ABOUT THIS EPISODE
Clinical Psychologist Molly Millwood joins Mallory in the MILK Studio to discuss her new book "To Have and To Hold: Motherhood, Marriage and the Modern Dilemma."
When Molly first became a mother, she was fully prepared for what she would gain: an adorable baby, hard won mothering skills, and a chaotic, beautiful life. But what she was not prepared for – and what she did not expect – was what she would lose: aspects of her identity, a baseline level of happiness, a general sense of well-being. And though she had the benefit of a supportive partner during this transition, she also envied and at times resented the fact that the disruption to his life seemed to pale in comparison.
As a psychologist, Molly knew her experience was a normal response to a life-changing event. But without the benefit of such a perspective, many of the patients she treated in her private practice grappled with guilt, self doubt, and fear, and suffered the dual pain of not only the struggle to adjust but also the overwhelming shame for struggling at all.
In her book, Molly surveys the complex terrain of new motherhood, exploring the ways it affects women psychologically, emotionally, physically and professionally, as well as how it impacts their partnerships.
Molly Millwood holds a Ph.D in clinical psychology with advanced specialized training in marital therapy and intimate relationships. She is a licensed psychologist in private practice, where she is particularly known for her work with couples and with women navigating the transition to parenthood. Molly lives in Vermont with her husband and two children. Find her at www.mollymillwood.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://anchor.fm/milk-podcast-getting-in-there-with-moms-id-like-to-know/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor