Full Transcript for Polyamory 101: Navigating Multiple Relationships with Honesty and Heart

nothing negative the reaction. 00:04:39.139 --> 00:04:56.797 They're just like really, you know, it was like yes, that's weird, like no, that's just interesting, like oh, okay, cool yeah it's funny because I'm just like, yeah, I love people's reactions too, especially when I talk to them and then just like, yeah, I have my uh husband, uh, then I have my boyfriend. 00:04:56.797 --> 00:05:00.951 Then I got my other boyfriend and like, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait back up. 00:05:00.951 --> 00:05:02.497 What do you mean? 00:05:02.497 --> 00:05:03.540 I'm in a poly relationship. 00:05:03.540 --> 00:05:05.360 Like, what part did you know to get? 00:05:05.480 --> 00:05:16.062 I have a boyfriend, I have a husband, because if you don't say that you're poly, they think you're just incredibly open about being married and cheating all at the same time, yeah, it's like what. 00:05:16.062 --> 00:05:17.848 But then when you're like, oh no, they all know. 00:05:17.990 --> 00:05:24.507 And they're like, oh, it's poly, like oh okay, you know, it's one of those questions I always get after I tell them that I'm in a poly. 00:05:24.507 --> 00:05:26.651 Oh, I can never do it, I'm too possessive. 00:05:26.651 --> 00:05:27.673 That's great. 00:05:27.673 --> 00:05:29.206 No one asked you, but I appreciate it. 00:05:29.880 --> 00:05:33.024 My thing is always like yeah, bro, I don't know how you do it, I'm like one's enough. 00:05:33.779 --> 00:05:51.048 And you, juggling multiple, you do you boo, you know, juggling both Juggling poly relationship and a throuple relation and a regular relationship is not that bad if you think about it. 00:05:51.048 --> 00:05:51.408 It's not that bad. 00:05:51.408 --> 00:05:51.911 It really isn't a lot of. 00:05:51.911 --> 00:05:52.413 It is just communication. 00:05:52.413 --> 00:05:57.348 When you're talking, um, in the case of me and rad, since we're in a poly relationship, I'm his handler, his pop, I mean his handler, his dom or whatnot. 00:05:57.348 --> 00:05:59.978 We have an understanding for each other. 00:05:59.978 --> 00:06:04.165 We do that like we talked about it before, like the contracts, consent, all of that stuff. 00:06:04.165 --> 00:06:09.814 But he's actually been keeping up contacting and I've been keeping up with him too as well. 00:06:09.814 --> 00:06:18.149 I think we spent a little bit of time Monday, I believe, because he knew that I was going through a lot of health issues. 00:06:18.149 --> 00:06:20.608 He's like I want to come spend some time with you. 00:06:20.608 --> 00:06:25.132 I'm like, okay, cool, and then we're going to have date night here coming up soon too, as well, oh that's cool. 00:06:28.259 --> 00:06:28.721 Yeah, some time with you. 00:06:28.721 --> 00:06:30.528 I'm like, okay, cool, and then we're gonna have date night here coming up soon too as well. 00:06:30.528 --> 00:06:30.809 That's cool. 00:06:30.809 --> 00:06:31.672 Yeah, we're gonna have a little date night. 00:06:31.672 --> 00:06:33.156 And then, uh, later on today no, wednesday we had date night with uh fabian. 00:06:33.156 --> 00:06:33.798 That was actually a lot of fun. 00:06:33.798 --> 00:06:40.199 Um, yeah, just a lot of time just for him to kind of just compress, because school finals, all that other shit, right. 00:06:40.199 --> 00:06:43.586 But with rad, uh it's. 00:06:43.586 --> 00:06:49.863 I want to say I have more relationships with rad than I do with uh other, with pup tart. 00:06:49.863 --> 00:06:52.730 Pup tart is just friends with benefits, that's just pretty much it. 00:06:52.730 --> 00:06:54.062 There's no contract, there's nothing. 00:06:54.062 --> 00:06:54.963 He does his own thing. 00:06:54.963 --> 00:06:57.951 I, I keep, I keep up with him and whatnot. 00:06:57.951 --> 00:07:07.194 And because he's like I feel like I'm obligated to hang out with you because you bought this and that I'm like you're not obligated but it's appreciated. 00:07:07.194 --> 00:07:08.154 So thank you. 00:07:08.154 --> 00:07:12.790 And with Rad, I know we both have been seeing each other in a very good minute. 00:07:12.790 --> 00:07:16.170 We haven't played at all period, though, but I think that's just. 00:07:16.399 --> 00:07:18.413 You don't want to get electrocuted on your forehead with his butt again. 00:07:20.942 --> 00:07:21.725 I forgot about that. 00:07:22.007 --> 00:07:22.709 I'm just kidding. 00:07:23.620 --> 00:07:24.706 I forgot about that. 00:07:24.706 --> 00:07:28.089 No, it's not that I don't want to get electrocuted again, because that was actually a lot of fun. 00:07:28.199 --> 00:07:32.228 It was just on my fucking forehead I know that was a joke, but yeah, I know you don't mind. 00:07:32.228 --> 00:07:35.408 I had to put it out there again because it was hilarious. 00:07:35.959 --> 00:07:36.321 I forgot. 00:07:36.321 --> 00:07:37.463 He shocked me with his ass. 00:07:37.463 --> 00:07:39.629 Thanks for the reminder. 00:07:39.629 --> 00:07:40.653 You're welcome. 00:07:40.653 --> 00:07:52.307 I thought that was the best shit ever. 00:07:52.307 --> 00:07:56.093 When you were telling the story I was like no, sir, but that shit, like I, like I was. 00:07:56.093 --> 00:07:57.595 I don't know why I was so scared to touch him. 00:07:57.595 --> 00:07:59.706 I guess because I wasn't expecting it. 00:07:59.706 --> 00:08:02.947 But now I put this like fear in me. 00:08:02.947 --> 00:08:04.232 But now I want to do it to him. 00:08:04.252 --> 00:08:06.319 Yeah, because it's an adrenaline rush. 00:08:06.600 --> 00:08:08.569 It is really an adrenaline rush at this point. 00:08:08.759 --> 00:08:15.146 But I think it's even funnier too, because I can touch myself, just fine, right, because I won't shock myself. 00:08:15.146 --> 00:08:22.007 But if he touches me because he's done it, because he's just like, oh hey, I'm just like, hi, you motherfucker. 00:08:22.007 --> 00:08:26.480 So I go down and then what happens? 00:08:26.480 --> 00:08:29.367 If I touch something else

and I get shocked twice, it's hard, you know whatnot. 00:08:29.367 --> 00:08:31.632 So I'm just like don't do that. 00:08:31.632 --> 00:08:45.630 So because I try to sit down like with it, like I'm sitting on the bed and everything, but I'm feeling the electric currents through the mattress I'm just like, oh shit, because the mattress on the very bottom has its own vibration. 00:08:46.100 --> 00:08:48.490 It's a vibrating bed because it has its own vibration. 00:08:48.490 --> 00:08:50.386 So I'm just like, well, maybe this is not a good idea. 00:08:50.386 --> 00:08:55.991 No, so, with that being said, the electricity is actually being printed pretty fine. 00:08:55.991 --> 00:09:03.159 But anyhow, coming back to the whole subject and everything of being a poly relationship, this is my true poly relationship. 00:09:03.341 --> 00:09:07.270 I had my throuple in the past with my ex, which was a lot of fun. 00:09:07.270 --> 00:09:10.105 We had good times, we had bad times and whatnot, whatever. 00:09:10.105 --> 00:09:11.649 Just like any other relationship, right. 00:09:11.649 --> 00:09:15.562 But communication is key With a throuple. 00:09:15.601 --> 00:09:23.248 The thing is with a throuple is that it's three people who are in love with each other and all of them are in unison together. 00:09:23.248 --> 00:09:26.341 They're basically working hand-to-hand together. 00:09:26.341 --> 00:09:29.591 They're in love, they're doing things, they're going out, they're having a good time. 00:09:29.591 --> 00:09:31.182 It's all together. 00:09:31.182 --> 00:09:34.089 It's not just one person working on the other and whatnot. 00:09:34.370 --> 00:09:50.547 Now there are people who will get into throuples where the third person is being very sneaky and try to you know, work, you know the other person, whatnot right, and that's kind kind of like how my throuple I was dealing with was similar to that, but not as bad. 00:09:50.547 --> 00:10:03.249 But we can feel the strangeness on the relationship and how bad it became, because you can be in a toxic throuple period without anything and it can cause a friction between everybody else. 00:10:03.249 --> 00:10:18.456 But communication is motherfucking key, but you need to still respect the primary relationship of a throuple, which is the people who brought you in to enjoy their relationship as a co. 00:10:18.456 --> 00:10:30.022 If they have something already that has nothing to do with you and they need to talk one-on-one privately to be able to figure out some things that didn't involve you, you need to give them their space to be able to do that. 00:10:30.022 --> 00:10:37.250 Don't don't be mean about it like, oh you don't want to talk to me about it, no, no, no, no, that's not it just had nothing to do with it, just had nothing to do with you. 00:10:37.269 --> 00:10:41.567 That's all I'm not gonna, we're not gonna bring you in, yeah and a lot of times they would get mad. 00:10:41.586 --> 00:10:48.721 Well, I'm in the

relationship, so I mean, why not tell me now, because it doesn't involve you just yet? 00:10:48.721 --> 00:10:54.953 Like this is something that we need to talk out first before we can bring in you into this particular conversation? 00:10:54.953 --> 00:10:59.211 We don't know you that well to say, hey, this is us in a relationship, this is the law. 00:10:59.211 --> 00:11:02.802 We're taking baby steps, just like any relationship period, you know. 00:11:02.802 --> 00:11:12.669 And it's just like it would be, for instance, if I was in a relationship and I said, dede, I need to speak to you privately, and if it's like whatnot, then we would go somewhere to talk in privately. 00:11:12.669 --> 00:11:17.113 Right, it's not because I want to try and not involve my husband, it's because I want to talk to you privately about something. 00:11:17.113 --> 00:11:17.673 Maybe that happened. 00:11:17.714 --> 00:11:19.514 That only has to do with you and I. 00:11:19.575 --> 00:11:19.794 Right. 00:11:19.794 --> 00:11:30.740 So it's no different than what a throuple is Right In a poly relationship. 00:11:30.740 --> 00:11:36.802 It's what we call kind of like a hierarchy, almost in a sense you have me and my husband, then I have my boyfriend, which is Rad, and then Rad has his own relationship. 00:11:36.802 --> 00:11:38.227 So he follows his whole hierarchy. 00:11:38.489 --> 00:11:38.690 Right. 00:11:39.061 --> 00:11:43.211 And I'm not relying on him for his finances. 00:11:43.211 --> 00:11:46.169 He has his own finances, I have my own finances. 00:11:46.169 --> 00:11:52.393 But if I feel that if he needs help with something financially, I will help out where I can Like a boyfriend and a girlfriend Right. 00:11:52.393 --> 00:11:53.966 And then same with him. 00:11:53.966 --> 00:11:57.190 If you wanted to help out, he would necessarily help out if you wanted to. 00:11:57.190 --> 00:12:00.629 But this is just us if we want to. 00:12:00.899 --> 00:12:02.927 Not because we're obligated to do anything. 00:12:05.620 --> 00:12:07.625 Because then again they have their own money that they need to save and be able to do. 00:12:07.625 --> 00:12:08.687 But we do have our trips. 00:12:08.687 --> 00:12:13.486 Like we're having a trip coming up in september and we're sitting down, we're planning it. 00:12:13.486 --> 00:12:20.631 So we already got the days off already for september coming up and we're going to go camping and it's going to be at a gay campground. 00:12:20.631 --> 00:12:22.806 It's going to be, you know, pretty fun, pretty cool and whatnot. 00:12:22.806 --> 00:12:27.633 I'm already working and I'm actually really excited because, one, it's a september. 00:12:27.633 --> 00:12:32.628 Two, it's already going to be like close to fall, so it shouldn't be too hot. 00:12:32.989 --> 00:12:40.470 Hopefully we're not going to talk about that, yeah and I'm getting uh, I'm getting new leather so, which is great. 00:12:40.470 --> 00:12:44.423 So I have new leather coming in um

as well, and I got one for hubby too as well. 00:12:44.423 --> 00:12:46.263 Uh, I know he doesn't wear. 00:12:46.263 --> 00:12:54.909 He's not part of the kink community at all whatsoever, but I try to give him something at least yeah that's leather related, but I always do it nerdy right. 00:12:55.269 --> 00:12:58.809 So I know you're going to be working on something for me for my leather, which is great. 00:12:58.809 --> 00:12:59.231 That's gonna. 00:12:59.231 --> 00:13:03.725 I wanted to do dragon ball z but, as I said, I think I'm gonna do a gang. 00:13:03.745 --> 00:13:28.606 I think that would be a very nice leather piece to actually have, which I will give to you here later now that you said that, yeah, so, uh, that is something that we're kind of working on as, too as well, and then, um, that's just pretty much just kind of like dealing with pretty much just all of that and whatnot, and I think that the main, the premises of it, is just having a lot of fun because and then you have your swingers too as well. 00:13:28.687 --> 00:13:41.625 Right, your swingers are yeah, I saw it and I was like I have to show, jess, I have to show jess like not the poor pokemon in there. 00:13:41.625 --> 00:13:43.710 Like no, that's a load. 00:13:43.710 --> 00:13:46.307 No, I know, that's all. 00:13:46.349 --> 00:13:50.506 I was like Can you imagine if you just hit a button one time and it opens up inside you? 00:13:52.028 --> 00:13:56.424 Girl, you know what you get, what you get, whatever happens because of that. 00:13:56.424 --> 00:13:59.708 That's what you get, pretty much Whatever Pokemon pops out that's what you get. 00:13:59.729 --> 00:14:00.937 Right, you, that's what you get. 00:14:07.464 --> 00:14:12.969 Right, you, I saw it and I'm just like saving this to show Bessie, because what is this? 00:14:13.730 --> 00:14:14.210 You know what? 00:14:14.210 --> 00:14:17.052 That would be a good one to have if I had it on a red vest. 00:14:17.052 --> 00:14:20.195 That would be perfect if I had it on a red vest. 00:14:20.195 --> 00:14:22.616 Now I want to get me a red vest. 00:14:22.677 --> 00:14:23.236 Oh, my God. 00:14:25.460 --> 00:14:27.342 So save that photo for future purposes. 00:14:27.342 --> 00:14:42.437 That is insane, like what is yo don't ask we, we don't kiss and tell we listen and we don't judge no, you're gonna get judged bitch you're gonna get. 00:14:42.457 --> 00:14:45.486 You're getting judged hard no, you didn't, that's pokemon. 00:14:45.486 --> 00:14:46.208 You're getting judged. 00:14:46.208 --> 00:14:49.778 You're getting judged I think that's the thing. 00:14:49.859 --> 00:15:10.351 I think that's the best thing about being in like a kink community and being nerdy is that a lot of these fucking nerds are very very kinky and very very spicy and it's fine because, but they're also nerd of our divergent too as well, and some of them have a very, uh, some autistic feels to their personality, which is great. 00:15:10.351 --> 00:15:12.658 Yeah, uh, I think rad's the same way. 00:15:12.658 --> 00:15:15.566 He's a little, he has his autistic side or whatnot. 00:15:15.566 --> 00:15:30.544 So I think it's just so funny because it's just like when we say certain things, or I tell or explain to him like you know, like punishments or whatnot, whatever, like he's not allowed to downgrade himself or say anything bad about him, and I'm not allowed to do that either as well. 00:15:30.625 --> 00:15:37.589 So, um, and I try not to like when, if I'm feeling a particular type of way, I'm just like, I can't believe I'm so stupid, I can't believe I did that. 00:15:37.589 --> 00:15:38.841 Like why in the fuck did I do that? 00:15:38.841 --> 00:15:40.842 Like stupid, stupid, stupid. 00:15:40.842 --> 00:15:56.868 And I'll say to myself when no one's around, just like but anywho, I think, uh, with rad it's so much fun because he's he's my little jump scarer like I can do something and he'll just jump really quickly. 00:15:56.868 --> 00:16:03.806 This is why he doesn't do a lot of like scary movies or scary video games or whatnot, and it's just so fucking cute, you know. 00:16:03.806 --> 00:16:11.000 And for my husband, um, I've known my husband already for almost nine years since we've been together, right and knowing him already. 00:16:11.000 --> 00:16:15.892 I can't scare him and I can't scare rad either, because I'm gonna get throw punched like. 00:16:15.892 --> 00:16:16.841 It's just like. 00:16:17.023 --> 00:16:26.511 If I have to, I have to scare from a distance yeah but occasionally, and occasionally not on purpose, ryan and him will scare me out of fucking nowhere. 00:16:26.511 --> 00:16:28.547 I'm like what the fuck? 00:16:28.547 --> 00:16:30.784 Like I wasn't doing it on purpose. 00:16:30.784 --> 00:16:33.265 I promise, I promise, I promise, and they're just like please don't scare me. 00:16:33.265 --> 00:16:33.927 Please don't scare me. 00:16:36.681 --> 00:16:37.363 That's what you get. 00:16:37.363 --> 00:16:38.948 Bitch, that's what you get. 00:16:43.400 --> 00:16:49.563 And I'm not easily scared Like I don't know what it is. 00:16:49.563 --> 00:16:53.961 I just I know that I'm just not in tuned with anything because before it was so hard to scare me like way back now I'm just like a fucking pussy. 00:16:53.961 --> 00:16:56.048 You can scare me, I'm fucking like. 00:16:56.048 --> 00:16:58.115 But I like being scared. 00:16:58.115 --> 00:16:59.159 I think that's the best part. 00:16:59.159 --> 00:17:05.317 It's fun it's fun, sometimes it's sometimes if you're going to a haunted house and you know you're going in there for the thrill of it, right? 00:17:05.377 --> 00:17:07.445 Yeah, but we did not expect it. 00:17:09.183 --> 00:17:20.752 We were like boy do not go there, yeah, you will get throw punched Big time, but anywho, so we have this relationship and I know them. 00:17:20.752 --> 00:17:22.647 They're two dynamic individuals. 00:17:22.647 --> 00:17:25.527 My husband, he's very love

and infection. 00:17:25.527 --> 00:17:27.404 He's, uh, very understanding. 00:17:27.404 --> 00:17:29.576 I give him as much as love and attention as I possibly can. 00:17:29.576 --> 00:17:34.373 He's a fucking nerd when it comes to books and amongst other things too as well. 00:17:34.373 --> 00:17:40.086 But I mean that man can fucking buy and he's like, oh, I buy my stuff. 00:17:40.086 --> 00:17:44.055 I'm like, yeah, but bro, slow the fuck down. 00:17:44.055 --> 00:17:46.680 And he's doing this thing right now with the claw machine. 00:17:46.680 --> 00:17:54.202 It's so fucking cute with the books, it's super fucking adorable it is, I'm like it's super fucking cute, uh. 00:17:54.403 --> 00:17:55.484 So he has that. 00:17:55.484 --> 00:17:57.949 So I know each of them. 00:17:57.949 --> 00:17:59.090 I uh rad. 00:17:59.090 --> 00:18:01.800 He likes his uh magic of the gathering. 00:18:01.800 --> 00:18:03.384 He's very into dnd. 00:18:03.384 --> 00:18:04.769 He's having a lot of fun. 00:18:05.009 --> 00:18:07.443 Uh, certain days he has dnd night, some days he doesn't. 00:18:07.443 --> 00:18:10.314 I think saturdays or sundays is dnd night. 00:18:10.314 --> 00:18:16.189 I mean, yeah, so if I get off work or whatnot, I kind of spend, I try to spend quality time, yeah, with it. 00:18:16.189 --> 00:18:17.992 But tuesday wins monday. 00:18:17.992 --> 00:18:27.145 Tuesday quality times with hubby I get to spend time with him because I get off like at seven and I get to kind of spend now, and then I have game night that I spend time with him, because I get off like at seven and I get to kind of spend now, and then I have game night that I spend time with him. 00:18:27.145 --> 00:18:33.059 To be able to do that with hubby, yeah, I normally spend it with rather like going to like certain events. 00:18:33.059 --> 00:18:41.294 Like I think this weekend he has an event coming up or one that I will probably end up going to and see how that's coming along and see how that's going and whatnot. 00:18:41.294 --> 00:18:45.314 That's awesome, so kudos to him for that. 00:18:45.314 --> 00:18:49.509 I think he's also going to be on call too as well, but I'm just like shit, dude sucks. 00:18:49.509 --> 00:19:15.451 But that's the thing about poly relationships is that I do like, when I'm talking to other guys, I let my other boys know like, oh hey, I'm talking to this one guy, he seems really cool, um, but I'm getting to know him first before I, before I introduce them to anybody, anybody, it's you know I need to you need to know him first right, yeah, so naturally that's naturally, just like any other relationship 00:19:15.490 --> 00:19:24.961 you get to know people before you commit yourself to said relationship and it's and it's cool because, um, a lot of a lot of people who who've seen rad? 00:19:24.961 --> 00:19:27.287 They're just like, oh, I've seen a lot of change in him. 00:19:27.287 --> 00:19:28.811 I'm like, oh, thank you, I appreciate that. 00:19:28.811 -->

00:19:32.227 No, like you're his boy, he's your boy. 00:19:32.227 --> 00:19:33.069 I'm like, yeah, he's my boy. 00:19:33.069 --> 00:19:37.590 Like, wow, he's calmed down a whole lot. 00:19:37.590 --> 00:19:38.724 Like what is it that you're doing? 00:19:38.724 --> 00:19:44.085 I was like I just praise him Like that, praise them, like that's all all the boys need is just praising. 00:19:44.164 --> 00:19:48.709 Like I'm proud of you, keep it up, be the best thing that you can. 00:19:48.709 --> 00:19:51.971 And I'm on top of them when it comes to their medication and whatnot. 00:19:51.971 --> 00:19:53.313 Like, hey, have you taken your prep? 00:19:53.313 --> 00:19:54.114 Have you done this? 00:19:54.114 --> 00:19:55.315 Have you had your water? 00:19:55.315 --> 00:19:56.715 How's everything going? 00:19:56.715 --> 00:19:57.876 I'm always asking how's it work? 00:19:57.876 --> 00:20:02.086 It's good. 00:20:02.086 --> 00:20:03.308 And I'm like that's fine. 00:20:03.308 --> 00:20:06.494 Like I get that you're far away and I get that you're on these trips. 00:20:06.494 --> 00:20:15.450 But just remember, it's because you're working and hopefully you're getting a little extra on top of that, right, and you're being a really good boy by doing your work. 00:20:15.450 --> 00:20:16.584 So keep it up. 00:20:16.584 --> 00:20:22.031 You know, and sometimes having those praises for a lot of people is just so fucking amazing, you know what I mean. 00:20:23.420 --> 00:20:24.643 It's just so fucking amazing you know what I mean. 00:20:24.643 --> 00:20:25.865 So yeah, because sometimes it makes all the difference. 00:20:25.865 --> 00:20:27.229 It really does, because they're seen. 00:20:27.229 --> 00:20:27.548 That's it. 00:20:27.548 --> 00:20:28.171 Yeah, that's it. 00:20:28.171 --> 00:20:33.170 Somebody saw them and they acknowledge them and their struggle, and that's it like his baby voice. 00:20:33.191 --> 00:20:35.163 When he does his baby voice, it's so fucking cute. 00:20:35.163 --> 00:20:46.874 It is so fucking cute because I like and he's like yay I'm just like oh so fucking cute, um, but I don't know where the baby voice has come from originally. 00:20:46.874 --> 00:20:58.980 I haven't asked him, though, but he does like when he does talk, he talks normally, and when I, when I hear his normal voice, I know that he's like getting into a conversation right he's a big youtuber, just like my husband. 00:20:58.980 --> 00:21:03.246 I'm just like her music choices. 00:21:03.246 --> 00:21:10.736 I do have concerns wow, wow because you'll listen to something. 00:21:10.776 --> 00:21:12.161 And he goes like daddy, can I put a song on? 00:21:12.161 --> 00:21:24.369 I'm just saying you get one song and then you have to put it back, okay why? 00:21:24.450 --> 00:21:25.570 what's so bad about it? 00:21:26.270 --> 00:21:30.253 it's not my cup of tea for one and two, uh. 00:21:30.253 --> 00:21:36.217 Um, when we're hanging out and normally when I just get off of work, I'm

still in the like process of de-stressing. 00:21:36.217 --> 00:21:37.240 So that's just. 00:21:37.240 --> 00:21:40.777 The main thing is that I'm still decompressing on a lot of the situations. 00:21:40.777 --> 00:21:57.565 So it's it's kind of like I'm trying to listen, I like I'm still trying to decompress whenever I get from over there and I haven't fully decompressed all the way and I'm just like sometimes I just need him to love on me, hug on me, and that's pretty much where I'm just like and he wants to sing and everything, which I got. 00:21:57.565 --> 00:21:59.788 Nothing against the singing, because he sings fucking beautifully. 00:21:59.788 --> 00:22:01.369 I love when he sings, it's great. 00:22:01.369 --> 00:22:07.403 But sometimes I'm just like boy, shut the fuck up, just hold me really moment, because I'm just trying to fucking decompress from work. 00:22:07.403 --> 00:22:07.944 God damn it. 00:22:07.944 --> 00:22:12.364 I don't tell him these things because I feel bad. 00:22:13.016 --> 00:22:13.096 And. 00:22:13.116 --> 00:22:13.917 I'm not an asshole. 00:22:13.917 --> 00:22:15.300 I Because I feel bad, and I'm not an asshole. 00:22:15.320 --> 00:22:16.002 I mean, I am an asshole. 00:22:16.002 --> 00:22:17.727 I was like, oh yeah, Don't lie. 00:22:18.007 --> 00:22:23.542 I'm not, I really am not an asshole, maybe to y'all, because y'all deserve it, but still. 00:22:23.682 --> 00:22:26.880 Excuse me, the hell we do. 00:22:26.880 --> 00:22:32.654 We don't do nothing to deserve it it is just so funny. 00:22:32.654 --> 00:22:34.122 Look, I've got enough shit for tonight, okay. 00:22:34.122 --> 00:22:42.560 Bitch I haven't done anything yet no, not from you. 00:22:42.580 --> 00:22:43.222 I'm talking about online shit. 00:22:43.242 --> 00:22:43.765 Oh the stuff that I read. 00:22:43.765 --> 00:22:44.709 Oh, that's right, that is just fucking. 00:22:44.709 --> 00:22:45.230 I haven't touched it. 00:22:45.230 --> 00:22:46.214 So who knows what's waiting for me now? 00:22:47.960 --> 00:22:49.986 bitch, welcome to fucking social media. 00:22:49.986 --> 00:22:53.936 Holy shit, people get their asses hurt, it's hilarious because, like I said, it's linked. 00:22:54.038 --> 00:22:57.787 I'm never on that platform Ever, because I post what I post on Facebook. 00:22:57.967 --> 00:22:58.147 Right. 00:22:58.335 --> 00:23:01.474 Because it's linked, it automatically goes over there, but I never jump on it. 00:23:01.494 --> 00:23:05.508 But you know, when people don't read the captions or the things that are above it, they just see that. 00:23:05.508 --> 00:23:07.255 Yeah, and then all of a sudden, they're triggered by it. 00:23:08.876 --> 00:23:12.482 Yeah, they just keep getting notification after going on with this me. 00:23:12.522 --> 00:23:16.469 I just would be like so it's not that the red flag is this. 00:23:16.628 --> 00:23:26.836 It's the red flag that you didn't read the captions that I put I'm like I put this thing because I was sharing it

so that I can discredit it, because I don't feel that it's true I would be like, bro, are you fucking stupid? 00:23:27.018 --> 00:23:30.166 like, see, that's the thing I look. 00:23:30.166 --> 00:23:33.035 Yes, I'm an asshole in some points of you know, whatever. 00:23:33.035 --> 00:23:34.195 Oh, my god, I'm getting defensive. 00:23:34.195 --> 00:23:45.705 And it's funny because, yes, I'm an asshole when it comes to certain things, like if it's just like, really, I think that's everybody Really. 00:23:45.726 --> 00:23:46.446 I think that's everybody. 00:23:46.446 --> 00:23:50.589 Because, dude, if there's injustices, I will be like I'm sorry. 00:23:50.589 --> 00:23:56.703 What I will dude, I'm like no, they didn't like. 00:23:56.723 --> 00:24:03.003 If my boss I remember my, my former boss, yeah, my like. 00:24:03.003 --> 00:24:03.765 Here's the s like. 00:24:03.765 --> 00:24:07.843 Here's the example of me being an asshole, like major, like assholeness. 00:24:07.843 --> 00:24:10.634 Is that my boss, my last boss that I worked for at ikea? 00:24:10.634 --> 00:24:12.018 I called him a cunt. 00:24:12.018 --> 00:24:14.020 Like he, I literally called him a cunt. 00:24:14.060 --> 00:24:30.843 He's just like what I started just a little bit right are you naturally a cunt or is this is who you are as a person, like, because, naturally, like, I've dealt with a lot of cunts. 00:24:30.843 --> 00:24:36.521 But, bro, you are more gay than I am and you got a girlfriend, the fuck like. 00:24:36.521 --> 00:24:39.962 Well, I'm just doing what they're telling me and do you normally listen to what they say? 00:24:39.962 --> 00:24:42.002 Like, are you naturally stupid? 00:24:42.255 --> 00:24:44.323 Even when it's a douchebag move. 00:24:45.236 --> 00:24:46.160 Yeah, that's the thing. 00:24:46.160 --> 00:24:52.220 Like I'm cool, I'm down, but yeah, I guess I am an asshole. 00:24:52.220 --> 00:25:04.707 Thank you, thank you, not on purpose, thank you when is dilly deserved I mean yes, absolutely when it's deserved what did I do to you? 00:25:07.382 --> 00:25:16.224 let me tally that shit up real quick can wrap around the earth twice, that's awesome see. 00:25:16.346 --> 00:25:16.605 I'm not. 00:25:16.605 --> 00:25:19.654 I'm not a bad asshole with you or anybody else. 00:25:19.654 --> 00:25:21.019 I'm a lovable asshole. 00:25:21.019 --> 00:25:21.821 That's just like. 00:25:21.821 --> 00:25:26.945 I'm gonna call it out for what it is because I think it's funny yeah because, like how they always ask me, do you know what time? 00:25:26.945 --> 00:25:30.541 It is same time as yesterday, but 24 hours later, bitch bitch? 00:25:30.682 --> 00:25:33.579 yeah, you're just, you're a smart-ass asshole yeah. 00:25:33.861 --> 00:25:34.923 I am a smart-ass asshole. 00:25:34.963 --> 00:25:36.146 Yeah, that's what you are. 00:25:36.146 --> 00:25:45.525 And I've met some people who I can meet my match and just say, hmm, yeah, no, because then the rest of us were sitting there like, oh

shit. 00:25:45.845 --> 00:25:48.230 Yeah, exactly, here we go, here we go. 00:25:49.154 --> 00:25:52.750 Because now nobody can be outdone in this group. 00:25:52.750 --> 00:25:58.086 Dear Lord, no I wish we could record game night for you guys. 00:25:59.336 --> 00:26:01.403 Because it's always me and the fucking twink. 00:26:01.403 --> 00:26:02.763 They're always going head to head. 00:26:02.804 --> 00:26:06.142 That's why, and then sometimes, Sometimes John will chime in, chime in. 00:26:06.234 --> 00:26:08.082 I'm just like are you fucking for real? 00:26:08.102 --> 00:26:08.442 dude. 00:26:08.442 --> 00:26:12.859 Sometimes Fabian will chime in with everybody else, or him, and the twink will go. 00:26:12.859 --> 00:26:14.541 I'm just like yo, you, but he yells for him in the twink. 00:26:14.582 --> 00:26:15.202 I'm just like yo, you got. 00:26:15.202 --> 00:26:17.925 You got a twink in the pub going after each other. 00:26:17.945 --> 00:26:22.691 We're sitting across the table Just like shaking our heads Like oh my God. 00:26:24.134 --> 00:26:29.884 And sometimes I don't have to do anything, like the pup just does everything for me, Like he some of the shit he says I'm like damn. 00:26:29.884 --> 00:26:37.848 Cause he missed he's just like I know you don't like the twink, so it's not that I don't like the twink, as I tolerate the twink. 00:26:37.848 --> 00:26:43.551 There's a fucking big difference, so but I think all of it is hilarious. 00:26:43.551 --> 00:26:46.833 That's just me I digress, I mean, they don't well, because I'm not. 00:26:46.893 --> 00:26:48.034 Yeah, I'm well, I'm not. 00:26:48.034 --> 00:26:49.376 I'm just saying I'm not into. 00:26:49.376 --> 00:26:52.742 I don't feel any particular way about anybody yeah that's why. 00:26:52.742 --> 00:26:54.125 So my thing is like I love. 00:26:54.164 --> 00:26:59.233 It's not that I don't like, so it's not that I don't like the twink because I can't say I don't like him. 00:26:59.233 --> 00:27:02.681 I mean, he already knows that I feel a particular type of way about it. 00:27:02.761 --> 00:27:07.140 You know whatnot yeah but we used to be close right so, but anyway, that's natural. 00:27:07.140 --> 00:27:11.193 But anyway, back to like polyanthropals and whatnot. 00:27:11.193 --> 00:27:21.843 Like that's the thing about, like it's what it's great about hanging out with the men that I've been with or whatnot, because it's a lot of fun. 00:27:21.843 --> 00:27:26.477 It has been a lot of fun, it's been a great time it's been. 00:27:26.477 --> 00:27:29.705 I wouldn't change it for the world at all period. 00:27:29.705 --> 00:27:32.063 And a lot of people are just like, well, why do you do it? 00:27:32.063 --> 00:27:34.865 I'm like the reason I do it's because I can. 00:27:34.865 --> 00:27:41.102 I can love everybody genuinely but at the same time I'm still going to respect the relationship I have. 00:27:41.102 --> 00:27:46.439 Uh, and I like my husband's not a very outdoorsy person. 00:27:46.439 --> 00:27:53.978 Like if we wanted to go to that camping, he'd be like, yeah, no oh, it's camping, it's outside, outside. 00:27:54.018 --> 00:27:55.459 Yeah, yeah, exactly. 00:27:55.459 --> 00:28:03.007 But with Rad, he likes camping, but he likes these kind of things too, and it's part of the whole King Fest, king Keith. 00:28:03.067 --> 00:28:03.267 Right. 00:28:03.807 --> 00:28:04.248 It's his thing. 00:28:04.248 --> 00:28:04.808 It's his thing. 00:28:04.808 --> 00:28:06.170 So it's his thing, it's my thing. 00:28:06.170 --> 00:28:07.770 We're going to have a fun, we're going to have a good time. 00:28:07.770 --> 00:28:24.134 No-transcript. 00:28:24.134 --> 00:28:27.082 Do you really want to do what I want to do? 00:28:27.082 --> 00:28:29.714 Because what I want to do is not exactly what you want to do. 00:28:29.714 --> 00:28:34.962 You know so, because you know let's, I don't know. 00:28:34.962 --> 00:28:40.851 Uh, I think it's just a hubby's not he like we can go to. 00:28:40.851 --> 00:28:48.467 We haven't gone to the san antonio zoo in a good minute though, but if we do go to the zoo, it's just like it's hot, and I'm just like he's already complaining. 00:28:48.567 --> 00:28:52.401 I'm already like I'm gonna go home, the san antonio zoo no, not yet. 00:28:52.421 --> 00:28:53.566 We need to go I don't. 00:28:54.007 --> 00:28:56.013 I don't think I've ever been to the center. 00:28:56.013 --> 00:29:02.517 That's what I'm saying, like ever ever I've been to the dallas zoo and I've been to the gladys porter zoo in brownsville. 00:29:02.557 --> 00:29:05.365 But all I know is we take you. 00:29:05.365 --> 00:29:11.641 We're taking a big ass umbrella and a shit ton of water bitch like charlie I forget my 100 spf. 00:29:11.641 --> 00:29:15.185 Bitch, you need a 500 spf I do. 00:29:15.866 --> 00:29:16.709 We can go in the fall. 00:29:16.709 --> 00:29:20.074 I'm just saying this is not so. 00:29:20.074 --> 00:29:28.819 I'm sure ryan would appreciate that too, because I'm just in the summer, at least in the fall it's still sunny enough. 00:29:29.142 --> 00:29:35.082 It's just, it's nice and breezy, that's all yeah, there's not a much foot traffic though, but there's a lot of good stuff that goes on in the summertime. 00:29:35.824 --> 00:29:43.101 Like what the little stations that sell snow cones yeah, that's fucking cool Snow cones. 00:29:43.121 --> 00:29:44.724 Watch out now you can get snow cone anywhere. 00:29:44.724 --> 00:29:46.087 I know they're really expensive. 00:29:46.555 --> 00:29:48.403 You can literally go to a corner store on the west side. 00:29:49.394 --> 00:29:50.862 Back on tracks, ma'am. 00:29:51.935 --> 00:29:59.659 Sorry, you mentioned the zoo Squirrel sorry you mentioned the zoo squirrel. 00:29:59.679 --> 00:30:00.423 Yeah, literally my adhd is kicking in. 00:30:00.423 --> 00:30:00.865 You know what I think? 00:30:00.865 --> 00:30:01.186 It's even funny. 00:30:01.186 --> 00:30:15.916 People think that you and I are

in a poly relationship because we're so close and we're always doing shit it's because we're brothers and sisters yeah, exactly, I'm just like no, that's not how that works no, that's not how that works at all no, at all, like hell, no I mean, we're not really brothers and sister, are you? 00:30:15.916 --> 00:30:16.397 On love. 00:30:16.397 --> 00:30:23.309 Define love, friends, friends, brother and sister, yep, oh so incest, no, no. 00:30:25.016 --> 00:30:25.958 I'm sorry what. 00:30:27.340 --> 00:30:27.761 Kill me. 00:30:27.761 --> 00:30:30.748 You want to run that by me again. 00:30:30.768 --> 00:30:32.200 It's like that's my little brother. 00:30:32.200 --> 00:30:38.084 Yeah, she's my older sister. 00:30:38.084 --> 00:30:38.449 That's disgusting. 00:30:38.449 --> 00:30:38.894 Speaking of old Bitch. 00:30:38.894 --> 00:30:48.207 Wow, look, I already said it one time I had enough shit for tonight. 00:30:48.207 --> 00:30:54.001 I don't need it from you too, brother, you will not come at me. 00:30:54.829 --> 00:30:55.856 I was going to for a moment. 00:30:55.876 --> 00:30:57.141 I have done nothing to you. 00:30:57.843 --> 00:31:04.486 I don't care but, I'm not an asshole someone told me how do you know how? 00:31:04.486 --> 00:31:06.048 How do you think didi is? 00:31:06.048 --> 00:31:17.694 I don't know, I just count the wrinkles on her forehead you're not an asshole, not at all I told that to ab the other day because because of his birthday just passed. 00:31:17.734 --> 00:31:18.898 You're just a whole ass dick. 00:31:18.979 --> 00:31:20.464 Yeah, yeah, Because his birthday passed. 00:31:20.464 --> 00:31:22.778 He was like aw, you look your age, he goes. 00:31:22.778 --> 00:31:23.835 What the fuck is that supposed to mean? 00:31:23.835 --> 00:31:25.060 I can count the wrinkles on your forehead. 00:31:25.060 --> 00:31:27.742 I was like aw, the bags underneath your eye. 00:31:27.742 --> 00:31:29.321 You can put tundra underneath there. 00:31:29.321 --> 00:31:38.826 If you add the bags under your eyes, you get your age. 00:31:38.826 --> 00:31:39.672 I love this for you. 00:31:39.672 --> 00:31:42.098 He's like fuck you, You're an asshole. 00:31:42.098 --> 00:31:44.405 Happy birthday, we're aware. 00:31:46.175 --> 00:31:47.823 You say this like you didn't know. 00:31:49.556 --> 00:32:03.321 But I think my throuple that I had I don't regret it that I had, I don't regret it, I think it was, I don't think I know it was a very good learning curve and a learning tool, uh, for that relationship. 00:32:03.321 --> 00:32:17.829 And what, um, if me and hubby was to ever find a throuple and we were to ever do that again, uh, there would be definitely some rules that we would place forward on there. 00:32:18.576 --> 00:32:21.224 I think that was the whole purpose of it, to be honest, yeah. 00:32:22.498 --> 00:32:26.307 I think we need to get to know the person a little bit better before anything else. 00:32:26.307 --> 00:32:34.059 And I think the next step is

they need to be financially stable, because that's going to be the main thing Like if something happens. 00:32:34.059 --> 00:32:34.561 Like what are we? 00:32:34.561 --> 00:32:48.582 Because when you're in a throuple and you know you're going to move in and you're making that big, drastic change, having someone move in into your whole life, you, you know, bills become more than what anticipated with. 00:32:48.582 --> 00:32:49.144 You know what I mean. 00:32:49.246 --> 00:33:02.643 but I think this time it's just going to be like make sure you have your own vehicle, have your own insurance right you need to pay for that, yeah, um, but as far as like groceries, all that stuff, that's something you all have to talk about when it comes to the throuples, because the people are like, well, how are the bills? 00:33:02.643 --> 00:33:03.808 Like it doesn't get more expensive. 00:33:03.808 --> 00:33:13.681 I think it gets more crowded, because you definitely need a bigger setting when it comes to a house, because it's not just your stuff, it's also their stuff too as well. 00:33:13.681 --> 00:33:18.328 So you need a bigger um area to kind of call home. 00:33:18.328 --> 00:33:19.298 You know what I mean. 00:33:19.298 --> 00:33:23.457 So I think that's another thing that people don't realize, especially a poly relationship. 00:33:23.457 --> 00:33:32.919 You don't need a whole lot of space when it comes to poly relationship because, necessarily, they have their own space, they have their own house, they have their own place where they can kind of go. 00:33:32.919 --> 00:33:42.816 And I think that's kind of like the thing that when we were trying to look for a house, we were trying to figure out where it's going to be more convenient for a lot of places. 00:33:42.915 --> 00:33:45.280 Hubby said he likes the thousand oaks area. 00:33:45.280 --> 00:33:57.987 I kind of liked it where master cad and rad were at, because that area is pretty much growing and it's booming and it's kind of closer to um traders village. 00:33:57.987 --> 00:34:00.210 So yeah, that's. 00:34:00.210 --> 00:34:04.465 They're close to that way, remember, because we went, you went with us, they're going there. 00:34:04.465 --> 00:34:05.615 Yeah, that's south. 00:34:05.615 --> 00:34:12.456 So for ryan and ryan wants to kind of come over here by a thousand oaks because he said he really likes that area, whatnot? 00:34:12.456 --> 00:34:17.523 I'm like, okay, well, that's fine, I just tend to do whatever he wants, like, okay, that's what you want, that's what you want. 00:34:17.523 --> 00:34:25.164 But I'm just like, fuck, I don't think he goes, well, because, would that matter? 00:34:25.164 --> 00:34:29.521 I was like it doesn't matter, you just got to remember, wherever we got to go, I have to still pick up dd. 00:34:29.521 --> 00:34:31.807 So it's going to be in that distance. 00:34:31.807 --> 00:34:39.318 And and we're just like, when we just have dd moving with us, I'm like, well, that's not

an issue, but we need a big space. 00:34:39.318 --> 00:34:59.608 So if we're gonna do a big space and we just need to do it or not and we both joke, because we joked with you guys why she can be the help of my bitch- wouldn't be any different than what I've been my entire life bro the help lives here because we had ongoing jokes at my mom's house too yeah, no people 00:34:59.628 --> 00:35:10.101 come over and everybody's sitting at the dining table and they're eating and I'm over there by the counter just eating off my plate and they're like you're not gonna sit down and I would joke and I would be like, oh no, I'm the help and I'm not allowed to sit at the table. 00:35:10.101 --> 00:35:11.585 And they're like, oh yeah. 00:35:11.585 --> 00:35:12.956 And they're like what? 00:35:12.956 --> 00:35:22.706 And of course my mom and dad are like really, really, and I was like I'm kidding, oh my God, like I'm good, like yeah, I would joke, like I'd literally just be like did? 00:35:22.746 --> 00:35:24.146 you really just say that and make us look bad. 00:35:24.146 --> 00:35:27.269 That is fucking hilarious, yeah, and you know what's funny? 00:35:27.269 --> 00:35:28.731 Our friends would actually believe it. 00:35:30.956 --> 00:35:31.536 Like you're a dick. 00:35:31.536 --> 00:35:34.079 Yeah, I know you would be like oh no, they don't let me sit at the table. 00:35:34.079 --> 00:35:35.661 They're like what? 00:35:35.661 --> 00:35:40.909 Oh shit, it's gonna be if if it ever comes, if we ever move in together. 00:35:41.068 --> 00:35:47.885 It's gonna be a thing this is so fucking hilarious, but it's, that's funny. 00:35:47.885 --> 00:36:07.400 It's one of those things like I just I genuinely love our friendship, hannah, because friendships and if you think about friends, friends genuinely are just like a poly relationship, because your friends have their own friends and friends and then you have the hierarchy friends where you have your og friends that you grew up with, that you initially would hang out with besides your other friends, right. 00:36:07.400 --> 00:36:13.885 So it's kind of like that, like when I call like my, my best friends from corpus and like oh you have another best friend. 00:36:13.905 --> 00:36:16.918 I'm like bitch, I barely fucking talk to you like what the fuck you mean. 00:36:16.918 --> 00:36:22.284 But it's funny because the other friends will get like five best friends yeah, you can have five best friends, that's what I said. 00:36:22.344 --> 00:36:23.436 No, I think I have like five. 00:36:23.436 --> 00:36:26.422 I got five yeah but nobody's nobody. 00:36:26.422 --> 00:36:29.315 Nobody feels any type of way about any of the others, you know what I mean. 00:36:29.335 --> 00:36:31.559 It's on my friends, it's just fucking hilarious. 00:36:31.579 --> 00:36:32.161 That's weird. 00:36:32.161 --> 00:36:34.164 It's like, oh, they're my best friend and not yours. 00:36:34.164 --> 00:36:38.539 Like, okay, they're not your person, they're

your best friend. 00:36:38.539 --> 00:36:39.402 Like what? 00:36:40.887 --> 00:36:49.958 I think it's funny because the best friend, as a best friend title, it feels that it's given to them because they're the only friend and they don't realize their other. 00:36:49.958 --> 00:36:52.226 Like I have my bad bitches click. 00:36:52.226 --> 00:36:53.269 You know what I mean I have. 00:36:53.269 --> 00:36:55.155 I have my click and I know the click. 00:36:55.155 --> 00:37:00.686 Who I hang around with will know exactly, I know who have my back and I know who will question going. 00:37:01.728 --> 00:37:03.197 I don't know, yeah, you know what I mean. 00:37:03.257 --> 00:37:05.742 So it's, uh, becomes very that. 00:37:05.742 --> 00:37:11.302 So for the most part, I just kind of kind of just chill for a moment. 00:37:11.302 --> 00:37:26.192 You know what I mean, because I think naturally I just need, I like that, I like that you're here, I like that we're doing this podcast and everything else here as well now, because this is what technically our friendship would be technically a poly relationship, but for friends right. 00:37:26.432 --> 00:37:36.164 So yeah, because to kind of think about it, that's how it is, it's like it's like family, look like you said all the time like brother and sister or whatever, but we're like that brother and sister that grew up tight yeah, you know what I mean, like it. 00:37:36.164 --> 00:37:38.387 Oh so he was my ride or die the whole time. 00:37:38.387 --> 00:37:39.735 We grew up and vice versa. 00:37:39.735 --> 00:37:40.217 You know what I? 00:37:40.659 --> 00:37:54.164 mean, yeah, like we were friends all the way through, like from like wrestling and whatnot, like we weren't as closed during wrestling but we would talk shit or whatnot to say things, and we would be in the corner like, oh wow, you know, but that was before, I think. 00:37:54.164 --> 00:37:57.856 I don't know, was I already out of the closet or did I come out of the closet? 00:37:57.876 --> 00:38:06.134 you came out of the closet because I think, I think we were like the second or third people that you told right yeah, and we're just kind of like oh, thank you for trusting us. 00:38:06.213 --> 00:38:12.396 Yeah, it was like me coming out to y'all fine, and I wasn't fully comfortable with my sexuality at that time. 00:38:12.396 --> 00:38:24.666 I was still kind of, I think people would they peg me to be like very straight, like very I was sure, yeah, for sure, because when you came out I I honestly wouldn't have known but, especially because when I met you, you were with your girlfriend at the time, yeah. 00:38:25.175 --> 00:38:27.603 So I was just kind of like oh yeah, straight dude, like no biggie. 00:38:27.603 --> 00:38:38.309 So when you were like you came out where I was like oh faggot wow no, that's hilarious, that's so bad. 00:38:38.309 --> 00:38:45.768 Dang, just paint me and james as bad people. 00:38:45.927 --> 00:38:48.492 Dang, no, we didn't they would, they really would come. 00:38:48.514 --> 00:38:51.221 No, we're just like dude that was cool, like that was. 00:38:51.221 --> 00:39:01.061 That was cool because, like I said, we felt proud that you were comfortable enough with us to come out, like for us to be some of the first people. 00:39:01.375 --> 00:39:03.601 Yeah, because you've seen some of the shit that I've been through. 00:39:03.601 --> 00:39:07.362 Like for some of the relationships I'm just like holy shit. 00:39:07.362 --> 00:39:09.722 And then even now I'm just like damn. 00:39:09.722 --> 00:39:15.407 Like how do you get back into the same situation that you were in before, but in a throuple Like it doesn't make any sense. 00:39:15.407 --> 00:39:19.519 No, you get you back into the same situation that you were in before, but in a throuple like it doesn't make any sense. 00:39:19.483 --> 00:39:19.905 No, not no more, because guess what? 00:39:19.905 --> 00:39:22.831 His sister lives here with him now, I know so when he brings somebody, he'll be like I don't like this one bitch. 00:39:22.831 --> 00:39:24.275 It's like why? 00:39:24.335 --> 00:39:31.762 because he's something he's acting like the others as soon as she says that you're deuces. 00:39:31.802 --> 00:39:34.425 I'm sorry he's like no, no, we have to go our separate ways. 00:39:34.425 --> 00:39:35.068 It's not? 00:39:35.068 --> 00:39:38.922 It's not me, it's you yep, it's not him, it's you. 00:39:38.922 --> 00:39:44.101 You're not gonna, you're not about to do my brother wrong but no, it's uh. 00:39:44.121 --> 00:39:49.077 but that's just a thing, because you, when relationship you take serious, you take any relationship seriously. 00:39:49.077 --> 00:39:53.958 Now I'm not knocking monogamous relationship, because, yeah, monogamy is where it's at for a lot of people. 00:39:53.958 --> 00:39:56.405 I mean, if you just want to do that, you can, that's not a problem. 00:39:56.405 --> 00:39:58.057 I can do monogamy. 00:39:58.057 --> 00:40:03.259 If hubby was 100% what I was doing, I could probably do monogamy. 00:40:03.259 --> 00:40:09.947 In that sense, I would only keep it open unless we decided to bring someone else home and we were both agreeing on to it. 00:40:09.947 --> 00:40:10.929 We had a conversation. 00:40:10.929 --> 00:40:13.262 Then we would become the whole swingers. 00:40:13.262 --> 00:40:15.202 So that's the thing. 00:40:15.202 --> 00:40:21.155 You have different aspects and different relationships and different cultures and how they have it. 00:40:21.155 --> 00:40:22.500 It's just how it is. 00:40:22.500 --> 00:40:24.798 Like some cultures, people have five wives. 00:40:24.798 --> 00:40:28.306 Take the fuck Like okay Kudos to you Shit. 00:40:28.487 --> 00:40:35.286 Like hey, I don't want that, that's what I said. 00:40:35.407 --> 00:40:40.096 I'm like I, that's what I said. 00:40:40.096 --> 00:40:41.077 I'm like I'm cool with just the one dude. 00:40:41.077 --> 00:40:49.217 I'm not about to juggle

multiple because china, bro, I mean granted, granted, they're being the men that I expect them to be or want them to be, because I'm for me. 00:40:49.217 --> 00:40:52.541 This is just my opinion, my preference for me. 00:40:52.541 --> 00:40:58.469 Whenever I'm with my man, I want him to lead as a man. 00:40:58.469 --> 00:41:00.490 All right, I want him to be the leader. 00:41:00.490 --> 00:41:01.737 Like, does it be? 00:41:01.737 --> 00:41:04.222 Like, oh, you're gonna be a follower, like I would. 00:41:04.222 --> 00:41:05.987 I'd love to live in my femininity. 00:41:05.987 --> 00:41:07.898 Yes, yeah, you guess what? 00:41:07.898 --> 00:41:10.826 Because I've lived in my entire life in my masculinity. 00:41:10.826 --> 00:41:11.835 I don't want to do that, no more. 00:41:11.896 --> 00:41:14.362 Like, you want somebody who's take the lead. 00:41:14.362 --> 00:41:17.981 You know who can take the lead but also coddle you in a sense. 00:41:18.121 --> 00:41:23.239 Oh yeah, like no, no yeah, absolutely, he can take the lead, but I'm still being worshipped, bitch you know what I mean. 00:41:23.239 --> 00:41:38.186 Like no, no, no let's get this right let's get this, yeah it's not me being a follower and just like a little puppy, like no, I need you to lead the right way you know, I don't know if you ever meet somebody, I might have to punch him in the throat why not, if he's doing that? 00:41:38.525 --> 00:41:40.148 if he's not, because you're taking my best friend away. 00:41:40.148 --> 00:41:42.438 No, don't do that oh don't don't. 00:41:42.599 --> 00:41:44.885 Don't take her away, but how is he taking me away? 00:41:45.065 --> 00:41:46.347 don't take her away. 00:41:46.347 --> 00:41:47.378 He's not taking me away. 00:41:47.398 --> 00:41:49.483 Technically, he'll be giving me what I freaking need. 00:41:49.483 --> 00:41:50.545 That's all. 00:41:50.545 --> 00:41:52.338 And you want me to be happy? 00:41:52.338 --> 00:41:53.581 Hello, hello. 00:41:53.702 --> 00:41:54.001 Sure. 00:41:54.041 --> 00:41:55.065 Let's go with that. 00:41:55.065 --> 00:42:03.440 So look, I will be a good sister to you, you will be a good brother to me. 00:42:04.835 --> 00:42:05.518 I don't like you. 00:42:05.518 --> 00:42:08.722 Why you took her away from me, bitch? 00:42:09.094 --> 00:42:13.119 I'll be like really dude, be like, don't be petty brother. 00:42:13.420 --> 00:42:14.764 Don't be petty, but you're being nice to her. 00:42:14.764 --> 00:42:20.101 But if I find out you touch her in any way, shape or form and I'm not talking. 00:42:20.242 --> 00:42:38.603 I'm not talking sexually, but if you beat her, ain't gonna happen if I see a black eye on her ain't gonna happen, because the moment somebody raised their voice to me, I will throat punch that hoe can you imagine being in a relationship and you accidentally get a black eye, like legitimately, accidentally get a black eye? 00:42:39.244 --> 00:42:40.146 that would be fun. 00:42:40.146 --> 00:42:42.177 I'd be looking at

you like that would be. 00:42:42.177 --> 00:42:50.717 So I would be like that, better be fucking makeup that Like you, better Hold on Hold on. 00:42:50.717 --> 00:42:52.181 Hold on, we have a good. 00:42:52.550 --> 00:42:56.722 I need you to sit and I need to explain why the hell you have that on your face right now. 00:42:56.722 --> 00:43:05.242 You're like I promise you wasn't this Because I swear to God, if I look like that, if it was that and I look like this, you should look at homeboy. 00:43:05.242 --> 00:43:10.454 I'm going to tell you right now, All I know is homeboy better sleep with one eye open. 00:43:10.514 --> 00:43:14.001 That's for sure, Because we're not doing the Jennifer Lopez. 00:43:14.001 --> 00:43:15.063 Enough bullshit here. 00:43:15.063 --> 00:43:18.311 Man Trying to escape. 00:43:18.411 --> 00:43:21.958 That's awesome, he's asleep. 00:43:25.764 --> 00:43:39.340 That's awesome, but I think that's just the thing nobody didn't realize is that you know you can have a cycle relationship in poly monogamy or in a thruple period. 00:43:39.380 --> 00:43:47.855 I mean, that's just yeah, that's just how it is, because that's based on the person, not necessarily the relationship preference, which really sucks. 00:43:48.135 --> 00:43:49.619 But it is what it is. 00:43:49.619 --> 00:43:52.956 At the end of the day, you there's not that much you can do about preferences. 00:43:52.956 --> 00:44:04.204 I mean you can about preferences because everybody has a preference, right, but you can't do anything that when true colors are finally shown and you see it and you're just like God damn it yeah. 00:44:04.871 --> 00:44:22.760 That's why I said my thing is everybody's in such a rush because they're looking for instant gratification, they're looking to fulfill something that they cannot fulfill themselves, or they're choosing not to fulfill themselves, um, or they're looking for it out of loneliness, because they're avoiding things. 00:44:22.760 --> 00:44:29.521 When they do that, they're not giving themselves, nor the other person, enough time to get to know each other before they just jump into shit. 00:44:29.521 --> 00:44:34.657 So later down the line, when something pops off, that's when the real color show and they're like oh shit, I'm stuck. 00:44:34.657 --> 00:44:37.623 Yeah, how come you didn't take your time, dude? 00:44:37.623 --> 00:44:49.541 Everybody's still like oh, because we don't have a lot of time for what the shit that's meant for you will happen as it's meant for you yeah, I think a lot of a lot of it too is um, you find out. 00:44:49.681 --> 00:44:50.963 Even this is why. 00:44:50.963 --> 00:45:04.858 Uh, there was a story that I just saw really quickly just to kind of go off off subject here really quickly because I found something on TikTok and the guy was talking about let me find it here really quickly, it won't take me long. 00:45:04.858 --> 00:45:09.496 So he was talking about like how he's not trying to find what he

was like what's up with the gay community? 00:45:09.496 --> 00:45:18.898 I'm not trying to find um, you know x, y and z on certain things and whatnot and I'm just like okay, where is he going with this? 00:45:18.898 --> 00:45:28.878 And it dawned on me that the guy is literally just wanting someone to love here. 00:45:28.898 --> 00:45:34.023 It is Probably a little bit of a shocker for some of the gay men out there because sex is so like normalized in the gay community. 00:45:34.023 --> 00:45:35.505 But I don't want to fuck on the first date. 00:45:35.505 --> 00:45:37.215 I don't even really want you to touch me. 00:45:37.215 --> 00:45:41.201 I don't want any intimate actions on the first date because I don't fucking know you. 00:45:41.201 --> 00:45:42.755 You are a stranger to me. 00:45:42.755 --> 00:45:43.835 I'm trying to get to know you. 00:45:43.835 --> 00:45:46.436 Why is it so normalized? 00:45:46.436 --> 00:45:49.018 Why is it like an expectation at this point? 00:45:51.530 --> 00:45:53.378 at this point it might be a little bit of a shocker for some of the gay men out there. 00:45:53.378 --> 00:45:53.619 I get that. 00:45:53.639 --> 00:46:00.494 So, and I get that too because, like I said, it's a preference, it is a preference but remember what I used to talk about and I said okay, if you're going to go on a date, fuck on the first night, right? 00:46:00.494 --> 00:46:11.925 I also got to remember that doesn't work for everybody yeah you know what I mean, but I've only my thing was I'm more like homeboy yeah I'm just kind of like uh, I can't do that, I for me right personally, I'm like I can't. 00:46:12.728 --> 00:46:16.737 I can't have sexual relations with anybody that I don't, I cannot bond with. 00:46:16.737 --> 00:46:17.719 How do you bond with somebody? 00:46:17.719 --> 00:46:20.054 You got to get to know that in a poly relationship. 00:46:20.193 --> 00:46:20.976 I'm the same way too. 00:46:20.976 --> 00:46:23.670 I can't just get with somebody because there's a lot of gays. 00:46:23.670 --> 00:46:32.721 They're just like oh, I, I want to be in a throuple with you and your husband, I want to be, and it gets cute to kind of go back and forth and just like whatever, though, but at the same time I'm just like bro. 00:46:32.721 --> 00:46:41.684 These are like when I see you talking about or say something, and I see something on your post and you say something out loud and I'm just like I'm not. 00:46:41.704 --> 00:46:46.181 I'm not about that once they're starting to to suggest being in a relationship with you. 00:46:46.181 --> 00:46:50.713 That's where it's like okay, but that's something that's very serious yeah you see what I'm saying. 00:46:50.713 --> 00:47:02.090 So it's like we could do, you know, the messing around, but when you take it there, that's, that's something I have to make a big decision on, whereas for me, I'm like it doesn't even have to be the relationship part, just even the sex alone. 00:47:02.090 --> 00:47:07.260

I'm like for me that's something serious yeah, so I'm just like no for me. 00:47:07.380 --> 00:47:08.523 I think the sex for me. 00:47:08.523 --> 00:47:15.597 When I say that you know fucking the first night, it's because it tells me on the first date If I'm going to spend all this and. 00:47:15.657 --> 00:47:18.061 I say I'm the one to say, hey, I would like to take you on a date. 00:47:18.061 --> 00:47:20.583 Yeah, my treat, you don't have to worry about anything or whatnot. 00:47:20.583 --> 00:47:22.025 It's because if I can afford it, I can afford it. 00:47:22.025 --> 00:47:22.726 Right, I'll do it. 00:47:23.690 --> 00:47:35.284 I, in a poly relationship, if I'm going to go on a date, see what he's all about or whatnot, and goes, is he like, is it's like for work or is it like no, I genuinely like the guy. 00:47:35.284 --> 00:47:37.106 I want to get to know him and see what he's about. 00:47:37.106 --> 00:47:38.632 He likes me and he wants to know what he's about. 00:47:38.632 --> 00:47:40.159 He finds you attractive. 00:47:40.159 --> 00:47:48.190 So let me test out and see how everything works out and kind of go from there and if it works out and say, yeah, it's great, then we'll all hang out and whatnot. 00:47:48.190 --> 00:47:50.976 Yeah, uh, so it's just kind of like something like that. 00:47:50.976 --> 00:48:06.320 Like I said, I learned from the last relationship too as well that we just kind of all need to be on this on the same footing yeah, period, you have to get to know somebody in the long run yeah, because if hubby doesn't like you and he doesn't and he finds you annoying, like he's, just like it's not gonna work out. 00:48:06.579 --> 00:48:13.980 yep, because I may find you attractive, I may find you fun, but if that's only for me and you and not for him, Exactly what kind of how? 00:48:14.460 --> 00:48:16.985 honestly, honestly, how long do you expect that throuple to last? 00:48:17.204 --> 00:48:17.485 Right. 00:48:17.485 --> 00:48:23.943 So it's just like in the more in the meantime, I'm just kind of like I'm not looking for one. 00:48:23.943 --> 00:48:30.057 I'm not looking for anything because I can't take the right medication that I need to take, just to be able to have the fun that I need to have fun. 00:48:30.057 --> 00:48:32.139 So, yes, I need to be able to have the fun that I need to have fun. 00:48:32.139 --> 00:48:33.219 So, yes, I need to be like homeboy here, right? 00:48:33.219 --> 00:48:35.501 So it's uh, it's just pretty much that I can't. 00:48:35.501 --> 00:48:41.485 I can't do the things that I want to do, even if I do decide to want to bottom, I'm gonna have to wear a condom. 00:48:41.485 --> 00:48:46.114 I have the other person wear a condom on me right normally I'm a fucking breeder. 00:48:46.233 --> 00:48:47.614 So, yeah, naturally. 00:48:47.614 --> 00:48:56.206 But I have to be more cautious and I told, I told rad and I I told everybody else I can't be that same person. 00:48:56.206 --> 00:49:09.885 It's sexually, as frustrating as it may be, I have to be more cautious about myself because if I get sick, I can't take the medicine that is supposed to help out HIV, to bring down the viral loads or whatnot. 00:49:09.885 --> 00:49:11.858 That's going to be fucking hell on earth for me. 00:49:11.858 --> 00:49:13.117 So, yeah, this is for me. 00:49:13.117 --> 00:49:18.362 So, yeah, this is occasionally a me going, this is the universal leader, going, fuck you, you need to slow down. 00:49:18.362 --> 00:49:19.030 You know what I mean? 00:49:19.030 --> 00:49:19.833 You're not young. 00:49:19.833 --> 00:49:23.621 I mean, yes, I'm young, but I'm not young like I used to be. 00:49:23.621 --> 00:49:29.670 You know, and when the people are like, oh, you're 37, you're still a baby, you're like, yeah, says the 50 year old. 00:49:29.670 --> 00:49:31.275 You know, it's just like fuck off. 00:49:31.275 --> 00:49:43.099 You know, even when the phone calls are just like, oh, yeah, I'm 80, no, don't ever get old man, I'm 37, that's hilarious like I'm 37 people say actually I love when people say don't have kids. 00:49:43.681 --> 00:49:48.918 I love when they tell me that because, yeah, because my mom would always tell me that, which is funny because she's the one that had all the kids. 00:49:48.918 --> 00:49:54.480 So she would always be like don't have kids, and I'll just be like, okay, right, and everybody would just laugh. 00:49:54.480 --> 00:49:59.436 So now, when they tell me it's like don't have kids, I'm like I listened. 00:49:59.436 --> 00:50:06.235 I mean not, that that wasn't the reason why, you guys, but I like just saying that response, like I listened don't worry about it. 00:50:06.315 --> 00:50:13.679 I got it and she's just and it's funny because the one time I did tell her she was like, okay, well, at least have one, you know, so I can have one grandkid from you, whatever. 00:50:13.679 --> 00:50:18.369 And I'm like, nope, too late, sorry, sorry I know, that's my prime. 00:50:19.311 --> 00:50:21.215 My mom's like am I ever gonna have kids from you? 00:50:21.215 --> 00:50:23.762 Nope yeah nope, and it's funny. 00:50:23.762 --> 00:50:27.518 You can have the four-legged kind, but that's the best you're gonna get lady sorry it's pretty much. 00:50:27.518 --> 00:50:31.474 It like yeah, if you're not showing up at their funeral, don't come, don Don't bother. 00:50:32.115 --> 00:50:35.001 And it's funny because people were just like, oh well, did you want kids? 00:50:35.001 --> 00:50:37.554 Like yeah, when I was younger I wanted like at least. 00:50:37.554 --> 00:50:39.579 Oh, if I can at least have one of each, I'd be cool with that. 00:50:39.579 --> 00:50:40.059 You know what I mean. 00:50:40.059 --> 00:50:41.463 If it's more, it's more, whatever. 00:50:41.463 --> 00:50:42.916 But it's weird. 00:50:42.916 --> 00:50:52.777 I never did anything preventative, I just. 00:50:52.777 --> 00:50:53.757 It probably would have been James. 00:50:54.177 -->

00:50:54.398 Right. 00:50:54.777 --> 00:51:08.907 The ironic thing is James didn't survive this lifetime, so it's kind of a good thing that I didn't, because I honestly can't imagine having to deal with his death and having to mother an infant Right, because that would have killed me. 00:51:09.307 --> 00:51:13.599 Oh yeah, that would have fucking killed me. 00:51:13.599 --> 00:51:15.708 We would have been the gay uncles taking care of you. 00:51:15.708 --> 00:51:17.335 We would have been the gay uncles. 00:51:17.889 --> 00:51:23.693 But for whatever reason it didn't work out and I'm kind of like because, that's how it was meant to go, and did I really need to? 00:51:23.954 --> 00:51:24.677 No, no, no, no, no. 00:51:24.677 --> 00:51:35.646 But I think that's kind of like the beauty of like. 00:51:35.646 --> 00:51:39.706 If you're going to have a kid, you need to be financially stable to have a kid period and you need to have the space and you need to have the time to focus your time and attention. 00:51:39.628 --> 00:51:42.436 For me, I, I think if I'm gonna do a kid, you need to be prepared uh, it's not that I'm prepared. 00:51:42.436 --> 00:51:49.630 I think I won't do kids or be a foster parent until I was agreeing with you, like if you're, if you plan on having a kid, you just need to be prepared. 00:51:49.711 --> 00:51:53.300 Oh yeah, as a whole I think for me I would be a foster parent. 00:51:53.300 --> 00:51:59.313 But I wouldn't be a foster parent till like way in my 50s, like I would start late, like why do you want to be foster parents? 00:52:00.094 --> 00:52:11.777 I got plenty of room and I am retired, so I'm hoping to retire by time I'm 15, plenty of time yeah, I know, if retirement's like you're not tools to retire into your 70s, yeah, I'm not waiting that long, I'm gonna retire when I'm 50. 00:52:11.777 --> 00:52:14.161 Bitch like no, I gotta make money now. 00:52:14.161 --> 00:52:14.963 That's why I'm pushing hard. 00:52:14.983 --> 00:52:20.398 I have a co-worker who is retired really you'll never guess how old she is how old? 00:52:20.398 --> 00:52:25.331 She's 38 nice, nice yeah, and I'm like I'm sorry what? 00:52:25.331 --> 00:52:27.784 She's like yeah, and I'm just like so why are you working here? 00:52:27.784 --> 00:52:29.010 She's like so, I have something to do. 00:52:29.010 --> 00:52:33.447 I'm like oh, my god, that is awesome like what she's like. 00:52:33.447 --> 00:52:35.438 Yeah, she's like I'm actually trying to find like a house around here. 00:52:35.438 --> 00:52:37.369 She's like this area or whatever of the city. 00:52:37.449 --> 00:52:50.922 I'm like girl good for you like what I'm trying to find it because it's like I mean genuinely I would just love to just sit back and just retire and just kind of kick back and just let it happen. 00:52:50.922 --> 00:52:52.239 Whatever kind of happens. 00:52:52.239 --> 00:52:56.940 Like I want money to flow the way it needs to, how, whatever business that is. 00:52:56.960 -->

00:53:12.056 Like I don't want to work forever I definitely don't want to be well in my 70s or 60s I wouldn't invest something into where I'm just like, ah, this is where I just let my investment take care of whatever needs to take care of or whatnot. 00:53:13.338 --> 00:53:15.621 But yeah, no, I just I. 00:53:15.621 --> 00:53:19.186 Kids in a poly relationship is great. 00:53:19.186 --> 00:53:31.722 I think that's also another communication that people there's a polyamorous group that I'm in on Telegram that they do talk about how they take care of kids and a lot of them have a lot of issues when it comes to mental health that they all talk about and everything. 00:53:31.722 --> 00:53:37.838 So they're all there and they all ask questions like, hey, how do you handle this and whatnot. 00:53:37.838 --> 00:53:38.239 That's cool. 00:53:38.239 --> 00:53:43.175 I'm young and I don't have any of those issues and my issues that I have that I've already speak to uh, rad and hubby about. 00:53:43.175 --> 00:53:55.094 It's just like we're all on the same wavelengths, that we we kind of like sit down and we sit down, we talk and we chat and we talk more about what we need to get fixed and what needs to be done, and as simple as that. 00:53:55.094 --> 00:53:58.240 Like it's just how it is, you know. 00:53:58.742 --> 00:53:59.322 No, I agree. 00:54:00.815 --> 00:54:01.318 But I think it was. 00:54:01.530 --> 00:54:14.025 Especially because the way the world is changing, it's like the idea of having kids or the people that do have kids, like they're already struggling way more than they should or way more than they need, because they have said somebody who has like 15 kids. 00:54:14.025 --> 00:54:19.273 I'm like bro, stay off of her not like that, like how are you even surviving in this economy? 00:54:19.494 --> 00:54:28.179 I'm just wondering how the girlfriend is surviving in this economy, like, how are you even still moving, like you carried how many kids? 00:54:28.179 --> 00:54:58.239 That just goes to show you all well, because here's the thing like I see women who have like kids back to back and I know that women need to build up their nutrition right back because they need the certain nutrition to be able to hold a baby and I don't think nutrition like getting that nutrition within a year is literally not in today's it depends, it depends if you're healthy and you're taking care of yourself, then probably I was going to say it depends, Because sometimes their genetics it just makes it tank. 00:54:58.820 --> 00:54:59.612 Yeah, and there's other girls. 00:54:59.612 --> 00:55:00.396 They can handle it. 00:55:00.396 --> 00:55:01.342 They're cool. 00:55:01.342 --> 00:55:05.400 They don't tank as well or I mean as bad as the other girls. 00:55:05.400 --> 00:55:08.418 Because there's this particular girl online. 00:55:08.418 --> 00:55:14.753 I think she has five kids In between her second and her third. 00:55:14.753 --> 00:55:20.891 Her nutrition levels were

so incredibly low she lost a ridiculous amount of her teeth wow they literally just fell out. 00:55:20.952 --> 00:55:29.777 There was no gingivitis, there was no, like you know, underlying disease, uh, dental disease, it she was so malnourished which was crazy, because she wasn't skinny, it was just. 00:55:29.777 --> 00:55:35.268 It took everything from her to create and birth that child. 00:55:35.949 --> 00:55:36.311 Yeah, because. 00:55:36.351 --> 00:55:38.244 I'm like, I'm sorry, what. 00:55:38.244 --> 00:55:38.869 That is insane. 00:55:38.949 --> 00:55:41.458 I don't think women realize like I'm not trying. 00:55:41.458 --> 00:55:42.179 Oh, here I am. 00:55:42.179 --> 00:55:45.440 I'm going to try not explaining something here real quickly. 00:55:45.440 --> 00:55:49.275 Jesus, how dare you man, explain my body? 00:55:49.275 --> 00:55:55.112 I know I'm sorry, I do apologize, let's see mansplain to me. 00:55:55.112 --> 00:56:02.063 I think it's important for a woman to be very nourished, very healthy, to be able to go I'm ready to have another kid. 00:56:02.063 --> 00:56:10.110 I think there's, there has to be, a way to tell if a woman is nourished enough to be able to carry another kid. 00:56:10.110 --> 00:56:20.795 I think this is why, when I see kids parents are having kids like one after another, like year, a year after year after year, year after year I'm just like, how are you doing health wise? 00:56:21.297 --> 00:56:33.690 because I am genuinely concerned for you yeah, because it says certain ones yes yeah, certain ones, I don't know, dude, they they're built different and that just pop them suckers out Like nobody's business Like little gremlins. 00:56:33.690 --> 00:56:35.072 And they're gravy. 00:56:35.072 --> 00:56:38.059 I'm like girl, what you go. 00:56:38.079 --> 00:56:47.092 Wonder Woman, I'm sorry, is sperm like your water base, like we're not supposed to feed you after midnight, like, damn, like I get you need nutrition. 00:56:47.092 --> 00:56:49.193 But damn, what's your fucking husband? 00:56:49.193 --> 00:56:50.036 Is your husband? 00:56:50.036 --> 00:56:55.061 Pi, pi, god damn, fucking, shooting out like cannons and God damn man. 00:56:55.222 --> 00:56:56.443 Yeah. 00:56:56.463 --> 00:56:57.364 Like it depends. 00:56:57.364 --> 00:57:00.286 It depends on the woman's body. 00:57:00.286 --> 00:57:05.362 No, I get it and I'm just like, and I'm like ladies, please take care of yourself. 00:57:05.362 --> 00:57:09.460 I'm genuinely concerned on your well-being. 00:57:09.460 --> 00:57:14.076 And I know someone's going to be like how dare you say that? 00:57:14.076 --> 00:57:16.561 No, I don't know. 00:57:16.561 --> 00:57:17.751 I mean that wasn't maxine. 00:57:17.811 --> 00:57:19.717 I'm just genuinely concerned like how is your? 00:57:19.717 --> 00:57:23.213 Nutrition it's nothing malicious, no like how's your nutrition? 00:57:23.253 --> 00:57:37.300 because genuinely I wonder if doctors genuinely do check that, like hey, you need to get your nutrition levels up before you decide to do that, and I don't think the doctor's gonna do that unless you're rich and you do it just because you want to be on top of your own health. 00:57:37.621 --> 00:57:43.610 So you, obviously you have the doctor do that for you, but now, other than that, not until you're pregnant. 00:57:44.150 --> 00:57:51.336 Then they'll be like, okay, well then, cool, take your I'm just wondering like are you building like the winchester house? 00:57:51.336 --> 00:57:55.869 Like are there rooms on top of rooms on top of rooms? 00:57:56.431 --> 00:58:00.695 They don't give you what you need until after finding out, hence why you're prescribed prenatals. 00:58:00.996 --> 00:58:02.474 Yeah, I'm just like damn. 00:58:02.650 --> 00:58:06.172 But by then I'm like, well, that's for the baby though, yeah. 00:58:06.172 --> 00:58:06.891 That's for the baby. 00:58:06.891 --> 00:58:07.632 That's it. 00:58:07.632 --> 00:58:11.795 That's all I like and her what about her. 00:58:11.795 --> 00:58:12.514 Supposedly enough. 00:58:12.514 --> 00:58:13.556 Supposedly it's enough. 00:58:13.556 --> 00:58:16.518 So I'm like I mean I'm not a mom. 00:58:16.518 --> 00:58:18.139 I never birthed a child. 00:58:18.278 --> 00:58:18.898 I'm not a dad. 00:58:18.898 --> 00:58:23.101 I've never planted a seed anywhere besides men, and I'll keep it that way. 00:58:24.141 --> 00:58:27.643 So it's funny, my friends get after me when I say that it's like well, I'm not a mom. 00:58:27.643 --> 00:58:31.826 They're like you're a mom, you're just, you didn't have one and I'm like so then I'm not a mom. 00:58:31.826 --> 00:58:34.867 They're like no, because you raised a bunch of them, you, you know. 00:58:34.867 --> 00:58:37.092 And I'm like okay whatever. 00:58:37.112 --> 00:58:39.599 Don't mean I'm a fucking mom just because I raised them. 00:58:39.599 --> 00:58:55.063 I mean no, I get it because I I feel the same way when it comes to my niece and Damn, they're going to grow up to have a fucked up life and I know one of them is going to come like Theo, can I come live with you? 00:58:55.063 --> 00:58:59.186 No, like why? 00:58:59.186 --> 00:59:01.514 Because I don't like it here. 00:59:01.514 --> 00:59:08.934 They've been treating me well, all right, well Fine, but you're going to live in the shack. 00:59:09.215 --> 00:59:12.811 What the French Be like. 00:59:12.831 --> 00:59:18.112 Didi, you got to go go we have, we have another, we have to move you out of them. 00:59:18.693 --> 00:59:19.596 Well, dude, that's my. 00:59:19.596 --> 00:59:20.657 We have to move you out of the shed. 00:59:20.657 --> 00:59:28.826 We're upgrading for a younger model, I'll be like story of my life. 00:59:28.965 --> 00:59:38.389 No, I'm just kidding you know I know you're halfway to 50 but like, are you genuinely happy for your 50th coming up, or because I know my 40s are coming up and I'm just like you? 00:59:38.409 --> 00:59:39.072 know what I'm? 00:59:39.072 --> 00:59:40.036 I'm not bothered. 00:59:40.036 --> 00:59:41.262 No, I thought I would be. 00:59:41.262 --> 00:59:43.672 I thought it'd be like oh my god we'll have to save that for another podcast. 00:59:43.672 --> 00:59:47.490 You know I'm like what, but I'm not bothered we'll save that for shenanigans. 00:59:48.112 --> 00:59:50.157 Absolutely, here we go, all right. 00:59:50.157 --> 00:59:51.298 Well, that's the end of our podcast. 00:59:51.298 --> 00:59:53.643 Thank you so much for tuning into the Mature Mischief podcast. 00:59:53.643 --> 00:59:54.795 This has been Freaky Friday. 00:59:54.795 --> 00:59:56.615 I am your host, daddy J. 00:59:56.929 --> 00:59:58.476 And I am your co-host, Delicious D. 00:59:59.130 --> 01:00:01.038 Thank you for tuning in Until we meet again. 01:00:01.038 --> 01:00:07.143 And the moral of the story is hashtag find your finding in a relationship Communication. 01:00:07.143 --> 01:00:08.876 I know that's a big ass hashtag. 01:00:08.876 --> 01:00:16.471 So hashtag, don't rush this hashtag. 01:00:16.471 --> 01:00:17.592 So hashtag, don't rush damn hashtag. 01:00:17.592 --> 01:00:18.755 The fuck are y'all doing? 01:00:18.755 --> 01:00:22.442 Hashtag women are you, are you okay, taking your vitamins? 01:00:22.442 --> 01:00:24.204 Are you, are you eating? 01:00:26.934 --> 01:00:30.699 a piece of cheese how's your vagina? 01:00:33.123 --> 01:00:34.905 that's gotta take a beating man. 01:00:34.905 --> 01:00:42.090 Damn, that's a lot of big heads going through you shit and they think we're the weaker species. 01:00:42.090 --> 01:00:46.335 I never said y'all were weak and we need to save that. 01:00:46.710 --> 01:00:48.492 I said they, so you know what? 01:00:48.614 --> 01:00:49.858 that's gonna be a Monday topic. 01:00:49.858 --> 01:00:53.422 So alright, talk to y'all later. 01:00:53.422 --> 01:00:54.487 Love y'all, bye, ciao.