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What's up y'all?
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This is Be Better Than Your BS with Greek to grant the people's champ.
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No fluff, no filters, just real women with real receipts.
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Talking leadership, life, pressure, purpose, and what it really costs to show up for.
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Whether you're climbing the corporate ladder or building something of your own.
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If you've ever felt too much for some rooms and not enough for others, pull up a chair.
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These conversations are frequent.
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This is Zarlo Network, powered by people who make it possible.
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Welcome to Be Better Than Your BS.
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Life and business are about more than titles and wins.
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They're about how you show up and the culture you create around you.
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Sports taught me that early discipline, teamwork, and knowing how to pivot under pressure.
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And that's why I do this show.
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I'm Risha Grant, the People's Champ, bringing you real conversations with leaders and change makers who are rewriting the game.
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My guest today is Kenya Mobley, the owner of On-Track Truck Driving School in Arlington, Texas.
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Kenya didn't just start a business, she turned a dream into reality.
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Literally.
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One night she dreamed of books, a classroom, and trucks, and instead of ignoring it, she built a hundred percent woman-owned driving school in one of the most male-dominated industries out there.
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She's creating opportunities, giving second chances, and changing the face of trucking by opening doors for women and anyone ready to build a better future.
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This is a conversation about faith, persistence, and what it really means to bet on yourself.
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Let's get to it.
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Kenya, thank you so much for being here.
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Thank you for having me.
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It's truly an honor.
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We just don't people.
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That's it.
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So we want to start where it all began and understand your mindset and what put you on track to owning a trucking company of all things.
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Well, actually, it's like it's a truck driving school.
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Okay.
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So I have no one in my family is a truck driver.
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Okay.
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Um I have to say, literally, it was a dream from God.
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Like I had no clue.
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I'm the type of person, I guess the dream comes because I'm the type of person is I like to see people excel in life.
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Yeah.
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And so God gave me that dream.
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So tell us the dream.
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Tell us about the dream.
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So I I went to sleep and I had a dream, and I saw trucks, I saw books, it was a classroom setting, it was a whiteboard, and I saw people sitting in chairs and sitting on top of tables.
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And the next morning I woke up, I was like, ah, what is that about?
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Yeah.
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So at the time I went to my friend girl, and I was like, girl, I saw trucks and classrooms and books, and she was like, that's a truck driving school.
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Because she was a trucker.
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Oh, but people go to truck driving school.
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She said, yes.
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And then she told me, she said, I bet you won't do it.
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That was it, huh?
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That was it.
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That was it.
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Dare me.
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Don't dare me.
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Do not dare me.
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Yes.
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So before on track, what was your career path?
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So my career path before on track, I owned a child care center in Arlington.
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And it was a time to love learning center.
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And we catered mostly to kids that was, you know, uh financially indigent.
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Um, those who had been in CPS, those who've been abused and foster care.
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So, like I say, my purpose has always been to nurture.
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Right, right.
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So, what led you to entrepreneurship though?
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Because I mean, from a dream now, I I believe in dreams that entrepreneurship is no small feat.
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I mean, you gotta 100% commit to entrepreneurship.
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So, what was what was that path like?
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I mean, because I know you didn't just wake up, have the dream, I mean, you have the dream wake up and just jump into it.
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Or did you?
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No.
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Okay.
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Okay, so I've always been the type to um, I love my time.
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Yes.
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And I've I'm I'm always I always wanted to work for myself.
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So when I would take on positions where I worked at McDonald's, I would always become the team lead.
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Even when I worked for, you know, corporate hospitals, I would always become the lead.
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So I always had those leadership experiences, and it was about just taking the faith, like taking the leap of faith to just bet on myself.
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And what did it look like to bet on you?
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Um, I'm not gonna give you the fluffy because most people like it.
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No, give me the real.
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It's not even me.
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Give the people the real.
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This is not this guy's truth.
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It's you're gonna have to do a bunch of praying, a bunch of fasting, you're gonna cry, you're gonna cry some more, you're gonna laugh, you're gonna cry some more.
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But through it all, you just gotta keep trusting the process and trust in yourself.
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And I promise you, you'll be okay, but you're gonna cry some more.
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And the tears don't stop.
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I've been doing it 27 years.
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So the tears never stop.
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It is the most challenging thing that I think a person can choose to do with their life is to have a business.
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Because one of the things that got me about is when I started to grow and I started to get employees, yes, and I remember them coming in the office talking about um, oh, I just got a new apartment, I just bought a new car.
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And my mindset was like, oh Lord, so I just got a new apartment.
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I just got I got a new car payment.
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I got, you know, and I thought about that and I was like, so I'm not just supporting myself, I'm supporting all these people, and that scared the hell out of me, if I'm being honest.
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Yes.
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It's it's the truth.
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And you know, sometimes, you know, especially when you're starting out in this journey, there will be times where you have to make sure that they can pay their bills and you sitting back and you don't even know how you're gonna pay your bills.
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Yes, you know, that's real.
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Um, and I think the employees don't even know to that extent how much we care about them.
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That we we don't have just to make sure you guys have.
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Yeah, and I and there's a there was a book out called Pay Yourself First.
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And I read it because I thought, well, this would be nice, you know.
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I'm not gonna apply it.
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Yes.
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I read it and I couldn't I couldn't do it,
you know, in in the way that it described.
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I had to like, maybe I'm putting$50 back one time.
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Maybe I can put$5,000 back another time.
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But there's no way I can pay me knowing that the people that are giving their all for me are not getting paid.
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Exactly.
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It's like I gotta go get that$5,000.
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I go get that$50,000 and I gotta make sure that they're good.
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What has what has been the biggest challenge?
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The biggest challenge for me, I would say, you know, it's always um when you have like a school, it's always the net 30s, like you sitting around the cash flow.
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Yes.
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When the cash flow, you know, it'll dry up, then all of a sudden, boom, it's all here.
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And then you like, okay, I'm gonna give a little bit here, the little bit.
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Yes.
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So that to me is like the the cash flow.
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Yeah.
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Um, and I'm sure like with probably 60% of other entrepreneurs, that's what it is.
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Cash flow is one of the biggest issues that any entrepreneur faces.
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So let's go back a little bit.
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Tell me about your growing up and the values that shape the way you see the world.
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Tell me a little bit about the past and what, you know, because the past helps push toward the future.
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You and my business.
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I'm all in your business.
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So yeah, you and my business now.
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So I would, you know, people like to say, oh, I come from humble beginnings.
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Yeah.
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Ain't nothing humble about humble beginnings.
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It's nothing humble about being poor.
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Like, so I'm from Greenville, Mississippi, down in the Delta.
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Of course, you know it's poverty stricken.
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Yes.
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And so what shaped me, I think, to where I am now is like my grandmother's praying and over me and giving me a foundation of God and always to follow my purpose.
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But my childhood was very, very challenging.
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You know, I didn't know what I wanted to be, I knew what I didn't want to be.
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Right.
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If that made sense.
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So I knew that I didn't want to be, you know, caught up in a system where I'm collecting, you know, government assistance.
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I did for a short amount of time.
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Like my grandmother said, if your leg broke, use the crutch, once a heel, put it down.
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Yes.
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So I used that method that she gave me.
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And so, you know, I knew I didn't want to be on welfare, and I was a teen mom.
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So I knew I had to provide for my kids.
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Um, so just that that grind and hustle, just wanting more for me and my kids.
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It's shaped who I am.
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And I think that spills on to other people.
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I want them to have the best.
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Yeah.
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No matter where you come from.
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Yeah, I definitely there's enough money in this country for everybody to at least have a place to stay and food to eat.
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I truly, truly believe that.
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And I think that we're only going to get there not by depending on um the systems, because we see the systems fail all the time, but by depending on each other is is the the true way to get there.
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So how did owning a trucking company first introduce you to the possibilities?
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You know, because I mean, I just trucking company, I mean I can only imagine the level of stuff that you have to deal with, especially it being a male-dominant.
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Okay, let me let me go back.
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Okay, I really think it was the child care center that got me to dream big.
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Okay.
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And so, you know, we we stopped uh as adults, we stopped um imagining things.
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Yes.
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It's not until you go back and you tap into your childhood.
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And so me having a child care center, having fake tea parties, uh pretending I was a princess, riding a dragon.
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Now you're doing this with the kids?
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As a kid, when I had the child care center, because I love doing that stuff.
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And so I think that's what sparked my imagination.
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That brought my creativity back to life.
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I love that.
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Yeah.
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So God gave me the dream of owning a truck driving school when I didn't even know what it was, you know?
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Yeah.
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So I mine started with the child care center, just learning to dream again.
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So, what was the personal BS that you had to push through?
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Because you know, we all we all
carry it, we all have it.
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What was it that you were pushing through?
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How much time you have?
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Just okay, give us give us the top two or three.
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Just just being a female in that space, like on in a wanting to own a truck driving school, just being a a female and not only a female, a black female.
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Yes.
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So that's like the top BS.
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Like nobody's taking you seriously.
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And then the point is the another fact is I don't even have a driver's license.
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I don't even have a commercial driver's license.
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So therefore, they really didn't take me serious.
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Like, how are you gonna teach me something that you don't even have?
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Right.
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You like I'm bringing the people in to teach you.
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Exactly.
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So that's a lot of BS.
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Yeah, for sure.
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I mean, but I the way that that people think, and I think the way that entrepreneurs think, entrepreneurs see opportunity where other people see obstacles.
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Yes.
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And so the fact that you were able to see through that, it that's amazing to me.
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Yes.
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And do you have do you have a CDL now?
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No.
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You still don't know.
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You still like I don't need it, I'm not doing it.
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I'm not doing it.
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Even when I share with my students, you know, when people ask me, I always say, you know, you know, you I use the Henry Ford method.
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You know?
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So explain the Henry Ford method.
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You know, it's like you don't have to be in there in the Nixon craning.
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You hire smart people to do it.
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Yes.
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And I'm not afraid to tell people that my staff is smarter than I am.
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I always want to be surrounded with people, my staff they're smarter than me.
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So I'm yeah.
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Give me one early lesson you learned about business.
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Uh, is make sure you're able to check the checker.
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Check the checker.
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Check the checker.
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And that means you're able to, you know, even though I don't know how to drive a commercial truck, I I know what the pre-trip is supposed to look
like.
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I think, you know, you have an accountant, but you need to go and see if check your money to make sure that he's doing what he's supposed to do.
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Check the checker, y'all.
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Check the checker.
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I once heard Oprah say, I still sign every check.
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Yes.
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And I thought, if Oprah can sign every check, I definitely will be signing my my little check.
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That part.
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All right, y'all, stick with us.
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Coming up, Kenya shares the bold moves and pivotal plays that helped her break through and build a thriving business.
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Kenya, every entrepreneur knows that there's one turning point where everything changes.
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For you, what was the boldest move that got your business off the ground?
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COVID.
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That was the bold move.
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COVID.
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Okay, explain that.
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Because um, when COVID happened, we learned that truck drivers were considered essential workers, right?
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Yeah.
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And so, you know, when I just wanted to start off small, I just have a small drug driving school, um, COVID came.
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And now everybody wanted to be truck drivers because it was tons of money out there.
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Right.
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And so I had to take the bold move to hurry up and learn this industry real fast because I opened in 2019.
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COVID happened 2020, early.
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Yeah, I so I had to make that bold move and start purchasing trucks like right away.
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How would I just start purchasing trucks?
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Because those trucks are not, that's not, that's not a small purchase.
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So how do you what happened that allowed helped you to get funding?
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And I think it was really important because most entrepreneurs, first of all, just getting started is a lot, but then actually trying to find the capital that we need to keep moving.
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So how did you do that?
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So fortunately, I had the the childcare center.
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So the childcare center, the the resources I had from that, I was able to take that and invest into the truck driving.
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So that's how I done that.
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And then I'm a jack of all trades.
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I teach CPR, first aid CPR.
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I I'm gonna I'm gonna make some money.
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What would you encourage an entrepreneur to do though that's looking to figure out how am I gonna how am I gonna actually get the money for this to happen?
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Um, friends.
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You seem to go to friends instead of banks?
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Of course.
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Because you know, I'm the type of person, I don't like people to tell me no.
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You know.
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So my friends know how I am, how I'm passionate about things, and they won't know once I bring them an idea, I'm gonna see it through.
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Yeah.
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So if your friends know that you're the type of person that's gonna see it through, I'm sure they don't have a problem with, even if it's a hundred dollars.
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Yeah.
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You know, you think about if you have what, ten friends, a hundred dollars, you know, do the math.
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And you say that I I I did that, friends and family.
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Yeah.
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I went to friends and family, I had a whole little plan.
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It was about three pages.
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I was asking everybody for twelve hundred dollars a piece, and only three people did it.
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Yes.
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But it got me through that time, exactly.
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And thank God they love me because it took me forever to pay them back that little twelve hundred dollars.
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It took forever to, I mean, I'm like, I'm glad y'all love me and still talking to me because but I think they were seeing me work.
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Like, it wasn't like I was chilling, I bought a new car on the money, like they were seeing all the things that I was doing and all the things that I was going through.
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So, so if you ask friends and family for money, make sure they see you grinding.
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And if it takes you a while to pay it back, stay in contact with them, let them know what's happening so it doesn't look like you just took the money and ran.
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So, what was your first big win that made you feel like, yes, this is working?
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I got this.
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My first big win, um, it didn't happen to years later.
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That's okay.
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Okay, yeah.
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My first big win is I put in a bid for a contract, and I won a contract with my next palette, and I was like, girl, why are you doing
contracting?
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Yes.
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Girl.
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So that was that was the big move for me.
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That gave me the boost to know that you know you are doing quality because the municipality is not just gonna give any and everybody a contract.
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Right.
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And so then that gave me the assurance that, okay, you can do it again.
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See who else got contracts out there.
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And that was that was a turning point for me.
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I love it because so many businesses to go after contracts, and I I hate um I hated going doing the whole bid stuff.
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I I hated doing it because they ask you questions that you're like, I have no idea about, but you gotta make it up and make it sound good.
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Um, but I I I've never liked bids, but I know so many people that have won bids, and I think I may have won one.
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Yes.
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And I just I'm like, nah.
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But it is a it is a route.
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It is a route that you should definitely look at.
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Marketing your school with the with the viral post was huge.
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Tell us about the viral post.
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So the viral post.
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So the post, um, of course, you know, women, uh, March is international women's month, right?
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And so, like I say, I'm big on women, supporting women, you know, that's that's my thing.
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So after I put the school together, um, I just stood outside the front door and I took a picture.
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I said, the boys wouldn't let us play in a sandbox, so I created my own.
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I love it.
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And the next morning I woke up, I was like, bing, bing, ping, bing, bing, bing, bing.
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I was like, what the world?
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And then I go down to the building, like people just standing outside.
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Go on social media.
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I have Arlington, Virginia fighting over me, and Arlington, Texas fighting over me.
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So that was amazing.
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That is amazing.
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And how many people did it reach?
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Oh my God, I I can't even tell you.
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It it thousands, like hundreds of thousands.
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It was everywhere.
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Newspapers, it was everywhere.
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So you had people lined up just ready to just ready to get in school, ready to go, ready to go.
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And the fact that, you know, seeing a woman do it with no mentor, that was even a wow factor for them.
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That was a question I was about to ask.
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Any mentors, any people that you could call on, nobody.
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Cricket.
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I hope you'll be there somebody for because it is super important.
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I was I was blessed in that way.
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I did have, I did have a mentor.
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Yeah.
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And I it's it was so special to me because I could just stop by and say, I have no idea about this.
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So I I really, yeah, I love that you'll you'll give that back because it's super important.
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What was the hardest part of breaking into the male-dominated industry?
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The hardest part is just being a woman.
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Did you think respect, did you have the respect that you felt like you deserved?
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Um eventually I did because I carried myself with everything.
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Right.
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I didn't cower down when I walked into the room.
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Are you hurt?
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Yes, I am hurt.
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How can I help you?
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You know, so I just me having that personality and building that, look at me, I'm here, I'm not going anywhere.
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Avatar helped me to maneuver the male-dominant industry.
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And were there any mental gymnastics for you to get to that space?
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Because it can be hard to get to the space of, you know what, yeah, I am she, what you want.
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Like it's it's it can be difficult.
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So were there any mental gymnastics that you had to jump through?
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Yes.
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Um, so my childhood plays back.
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So I always I always have a reference point for me.
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And I'm like, okay, if you made it through that, you can do this.
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You did that, you can do this.
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You jump through that hurdle, you can jump over this hurdle.
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Right.
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So it's just my past, my reference point.
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I love that those reference points are pushing you forward instead of pulling you back.
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Yes, they put that back.
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Because sometimes they do, you know, sometimes you think about the things that maybe were traumatic or difficult and they make you think I can't do it.
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But you're like, mine are like, no, I did this, I can I can go do that.
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And I love that.
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That's a that's a reframe thing.
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Yes.
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I I think if you take anything from that, take the reframe from that.
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Yes.
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What risk?
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What were the risks that paid off big?
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What was the biggest risk that you took?
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Taking the money from the childcare center and investing it into a business.
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I had no clue of what I was doing.
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And it was, and a lot of nights I stayed up because I'm like, you know, my kids depend on me.
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Everybody depended on me.
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Even my siblings depend on me, you know, because I show up as a dependable person.
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Right.
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Um, and I feel like the the women in trucking depended on me because they was like, okay, sis, you got this shot.
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Take us home.
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You know?
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Yes, and everybody's looking at it.
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Yeah, everybody's looking at it.
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I know one woman that uh that I grew up with who has a trucking company, and uh, she's not a black woman, she's a Native American woman, but I I was like, wow, this this industry.
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So when I when I saw your story, I knew that I absolutely had to talk to you.
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Thank you.
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Now, how do you balance running the school with mentoring and supporting your students personally?
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I had to start drawing boundaries.
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I have to make sure now that I'm okay.
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Because at first I'm just a poor, poor, poor.
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And I got to a point where I hate doing it.
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I hate, I hated going to work, I hated mentoring, I hated it all until I stopped, I took a breath, like, listen, take care of you.
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Yes.
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So I started doing my praying, my yoga, my meditation, just pouring back into me.
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And now I'm like, I'm good.
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I can do it.
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I can do it.
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I can do it.
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Self-care is super important.
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I think um I'm gonna make an assumption you're G and X, Generation X, are you Generation X?
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Who is X?
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Well, I'm Generation X as well, but I might be at the right thing.
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Yeah.
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Because I think our um the age group that we're from, we're used to just doing, doing, doing.
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And so when everybody starts talking about self care, it's like, okay, I don't really I'm look, I'm showering, I'm getting my clothes on, my makeup, I brush my teeth.
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That's about all the self care I have time for.
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With especially, and then you add entrepreneurship.
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Like people feel like that without entrepreneurship, you add entrepreneurship, and I think there's Misnomer out there that you know what, I'm entrepreneur, I'm gonna have all the time in the world, I'm gonna do what I want to do, I'm gonna be the boss.
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Well, now you're the boss, not not just you may be a boss, but you have bosses instead of one, you got about 12, 13.
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Yes, if you're lucky, because those are clients, yes, right?
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So there are so many things that that we place upon ourselves.
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So when self-care came around, it was like, I don't have time for all of that.
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But if I don't do it every day, my day is not right.
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My day's not right.
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It is not right.
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So you build programs for men and women, but especially create space for women.
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What does that mean to you?
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I love safe.
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You know, I always tell you that my childhood was not the normal.
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And so I always crave safety.
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Yes.
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So that's what uh my truck driving school is for women.
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Safety.
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I love it.
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You know, they know that you know, our hair huncho is identifies with me.
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If I have a problem, I'm going to see her.
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Yes.
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You know, there's no, you know, she's not gonna tolerate, you know, me being abused at the hand of someone else.
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I I love that so much because I think there are so many spaces in the world is scary.
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Yes.
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And so knowing that you have a place that where you go every day that allows you to feel safe and you have somebody that you can talk to and confide in, um, it just makes that day a little bit better.
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That may be the only safety they have in the day.
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Yes.
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So, you know, kudos to you for doing that.
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Thank you.
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Kenya, for those
of us who want to follow your journey and see what you're building, where where can we connect with you online?
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Uh so um I'm everywhere on social media.
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Okay, so um on track career academy, uh, and my personal space is Kay Richard on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, all platforms.
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You know, I have some people even stop by my office.
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You know, they see me on social media.
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I'm on Cooper Street in Arlington, 983 North Cooper.
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And they have no desire to do trucking.
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They just want to talk about life.
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Wow.
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People just show up.
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People just show up.
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I think that's amazing.
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That speaks a lot to you.
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I'm still pushing through um, like I say, like cash flow.
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Like you still that's that's a forever thing.
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Yes, I'm gonna say, listen, business owners, we don't ever get past that part there.
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Right.
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You know, even with the best CPA, you know, it's just about how how the people paying, how the people showing up.
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Uh so um another BS I'm pushing through is like trying to balance like what I do here in the US and what I do in Ghana and Nairobi.
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So it's just So what are you doing in Ghana and Nairobi?
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Um, so I have a nonprofit, and what I do is I take dignity kits to girls off in the villages, like sanitary napkins, um soap til so they can continue to school while they have the you know monthly.
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So just balancing out, like how do I, you know, tend to my Americans as well as, you know, the things I do in Africa.
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So that's I'm pushing through that.
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Yeah, that that's amazing.
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I mean that so many people need so much help all around.
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All around.
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So it's definitely what has this journey taught you about resilience and faith?
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Whoo, Lord, that was one of my talks, resilience.
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You know, you can push through anything, it's just the mindset you have to push through it.
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If you can't, if you tell yourself you can't, of course you can't.
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If you can't, of course you can't.
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Yeah, you'll figure out a way.
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I like to remind people that you have survived 100% of your hard days.
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Exactly.
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Because I think we can forget it in the moment.
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It does not feel like we're surviving, but the fact that we're still here.
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Yes, we are still here, that means that, you know, if you're looking for a way, eventually you're gonna you're going to find it.
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And I don't want to make it sound easy.
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Yes.
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Because it's it's not, you know.
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Um I I think a lot of times when you hear entrepreneurs talk and they've gotten to a certain level, it's like, oh, you just do this, this, and this.
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But what is it really like to be resilient?
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What does it look like on your worst day?
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On my worst day, um it's not wanting to get out of bed.
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And even when you do get out of bed, me counting that as a win.
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Yes.
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Me making my bed, that's a win.
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Yes.
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You know, taking it, that's a win.
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So I my resilience is pushing through the minor things in life.
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Yes.
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That's a win.
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And we forget that.
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Yes.
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People think resilience is, oh, I woke up, you know, and I did, ran 55,000 miles.
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You know, you know, good for you.
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Right.
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But let me count, let me add up my small wins to make it to your 55,000 K one.
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And I but I think we need to see more of that because that's what you get to see on social.
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Yes.
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Is yes, I did run this marathon, but what did it look like on day one?
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Exactly.
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And those days, because it's, and I have to remind myself of that because for everything that I've been through, walking has been saving my life.
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Yes.
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So I want to walk three, four miles every day.
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Well, something might come up where I'm like, I can only get in a mile, and it feels like a failure.
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It feels like a loss, but it's like, hey, you were out there today.
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You were mobile.
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And I I just did a speech about this.
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I'm like, sometimes resilience might be getting out the bed, to the bathroom, back to the bed, but hey, it's I showed up.
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I showed up.
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Tell me, I showed up.
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Yes, you go ahead and clap through it because it is not easy.
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Yes.
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And I don't ever want this show to make people think that oh, it's it's easy, just keep doing it.
00:28:06.240 --> 00:28:09.440
Because I know people who are probably on the side of their bed on their knees right now.
00:28:09.680 --> 00:28:10.000
Of course.
00:28:10.319 --> 00:28:11.519
I was one this morning.
00:28:11.599 --> 00:28:11.920
Yeah.
00:28:13.359 --> 00:28:15.839
And and I'm one most mornings, so I get it.
00:28:16.720 --> 00:28:19.759
What's the mistake that turned out to be your best teacher?
00:28:22.079 --> 00:28:24.319
Depending on others.
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And them uh letting me down.
00:28:29.519 --> 00:28:30.000
Yes.
00:28:30.480 --> 00:28:31.440
Now that's deep.
00:28:31.680 --> 00:28:32.000
Yeah.
00:28:32.240 --> 00:28:32.880
That's deep.
00:28:33.119 --> 00:28:37.119
Have you found your tribe now that you know you can count on?
00:28:37.359 --> 00:28:38.160
Oh yeah.
00:28:38.880 --> 00:28:39.200
Okay.
00:28:40.000 --> 00:28:41.359
Yes, I have my people.
00:28:41.599 --> 00:28:41.839
Okay.
00:28:42.160 --> 00:28:44.559
Because that I I think is super important.
00:28:45.119 --> 00:28:48.319
And people that you can let your hair down around.
00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:48.880
Yes.
00:28:49.279 --> 00:28:53.680
Um, because I I want to talk about this for a second, it just popped into my head.
00:28:53.920 --> 00:28:58.319
When you get to into a certain level of business, the conversation changes.
00:28:58.559 --> 00:28:59.200
Most definitely.
00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:02.559
You don't change, but the conversation changes.
00:29:02.640 --> 00:29:08.480
And sometimes the group that you were around, they don't grow into those conversations with you.
00:29:09.359 --> 00:29:10.720
How did how did you handle that?
00:29:10.799 --> 00:29:14.720
I found that to be one of the most difficult things that I dealt with.
00:29:15.920 --> 00:29:19.119
I just look at it now like as seasons.
00:29:19.519 --> 00:29:21.839
You know, you know, you you were good for that season.
00:29:22.160 --> 00:29:23.119
It's nothing wrong with you.
00:29:23.200 --> 00:29:24.000
You are perfect.
00:29:24.160 --> 00:29:24.319
Yeah.
00:29:24.559 --> 00:29:27.759
You were who I needed at that time in my life.
00:29:27.920 --> 00:29:28.160
Yeah.
00:29:28.559 --> 00:29:29.920
And that's how I handle them.
00:29:30.079 --> 00:29:31.039
You can call me.
00:29:31.599 --> 00:29:39.359
You know, we can still chit-chat, but that access that you had to me during that season, you don't have that access right now.
00:29:39.680 --> 00:29:42.079
I'm I am still struggling with that.
00:29:42.160 --> 00:29:42.400
Yeah.
00:29:42.559 --> 00:29:47.200
I I truly struggle with it because I want, first of all, I want everybody to come.
00:29:47.920 --> 00:29:49.119
I want everybody to grow.
00:29:49.279 --> 00:29:54.640
I want, you know, if if we kicked it in middle school, I still won't, I want that for everybody.
00:29:54.799 --> 00:29:57.839
But I've realized it the hard way that everybody won't come.
00:29:58.000 --> 00:30:00.480
And my aunt said to me one time, she said, you know what?
00:30:00.640 --> 00:30:09.839
She said, you've got people, she said, I see you with people, you holding nobody's leg, you dragging them by their legs and they're kicking and screaming, and you're trying to take them where you're going and they they can't come.
00:30:09.920 --> 00:30:10.240
Yeah.
00:30:10.640 --> 00:30:14.000
And I I really, really struggled with it.
00:30:14.240 --> 00:30:17.359
So I love what you said about there are seasons.
00:30:17.519 --> 00:30:17.920
They are.
00:30:18.079 --> 00:30:21.440
You know, but yeah, I still I'm dragging you.
00:30:21.519 --> 00:30:23.119
Like, come on, we we're going into the next.
00:30:26.319 --> 00:30:27.839
Because that's that's how it felt for me.
00:30:27.920 --> 00:30:31.680
Like, yes, the price I was paying to carry them was too heavy.
00:30:31.759 --> 00:30:32.400
It was too much.
00:30:32.559 --> 00:30:34.400
I couldn't, I was burning out.
00:30:34.480 --> 00:30:36.240
I I was becoming depressed.
00:30:36.319 --> 00:30:39.519
I didn't even like who I was because of who you are.
00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:40.480
But it was hurtful.
00:30:40.640 --> 00:30:41.519
It's very hurtful.
00:30:41.759 --> 00:30:42.319
It was hurtful.
00:30:42.400 --> 00:30:44.640
And I and not just for you, but for the other person.
00:30:45.200 --> 00:30:47.680
And you just realize all we have is the past.
00:30:47.839 --> 00:30:48.319
That's it.
00:30:48.559 --> 00:30:52.640
And I I just um I I think growth does that.
00:30:52.720 --> 00:30:55.599
You know, I growth does it, but nobody really talks about it.
00:30:55.839 --> 00:30:57.119
The people that you're leaving behind.
00:30:57.440 --> 00:30:58.720
But I gave you the opportunity.
00:30:58.960 --> 00:30:59.119
Yes.
00:30:59.200 --> 00:30:59.680
Now that's true.
00:31:00.079 --> 00:31:02.799
No, I gave you the opportunity, and that's how I start looking at it.
00:31:02.880 --> 00:31:09.920
I gave you the opportunity to grow with me because as a friend, I'm sitting beside you and I'm sharing with you everything I've learned.
00:31:10.000 --> 00:31:10.240
Yes.
00:31:10.480 --> 00:31:12.240
So you don't have survivor's guilt then?
00:31:12.400 --> 00:31:12.640
No.
00:31:12.880 --> 00:31:13.119
Okay.
00:31:13.279 --> 00:31:15.599
I'm still working on mine, to be honest.
00:31:16.000 --> 00:31:17.440
That's why I would give everything away.
00:31:17.519 --> 00:31:20.960
If you told me,
Kenya, I like this jacket, I'm coming up out of it.
00:31:21.119 --> 00:31:22.960
Because it was that survivors.
00:31:23.119 --> 00:31:25.440
But now I'm like, no, babe, I'm working hard for this.
00:31:26.480 --> 00:31:28.240
I'm having to show you how to do it.
00:31:28.559 --> 00:31:29.359
Yes, I do.
00:31:29.519 --> 00:31:30.160
Yeah.
00:31:30.640 --> 00:31:34.400
No, I have, but I had a good friend, he had to tell me, say, you know, I think you have survivors guilt.
00:31:34.640 --> 00:31:37.200
And I it took me a long time to say, yeah, that's true.
00:31:37.359 --> 00:31:39.119
Yes, it's so it's a real thing.
00:31:39.359 --> 00:31:44.400
Well, and this, you may have already answered this, but how do you protect your peace while you're carrying that weight?
00:31:45.039 --> 00:31:47.279
Oh Lord, I'm so strict now.
00:31:47.920 --> 00:31:49.440
I'm like the CIA now.
00:31:49.519 --> 00:31:52.240
Like it's just you're very strict to get access.
00:31:52.400 --> 00:31:57.759
Like beyond, I have my personal time and then I have my public time.
00:31:58.000 --> 00:31:58.319
Yes.
00:31:58.559 --> 00:32:00.640
I keep my personal time, that's mine.
00:32:01.119 --> 00:32:05.440
And I I you can call me at I don't take phone calls after 6 p.m.
00:32:05.759 --> 00:32:08.079
You can call me all you want to because that's your phone.
00:32:08.240 --> 00:32:10.319
But on my end, I'm not picking up.
00:32:10.480 --> 00:32:11.440
That's my boundary.
00:32:11.519 --> 00:32:13.279
Like, that's my peace.
00:32:13.519 --> 00:32:15.039
That's that's that's for me.
00:32:15.119 --> 00:32:16.400
And I had to learn that.
00:32:16.559 --> 00:32:17.039
Yeah.
00:32:17.279 --> 00:32:19.759
Yeah, and that's I I love that you got there.
00:32:19.920 --> 00:32:20.160
Yes.
00:32:20.319 --> 00:32:21.839
But I'm learning so much from my guests.
00:32:21.920 --> 00:32:22.400
Y'all got me.
00:32:22.480 --> 00:32:24.000
I'm gonna I'm gonna be ready in a minute.
00:32:24.079 --> 00:32:26.079
I'm can't wait to get back in track.
00:32:26.240 --> 00:32:27.279
Yeah, try so many.
00:32:28.160 --> 00:32:29.119
Do it like this.
00:32:29.279 --> 00:32:29.599
Yes.
00:32:30.160 --> 00:32:33.680
So what's the most rewarding part of seeing your students succeed?
00:32:34.000 --> 00:32:38.319
Um, I have so many stories, I promise you.
00:32:38.559 --> 00:32:43.440
I had one guy, he had done like 26 years in prison.
00:32:44.160 --> 00:32:47.920
And he told he he had dropped out of school and everything in high school.
00:32:48.079 --> 00:32:50.240
And he even tried to quit truck driving school.
00:32:50.400 --> 00:32:50.640
Okay.
00:32:50.799 --> 00:32:52.559
And I went and I looked for him.
00:32:52.799 --> 00:32:55.119
And I kept looking for him, and he came back to school.
00:32:55.200 --> 00:32:56.880
And he told me, he said, you know what?
00:32:57.119 --> 00:33:00.400
You're the only person that showed me what real love was.
00:33:00.720 --> 00:33:01.920
You didn't give up on me.
00:33:02.160 --> 00:33:06.960
So you actually like drove to his house and looked up his information and went and found him.
00:33:07.440 --> 00:33:08.640
And calling on the phone.
00:33:08.799 --> 00:33:10.000
I don't, yes, I did.
00:33:10.640 --> 00:33:11.359
That's amazing.
00:33:11.599 --> 00:33:12.880
He's a truck driver now.
00:33:13.039 --> 00:33:20.000
He has a wife, he hasn't returned to prison, he's taxpayer, you know, he got all his kids back with him.
00:33:20.160 --> 00:33:24.799
And so it's it's moments like that that fills my cup.
00:33:25.119 --> 00:33:26.640
It keeps you going in the day.
00:33:29.440 --> 00:33:30.720
Yes, that's super important.
00:33:30.880 --> 00:33:37.839
I um my dad, I have a little bit of background because my dad drove trucks for a lot of years, and so I would just listen to him.
00:33:38.000 --> 00:33:45.359
He would call all the time because he's just on the road and he would call, and I would be super worried about him because sometimes he'd be in white out conditions.
00:33:45.680 --> 00:33:49.440
Or it's raining hard, and you know, or I'm calling, like, where are you at?
00:33:49.519 --> 00:33:50.960
Can you why don't you pull over?
00:33:51.119 --> 00:33:52.799
He's like, baby, I can't pull over.
00:33:52.960 --> 00:33:55.920
I I have a be I have to be there in this amount of time.
00:33:56.000 --> 00:34:02.000
And so I was kind of mad at the trucking companies because I'm like, they got these people out here, you know, in these conditions.
00:34:02.559 --> 00:34:05.440
It's not the trucking company companies, it's the consumers.
00:34:05.599 --> 00:34:07.599
So it's not the companies, it's us.
00:34:07.839 --> 00:34:09.920
We want everything right now.
00:34:10.320 --> 00:34:11.119
So it makes sense.
00:34:11.280 --> 00:34:12.719
That's a whole different show.
00:34:12.880 --> 00:34:13.280
Yes.
00:34:14.000 --> 00:34:14.639
That is a whole different show.
00:34:17.280 --> 00:34:26.320
Yes, that's a that's a different uh reframe for me because I I really during that time of worrying about your loved one, I'm like, oh, this makes no sense.
00:34:26.480 --> 00:34:28.960
Like, you know, but when you say it like that, yes.
00:34:29.119 --> 00:34:29.519
Yes.
00:34:29.840 --> 00:34:31.840
That that it makes perfect sense.
00:34:32.079 --> 00:34:39.039
How do you personally define your personal culture, the the energy that you bring in the room and the impact when you leave the room?
00:34:39.119 --> 00:34:40.960
How do you personally describe it?
00:34:41.199 --> 00:34:45.599
Um, I always describe myself as an experience.
00:34:45.840 --> 00:34:46.480
An experience.
00:34:46.800 --> 00:34:47.920
What kind of experience now?
00:34:48.079 --> 00:34:50.880
It could be a good experience or a bad experience.
00:34:51.199 --> 00:34:52.559
Whatever you want it to be.
00:34:53.039 --> 00:34:53.840
It's on you.
00:34:54.000 --> 00:34:54.480
It's on you.
00:34:54.719 --> 00:35:00.320
However you want it, but I'm
gonna always show up as an experience to be memorable to you.
00:35:00.480 --> 00:35:00.960
Yeah.
00:35:01.280 --> 00:35:04.480
You know that whatever you say to me, I'm gonna hold it.
00:35:04.639 --> 00:35:05.119
Yes.
00:35:05.280 --> 00:35:07.199
You know, gonna always feel safe with me.
00:35:07.360 --> 00:35:09.840
I'm gonna always always make sure we laugh.
00:35:10.000 --> 00:35:15.760
I'm gonna make sure you always walk away with something my grandmama said that you can apply to your life.
00:35:15.920 --> 00:35:19.280
So I'm just, like I say, I show up as an experience.
00:35:19.440 --> 00:35:24.800
Like, and you do, because even from the first time I contacted you, Kenya and I don't know each other.
00:35:25.119 --> 00:35:27.760
And your message was so sweet back.
00:35:27.840 --> 00:35:32.559
Like, first of all, this is amazing what you're doing, and all of those things, and most people don't do that.
00:35:32.719 --> 00:35:33.119
Wow.
00:35:33.280 --> 00:35:37.840
Most people, I 90% of people, they they do not do that.
00:35:37.920 --> 00:35:40.320
So I thought I was like, oh man, she's so cool.
00:35:40.480 --> 00:35:46.079
Like that, it immediately made me think that without having spoken to you, you know, on the phone.
00:35:46.239 --> 00:35:47.679
So, yes, you are an experience.
00:35:47.920 --> 00:35:48.639
You're an experience.
00:35:48.960 --> 00:35:53.599
Yeah, I am, and everybody is special, and that's the way I that's the way I treat people.
00:35:53.760 --> 00:35:55.039
Like, you're special.
00:35:55.199 --> 00:35:59.920
Yes, like you may not know it, but to me, you're special, like yeah, and it comes across.
00:36:00.239 --> 00:36:01.119
Definitely comes across.
00:36:01.280 --> 00:36:06.559
Coming up next, we'll have some fun with Kenya in a lightning round of quick fire questions.
00:36:07.840 --> 00:36:09.280
Cutting through the noise, no lies.
00:36:09.679 --> 00:36:10.800
Want more of what you're watching?
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Watch us on Roku, Amazon Fire, or listen on Spotify, Amazon Music, and iHeartRadio to name a few.
00:36:31.039 --> 00:36:33.039
Overtime, a lightning round.
00:36:33.119 --> 00:36:36.320
So let's have some fun with these quick fire questions.
00:36:36.800 --> 00:36:38.159
Oh, let's go.
00:36:38.320 --> 00:36:41.199
All right, morning person or night owl.
00:36:41.519 --> 00:36:42.320
Morning person.
00:36:42.880 --> 00:36:43.679
What time do you get up?
00:36:43.840 --> 00:36:44.960
Uh 4:35.
00:36:45.280 --> 00:36:45.760
1 a.m.
00:36:46.800 --> 00:36:47.119
Why?
00:36:49.360 --> 00:36:52.400
I feel like that's like the most peaceful time for me.
00:36:52.559 --> 00:36:53.840
Like people are not moving around.
00:36:54.000 --> 00:36:54.559
Yes, I agree.
00:36:54.719 --> 00:36:57.280
So it's just me and my own messing with you.
00:36:57.440 --> 00:36:58.079
I'm about six.
00:36:58.320 --> 00:36:59.039
I'm about six.
00:36:59.199 --> 00:37:05.920
But yes, it it feels like the rest of the world is sleep and you can just have the space and time to do whatever you want to do.
00:37:06.159 --> 00:37:08.639
Coffee, tea, or energy drink, or something stronger.
00:37:09.599 --> 00:37:16.159
I'm a I'm a toss-up between coffee and tea because, like I say, I visit Africa a lot, and all of them they love tea.
00:37:16.320 --> 00:37:16.480
Yes.
00:37:16.800 --> 00:37:18.159
When I come home, I drink coffee.
00:37:18.239 --> 00:37:19.360
So it's a toss-up.
00:37:20.000 --> 00:37:20.960
I can't do the coffee.
00:37:21.199 --> 00:37:22.559
Yeah, you can't do the coffee tea.
00:37:22.800 --> 00:37:23.760
It's horrible to me.
00:37:23.920 --> 00:37:25.119
It smells amazing.
00:37:25.519 --> 00:37:27.280
You gotta add a lot of cream.
00:37:27.519 --> 00:37:28.320
Now that's true.
00:37:28.639 --> 00:37:28.960
That's true.
00:37:29.119 --> 00:37:30.800
My partner makes coffee for me.
00:37:31.039 --> 00:37:32.960
Every blue moon, it's it's so much cream.
00:37:33.119 --> 00:37:34.880
I'm like, okay, it's a cream.
00:37:35.119 --> 00:37:35.920
It's a cream.
00:37:36.400 --> 00:37:39.360
What's your go-to hype song when you need motivation?
00:37:39.840 --> 00:37:40.639
That part right there.
00:37:40.880 --> 00:37:41.280
Motivation.
00:37:41.679 --> 00:37:44.159
Motivation by T T motivation.
00:37:45.760 --> 00:37:46.639
That is it.
00:37:47.119 --> 00:37:48.320
Like, come on, that is it.
00:37:48.480 --> 00:37:50.320
You are when I'm crying and praising God.
00:37:50.639 --> 00:37:51.440
Motivation.
00:37:52.800 --> 00:37:53.440
I love it.
00:37:53.519 --> 00:37:56.159
Most of my guests have said, I'm like, that's that is the song.
00:37:56.880 --> 00:37:57.519
I think T.I.
00:37:57.679 --> 00:37:58.880
is the motivational rapper.
00:37:59.199 --> 00:37:59.440
Exactly.
00:37:59.679 --> 00:38:01.519
Because go get it, ASAP.
00:38:03.039 --> 00:38:04.000
I love it.
00:38:04.320 --> 00:38:08.239
Okay, if you weren't running on track, what what's the career you'd be chasing right now?
00:38:08.400 --> 00:38:12.400
Uh the career I would be chasing right now is in the nonprofit sector.
00:38:12.800 --> 00:38:17.440
So full time, I would definitely be on the continent of Africa serving.
00:38:17.519 --> 00:38:20.559
Like that's what there's there's nothing better than giving back.
00:38:20.880 --> 00:38:22.639
Yeah, that's that would be my full time.
00:38:22.880 --> 00:38:24.480
Okay, you you thinking about that?
00:38:24.800 --> 00:38:25.039
Yeah.
00:38:25.360 --> 00:38:26.159
Here in the future.
00:38:27.440 --> 00:38:28.880
Yes, yes, yes.
00:38:29.199 --> 00:38:30.320
That sounds amazing.
00:38:30.559 --> 00:38:33.840
What's one thing your students have taught you that surprised you?
00:38:34.719 --> 00:38:41.280
Um my students have taught me that, you know, you really can't judge a book by its cover.
00:38:41.519 --> 00:38:41.760
Yeah.
00:38:42.000 --> 00:38:47.119
You know, because I've had some come in, I'm like, yeah.
00:38:47.760 --> 00:38:54.719
And they they supersede everything that I, you know, thought that they would be or they wouldn't be.
00:38:55.039 --> 00:38:56.159
Or just their background.
00:38:56.480 --> 00:38:56.719
Right.
00:38:57.039 --> 00:38:57.280
You know.
00:38:57.519 --> 00:39:00.639
I love what you're doing with backgrounds of giving people second chances.
00:39:01.280 --> 00:39:03.360
I think it's it's so important.
00:39:03.599 --> 00:39:07.199
My my dad is a uh second chance person.
00:39:07.519 --> 00:39:10.960
Um and so maybe that's where a lot of the empathy comes from.
00:39:11.119 --> 00:39:19.840
But it's it's so crazy to me that something he did at 18, yes, that he still deals with that and he's in his 70s now.
00:39:20.000 --> 00:39:20.159
Yes.
00:39:20.719 --> 00:39:24.400
And so it's like people people were different people.
00:39:24.480 --> 00:39:25.360
Who were you at 18?
00:39:25.599 --> 00:39:26.000
Exactly.
00:39:26.320 --> 00:39:27.920
Versus even who you are at 30.
00:39:28.000 --> 00:39:28.159
Yes.
00:39:28.320 --> 00:39:29.679
It can be a totally different person.
00:39:29.920 --> 00:39:34.559
So I think it's it's really important for uh companies to give second chances.
00:39:34.880 --> 00:39:44.400
I will ask this, how do you handle because some people have violent, very, very violent crimes versus um those those softer, softer crimes.
00:39:44.480 --> 00:39:47.039
Is there a difference in the way that you handle those?
00:39:47.280 --> 00:39:51.280
Um, so I do take um, just depending on the circumstance.
00:39:51.360 --> 00:39:56.000
Now, one thing that I would not take is uh like a a sex offender, a violent sex offender.
00:39:56.079 --> 00:39:56.639
I'm a female.
00:39:57.039 --> 00:39:59.760
So I don't take those, but it you know, it just depends.
00:39:59.840 --> 00:40:06.719
Like my brother, my brother's second chance, and he had a you know, a violent case, but my brother's not a violent person.
00:40:07.199 --> 00:40:10.239
You know, it just depends on the environment, the circumstances.
00:40:10.559 --> 00:40:16.559
So you you basically take the time to try to figure it out with them and see if it's something you feel comfortable with.
00:40:16.960 --> 00:40:17.599
I take the time.
00:40:17.760 --> 00:40:19.760
And then too, me, I'm a second chance.
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Like I've never been to prison before, but if you know my behavior, depending on what season you meet me in, you may not like me.
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And then I may come back in another season and I'm like, give me some grace because I'm a different person than I was during that time.
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I should look at that.
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That's how I look at it.
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I want the way you can because we all need second chances.
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I don't care if you've been to jail or not.
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Yes.
00:40:42.079 --> 00:40:46.559
We all, I don't think that the first
impression should define how you view a person.
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Because you could be meeting them on the worst day of their life.
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Yes.
00:40:49.760 --> 00:40:52.559
How do you celebrate when the students pass the test?
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Oh, we have theme songs, we take pictures, I make sure, you know, I always give them like a certificate because, you know, a lot of them, majority of them have not received a certificate.
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Like they haven't graduated, you know, high school or accomplished things.
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So just having that certificate saying, look, I accomplished this.
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Right.
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That's that's a huge win from them for them.
00:41:18.079 --> 00:41:18.559
I love that.
00:41:18.719 --> 00:41:18.880
Yeah.
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And do you have something where the family comes and sees them get the certificate?
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Because it's like a common go type of thing.
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So I I don't.
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And then when it's time for me to have a big graduation, you know, majority of them already driving over the road, so it's kind of hard to pull everybody back together, but I celebrate them independently to let them know I see you and I'm happy for you.
00:41:42.559 --> 00:41:44.559
And how many people have you put on the road?
00:41:44.800 --> 00:41:46.880
Oh Lord, that's a lot.
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Because remember, I told you COVID had us rolling, rolling, rolling.
00:41:50.480 --> 00:41:54.320
So I I I I don't know numbers, but it's in the hundreds.
00:41:54.639 --> 00:41:55.840
That's that's really cool.
00:41:56.079 --> 00:41:56.480
Yes.
00:41:56.639 --> 00:41:59.199
So who inspires you the most right now?
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Um, I'm gonna be a little cocky a little bit.
00:42:03.519 --> 00:42:03.679
Okay.
00:42:03.920 --> 00:42:04.239
Me.
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No, you're doing like Snoop.
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I want to thank me.
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Me.
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I inspire me the most because I inspired to be a better me.
00:42:12.960 --> 00:42:13.280
Yes.
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You know, I look back, I was like, you know, you know, just from life paths.
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So I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm my inspiration right now.
00:42:23.119 --> 00:42:32.400
You know, and and actually, as you say it, all jokes aside, we have got to figure out how to be our own inspiration because sometimes people aren't there to be that inspiration.
00:42:32.480 --> 00:42:32.559
Yes.
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Or the people that are there, you don't feel like they're really understanding where you are in that space.
00:42:36.880 --> 00:42:38.639
So yeah, I'm gonna steal that one from you.
00:42:40.000 --> 00:42:47.920
And this is like on a personal like level, like
something I have, and that was I went through my niece passed away.
00:42:48.079 --> 00:42:50.400
I got was going through a divorce.
00:42:50.639 --> 00:42:54.719
Um, and like business just with I couldn't function in business.
00:42:55.119 --> 00:43:01.519
And when the lights went down, you know what Beyonce is like, it's just me, myself, and I thought I have any end.
00:43:01.760 --> 00:43:03.039
Yeah, and she was right.
00:43:03.280 --> 00:43:05.760
Because when the lights went down, I couldn't call my friend girls.
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I didn't want to bother them.
00:43:07.039 --> 00:43:07.199
Right.
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I had to pull my own self out of that.
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I had to inspire myself to get up, girl.
00:43:12.480 --> 00:43:12.960
Yeah.
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So, yeah.
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Call the clock if you want to.
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I'm pulling myself out of that.
00:43:18.639 --> 00:43:18.800
Okay.
00:43:19.599 --> 00:43:20.719
That is what has to happen.
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I'm with you.
00:43:22.480 --> 00:43:25.360
What's something about you that most people would never guess?
00:43:25.920 --> 00:43:30.800
People would never guess that I'm very, I guess they would say, um, introvert.
00:43:31.360 --> 00:43:31.679
Really?
00:43:31.840 --> 00:43:33.280
Yeah, I would not guess that.
00:43:34.320 --> 00:43:36.719
So you you can only people for a certain amount of time.
00:43:36.800 --> 00:43:41.519
And then I call that being a conditional extrovert because I think that I think that's how I am.
00:43:41.679 --> 00:43:43.519
Like I'm good until I'm not.
00:43:43.599 --> 00:43:44.000
Mm-hmm.
00:43:44.079 --> 00:43:44.480
Mm-hmm.
00:43:45.440 --> 00:43:48.159
I have, I do not have the fear of missing out.
00:43:48.320 --> 00:43:49.199
I enjoy it.
00:43:49.360 --> 00:43:52.880
And when people invite me out, they know, can you have two hours?
00:43:53.119 --> 00:43:54.239
I like that's the t shirt.
00:43:54.400 --> 00:43:56.000
I do not have the fear of FOMO.
00:43:56.320 --> 00:43:57.199
I don't, I don't.
00:43:57.280 --> 00:43:58.480
I'm like, I have two hours.
00:43:58.559 --> 00:43:59.599
I can go to this event with you.
00:44:00.719 --> 00:44:01.360
Two hours.
00:44:02.559 --> 00:44:14.000
And how because I know as as I was building my business in my home city, there was an event every I mean, you know, there's always something that you feel like you need to show your face at as an entrepreneur.
00:44:18.079 --> 00:44:22.239
Once upon a time I was going to a lot of events and that that caused a burnout.
00:44:22.639 --> 00:44:30.960
And then I had to reflect more, like, are you looking for your work and wanting to build your platform based on these people and what they think about you?
00:44:31.599 --> 00:44:34.719
Because if that's what you're doing, sis, that's not.
00:44:35.199 --> 00:44:41.199
But was it not the business that you were going to get potential kind of uh create relationship?
00:44:41.440 --> 00:44:48.000
But really, what kind of relationship can you create in a in a room full of three, four, five hundred people?
00:44:48.159 --> 00:44:50.559
Yeah, so that's where I I think is my special sauce.
00:44:50.880 --> 00:44:52.320
Like I'm in that room doing my thing.
00:44:52.559 --> 00:44:53.199
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:44:53.440 --> 00:44:54.800
See, I'm good with one-on-one.
00:44:55.119 --> 00:44:57.280
Like I see you, you see me, come here.
00:44:57.440 --> 00:44:59.679
You got what I want, you got let's let's do it.
00:45:01.519 --> 00:45:06.079
Okay, if you could instantly master any skill outside of business, what would it be?
00:45:06.480 --> 00:45:07.840
That would be yoga.
00:45:08.159 --> 00:45:08.639
Yoga.
00:45:08.800 --> 00:45:09.039
Yes.
00:45:09.199 --> 00:45:10.079
Yoga is hard.
00:45:10.239 --> 00:45:11.199
I love it.
00:45:11.920 --> 00:45:12.880
Yoga is hard.
00:45:13.280 --> 00:45:14.320
Outside of business, yeah.
00:45:14.400 --> 00:45:15.679
You catch me on a mat.
00:45:16.079 --> 00:45:17.039
I love that.
00:45:17.440 --> 00:45:22.320
What's a phrase, mantra, or quote that you live by that keeps you on track?
00:45:23.199 --> 00:45:24.719
Oh, I have so many.
00:45:24.880 --> 00:45:30.480
Um one is you survive one of your toughest days, majority of your toughest days, what you said.
00:45:30.639 --> 00:45:33.440
Like that's my mantra to keep me going.
00:45:33.519 --> 00:45:33.840
Okay.
00:45:34.239 --> 00:45:36.079
You did it like that and you survived.
00:45:36.639 --> 00:45:39.280
God's gonna make a way and you're gonna make it through this.
00:45:39.440 --> 00:45:41.440
So I have to always remind myself.
00:45:41.920 --> 00:45:44.960
Now, do you have a routine that you follow every single day?
00:45:45.199 --> 00:45:45.840
Oh, yes, ma'am.
00:45:46.239 --> 00:45:46.800
Tell us about it.
00:45:46.960 --> 00:45:47.760
Yes, ma'am.
00:45:48.320 --> 00:45:50.159
So I'm up at 4:30.
00:45:50.239 --> 00:45:52.559
Uh, well, actually 2.30.
00:45:52.639 --> 00:46:07.280
I do my praise and worship from the bed at 2 30, take a nap, back up at 4 30, start another praise and worship, get up, meditate, do my yoga, take my dog out, sit on the couch, I drink my tea, I journal, shower, break.
00:46:08.400 --> 00:46:10.639
Yeah, now I'm ready for the day.
00:46:10.880 --> 00:46:14.000
Yeah, but if I don't get that in, you don't get the best of me.
00:46:14.159 --> 00:46:14.639
Yeah.
00:46:14.880 --> 00:46:17.760
Now, see, I cannot meditate in bed because I'm going back to sleep.
00:46:17.840 --> 00:46:18.079
Uh-huh.
00:46:18.239 --> 00:46:22.480
I have to actually get up, walk across the house, and go do my thing in another room.
00:46:22.559 --> 00:46:25.199
Because I've tried laying in the bed, I'm going back to sleep.
00:46:25.360 --> 00:46:26.159
But a dream will come.
00:46:26.400 --> 00:46:27.679
See, that's the point of meditating.
00:46:27.760 --> 00:46:28.480
Then a
dream will come.
00:46:28.559 --> 00:46:30.639
Then you wake up and you follow the dream.
00:46:32.079 --> 00:46:32.719
No, sis.
00:46:34.480 --> 00:46:35.679
I ain't doing that, Kenya.
00:46:35.840 --> 00:46:37.039
No, I won't be asleep.
00:46:37.360 --> 00:46:38.400
I'm like messing with Kenya.
00:46:38.480 --> 00:46:41.199
I haven't meditated in 30 days.
00:46:41.519 --> 00:46:45.119
So, but I love, I love that you can do that and that it works for you.
00:46:45.199 --> 00:46:49.679
And that's what's so special about each of us having a routine that gets you ready for your day.
00:46:49.840 --> 00:46:51.440
I think that's what it's all about.
00:46:51.679 --> 00:46:53.920
Kenya, this has been such a joy.
00:46:54.079 --> 00:46:55.599
Where can people keep up with you again?
00:46:55.760 --> 00:46:57.360
We want to follow all the amazing things you're doing.
00:46:57.679 --> 00:47:06.159
Yes, so follow me on social media, on track career academy, uh, my personal um social media platforms, K Richard.
00:47:06.639 --> 00:47:07.840
Um I'm out there.
00:47:07.920 --> 00:47:12.960
Just and like I said, you can stop by, 983-North Cooper, and we can have a conversation.
00:47:13.360 --> 00:47:14.079
She's a brave woman.
00:47:14.159 --> 00:47:15.519
She letting y'all stop by.
00:47:15.599 --> 00:47:15.760
Okay.
00:47:16.639 --> 00:47:18.880
Kenya, thank you so much for joining me today.
00:47:19.519 --> 00:47:26.719
Your journey shows us that success isn't just about building a business, it's about resilience, faith, and breaking through the BS that holds us back.
00:47:26.880 --> 00:47:33.920
From dreaming your school into reality to mentoring the next generation of drivers, your story is one of grit, courage, and love.
00:47:34.159 --> 00:47:37.679
Kenya is proof that when the dream calls, you better pick up.
00:47:37.920 --> 00:47:39.199
She didn't wait for a mentor.
00:47:39.280 --> 00:47:40.719
She didn't wait for perfect conditions.
00:47:40.800 --> 00:47:42.079
She built her own lane.
00:47:42.239 --> 00:47:43.199
That's the takeaway.
00:47:43.360 --> 00:47:45.360
Stop waiting for somebody to crown you.
00:47:45.519 --> 00:47:47.280
Stop waiting for the stars to line up.
00:47:47.440 --> 00:47:49.679
Take the step right now with what you got.
00:47:49.840 --> 00:47:52.719
Faith plus grind will take you further than fear ever will.
00:47:52.880 --> 00:47:56.639
I'm Risha Grant, and this has been Be Better Than Your BS.
00:47:56.719 --> 00:48:00.960
Until next time, stay bold, stay true, and keep being better than your BS.
00:48:04.480 --> 00:48:06.800
Got a mirror in the mind, reflecting the test.
00:48:06.960 --> 00:48:08.159
What's the truth in your soul?
00:48:08.239 --> 00:48:09.199
What's the lie you suppress?
00:48:09.440 --> 00:48:11.360
Till the layers back, onion of success.
00:48:11.519 --> 00:48:12.639
Gotta shut that old skin.
00:48:12.880 --> 00:48:13.920
No time to regress.
00:48:14.000 --> 00:48:16.239
From the boardroom table to the block finesse.
00:48:16.480 --> 00:48:18.800
Richard breaking things, working thought, no less.
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