TRANSKRYPCJA 🔗
WEBVTT
00:00:06.868 --> 00:00:09.912
I invite you to open your Bibles to 1 Corinthians, chapter 13,.
00:00:09.912 --> 00:00:12.896
1 Corinthians, chapter 13.
00:00:12.896 --> 00:00:23.594
Before we do that, I will say that I notice on the preaching clock it gives me 166 minutes in the back.
00:00:23.594 --> 00:00:25.785
Buckle up, people.
00:00:25.785 --> 00:00:29.582
That's awesome.
00:00:29.582 --> 00:00:31.949
I don't know who the new guy in the back is, but I'm with you, buddy.
00:00:31.949 --> 00:00:35.703
So, but, um, so, uh, that's awesome.
00:00:35.703 --> 00:00:39.045
Oh, now they just reduced me to 34.
00:00:39.045 --> 00:00:39.887
That stinks All right.
00:00:39.887 --> 00:00:42.429
Oh, now they just reduced me to 34.
00:00:42.429 --> 00:00:45.292
That stinks All right.
00:00:47.655 --> 00:00:59.582
I watched the flooding yesterday and it's sickening, isn't it?
00:00:59.582 --> 00:01:03.048
And then I saw on X that a PCA pastor from Kerrville had written a note and I thought, oh okay, pca, okay, we got a PCA church there.
00:01:03.048 --> 00:01:18.248
It didn't say the pastor's name, so I go on the church's website and I saw it was Billy Crane, one of my seminary classmates, and his wife Ashley and their four kids Christ Church.
00:01:18.248 --> 00:01:21.501
Our deacons will be contacting them.
00:01:21.501 --> 00:01:27.129
It's a small world, isn't it?
00:01:27.129 --> 00:01:29.572
I just pray for them.
00:01:29.572 --> 00:01:39.331
I know many of you have already been doing that, but I reached out to Billy and I just want to see what our congregation can do for them.
00:01:39.331 --> 00:01:57.293
When you give, when we have our mercy fund offerings, when we do that, this is the kind of thing that that helps support, so not only people in our community and in the church, but also around the country in situations like this.
00:02:01.763 --> 00:02:04.439
As we come now to the love chapter 1 Corinthians 13,.
00:02:04.439 --> 00:02:19.270
As we come now to the love chapter 1 Corinthians 13, it's good to remember that the Apostle Paul is teaching here about not just love as some vague thing, but a distinctive Christian love, a biblical love, a right understanding of love.
00:02:19.270 --> 00:02:23.289
He's speaking about the reality of love, which is another way of saying he's speaking about the reality of God, because God is love.
00:02:23.289 --> 00:02:26.322
Reality of love, which is another way of saying he's speaking about the reality of God, because God is love.
00:02:26.322 --> 00:02:30.070
It's the character and being of God that defines what love is.
00:02:30.070 --> 00:02:31.073
We don't define it.
00:02:31.073 --> 00:02:39.735
Our culture is trying to redefine what love is, but love is defined by God and his character.
00:02:39.735 --> 00:02:41.901
And do you remember that?
00:02:41.901 --> 00:02:43.306
1 Corinthians 13,.
00:02:43.346 --> 00:02:45.572
It follows on the heels of 1 Corinthians 12.
00:02:45.572 --> 00:03:02.612
And
Load full transcript
so what Paul's talking about in its original context here is that we're to take our spiritual gifts that he speaks about in 1 Corinthians 12, and as Christians, we're to exercise those gifts and love to our fellow believers in the church, to build up the body, some in the Corinthian church.
00:03:02.612 --> 00:03:29.264
One of the sins that they battled in the Corinthian church was pride, and they used their spiritual gifts as sort of a one-upmanship, so to speak, to view themselves as better than others, use it as a kind of a competition, and that is displeasing to God, to take that which is good and to turn it in for an avenue for self-glorification rather than the glorification of God.
00:03:29.264 --> 00:03:33.926
When we get to the next chapter, chapter 14, we're going to see one way they did.
00:03:33.926 --> 00:03:37.591
That is, they did it with the miraculous gift of speaking in tongues.
00:03:37.591 --> 00:03:49.764
That was a miraculous gift that God poured out during the apostolic period and the Corinthians took that gift and they used it in a very self-centered way rather than a way that would build up and edify the body of Christ.
00:03:49.764 --> 00:03:55.770
But we can do that with any gift that God gives us, and so we need to be mindful of that as God's people.
00:03:57.760 --> 00:04:02.246
Verse 7 is exhibit A, I think, for the 20th century.
00:04:02.246 --> 00:04:10.652
Here we're going to look at a part of verse 7 where it talks about love, believes, all things.
00:04:10.652 --> 00:04:16.050
But the other parts there in verse 7 are also exhibit A.
00:04:16.050 --> 00:04:16.521
For why?
00:04:16.581 --> 00:04:21.043
Karl Marx, one of the philosophers of the 20th century.
00:04:21.043 --> 00:04:22.990
He calls religion the opium of the people.
00:04:22.990 --> 00:04:25.586
The opium of the people.
00:04:25.586 --> 00:04:41.425
He did not like Christianity for one, because he felt it took the fight out of the dog and therefore those who were oppressed would just lie down and take it and not put up a fight.
00:04:41.425 --> 00:04:43.009
They would just always seem to be.
00:04:43.009 --> 00:04:50.610
He accused Christianity of just being something just okay with the status quo, and so he rejected it.
00:04:50.610 --> 00:04:54.403
But Marx did not understand how to properly use the scriptures.
00:04:54.403 --> 00:04:58.333
He didn't understand the Bible, nor Christianity.
00:04:58.333 --> 00:05:03.105
It's more complex than how he presented it.
00:05:03.165 --> 00:05:11.889
Proverbs 14, verse 15, says the simple, that is, the naive, believes everything, but the prudent gives thought to his steps.
00:05:11.889 --> 00:05:16.923
So Christianity is about being prudent, it's about being thoughtful.
00:05:16.923 --> 00:05:21.173
It's not dismissive of the problems in the world.
00:05:21.173 --> 00:05:28.461
And so, before we even explore what Paul means by love believes all things, that'll be our focus today, last time we were together.
00:05:28.461 --> 00:05:29.848
Love bears all things, remember?
00:05:29.848 --> 00:05:33.125
Bears has that word of roof in it.
00:05:33.125 --> 00:05:36.922
Thank God we had a roof the last couple of days with all the rain we've got.
00:05:36.922 --> 00:05:40.172
But love covers it, covers over it, shelters.
00:05:40.172 --> 00:05:41.865
God is a refuge, it's that idea.
00:05:41.865 --> 00:05:49.122
But today we're going to look at love believes all things and we're going to see that love does not promote a blind faith.
00:05:49.122 --> 00:05:52.031
It does not promote a gullible faith.
00:05:52.031 --> 00:05:54.906
It's prudent and thoughtful, as I said.
00:05:54.906 --> 00:06:02.180
But it does involve what we might call a certain kind of godly skepticism, if I can put it that way.
00:06:02.562 --> 00:06:04.944
There is a kind of godly skepticism.
00:06:04.944 --> 00:06:07.108
1 John 4.1,.
00:06:07.108 --> 00:06:23.067
We hear it the apostle John, jesus' closest earthly friend, says Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world, so do not believe every spirit.
00:06:23.067 --> 00:06:26.112
There is to be a certain godly skepticism.
00:06:26.112 --> 00:06:27.622
Where to test the spirits?
00:06:27.622 --> 00:06:29.004
How you test it?
00:06:29.004 --> 00:06:34.504
By the word of God, if it lines up with the word of God, like the Bereans did in Acts 17,.
00:06:34.504 --> 00:06:36.509
They were commended by Paul for doing just that.
00:06:36.509 --> 00:06:39.423
They tested even what the apostle Paul preached and taught.
00:06:39.423 --> 00:06:41.670
And so Christians are to test.
00:06:41.670 --> 00:06:43.862
There is a godly kind of skepticism.
00:06:45.004 --> 00:06:48.913
And Jesus says in Matthew, chapter 10, the 16th verse listen to what he says.
00:06:48.913 --> 00:06:54.848
Behold, I'm sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, so be wise as serpents.
00:06:54.848 --> 00:06:57.648
He knew what a wolf was.
00:06:57.648 --> 00:07:01.930
There were those that would destroy God's people if they could.
00:07:01.930 --> 00:07:03.762
He knew they were out there.
00:07:03.762 --> 00:07:06.028
So he says be wise as serpents.
00:07:06.028 --> 00:07:13.608
Don't go out there gullible and innocent and naive about what's out in the world, and be innocent as doves.
00:07:13.608 --> 00:07:18.165
And so love does not throw wisdom out the window.
00:07:18.165 --> 00:07:23.149
It doesn't throw that out the window as to the realities of evil in the world.
00:07:23.149 --> 00:07:25.024
Be wise as serpents.
00:07:25.024 --> 00:07:29.185
Love is wise to the evil ways of the world.
00:07:30.648 --> 00:07:39.583
And yet here we are in 1 Corinthians 13, and our Lord, by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, through the apostle Paul, says love believes all things.
00:07:39.583 --> 00:07:42.310
So how should we understand that?
00:07:42.310 --> 00:07:54.254
This
is a good example of where you have to take any one phrase or statement in Scripture and let the other parts of Scripture bring light upon that for a proper understanding.
00:07:54.254 --> 00:07:56.507
So we're going to continue through this love hymn.
00:07:56.507 --> 00:08:01.369
This morning Our focus is going to be upon this phrase love believes all things that you see there in verse 7.
00:08:01.369 --> 00:08:09.947
How does this inform our personal relationships in the church and beyond this understanding of love?
00:08:09.947 --> 00:08:18.833
And what difference does having faith in the Lord have in how we love other people, particularly as it relates to love believes all things?
00:08:19.740 --> 00:08:34.282
With that brief introduction, if you would stand, if you're able, I'm going to read from God's inerrant, infallible, holy and living word.
00:08:34.282 --> 00:08:35.826
It's sharper than any two-edged sword, and so God sends it to us in love.
00:08:35.826 --> 00:08:37.912
Let's receive it by faith and with expectation in our hearts.
00:08:37.912 --> 00:08:47.121
Verse one if I speak in the tongues of men and of angels but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
00:08:47.121 --> 00:08:58.254
And if I have prophetic powers and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith so as to remove mountains but have not love, I am nothing.
00:08:58.254 --> 00:09:10.200
If I give away all I have and if I deliver up my body to be burned but have not love, all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned but have not love, I gain nothing.
00:09:15.600 --> 00:09:16.120
Love is patient and kind.
00:09:16.120 --> 00:09:16.861
Love does not envy or boast.
00:09:16.861 --> 00:09:17.522
It is not arrogant or rude.
00:09:17.522 --> 00:09:18.383
It does not insist on its own way.
00:09:18.383 --> 00:09:19.384
It is not irritable or resentful.
00:09:19.384 --> 00:09:24.410
It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
00:09:24.410 --> 00:09:34.340
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
00:09:34.340 --> 00:09:36.383
Love never ends.
00:09:36.403 --> 00:09:38.427
This ends the reading of God's holy word.
00:09:38.427 --> 00:09:41.854
God's people said amen, you may be seated.
00:09:41.854 --> 00:09:48.629
Thank you, father.
00:09:48.629 --> 00:09:56.860
We know your word does not come back void, and so we ask, lord, that you would fulfill your purposes in it today.
00:09:56.860 --> 00:10:04.220
Open the eyes and ears of our hearts and help us, lord, to see the glory of the love of Christ, amen.
00:10:04.220 --> 00:10:05.562
So love believes all things you could say.
00:10:05.562 --> 00:10:06.302
Love trusts all things you could say.
00:10:06.302 --> 00:10:07.264
Love trusts all things.
00:10:07.264 --> 00:10:08.046
Love trusts all things.
00:10:08.066 --> 00:10:15.443
So it's not suspicious, it's not cynical, it's not judgmental toward other people.
00:10:15.443 --> 00:10:23.700
Love would rather be taken advantage of than wrong a brother by unfriendly suspicion.
00:10:23.700 --> 00:10:26.389
Here's the scary part about love it risks than wrong a brother by unfriendly suspicion.
00:10:26.389 --> 00:10:31.573
Here's the scary part about love it risks.
00:10:31.573 --> 00:10:35.284
If we're going to be a loving people, we have to risk.
00:10:35.284 --> 00:10:36.947
There's no way around that in a fallen world.
00:10:36.947 --> 00:10:38.130
Love risks.
00:10:38.130 --> 00:10:46.275
It's willing to make itself vulnerable.
00:10:46.275 --> 00:10:51.998
Love opens itself up to trust other people.
00:10:52.059 --> 00:10:56.399
John Calvin says love is willing to risk giving others the benefit of the doubt.
00:10:56.399 --> 00:10:58.567
That means sometimes we're going to get burned.
00:10:58.567 --> 00:11:04.520
Are we willing to love knowing that sometimes we're just going to get burned?
00:11:04.520 --> 00:11:14.136
And yet that is what God calls us to do and to be.
00:11:14.136 --> 00:11:18.059
It involves believing the best about people.
00:11:18.059 --> 00:11:23.456
Da Carson says love avoids being cynical.
00:11:23.456 --> 00:11:23.537
Why?
00:11:23.537 --> 00:11:26.913
Because love prefers to be generous.
00:11:26.913 --> 00:11:29.465
Generous in what way?
00:11:29.465 --> 00:11:32.578
Generous in its openness and acceptance.
00:11:32.578 --> 00:11:38.519
It prefers to be generous towards other people.
00:11:44.172 --> 00:11:46.500
Love prefers to see other people in the best light.
00:11:46.500 --> 00:11:52.346
That's what Westtown Church should be filled with when people come in they should see.
00:11:52.346 --> 00:11:53.929
People prefer to see others in the best light.
00:11:53.929 --> 00:11:56.375
That's what God is making us to be.
00:11:56.375 --> 00:12:11.261
He's growing us to be this kind of a people, and so love has this desire and preference to see the best in other people until the facts actually demand otherwise.
00:12:13.365 --> 00:12:22.905
But even then, even then, love still requires us to be gracious and as gentle as possible.
00:12:22.905 --> 00:12:25.932
That's a high calling, isn't it?
00:12:25.932 --> 00:12:30.447
But don't we see that in Christ?
00:12:30.447 --> 00:12:33.903
If you're a Christian here this morning, don't you see that?
00:12:33.903 --> 00:12:40.366
That's how our Savior is with us Gracious and gentle.
00:12:40.366 --> 00:12:46.605
He knows the facts about us, but he's gracious and gentle.
00:12:46.605 --> 00:12:48.809
He knows the facts about us, but he's gracious and gentle.
00:12:48.830 --> 00:12:52.889
It doesn't mean that when the clear evidence and facts are in, we remain gullible.
00:12:52.889 --> 00:12:56.900
And it doesn't mean that we pretend and live in a fantasy world.
00:12:56.900 --> 00:12:59.364
That's not what it's saying.
00:12:59.364 --> 00:13:01.885
That's not what God expects of us.
00:13:01.885 --> 00:13:04.048
He does not expect us
to deny reality.
00:13:04.048 --> 00:13:11.715
No, I remember one of my elders at a previous church had a little saying.
00:13:11.715 --> 00:13:21.551
Some of you have probably heard it when people show you who they are, what Believe them?
00:13:21.551 --> 00:13:25.039
When people show you who they are, believe them.
00:13:25.039 --> 00:13:30.027
Now, there's a sense in which love actually does do that.
00:13:30.027 --> 00:13:42.908
But oftentimes, when we say that, we get cynical and we harden up and we use that kind of a statement instead of saying well, that's a painful thing to know, but I'm going to love them anyway.
00:13:42.908 --> 00:13:45.004
It's very easy for us to harden our hearts.
00:13:48.221 --> 00:13:59.629
When the Romans and Jews of Jesus' day, they were filled with hatred and they nailed the Lord Jesus Christ, the Holy Son of God, on that cross.
00:13:59.629 --> 00:14:06.928
They had beaten Him and stripped Him and mocked Him and spit upon Him and pressed that crown of thorns into his head.
00:14:06.928 --> 00:14:16.508
And they showed Jesus in those moments who they were, and Jesus definitely believed them.
00:14:16.508 --> 00:14:24.927
He saw the reality before him and yet he loved them.
00:14:24.927 --> 00:14:29.650
How do we know that him?
00:14:29.650 --> 00:14:30.513
And yet he loved them.
00:14:30.513 --> 00:14:31.134
How do we know that?
00:14:31.134 --> 00:14:48.312
Well, we know it because, right then and there, every nerve ending in his body was on fire and his soul was drinking something that the thieves on each side were not drinking in that moment the cup of hell from God's wrath being poured out upon him for our sins.
00:14:48.312 --> 00:14:54.927
And yet he bowed his sacred head and prayed Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.
00:14:54.927 --> 00:15:00.529
And so, yes, when people show you who they are, believe them.
00:15:00.529 --> 00:15:01.785
But then go ahead and love them.
00:15:01.785 --> 00:15:07.528
And sometimes we fail at that, don't we?
00:15:07.528 --> 00:15:13.750
And we need to ask God to forgive us, and he is happy to do that in Christ.
00:15:13.750 --> 00:15:17.226
Christ prayed for God, the Father, to forgive them.
00:15:17.226 --> 00:15:17.849
Because what?
00:15:17.849 --> 00:15:23.087
Because he clearly saw their sin, otherwise he wouldn't be praying for their forgiveness.
00:15:23.087 --> 00:15:24.245
He saw their wrong.
00:15:24.245 --> 00:15:28.926
He saw the wickedness, indeed, of what they had done.
00:15:28.926 --> 00:15:38.251
He saw the reality and yet loved them to the end, just like he did the disciples in the upper room.
00:15:41.942 --> 00:15:43.528
The beautiful heart of Jesus Christ.
00:15:43.528 --> 00:15:46.865
The beautiful heart of Jesus Christ.
00:15:46.865 --> 00:15:50.269
The beautiful heart, the sinless, loving heart of Christ.
00:15:50.269 --> 00:15:52.131
And what is Christ showing us?
00:15:52.131 --> 00:15:53.813
The heart of God?
00:15:53.813 --> 00:16:00.125
If we see the Son, we see the Father.
00:16:00.125 --> 00:16:03.633
And so, when love believes all things, it's not gullible.
00:16:03.633 --> 00:16:08.934
Yet love desires to see the best in other people.
00:16:08.934 --> 00:16:15.187
This world is trying to train us to not see the best in other people.
00:16:15.187 --> 00:16:22.947
The Holy Spirit is growing us to see the best in other people.
00:16:22.947 --> 00:16:28.481
We're called to be tenderhearted.
00:16:28.481 --> 00:16:31.663
Jesus says we're to even love our enemies.
00:16:31.663 --> 00:16:43.541
We could spend a whole sermon talking about the different aspects of love, the way I'm going to love my wife is going to be a bit different than how I love my enemies, but nevertheless, love it is.
00:16:43.541 --> 00:16:59.423
Love, desires to see the best in others, tender hearted Loving our enemies, even as Christ loved us when he was upon that cross, suffering not for His sins but for ours.
00:17:02.317 --> 00:17:06.061
The world doesn't understand that kind of love, because it's a divine love.
00:17:06.061 --> 00:17:09.316
It's a divine love.
00:17:09.316 --> 00:17:11.663
It's not natural.
00:17:11.663 --> 00:17:16.066
It comes from the working of the Holy Spirit within a believer.
00:17:16.066 --> 00:17:19.682
The world says how does the world operate?
00:17:19.682 --> 00:17:24.304
Oh, no, no way, they're not going to take advantage of me.
00:17:24.304 --> 00:17:30.279
No, sir, I've been down that road before, I'm not doing that again.
00:17:34.096 --> 00:17:37.405
And just like that, the hardness of the heart is there.
00:17:37.405 --> 00:17:58.422
But you see, we have to pause in God's house this morning and look upon Jesus and look at that cross, and you and I are all challenged to say what if God's heart was like that?
00:17:58.422 --> 00:18:04.105
Where, oh no, what if the last time we sin, god says that's it.
00:18:04.105 --> 00:18:07.263
I'm not opening my heart up to them anymore?
00:18:07.263 --> 00:18:11.923
Aren't you glad God's heart is not that way?
00:18:15.396 --> 00:18:16.602
The holy love of God.
00:18:16.602 --> 00:18:27.945
Where would our hope be found if it wasn't for Christ, if God, who is all wise and all knowing about us.
00:18:27.945 --> 00:18:35.561
He knows the best in us and he knows the vilest and the worst in us, and yet he loves us.
00:18:35.561 --> 00:18:38.577
And he knows the vilest and the worst in us, and yet he loves us and he remains open to us.
00:18:38.577 --> 00:18:53.005
We see that with the thief on the cross one who lived a life of crime, remember he says to Jesus oh, me and the other thief over there, we deserve to be up here getting the death penalty, but not you.
00:18:53.005 --> 00:18:54.977
You didn't do anything wrong, we deserve it.
00:18:54.977 --> 00:19:11.721
And yet when he repented of his sins and he cast himself by faith upon Christ, christ, his heart was open and standing ready and accepted him in full and says
today, this very day, you'll be with me in paradise.
00:19:11.721 --> 00:19:18.979
What a beautiful heart Christ has.
00:19:18.979 --> 00:19:33.013
So God's love, it's not gullible, but it's tender, it's accepting, and he receives and saves those who humbly confess their sins and are willing to turn away from their sin and they trust in Christ.
00:19:34.356 --> 00:19:41.365
Let me put it a different way Christian love believes all things because it knows God's not dead.
00:19:41.365 --> 00:19:49.646
Christians believe all things because we know God is not dead.
00:19:49.646 --> 00:19:54.682
We remember how great and powerful and gracious he is.
00:19:54.682 --> 00:19:59.439
We know that the God of love who created all things out of what?
00:19:59.439 --> 00:20:03.788
Nothing but the power of his word.
00:20:03.788 --> 00:20:08.318
Christian love knows that after darkness, light.
00:20:08.318 --> 00:20:12.667
We serve a God who shines the light into the darkness.
00:20:12.667 --> 00:20:17.200
We serve a God who shines the light into the darkness, and so love never loses faith in others.
00:20:17.200 --> 00:20:21.124
Where do we see that God shines the light into the darkness?
00:20:21.124 --> 00:20:27.090
We see it in creation, we see it during the time of the Reformation, we see it at every conversion.
00:20:27.090 --> 00:20:38.598
This is why, in Genesis 1, in the creation account, you'll notice, if we had written the account we would have said and there was morning and there was evening the first day, and there was morning and there was evening the second day.
00:20:38.598 --> 00:20:39.603
But that's not what it says.
00:20:39.603 --> 00:20:44.337
It says and there was evening and there was morning the first day.
00:20:44.337 --> 00:20:51.477
The light comes up and shines into the darkness and we see that most beautifully in Christ.
00:20:52.980 --> 00:21:08.843
Christian love knows the God of love who sends shockwaves of fear and trembling through the corridors of hell when, well, at one point, at the birth of a Jewish baby named Jesus, in this sleepy little town of Bethlehem.
00:21:08.843 --> 00:21:12.278
And Jesus came to do what?
00:21:12.278 --> 00:21:22.847
Not to condemn condemn the world but to save the world, to save sinners, to save his people from our sins, sins against him and God, the Father and the Holy Spirit.
00:21:22.847 --> 00:21:36.346
Christian love knows the God of love who, in the person of his son, he puts on flesh and bone and suffers and dies for lost and rebellious sinners.
00:21:36.346 --> 00:21:38.321
Sin is rebellion against God.
00:21:38.321 --> 00:21:43.463
It's not a mere imperfection, it's rebellion against God, it's hatred toward God.
00:21:43.463 --> 00:21:48.211
And yet Christ died for us.
00:21:48.211 --> 00:21:55.403
And so love never loses faith in others because we see something of Christ in how he acted toward us.
00:21:55.403 --> 00:22:14.945
Faith never loses, or love never loses faith in others, not so much because of other people but because God is not dead and Christ on the third day was risen from the dead and the Holy Spirit transforms the spiritually dead.
00:22:14.945 --> 00:22:19.866
And the Holy Spirit matures and grows the Christian to be more and more loving.
00:22:19.866 --> 00:22:29.242
And you see, when we write people off, we're basically saying God's dead, he has no plans for that person.
00:22:29.242 --> 00:22:32.883
Aren't you glad Christ didn't do that with us?
00:22:32.883 --> 00:22:39.615
This is our God.
00:22:39.696 --> 00:22:50.862
Christian love knows the God of love who is so powerful he uses death to defeat death who takes what looks like defeat and is an infinite power and wisdom and love.
00:22:50.862 --> 00:22:56.115
He turns that which looks like ultimate defeat into ultimate victory for the whole world.
00:22:56.115 --> 00:22:59.643
And this is why love does not grow cynical.
00:22:59.643 --> 00:23:11.065
Love believes all things in our personal relationships, because that same God who defeats death through death.
00:23:11.065 --> 00:23:15.951
It's the same yesterday, today and forever.
00:23:15.951 --> 00:23:21.626
And so what relationship cannot God restore?
00:23:21.626 --> 00:23:23.742
What marriage can he not heal?
00:23:23.742 --> 00:23:30.781
Who do we need to forgive today?
00:23:33.056 --> 00:23:34.481
Christian love knows the God of love.
00:23:34.481 --> 00:23:37.595
Do you remember when he brought the prodigal home?
00:23:37.595 --> 00:23:39.301
And the prodigal son comes home?
00:23:39.301 --> 00:23:50.047
God brought him home, he saved the thief on the cross, he saved the greatest persecutor in the history of the church.
00:23:50.047 --> 00:23:57.076
And then this persecutor of the church called himself the foremost of sinners.
00:23:57.076 --> 00:24:04.817
And then God took him and he transformed him by his sovereign grace and then made him the lead apostle to the entire Gentile world.
00:24:04.817 --> 00:24:08.442
We know him as the apostle Paul.
00:24:08.442 --> 00:24:18.002
And so love, though it is wise and faces reality, it's, it's not suspicious and cynical and judgmental.
00:24:18.002 --> 00:24:20.567
Love believes all things.
00:24:20.567 --> 00:24:34.950
Love believes in the sour, sovereign power and grace of god, and that's very important because that should impact how we go about our relationships in life.
00:24:35.954 --> 00:24:41.468
Steve Ires says loving people never forgets that God is still at work in the midst of a lost and dying world.
00:24:41.468 --> 00:24:45.325
And if he's still at work in a lost and dying world.
00:24:45.325 --> 00:24:49.766
He's still at work, in the life of his people and in Westtown Church.
00:24:49.766 --> 00:24:50.166
Amen.
00:24:50.166 --> 00:24:53.502
And that means our future is bright.
00:24:53.502 --> 00:25:03.314
God is not dead.
00:25:03.314 --> 00:25:09.175
Here's another way to put it.
00:25:09.175 --> 00:25:09.896
It is faith that works
through love.
00:25:09.896 --> 00:25:12.700
Our understanding and trust of God is what enables us to love other people in the way God expects.
00:25:12.700 --> 00:25:15.022
Galatians 5, 6,.
00:25:15.542 --> 00:25:17.586
Faith works through love.
00:25:17.586 --> 00:25:21.049
This is the distinctive of Christian love.
00:25:21.049 --> 00:25:32.221
It's the vision that God has given us of himself by his Holy Spirit, through Christ, which enables us then to apply that to our relationships in life.
00:25:32.221 --> 00:25:38.029
And so our faith is not first and foremost in humanity or other people.
00:25:38.029 --> 00:25:47.115
It's first and foremost in God, who isn't done with other people.
00:25:47.115 --> 00:25:52.586
It's not by our faith in fellow sinners per se, but in the church we realize that God is alive, god is at work.
00:25:52.586 --> 00:25:59.174
God is not done with you and me yet Praise the Lord for that.
00:25:59.174 --> 00:26:03.945
And so we don't write things off and people off.
00:26:03.945 --> 00:26:05.901
Love believes all things.
00:26:05.901 --> 00:26:15.431
Love never loses faith in other people and what God will do in us and in one another.
00:26:16.574 --> 00:26:22.402
Here's another way to put it when we look at the cross, we see sin does not get the last word.
00:26:22.402 --> 00:26:23.023
God does.
00:26:23.023 --> 00:26:26.740
Death does not get the last word.
00:26:26.740 --> 00:26:27.663
God does.
00:26:27.663 --> 00:26:32.616
Satan does not get the last word, god does.
00:26:32.616 --> 00:26:42.632
God does all things, infinitely wise and perfect and well.
00:26:42.632 --> 00:27:09.912
And so we look out upon the world and we see the sin in the world and we see sin in ourselves and we realize and tell ourselves again we don't deny seeing it for what it is, but at the same time, by faith, we know that the one who is in us is greater than he who is in the world and greater than the sin in ourselves and in other people.
00:27:09.912 --> 00:27:15.852
And this is what helps us love other people, not give up on other people.
00:27:15.852 --> 00:27:21.640
We can face reality and yet go ahead and love them as Christ.
00:27:21.640 --> 00:27:25.059
We can face reality and yet go ahead and love them as Christ.
00:27:25.319 --> 00:27:26.321
Is anything impossible for God?
00:27:26.321 --> 00:27:27.403
Remember Psalm 46,.
00:27:27.403 --> 00:27:31.710
God says Be still and know that I am God.
00:27:31.710 --> 00:27:40.442
I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.
00:27:40.442 --> 00:27:43.567
And then he goes on to say the Lord, the covenant, lord of hosts, is with us.
00:27:43.567 --> 00:27:45.288
The God of Jacob is our fortress.
00:27:45.288 --> 00:28:01.220
And so we remember the greatness of God, we remember the grace of God, the power of God and the goodness of God, as we sang earlier.
00:28:01.220 --> 00:28:08.480
And that is what guards us from being suspicious and cynical and judgmental of other people in our relationships.
00:28:09.662 --> 00:28:10.665
Love wears a hard hat.
00:28:10.665 --> 00:28:21.213
Some Sunday, I think we should all just come in here with yellow hard hats, because it knows it lives in the midst of God's construction zone.
00:28:21.213 --> 00:28:28.307
We live in a construction zone of God's sovereign grace and power and love.
00:28:28.307 --> 00:28:44.170
That's what should guard our hearts and our relationships, and that's why love not only believes the best in others, but it does more than that it never loses faith in other people.
00:28:44.170 --> 00:28:44.560
Why?
00:28:44.560 --> 00:28:46.207
Because our God reigns.
00:28:47.362 --> 00:28:53.151
I ask you this morning who have you written off?
00:28:53.151 --> 00:28:58.589
May each man and woman and child search their own heart.
00:28:58.589 --> 00:29:02.669
Is there someone in your life you have just written off?
00:29:02.669 --> 00:29:03.590
I'm done with them.
00:29:03.590 --> 00:29:10.829
Is there somebody in your family, in the church, at work?
00:29:10.829 --> 00:29:15.144
Let me put it a different way who have you quit praying?
00:29:15.144 --> 00:29:15.365
For?
00:29:15.365 --> 00:29:27.051
God is sovereign and he does what he pleases, and he has not done yet.
00:29:29.740 --> 00:29:30.641
Listen to this great hymn.
00:29:30.641 --> 00:29:33.124
I love this hymn.
00:29:33.124 --> 00:29:34.965
This is my father's, oft so strong.
00:29:34.965 --> 00:29:37.228
God is the ruler.
00:29:37.228 --> 00:29:49.010
Yet this is my Father's world.
00:29:49.010 --> 00:29:51.744
Why should my heart be sad?
00:29:51.744 --> 00:29:53.329
The Lord is king.
00:29:53.329 --> 00:29:56.186
Let the heavens ring, god reigns.
00:29:56.186 --> 00:29:57.211
Let earth be glad.
00:29:57.211 --> 00:30:00.885
Yes, the world's a mess.
00:30:00.885 --> 00:30:03.045
Yes, the church is often a mess.
00:30:03.045 --> 00:30:04.690
Yes, our hearts are often a mess.
00:30:04.690 --> 00:30:06.582
God is not dead.
00:30:06.582 --> 00:30:13.511
He's the ruler yet, and he's not done and he reigns.
00:30:13.511 --> 00:30:17.905
And so love believes all things and our dealings with other people.
00:30:18.807 --> 00:30:20.211
Here's how one commentator puts it.
00:30:20.211 --> 00:30:20.653
I like it.
00:30:20.653 --> 00:30:27.489
Love gazes on the strengths and virtues of other people and only glances at their flaws and sins.
00:30:27.489 --> 00:30:34.349
You see, it sees them, yes, but it gazes on their strengths, trying to see the best in them.
00:30:34.349 --> 00:30:42.814
It doesn't make light of sin, but it doesn't fixate and highlight their sins and failures, and it's not judgmental.
00:30:42.814 --> 00:30:46.347
Now, christians are called to make right judgments.
00:30:46.347 --> 00:30:55.251
If there's one verse that's been abused by the world, their favorite Bible verse is what Judge not.
00:30:55.251 --> 00:31:04.959
They forget to read a couple of verses later where Jesus calls
some people spiritual dogs, a couple verses later where Jesus calls some people spiritual dogs.
00:31:04.959 --> 00:31:08.509
So at least Jesus was calling the balls and strikes as he saw them.
00:31:08.509 --> 00:31:13.251
But no, we're to judge, we're to see things rightly, but we're not to be judgmental.
00:31:13.251 --> 00:31:14.182
There's a difference.
00:31:14.182 --> 00:31:21.290
We're to see things, we're to see the best the facts demand.
00:31:21.290 --> 00:31:24.326
We're to see the best until the facts demand otherwise.
00:31:24.366 --> 00:31:25.351
Think of Job's friends.
00:31:25.351 --> 00:31:26.703
What was wrong with Job's friends?
00:31:26.703 --> 00:31:28.849
What did they do?
00:31:28.849 --> 00:31:32.450
They knew just enough theology to use it as a machete or a club.
00:31:32.450 --> 00:31:37.086
Job was a godly man, a righteous man.
00:31:37.086 --> 00:31:38.241
We know that from the beginning.
00:31:38.241 --> 00:31:39.886
He lost his ten children.
00:31:39.886 --> 00:31:41.843
He lost his wife to bitterness.
00:31:41.843 --> 00:31:42.346
He lost his 10 children.
00:31:42.346 --> 00:31:42.971
He lost his wife to bitterness.
00:31:42.971 --> 00:31:44.118
He lost all his wealth.
00:31:44.118 --> 00:31:47.749
He lost his livestock, his health and so forth.
00:31:47.749 --> 00:31:49.954
His life was devastated.
00:31:49.954 --> 00:31:54.365
And here come his friends to comfort him, and I put comfort in quotes.
00:31:54.365 --> 00:31:58.532
Here they come and they failed him as friends.
00:31:58.532 --> 00:32:01.465
They did not love him as friends.
00:32:01.465 --> 00:32:02.167
Why?
00:32:02.167 --> 00:32:04.212
Because they did not believe all things about Job.
00:32:04.212 --> 00:32:09.068
They believed they had the inside track.
00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:17.310
One of his friends, job 15, eliphaz is your wickedness not great and your iniquities infinite?
00:32:17.310 --> 00:32:20.488
You see, you must be suffering because of your sin.
00:32:20.488 --> 00:32:26.810
You see, they assumed the worst about Job and they had no warrant for that.
00:32:26.810 --> 00:32:35.093
And even if they had, where was their compassion for a fellow sinner?
00:32:35.093 --> 00:32:41.180
John, chapter 9, you remember the judgmental we'd call them church-going folks?
00:32:41.180 --> 00:32:45.398
But John 9, they asked Jesus about the man born blind.
00:32:45.398 --> 00:32:46.301
You remember what they said?
00:32:46.301 --> 00:32:49.250
Who sinned Him or his parents?
00:32:49.250 --> 00:32:50.844
That must be why he's blind.
00:32:50.844 --> 00:32:53.250
What does Jesus say?
00:32:53.250 --> 00:32:57.430
Neither, but that God would be glorified.
00:32:57.430 --> 00:33:00.167
And then he went and he healed them.
00:33:00.167 --> 00:33:02.303
He healed that man.
00:33:02.303 --> 00:33:10.373
Sometimes our suffering is just that.
00:33:10.373 --> 00:33:11.660
God would be glorified in and through our suffering.
00:33:12.539 --> 00:33:21.384
So judgmental people they love to cherry pick a biblical truth and apply it to a particular case or person, without any warrant, without compassion, self-righteous Pharisees.
00:33:21.384 --> 00:33:24.291
We see this in the Gospels, in Matthew, chapter 23.
00:33:24.291 --> 00:33:28.107
Jesus says to them you strain out a gnat and you swallow a camel.
00:33:28.107 --> 00:33:35.851
They were picking about tiny flaws with other people, real or perceived, pointing the fingers at others.
00:33:35.851 --> 00:33:36.772
Why?
00:33:36.772 --> 00:33:38.565
Because it would make themselves feel righteous.
00:33:38.565 --> 00:33:41.073
That's one of the key reasons they did it.
00:33:41.073 --> 00:33:45.991
They wanted to highlight the sins in others, because it made them feel more self-righteous.
00:33:45.991 --> 00:33:55.804
And you see, this is why the gospel is so important in our relationships, when we understand that righteousness comes to us as a gift through faith in Christ.
00:33:55.804 --> 00:33:58.130
It's not something we establish or we earn.
00:33:58.130 --> 00:33:59.432
It comes as a gift.
00:33:59.432 --> 00:34:01.865
We don't have to do that in our relationships.
00:34:01.865 --> 00:34:07.567
We don't have to then make ourselves feel more self-righteous or better by cutting other people down.
00:34:07.567 --> 00:34:16.521
The gospel frees us in our relationships to love other people in an unjudgmental way, in the best way, in a Christ-like way.
00:34:19.045 --> 00:34:20.108
Love believes all things.
00:34:20.108 --> 00:34:22.614
It's really just an application of the golden rule, isn't it?
00:34:22.614 --> 00:34:24.905
Ask yourself, you remember the golden rule.
00:34:24.905 --> 00:34:30.592
Jesus says in Matthew 7, so whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the law and the prophets.
00:34:30.592 --> 00:34:34.751
Everything the law and the prophets taught about human relationships.
00:34:34.751 --> 00:34:39.391
You can summarize it in this Treat other people as you would wish to be treated.
00:34:39.391 --> 00:34:42.425
Do you want other people to see the best in you or the worst?
00:34:42.425 --> 00:34:53.498
Do you want them to be cynical about you, judgmental about you, suspicious about you?
00:34:53.498 --> 00:34:54.686
This is just an application of the golden rule.
00:34:54.686 --> 00:34:57.219
Love believes all things.
00:34:57.239 --> 00:35:05.065
Remember St Augustine, the greatest theologian of the first millennium of the church, maybe even the first 1500 years.
00:35:05.065 --> 00:35:06.349
He had a mother, godly mother.
00:35:06.349 --> 00:35:12.851
How many great theologians came from godly mothers who prayed and loved them.
00:35:12.851 --> 00:35:15.244
Augustine was not living right.
00:35:15.244 --> 00:35:17.610
He was living an ungodly life.
00:35:17.610 --> 00:35:19.608
He was living with a woman he wasn't married to.
00:35:19.608 --> 00:35:27.550
He was dabbling in this worldly philosophy
then, that worldly philosophy, and what was his mother doing, the whole time Praying for him?
00:35:29.760 --> 00:35:30.967
Love believes all things.
00:35:30.967 --> 00:35:34.028
You see, by faith, her vision of God.
00:35:34.028 --> 00:35:39.304
She believed God wasn't done with her son yet and she prayed.
00:35:39.304 --> 00:35:42.128
And God honored those prayers.
00:35:42.128 --> 00:35:49.567
And so we love well, not so much by our faith in other people per se, but by our faith in God.
00:35:49.567 --> 00:35:57.791
Think of the godly father, the prodigal son.
00:35:57.791 --> 00:36:00.146
The son lived a wild life.
00:36:00.146 --> 00:36:02.105
His wayward son begins to come home.
00:36:02.105 --> 00:36:04.170
But love believes all things.
00:36:04.170 --> 00:36:11.322
How do we know that as soon as the father sees the son on that horizon, the second he sees him, he's running toward him.
00:36:11.322 --> 00:36:14.288
What does that mean?
00:36:14.288 --> 00:36:22.364
His father was expectant, he was just waiting, and as soon as he saw him, he took off running.
00:36:22.364 --> 00:36:25.652
Love believes all things.
00:36:30.510 --> 00:36:31.335
Remember the apostle Peter.
00:36:31.335 --> 00:36:34.659
Jesus says to him you're going to deny me three times.
00:36:34.659 --> 00:36:45.317
And then Jesus goes on to tell Peter Satan wants you to sift you like wheat, but I have prayed for you that your faith may not fail.
00:36:45.317 --> 00:36:45.920
I think I told you before.
00:36:45.920 --> 00:36:46.523
It's worth telling you again.
00:36:46.543 --> 00:36:52.590
Robert Murray McChain, if I could hear Christ praying for me in the next room, I would not fear a million enemies.
00:36:52.590 --> 00:37:11.110
Christ was praying for Peter and he's praying for you and me in glory, and his prayers are for us, for our brothers and sisters in Christ and for all those God has determined to save from every tribe, tongue and nation.
00:37:11.110 --> 00:37:15.802
They will not fail, dear Christian.
00:37:15.802 --> 00:37:16.927
This is the love of Christ.
00:37:16.927 --> 00:37:20.626
Aren't you glad he didn't write us off?
00:37:20.626 --> 00:37:30.347
We owe that to other people if we're going to show them the greatness of the love of God, so let's pray and ask for God's help.
00:37:30.347 --> 00:37:42.989
Father, we come now before you and we're thankful that you're gracious and powerful and good to us, and we desire to show that same kind of love to other people.
00:37:42.989 --> 00:37:46.286
Keep us wise as serpents.
00:37:46.286 --> 00:37:48.547
Keep us innocent as doves.
00:37:48.547 --> 00:37:51.226
Help us face reality.
00:37:51.226 --> 00:38:00.829
But, lord, help us to think the best of people and even when they fail, help us to love them as you have loved us.
00:38:00.829 --> 00:38:02.666
In Jesus' name we pray.
00:38:02.666 --> 00:38:05.748
God's people said amen.
00:38:05.748 --> 00:38:09.987
Well, we come now to the Lord's Supper.
00:38:09.987
--> 00:38:12.668
It's always a joy to come to the Lord's Supper.
00:38:15.300 --> 00:38:16.987
Why does God give us the sacraments?
00:38:16.987 --> 00:38:20.371
So that he can help deepen the assurance of our faith.
00:38:20.371 --> 00:38:26.371
There are other reasons, but I always like to remind God's people that that's the central reason.
00:38:26.371 --> 00:38:29.889
There's nothing deficient in God's word, but our faith is often weak.
00:38:29.889 --> 00:38:33.471
So he gives us the sacraments to give us that extra assurance.
00:38:33.471 --> 00:38:39.440
He also gives us the sacraments to remind us that he loves not just our souls but our bodies as well.
00:38:39.440 --> 00:38:43.224
One day he will raise them from the dead, and so we touch these physical elements.
00:38:44.106 --> 00:38:51.144
To remind us of that as well, I'm going to read to you from 1 Corinthians, chapter 11.
00:38:51.144 --> 00:38:56.789
The Apostle Paul says For I received from the Lord what I also delivered to you, that the Lord Jesus.
00:38:56.789 --> 00:39:03.831
On the night when he was betrayed, he took bread and when he had given thanks he broke it and said this is my body, which is for you.
00:39:03.831 --> 00:39:06.103
Do this in remembrance of me.
00:39:06.103 --> 00:39:12.347
And in the same way also, he took the cup after supper, saying this cup is the new covenant in my blood.
00:39:12.347 --> 00:39:23.126
Do this as often as you drink it in remembrance of me, for as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord's death until he comes.
00:39:23.126 --> 00:39:35.407
So Jesus gave us this sacrament to strengthen our faith, to remind us that we're saved not by the greatness of our faith but by the greatness of our Savior.
00:39:37.101 --> 00:39:44.233
I just came across a saying last night and I thought it was so good I had to send it to a couple pastor buddies of mine.
00:39:44.233 --> 00:39:46.583
It was by Samuel Rutherford.
00:39:46.583 --> 00:39:54.643
I don't know if you know Samuel Rutherford, that's for another day, but he was a great, godly man who suffered much in England.
00:39:54.643 --> 00:40:00.570
But he said I hang by a thread, but it is of Christ's spinning.
00:40:00.570 --> 00:40:05.510
He was secure in Christ, as weak as he felt.
00:40:05.510 --> 00:40:17.869
Sometimes our faith is weak, and this sacrament is to remind you that you may be hanging by a thread, by faith in Christ, but that thread is by Christ's spinning and it will not break.
00:40:17.869 --> 00:40:23.568
He will hold you, he will keep you and he will bring you home.
00:40:23.568 --> 00:40:26.101
That which God began, he'll complete.
00:40:27.346 --> 00:40:28.911
So we come to this table this morning.
00:40:28.911 --> 00:40:31.184
Who's the table for?
00:40:31.184 --> 00:40:45.989
Well, the scriptures teach and our denomination, I think, is right, and they're teaching in this that this table is a reminder that we're all saved by God's grace alone, through faith in Christ alone, and it's not by our works but by the works of Christ.
00:40:45.989 --> 00:40:51.005
So this bread reminds us that Christ's body was broken for us, he suffered for us.
00:40:51.005 --> 00:40:56.365
The wine reminds us, he paid the ultimate price, he shed his blood, in other words.
00:40:56.365 --> 00:41:02.251
And so in this sacrament, we're called not so much to focus on the bread and the wine themselves.
00:41:02.251 --> 00:41:14.432
And so in this sacrament, we're called not so much to focus on the bread and the wine themselves, but in this bread and wine where God, by His Spirit, mysteriously communes with us in a special way to strengthen us for our service to His glory.
00:41:15.521 --> 00:41:26.744
So if you've made a public profession of faith, if you've been baptized, you don't have to be a member of this church, but you need to be a member of some church where you're under oversight.
00:41:26.744 --> 00:41:29.960
The scriptures clearly teach the elders are to be in charge of a table.
00:41:29.960 --> 00:41:35.224
So if that's you, we want to invite you and share this table.
00:41:35.224 --> 00:41:43.809
This is not Pastor Corey's table, it's not Westtown Church's table, it's the table of the Lord, and so we practice open communion in that way today.
00:41:45.882 --> 00:41:59.987
But if you've never made a public profession of faith, if you haven't yet been baptized, the proper order would be baptism and then coming to the table, as the elders or the church leaders of your church invite you to the table.
00:41:59.987 --> 00:42:06.284
But whether you're a believer or not, this can be a profitable time for you, and I'm glad that you're here.
00:42:06.284 --> 00:42:20.182
We're glad that you're here and take this time this morning, if you haven't yet done those things, to think on your relationship with God and to profit from this sacrament nonetheless, to realize that we're saved by what Christ has done, not by what we've done.
00:42:20.182 --> 00:42:23.460
That, in the end, is what the bread and the wine are all about.
00:42:23.460 --> 00:42:25.188
Jesus did for us.
00:42:25.188 --> 00:42:33.956
He paid the ultimate penalty and he fulfilled all the obligations of the law that we could live with God now and forevermore, in both body and soul.