# Arlie Hochschild

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Episode 25: The Perfect. Marriage: Why We don’t Have To Choose

Send us Fan Mail ABOUT THIS EPISODE In this episode, Amanda explores the theory that the healthiest societies — like the healthiest bodies — require integration, not opposition. Drawing on her identity crisis during COVID, her 14 years as a holistic practitioner, and her roots in New Hampshire, she…

The Shell Game: Why Doing Everything Right Still Isn't Enough

What if everything you've been told about success is true...just not equally true? For generations, women have been given a roadmap to success. Work hard. Earn the degree. Build your expertise. Develop executive presence. Negotiate. Become exceptional. And millions of women have done exactly that…

032 The Second Shift That Starts at Your Door

You put your key in the door, and before it's even open, you're already working. That moment has a name. It's had one since 1989. Nobody ever told you. You know the four seconds. Your bag's still on your shoulder, your coat's still on, and something in you is already scanning. What's the mood in t…

How Trump Exploits Working Class Pain

Sociologist Arlie Hochschild has spent years talking with people living in rural parts of the country who have been hit hard by the loss of manufacturing jobs and shuttered coal mines. They’re the very people President Donald Trump argues will benefit most from his sweeping wave of tariffs and rece…

EP 32: The Cost of Avoidance

What if the silence isn't just silence? In this opening episode of our communication debt series, we take a close look at what actually happens, cognitively, emotionally, and relationally, when we keep choosing not to have the conversation. Drawing on the Zeigarnik Effect and its finding that unres…

Why Am I Kinder to Strangers Than to the People I Love?

You're not a hypocrite for being patient with strangers and short with the people you love — you're depleted. This episode breaks down the three real forces behind that pattern: the emotional labor of managing your face and tone all day, the way unresolved frustration gets displaced onto safer targ…

Reclaim Your Evenings: 5 Strategies to Stop Checking Work Email

Hey! I'd love to hear your thoughts, send me a voice note. When was the last full evening—from the moment you finished work until the moment you went to sleep—where you did not check, send, or think about a single work-related message? If you had to pause to remember, you are caught in the "Always-…

Episode 59: The Deep Story

In the months since the presidential election, many have noted that lots of Americans live in bubbles — echo chambers filled with the voices of people who mostly agree with us. Sociologist Arlie Hochschild felt this long before the rise of Donald Trump, and five years ago she went on a mission to u…

The Mental Load of Misusing “Mental Load”

What happens when language created to make inequality visible becomes so broadly used that the inequality itself begins to disappear? Terms like mental load, invisible labor, and emotional labor have helped name forms of work —often disproportionately carried by women—that traditional measures of…

Why Do I Feel Like a Different Person at Work Than at Home?

Why am I a different person at work than at home? Because adapting is normal. The real question is what the switch costs you, and whether you're still intact. Overview: Being different in different rooms isn't a flaw. Everyone does it. Brett Ingram makes the case that the goal isn't sameness but …