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And Welcome to the Joe Vlossi Show. I am here
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this week.
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With a welcome back. Hey going on.
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How you doing I'm good? How are you? I'm doing good.
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I'm doing good. It's been wile since I've seen you
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because literally, like the month of September was the month
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of month. Yeah, and then the last show, I did
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it by myself. Actually it turned out better than I
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thought it would. But it is a little different when
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you're doing it yourself because you have to talk a lot. Yeah,
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and so it's probably when the last show was a
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little shortly.
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Yeah. Yeah, But we're gonna hook it up today.
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We are, We're gon hook.
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It up today.
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The reason why I've been seeing you for a while,
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You've had a lot going on in your own personal life.
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I've had a lot going on.
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The first thing I've mentioned here is is that you're
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stove caught on fire. Oh so what happened there?
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I want to just go bake something, and all of
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a sudden the oven caught on fire.
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And the oven, the stove.
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Was old, and it was just time for it to
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get you know what I mean, It was just time
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for it to be replaced.
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It was old. The stove was about I want to say,
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almost stove.
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In a refrigerator m hm, and a dishwasher.
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No, I got the I've been had the refrigerator. I
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got the refrigerator last year.
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Okay, so you only body stoven, a dishwasher, stove, dishwasher,
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and the microwave and a microwave. Okay, yeah, because you
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because it's the microwave above, yes, okay.
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And I had to go but above and beyond. I
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had to go beyond and beyond. But yeah, I had
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to get another like I had to get a whole
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new basically a new, whole new set.
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But now it matches my well, well my no, the stove,
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the dishwasher, and they were white. You know, they were old.
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I know, so it definitely was time for me to
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get you know, new appliances anyway, and they were almost
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almost over thirty years old.
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Oh wow, wow, yeah, so I think at that point there, yeah,
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I mean it's kind of weird, just I mean, it's
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made me now kind of very you know, worried when
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I go and I cook anything in the oven that's
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gonna let them fire. So but I'm glad you're okay.
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But then on top of it, there too, and this
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is the joys of owning a house, apparently, is that
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you have to get your roof replaced.
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Oh the joys, the joys, the joys.
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Listen, do you just want to hit that dollar button yourself.
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I ain't got it like that, but apparently this house, dude,
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but apparently this damn house, dude.
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Yeah. I had to get a new roof.
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And it started out with a leak in my kitchen,
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I mean my kitchen, a leak in my bathroom, and
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I'm like, that's the first that's the first time I
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ever had a leak in my house. Oh wow, you know,
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from the roof, you know. So that's when I looked
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into it and I had someone up and look and
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they were like, you can get that patched up. It
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was around the what is the pipe before the what
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is the pipe?
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Like, it's the airpipe that's used to keep your plumbing
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from me stopping your house.
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Yeah, well well well yeah, so anyway I had He's like,
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you can get this sealed and yeah.
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And then because.
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Like a month before that,
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there was there was I
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had wind damage on there and I didn't even realize.
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Oh wow, so from from the storm we had back
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in Yeah, yeah, probably precipitated your roof flaking. Yeah.
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Right, so and even before that, I didn't realize, like
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my my roof definitely needed to be replaced eventually within
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He said, you can get these patched up, but you're
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gonna need to replace it within a year.
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Between the year and three.
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Years, was it just like a shingle roof, Yes, so
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thankfully that's a loss expensive than like a slate roof for.
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It, right, right, So so I really started to shop around,
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like really started to look around, got a couple of estimates,
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and I got to touch with a friend of mine
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from work and he was telling me about how he
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got a metal root okay, and he went to you know,
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damage and they were given they did.
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It for a reasonable price.
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So so it worked out. I'm not gonna say the price
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or none of that, but but but it definitely worked
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out for the best because everywhere else was so expensive
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just for the pave the paving, the pavement what is it, asphault,
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just for the as fhoult, it was so expensive and
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it was just like if I would have got metal
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with any of them, it would have been.
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Double okay, So it just was ridiculous.
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And it was just like just shopping around and I
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finally ran into who I finally ran into, you know
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what I mean, and he was wonderful, and it just
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all worked out. That definitely worked out. But it was
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a stressful time. It was stressful, was stressful, was stressful,
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I would imagine, and I got it done because this
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is you know, it's because you know, like people don't
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feel realize how much it is like being a homeowner.
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You're doing it on young yeah, you know what I mean.
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And you know I got this house at a young age,
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so it's I mean, but I'm proud of myself.
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But oh yeah, that stuff you gotta deal with.
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See, you're better off than I am because I still
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actually live in an apartment.
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Right right, But that's what's been going on. There's been more,
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but I don't feel like talking about.
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It same way as We'll go ahead here and we
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will move on to the first story. So in this case,
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so the first story is am I the oushol for
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not stalking the fridge for my husband after his business trip?
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WHOA right? Anyways, the story goes, my husband went out
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out of the country for a business trip and returned
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home over the weekend. I was out of town visiting
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friends when he returned. His grape was that he was
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left with no food.
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Ooh.
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For context, I did the majority of the grocery shopping,
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like ninety percent of his ten percent, and he does
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his share of other chores, etc. I admit there was
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not a refrigerator full of fresh food because I did
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not go to the store that week. However, I can't test.
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There was a freezer with several meals and a patriot
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with food that could have been prepared. Perhaps not what
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he was hoping for, but there were some options also.
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We live in a major city with plenty of grocery
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stores and restaurants within walking distance. Again, not ideal after
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red eye international flight, but there's options. At first, it
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wasn't a big deal, more than a joke. But when
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he repeatedly met jams at me about it, I stood
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up for myself. And now it's a full blown argument.
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We're both stubborn people. I can a knowledge it would
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have been nice if I socked a fridge upon his
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return from the trip. However, I work a full time
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job myself, and I see it as we're both capable
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adults at providing food for ourselves when the other is busy.
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I've got to know, am I the asshole in this
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seat situation?
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No?
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No, no, absolutely not, no, absolutely not. She's not an asshole,
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and and she's not an asshole. It's just it happened.
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She just slipped her mad she forgot, Yeah, but then
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just to keep on hounding her about it, like what
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the hell? Like you keep bugging her about this?
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Come on, man, you would have thought maybe that he
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would have been like, Hey, I'm gonna buy some food
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so when I return out something to eat, right, you know,
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starving in that case story, So the way keep you
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forget to get something? I at least have something then, right,
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So I think this, Yeah, he's you know, she's certainly
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not the asshole. I definitely would say, he's the asshole
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in this situation.
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Yeah, he's being a ass about the situation. But at
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the same time, I think, you know what, sometimes when
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people do that, they just want your attention.
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Right, And plus there was food there that he could
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have eaten, so it wasn't like a situation where he
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was starving. And I think the commenters were great with
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us here. The first one goes the family men had
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access to the family money and allowed to go to
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the grocery stores. I surely hope he did not start
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to death, not the asshole. And then somebody responded back
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and said, maybe we could start to go fund me
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the raise awareness of the sad situation. Can you imagine
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a hungry he was after a business trip without food
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and then the entire weekend, and then the next one
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is kind of pregnant there. The problem is is that
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men see marriage as as the ending line, like all
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of a sudden, they forget how to do things and
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expect the wife to pick up the rest all the
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time complete one hundred and eighty. Then when they were
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shown up to that point, they don't want wives. They
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want the married caretakers, where not the mothers. Going somewhere
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with this bullshit.
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Absolutely sometimes you know, it could go both ways though too,
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you know what I mean. But yeah, especially the men,
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you know, they we can be something else, you know
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what I mean. So it's like but it's just like
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they said, they think it's the end of it all,
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like they don't have to do nothing when they.
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Come to My dad, who I don't talk to anymore,
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is a very good example of this here where basically
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his wife will cook clean, you know now, and basically
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just sit there like a you know, a fat log
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and be like, I'm gonna watch my World War War
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two movies on on the History Channel. Yeah it's bad,
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just bad. I don't know why guys think that, you
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know that's the case, or because then I have my
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mom and my stepfather, and the last time I went
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up there, he was cooking dinner, you know, so they
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share the responsibilities. And I'll be honest, his dinner was
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damn good. But it was not soup because it was
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supposed to be a pasta dish. But we kept calling
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it soup, and it's like, it's not soup, right, it
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was it was.
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Soup, right, What the hell?
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I don't know, I don't know that just meant, it
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could be something else when it comes in like once
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they during the marriage, they just seem like they the
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white do everything for right in the house, and it's
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like this is a tame effort, like you know, you
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gotta work together on this.
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Yeah, and the last one is very very pertinent. Allow
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me to tell you the story about how my mom
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had to make my dad a sandwich for lunch before
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they went to the hospital. My mom was having contractions
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at the time. The hospital was a thirty minute drive away.
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I was born in less than five hours later. Whoa he,
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I'm surprised you didn't take him outside and like bury him.
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I was just wondering if they got a divorce right
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after that.
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You know, I mean, or probably not because that single mother.
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Because what's kind of funny is is that, like one
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thing I noticed there is that older folks are more
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likely to stay together when times are rough, and then
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newer folks basically won't actually go ahead there and stay
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together when things go wrong. I mean, I can go
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to that myself, right, But it's also one of those
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things are I guess people won't want to pup a
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lot more shit back in.
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The day, right, right, They.
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Here cases where like people are alcoholics, you know, and
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they're together for years. Like yeah, like my dad was
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an alcoholic and they were together for like twenty five years,
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so come on, you know.
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Yeah, it's just I don't know how. I don't know
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how they did it.
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I really don't. Yeah, I don't know how they did it. Well,
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this may have been how they did it there, yea.
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And by the asshole for calling it my parents for
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being greedy landlords. My parents own a number of rental
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properties in my town. Essentially don't work. They called a business,
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but maybe once or twice a year they'll buy a
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small house to flip. Most of the work they subcontract out.
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They're incredibly well off. Were also frugal with their money.
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They still shop at Laddo, which is basically like the
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the foreign version of all these and the most you'll
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get on your birthday is fifteen pounds and sweets. They
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eat out maybe two to four times a year for
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birthdays and the like. At the same time, they had
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several homes worth over one million pounds, with pools and
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huge gardens which they moved between. I usually bout my
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tongue and don't say anything about their business dealings, but
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recently they had several tenants lose their jobs and failed
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to make rent. Rather than supporting the people who have
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been paying for their lifestyle, they instead chose to attack them,
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call them lazy. They had been in the process of
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evicting two sets of tenants to keep talking about how
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the system was rugged against them and how tenants have
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too many rates. Recently, I've been noticing their hypocrisy more
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and more and it's really started to bother me. I
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spoke up against them last evening when I was over
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for my sister's birthday, and they both blew up at me.
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They claim that they worked hard, saved up, and now
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can live well due to their smart decisions. But to me,
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this seems unfair because in the current economy, it'd be
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impossible to do what they did. They take real pride
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in spending as limiting as physically possible and called me
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stupid for not doing what they're doing. So and by
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the asshole, were speaking up and risking my relationship with them.
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She's not an asshole. She's not an asshole. She just
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have more like she she cares for others, and she
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see that they're taking advantage of do you know what
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I mean the situation not necessarily taking event, but like
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the way they're treating their tenants and they've been there
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for years, and it's like, come on, give them a
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little break, Like, come on, and y'all got all the
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money in the world.
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It's not like the parents are hard off or depending
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upon that for their income. They're well to do, so,
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I mean, I have a feeling there that probably this
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story occurred like around COVID, which is like a lot
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of people lost their jobs because people just couldn't be together,
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you know. Of course, then there's me. You know, it's like,
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let's take a five percent pay cut and it work
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harder than you ever have, right, but nothing else to do.
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So it was kind of like, okay, you know, well
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either that or lose my job, you know, so exactly
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it kind of worked out in the end thing god right, Right,
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But still it's kind of like, yeah, I agree with
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you one hundred percent, she's not the asshole, and I
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think the commenters agree too. So the commenters go, what
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kind of relationship can you have with anyone who can't
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handle being called wrong once in a while?
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Right, Yeah, I think it too. Before you get to
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I think too, it is because that's their child. So
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they're looking at that as how dealed you? Who orged
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you to speak up on what's going over that? They
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don't feel realize that's a grown that's a she's a
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grown woman, right, Yeah, she's a grown woman now.
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She see things for herself. She has a voice, she's
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allowed to use it, and she should call out her
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parents when they are wrong. That's her parents. If you're wrong,
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you're wrong.
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Another commentery, though, didn't agree. They said, you're the asshole
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that worked hard, and they're allowed to collect money on
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their investments. If the government wants to subsidize their tenants rent,
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then that's our progative. It's not your parents to house
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people for free. I do get that point. You know,
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you know, their leniency only can extend to a certain point.
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I completely get that.
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More two, I would still have to hear from the
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parents that far as that. Maybe they're like, well, we
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waited months and they could have Maybe they like when
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we went through COVID, Yeah, we had to deal with
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the unemployment through COVID and all that ex sort of stuff,
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And it's like if they knew, I don't know, But
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she said they said that they're lazy. Yeah, well, which
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can go both ways.
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Yeah, that's one of those things there where they basically
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want to you know, basically blem it on the tenants
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and me just been on the tentis control because like
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COVID like scrutleized stuff up, you know everybody. The other
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commentery goes, I don't think you're the ousehold for thinking
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and feeling what you do. I'm be inclined to agree,
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but I do think that your sister's birthday was not
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the place and also think that you made opinions like this. No,
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you need to be one that accept an in consequences
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in including potentially being removed from their wealth walk the walk,
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as well as talk to talk so to speak.
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That's true. I mean I get that poor. But at
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the same time, sometimes you be fed up and you
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see bull crap, and sometimes it's just she's human. She's
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young still too, you know what I mean, Like right,
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you know, she's still learning herself. I get like they
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didn't try to say it on some you know, yeah
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and mean about it, or just like look, mabe, you
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still watch watch your timing going in. Maybe that's something
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you should have talked to them personally about like somewhere
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else when instead that's your sister's birthday.
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It's also too it sounds like how they reacted, maybe
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she could have phrased it.
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A little bit better, right, right, So it's.
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One of those cases there too. She could maybe could
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have been a little easier about it there, instead of
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being like, you know what, stop taking advantage of these people,
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that could have been like, you know, maybe because of
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the circumstances, you can give them a break, you know,
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And that's really the case. They're where I think everybody
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sucks here, you know, to a certain extent then, for
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reacting so poorly, you know, because they're cheap skates in
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her for maybe being a little bit too harsh in
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regards with us. Right, But that's my own personal opinion, right,
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And that's what this show is all about. And speaking
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Welcome back to the job, welass show. I'm here with Hubba.
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Welcome back. By the way, I'm so happy about doing
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in their podcast with my mom. I love my moff
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don't get me wrong, but you know it's kind of
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give a watch yourself, you know, right, your parents got
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to watch what you say around Yeah, you.
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Can say anything around me. Say something you don't want
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to say too much around your parents.
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I know, well, you know it's kind of funny because
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I'm with my mom and one of the stories was
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about like a woman basically fel down as she farted hm.
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And so in this case, I'm like, I have a
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fart noise on the sandboard and she started laughing. But
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afterwards we were talking, She's like, I didn't like that
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fart story too much. And I was like, well, you
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were laughing when I played the fart noise. He was
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like yeah, right. I was like, parts are funny. Anyways
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to go, and there's this story too, so whenever you're older,
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you're dancing to this. Yeah, he keeps going and going.
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That's hilarious getting out of your seat and start
dancing
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around and being like right about right. Anyways, were go
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ahead and move on to the third story here, and
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by the asshole, if I told my niece she needs
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to move out. Three years back, my niece came to
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live with me after her mom and stepdad moved out
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of state. The understanding was that she stayed behind and
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live with me while they relocated. I agreed to let
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her live with my wife and I without paying rent
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or other expenses. The formal agreement was that she would
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prioritize college and work towards some kind of education or
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career goal. I didn't care what major. However, that didn't happen.
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She didn't enroll in school at the time, and for
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the past three years hasn't taken any visible steps towards
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a degree. She does have a job and pays for
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her own phone plan and luxuries, but I cover all
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the housing related costs. Recently she mentioned she's taken some classes,
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but I haven't seen any evidence to this. She doesn't
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bring it up, and the conversations are usually about work
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or our news, but not school. Explicitly asking and gets
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me generic responses. The bigger issue, though, is are living habits.
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Her room is extremely messy. I found trash like a
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disposable spork outside her door, and when I get a
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looking side, I can't even see the floor through all
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the clothes and boxes. I've asked her multiple times to
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clean it. She ays says that she will, but nothing changes.
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My wife has also tried talking to her, with no success.
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When her mom talked to her about moving back, my
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niece refused and says she felt abandoned because my sister
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chose to move out of state despite choosing to remain
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in our home state in the city. Her feelings are valid,
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but I don't think that's fair to my sister that
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my niece claims that she was abandoned. At this point,
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my wife and I both feel that it's time for
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her to move out. I'm offering her two
clear options.
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She can live with her mom and stepdad or with
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her dad and his wife. But I don't think she
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continue living here when there's no real plan in progress
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or respect for the space. So am I the asshole
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if I told her it's time to move out and
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choose between living with her mom or her dad. I'm
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not trying to be cruel, but I don't think this
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arrangement is healthy or fair to anyone.
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Absolutely not.
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She needs to grow up, she needs to figure out
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what she's going to do in life, you know what
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I mean.
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Like, it's been three years and.
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It's just like they're getting to a point where it's like, Okay,
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you're not doing that with yourself, You're not cleaning up
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behind yourself, all this extra stuff.
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And it's just like, but she's young, you know.
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What I mean, but I feel like that she's actually
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taking advantage of the situation. Absolutely, absolutely, because number one,
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she's not paying rent, and that's probably the biggest problem here,
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you know, absolutely. And also there was an agreement that
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she'd be going to school during the time, and she
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really hasn't done that, let's be honest.
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And she's been lying about it. She ain't been in school. Yeah,
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she's been in school, like.
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Come on now, she come.
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On girl, right, And then also too on top of
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it there it's not like she's even like a good
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she's not a good roommate, I guess she could say.
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I mean, for lack of a better way to put it, there,
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her room is completely messive.
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And they have a right to want to have their
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home to themselves. At this point, they thought this girl
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would be in college and right, you know, she and
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and things just didn't work out that way. And it's
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not like she's getting kicked out and having nowhere to go. Yeah,
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she has a couple options exactly if you
are fine,
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get out.
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Right, I mean, and thankfully she's not paying rent, right
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because she was, you know, she'd be in her world
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of her So let's be honest, I mean, when when
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did you move out your house? You're our parents' house.
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I mean I moved out there by the time I
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was seventeen.
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Oh wow, okay, see for me it was twenty you know,
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so it was around this time here that you know.
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I mean, so it's really one of those cases there
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where she is gonna really you know, she thinks the
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world is hard. Now just wait, yeah, yeah, just wait.
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Makes you wish you were back in high school, right,
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and you.
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Got to go and live with somebody else and like
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live by their rules and everything too.
485
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Right from pillar to post, gool, get it together.
486
00:24:53.039 --> 00:24:54.839
Let's go ahead here and talk about some of the comments,
487
00:24:54.880 --> 00:24:57.920
not the asshole. You had an agreement. She has failed
488
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to fulfill even its most basic terms. The agreement should
489
00:25:01.119 --> 00:25:08.319
have ended much much sooner. And then the other commenter said,
490
00:25:08.359 --> 00:25:10.640
you have two vouter reasons for not wanting this to continue,
491
00:25:10.839 --> 00:25:14.240
her messy habits which sound like filth, not just on tidiness,
492
00:25:14.720 --> 00:25:17.000
and the fact that she pays you no rent like
493
00:25:17.039 --> 00:25:20.359
I said here before you and contribute towards household expenses.
494
00:25:20.799 --> 00:25:23.000
No one is entitled to live at rent free life
495
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unless they are a minor or studying or actively and
496
00:25:25.960 --> 00:25:28.720
generally looking for work or too disable to work. Her
497
00:25:28.759 --> 00:25:30.799
niece says a job that she has an income and
498
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can afford to pay.
499
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You.
500
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If you're worried about coming across this crewel, you can
501
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consider letting her stay on a condition that she starts
502
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paying her way and cleans up her mess. She kicks
503
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up a FOSSi says that she will and fails to deliver,
504
00:25:43.359 --> 00:25:47.599
then you can show her the door. Right, Yeah, I.
505
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Mean absolutely absolutely. But I don't even think it's like
506
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even more to rent thing. It's just like she didn't
507
00:25:58.599 --> 00:26:01.599
She really don't know what to do with her life,
508
00:26:02.079 --> 00:26:05.400
and she lying about going to school and everything.
509
00:26:05.240 --> 00:26:07.960
Is she's being lazy and then taking advantage of the situation.
510
00:26:08.319 --> 00:26:09.559
Yeah, and taking advantage.
511
00:26:09.599 --> 00:26:11.200
She don't care, and it's not going to end the
512
00:26:11.200 --> 00:26:11.640
well for her.
513
00:26:11.920 --> 00:26:15.279
You cannot here somewhere the funk else, Yeah right, get
514
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the funk out.
515
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I'm sorry. I don't mean to be so horse to
516
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get out.
517
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Right exactly.
518
00:26:24.160 --> 00:26:26.119
I ain't dealing with that neither. Get out my house
519
00:26:27.759 --> 00:26:28.279
with that neither.
520
00:26:28.799 --> 00:26:30.079
So hey, guess what time it is.
521
00:26:31.799 --> 00:26:33.240
It's time for the last time.
522
00:26:34.119 --> 00:26:42.119
You're right, try singing to us. Yeah, this is from seventies. Anyways,
523
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I just knew I did something.
524
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I did so singing.
525
00:27:00.000 --> 00:27:03.359
Anyways, let's go ahead, he let's go on with the
526
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last story here and by the also for asking my
527
00:27:05.279 --> 00:27:08.279
sister was she expected to happen at her excuse of
528
00:27:08.319 --> 00:27:12.680
a bachelorette party for some reason, my I'm thirty two
529
00:27:13.119 --> 00:27:16.480
sister who's twenty three in her fiance, who's twenty five,
530
00:27:17.119 --> 00:27:19.119
the son of did the very best way to celebrate before
531
00:27:19.160 --> 00:27:22.200
getting married was to have a joint bachelor bagualurette party
532
00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:26.319
at strip clubs. They also hired a bus limit for
533
00:27:26.359 --> 00:27:30.680
the evening. The aftermath was thus far, three breakups, four
534
00:27:30.680 --> 00:27:33.720
people dropping out of the wedding party when impending divorce,
535
00:27:33.839 --> 00:27:36.640
in one arrest. The cleaning bill for the limit was
536
00:27:36.680 --> 00:27:40.240
more than the original rental fee. She was crying to
537
00:27:40.319 --> 00:27:42.319
our mom at dinner the other day, and I snorted.
538
00:27:43.720 --> 00:27:46.279
I tried not to. I honestly did. I was trying
539
00:27:46.400 --> 00:27:49.279
my best just to keep my mouth shut. She asked
540
00:27:49.319 --> 00:27:51.759
me what was so funny? I said, I wasn't sure
541
00:27:51.799 --> 00:27:54.240
what she expected to happen, Getting a group of people drunk,
542
00:27:54.640 --> 00:27:58.640
using illicit substances and getting horned up watching exoct danswers.
543
00:27:59.319 --> 00:28:01.200
She said that I was a jerk for judging her
544
00:28:01.200 --> 00:28:03.559
and her friends. I said I wasn't judging just that.
545
00:28:03.640 --> 00:28:06.640
Literally anyone could have seen the outcome. My mom told
546
00:28:06.680 --> 00:28:08.720
me to apologize because my sister is having to replace
547
00:28:08.799 --> 00:28:11.400
minst of our wedding party on the fly. I did,
548
00:28:11.640 --> 00:28:12.799
but I still think I'm right.
549
00:28:15.720 --> 00:28:19.720
I wouldn't say she's she's a smart ass, but she's
550
00:28:19.839 --> 00:28:20.880
not an asshole.
551
00:28:21.039 --> 00:28:25.240
I don't know. It's like, what did you expect to happen?
552
00:28:25.839 --> 00:28:26.000
Right?
553
00:28:26.200 --> 00:28:28.960
Not wrong? One that? Like, girl, what did you expect
554
00:28:29.000 --> 00:28:30.559
to happen? Like you didn't.
555
00:28:30.680 --> 00:28:33.240
You didn't have all this chaos going on like they
556
00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:34.920
they're under the influence.
557
00:28:35.759 --> 00:28:38.680
Damn you caused what what? She caused? Three breakups?
558
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I was looking at this, I'm like, holy ship, you
559
00:28:42.440 --> 00:28:48.599
know my girl? Oh my god, wonder and what the
560
00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:49.680
hell were they doing?
561
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My god, they must have been snorting coke like they
562
00:28:53.200 --> 00:28:58.240
were get out, because that's actually the first call at her.
563
00:28:58.400 --> 00:29:08.559
It was snowing god, sugar, burger sugar nose pintes. Today
564
00:29:08.559 --> 00:29:12.960
I learned burger sugar is the thing. But no, I
565
00:29:13.000 --> 00:29:17.920
think it was just the cocaine. I mean, so yeah,
566
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which the next commentator said, yeah, honestly that I shouldn't
567
00:29:20.880 --> 00:29:24.720
blame the coke doesn't make you completely lose control. The
568
00:29:24.759 --> 00:29:26.759
people that cheated were likely cheaters anyway.
569
00:29:27.200 --> 00:29:34.119
Can you believe, bingo? Can you believe regardless?
570
00:29:34.240 --> 00:29:35.960
Can you believe I've never done coke in my life?
571
00:29:36.480 --> 00:29:36.960
Me? Neither?
572
00:29:38.359 --> 00:29:41.039
So how do we know what we have?
573
00:29:41.160 --> 00:29:43.200
No? How we will probably act with it.
574
00:29:43.720 --> 00:29:46.440
I'll be honest with you though. My my ex had
575
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a big cocaine habit. I found that afterwards when I
576
00:29:49.400 --> 00:29:51.319
was cleaning out my old car and I found, like
577
00:29:51.359 --> 00:29:54.640
when those little baggies that you put cocaine in in
578
00:29:54.680 --> 00:29:57.039
my glove box and it had cocaine in there. I
579
00:29:57.079 --> 00:30:01.079
was carrying around cocaine in my car. I'm like, for God's.
580
00:30:00.680 --> 00:30:04.000
Sakes, you know, he literally forgot it was in there.
581
00:30:04.359 --> 00:30:06.759
Right, And then talking to people, I just kind of
582
00:30:06.839 --> 00:30:08.440
learned it was just kind of like, yeah, he did
583
00:30:08.480 --> 00:30:12.359
it all the time. Mmm, so cause I kind of
584
00:30:12.440 --> 00:30:15.079
knew about that. And then even a good friend of
585
00:30:15.079 --> 00:30:17.039
mine had a really bad cocaine habit there, and it
586
00:30:17.079 --> 00:30:18.359
was kind of like, you know, it kind of led
587
00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:20.119
to that was one of the things there where it
588
00:30:20.160 --> 00:30:21.680
was kind of like it was always an issue in
589
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or a friendship.
590
00:30:22.279 --> 00:30:24.400
There did his mood change a lot?
591
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Like, uh, did he go from like zero to have
592
00:30:28.519 --> 00:30:29.799
real quick all of a sudden?
593
00:30:29.960 --> 00:30:33.799
Sometimes I don't know, it's almost kind of like, you know,
594
00:30:33.960 --> 00:30:35.799
just almost it's kind of drinking a ton of caffeine
595
00:30:35.799 --> 00:30:37.839
all once. It's kind of sitting like very jittery and
596
00:30:37.839 --> 00:30:41.440
everything there. Yeah, and uh, maybe the more you do
597
00:30:41.480 --> 00:30:42.920
it there, the more you need it, you build up
598
00:30:42.920 --> 00:30:45.160
a resistance to do there. And so basically I didn't
599
00:30:45.200 --> 00:30:47.039
understand any difference there, but it was just always kind
600
00:30:47.039 --> 00:30:49.599
of annoying because every time we were hanging out, it
601
00:30:49.680 --> 00:30:51.680
was kind of like the you know, the mirror would
602
00:30:51.720 --> 00:30:54.599
come out and you know, the blade and everything there.
603
00:30:54.640 --> 00:30:55.240
It was just kind of.
604
00:30:55.240 --> 00:30:56.039
Like the mirror.
605
00:30:57.000 --> 00:31:01.359
Seriously, no, seriously, they were they were making lines, you know, in.
606
00:31:01.480 --> 00:31:04.079
A minute, all I can think of was scarface.
607
00:31:05.559 --> 00:31:09.240
All I can think up with scarface, the mirror and
608
00:31:09.279 --> 00:31:10.240
the black.
609
00:31:12.400 --> 00:31:14.599
Shit. Okay, I'm sorry, don't put me no.
610
00:31:14.519 --> 00:31:19.319
Bad No, Honestly, I kind of thought of that there too.
611
00:31:19.359 --> 00:31:21.279
When I first saw it. The first time he did it, it
612
00:31:21.279 --> 00:31:23.799
was kind of like, oh God, seriously, am I watching
613
00:31:23.839 --> 00:31:26.519
what I'm actually watching here? If it's seriously, I watched
614
00:31:26.519 --> 00:31:29.200
so many people do cocaine in my life. It's not
615
00:31:29.240 --> 00:31:31.359
even funny. And it's kind of like, I don't know
616
00:31:31.359 --> 00:31:32.839
why I put up with it there, because I'll be
617
00:31:32.880 --> 00:31:35.799
honest with you there, it's just kind of like it's
618
00:31:35.839 --> 00:31:37.000
such an ugly hapbit.
619
00:31:37.079 --> 00:31:39.160
Let's I'm gonna look at it
like this. I don't
620
00:31:39.200 --> 00:31:41.680
care what nobody do. You do whatever you want to do, boo,
621
00:31:41.839 --> 00:31:44.799
you know what I mean, But don't force somebody to
622
00:31:44.880 --> 00:31:47.519
watch something or be around something that they don't want
623
00:31:47.559 --> 00:31:48.119
to be around.
624
00:31:48.160 --> 00:31:51.119
That's not fear on them. If they don't feel comfortable.
625
00:31:50.720 --> 00:31:53.680
With that, don't do it or don't you know what
626
00:31:53.720 --> 00:31:56.079
I mean, Like, don't make it obvious if you're doing
627
00:31:56.119 --> 00:31:59.200
it like you're rolling out the motherfucking mirror and the blade.
628
00:32:03.599 --> 00:32:07.079
You are too deep in it, you know what I mean? Yeah, right,
629
00:32:07.400 --> 00:32:09.480
I mean, if you're too deep in it. It's just like.
630
00:32:10.440 --> 00:32:13.400
Maybe the second commenter, I think maybe kind of hits
631
00:32:13.480 --> 00:32:15.640
upon this little more. Yeah, this whole thing smacks with
632
00:32:15.720 --> 00:32:19.119
slightly two repressed suburbanites who have never done hard drugs
633
00:32:19.279 --> 00:32:21.759
want to go wild, so you get some coke used
634
00:32:21.759 --> 00:32:24.319
to coke as an excuse they have absolutely no boundaries
635
00:32:24.599 --> 00:32:27.480
and behave horribly and then can't deal with the consequences
636
00:32:27.480 --> 00:32:29.960
of their actions. I don't feel bad for anyone in
637
00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:32.359
the tendance. They made their bed, but I feel bad
638
00:32:32.359 --> 00:32:34.519
for the performers at the club they went to. Bachelorettes
639
00:32:34.559 --> 00:32:39.839
are bad enough without being coked up, and then the
640
00:32:39.880 --> 00:32:44.440
last one was there in Florida. I feel that's a
641
00:32:44.440 --> 00:32:46.559
pretty good reason to assume something like that would go
642
00:32:46.599 --> 00:32:49.640
horribly wrong. They're lucky new alligators work their way into
643
00:32:49.680 --> 00:32:50.519
the story.
644
00:32:51.279 --> 00:32:58.920
God, they got went up to make at me. That's
645
00:32:58.920 --> 00:32:59.519
what they did.
646
00:32:59.640 --> 00:33:02.160
Child. They went there and right.
647
00:33:02.279 --> 00:33:04.920
Yeah, I'm sorry, but I hate to go back to
648
00:33:04.960 --> 00:33:07.160
that one. But if they were they were going to
649
00:33:07.200 --> 00:33:09.880
cheap regardless cocher or not, they were going to do it.
650
00:33:09.920 --> 00:33:10.680
They just got caught.
651
00:33:10.920 --> 00:33:12.640
It's basically, it's kind of one of those things are
652
00:33:12.759 --> 00:33:17.160
basically was an excuse to lash out and unfortunately, Yeah,
653
00:33:17.279 --> 00:33:22.519
the topic up. I was drunk, I was you know,
654
00:33:22.559 --> 00:33:27.200
I was out of my mind, right like you what
655
00:33:27.200 --> 00:33:29.559
you was doing anyways, believe or not, we come to
656
00:33:29.599 --> 00:33:32.480
the end of the show, so we're gonna ahead here
657
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and wrap this up, and thanks for checking out. The
658
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661
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662
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for listening. Have a good one.
663
00:33:48.319 --> 00:33:49.559
Have a good one, y'all.
664
00:33:49.880 --> 00:34:14.800
Yeah,