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Hello, everyone, and welcome to the Human Behavior Podcast.
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When something catches your attention, how much of what's happening around it are you actually taking in?
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Today, Greg and I are talking about negative space, the information around the person or situation that can change your understanding of the entire scene.
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From traffic stops to a trip to the gas station, we explore how using the surrounding information in the environment can help us understand what we can't directly see.
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All right, good morning, Greg.
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Hello, everyone, and thank you for tuning in.
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Excited about this episode today.
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Greg, we're just gonna jump right in it and we're gonna be talking about negative space and understanding what you can't see.
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And so the kind of purpose behind this discussion is to explore how the information surrounding something that we cannot directly observe helps us make reasoned inferences, build and test explanatory storylines, and anticipate what may happen next.
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So, meaning we get fixated on objects or people or places or these specific things that we're observing, something captures our attention.
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And it's very, you know, we're you know just like we talk about sense making and problem solving and everything we talk about in class, it's easy to jump to an initial conclusion or an inference from this.
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This is this is just a process your brain is constantly doing, no matter what the situation is, whether you're actively observing or just passively or just completely lack any situational awareness in a sense, this is how your brain processes information.
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And what we're talking about and what we're asking kind of today, the recurring kind of question and theme is you know, what does the surrounding information allow us to infer about someone's likely intent or about what's happening, and then checking whether that inference holds up, right?
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So some I see something, but there's a lot of space in there.
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There's a lot of negative space in the environment, there's a lot of space in our galaxy, right?
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And it's all of that in-between stuff and everything that's around there is what really makes up the scene.
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It's the context of what it is that I'm seeing.
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So we're gonna go through this and we're gonna have like kind of three recurring examples that we'll use when we get into each one of these concepts.
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But we're gonna talk about a traffic stop.
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So police officer makes a stop for observed traffic violation.
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There was, you know, and then there was no apparent crime in progress, just a civil infraction.
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So that's one.
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Then we're gonna talk about an interview.
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So for this example, say you're conducting a parent-teacher conference, the single parent about an apparent incident of unruly behavior with the child, right?
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And then the third one, my favorite gas stations, right?
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You pull into an unfamiliar gas station and you know, see some activity going on.
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Yeah, I love gas stations.
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I know you really do.
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You really meet the best people at gas stations.
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Um, I've spent a lot of time there.
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I still go to the one down the street from us all the time just to grab a cup of coffee and chat with ladies working there.
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One does the uh where you can throw in a couple bucks and she brings in like homemade food on Fridays to come pick up.
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It's pretty cool.
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So I love that.
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But anyway, those are the three examples that we're gonna be going back and forth with today.
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And I want to kind of start with you know, how we observe an environment.
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And I'll put it in the context for those of you who've been to our training or heard about it or know a little bit about what we're talking about when we have our detecting a cunning opponent course or any course that deals with observation and perception and and and how we do things.
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But in our training course, we use this in a very literal sense, right?
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So we teach people how to observe an environment, make sense of what's happening.
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And part of that, you know, within how we process information, you know, for your eye and brain, we get into positive, negative, and dead space.
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And so I want to give a quick definition for those of what we teach it in a literal sense, because it's something you can literally observe right now while you're sitting here, you know, listening to this in a
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But if I think about, I'm looking at the a storefront of a building, the Home Depot, whatever, right?
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So we're in the parking lot, we're staring at the Home Depot.
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That building, everything that I can see right there in front of me, you know, we we would call that, you know, put it, it's anything that has mass, it's that positive space.
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So things I can directly observe right there, right?
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And then if I think about what dead space is, it's like, okay, everything that I can't observe, like so I can't see what's behind the building, right?
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So that's dead space to me, right?
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So I can only see and observe what I what's right in front of me.
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But then there's something called negative space.
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And so negative space, think about if I'm looking at the Home Depot, well, look at those doors, you know, the sliding open doors, you know, the main entrances on both sides.
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Look at the windows.
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Look at maybe there's a shaded area over there where they have something covered with a tarp, you know, that's up off the ground, but there's things underneath it.
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That's what we mean by negative space.
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And the reason why we get into it a lot is because you have certain, you know, physiological limitations about how your iron brain works is your brain kind of starts to paint that out.
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It doesn't attend to those things.
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It kind of just says, okay, there's nothing there.
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But if you train yourself, you can look into those areas.
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I can look into that window, I can look into the window of the gas station before I go walking in there to make sure I'm not walking into an armed robbery, right?
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Uh, I can take a pair of binos, I can look into there.
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And inside that negative space, there's a lot going on there.
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But but because of how our iron brain worked to perceive the world, it kind of just paints it out.
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It doesn't attend to it.
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If I'm in that parking lot again, I always tell people I'm walking through that parking lot, you know, I'm looking at vehicles in there.
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I try to see, you know, as I'm walking behind a vehicle, I try to look at the rear room mirror through the back window.
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And you're going, well, well, why?
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I'm probably never going to actually see it.
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It doesn't matter what you're doing is you're training your eye to kind of see into that vehicle because because of how the windows are, because of how light refracts, and because it's not darker in there, our brain just goes, okay, there's nothing there.
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It's like, well, no, you might be walking past a car full of people that are in there waiting to jump out, and you literally won't see them, right?
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So that negative space is, you know, criminals hide in negative space.
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You know, it's it's it's it's something that we we take in a very literal sense to practice.
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So that's how we we we get into that in class.
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But today, for this, Greg, I want to take that discussion further.
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And we don't, because when we're observing a situation, a person, we don't always have access to someone's intent, and we certainly don't have access to what the full situation is.
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We're sort of teleported into it in a sense, right?
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But we can observe the information around it.
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You know, how do we use that information to understand what we can't see?
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So the connection I want to explore today is how the space around something helps us understand the thing itself.
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And we can apply that same idea to a situation we don't fully understand.
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And so the setting, the relationships, the timing, and the activity around it can help give shape to what we can't directly see or observe.
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And that's how we're going to extend this negative space into this conversation, Greg.
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And so we're asking, you know, what the surrounding information allows us to reasonably infer about someone's intent, about what's happening.
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And then how do I then use that to check myself, right?
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Whether or not that inference holds up.
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So that's big picture concept, Greg.
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And I want to wanna throw to you with kind of an opening question about when we teach positive, negative, and dead space, what are we trying to change about how people look at the environment?
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Yeah, that's a great question.
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So a couple of clarifications for for our uh frequent listeners and for new listeners.
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Look, you don't have to have attended our class to find value in our podcast.
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And you don't have to have been a combat hunter or a vet to understand these principles.
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This is science.
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What we do is we try to street it up.
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We try to break it down so you
understand cognition and how it can improve your play.
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So when when Brian was talking about seeing through things, that's, you know, we call those burning techniques burn through, burn through vegetation, through darkness, through cover.
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Okay, so that's what we mean by that.
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So it's not mixing you up.
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The other thing is we'll routinely say negative, positive, and dead space or NPND, or dead, positive, negative, or positive, negative, dead.
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Don't even worry about it.
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It doesn't matter what the order is, it matters how you learned it.
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And then what happens is that that skill, after a while, you repeat it in that order.
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But the negative space is the key because it's the center focus.
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And I'll give you a definition from Rogue Manor West here, where I'm broadcasting from my home.
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Okay, so we have uh fural cats and they get eaten by eagles and by foxes.
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So they don't stay feral very long here.
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But we do have we have chipmunks, and we have the kind of Western chipmunks that have to fight for survival every minute of every day.
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They're not big targets like a cat.
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So when I come out, the positive space that I see is my pickup truck, and it's parked just before, you know, it goes off into the sagebrush sea and everything else.
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And I look at it, and the tire is also something I can see.
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That's positive space.
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Behind the truck, I can't see.
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So that would be my dead space.
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But there's a point between my tire and my fender well that's always darker no matter where the sun is, and the chipmunk sits on the tire in that position, no matter what he's eating, and looks around for a while.
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And so I think about it.
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Okay, elevated position, that makes sense.
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Okay, but why does he choose the negative space?
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Because prey always moves from position of cover to position of cover.
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They're always looking for a potential exit.
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So what happened is my use of the negative positive dead space gave me an explanatory storyline that I can now check out.
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Hey, I've seen that on other vehicles.
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It's not just at my house.
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Now we've got a file folder, Brian.
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We've got a robust file folder.
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So the negative positive dead space becomes a mechanism.
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So we don't just fix our attention on a thing.
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Okay, because what happens we have to compliment contemplate the entire experience.
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We call it the Hoberman, right?
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We want to look 360.
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So, for example, on a traffic stop, it's much more complicated than TV shows or or the police academy first teaches you.
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So there's negative, positive, and dead space, just picking where we're gonna stop.
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And sometimes you don't get to choose.
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Sometimes the driver of the suspect vehicle is doing that, right?
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And then the driver has his own NPD.
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Okay, a smell.
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Is the smell coming from him or the car?
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Is the smell of burning marijuana or packaged marijuana?
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It's things like that is clothing, is demeanor.
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You're going, oh, clothing.
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Yeah, is closing mused up?
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Has he dropped food on himself because he's you know under the influence of something?
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All of those things are things within that package, okay?
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And then we have the dead space.
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You know, the is there a gun under the driver's seat?
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Is there a gosh damn something in the glove box, all that other stuff?
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But the negative space, what's just behind the headrest to the right shoulder before I get to the center console?
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Now, if I have to move or if I have to use something like a thermal, an NVG, a flashlight, or kneel down a little bit, we're probably talking about a negative space.
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And that connective fiber between the positive and the negative and the and and the dead space is where the seams and gaps were that stuff hides.
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So then, you know, if we do traffic stop, that's one good example we can compare.
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What about an interview?
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So Brian gave us one in class.
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Well, listen, if we get so fixated on the mission, we're gonna make mistakes.
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So we're here to address the student's unruly behavior.
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Yet what we have to do is we have to take a look.
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When's the interview?
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What time of day?
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What time of day did the incident happen?
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Where did it happen?
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In a class or in the
cafeteria or on the property?
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Who else knows about the counseling session?
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If it goes sideways, I don't want to get accused of, you know, saying something improper to a female or male or anything else, right?
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And if the the parent, let's say, or or significant other or caregiver gets pissed, do I have an exit?
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These are considerations.
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And what happens is we don't think about those because we wrote the note, it's late, I want to get this over with, I have to do a counseling session, and then we walk right into it and we don't even understand things like what was the kid going through?
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Did I investigate that far enough?
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Were they going through a breakup and then, you know, or just had a bad day or changed their meds?
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If we don't know those things, they become negative space issues, right?
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They're not unknown to us, Brian, because we can investigate to get them.
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So a dead space issue would be something we didn't know.
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Well, you or you can't, or there's no way you can see it is what we're saying.
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Is the dead space, I can't unless I move and go over there with but negative space, there's still you know it's there, there it helps you construct what's happening.
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Exactly.
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And so I love when you say that for the interview.
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I love when you say that with the window, because a window at the gas station, for example, I'm in the parking lot and I look through the window.
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I can observe what's happening inside.
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That's not dead space to me, but I can't observe it clearly and I don't hear the sounds or smell, but I see them.
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Yeah.
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So so guess what?
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That's just as important.
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So so if I can use uh negative, positive, dead space to help me define boundaries or groups or sets or challenges uh within it, then the positive space, okay, that's what I see and who I see.
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The vehicle, the people standing in there of the building.
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Okay.
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But now the negative space is are they lingering?
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Is it an unmanned vehicle?
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Okay.
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Am I seeing graffiti up on a second deck, which means if they a graffiti artist can get there, a sniper can get there, right?
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Garbage, the door locks, the signage.
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Okay, all of this, this, this fundamental
stuff that we see that creates the fidelity is normally in that negative space.
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It's not right, like you say signage, yeah, a parking sign, okay, but a sign of a person smoking crack when I'm seeing the vials on the ground.
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Or do you get what I'm trying to say?
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Those, that's that's that transitory position.
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So that becomes my negative space.
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The the lights are missing.
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All of a sudden, now I take a look and the people are lingering, but they're very close to the dead space.
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Why would somebody choose to be there?
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I go back to my chipmunk example.
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Why is the chipmunk standing right there?
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Okay, it's warm, it's out of the direct sunlight, but he's got an escape route.
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So what I'm saying is that we have to look, and and these three examples should cover everything that our listeners would likely run into in a day, right?
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Right.
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And then if they get fluent enough with the NPD, then they can utilize that to help frame their their structured observation.
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Yeah, and and these we're we're using these specific examples, but they're meant to be used in a general way, right?
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I mean, meaning don't think about it, well, I don't have a kid, I'm not gonna have a parent, teacher.
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No, just it doesn't matter what the interview or what the thing is like or what what news article you're reading.
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Chipmunk, right?
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Yeah, yeah.
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This is you never know.
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The the Elvin and the Chipmunks was always my favorite uh Christmas song, their their whole Christmas series.
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All right.
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So so let's let's let's kind of kind of jump into this.
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And so, for example, on the traffic stop example, right?
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So the mere observation of taking an unfamiliar route or nervous demeanor does not immediately establish, you know, deception or some nefarious intent, right?
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Same thing with the gas station, right?
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You can you'd sit there like, okay, why is this person hanging out here over there?
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Are they, you know, well, is it the kid that's trying to get someone to buy them beer at the gas station, or is he waiting to get picked up because this is right by the school and this is where it's easier because there's a line out the door there?
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Like there's all these things that I can just
just one thing isn't necessarily meaning there, I can't jump to an unreasonable conclusion.
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And you know, there's there's a number of ways we we can get into this stuff, but like I have to look at not this as it's a static thing.
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One, it's dynamic and everything's kind of moving, but it's about relationships and interactions, right?
00:16:12.960 --> 00:16:22.240
So within this design space of the gas station, or I'm talking to the teacher or the traffic spot or traffic stop, excuse me, there's a lot of space in there, right?
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There's there's a there's a lot going on.
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And so it in and those background elements, that negative space is what gives meaning to these different observations that we have.
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And it can allow me to, you know, go in the wrong direction or the right direction based on on you know how I process it.
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But but one question I would kind of have for you is like when we what what what am I trying to get out of this?
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Like what becomes available to us when we stop looking at the specific person, incident, location, right?
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So I go, oh, traffic stop, the guy's drunk, the this, like I start to jump to conclusions, but but and I I can go like it's pretty easy to understand how I can go to the wrong conclusion, but like what is available when we stop looking at those individual things?
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Yeah, so so to use the metaphor of the negative, positive, dead space, positive, negative, dead space, the idea is this you can't infer what you can't see.
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So take the dead space out of it, okay?
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Is the dead space complicating this issue by being available, for example, for a place to hide or this or that or the other?
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Well, there's a consideration you make every time.
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But for this process, let's say the positive space can make me stupid.
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I see it's a gas station, people go to get gas, I mentally check out the dead space.
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I can't see, so it doesn't make me afraid, so I don't think about it.
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There's nothing there.
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Right, right.
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So now what we focus on is that negative space.
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So when we take a look, we start doing things like look, what are the possible outcomes of uh the observed or perceived actions?
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It appears that those people are linked in some manner, right?
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What's the timing in the sequence?
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Well, it's funny because nobody paid attention to me until I got out of the VIC.
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And then
all of a sudden I see some motion and it appears that those people are coming towards me.
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And now we see one per person's hanging back.
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Well, that's important to me because that's above and beyond a normal, ordinary, everyday clinical observation.
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What it is is my structured observation says that's interesting.
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So now there's a couple of explanations that can be that.
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The person's gonna come over and say, hey, listen, you just drove over that thing.
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It's hanging from your undercarriage.
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Or, hey, did you know you have a flat?
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We we see that.
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Hey, you're going the wrong way.
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How does he know where we're going?
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But but the other thing is that when I see those things, I have to measure them, right?
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So an inference stays with us, and it has to, you know, be something that my observation initially supports.
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I remember being on the East Coast one day and having an argument with the second lieutenant.
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Perhaps, well, it could be.
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Well, I don't know.
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Yeah.
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Not enough information.
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Not enough information.
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We're talking about, look, I don't know everything, but what can I learn?
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Can I learn something useful without knowing the complete story?
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Because what I want to do is I want to have a better question, Brian.
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I want to be able to conduct a better interview without asking a real question of my environment with my observations, right?
00:19:06.960 --> 00:19:25.759
And and that that's actually a good example of and I get why people do this like in a clinical sense, you know, you're asking maybe a doctor or a lawyer like a legal or medical opinion, and you give them something, and they might say, Well, I I can't I can't give you a reasoned inference based on just what you see.
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But but and which is which is true.
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That might be a completely accurate thing to say.
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However, you know, your case of the the lieutenant I like because it's like, well, maybe it could be.
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You don't have enough information.
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It's like, okay, well, what we're trying to get here is like, but but there is enough information to start somewhere.
00:19:42.720 --> 00:19:45.279
Okay, so so where what's the starting point?
00:19:45.360 --> 00:19:49.600
Now, maybe you don't have it all, maybe you can't commit resources, but like you you can start.
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So to to go back to the to the traffic stop, there's like, you know, an implied relationship between what that driver maybe tells you and then how that information relates to where they're going, right?
00:20:05.039 --> 00:20:08.480
And meaning like this is I'm putting everything in this context.
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And they might be they could be wrong, they could be completely wrong unintentionally, or they could be telling me a lie.
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Yet being near like the destination or starting endpoint, you know, only tends to support part of the driver's account, right?
00:20:22.720 --> 00:20:36.240
So meaning the there's the story you're telling, the place you you initiated the traffic stop, you know, what you typically see, the time of day, the weather, the environmental condition, like this all plays into it.
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And I can say whether like, is it raining or is it not?
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And then there's degrees of it, but you you when someone says, Oh, I'm going here, right?
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They might be unintentionally saying the wrong thing.
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Maybe they're coming from there.
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Like you, you know, but we almost look at it the same.
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It's like, no, I witnessed this, you said this.
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It's like, yeah, but I didn't mean it.
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It's like, okay, now they're being accepted.
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So, so what is that like?
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You know, how do I put all that into some sort of usable format or context?
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You get what I'm saying?
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Yeah, it's so you're spot on.
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And and the idea is that it doesn't just happen in that in that traffic stopper at the gas station.
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What happens is the positive space gets in the way.
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And so put a block on your desk in front of you and look at the block.
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And when I look at that, that little toy Lego block or, you know, building block or whatever else, I look at it.
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That positive space makes me go, it's a block.
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But it could be a number of things.
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And why is it there?
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Is it holding down the papers because of the wind?
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Okay.
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I can't consider what's behind it because I can't see that.
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And at this point, I have to take go with the close, my my five and twenty-fives first, right?
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So positive space, but what does it mean?
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So that would be the negative space.
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--> 00:21:43.440
Where are the shadows?
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Where are my angles?
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So what I have to do is use the basic information that I have and then force some additional context to help me distinguish uh from confusion or a deliberate intent to deceive me.
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A person can be confused.
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Look, being stopped by the police scares the shit out of me even now.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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Yeah, you don't.
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I'm looking around like I got dope in the car or something like that.
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I'm like, uh, what do I have in here?
00:22:08.240 --> 00:22:12.960
Sound like porky pig, though, you know, but uh and then a person goes, oh, it's deception.
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Hold on a minute.
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Consider that interview, okay?
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We're at school.
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The students already had the opportunity to explain what happened to the parent or caregiver because they went in and go, why am I getting called into the school?
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Oh, Dad, you don't understand.
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It's one of these things, right?
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Let's say that's the situation.
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Now all of a sudden I'm there and I'm looking at that negative space.
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Wait a minute, does that account line up or corroborate the evidence that I know that I'm seeing right now?
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Does it tend to demonstrate that there's person explaining it away?
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Or lying about it.
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So context helps me weigh things.
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It helps me determine an ML and an MDCOA.
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And you know where the context is going to be found?
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In that negative space.
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Okay.
00:22:49.200 --> 00:22:54.079
So you you you said something, I watched kind of like let's follow up with it for a second.
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Because you said I need to force some additional context.
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Okay.
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That's an interesting way to put that.
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Like what what what do you mean by that?
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Yeah, no, no, it's a great question because now I'll be can accused of forming a Gregism.
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But I think I think force and forge are two important words to use in your everyday life.
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So I have to force perspective.
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I have to force myself to look for context and relevance.
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I have to force myself to search for artifacts and evidence to support a number of storylines to find out which one's more reasonable.
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And I have to forge a head to do that.
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That may be taking a knee.
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It may be using binos.
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It may be uh sitting in my car for a minute.
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But the idea is that I can't just rely on what I see because that's the lure, the magnetic lure of positive space.
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No, and I I like I like that you put it as I have to force myself to do these things because the this goes back to you know how perception and sense making problem solving work is like our default mode is I here's the solution.
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Your brain does not want to be surprised, so it just fills in the blanks.
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And and and that's default mode.
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That's what we're running on autonomically in a sense that you know it is what you think it is, it is what you see it is.
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And so it's like, okay, no, you have to force these additional context cues and clues to go, okay, am I building this actual baseline?
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Is is kind of this, does this make sense?
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And because you know, what what you're talking about is obviously, you know, you're you're using the surrounding information, using things in the environment and other things that are known to you, and think comparisons that you can use to fill in some of these blanks with good information versus filling in blanks, you know, what that our brain's gonna do anyway, and it's gonna make some shit up, or it's gonna go off of the past fucking movie I saw, or whatever the hell it is.
00:24:46.559 --> 00:24:51.840
So, so what you're talking about is you know, we're we're constructing this explanatory storyline.
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We're building it out just like, okay, you're on the traffic stop, and you know, he's the driver saying this, this, and this, and you they're traveling from here to here, or the interview the kids saying, Well, this happened and that happened, and then there was it, like there's all these different things going on.
00:25:05.680 --> 00:25:12.720
So, you know, I want one is kind of like how do we organize those observations into competing explanations?
00:25:12.799 --> 00:25:14.000
Because that's what you're talking about, right?
00:25:14.240 --> 00:25:26.640
So when do we when do we have to sit here and go, all right, we need to assemble these observations into a story, and then when do we have to take this existing story and go, well, let's let's deconstruct that?
00:25:26.720 --> 00:25:30.240
So it's like I'm constructing something, I'm going bottom up, or I'm deconstructing going top down.
00:25:30.400 --> 00:25:33.519
How do I like walk me through that a little bit?
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The the first thing is, and by the way, I've I've changed
glasses three times this week, so I don't know if these are better than those.
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Those are good.
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Those are good picture.
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The Clark's ones you had were interesting.
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But the the the uh thing that you're saying begs an earlier observation.
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Look, if you go in primed to say this is a binary thing, is it true or is it a lie?
00:25:56.319 --> 00:25:58.160
Is it honest or is it a deception?
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You're already screwing yourself.
00:26:00.079 --> 00:26:04.799
You have to start from a position of what do the artifacts and evidence tend to show?
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What is it I think I'm seeing?
00:26:07.039 --> 00:26:10.240
So don't fall for the trap of just saying, oh, it's a gas station.
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Is it a gas station or is it a movie set?
00:26:12.400 --> 00:26:14.240
And you're going, oh, we're gonna be pedantic.
00:26:14.400 --> 00:26:14.880
No, I'm not.
00:26:15.039 --> 00:26:19.920
Okay, is what I'm seeing right now set up for me to lure me into an ambush?
00:26:20.079 --> 00:26:23.759
Is it to make me stop to sell me potatoes at the roadside market?
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Am I getting lured in by the lower price of gas for some other reason?
00:26:28.079 --> 00:26:40.960
So whether it's the traffic stop and whether it's the gosh damn interview at school or whether it is the gas station, what we have to do is we have to construct the storyline by saying, how do these observations likely fit together?
00:26:41.120 --> 00:26:45.200
Remembering the key clue is no square pegs, round holes kind of thing, right?
00:26:45.440 --> 00:26:50.319
And then deconstructing means saying I have to look at the facts and assumptions that support the account.
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Does the likelihood fit the artifact and evidence?
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Again, no round pegs, square holes.
00:26:55.519 --> 00:26:58.799
Both processes mean that I have to consider alternatives.
00:26:59.039 --> 00:27:00.079
So I'll give you one.
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On the traffic stopper, remember Graham versus Connor.
00:27:03.759 --> 00:27:09.360
This one the things that Brian and I talk about a lot when we're dealing with police crowds, right?
00:27:09.519 --> 00:27:14.640
So 1984, the diabetic to Thorne Graham, he feels this insulin reactions coming on.
00:27:15.120 --> 00:27:19.440
So he asks his buddy, hey, do me the flavor, go to the local convenience store.
00:27:19.600 --> 00:27:21.120
I need orange juice now.
00:27:21.279 --> 00:27:29.600
So he jumps out of the sled, he runs into the convenience store, and immediately he sees, hey, wait a minute, the line's too long, so comes bursting back out.
00:27:29.840 --> 00:27:34.960
So a good copper, a copper doing his job, sees that and he goes, Holy shit, it's a crime in progress.
00:27:35.120 --> 00:27:38.240
It either got robbed or he did a shoplift or whatever else.
00:27:39.279 --> 00:27:41.600
He fixated on one storyline.
00:27:42.079 --> 00:27:50.079
He looked at it binary, either this is good and I can't explain the good or it's bad and it's a it's a stopping rob, right?
00:27:50.160 --> 00:27:51.360
They call him that for a reason.
00:27:51.840 --> 00:28:05.680
So so what happened is that when he makes the traffic stop, and I want you to think for a minute, if you're listening to the sound of my voice, someday today, sometime today, do your gosh damn homework and look up what a diabetic reaction would be like.
00:28:05.840 --> 00:28:10.079
So you're gonna slur speech, you're gonna be unsteady on your feet, you're gonna be a little angry.
00:28:10.240 --> 00:28:11.440
You get what I'm trying to say?
00:28:11.680 --> 00:28:16.480
So because I went down one path, now I'm misreading all of the things.
00:28:16.640 --> 00:28:17.440
Hey, wait a minute.
00:28:17.519 --> 00:28:19.440
They're stopping, but they're not talking to the driver.
00:28:19.600 --> 00:28:22.000
Hey, the passenger jumped out and it's coming back at me.
00:28:22.160 --> 00:28:25.519
It's all starting to fit that storyline, Brian, but it's one storyline.
00:28:25.840 --> 00:28:26.720
It's one storyline.
00:28:27.120 --> 00:28:29.039
I didn't look at the negative space.
00:28:29.200 --> 00:28:31.600
I considered the positive space, it's a stop and Rob.
00:28:31.920 --> 00:28:38.559
And the behavior of the person that was in the positive space, I didn't opine onto what might have happened just inside the store.
00:28:38.720 --> 00:28:41.360
What might have happened to this person before he got to the store?
00:28:41.440 --> 00:28:42.880
And you're going, that takes time.
00:28:43.039 --> 00:28:51.039
It takes the exact same amount of time to jump to an unreasonable conclusion as it does to jump to a reasonable one, right?
00:28:51.200 --> 00:28:53.840
So deconstruct and construct are the same way.
00:28:54.000 --> 00:28:56.240
The three-legged stool, where's the fourth leg?
00:28:56.319 --> 00:29:04.240
Uh, you know, uh, am I really looking at uh a cow dial and back, or is it just a series of blots on a on a canvas, right?
00:29:04.640 --> 00:29:08.240
No, and it it was actually you know, the Graham B.
00:29:08.400 --> 00:29:21.440
Connor, you actually pulled in the two uh examples of a gas station and a traffic stop uh that were talking about I didn't know that was planned, but but but no, that was a that that that's what it is.
00:29:21.519 --> 00:29:33.120
And and the this is what you're getting into, those those kind of uh incoherent storylines, or you know what I created this wrong, you know, uh I it was not a reasonable inference, it was an unreasonable inference, and and what that actually means.
00:29:33.200 --> 00:29:36.960
And and again, I I brought it back to this is kind of default mode for our brain.
00:29:37.039 --> 00:29:49.360
It wants a simple answer,
it wants to know everything, and so you you kind of have to force that for a second, and this is the concept of time and distance, like hang on, you know, before we uh jump to an unreasonable conclusion, what what's really going on here?
00:29:49.519 --> 00:30:00.720
And so, because that's you know you you can kind of get get in the trick bag, and another, you know, you you actually kind of hit it when you're talking about the when you gave the examples like oh, is this gas station or movie set?
00:30:00.880 --> 00:30:01.600
People are like, Okay, that's dumb.
00:30:01.680 --> 00:30:05.279
It's like no, no, no, that's actually a great marketing analogy, right?
00:30:05.440 --> 00:30:11.360
Because when you get something online and it's like because this is podcasts and stuff like this, you're like, oh, like this is really interesting.
00:30:11.680 --> 00:30:16.319
It's like, hey, that's a that's that's a marketing thing for the thing the guy's selling.
00:30:16.480 --> 00:30:21.600
It's just now they're just talking about it as if it's fact or if it's science or it's this.
00:30:21.680 --> 00:30:23.840
They're just they're just trying to get you to buy some shit.
00:30:24.000 --> 00:30:30.640
And like literally, like, I mean, we are too, in a sense, we're trying to get you to buy some concepts and a way of thinking and this.
00:30:30.799 --> 00:30:33.840
I'm not selling you an actual product, but but that that's the idea behind it.
00:30:33.920 --> 00:30:46.960
So, so actually like that, because this kind of goes into you getting in the trick bag when the the initial explanatory storyline or explanation is supplied by someone else.
00:30:47.360 --> 00:30:53.920
So that's your friend, that's your social media feed, that's a witness, an accuser, accomplice, whatever it is.
00:30:54.079 --> 00:31:00.400
So, how does that then influence me in this this sense-making concept and affecting this me really seeing the negative space?
00:31:00.559 --> 00:31:04.240
Yeah, and so I'll I'll I'll jump back into Graham versus Connor for just a minute.
00:31:04.480 --> 00:31:10.559
Other cops came to help out Connor, and those cops only knew the storyline that Connor gave them.
00:31:10.720 --> 00:31:13.440
And Connor was convinced that there was wrongdoing.
00:31:13.600 --> 00:31:16.559
So they started from an unstable base.
00:31:16.720 --> 00:31:20.319
They started from incorrect assumptions and it turned into a shit sandwich.
00:31:20.400 --> 00:31:23.519
That's why it was 84, and we're still studying it every day today.
00:31:23.680 --> 00:31:25.200
It's become case law, right?
00:31:25.360 --> 00:31:28.319
So something you said is happening in the news right now, folks.
00:31:28.400 --> 00:31:33.920
If you listen to this, it's uh, you know, early October 2026 for this podcast, right?
00:31:34.079 --> 00:31:37.600
But it's just as relevant if it was five years ago or 10 years in the future.
00:31:37.759 --> 00:31:42.240
Kratom, the the two recent deaths from
an overdose, and they're trying to link to that.
00:31:42.400 --> 00:31:44.960
Well, first of all, a lot of people use Kratom a lot.
00:31:45.039 --> 00:31:45.279
Yeah.
00:31:45.440 --> 00:31:45.600
Okay.
00:31:45.840 --> 00:31:46.480
I have before.
00:31:46.799 --> 00:31:47.680
I didn't know this was a big thing.
00:31:47.840 --> 00:31:48.480
It was years ago.
00:31:49.120 --> 00:31:49.279
Okay.
00:31:49.440 --> 00:31:54.079
And every gas station I've ever been into on the on long road trips and stuff sells them.
00:31:54.160 --> 00:31:57.279
There's eight different brands with 10 different colors and all that other stuff.
00:31:57.519 --> 00:32:03.519
So if I go by the marketing information and by word of mouth, there's nothing wrong with that.
00:32:03.600 --> 00:32:04.559
And it's absolutely normal.
00:32:04.720 --> 00:32:06.559
See how that can use trick bag?
00:32:06.640 --> 00:32:07.039
I love that.
00:32:07.120 --> 00:32:09.200
Because see how that can get you in a trick bag.
00:32:09.279 --> 00:32:11.120
So now all of a sudden somebody goes, What is that?
00:32:11.200 --> 00:32:11.759
Is that a drug?
00:32:11.840 --> 00:32:13.200
And you go, no, it's kratom.
00:32:13.279 --> 00:32:13.840
It's everywhere.
00:32:14.000 --> 00:32:16.720
So do you see how you're starting on faulty information?
00:32:16.880 --> 00:32:27.279
So everything you go from that point on without asking questions, without questioning the things you're seeing, is delving into negative space without a rudder, without a direction.
00:32:27.440 --> 00:32:27.759
Okay.
00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:31.279
So positive space, it's the kratom, uh dead space.
00:32:31.360 --> 00:32:35.600
We don't understand the chemical makeup of it because we're not going to be able to go there.
00:32:35.759 --> 00:32:39.840
But the negative space, the questions you should ask, stuff like, well, is it addictive?
00:32:39.920 --> 00:32:42.880
Like, yeah, it's almost immediately addictive because it works.
00:32:43.039 --> 00:32:43.519
Oh, okay.
00:32:43.600 --> 00:32:44.480
Well, is it dangerous?
00:32:44.720 --> 00:32:46.640
Brian, we don't ask that about our soda.
00:32:46.720 --> 00:32:47.360
You know what I'm saying?
00:32:47.519 --> 00:32:50.640
Like, like, most people are just now asking that.
00:32:50.720 --> 00:32:50.880
Yeah.
00:32:51.120 --> 00:32:51.519
Exactly.
00:32:51.920 --> 00:32:55.519
So most people take aspirin and then they go to the doctor.
00:32:55.680 --> 00:33:00.799
Uh, you know, I've been in a doctor's office a lot this last year, and and uh, the trying to get pregnant, folks.
00:33:00.880 --> 00:33:04.559
And the doctor uh uh uh tells me, hey, I gotta take these meds.
00:33:04.640 --> 00:33:07.840
And I'm always asking about what are the side effects, what are the other stuff, right?
00:33:08.000 --> 00:33:12.400
Because I don't want, you know, the oh my God, can't do grapefruit juice or whatever.
00:33:12.640 --> 00:33:14.319
That one doctor straightened me out.
00:33:14.400 --> 00:33:16.559
He goes, You ever take an aspirin ever in your life?
00:33:16.720 --> 00:33:18.000
And I go, Yeah, a bunch of times.
00:33:18.079 --> 00:33:20.000
And he goes, You ever read the warning label on those?
00:33:20.079 --> 00:33:21.840
Yeah, ever read the side effects on those?
00:33:22.000 --> 00:33:25.840
We take for granted those things that are in the positive space, Brian.
00:33:26.000 --> 00:33:29.680
We don't delve, we don't turn it around and see how many fat grams there are.
00:33:29.840 --> 00:33:37.519
So my thing is that you can do a lot understanding that the person you're dealing with probably doesn't have a grasp of the negative space.
00:33:37.680 --> 00:33:45.759
So on that very basic traffic stop where you're supposed to walk up and issue a violation, you have a plethora of information that you just saw.
00:33:45.920 --> 00:33:51.039
You saw him pump fate, you saw him change lanes, then you saw him do a U-turn to go someplace.
00:33:51.200 --> 00:33:52.240
That's all interesting.
00:33:52.400 --> 00:33:55.200
So now when I go up, officer why he's stopping me.
00:33:55.279 --> 00:34:00.400
Well, you opened the in for, you know, I need a driver's license, vehicle registration, I need the, you know, the proof of insurance.
00:34:00.559 --> 00:34:02.480
Okay, hey, what was that move back there?
00:34:02.640 --> 00:34:04.319
You see how that's an open-ended question?
00:34:04.480 --> 00:34:10.799
And a person goes, Well, I was, you know, past, I saw the Thai food restaurant and I'm on the wrong block.
00:34:10.960 --> 00:34:12.319
Okay, those are plausible.
00:34:12.559 --> 00:34:15.759
Does that fit what I'm seeing, smelling, feeling, feeling, hearing, and tasting?
00:34:15.920 --> 00:34:16.960
You see how easy that is?
00:34:17.119 --> 00:34:21.840
So the kid that you were talking to, hey, did you talk to your mom and dad about this, you know, this interview?
00:34:22.000 --> 00:34:22.319
Yeah.
00:34:22.480 --> 00:34:24.319
Okay, and and what did you tell them?
00:34:24.480 --> 00:34:27.679
Okay, now what I have is I have, again, baselining, right?
00:34:27.840 --> 00:34:33.119
I have a baseline that I'm laying out for what is this that I'm seeing, feeling, smelling, tasting.
00:34:33.279 --> 00:34:36.639
Not on its face, not the positive space, but the negative space.
00:34:36.799 --> 00:34:37.759
What did you tell your friends?
00:34:37.920 --> 00:34:39.360
Did you tell your friends the same thing?
00:34:39.519 --> 00:34:41.279
Well, why did you change clothes after it?
00:34:41.360 --> 00:34:42.239
That's interesting to me.
00:34:42.400 --> 00:34:43.360
You see what I'm trying to say.
00:34:43.519 --> 00:34:46.799
Because Brian, a demonstration of intent is always going to be visible.
00:34:46.960 --> 00:34:49.119
You just have to scratch the surface a little bit, right?
00:34:49.280 --> 00:34:53.280
Remember the soap on the windows of a closed business, and you just wanted to see inside.
00:34:53.440
--> 00:34:55.119
So what did a construction area do?
00:34:55.280 --> 00:34:59.760
A construction area took you from the positive space and you can't see the dead space.
00:34:59.920 --> 00:35:04.240
So they cut a hole in the wall so you could peek through and see what was going on.
00:35:04.400 --> 00:35:05.519
That's what we're talking about.
00:35:05.679 --> 00:35:12.880
We're literally talking about cutting that hole so you can see into the construction site and come to your own reasonable conclusion on what's going on.
00:35:13.199 --> 00:35:13.599
Yeah.
00:35:13.840 --> 00:35:22.320
So this is where, you know, you're getting this is where it gets kind of tough in a sense, where it's like, how do I determine the run-of-the-mill normal?
00:35:22.480 --> 00:35:25.440
Okay, everything's fine to oh wait, this is going sideways.
00:35:25.599 --> 00:35:29.280
And and that that's always where where people kind of fall into that trap.
00:35:29.440 --> 00:35:33.840
And I'll I'll kind of because here's here's why.
00:35:34.000 --> 00:35:39.039
I want to, you know, avoid treating inconsistencies as kind of self-explanatory, right?
00:35:39.119 --> 00:35:40.480
There's things that I have to observe first.
00:35:40.559 --> 00:35:46.400
So so you know, last weekend we had the the Red Bull flug tag was here in Minnesota.
00:35:46.480 --> 00:35:48.800
We went down to the river and took the took the terrorists down there.
00:35:48.960 --> 00:35:49.679
Me and my wife went.
00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:50.559
Super cool.
00:35:50.720 --> 00:35:53.519
Shout out to the the Edmund Fitzgerald fluke tag team.
00:35:53.599 --> 00:35:54.880
You're the hometown favorites.
00:35:55.039 --> 00:35:57.679
But but you know, I remember so people don't know what it is.
00:35:57.760 --> 00:36:07.840
It's like they do these all over the world, and where Red Bull comes in and they build like a little thing on the water, and then everyone, you have these certain rules that your team can build a plane, but there's no power, there's no nothing.
00:36:07.920 --> 00:36:16.000
It's a build something that you have to launch one of your teammates with this thing, and you go try to see how far it can go before you hit the water.
00:36:16.079 --> 00:36:17.840
And so it's really cool, it's fun.
00:36:18.079 --> 00:36:19.440
And so we're walking up.
00:36:19.519 --> 00:36:25.440
I got Max in the ruck on my back, and I'm and I'm walking up with my wife, and we go to the entrance, and you know, it funnels into this entrance of the park, right?
00:36:25.519 --> 00:36:26.400
Where you gotta come through.
00:36:26.720 --> 00:36:27.840
Got the big Red Bull sign.
00:36:28.000 --> 00:36:28.800
So I'm looking at it.
00:36:28.880 --> 00:36:33.199
They got people out there with the Red Bull backpacks, literally handing out free Red Bull, you know, all that stuff.
00:36:33.280 --> 00:36:35.599
They the marketing, the music is all there.
00:36:35.840 --> 00:36:42.960
I see one guy, he's off to the side, and
he's on his phone and he is functional field of view and orientation looking out.
00:36:43.039 --> 00:36:46.639
He's inside the gate, but he's looking out towards something or someone.
00:36:46.800 --> 00:36:48.639
And I can't tell him he's talking, right?
00:36:48.800 --> 00:36:53.280
But he's looking like he he he looks like he could be security, but he's not.
00:36:53.360 --> 00:36:54.559
Like he's clearly not, right?
00:36:54.639 --> 00:36:55.760
Because of some of the things that he's wearing.
00:36:55.840 --> 00:37:01.760
I'm like, well, he's not, but he's standing in an area where like an operations or security person would stand, right?
00:37:01.840 --> 00:37:13.840
That would make sense for them to be there just checking people coming in, but they had security over here and they had the cop the the private security over here looking, they had the group of cops standing over here, kind of looking at the crowd and and just talking to each other, you know what I mean?
00:37:13.920 --> 00:37:15.119
So they had those layers there.
00:37:15.280 --> 00:37:16.800
And so I'm going, like, this doesn't make sense.
00:37:16.880 --> 00:37:26.720
So I snapped the photo real quick and I turn and I look, and sure enough, coming around the corner of the head is another guy on a phone, you know, looking up, doing, and then they did the wave, nod, and then they both put their phones out.
00:37:26.800 --> 00:37:28.800
It's like, okay, like, but but it's the same thing.
00:37:28.880 --> 00:37:36.800
It's like he's what what I inferred from it was I had to take all those contextual cues and go, Well, who'd I typically see standing right there?
00:37:36.960 --> 00:37:37.119
Right.
00:37:37.280 --> 00:37:43.760
Well, typically that's like your the guy scanning tickets, the security, the person who works there managing the crowd, right?
00:37:43.840 --> 00:37:49.679
It's not a typical location where someone would be standing if they didn't have a reason to be there, right?
00:37:50.000 --> 00:37:55.920
And then why is this functional field of view and orientation going this way when everything that's going on is going on behind them, right?
00:37:56.000 --> 00:37:58.159
And it's like it's at this one central location.
00:37:58.240 --> 00:38:08.800
So it was all of those things like in the environment, all of that negative space that I had to draw from to do it, and took a second of sustained observation, which is always pisses off my wife.
00:38:08.880 --> 00:38:09.440
She's like, What?
00:38:09.519 --> 00:38:09.920
What is it now?
00:38:10.000 --> 00:38:11.119
Like, I'm like, just give me one minute.
00:38:13.840 --> 00:38:14.400
Give me one minute.
00:38:14.639 --> 00:38:19.440
I'll stop and you'll look and right so so one of the things you said is so important.
00:38:19.519 --> 00:38:21.760
I want to repeat it if I can remember it exactly.
00:38:21.920 --> 00:38:25.920
So, so you want to avoid treating inconsistencies as self-explanatory.
00:38:26.159 --> 00:38:31.440
And I think the adverse of that is we want to avoid treating inconsistencies as lies.
00:38:31.599 --> 00:38:31.920
Okay.
00:38:32.400 --> 00:38:37.280
Okay it depends because I have to weigh things, I have to measure them.
00:38:37.440 --> 00:38:39.679
I have to constantly do the math in my own head.
00:38:39.920 --> 00:38:40.240
Okay.
00:38:40.480 --> 00:38:44.720
The minute something seems plausible, positive space, I stop calculating.
00:38:44.880 --> 00:38:45.440
That's wrong.
00:38:45.599 --> 00:38:46.079
That's wrong.
00:38:46.240 --> 00:38:49.760
You got to think of your sense making, and you use, I have to make sense of this.
00:38:49.920 --> 00:38:52.400
You actually use that in your description just now.
00:38:52.559 --> 00:38:55.360
Okay, so you have to do the sense making ongoing.
00:38:55.440 --> 00:38:59.280
It has to be a feedback loop that's coming back to update your assumptions.
00:38:59.440 --> 00:39:01.199
So the storyline, right?
00:39:01.360 --> 00:39:02.400
What's the likelihood?
00:39:02.480 --> 00:39:03.519
What does it feel like?
00:39:03.679 --> 00:39:12.880
And and whether it's the interview, I'm sensing confusion, or I'm hearing the person with imprecise language, like on Graham versus Connor, and I'm receiving mistaken information.
00:39:12.960 --> 00:39:16.320
I'm the cop that's coming up to help you handcuff the guy and go, what do you got?
00:39:16.559 --> 00:39:17.119
He goes, I don't know.
00:39:17.280 --> 00:39:18.639
I think I got a robbery, right?
00:39:18.800 --> 00:39:20.880
All of those things are clouding the issue.
00:39:21.119 --> 00:39:23.440
So they're in the present right up against you.
00:39:23.519 --> 00:39:30.000
So what you have to do is you have to let those scales fall from your eyes, open that aperture, and get back to that Hoberman, okay?
00:39:30.240 --> 00:39:34.880
Sensing that confusion, hearing that imprecise language, receiving that mistaken information.
00:39:35.039 --> 00:39:38.639
Those are all things that are gonna take me a different place.
00:39:38.800 --> 00:39:42.079
So with the storyline, I can look at it and go, stop for a minute.
00:39:42.240 --> 00:39:50.400
If this is true, if the storyline is logical, if it's you know fundamentally right, then what should I feel, see, hear, smell, taste next?
00:39:50.559 --> 00:39:53.119
What are the next things that are gonna come out of it?
00:39:53.199 --> 00:39:55.760
You were at a gosh damn event that was called flugtag.
00:39:56.000 --> 00:39:56.960
Now you speak German.
00:39:57.119 --> 00:39:57.280
Okay.
00:39:57.599 --> 00:40:00.079
So flug means fly, tag means day.
00:40:00.240 --> 00:40:03.119
So it was things flying on that day somewhere else.
00:40:03.360 --> 00:40:09.599
So behavior didn't fit what your first, your positive space definition showed you.
00:40:09.760 --> 00:40:11.920
So you had to dig deeper to understand.
00:40:12.000 --> 00:40:12.880
And where did you dig?
00:40:13.039 --> 00:40:14.400
You dug
in the negative space.
00:40:14.480 --> 00:40:15.360
It makes sense.
00:40:15.599 --> 00:40:16.000
Yeah.
00:40:16.240 --> 00:40:24.800
And speaking of smells, Max had his first experience with smelling someone smoking weed, which was hilarious because we down into that.
00:40:25.039 --> 00:40:26.159
Were you the one smoking weed?
00:40:26.320 --> 00:40:28.240
I just had it's good for a friend.
00:40:28.559 --> 00:40:30.639
I'm not answering any more questions about the turning.
00:40:31.760 --> 00:40:43.599
But but uh no, but it was funny because that at that point I smell, I'm like, all right, I look over my wife, and then in front of everyone, because there was like degenerates there, there was families there, there was you know, all it was just a mix of people at this event, and it was just funny.
00:40:43.679 --> 00:40:50.400
That one was funny because we smell it, and then freaking the terrorist who's three goes, something smells funny, dad.
00:40:50.559 --> 00:40:52.320
And like everyone around started laughing.
00:40:52.400 --> 00:40:53.039
It was hilarious.
00:40:53.119 --> 00:40:54.400
It was like, yeah, you're cheap.
00:40:54.800 --> 00:40:59.039
But anyway, um let me throw that one a little bit further, right?
00:40:59.199 --> 00:41:04.639
So Brian, what you're saying is that perception led you to a conclusion, and that's exactly what we're talking about.
00:41:04.720 --> 00:41:06.480
So let me give you two really fast ones.
00:41:06.559 --> 00:41:15.360
There's a great video that's out there, it's probably 25 years old now, where a state trooper, think in New York, New Jersey, somewhere, pulls a guy over on the on ramp to the freeway.
00:41:15.440 --> 00:41:17.599
So it's one of those long ramps that goes down.
00:41:17.679 --> 00:41:22.400
The freeway's lower than the surface streets, thinking it's a stolen car, pulls a guy over.
00:41:22.480 --> 00:41:23.519
The guy takes a minute to stop.
00:41:23.599 --> 00:41:26.880
He's doing the should I stay or should I go onto the freeway, finally pulls over.
00:41:26.960 --> 00:41:32.960
And as the copper walks up, the guy's fast talking him, and the guy goes, Officer, you got to understand, I'm gonna take a shit in my pants right now.
00:41:33.119 --> 00:41:35.840
I gotta go right now, and then floors it and leaves.
00:41:36.000 --> 00:41:39.599
Okay, he floored it and left because the cortisol dumped into his brain.
00:41:39.679 --> 00:41:42.720
That immediately it was doing a should I stay or should I go, right?
00:41:42.800 --> 00:41:47.679
So, so the funny thing was that was a pre-event indication that was missed in negative space.
00:41:47.840 --> 00:41:49.039
Positive space, we saw it.
00:41:49.199 --> 00:41:50.480
Dead space, you can't tell.
00:41:50.559 --> 00:41:51.119
He missed it.
00:41:51.199 --> 00:41:55.119
So one more quick one that goes along with the hey, I smell the marijuana in the thing.
00:41:55.280 --> 00:41:58.079
So we had a couple of great cops, uh, both are dead now.
00:41:58.240 --> 00:41:59.760
So long story.
00:41:59.920 --> 00:42:04.639
But they were good cops on the road, but they were the laziest two guys I ever met, not to speak ill of the dead.
00:42:04.720 --> 00:42:17.840
So they're driving through the subs from a coffee shop to a restaurant, presumably, and they see a guy come out from the driveway, from the garage area driveway, coming out to the street in a residential subdivision covered with blood, holding his hands up, right?
00:42:18.079 --> 00:42:20.960
And so they immediately stop the car and jump out.
00:42:21.039 --> 00:42:28.000
And the guy sees that they're both uniformed cops in a you know, patrol vehicle, and he goes, Hey, I just cut myself bad on my lawnmower.
00:42:28.240 --> 00:42:29.519
Is there a hospital nearby?
00:42:29.679 --> 00:42:35.119
And they throw him in the backseat and they take him to McComb Hospital center and they dump them off at the ER.
00:42:35.280 --> 00:42:41.679
They leave and the call goes out, hey, anybody in Henry area, Frank area, wherever the hell it was, uh, we just had a homicide on this street.
00:42:41.920 --> 00:42:43.760
Suspect fled through the backyards.
00:42:44.000 --> 00:42:49.679
This guy just committed that homicide, hopped over the fence, had a plausible explanatory storyline.
00:42:49.840 --> 00:42:50.960
Why did they fall for it?
00:42:51.119 --> 00:42:53.519
Because they got trapped in the positive space.
00:42:53.679 --> 00:42:56.960
They never thought, hey, this is too good to be true.
00:42:57.119 --> 00:42:58.159
What else could be happening?
00:42:58.240 --> 00:42:59.280
Do you get where I'm going?
00:42:59.840 --> 00:43:10.000
Yeah, so so let's let's try to they because these are so contextually based, but like let's make the inference explicit.
00:43:10.159 --> 00:43:12.000
Like, how did how do you get there?
00:43:12.159 --> 00:43:13.119
How do you not do that?
00:43:13.199 --> 00:43:17.920
So, like, what allows you to move from what you observe to what you think it means, right?
00:43:18.000 --> 00:43:28.720
So, right there, like the perfect example, the officers were like, okay, he's coming from the backyard, he's got blood, hey, he immediately comes out with this story, like you don't know any other information, right?
00:43:28.880 --> 00:43:31.440
So, you know, it's so so how do I do that?
00:43:31.519 --> 00:43:35.119
How do I go from like, all right, here's what I observe and here's what I think it means?
00:43:35.360 --> 00:43:36.960
So human behavior is consistent.
00:43:37.119 --> 00:43:40.960
And when human behavior is inconsistent, it's anomalous and you should investigate.
00:43:41.199 --> 00:43:54.480
So, in a situation where you have already a gating mechanism, ML and MDCOA, most likely most dangerous, the reason that's a good thing to use is because it already sets up two explanatory storylines.
00:43:54.800 --> 00:43:59.519
Most likely this guy's telling me the truth and we got to do something emergent and
get this guy to a hospital.
00:43:59.760 --> 00:44:02.800
But what would the most dangerous conclusion I could reach?
00:44:03.039 --> 00:44:06.880
This guy is, you know, shot because he was committing a robbery.
00:44:07.119 --> 00:44:10.960
This guy just butchered something illegally somewhere.
00:44:11.119 --> 00:44:16.480
Okay, so the idea is that I can run those two scenarios in my mind at the same time.
00:44:16.639 --> 00:44:19.119
And now what I start doing is looking at the baseline.
00:44:19.280 --> 00:44:20.400
Okay, what do I see?
00:44:20.559 --> 00:44:21.280
What does it mean?
00:44:21.440 --> 00:44:22.320
Which ones fit?
00:44:22.480 --> 00:44:26.800
If I have too many inconsistencies, it's likely not the right story.
00:44:27.039 --> 00:44:37.760
If it starts to fit naturally or iteratively, and also the person is telling me that information and I can corroborate a little bit of it, then that tends to show me that might be the right thing.
00:44:37.920 --> 00:44:38.720
So then you ask yourself.
00:44:39.199 --> 00:44:40.880
What can I do to confirm that?
00:44:41.199 --> 00:44:42.639
Show me the injury.
00:44:42.880 --> 00:44:46.320
Where's your, by the way, there was none, lawnmower.
00:44:46.559 --> 00:44:48.240
Is there grass cut?
00:44:48.320 --> 00:44:48.800
Do I smell?
00:44:48.960 --> 00:44:49.440
You know what I mean?
00:44:53.760 --> 00:44:55.519
You smell a lot like weed, Dad.
00:44:55.679 --> 00:44:56.720
I thought it was edibles.
00:44:56.960 --> 00:45:01.840
But but the idea is that you got to think it smells like the garage out here.
00:45:02.240 --> 00:45:02.720
Why is it?
00:45:02.880 --> 00:45:03.199
Right.
00:45:03.360 --> 00:45:05.360
Well, but but you got to think about that.
00:45:05.519 --> 00:45:08.559
There's so much information and negative space to draw from.
00:45:08.720 --> 00:45:10.240
You're limiting yourself.
00:45:10.400 --> 00:45:10.639
Okay?
00:45:10.960 --> 00:45:16.480
It's not a function of time and distance because you already have the same amount of time and distance if you do it wrong and you die.
00:45:16.639 --> 00:45:17.840
You get what I'm trying to say?
00:45:18.000 --> 00:45:22.800
A wrong conclusion takes the same amount of time and same amount of calculation and energy.
00:45:22.960 --> 00:45:27.440
So the idea is that once you have the two explanatory storylines, hey, stop for a minute.
00:45:27.599 --> 00:45:29.599
I need to investigate this further.
00:45:29.760 --> 00:45:33.679
Now, maybe you're not in a position because you're not a cop to stop the other person.
00:45:33.840 --> 00:45:34.960
You can stop you.
00:45:35.119 --> 00:45:36.960
You can stop moving and seek cover.
00:45:37.119 --> 00:45:38.639
You can drive to another gas station.
00:45:38.800 --> 00:45:39.599
You see what I mean?
00:45:39.760 --> 00:45:43.199
Your personal survival has to weigh differently in those situations.
00:45:43.360 --> 00:45:49.599
So if it starts feeling like an MD and that's an explanatory storyline that you start popping hot for, you got to do something.
00:45:49.840 --> 00:45:55.599
Well, this is what you know, it's it's hard for people to grasp sometimes.
00:45:56.079 --> 00:46:09.440
So we're talking about this negative space and the things that happen in the environment, but you're we're not we're giving these examples, but like we're saying, put yourself in that environment, put yourself in those shoes, which means you're not on the outside looking in.
00:46:09.599 --> 00:46:11.119
You're on the inside looking in.
00:46:11.199 --> 00:46:14.079
You're on the inside looking in or up or down or left or right.
00:46:14.159 --> 00:46:23.360
Like you it which means I don't care what you what situation you're in, like you you, I mean, just pure physics says you influence the environment, right?
00:46:23.760 --> 00:46:30.800
So so you you can kind of you don't have to or or you may not be able to control the situation, right?
00:46:30.960 --> 00:46:31.679
But that's different.
00:46:31.760 --> 00:46:33.440
You you can still influence in this.
00:46:33.599 --> 00:46:40.559
And so one of the things that and and I I I had this in here from my for my notes came from from Dan because Dan's so good at this.
00:46:40.880 --> 00:46:50.880
Everyone I'm talking about, Dan Chavez on our team, but you know, you you and especially in some of the stories you tell, like you you make connections very quickly, right?
00:46:50.960 --> 00:47:07.280
This is your Greg Williams, this is what you do, you created HP PRNA, you're you know, you teach this stuff, you written, you text, but like so what happened in your what what happens in your reasoning in these situations that like a less experienced observer might miss?
00:47:07.440 --> 00:47:09.360
Like, how do you get to that reasoning level?
00:47:09.679 --> 00:47:12.320
Yeah, and and and so great question from Chavez.
00:47:12.720 --> 00:47:22.720
And the idea is that you have to understand the the experts compress several steps into a more rapid assessment and and we're just faster at doing that, flash the bang.
00:47:22.960 --> 00:47:26.800
So familiarity with the pattern doesn't eliminate the need to check that it fits.
00:47:26.960 --> 00:47:28.960
Okay, no round peg square hold.
00:47:29.039 --> 00:47:38.000
So the idea is that what you have to do is you have to explain with supporting connections in your mind in order to distinguish the facts from your assumptions.
00:47:38.159 --> 00:47:45.679
If you're still running on purely assumptions without artifacts and evidence, without seeing something tangible, then what happens is it's just ethereal.
00:47:45.840 --> 00:47:49.199
Not only is it in negative space, but your answers are still in negative space.
00:47:49.360 --> 00:47:50.880
It hasn't taken a form yet.
00:47:51.119 --> 00:47:51.360
Okay.
00:47:51.519 --> 00:47:57.360
So what you have to do is you have to ask yourself, okay, which of these observations are supporting the interpretation that
I saw?
00:47:57.519 --> 00:47:59.199
Which am I getting from the environment?
00:47:59.360 --> 00:48:00.960
Which am I getting from the people?
00:48:01.199 --> 00:48:14.880
What of again, when we first talked about this, we were saying like you walk up on a vehicle on a traffic stop if you're a copper, does a car that's been running hot through the subdivisions fleeing from other scout cars, does it smell differently, Brian?
00:48:15.119 --> 00:48:19.280
If you didn't know there was a pursuit in an adjacent area, what would that smell like, right?
00:48:19.440 --> 00:48:27.119
Okay, you were at a place that was all about the Red Bull and all that other stuff, gives you wings, literally the fluke, the flying, okay.
00:48:27.280 --> 00:48:27.360
Yeah.
00:48:27.599 --> 00:48:30.159
And and then you smell the the weed.
00:48:30.320 --> 00:48:31.840
But you smell burning marijuana.
00:48:31.920 --> 00:48:40.800
Now that's different in context from being at a hotel room and when you're checking in, smelling the room next door, being packaged marijuana where you can't even breathe and being overwhelmed.
00:48:41.119 --> 00:48:43.119
Those are things that you can weigh.
00:48:43.199 --> 00:48:45.440
And the idea is that you have to weigh those.
00:48:45.599 --> 00:48:48.480
Why would the person be telling me a lie at this juncture?
00:48:48.639 --> 00:48:50.000
Well, maybe it's embarrassing.
00:48:50.159 --> 00:48:52.880
The fingerprint example I talked to you about a long time ago.
00:48:53.039 --> 00:48:54.240
I couldn't get this guy to break.
00:48:54.320 --> 00:48:55.360
I couldn't get him to talk.
00:48:55.440 --> 00:48:56.720
And we're fingerprinting him.
00:48:56.800 --> 00:49:02.559
And the idea was he didn't want to tell me about his brother because he was using his brother's name while we were doing the fingerprint.
00:49:02.880 --> 00:49:04.559
He didn't want to get him into the trick bank.
00:49:04.720 --> 00:49:08.480
So there's an additional explanatory storyline there.
00:49:08.720 --> 00:49:12.240
Are you doing anything to find it or to confirm it?
00:49:12.400 --> 00:49:14.800
That's well, that that's what Okay.
00:49:16.480 --> 00:49:22.480
Well you're talking about, and you you brought up in all these different examples of sort of testing the storyline, right?
00:49:22.639 --> 00:49:27.199
Before I'm increasing my you know confidence in what it is that I'm seeing.
00:49:27.440 --> 00:49:42.400
And so I I think that keep keeping this like this open-ended running storyline is difficult to do, again, because it's sort of counter, it's not counter, but it's it's our brain is trying to give us the answer before we get there, right?
00:49:42.480 --> 00:49:45.199
So this is why like I have to be naturally curious and not fall in.
00:49:45.280 --> 00:50:00.960
But like what happens sometimes when people get overwhelmed and they go, Well, you're bringing in all these additional questions and this, and and how I don't have time for that, or or
how am I supposed to how my how how how am I supposed to you know uh ask those many questions or find that information in in the moment?
00:50:01.199 --> 00:50:12.240
And it's like, well, you know, it you you do, but it what I'm what I'm trying to get at here is what is the additional information that would help us distinguish between alternate explanations, right?
00:50:12.320 --> 00:50:17.599
So so you're going, you like you you brought the guy out, okay, I cut myself mowing the lawn.
00:50:17.760 --> 00:50:19.199
Can you take me to the hospital?
00:50:19.519 --> 00:50:25.199
All right, that's that's one possible explanation for why you're standing in front of me covered in blood, right?
00:50:25.280 --> 00:50:26.400
But there may be others, right?
00:50:26.480 --> 00:50:32.720
And and I think like getting to that competence level to make a decision is difficult.
00:50:32.880 --> 00:50:46.400
So I asked you about the, and the reason why I asked you about the subject matter expertise stuff is because, especially when it comes to like law enforcement work and that like there's a lot of people who have that subject matter expertise, but you didn't have that at the doctor's office that the story you were telling earlier, right?
00:50:46.559 --> 00:50:49.679
You didn't go, oh, I should probably think about this, or oh, this isn't bad.
00:50:49.840 --> 00:50:58.320
Like, yeah, these are the side effects, but you know, the same thing is so meaning, and what that shows is outside of your area of expertise, it's very difficult to do that.
00:50:58.400 --> 00:51:00.960
But but you can use the same process, is what I'm saying.
00:51:01.039 --> 00:51:03.840
So, like it's exactly the same.
00:51:04.000 --> 00:51:07.679
So, look, you are prioritizing your life.
00:51:07.920 --> 00:51:10.720
So it's you, all wounds are self-inflicted.
00:51:10.880 --> 00:51:16.880
So you're sitting there, uh meaning you metaphorically acting as somebody else, you're sitting there going, I don't have time for this.
00:51:17.039 --> 00:51:21.360
Well, if you're not in a fight for your life, you got plenty of time because you don't want to be in a fight for your life.
00:51:21.519 --> 00:51:22.079
And you know what?
00:51:22.159 --> 00:51:23.599
There's a lot of gas stations out there.
00:51:23.679 --> 00:51:26.320
And if you're running late, it's because your planning sucked.
00:51:26.480 --> 00:51:28.639
Your plan that you're executing blows.
00:51:28.960 --> 00:51:33.679
If you say, Well, I don't have the time to ask those follow-up questions, so why are we doing this interview anyway?
00:51:33.840 --> 00:51:44.000
The idea is that you have to plan ahead of time for those things because you have to take a look at the storyline and artifacts and evidence and witness statements and your observations.
00:51:44.079 --> 00:51:46.400
And what you have to do is you have to compare those.
00:51:46.480 --> 00:51:50.480
You have to predict what's likely happening next if I see those things.
00:51:50.720 --> 00:51:54.079
And that's an MLMD COA, and they're not weighted equally.
00:51:54.240 --> 00:51:56.639
If it's an ML, I've got plenty of time on my side.
00:51:56.800 --> 00:51:59.360
If it's an MD, I better get to the answer right quick.
00:51:59.519 --> 00:52:00.880
And that drives you, right?
00:52:01.039 --> 00:52:02.320
So you are the mechanism.
00:52:02.400 --> 00:52:09.280
And whenever a copper tells me, well, I don't have that kind of time on a traffic stop, that's funny because the law gives you all kinds of time on a traffic stop, right?
00:52:09.440 --> 00:52:13.199
Unless you're fishing, unless it's a fishing expedition, unless you're wrong.
00:52:13.360 --> 00:52:14.639
So that should be your mechanism.
00:52:14.800 --> 00:52:15.599
What am I seeing?
00:52:15.760 --> 00:52:17.920
What still do I have to see, right?
00:52:18.159 --> 00:52:19.360
There's a plausible outcome.
00:52:19.519 --> 00:52:27.840
If I have at least two of those, then now I gain confidence in one story over the other by asking those follow-on questions, by seeing that evidence.
00:52:28.000 --> 00:52:30.639
You ask the guy to lift up his shirt to see if he's got a gun.
00:52:30.800 --> 00:52:33.840
That helps you determine whether you're in danger, right?
00:52:34.000 --> 00:52:36.000
So the same thing with the traffic stop.
00:52:36.159 --> 00:52:41.440
You stop on a traffic stop and you tell the guy in the loudspeaker, I need you to pull up into that parking lot because there's more light.
00:52:41.599 --> 00:52:42.639
That's you, Brian.
00:52:42.720 --> 00:52:51.519
That's you taking control of this situation to make sure that the storyline fits and living long enough to get an alternative explanation, right?
00:52:52.000 --> 00:52:56.960
Yeah, because I don't want to, I don't want to complicate it and add conundrums that I don't need to.
00:52:57.039 --> 00:53:08.559
And so with all these, the especially even just the examples we gave, like, okay, you know, the traffic stop, the school, you know, interview, the gas station, you likely have some sort of context for that.
00:53:08.639 --> 00:53:12.480
You've yes you have some baseline for that, and and you keep it within there.
00:53:12.639 --> 00:53:14.720
I mean, the gas station is is such a great one.
00:53:14.800 --> 00:53:17.599
It's like, well, you've been to a gas station how many times in your life?
00:53:17.760 --> 00:53:22.480
What's typically do you see and what's different about this thing right now?
00:53:22.639 --> 00:53:38.000
And and that's enough to keep it within the frame of of what the what the context of the situation is and the environment, not adding in these additional, you know, oh, well, it could be this, or it could have been the one-armed man, or it could have been it's like that that's those aren't reasonable.
00:53:38.240 --> 00:53:39.440
Those aren't reasonable, Brian.
00:53:39.679 --> 00:53:39.840
Yeah.
00:53:40.079 --> 00:53:44.000
We've been on the East
Coast, West Coast, North, South, 53 countries, been all over the place.
00:53:44.159 --> 00:53:47.039
So there's some place that we go where you look and you go, what's that?
00:53:47.199 --> 00:53:50.480
And a person goes, well, that's the alcohol store, you know, the package store.
00:53:50.639 --> 00:53:53.599
Okay, well, can I, you know, buy alcohol at the 7-Eleven?
00:53:53.760 --> 00:53:56.400
No, not in this region, state, city, or whatever.
00:53:56.559 --> 00:54:00.559
Okay, it's not so egregiously different that you go, I don't understand that.
00:54:00.720 --> 00:54:01.679
You get what I'm trying to say.
00:54:01.760 --> 00:54:03.679
You go to Scotland and a guy's wearing a skirt.
00:54:03.760 --> 00:54:06.159
Now in America, some guys are wearing skirts, right?
00:54:06.320 --> 00:54:07.760
So it's not so different.
00:54:07.920 --> 00:54:13.119
So you have a category, and that file folder for those information are something that you can use.
00:54:13.360 --> 00:54:17.599
So if you're sitting there going, hey, I have to make a distinction, okay?
00:54:17.760 --> 00:54:20.880
What is it I'm observing and what am I inferring?
00:54:21.039 --> 00:54:24.000
The inferring is the dangerous again, the positive space.
00:54:24.240 --> 00:54:25.360
You get what I'm trying to say?
00:54:25.519 --> 00:54:30.240
And what information that I have, additional information, would change that assessment.
00:54:30.400 --> 00:54:31.119
What more?
00:54:31.280 --> 00:54:33.119
What's the next question I need to ask?
00:54:33.280 --> 00:54:37.679
What's the next thing I see or hear that's going to lead in or out of that?
00:54:38.079 --> 00:54:47.760
So, in a sense, it's like sort of correctly labeling and understanding, okay, here's my my my actual observations.
00:54:47.920 --> 00:54:52.720
I saw a guy in a yellow shirt cross the street from what I inferred.
00:54:52.800 --> 00:54:56.720
Like here's what I saw or smelled, tasted, felt like this is a perception.
00:54:58.400 --> 00:55:00.400
You're reading your you're reading Mac's books again.
00:55:00.480 --> 00:55:00.800
I'm sorry.
00:55:01.119 --> 00:55:03.920
I am I drop them off or when I drop them off at school.
00:55:04.000 --> 00:55:09.920
I say, have a you know, be a good monkey today, and he laughs because that's that's what that's what the man in the yellow hat says to George.
00:55:10.240 --> 00:55:11.119
So hilarious, right?
00:55:11.199 --> 00:55:11.599
I'm sorry.
00:55:11.760 --> 00:55:20.800
But no, but but but meaning I I think when you when you can accurately separate, okay, well, here's what I observed, and then here's what I inferred from that.
00:55:20.880 --> 00:55:25.519
You're what would that comparison alone is to go, oh, wait a minute, hang on.
00:55:25.679 --> 00:55:27.440
Like I'm seeing some gaps.
00:55:27.519 --> 00:55:32.559
Because the next thing, because obviously you want to create this explanatory storyline that's accurate.
00:55:32.720 --> 00:55:34.559
Okay, I've been
doing some sense making.
00:55:34.639 --> 00:55:35.920
I think I know what's going on here.
00:55:36.000 --> 00:55:39.280
I've tested it, and okay, now my con and it's true.
00:55:39.599 --> 00:55:42.159
I'm getting more evidence to support what I think is happening.
00:55:42.400 --> 00:55:47.360
So kind of the next step is, well, obviously update, but like predict and act.
00:55:47.519 --> 00:55:50.880
So so working from an explanation, then what can we anticipate?
00:55:51.039 --> 00:55:52.720
What decisions does that help us make?
00:55:52.880 --> 00:55:59.280
So it's always this, you know, everyone's always doing the here's the decision, or here's what we got to do, or what's gonna happen next.
00:55:59.360 --> 00:56:11.199
But like without all of that pre-work, you know, going into it, the the prediction and action and updating is like it's it's not gonna matter because you don't have a solid, you know, baseline for you.
00:56:11.280 --> 00:56:14.159
You don't fully didn't fully investigate the negative space.
00:56:14.400 --> 00:56:16.639
You're working off a faulty assumption.
00:56:16.880 --> 00:56:18.720
So let me ask you something about prediction.
00:56:18.960 --> 00:56:29.760
Would it be likely for me to predict that I'm going to a shots-fired call and I show up and I'm in uniform, that there's a good Samaritan that isn't the shooter that's running around with a gun?
00:56:29.920 --> 00:56:30.240
Okay.
00:56:30.400 --> 00:56:40.000
If I haven't considered that, if I haven't played that game in my brain, that I'm setting myself up to shoot a citizen or an undercover cop, you get what I'm trying to say?
00:56:40.079 --> 00:56:41.519
And you're going, well, that almost never happened.
00:56:42.159 --> 00:56:42.800
No, it does happen.
00:56:43.280 --> 00:56:44.880
Well, it happens more and more now, too.
00:56:45.360 --> 00:56:51.199
Of course it does, because more and more people are carrying guns and more and more people are trying to intercede in a bad situation.
00:56:51.360 --> 00:56:58.559
So why would you ask, look, if you go in and you're saying, hey, I got to confront my kid right now, well, that's an emergent situation.
00:56:58.639 --> 00:57:02.159
That's a situation that's fast before they leave the house.
00:57:02.240 --> 00:57:04.079
Now they're about to get on the bus.
00:57:04.159 --> 00:57:04.800
I get it.
00:57:04.960 --> 00:57:05.840
So what do you got to do?
00:57:06.000 --> 00:57:07.039
You got to slow time down.
00:57:07.199 --> 00:57:08.639
Why do you got to slow time down?
00:57:08.720 --> 00:57:10.720
Because I need a minute to ask a better question.
00:57:10.800 --> 00:57:24.720
And if I have to call in sick to work to drive my kid to school because it's going to take me a minute for that interview, Brian, if I have to park across the street from that gas station and take five minutes to watch what's going on before I look around and go, I'm not stopping at this gas station.
00:57:24.800 --> 00:57:26.000
You go,
well, I'll be out of gas.
00:57:26.079 --> 00:57:26.639
Well, you know what?
00:57:26.800 --> 00:57:29.840
Call an Uber from your effing car and take that.
00:57:30.000 --> 00:57:34.079
Because what you're doing is you're trading your safety for sense making.
00:57:34.159 --> 00:57:34.800
And you can't.
00:57:34.960 --> 00:57:35.920
That's not the way it goes.
00:57:36.159 --> 00:57:38.480
Sense make, problem solve decision.
00:57:38.639 --> 00:57:39.840
You have to do it that way.
00:57:39.920 --> 00:57:45.199
And you you have to look for those unresolved questions, but you can't dwell on them.
00:57:45.280 --> 00:57:48.880
You can't say, because I don't know this, I can't proceed.
00:57:49.039 --> 00:57:50.559
That's only in an MD COA.
00:57:50.800 --> 00:57:51.840
That's only in an MD.
00:57:52.000 --> 00:57:52.720
You get what I'm saying?
00:57:52.960 --> 00:57:57.760
You probably have enough information to draw a reasonable conclusion and drive on.
00:57:58.400 --> 00:58:03.280
Yeah, well, and and even when you say that, sometimes you're like, oh, I don't have enough information to do this action.
00:58:03.360 --> 00:58:12.720
What you're saying is this, okay, you you've had you've established the explanatory storyline and it hasn't met the threshold for action that your policy requires or that your whatever, whatever.
00:58:12.800 --> 00:58:14.880
I mean, you you've you've already done that.
00:58:14.960 --> 00:58:15.840
You're just saying it hasn't.
00:58:16.079 --> 00:58:16.639
Is that confidence?
00:58:16.720 --> 00:58:17.599
Is that accuracy?
00:58:17.920 --> 00:58:18.639
What are those things?
00:58:18.880 --> 00:58:21.760
So now what you've done, Brian, you've just answered what the next step is.
00:58:21.920 --> 00:58:22.880
Stay on or get off.
00:58:23.039 --> 00:58:25.199
Go back to Keanu Reeves and that girl in speed.
00:58:25.519 --> 00:58:26.480
You get what I'm trying to say?
00:58:26.720 --> 00:58:28.800
Do I want to stay on and ask some more questions?
00:58:28.880 --> 00:58:33.599
Or do I want to say, yeah, calorically, this is too much of an input and just find another restaurant.
00:58:33.760 --> 00:58:34.880
Find another thing to do.
00:58:35.039 --> 00:58:37.280
You see, that's a simple choice that we make.
00:58:37.440 --> 00:58:46.800
But what happens is we're going on impulse power because we see these things in our environment in positive space and just interpret them and assume and infer what those are.
00:58:46.960 --> 00:58:57.920
Well, all we're saying is take that extra second, you know what I'm saying, or nanosecond, to confirm or to insert an alternative, likely opinion of what might be happening, a storyline.
00:58:58.559 --> 00:59:08.400
So let's let's kind of kind of bring this back to this this concept of negative space, you know, when we can't directly see someone's intent or the whole situation.
00:59:09.679 --> 00:59:13.119
How do we use the information around it without filling the gaps with our assumptions?
00:59:13.199 --> 00:59:17.039
I mean, this is the big thing about negative space that we're talking about today.
00:59:17.119 --> 00:59:20.880
And you you referenced maybe you referenced the Hoberman kind of earlier.
00:59:20.960 --> 00:59:26.480
And so maybe that's a good place to like say, all right, this is this is what we mean by, you know, negative space.
00:59:27.360 --> 00:59:27.679
Yeah.
00:59:27.920 --> 00:59:34.400
So Hoberman, when you take a look at a Hoberman sphere, and if you hadn't seen one, look it up, do your gosh damn due diligence.
00:59:34.559 --> 00:59:37.920
Everywhere we go, we leave Hoberman spheres and a jack and a box behind.
00:59:38.079 --> 00:59:40.159
Both of them are positive space.
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They're things you can hold and look at and take a photo of and go up and tap.
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The beauty of a Hoberman sphere is you can grab it and as you expand it, you see the negative space.
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All that negative space is holding information, Brian.
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There's all kinds of things there.
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There's hypothesis testing, there's there's loops of understanding, positive and negative.
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There's directions you can go and explanatory storylines that lead nowhere.
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That's where you need to be to avoid the what?
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To avoid that gosh damn bink, but ink, but it didn't.
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If you get into the trick bag, that means that that jack in the box surprised you.
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And guess what?
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Jack in the box is always the dead space that's scaring you because the dead space reveals itself.
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And man, now I'm too close.
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I I miss that.
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Yeah, and and a lot we we talk about the gifts of time and distance, and and we really have this odd, again, I don't want to do the the Matthew McConaughey time as a flat circle, but we we have we have a very uh like our our perception of time and the effect of time on everything from just your life, your memory, or the it is is I we don't like really grasp that because we we're we we have to navigate the world, so we have to have you know all our clocks synced up and time zones and these and but those those are those are all artificial constraints or or labeling put in by humans to so as the world expanded and as there were more people and as things well, okay, we need to be a little bit more precise, we need to be a little bit so what every time that happens, we kind of like we talk about any technology, yes, it might help you in some way, but there's a no matter what it is, there's some part of it that will make you a little bit dumber, right?
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And or make you miss things or not fully understand things.
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And and you because you keep bringing up in a lot of these situations, like, all right, well, the to make a decision, should I stay or should I go?
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Like you like you said, there's always another gas station, there's another restaurant you can go to, you can drive your kid to school, you can do that.
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If it's that important, you know, then then you need to take the action.
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If but we our default mode is okay, well, you know, I'll do it later.
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Ah, it's probably not that big of a deal.
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But once you do that, now all of those things that you had already previously identified as anomalous or something that was interesting or something that deserves your attention goes away.
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It doesn't anymore.
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You've you've kind of deceived yourself in a sense to say, well, I don't have to worry about those things.
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So your brain goes, okay, well, the prefrontal cortex is smarter than me, and I'm just I'm just a limbic system.
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No, yeah, exactly.
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Exactly.
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And it just goes like, oh, okay.
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And then you you write it off.
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And it and and so now you're walking in and you're already, you know, you're you're you're already at a nine, 10, and it's gonna go to 11 on this one because you your your baseline has changed so much.
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Right.
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So I I'd like to add one thing to that.
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Danger is always in the dead space.
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So when the dispatcher, when another teacher, when your friend down the road gives you some sort of advice or inkling or information or whatever else, unprocessed, that information can never be in an intelligence, right?
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So you taking that at face value can already mean that you're on a unstable base.
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Oh, you know that guy across the street, he's a drinking man.
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Oh, you see that guy that drives that motorcycle down there, he's this or whatever.
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So the idea is going off your observations and perceptions and testing those assumptions, testing those things that you infer against reality are a much better way of going through life than going in that, you know, that positive space mode of just believing all the shit that you're handed.
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That's how advertising fools you, that's how street people fool you, and that's how dead space creeps up and becomes that gosh damn uh jack in the box.
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Yeah, these are is a good point.
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And and you know, kind of what I want people
to take away from this is that there's just a there is a lot of useful information around the thing that has captured your attention, around the thing that you're attending to.
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And and in fact, you the the reason you everyone's done the you see something out of the corner of their eye, you stop and take a second look or whatever, right?
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Usually because something captured your attention enough to the point where your brain said, Hey, slow down a second, we may need to look at this, right?
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And a lot of times it's not necessarily the actual thing.
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It's it's act it's your brain is running off of the context of the situation and the background going like, oh, oh, wait, no, that doesn't make sense here, so I better go look at it.
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So there's so much information in that negative space.
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So whether it's, you know, during the traffic stop example, the driver's explanation is part of the picture.
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The location, the circumstances, what the officer can independently observe, help make sense of that explanation.
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So during the interview, right, you were talking about subtle changes to the story, which either exemplify or contradict the evidence might help you determine the truth from a misunderstanding.
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And so gas station, same thing, one of my favorite places, right?
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You know, you you notice something at first, but then or a person, but then as you look at how other people interact with that individual, where they move, what happens afterward, you then develop the situation where you get a better understanding, your sense making in a sense improves.
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And that's the connection to negative, positive, and dead space that we've been been talking about today.
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So the the information around something can help us give shape to the part that we can't directly see.
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So then we have to explain our reasoning.
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Well, well, why did we think that?
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And I like how you brought up the well, separate your your observations, perceptions from your from your inferences, right?
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So so here's what I saw, and then here's what I inferred, because that's what you're doing autonomically without even you realizing it.
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So it's what did I actually observe?
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How did I connect those observations?
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What else could explain them?
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And what would cause me to change my mind?
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What if this continues?
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What would if I'm locked into something?
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I'm pretty confident.
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I go, well, well, what would make it not confident?
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What would have to happen right now that would change me from thinking what I am?
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So, and that's you know how we how we build and test an explanatory storyline, gives the basis for anticipating what might happen next and then choosing what to do while staying aware of what we still don't know.
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And and that's that's the hardest thing.
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For a lot of people, it's hard to like, well, I don't know.
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So therefore it's like, eh, it's okay not knowing everything.
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You're gonna have to make decisions based on that all the time.
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So I'd say the the to the listeners, you know, the the next time something catches your attention, take a moment to look at what's happening around it.
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What relationships, what conditions or interactions will help you understand it better and keep asking the question we've come back to throughout this episode.
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What is the surrounding information allows us to explain?
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What are we still assuming?
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What can I prove in this sense?
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And and what can I infer from what I'm proving?
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And I think that, you know, alone in general, of that practice of doing that.
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I I mean, any I do this with every article someone sends me, every Instagram post, every podcast thing, you're like, okay, well, whatever the news story that's that everyone's talking about.
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So, okay, well, you're going off of someone's reporting of an event, not not the investigation and not their sworn testimony, and not the not the video either.
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You're going after what people say.
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You know, people say a lot of things, even when they're trying to be really truthful, like they brain just makes shit up.
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So I'll pass you, Greg, for for for any other uh uh final comments on that.
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But we got through a lot today.
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Yeah, we have.
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And the idea is there's so much that you don't know, but there's so much that you don't need to know.
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I know my wife tells me that all the time.
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Exactly.
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Max telling you that now.
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So, but the the idea is that frame your day.
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Okay, what do I need to know right now about what I'm doing?
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I have a meeting up later, I should have some water, I gotta make sure that the tire pressure is good on the car.
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We go back to those very basic things.
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Why?
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Because if you follow a procedure, the plane won't crash.
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If you go around and you check the wing damage and all those other stuff, if you make sure that your perndole doesn't have a light behind it saying, you know, check battery, check oil, or whatever else, you're probably gonna be okay.
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That takes time.
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That takes you to focus.
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But if your focus is too deep on the matter at hand, you're gonna let those peripherals in the negative space slip by.
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And that's where all that information is that coalesces into a plan, into a reasonable storyline that you can go, okay, that's an ML or that's an MD, and then you can avoid it.
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If you don't, then what you're doing is playing pinball for the rest of life, boom, bouncing off of this, going over to there, hitting that thing, and then it's reaction, Brian.
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And nobody wants to, well, very few people want to just go through life and interaction right now.
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Yeah, that's well, we met two.
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I know two that came immediately to mind.
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That's why I had to crack correct myself.
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I was gonna say usually there's some sort of chemical interaction or mental health issue, emotionally disturbed.
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That that's that's a little bit different situation, but uh, and that's generally pretty obvious when you see it.
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But yeah, no, we we got through a lot.
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I appreciate it, Greg.
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