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Hello, Flowpreneurs.
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Welcome to Womb Magic.
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My name is Megan Michelle.
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I'm your local womb priestess.
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Today we're talking about the purpose of boundaries.
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Boundaries are not to keep other people out, they're to keep your energy in.
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And if you are an empath, if you are intuitive, if you are deeply spiritually open, if you're sensitive to what other people are feeling, if you can read between the lines, if you can read energy, if you can sense what another person needs without a word being spoken, that is your spiritual sense, that is your psychic awareness.
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And when we are naturally born this way, when we possess these types of spiritual gifts or spiritual awareness, we tend to overextend our own energy to compensate for what we can psychically perceive.
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Now, this phenomenon is incredibly beautiful.
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It's what allows us to connect to one another.
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It's what allows us to anticipate others' needs, which is a beautiful gift of love.
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And when that love is reciprocal, and someone who you are psychically perceiving, or someone you are just in a connection with, or someone that you love, this is so beautiful.
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It allows us to provide support when words aren't available.
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If you've ever been in a situation where you are incredibly overwhelmed or just experiencing like a nervous system takeover, we can't always ask specifically for what we need, especially as women.
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We are feeling and perceiving energies long before they're ever made physical.
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It's actually up to us.
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We're kind of the gatekeepers of what energy gets to stay on this planet and what energy returns to source and comes back to this planet in a higher form of love.
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So this is a beautiful gift.
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It is also the gift that can make you a lot of money as a healer.
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And if you're not interested in making money for your spiritual gifts, that's okay.
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But boundary setting is directly linked to spiritual and energetic health and hygiene of your aura.
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I want you to think of your aura and your spiritual field.
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Anytime I say aura or field, um, even your queendom, really, I want you to think about it existing six feet above you, six feet below you, and six feet around you in every direction.
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So if you were to have, if you were to be in a hamster ball that was six feet above you, six feet below you, and six feet around you in all 360 degrees, this is your field.
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And this field is regenerative.
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When your energy is recirculated in this field, your body will stay in perfect homeostasis.
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Your body can heal itself, your cells will rejuvenate, your health will be optimal, your mental awareness and your psychic perception will increase.
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But without boundaries, it's almost like that hamster ball around us doesn't exist.
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And so everyone that we come into connection with, we can't really tell if it's safe for us, excuse me, if it's safe for us, my throat chakra is going off.
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If it's safe for us to um be in that connection in a way where our love will be reciprocal.
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And a goal of mine wasn't to always have to hide my love behind walls.
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I wanted to get to a point where my nervous system was grounded enough, where I was grounded enough that I can freely give love because setting boundaries, again, it's not to keep other people out.
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It's not to withhold love from others.
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It is to keep your energy that belongs to you that you need to function properly beyond the human eye here in this 3D plane.
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And when we start practicing energetic boundary setting, I always recommend setting energetic boundaries first.
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When you start setting energetic boundaries, it allows you to start seeing your connection and your energy so much more clearly.
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And when I first started hearing about boundaries and realizing I didn't have any, and when I started setting boundaries, I was really, I had a different view about how all of this worked.
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I thought that I was like almost building a castle around myself so that others could only get to a certain closeness to me.
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I never turned cold, I never held my emotions back, but it felt so restrictive.
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It felt like, um, well, how am I supposed to love anyone if I can't give someone my love who's not reciprocating it?
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That didn't feel good to me either.
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And this process that I went through, probably if I had to put like a length of time on it, I would say about two years.
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But this process allowed me to see how this works from a spiritual, like energetic level.
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And when we start practicing energetic boundaries as opposed to practicing physical boundaries first, which I started with the physical boundaries, and all that does is it just recirculates the same old energy patterns over the next, you know, moon cycle or here on this 3D plane.
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When we start setting energetic boundaries, we're working from the 5D, we're working from that top tier, that top level of source energy where we tap into the power of transmutation and alchemization.
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The catch is for us, and as women with a womb, our womb both creates life and it destroys life, right?
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It is a birth and a death portal on the energetic level.
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We can bring physical life into this world through our womb.
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We can't technically take a life with our womb, but our womb is the portal between the non-physical and the physical.
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It is a it's a vortex for energy to be alchemized.
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And that process happens through our nervous system, through our discernment of energy.
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And we as women are the gatekeepers of what energy gets to stay on this planet and what energy gets returned to source to be alchemized into a higher form of love.
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But this process of alchemization and this process of transmutation requires so much energy.
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And often we don't have enough energy or enough power, just like when you flip a light switch, right?
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Where the electricity comes from, it's like that the battery is low.
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It's not, we don't have enough energy because all of our energy is being um pulled outside of our field, or we're just giving it away freely without ensuring that where we're giving our energy is in alignment with our soul.
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And this can mean that you give your energy to someone that's not reciprocal, but your awareness of what's happening, your expectations, so many things are different when we get to a point of being grounded and stable in our boundaries to where it feels like we can freely give our love out again.
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I'll give you an example.
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When I walk down the street, if I'm in a happy mood, I love to just spread that love to everyone.
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If I see someone in a pretty dress, I'm gonna tell them.
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If I like someone's jewelry, I'm gonna tell them.
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But I realized how those patterns were coming from ways that I was finding an illusion of safety or stability or joy through making other people feel good.
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And I went through a stint where like I wasn't smiling at people on the street.
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I wasn't just throwing out compliments.
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And this is what I'm referring to when I said that giving my love away freely, like not doing that, didn't feel good.
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But I was so, I had nothing left.
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I was so depleted when I got to this point of needing to start taking this seriously that I didn't even have the energy to give to a passerby on the street.
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But when we start practicing energetic boundaries first, and I'll talk about how to do that.
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I talk about this a lot, but I'll talk about it again in a minute.
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When we start practicing those first, we're working from the 5D down into the 3D.
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So what this does is when we start setting our energetic boundaries, places we have given our energy away to people, to connections, to jobs, places we have placed responsibility on for our emotional state, we start to see those more clearly.
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So once you start practicing your energetic boundaries, I wouldn't necessarily expect to start physically feeling differently or emotionally differently at first, but this energy is a pattern.
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And the energies that are feeding demons on this planet or feeding dense energy, those are patterns, those are cycles.
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They're gonna continue to reveal themselves.
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And the more devotionally you practice your energetic boundaries first, the easier it becomes to set physical boundaries because when we start practicing from the 5D down and we are taking accountability for our own role, right?
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We're healing ourselves, we're healing the parts of us that got ourselves into that situation in the first place where we are people pleasing or where we are just acting in a way to keep the peace rather than doing what is actually best for us in the moment.
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And it makes it so much easier because those people who no longer align with you, as you call your energy back, which is setting an energetic boundary, when you call your energy back to you, again, boundary setting is not to keep others out, it's to bring your energy back in and for you to develop a psychic level of discernment so you can tell when you're reaching outside of your energy field.
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You can tell when someone is or is not in alignment with you in a second.
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So the other part of this, when you start setting energetic boundaries, the people who are not aligned with you will naturally start to fall off.
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And this saves you the need to explain yourself.
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Now, people might come back to you and say, hey, you've, you know, you've been acting different, or they might kind of come at you to just try to poke and maybe even provoke or get you to explain yourself.
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It might be out of sheer curiosity, right?
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It might be a good friend who you're like, hey, I you haven't texted me back in three weeks.
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Like, what's up?
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There's always going to be an invitation to explain yourself, to explain your reasoning, to explain your actions back to the very demon who you're having to like disconnect from.
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And when we explain ourselves or we fall back on our heels and try to compensate for discomfort that our energy causes in other people, it's feeding the very demon that we are disconnecting from.
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So it is a it's a way to keep that energy here on the earth because once these energies that we're talking about, these low vibrational, dense energies, you can I call them demons sometimes.
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I they're different levels of names for what we can call these.
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But when we start to clock them, when we start to call our energy back and have more power to alchemize them, those energies can feel that their time is coming.
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They can feel that they're no longer welcome on this third-dimensional plane and that they're being sent back home.
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And it's not even actually the way that I see dense energies, it's not even that they don't belong here on the earth or here with us, it's that they belong in different dimensions.
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I don't want to get too far into this part of it, but basically, second-dimensional and first-dimensional beings, which are denser energies, they're not inherently bad.
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They are out of their home.
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If they're here with us in the 3D and they belong in the 2D, I would I would love to talk more about that in this podcast, but that it deserves its whole, that requires levels of understanding and being able to see energy.
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But it's not that they're they're bad, they just don't belong in the third dimension.
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They belong back at home in the second dimension or you know, in various places.
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But I say all of that to say that this process that we're doing of like alchemizing energy into the higher form of love, sometimes that means sending those second-dimensional energies, which can show up in the 3D world as lust, greed, shame, guilt, envy.
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It sends them back to the Taluric realm, which is a current of energy.
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It's like primal, primordial earth energy.
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It sends those energies back to the earth where they can do their job the best.
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And then the second those energies go back to where they belong, they're functioning in the highest form of love because they're able to do their job.
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But basically, think of it like this.
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I don't want to pinpoint it to this exact event, but it helped my brain to see all this differently.
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I came into this realization shortly after watching Oppenheimer through a series of you know spiritual initiations.
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But when the atomic bomb went off, when we first split the atom, um, when the atomic bomb went off, separate thought, but hundreds of thousands of years ago, or whenever this happened, at some point the earth got tilted off its axis, right?
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The earth is not, the north and south poles are not in alignment with where the earth once was.
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Whatever caused that, right?
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Whatever meteors came and barreled into the earth, you know, hundreds and thousands and thousands of years ago, these events, events like this, like the atomic bomb, like splitting the atom, it disrupts the harmony of the dimensions.
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And so basically, it helped me a lot with the atomic bomb because that was um such a like a chemical, like a human interfered chemical reaction that when it exploded, it um, and again, this is not exact.
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I'm not saying that this is what happened, but this is what allowed my left brain to get on board with this thought form to let it grow into what in my understanding now is of where energies belong.
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But let's just say the atomic bomb, when that exploded, it uprooted energies from the second dimension.
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And that doesn't always mean like underground, but energies from the second dimension, and it lifted them up here into this third-dimensional realm in this reality that we see.
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And so the only way they can return is if they're seen, if they're understood as belonging in this ecosystem, just maybe not here in the physical world.
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Some energies are not intended to take physical form.
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Some energies work through other methods and ecosystems of our planet to contribute to the whole.
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So when we tap into this alchemical power that exists in our wombs, when we start to call our energy back and we now have the capacity to process this alchemical flow of energy, we have the power as women to return those energies back to where they belong.
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And that process happens through womb alchemy, which a short way of describing what womb alchemy is, is not pushing the demons away, right?
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The whole, like the church and Christianity as a whole, at least what it is today, is all about shunning the demon.
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Keep the demon over there, keep the demon in hell, keep everyone else who's not a demon up here where we all can play and have fun.
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But whatever you do, keep the demon away.
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This process of womb alchemy is holding space for the demon.
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It's pulling out a seat at your table and having a conversation with the demon to understand, to learn more about it, to witness it, to see that it doesn't belong here, but not to say that it's outcasted and just put over there in the corner because then it still exists here in the 3D world.
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The process that the church takes people through is just recycling demons in different forms with different masks.
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And so when we tap into our womb alchemy and we start calling our energy back and setting energetic boundaries, we now have the resources that we need to witness these demons, to clock them.
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We can see how they're existing in people.
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We can see the masks that these demons wear.
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We can see how these demons travel through our connections in really, really sneaky ways.
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And it's not that they're intending to be sneaky, it's that they're just trying to like stay under the radar so they don't get ostracized in a way, which that's kind of what we're wanting to do, right?
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We're wanting to ostracize them or extradite them, but we're doing it with love.
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We're not saying you don't belong here, there's not space for you here, get away.
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We're saying there is space for you here.
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In fact, there is a need for you, but let's find where you belong.
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And as a priestess, to me, a priestess is many, many, many things.
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But as a priestess, we live in both of these worlds.
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We live in the shadow and we live in the light, and we can hold space for demons.
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And what holding space for demons looks like is if there's a human in front of you and they are um if you're having a conversation with them or something, if you get triggered as the spaceholder and as the one who can quote unquote see demons or just see energy, where another person who isn't healed to this state, their nervous system would feel the energy of that demon and get triggered into fight or flight, which would then shun the demon in the other person.
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And that could result in like a disagreement or just a disconnection altogether.
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And that would be an opportunity for that demon to be clocked, witnessed, loved, and transmuted because it has a purpose.
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And those demons are even cultivated from the beginning through misunderstanding, through misalignment, through um just being out of place.
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So as we start to gain our power, our personal power back, we can see with our human eyes more clearly.
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As we call our energy back into our field, our third eye will start
to awaken only at the capacity through which we can handle it.
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But when our third eye is awakened, our human eyes can see things more clearly.
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You can sense energy, you can sense the energy that someone is existing in, and you can hear how their words don't match their energy.
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Now, this does not immediately provide clarity on why that person is their energy feels one way, but their words are another.
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In men, this looks like their actions not matching their words or their words not matching their actions, or gaslighting, or just projecting things back onto you.
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But as we start to witness these phenomenons in our connections, it it almost requires less of us to set physical boundaries because as we are witnessing these demons and we're not shunning them, we're not pushing them away, but we're saying, What's up?
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Where'd you come from?
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Where did you get started?
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And in a conversation, this could look like kind of sourcing something back to the original trauma, or if you're in a connection with a person and you're like, hey, I get really insecure about my toes because I was made fun of as a kid, and X, Y, and Z.
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Like that would be tracing the demon back to why a behavior or a nervous system response or reaction is why that's programmed in the first place.
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And when that happens, and that's traced all the way back to the root, and it's not always even ours.
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Sometimes these are inherited.
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A lot of money demons are inherited, so we can't find the source which keeps us in the loop.
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But the power of a priestess, the power of being able to see beyond the physical means we're we're able to see beyond timelines.
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So if a demon, a quote-unquote demon, and I'm just using that word to like lock in and have an easy word to refer to this, but when we can see energy beyond the physical, we don't need to be able to, you know, trace that exact energy back to the exact moment when it was born or when it was programmed.
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We can just see the pattern and we can have compassion for someone.
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We can have grace for someone.
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That doesn't necessarily mean that we stay in connection with them or that we keep them in our lives.
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But when we can have compassion and not send that person resentment or anger through our hearts and actually just hold love for them and say, you know, we're not in alignment, but I have nothing but love for you.
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I only wish well for you and mean it, that's when that demon gets to transmute.
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And you, as the priestess or as the spaceholder for this demon, that demon has so much untapped power because it has just been hot potatoed around through people, through families, through generations, and it has so much potential power.
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And when you are a priestess and you can hold space for these conversations, for this type of witnessing or this level of witnessing someone in their healing, you receive the power surge that that demon holds because it's no longer a demon.
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It it is transmuted into a higher form of love that teaches you something about yourself, right?
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Because You're facing, you're face to face with a demon.
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So something about your journey or something about your soul has led you to that moment to interface with that energy.
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And we can leverage this.
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We can leverage this type of shadow work, or if you're a spaceholder for shadow work, you are not just doing this for nothing.
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Now, there is another side of this where we're not meant to do this work for free because it does take a toll on us if we are not being provided reciprocity.
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And so this would look like, you know, if you have a client who's telling you about things and you're sourcing things back and you're getting paid for your time to do this work, you're also getting the benefit of the power from the demon, but that requires so much spiritual initiation and um honestly intelligence to even get to that point.
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That doesn't mean that you have to do this work for free.
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So either with a client and you're getting paid to do it, if you're doing this with a friend who is dedicated to misunderstanding you and all you're doing is sitting face to face with this person, regurgitating the same conversation.
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You're just feeding the demon at that point.
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Or if you have a friend that you're holding space for who's not providing reciprocity in that connection, it's only taking from you.
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So I want to be really clear, this is not something that we're supposed to do for free.
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But when you are able to connect in sisterhood or connect with people on a deeper, more spiritual level, because you have set your energetic boundaries so you know where your energy is at all times, which is it should be in your field.
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Our energy should never overextend our the boundary or the parameter around us into another person's field.
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This is a wounded mother tendency.
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And this is also why a lot of women end up in relationships with men or married to men who feel like they're their
child, because we have our nervous systems through generations of trauma against women, we have shaped ourselves to be less, to not need as much, to be docile, and to be domesticated in a way that doesn't provoke the animals or the demons in men, which for a lot of women is surely to stay alive.
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And so these patterns or these needs for this type of people pleasing is so deeply ingrained in our blood and in our bones that we can't always see the way that we're even overextending.
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When you're in sisterhood, those demons just simply cannot exist.
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You are just loved on so hard and it's such a different environment and it's such a safe environment that this type of alchemy happens in real time and everybody wins from it.
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But getting into those places and into circles with women where sisterhood is truly safe, um, this is a space where we can do this work, quote unquote, for free.
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That's kind of what, and that's even that isn't exact, right?
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But this is where we are being poured back into, where if someone sees your darkness and sees your shadows, they hold space for it and they still love you.
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It doesn't change the way that they see you, but it actually opens up their perception of you in a way that makes them love you even more.
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And that's not a guarantee, right?
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People still, we're all working through our own things.
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But setting an energetic boundary, again, is not to keep someone else out.
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It's to bring all the parts of you that have been overextended, even beyond your awareness, to bring them back to your center so that you can start to see and hear yourself more clearly.
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You will start to be able to distinguish and discern connections that are not in alignment.
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You'll be able to like that discern an energy in a moment, in an instant.
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If it's somebody that's walking up to you in a coffee shop, you'll be able to tell immediately why they're there, why they're magnetized to you, whether or not, you know, you should engage with this energy and feed it, or if you should, you know, then take action to set a physical boundary.
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And the power of setting your energetic boundaries, especially doing it for three full moon cycles, you will be able to clearly watch energy leave your field with little to no effort on your side and make room for more of what is aligned because that thing is no longer taking your energy.
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You have all of your energy back.
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Now, this process can be really painful, it can be full of distortion and illusion and delusion and confusion.
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And the situation is gonna gaslight you again because that demon, it doesn't, it doesn't even know that it doesn't belong here.
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It's just it's like fighting for its life, and all it can feel is fear or hate, right?
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And those dense energies kind of like park themselves in their host.
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And so we defend our demons most of the time.
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And setting energetic boundaries helps us to soften the parts of us that feel vulnerable without that quote unquote demon.
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And I'm using the word demon here in a way that's almost making it feel out of place, but almost like demon and ego are interchangeable, which again is not the truth.
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Um, I'm not trying to equate those two things, but the the demons within us that were born from misunderstanding or from needing to protect ourselves in hostile environments that then have gotten entangled with our beliefs about ourselves or beliefs about others, which is kind of intertwined with our ego, but the ego is not like inherently a nefarious energy.
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It is just trying to protect us.
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And these demons live in these parts of us where they're feeding off of our life force energy.
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And as long as we do not have access to that life force energy, they do and they get to stay here.
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And they don't, these demons don't know that they want to go back home.
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They don't know that they're not home.
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We have human minds.
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We're able to comprehend what we see and what we feel and things like that.
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These demons are non-physical energies, right?
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And they just exist where they are being fed.
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And if they're afraid they're not going to be fed anymore, they're gonna kick and scream.
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And this is why sometimes you can be in a completely civil conversation with someone and they get triggered and bam, it's like an entirely different environment.
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So setting energetic boundaries is so simple that it's frustrating.
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I daily will call my energy back to the center of my field.
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I say it just like this: I call all of my energy back to the center of my own universe so I can see and hear myself more clearly.
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I form concentric circles of light within and around me for transformation, transmutation, and transportation of energy.
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Now, those are that's just sort of what I've adapted.
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You're welcome to say exactly that, especially if thinking of something on your own to not reinvent the wheel feels better.
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You have my full consent.
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In fact, I encourage you to say those exact words until you find something that feels better or just to use that.
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Those words are not trademarked, they're not mine, but they work.
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And as you start doing that and you encompass yourself with a ring of light or with a ring of fire and using your voice for this, it taps in your angelic army.
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If you're just doing this in your mind, it's still only existing in the fifth-dimensional level.
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So you're still, it's still productive, but it doesn't have a way to make it into this 3D plane.
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But if you say these words out loud, you are inviting in an angelic frequency to take over your field.
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And these angels live within you, right?
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They are your personal army, they are your personal protectors, they're your healers, they're your eyes and ears in all four directions.
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When we use our voice, we're inviting that energy, that frequency, that angelic frequency that just disintegrates demons on the spot.
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So then your process of alchemy of once you clock the demon, of like what to do with it.
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Once we've found it, what do we do with it?
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How do we get it out and how do we return it somewhere?
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You don't have to do this part alone either.
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Your angels will help with this process, your angels will help with the entrance and exits of connections and all these things, but saying these words out loud makes a huge difference.
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So calling your energy back, forming a concentric circle of light around you, it starts to um allow your psyche, your subconscious mind to remember the energy body that exists around you.
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And when you're able to start remembering that, your psychic gifts will start to develop more fluidly and with more stability.
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You won't notice such um destabilization when connections come and go, or when things don't work out the way that you want them to, or think that they should, or think that they will.
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You're able to stay completely grounded in your center and trust the unknown.
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And that doesn't mean that it has to feel like a free fall at all times, but you can feel what is you and what is someone else.
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You can feel when you're acting from a place of pure love and you're safe in your body to give this love because you have an overflow of love.
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Your source, kundalini energy, is traveling all the way up
your channel from your root to your crown to the north star chakra over the top of your head or the dragon chakra.
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It's reaching all the way up there, and then it gets to fountain down over you.
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So now you have a true overflow of energy because you've called all of your power back, and this does take time.
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Give it three full moon cycles to really even make a decision on like if this is working or not, but it will work.
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It will work, and when we start practicing that devotionally with our voice, our subconscious mind, it's not that we're making ourselves believe something that isn't true, we're remembering something that we have turned off for survival.
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Our psychic gifts a hundred years ago would have gotten us killed.
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The witch hunt was women who had psychic gifts and a connection to the earth to heal and and things like that.
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So these gifts were not just turned off because some nefarious power doesn't want us to be connected.
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There were phases of evolution where it was simply not safe for us to interface with these energies because they were too powerful and they would have um shocked our system.
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The story of Moses, like when he opens the, or whoever it was, when they opened the Ten Commandments and they were like zapped, or when they gave Moses the, not the Ten Commandments, the um Ark of the Covenant.
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There was something, I can't remember if there's a story where somebody actually does open it or if he would have opened it, it like disintegrates him.
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That is the power of an angel.
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And with that, angels and demons, they're not different.
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It's just high-powered, high-frequency energy that has been misunderstood.
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And people have been devoted to misunderstanding it, and it has been labeled in a way that causes it to be misunderstood.
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So the way I use the word demon is so interchangeable because to me, angels are demons.
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Excuse me, demons are angels, but humans just can't see the angelic frequency in it.
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And so we determine it as darkness and put it over there.
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But when we witness it for the truth and the power it brings and what it unveils, it's a huge source of power.
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And we as humans are what like channel this frequency, this angelic frequency, and either deem it as you know, an angel or a demon based on the capacity of our nervous system.
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And our if our nervous system is at its lower levels of survival, and if it's if our mind is trapped in fear-based consciousness or war consciousness, our nervous system is going to think that everything is a threat, any energy.
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And so it was a biological need for survival for us to turn off this energetic awareness.
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And so, as we start practicing our boundaries and calling our energy back, we are building that muscle in our subconscious and in our psyche that it is safe to bring this awareness back online.
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Being psychically aware, having magical powers, these are all basic human functions beyond the physical world.
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And they're really easy to tap back into, but it is our own energetic entanglements with those who are not ready to onboard this power into their system that keep us stuck in lower timelines.
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Because as we gain more power, if we have a connection with someone, that connection is bi-directional.
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Just like we can share demons and exchange energy, we can exchange power.
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So people who are connected to you, as you start bringing more of your power online, they feel that.
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If you're healing, your mother is going to heal from your healing.
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Your sisters, your family, your brothers, people who are connected to you, even people who you used to be connected with and are no longer even in connection with, they will heal as you heal.
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But if they're connected to you and they are not ready, if their nervous system cannot hold that level of high voltage, high frequency power, they're the demons that you know have conjured up through misunderstanding or through us being people pleasers and not wearing our true self in that connection.
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So that person may not have the clearest view of who we are.
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And so maybe they're confused about why we're doing things or saying things or whatever.
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The demons that exist or the misunderstanding that exists will all try to overpower your rise or your ascension.
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And if we care deeply about what that person thinks about us, then we're really subject to fall back into people-pleasing patterns to maintain peace or to maintain this illusion of relationship because we have convinced ourselves that this is love, which is really just a state of chaos that we feel comfortable in because we can manage that type of chaos.
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So as you start practicing energetic boundaries, I recommend practicing devotionally every day when you wake up, call all of your energy back before bed and even call it back before you go to sleep, so that when you're traveling in the astral realm, you're not carrying leftover expired energy that hasn't yet been processed into your dream state.
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So your
dream space will be much more effective.
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Your subconscious mind won't have to process all this extra energy.
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You can use your sleep and your dream state for your nervous system or for your subconscious to process energies in your dream state like it's intended.
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But if we're carrying extra energy that doesn't belong to us and we don't know it, then every night we go to sleep, we're carrying what's not ours into our dream state.
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And then our dream state is our subconscious mind just processing energy that we can't consciously.
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That's why our dreams are so crazy.
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Sometimes our dreams are really realistic, but it's us processing energy while our body is in a state of unconscious sleep.
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So this happens a lot faster.
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But if we're bringing old expired stuff into our dream state, then we're really not getting the full effect of what our sleep does for us.
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And so that carries into the next day.
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So then when we wake up, we didn't actually clear energy because it wasn't ours to clear.
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We are not responsible for other people's stuff or for stuff that we can't see.
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If we can't see it or recognize it or clock it, then we can't process it.
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So calling your energy back before bed is incredibly helpful for the entire process of just energetic alchemy that your body naturally goes through when it is in a state of peace, when your nervous system can find safety inside your own existence.
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So practice this for three months.
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When you wake up, before you go to bed, say I call all of my energy back to the center of my own universe and then wrap yourself up in something.
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You can wrap yourself in water, in air, and fire, in um light, but put something around you, even just form a circle, just with your words.
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You don't have to do this in the physical world unless you want to.
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But say I call all of my energy back to the center of my own universe so I can see and hear myself more clearly, and I form concentric circles of fire, where the violet flame is really powerful to work with as well.
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I call all of my energy back to the center of my own universe so I can see and hear myself more clearly, and I call in concentric circles of violet flames within and around me for transformation, transmutation, and transportation of any energy in my field.
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That if you struggle with setting boundaries, or if you struggle with setting boundaries and them actually being upheld, if you set a boundary, but
then when you get face-to-face with someone, if you kind of collapse and fall back into old patterns, or if you set boundaries and then you notice you feel like you have no authority, people in your life just either mock you or laugh at you, or um don't receive the information in a way that you'd like them to, this process will help.
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I promise.
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Thanks for tuning in to this conversation about boundary settings.
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I'm off to Mount Shasta this week, I think.
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My plans have changed a lot over the last four or five days, but I think I'm gonna go to Mount Shasta.
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Mount Shasta helps me clear energy from my field very, very quickly.
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And we can work with the land in this way.
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We can work with different nexuses and vortexes and physical locations doing grid work so that the earth can help us and aid us in this process.
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And the only reason that I even know when to go to Mount Shasta or when to go to different places is because I have cleared all of the noise out of my field.
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I have set energetic boundaries that have given me the strength, the courage, and the authority to set those boundaries in the real world where I've needed to, but I've learned that setting boundaries in the real world, like the physical boundaries, are much less necessary when you have an angelic army present around you.
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People can feel it.
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You will witness people be triggered much more than they already are just by you walking into a room.
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They can tell by looking at you.
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Now they may reduce that down to something physical, but their body can feel it, their body can remember it.
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And so you can literally clear a room of people who are not aligned with you just by holding an angelic presence.
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So try this for three moon cycles and track what you notice, track what happens in your connections, track your thoughts, track how you feel every single day.
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And if you're a member of the queendom, you can do this inside the flow tell.
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There's a place to leave reflections and it stores what day of your cycle you're on, it stores what day of the moon we're on, it stores the moon phase, and then it lays all of that out in what I call a flow map.
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It's a four or a four-directional, four-quadrant chart that works with the four cardinal directions and it places your four inner seasons into a quadrant so you can start to see your reflections or your journal notes related to every season of your cycle.
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And then that's the next level of womb alchemy when you can see how your womb is naturally alchemizing energies and transmuting them into a higher form of love, which then builds confidence in what you're feeling.
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It starts to you start to gather evidence because there's evidence all around you of your magic.
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But we as women tend to have like short-term memory when it comes to these things.
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And when we can't track the pattern of magical things, the patterns of denser energies tend to have a bias because they're really heavy and they take our focus.
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So when you start tracking these things and witnessing cycle over cycle and then even noticing patterns from month to month, it will blow your mind wide open to the possibilities of how quickly you can manifest things and move things through the energy field alone.
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So tap in with us in the flow tell if that resonates with you.
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If not, check back in the next time I record a podcast because I do not record on schedule and I'm proud of it.
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I'm sending you so much love and magic, and I will see you on the moon.