Full Transcript for Athena Calderone on Aspiration | Traveling Through

kitchen every night, and he would stand up on a chair and he would cook with them. And I'm getting emotional because like they were communicating with this two year old and not speaking the same language, and they were offering him this experience that I could never really offer him. Like he was understanding kind of culture and culinary and like and love and care of food and family in a way that I could never have offered him otherwise. And I just remember being just hit with so much emotion as I am right now about how magical this experiences and so far from our life and from our everyday existence. 00:07:14 Speaker 2: I can feel that from you. 00:07:16 Speaker 1: The interesting thing about Morocco is it's not a restaurant culture at all, maybe like to the exclusion of almost any other culture. Like you get the best food in those reads or in those homes, Like yeah, I always tell people when they're going like eat at the read. Eat, you know, try to get into people's homes because that's where the best recipes are sure. And I take that from Moroccan culture too, that it is that principle of enveloping people. 00:07:41 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I will never forget. When we entered the read, it was really late at night, and Jivonne, who was like a very kind of chill traveler and calm kid who still to this day is like, he's not very outward. He doesn't like I'm not gonna say, he doesn't emote as a child. He wasn't super like verbal and like crying and yelling, and I didn't even know what a read was. And then I was there and saw how quiet and small and intimate, and I was just like, I don't want to be that parent that has this kid that's like losing it. And I remember trying to settle him and quiet him, and in that moment, I felt like he was psychic and he was feeling energies in the space, which is so I've never really like talked about this before, but I felt like there was like something that was like triggering him in that space. But then on the polar opposite, like the next day, we went out into the Medina, and I remember being so overwhelmed by like everybody coming at you and trying to get you to come into their shop and buy something and negotiate with you. And I remember being like completely overwhelmed, sincerely, and I remember Jeevon just like being there, like looking taking it in calm as a cucumber, and I was just like this kid man like he is meant to travel. 00:09:03 Speaker 1: I feel like Markesh has another thing all together now, because you know, it's such a tour destination and of course it still has its magic, but it's kind of evolved as well. There are a lot of designers based there now that are creating great things that are within that Moroccan design vernacular, like Benny Ruggs, the people that you did a collaboration with, and I think from a design perspective, those tiles, those rugs, like the tuaregmats from Mauritania or the Berber culture that can be translated into homes that I have one in my house in Milan, and I don't know, I think that now Morocco, well, it's a successful example of using the craftsmanship from there and contemporizing it, and that's not the case with a lot of these places where traditional craft sadly becomes kind of a museum piece or a tourist piece. 00:09:58 Speaker 3: When I wanted to talk with you about my experience in Marrakesh, it was more so initially that I wanted to talk about how it was the first place that really pushed me from culinary point of view to explore flavors outside of the Italian American vernacular that I grew up with, as well as like my design aesthetic back then for my homes was very like minimal and sleek and like singular, like B and B Italia. And then I went there and I just saw these like sun drenched colors and things that had patina and chips, and you know, I started to suddenly see how I was like appreciating time worn colors and patina and history and craft. I'm just remembering this right now, but I was in the midst of designing an apartment that we had bought in Dumbo, two apartments that we were combining, and it was the first time that I really used travel as like this catalyst to make sure that I'm pulling pieces from these far flung places in the world. Like every time I travel somewhere, I bring some sort of trinket home, and that really sounded case traveler. 00:11:10 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't help that things, know for sure. I mean I think, look, there's definitely a reason why so many of those decorators not just go there and collect things. 00:11:20 Speaker 2: But think about Tangier, right. 00:11:22 Speaker 1: Some of the great decorators on the planet have these houses there and then have export it to wherever they have their kind of businesses, whether it's London or New York. 00:11:32 Speaker 3: Call. Yeah, it's really at the center of like who I am as a designer right now, and I think that it started there. I didn't even think about the whole Jivon read part of the story because the home is this nucleus of my world still to this day, and whether it inspired the culinary side of my career or the design side of my career or the family at the center of it, I really feel like that reard and that experience is so in alignment with like who I am today. 00:12:04 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's such a place and a labyrinth to discover. I remember going and doing something for Vogue Living actually when I was kind of quite a naive travel writer actually, which actually is to be honest, the best. 00:12:17 Speaker 2: Yeah, the best. 00:12:18 Speaker 1: The best ones are the ones that are excited for the first time, because then if you've got a good editor, you can temper it a little bit. And I had a very good editor, but I went sort of I remember it vividly, and I have this image that we shot and I could not tell you who it was what realited is, but it's this extraordinary image of a kitchen actually with the mosaic tiles on the walls, just a little wood table with kind of ratan back, a little window opening

into a courtyard which had like this kind of very straggly jacaranda. When the cooking is happening and the sun goes down, the call to prayer is like coming in through the roof and like it's getting nighttime and the orange bossom is starting, you know, because they often have an orange bossom in there. I know, it's incredibly evocative. I wanted to talk to you. 00:13:09 Speaker 2: You know. 00:13:09 Speaker 1: You mentioned Victor, your husband, and why you traveled so often, and he, you know, is one of the great music producers and DJs worked on, from what I understand, one of the best albums of all time, which is. 00:13:21 Speaker 2: Right right of life, of course. 00:13:24 Speaker 1: But yeah, I you know, I think that's kind of why you traveled a lot to Abitha, Is that right? 00:13:29 Speaker 3: Abitha we traveled to before we got married. We got married in ninety nine. I feel like the first time we went was maybe ninety eight. And so, yeah, he's a DJ and he plays all around the world, and it took us to you know, Singapore and Australia and Japan in one trip, and then you know, Israel and Italy and Ibiza and another. You know, like we were just constantly or he was constantly on the road. And you know, back then there were bigger budgets and you know, they would fly both of us and Givonne until he was under two, we didn't have to pay for a flight, so we just we literally traveled the world together. But backing up to our first time in Abiita, it was like the start of our love courtship. And then did you meet on the dance floor? We met at the Tunnel in New York City. I was a bartender. I just moved to New York. I was nineteen years old. I had a shaved head because I was on a septum ring. Because I was trying to be like a bad girl. Because I was such like a Long Island good girl who did like all the right things, you know, like never like drank or like partied or anything. And then I moved to New York City and I was like, she's gonna become a bad girl. But it was like just. 00:14:48 Speaker 1: Like on the you know, well, one of my favorite parts of you actually is that you're still a potty girl in ways. 00:14:55 Speaker 3: I mean, I do love a dance floor. I love it. 00:14:59 Speaker 2: I've seen it, so. 00:15:00 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm glad you brought that up because my roots as somebody, I mean talk about where I saw culture for the first time. It was at the nightclub, Like I was seeing fashion and art. I worked at the Palladium and there was a Kenny Sharp room and there was you know, murals by Keith Hering, and I saw drag queens for the first time, and you know, I just had like I was experienced so much newness in my world. And I didn't have to travel very far, thirty minutes from where I grew up, and all of a sudden I found all this like art and culture and fashion. But anyway, Victor and I met at the nightclub and then we started his career kind of took off after we met and then Ibiza happened. And what I love so much about Ibiza is the very first place that we ever traveled with Jivon as a baby, he was under one years old, was Ibiza. So I you know, it started with like Victor's career and our courtship, and then it became where like a place where we went as a young family also as he was djaying, and then fast forward now the past, like you know, we've been going for over twenty five years, but more recently we've been spending a lot of time there and it feels like this beautiful full circle moment where you know, Jivonne's early years were there and now Jievon's a DJ and he's a producer and he's on the dance floor with us in the nightclubs. And last summer, Victor dj't at Circle Loco, which is like one of the biggest parties in a Biza, and it was like me and Jivonne and some of Jivon's friends like all in the DJ booth, like go like going for it, and it just I was just like this, this is the talk about the center of my world is my family. But it's also nightlife and the fact that like now we still do it as a family. 00:16:57 Speaker 2: It's that's rare. 00:16:59 Speaker 3: It's really rare. And also you know that Jevonn is twenty three years old now and like he still wants to be with us, he still wants to travel with us, Like you know, it's it's really sweet. It's just really sweet. And and Abita is so much more than just nightlife, you know what I mean? 00:17:14 Speaker 1: Because well there is like a very literal other side of Abitha, yes, and another side of Abitha, Like how do you understand the other side of it? 00:17:24 Speaker 3: We hike a lot when we go to Abiita, and it's so funny. Sometimes they say a Biza and sometimes they say Abita, but you know, I mean same same, I'm just gonn of whatever comes out. Yeah. 00:17:35 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:17:36 Speaker 3: The nature is just like the rugged coastline is so incredible, the exploration, the just like the raw and the wild. The north side of the island is so special, which is where we first started going with. 00:17:51 Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah, so you're okay, Yeah. 00:17:53 Speaker 3: We were there. The very first hotel we ever stayed in was all the way north and then yeah, these past few summers we do these really long sunset hikes and it literally gives me life. Like those hikes, they're so it's so beautiful because it pushes me outside of my comfort zone. You have to be so present. It forces me to like jump inside these like you know, underwater caves, and I'm always doing it with my family and with our dog and it just you're so Now. 00:18:24 Speaker 1: It's funny you say that because like I only got to know the Balaric Islands and mostly Majorca in the past few years, obviously, because it's no secret to Germans or British people, and it's I mean, there's a certain thing that happens there, but it's had this big kind of renaissance. And part of the thing that I didn't really realize about those islands is there kind of the hub of European healers. Like I did not realize that there is some energy there and those

communities. Like I did a watsu massage, which is one of those like well pooled ones. It's like being in the womb. And it's only because it was the only thing that was on the SPA. Man, you and my girlfriends were going to something. I'm not like the biggest you know, wellness or spa person. But yeah, I'm up for everything. Yeah, and it was kind of extraordinary. This woman was like it was almost like a dula. 00:19:20 Speaker 2: You know. It was one of. 00:19:21 Speaker 1: The most intense experiences that I've had in that vein, and I just didn't realize there was that energy there. 00:19:28 Speaker 3: There's a huge community of healers, especially in that north side of Abitha, and there's a lot of like agriculture and farms, which is why the food is so fantastic. Like the north really has this like beautifully like rooted, i don't know, healing energy. But then also Eshedra, which is it's that big formation of rocks on the like more western side of the island. But they say it's one of the most like energetic and magnetic places. Makes sense on Earth, people are like, oh, Ibiza either welcomes you or it spits you out. And I'm just like, Okay, I don't always like buy into the whole wu wu thing, but there is something beautifully energetic about the island. 00:20:12 Speaker 1: The other thing I was I was thinking about is, you know, I think sometimes for these places that actually we returned to because we have memories or an experience that replicates year to year. It's kind of that return place. Yeah, and that's kind of special. I thought maybe as your life evolved it would be different, but I think that's really interesting. 00:20:33 Speaker 3: I think I stopped like going out and with Victor and like being a part of his nightlife world. And I think it's also something that's at the core of our marriage. Like we've always had really individual lives but also like a unit, as you said, But when I was trying to figure out career and I was a young mom, I kind of stopped going out and it more recently nightlife and dancing. You know. Now I have this like big career and I have a lot of pressure, and I have like a lot of time that I'm like head down in a computer and like that part of me, like that real free spirit where I get to like quote unquote let my hair down and like just be kind of anonymous and be with the people that like pulled joy out of me, Like I needed her back in my life, and I like made a strategic choice to make sure I honored who I was as a club goer, you know what I mean. Like it's it's part of who I am, and it does bring me a lot of joy. But I will say if I can, if I let myself just go too far into that night life part of Abitha, because you can, that doesn't speak to who I am either. So in a way, the island became this like mirror for me. Like last year, I like was doing yoga three days a week, like in these like up on the top of a hill on a platform, like hearing the cicadas and these like big pine trees, and like I really taped

back into that like yogi part of myself. I was going to the market a lot, and I was, you know, cooking NonStop, like in the house that we rented to, like that part of myself that sometimes falls to the waist side when I'm too busy in New York City, Like I do feel like it Bizo really allows me to focus on, like who the various parts of who I am. I don't think design and like culture, like it doesn't have like museums or like you know, but it does. 00:22:26 Speaker 1: It's like it's it has it has a culture of its own completely, you know. I think that when we're talking about the unit and your like great love Victor, that's kind of how we met, right I was just thinking about it because you were planning. 00:22:40 Speaker 3: Your I was planning my. Yeah, my twenty five year wedding anniversary coincided with that's so interesting. Yeah, yeah, I kind of hadn't realized that I got married at twenty five. So then it made my fiftieth birthday and my twenty five year wedding anniversary coincide. And in that moment, I didn't do a big celebration for my fortieth birthday. We actually went to Africa, we went on a safari. At that point in my life, I didn't feel like celebrating like four to oh, but five oh coinciding with twenty five years of love. It just felt like a celebration of love and life that needed to be like a big event. And I and you were the first person that I thought to reach out to to help me navigate that. 00:23:27 Speaker 1: My great love, of course is Italy and one that we share and you share as a background right as a heritage, sure, and Victory as well, and Victor two of well, of course Calderon Calderon. 00:23:38 Speaker 2: But that's how we first. 00:23:39 Speaker 1: I think you messaged me and then we had a little a little coffee, and we weren't going to work together necessarily on the trip, because you know, I have a very strong point of view, you have a very strong point of view on things. But it's been a really fun collaboration. And I guess it started as your vow renewal and just some ideas for the fiftieth birthday. But I'm gonna hand it over to you because it's really your store. 00:24:04 Speaker 3: Oh oh, well, thank you. I have a love of Italy as you do, and I'd never been to Umbria, and I was trying to find the perfect place to do something very intimate with just my family, and then also to do something a little bit more over the top and ground with my friends. And I felt like Umbria offered that like quiet countryside, and then Rome offered the grandeur of like literally a living museum. But those were two places in my mind. I feel like I shared a lot of places though, Like I was thinking, we just had sorted have this conversation, like is it Palermo because that's where Victor's family is from. 00:24:47 Speaker 1: The Palatina Chenesi, which is this like Shinwazari folly on the edge of Palermo to Venice. 00:24:54 Speaker 3: I think we talked about Venice. 00:24:56 Speaker 2: Yes, we went all over the mass and that's. 00:24:58 Speaker 3: That really speaks to like the chaos of my creative brain a little bit. But it wasn't until you helped me find the locations. And first and foremost you had just Palazzo Talia, Yes, and it wasn't even open yet, right. So for me, it's so funny because I'm this way about like design and real estate too. Like recently people are like, why did you move to Tribecca And I was like, well, it wasn't Tribeca. It was just finding the right place. So I until I found the right place, I would have gone anywhere in Italy. I would have gone outside of Italy. It was just finding the place that was intimate enough to host friends without being this grand hotel where everyone would get lost. 00:25:38 Speaker 1: And also somewhere where a lot of people have done things before, Like you want to show something new and bring something like a different thing to your gigantic audience, and also do something that spoke to you in a special way. I love you know, part of the reason I was like yes, and then we really got into the planning and the execution around it. But I love working with people who have a romantic sense and an idea of what they want to do and then I year of a place and then like pulling it together with the reality. 00:26:12 Speaker 3: Well you did that brilliantly because I wanted well it's true, I wanted a grand room to host like forty guests, and it needed to have that like palazzo grandeur, but also delicious food and in a city that people from New York can get to, like without having to travel Like that was another thing, Like you couldn't get off the plane and then had to like travel two to three hours if you're only going for a long weekend. So I you know, it really speaks to what you are so brilliant. 00:26:43 Speaker 1: At and like thanks, I mean, I think also it was like just on that point of you know, romance and reality. It's not like I'm going to take you to the reality of how we're going to do this. Actually, what I find and the joy of it is when you mix those two things, they become something actually more romantic and special because you're you find the way to put the spotlight on the best of the place, which I think was so fun for us to do. We had such a like collaboration that was amazing. 00:27:16 Speaker 3: And your team is incredible and Capital you know, bringing Capital one into the fold was also you know incredible because beyond having that exceptional experience for my fiftieth birthday at Palazza Talia, we went back to Rome together with Capital one a year later and you know, created this beautiful experience for card holders and got to you know, replicate going to the that. I mean, can we just talk about like everybody says to me, like how did you get into the Vatican, like privately, what is your secret sauce about like you know, getting access to or don't share too much because I. 00:27:53 Speaker 1: Mean, you know what people can get you into the Vatican, right, you can go like early hours and you know

the Catholic Church is looking to monetize, Yeah, monetize no, but look they got a lot of pieces that they got to restore and keep like gleaming like the Vatican Museum does. 00:28:22 Speaker 2: But you know, my. 00:28:24 Speaker 1: Colleague Carlotta, who is a very special person who is able to you know, she's what they're calling it to the educata, very polite, knows how to navigate asking the right question. 00:28:38 Speaker 3: She has like a very calm demeanor. 00:28:40 Speaker 1: Ninja unbelievable, And I think this is the case, and I am certain in various different like iterations, when you're curious about something and respectful to anyone, whether it is you know, the papal rooms or the fishermen, wherever that might be, they always open up in the right way. Yes, that was threading a needle and getting the Swiss Guard to agree, not only after hours, but the real thing that from our perspective, because I know you wanted to take a photo because it's a special moment to It was more than just visiting it as a tourist or as someone interested in that. I know you wanted to keep that memory. I think you think like I do in photo moments, not just because of your work and not just because of my work, but because it it just affirms that that thing that you did, it kind of imprints it it into your story. 00:29:40 Speaker 3: And it triggers the memory for a lifetime and beyond. 00:29:44 Speaker 1: Yeah, so Colorda, I still don't know exactly how she got the Swiss Guard to allow them to do that. But yeah, we were inside the Vatican, the Cisting chapel. Oh yeah, sorry, we were inside the Cistine Chapel. Yeah, we were allowed to take photos in the Vatican. 00:30:02 Speaker 3: But the Vatican Museum. But inside the Cystine Chapel, we were told you could not take any photos, and then they said you're a li to take a photo. And you know, I was up on the altar and I was just like, somebody grab a camera. I mean, everybody had their camera, yeah, but like everyone was told they couldn't. So then it was all of a sudden, you know it. Actually I won't say it distracted me, but I'm so happy. Like then, all of a sudden, I was like seeing it through the lens instead of seeing it for real. So when we went back with Capital One, I didn't take my phone. I was like, oh, I've got this already. So the second time around, I just like took it in and took in the emotion. That was a very special experience. And also you know, there was like I didn't know it was my first time also ever at the Vatican, but there was like also so much Greek history and like learning about like a fina that. 00:30:53 Speaker 1: The map hole, I mean that the map that is absolute heaven. 00:30:58 Speaker 3: But talk about how I take inspiration from everything I see when I travel. Red Porphyry is one of the oldest Roman stones, and there is this like massive like sculpture or structure as well as in the mosaic floors that is red porphyry. And from there I dove down the rabbit hole of discovery. And now in my Tribecca home, like there are elements of red porphyry in my home. So I feel like, you know, I can walk through my home and know, you know, every place that I saw and traveled to and it triggers a memory. And that's how you create and build in a motive living home, you know. 00:31:37 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's funny. I just went again, but we went with fifteen members of my family from age four to eighty five. It's a very different experience when you're cycling through with thousands of people, but you know, that's what we were doing. And this trip actually was quite special because it was basically thirty years to the day since we went as a family. 00:32:02 Speaker 2: Oh wow. Yeah, and so it was really special. 00:32:06 Speaker 1: And you know, my eldest brother passed away not long after that, you know, he got diagnosed with cancer and and well, and it was just interesting. I mean, I don't mean to go to to far into it, but one of the eldest boys is the same age. It was really meaningful for my parents. But it's actually kind of a it's a funny story. The littlest one who is you know, like the team mascot. Let's say her name is Joey. 00:32:30 Speaker 2: She's just a. 00:32:30 Speaker 1: Very chill, you know, little perfect thing that you know, you can throw around everywhere. And she marched around Rome and wherever we were. 00:32:40 Speaker 2: The entire time. 00:32:41 Speaker 1: But we went to the Vatican Museum and it was towards the end of the trip. You know, when you're four and this size, you're not seeing things. You're not that of course, that interested basically your eye line with everyone's asses. 00:32:53 Speaker 2: You know, yeah, you're just there. 00:32:55 Speaker 1: And this kid never complains about anything. She's kind of extraordinary. And as we walked into the Sistine Chapel, this little kid went boring, very boring. I was mortified, but I had never seen anything like it, and it just killed us. It cracked us up. And you know, they haven't traveled much at all. It was a very special gift from my parents to the whole family. 00:33:21 Speaker 3: And that trip to Umbria for my twenty five year wedding anniversary. My brother had never left the country and had always wanted to go to Italy, so it was just you know, myself, Victor and Jivonn and then my mom and my brother and my brother's wife. You know, having this like beautiful experience in Umbria and giving them that gift of travel was something that it was so important to like all be together in this like beautifully magical place and honor our marriage. I mean this is probably too intimate, but my brother struggled with addiction and he was unable to be at my wedding when I got married twenty five years ago. So to have him there for the renewal of the Vaalos and he's sober now was really really special. 00:34:11 Speaker 1: And we found a house which I don't know and you know, it wasn't It wasn't a palazzo, just to be clear. It's a little not little big house, but

not what you're thinking. It's not a castle on a hill. 00:34:25 Speaker 3: It's a house that had a chapel in the house from the thirteenth century. 00:34:30 Speaker 1: Yeah, and in this pale yellow and violet and that the photo of you, I have to say, is just you take a good photo, exp but this one is absolutely. 00:34:42 Speaker 3: It was so special and also it was just like you know, you think about your wedding. This wasn't my wedding, but like it was wedding part too. And you know, it's usually like somebody else is doing everything for you, and this was just us. You know. It was like me and my mom and my sister in law like running around like lighting candles, like it was just like the most like intimate and grand thing at the same time. Again, it was just it was just perfect. 00:35:09 Speaker 1: The last thing I want to talk about in Rome is palazza talia in this salah, this owl alamannamanya. You created this table, I mean your you know that's a signature. But just tell me a little bit about that table, because I am still blown away that how you did that. 00:35:26 Speaker 3: Thank you. Food and design. Where those two things intersect is around the table, and around the table is where I have found my passion, my community, just like you found your secret sauce and your like special talents, like you know you fused together with prior, like your love of travel and writing and curation. It really was around the table that gave me my love of noticing and realizing the importance of all of the elements coming together. It's not happenstance, It's not by accident. It has to be the right lighting, it has to be the right tones and the florals, and you have to draw inspiration in the way I do anyway, I have to draw inspiration from the culture itself. So it was like being and I didn't really exactly know what was going to happen on that table until I was in Rome and I saw the colors at the Vatican and that porfurydinkyo. I mean, you know, I went to the market and saw the ridicicio was kind of bursting, and the artichoke was, you know, in season, and the color of the red porphyry at the Vatican, and I drew inspiration from all the tones and colors and the markets and everything seasonally that was happening, and just built this beautifully undulating cornucopia of like flower and food and design. And it was just the fusion of Rome coming to life on the table. 00:36:51 Speaker 1: One thing I like to do when with Rome, you can you can travel through the basilicas the Church is the kind of Catholic lens. You can go the art Caravaggio, you can do ancient Rome. But I like to think as well, and sometimes I say, you can also do gelato, by the way, But I like to tell people to travel through Rome through vegetables, because you get the art chokes, you get the Puntarelli, which is kind of a bitter green, you know, all those bitter greens, the chicories, like, there is so much through that kind of Lazio, the region of Rome where you can really pull from. This

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My mom worked at American Airlines growing up, so we used to do these like buddy passes where we would like travel stand by. And Paris was the first place I ever traveled to in Europe with my mom at about twenty years old. And the reason we went there is because I was trying to model, and an agency in Paris like brought me there, and so my very first experience was getting off well, I went with my mom first and then I went back with this modeling experience, and I was so so young and so green to travel, and I remember like getting off of the plane and like having me go straight to this modeling agency and having them send me on all these castings and having to figure out the metro system with my luggage before I even like found my model apartment, which by the way, was like this teeny tiny apartment with a toilet which was a hole in the floor in the hallway. I didn't grow up fancy. 00:39:23 Speaker 1: But not the bathroom in the Tribeca apartment on the cover of a d currently. 00:39:29 Speaker 3: No, not at all. Yeah, it was just like this hole in the ground. But that was my very first experience with Paris, and kind of fast forward. We spent our ten year wedding anniversary in Paris and it was the first time I visited the Road Down Museum and really was kind of smitten by culture like Parisian like sculpture and culture and museum. It was really the first time when I lived there as a model, I didn't really go to a lot of the museums. I don't know why I didn't appreciate it back then, maybe, but more recently, when I bought this apartment in Tribeca and really became so immersed and inspired by the Decca movement, I really spent a lot of time in twenty twenty three and twenty twenty four just educating myself and visiting not only the museums, but also so many beautifully private homes, like we did a photoshoot for Benny Ruggs in the Augusta Peret Apartment. It was this most beautiful apartment building that he designed the entire facade and interiors, but this was his private apartment and it had these beautiful wood paneled clad walls, which is very similar to my apartment had this gorgeous deco kind of cove ceiling that was like glimmering and white, but also very industrialist in that you know, there were these beautiful columns that were poured concrete that were met with this gorgeous like metal brass trim. Like there was just this like coming together of so many beautiful design elements that again, I've drawn so many of the details from that experience in that apartment into my apartment, like including all of the doorknobs when I walked through the apartment building where center doorknobs at like very low center doorknobs, and you know, now in my home I have these beautiful center doorknobs, and I just think that, you know, I have really used Paris, and I actually brought an object today that i'd fart about that. Yeah, being at the Paris flea market has been such an education for me of you know, doing my own research before I've gone to Paris, but then also I started to better understand some of the greats in early twentieth century, like Paul dupre Lafon, and in a similar way that travel wasn't present like that design education wasn't really present. So when I dive into a new movement in design, I am just like lit up with curiosity and excitement and I start to read everything, I start to educate my eye. But then like being there and picking up these objects. But Jan de nund Is, he did beautiful lacquer work and metal work, and there's no way I can ever afford one of his vessels or vases. But in the Paris flee I found this vase which is kind of it's probably like some sort of replica, but it really represents like the Deco movement and craft. And this was one of these It's metal, okay, but yeah, it has this like beautiful patina and if you look at it, it has this like gorgeous hammering detail and has these geometric forms on it. And this was one of the very first objects that I ever bought for my apartment. But it just goes back to like everywhere I go, I'm finding something that lives on in my homes and is triggering memories of where I've been, and it speaks to my love of travel and design and self education. 00:42:59 Speaker 1: So it's through the kind of idea of travel. It's so it's so clear that you take you know, you research. You're a researcher, like for sure, I know that firsthand, but you're also really open to the unexpected. I'm like that way too. I've got Okay, this is what I'm after. Yeah, I'm finding other pieces, but also I'm responding to this in a way that I didn't think I would. 00:43:26 Speaker 3: Well, you have to be able to kind of pivot as well. We're talking about like that early twentieth century design and that Art Deco movement. When I started to study that period in design and also bought my apartment, I just got flooded with this. This apartment reminds me of Vienna. And I was like, huh, that's so strange. I've never been to Vienna. Why with this apartment remind me of it? Right? Right? You almost like have to listen

sometimes, of course. 00:43:50 Speaker 2: Yes. 00:43:51 Speaker 3: And that trip that I went to Paris. Oh, by the way, that trip to Paris, I went by myself. It wasn't a family trip, it wasn't with a friend. It was just me going and giving myself license to go explore and self educate. So I went to Paris, and then I went to Vienna, and I just went to understand the Viennese succession and understand craft. And one of the things that I had no idea I was going to be smitten by was like falling in love with leaded glass, which started in Vienna at the mac Museum and walking in and seeing this like beautiful grid like pattern with this like beautiful craftmanship and metalwork and hand blown glass, and I just became so smitten with it, not really realizing that I had elements of it in my apartment and I was planning on demolishing it. I didn't appreciate its beauty. So, like, I guess what I'm talking of is like sometimes there's like these hidden codes and things that you see that is triggering something within you, but you don't even realize it. And then I didn't know that like craft and materiality of the twentieth century is going to really be at the cornerstone of my design renovation. But it became that from these trips to Paris and Vienna. 00:45:07 Speaker 1: I gave you this book, which I guess is like, you know, one of the gospels of that era, findersec But do you want me to tell you why? Aside from the fact that we share a love of Vienna, and this was a little bit in research for the Capital One trip that we're doing together, which is like chapter two of our travel Friendship collaboration. Yes, but the reason I gave it to you without getting too cerebral or Viennese intellectual. You know, it's about like an exhaustion with the old world and an esthetic and an idea in friction with something modern that's coming, and an anxiety about being stuck in something else. And I just saw, you know. 00:45:50 Speaker 3: I had you already read it. 00:45:52 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had read it, but years and years ago, when I was doing a story for Vogue Living, I skimmed it, yeah, and then I read Yeah, it's dense, but I kind of I did do more on it when we were thinking about this particle trip, because everyone says the most famous kitchen in America basically from the previous house, you know, or the most pinterest da da da da, And I'm not. I didn't want to talk to you about that because it's an evolution. And what I thought about was like this idea that there's an exhaustion with the previous aesthetic they had, that there's an anxiety about moving into the new thing. And I know that this project that you've done was like a swing, a challenge, like the biggest thing in many ways, and you correct me if I'm wrong that you've you've done. You know it was a big challenge, and that's the thing of like moving to a new aesthetic and evolving. And I that's why I wanted to give you. 00:46:55 Speaker 3: That thank you. And I really appreciate you kind of seeing that at me and honoring or appreciating that, because yeah, I was a big divergence, Like most people would have never sold that townhouse, but I I needed. And it also speaks to what we started this conversation about this kind of this this drive, this need for newness and you know, evolution. And I'm always trying to not reinvent just for the sense of reinvention. I'm not doing it to shock other people. I'm doing it for me. I'm doing it because my curiosity always wants to change and evolve. And every time I get to design something, if I get to go on this journey of self discovery and self education, like I am filled with so much excitement. And you know that it is the research. I love doing the research. And I was not a good student. So like the fact that like I get off on like diving into and reading and educating and understanding at the core what the successionists were, why they were challenging the status quo. And you know, I thought it was really interesting that you are comparing me to that, and it it felt really special. 00:48:10 Speaker 1: Well I think that, Yeah, I completely believe it. And I think with this couple of one project as well, you know, it's going to be sharing your our view on it. And they're very They're very good to give us a big canvas in which to explore that, I should say, and backing in some experiences like doing an after hours thing to the mac Museum where you I hope I'm going to do a little reading of my next new. 00:48:40 Speaker 3: Book, Yeah, which is so it really is the unpacking of the creative mind of going on this journey of design for this particular apartment, and how travel helped inform and made its way through an entirely new lens. You know, I'll share so much about how the things that I saw in Vienna and the stones I saw in Rome and all the places that I've traveled, even you know, going last year, I went to Kyoto for the first time and you know, found this beautiful parchment and lacquer work that then informed a furniture collection that I'm designing. So it's really just about how both self education and this apartment and travel coalice to like push me to explore new ideas and new forms and new everything. 00:49:28 Speaker 1: Will you ever think of yourself? I want to as a teacher rather than a self educator. 00:49:34 Speaker 3: I do love I'm not a gatekeeper. I love sharing, I really and I think that it's because it took me a really long time to find myself. You know, it wasn't until my mid thirties that I really found career and like any type of success, and the success didn't even come until later. So I asked so many questions, Like curiosity is the gift that I would wish on everybody to just ask questions. If you don't understand something, always like probe and ask and go to other people who you admire and have them teach you. And I think I've learned so much from other people that I do have this. I always want to learn, but I always want to push it back out into the world and share, So there is

like a teaching thing. 00:50:21 Speaker 1: And I think about curiosity is that it keeps you vital. I read something recently that, you know, people say you've got to practice daily gratitude, which of course is great, or joy is the thing that will give you a long life. But actually there's some kind of study and I can't you know, I'm not going to reference it because I saw it in passing that said or is the thing that will keep you awaken alive in this world. And I thought, well, all is curiosity. I mean, that's it. That's the two things, and that childlike wonder or respect for the beauty and difference of the world is honestly for me, the thing ay that's interesting in my career, but also I think the thing that keeps me like alive, feeling everything that's so beautiful. 00:51:10 Speaker 3: You know, I've said so many times that like my greatest I've said this, but it comes off negatively, and I don't mean for it to come off negatively, but I've said so often that my greatest wound is my lack of formal education in design. But I actually think it's my greatest gift because it keeps me hungry, it keeps that awe. You know, if I already knew about the successionists in the art deco movement, like I wouldn't have thrown myself into this discovery with such awe you know. 00:51:38 Speaker 1: You know, and this sounds I often say as well Alice Water. So I used to work for you know, it was several months in, let's say, and she had the office Storager and I overheard her say in reference. I think to me, you know what, naivety is powerful when harnessed in the right way, and that's not a negative thing, No, that's a powerful thing. 00:52:02 Speaker 2: And I also think, like astrology. 00:52:04 Speaker 3: One of the gifts that you got to overhear that. 00:52:06 Speaker 2: I agree. 00:52:07 Speaker 1: Actually I took it as a wound that point. I was like, well, I'm not naive if I've just lived in Italy and you know, Australia is not the end of the world. It's the fourteenth biggest economy and you know I partied in Sydney. But actually it's not about like your experience. I mean, it is about your experiences as well, but it's also about your attitude to life because it's also curiosity and if you lose that, I think it's losing a powerful gift. 00:52:31 Speaker 2: So I'm aligned with you. 00:52:33 Speaker 1: A little bit because everyone would like to know of course, a few of Athena's first reactions things that she loves. 00:52:43 Speaker 2: Of course, don't wanted to ask you. 00:52:48 Speaker 1: Like a little bit, let's say a lightning round. What's the place that you would always return I. 00:52:53 Speaker 3: Will always return to Italy, any place in Italy, I don't care where. 00:52:57 Speaker 2: Where's the place that you would never go back? 00:52:59 Speaker 3: I really didn't understand Rio when I went, but it just might have been that I wasn't with the right people. 00:53:04 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Where do you feel most at home in the world? 00:53:07 Speaker 3: I feel most at home Innibifa. 00:53:11 Speaker 2: Where's a hotel you could live in? Favorite hotel? Oh? 00:53:14 Speaker 3: Goodness, my favorite hotell. I love the soccer hotel in Vienna. It's so different than like my life, right yeah, well. 00:53:27 Speaker 1: I mean it's different from most people's lives. A restaurant or taste that you wish you could experience again. 00:53:33 Speaker 3: I didn't grow up eating fish. Sorry, I know it. This was supposed to be a lightning round, but being in Greece for the first time and having like a whole fish just with exceptional olive oil and lemon to me like on a Greek island. Great museum, the mac museum and shop or market I will go back to the Roman vegetable market anytime day. 00:53:59 Speaker 1: Where would you spend ideally, complete fantasy, drop everything a part of the realities of your life, A weekend, a week, a month. 00:54:08 Speaker 3: A year, a weekend. The first thing that came to mind was going back to Vermont. Since my dad passed, I haven't been back, so I'd love to go to Vermont for the weekend. I want to go back to where we used to fish week I have never been to Iceland, and I recently found out how close it is, so yes, for sure. 00:54:30 Speaker 2: Months. 00:54:31 Speaker 3: I want to go alone to India by myself. 00:54:35 Speaker 2: I got you. 00:54:37 Speaker 3: And a year. Well, I will go for multiple years living in the countryside in Italy. I want to learn how to speak Italian, so that's only going to happen if I spend a year there. 00:54:46 Speaker 1: Well, come and visit me in the line. Great, what are you traveling through right now? 00:54:51 Speaker 3: I am traveling through growth and expansion and figuring out what that looks like of retaining my purity and authenticity and humility and also wanting to grow and scale all with grace. 00:55:10 Speaker 2: Amazing, Athena, this has been wonderful. 00:55:14 Speaker 3: Such a great conversation. Thank you, friend,