Full Transcript for Comprehension vs. Communication & What it Means to be 'Alpha' with Alexis Renae

uh-uh. 00:04:05.919 --> 00:04:09.186 I'm not native-born, I'm not Kanaka, nothing like that. 00:04:09.186 --> 00:04:15.045 No Hawaiian blood, I am actually Hispanic, so Spanish, mexican, portuguese and Brazilian. 00:04:15.286 --> 00:04:16.387 Oh shit, hola que tal. 00:04:17.329 --> 00:04:17.490 Si. 00:04:17.930 --> 00:04:19.935 Oh, si, me llamo Chris. 00:04:21.600 --> 00:04:31.569 Which is ironic though, because I probably I don't speak it fluently, yeah, but like I do know more like Pidgin or more Olelo or something Like I know that more than Spanish, but yeah, so. 00:04:31.949 --> 00:04:35.992 So you've been here for a very, for a cool minute now, yeah, yeah. 00:04:36.072 --> 00:04:50.432 So moved out here 2016 and then lived out here for a while and then met my boyfriend at the time and and we moved off island and yeah, oh how do you like it out here compared to the mainland? 00:04:52.201 --> 00:05:02.490 Because for me, like growing up in the hood, it's like I like being the majority because I was a minority out there, right. 00:05:02.490 --> 00:05:06.711 So here I feel like, oh man, these motherfuckers cannot really mess with me. 00:05:06.711 --> 00:05:15.790 Because it's like, if you see, you know I'm not against anything, against my whites or whatever, but someone out of the brown color messes with a brown person. 00:05:15.790 --> 00:05:23.514 It's like you have 15 other people that will back up that brown person because you know. 00:05:23.533 --> 00:05:25.538 Just because, Just because, yeah know, just because, why do you do that? 00:05:25.538 --> 00:05:25.939 Here in Hawaii? 00:05:25.939 --> 00:05:33.730 I feel like everybody either knows like your cousin, your mother, your auntie, your uncle or something, so they never want to mess with someone. 00:05:33.730 --> 00:05:36.584 So I feel like the respect here. 00:05:36.584 --> 00:05:43.944 I mean, since I came back, I feel like it's a little shifted and spreaded, because I mean we have other visitors and other things that are moving out here. 00:05:43.944 --> 00:05:46.928 Other things, other things. 00:05:46.968 --> 00:05:48.430 Other things Other things. 00:05:48.430 --> 00:05:53.567 She said that Don't get me canceled, y'all. 00:05:53.567 --> 00:05:55.473 She's joshing. 00:05:55.779 --> 00:06:08.870 I mean, they're all welcome, everybody's welcome here, which I will actually admit that Everyone is pretty much welcome here, it's just if once you like disrespect it's like a zero to a hundred, like 100% aloha, 100% love here. 00:06:08.870 --> 00:06:21.511 But the moment you do something wrong, you know yeah, then it's zero, uh-huh, but like uh, yeah, I feel like here everyone respects each other, everyone protects each other, everyone helps each other um mainland. 00:06:21.511 --> 00:06:27.687 I feel like I don't know someone's angry every day and then it's a different nuance someone stubbed a toe, I don't know. 00:06:27.920 --> 00:06:33.769 They're just angry all the time and it rubs off onto someone else this is true, it's just. 00:06:33.769 --> 00:06:42.846 Yeah, I feel like I mean there's people angry here too, but I mean I feel like I miss here every time I'm coming back home and I call this home, because home is where your heart is. 00:06:42.846 --> 00:06:46.293 Yeah, yeah, I feel like it's a reset for me. 00:06:46.293 --> 00:06:51.091 Even though I come out here for business, I always feel like it's my reset, it's my refresh. 00:06:51.110 --> 00:06:51.291 Yeah. 00:06:51.740 --> 00:06:54.947 So yeah, this is yeah, oh, Hawaii's better. 00:06:55.028 --> 00:06:56.110 That's beautiful oh yeah. 00:06:56.110 --> 00:06:56.692 Hawaii. 00:06:56.692 --> 00:06:59.242 No, I really like Hawaii. 00:06:59.242 --> 00:07:08.615 It took me and my family a while to adjust because we're so used to the cutthroat things on the mainland. 00:07:08.615 --> 00:07:12.021 You're all for yourself, right, Just to survive Over here. 00:07:12.021 --> 00:07:18.589 It's like, for example, our neighborhood when the tsunami. 00:07:18.589 --> 00:07:20.973 We had the tsunami warning right, Remember that. 00:07:20.992 --> 00:07:28.288 Just a warning, Just a warning, Just a warning my block was having a, a barbecue and beer and everyone was like hey, come, come, come. 00:07:28.288 --> 00:07:29.995 I was like shit, y'all ain't tripping. 00:07:29.995 --> 00:07:30.718 It's like nah, man. 00:07:30.718 --> 00:07:32.404 I was like I bet I ain't tripping either. 00:07:32.404 --> 00:07:40.949 So but back on the mainland you wouldn't see that happening unless you know like you grew up with your neighbors. 00:07:41.050 --> 00:07:44.788 But other than that, but even at that everyone's still kind of like to themselves. 00:07:44.867 --> 00:07:45.149 Yeah. 00:07:45.490 --> 00:07:46.233 Everyone's yeah. 00:07:47.197 --> 00:07:50.449 Your family members are out here, right, I have some family friends out here. 00:07:50.980 --> 00:07:52.163 I have family in Seattle. 00:07:52.404 --> 00:07:52.644 Yeah. 00:07:52.706 --> 00:07:53.908 Family in Louisiana. 00:07:53.908 --> 00:07:56.565 I have family Like they're all spread out, all spread out. 00:07:56.605 --> 00:08:08.598 Yeah, one thing Louisiana sucks because it's oh my God, I was there in 2023 for training and they said it's unique, it was super unique. 00:08:08.598 --> 00:08:12.867 Oh my gosh, it was really humid. 00:08:12.867 --> 00:08:15.572 Oh yeah yeah, humidity over there. 00:08:15.572 --> 00:08:22.146 Yeah, there were several times where I was training I felt like I was going to black out. 00:08:22.146 --> 00:08:23.906 Yeah, it was that hot. 00:08:23.906 --> 00:08:24.607 It's like sticky humid. 00:08:24.627 --> 00:08:25.033 Yeah, it was that hot. 00:08:25.033 --> 00:08:25.500 It's like sticky humid. 00:08:25.879 --> 00:08:26.999 Yeah, it's not like this. 00:08:27.120 --> 00:08:30.269 It's not like I was about to say the M word. 00:08:31.341 --> 00:08:33.989 It's not wet humidity which, I guess, is what humidity is?

00:08:33.989 --> 00:08:34.650 What was the M word? 00:08:34.650 --> 00:08:38.129 Oh, is that like so? 00:08:38.129 --> 00:08:39.943 Okay, some people get weird about that word. 00:08:40.125 --> 00:08:40.907 I don't know why. 00:08:40.907 --> 00:08:41.669 I think it's weird. 00:08:41.669 --> 00:08:42.344 You think it's weird I? 00:08:42.364 --> 00:08:43.089 don't know why I think it's weird. 00:08:43.089 --> 00:08:43.854 Like I mean, like you think it's weird. 00:08:43.854 --> 00:08:44.720 No, I mean, I don't think it's weird, oh okay. 00:08:45.639 --> 00:08:49.191 I mean, like if you eat bread or something that's like, really isn't it like you? 00:08:59.326 --> 00:09:00.327 don't want dry bread, yeah. 00:09:00.327 --> 00:09:02.249 Like, if you want moist, yeah, moist bread, yeah. 00:09:02.249 --> 00:09:03.289 I mean, I guess you wouldn't. 00:09:03.289 --> 00:09:08.133 I don't like that word either she's like oh, but it's regular across the pond In. 00:09:08.232 --> 00:09:09.955 Australia or is it Europe? 00:09:09.955 --> 00:09:10.654 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:09:10.735 --> 00:09:11.395 Europe. 00:09:11.395 --> 00:09:14.477 It's a regular yeah, it's like a regular word to them. 00:09:14.477 --> 00:09:21.384 Yeah, but then they bring it here and when I hear people say it it's like oh, Because you don't hear a lot of people say that word. 00:09:21.384 --> 00:09:25.106 You know, on the island it's used a lot on the mainland, but on the island that's why? 00:09:25.126 --> 00:09:26.168 why, if it's a foreign? 00:09:26.168 --> 00:09:32.014 When I say foreign, like not so commonly used, like broad was a big word for me at first when someone called me hey, you're just a. 00:09:32.294 --> 00:09:35.317 You're just a broad, some broad, or something I'd be like. 00:09:35.317 --> 00:09:44.350 Like I felt like that was. 00:09:44.350 --> 00:09:45.312 I'm chilling with that John. 00:09:46.433 --> 00:09:48.967 I don't know, I don't think I'd be like oh, it's Alexis. 00:09:52.081 --> 00:09:56.615 No, so I guess, like in the Midwest, a John is like a female. 00:09:57.118 --> 00:10:04.644 Oh, okay, yeah, so if you ever, I guess, mingle oh you mean, like if they think you're a guy, no, no, a John. 00:10:04.644 --> 00:10:05.267 A John is like. 00:10:05.500 --> 00:10:08.105 I've never heard this one, it's a, it's a, it's a more. 00:10:08.105 --> 00:10:10.530 No, no, it's a, it's an east coast Midwest thing. 00:10:10.530 --> 00:10:14.759 So if I've never heard this, if a, if a, if a brother. 00:10:14.919 --> 00:10:15.059 Yeah. 00:10:15.443 --> 00:10:22.826 If a midwestern brother Say hey man, you know she's some type shit, john, it's like you, a fine female. 00:10:22.826 --> 00:10:24.950 Okay, so it's more of a compliment. 00:10:25.490 --> 00:10:26.211 Now, I'll take it. 00:10:26.211 --> 00:10:27.875 I'll take that, it's like, oh man. 00:10:33.620 --> 00:10:45.253 But I guess the perception of like, if he says it like negative, like man, fuck that John, then that's bad Right,

but then if he says she's a stuck up girl yeah, but if they added you know aary adjective yeah, she a cute, john Justine. 00:10:45.293 --> 00:10:46.095 I've never heard that. 00:10:46.259 --> 00:10:47.283 Oh girl, you got to step out yeah. 00:10:47.764 --> 00:10:49.009 I do, I do, I do. 00:10:50.561 --> 00:10:54.051 Let me ask you this because I've been going through some type of. 00:10:54.051 --> 00:11:08.610 I've been in my feels like this past week I have a family member, right, okay, he's cut off, like a lot of like say, I'm going to say us there's specific people that he cut off. 00:11:08.811 --> 00:11:09.131 Okay. 00:11:09.932 --> 00:11:16.504 And because of that I'm feeling some type of way, because I was one of those peoples right and I was. 00:11:16.504 --> 00:11:19.206 You know, I've had this dude's back. 00:11:19.427 --> 00:11:20.190 He met a John. 00:11:20.600 --> 00:11:21.905 No, he is with. 00:11:22.347 --> 00:11:25.120 He's with a John he's with a negative John he's oh, john. 00:11:25.120 --> 00:11:26.322 No, he is with a negative John. 00:11:26.322 --> 00:11:28.563 Oh no, I can't say that because that might be your friends. 00:11:28.644 --> 00:11:30.385 No, no, no, we ain't. 00:11:30.385 --> 00:11:34.330 Let me tell you this he blocked me off of everything. 00:11:34.330 --> 00:11:35.951 So I'm just like damn man. 00:11:35.951 --> 00:11:46.014 So I have this pre-made text for him, right, I haven't pushed sent yet because it's in my drafts and I sent it to my sister because he cut off my sister too. 00:11:46.014 --> 00:11:48.153 And I'm just like damn man, Like I feel some type of way. 00:11:48.533 --> 00:11:49.154 Not a family. 00:11:51.144 --> 00:11:53.008 I'm going to say it's a family member. 00:11:53.008 --> 00:11:57.269 I can't go into detail because he's going to try. 00:11:58.884 --> 00:12:01.087 Yeah, thank you for supporting, Thank you, thank you, thank you. 00:12:01.087 --> 00:12:03.886 No, but it's just I don't know what to do. 00:12:03.886 --> 00:12:06.885 I don't know if I should cut him off too, because I haven't cut him off yet. 00:12:06.885 --> 00:12:07.881 Right On my end. 00:12:07.881 --> 00:12:16.410 I haven't done it, but everyone else that he cut off, they cutted him, and his, I guess, his girl off too, yeah. 00:12:16.410 --> 00:12:26.880 So, yeah, I don't know Like my daughter cut him off and I'm like damn damn, she's like the nicest person. 00:12:26.880 --> 00:12:32.993 But yeah, man, I don't, I don't know like how would you handle this type of situation where a family member cuts you off and you're like dude, why? 00:12:33.072 --> 00:12:44.821 but you're I think, sorry, I got serious oh, that's a good one, though, because I think, honestly, you're still gonna always be there, even if you're like, oh, I cut you off the moment something bad happens, you're gonna go back. 00:12:44.821 --> 00:12:50.923 I think all those people who cut that person off will go back, because I mean if you really love someone or if

they're really that close to you. 00:12:50.923 --> 00:12:55.863 I think I think you cut it, but like not, you know what I mean. 00:12:55.883 --> 00:13:04.288 You give the space yeah because you know you're always gonna be there with that person, like it's always in your heart, whoever that is yeah but you just I guess you just let them go through their phase. 00:13:04.288 --> 00:13:13.610 I always say, if something that I think is bad gonna happen, I'm like oh, I hope I eat my words yeah so I mean, like it sucks that y'all separate and they distant themselves. 00:13:13.669 --> 00:13:18.287 But I think like he did the distancing, yeah, yeah I think they'll. 00:13:18.788 --> 00:13:23.529 He'll recognize that and come back, or if there's something that falls out with that, they, they're gonna come back, or I. 00:13:23.529 --> 00:13:27.686 There's something that falls out with that they, they're going to come back or I had, since we're talking about relationships there we go. 00:13:27.806 --> 00:13:28.427 Let's do this. 00:13:28.427 --> 00:13:29.291 We got into it. 00:13:30.081 --> 00:13:31.706 I had a relationship that was like that. 00:13:31.706 --> 00:13:36.029 It was um, I was dating a person and their brother was cool with me. 00:13:36.029 --> 00:13:37.504 It was the wife. 00:13:37.504 --> 00:13:39.405 The wife didn't like me. 00:13:39.405 --> 00:13:46.333 I think she was just kind of jealous or something and everything, and kind of jealous or something and everything, and so basically she was always trying to like one up me or try to be. 00:13:46.413 --> 00:13:52.738 And then one time there was a big argument and she goes, the guy, the brothers were fighting trying to protect us Right and everything. 00:13:52.738 --> 00:13:57.251 And and then the wife kind of stepped in because like I was like oh my gosh, what's happening? 00:13:57.251 --> 00:14:03.188 And she kind of stepped in and was like Alexis, let's you and I talk, because I know you and I have our insecurities about each other. 00:14:03.188 --> 00:14:06.494 And I was like I thought you were my sister. 00:14:06.494 --> 00:14:07.436 I never. 00:14:07.495 --> 00:14:11.302 I don't have sisters, I have a brother yeah so I was just kind of like I'm getting like chicken skin. 00:14:11.342 --> 00:14:16.881 I was like so wait, she said insecurities yeah and the guys are like yelling. 00:14:16.881 --> 00:14:23.523 I'm like we're like this way like were you insecure with her too, or not even close, yeah, oh. 00:14:23.523 --> 00:14:25.109 So when you heard that, how did you feel? 00:14:25.840 --> 00:14:27.285 It was almost like a pause. 00:14:27.326 --> 00:14:28.952 You're like what I was like, wait what? 00:14:28.952 --> 00:14:29.755 Yeah, hold on. 00:14:29.860 --> 00:14:31.447 Like the record scratch yeah yeah. 00:14:31.580 --> 00:14:35.929 I was just kind of like, oh, and that's kind of where I figured out, oh, she's jealous of me. 00:14:35.929 --> 00:14:44.975 Later down the road, when we had the separate or the families kind of separated, separated, and stopped talking, it was about like a year or so um, which was fun. 00:14:44.975 --> 00:14:53.240 Like we ended up breaking up because I kept pushing, like you need to talk to your brother, you need to talk to your brother, you're tied up for another um and he didn't want to, he didn't want to, he didn't want to. 00:14:53.240 --> 00:14:57.931 But the funny thing is I learned later down like what all the back history was. 00:14:57.931 --> 00:15:02.725 I think the wife actually liked my guy first out of the brothers. 00:15:02.986 --> 00:15:04.548 Oh, and she settled for the brother. 00:15:04.750 --> 00:15:14.740 Yeah, because my dude was married at the time, not when we were together, uh-huh, but like they were, like high schools, you know, they all grew up with each other, yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:15:14.740 --> 00:15:20.604 It was here in Hawaii, Hawaii you messy I like to throw dirt. 00:15:20.604 --> 00:15:22.408 You know, it was here in Hawaii. 00:15:22.469 --> 00:15:22.870 Red dirt. 00:15:26.860 --> 00:15:27.302 But basically dirt. 00:15:27.302 --> 00:15:28.105 You know it's kind of white, red dirt. 00:15:28.105 --> 00:15:32.120 But basically, um, yeah, they went to school together, all of them, and I and the guy I was dating was like, oh yeah, you know, she always used to like me this. 00:15:32.120 --> 00:15:41.630 Uh, whatever, I ended up getting married, had kid he all that stuff right, and then she went with a brother, so then my dude divorced all that stuff down the road. 00:15:41.630 --> 00:15:43.173 A few years later I then meet him. 00:15:43.173 --> 00:15:57.765 I become like a second mom to the kids, which I'm actually really good friends with, the kids and everything, oh that's good, that's good yeah yeah, but basically, yeah, come to find out like she would always text my dude saying like what should I do for him for Valentine's Day? 00:15:57.785 --> 00:15:58.548 Would he like something? 00:15:58.567 --> 00:15:59.230 For her man. 00:15:59.409 --> 00:16:10.221 Yeah, for the brother, yeah, brother, yeah, yeah. 00:16:10.221 --> 00:16:13.591 And he would tell me like, oh, she would ask me weird things, like sexual things, and I'd be like you, this is weird, but like you know, but long story it was. 00:16:13.591 --> 00:16:14.293 I think that's what it was. 00:16:14.293 --> 00:16:16.541 I think she's always wanted my guy, that brother, not her dude, and that's what I ended up finding out. 00:16:16.541 --> 00:16:18.065 But long story. 00:16:18.065 --> 00:16:23.187 Basically, I kept saying you need to talk to your brother, you talk to your brother, and I made the biggest mistake ever. 00:16:23.187 --> 00:16:26.842 I was like I don't want to deal with that, but like I want you to be with your family. 00:16:26.842 --> 00:16:30.152 But what I did as a mistake was I took myself out of things. 00:16:30.152 --> 00:16:31.504 So like I'd be like, oh, why don't you go for lunch? 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--> 00:16:32.466 I'm gonna go with my friends. 00:16:32.908 --> 00:16:45.494 I wouldn't go with them, right, I would give them, his space, but come to find out that's when, like, things were being talked about me, me, me, and then, basically, he started to feel some type of way towards me, and that's what shifted us. 00:16:46.140 --> 00:16:47.285 No way, no way. 00:16:47.980 --> 00:16:52.285 I mean, I got the family back together, but I got kicked out To your own expense. 00:16:52.326 --> 00:16:56.019 You know that's crazy, yeah, if she wanted. 00:16:56.080 --> 00:16:59.541 I think now, because this was like years ago, like maybe five years ago, I think. 00:16:59.541 --> 00:17:02.630 Now the other brother and that girl are divorced. 00:17:03.181 --> 00:17:05.528 And is she with your ex-man? 00:17:05.568 --> 00:17:07.403 No, uh-uh, he's with somebody else. 00:17:07.986 --> 00:17:08.827 Oh, oops. 00:17:08.827 --> 00:17:13.442 So, Even on, do Not Disturb, it goes through. 00:17:13.442 --> 00:17:24.041 Oh, it's because it's on, like my personal list Hickaway, hickaway, it's my dad, but Hickaway, hi Dad, I'm with Daddy Leo, oh, so, um. 00:17:24.041 --> 00:17:32.201 So, when they were talking about you like, how did you find out they were talking about you Like? 00:17:32.201 --> 00:17:34.428 How did you get the word like, oh man they're talking about Alexis. 00:17:34.448 --> 00:17:34.890 Like what do you mean? 00:17:34.890 --> 00:17:35.732 Like they were talking about. 00:17:35.732 --> 00:17:37.077 Like how did I find out they were talking? 00:17:37.097 --> 00:17:37.258 about me. 00:17:37.258 --> 00:17:37.619 Yeah, how did they? 00:17:37.619 --> 00:17:43.007 Yeah, like when they were kicking it with their crew, with their little you know circle, and then you were with your friends. 00:17:43.007 --> 00:17:44.869 Yeah, how did that word get back to you? 00:17:44.930 --> 00:17:47.713 mutuals, and I mean I guess it was a he said, she said thing. 00:17:47.713 --> 00:17:51.965 But it all ended up kind of the way it rolled out was like it made more sense. 00:17:51.965 --> 00:17:58.887 Oh, basically, like certain friends that they knew that I knew that we were all friends with still and we would go places. 00:17:58.887 --> 00:18:05.788 One particular person was like oh you know, like they talk a little bit about you, they always talk bad about you and I go. 00:18:05.788 --> 00:18:06.430 What does he say? 00:18:06.430 --> 00:18:08.473 Like oh, he's, you know, nonchalant and I go. 00:18:08.473 --> 00:18:10.045 He should be like you know. 00:18:10.306 --> 00:18:11.148 Protecting you, yes. 00:18:11.339 --> 00:18:23.852 But I think also the like giving him maybe benefit of it was like maybe he I think he wanted end everything worked its way out. 00:18:23.852 --> 00:18:24.752 He moved on. 00:18:24.752 --> 00:18:26.355 He has his family, he's married again. 00:18:26.355 --> 00:18:28.056 I moved on, I did my stuff. 00:18:28.056 --> 00:18:32.067 Yeah, the friends, mutual friends, were telling me. 00:18:32.067 --> 00:18:33.853 I was almost thinking who do I believe? 00:18:33.853 --> 00:18:38.269 Just the vibe and the shift. 00:18:38.309 --> 00:18:42.708 So I mean, yeah, Are you really good at reading the room I am. 00:18:43.740 --> 00:18:44.746 I feel like I am. 00:18:44.746 --> 00:18:51.348 You're some type of psychic girl oh really like do you ever watch that so raven yeah, are you raven? 00:18:51.348 --> 00:18:58.166 Yeah, I feel like we're gonna have a really successful oh, oh, my gosh, we are. 00:18:58.247 --> 00:19:02.861 Oh yeah, we just got deep in there we did we did. 00:19:02.861 --> 00:19:04.724 Let's get to these questions, okay, all right, all right. 00:19:04.724 --> 00:19:07.772 So first one is oh, we talked about this. 00:19:07.772 --> 00:19:12.329 Some people say that communication isn't key, it's comprehension. 00:19:12.329 --> 00:19:13.593 Do you agree? 00:19:14.700 --> 00:19:16.366 Communication is important, for sure. 00:19:16.366 --> 00:19:20.103 But, it's going to be like a round-around circle. 00:19:20.163 --> 00:19:33.213 if you don't understand the communication, if the person that's receiving isn't understanding what the receiver is saying, whatever the sender. 00:19:33.213 --> 00:19:34.694 Yeah, exactly the sender. 00:19:35.375 --> 00:19:37.636 Yes, I think, like and not like. 00:19:37.636 --> 00:19:40.648 Well, even language barriers, oh yeah, this is true. 00:19:40.709 --> 00:19:41.290 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:19:41.500 --> 00:19:47.846 You don't understand cultural, you don't understand the language, or like English as a second language or whatever language you're speaking is a second language. 00:19:48.320 --> 00:19:54.271 I feel like if you don't understand it, I mean like, yeah, that's going to be hard, mm-hmm. 00:19:54.271 --> 00:20:02.205 And the biggest thing is like when people say, well, you don't understand how much I love you, and the other person's like, how do you love me? 00:20:02.205 --> 00:20:03.088 You're not doing these things. 00:20:03.088 --> 00:20:12.468 And I think it's like maybe person here does love the person so much and they're giving 100%, and now they're feeling drained because, like, well, he doesn't think I love them and I'm giving, giving, giving, giving. 00:20:12.468 --> 00:20:18.443 And this person's like you're not giving anything, not because they're mean, but it's just because the communication doesn. 00:20:18.744 --> 00:20:35.936 So I think also like just people's past, people, not to say like, enable certain moods but, like I truly think, if you love somebody, you take their bads and their goods and, like I think, oh, definitely yeah, yeah, and I think that's like understanding where it's coming from. 00:20:35.936 --> 00:20:41.689 Mm-hmm, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah Well so, like. 00:20:42.371 --> 00:20:55.487 So I communicate with my wife like daily, right, like we're we're supposed to communicate, but, um, you know, me, with my background, I

have to like I dump things down to where it's understood, like I'm trying to teach. 00:20:55.487 --> 00:20:59.603 So basically, the way I communicate, it's I'm trying I'm talking to like a fifth grader. 00:20:59.603 --> 00:21:03.673 No, I'm not like trying to downgrade yeah, she does. 00:21:03.673 --> 00:21:08.351 I'm not trying to downgrade the intelligence, but I try to make it like as simple as. 00:21:08.411 --> 00:21:09.255 So there's no confusion. 00:21:09.255 --> 00:21:10.640 Yeah, yeah, no, that's good. 00:21:10.720 --> 00:21:13.468 So, but she takes it sometimes. 00:21:13.468 --> 00:21:14.411 This is only sometimes. 00:21:14.411 --> 00:21:17.766 She takes it as a disrespect, because it's like why are you talking to me like I'm a little kid? 00:21:17.766 --> 00:21:23.800 I'm? 00:21:23.820 --> 00:21:24.325 not doing that on purpose. 00:21:24.325 --> 00:21:26.137 It's just the way I'm trained, like the way my thinking is and because you're military. 00:21:26.137 --> 00:21:26.760 Yeah, yes, because. 00:21:27.041 --> 00:21:32.547 I would want someone, if they give me some instruction, break it down to like the third grade level. 00:21:32.547 --> 00:21:34.932 So I don't mess up the first time, Absolutely. 00:21:34.932 --> 00:21:38.309 So I do that, but we get into our little scuffles. 00:21:38.309 --> 00:21:42.750 Yeah, yeah, yeah, but I mean it doesn't get to where I'm fucking divorced and you were some type. 00:21:42.890 --> 00:21:43.191 Right. 00:21:43.290 --> 00:21:43.873 Some type of way. 00:21:43.873 --> 00:21:49.426 But the way we communicate, it's, yeah, the whole understanding thing. 00:21:49.426 --> 00:21:56.789 She gets it sometimes, but there's other times where I have to like really dumb it down, right, no, that makes sense. 00:21:57.290 --> 00:22:07.528 Because I think, yeah, again, that goes back to really, because, like you're going, you're working on that comfort, like, yeah, again that goes back to really because you're working on that, do you understand, kind of thing, but you're not going to be like, do you understand? 00:22:07.528 --> 00:22:08.329 You're not going to talk like that. 00:22:08.349 --> 00:22:08.750 No, definitely not. 00:22:08.750 --> 00:22:12.375 So I would say my spiel, and then I'd be like all right, all right, I'm going to try and break it down. 00:22:12.375 --> 00:22:17.181 I'm going to try and break it down Before she says something. 00:22:17.181 --> 00:22:18.282 I was like, oh, let me try and break it down. 00:22:18.282 --> 00:22:19.685 And then third grade mode, right, yeah. 00:22:19.685 --> 00:22:30.252 So I'm going to ask you, alexis, because you are, you know, a coach as well, do you have to break it down that way or the way you present it the very first time? 00:22:30.252 --> 00:22:34.152 Your students, I guess, are they catching? 00:22:34.192 --> 00:22:46.355 it students or relationships relationships or or yeah, relationships or yeah um, I think I, I, yeah, I think I do break it down to a point where it's like no confusion. 00:22:46.355 --> 00:23:01.006 Again, I've dated military, so I kind of understand that, which is very funny, because before I dated military also with the yoga therapy that I did I had to learn from some of the therapists and understand a military person, not to say I know everyone's mind. 00:23:01.006 --> 00:23:07.007 Well, I do, I'm Raven, I just called myself Ravenven, that's so raven. 00:23:07.007 --> 00:23:24.868 Um, but no, like I think, from learning again someone else's behavior and moods, like I feel like I, yeah, I guess I do kind of break it down a little bit, but what I've learned is like people can talk, talk, talk and then you, you lose what the person's saying. 00:23:24.909 --> 00:23:25.609 I guess this is true. 00:23:25.609 --> 00:23:26.511 It happens to me a lot. 00:23:26.652 --> 00:23:31.650 Yeah, yeah and so I feel like, from a military perspective, maybe you could say that too is like black and white. 00:23:31.650 --> 00:23:32.881 What's the point? 00:23:32.881 --> 00:23:34.164 What are you trying to achieve? 00:23:34.164 --> 00:23:35.188 What is the outcome? 00:23:35.188 --> 00:23:37.041 You like, you know, like I forgot how they break it down. 00:23:37.041 --> 00:23:40.349 And so basically it's like okay, what am I trying to say? 00:23:40.349 --> 00:23:41.031 I'm hurt. 00:23:41.031 --> 00:23:42.655 Well, why am I hurt? 00:23:42.655 --> 00:23:43.438 What did they do? 00:23:43.438 --> 00:23:48.229 And so I guess like, okay, I'm hurt because you talked to this other person. 00:23:48.229 --> 00:23:50.344 When I told you not to talk to them, they disrespected me. 00:23:50.344 --> 00:23:52.515 And then it's like well, what am I trying to achieve? 00:23:52.674 --> 00:23:55.525 Then I could be like well, I don't want you to talk to them. 00:23:55.525 --> 00:23:58.011 Or if they do talk to you, be like hey, you know there's some like. 00:23:58.011 --> 00:23:59.423 And then you agree like that, right. 00:23:59.423 --> 00:24:01.287 So I guess it is breaking it down black and white. 00:24:01.287 --> 00:24:03.992 So with students, same thing. 00:24:03.992 --> 00:24:05.525 I'm like okay, do you understand? 00:24:05.525 --> 00:24:13.609 You didn't do this Because and it's easier with photos I'll be like okay, when you're standing like this, you just look like a stick or you look like a blob. 00:24:13.609 --> 00:24:14.372 There's no space. 00:24:14.372 --> 00:24:16.426 I'll take their picture so they can see it. 00:24:16.426 --> 00:24:25.714 And I'm like okay, I see it like example-wise, and I guess in relationships I do that too. 00:24:25.714 --> 00:24:31.769 I'd be like, hey, you know, would you like it if I talked to so-so-so? 00:24:31.789 --> 00:24:32.031 at your work. 00:24:32.031 --> 00:24:32.193 Who's? 00:24:32.213 --> 00:24:32.898 always, you know, disrespecting you. 00:24:32.898 --> 00:24:34.906 If I knew he was flirting with me, would you be? 00:24:34.906 --> 00:24:37.782 It's kind of like

reciprocated, like put yourself in my shoes. 00:24:37.782 --> 00:24:40.045 So I guess I do always put with an example. 00:24:40.045 --> 00:24:42.587 So breaking things down is important. 00:24:42.808 --> 00:24:43.088 Yeah. 00:24:43.528 --> 00:24:49.435 And then I guess, if, like, I guess, if there is love or actual caring, I guess maybe they'll try to understand your version. 00:24:49.435 --> 00:24:52.125 Oh definitely yeah, and if not, then you know see other people. 00:24:52.487 --> 00:24:53.068 See other people. 00:24:53.068 --> 00:24:53.750 There it is. 00:24:53.750 --> 00:24:58.079 I liked how you broke down the military mind I thought you were going to say I broke down. 00:24:58.101 --> 00:25:19.222 the whole thing of breaking it down, I mean no, you did that too because you know, as a military person, that's how, like we think and I think a lot of people forget, like meeting someone for the first time, they wouldn't know that I'm in the military, oh yeah, so I would have to say communicate effectively, saying, hey, I need you to really break it down, absolutely. 00:25:19.222 --> 00:25:19.784 Yeah down, you know. 00:25:19.784 --> 00:25:21.205 And they're like what? 00:25:21.626 --> 00:25:26.273 It's true, though, because, also, like I know, the first military person I dated, my mom, was so concerned. 00:25:26.273 --> 00:25:30.108 Why and I don't think it was because it was a military, because we have military in our family. 00:25:30.108 --> 00:26:00.645 Yeah, I think, because you know she wanted to protect me and she was like oh, military people can be very mean and tough, and like it was a Marine, so but like I mean, and I guess like what you see in the movies and all that other stuff, they make them seem like these bad guys that are, like, emotionless and, if anything, I think military people have probably the most emotions we do and it's like, and it's not a bad thing definitely not. 00:26:01.688 --> 00:26:04.012 I think with working with military and hearing their stories, and I'm talking like some of not. 00:26:04.012 --> 00:26:19.741 I think with working with military and hearing their story and I'm talking like some of the people I worked with, like Vietnam vets like elderly military too, who I think were trained not to share a lot of their feelings too back then, hearing them just talk story with me and understanding them, say like oh, my wife never understand, like they would just come to the. 00:26:19.741 --> 00:26:20.824 It was at the vet center. 00:26:20.824 --> 00:26:21.565 Shout out, vet center. 00:26:21.724 --> 00:26:22.406 Shout out vet center. 00:26:22.406 --> 00:26:23.147 Shout out vet center. 00:26:23.147 --> 00:26:24.349 Hope you all listen to this. 00:26:25.090 --> 00:26:29.026 It sounds like a cat Meow, meow, meow, meow. 00:26:29.026 --> 00:26:32.663 Calico get out of here. 00:26:32.663 --> 00:26:34.588 That was my new soundboard. 00:26:36.520 --> 00:26:39.951 Meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow meow meow. 00:26:40.059

--> 00:26:41.625 Can we schedule a second one this? 00:26:41.766 --> 00:26:42.147 is fun. 00:26:42.147 --> 00:26:44.605 Hell yeah, I'll put her back on. 00:26:45.780 --> 00:26:47.207 Do the viewers want to see me? 00:26:47.247 --> 00:26:49.605 again, help me, girl. 00:26:49.605 --> 00:26:51.787 Yes, they ain't going to have no choice. 00:26:51.787 --> 00:26:54.105 We'll make it a pajama edition. 00:26:54.105 --> 00:26:55.329 You know what I'm saying? 00:26:55.329 --> 00:26:57.461 I'll bring my spidey pajamas. 00:26:57.461 --> 00:26:59.242 Lensies no, hell, no, I don't have a lensie. 00:26:59.242 --> 00:27:00.003 How am I going to use the bathroom? 00:27:00.003 --> 00:27:00.084 You? 00:27:00.084 --> 00:27:00.784 Nah, hell, no, I don't have a onesie. 00:27:00.784 --> 00:27:01.545 How am I going to use the bathroom? 00:27:01.545 --> 00:27:02.005 You can wear a onesie. 00:27:02.005 --> 00:27:02.945 You know how am I? 00:27:02.945 --> 00:27:06.848 You know I have a butt flap to poop. 00:27:06.848 --> 00:27:11.133 But then, you know, speaking of onesies, we're going to get off topic. 00:27:11.133 --> 00:27:14.295 One of my friends wore a man. 00:27:14.295 --> 00:27:15.296 What is it called? 00:27:15.296 --> 00:27:16.336 Is it a leotard? 00:27:16.336 --> 00:27:16.977 No, not a leotard. 00:27:16.977 --> 00:27:19.540 Yeah, like a romper. 00:27:19.540 --> 00:27:20.162 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:27:20.162 --> 00:27:22.904 One of my good buddies wore a romper to a club. 00:27:22.964 --> 00:27:24.446 right, On purpose. 00:27:24.826 --> 00:27:27.450 On purpose, on purpose, just, you know, for fun. 00:27:27.450 --> 00:27:31.134 On purpose, yeah, and I was like dog, how did you pee? 00:27:31.134 --> 00:27:32.395 He was like oh, I just got naked. 00:27:32.395 --> 00:27:42.931 I was like so how do other guys like were you in a stall, or were you yeah, or were you like did you close the door? 00:27:42.931 --> 00:27:52.903 He's like dog, I was in a stall and he's you know, he's one of my black friends Like it's one of the things yeah, yeah, he's got a urinal on the wall, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, the urinal, or a stall, how do you just go down to the? 00:27:52.903 --> 00:27:58.487 And then he was just like no, dude, I just had to take it off. 00:27:58.487 --> 00:28:01.230 Your butt cheek's showing, or how did you do it? 00:28:01.230 --> 00:28:02.153 He's like all right. 00:28:02.153 --> 00:28:04.884 So the first time he got naked right, like you know, he took it off. 00:28:04.884 --> 00:28:14.144 The next time he I don't know how he did it, but the way he explained it is that he pulled it up his leg I was like dog is. 00:28:14.144 --> 00:28:16.009 I was like your member's that long dog? 00:28:16.009 --> 00:28:16.971 I was like damn. 00:28:16.990 --> 00:28:17.653 Those are jealous. 00:28:17.653 --> 00:28:21.488 You guys have that ability, we that ability, uh-huh, we don't have those abilities. 00:28:21.508 --> 00:28:23.192 You have to get butt booty naked. 00:28:23.192 -->

00:28:30.549 If you're yeah, Well, not naked, but no, yeah, past your ankle yeah, Kind of If it doesn't have a little baby snap like those snaps that are at the bottom. 00:28:30.589 --> 00:28:31.050 What the fuck is a? 00:28:31.070 --> 00:28:31.432 baby snap. 00:28:31.432 --> 00:28:32.791 Oh, is that the one like near the? 00:28:32.791 --> 00:28:37.362 It's not a little snap, it's like a baby snap. 00:28:37.422 --> 00:28:43.646 Oh, yeah, yeah yeah, I mean, but still, those are annoying too, because you still have to like, you have to snap it. 00:28:43.686 --> 00:28:51.712 Yeah, and if have you ever had wore a romper and you had a malfunction like a wardrobe malfunction? 00:28:52.353 --> 00:28:54.515 Like what, like it like fell apart or like. 00:28:54.815 --> 00:28:55.375 Yeah. 00:28:55.595 --> 00:28:57.336 Unsnapped and like didn't go back. 00:28:57.457 --> 00:28:59.018 Yeah, no, unfortunate. 00:28:59.018 --> 00:29:06.522 I mean not unfortunate, I mean luckily. 00:29:06.522 --> 00:29:08.871 I was like unfortunately, huh, um, so have you ever gotten so wasted to where you're just like? 00:29:09.211 --> 00:29:09.633 dude, I can't do this. 00:29:09.633 --> 00:29:14.467 No, thankfully, oh yeah, that's one thing I will say I mean I go out, I I'll have a. 00:29:14.467 --> 00:29:15.429 I don't drink drink. 00:29:15.429 --> 00:29:18.872 You know, I don't drink, like if I go social I'll have like a drink or two or whatever. 00:29:18.872 --> 00:29:20.640 But I've never been like super wasted. 00:29:20.640 --> 00:29:23.464 I've never woken up in my life and everyone's like, oh, you need to experience. 00:29:23.484 --> 00:29:39.487 I was like I'm good, but I've never woken up next to a toilet good yeah and I don't know why people's like you need to experience life and I'm like I don't know, I'm okay yeah, maybe that's why I'm a ceo, I don't know because I didn't wake up next to toilets you make smart decisions. 00:29:39.487 --> 00:29:49.828 I mean I have fun, uh-huh, I go out, I dance, I have a drink or two, but like I mean, I don't drink to get drunk one, you don't remember your experiences are fun. 00:29:50.151 --> 00:29:55.409 Facts two I mean it's dangerous and oh yeah, as a woman, yeah, even as a man driving. 00:29:55.489 --> 00:29:57.535 So I had a stepbrother in Brazil. 00:29:57.535 --> 00:29:58.917 He passed from drunk driving. 00:29:58.917 --> 00:29:59.921 So that's another big thing. 00:29:59.921 --> 00:30:06.138 So that's another big thing though, so that's why I'm like when my friends drink or everything I'm always like okay, you guys, make sure you know, take care of each other. 00:30:06.138 --> 00:30:07.523 Stay the night here, do this whatever. 00:30:07.523 --> 00:30:18.420 But yeah, like I've never been one to just get super wasted one, because, yeah, also it's dangerous for girls too yeah, yeah, when you're out with your lady friends on the island. 00:30:18.460 --> 00:30:19.942 how aggressive are these guys? 00:30:19.942 --> 00:30:22.626 Or

are they little wimps? 00:30:22.626 --> 00:30:27.554 Because they're like they see, see you, and they're like, oh snap, I'm not going to have a chance, so they don't even bother yeah. 00:30:27.554 --> 00:30:40.683 Because on the mainland, like I'm not going to lie, we I can't speak for myself because I'm a goofy guy, so I use, like I use my goofiness, but goofy is a key. 00:30:40.683 --> 00:30:40.944 Oh, it is. 00:30:40.944 --> 00:30:43.069 Yes, use my goofiness, but Goofy is a key. 00:30:43.411 --> 00:30:43.611 Oh, it is. 00:30:43.611 --> 00:30:44.292 It's a key to the heart. 00:30:44.292 --> 00:30:47.059 Yes, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow. 00:30:47.059 --> 00:30:50.354 No, but guys are like they're aggressive with it. 00:30:50.354 --> 00:30:51.559 Yeah, I don't like that. 00:30:51.559 --> 00:30:52.724 They're like, hey, ma, da, da, da, this. 00:30:52.724 --> 00:30:53.890 And the third? 00:30:53.890 --> 00:31:05.785 Yeah, I don't like. 00:31:05.785 --> 00:31:06.669 See how it works, you know. 00:31:06.669 --> 00:31:08.778 So how does it work with, like, the guys coming up to you or do they come? 00:31:08.798 --> 00:31:09.000 up to you. 00:31:09.000 --> 00:31:12.527 I had one guy come up to me. 00:31:12.567 --> 00:31:13.349 Congratulations, guy. 00:31:14.560 --> 00:31:15.344 Well, he lost. 00:31:15.384 --> 00:31:17.303 Well, he lost, but I mean he had the balls. 00:31:17.865 --> 00:31:19.506 One I couldn't hear because it was in the club. 00:31:19.506 --> 00:31:25.276 Facts yeah, yeah, yeah he said something like whispered in my ear and I had a Pua in my hair and I didn't understand what he had said at first. 00:31:25.276 --> 00:31:26.539 Yeah, pua is a flower. 00:31:26.539 --> 00:31:28.981 For those who tune in that don't understand, because you know. 00:31:29.142 --> 00:31:33.424 Right is single, left is taken or is it? 00:31:33.424 --> 00:31:39.910 The other side yeah like a wedding ring yeah, ready to mingle. 00:31:40.130 --> 00:31:50.277 So basically I had it here, but the guy came up to me and he's all like and now that I kind of played it back in my head, I think that he said like why do you have a Pua in your hair? 00:31:50.277 --> 00:31:50.958 Do you know what that means? 00:31:53.402 --> 00:31:54.804 Or something like that. 00:31:54.804 --> 00:31:56.465 He was saying something about the flower, right? 00:31:56.506 --> 00:31:57.387 Was he a local cat? 00:31:57.387 --> 00:31:57.887 Yeah, okay, okay. 00:31:57.887 --> 00:32:00.852 I don't think anybody would say like I like your poo-ah. 00:32:01.373 --> 00:32:05.335 Yeah right, poo-ah, but he said poo-ah though he did, so he had to be local. 00:32:05.335 --> 00:32:11.348 Yeah, yeah, yeah, dog face one plus one they would have been like poo-ah, I like your poo-ah. 00:32:11.940 --> 00:32:12.761 But no. 00:32:12.761 --> 00:32:17.564 So yeah, I think that's what I after a while because he was talking to me. 00:32:17.564 --> 00:32:17.865 I'm like huh. 00:32:28.420 --> 00:32:29.522 And

he goes something something, something. 00:32:29.542 --> 00:32:30.767 He tapped it so I knew he was talking about the flower. 00:32:30.767 --> 00:32:31.228 Then that's how I knew. 00:32:31.228 --> 00:32:32.913 And then I go, I, I go, I don't know why, because I didn't know what he was saying. 00:32:32.913 --> 00:32:33.756 And then he goes oh okay, so you're a fake. 00:32:33.756 --> 00:32:34.278 I was like, what like? 00:32:34.317 --> 00:32:38.733 and he walked away like a fake hawaiian or oh, and then I was like what a loser rolled with me for a while. 00:32:38.753 --> 00:32:39.339 I was like I don't get that. 00:32:39.339 --> 00:32:39.660 I don't get it. 00:32:39.660 --> 00:32:50.673 So I asked my one friend I was out with one of my guy friends, one of my best guy friends, and because all my friends bailed on me that day and my guy friend was like you cannot go to this place by yourself, so he came with me, yeah. 00:32:50.673 --> 00:33:04.977 So basically I told him that I was like that was so weird and he asking like to see if I was truly like single taken. 00:33:04.977 --> 00:33:06.499 Did I have it on the right spot on my head? 00:33:06.558 --> 00:33:12.111 or whatever which I don't even think like real locals know what side either. 00:33:12.111 --> 00:33:17.047 Sometimes I'm like what if my hair just looks cute, flip this way and I want to wear it on the left side? 00:33:17.086 --> 00:33:18.150 yeah right. 00:33:18.170 --> 00:33:21.122 Why are you even trying to talk to me at the club? 00:33:21.122 --> 00:33:42.165 Because liquid courage does something to a man, mislexes liquid courage so I guess the question of guys coming up and talking to me, I guess, yeah, not often, but when they do, sometimes they just say dumb things. 00:33:42.480 --> 00:33:43.582 I like to meet people more in zones of networking. 00:33:43.602 --> 00:33:45.384 Not often, but when they do, sometimes they just say dumb things. 00:33:45.384 --> 00:33:51.355 Really, yeah, I like to meet people more in zones of networking or meeting people, maybe because I'm just business, I'm really business-y, I'm boring. 00:33:51.375 --> 00:33:52.076 Oh, really yeah. 00:33:52.539 --> 00:33:59.503 So let's say you're at like a we were at a club and I was doing emails for business, a Starbucks, my friend came down for that. 00:33:59.864 --> 00:34:00.904 Oh, for real, you were doing that. 00:34:00.904 --> 00:34:02.165 Oh, probably on your phone, yeah. 00:34:02.306 --> 00:34:04.627 Yeah, I was doing my emails because like, let me do my emails. 00:34:04.627 --> 00:34:06.989 I got to do this, da-da-da-da-da, and my friend's like you're always working. 00:34:07.549 --> 00:34:17.817 That's good, though, like I mean when you're 50 or 60, eventually you're going to put the phone down and just relax and love life, you know. 00:34:19.340 --> 00:34:19.501 I mean. 00:34:19.521 --> 00:34:19.760 I love life. 00:34:19.760 --> 00:34:21.043 Yeah, yeah, I mean, who doesn't love life? 00:34:21.043 --> 00:34:27.141 Yeah I love life and work, I work like what did they say? 00:34:27.360 --> 00:34:30.289 what's the saying do something you love and it will never feel like work. 00:34:30.588 --> 00:34:32.902 Yeah, facts that is facts it is facts. 00:34:32.902 --> 00:34:38.614 So um your, your business, that's your nine to five kind of like it. 00:34:38.653 --> 00:34:42.853 Well, it's like my 24 7, but oh, my fault, my fault, my fault, that's your, that's your main source to income, then that's what I meant actually. 00:34:42.873 --> 00:34:43.275 Which a lot my fault. 00:34:43.295 --> 00:34:48.186 That's your main source of income, then that's what I meant, no actually, which a lot of people don't know, my main source is I'm a dog trainer. 00:34:48.608 --> 00:34:49.329 Shut your ass. 00:34:49.329 --> 00:34:55.492 So you're really keen with, like the furry fur footer, that's another way of my heart, penis and dogs. 00:34:55.980 --> 00:34:57.460 No way If you want to meet me? 00:34:57.460 --> 00:35:00.164 Just I was going to say show me your dog. 00:35:00.443 --> 00:35:00.724 Find. 00:35:00.724 --> 00:35:02.324 You can find Alexis. 00:35:04.027 --> 00:35:05.288 I'll be at the Humeas. 00:35:05.327 --> 00:35:08.931 Yeah, you got to have a dog and then make sure your dog's name is Goofy. 00:35:08.931 --> 00:35:14.715 And then, yeah, oh damn See, you're hooking these people up right now. 00:35:14.715 --> 00:35:18.362 So, okay, you like dogs, you're a dog trainer. 00:35:18.362 --> 00:35:25.800 So when because you know I have I had a total of three dogs, now I'm down to one oh no, yeah. 00:35:25.800 --> 00:35:29.186 So one was just old, Passed away. 00:35:29.186 --> 00:35:30.650 Her name was Haukia. 00:35:30.650 --> 00:35:31.992 What dog was she. 00:35:32.452 --> 00:35:33.213 A Great Pyrenees. 00:35:33.213 --> 00:35:42.391 I had her like when she was a wee little laddie, little tiny thing, and then on her twos like when she stands up, she's like as tall as me. 00:35:42.391 --> 00:35:45.782 So it was a mountain dog we had. 00:35:45.782 --> 00:35:47.485 And then I have another dog. 00:35:47.485 --> 00:35:50.389 She's half mix, husky and pit. 00:35:50.389 --> 00:35:52.972 Her name's Black Star, nice dog. 00:35:52.972 --> 00:35:58.346 She's still living, but she's old, like she's she wants to be active or no. 00:35:58.346 --> 00:35:59.568 No, she wants to be active. 00:35:59.929 --> 00:36:01.793 That dog like husky and the pit. 00:36:02.239 --> 00:36:02.922 Yeah, that's a good mix. 00:36:02.922 --> 00:36:06.527 I took her for walks, but when she was young she used to howl. 00:36:06.527 --> 00:36:12.108 Because of the husky, the husky, but now she doesn't bark. 00:36:12.108 --> 00:36:16.150 She whimpers when she sees other dogs, but she doesn't talk anymore, still loving. 00:36:16.150 --> 00:36:24.108 And then on the island, my wife and I we got this pit bull, but he was getting super aggressive after we got him snipped. 00:36:24.429 --> 00:36:24.849 Yeah.

00:36:24.889 --> 00:36:28.414 Like, um, not the ears, but you know, down there we took his manhood. 00:36:28.414 --> 00:36:39.364 Oh sorry, dude, Um, he, uh, we had to give it away, or but he, he found a good home, but he was just getting too aggressive with the little ones. 00:36:39.364 --> 00:36:39.846 Would you rescue him? 00:36:39.846 --> 00:36:40.347 Uh, no, we bought him. 00:36:40.347 --> 00:36:40.726 He was a puppy. 00:36:40.726 --> 00:36:41.547 We bought him as a baby. 00:36:41.547 --> 00:36:42.750 We bought him at a store. 00:36:43.110 --> 00:36:43.471 Okay. 00:36:43.550 --> 00:36:45.534 One of those stores in Puffy Mill. 00:36:45.534 --> 00:36:46.534 Yeah yeah, yeah. 00:36:46.534 --> 00:36:50.947 Yeah, we got him there and purebred, beautiful dog. 00:36:50.947 --> 00:36:57.052 But once we got him snipped for some reason he was like aggressive. 00:36:57.219 --> 00:37:00.623 He was mad because he still wanted, yeah, and he was like damn it, bro. 00:37:00.643 --> 00:37:02.507 But we got him snipped like when he was young. 00:37:02.507 --> 00:37:05.905 So I don't know if you've experienced horniness or whatever. 00:37:05.905 --> 00:37:09.329 You know, like if you got snipped while you were young, like what is it? 00:37:09.329 --> 00:37:09.690 You know? 00:37:10.110 --> 00:37:10.371 I mean. 00:37:10.639 --> 00:37:12.266 What do you think it is, since you're a dog trainer? 00:37:12.266 --> 00:37:15.760 Why was he aggressive even after? 00:37:15.760 --> 00:37:16.181 Which is? 00:37:16.221 --> 00:37:19.746 strange because a lot of people that has like the pit itself has like that. 00:37:19.746 --> 00:37:27.867 You know bad rep, but pits are one of the most loving dogs I love pits, but they are very territorial so maybe it was a territorial thing. 00:37:27.867 --> 00:37:28.869 I don't. 00:37:29.210 --> 00:37:39.568 Maybe because during when we had the pit, we had the two dogs too still yeah, but the two dogs were female and he was the male was he was the male was he trying to be alpha, do you think? 00:37:39.648 --> 00:37:41.452 possibly, maybe, oh, now are you an alpha with your dogs? 00:37:41.452 --> 00:37:43.858 Oh, definitely, everyone's always like oh, yeah, maybe, oh, now are you an alpha with your dogs. 00:37:44.018 --> 00:37:46.300 Oh, definitely, and I know everyone's always like oh yeah, I'm the alpha, but like? 00:37:46.661 --> 00:37:48.106 are you an alpha with your dogs? 00:37:48.106 --> 00:37:49.289 Explain so. 00:37:51.324 --> 00:37:53.489 Because I don't let her go on the couch or on the bed. 00:37:53.509 --> 00:37:54.931 Okay, okay, so you set boundaries. 00:37:55.233 --> 00:37:55.512 Oh yeah. 00:38:04.539 --> 00:38:06.324 And they know like never they think of you as the alpha for sure. 00:38:06.324 --> 00:38:08.411 Yes, they do say too to tell them to wait to eat. 00:38:08.411 --> 00:38:13.668 Put the bowl down and see if they'll wait and then go eat or something. 00:38:13.668 --> 00:38:14.630 And then they'll go and eat. 00:38:14.630 --> 00:38:21.606 It's because I guess in the dog world basically the alpha would eat first, like lions and everything they would eat first. 00:38:21.606 --> 00:38:22.710 I hit the mic, sorry. 00:38:23.940 --> 00:38:24.362 Oh no, it's all good. 00:38:24.362 --> 00:38:27.007 I got insurance, we, we got insurance. 00:38:27.007 --> 00:38:29.632 Yes, ko Studios, we have insurance. 00:38:30.780 --> 00:38:31.322 Come down. 00:38:31.322 --> 00:38:35.311 But no, they say that yeah, they say like let your dominance always. 00:38:35.311 --> 00:38:41.969 So basically you're saying like I'll tell you when to eat, basically, like I'm done eating your food, you can have the rest. 00:38:41.989 --> 00:38:43.211 Really, yeah, and they pick it up fast. 00:38:43.231 --> 00:38:43.972 They do pick it up fast. 00:38:43.972 --> 00:38:46.985 Some people do that with dogs, so I do dog sitting too. 00:38:46.985 --> 00:38:58.503 So some dogs it's kind of funny actually, because they'll be like oh, my dog is like this, my dog barks at other dogs, but when they're with me I can tell that they're going to want to bark at another dog. 00:38:58.503 --> 00:39:02.447 So when so I, when I'm walking them, I make them sit and I make the other dog walk past them. 00:39:03.128 --> 00:39:04.449 Like at a safe distance. 00:39:04.449 --> 00:39:05.532 Yeah, yeah, okay, okay, okay. 00:39:05.751 --> 00:39:08.376 So I'll make them sit and then I'll let the dog walk past them. 00:39:08.376 --> 00:39:16.414 But the other thing is, when you pet a dog on its head, it's like dominating, like not dominating, but like it's kind of. 00:39:16.414 --> 00:39:18.945 It makes them uncomfortable, kind of right, because like you're pushing down on them. 00:39:18.945 --> 00:39:28.527 I never knew that You're supposed to stroke their chest, to give them like if you notice that, they lift up and you'll see that, like if you meet a scared or shy dog, I'm hitting your mic. 00:39:28.527 --> 00:39:32.114 I'm a dog nerd I get so excited about dogs. 00:39:32.195 --> 00:39:34.768 I'm learning because I love dogs as well. 00:39:35.061 --> 00:39:37.101 Yeah, if you want to like have conversation with me. 00:39:37.101 --> 00:39:39.530 Just let's talk dogs oh man hell yeah. 00:39:39.530 --> 00:39:42.684 But yeah, um, no man, hell yeah, but yeah, no. 00:39:42.684 --> 00:39:44.327 So if you stroke their chest, Stroke the chest. 00:39:44.327 --> 00:39:45.710 Yeah, like it lifts, them. 00:39:45.891 --> 00:39:46.612 Yeah, I've seen that. 00:39:50.400 --> 00:39:57.648 It's like a dominance thing when, like anybody as a human or an animal, like, if you have, like proper posture, you feel more confident, you're not scared and everything so that gains a human's trust. 00:39:57.648 --> 00:40:01.690 Obviously you don't want to do that, unless the dog lets you touch them. 00:40:01.730 --> 00:40:03.920 Yeah, that's crazy. 00:40:03.920 --> 00:40:07.030 I like to pat my dog on the butt Like I'm like oh, let's go, I love

that too. 00:40:07.050 --> 00:40:07.570 Yeah, I'm like, let's go. 00:40:07.570 --> 00:40:10.726 I mean, everybody loves that too. 00:40:10.726 --> 00:40:12.150 Oh goodness. 00:40:12.369 --> 00:40:24.554 Let me ask you so Dominance Alpha, are you the Alpha one in the relationship, or do you submit, or you know when to be alpha? 00:40:26.320 --> 00:40:27.766 I love having a man of the house. 00:40:27.766 --> 00:40:28.487 I love that. 00:40:28.487 --> 00:40:31.664 I want to say I'm tradition modern. 00:40:31.664 --> 00:40:34.782 I love to have my protector, my man, my person. 00:40:34.782 --> 00:40:36.047 That's going to be that. 00:40:36.780 --> 00:40:38.206 Be a man, a man, be a man. 00:40:38.701 --> 00:40:40.547 Man be a man, I'm not going to step over him. 00:40:40.547 --> 00:40:43.085 However, if we're in, I think that's where the communication comprehension comes. 00:40:43.085 --> 00:40:43.788 Man, I'm not going to step over him. 00:40:43.788 --> 00:40:46.360 However, like, if we're in, like you know, I think that's where the communication comprehension comes into. 00:40:46.360 --> 00:40:57.208 Like you know, I think if that person truly respects me as their person, then they would also be like hey, they run things through me too, so but I always want them to be the speaker. 00:40:57.208 --> 00:41:00.960 You know how people say like oh, why do you let your man order for you? 00:41:00.960 --> 00:41:02.664 I don't let a guy order for me at a restaurant. 00:41:02.664 --> 00:41:05.614 But if we were having conversation, I'm like oh, I really want this. 00:41:05.614 --> 00:41:08.202 And he decides like oh, you know, she's gonna want this. 00:41:08.202 --> 00:41:10.047 I'm not gonna be like I order for myself. 00:41:10.068 --> 00:41:15.500 Like I, I like to be taken care of yeah, yeah especially being a person who's always running a business and taking care of others. 00:41:15.500 --> 00:41:19.766 It's nice to be vulnerable yeah am I submissive? 00:41:19.766 --> 00:41:21.128 I think, think. 00:41:21.148 --> 00:41:21.827 I don't want to say I know my. 00:41:21.827 --> 00:41:22.429 It's a time and place, right? 00:41:22.429 --> 00:41:23.250 Yeah, a time and place to be submissive. 00:41:23.269 --> 00:41:30.307 I know my respect and worth, but I also know like, hey, you go you do so I think it's an equal respect. 00:41:31.260 --> 00:41:50.416 The reason why I asked you that because it popped in my head is when you tell a dog to sit, wait for their food, right, and then you say go go yeah and then the dog, and that tells the person like, oh, I'm alpha, so my household, right, when it comes to food and everything, I let everyone eat first before I. 00:41:50.697 --> 00:41:54.045 You know, like, but my wife is always like, oh, let me give you a plate. 00:41:54.045 --> 00:41:59.367 I was like, nah, I want everyone to eat first because I mean, if there's, I'm killing the leftovers. 00:41:59.367 --> 00:42:05.309 You feel me like if you don't get your shit now, oh, it's in my stomach, you know, yeah, yeah, so, yeah. 00:42:05.309 --> 00:42:07.440 So that's how it is in my household, like, I let everyone eat first. 00:42:07.500 --> 00:42:10.789 I think that's also because you're a protector and you want to make sure you're, because you have kids right. 00:42:10.809 --> 00:42:33.251 Yeah, you want to make sure that they are healthy and they're fed, and like you're like damn it, I want to eat, but I'm happier knowing my family will have food in their tummies. 00:42:33.251 --> 00:42:34.032 So you're more of a like a, caregiver. 00:42:34.032 --> 00:42:34.733 You know what's so messed up with? 00:42:34.733 --> 00:42:36.498 That train of thought is like when you were 50 000 feet up in the air. 00:42:36.498 --> 00:42:39.324 They say put your mask on first before before put it. 00:42:39.324 --> 00:42:44.918 You know, taking care of other people, yeah, and I'm like damn, that's so messed up, but it's true though. 00:42:44.918 --> 00:42:45.380 No, I thought that too. 00:42:45.681 --> 00:42:46.666 And I always used to think that too. 00:42:46.666 --> 00:43:05.157 I was like, wow, that kid only has like a little tiny lung, though, like there's like one little like you know, but I thought about it and I was like well, if I try to put their masks on, who's going to protect them once the plane? 00:43:05.157 --> 00:43:06.577 I mean, if you all survive. 00:43:06.619 --> 00:43:11.548 Yeah, yeah, facts, yeah, you have to put yours on first, then others yeah. 00:43:11.548 --> 00:43:13.193 It's backwards. 00:43:13.193 --> 00:43:17.806 I guess, when you're on the ground, you got to do it that way, and when you're up in the air, you got to do it the other way. 00:43:17.980 --> 00:43:18.864 Yeah, I guess so. 00:43:19.385 --> 00:43:22.168 When you fly, girl, let me ask you I love flying. 00:43:22.168 --> 00:43:25.494 Do you fly first class or are you economy like us folks? 00:43:28.141 --> 00:43:28.262 I'm so. 00:43:28.262 --> 00:43:35.068 Last time Southwest changed everything, so Southwest no longer has the free. 00:43:35.068 --> 00:43:39.710 I'm a smart flyer, so I have my Hawaiian. 00:43:39.710 --> 00:43:43.483 I have of course not Alaska, because they combine, and then I have Southwest. 00:43:43.483 --> 00:43:44.365 Those are the best. 00:43:44.365 --> 00:43:45.369 Shout out you guys. 00:43:45.369 --> 00:43:46.632 Give me a sponsorship or something. 00:43:46.673 --> 00:43:48.719 Hell, yeah, yeah, ma, ma, ma mao, we're going to go fly the man. 00:43:48.719 --> 00:43:50.226 I know one of you motherfuckers listen to this shit. 00:43:51.619 --> 00:43:55.585 No, but like, basically I balance all of them. 00:43:55.585 --> 00:43:59.030 So also, like you know, because you get the miles and all shop. 00:43:59.030 --> 00:44:04.235 But basically so, southwest, I flew southwest here but southwest took away their two free bags. 00:44:04.235 --> 00:44:11.293 But so here's, you guys want to learn some something oh, so here we go for

the tea okay. 00:44:11.313 --> 00:44:12.282 So when you fly. 00:44:12.282 --> 00:44:19.929 So if you buy the small package, it's super cheap on southwest right, but you don't get your two free bags which you used to, which was a great deal, but now you don't. 00:44:19.929 --> 00:44:24.902 But if you go and buy them after, I think it's like what 25, 50 something bucks right. 00:44:24.902 --> 00:44:27.110 So like you have two bags, a hundred dollars. 00:44:27.110 --> 00:44:44.972 So now you went from like 300 something to like another 400 and then normally if I'm flying back home to hawaii, I like to get the internet, I like to get like all that stuff, because that's a long ass flight from new york to hawaii yeah so basically, you add all that on and I guess it just depends on your lifestyle, right? 00:44:45.360 --> 00:44:46.081 You add all that on. 00:44:46.081 --> 00:44:55.010 It ends up being the first like the bigger package actually, oh, I never thought of that when you do that, but when you buy it separately it no longer adds your points. 00:44:55.010 --> 00:45:05.554 So like if you buy this basic package and they say something like because you know you earn miles every time you buy yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, so the basic package I think was like six times per mile points that you'll get on your account. 00:45:05.960 --> 00:45:15.530 But if you bought the bigger one at that time you got 14 times miles and then, if you think about it, you get the small package and then you add on all your additives. 00:45:15.530 --> 00:45:17.648 You don't get those mileage points anymore. 00:45:18.559 --> 00:45:24.192 So basically it's like might as well get the first class. 00:45:24.331 --> 00:45:25.054 And you get a free drink. 00:45:25.675 --> 00:45:26.117 On a first class. 00:45:26.965 --> 00:45:33.628 I don't think it was first class, because Southwood doesn't do that, but like it was the, you get a board first and you get all that other stuff and they give you a free drink. 00:45:34.009 --> 00:45:41.170 Oh, which, again, I don't drink, but I get that drink because it was stressful getting here. 00:45:41.170 --> 00:45:46.356 Oh, I bet, I bet a handful of times, you know, yeah, yeah, and I love first, oh my gosh. 00:45:46.396 --> 00:45:48.199 My friend flies first this whole time. 00:45:48.360 --> 00:45:56.471 Oh really she's, you have all this space, yo, yeah, and I'm just like, and then you don't bump, you know, next to people and then you get to like stretch out. 00:45:56.471 --> 00:46:08.606 Girl and you can use the bathroom like Towels class. 00:46:08.606 --> 00:46:10.028 Before, at least one time I did, but I fell asleep. 00:46:10.048 --> 00:46:14.400 I know, ain't no motherfucking story in that one lexus went on and she got up the person's like you slept like no shit. 00:46:14.400 --> 00:46:19.425 Like the person like next to me kind of, or whatever, like kind of next to me was like you slept through the whole thing. 00:46:19.425 --> 00:46:20.226 You must have been tired. 00:46:20.226 --> 00:46:25.420 And I was like, yeah, that sucks yeah, oh, girl, that was because. 00:46:25.420 --> 00:46:31.376 I was standby, so that's why I got up when's your next trip, new York? 00:46:32.469 --> 00:46:33.313 when's New York happening? 00:46:33.829 --> 00:46:39.385 so basically I leave from here and I go straight into New York. 00:46:39.385 --> 00:46:41.934 I have a day off, so I live over in DC. 00:46:41.934 --> 00:46:43.764 So I'm hybrid. 00:46:43.764 --> 00:46:44.505 I live in DC. 00:46:44.505 --> 00:46:46.268 I come back here every 4-6 months, oh, my gosh. 00:46:46.288 --> 00:46:47.369 Thank you um so I'm hybrid, I live. 00:46:47.429 --> 00:46:47.630 DC. 00:46:47.791 --> 00:46:49.253 I come back here every four, six months, oh my gosh. 00:46:49.273 --> 00:46:49.672 Yeah, I know, I know. 00:46:49.672 --> 00:46:50.293 Thank you for coming on. 00:46:50.293 --> 00:46:51.655 Yeah, I'm excited, I'm so excited. 00:46:51.655 --> 00:46:52.056 No, is this? 00:46:52.056 --> 00:46:54.380 Your first pod, it's my second. 00:46:54.599 --> 00:46:55.021 All right Cool. 00:46:55.224 --> 00:46:58.994 First live pod Like our first like in-person pod I've done like virtual. 00:47:07.085 --> 00:47:07.492 Oh, in-person one. 00:47:07.492 --> 00:47:07.927 Yeah, really Popped your first in-person cherry pod. 00:47:07.927 --> 00:47:09.963 Meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow, meow. 00:47:09.963 --> 00:47:11.550 All right, so you're going to New York. 00:47:11.684 --> 00:47:15.835 Okay, okay, my bad, my bad, we're bringing five models out here from Ireland with me, wow. 00:47:15.835 --> 00:47:19.965 So yeah, that's kind of like rolling into, like we're talking business. 00:47:19.965 --> 00:47:27.829 See, I like flip, it should be like business, the real business, the real business. 00:47:27.829 --> 00:47:32.684 But basically, yeah, that's kind of why I am hybrid, because I'm able to bring experience. 00:47:32.684 --> 00:47:33.869 I had to move off island. 00:47:34.045 --> 00:47:35.251 I don't think everyone wants to move off island. 00:47:35.251 --> 00:47:39.757 But we're bringing some people back with me over there to go stay with me for a little bit. 00:47:39.757 --> 00:47:41.128 Then we're going up to New York Fashion Week. 00:47:42.474 --> 00:47:47.867 Really, hey my NYC listeners man, hey you in Fashion Week. 00:47:47.867 --> 00:47:48.969 Just say my name. 00:47:48.969 --> 00:47:50.835 You see, Alexis, you should come. 00:47:51.295 --> 00:47:52.378 Let's get Chris out there. 00:47:52.804 --> 00:47:55.452 Hey, if I go man, you're going to see a lot of BTS action. 00:47:55.452 --> 00:47:56.235 You know what I'm saying. 00:47:56.235 --> 00:47:58.293 You're going to see me eating a lot Pizza. 00:47:58.293 --> 00:48:00.507 I'm definitely getting fat If I go. 00:48:00.507 --> 00:48:01.510 I'm getting fat. 00:48:02.112 --> 00:48:03.074 That was like me coming here. 00:48:07.831 --> 00:48:08.922 Oh really, I'm just all

about the food out here, ube. 00:48:08.943 --> 00:48:10.630 Yeah, ube, no one thinks I'm weird. 00:48:11.286 --> 00:48:12.409 Let me ask you this. 00:48:12.409 --> 00:48:13.291 This just popped in my head. 00:48:13.291 --> 00:48:15.836 Okay, your models, yes. 00:48:15.836 --> 00:48:20.695 Has any of these photographers tried getting at them or tried getting at you? 00:48:21.425 --> 00:48:23.512 I am really picky with my photographers. 00:48:23.552 --> 00:48:24.315 Okay, okay, okay. 00:48:27.085 --> 00:48:29.130 They'll know, because I shoot with like the same three or four guys when I come out here. 00:48:29.130 --> 00:48:38.713 Oh, cool and like uh, so those are like kind of like not only like my friends, but they've seen, like kind of the stuff I've done and everything, yeah, um, and it's so funny because some people like, oh, I've been trying to shoot with you. 00:48:38.713 --> 00:48:50.653 I'm like, oh, okay, you know I'll test out other new photographers, but it's more like once you build that relationship yeah, trust yeah, and the ones that I shoot with, they're really good and they're really respectful and they have it, but there are some. 00:48:50.934 --> 00:48:56.577 There are some out here that will be a little nasty really, yeah, and it's kind of like tell a story. 00:48:56.597 --> 00:48:56.956 Tell a story. 00:48:56.956 --> 00:48:58.125 Tell, don't say a name. 00:48:58.125 --> 00:49:01.893 Though don't say a name, but how nasty was this photographer? 00:49:02.594 --> 00:49:07.373 well, let's just say there's, there's the, the thing where it's guy with a camera or Lexus. 00:49:07.373 --> 00:49:27.135 I got a Yoda Lyft, yeah they have a Toyota Camry, they got a Yoda Camry on dubs, on hubcaps, on hubs fucking 91 gas girl sub tweeter in the back. 00:49:29.465 --> 00:49:30.670 I'm up dogging y'all man. 00:49:30.670 --> 00:49:33.213 Hey, don't find me and beat me up, please yes. 00:49:34.588 --> 00:49:36.197 All the boys are going to be in the truck bed. 00:49:36.197 --> 00:49:37.125 Right Jump out. 00:49:37.224 --> 00:49:38.927 They'll be like hey dog, why are you talking shit? 00:49:38.927 --> 00:49:40.927 I was like, no, no, wait, it's funny though, right. 00:49:40.967 --> 00:49:42.469 Yes, I want you. 00:49:42.469 --> 00:49:44.070 I know how you kiss acid. 00:49:44.070 --> 00:49:45.733 I'm like no, it's funny, right? 00:49:45.753 --> 00:49:48.135 He's like, yeah, I'm like all right, cool, I'm a funny guy, I'm a funny guy. 00:49:48.135 --> 00:49:51.097 No, but what they do, what they try to do, the guys with the cameras. 00:49:51.197 --> 00:49:51.398 Okay. 00:49:51.398 --> 00:50:06.358 So like one time actually it almost made me this was when I first started modeling Okay, and it almost made me want to get out of modeling, do photo meetups and everything right and so there's a lot of photographers and it's so good to meet all these new photographers. 00:50:06.358 --> 00:50:16.081 It really is yes and there was one photographer I was working with and I don't do nude, but I'll do implied or bikini right like a like. 00:50:16.302 --> 00:50:17.065 Is it called a booty? 00:50:17.065 --> 00:50:26.096 No boudoir boudoir, boudoir shut up lexus. 00:50:26.096 --> 00:50:28.423 I don'tus, I don't know, I don't know. 00:50:28.525 --> 00:50:29.831 We're going to get Chris in a booty. 00:50:29.831 --> 00:50:30.608 A Get me in a booty. 00:50:30.728 --> 00:50:31.150 A man. 00:50:32.565 --> 00:50:34.590 That's going to be the cover of this photo. 00:50:34.670 --> 00:50:36.434 I know right, Booty A. 00:50:36.635 --> 00:50:37.297 Booty A. 00:50:37.297 --> 00:50:39.509 He'll be like look back at me. 00:50:39.670 --> 00:50:43.318 I know right T Girl. 00:50:43.826 --> 00:50:44.146 Pearl. 00:50:44.146 --> 00:50:47.755 No, but basically I was shooting with a totally different photographer. 00:50:47.896 --> 00:50:48.077 Okay. 00:50:48.284 --> 00:50:53.556 And I had this top and we were like trying to get the cute side boob under boob thing right. 00:50:53.556 --> 00:50:56.010 Okay, you know it's cute, but it's still like covered. 00:50:56.030 --> 00:50:56.733 It's still classy. 00:50:56.733 --> 00:50:57.916 Yes, jinx, owe me a Slurpee. 00:50:59.806 --> 00:51:02.273 So basically it had shifted. 00:51:02.914 --> 00:51:03.115 Okay. 00:51:03.264 --> 00:51:04.972 So she was exposed. 00:51:05.326 --> 00:51:06.230 The areola. 00:51:06.471 --> 00:51:08.690 Yes, she was exposed. 00:51:08.690 --> 00:51:17.019 And then somebody was like, oh, alexis, alexis, we were looking for tape to tape it, yeah, and like when you move your arm, it like exposes, right, or whatever. 00:51:17.019 --> 00:51:17.925 So we're just trying to figure out. 00:51:17.925 --> 00:51:22.918 So one guy and you could tell the photos were not me posing one for the person. 00:51:22.918 --> 00:51:34.829 I was looking this way, the guy was over this way and my face was were like in mid-conversation with somebody, right, but he had taken the photos and I don't know if he still has them. 00:51:34.829 --> 00:51:38.286 I mean, I don't know, but this was a long time ago, like 2016-ish time, right. 00:51:38.286 --> 00:51:47.393 And so basically all the models that were at that shoot got one big file of all the photos and those were in it. 00:51:49.001 --> 00:51:55.132 Yeah, he just uploaded all of them and I freaked out and I thought, without even doing the touch-ups and everything yeah, no touch-ups no deleting. 00:51:55.172 --> 00:52:00.628 He just uploaded his card onto this doc like google file yeah, yeah everybody could go into it. 00:52:00.628 --> 00:52:03.713 So people saw, like you know, a little bit of whatever. 00:52:03.713 --> 00:52:06.717 I mean like it was showing, though it was a whole boob. 00:52:06.717 --> 00:52:12.081 You know, boob, it was a boob. 00:52:12.885 --> 00:52:14.347 Lex is boobing it up. 00:52:14.347 --> 00:52:18.233 Your boob, your boob, your boob. 00:52:18.592 --> 00:52:19.414 That sounds Australian. 00:52:19.414 -->

00:52:20.094 It is right. 00:52:20.094 --> 00:52:21.717 Such a boob, Such a boob. 00:52:21.717 --> 00:52:22.838 Don't be a boob. 00:52:23.199 --> 00:52:23.940 Your boob mate. 00:52:29.086 --> 00:52:29.467 Your boob. 00:52:29.467 --> 00:52:30.373 You're a boobie. 00:52:30.373 --> 00:52:31.096 You're a boobie. 00:52:31.096 --> 00:52:31.197 Stop. 00:52:31.197 --> 00:52:32.784 Oh my God, okay, so, okay, okay, okay, goodbye. 00:52:32.784 --> 00:52:40.007 Basically, yeah, and I was thinking like that was when I first met my boyfriend too, and I was like, oh my God, I cheated. 00:52:40.007 --> 00:52:41.648 It wasn't my fault, but it was obviously. 00:52:41.648 --> 00:52:43.731 He was just like but everyone was like, oh, it's whatever. 00:52:43.731 --> 00:52:47.817 And now I now from things like that and I tell my models too. 00:52:47.817 --> 00:52:56.820 I always tell people like you have the right to go and tell them like I want to look at the photos, especially if you do a boudoir or like implied or bikini or anything. 00:52:56.820 --> 00:53:02.547 I always tell them, like you have the right to say, like can I go through the photos real quick and then just delete what I don't like and what I don't like. 00:53:02.547 --> 00:53:06.192 And I've had some photographers like, oh, I don't know what, if I like it, I'm like it doesn't matter what you like. 00:53:06.612 --> 00:53:11.317 Oh yeah, that's not fair, like I mean it does matter, but I mean like it's my body. 00:53:11.597 --> 00:53:11.858 Yeah. 00:53:12.458 --> 00:53:14.840 What if like a guy or that photographer or whatever? 00:53:14.840 --> 00:53:15.802 What if he was walking around? 00:53:19.489 --> 00:53:22.052 and I, like, took a picture of you balls. 00:53:22.052 --> 00:53:24.155 Okay, we have two. 00:53:24.155 --> 00:53:27.217 All right, it's plural, not singular. 00:53:27.217 --> 00:53:33.606 All right, miss lexus jesus they were showing. 00:53:33.786 --> 00:53:39.472 Yeah, yeah like anything, because sometimes guys don't like, you know if their stomach looks weird or they don't look as buff or whatever, whatever it may be. 00:53:39.472 --> 00:53:44.630 But what if I'm like oh, I'm gonna post it, it's my photo, it's just a respecting to the other person, true? 00:53:44.849 --> 00:54:05.161 so basically like that's why I tell people now I'm like, I won't shoot with anybody if they don't agree to that is it the same when you're um on the mainland too, like there's a set list of photographers that you mess with, or is it all different because of, I guess, the place, yeah, yeah, because of the industry. 00:54:05.724 --> 00:54:13.148 I think with some places like I don't know, because obviously I'm not in every state, but like I do travel a lot, so I have my set when I get somebody. 00:54:13.148 --> 00:54:18.170 The other thing is they know how I like to shoot and they know when I'm uncomfortable about something or where my limits are. 00:54:18.525 --> 00:54:20.148 So, that's why I usually stick with those people. 00:54:20.148 --> 00:54:24.295 But back in DC I have a lot of like my regulars. 00:54:24.295 --> 00:54:26.177 Yeah, Just sad because some of them moved. 00:54:26.177 --> 00:54:33.764 So now I'm just like sometimes I just sit and just like wait till I come home and like I smash out, like photo shoots, that's smart, so that's what I'm doing. 00:54:33.764 --> 00:54:35.829 And now I'm like smash just working. 00:54:35.829 --> 00:54:37.032 Smashing photo shoot. 00:54:37.072 --> 00:54:39.717 Girl, I respect, you know y'all. 00:54:39.777 --> 00:54:40.338 Emphasize that. 00:54:49.304 --> 00:54:50.168 Photo shoots smashing the photo shoots? 00:54:50.168 --> 00:54:51.373 None of none of this, uh, none of this, um, uh, finagling. 00:54:51.373 --> 00:54:52.739 No, no, I respect y'all modeling because, um, I had a photo shoot here. 00:54:52.739 --> 00:54:56.791 It's like you know, just like my headshot profile, whatever, but you want to be a model dog? 00:54:56.791 --> 00:54:58.777 No, no, thank you, I'm too shy. 00:54:58.978 --> 00:55:02.887 So was I oh, really I'm accidentally sexy. 00:55:02.887 --> 00:55:04.889 That's what I say to people. 00:55:04.889 --> 00:55:06.451 Like it comes, I'm a goofball. 00:55:07.050 --> 00:55:07.452 Yeah, me too. 00:55:07.452 --> 00:55:07.992 I'm a goofball. 00:55:07.992 --> 00:55:14.760 I don't know if I'm accidentally sexy, but I'm goofy as hell Because, like when I was trying to pose, I'm like what do I fucking do with my hand? 00:55:14.780 --> 00:55:15.740 Okay, tell a day and night. 00:55:17.025 --> 00:55:17.987 Do I like this? 00:55:18.086 --> 00:55:18.527 Have you seen? 00:55:18.728 --> 00:55:21.972 Tell a Day and Night, yeah, oh yeah, right. 00:55:21.972 --> 00:55:24.876 Talladega Night with Will Ferrell, right? 00:55:24.876 --> 00:55:28.460 Aw, sweet baby Jesus with the long blonde flowy hair. 00:55:28.460 --> 00:55:31.552 I love the baby Jesus in the little baby Jesus t-shirt. 00:55:31.552 --> 00:55:32.594 Baby Jesus. 00:55:32.594 --> 00:55:34.907 Oh, that's a great movie, by the way. 00:55:34.967 --> 00:55:35.108 It is. 00:55:35.108 --> 00:55:35.989 It's my favorite. 00:55:37.432 --> 00:55:47.295 Girl, before we dip out, I just started this new segment called Confessions right, but that's what happens with the tangents. 00:55:47.635 --> 00:55:48.416 Oh yeah, part two. 00:55:48.416 --> 00:55:50.820 Yeah, fuck, yeah, hell, yeah I don't know. 00:55:51.344 --> 00:55:52.445 No because it's tangents, right? 00:55:52.445 --> 00:55:53.527 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we go through it. 00:55:53.527 --> 00:55:54.786 So the confessions, right. 00:55:54.786 --> 00:55:58.829 This is a real business? 00:55:58.829 --> 00:56:07.076 I know no, Because it's like late at night I like to fucking make myself three corn dogs, type shit. 00:56:07.076 --> 00:56:09.277 You know it could be embarrassing or it could be. 00:56:09.277 --> 00:56:15.461 If you want to really like be like soulful, Do you have a confession that you

want to Confession? 00:56:15.461 --> 00:56:16.583 Yeah, a confession. 00:56:22.846 --> 00:56:25.731 Maybe to a friend that you don't talk to and say, hey, I'm sorry, but I'm still thinking of you. 00:56:25.731 --> 00:56:26.833 Oh, that was on the spot. 00:56:27.114 --> 00:56:28.577 It is How'd you like that one? 00:56:28.577 --> 00:56:29.539 And it's not even horny. 00:56:29.539 --> 00:56:32.753 It's not even a horny question. 00:56:32.753 --> 00:56:33.425 Very. 00:56:36.769 --> 00:56:37.331 PG? 00:56:37.331 --> 00:56:39.735 There is, but I don't know if I want to say that to them. 00:56:40.155 --> 00:56:42.458 Don't say the name, will they know it's them. 00:56:45.931 --> 00:56:49.567 If you said specifically oh really, oh shit, I don't know. 00:56:49.567 --> 00:56:50.989 Well, your friend, I appreciate you. 00:56:51.030 --> 00:56:53.273 Oh, that's a good one oh, that could be to anybody. 00:56:53.273 --> 00:56:56.445 Oh um a, I just ruined it, alfred. 00:56:56.445 --> 00:57:03.646 Uh, she appreciates you more than you know I appreciate you to a guy it's just someone that was. 00:57:03.646 --> 00:57:10.514 Uh, we were talking and you're talking as in like getting almost getting together, talking as in like you were friends and something fell out. 00:57:11.806 --> 00:57:25.577 Talking as in, like we had like a good conversation and it could have been something, maybe a friendship, or it could have gone somewhere else kind of thing, but like I think other people ruined it by saying certain stuff. 00:57:25.577 --> 00:57:27.190 One thing is Island is small. 00:57:27.510 --> 00:57:27.811 Yeah. 00:57:28.474 --> 00:57:35.733 And that's the thing, like I mean before we cut out, but like I think you're bound to know somebody who knows somebody, who knows somebody Right. 00:57:36.074 --> 00:57:36.996 Someone told me that before. 00:57:36.996 --> 00:57:37.378 Yes. 00:57:37.418 --> 00:57:45.114 Yeah, and that's like if you're dating somebody years ago or maybe like a little something with somebody, but it wasn't anything and you both moved on. 00:57:46.076 --> 00:57:46.536 That shit. 00:57:46.536 --> 00:57:49.972 That something with somebody, but it wasn't anything and you both moved on that shit. 00:57:49.992 --> 00:57:50.353 That doesn't count. 00:57:50.353 --> 00:57:50.775 Yeah, no, it doesn't. 00:57:50.775 --> 00:57:58.235 So, of course, if you just so happened, that person was friends with somebody else's friend yeah I didn't even know that other friend was born on the earth at the time. 00:57:58.235 --> 00:58:08.451 Yeah, I don't think that counts it doesn't, it shouldn't I think that person, um, they found, I think that person found out, and I respect that. 00:58:08.451 --> 00:58:10.255 There's's an uncomfortableness about it. 00:58:10.255 --> 00:58:17.552 But if the other person is done and done with someone else and then I met this other person like how I'm picking my people? 00:58:17.572 --> 00:58:21.059 in the claw 50 cents please. 00:58:23.664 --> 00:58:26.891 Basically, I feel like one. 00:58:26.952 --> 00:58:35.197 You should have talked to me about it yeah I don't think they they've never really told me, but I, the moment I found out that they kind of knew about it. 00:58:35.197 --> 00:58:37.427 Um, yeah, I feel like that's. 00:58:37.427 --> 00:58:37.989 That's weird. 00:58:37.989 --> 00:58:40.014 I feel like it's a small island. 00:58:40.014 --> 00:58:42.809 We're probably and I'm not even on this island, which is even weirder. 00:58:42.809 --> 00:58:54.054 Yeah, I'm back and forth, so it's like for me to have a past with somebody that didn't even go anywhere and that person's like married, whatever with people, and they just so happen to be friends with you and I didn't even know you existed at the time. 00:58:54.054 --> 00:58:57.835 And then I meet you and then you don't even like want to talk about it. 00:58:57.835 --> 00:59:02.327 That's, that's weird you know what? 00:59:02.628 --> 00:59:06.532 maybe that person thought that you wouldn't comprehend. 00:59:06.873 --> 00:59:09.496 Maybe I'm a very understanding person. 00:59:09.956 --> 00:59:10.737 You seem understanding. 00:59:10.737 --> 00:59:11.539 I am yes. 00:59:11.699 --> 00:59:16.597 But then they posted another girl when they were supposed to meet me, so I was like no you're gone. 00:59:16.659 --> 00:59:18.168 Red flag, yeah, red flag. 00:59:18.168 --> 00:59:19.141 Definitely a red flag, yeah. 00:59:19.965 --> 00:59:21.570 It was sad because I really liked you. 00:59:21.570 --> 00:59:23.175 I really liked you Fuck it. 00:59:23.605 --> 00:59:27.456 Oh, you loser, you, you're a real loser dude. 00:59:27.456 --> 00:59:37.594 I mean, we chopped it up for like I guess, like the past 50, some odd minutes, right, and you seem, you seem, she cool as hell y'all I am. 00:59:37.594 --> 00:59:38.175 You see her. 00:59:38.175 --> 00:59:42.387 Hey, talk about dogs, you're an easy in, you're an easy in. 00:59:42.407 --> 00:59:43.128 Are you a foodie too? 00:59:43.128 --> 00:59:43.409 Feed me. 00:59:43.409 --> 00:59:46.711 I was just going to say that, feed me pizza and ube. 00:59:46.711 --> 00:59:47.873 Let's talk about dogs. 00:59:48.715 --> 00:59:49.454 Ube on pizza. 00:59:49.775 --> 00:59:51.677 Ooh, no Pineapple on pizza. 00:59:51.677 --> 00:59:52.898 You know what? 00:59:52.898 --> 00:59:54.121 I'll try it. 00:59:54.121 --> 00:59:54.800 I'll try it. 00:59:54.800 --> 00:59:58.155 A knock in until you tried it right. 00:59:58.155 --> 01:00:01.864 I love ube anything, so I mean let's try it Cook for her. 01:00:01.905 --> 01:00:02.686 I'm going to take a picture. 01:00:02.686 --> 01:00:03.365 I'm going to take a picture. 01:00:03.365 --> 01:00:03.746 Oh, word. 01:00:03.766 --> 01:00:05.206 Yeah, I'm going to take a picture of ube pizza. 01:00:05.367 --> 01:00:05.708 Tag me. 01:00:06.108 --> 01:00:07.349 I mean it could be a dessert pizza. 01:00:07.768 --> 01:00:10.030 Ooh, yeah, oh, I'm down, I'm eating that. 01:00:10.030 -->

01:00:13.652 Like leche flan with ube on top, looking like a pizza. 01:00:14.494 --> 01:00:15.693 With like condensed milk. 01:00:15.994 --> 01:00:21.478 Oh my God Fat boy status Fat kid steez, fat kid steez. 01:00:21.478 --> 01:00:24.840 It's like our PTSD, I know right. 01:00:24.840 --> 01:00:28.523 Oh my god, remember that one time we had we had that fucking you know what. 01:00:28.523 --> 01:00:31.309 Next time you, next time you come on, we're gonna eat that. 01:00:31.309 --> 01:00:35.864 Okay, I'm being a bib, so I don't In your pajamas, in my pajamas, your pajamas. 01:00:35.864 --> 01:00:36.789 I have a table here. 01:00:37.849 --> 01:00:39.679 Yeah, we're like potluck style, just the two of us. 01:00:40.293 --> 01:00:40.985 Yeah, potluck style. 01:00:40.985 --> 01:00:46.315 Just the two of us will have the ube with the litchi, with the motherfucking condensed milk. 01:00:46.315 --> 01:00:47.637 Oh my god. 01:00:47.637 --> 01:00:50.690 I might have to poop afterwards because of the milk. 01:00:50.690 --> 01:00:54.889 But it's okay, it's one thing that I will sacrifice my butthole. 01:00:54.889 --> 01:00:56.972 You know what I'm saying. 01:00:56.972 --> 01:01:00.347 Because they got wipes here, I'll use the wipes. 01:01:00.387 --> 01:01:02.648 We might have to take a pause so you can use the. 01:01:02.827 --> 01:01:04.735 Oh, definitely I'll be like mmm, hey, pause. 01:01:06.706 --> 01:01:07.307 Gotta go. 01:01:08.552 --> 01:01:09.153 Gotta go, gotta go. 01:01:09.153 --> 01:01:14.954 Hey man, lexus is kind of like a dude, but not. 01:01:14.954 --> 01:01:17.079 Yeah, the whole, yeah I'm a John yeah. 01:01:17.079 --> 01:01:19.309 Hey, she a cool ass, john. 01:01:19.309 --> 01:01:20.072 Cool ass, john. 01:01:20.072 --> 01:01:26.047 Hell, yeah, I'm an Alex Girl. 01:01:26.047 --> 01:01:28.889 Oh my god, tea and all that. 01:01:28.889 --> 01:01:29.974 Tea and all that. 01:01:29.974 --> 01:01:31.791 Hey, that was fun. 01:01:31.791 --> 01:01:36.166 Do you have any shout outs or anything before we dip out, or where can these people find you, chris? 01:01:36.306 --> 01:01:37.771 thank you so much for having me. 01:01:37.811 --> 01:01:38.474 Oh, thank you. 01:01:40.106 --> 01:01:41.670 Shout out to my mama hey mama. 01:01:41.710 --> 01:01:46.371 Hey mama, hola que tal Mi amor Chris, de donde eres. 01:01:46.371 --> 01:01:54.914 Si she said, yes, I don't know what that was, I just said oh, hello, I'm Chris, where are you at? 01:01:55.541 --> 01:01:56.447 Oh, yeah, yeah. 01:01:56.869 --> 01:01:57.411 Where you at. 01:01:58.148 --> 01:01:59.217 She's in Seattle, hey. 01:01:59.217 --> 01:02:01.411 So yeah, shout out to my mom, to Chris. 01:02:01.431 --> 01:02:04.385 Thank you so much, oh, thank you, thank you so much, thank you for everybody tuning in because that's awesome. 01:02:04.666 --> 01:02:05.146 Yeah, so much, thank you. 01:02:05.146 --> 01:02:07.989 Thank you so much, thank you for everybody tuning in because that's awesome. 01:02:08.010 --> 01:02:08.349 Yeah, that's it. 01:02:08.349 --> 01:02:08.931 Yeah, Cool AKO Studios. 01:02:08.931 --> 01:02:09.791 Thank you for a lovely home. 01:02:09.791 --> 01:02:14.016 Rafi Byte, thank you for the lovely vibes man, and with that I'm Chris. 01:02:14.737 --> 01:02:17.561 I'm Alexis Rene, hell yeah, and we out this bitch Peace, peace.