it just sucks to see men of principles in the principals blow up and and get the acting internet. 00:47:24:17 - 00:47:25:05 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:47:25:08 - 00:47:25:17 Speaker 1 So. 00:47:25:20 - 00:47:34:12 Speaker 4 And then, yeah, the outline of like, well, you helped put in this work with him and you probably won't get anything because if y'all wasn't married, I don't think. 00:47:34:14 - 00:47:53:07 Speaker 1 See, that's what I'm saying. I don't think I don't even think. I think they're they're probably arguing what the actual splits is. If it comes out that Kevin Gates is pulling shenanigans, not trying to pay her because she already got the she got the farm, she got all this, she got the weed farm, she got all this stuff. 00:47:53:07 - 00:48:01:18 Speaker 1 I think they just division and up. I don't even think it's one of the ones where I don't want her to get nothing. I would look at Kevin Gates different if that was the case. 00:48:01:19 - 00:48:02:07 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:48:02:10 - 00:48:11:18 Speaker 1 Real men know that if my woman helped me build this, she deserves whatever. I think Kevin is the man that. Whatever. You won't give it to her. I'll go get it back. 00:48:11:18 - 00:48:12:02 Speaker 4 Back? 00:48:12:03 - 00:48:32:14 Speaker 1 Yeah. Don't. Don't try to fuck me over and just take everything now. Right. But I, I don't look at the as the type of woman to even do that. She won't what she earned. Yeah. And she helped him a long way just figuring out what that number actually is. And I think they figured that out. And I think they both be be civilized for the kids. 00:48:32:15 - 00:48:33:00 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:48:33:06 - 00:48:41:14 Speaker 1 Be civilized for the kids. So that was one of the sad ones. You got anything else on the news topics? 00:48:41:16 - 00:48:42:09 Speaker 4 I don't. 00:48:42:13 - 00:48:43:05 Speaker 1 All right. 00:48:43:06 - 00:48:47:11 Speaker 4 Oh, wait. Yeah we do. We went and seen Dave Chappelle. 00:48:47:12 - 00:48:48:06 Speaker 1 Oh my God. 00:48:48:07 - 00:48:49:10 Speaker 4 Yeah. How did we forget? 00:48:49:11 - 00:48:50:09 Speaker 1 Oh my God. 00:48:50:11 - 00:49:09:10 Speaker 4 Yeah, that's. That was another reason why we was going, y'all. I had a surprise my husband for our anniversary with some Dave Chappelle tickets down to Louisville. And, we went last weekend, and we had an amazing time. See, Mr. Chappelle. 00:49:09:15 - 00:49:10:07 Speaker 1 Mr. Chappelle. 00:49:10:08 - 00:49:13:14 Speaker 4 Mr. Chappelle. So how did you like it, baby? 00:49:13:15 - 00:49:43:10 Speaker 1 I thought the Dave Chappelle's show was probably one of the best comedy shows I've been to. I, I look this is I, I've, I've been to Eddie Griffin, I've been to Kevin Hart, we've been to DL. No we didn't go. We going to deal. We've been a drag. We've been to a lot of comedy shows and this was probably my favorite show. 00:49:43:12 - 00:49:56:16 Speaker 1 So the night starts off the openers. Yeah Ryan Davis is is going to be one of my favorite comedians. I think Ryan Davis is hilarious. 00:49:56:19 - 00:49:57:19 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:49:57:21 - 00:50:20:00 Speaker 1 Ryan Davis opens this show. And possibly has the worst set of the night. Yeah not bad. But everybody that came on that stage murdered everybody. So we sitting there we get there. What time is supposed to start 7:00. 00:50:20:01 - 00:50:21:17 Speaker 4 Was supposed to start at 730. 00:50:21:19 - 00:50:41:11 Speaker 1 We get there. Oh it's supposed to start at 730. We get there probably at 730. We done ordered fucking Ubers and lifts. They didn't game to where we was at. They then both canceled because they can't find out what parking garage we in. So we end up having to drive to the, KFC. Yummy center is what is yum center? 00:50:41:16 - 00:51:06:13 Speaker 1 It's what it's called. We end up having to drive there so we thinking we late. We thinking that the show we going to miss. The show is already started. We get there about 729. Yeah, we get there and. The and the whole everybody. Yeah is standing outside of the arena. That's that's a sign number one. Yeah. Oh this is going to be a bad night. 00:51:06:14 - 00:51:27:05 Speaker 1 You got you got a bunch of people. They're getting anxious. Everybody. Everybody that came here they spent their money. We're not standing in this line. It's I, I'm already seeing like this is not going to be a good night. Yeah. We standing in line. It's barely moving because, they said the ticket scanner was down. Right. So we get there, we just hop in line. 00:51:27:05 - 00:51:45:20 Speaker 1 So we're not late. But it's. It's thousands and thousands of people standing outside, and we sit in that line and we started moving up. They get the ticket scanner run running and we start moving. We probably standing in line for an hour. So it's about eight third. No it's not, it's about we can get in there. It's about nine something. 00:51:45:22 - 00:52:04:04 Speaker 1 Yeah. We didn't get in there to about nine something. So at this time if y'all know people people just angry. Yeah. People mad people can't wait to get to their seats. People is irritated. They have their babysitter way they trying to get food,

drinks, go to the bathroom. We've been standing outside waiting so everybody. 00:52:04:06 - 00:52:04:17 Speaker 4 They seats. 00:52:04:18 - 00:52:06:16 Speaker 1 This show better be fired. 00:52:06:17 - 00:52:07:17 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:52:07:19 - 00:52:21:16 Speaker 1 This show better. We didn't wait it. We didn't spend our money, y'all. And fucked up the ticket thing. This show better be good. And we go on there. I wrote down the DJ's name. 00:52:21:18 - 00:52:27:17 Speaker 1 Let me see if I can find the DJ's name because. 00:52:27:19 - 00:52:36:04 Speaker 1 He probably has one of the hardest jobs to do. 00:52:36:06 - 00:52:39:07 Speaker 1 Okay. 00:52:39:09 - 00:52:47:13 Speaker 1 The DJ for the night was named DJ trauma. He had the hardest job to do. 00:52:47:15 - 00:53:08:07 Speaker 1 You got angry people in here that spent their money been sitting outside sending outside for. We were standing out there for an hour and a half, so I don't know how long they were standing out there for. But you have to somehow convince this angry crowd to sit here and have a good time. 00:53:08:11 - 00:53:09:19 Speaker 4 And have a good time. 00:53:09:21 - 00:53:11:16 Speaker 1 And not let that affect the show. 00:53:11:17 - 00:53:12:14 Speaker 4 Right. 00:53:12:16 - 00:53:36:03 Speaker 1 When I tell you that man played 70s music 80s music, 90s music, 2000 music, and he had that bitch jump and he had people up there dancing, he after had people in the Bulls contest. Yeah. You can move down to the front row when he he mc that night so good and we were still we still pissed. 00:53:36:05 - 00:53:36:14 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:53:36:15 - 00:53:43:21 Speaker 1 Yeah we felt a little better. Yeah. You know I'm saying it's a good time. All right. We're going to sit. We already here. Let's just enjoy. 00:53:43:23 - 00:54:05:08 Speaker 1 Let's enjoy tonight 30 minutes after we sit down they started announcing the comics. Yeah Ryan Davis is up first. I asked my wife you know Ryan Davis. No no she said no she don't know Ryan Davis I'm like I love Ryan Davis. I just was literally watching a Ryan Davis clip of him doing, I think his night school or something. 00:54:05:08 - 00:54:25:11 Speaker 1 Or cancel court. With, with, Kevin on stage name. And I was literally watching that while we using line, so I didn't even know Ryan Davis was going to be here. I'm like, Ryan Davis is funny. Hey, we going to enjoy him. He got down there and he does amazing job. Yeah he does amazing job. He he he laid back comic. 00:54:25:11 - 00:54:48:07 Speaker 1 He it's sort of smart comedy or whatever. But he does a good job. Cool. Ryan goes off, he gets a little clap or whatever. You know what I'm saying? Everybody clap. Everybody was good. It was okay. No I'm saying we we fresh first comic on. He don't do bad. We ain't booing. We we still kicking it. Next up is Brandon Marshall. 00:54:48:09 - 00:54:51:13 Speaker 1 Yeah I think it's his name Brandon Marshall. Old school cast. 00:54:51:14 - 00:54:52:04 Speaker 4 Yep. 00:54:52:06 - 00:55:00:08 Speaker 1 Never seen Brandon Marshall before. Brandon Marshall gets on that motherfucker and shows his entire ass. 00:55:00:09 - 00:55:01:07 Speaker 4 Yes he did. 00:55:01:09 - 00:55:08:22 Speaker 1 He gets on there and got everybody rolled rolling. He he's on there killing. 00:55:09:01 - 00:55:09:13 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:55:09:18 - 00:55:25:20 Speaker 1 I'm I'm I'm I'm a fan of Brandon Marshall from the first time I seen this man I'm I'm going to follow I'm going to go see some of his own stand ups because he did an amazing job. He did. 00:55:25:22 - 00:55:26:10 Speaker 4 He sure did. 00:55:26:11 - 00:55:40:00 Speaker 1 He did a fantastic job. And it was hilarious. Yeah. So if y'all don't if y'all like me, don't know who this guy is, please go check out Brandon Marshall. He was the second opener. 00:55:40:02 - 00:55:51:11 Speaker 1 We just leveled up. Now we rocking everybody getting drinks. Everybody. Everybody is obviously feeling their self because I gotta stop the story. 00:55:51:13 - 00:56:07:22 Speaker 1 I gotta stop the story. Because around this time between Brandon Marshall and the next host, we with people is filling in all the seats is filled up because everybody that was in their line, they finally made it. And. 00:56:08:00 - 00:56:08:23 Speaker 1 It's not funny. 00:56:09:02 - 00:56:09:10 Speaker 4 I'm not. 00:56:09:10 - 00:56:31:14 Speaker 1 Laughing because this is why I can't stand niggas. Everybody is feeling safe. They getting everybody just joking when they having fun or whatever. And then we get people that sit behind us. It's, it's a nigga sitting behind us with the deepest voice I ever heard in my goddamn life. He's sitting on. He's sitting behind us with the deepest voice we got in our life. 00:56:31:14 - 00:56:56:04 Speaker 1 The next the next person comes out. I'm going to talk about him, but this guy behind me has literally been talking for 20 to 30 minutes straight since he said down him and his him, his his girlfriend's voice was fucking annoying. Yes, his voice was annoying. Yes. And I don't know if it's the base in his voice, but it was just irritating the fuck out of me the whole time he was talking. 00:56:56:05 - 00:56:59:04 Speaker 4 And it wasn't even his voice. It was hers voice that. 00:56:59:04 - 00:57:00:04 Speaker 1 Got it was both. 00:57:00:08 - 00:57:00:18 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:57:00:20 - 00:57:22:20 Speaker 1 They both wouldn't shut the fuck up. Yeah. And I'm look, I look at my wife because she know I'm going to say something in about five minutes. And she started laughing and looking at me just with that guy there with that face right there with that face right there. You're sitting there thinking it's a joke, and I'm trying my best to have some cool and not be a nigger and not be fun. 00:57:22:20 - 00:57:30:21 Speaker 1 Flash to flex in this goddamn KFC yum! Center, right? But this nigga behind me will not shut the fuck up

while I'm trying to watch. 00:57:30:22 - 00:57:32:00 Speaker 4 It was her. 00:57:32:02 - 00:57:43:13 Speaker 1 It was both of them she was in the argument about. He didn't tip the bar. Oh my God, you didn't tip the bar guy? Yeah, I'm just saying it. And it's all in a deep avoid like this. 00:57:43:14 - 00:57:46:05 Speaker 4 He said he already felt bad for not doing it. 00:57:46:08 - 00:58:12:07 Speaker 1 I don't do what he said. They was talking for 20 minutes in my ear and I'm getting irritated and irritated, and then come to find out that them was in the wrong seat. They they was in the wrong seat, so they didn't already. I didn't miss about 5 or 10 minutes of of the show. I'm missing good jokes, and I'm just looking at my wife because I'm like, I'm gonna I'm gonna turn this bitch up in a second like this. 00:58:12:07 - 00:58:19:10 Speaker 1 This is crazy. Imma tell you it's going to be whatever is going to be right. But that was beside that was beside the point. 00:58:19:13 - 00:58:20:02 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:58:20:04 - 00:58:27:10 Speaker 1 So during that time that this guy was talking in my goddamn here. 00:58:27:12 - 00:58:34:20 Speaker 1 The third opener was Cipher Sounds. 00:58:34:22 - 00:58:56:03 Speaker 1 I just seen Drinks Champs with cipher sounds and, Mojo Brooks on their cipher sound was telling me that he was telling them because I was thinking of Cypress Hill. It's not that. It's the guy from hot 97. He's real big DJ out there in New York. Yeah, and that was his tagline. I'm very famous in New York. 00:58:56:04 - 00:58:57:11 Speaker 4 Oh, but. 00:58:57:13 - 00:59:07:10 Speaker 1 It was. I was watching him and he seemed like a West Coast, like, slow coming, like somebody that I might have not liked. When I seen him on Drink Champs, he seemed. 00:59:07:10 - 00:59:09:06 Speaker 4 Like, was that the Dominican of. 00:59:09:09 - 00:59:10:07 Speaker 1 The Puerto. 00:59:10:07 - 00:59:11:01 Speaker 4 Rican, Puerto Rican. 00:59:11:01 - 00:59:11:18 Speaker 1 Puerto Rican. 00:59:11:20 - 00:59:12:11 Speaker 4 You're right. 00:59:12:15 - 00:59:14:01 Speaker 1 What are we can go look a little slow. 00:59:14:02 - 00:59:15:18 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:59:15:20 - 00:59:17:07 Speaker 1 I'm very famous in New York. 00:59:17:08 - 00:59:17:18 Speaker 4 Yeah. 00:59:17:21 - 00:59:39:00 Speaker 1 When he. I seen him on Drink Champs and he said he did comedy with Dave. Oh, okay. I didn't think nothing of it. This was before I knew you had the tickets. But Mojo Brooks was on there. Funny. He being funny when worrying them cipher sound. He ain't really giving too much but I didn't think nothing of it. 00:59:39:01 - 00:59:48:08 Speaker 1 So once again this is another guy that I've never seen do comedy. 00:59:48:10 - 01:00:13:11 Speaker 1 And I was ready to say that he had the best set of the entire night. He went on there and destroy that crowd. Yeah. So Ryan Davis took us here. He kept us cool. He kept us cool. Brandon Marshall took us all the way up. 01:00:13:13 - 01:00:25:20 Speaker 1 We rocking now. We are, we are we, we enjoying ourselves now. Drinks is flowing. Besides this nigga that won't shut the fuck up behind me. We having a good time. 01:00:25:21 - 01:00:53:17 Speaker 1 After Cypress Sounds came on if that was the end of the show I would have been happy. That's how great this show was. After Cypress he did such an amazing job. His jokes is set ups. He his taglines his callbacks is he did such amazing job that after he came on, the show could have ended and I would have still. 01:00:53:18 - 01:00:56:22 Speaker 4 Been happy. Yeah. 01:00:57:00 - 01:01:20:18 Speaker 1 I was ready to say he was the best of the night. And then Mr. David Chappelle came out on that stage and we already, like I said, we we we good. 01:01:20:20 - 01:01:21:22 Speaker 1 We can leave. 01:01:22:00 - 01:01:23:02 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:01:23:04 - 01:01:38:03 Speaker 1 I how could it get any better is how I'm feeling right. How could, how could I? I don't even know. I watch a lot of. Dave. I told you, I'm like Dave. Not even the type of guy that you would think that you would need to see. 01:01:38:04 - 01:01:38:22 Speaker 4 Like. 01:01:39:00 - 01:01:40:09 Speaker 1 You can watch Dave on Netflix. 01:01:40:10 - 01:01:40:20 Speaker 4 Netflix. 01:01:40:20 - 01:01:49:13 Speaker 1 You still get it. I'm Dave is my top comedian. Like he he obviously my top comedian. But I'm I acknowledge that Dave is a smart joker. 01:01:49:15 - 01:01:50:09 Speaker 4 Yes. 01:01:50:11 - 01:01:54:07 Speaker 1 He's a smart joker. You ain't really gotta see him laugh. 01:01:54:08 - 01:01:54:19 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:01:55:00 - 01:02:23:12 Speaker 1 Boy, was I fucking wrong when I tell y'all that this is by far the the the show, the the special is going to be called Carmageddon. This is probably the best one I've seen of him, and I don't even know if Netflix is going to get that because they've they've is a mastermind of what he does. He's a he's a mastermind of what he does. 01:02:23:16 - 01:02:34:11 Speaker 1 Great conversationalist. And I didn't know how funny this was. Ultimately, I seen him do crowd work. 01:02:34:13 - 01:02:35:12 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:02:35:14 - 01:03:01:03 Speaker 1 They've was trying to get into his jokes. He probably got half of what he wanted to say out at this show. The other half, this nigga literally just smoking cigarettes, just talking shit with us. Yeah, he just hanging out for two hours. He wasn't. He wasn't in a hurry to go nowhere. Even though. Even though we already two hour late because the KFC. 01:03:01:04 - 01:03:14:19 Speaker 1 Yummy. Yum. Center. He wanted to know he wasn't rushing anything. He people kept on yelling shit out at him, and he just. Instead of trying to get back into his jokes, he just did another. Another. He just tried to set up another joke. 01:03:14:21 - 01:03:15:06 Speaker 4 Right along. 01:03:15:07 - 01:03:30:15 Speaker 1 It's about 4 or 5 jokes that he set up and

didn't get the finished. Yeah, and the shit was hilarious. He took a shot. He took he took a shot, he said, because people was yelling out. He was. He was talking to the people, and the people was trying to talk back to him. And he was like, what the fuck? 01:03:30:15 - 01:03:35:12 Speaker 1 Is this, a Matt rife show? Yeah, he's like, what I Brooks yeah. He's like, yeah, like Brooks. 01:03:35:13 - 01:03:36:21 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:03:36:23 - 01:03:53:09 Speaker 1 Because he was out there doing crowd work. He took a shot, but it wasn't a shot. It was just a call out. It was a call out because at one point, somebody over there in the crowd fainted. Yeah, somebody in the crowd fainted. He took his time. He's like, hey, man, let him let him be okay. Or whatever. 01:03:53:09 - 01:04:10:04 Speaker 1 He tried to he he made that should go so smooth. He was laughing. He said the guy walked, got up and looked at him like he did it. He said he he mean mugged him out the way. The one white lady said, can you fuck my couch? And he said, can I fuck your couch? He said, what did y'all what is wrong with you? 01:04:10:04 - 01:04:33:06 Speaker 1 Bitch is in Kentucky? He said, I got white women asking me to fuck that couch. I got niggas fainting in the back. And he was like. He was like, He was like, I don't know, I'm getting the fuck out of here. He. Dave Chappelle destroy the everybody, everybody destroy that show. 01:04:33:08 - 01:04:33:21 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:04:33:23 - 01:05:03:10 Speaker 1 And I'm pretty sure that I'm not going to tell you tell this man jokes or whatever, but it's it's called backs. He explains some of the old specials. He, he brought him he brought he he got an Indiana Jones joke. He got an Indiana Jones jokes that so far. But like, I was just amazed at how great it was to see him scrap his material that he came out with. 01:05:03:12 - 01:05:10:18 Speaker 1 He scrapped this material that he was trying to get into, but he couldn't finish because niggas kept fainting, passed out, shit. 01:05:10:20 - 01:05:12:08 Speaker 4 Like it was a lot going on. 01:05:12:10 - 01:05:26:18 Speaker 1 He was. Yeah. One point he said, because he was like, they was like the fact that it was like three people that passed out because it was so hot, I guess. But one dude shot out there, yo, you like Michael? He was like, no, I'm I'm the greatest ever. Do this. That Michael only had one person show. 01:05:26:20 - 01:05:41:20 Speaker 1 He's like, he's like, it's my goal to make 12 people saying a night. I'm like, this is retarded, he said. I'm trying to make 12 people faint a night. That's the quota before I can leave that man. Dave Chappelle. If y'all haven't seen if y'all get a chance to. 01:05:41:20 - 01:05:42:23 Speaker 4 See it. Yes. 01:05:43:01 - 01:05:55:06 Speaker 1 Y'all get a chance to go see Carmageddon. Dave is like he by far one of the greatest comedians that I, I I've ever seen with my eyes. 01:05:55:08 - 01:06:17:22 Speaker 1 I'm not going to

say ever because I don't know. But as far as material as far as challenging beliefs, as far as standing on principles, as far as actual jokes, as far as making people think I, I, I, Dave is the pinnacle for me. And he proved that that night. That show was fire. Usually we leave shit early. 01:06:17:23 - 01:06:19:00 Speaker 4 Yeah. We stayed. 01:06:19:00 - 01:06:41:18 Speaker 1 We stayed to the very last end. They went out there, they was taking pictures. You just never know. Everybody did an amazing job at that show. Brandon Marshall cipher sounds I am, I am a fan. I am a fan. Now, I, I y'all made me a believer. Y'all made me a fan. Ryan Davis, Dave Chappelle. 01:06:41:19 - 01:06:47:08 Speaker 1 I've already been a fan. Y'all made me even bigger fans. It was amazing. 01:06:47:13 - 01:06:48:09 Speaker 4 Yes. 01:06:48:11 - 01:06:54:20 Speaker 1 Anything that you want to say before we get into the question of the week, love? 01:06:54:22 - 01:06:57:06 Speaker 4 No, no, just that I had a good time. 01:06:57:07 - 01:06:58:00 Speaker 1 You had a good time? 01:06:58:01 - 01:06:58:09 Speaker 4 I had a great. 01:06:58:10 - 01:07:03:18 Speaker 1 I had an amazing time with my wife. We did end up going to the casino that night. 01:07:03:20 - 01:07:04:09 Speaker 4 We did. 01:07:04:13 - 01:07:10:09 Speaker 1 As y'all can tell, we are gamblers. Yeah. I'm a recovering gambler. My wife just doesn't care about me. 01:07:10:10 - 01:07:13:14 Speaker 4 I do care about him. 01:07:13:15 - 01:07:16:15 Speaker 4 I just I was very surprised, y'all. 01:07:16:17 - 01:07:20:02 Speaker 1 Who books a hotel at a casino for the game? Husband. 01:07:20:04 - 01:07:35:09 Speaker 4 It was free. It was right down the street. Y'all. Like it's free. I'm going to take it. But I wanted to say I was very proud of you, that, here we stayed the night, and I was telling my sisters, I'm like, yeah, we're going to do an all nighter. You know what? Going to keep us up during the casino? 01:07:35:09 - 01:07:40:01 Speaker 4 And you called me and you said, babe, I'm getting really tired. I'm going upstairs. 01:07:40:02 - 01:07:43:05 Speaker 1 That's because I won about four bands and I was getting the fuck away from you. 01:07:43:07 - 01:07:44:07 Speaker 4 You. You said what? 01:07:44:10 - 01:07:49:23 Speaker 1 Not none of my never mind of the week. 01:07:50:01 - 01:07:50:15 Speaker 4 Okay. 01:07:50:18 - 01:08:08:03 Speaker 1 Every week before the show, he actually got the question out there. We picked through some of y'all answers and shared them on the show. So last week or that was about two weeks ago now, we asked show this question. It was, have you ever stayed in a relationship because it was familiar and comfortable, even though the love wasn't there the same anymore? 01:08:08:06 - 01:08:23:06 Speaker 1 How did y'all know the difference between fighting for your relationship and simply being afraid to let go? We had an amazing show last week and we got some y'all feedback on the show. So the first person says. 01:08:23:08 - 01:08:46:21 Speaker 4 Yes, I have. I think sometimes you get used to having somebody around that. I'm sorry. Yes, I have. I think sometimes you get so used to having someone around that you confuse their presence with happiness. You have your routine, you know what to expect and that the person becomes a part of your everyday life, even when the relationship isn't given what it's supposed to give anymore. 01:08:46:23 - 01:08:53:10 Speaker 4 You stay because at least you know what you have. Okay, okay fine. 01:08:53:12 - 01:08:55:23 Speaker 1 But. 01:08:56:01 - 01:08:59:12 Speaker 1 Okay. 01:08:59:14 - 01:09:28:00 Speaker 1 That sounds, that sounds a lot, that sounds a lot like what we was talking about last week in the, in the form of it's not being that bad. Yeah. So I think that's what people are taking away from the question that if it's not bad. So I, I don't have any problems with staying somewhere because it's comfortable. Even if you don't think it's the best for you, it gets like that. 01:09:28:00 - 01:09:29:22 Speaker 1 Sometimes. It gets stagnant sometimes. 01:09:29:23 - 01:09:50:14 Speaker 4 Yeah, I see a lot of people I told you these days you see a lot of people staying just because they're familiar or they've got I got kids, I gotta stay. You're not happy, but you choose to stay. Like that's your excuse of wanting to stay somewhere where you don't want to be is because of the kids. Or, oh, this is where I'm comfortable. 01:09:50:14 - 01:09:54:00 Speaker 4 This is the person that I know. It's so common these days. 01:09:54:02 - 01:10:18:04 Speaker 1 That's one of my. That's one of my fears. Somebody's staying with me just because there is comfort and not not for love. I think that anybody that recognized that should leave them, they should give them the the chance to be happy. But on our flip side, on the flip side, where does the happiness come from? If you if you think that somebody, somebody can contribute to the your happiness? 01:10:18:04 - 01:10:39:00 Speaker 1 Yes. But nine times out of ten, those people that's not happy and they just stand because it's comfortable. They have no idea what they want out of life and what will actually make them happy. They just think that. Oh, it must be something that he's doing because, oh, when he used to do this or when she used to do this, I was happy. 01:10:39:02 - 01:11:06:22 Speaker 1 And now this is not happening no more. It's not. I think the I think people use words wrong. It don't be exciting. It don't be, passionate. It'd be a lot of things that relationships go down in like that, that calm down. But peace, peace and comfort. Comfortability I don't think is the problem. I don't think, I don't think I see that as the problem. 01:11:07:00 - 01:11:32:05 Speaker 1 I prefer I prefer knowing what I'm going to get from my wife. I am the I am the ultimate level of comfort knowing that my wife is going to ride with me

or die with me. We've been there through thick and thin. I, I think that on days that I'm not happy, I still love my wife and she still makes me happy. 01:11:32:05 - 01:11:49:12 Speaker 1 And they. Is that you? That you are not happy? I don't think you take that out on me and say that all. Yeah, I'm. I'm not happy here, but that ain't got shit to do with me. That ain't. I don't think people know what really makes them happy, and they think that they can find it in somebody else. 01:11:49:12 - 01:11:55:15 Speaker 1 And when they stop, when they when they not getting happy, they blame it on that person. You're not happy because you're not happy. 01:11:55:16 - 01:11:56:01 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:11:56:02 - 01:11:57:05 Speaker 1 Go get happy. 01:11:57:10 - 01:11:58:12 Speaker 4 Yep. 01:11:58:13 - 01:12:18:07 Speaker 1 Question of the week number two. Last week we asked you guys out there. Have you ever stayed in a relationship because it was familiar. Comfortable even though the love wasn't the same anymore? The second person says, honestly, I think I was more afraid of starting over than I was afraid of losing the person I didn't want to date again. 01:12:18:08 - 01:12:36:13 Speaker 1 Learned someone new? Explain myself all over again. Well, risk getting hurt by somebody else. I had gotten comfortable with what I knew, even though I knew it wasn't making me happy anymore. And this is the one. This is the one that I see happening. 01:12:36:15 - 01:12:37:04 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:12:37:07 - 01:13:02:10 Speaker 1 I think that people be miserable. People be miserable. This is, this is more of the, of the reason why I wanted to get into this question. Because if you are miserable and you are afraid of getting out there and starting over in the fear of finding somebody else, I think you should shut the fuck up and enjoy your misery. 01:13:02:12 - 01:13:34:01 Speaker 1 I think you get what you ask for. I think that if you are, are and I take that back because it's, it's absolutely terrifying to go and find somebody else and risk the person that I've known and I've been with for this long and have to go through all these things, over again. But if I was miserable and this relationship just like my just like a gambler, I would take the chance. 01:13:34:03 - 01:13:35:09 Speaker 1 What do you have to lose? 01:13:35:10 - 01:13:36:15 Speaker 4 Right. 01:13:36:17 - 01:13:59:09 Speaker 1 If you know it's not making you happy. What do you have to lose? That's the things that people fail to ask themselves. That's the big question. If you so unhappy here. That's what I tell all the people that I counsel and mentor. Are you really mad. You mad. She made you. She made you big man, 01:13:59:11 - 01:14:00:04 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:14:00:06 - 01:14:20:23 Speaker 1 Did she make you mad enough to leave her? Are you mad enough, or is what's she doing so disrespectful enough? Or is him cheating so bad that you are willing to leave? If not, then what the fuck? What are we talking about? It obviously ain't that bad. 01:14:21:01 - 01:14:21:19 Speaker 4 Did you still there? 01:14:21:20 - 01:14:24:10 Speaker 1 When she get bad. Bad. 01:14:24:12 - 01:14:27:00 Speaker 4 You gonna be out the door. Yeah. 01:14:27:01 - 01:14:35:10 Speaker 1 Y'all might come back. You might. I never want to say that. What happens is people go out there. The fear of the unknown brings you back, but you initially leave. 01:14:35:11 - 01:14:36:23 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:14:37:01 - 01:14:42:14 Speaker 1 Because of life circumstances, you ain't got no job. He pays all the bills. You might come back, but you leave. 01:14:42:17 - 01:14:45:16 Speaker 4 You leave. 01:14:45:18 - 01:14:52:09 Speaker 1 I don't see that happening a lot anymore. No, I just I just don't got anything for him, baby. 01:14:52:14 - 01:14:53:16 Speaker 4 No. 01:14:53:18 - 01:15:21:19 Speaker 1 Not nothing for him. All right, so that was the question of the week. Not like we do every week. We like to bring y'all into our home. We like to. We like to, bring some hot topics, as they say, or or some great questions for the couples out there, the future couples out there, or the people that's looking to deepen their love in relationships. 01:15:21:19 - 01:15:27:18 Speaker 1 So what we have for you guys this week is. 01:15:27:20 - 01:15:53:16 Speaker 1 I've seen this floating around, and the question that popped up out there in the communities are, have you ever been made to feel like the bad guy for finally putting yourself first? They they talked a little bit about have you ever felt guilty for choosing your own peace or making somebody else happy. Over. Oh peace over making somebody else happy. 01:15:53:18 - 01:16:09:12 Speaker 1 It's a bunch of things we can get into. We can get it. We can get into. Have you ever realized that someone only likes you because of everything you did for them? Do you think setting boundaries with people you love is selfish, or is it necessary? Do you owe people in explanation for when you decide to protect your peace? 01:16:09:14 - 01:16:32:11 Speaker 1 So this is a real big topic out there that not only did I go through. Me and you have had this conversation. My mother has had this conversation. My little sister needed to have this conversation. But it boils down to. 01:16:32:13 - 01:17:04:14 Speaker 1 Is it wrong, selfish? Mean? It was the what's the more words? Is it? Are you being an asshole for. Putting yourself first? That was that was really the conversation that we just had. And we just did some deep, deep therapy on it. We just did some deep therapy on it. Yeah. And it's so many questions mixed up in this. 01:17:04:16 - 01:17:08:02 Speaker 1 But where would you like to start with this. 01:17:08:04 - 01:17:09:07 Speaker 4 Let's start from the beginning. 01:17:09:08 - 01:17:16:15 Speaker 1 Let's start from the beginning. 01:17:16:17 - 01:17:39:22 Speaker 1 So the beginning they talking about have you ever been made to feel like

the bad guy for finally putting yourself first. I don't think. When I hear this from people I don't think that anybody makes you feel like anything. I think I think that the idea I think the idea in your head of not being the people person people call on. 01:17:39:23 - 01:17:48:13 Speaker 1 Yeah. Or not being the favorite or people saying, oh, that's mean. Yeah. I think the idea. 01:17:48:15 - 01:18:27:23 Speaker 1 Of not of letting people down comes from within sight. I think you think not just you, I think people think that I gotta do this for them because this is what I would want from somebody else. And if I don't show up for them they're not going to love me like me. Insert example here. And I got a real real interesting story with this. 01:18:28:01 - 01:18:47:20 Speaker 1 I wouldn't say I'm selfless, but I wouldn't say I'm selfish, but I grew up my life, grew up my whole life with my brothers and my sisters and my mom. And it was just only us. And it was always family first. And it was always, I'm the big brother, so I'm always trying to look out for everybody in the house. 01:18:47:23 - 01:19:12:09 Speaker 1 I'm willing to go off the bat, I'm willing to stick out my neck to do provide and and provide the extra help my mom needs for my little sisters. I think I didn't bought everybody's first car under me in my household besides my baby sister. I that's the type of shit I did because anybody buy me a first car, like I got hand-me-downs or whatever. 01:19:12:09 - 01:19:25:21 Speaker 1 So I, I wanted to be that person, and I, I show up with gifts, I buy everybody everything, and I, I, I try to be what I wanted as a big brother for me. 01:19:25:22 - 01:19:26:17 Speaker 4 Right? 01:19:26:19 - 01:19:58:05 Speaker 1 And I struggled for a long time. I still struggle with it somewhat, but I struggled for a long time with saying no. I struggled with them. With them. It's is I'm going to try to figure it out. I struggled for a long time with that and my uncle gave me a piece of game. I was in college, I was in college, I was away, I wasn't feeling like I wasn't making the same amount of money I was doing, I wasn't I came, I ended up wanting to come home and whatever my uncle told me. 01:19:58:05 - 01:20:11:05 Speaker 1 The piece of advice that sounds like a cliche until you actually go live it and go through it, and the cliche says that you can't help anybody until you help yourself first. 01:20:11:09 - 01:20:12:01 Speaker 4 Right. 01:20:12:05 - 01:20:42:05 Speaker 1 They he gave me the airplane speech. When, when when the plane is going down, you gotta make sure you provide your put your own mask on first. So before you save the kids, he gave me that. I didn't understand that when I was younger. I didn't understand that when I was younger because I correlated that with doing the right thing, correlated being that guy that you can always call on, and that's always going to be there when you need them and and providing and getting you all all this stuff. 01:20:42:06 - 01:20:51:00 Speaker 1 I correlated that with doing the right thing. Yes. And I literally. 01:20:51:02 - 01:21:01:02 Speaker 1 I literally had to force myself and I had to experiment with myself with. 01:21:01:04 - 01:21:06:15 Speaker 1 Being selfish is what I would call it or what I thought it was. 01:21:06:17 - 01:21:29:09 Speaker 1 I, I had to I think probably I can't even remember the year, but it was a year that I said to myself that this year I'm going to fall back. I'm going to say no, I'm going to, I'm going to say no this year. I'm not doing no gifts, I'm not doing no birthdays, I'm not doing no holidays. 01:21:29:09 - 01:21:51:04 Speaker 1 I'm not doing I'm not doing that. I'm going to fall back this year and see what happens. And that year I, I failed. I might I might have missed two birthdays or three, you know what I'm saying? I got out of I went out from doing everything from all of the things to doing some of the things. 01:21:51:07 - 01:21:52:12 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:21:52:14 - 01:22:20:08 Speaker 1 And the nose hurt telling people, no, I ain't got it. That hurt. It hurt me. But I found out that people who are more understanding than you give them credit for people understood that bond still loves me. You just told me. No. It was strange. My family didn't. My family didn't. Like. I was like, oh, he said no. 01:22:20:10 - 01:22:48:11 Speaker 1 Like my family. They didn't. They didn't necessarily know what was going on because I've never been that person, but they didn't have a problem with it. It was just weird. It was just a change, just a shift. So that first year I did I'm let's say I, I, I said no 50% of the time. And I was still feeling bad the next year, I got to got up to 70%. 01:22:48:13 - 01:23:06:02 Speaker 1 And I still I still felt kind of bad. But I realized that people know I love them even though I don't do everything for them. As y'all can see, I trained myself up and I got to a point where. 01:23:06:04 - 01:23:20:15 Speaker 1 I am the most comfortable I've ever been in life saying no, I am the most comfortable I've ever been in my life. Saying no because of how much I say yes. 01:23:20:17 - 01:23:36:18 Speaker 1 Me and you had to talk about this where you said I, I gotta learn how to tell people no, and I gotta learn how to, I'm just going to be mean, and I'm just going to I'm going to cut everybody off. And we had that talk and I said, you don't have to do that. That's who you are. 01:23:36:20 - 01:24:03:07 Speaker 1 I am a naturally giving person. I want to give if you call me I want to give it to you. If I got it, I know that I'm going to be fine without it. Right. And I get it back. Right. So if I got it, I got no problem giving it to you. The only thing is I have to say no, I have to put myself first. 01:24:03:09 - 01:24:03:21 Speaker 4 Right. 01:24:04:00 - 01:24:22:22 Speaker 1 You want to know why. Because if I fuck up who going to be there to build you out. If I fall

off and you fall off, we all fuck yeah. If you fall off and I'm good. You good? 01:24:22:23 - 01:24:47:12 Speaker 1 I had the, I had to literally train myself to put myself first for and the, the actions of feeling like the bad guy, like I told you that's a, that's a self, that's a self-taught thing on. What do you think the bad guy is? I changed my perspective to the point where I literally created niggas that don't want to go get no money. 01:24:47:14 - 01:24:50:05 Speaker 1 I that hurts me more than anything. 01:24:50:07 - 01:24:50:18 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:24:50:21 - 01:25:12:07 Speaker 1 I, I gave my brother two cars, put my brother on his feet. I gave my sister a car, I gave her the money to get her first house. And they don't understand the way money works because they ain't never had to hustle or go do it for themselves. I feel bad for saying yes all them times. I that's that's where I'm at in this now. 01:25:12:08 - 01:25:33:11 Speaker 1 It got to be a balance. I'm there for you when you need me. Not one, not when you want me to. I want you to be able to figure it out by yourself. And that only comes. That only comes when people will have to go through that. So I've been in situations that made me feel like the bad guy for finally putting myself first. 01:25:33:11 - 01:25:48:17 Speaker 1 But then I changed that thought into, you don't give a fuck about me if you don't care about me putting myself first. Yeah, everybody in this world puts their self first. It's no problem with that. That's a human thing. I care about me just like you care about you. 01:25:48:21 - 01:25:49:12 Speaker 4 Yep. 01:25:49:14 - 01:25:59:01 Speaker 1 So I'm going to I'm going to put myself first. You put yourself first and then if I got some extra I got no problem helping you out. 01:25:59:03 - 01:25:59:13 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:25:59:16 - 01:26:09:06 Speaker 1 That's it. That's all I got. I know I talked for 30 minutes. What you got on what you got on the first subject. I tell you my wife, she, she write down 17 questions. 01:26:09:08 - 01:26:33:10 Speaker 4 Yeah. Oh man that I think I have never felt this question as much as I ever had like I have lived this person. I think I had told myself at the beginning of this year that I was no longer going to serve other people. 01:26:33:12 - 01:26:34:11 Speaker 1 Serve other people? 01:26:34:12 - 01:26:36:17 Speaker 4 Yeah, that served me no purpose. 01:26:36:20 - 01:26:40:16 Speaker 1 That serves you no purpose. That's different. Oh, you know, I was feeling. Yeah, talk. 01:26:40:16 - 01:27:01:21 Speaker 4 But yeah, that served me no purpose. I definitely understand where you was coming from. I've always been the help of the family. Like, I literally carry my whole family. I think you got to a point to where. 01:27:01:22 - 01:27:14:04 Speaker 4 I was always saying yes, and it got to a point to where it made me feel bad because I kept saying yes when I wanted to say no. 01:27:14:06 - 01:27:16:07 Speaker 1 It makes you, it makes you feel used. 01:27:16:08 - 01:27:45:09 Speaker 4 It makes you feel used. Absolutely. It made me feel like I wasn't being appreciated because you steady coming back like people never get tired. Do you. Never get tired I my right hand. I had a situation before where somebody in my family called me and they was like we were talking. I'm like, yeah, you know, I just had to pay, you know, I paid my bills and had to get my car fixed. 01:27:45:09 - 01:28:00:02 Speaker 4 And I just got a couple of dollars left, and I promise you, that person said I hate. Well, no. They said, Oh, I felt really bad, but do you happen to have $20 on you? 01:28:00:07 - 01:28:03:06 Speaker 1 Either I need it, baby. 01:28:03:09 - 01:28:09:12 Speaker 4 When I tell you I felt every sense of feeling that. There is anger. 01:28:09:12 - 01:28:10:11 Speaker 1 Frustration? 01:28:10:14 - 01:28:11:01 Speaker 4 Yes. 01:28:11:03 - 01:28:17:08 Speaker 1 You felt. You felt uncared for. Yes. You feel unloved. You felt for using abuse. 01:28:17:10 - 01:28:21:19 Speaker 4 And didn't feel an insult bad about. 01:28:21:20 - 01:28:23:13 Speaker 1 Not a remorse. Not a remorse at all. 01:28:23:17 - 01:28:42:16 Speaker 4 Oh, I hated to ask you. I mean, you just said you had to do this, but do you have $20 that let me know that you did not care about me? After you heard me say that, your first instinct should have been like, all right, well, I love you. I hope everything gets better. And you go on about your day. 01:28:42:18 - 01:28:50:16 Speaker 4 You insisted on asking me for the money. Even though I told you I'm in a tight spot. I'm over here, bro. I'm hurting too. 01:28:50:18 - 01:29:17:08 Speaker 1 I. I used to feel the way you feel. I used to feel the way that it was. It was, abuse or anything. I used to feel that way, but you know my. Self evaluating as I recognize that you only felt comfortable with doing that because of who I am. 01:29:17:09 - 01:29:18:10 Speaker 4 Of who I am, I. 01:29:18:10 - 01:29:35:04 Speaker 1 Don't, I don't it's, it's not, it's not my problem because you act like it's not, it's not my, it's not my goal. Like it's not my thing to stop you from asking. I have to be the person to say no. 01:29:35:06 - 01:29:38:03 Speaker 4 It kind of comes, though, with a common sense. 01:29:38:05 - 01:30:01:03 Speaker 1 I think. I think that comes from, courtesy. I think I think you would expect them to have courtesy and to give a fuck. But like I told you, I think most people are selfish. Yeah, I think I think more often than not, most people are selfish. And people know. People know now, these days, especially my little brother, I think they know that. 01:30:01:07 - 01:30:22:08 Speaker 1 You might want to ask one. I don't want you to stop asking because why am I being a good mood? Or he might be in a bad mood. You can ask me. I can tell you my life story, which I don't because I know people don't give a fuck in the first place. I can tell you

what everything that I had to pay and it would make people do that because they don't even understand. 01:30:22:10 - 01:30:36:01 Speaker 1 They don't even understand how I'm doing what I what it is I am doing. So I'm not I know, I know longer and it takes time to. I'm not even mad at you for asking me that. After I told you my story, I. You can ask me. 01:30:36:07 - 01:30:39:15 Speaker 4 I was best because. Because you're really upset about that. 01:30:39:16 - 01:30:57:01 Speaker 1 I I've been there for, like I told you, three years. It's 3 or 4 years that it took me to get to this place. But I'm, I'm never I'm never. I want to be because I get something from you being that person as well. I get something from being the person to let you lend. Lend you $10? Yeah. 01:30:57:05 - 01:31:18:16 Speaker 1 It feels good to be the person that they call on to let them all I want. I need $20. It feels good helping my sisters out or paying, paying something for my mom or helping my brother out. It feels fucking amazing. It feels amazing, but it's as high as I get off of. That is as low as I'm going to get off of feeling telling, you know? 01:31:18:18 - 01:31:43:03 Speaker 1 Yeah. So now I'm going to help out. I'm going to be the person that that you can call on. I'm still going to be the same me. I'm gonna be the person that when you when life is fucked up and you can't find a way. I'm always going to be that helping hand. But when you need. If a person calls me and ask for ten for 20, 10 or $20, I got no problem telling them no because I have no idea what the fuck you can do with ten, 10 or $20. 01:31:43:04 - 01:31:59:04 Speaker 1 I don't know anything that's life threatening or big that you can do with $20 besides go get food. I don't know, you can't tell me all my life in the get cut off. I need $20. Yeah. No you don't. Yeah. No you don't. You got $20. Yeah. You got, you got. 01:31:59:04 - 01:32:01:06 Speaker 4 Two I want to spend your $20. You spend. 01:32:01:11 - 01:32:24:19 Speaker 1 You can find $20. Yeah. You can ask for people for $5 before you ask. Don't ask me for $20. I'm not that person. I'm not that guy I don't even like. I don't even I don't even understand that. Yeah, how you can ask me. But I wanted to tell you that it takes them. It's going to take a little bit more because I, like I told you, I got resentful with everybody too. 01:32:24:20 - 01:32:37:16 Speaker 1 Yeah. You get resentful with people too, but you realize people are who they are, and you got to protect yourself even from that. Yeah. It don't mean that they don't love you. They they love you. They just care about them for. And they care about you. 01:32:37:17 - 01:32:38:04 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:32:38:08 - 01:32:46:07 Speaker 1 That's that's it. And that's most people. That's that's most people. And ain't nothing wrong with that. You have to learn how to do that for you. 01:32:46:08 - 01:33:06:13 Speaker 4 And it's a good while. It took a while for me to realize that those are those people. That's just how they are. That's who they are. And it took me a while to understand that, because for the longest, I was the yes person and they were still doing that to me. And I didn't really I didn't see it that way. 01:33:06:18 - 01:33:08:09 Speaker 1 You don't see how that's the cycle though. 01:33:08:10 - 01:33:09:01 Speaker 4 Like it. 01:33:09:02 - 01:33:16:02 Speaker 1 Yeah. Yeah. That's the that's the cycle. You are the yes person. Yeah. So you are the person to ask who who else would I. Yeah. Who else. Everybody else. Show me. No. 01:33:16:03 - 01:33:16:11 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:33:16:16 - 01:33:24:15 Speaker 1 So who the fuck. Why wouldn't I ask? Yeah. Why wouldn't I ask you. So you say it took you a while to, it took a while to realize that. 01:33:24:16 - 01:33:43:16 Speaker 4 Yeah I, I, I seen it but I didn't understand it, I didn't understand it. Yeah. And I kept giving people the you no reasonable doubt just. Oh that's my love one. That's, that's my, that's my friend. Until it got to that point to where it started to break who I was. 01:33:43:17 - 01:33:44:10 Speaker 1 Right. 01:33:44:12 - 01:33:47:09 Speaker 4 And I was like, yeah, I can't do this no more. 01:33:47:11 - 01:34:15:22 Speaker 1 That's the I'm pretty sure at some time we going to talk about boundaries. And everybody think that if I set this boundary that person is supposed to change. And that's not how it works. Yeah. That's not that's not how it works. Protecting yourself should never should never make you feel bad. Anybody that doesn't doesn't value you the way you value you. 01:34:16:00 - 01:34:23:22 Speaker 1 You're pretty off you. You're better off alone. Yeah. And this takes a lot of self work. We did a lot of therapy and talking. 01:34:23:23 - 01:34:24:15 Speaker 4 Talked about that. 01:34:24:15 - 01:34:49:16 Speaker 1 And, and we got down to the root of it is the reason why we say yes so much is because we don't want to be alone and saying no to people. We're going to make them think that we don't love them or care about them. And then they go walk away from us. So it takes a lot of deep diving within ourselves to build up that confidence and build up that, that, strength to tell people know. 01:34:49:18 - 01:35:17:08 Speaker 1 And I like it took me, it took me a long, long time. But I realized that this is some selfish arrogant shit. But I care about people. Care about people. I don't want to say more. I care about people differently than they care about me. I think I think that because we the oldest, because we responsible, because we look like we got it. 01:35:17:08 - 01:35:40:06 Speaker 1 Okay. Like people don't even think to ask a certain questions that you might ask somebody else that you know that that's shaky. And I had to battle with myself. Is that a good thing. Would I be rather be the nigga that nobody ever calls. Yeah. Or be the nigga that you know that got your back. And I, I love being the nigga that got your

back. 01:35:40:12 - 01:36:06:08 Speaker 1 I love being looked at like that. So that come with beggars, come with, they come with stragglers. They come with beggars. Yeah I and it's about, it's about balance. I still love giving my sister. My sisters might call me $20. I go get you some food because I love you. Yeah. Like, I don't, I don't I think that they supposed to ask and you post to have the willpower to say no. 01:36:06:09 - 01:36:29:03 Speaker 1 That comes with strength and and getting better. Getting better. Baby. We're not going to do none of these other ones. We'll split them up and we'll, we'll come back to you guys because if not we'll have a five hour show. Man. Yeah. That was just the first part of the question. And we ain't even get to unpack that properly. 01:36:29:05 - 01:36:53:03 Speaker 1 I, I, I love to have these conversations with the many people as possible so we can share perspectives and hopefully gain some enlightening and hopefully get y'all get something out of it from these conversations. But as far as have we ever felt bad, felt filled, felt down. Have we ever been made to feel bad? Like the bad guy? 01:36:53:08 - 01:37:16:00 Speaker 1 Oh, shit. Have we ever been. Have we ever been made to feel like the bad guy for putting ourselves first? Yes, but I think we make ourselves feel like the bad guy. I don't think nobody else did that. Yeah, and sometimes they do. But I think it's more of us making ourselves feel like the bad guy. I don't think nobody said, oh, I hate you now because you said, no. 01:37:16:02 - 01:37:17:15 Speaker 4 I did. Never talking about. 01:37:17:16 - 01:37:23:09 Speaker 1 Never talking to. They talk about you anyway. Yeah, they talk about you after you give the $20 to. 01:37:23:09 - 01:37:24:02 Speaker 4 Really? They want to give. 01:37:24:03 - 01:37:30:18 Speaker 1 Me this. You. Oh, did you hear how she sighed after asking for the $20? I'm not going to ask her no more. Yeah, and then. 01:37:30:21 - 01:37:31:05 Speaker 4 They ain't. 01:37:31:05 - 01:37:54:00 Speaker 1 Come back. Then I'm the. So when I say okay, don't ask me then, yeah, I'm the asshole now. Like I'm. I've gotten real comfortable with being the asshole in your story because you don't understand me. I've gotten real comfortable with that. Being with. I got real comfortable with that because I know who I am. And you know who I am. 01:37:54:01 - 01:38:06:08 Speaker 1 I know you so you can talk all this shit that you want to talk. And one's mean and one's all this. But you know that one is probably the, the most solid person that you got on your team. And that's why y'all came and asked me so. 01:38:06:10 - 01:38:11:17 Speaker 4 I'm not all the way there but I'm, I'm better than what I was last year that's for sure. 01:38:11:19 - 01:38:21:22 Speaker 1 When I tell you you gotta play around with it you gotta say no just for the fuck. Yeah. Sometimes you're like hey, hey, you got $12.88. No, I ain't got it, bro. 01:38:21:23

- 01:38:23:20 Speaker 4 Yeah, yeah. 01:38:23:22 - 01:38:28:06 Speaker 1 And where you at right now? We in the casino. That's what you mean. You got $12? Yeah. No. 01:38:28:07 - 01:38:29:11 Speaker 4 I got you. 01:38:29:12 - 01:38:31:13 Speaker 1 I got $12 for you. 01:38:31:15 - 01:38:32:09 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:38:32:11 - 01:38:54:16 Speaker 1 Fuck, yeah. Yeah we are. Everybody in my family grow. Everybody is grown baby. Who the who would have. Why in the in my taking care of grown people. I don't have no kids. I don't feel bad for none of you niggas. I don't feel bad. Nothing. Just like I wake up and I don't want to go to work. 01:38:54:18 - 01:39:16:08 Speaker 1 Just like I wake up every day and I don't want to take my ass to work. Hey it's sucks man. But you were out there partying. I was at work. So now I got the $20, but my kids diapers or whatever the fuck do you think of me talking about? I don't feel bad. I don't feel bad for shit. 01:39:16:10 - 01:39:37:05 Speaker 1 I work very, very, very hard. And if I want to bless you with $20, you should say why thank you sir. Why thank you so much sir. I used to use the best man I ever known. You should say that to me. I don't give a fuck if you. If I tell you. Knowing you be like, oh, that wine ain't shit. 01:39:37:06 - 01:39:49:12 Speaker 1 Well, you know what one is? A nigga with $20. $20 a nigga with $20. That's who I am. The fuck it took, it took forever. And it's only the people that you care about. 01:39:49:13 - 01:39:49:23 Speaker 4 Oh, yeah. 01:39:49:23 - 01:39:52:18 Speaker 1 Cause if a stranger asks you on the street. You got no problem telling them. 01:39:52:18 - 01:39:53:14 Speaker 4 No, no. Yeah. 01:39:53:15 - 01:40:06:15 Speaker 1 You just don't want. You just don't want to. You feel bad because the people you love, you don't want them thinking nothing of you. Yeah. My the my family already think the worst of me. Yeah. It's okay. Yeah. If somehow my life goes on. 01:40:06:16 - 01:40:07:18 Speaker 4 Yeah. 01:40:07:20 - 01:40:12:14 Speaker 1 Somehow. Just keep on going. And it's good to. It's good. 01:40:12:16 - 01:40:13:11 Speaker 4 Crazy. 01:40:13:17 - 01:40:36:13 Speaker 1 That was the question of the week. The question was, have you ever been made to feel like the bad guy for finally putting yourself first? Let us know in the comments! We love it. We going to pick the best ones and we'll respond to them on next week's show. And we probably dive into this again next week, because we ain't no where near finished with this, with this topic. 01:40:36:16 - 01:40:46:20 Speaker 1 Alright. At all right. So I have to ask. 01:40:46:22 - 01:41:08:04 Speaker 1 We have a part of the show. It's a fan favorite part of the show and all the fans love it. Always the part of the show. It's called couples Court, right? Couples court is where we bring an argument or grievance to the court of public opinion. And we let the fans decide whose side they rocking with. Right. 01:41:08:09 - 01:41:26:19 Speaker 1 So my wife has been coming in here with a bunch of couples courts. So I'm gonna ask you, even though you can't possibly have one. Yes. You can't have a grievance with me because I. I don't do anything wrong. But just in case I do have the for the for the show's sake, ask you, do you have. 01:41:26:21 - 01:41:30:02 Speaker 4 Absolutely. 01:41:30:04 - 01:41:31:13 Speaker 1 I'm tired of you not letting me finish. 01:41:31:15 - 01:41:33:23 Speaker 4 I had my lawyer come over here, please. Thank you. 01:41:34:01 - 01:41:35:03 Speaker 1 So you do have a couple? 01:41:35:04 - 01:41:37:20 Speaker 4 I do. 01:41:37:22 - 01:41:38:19 Speaker 1 I can't believe. 01:41:38:21 - 01:41:42:18 Speaker 4 I see me even. 01:41:42:20 - 01:42:02:11 Speaker 1 How? Right. So this part of the show is called couples court. Couples court is where we bring an argument or grievance to the court of public opinion. And we let the fans decide whose side they rocking with and who's in the right and who's in the wrong. My wife has a bunch of lies she wants to bring to you guys. 01:42:02:11 - 01:42:22:04 Speaker 1 So we going to sit up here, we're going to listen. We're going to entertain her. You feel me? And after this, I'm gonna need y'all to comment. Jay or nay. It's probably going to be Jay. And y'all need y'all to let us know whose side y'all rocking. I'm going to defend myself, and I'm going to leave the floor to the lovely Mrs. Woods to get your lies off. 01:42:22:05 - 01:42:22:16 Speaker 4 Okay. 01:42:22:22 - 01:42:26:08 Speaker 1 All right. So any. And take your time. I will take your time. 01:42:26:09 - 01:42:33:22 Speaker 4 Thank you. So, ladies and gentlemen, I ain't gonna hold you up too long. I just want to throw this out there, so. 01:42:34:00 - 01:42:35:20 Speaker 1 Objection. 01:42:35:22 - 01:42:57:00 Speaker 4 I ain't even say nothing yet. You keep going anyways. So my husband tried to throw a little shade the other day at me, right? Yeah. It was. It was. Yeah. You're right a little. It was much shade, right? So we was leaving. I was getting ready. We was getting ready to head off to Dave Chappelle. Go down to Louisville. 01:42:57:00 - 01:43:19:15 Speaker 4 Right. We didn't pack the night before. We waited till we got up to pack. I'm running around the house throwing stuff in the suitcase. He has no worries at all, right? He's in there waiting his game. Listen to the music. Talking to his friends. I'm running around the house because we got to be at the show at seven. 01:43:19:15 - 01:43:41:18 Speaker 4 But we got to go check into the the hotel by a certain time. Right. So he's in there living his good life. He's not dressed. He's still in his underwear. He's just living his life. I'm over here panicking because I'm like, we gotta beat traffic. We gotta go check in. We gotta be ready. I'm over going through with your right. 01:43:41:20 - 01:43:54:08 Speaker 4 I go out, get the suitcase, I start packing my stuff. He takes his

time coming out the room. So he looks at me and says, see this? Is this what happened when y'all women, this what y'all go through, 01:43:54:10 - 01:43:57:17 Speaker 1 That's not what I said. That's not what I'm saying. 01:43:57:23 - 01:43:59:23 Speaker 4 Right now. Now hold on. 01:44:00:00 - 01:44:03:20 Speaker 1 Let me tell you, I this guy. Right? He he's gonna lie to the fans. 01:44:03:21 - 01:44:24:09 Speaker 4 He starts going saying little shady stuff, right? Because he's see me packing all my stuff, making sure I got lotion and deodorant stuff. I get in the car, I get all finished, I get in the car, I'm sitting in the car because he makes it look like he's waiting on me while I'm still packing stuff up. He's he's like, oh, I'm done. 01:44:24:11 - 01:44:50:06 Speaker 4 Okay. All right. So I go get in the car. He comes out once. All my soul is outside. You left my soul outside. So now he's gonna go. Now he's gotta go. Put this all up. I'm still sitting out there. He comes out there again. You know where my wallet is? I can't find my wallet. Goes back inside again. 01:44:50:08 - 01:44:54:04 Speaker 4 Where's my shades at? 01:44:54:06 - 01:44:56:12 Speaker 4 I can't find my shades. 01:44:56:13 - 01:44:57:14 Speaker 1 I see what we're doing here. 01:44:57:15 - 01:45:03:22 Speaker 4 Come back outside. Is there lotion in the car? 01:45:04:00 - 01:45:04:22 Speaker 1 I see what we're doing. 01:45:04:22 - 01:45:26:10 Speaker 4 So over it, right? Because you talked all of this about me and about me running around, getting ready. And now I'm waiting on you. And you have nothing ready. I had to get the suitcase back off the car to add. So he could add his clothes and stuff in there, because he wasn't. He was in the room living his best life. 01:45:26:12 - 01:45:50:14 Speaker 4 So I just came on here to say that us wives don't get as much credit as we should. Because had we packed the night before or he could have got up and helped me, you know, stead of living his best life in there, we would have left out on a good time. And, Yeah, that that's really my complaint. 01:45:50:15 - 01:45:59:17 Speaker 4 You know, it's just I feel like you tried to come at me, you know what I'm saying? Because I'm running around here making sure I'm getting us ready. 01:45:59:18 - 01:46:00:16 Speaker 1 I'm gonna cook. 01:46:00:16 - 01:46:01:23 Speaker 4 You ain't gonna cook nothing. 01:46:02:01 - 01:46:04:08 Speaker 1 You. You finish up, do you? Do your thing? 01:46:04:10 - 01:49:19:14 Speaker 4 That's my complaint. Like I just felt like, 01:49:19:16 - 01:49:38:06 Speaker 1 Well, not certain. 01:49:38:08 - 01:49:44:21 Speaker 1 Since. 01:49:44:23 - 01:49:49:13 Speaker 1 All right, let's finish this up, baby. 01:49:49:15 - 01:49:55:23 Speaker 1 I don't unplug the damn camera and the. 01:49:56:01 - 01:50:03:03 Speaker 1 The thing I see. Drugs. Drugs, drug. Drugs drugs. 01:50:03:08 - 01:50:09:02 Speaker 2 Okay. 01:50:09:04 - 01:50:12:07 Speaker 1 Did you get that camera? Are you sure? 01:50:12:09 - 01:50:14:17 Speaker 3 I'm proud of that. 01:50:14:19 - 01:50:20:16 Speaker 1 Okay. All right, so finish on. That's your complaint? 01:50:20:19 - 01:50:22:17 Speaker 3 Yeah. My headphones is up. 01:50:22:19 - 01:50:23:20 Speaker 1 It's up. 01:50:23:22 - 01:50:27:21 Speaker 3 Turn it down a little bit. 01:50:27:23 - 01:50:30:04 Speaker 3 Okay. There it is. It, like, went up. 01:50:30:04 - 01:50:32:21 Speaker 1 Or something I seen, and I hit it with the cord. 01:50:32:23 - 01:50:48:03 Speaker 3 Yeah. So my complaint was, I feel like women are always getting attacked by their husbands for how long it takes them to pack. But we are the ones who make sure we have everything. 01:50:48:05 - 01:50:50:03 Speaker 1 Okay? 01:50:50:05 - 01:50:59:05 Speaker 1 So say one second please. 01:50:59:07 - 01:51:19:00 Speaker 1 Oh alright. So are you finished or are you done. Because like I told you I. Gentlemen ladies and gentlemen that was, that was her. That was her case that she wanted to prevent present. You said that women are always getting attacked. For what? 01:51:19:02 - 01:51:21:00 Speaker 3 Objection. You want. 01:51:21:03 - 01:51:25:11 Speaker 1 To see how I said it? I you was. But you said you were talking real aggressive. 01:51:25:12 - 01:51:34:08 Speaker 3 I did. I was saying that you came for me because I was running around, and you was doing whatever he was doing. 01:51:34:10 - 01:51:57:06 Speaker 1 Alright, so let's let's paint this story correctly. Yes, please. Please, let's let's really get into this because I here I am in court again, wasting the people's time, energy and effort. So we're going to go get into this because she tried to mix up another couple's court of mine into her so you can. So I can't bring it up in another case. 01:51:57:06 - 01:52:06:06 Speaker 1 But you're going to get I'm gonna be on your ass for that case as well. So this all started. Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, this all started the night before. 01:52:06:08 - 01:52:06:21 Speaker 3 The night. 01:52:06:21 - 01:52:27:05 Speaker 1 Before it started. The night before. Mind you, we are going to the hotel for a day while we go in there to sleep. My. My wife was originally asking me. Hey, babe. Do you want to just go down there and not get the hotel and just drive back? And I'm like, the hotel is free because I'm a gambling addict. 01:52:27:08 - 01:52:44:23 Speaker 1 With the hotel is free. Let's take it. At least we can rest and we can wake up in the morning. We can drive back now. My wife is in the the room, I want to say 2 to 3 days before she in their 2 to 3 days before she doesn't poured out to the suitcase. Our traveling suitcase out the garage. 01:52:45:00 - 01:52:49:17 Speaker 1 She done laid it out. I'll go in. There she goes. Seven. She got seven outfits. 01:52:49:18 - 01:52:52:14 Speaker 2 That is not not us. He is Ryan. 01:52:52:15 - 01:53:13:02 Speaker 1 She got seven outfit changes, and

she. She doesn't pack a traveling toothbrush. She doesn't pack. The what was. What's the little thing? The sleep mass shooting pack. The aroma therapy. She doesn't pack. She doesn't pack robes. She doesn't pack swim trunks. She she's in there packing her ass off. And I'm just watching my baby. I'm watching my baby. 01:53:13:02 - 01:53:34:03 Speaker 1 I'm like, okay, I understand, but my wife is worried because, she that she. The check in time is at 3:00. We're about three hours away. We're going to drive up there. So she's worried about that. And I'm like, cool. It don't make a difference. We can get up in the morning, we can get up in the morning and drive up there, and we'll get there about 3 or 4. 01:53:34:03 - 01:53:53:11 Speaker 1 But in my head I'm like, I don't think that's how hotels work. I don't think you got to be there at the checkout time. I think you just that's when you can check in or to check in time. I don't think you got to be there at the check in time. So in the bed from my bed, I called them and I asked them, hey, our checking time is at three. 01:53:53:13 - 01:54:10:14 Speaker 1 Instead of us getting up at 11, 12:00 in the morning, rushing because my wife is panicking. She's the she's the planner in a relationship. And this is why I don't like none of you motherfucking planners in the relationship. And y'all don't like me, so we don't like each other, and that's perfectly fine, my nigga I live my life on. 01:54:10:14 - 01:54:11:03 Speaker 2 I see. 01:54:11:04 - 01:54:11:19 Speaker 1 I live my. 01:54:11:19 - 01:54:12:13 Speaker 2 Life I see. 01:54:12:14 - 01:54:15:17 Speaker 1 As the. As the wind blows. And y'all can't stand. 01:54:15:17 - 01:54:16:09 Speaker 2 Us and. 01:54:16:09 - 01:54:40:05 Speaker 1 We can't stand, you know wife is in there. She's a planner. That's what my baby does. That's why we balance each other out. That's why we fit. She in there worrying, like above a pack in 17 different outfits. Just taking two things. A deodorant, one lotion, one lotion, one good lotion. She got these shoes for the morning, these shoes for the day, and and that's that's perfectly fine. 01:54:40:05 - 01:54:46:02 Speaker 1 As long as she don't come in there fucking with me, okay? I wouldn't have nothing to say. I don't have any. 01:54:46:03 - 01:54:46:22 Speaker 2 And I didn't say. 01:54:46:22 - 01:54:52:15 Speaker 1 Anything about the way this woman prepares like a serial killer. I'm not mad at you. Y'all always mattered. 01:54:52:18 - 01:54:53:13 Speaker 2 But while I was. 01:54:53:13 - 01:54:55:17 Speaker 3 In there packing, he should have been in there packing. 01:54:55:17 - 01:54:56:00 Speaker 2 Two. 01:54:56:04 - 01:55:04:04 Speaker 1 The game cooling. Chilling. I'm enjoying in life because I know that I need a change of clothes, some boxers and some. 01:55:04:04 - 01:55:06:14 Speaker 3 Soap run around while I'm in the car. 01:55:06:15 - 01:55:28:11 Speaker 1 So this is what. This is how this goes. The morning, the day of she packed two days ago. She's already packed. She in the suitcase or whatever. The day, the day of I wake up, I. I'm chilling. Like I told you, I, I called the people. Hey, we ain't gotta check in. And till 12:00 midnight we can get there. 01:55:28:12 - 01:55:56:05 Speaker 1 Whatever time we fucking feel like it. The show wait till seven. We ain't got a rush back. I called them, I made sure we're straight. Okay. And I made the joke that this is why women hate men. Because I literally was chilling, relaxing. And it took me 20 minutes, not even 20 minutes to pack everything that I needed it. 01:55:56:05 - 01:56:18:05 Speaker 1 I walked out my room and was packing while she was loading the suitcase in the car. That's what she's talking about. I started packing the 20 minutes before, before we even left, and I was like, this is why y'all don't like us. Because we just men get to wake up and just throw some boxers, t shirts and some shoes and a damn suitcase and and call it a day. 01:56:18:11 - 01:56:27:06 Speaker 1 That was. That was my joke. Yeah, right. And then she's talking about I asked her for did she got a lotion and I, and I was taking all my time. 01:56:27:07 - 01:56:27:23 Speaker 3 He couldn't find his. 01:56:27:23 - 01:56:34:06 Speaker 1 Wallet taking off my wife and where my wallet is. Yeah, because where's my wallet. 01:56:34:06 - 01:56:35:00 Speaker 3 I don't know. 01:56:35:02 - 01:56:44:00 Speaker 1 Right. So I asked you, was it lotion in the bag? Just make sure I asked you. Did I have a charger in the bag? Because you will pack your charger and I'll be fucked. I want to. 01:56:44:00 - 01:56:45:04 Speaker 3 Know if we don't have the same charger. 01:56:45:04 - 01:56:47:02 Speaker 1 I want to know if you got a that's. I know. 01:56:47:03 - 01:56:48:23 Speaker 3 My job is not the tech for you. 01:56:49:01 - 01:57:04:18 Speaker 1 Just like you left my soul outside. Which we'll get to. Just like you left my soul outside. I need to make sure that because you got your suitcase already packed up, I got I didn't I didn't grab everything that I possibly need, but I want to make sure if you already got one, I won't bring this one. That's it. 01:57:04:18 - 01:57:08:20 Speaker 1 I haven't had a charger, I had lotion, but if you already got one, I don't either. 01:57:09:01 - 01:57:13:23 Speaker 3 I don't really know what my husband is wanting to bring. And sometimes I feel like I'm over bringing. 01:57:14:01 - 01:57:19:17 Speaker 1 Hey, hey. You're interrupting my story now. You're hearing the wrath of my. It's my time now. It's my time. 01:57:19:17 - 01:57:20:04 Speaker 3 So use. 01:57:20:04 - 01:57:36:21 Speaker 1 Me, take me 20 minutes. In that 20 minutes I asked, hey, you know my wallet that that was in my hoodie or or whatever. Just in case you seen my wife do laundry, my my wife do laundry or whatever. I didn't ask you where the lotion was. I actually. Did you pack lotion? Did you pack lotion? If you pack

lotion, I don't have to. 01:57:36:23 - 01:57:53:22 Speaker 1 Cool. Check it off my list. Did you. Do you have a charger? Did you grab my charger? Richard? Which is really the question. I know you got your charger in your bag. Did you grab me a charger? Did you think of your husband enough to grab? That's why I asked some women out there. Some wives give a fuck about their husbands and they might throw him. 01:57:53:22 - 01:58:12:07 Speaker 1 If they pack in a suitcase, they might put his charger in there. If I'm packing the suitcase, I'm going to pack my wife charger. Sleep mass. I'm a packer. I'm a packer. Madison. I'm a pack of all the things that she need. If I'm packing two days, but fucking four. So you you spend two days packing, pack shit. 01:58:12:08 - 01:58:15:06 Speaker 3 Okay. Were you packing for us? The next time I want to see this, I. 01:58:15:08 - 01:58:40:10 Speaker 1 I made the joke that women hate men. Because y'all do all that packing and planning and all that running around and scheduling and shit. And men get the roll out of bed, go take a shower and throw shirts and boxers in a bag and they're ready to go. It took me about 22 minutes to go, 22 minutes to get ready to leave out that house, and my wife was running around there like a chicken with her head cut off. 01:58:40:14 - 01:58:43:19 Speaker 1 I thought that was, amusing. 01:58:43:20 - 01:58:45:06 Speaker 3 Yeah, and I want compensated. 01:58:45:08 - 01:58:48:01 Speaker 1 You don't you don't get compensated for nothing. 01:58:48:02 - 01:58:49:20 Speaker 3 That you don't want. I want to. 01:58:49:22 - 01:58:58:05 Speaker 1 Say that you don't get compensated for a goddamn thing. It's it's a difference in lifestyle, man. Some people just go with the flow, and some people need two days. 01:58:58:06 - 01:58:59:13 Speaker 3 That was. 01:58:59:15 - 01:59:01:00 Speaker 1 Back for a overnight trip. 01:59:01:01 - 01:59:05:00 Speaker 3 That's cool. I bring you back to court. I know. 01:59:05:00 - 01:59:14:18 Speaker 1 You, we since. Since we here. Since you brought up that I that I asked you. Did you leave my saw outside? Yeah. Right, right. So, ladies, this is a sad. This is. 01:59:14:19 - 01:59:16:10 Speaker 3 How you bring us a whole nother court. 01:59:16:11 - 01:59:18:03 Speaker 1 You brought that up. You brought it up. 01:59:18:04 - 01:59:19:07 Speaker 3 I just stood out there. 01:59:19:09 - 01:59:19:23 Speaker 1 This is a sign. 01:59:20:00 - 01:59:21:14 Speaker 3 This ain't me to court day. 01:59:21:16 - 01:59:49:22 Speaker 1 I know, I just wanted to. I just wanted to. I just wanted to put that out there. Because just like you didn't think to bring your husband charger. If if I were to clean out the entire garage, if I was to take everything out of the garage. Right. And you came in there and you took something out of the garage to you was using something, and then I end up putting everything back in the garage. 01:59:50:00 - 02:00:08:08 Speaker 1 Besides

the one thing you put out, like, if I, if I would have known that you was going to put everything back in the garage besides my 300, $400 goddamn soft, trust me, I would have put my 300 $400 Saul and I in the garage. This ain't. 02:00:08:11 - 02:00:09:10 Speaker 3 We don't want. 02:00:09:10 - 02:00:10:15 Speaker 1 To see this. Go ahead. 02:00:10:19 - 02:00:37:09 Speaker 3 Okay, I just want to say this right. I cleaned out the garage. Yeah, but my husband knew. I think he did it on purpose. And I told my sister this, too, because I literally told him. I'm getting off early so I can clean his garage. I told him that for almost a week straight. Every day. Yeah. He waited until about 30 minutes before I got off work to go in that garage and open up that garage door, and I seen him in there doing something. 02:00:37:09 - 02:00:54:16 Speaker 3 So I heard that Ben got off because I'm like, he knew I was going out to clean that garage. Now all of a sudden, you going out there? So I got to go out there and see what's going on. He drags his saw, these boards and some other stuff out and call himself setting up a station doing God knows what. 02:00:54:17 - 02:01:04:12 Speaker 3 I have no idea what he was doing. Right. I'm cleaning out. I'm moving around trying to go around and saw. He puts his salt directly right in the middle of where I'm working. 02:01:04:12 - 02:01:05:21 Speaker 1 At y'all. It's a different corporate court. 02:01:05:23 - 02:01:18:21 Speaker 3 Okay. Come to sin. Yes. So my job was to clean the garage. That's exactly what I did. I didn't know what he was doing with his soul. I didn't think that was my responsibility. I'm sorry. 02:01:18:23 - 02:01:39:11 Speaker 1 Sweetheart, don't save it for next week. It's cool. This is. This is, ladies and gentlemen of jewelry. This is my couples court, of course, for next week, because the stories that she tell you give you a little details. Yeah. So she's seen me go out there to the garage and decided, let me get off of work because it was she. 02:01:39:12 - 02:01:42:15 Speaker 1 I forgot all about that. Yeah, he wasn't even off of work. 02:01:42:16 - 02:01:44:12 Speaker 3 He won. Thinking about going to that garage. 02:01:44:18 - 02:01:53:08 Speaker 1 Wasn't even off of work yet. And you ran your ass out there while I was. I was saying, that table. You ring your ass out there to start. He wasn't. 02:01:53:08 - 02:01:57:22 Speaker 3 Thinking about song. No table until he heard me say, yeah, I'm getting off work to clean this garage. 02:01:57:23 - 02:02:06:01 Speaker 1 Which one is it? Did I did I forget that you said you was cleaning garage? Or did I know you was getting getting off the get off the garage? I don't know which one. 02:02:06:03 - 02:02:06:20 Speaker 3 I don't know what. 02:02:06:22 - 02:02:21:01 Speaker 1 Which one are you will find out on next week's episode of this Might be podcast, because I. I forgot that you had no intentions of cleaning. That you see me going open the garage door. You ran out there like I told you, I was. 02:02:21:03 - 02:02:22:20 Speaker 3 In and out. I told you I was getting off early to. 02:02:22:20 - 02:02:24:08 Speaker 1 Clean it out, and. 02:02:24:11 - 02:02:25:05 Speaker 3 I told you that. 02:02:25:06 - 02:02:28:17 Speaker 1 I'm on your ass next week. 02:02:28:19 - 02:02:29:19 Speaker 3 For us. I don't even care. 02:02:29:20 - 02:02:35:19 Speaker 1 I didn't even think about that. Yeah, well, that was couples score. 02:02:35:21 - 02:02:36:07 Speaker 3 Oh. 02:02:36:09 - 02:02:37:20 Speaker 1 I can't wait. 02:02:38:01 - 02:02:38:13 Speaker 3 Of course. 02:02:38:14 - 02:02:40:00 Speaker 1 You bring me to court. 02:02:40:02 - 02:02:45:01 Speaker 3 And then you try to turn it around on me. You finish us up. 02:02:45:03 - 02:02:57:15 Speaker 1 I can't wait to see what you guys put in them comments. Me too. Y'all let us know who was right or who was wrong because I, I need, I need help, I need, I need you. 02:02:57:17 - 02:02:59:13 Speaker 3 I need compensated y'all. 02:02:59:15 - 02:03:11:09 Speaker 1 Y'all see what I deal with. Y'all see what I go through, and you know what I'm saying? I love her like I love her. She just like. You know what I'm saying? What? 02:03:11:11 - 02:03:12:11 Speaker 3 I heard you said. 02:03:12:13 - 02:03:35:14 Speaker 1 Yeah, that was that was, Yeah. We need all. We need all the help, y'all. Y'all let us know who. Who's writer, who's wrong in today's couples court. Let's get into. Send us some love. Send us some love. Is where the part of the show where you guys send in questions to. This might be love.com/acts. And we try to help you all out and give y'all some of this lovely advice. 02:03:35:16 - 02:03:43:17 Speaker 1 You know what I'm saying. You you see we obviously got to figure it out. Why wouldn't y'all want to get advice from us? 02:03:43:19 - 02:03:54:04 Speaker 1 Without further ado, the first person to send us some love say is. 02:03:54:06 - 02:03:59:16 Speaker 3 I. My wife thought you bring them back. 02:03:59:18 - 02:04:16:23 Speaker 3 Oh. 02:04:17:01 - 02:04:39:11 Speaker 1 I want to give them the cards or whatever. They'd be having a, it'd be like some cards that they sent us. This might be love on the back of them. And then what you do is what you do is print off the question and put it in front of the card and hold it like, okay, that would be, yeah, we would have to get our printed. 02:04:39:15 - 02:05:07:19 Speaker 1 I don't know how much longer this, this is interesting. 02:05:07:21 - 02:05:11:01 Speaker 3 Very. Am I on here lying. 02:05:11:01 - 02:05:14:06 Speaker 1 And lying on me? And that's crazy. I never would have thought. I never would have. 02:05:14:06 - 02:05:16:04 Speaker 3 Done it. I bet. 02:05:16:05 - 02:05:20:01 Speaker 1 I never would have done it. Then we had a would you rather. 02:05:20:02 - 02:05:21:07 Speaker 3 We ain't got to even do that. 02:05:21:08 - 02:05:21:23 Speaker 1 I was. 02:05:22:03

- 02:05:28:07 Speaker 3 Getting the next one. 02:05:28:09 - 02:05:36:14 Speaker 1 All these cuz you can't see. 02:05:36:16 - 02:05:54:17 Speaker 1 Without further ado, the first person to send us some love says my girlfriend wants to access my phone because her ex cheated on her. I have nothing to hide, but I don't worry her checking my phone. Is that reasonable? 02:05:54:19 - 02:05:58:08 Speaker 3 I we just be curious. 02:05:58:09 - 02:06:00:02 Speaker 1 Y'all just be y'all just be nosy. 02:06:00:03 - 02:06:00:18 Speaker 3 Just. Yeah. 02:06:00:19 - 02:06:02:01 Speaker 1 Just be y'all. Just be y'all. 02:06:02:01 - 02:06:06:11 Speaker 3 Just a lot of times, you know, we just want to see what's in there. 02:06:06:13 - 02:06:17:23 Speaker 1 I think what this is, if I let you check my phone, does that end it? Like, does that solve it like, of if you check my phone and there's nothing in there, is that is that the end of it or like, does. 02:06:18:01 - 02:06:19:02 Speaker 3 This for that moment. 02:06:19:03 - 02:06:24:09 Speaker 1 Right. So if I let you check my phone today, I gotta let you check my phone tomorrow and the next day, I. 02:06:24:09 - 02:06:40:11 Speaker 3 Think you just kind of get this feeling like I need to check his phone. Like sometimes those feelings be real. Like, let me go check this phone. And then that's that's when that saying comes of when you go looking for something, you find it. Right? 02:06:40:13 - 02:06:42:18 Speaker 3 That's where that comes from. 02:06:42:20 - 02:06:46:15 Speaker 1 What about the times you go looking for it and you don't find shit? 02:06:46:17 - 02:06:48:14 Speaker 3 You get a mass. Good job. 02:06:48:20 - 02:06:51:02 Speaker 1 So which one is it, bro? 02:06:51:04 - 02:06:54:01 Speaker 3 Pencil. How feeling. I guess, but I don't I mean, I don't. 02:06:54:01 - 02:07:21:17 Speaker 1 Know, I guess that's there. I from my from my experience big help me big dog. Because most people look at it like, oh, you don't trust me. That's why you want to go through your phone. From my experience, is much easier because it's much easier to just give it to them because I always looked at it like, if you gotta go through my phone, you don't trust me in the first place. 02:07:21:17 - 02:07:41:07 Speaker 1 And if you don't trust me, going through my phone ain't going to make you trust me. When you fuck up in your relationship and you gotta. And she got a reason not to trust you, is you. They need to go through the phone. I, I if even if you don't let them go through the phone. They already went through the phone, so they already know everything in the phone. 02:07:41:07 - 02:08:05:10 Speaker 1 I got to the point where I don't delete shit because I'm sitting there deleting shit because I ain't wanting to look like I was doing something. And then she find the the deleted and now I can't explain why the fuck out and deleted something. So it looked even crazier. So I just let everything stay in my phone. I

got messages from 1213 years ago and they stay right there. 02:08:05:12 - 02:08:20:01 Speaker 1 They look crazy and shit. You what I'm saying? Hey, she she sent me up titties back. What you want me to do? What you. What you want me to say? I, I, I looked at the titties and I went on about my life. You see what I said right there? Right. You see what I said about the titties? 02:08:20:02 - 02:08:27:16 Speaker 1 Right? And that's how I operate. I don't know how you can never soothe their mind. 02:08:27:18 - 02:08:29:21 Speaker 3 I don't know if so. 02:08:29:23 - 02:08:39:11 Speaker 1 If it is a soothing their mind. I like to ask for your phone to to say that I'm gonna go through your phone just to see how you gonna react. 02:08:39:13 - 02:08:41:10 Speaker 3 And if she had this on, she. 02:08:41:11 - 02:08:53:12 Speaker 1 If she fucking throw her phone against the wall when I asked her. Because niggas don't. That's the problem. Don't go through Von's start going through their phone. Now, when you go through there. 02:08:53:14 - 02:08:55:01 Speaker 3 It's whatever. 02:08:55:03 - 02:08:56:00 Speaker 1 They get tricky. 02:08:56:02 - 02:08:56:11 Speaker 3 Yeah. 02:08:56:13 - 02:09:15:09 Speaker 1 First of all, women delete what my wife taught me how to delete an activity log. I never knew what the fuck that was. What? It was about seven, eight, ten, nine years ago, my wife showed me that. She told me straight out her mouth that I delete everything every day. All anyway, I'm like, who the fuck do you think you're talking to? 02:09:15:11 - 02:09:37:04 Speaker 1 Who the fuck do you think you. You just gonna lie? All right, whatever she told. Hey, women are insanely good. My my M.O. is just don't let me catch you. That's how it is. I ain't I ain't going through no phone. If you wanted to leave, I. I'm not holding you. That's my thing. All right. 02:09:37:06 - 02:09:40:16 Speaker 3 Crazy. 02:09:40:18 - 02:10:00:15 Speaker 1 I do this shit. Can you remember this or you want to? I don't know if I could set it up somehow so you can read it. Just say my husband wants to split everything 5050, even though he makes twice as much as me is. It actually. Is 5050 actually fair? 02:10:00:17 - 02:10:08:01 Speaker 3 My husband makes two times more than me. He wants to split everything. 5050. 02:10:08:03 - 02:10:16:14 Speaker 1 Is it? My husband wants to split everything 5050, even though he makes twice as much as me. Okay, it's 5050, actually. Fair. 02:10:16:16 - 02:10:18:03 Speaker 3 Okay. 02:10:18:05 - 02:10:25:15 Speaker 1 Can you can you remember it? Or you want me to try to prop this up somewhere? I don't know if you can. Can you see from all the way over there? 02:10:25:17 - 02:10:28:23 Speaker 3 I can say a little bit. 02:10:29:01 - 02:10:33:05 Speaker 3 It's fallen. 02:10:33:07 - 02:10:37:02 Speaker 1 Goddamn sentence in the half woman. 02:10:37:04 - 02:10:38:03 Speaker 3 All right, you ready? 02:10:38:04 - 02:10:45:15 Speaker 1 All right. Away. Send us some love. Question number two, this person says. 02:10:45:17 - 02:10:49:02 Speaker 3 It's going off. I'm sorry. 02:10:49:04 - 02:10:55:11 Speaker 1 I know it's my fuck. 02:10:55:12 - 02:11:05:21 Speaker 3 All right? My husband wants to split everything 5050. Even though he makes way more than I do. It's 5050. Worth it. 02:11:05:23 - 02:11:09:20 Speaker 1 Fair, fair? 02:11:09:22 - 02:11:12:22 Speaker 1 Yeah. One more time. All right. You got it. But don't make a difference. 02:11:12:23 - 02:11:15:09 Speaker 3 My husband makes more than. 02:11:15:11 - 02:11:17:11 Speaker 1 Oh, my fucking God. 02:11:17:13 - 02:11:21:00 Speaker 3 All right, all right. Oh my God. All right, hold on. 02:11:21:02 - 02:11:23:11 Speaker 1 My issues. 02:11:23:16 - 02:11:26:22 Speaker 3 All right. 02:11:27:00 - 02:11:30:12 Speaker 3 Okay, okay. 02:11:30:14 - 02:11:33:16 Speaker 3 My husband wants to. 02:11:33:18 - 02:11:34:15 Speaker 1 Oh, I forgot. 02:11:34:21 - 02:11:37:04 Speaker 3 I forgot. I think you said my husband. 02:11:37:09 - 02:11:42:14 Speaker 1 Wants to split bills 5050, even though he makes twice as much as me as 50, 50, 50. 02:11:42:17 - 02:11:44:17 Speaker 3 Okay. 02:11:44:19 - 02:11:52:21 Speaker 1 I wish I can do this fucking stupid. With the Mac. We had, like, one of those camera TVs. 02:11:52:23 - 02:12:00:13 Speaker 3 All right. 02:12:00:14 - 02:12:09:02 Speaker 3 My husband wants to split everything 5050 when it comes to the bill, even though he makes twice as much as me, it's. 02:12:09:04 - 02:12:16:13 Speaker 1 Well, you ask him shit in. I'm sorry. I was like oh because I can't. 02:12:16:13 - 02:12:18:03 Speaker 3 See the end. 02:12:18:05 - 02:12:20:20 Speaker 1 5050. Even though he makes twice as much as. 02:12:20:20 - 02:12:21:22 Speaker 3 Okay. 02:12:22:00 - 02:12:39:02 Speaker 1 My husband wants to split everything 5050, even though he makes twice as much as me. Okay. And then we'll punch you in and we'll say it's 5050. Actually fit. Okay. Fuck it. This is why you don't do technical dividends. Yep. Send us some love. Question number two. 02:12:39:04 - 02:12:49:08 Speaker 3 Question says my husband makes twice as more than me and he wants okay, hold on y'all hold on. 02:12:49:08 - 02:12:59:11 Speaker 1 I like to see the phone or something. Just hide the motherfucker when you're ready. I already already marked you in. 02:12:59:13 - 02:13:01:10 Speaker 3 Okay. All right. 02:13:01:12 - 02:13:17:03 Speaker 1 You didn't have the phone in the last shot. You can't hold on. I'm. I'm a zoom in on you so they can't see me. That's why I was trying to hold it up. Okay? But yo ass trying to read it. It's worse than memorizing it. My husband wants to split the bills 5050. Okay. Even though he makes twice as much as me. 02:13:17:04 - 02:13:19:11 Speaker 3 Okay. All right. 02:13:19:13 - 02:13:21:06 Speaker 1 Number two. 02:13:21:08 - 02:13:26:09 Speaker 3 My husband makes twice as more than me, and he wants to.

02:13:26:11 - 02:13:28:02 Speaker 1 Fucking crazy. 02:13:28:04 - 02:13:29:21 Speaker 3 Okay, okay. 02:13:29:23 - 02:13:32:13 Speaker 1 Angry, right? 02:13:32:15 - 02:13:37:01 Speaker 3 Boom! Ready? Action. 02:13:37:03 - 02:13:40:01 Speaker 3 Hold on. Okay, okay, I got it, I got it, I got it. 02:13:40:02 - 02:13:41:18 Speaker 1 Terrible. Goddamn actor. 02:13:41:20 - 02:13:48:00 Speaker 3 My husband wants to lie. My husband wants to. 02:13:48:02 - 02:13:52:18 Speaker 1 I'm not even going. I go. My fault. I'm fucking you up. 02:13:52:20 - 02:14:04:13 Speaker 3 My husband wants to spend. My husband wants to split everything 5050. Even though he makes twice as more than me. It's splitting everything 5050 fair. 02:14:04:15 - 02:14:23:21 Speaker 1 I don't I hate the word fair. I don't think nothing in life is fair. I don't think I don't think fair actually exists. I don't know who's the judge of what's fair and what's not fair. If your husband wants to split bills 5050 and you can't afford that, and that's just a conversation, or like, you know what I'm saying? 02:14:23:21 - 02:14:50:22 Speaker 1 If you want to, if you want to split it 5050 because you probably could afford it, but you ain't going to be able to buy your Louis batons and all that shit. And that's a conversation y'all need to have. But I we do, we do probably it's it's it's really 6060 sometimes like sometimes the, the food and groceries and household items come out to be more than just paying the bills. 02:14:51:03 - 02:15:15:00 Speaker 1 Like if sometimes me going paying for the restaurants and all of those things come out to be more than what my wife, it doesn't really make a difference as long as everybody is okay. As long as I got some spending money, as long as she got some spending money, we both comfortable. We we both work. Right. So you want to you want to do the best thing to make it make it as comfortable as possible for the other half. 02:15:15:02 - 02:15:36:05 Speaker 1 So if he makes double that don't mean he should pay double. Yeah. That's the that's the waste of his fucking double. That's the that's the waste of his double. If he makes if he makes double and he can pay two extra bills comfortable. And y'all both live a good life and y'all need to have that conversation. But it don't just mean that he should pay everything now. 02:15:36:07 - 02:15:40:10 Speaker 1 Yeah, that ain't fair either. So that's my thing. I don't know what fair is. 02:15:40:11 - 02:15:51:01 Speaker 3 Yeah, you just gotta find a budget that works for you guys. Something that where, like you said, he doesn't have to pay everything and you don't have to go broke paying it, so. 02:15:51:03 - 02:16:04:23 Speaker 1 And you want to know how you find that pay for everything. You got them. So once you start paying for everything, you got them. So you realize that anything somebody else contributes is a blessing. And you say thank you and you shut the fuck up. 02:16:05:00 - 02:16:05:12 Speaker

3 Take what you. 02:16:05:14 - 02:16:22:22 Speaker 1 If you were single, that's my thing. If you were single, you got to pay all these bills by yourself. So instead of arguing, oh, is this enough that he paying this? Say thank you for helping me do whatever. Just like he should say thank you for helping me do whatever I would have to do all of this by myself. 02:16:22:22 - 02:16:25:12 Speaker 1 I appreciate you so much. Thank you. 02:16:25:18 - 02:16:27:11 Speaker 3 Thank you. 02:16:27:13 - 02:16:38:21 Speaker 1 Send us some love. Question number three the third person says. 02:16:38:23 - 02:16:51:05 Speaker 1 Forgot it I can't even we can't even get out because I ain't got no fucking music. 02:16:51:07 - 02:17:17:16 Speaker 1 Send us some love. Question number three. Send us some love. Question number. Send us some love. Send us some love. Question number three. The third person says, my partner leaves his clothes everywhere around the house. I'm tired of cleaning up after him. How long would you guys tolerate this? And I just want to say, tell me about it. 02:17:17:18 - 02:17:19:07 Speaker 1 Tell me. I feel your pain. 02:17:19:08 - 02:17:19:16 Speaker 3 Because he. 02:17:19:16 - 02:17:42:13 Speaker 1 Doesn't I feel I feel your pain, right? So in my household, I might be ADHD. I might be like. Like, what's the what's on the spectrum a little bit, right. So I bought a basket for the kitchen. So when you did that, when you got when you got laundry that goes in the kitchen, it's a basket in there. 02:17:42:15 - 02:17:59:16 Speaker 1 I bought a basket for our room so we can throw our clothes in the basket in the room. That way you can go switch baskets. You can just take the empty basket out the kitchen, put it in the room. And what a lot of clothes is in the basket in the kitchen. We always got an empty basket that that can be filled. 02:17:59:16 - 02:18:24:21 Speaker 1 And we always got a loaded basket in our room. I damn near got a basket in my room, even though I don't throw clothes in there like I got a, I got I got garbage cans everywhere. Somehow, someway, my wife always got that goddamn basket full of laundry and it's always in the kitchen. It's never nothing in the room to throw our clothes in. 02:18:24:21 - 02:18:42:20 Speaker 1 And I'm like, I'm like, I bought like eight baskets. I don't it don't make sense. It's the same thing with chargers too. Like when before my wife got the new iPhone, I had 12 charges. It was a charger in every room. Somehow, whenever the fuck I needed the charger, it was no charger in there. So I feel your pain. 02:18:42:22 - 02:19:05:18 Speaker 1 And unfortunately, we gotta deal with these beast. We got to deal with these uncivilized heathens because I don't think they. I don't think they get it or understand. So you you you try to you try to find creative ways for them to put their clothes in the basket or stuff. But you know, we you gotta love them for them. 02:19:05:20 - 02:19:21:18 Speaker 1 You

gotta love them for them. I don't do no laundry. So I mean, it really ain't like I, I, I just put my clothes as close to the basket and get it. Get clean. That's that's that's what I came up with. It's gone. It's gonna find its way back. Like, just deal with it for the time being, and it's going to be okay. 02:19:21:21 - 02:19:24:03 Speaker 1 It's just. 02:19:24:05 - 02:19:24:18 Speaker 3 You done? 02:19:24:19 - 02:19:25:15 Speaker 1 It's frustrating. 02:19:25:16 - 02:19:26:18 Speaker 3 Done. 02:19:26:20 - 02:19:29:20 Speaker 1 Yeah. Me and this lady had to have a hard part, right? Yeah, we had to have a heart. 02:19:30:01 - 02:19:31:15 Speaker 3 Yeah. It's going to get done. 02:19:31:16 - 02:19:32:08 Speaker 1 About heathens. 02:19:32:10 - 02:19:33:11 Speaker 3 You know, it's something that. 02:19:33:15 - 02:19:34:12 Speaker 1 About about heathens. 02:19:34:13 - 02:19:38:19 Speaker 3 That's why he's got get used to. And it just kind of just. 02:19:38:21 - 02:19:40:05 Speaker 1 Get used to. 02:19:40:07 - 02:19:55:00 Speaker 3 You just gotta do what you gotta do. Yeah, that's all I can say. All I can say is just keep doing it. Keep doing til you take your clothes off. And what you do is you take your clothes off, put them on his side of the bed. So when he get up, use the bathroom, he trip over them. 02:19:55:05 - 02:20:04:00 Speaker 3 And that you know that. Yeah. What you gotta kind of. Yeah. Now he could see how we feel, you know what I'm saying? But yeah, he gets better. 02:20:04:00 - 02:20:05:19 Speaker 1 I'm proud of you. I feel like you have seen you. 02:20:05:22 - 02:20:06:22 Speaker 3 I'm having a conversation. 02:20:06:22 - 02:20:08:03 Speaker 1 I feel like you insinuating. 02:20:08:03 - 02:20:09:17 Speaker 3 I'm having that conversation. 02:20:09:19 - 02:20:12:13 Speaker 1 Whoo hoo hoo hoo hoo! Closures. Me tripping. 02:20:12:19 - 02:20:13:04 Speaker 3 I'm. I'm. 02:20:13:06 - 02:20:15:04 Speaker 1 I'm who close you. You tripping over, though, Jay? 02:20:15:08 - 02:20:18:23 Speaker 3 Like, I'm just giving her some advice. So what? I go through. 02:20:19:01 - 02:20:20:19 Speaker 1 These people? 02:20:20:21 - 02:20:25:01 Speaker 3 These ain't no shots. No, I don't I don't want no no problems. 02:20:25:03 - 02:20:43:03 Speaker 1 At all. That was some love. Don't forget if y'all want to chop it up with us. Got a question to ask? Y'all just want to, get some advice on a situation y'all got out there. Y'all can always send us some love or some hate. And this might be love.com/ads. With that being said, we going to get out of y'all here. 02:20:43:03 - 02:20:50:05 Speaker 1 We're going to finally wrap it up. And we going to do that with my face it part of. 02:20:50:05 - 02:20:54:10 Speaker 4 The show. This part of the show was called. 02:20:54:12 - 02:21:01:21 Speaker 1 Names end of the day joke you got for us baby. 02:21:01:23 - 02:21:06:06 Speaker 3 Right my love. 02:21:06:08 - 02:21:18:09 Speaker 1 What was the song? Oh we played Kendrick Lamar. Loyalty. Get that bitch started up. Hold on, this is fucking stupid. 02:21:18:11 - 02:21:24:16 Speaker 1 And get her loaded up. I gotta get it. 02:21:24:18 - 02:21:33:03 Speaker 1 Turn the music on. Turn him. Come. 02:21:33:05 - 02:21:49:09 Speaker 1 Lady. Dig. 02:21:49:10 - 02:22:01:00 Speaker 1 They got cool, then they got hotter. 02:22:01:02 - 02:22:02:12 Speaker 1 She got for us, baby. 02:22:02:13 - 02:22:15:20 Speaker 3 Alright, well, because it's Halloween I got us a joke. Baby, why did the police man. To get a ghost on Halloween. 02:22:15:22 - 02:22:24:11 Speaker 1 To get a ghost on Halloween. 02:22:24:13 - 02:22:27:17 Speaker 1 I ain't give it up on the I don't know, I give up. 02:22:27:19 - 02:22:33:00 Speaker 3 The ghost didn't have a haunting license. 02:22:33:02 - 02:22:39:18 Speaker 1 It's not. That's not the. 02:22:39:20 - 02:22:42:07 Speaker 4 That really makes sense. I don't like it. 02:22:42:09 - 02:22:45:04 Speaker 5 If there's a license to go hunting, you know. 02:22:45:06 - 02:22:52:13 Speaker 1 Are you talking about a hunting license? Yeah. See, that's my fault. I, I don't I ain't never been hunting, so. 02:22:52:14 - 02:22:54:00 Speaker 3 No hunting. 02:22:54:02 - 02:23:10:06 Speaker 1 I know, but it's a play off of the hunting, like, you know. No, never. Right. Never mind. I, I missed the joke. It was over my head. Yes. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. If I was, if I was a hunter, maybe I would have, I would have caught that. I think it still would have been terrible. 02:23:10:08 - 02:23:10:12 Speaker 1 Yeah. 02:23:10:14 - 02:23:16:09 Speaker 3 But it's okay. We understand. Yeah. It's all good. 02:23:16:11 - 02:23:33:15 Speaker 1 Me. Get the fuck. Get up out of here. Oh, man. That's a good shot. My lawyer will be talking to your lawyer because we're going to come to collect. But we can work. Like what? You can worry about that later when you lose. 02:23:33:17 - 02:23:34:11 Speaker 3 When you lost. 02:23:34:13 - 02:23:45:03 Speaker 1 Yeah. See, Geek gang, I'm fired up all I want to night. Let's get. 02:23:45:05 - 02:23:55:12 Speaker 1 Is to die for. Ain't that pussy? It's to die for, die for. 02:23:55:14 - 02:23:58:11 Speaker 1 Thank you all for watching. 02:23:58:13 - 02:24:03:10 Speaker 3 This might be love. 02:24:03:12 - 02:24:29:15 Speaker 1 Thank you all for watching. This might be love. The podcast if we helped you at all. Made you laugh, made you cry. Made you question your relationship. 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