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A Cambridge PhD sociologist's intimate, no-BS talk about love, partner choice, family and everything in between.
Join Dr. Sandy To, marriage and family sociologist and author of the acclaimed book, China’s Leftover Women: Late Marriage among Professional Women and its Consequences (Routledge), featured in TIME, CNN, BBC, and more, for no-BS conversations about the stuff that really matters: dating as a high-powered career woman, finding a marriage partner over 30, who's doing the work in the marriage, what's the catch on motherhood and fertility etc.
Whether you're single and skeptical, married and mystified, or parenting through chaos...Let's sort life, one chat at a time! ✨
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English
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45 episodes
since Sept. 22, 2025
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Have you ever dreamed of marrying an older successful man and what kind of life it would be like?
In this heartfelt conversation, Dr. Sandy To sits down with her university friend Eileen to unpack the unfiltered truth behind dating and marrying an older, more successful man, who’…
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What if a university professor stood in front of 1,400 students and told the women in the room that chasing high grades and PhDs was a waste of their youth? That they’d be better off investing in their appearance and marrying a rich man instead?
That’s exactly what happened when an…
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Breakups are rarely mutual, often messy, and almost always treated as something to hide. In this episode of Love & Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To talks with Dr. Jue Sun, founder of the Breakup Institute, about turning heartbreak into self-knowledge.
Jue shares how the Institute bega…
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What if the fastest way to manifest your life partner isn’t just visualizing or journaling—but actually feeling what it’s like to already be married?
In this powerful episode of Love & Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To returns with the essential “Do’s” of manifestation (after last week…
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Are you trying to manifest a loving partner but still feel stuck in singledom? In this powerful episode of Love & Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To reveals one of the biggest hidden mistakes that could be sabotaging your love life: taking yourself out on solo dates.
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Are you ready to truly understand yourself—and finally find someone who just gets you? In this insightful and heartfelt episode of Love & Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To sits down with her friend Dr. Kevin Tsang (bus culture expert by day, passionate MBTI amateur expert by night) for…
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What if the love of your life was just one clear intention away?
In this heartfelt episode of Love & Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To explores the powerful art of manifesting your soulmate — inspired by Dua Lipa’s beautiful real-life love story. After a string of disappointing dates, …
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What if the real key to a lifelong, passionate relationship isn’t finding someone exactly like you — but someone who lights up when they see the things that make you uniquely you?
In this heartfelt episode of Love & Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To reveals why being deeply appreciated…
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Feeling happy for your best friends’ weddings and babies… but secretly distraught that you’re still single? You’re not alone.
In this heartfelt episode of Love & Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To opens up about one of the most painful yet rarely discussed transitions in your 30s: watch…
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What if the person who could become your forever partner didn’t give you butterflies on the first call?
In this heartfelt episode of Love & Life Sorted, Dr. Sandy To shares an uplifting real-life love story that proves instant sparks aren’t required for lasting love — sometimes…
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