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Welcome to another episode of Relatively Famous, the
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podcast where I, Chip White, interview relatives of
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famous people. My famous relative is Vanna White
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of Wheel of Fortune, hence the podcast. I'm
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super excited about today's guest. Even though I
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say that every episode, I am always super
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excited. I was a big fan of her
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father's, Buddy Ebsen, who you may know from
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the Beverly Hillbillies, Barnaby Jones, the MGM musicals,
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the Republic and westerns. He was a big
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actor and singer and dancer. But today, we
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have his daughter, KiKi Ebsen, a singer and
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musician in her own right, and this is
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gonna be a fun, great interview or conversation
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as I like to say. So let's welcome
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Kiki Ebsen.
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Relatively Famous Podcast with Chip White.
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Kiki, welcome to another episode of Relatively Famous.
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Well, thank you. Thanks for having me.
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Yeah. I had a fan kind of... He
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always sends me a list of people I
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should contact. And I was like, oh, she
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sounds awesome. She's got a great story. She's
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got a great charity she works with with
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the horses. So let me reach out so
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I can find her. And I was so
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happy when you responded, and and I'm excited
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to have you on the show today.
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Awesome. Well, thank you.
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Now I talked a little bit in the
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opening. Your dad, Buddy Ebsen, I'm a huge
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fan of his from the from the Beverly
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Hillbillies and because of his dancing. What are
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some of the memories that really pop out
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in your mind about your dad's career?
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Wow. Well, that's all... That's a great question.
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You know, I didn't really understand the whole
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idea of acting, you know, when I was
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a child. So, like, my brother and I
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just thought that all dads were on TV,
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you know, because that's how we saw him
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for most of my life.
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He was on
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television pretty much. I was the last of...
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My brother and I were the, the youngest.
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So I... You know, what sticks out to
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me is this big celebration of when the
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hellbillies first came on, and we all sat
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around this television set, which was still a
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little confusing to me. And just kinda watching
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them on TV and and starting to process
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that and what that meant, you know, what
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that would mean going forward. So I also
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would remember him coming home in makeup, you
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know, with a mustache that he didn't really
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have, and I I was thought... So I
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was kinda curious why he would wear this
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outfit and go to go to work. And,
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but I think, you know, as I got
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older, I started to really appreciate that work
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that he did before the hillbillies and before
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I was born. So I think what sticks
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out for me is just his tenacity, in
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being able to ride the wave of entertainment
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from the twenties to the thirties, forties, fifties,
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sixties. So he saw, like... You know, he
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entered the world as... He entered the entertainment
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world as a dancer, and then he got
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into Broadway. Then he got into movies, you
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know, MGM movies, classic, you know, in the
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thirties. And then he went into World War
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two, and he was able to reinvent himself
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not easily. But through the forties, he invented
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himself through movies again and then eventually television,
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but he was close to fifty. So I
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just think his his stick to itiveness and
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his at work ethic, and his ability to
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survive such negativity in a in a in
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in a business that's just so brutal was,
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very inspiring to watch, but I I honestly
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did not appreciate it till I was much
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older.
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Yeah. I think that a lot of the
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kids of of actors that I've talked to
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have kind of been the same way. It's
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like, well, didn't every dad go to movies
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or or TV? And your dad had a
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really long career here, and you talk about
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that. The... And... Okay. I have to laugh
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because I had no idea that the mustache
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was fake.
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Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He... It was always...
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His lip was always so irritated from the
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mustache, and he was always, like, had some
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sort of, like, you know, salve on his
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lip in between shootings because of the glue.
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I think
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that's hilarious. You're... And and we're gonna delve
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into your life here in a second. I
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just wanna really kind of establish this for
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for listeners, especially if we can get some
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younger ones because I love when I can
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introduce older movies and TV shows to younger
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audiences. Your dad was gonna be the original
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Tin Man Yes. In Wizard of Oz.
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Yes. That was a story actually that we
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didn't know growing up. We watched the movie
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as a family, and they just sort of...
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My dad... It was a traumatic story for
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him, so he never shared it with us
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as a family. He was a contract player
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for MGM. It was in
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the thirties. And, you know, contract players player
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for MGM. It was in the thirties. And,
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you know, contract players didn't have much choice
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about the parts. They were just lucky to
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be cast in whatever movie that was coming
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in. And at one point, he was promised
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the role of the scarecrow. But Ray Bolger
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had a better dance, had a better, you
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know, way of moving, so they gave dad
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the Tin Man role. And the makeup that
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they used for that role was actually dusting
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his face with aluminum powder. So it was
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flying all over, you know, in the air,
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and he inhaled it. And over about a
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two week period, it coated the inside of
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his lungs, like paint. Right? So he couldn't
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get
oxygen to his blood, and he he
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collapsed and almost died. I mean, he was
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he was in a really bad shape in
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the hospital. It took him several weeks to
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recover, and they recast him, you know, during
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that time. And, you know, so I just
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think... And the studio really didn't take responsibility.
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They said he was allergic to the makeup,
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and it really wasn't that at all. So
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he ended up leaving MGM, refusing a contract
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renewal, by LB mayor personally. And, he went...
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He had a hard time finding work after
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that. So that was one of the tough
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times.
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Wow. Now I know you're a musician. I
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don't think of your dad as a singer,
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but, obviously, singing... A song and dance man.
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What really made you think music over acting?
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Yeah. Good question. Obviously, the family business is
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is acting. Not that was expected, but, it
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was a little crowded. My mother was also
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an actress and and, was born community theater.
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She had a theater in Newport Beach, and
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my sister went into the business. But I
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honestly... I was always drawn to the piano.
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My mother's on my mother's side. All of
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her sisters and my mother as well were
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pianists. My grandmother was a concert pianist. And
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I I gravitated to the piano because I
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heard music in my head, and it was
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the easiest way for me to get the
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music out of out of me... Out of
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my head. And it was comforting to me,
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so I liked that part. So I just
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naturally played all the time. And then, you
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know, as a teenager teenager, like, you know,
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most adolescents, I struggled with my emotions and
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struggled to figure out identity. And it was
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difficult for me to consider an acting career
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with a father that was so famous, and
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I was so deeply sensitive. So I started
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writing songs and just started playing in bands,
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and the music was
just a natural choice
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for me. I tried. I'd... I've done a
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little bit of, like, acting, if you will.
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I definitely went through the ranks of my
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my mother's theater, and I was actually an
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extra in Back to the Future, but I...
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But as a musician. But I never really
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followed that route. I never just went to
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auditions and did that whole thing. I was
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too busy. I really got lucky out of
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college, just to land a touring music gig.
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So I I was out with really big
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name artist. You know, my twenties, I was
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out with Chicago and, you know, Alghero and
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Tracy Chapman and Christopher Cross. I mean, just
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a lot of great artists. And every time
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I thought, I'm gonna try this acting thing,
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I'd get called for a tour or I
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got a record deal or something. I thought,
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well, that... Obviously, that's not what I'm I'm
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I'm supposed to be doing. I'm I'm following
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my heart, which is, which is music, which
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is to me performing, acting with... Is just
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with music. You know? You're still emoting. You're
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still, you know, you're still on a stage,
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and you're still communicating through the arts.
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Okay. You mentioned some big names. We're gonna
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get to those in a second, and and
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and more about your music. So you and
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I are gonna get in the car, and
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we're gonna drive from California to San Antonio
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on a little road trip. What's the first
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song you're gonna play for me?
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That's fun. Well, I have to tell you,
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I have a playlist that I put on
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almost every day when I'm working with my
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horses. My all time feel good song is,
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Lionel Richie's All Night Long.
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Love that song. You know, I was at...
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It feels so good when I hear it.
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I love it.
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Yeah. I was a DJ in nightclubs, and
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when that song came on, man, it was
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just... It would pack the dance
floor. It's
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just a great, great song.
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Oh, it feels good. And to me, music
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is all about putting you in a zone,
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you know, where where you feel good to
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me. Or it it it might be something
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you need to hear a song that if
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you're angry or sad as well, but it
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makes you feel. Music really makes you feel.
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That's what I love about it.
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Yeah. It's funny. I was driving in this
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morning, and there... There's two things they say.
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A sense of smell and music can bring
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memories back quicker than than most anything. And
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I believe
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so. I heard an average white man play
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that funky music today, and I was like,
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all right. I can remember that as a
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kid learning to bump, the dance to bump
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to
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that song at the galleon. You know? And
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it's like, is there a song that you
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hear on the radio while you're driving on
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your playlist and it takes you to a
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specific place in your life?
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Oh, yeah. I can hear things like, well,
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there are a lot, so I'm not gonna
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do... Really do it justice. But when I
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think... When I hear, like, Ricky Lee Jones
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sing We Belong Together, I think of... You
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know, I just think of a moment in
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time, you know, where that was a really
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meaningful song, you know, about somebody. And it
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takes me right into the... I feel exactly
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what I'm feeling, in that moment. So so,
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yeah, I mean, there's some... You know, like,
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I love Pete Townshend. So my my list
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is pretty eclectic. You know, Pete Townshend from
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the who. I'm kind of a rock and
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roll chick. And I have certain songs in
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his solo records that just bring up certain
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feelings in me. Of course, I'm a huge,
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huge Joni Mitchell fan and a huge Carole
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King fan. And so those songs remind me
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of being about ten or eleven and discovering
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their music and, the era of Laurel Canyon
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because I grew up here in in Los
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Angeles and that... Just that whole vibe was
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just so rich with music and art and
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color and just... It's it's so different now,
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but I can be taken... I can be
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transported back there just by hearing those songs.
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Yeah. I had, Matt Axton, who is Hoyt
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Axton's son on a while back. And his
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dad was part of that Laurel Canyon sixties,
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seventies and telling stories. And it, been an
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interesting time to... As a teenager to have
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been part of that, I'm sure.
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Well, I was a little young for that.
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My my, sister who's six years older, she
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definitely was on the strip and saw, like,
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she saw cream at the whiskey or or
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something like that. It was something crazy like
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Led Zeppelin. And, I mean, I guess my
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biggest touch with that kind of era was
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I actually bought chocolate chip cookies from famous
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Amos. Do you remember famous Amos?
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Absolutely.
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He he would sell the cookies,
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and I would... We would buy them right
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from him.
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You know? And, you know, it's just so
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cool. It was so great back then. And,
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I... I'm lucky enough to be in a
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band right now. It's, that pays tribute to
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the music for Laurel Canyon. And, it's called
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Lookout Mountain. And the band members include David
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Crosby's son, James Raymond, as well as, Kip
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Lennon. And if you're familiar with the Lennon
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sisters, you might know who Kip Lennon is.
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He's the youngest brother of that... Of those
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nine siblings.
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Well, it sounds like to me that I've
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got a couple more guests I can reach
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out to.
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Oh, you
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could get... Yeah. Kip is fantastic. And and
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James is great too. And our band is
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is is gonna be out playing next year
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at the
Performing Arts Center. So kind kind
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of excited because I get to do all
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the Joni Mitchell and the Carole King and,
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you know, I love those songs.
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Carole King. In my... As soon as you
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said her name, the Tapestry album popped in
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my head. I remember that as a kitten...
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I can I could clearly see it as
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soon as you said Carole King?
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Yeah.
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Now you you said you went more the
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rock and roll era as a as a
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kid and played with some amazing people. What
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what was probably the most fun tour you've
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been on?
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Oh my goodness. You know what's... Actually, what
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a really fun tour, was Belinda Carlisle just
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because the band was so great and, and
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so fun. Everybody was so fun to hang
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out with. But memorable tours also include, like,
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being in Japan with Michael McDonald and Christopher
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Cross because musically, hearing those two together... And,
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I mean, Michael McDonald is truly one of
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my favorite singers in the whole world, and
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he is the nicest guy in show business.
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So every time I'd hear him sing, I
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just would melt. You know? And I got
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to hear him live. You know? I also
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really enjoyed working with Tracy Chapman. She's pretty
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intense as an as an as an artist.
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But, again, the band was great, and we
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were touring some of the most beautiful venues
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in Europe, like like, places in Taormina, Sicily,
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which were, like ruins up at the top
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of mountains that were turned into these outdoor
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venues that were so beautiful. So it's stuff
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like that. I mean, my time in Japan,
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worked with a lot of Japanese artists, and
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I tend to get out in the country
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and... Or on... Out in the city. And
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if I... If there is a mountain to
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climb, I'll find it. You know? I love
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to hike and do things during the day.
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So just beautiful to be out in Japan
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in places that you don't normally go to
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if you're going into the city and finding
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temples after hiking for three hours. You're at
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the top of a mountain. There's a little
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temple, and you can sit and you can
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meditate and and have these wonderful deep thoughts.
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So I feel really lucky that I got
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to spend about thirty years doing that. I
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really do.
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Now had some of those trips inspired songs?
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Because you obviously write and sing your own
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music on... Not just tour with other
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people. Yes. Yeah. I have... I've been inspired
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by surroundings. I've been inspired by by things
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that have happened while I've been on tour
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or things that were happening at home, that
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I I I was able to kind of
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look at from a different perspective. Well, a
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beautiful song I was just talking about the
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other day because I'm doing it in a
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show that I'm doing, in a couple of
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weeks, called take my time. It's about, you
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know, taking the time to notice where you
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are and be grateful and and taking more
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moments in beautiful places that bring peace and
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calm to you. And this one song was
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written while I was in Telluride, actually doing
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a gig during the Telluride Blues Festival. And
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my girlfriend and I were hiking up in
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the rockies above the town at night with
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a full moon, and the mist was all
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around. And the music from the festival was
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coming up, and I think it was, like,
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the nitty gritty dirt band or something. But
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you couldn't really hear exactly what the song
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was, but you could hear the music that
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echoed around the canyon. And the moon was
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rising and the stars were shining, and I
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just wrote this... It was, like, such a
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moment, and I just immediately went home and
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wrote a song about, like, take the time
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to notice. Look around you. Like, take a
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couple of breaths and go, check it out,
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man. We're... This is beautiful. We're in a
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beautiful... You know, we can be mad about
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a lot of stuff, but there's a lot
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of beauty around us and, you know, might
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as well enjoy it.
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Now is that song available somewhere?
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Yeah. It's called Take My Time. It's off
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a record called... Which I've never heard which
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record it's on. Oh, it's on Fill Me
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Up, my... The late... One of my latest
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records. Fill Me Up. And all my musics...
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Music is at kiki ebson dot com, and
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that's it... Really the only place you're gonna
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find it these days. I've, kind of pulled
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off of the streaming networks because it's just
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not... I'd rather bring... Drive people to my
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site and have you really download my music
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or come hear me live.
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Absolutely. Live is always great. My wife is
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a singer songwriter or That's why she was
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in LA to be now. We live in
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Texas, so she doesn't do it as much.
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Hope she'll get back to it.
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A lot of music in Texas, though.
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Yeah. There's some great music in Texas. Yeah.
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Matter of fact, Chris Cross was born in
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San Antonio.
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He lives in Austin. Yeah.
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That's right. That's right. Now you're very... I'm
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gonna I'm gonna assume visual in in the
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way you described the the... Up the mountain
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in the mist. I'm gonna go back to
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the century of smell. What did your childhood
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smell like?
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Well, I grew up actually in the place
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where I live now, which is a a
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ranch, a family ranch in Southern California. So
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to me, the smell of my childhood was
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the native, the native plants, and specifically sages.
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And the chaparrales are just so aromatic here
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in the canyon. And in fact, when I
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do... You know, because I do work with
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horses and people in a in a wellness
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capacity, I usually pick, California sagebrush, which is
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a beautiful smelling sage, especially when you crumple
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it up in your fingers and you kind
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of smell it like this. And one of
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its properties, it's actually documented in in a
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in a evidence based book about, native American
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plants that it gives you a sense of
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well-being. Just inhaling it is good for respiratory
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issues and things like that, but it just
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also just brings your nervous system into a
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place of calm.
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Now you're talking about horses. A lot of
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musician relatives and people I have talked to
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are big into horses. I grew up on
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ranches. Talk to me about your, it's not
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a charity, but you were saying your wellness
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that you work with people. Talk about horses.
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Well, it's a nonprofit, and, it... It's a
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it's a nonprofit that I created as I
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started to, rescue horses, and that was probably
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twenty years ago or so, twenty five years
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ago. And what it is, it's it's it's
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the Healing Equine Ranch. It resides on my
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ranch, and it takes care of a herd
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of nine horses. And we offer wellness programs.
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It's it's technically equine assisted growth and learning.
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And I work... It... It's it's a way
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to learn about yourself through the lens of
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a horse. So when you're with them, there's
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a lot of emotions and feelings and thoughts
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that come up in their presence. Everything from
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I'm scared of horses, they're big and they're
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unpredictable, to, oh my god. I love horses
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so much, or I grew up with horses
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or I always wanted to have a horse.
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But there's very little understanding about their language
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and what is important to horses. Most of
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our interaction with horses, you know, just over
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the years, historically, has been through dominance and
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control. So now we're work... Moving into an
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area where we're
understanding the language of horses.
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We're understanding their nervous systems, their brains, and
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how their brains align with our brains and
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how we can learn about our own nervous
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system and our own ability to regulate and
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self regulate and coregulate through the understanding and
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the experience of interacting with horses. And that's
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what my program is all about. It's called
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natural equine interactive growth and healing. And I
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work with everyone from, residential treatment centers that
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deal with mental health and recovery and and
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addiction. I also work with the, like, the
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four seasons when they they do their wellness
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programs. I have my own workshops almost every
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weekend, and I have private clients sessions as
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well.
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I think I need to do it. My
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wife is a horse girl from Texas, obviously.
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Oh, yeah.
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I like horses. I've ridden horses. I'm not
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really good at it, but I'd like to
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be better because I wanna be in a
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western. But
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You wanna be in a western? Well, you
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know, it's... My my programs are on the
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ground. No. Nobody's riding per se. At some
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point, you could ride, but there's a lot
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of consent based, you know, dialogue going on.
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If the horse doesn't want you to get
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on their back, you know, if you're if
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you're trying to hold them while you jump
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on their back, that's just not safe. So
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there's ways of leading up to it, where
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they feel comfortable with you and you feel
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comfortable with them makes the partnership so much
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safer.
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Yeah. Because I definitely... And sometimes I'm not
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comfortable with that with horses. Yeah.
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And with all good reason too.
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If you could pick one of your songs
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that's probably not your favorite, but you would
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love to see become a billboard number one.
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What song would you choose?
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Oh, I love that question. I think Better
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Friends is a smash. Oh, Candles. I have
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a few. Can I say a few?
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Absolutely.
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Candles is always... People always said that is
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a number one hit. Better Friend... Candles is
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on the red CD. Better Friends is on
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my beauty inside CD. And then I think
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off my latest CD, Fill Me Up, Keep
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You On My Mind, to me, is like
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a country... You know, another kinda country hit.
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One more, Loudmouth Girl is also, like, a
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really great girl's anthem, especially for, like, the
00:23:53.940 --> 00:23:56.740
country western, market. So I think I have
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a lot, and I'm still I'm still hopeful
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that I will be discovered as this gem
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that's been hiding out for years. Where's she
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been all of my life?
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Well, hopefully, this will open some doors. Is
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there a question that I haven't asked or
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that you wish other people would ask, but
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they never do?
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I love your questions. Thank you. I really
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do. I think you've been really succinct, and
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it's like not... You haven't asked a lot
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of questions, but you've asked really important questions
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that have illuminated a lot about the complicated
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dynamic of being the relative of somebody famous,
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which is, I believe, sort of the core
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of this interview. Right?
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It is.
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And I think maybe if there was anything,
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it'd be how do you find yourself? How
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do you find your identity when the name
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that you carry has so when the name
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that you carry has so much, weight in
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another direction? You know? And I was thinking
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about that this morning because I find find
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fame to be a tremendous... Possibly a tremendous
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burden. I I saw my father navigated... Navigate
00:25:18.899 --> 00:25:22.500
it beautifully. However, as he got older, it
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was harder to keep up the name, you
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know, and keep up the face and and
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the whole
thing. And I think he became
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very attached to his celebrity so that I
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don't know how much peace he found at
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the end of his life, if that makes
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sense.
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That makes great sense.
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Yeah. And that scared me. I never... I
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like being, you know, appreciated. I love getting
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noticed for what I do. But when it
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goes above and beyond what a mere mortal
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can be, it it becomes dangerous in in
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in many different ways. It's dangerous to your
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psyche. It could be dangerous physically. So I
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think finding my identity has been about not
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denying that I'm Buddy Epperson's daughter, but that's
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not all I am. I bring this whole
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other piece. And now maybe I can allow
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other parts to flourish that I've been hiding
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because it's a little frightening to me. You
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know? And now I feel like it can
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really be all. I found an identity. I
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love my music. I love my horses. If
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if it turns into an an acting opportunity,
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I... I'm fine with it all. Whereas before,
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I was, like, strict about it. Like, I'm
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only gonna do this, and I'm only gonna
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do that, or I'm just denying that part
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of my life. I'm proud of everything that
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he's done and what my mother has built
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with her theater. And my sister who was
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an actress moved into... Now she's a writer.
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She lives in Arizona. And my brother is
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a video editor, and my niece is a...
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Directs commercial. So there's been this beautiful sort
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of outpouring of this legacy through our individual
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work. And it takes time to figure that
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out, and some people don't. Some people who
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are living in those environments, I don't think...
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I think they still struggle with, like, who
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am I?
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That's very, very true because I've I've interviewed,
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obviously, a lot of relatives. And, like, I
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was talking to Donny Osmond's son, Brandon, and
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and I was talking to my sister about
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it. You know, when the applause dies, as
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you said, you you didn't think your dad
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was... You think he struggled finding peace with
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that. I love that you found peace. I
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love that most people that on my show,
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we're all trying to find, as I like
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to say, making our own sunshine in the
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shadow of a whatever the name might be.
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Right.
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And you sound like you've got a tremendous
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life. Sound like the family's doing great. I'm
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gonna ask one last question because we're getting
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close. Do you remember, was there a specific
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Santa Claus Christmas gift that to this day,
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sparkles in your mind?
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Well, I don't know if it was a
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Christmas gift, but I do remember I... And
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it's such a... It's funny. It's sort of
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a cliche, but not... I remember when I
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got my pony, my first pony when I
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was five years old, and I was so
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excited. I mean, it was just... It was
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like everything you would think of with a
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little girl. Like, when I when I heard
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I was getting my own little... Because my
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sisters had horses, you know, and they were...
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These are backyard horses. These weren't... These were
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not fancy horses. But, oh my god, I
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had a pony, and it was the best
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the best day of my life. I remember
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just jumping for joy, jumping on the day
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bed, just like, ah, this is great.
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So, did you just kind of spend your
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time between Newport and a ranch? Because
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Yeah. We we, started off in Beverly Hills
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when I was three. We moved down to
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Newport Beach, and we we stayed there and
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got the ranch as a summer place or
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a weekend place because my sisters and I
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were into the horses. And my dad, you
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know, he'd done all those westerns for Republic
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films, and it, you know, occurred to me
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later that,
you know, his neighbors were Rex
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Allen, Bob Hope, Ronald Reagan, you know, twentieth
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Century to Paramount Ranch. So we moved into
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this sort of Hollywood ish, you know, even
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though we're way far away from each other,
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the Santa Monica Mountains, we just had so
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much film history. And Edgar Rice Burroughs was
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our neighbor, you know. And neighbors are like
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a mile... Two miles
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away. Yeah.
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But still, I got into showing horses. What...
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That's what happened for me. And when I
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was nine, I started to compete, and I
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needed to be closer to the horses and
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to that vibe. So I moved up here.
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It was weird because our family kinda split
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between the two homes, and I think my
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older sister actually raised me, actually, from the
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age of nine on, which is not unusual
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too. You know? So, but then I moved
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up there permanently, through my teen years. Moved
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out for a while, went to college and
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all that, but then came back.
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Well, sounds like there's a whole lot more
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we can talk about, but I'm definitely running
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out of time. I'm gonna call you Kirsten.
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Kirsten Kiki Ebsen. Well,
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if I were to be truly, full exposure,
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my first name is Nancy. Nancy Kirsten Ebsen,
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and I'm named after my mother and my
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father. My mother's name is Nancy. My father's
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name is Christian, and Kirsten is the female
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of that.
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Well, I am so grateful to have you
00:30:50.235 --> 00:30:52.335
on, and and thank you for your time.
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Hopefully,
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I'll have your bandmates on, and we will
00:30:56.715 --> 00:30:57.934
chat again, hopefully.
00:30:58.395 --> 00:30:59.835
Alright. Thanks so much, Jeff. Nice to
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meet you. Man, I really enjoyed that. Thank
00:31:02.370 --> 00:31:03.889
you so much, Kiki, for being a part
00:31:03.889 --> 00:31:05.250
of the show. I do hope I get
00:31:05.250 --> 00:31:08.450
your band members on. I wanna thank everyone
00:31:08.450 --> 00:31:11.090
for being a part of our growing success.
00:31:11.090 --> 00:31:14.395
We're Relatively Famous. This is our season four,
00:31:14.535 --> 00:31:17.415
and, we're excited about it. I wanna thank,
00:31:17.735 --> 00:31:22.135
Nelco Media, our production team, and I wanna
00:31:22.135 --> 00:31:24.294
thank Nelco Comics even though we're not there
00:31:24.294 --> 00:31:26.535
today. We're at the Nelco office. It looks
00:31:26.535 --> 00:31:28.130
a little different. But, hey, if you're looking
00:31:28.130 --> 00:31:30.529
for comic books, check out Nelco Comics in
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San Antonio. If you happen to be related
00:31:34.450 --> 00:31:36.769
to someone famous or know someone related to
00:31:36.769 --> 00:31:38.929
someone famous, I'm always looking for guests. So
00:31:38.929 --> 00:31:40.289
you can reach out to me or if
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you just have comments about the podcast. You
00:31:42.595 --> 00:31:45.255
can reach out to me at podcast relatively
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famous at g mail dot com. That's podcast
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go check out Kiki's music. We'll put the
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links in our... In the show notes. Appreciate
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it.
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