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Welcome to RAD Red. It's Michelle and Ashley McPherson, and
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we are going Jersey today.
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Oh, yeah.
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You're fit for the attire.
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I mean, you know me. I know how to dress
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for a vibe now that we have closet curations curating
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our looks.
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That's right. They are here, and they are delivering. I mean,
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I love this necklace and this whole vibe. They've been
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really doing a good job lately.
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You look so good.
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And they got us all Jersey ready for our girl,
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Tracy DeMarco, who's here. And she is here. She was
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one of the breakout stars from Jerseylicious, now a businesswoman.
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A mom of three, a single mom of three, killing it,
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crushing it in the game of social media. You got
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to check her out. She is here on Red. Thank
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you so much for joining us.
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Thank you guys for having me.
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Okay, guys, before today's episode, I want to talk to
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you about something that Ashley and I care a lot about,
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mental health.
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That's right. Taking care of your mental health is just
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as important as taking care of your physical health. And
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Mental Health America of Dutchess County is the perfect place
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for that help.
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Absolutely. Mental Health America of Dutchess County is super empowering
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and helps so many people with so many problems.
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Honestly, it's pretty amazing seeing how mental health actually affects people.
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I mean, the guests that we've had on the show,
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we've talked about mental health in almost every episode. And
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It's a serious topic.
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Now's the time to prioritize your mental well-being. If you're
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suffering from anxiety, depression, or anything mental health related, visit
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Mental Health America, Dutchess County at mhadutchess.org.
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I just love Pixie Beauties. I'm... Oh, geez, Ash. Seriously?
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Are you kidding?
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Have you seen how my skin has been glowing lately?
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I'm stopping. I mean, seriously, Pixi Beauty products are for
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every day and they are the best. I love the
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Glow Tonic. It's become a staple in my skincare.
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I love that product.
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I use it every day before I do my skincare.
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And honestly, it's like brightens my face, I want to say.
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Yeah. I mean, a guest commented today on how beautiful
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you looked. and that you were dewy and glowy, and
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it's all because of Pixi.
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Honestly, Pixi products just know how to make you feel
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beautiful in your own skin.
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My favorite is the Pixi On The Glow Blush. It
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is so much fun. You can just stick it right on,
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take it out. It's just one of my favorites. It's
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so much fun, and it looks so good on.
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Honestly, it gives you like a nice sun-kissed glow. I
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absolutely love it, and it's going to be great for summer.
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If you guys want to glow this summer just like us,
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visit www.pixibeauty.com.
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This set is beautiful, first of all. It's so beautiful
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in here, yeah.
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It's so cool.
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It's such a vibe, yeah.
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Thank you.
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I love it.
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Tony from Phoenix Studios created this and Surprise me with
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it one day.
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It's really, really cool. I love it.
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You did a good job.
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Yeah, it's the energy. It's like I feel like I'm
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at like a lounge or something.
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Let's go. I just want to be in a lounge
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with you because you're so fun. Actually, we met at
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a lounge. What was the name of the place again? Batagra. Batagra.
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I loved it. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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It's my favorite.
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And I met you and I was like, who is
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this woman? I love her. And then I was like,
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I know who she is. Yeah. But it was so,
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so great meeting you that day. Yeah.
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We had a great time.
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We did. And we're going to do it again. Yes. Immediately.
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I need to go somewhere on Thursday night.
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Gabriella's.
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Gabriella's. All right. What goes on down there?
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It's so much fun. I feel like Jersey is so
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underrated because we never get like the, we're like the
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armpit of America. We have the most fun on a
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Thursday night, throwing napkins in the air at a casual
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dinner with your friends. It's just like, a normal for
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us and everyone else is like, this is not like
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a normal place. I'm like, no, this is like, this
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is why I can't move anywhere else. Where else are
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they doing this?
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Never. And I'll tell you, it's not even that. There's
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always shit that goes down too.
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Yeah, it's so much fun. It's so juicy.
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And then the pictures you take. My favorite thing about
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Tracy is her warming butter under her booty. Tracy, where
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did you come up with this?
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So my kids love buttered bread when we go out
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to a restaurant. And I was always like, oh, when
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I was little, I used to just like sit on it.
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It'll melt. And then people thought like that was the
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craziest concept. So we were out one night and I
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was showing my friend Kristen and she was like, wait,
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I'm dead. And I'm like, two seconds.
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Look, it's melted. Now it spreads.
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And they were like, you're out of your mind.
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I was like, yeah. But you do it. It works.
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It's like a life hack.
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It is a life hack.
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That is smart. I hate cold butter.
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I hate it.
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It's always too cold to spread. It's like my pet peeve.
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Why do they do that in restaurants? I don't know.
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I mean, it's not easy to warm, I guess.
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No, but like the thighs.
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Yeah, the thighs, baby.
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Yeah, God's plan. You know, girl.
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So talk to me. I want to start with Jerseylicious.
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And I know you were, you know, it really wasn't you.
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You know, you were played to be this villain that
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isn't you. You are a girl's girl. Like I love you.
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The minute I met you, I loved you.
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Thank you.
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And it's so not who you were portrayed to be
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on TV. Can you just talk to me about the
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process and what went on?
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So in the beginning, when we were filming, we filmed
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like a bunch of pilots, obviously. And then they had
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to see like group chemistry. And that was the first
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time I was meeting Olivia. I just met Gigi. Everyone
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was kind of getting introduced to each other. And they
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were like, we really want to have like a really
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juicy storyline. I was like, this sounds so much fun.
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Like we can easily do this. We're all from Jersey.
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Like somehow we know each other. she's like I think
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you actually know Olivia's ex-boyfriend Lorenzo and I was like
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oh my god yeah I know him he's like a
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good friend of mine they were like well we want
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you to date him for the show and then Olivia
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get mad at you and then bubble but that's why
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you fight and I'm like yeah that's fine like we
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could easily pretend like we're cool enough that we could
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easily pretend to date and so we pretended everyone knew
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it was fake um and then it like spiraled into
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this like Tracy stole Olivia's boyfriend and I was like
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wait I didn't sign up for that like that's I
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was told that I was like fake dating the ex.
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Like I thought this was like a movie almost.
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You said a soap opera, right?
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So they pitched it to me that it was going
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to be a soap opera. Yeah. A documentary soap opera.
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Like filming like what it's like for Jersey kids. And
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I was like, cool. But like then you play it
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as a reality show and that's not what it is.
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That is right. I was young. I was 20 years old.
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I didn't really know any better. My parents warned me.
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They were like, this is not going to be good.
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And I was like, you guys don't know anything.
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It's going to be so much fun. And then it wasn't.
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You want to get out there.
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I had just got out of beauty school, so they
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poached me from my job that I was actually working at.
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to work at the Gatsby, which I've never fully worked at.
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Never gotten a paycheck from them. Anthony Roberts, I never
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got a paycheck from them. I never worked for them ever.
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I worked for the show that pretended I worked for them.
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So they were like, how did Tracy get away with
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all this stuff and not get fired? I'm like, well,
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because I don't really work there. And you guys are
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all naive to think that I actually work there. I've
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never worked there ever. And you can ask the staff
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that still works at both those places.
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That is crazy. So- You said some of it was real,
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some of it wasn't. And it's hard for like viewers
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to see what's real, what's not, because they take an
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hour long, you know.
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Like the Sonic fight.
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Right, exactly.
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So like when I'm arguing with somebody for an hour
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over stuff that the producers are feeding us, and then
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she says something that makes me come out of my
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face when she could have just taken it a different route.
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We could have just fake argued for the episode.
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Right.
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Then I really react and I act out. And then
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whatever happens is then becomes reality.
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Right.
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But that fight was an hour long and they cut
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it to what, two minutes, three minutes, not even. So it's, um,
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it was all very manipulated. Um, me finding out that
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Gigi said that I was never her friend. That was real.
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I was blindsided as hell, but like, Also, like, I
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don't know what they told her to build up to that. Like,
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everything was just, like, placed. We were supposed to be
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at a certain place, fight at a certain time.
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Right.
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They wouldn't let us leave the set if we didn't
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get the fight right. We'd do scenes over and over
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and over and over.
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Yeah.
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Like, they'd be like, you weren't mean enough. You weren't
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loud enough. You weren't nasty enough. Like, you need to
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come at her harder. You need to yell at Gail.
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And I'm like, I don't yell at Gail. And they're like,
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just do it and then we can go home. And
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I'm like, whatever, do you care? And she's like, I
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don't care. I'm like, let's just fucking do this and
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be done. And then it like got to you. And
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then all of a sudden they played it out. Like
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Tracy was like this and Tracy was like that. Anybody
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who's ever met me would be like, Tracy is the
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girl's girl of the world until you turn on me.
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And then I'm different. But like, until you do, I'm
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like a really good,
I'm very nice. I'm welcoming. Like,
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and then whatever. I'm like, this is just how it's
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going to be. And I have to get over it.
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No, I will never forget. I met you and you're like,
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you know, Take a picture. And, like, you took pictures
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of our friends. Meanwhile, you're the star.
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You know, I was like, oh, my God, you guys
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look so cute. I'm going to get a picture of you.
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I'm like, I love her.
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Like, who does that?
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My manager said that, too. She was like, the first
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time I went out with you, like, I was like, oh,
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let me get a picture of you. And I took one.
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And you're like, that's fine.
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That'll do.
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She's like, you didn't even look at it. And then
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you took pictures of me, like, for 10 minutes. And
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then I was like, well, I want to make sure
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you really like it.
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I know.
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Like, I don't want you to take a picture and
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be like, oh, it sucked. I asked her for more.
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So I'll just take them until you like them.
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No, and you're so sweet. Like, just kind and fun
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and loving and, like, so not what the show portrayed
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you as. And like you said, everyone has a breaking point.
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Yeah, like, no, I will snap for sure. But, like,
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it takes a lot to get me there because I
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know that I go from zero to prison. So, like,
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I have to, like, keep it cool until, like, you
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get me to that point.
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But.
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Um, like everybody has admitted at this point that the
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show was fake, all cast members, except for one.
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So like, where do you stand with everybody now?
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Um, I had a little argument with them the other
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day because, um, somebody like came at my son and
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I tagged the people who have never came out and
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said that I wasn't the, I wasn't a villain that
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I never bullied Olivia. Like I've like, you guys have
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never said that. And it fucks with me. Cause this
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show was 17 years ago, almost like came out in 2010.
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It's 2027, 17 years. And you guys don't speak out
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and say the truth about it. Like it is grimy
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to me. It's giving like, you are so worried about
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like pretending that you're on someone's side for the viewer attention,
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that you won't come out and say the truth, which
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I don't like. So I called them all out.
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Good.
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I don't care.
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I don't really give a shit if they like me
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or not. Couldn't care less. They all had a group dinner.
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Yeah.
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But they were like, come bring, all the OGs will
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have a group dinner. And I was like, I'm not
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fucking going to that. You guys all talk shit about
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each other.
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Exactly.
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I'm not going to that.
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And that's why you're real.
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And I won't because I will not sit there and
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pretend we all like each other when you guys have
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all said horrible things about each other and nobody comes
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forward with it.
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It's bullshit. Yeah, no.
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So I really don't care. And if I have to
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call everybody out, I will. It's... I'll do it all day.
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I got nine to three. My kids are in school.
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I got the time. Let's go, baby. I love it.
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So talk to me now about your kids because you're
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a single mom of three. Yeah. You're a partner in
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a boutique and you do so much, you know, with
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your podcast and so much more. We're going to get
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into all of the juicy details, but I want to
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know what it's like to be a mom and be
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under the microscope because your son- is handicapped, right? He
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has a specific disease where he is hard of hearing. Yes.
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And- Legally blind.
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Legally blind, right?
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And lives with vertigo.
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Correct.
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And that alone, vertigo alone- Oh no, it's crazy.
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Will drive someone mad.
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And the kid's an angel. He tolerates it and he's
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playing football now. I didn't even think he'd be able
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to run straight because he does wobble when he walks sometimes.
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And I'm like, I'm a little nervous, but like he
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wears a certain helmet. So the other team knows like
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be gentle on him just for like safety purposes. But
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I don't tell him any of this because I'm like,
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I don't ever want you to feel like you're being
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specially treated, even though sometimes a little bit you are.
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He's such a sweetheart.
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Let me tell you this kid. I've never held the
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door for myself. He always opens my doors. He even
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like I taught him that like men walk on the
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outside of the street. So when we're walking, I'm like,
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You can't cause you're eight. But when you're older, thank
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you for knowing that. Like I'm going to walk on
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the outsides for now, but with your sisters, you can.
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I'm like, but little things. He always asks, mommy, can
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I pay? I'm like, yeah. So I'm like trying to
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raise him cause you know, his father's not in the picture.
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So I'm doing the mother thing. I'm the mother, the father,
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the sister, whatever I need to be.
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And you're so high energy and so beautiful and you
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still make time to be a boss, babe.
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I like, I don't want to like, slip into like
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this role that like moms don't take care of themselves
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I hate that about moms because then it's like the
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consensus that everybody has to like kind of walk around
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in sweatpants with their hair tied like if you just
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take 10 minutes lipstick and mascara goes a long way
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it does and you'll feel better you'll feel better I
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saw this video on TikTok it's like eight minutes to
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take care of yourself, eight minutes not taking care of yourself.
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It's the
same thing.
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It's this, you have the time somewhere. So take eight
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minutes less of like vacuuming under the couch. Do that
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later at the end of the day when you have
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time to like wind down and make yourself look nice
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to leave the house. It totally changed your day.
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Absolutely. And so being a mom of three, how do
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you balance it all? How do you balance the scrutiny
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online and Because you are still, 17 years later, under
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a microscope, people talking shit about your kid. I'm sorry.
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That's disgusting. It is, yeah. And when I saw the
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comment and you clapped back, I was like, yes, girl.
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This is what we need.
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So it's rare that I clap back because I'm like-
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You never do. I usually just block.
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Right.
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And I'm just, I laugh it off. I have really
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thick skin. It doesn't bother me.
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Yeah.
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You could make fun of me all day. I'm good
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with that. When my child enters the picture, I will snap.
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A handicapped child.
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And then Jules especially, who is disabled.
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Yeah.
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I'm like, I don't, I won't tolerate it. And they're like, oh,
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you did this for views and posts. I'm like, no, no,
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I did this so you could get views and posts.
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Because if you're going to be a piece of shit,
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everyone's going to know about it. It's not about my view.
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I get the views and posts ridiculous. You're on it, sweetie.
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Believe me, you don't need it for.
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The views and posts.
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I don't like that you think you were going to
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say something shady and then get away with it. Because
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everyone's really, really tough behind a computer.
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Right.
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And the thing is, like, I'll track your IP address. Yep.
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We could do this all day. I could come to
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your house or I could just expose you and then
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move on.
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Right.
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So let me know.
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Exactly.
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Because I'm not scared. It's fine.
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We could do this.
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I don't like play about my kids ever.
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No. And you know, and I love that about you
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because a lot of people misunderstand, you know, listen, being
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public and having a persona online doesn't make you less
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of a person, a personality. It makes you hard. Like
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you said, thicker skin. It makes you, you know, understand
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like the world is ugly, but you... take it and
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you always do it so funny. Like it's almost like
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you're a comedian online.
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I try to like make lighthearted. I'm always making fun
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of myself. Yeah, always. There's never a day where I
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don't like, joke about my own self. Like, there's nothing
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you could say about me that I haven't already said.
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Yeah, exactly.
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Like, I'm always making fun of it. I'm like, oh,
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I'm the realest girl you'll ever meet. I'm like, tits fake,
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lips fake.
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But, like, I'm the realest.
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Like, if I can't make fun of me, like, who
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else is going to? So, I feel like I get
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in front of it, but there's always somebody who, like,
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catches me at the wrong time. I'm also a mom
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raising three kids alone.
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Yeah, it's a lot.
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So, like, if you, if I'm having a rough day
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and I happen to see a comment, you're, no one's safe.
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Exactly.
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You know what I mean? Like, if you catch me
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on a chill day, maybe you are.
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Yep.
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Not all the time.
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But I love that you're truly a content creator. Like,
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your content is good. And I don't know how you
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do it all, but, like, you come in here, you
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got the tripod, you're ready to roll. And, you know, like,
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I expect that of my 20-year-old niece here. Yeah. But
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you got your shit together, girl.
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Yeah, my kids make fun of me. They're like, you
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never leave the house without the tripod and the light.
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And I'm like, you know why? Because one day when
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I'm not here, you're going to be really thankful that
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I have video footage of you from the day you
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wake up to the moment you go to sleep. You're
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going to be like, wow, my mom documented everything.
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That's right.
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And it's for me because when I'm older, I want
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to remember it. But it's also for them. That's why
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I had them so close in age. The oldest was
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three when the youngest was born.
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That's crazy, girl.
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So yeah, she was 18 months when her little sister
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was born. And then she was 18 months when her
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brother was born. So I'm like, I want you guys
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to just experience like... and remember things. Cause I look back,
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I'm like, I really don't remember them being babies. Cause
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I was juggling three at once. So I'm like, thank
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God I look back. I have all this video.
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Are they all three in diapers? Yeah. Get out of here.
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Yeah.
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That is insane.
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That is like, I've never heard of three and zero. Like,
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that's crazy.
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It was, um, Skylar was, That's like a normal gap.
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No, no, no. Four-year gap.
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Four-year gap is for sure normal.
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Who's Luca?
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Luca Luciano.
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17 to 20, 20. No, 15 to 20, 20. So
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five and a half. Yeah.
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But that's like a normal age gap. My friend just
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had a baby and her son is six. That's normal.
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It is.
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Three under three, my friends are like, I feel like
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all you do is post-natal. That you're getting pregnant.
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I don't know.
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Apparently we don't leave the house. We don't have cable.
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It was a great three years.
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It
was rough. But like now they're all like sharing
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friends and like doing stuff together. They were all in
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the same school together. I'm like, that's like kind of
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something that I couldn't, I couldn't imagine for myself.
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Was your son, is your son like the just golden
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child of the whole sitch or what?
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No, Skylar is the golden child because she's easy.
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She's easy.
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The other two give me a run for my money.
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So I would say like the three of them are
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all my different personalities.
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Yeah.
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Skylar is me when I don't really know you yet.
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I'm very reserved. Like I'm not like open and lovey
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right away, but like, you know, I'm sweet.
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I'm not rude.
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I'm just like, Not whatever. Yeah. Jaden's who I am
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once we're cool.
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Yeah.
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She is the most fun kid I've ever met. I
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could bring her anywhere and she's a good time. And
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then Jules is like the lover.
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Yeah.
493
00:17:31.660 --> 00:17:34.240
He's like the gentleman and the sweet. And like, that's
494
00:17:34.279 --> 00:17:36.680
how I am with people. Like I'll give anything for
495
00:17:36.700 --> 00:17:38.420
my friends and family, but like he's that.
496
00:17:39.079 --> 00:17:40.740
I mean, I just have to go back. You know,
497
00:17:41.000 --> 00:17:42.920
being a mom of three is hard. I don't know
498
00:17:42.960 --> 00:17:44.940
how you do it alone. Like single moms.
499
00:17:45.000 --> 00:17:46.440
I get through the day and I'm like, wow, we
500
00:17:46.460 --> 00:17:49.700
did it. Every day. Like every day at the end
501
00:17:49.720 --> 00:17:50.819
of the day, I'm like, holy shit, we did it.
502
00:17:51.259 --> 00:17:54.240
I just really don't like, my sister's a single mom.
503
00:17:54.279 --> 00:17:56.859
Your mom is a single mom. And I always looked
504
00:17:56.880 --> 00:17:58.579
at her and I was like, I don't get it.
505
00:17:58.900 --> 00:18:01.779
How do you work nine, 10 hours a day? Come home,
506
00:18:02.079 --> 00:18:03.900
be with the kids, do everything and do it again.
507
00:18:03.940 --> 00:18:05.839
Like I have my husband, I have help and I'm
508
00:18:05.859 --> 00:18:08.779
so grateful. I don't understand. Like you just say I'm
509
00:18:08.839 --> 00:18:10.819
a single mom and it's just a phrase you take.
510
00:18:10.880 --> 00:18:12.640
I feel like we like diminish it as single moms.
511
00:18:12.660 --> 00:18:14.640
We're like, oh, I'm just a single mom. And a
512
00:18:14.680 --> 00:18:17.079
lot of people will say stay at home mom. I'm
513
00:18:17.140 --> 00:18:19.079
a stay at home working mom. So I may be
514
00:18:19.140 --> 00:18:21.700
home and available for my kids, but I'm always on
515
00:18:21.720 --> 00:18:24.089
my phone working. Like all of my jobs that I
516
00:18:24.140 --> 00:18:26.890
have are from my phone. Thankfully I got really, really
517
00:18:26.930 --> 00:18:28.789
lucky and not having to have like an office nine
518
00:18:28.809 --> 00:18:30.809
to five. And I can, if I want, because the
519
00:18:30.829 --> 00:18:33.190
kids are in school from nine to three. So I
520
00:18:33.210 --> 00:18:34.910
can work that out if I needed to. But like,
521
00:18:35.730 --> 00:18:37.829
Being home and at their beck and call. You know
522
00:18:37.849 --> 00:18:39.190
how many times the school calls me a week?
523
00:18:39.369 --> 00:18:39.549
Yeah.
524
00:18:39.789 --> 00:18:41.710
Hey, can you drop off? This one left her homework.
525
00:18:41.730 --> 00:18:45.170
This one ripped their pants. This one fell in mud.
526
00:18:45.210 --> 00:18:47.410
I'm like, I'm running to that school. We're besties.
527
00:18:49.470 --> 00:18:49.849
Besties.
528
00:18:49.890 --> 00:18:51.369
I'm there all the time. They're like, yeah, I know.
529
00:18:51.410 --> 00:18:51.769
Which one?
530
00:18:51.890 --> 00:18:54.490
I'm like, yeah, one of them. One of the DeMarco
531
00:18:54.529 --> 00:18:56.130
kids did something and I'm here for it.
532
00:18:56.809 --> 00:18:57.160
Oh, my God.
533
00:18:57.210 --> 00:18:58.150
Yeah, it's constant.
534
00:18:58.390 --> 00:18:58.849
It's a lot.
535
00:18:58.890 --> 00:18:59.710
But I really love it.
536
00:18:59.710 --> 00:19:00.769
But you do so good. And you do love it.
537
00:19:00.789 --> 00:19:02.750
And you can tell. And you're still glowing. Yeah, thank you. Like,
538
00:19:02.769 --> 00:19:04.980
how do you look this good and you're a single mom?
539
00:19:04.990 --> 00:19:05.230
I know.
540
00:19:05.269 --> 00:19:07.029
She's just, like, at a podcast and she's going to
541
00:19:07.049 --> 00:19:07.809
go to school pickup.
542
00:19:07.890 --> 00:19:09.960
Yeah, this is how I'll go to school pickup. It's
543
00:19:10.000 --> 00:19:11.880
so crazy. And they'll be like, oh, here she comes.
544
00:19:12.680 --> 00:19:13.880
Here's that Tracy mom again.
545
00:19:13.920 --> 00:19:15.940
I'm like, yeah. So tell me about your pod. How'd
546
00:19:15.960 --> 00:19:17.259
you get started? Tell me everything.
547
00:19:17.640 --> 00:19:21.460
So the podcast actually just came to me. She was
548
00:19:21.579 --> 00:19:24.690
on the show as an extra the first or second
549
00:19:24.750 --> 00:19:27.130
episode or something. And when we met, I was like,
550
00:19:27.190 --> 00:19:28.789
I love her. I love her. I love her. We
551
00:19:28.809 -->
00:19:30.269
should have her on again. She's cool. So they were like,
552
00:19:30.670 --> 00:19:32.130
let's bring her on as an extra. And then they
553
00:19:32.170 --> 00:19:34.339
were like, let's put her on the new show when
554
00:19:34.359 --> 00:19:37.440
Glam Fairy came out. So I was like, I love
555
00:19:37.460 --> 00:19:39.700
this girl. She's a Scorpio like me, so we just
556
00:19:39.740 --> 00:19:42.319
kind of get it. We're not needy, but at the
557
00:19:42.319 --> 00:19:45.009
same time, we're very needy of each other. I can't explain.
558
00:19:45.009 --> 00:19:46.990
yeah like only people who really get that get that
559
00:19:47.150 --> 00:19:51.079
um but um she was like let's do a podcast
560
00:19:51.119 --> 00:19:52.240
together and i was like what the fuck is a
561
00:19:52.240 --> 00:19:54.579
podcast it hadn't come out yet it was like when
562
00:19:54.660 --> 00:19:57.160
we were all still listening to the radio yeah and
563
00:19:57.200 --> 00:20:00.059
i was like she's like oh um what's that guy
564
00:20:00.319 --> 00:20:03.380
um everyone loves him from private parts she's obsessed with
565
00:20:03.400 --> 00:20:06.460
howard howard stern she's like howard stern He has one
566
00:20:06.500 --> 00:20:08.099
and it's so good. We could totally do this. And
567
00:20:08.119 --> 00:20:10.180
she's obsessed with him. So I was like, okay, I've
568
00:20:10.220 --> 00:20:11.819
never really listened to it before. And then I did.
569
00:20:11.839 --> 00:20:14.069
And I was like, this is wild, Jess. She was like,
570
00:20:14.170 --> 00:20:17.190
we could do this. So started it. And I was like, okay,
571
00:20:17.210 --> 00:20:20.230
we've been doing it for eight years now, seven years.
572
00:20:20.569 --> 00:20:20.890
Yeah.
573
00:20:21.029 --> 00:20:24.640
And it's crazy. And it's just like a very... like
574
00:20:24.880 --> 00:20:27.880
girls podcasts. You have to like not listen to it
575
00:20:27.940 --> 00:20:30.930
on blast when you're pulling up and getting gas type podcast.
576
00:20:30.950 --> 00:20:32.210
You don't want people to hear.
577
00:20:32.369 --> 00:20:33.549
Not at school drop off.
578
00:20:34.869 --> 00:20:37.809
No, not at school. They'll be like, you need to
579
00:20:37.829 --> 00:20:40.609
stay 50 feet from now on. Like you cannot blast this.
580
00:20:41.029 --> 00:20:44.670
It's very like risque. Um, just girl talk.
581
00:20:44.799 --> 00:20:46.680
I love it. And that's what we want. Yeah.
582
00:20:46.779 --> 00:20:47.839
I feel like we have to get to like the
583
00:20:47.900 --> 00:20:51.240
nitty gritty. If women like continue to like make themselves
584
00:20:51.259 --> 00:20:54.680
like 1950s housewives no we're never gonna evolve like with
585
00:20:54.759 --> 00:20:58.359
our own sexuality and our own like confidence to be
586
00:20:58.400 --> 00:21:00.420
how we are i'm like i think women saying that
587
00:21:00.440 --> 00:21:02.240
i love sex that's and no she's a whore and
588
00:21:02.259 --> 00:21:04.579
i'm like fucking everyone needs sex to survive.
589
00:21:04.339 --> 00:21:06.019
Right 100 okay so.
590
00:21:05.920 --> 00:21:07.599
Like why can't women talk about it with each other
591
00:21:07.619 --> 00:21:09.579
like we should be able to be like oh my
592
00:21:09.599 --> 00:21:11.299
god you'll never believe what happened and call our girlfriends
593
00:21:11.339 --> 00:21:13.380
and no one some people don't have girlfriends to call
594
00:21:13.480 --> 00:21:15.279
right And I'm like, wow, I hate that for you
595
00:21:15.299 --> 00:21:16.940
because my girls, I can tell them anything.
596
00:21:17.039 --> 00:21:17.519
Exactly.
597
00:21:17.839 --> 00:21:19.420
And that's kind of what we bring to the podcast.
598
00:21:19.480 --> 00:21:22.289
It's just a little bit spicy. I love it.
599
00:21:22.329 --> 00:21:22.930
That's so fun.
600
00:21:22.970 --> 00:21:25.630
And I do think like anything goes nowadays. I do
601
00:21:25.650 --> 00:21:27.769
think it needs, it's still like a glass ceiling in
602
00:21:27.809 --> 00:21:30.650
some ways, right? Yeah. for sure. But I love that
603
00:21:30.670 --> 00:21:32.950
you go there and I think it's important. Like you said,
604
00:21:32.990 --> 00:21:34.549
like we need to be able to talk about shit.
605
00:21:34.690 --> 00:21:34.890
Oh yeah.
606
00:21:34.950 --> 00:21:36.450
I feel like there's not a lot of podcasts where
607
00:21:36.470 --> 00:21:38.390
people are actually like pushing the line where.
608
00:21:38.279 --> 00:21:40.579
They're like, okay. I feel like while her daddy was
609
00:21:40.599 --> 00:21:43.220
the last year to do it and then she like
610
00:21:43.279 --> 00:21:45.359
took a turn and I'm like, I kind of missed
611
00:21:45.440 --> 00:21:46.880
the spice that she had.
612
00:21:46.980 --> 00:21:47.900
There's nothing like that.
613
00:21:47.920 --> 00:21:50.009
There's nothing like that. And I'm like, we're kind of
614
00:21:50.069 --> 00:21:53.329
like stuck filling that void now. And now that she's
615
00:21:53.369 --> 00:21:56.089
all like professional and interviewing like celebrities and like, it's
616
00:21:56.150 --> 00:21:58.369
not like the same energy, even though it's a great podcast.
617
00:21:58.450 --> 00:22:01.549
It's just like, not what I remember it being. So like,
618
00:22:01.589 --> 00:22:04.099
we have to like, you know, take that as ours now.
619
00:22:04.579 --> 00:22:07.720
We've always been that, but like it wasn't really acknowledged then.
620
00:22:08.140 --> 00:22:11.559
Absolutely. It's crazy. It's absolutely crazy. So I have a question.
621
00:22:12.250 --> 00:22:14.170
I just want to know, if they did a reunion
622
00:22:14.490 --> 00:22:15.849
for Jerseylicious, would you go back?
623
00:22:16.150 --> 00:22:18.589
They've asked me to do this already. And I said
624
00:22:18.609 --> 00:22:20.509
I wouldn't. And they said, without you, we can't do it.
625
00:22:20.589 --> 00:22:22.769
And I said, well, I
didn't get the support from
626
00:22:22.809 --> 00:22:24.970
my cast members when I needed it. So why would
627
00:22:25.029 --> 00:22:28.440
I give them the platform now when they want it back?
628
00:22:28.759 --> 00:22:29.000
Right.
629
00:22:29.819 --> 00:22:31.400
And I'm not being a spiteful bitch, but I'm a
630
00:22:31.420 --> 00:22:33.619
little bit of a spiteful bitch. Because if you guys
631
00:22:33.660 --> 00:22:36.160
don't come to my defense, why should I give you?
632
00:22:36.380 --> 00:22:39.279
I'm one of the only ones that... still like are
633
00:22:39.299 --> 00:22:42.279
really active on social you're popping you know so i'm
634
00:22:42.319 --> 00:22:44.299
like i know that the reason that they're coming and
635
00:22:44.420 --> 00:22:47.920
asking is because of like relevance still and you know
636
00:22:47.960 --> 00:22:50.740
it's like back on freaking hulu and it's all over
637
00:22:50.779 --> 00:22:54.160
tiktok again and i'm like i wish we would let
638
00:22:54.220 --> 00:22:56.559
it die i really do i'm like i feel like
639
00:22:56.579 --> 00:22:58.500
maybe we move past it but it's like one of
640
00:22:58.559 --> 00:23:00.380
those shows that are just it's never gonna go away
641
00:23:00.460 --> 00:23:03.390
i think It isn't. It's iconic. And like you're young
642
00:23:03.410 --> 00:23:04.759
and I don't know if you've ever seen it, but
643
00:23:04.779 --> 00:23:05.539
like you have.
644
00:23:05.559 --> 00:23:05.839
Okay.
645
00:23:06.279 --> 00:23:10.660
I feel like your mom watched it. But now like
646
00:23:10.940 --> 00:23:13.319
the moms are talking with their kids and they're like,
647
00:23:13.539 --> 00:23:15.259
oh my God, I loved that show. They don't remember.
648
00:23:15.279 --> 00:23:16.940
And then they're rewatching it and then they talk about
649
00:23:16.960 --> 00:23:19.740
it on TikTok and that's how it's like reborn again.
650
00:23:19.759 --> 00:23:22.299
And I'm like, it's really weird to me because this
651
00:23:22.359 --> 00:23:26.579
new generation like doesn't like know how we were back then.
652
00:23:26.619 --> 00:23:29.920
Like we were obnoxiously dressed. The makeup was awful. The
653
00:23:29.960 --> 00:23:32.819
hair was awful. The outfits, the jewelry. I mean, that's just,
654
00:23:33.259 --> 00:23:35.059
that was the style. And like, I feel like you
655
00:23:35.079 --> 00:23:37.180
guys are like, wow, you're so embarrassed. But like we
656
00:23:37.200 --> 00:23:37.920
were and we know it.
657
00:23:37.920 --> 00:23:39.589
It was entertaining though. Like I feel like now it's
658
00:23:39.609 --> 00:23:41.250
like you have to try so hard to like find
659
00:23:41.289 --> 00:23:42.769
like a show that you really like.
660
00:23:42.849 --> 00:23:43.109
Yeah.
661
00:23:43.269 --> 00:23:44.880
And now, I mean, the shows that have been out,
662
00:23:44.910 --> 00:23:46.890
it's like, well, there's seasons. I could sit here for
663
00:23:46.910 --> 00:23:48.410
days watching this.
664
00:23:48.450 --> 00:23:48.609
Yeah.
665
00:23:48.670 --> 00:23:49.970
It's so long. It went on forever.
666
00:23:50.009 --> 00:23:51.609
Jersey had such a great moment.
667
00:23:51.730 --> 00:23:53.170
We did. We had a great run.
668
00:23:53.359 --> 00:23:55.319
Between the Housewives, the Jersey Lishes.
669
00:23:55.339 --> 00:24:00.220
Housewives, the Jersey Shore, even Jersey Couture for a while.
670
00:24:01.460 --> 00:24:04.089
There was maybe one other one. Oh, and then all
671
00:24:04.109 --> 00:24:04.730
the True Lifes.
672
00:24:05.009 --> 00:24:05.230
Yeah.
673
00:24:05.490 --> 00:24:06.470
They were the originals.
674
00:24:06.650 --> 00:24:06.890
That's true.
675
00:24:06.910 --> 00:24:08.049
They were the originals of the.
676
00:24:08.150 --> 00:24:10.329
How do you feel about all the other... I know
677
00:24:10.369 --> 00:24:13.089
you're friends with all the Jersey people in reality TV.
678
00:24:13.190 --> 00:24:17.640
I'm cool with the Housewives. I'm not as close... we don't,
679
00:24:17.680 --> 00:24:19.960
I don't have a relationship like that with Jersey Shore.
680
00:24:19.980 --> 00:24:20.880
Okay.
681
00:24:20.900 --> 00:24:25.700
I definitely don't like one for sure. And we, everyone
682
00:24:25.740 --> 00:24:30.900
knows that. But we, we just like, we've never like
683
00:24:30.970 --> 00:24:31.809
crossed paths.
684
00:24:31.869 --> 00:24:32.589
It's weird.
685
00:24:33.170 --> 00:24:35.750
I don't know. I don't really know the reasoning. Like
686
00:24:35.809 --> 00:24:37.930
I have no problem with the cast. I think, I
687
00:24:37.990 --> 00:24:40.490
love that they're still going. For me, I could never
688
00:24:40.549 --> 00:24:43.230
do it because I'm like, I feel like the style
689
00:24:43.259 --> 00:24:45.700
that I just talked about that expired is still running
690
00:24:45.720 --> 00:24:46.079
with them.
691
00:24:46.160 --> 00:24:46.619
I agree.
692
00:24:46.960 --> 00:24:50.279
So it's wild to me, but like... I mean, whatever works.
693
00:24:50.319 --> 00:24:52.240
I'm happy everyone's still going. I'm happy they made money
694
00:24:52.299 --> 00:24:54.480
off of it. Because when you look back and you're like,
695
00:24:54.500 --> 00:24:56.500
we were so embarrassing, at least you guys are profiting.
696
00:24:56.619 --> 00:24:57.299
Exactly.
697
00:24:57.480 --> 00:25:00.869
And more than anything, I'm happy for Mike and his recovery.
698
00:25:00.880 --> 00:25:01.180
Me too.
699
00:25:01.509 --> 00:25:03.900
And the beautiful life he's gotten now. I think out
700
00:25:03.920 --> 00:25:05.849
of everybody, he's turned it around the most.
701
00:25:05.950 --> 00:25:08.509
I'm really happy for him too. Because there were moments
702
00:25:08.569 --> 00:25:10.009
in that show, I'm like, this guy is.
703
00:25:10.029 --> 00:25:11.089
You know I never watched it?
704
00:25:11.230 --> 00:25:12.349
You never did? No.
705
00:25:12.450 --> 00:25:16.400
So we watched two episodes
together. in the beginning when
706
00:25:16.440 --> 00:25:18.619
it first aired because our show was airing like at
707
00:25:18.640 --> 00:25:20.759
the same time. So our, our cast would like kind
708
00:25:20.799 --> 00:25:22.380
of watch it and talk about it. I think we
709
00:25:22.420 --> 00:25:23.920
watched two shows and I was like, Oh, this is
710
00:25:23.960 --> 00:25:26.079
not really what I was expecting. And then I don't know.
711
00:25:26.160 --> 00:25:28.009
I just could never get into it. Growing up at
712
00:25:28.029 --> 00:25:30.710
the Jersey shore. I was just like, yes, it's like this,
713
00:25:30.769 --> 00:25:34.670
but like, it's almost like so exaggerated that it's like
714
00:25:34.750 --> 00:25:37.029
a wild. So I never like got into it. And like,
715
00:25:37.069 --> 00:25:38.849
I love that everyone like really loves it, but I
716
00:25:38.869 --> 00:25:40.049
just like never fully.
717
00:25:40.670 --> 00:25:42.670
I didn't like it. The first few episodes when Snooki
718
00:25:42.690 --> 00:25:44.880
got punched in the face. That's when I bought in.
719
00:25:44.880 --> 00:25:45.839
Oh, that was your moment?
720
00:25:46.039 --> 00:25:47.259
I was pissed.
721
00:25:47.660 --> 00:25:49.960
I was like, how does a guy do this and
722
00:25:50.000 --> 00:25:51.440
get away with it? And you know, we got arrested
723
00:25:51.460 --> 00:25:54.259
and everything. But I mean, that's when they bonded. You
724
00:25:54.279 --> 00:25:57.410
could literally see everyone kind of like feeling uncomfortable. Like,
725
00:25:57.450 --> 00:25:59.690
why the hell are we doing this? To like, yo,
726
00:25:59.910 --> 00:26:02.490
Snooki's our girl. We need to go after this dude.
727
00:26:02.509 --> 00:26:05.369
So like, I just felt like, you know, that moment
728
00:26:05.789 --> 00:26:07.930
I bought in. I was like, no, we have to
729
00:26:07.950 --> 00:26:08.650
fight this guy.
730
00:26:08.690 --> 00:26:12.140
I've seen all those clips. I've seen online. So like,
731
00:26:12.180 --> 00:26:15.259
it's not like I haven't, I don't know parts of it,
732
00:26:15.269 --> 00:26:17.710
but it's because I've seen it on socials. I never
733
00:26:17.750 --> 00:26:20.289
sat down and watched episodes. And I'm like, did I
734
00:26:20.329 --> 00:26:21.269
miss something?
735
00:26:21.329 --> 00:26:23.549
I don't know. It was a big part of the
736
00:26:23.609 --> 00:26:27.680
Italian-American culture. I mean, I've watched all of them. I
737
00:26:27.720 --> 00:26:32.019
grew up with you guys, Jersey Housewives, everybody. Because I've
738
00:26:32.059 --> 00:26:33.400
always loved pop culture. Yeah.
739
00:26:33.539 --> 00:26:35.539
No, it's so fun. Sopranos were my favorite.
740
00:26:35.579 --> 00:26:38.559
Sopranos was my favorite. My favorite. That was the only
741
00:26:38.599 --> 00:26:40.819
show I ever watched when it came out at that
742
00:26:40.859 --> 00:26:41.599
time every Sunday.
743
00:26:41.619 --> 00:26:43.369
My friend in high school, she used to have Sunday
744
00:26:43.400 --> 00:26:45.529
parties and we'd all go down there and watch it
745
00:26:45.569 --> 00:26:47.150
in her basement. And I was like, I can't believe
746
00:26:47.450 --> 00:26:50.589
everyone's parents are cool with us watching this. And we
747
00:26:50.609 --> 00:26:52.190
all just sat there and watched it every week. It
748
00:26:52.230 --> 00:26:52.769
was insane.
749
00:26:52.970 --> 00:26:53.940
It was awesome. I loved it.
750
00:26:53.970 --> 00:26:55.470
But it was a time to be alive for sure.
751
00:26:55.490 --> 00:26:58.990
It was a time to be alive. Yeah. You know, James,
752
00:26:59.029 --> 00:27:02.140
God rest his soul, what an amazing, amazing, the whole
753
00:27:02.180 --> 00:27:03.119
cast was iconic.
754
00:27:03.299 --> 00:27:04.779
No, it was perfectly casted.
755
00:27:04.880 --> 00:27:05.220
It was.
756
00:27:05.259 --> 00:27:07.089
Whoever did that, absolute genius.
757
00:27:07.230 --> 00:27:10.150
Absolute genius. But, you know, for all of your shows,
758
00:27:10.349 --> 00:27:13.390
everybody had a great, They did a good job, despite
759
00:27:13.430 --> 00:27:16.230
what it did to you guys personally. Yeah. Truly. Because
760
00:27:16.430 --> 00:27:18.410
everyone I talk to that's been on this has had
761
00:27:18.450 --> 00:27:20.759
a rough ride. There is not a person I've sat
762
00:27:20.799 --> 00:27:23.460
down here that has said, oh, it was joyous to
763
00:27:23.500 --> 00:27:24.400
do this. No one.
764
00:27:24.599 --> 00:27:24.740
No.
765
00:27:24.920 --> 00:27:25.559
Paid or not.
766
00:27:26.039 --> 00:27:28.680
It's been controversial. I have trauma. And people will be like,
767
00:27:28.759 --> 00:27:30.619
I met you on the episode where we were on
768
00:27:30.660 --> 00:27:32.809
a yacht. And I was like, I don't fucking ever
769
00:27:32.869 --> 00:27:35.769
remember being on a yacht. Are you kidding? And they're like, yeah,
770
00:27:35.789 --> 00:27:37.609
here's a picture of us. And I was like, I
771
00:27:37.650 --> 00:27:41.650
have no recollection of even owning that outfit. Yeah. The
772
00:27:41.690 --> 00:27:47.259
trauma response of, like, the whole show, I've blocked it out. I've, like,
773
00:27:47.299 --> 00:27:49.539
totally evolved past it. And that's why, for me, I'm, like,
774
00:27:49.759 --> 00:27:51.549
weirdly talking about it bugs me out.
775
00:27:51.809 --> 00:27:52.049
Yeah.
776
00:27:52.069 --> 00:27:53.750
Because I think it's, like, a fever dream. Like, it
777
00:27:53.789 --> 00:27:57.779
didn't really exist to me. And then somehow... you know,
778
00:27:58.019 --> 00:27:59.319
here we are still talking about it.
779
00:27:59.339 --> 00:28:01.059
To be honest with you, it didn't exist the way
780
00:28:01.099 --> 00:28:01.740
that it happened.
781
00:28:01.880 --> 00:28:02.420
No, it didn't.
782
00:28:02.529 --> 00:28:02.789
Right.
783
00:28:02.869 --> 00:28:05.289
And so in my mind, like I remember waiting.
784
00:28:05.349 --> 00:28:05.930
That's a good point.
785
00:28:05.950 --> 00:28:08.710
Yeah, that is an excellent point. I remember waiting sometimes
786
00:28:08.710 --> 00:28:12.690
12 hours for certain cast members to decide that they
787
00:28:12.730 --> 00:28:15.119
wanted to show up and we would be hair and
788
00:28:15.140 --> 00:28:17.859
makeup ready, sitting in a holding space, the size of
789
00:28:17.900 --> 00:28:20.680
a bathroom waiting for them until they decided like, Oh,
790
00:28:20.720 --> 00:28:22.289
it's time for me to wake up from last night.
791
00:28:22.349 --> 00:28:25.130
And I'm like, The sheer disrespect, the amount of time
792
00:28:25.170 --> 00:28:27.390
that I lost just waiting for cast members to show
793
00:28:27.470 --> 00:28:29.450
up was out of control.
794
00:28:29.470 --> 00:28:32.049
How was that even allowed? You can't really fire them.
795
00:28:32.069 --> 00:28:34.109
So in the beginning, no, in the beginning they would
796
00:28:34.130 --> 00:28:36.849
be like, hey, it's been pushed back. And I'm like,
797
00:28:36.869 --> 00:28:39.190
just tell us who it is. And it was the
798
00:28:39.210 --> 00:28:42.230
same person every time. And I was just like, okay,
799
00:28:42.250 --> 00:28:44.130
from now on I'm not driving myself and I'm not
800
00:28:44.170 --> 00:28:46.789
coming camera ready. When you come pick me up, then
801
00:28:46.829 --> 00:28:48.690
I will start getting camera ready when I arrive to
802
00:28:48.730 --> 00:28:50.309
set because I'm not going to get camera ready and
803
00:28:50.329 --> 00:28:52.210
then redo it all again when they decide to come
804
00:28:52.269 --> 00:28:52.930
six hours later.
805
00:28:53.230 --> 00:28:54.230
That's so frustrating.
806
00:28:54.329 --> 00:28:55.670
I was like, I'm done. I'm not doing it. And
807
00:28:55.690 --> 00:28:56.990
then at one point I was like, I'm not even
808
00:28:57.009 --> 00:28:59.130
driving myself anywhere anymore. Now you guys could come get
809
00:28:59.170 --> 00:29:02.599
me because I'm not fucking stressing myself out. I'm a
810
00:29:02.740 --> 00:29:05.319
big on time person today. I was here 30 minutes early.
811
00:29:05.339 --> 00:29:06.119
Thank you.
812
00:29:06.180 --> 00:29:08.759
No, always. I'm big on time. That is one thing
813
00:29:08.799 --> 00:29:10.579
from the show is real. I always said like being
814
00:29:10.720 --> 00:29:13.170
late pisses me off. So I was like, for me,
815
00:29:13.230 --> 00:29:14.809
it's very important for me to be on time for
816
00:29:14.849 --> 00:29:17.349
people that I want to show respect for.
817
00:29:18.289 --> 00:29:19.799
So, yeah.
818
00:29:20.319 --> 00:29:22.259
That's pretty much what it ended up being. It was like,
819
00:29:22.400 --> 00:29:24.420
I was so disgusted and that's why I was like,
820
00:29:24.920 --> 00:29:27.519
half my life was wasted waiting around.
821
00:29:27.579 --> 00:29:28.940
Six hours? That's absurd.
822
00:29:29.099 --> 00:29:32.109
They would have up to 12 sometimes. Sometimes days would
823
00:29:32.119 --> 00:29:33.869
be like, oh, the day's canceled because she just didn't
824
00:29:33.890 --> 00:29:34.180
show up.
825
00:29:34.220 --> 00:29:37.279
It's absurd more than once that's literally.
826
00:29:36.630 --> 00:29:38.809
It was this entire six seasons that's.
827
00:29:38.710 --> 00:29:41.430
The entire how did she not get fired then is
828
00:29:42.150 --> 00:29:46.029
there a personality they need or that's so annoying.
829
00:29:46.059 --> 00:29:48.299
It's none of my business but that was where my
830
00:29:48.380 --> 00:29:51.599
patience and the tolerance like ended because i just i
831
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can't it's so.
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Yes, I love games.
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Let's go, girls. Okay. All right.
879
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Y2K is having a big comeback right now. The fashion,
880
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the beauty trends, the music. I mean, I feel like
881
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even reality TV from that era, what we talked about,
882
00:32:22.910 --> 00:32:24.869
I feel like the things that you grew up watching
883
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are now coming back. So, Tracy, since you actually lived
884
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through one of the most iconic eras of reality TV,
885
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we're going to put it to the test today.
886
00:32:32.609 --> 00:32:35.950
Okay. Oh, my God. Now I'm nervous. Don't be nervous, girl.
887
00:32:36.289 --> 00:32:38.359
We're basically... And B, you're going to be a part
888
00:32:38.380 --> 00:32:39.960
of this too. I'm going to give you guys some
889
00:32:40.019 --> 00:32:42.359
very Y2K trends and you have to tell us if
890
00:32:42.400 --> 00:32:43.819
you want to bring it back or you want to
891
00:32:43.839 --> 00:32:44.420
leave it in the 2000s.
892
00:32:44.559 --> 00:32:44.799
Okay.
893
00:32:44.859 --> 00:32:46.420
This is easy. I love that.
894
00:32:46.519 --> 00:32:47.059
Okay.
895
00:32:48.180 --> 00:32:52.309
Okay. Okay. Sorry, I got to get to the first page.
896
00:32:52.349 --> 00:32:53.170
Gabby wrote me a note.
897
00:32:53.750 --> 00:32:53.950
All right.
898
00:32:53.970 --> 00:32:54.990
First, we're going fashion.
899
00:32:55.009 --> 00:32:55.170
Okay.
900
00:32:55.869 --> 00:32:57.509
Juicy Couture Velour Track Suit.
901
00:32:57.750 --> 00:32:58.289
Bring it back.
902
00:32:58.349 --> 00:33:00.630
Yeah, girl. Oh, my God. That was such an era.
903
00:33:01.150 --> 00:33:02.930
That was when we were cute and not with, like,
904
00:33:02.950 --> 00:33:05.130
love handles. We could pull off low-rise.
905
00:33:05.250 --> 00:33:07.490
Low-rise. I told them high-rise didn't exist.
906
00:33:07.529 --> 00:33:08.710
No, we didn't even know what that was.
907
00:33:08.730 --> 00:33:10.940
Yeah, no. It was, like, in the 80s.
908
00:33:11.150 --> 00:33:11.470
Oh, yeah.
909
00:33:11.559 --> 00:33:12.500
High-rise was not a thing.
910
00:33:12.519 --> 00:33:14.279
And then it left and never came back. Then we
911
00:33:14.299 --> 00:33:16.619
were low-rise. We were fighting for our lives to sit down.
912
00:33:16.759 --> 00:33:18.460
Yeah. I didn't even know we were fighting. No. We
913
00:33:18.480 --> 00:33:19.039
just did good.
914
00:33:19.200 --> 00:33:20.940
We just, we rode it out. Yeah, but you know what?
915
00:33:20.960 --> 00:33:22.079
We are survivors. Right.
916
00:33:22.099 --> 00:33:24.980
Right. Can we survive the Juicy Tracks?
917
00:33:25.259 --> 00:33:26.970
Can we bring back the.
918
00:33:26.880 --> 00:33:29.490
Juicy Tracks to take pictures of our butts together?
919
00:33:29.670 --> 00:33:32.789
They're at Marshall's. They're at Ten Spot. They're at Rainbow.
920
00:33:32.809 --> 00:33:34.150
Because I take my girls shopping there.
921
00:33:34.170 --> 00:33:34.880
I'm mailing you one.
922
00:33:34.890 --> 00:33:36.430
They're literally, we got to take photos.
923
00:33:36.470 --> 00:33:36.980
We have to.
924
00:33:37.029 --> 00:33:38.390
That's so funny.
925
00:33:38.470 --> 00:33:39.119
It's so good.
926
00:33:39.779 --> 00:33:42.180
Wait, I love that. Oh, well, speaking of low-rise jeans.
927
00:33:42.680 --> 00:33:43.359
Oh, God.
928
00:33:43.579 --> 00:33:45.400
I don't want them to come back just because I'm
929
00:33:45.480 --> 00:33:48.210
no longer in shape to wear them like that. I
930
00:33:48.269 --> 00:33:48.690
can't do it.
931
00:33:48.990 --> 00:33:50.210
I personally don't like low-rise.
932
00:33:50.250 --> 00:33:51.009
You don't like them either?
933
00:33:51.029 --> 00:33:52.650
Okay. She's perfect. Okay, no.
934
00:33:52.710 --> 00:33:54.740
Yeah, that's, no. You know what? If you don't like it,
935
00:33:54.769 --> 00:33:55.529
then we don't.
936
00:33:55.549 --> 00:33:56.259
We support your choices.
937
00:33:56.279 --> 00:33:58.140
My best friend, like, she can wear low-rise jeans. We
938
00:33:58.160 --> 00:33:59.920
talked about this a few episodes ago. Like, she's the
939
00:34:00.059 --> 00:34:02.349
only person that I'm like, okay, like, I like low
940
00:34:02.369 --> 00:34:04.650
rise jeans on you, but like I could never wear
941
00:34:04.690 --> 00:34:05.049
them like that.
942
00:34:05.069 --> 00:34:07.230
Can I just say something? Low rise jeans looked good
943
00:34:07.269 --> 00:34:08.719
on everyone back in the day. Did they not?
944
00:34:08.730 --> 00:34:10.530
It was our only option. It was our only option.
945
00:34:10.730 --> 00:34:12.610
I have like no blow if I'm wearing them.
946
00:34:12.849 --> 00:34:14.489
I'm big on low rise sweatpants.
947
00:34:14.639 --> 00:34:15.219
Me too.
948
00:34:15.320 --> 00:34:15.780
Okay.
949
00:34:15.989 --> 00:34:18.539
Like a low rise sweat, I'm in all day. And
950
00:34:18.579 --> 00:34:19.820
I wear them oversized.
951
00:34:19.940 --> 00:34:20.260
Yes.
952
00:34:20.280 --> 00:34:22.519
Like I always buy an XL sweatpants because I want
953
00:34:22.559 --> 00:34:24.019
them to be hangy and baggy and oversized.
954
00:34:24.039 --> 00:34:25.599
I want to be drowning in my sweatpants. No, I do.
955
00:34:25.699 --> 00:34:26.840
And then super tiny tops.
956
00:34:26.920 --> 00:34:27.559
Yep. Yes.
957
00:34:27.599 --> 00:34:28.300
That's the vibe always.
958
00:34:28.320 --> 00:34:28.539
All right.
959
00:34:28.940 --> 00:34:31.039
Oh my god literally don't I say that all the
960
00:34:31.059 --> 00:34:33.639
time like a big sweat pant and a small.
961
00:34:33.400 --> 00:34:36.880
Top yeah she like double layers hers oh yeah.
962
00:34:36.400 --> 00:34:38.300
Like I'll do like I'll have like my skim set
963
00:34:38.360 --> 00:34:41.880
underneath like the like the boy shorts.
964
00:34:41.239 --> 00:34:44.239
That's actually very 2000s of you is it that was
965
00:34:44.280 --> 00:34:47.019
like yeah TLC TLC did that yeah I.
966
00:34:47.019 --> 00:34:48.800
Love it I mean I feel like I did it
967
00:34:48.820 --> 00:34:50.219
for the gym and now I'm just like it's just
968
00:34:50.239 --> 00:34:52.570
so comfortable having like it's a vibe that under you
969
00:34:52.590 --> 00:34:52.949
know we gotta do.
970
00:34:52.929 --> 00:34:55.829
Like a comparison photo.
971
00:34:54.809 --> 00:34:59.280
Yes okay I like that alright bedazzling everything no That's
972
00:34:59.320 --> 00:34:59.840
got to go.
973
00:35:00.039 --> 00:35:02.039
I see you two do that. Gabby and Ashley do
974
00:35:02.059 --> 00:35:05.159
that all the time. And I'm like, I can't bedazzle this. Like, listen.
975
00:35:05.199 --> 00:35:07.300
No, because you know why? If we're bedazzling it, the
976
00:35:07.320 --> 00:35:08.760
men are going to think that they can again.
977
00:35:08.780 --> 00:35:09.909
That's right.
978
00:35:10.150 --> 00:35:11.889
And I'm already, they don't go to work.
979
00:35:11.929 --> 00:35:12.510
What were they bedazzling?
980
00:35:12.530 --> 00:35:13.130
You know what I mean?
981
00:35:13.539 --> 00:35:17.079
They were bedazzling shirts, jeans. You wear Christian Artigier shirts
982
00:35:17.139 --> 00:35:21.090
and Ed Hardy shirts and the hats. Every man had
983
00:35:21.190 --> 00:35:22.070
bedazzled everything.
984
00:35:22.110 --> 00:35:23.019
I couldn't take it.
985
00:35:23.130 --> 00:35:24.469
Actually, that is true.
986
00:35:24.489 --> 00:35:25.730
Ed Hardy's moment was real.
987
00:35:26.429 --> 00:35:28.150
Let me tell you, I loved every minute of it,
988
00:35:28.590 --> 00:35:29.309
but no longer.
989
00:35:29.329 --> 00:35:32.130
I feel like every guy was so hot.
990
00:35:32.409 --> 00:35:34.750
I keep seeing men in bedazzled jeans now, and I'm like,
991
00:35:34.769 --> 00:35:36.030
where is this happening?
992
00:35:36.090 --> 00:35:37.250
That needs to be burned.
993
00:35:37.269 --> 00:35:37.710
Burn it down.
994
00:35:37.769 --> 00:35:39.800
Yeah, that needs to go away. I mean, listen, I'm
995
00:35:39.820 --> 00:35:41.880
just trying to cut down on my screen time, but
996
00:35:41.920 --> 00:35:44.539
like I understand, like I don't really want the guys
997
00:35:44.599 --> 00:35:45.800
out bedazzling either.
998
00:35:46.480 --> 00:35:46.760
All right.
999
00:35:46.940 --> 00:35:47.960
Uggs with a mini skirt.
1000
00:35:48.639 --> 00:35:49.119
Bring it back.
1001
00:35:49.570 --> 00:35:50.539
Really? Oh, I loved it.
1002
00:35:50.650 --> 00:35:53.130
And I'd wear like the high socks with it too.
1003
00:35:53.489 --> 00:35:55.590
Like the shorter the skirt and the higher the Uggs
1004
00:35:55.670 --> 00:35:56.050
it was in.
1005
00:35:56.269 --> 00:35:58.090
I like that then. I don't love it now.
1006
00:35:58.150 --> 00:35:59.710
I would bring it. I don't know if I could
1007
00:35:59.730 --> 00:36:02.610
pull it off anymore, but I did love it at
1008
00:36:02.630 --> 00:36:05.449
the time. It was like my go-to high school outfit.
1009
00:36:05.469 --> 00:36:06.369
Yeah. Yeah.
1010
00:36:06.590 --> 00:36:08.030
I feel like you guys could do it. I'm trying
1011
00:36:08.070 --> 00:36:09.869
to imagine.
1012
00:36:10.190 --> 00:36:10.789
I'm 39 in a month.
1013
00:36:10.989 --> 00:36:12.510
Okay. I'm 42. Yeah.
1014
00:36:12.550 --> 00:36:13.269
Well, about the same.
1015
00:36:13.289 --> 00:36:15.800
Yeah, about the same. I imagine like Lily wearing it.
1016
00:36:15.800 --> 00:36:16.320
No, that would be cute.
1017
00:36:16.340 --> 00:36:17.110
Like Lily's her daughter.
1018
00:36:17.139 --> 00:36:17.900
Yeah, I could see Lily in that.
1019
00:36:17.920 --> 00:36:18.599
Like her wearing that.
1020
00:36:18.639 --> 00:36:19.659
Yeah. That would be so freaking cute.
1021
00:36:19.679 --> 00:36:21.539
When my daughters get ready, I'm like, oh, this would
1022
00:36:21.559 --> 00:36:22.840
be so cute with little Uggs.
1023
00:36:22.860 --> 00:36:24.280
And they're like, ew. Right.
1024
00:36:24.320 -->
00:36:25.840
And I'm like, you guys. Everything's cute or mini.
1025
00:36:25.860 --> 00:36:26.079
Yeah.
1026
00:36:26.139 --> 00:36:29.500
I'm like, you guys don't appreciate me. All right.
1027
00:36:29.559 --> 00:36:30.380
Oversized sunglasses.
1028
00:36:30.400 --> 00:36:31.679
Yes. Bring it back.
1029
00:36:32.059 --> 00:36:32.800
I loved them.
1030
00:36:33.119 --> 00:36:33.820
Me too. I loved them.
1031
00:36:34.019 --> 00:36:35.699
Like the MySpace ones.
1032
00:36:35.800 --> 00:36:36.260
Yes.
1033
00:36:36.539 --> 00:36:39.719
That were like the Dior ones that looked like we
1034
00:36:39.760 --> 00:36:40.739
were invading this earth.
1035
00:36:40.800 --> 00:36:42.000
Like the Pauly D ones.
1036
00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:45.460
Paris Hilton pulled them off. Yeah. She was the icon.
1037
00:36:45.619 --> 00:36:47.679
Do you know the ones that were like all glass
1038
00:36:47.760 --> 00:36:48.820
framed to the end?
1039
00:36:48.980 --> 00:36:50.199
Yes. Yes. Like those with.
1040
00:36:50.119 --> 00:36:52.239
The logo on the side. I loved those.
1041
00:36:52.260 --> 00:36:54.630
I love those too. I still have them. Do you really?
1042
00:36:54.730 --> 00:36:54.840
I do.
1043
00:36:54.909 --> 00:36:57.110
I'm the worst with sunglasses. I lose sunglasses that I
1044
00:36:57.150 --> 00:36:57.760
bought an hour ago.
1045
00:36:57.789 --> 00:36:59.110
Me too. I'm so bad.
1046
00:36:59.130 --> 00:37:00.150
That's why I won't buy designer.
1047
00:37:00.210 --> 00:37:01.710
I went on a boat ride a few months ago.
1048
00:37:01.730 --> 00:37:03.190
I lost two glasses in one hour.
1049
00:37:03.349 --> 00:37:03.550
Right.
1050
00:37:03.750 --> 00:37:04.750
Why are we like this?
1051
00:37:05.090 --> 00:37:07.409
I literally don't get it. One, I was laughing too
1052
00:37:07.429 --> 00:37:08.989
hard and my head went back and the glasses were
1053
00:37:09.010 --> 00:37:10.630
just gone. It's like, that's what I get for having
1054
00:37:10.670 --> 00:37:11.210
a good time.
1055
00:37:11.269 --> 00:37:12.070
Yeah.
1056
00:37:12.090 --> 00:37:13.070
God forbid a girl laughs.
1057
00:37:13.489 --> 00:37:14.010
Literally.
1058
00:37:14.030 --> 00:37:17.199
All right. Now we're going into beauty. Super skinny eyebrows.
1059
00:37:17.260 --> 00:37:17.409
No.
1060
00:37:18.239 --> 00:37:18.429
Jail.
1061
00:37:19.550 --> 00:37:19.920
I hated it.
1062
00:37:19.920 --> 00:37:22.139
I hated it too, but mine are still skinny.
1063
00:37:22.219 --> 00:37:24.340
No, mine are skinny because of the trauma that we
1064
00:37:24.360 --> 00:37:26.739
survived of plucking them. I have to fill mine.
1065
00:37:26.920 --> 00:37:27.300
Me too.
1066
00:37:27.340 --> 00:37:29.960
Your guys' eyebrows look good, but like I've seen like
1067
00:37:30.199 --> 00:37:32.510
the thin where it's like, oh my God, what is that?
1068
00:37:32.530 --> 00:37:34.769
My friend ripped hers off so many times. She has
1069
00:37:34.809 --> 00:37:37.150
like a little like tattoo and it looks like a tattoo.
1070
00:37:37.170 --> 00:37:38.730
Wait, what do you mean she ripped them off?
1071
00:37:38.789 --> 00:37:41.780
We used to wax them, pluck them, thread them.
1072
00:37:41.800 --> 00:37:42.280
Oh my God.
1073
00:37:42.300 --> 00:37:43.119
It was really bad.
1074
00:37:43.840 --> 00:37:45.699
It's crazy like how different it changes. Then it went
1075
00:37:45.719 --> 00:37:48.420
to like lamination where it's like, let's get these eyebrows.
1076
00:37:48.119 --> 00:37:51.000
As high as they can get. It was a dramatic.
1077
00:37:51.059 --> 00:37:51.940
I know they're really beautiful.
1078
00:37:51.980 --> 00:37:54.309
Thank you. It's pristine brows and beauty. I tell my.
1079
00:37:54.179 --> 00:37:56.590
Girls all the time, if you ever go and do
1080
00:37:56.670 --> 00:37:58.909
anything about your eyebrows without me, I'll be very angry
1081
00:37:58.969 --> 00:38:01.090
at you. Because once you ruin them, there's no coming back.
1082
00:38:01.130 --> 00:38:01.489
It's true.
1083
00:38:01.570 --> 00:38:03.349
And my kid has beautiful eyebrows.
1084
00:38:03.369 --> 00:38:04.269
Well, all of them. It's so true.
1085
00:38:04.289 --> 00:38:04.590
Oh my God.
1086
00:38:04.690 --> 00:38:06.710
I had like eyebrow trauma the past five years. Like
1087
00:38:06.769 --> 00:38:08.409
I didn't get my eyebrows done or anything because I
1088
00:38:08.429 --> 00:38:09.900
was like, I'm scared I'm going to go there. They're
1089
00:38:09.920 --> 00:38:11.550
going to rip them all off. So I would just
1090
00:38:11.630 --> 00:38:13.909
pluck them myself. But I like over pluck to the
1091
00:38:13.949 --> 00:38:16.280
point where I'm like, it wasn't plucking where it was
1092
00:38:16.300 --> 00:38:18.559
like thin. It was just like there'd be patches missing.
1093
00:38:19.139 --> 00:38:20.980
And I was like, I was like, why am I
1094
00:38:21.039 --> 00:38:23.039
plucking my eyebrows when they're filled in? Like I should
1095
00:38:23.059 --> 00:38:26.480
be doing it like when my makeup's off. So yeah,
1096
00:38:26.599 --> 00:38:29.500
I think they should be out too. No super skinny eyebrows.
1097
00:38:29.519 --> 00:38:31.139
Don't bring that back. All right.
1098
00:38:31.199 --> 00:38:32.219
Heavy black eyeliner.
1099
00:38:32.239 --> 00:38:35.300
I miss the smoky eye, but like, I don't know.
1100
00:38:35.739 --> 00:38:37.480
It would make me look so much older now. I
1101
00:38:37.500 --> 00:38:38.929
like don't even wear eyeshadow now.
1102
00:38:38.969 --> 00:38:41.110
Yeah. A lot of people don't wear eyeshadow anymore. I
1103
00:38:41.150 --> 00:38:42.489
got to stop. I do.
1104
00:38:42.510 --> 00:38:43.590
Just the lashes.
1105
00:38:43.679 --> 00:38:45.559
Yeah. Yeah. The bronzer.
1106
00:38:45.639 --> 00:38:47.000
Or a little highlight in the corner.
1107
00:38:47.099 --> 00:38:47.440
Yeah.
1108
00:38:47.559 --> 00:38:47.780
Yeah.
1109
00:38:47.800 --> 00:38:48.590
That's pretty. Yeah.
1110
00:38:49.389 --> 00:38:49.690
Okay.
1111
00:38:49.909 --> 00:38:50.489
Spray tans.
1112
00:38:51.159 --> 00:38:51.590
I'll die.
1113
00:38:51.610 --> 00:38:53.010
Are you kidding me? In a spray tan or a
1114
00:38:53.010 --> 00:38:53.309
tanning bed.
1115
00:38:53.329 --> 00:38:54.250
Me too. Oh, yeah.
1116
00:38:54.510 --> 00:38:56.110
That's how you can bury me right in a spray
1117
00:38:56.130 --> 00:38:56.510
tan bed.
1118
00:38:56.630 --> 00:38:59.110
No, literally, you better spray tan me before you put
1119
00:38:59.150 --> 00:38:59.929
me in my basket.
1120
00:38:59.969 --> 00:39:01.630
You know, if you bury me pale.
1121
00:39:02.829 --> 00:39:03.349
I'll haunt you.
1122
00:39:03.389 --> 00:39:04.570
Wait till I come back for you.
1123
00:39:04.590 --> 00:39:06.949
Seriously. Wait. You're going to see that one.
1124
00:39:06.989 --> 00:39:08.889
My only happiness is being tan.
1125
00:39:09.170 --> 00:39:09.409
Yeah.
1126
00:39:09.570 --> 00:39:11.250
I'm a good person when I'm tan.
1127
00:39:11.309 --> 00:39:11.829
Exactly.
1128
00:39:11.849 --> 00:39:12.110
Me too.
1129
00:39:12.130 --> 00:39:15.090
When I'm pale, I'm extra nasty and I can feel it.
1130
00:39:15.389 --> 00:39:15.570
Yes.
1131
00:39:15.590 --> 00:39:17.159
Because I'm like, this is not the life I was
1132
00:39:17.179 --> 00:39:18.159
supposed to lead. Yeah.
1133
00:39:18.179 --> 00:39:18.340
Yeah.
1134
00:39:18.699 --> 00:39:20.190
And then I step out of the tanning thing and
1135
00:39:20.230 --> 00:39:22.150
I'm like, oh my God, the world is a little
1136
00:39:22.230 --> 00:39:22.849
like brighter.
1137
00:39:22.869 --> 00:39:23.869
Like everything is a little like okay.
1138
00:39:24.389 --> 00:39:28.019
The coffee tastes better exactly oh my god literally yesterday
1139
00:39:28.039 --> 00:39:29.400
I got a facial and then I had a spray
1140
00:39:29.420 --> 00:39:31.199
tan at night and I was like listen I'm willing
1141
00:39:31.239 --> 00:39:33.940
to risk like my skin breaking out to have a
1142
00:39:33.980 --> 00:39:37.039
spray tan like I like being tan absolutely oh my
1143
00:39:37.059 --> 00:39:39.159
god alright having your makeup match your outfit I feel
1144
00:39:39.179 --> 00:39:41.000
like that was a big thing in the 2000s like
1145
00:39:41.139 --> 00:39:43.550
blue eyeshadow I just.
1146
00:39:43.010 --> 00:39:47.190
Did a look the other month that my eyeshadow matched
1147
00:39:47.309 --> 00:39:49.230
I did a yellow and orange dress and then I
1148
00:39:49.289 --> 00:39:53.130
did like What's that new artist?
1149
00:39:53.409 --> 00:39:55.050
Yeah. Who? Oh.
1150
00:39:55.289 --> 00:39:55.909
Midnight Sun.
1151
00:39:56.110 --> 00:39:56.690
Midnight Sun.
1152
00:39:56.909 --> 00:39:58.239
Zara Larsson makeup.
1153
00:39:58.260 --> 00:39:58.769
Yes. I love her.
1154
00:39:58.780 --> 00:40:01.039
And my kids, guys, they were like, wait, are you
1155
00:40:01.099 --> 00:40:02.820
Zara Larsson-ing tonight? And I was like, oh my God,
1156
00:40:02.860 --> 00:40:05.760
am I cool? Did I become cool overnight? And my
1157
00:40:05.780 --> 00:40:07.239
kids were like, you look great. I'm like, wait, I
1158
00:40:07.280 --> 00:40:08.860
may have to do this again. Like I know it's
1159
00:40:08.920 --> 00:40:09.739
a thing because of her.
1160
00:40:09.760 --> 00:40:10.539
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
1161
00:40:10.579 --> 00:40:11.639
So I'm like, oh my God.
1162
00:40:11.840 --> 00:40:12.429
I'll show you guys.
1163
00:40:12.469 --> 00:40:13.530
I'll send you the photo.
1164
00:40:13.610 --> 00:40:16.090
It was cool. I loved it back then. We used
1165
00:40:16.110 --> 00:40:17.889
to wear like bright blue if we had a blue
1166
00:40:17.929 --> 00:40:18.849
shirt or whatever.
1167
00:40:18.869 --> 00:40:21.289
Maybe we bring that back. But like in a muted,
1168
00:40:21.309 --> 00:40:22.369
subtle way.
1169
00:40:22.570 --> 00:40:23.750
Not like this. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1170
00:40:23.769 --> 00:40:25.010
Not Mimi from Drew Carey.
1171
00:40:25.030 --> 00:40:27.920
She's like fun, a little less like boring. Like not like,
1172
00:40:28.000 --> 00:40:30.539
I mean, although I do love, although I do love
1173
00:40:30.579 --> 00:40:31.840
like a jeans and a t-shirt.
1174
00:40:31.860 --> 00:40:32.159
Love it.
1175
00:40:32.199 --> 00:40:33.039
But, you know.
1176
00:40:33.059 --> 00:40:33.800
All right.
1177
00:40:33.840 --> 00:40:38.090
Now we're going into Y2K culture. AIM, away messages? Or
1178
00:40:38.130 --> 00:40:38.769
is it AIM?
1179
00:40:38.789 --> 00:40:40.829
Love them. It's AIM. It's AIM.
1180
00:40:41.010 --> 00:40:41.670
All right.
1181
00:40:42.639 --> 00:40:44.980
I loved them because like whatever I was feeling, I
1182
00:40:45.000 --> 00:40:47.579
just put out there. And then you have to decode
1183
00:40:47.619 --> 00:40:50.699
whether it's about you. Agreed. It gave me a lot
1184
00:40:50.739 --> 00:40:53.320
of less, you know, anxiety.
1185
00:40:53.380 --> 00:40:54.619
Wait, what is this?
1186
00:40:55.179 --> 00:40:57.199
It was just like when you go on and you
1187
00:40:57.239 --> 00:40:58.820
chat and you can say whatever you want and you
1188
00:40:58.840 --> 00:40:59.099
don't know.
1189
00:40:59.119 --> 00:40:59.960
So it was in a way, it was like a
1190
00:41:00.179 --> 00:41:03.070
Facebook message or like a tweet. And you just leave
1191
00:41:03.090 --> 00:41:04.690
it up there until you decided to take it off.
1192
00:41:04.809 --> 00:41:07.559
And it would be like. you know, I guess not
1193
00:41:07.579 --> 00:41:09.619
everyone's going to have the same heart as I have.
1194
00:41:09.679 --> 00:41:12.380
And then like, you'd put like curls and stars and
1195
00:41:12.400 --> 00:41:14.179
then you just leave it for hours. And everyone had
1196
00:41:14.199 --> 00:41:15.389
to figure out what mood you were in.
1197
00:41:15.639 --> 00:41:19.070
It's kind of like the Instagram bubble thing on the top.
1198
00:41:19.090 --> 00:41:21.389
But a lot of people promote things there. This was,
1199
00:41:21.570 --> 00:41:24.010
you could promote things. We didn't do that.
1200
00:41:24.030 --> 00:41:25.630
I feel like by the time, like I had Twitter
1201
00:41:25.650 --> 00:41:27.650
in like middle school, I remember getting it. And like,
1202
00:41:27.750 --> 00:41:30.980
that's when everyone was posting like, Like little like thought
1203
00:41:31.059 --> 00:41:31.599
bubbles or whatever.
1204
00:41:31.619 --> 00:41:33.400
Yeah, I would say like passive aggressiveness.
1205
00:41:33.420 --> 00:41:33.639
Yes.
1206
00:41:33.679 --> 00:41:34.219
Yeah, I agree.
1207
00:41:34.239 --> 00:41:35.480
That was when passive aggressive was big.
1208
00:41:35.659 --> 00:41:37.659
Yeah, like you were like coming at people.
1209
00:41:37.739 --> 00:41:38.659
Yeah. Okay.
1210
00:41:39.699 --> 00:41:41.780
Watching reality TV when it actually aired.
1211
00:41:44.010 --> 00:41:45.650
I don't have time, but if I didn't have kids,
1212
00:41:45.690 --> 00:41:47.510
I would watch, if I liked a show, I would
1213
00:41:47.530 --> 00:41:48.289
watch it as it airs.
1214
00:41:48.349 --> 00:41:51.909
Yeah, I agree. Sopranos religious before kids. Religious. I don't
1215
00:41:51.989 --> 00:41:52.389
have time.
1216
00:41:52.849 --> 00:41:56.239
I don't have time. The only thing I prioritize is Traitors.
1217
00:41:56.989 --> 00:41:58.940
Okay that's a good one big traders.
1218
00:41:58.590 --> 00:42:00.889
I like netflix because the whole series comes out yes
1219
00:42:00.909 --> 00:42:01.860
and i can binge.
1220
00:42:01.699 --> 00:42:03.320
Yeah because when my kids are at cheer i have
1221
00:42:03.360 --> 00:42:04.199
three hours.
1222
00:42:03.980 --> 00:42:06.780
Yes now that's perfect yeah i like that all right
1223
00:42:06.820 --> 00:42:08.480
since you're on reality tv like do you not like
1224
00:42:08.519 --> 00:42:10.719
watching reality tv then or like it ruins it.
1225
00:42:10.599 --> 00:42:13.699
For me it does every scene i'm like i just
1226
00:42:13.800 --> 00:42:16.579
know how this was executed.
1227
00:42:16.340 --> 00:42:19.300
Yeah yeah like i feel like watching like the secret
1228
00:42:19.320 --> 00:42:21.519
life of mormon wives this like past season like i
1229
00:42:21.539 --> 00:42:24.239
feel like comparing the past five seasons you really see
1230
00:42:24.280 --> 00:42:26.800
like how that show like ripped apart that entire friend
1231
00:42:26.840 --> 00:42:28.659
group and it will no one stands up for each
1232
00:42:28.739 --> 00:42:31.300
other no one's friends it's so I'm.
1233
00:42:31.159 --> 00:42:34.539
Like an I'm a you know a loyal Jersey Housewives
1234
00:42:34.579 --> 00:42:37.599
girl because I know them personally I know um how
1235
00:42:37.639 --> 00:42:40.280
they really are so watching it is like bittersweet because
1236
00:42:40.300 --> 00:42:42.840
I'm like I want to support and like I want
1237
00:42:42.860 --> 00:42:44.980
to see you know you recognize places that it's filmed
1238
00:42:45.000 --> 00:42:47.059
you're like oh I know where that is yeah but
1239
00:42:47.139 --> 00:42:49.360
like watching it is hard because I'm like oh I
1240
00:42:49.380 --> 00:42:50.940
know she's about to get a bad rep from this
1241
00:42:51.039 --> 00:42:53.909
and like I also know that producers were like, you
1242
00:42:53.949 --> 00:42:55.329
have to go up to her right now. Like now
1243
00:42:55.389 --> 00:42:56.510
is the time and it has to be at that
1244
00:42:56.550 --> 00:42:58.610
table and you have to confront her. And I'm like,
1245
00:42:58.750 --> 00:43:00.170
I can see it unfolding.
1246
00:43:00.860 --> 00:43:02.500
That would just trigger me. I feel like watching it.
1247
00:43:02.519 --> 00:43:04.380
I know it's very hard to watch. And that's why
1248
00:43:04.500 --> 00:43:06.960
I like certain housewives that other people are like, how
1249
00:43:06.980 --> 00:43:09.119
do you like her? And I'm like, because I know
1250
00:43:09.219 --> 00:43:12.179
that she's like this and not like this. And it's
1251
00:43:12.260 --> 00:43:14.480
easy for me to be like, that's not real. Yeah.
1252
00:43:14.960 --> 00:43:16.900
It's hard. It's so hard. All right.
1253
00:43:16.940 --> 00:43:17.909
MySpace top eight.
1254
00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:21.019
Oh yeah, bring it back. People need to be put
1255
00:43:21.039 --> 00:43:22.000
in their fucking place.
1256
00:43:22.019 --> 00:43:22.559
Yes, they do.
1257
00:43:22.599 --> 00:43:24.460
And nobody's put in their place anymore.
1258
00:43:25.440 --> 00:43:27.480
And when they get off the top eight, good luck
1259
00:43:27.500 --> 00:43:27.760
getting back.
1260
00:43:27.780 --> 00:43:29.320
Once you're off the top eight, you're not coming back on.
1261
00:43:29.340 --> 00:43:29.639
That's it.
1262
00:43:29.780 --> 00:43:32.010
Once you get moved from one to three, it is
1263
00:43:32.090 --> 00:43:34.389
the gut check you needed. You know what I mean?
1264
00:43:34.469 --> 00:43:37.130
I've never felt more bad about myself being like, when
1265
00:43:37.170 --> 00:43:38.670
I went on and it was like refresh and I
1266
00:43:38.670 --> 00:43:40.889
was moved, I'm like, I have to text them.
1267
00:43:41.110 --> 00:43:42.110
I know. What did I do?
1268
00:43:42.110 --> 00:43:42.769
We should go out.
1269
00:43:43.190 --> 00:43:43.849
This is so funny.
1270
00:43:43.869 --> 00:43:44.349
Get them back.
1271
00:43:44.630 --> 00:43:45.969
Because I feel like in today's.
1272
00:43:46.010 --> 00:43:46.889
I feel the same way.
1273
00:43:46.909 --> 00:43:48.190
I feel like with me and my friends, it's like
1274
00:43:48.210 --> 00:43:50.269
your location. Like if a friend stops sharing your location,
1275
00:43:50.289 --> 00:43:52.329
you're like, oh my God, what did I do? I know.
1276
00:43:52.429 --> 00:43:52.780
Really?
1277
00:43:52.820 --> 00:43:54.570
And you freak out. Yes. Oh my God, my heart
1278
00:43:54.590 --> 00:43:55.079
will drop.
1279
00:43:55.239 --> 00:43:57.719
I feel like it's so evasive,
your location.
1280
00:43:57.820 --> 00:43:59.860
It is. And some of my friends check it all
1281
00:43:59.900 --> 00:44:01.760
the time. And I'm the girl who's still like, hey,
1282
00:44:01.800 --> 00:44:03.940
where are you? And they're like, you have my location.
1283
00:44:03.960 --> 00:44:05.320
And I'm like, I don't look at that.
1284
00:44:05.400 --> 00:44:06.480
Yeah.
1285
00:44:06.639 --> 00:44:08.519
I'll only look if I'm like calling to see if
1286
00:44:08.559 --> 00:44:10.739
like if they're at work. I do not even do that.
1287
00:44:10.760 --> 00:44:11.159
That's my only time.
1288
00:44:11.179 --> 00:44:13.750
You're getting my phone call when I want to call you.
1289
00:44:13.769 --> 00:44:15.610
There are some people that watch you like you're like
1290
00:44:15.650 --> 00:44:16.530
a Sims character though.
1291
00:44:16.550 --> 00:44:16.630
Yeah.
1292
00:44:16.650 --> 00:44:17.510
And they're like, where are you?
1293
00:44:17.530 --> 00:44:17.849
They'll text me.
1294
00:44:17.849 --> 00:44:18.590
They'll be like, where are you going?
1295
00:44:18.610 --> 00:44:19.110
Where are you headed?
1296
00:44:19.210 --> 00:44:20.070
I'm like, where am I headed?
1297
00:44:20.340 --> 00:44:20.639
Although.
1298
00:44:20.659 --> 00:44:22.119
Bro, it's moving. The car's moving.
1299
00:44:22.179 --> 00:44:24.280
I'm texting while driving. Hang up the phone. Don't talk
1300
00:44:24.300 --> 00:44:24.579
to me.
1301
00:44:24.619 --> 00:44:24.739
Yeah.
1302
00:44:24.920 --> 00:44:27.260
And sometimes though, Gabby, she's not here right now, but
1303
00:44:27.420 --> 00:44:29.219
she won't tell me when she's going on a date.
1304
00:44:29.239 --> 00:44:31.800
And I'll see her at like a random location. I'm like, Gabby,
1305
00:44:31.820 --> 00:44:35.650
what are you doing? You're being a creeper. But she's
1306
00:44:35.690 --> 00:44:37.610
the only person I'll do it with.
1307
00:44:37.789 --> 00:44:40.710
My friend will turn off her location when she's being
1308
00:44:41.329 --> 00:44:44.949
spicy shady. And I'll be like, not you with an
1309
00:44:45.090 --> 00:44:46.610
off location at six.
1310
00:44:46.449 --> 00:44:48.150
In the morning. You know what they're doing.
1311
00:44:48.170 --> 00:44:50.889
I know where you are. Exactly. That's so funny. That's
1312
00:44:50.989 --> 00:44:51.579
so funny.
1313
00:44:51.659 --> 00:44:53.659
All right. Getting dressed up just to go to the mall.
1314
00:44:54.010 --> 00:44:55.030
What do you guys think about that?
1315
00:44:55.050 --> 00:44:56.130
I get dressed up for everything.
1316
00:44:56.150 --> 00:44:57.250
Me too. Yeah. I love it.
1317
00:44:57.269 --> 00:45:00.289
But we're also very, I think we like thought we
1318
00:45:00.369 --> 00:45:02.150
had to do that. I got dressed up for every
1319
00:45:02.170 --> 00:45:02.949
day at high school.
1320
00:45:02.969 --> 00:45:04.150
Me too. I was best dressed.
1321
00:45:04.170 --> 00:45:07.710
People are like, I wear, yeah, good for you. I
was,
1322
00:45:08.269 --> 00:45:11.309
I watch my daughter and I'm like, yeah, that's, that's
1323
00:45:11.369 --> 00:45:11.869
the look, huh?
1324
00:45:12.050 --> 00:45:12.289
Yeah.
1325
00:45:12.590 --> 00:45:15.119
And it's oversized t-shirt, oversized sweatpants. And I'm like, oh,
1326
00:45:15.130 --> 00:45:18.130
you look homeless, baby. I spend so much money on clothes.
1327
00:45:18.170 --> 00:45:18.570
It's so crazy.
1328
00:45:18.590 --> 00:45:19.269
How does this happen?
1329
00:45:19.840 --> 00:45:20.070
I know.
1330
00:45:20.110 --> 00:45:21.940
And then she's just like, we don't care at school.
1331
00:45:21.980 --> 00:45:23.400
And I'm like, okay, we don't.
1332
00:45:23.880 --> 00:45:26.340
It's so funny because like I graduated high school and
1333
00:45:26.400 --> 00:45:28.559
I like made a point to never wear sweatpants a
1334
00:45:28.619 --> 00:45:31.179
day in my life going to school, like from kindergarten
1335
00:45:31.480 --> 00:45:34.409
to senior year. And I was like, I never wore sweatpants.
1336
00:45:34.469 --> 00:45:37.130
And now it's like, that's all people wear. Like leggings
1337
00:45:37.170 --> 00:45:38.449
was like me pushing.
1338
00:45:38.070 --> 00:45:41.150
It with the comfort. Yeah. Leggings was like, I'm feeling bold. Yeah.
1339
00:45:41.250 --> 00:45:41.469
Yeah.
1340
00:45:42.170 --> 00:45:43.889
I don't know. It's COVID. COVID did that.
1341
00:45:43.949 --> 00:45:44.989
COVID made everyone really lazy.
1342
00:45:45.010 --> 00:45:45.949
Yeah, I do agree.
1343
00:45:45.969 --> 00:45:47.110
Yeah. Yeah. Okay.
1344
00:45:49.530 --> 00:45:51.369
Having a fight and then showing up to work together
1345
00:45:51.409 --> 00:45:53.969
the next morning. I.
1346
00:45:54.570 --> 00:45:55.110
How do you feel?
1347
00:45:55.130 --> 00:45:58.110
I feel like it's fine. You just got to move on.
1348
00:45:58.190 --> 00:45:59.389
Professionalism is one thing.
1349
00:46:00.269 --> 00:46:02.710
I can... I love an awkward situation.
1350
00:46:02.869 --> 00:46:03.570
You do? Yes.
1351
00:46:03.719 --> 00:46:04.739
I thrive on it.
1352
00:46:04.889 --> 00:46:05.199
Really?
1353
00:46:05.239 --> 00:46:07.699
If I know somebody doesn't like me, I'm quite literally
1354
00:46:07.719 --> 00:46:10.119
going to sit next to you. Make it so weird.
1355
00:46:10.139 --> 00:46:12.139
Because I thrive on it. Like, I can act like
1356
00:46:12.159 --> 00:46:14.440
you're literally not there. And then I know that they'll
1357
00:46:14.460 --> 00:46:17.659
work harder to, like, get my attention back. So I'm like...
1358
00:46:17.900 --> 00:46:19.159
It's a little manipulative.
1359
00:46:19.179 --> 00:46:21.900
Well, I think it's good. I think it's very, very good.
1360
00:46:21.920 --> 00:46:22.659
It's powerful.
1361
00:46:22.960 --> 00:46:24.760
Yeah, I won't let anybody make me feel awkward in
1362
00:46:24.780 --> 00:46:25.280
my own space.
1363
00:46:25.460 --> 00:46:25.880
It just won't happen.
1364
00:46:25.900 --> 00:46:26.280
No, you shouldn't.
1365
00:46:26.320 --> 00:46:26.699
That's good.
1366
00:46:26.719 --> 00:46:28.829
And it's like something isn't awkward until you let it
1367
00:46:28.949 --> 00:46:31.369
be awkward. You don't think it's awkward. It's not awkward.
1368
00:46:31.610 --> 00:46:33.929
Nope. I hit it head on. I'm always like, all right,
1369
00:46:33.969 --> 00:46:35.019
let's talk about this right now.
1370
00:46:35.030 --> 00:46:36.389
I didn't want to talk about it. I'm like, fuck,
1371
00:46:36.469 --> 00:46:37.110
you know what you did.
1372
00:46:37.210 --> 00:46:37.449
Yeah.
1373
00:46:37.650 --> 00:46:39.389
I'm going to sit here and make it weird for everyone.
1374
00:46:39.469 --> 00:46:39.710
Exactly.
1375
00:46:39.730 --> 00:46:41.010
We can do this or not. Right.
1376
00:46:41.070 --> 00:46:42.809
At a certain point, if it's like every day, it's like,
1377
00:46:42.829 --> 00:46:44.909
all right, at this point, it's like we got to like,
1378
00:46:44.929 --> 00:46:46.159
this is ridiculous.
1379
00:46:46.679 --> 00:46:46.940
All right.
1380
00:46:47.000 --> 00:46:50.760
Last one. If Jerseylicious came back in 2026, what's one
1381
00:46:50.800 --> 00:46:53.420
thing from the original show that would absolutely have to
1382
00:46:53.440 --> 00:46:53.860
come back?
1383
00:46:57.000 --> 00:46:59.610
One thing would have to be me and Olivia, the
1384
00:46:59.619 --> 00:47:02.690
both of us. Not like I'd want to spend the
1385
00:47:02.730 --> 00:47:06.349
time with her, but there's no show without me and
1386
00:47:06.369 --> 00:47:07.250
there's no show without her.
1387
00:47:07.309 --> 00:47:07.769
That's right.
1388
00:47:08.230 --> 00:47:11.309
And I'll fully give her the respect of that. She
1389
00:47:11.349 --> 00:47:13.960
and I carried the fucking franchise on our back.
1390
00:47:14.159 --> 00:47:14.380
Yeah.
1391
00:47:14.780 --> 00:47:19.530
And not franchise, that show. Um, and, and she'll, she'll
1392
00:47:19.550 --> 00:47:21.889
get the credit where she's due, whether, whether my opinions
1393
00:47:22.190 --> 00:47:25.389
of it matter or not, that's still the, it was
1394
00:47:25.530 --> 00:47:27.269
the two of us really.
1395
00:47:27.849 --> 00:47:28.309
Absolutely.
1396
00:47:28.329 --> 00:47:29.789
Yeah. A hundred percent.
1397
00:47:29.849 --> 00:47:31.719
There wouldn't have been anything for me to do if
1398
00:47:31.780 --> 00:47:33.340
she wasn't there and it wouldn't have been anything for
1399
00:47:33.360 --> 00:47:35.300
her if I wasn't. So it is what it is.
1400
00:47:35.340 --> 00:47:36.659
The respect is there at the end.
1401
00:47:36.619 --> 00:47:39.539
Of the day. And I respect you for that.
1402
00:47:39.880 --> 00:47:41.920
Yeah, no, I mean, I'm not a hater. I'll tell you,
1403
00:47:42.260 --> 00:47:43.019
I'm not a fan.
1404
00:47:43.039 --> 00:47:43.579
Right.
1405
00:47:43.659 --> 00:47:47.619
But I also think that the fans would appreciate the
1406
00:47:47.639 --> 00:47:48.179
both of us.
1407
00:47:48.340 --> 00:47:48.760
Right. Yes.
1408
00:47:48.820 --> 00:47:49.440
Absolutely.
1409
00:47:49.519 --> 00:47:54.099
Absolutely. Well, Tracy DeMarco here on Red. You are awesome, girl.
1410
00:47:54.400 --> 00:47:58.530
Listen to her podcast. Come back anytime. You have to co-host.
1411
00:47:59.030 --> 00:48:01.010
Her personality is a vibe.
1412
00:48:01.050 --> 00:48:03.030
The next time I'm sick, I want you to fill
1413
00:48:03.090 --> 00:48:03.769
in for me.
1414
00:48:03.809 --> 00:48:04.369
No, let me know.
1415
00:48:05.050 --> 00:48:05.840
It should be her.
1416
00:48:05.860 --> 00:48:06.260
Me too.
1417
00:48:06.440 --> 00:48:06.690
Me too.
1418
00:48:06.719 --> 00:48:07.280
No, let me know.
1419
00:48:07.420 --> 00:48:09.039
But Tracy, where can people find you online?
1420
00:48:09.579 --> 00:48:11.440
Um, you guys can find me on Instagram. The most
1421
00:48:11.619 --> 00:48:14.460
is Tracy DeMarco underscore and I'm on Tik TOK, which
1422
00:48:14.539 --> 00:48:15.800
I barely use. I get in a lot of trouble
1423
00:48:15.820 --> 00:48:18.360
for not using it. Um, and of course my podcast
1424
00:48:18.449 --> 00:48:22.030
is bad examples podcast. So come over there for spicy juicy.
1425
00:48:22.150 --> 00:48:23.710
Once you listen to her show, you go from her
1426
00:48:23.750 --> 00:48:26.110
show to our show. You listen to them double on
1427
00:48:26.130 --> 00:48:26.789
your way to work.
1428
00:48:26.889 --> 00:48:27.409
That's right.
1429
00:48:27.449 --> 00:48:28.429
Two birds, one stone.
1430
00:48:28.869 --> 00:48:30.780
That's right, honey. I love it. And make sure you
1431
00:48:30.820 --> 00:48:31.260
check it out.
1432
00:48:31.449 --> 00:48:31.760
Girls.
1433
00:48:31.800 --> 00:48:33.780
We need some spicy topics in our life.
1434
00:48:33.860 --> 00:48:35.739
We need to keep it spicier. Everyone gets bored.
1435
00:48:35.960 --> 00:48:38.039
Exactly. A hundred percent. Ash, where can they find you?
1436
00:48:38.340 --> 00:48:40.460
All right, you guys can find me at ashmcpherson2h is
1437
00:48:40.519 --> 00:48:43.340
on all socials and the Red podcast at Michelle Barone Red.
1438
00:48:43.599 --> 00:48:45.360
And you can find me at Michelle Barone online. See
1439
00:48:45.400 --> 00:48:46.139
you next time.
1440
00:48:46.219 --> 00:48:47.159
Bye.
1441
00:48:57.380 --> 00:48:59.840
Hey, it's Andrew O'Grady, CEO at Mental Health America of
1442
00:48:59.909 --> 00:49:02.929
Dutchess County. And I'm coming to you from Red for
1443
00:49:02.969 --> 00:49:05.900
your mental health minute. I want to highlight the importance
1444
00:49:05.940 --> 00:49:07.940
of sleeping seven to nine hours a night.
1445
00:49:08.099 --> 00:49:08.739
So important.
1446
00:49:08.780 --> 00:49:11.320
So many people cannot do it. So how do you
1447
00:49:11.360 --> 00:49:15.110
make it happen for yourself? Limit your screen time before bed.
1448
00:49:15.489 --> 00:49:17.849
Make sure you're sleeping in a dark room. Make the
1449
00:49:17.889 --> 00:49:19.650
room a little cooler if you can, if you have
1450
00:49:19.670 --> 00:49:22.550
that ability. Open the windows. We're hitting fall now. Open
1451
00:49:22.570 --> 00:49:25.230
the windows. Let the air flow. I want to remind
1452
00:49:25.250 --> 00:49:28.280
you that sleep is mental health, not laziness. You need it.
1453
00:49:28.550 --> 00:49:30.699
You need it for your health, your physical health, and
1454
00:49:30.739 --> 00:49:33.239
your mental health. So try to get that good night's sleep.
1455
00:49:33.500 --> 00:49:35.230
Take care of yourself. Nice talking to you.